Is dramay may itni bareekiyon say choti choti ghairailo masaial dikhayay hain jo k durr e shahwar k lower middle class susral main hain..hatts off to the writer and director..
G Jahan naseeb ho wahan Jana parhta hai. Gareeb hona koi jurm nahi dolat pasey. Phir b mil jata hai ager larka qabel or hard working ho or ap k naseeb main ho to but neck or mohles log dobara nahi miltey
Saood was the only ray of hope in Durr e Shehwar's sasural. He seems like the only human with feelings, a heart, he knew how to express his emotions. Rest all were robots. He was the one who lied about Mansoor's letters that said Mansoor asked about Shehwar. His lies let her overcome the hardest part of her life, when she needed someone , it was Saood and his positivity his jokes and carefree nature. *He was a human being amongst a family of robots.* He considered Shehwar as a fellow human being in dire need of love and care. I am surprised that a *gem* like Saood was born in Mansoor's weird family. Saood's kind words kept Shehwar alive in the toughest phase of her life. *SAOOD AND SHEHWAR'S FATHER .. YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST! A BLESSING!!*
I love how you said robots😄😄😄 I agree. First of she is from rich family and every time mom in law does not leave a chance to taunt her or insult her...😡😡😠😠😠
As much as I love the show, I want to say something about it. I understand that Mansoor's family was not affluent as Dur e Shahwar's. They could have compensated her loneliness, isolation with compassion and treating her nicely. However, Dur e shahwar was used to nice and rich foods which Mansoor's family found it hard to afford. Kaha se lake deta? But that does not justify the ill treatment of her saas and nanad. Only her dewar was nice to her. Morever, Mansoor realised this later which was a good thing...
@@SuperRajat1984 thats what my one line meant! Things cannot compensate for the precious time newly weds have for building trust,understanding md compatibility which they snatched away...the responsibility to build the relation totally fell on Dur e shahwar's shoulder which was wrong! Nd for Mansoor, he was a grown up not a kid, he was a man he realised things by watching Dur e shahwar's younger sister's in laws nd when he felt lonely...thats not how u get a urself a wife, He was ready to divorce her nd leave even his child!!! Who does that?? Which man is so much blind? Didnt he saw how other men lived with their wives before his marriage!
@@suhemakhan8004 I guess it has much to do with the upbringing of Mansoor. Additionally, he was far removed from what was going on in his house; always took the side of his parents, neglected the tears of Dur e shahwar. You're right, only when his sister was making nakras at her in-laws then he came to terms. I guess, Dur's occasional straightforward and honet replies to mansoor when he came to visit also, eventually, made him realse his mistake. Bottom line, no one should go through such ordeal. These are common issues in both India and pakistan...
Unfortunately boys parents always want to have daughter in law from rich family and after merriage they want her to chenge her straight away with out realizing that her whole world has just been upside-down because of leaving her own parents house. They should give her sometime to adapt the husband's family environment
No theyve done very wrong with her wo sb to theak hai ab wo ghareeb family gai hai bt love of husband nd family cn change everything easily in logo se to ye bhi nhe huwa salaami tk le li ufff
Yes before the girls come in-house , expectations starts ... from everyone !! I have the same mom in law like hers . She took all the money like she did and no love . Everyone starts expecting in the contrary at their home they are loved
Kitni bar bhi ye drama dekhlo Mann hi nhi bharta mere Dil ke bhut kareeb hai ye drama great acting by Sanam Baloch and sameena peerzada even Saba Faisal ne bhi saas ka role bakhubi nibhaya h
Lkn esi saas to Allah kesi ko na da esi saas bardasht sa bahir hoti h lkn asul bt jb husb hi esa ho to kya krskta h insan....or shadi sa phely to larki k pechy shadi hota hiii tobha rang dkhna shru krdeti h saas
R isai ye aurat ki Jeet kehty hai Jahan wo Apni muskan Apni khuwahishat r apna qatal kr ly baki sb ko khudh Krny Mai r achi baho r achi b v ka certificate lene k lye wow great 😃 aj kl ki 90% girls ko ye certificate nahi chye 🤣 m.c krdy Aisa husband r susraliyo ki r krna b chye ..is trhan k log izzat k qabil ni hoty
Insaan ko shadi karte waqt bus ldka nahi dekhna chye puri family status sab kuch dekhna chaye ye bht badi sabak hai aaj k parents ko . Beti ki jindgi aise ghar mein daal k jhand na kare . I am literally crying at every scene yaar 😢😢
Is episode me newly married ladki ko jinn pareshaaniyou se guzarna padta hai. Aur jo kuch bhi isme dikhaaya hai. 100percent scuh hai. Aur ye bhi zarrori nahi ke har ak ke saht aisa hi Hua ho.lekin yeh ak haqeeqat zarrror hai. 👍❤❤❤
Hats off to d Pak dramas..... its so deep, really it touches d soul. How they write, how they deliver d dialogues is simply d best. Nice story, direction, n acting. Overall its phenomenal. I have never seen any other dramas like Pak dramas.
One of the best drama I have ever seen, itni kmaal story or direction just amazing, hmara culture bhi nzr a rha is mn, ab q nhi bnty asy dramy, khan chly gai wo sb directors and story writers
Omg, that gifts' scene reminded me of my initial days at my in laws place. I was treated exactly the same way as this girl Shehwar. I can never forget those days. Hate them
Susral waly smjhty hn in baton ce wo bahu pe رعب dal skty hn .lakin aiae kr k wo apni izzat e khtm kety hn dil ce .q k jb larki ki shadi hoti h wo new ati h ap k ghr . She needs space . Lakin phr b larki kohsis krti h sb k sth nice rhy . Lakin jb apny behind batin sunti h to dil toot jata h aur dor jati h .
An Indian woman watching from Australia. Commendable acting and we share the same values. I also went thru the same just a different country. Will ever in laws change?!
I honestly think Haider is worse than Mansoor, if we keep in mind the times and upbringing. Haider is a narcissist and he chooses to be the kind of person he is. At least Mansoor cared about his family and felt responsible for them. Haider only cares about himself.
Dear Momina Duraid,, what a story ,the star cast and a fantabulous direction with an excellent performances,. The feel you give in your productions,no one can even think to challenge you in your work and dedication...I could say it’s not a story of Durr-e-shewar and her normal in-laws family; In these days itself and in highly educated families it’s happening till in this so called modern society tooo 😰😥 No offenses to anyone I am also the part of it.... No solutions at all.. Thanks for bringing up these Drama series may be it would be a best help to the society if few people feel the Depth and connectivity of the relationships;;, Finally thanks 🙏🏻 for your best work with the best team once again,,May God Bless🙏🏻🙏🏻🎈🎊👌👌😎😎🎈🎈🥳🥳🤩🤩💐🎉🎉👍👍👍👍
Yes hum to aisi saas ko maar hi dalenge nhi bardasht kar sakte aisi family ko aur na hi aise husbend ko....its 21 century..itna pad likh kr yahi sab karna hai to taleem hi kya kaam ki sirf chulhe main hi daal dinge kya....koi bardaasht nhi karta aaj k zamane main...
same mere story Har bar ye darma dekh thi hon or phoot phoot ki roti ho😭😭kiu ki belkul ese tarh mere sath hua or abi be ho raha hy..main apne papa ki naz nakhari karni wali bete thi💔💔💔😭😭
Ye sb achchi ladkiyo ke sath hi hota hai ۔Jo jitna bardasht kare use utna hi sataya jata hai ۔kam se kam janbojh kr to kisi ke sath itni zyadti nhi honi chahiye ۔
Best drama ever... kya reality dikhai hai iss serial me... sach me yhi hota h ek third class soch wali family se rishta jodne me... ek aurat ko purri zindagi zhelna padta hai... uuuufffff!!!!1😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
I'm going to married, Mujhe is drama se acha lesson mila hy, My Apni biwi ko samajh ne ki koshish karunga aur Adjust honeke k liye poora time doonga. Meri maa to beti nahi hai Meri biwi ko beti jaisa pyar karegi inshallah...
Yeh real life hai... Mere sath bhi aise hi ho raha tha aur abhi bhi... Mere sausural me mujhe samjh ne wala koi nahi hai... Yeh dekh kar mujhe sab kuch yaad aa gaya... Har ladki ki zindagi aise hi hoti hai... Meri mother in law bhi aise hi hai... 😔😔😔
Allah betyon ky nasib achy kry Aameen shadi ky bad life kitniiii change ho jati h na 😢😢larkia tou jeasa hansna, bolna he bhool jati hain😭😭best & true story ❤❤
Almost 80% boys are mummy’s baby in the first few years of marriage in our society. So he is still a good choice by her parents. The beauty of this story is that it is very real. Girls should watch this pre marriage and a few times later and learn to be patient. I can’t believe how relatable the whole story is and how much one can learn from this. Susraal tu sab hi aise hotey hain. Yehi imtehaan hota hai larkion ka shadi ke baad.
@@fidaidrees6842 In the first few years of marriage, my views were like yours. But since it’s been 15 years Alhamdulillah now, I am more mature and now I think larki has to show all the patience. Sab se ziada faida bhi larki ka hota hai baad mei. Ye drama buht sacha hai.
ajkal k dour mein aisi shadyan nahi chal saktin. or acha hi hai larki pehle hi aisi shadi se bahar nikal aae , jismein uska sara khooon nichor lein or aise shohar se mohabbat hi kese ho sake gi.. to wahan rehne ka koi faida nahi hai
I think today Pakistani 's serials are not deep and great like these dramas which were first aired on zindagi .... And infact this drama ,the acting and story and culture shown is so natural and awesome 😍😍...more eg. Mere qatil mere dildar , ishq main tere , aun zara and most great zindagi gulzar hai and humsafar ..... I hated jalan serial which was not having Pakistani serials impact which usually had in old times ... These days only bilal's serials are impactful ..
This is my story. Same on the second day of marriage my MIL told me I cannot get milk everyday to drink because nobody in the family has it. There are so much a woman suffers and goes through silently.
Hahaah I saw one of my cousin went in 2002 on honeymoon with her inlaws. Or mazey ki baat he us k inlaws Europe settled they is kay bavjood b ......lolz
Riwayato ka dhyan rakha jata h ... ek ladki ke jazbato ka nhi jo apna ghr or apno ko chorr kar aati hai... purani dakiyanusi soch k sasural wale.. or sohar bhi gulam apne maa baap ka...😠
Ak insan jb kisi dosry gr jata hy dosry logo ma jata hy to usy phly sy b zyada care ki zrort hoti hy ta k vo preshan na ho apni phly life ko zyada miss na kry pr toba log to beti smj k laty hi ni nokr smj k laty hain or privacy to bhool hi jao
It's really not about how bad the sasural walas are. Not being super rich does not make people bad. The main thing in the story is about hoe much any girl has to adjust and lower her expectations when settling into married life.
simply beautiful pakistani dramas ,beautifully narrated pakistani dramas has a feel of real life...i am from india..and all indians love watching pakistani's dramas...simply heart touching and beautiful.i really look forward for the old buildings and
Mansoor k maan jese low cast loog pehle minnat kartay hain, promises kartay hain. Shadi k bad in ko apni rasam, riwaaj, fazol chezen yaad aty hay. Mansoor k maan jese loogon ko betay k shadi apnay jese logon main karni chahye. Main is bat k sakht khilaaf hon.
This is mother story ... Now i feel how my mother handle this situation ...😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 bcz my mother family background better than my grandmother family background...😢😢😢😢
Sach mai ye drama bahot hai pyara hai... Allah har beti k nasib ache rkhe.beti ko hamesha apne se uper wale gharu me dena Chahiye..aur bahu apne se kam Ghar walo ki krni Chahiye..beti bhi Khush rhengi..aur bahu bhi
Sach ma ia drame ko dekh kar buhat runa ata hai kaise betiyan apna dil mar kar susral ma rehti hain ye sirf wohi janti hain na jane kyun log aisa karte hain jab khud sasun pa aisa waqt guzar jata hai tu wo kyun apne bahu k sath waisa hi karti hain
Matlab har larki ko shadi k baad apne qeemti din rotty or bardasht krty guzarna hoty hain tab ja kr iska ghr banta hai wrna shadi k bd iski koi value nai hai agar uff b krygi to talak dene mai b koi der nai lagega ,yeh drama aj se 50,60 sal phele banta to samjh ata pr is dor mai hum sub ko yahi to khtm krna hai k bahu ko b izzat or muhabbat do to woh apne ghr ko apna samjhe
Ye drama aj s 8 sal pele bna tha or Meri shadi ab Hui h ek sal pele or m b aisi e fmly m paida Hui thi jaha ankh khulty e nokar chakar sb kuj tha ikloti hone ki wja s maa baap k sath sath pure khandan ki ladli teachers ki fav student or dosto ki Jan thi or jb shadi hui Pele aise e dikhave kie or shadi k bd Kam wali b hta d gai or mere husband hr Kam m Mansoor jese or peli br jb ghr Jane lgi to saas ne kaha chadar ly k jao or m kuj dair k lie smj na Pai k ye sb Kia h ....brtan dhone lgo to ghnto beet jate Roz aata goodho to sari rat bazu m drd mgr zndgi to guzarni h na lar lar k b dekh Lia shohar kehta jese Meri maa ne kehna wese e hona sb brdasht hota to kro Ni to mrzi h ab m ne e har man li h chup pkr li h sasur beemar hn mgr mere e shohar rat b rukty un k pas Baki koi Bhai Ni dekhta unko or murre Jane ki Bari ai to nand ne aisi lrai Dali Jana cancel krwa dia phr b sochti hun Allah kbi to sb behtar kre ga mgr tb TK Mera Dil Meri khuwahishat sb khtm ho chuki hon gi
I cried in alot of moments.... Mine was not exactly same but we much relatable...marrying a soldier n then facing hardships like these are v common specially when the inlaws are not from military background they make u to bend knees n what not coz u married their gem...
I don't know why her father choose mansoor for her.they both are very different, making it very difficult for girl to adjust in her in laws house Aside from mansoor, father should consider other aspects too while giving her hand. She was grown up in a very good household with lot of care and facilities. I feel for her so much,she was facing so difficulties after marriage :((
Mansour as a person is very responsible and well educated, sane etc (in this story) Almost 80% boys are mummy’s baby in the first few years of marriage in our society. So he is still a good choice by her parents. The beauty of this story is that it is very real. Girls should watch this pre marriage and a few times later and learn to be patient. I can’t believe how relatable the whole story is and how much one can learn from this. Susraal tu sab hi aise hotey hain. Yehi imtehaan hota hai larkion ka shadi ke baad.
And the writer how exceptionally she potrayed the feelings of a newly married girl and a woman havvto go thru alot untill she wll b accepted and appreciated by her inlaws
Is dramay may itni bareekiyon say choti choti ghairailo masaial dikhayay hain jo k durr e shahwar k lower middle class susral main hain..hatts off to the writer and director..
एकदम दुरूस्त फरमाया है आपने
True...itni gehraai se ...ki shadi se darr ke bhag jaye banda...par shyd yahi zindgi hai adjustment
@@mahwishraoof1711 it's so relatable
❤
Shehwar father’s made a wrong choice for his daughter. Class/environment difference is very difficult to manage
Ye to serial th isliye takalif 3 saal m khtm ho gyi...warna ladkiya aksar ese susral s tang aa kr khud khushi kr leti h
yes it's a major mistake
Agree with your comment
Yes
What is the guarantee that if the father marries his daughter in a rich family, his daughter will be happy?
Larkiyo ki shadi hmesha apni brabr me karni chahiye warna shari zindgi adjustment me gujrti hai Allah bchaye aise logo se ☺️
G Jahan naseeb ho wahan Jana parhta hai. Gareeb hona koi jurm nahi dolat pasey. Phir b mil jata hai ager larka qabel or hard working ho or ap k naseeb main ho to but neck or mohles log dobara nahi miltey
Bilkul
Baat brabar ki ni hoti, space denay ki hoti hai naye anay wali ko
@@safiafaisal5203 right
Jb joint family hoti hai tb adjustment hoti hai. Isliye either rich or poor, i believe new married couple should live separate from parents
Saood was the only ray of hope in Durr e Shehwar's sasural. He seems like the only human with feelings, a heart, he knew how to express his emotions. Rest all were robots. He was the one who lied about Mansoor's letters that said Mansoor asked about Shehwar.
His lies let her overcome the hardest part of her life, when she needed someone , it was Saood and his positivity his jokes and carefree nature. *He was a human being amongst a family of robots.* He considered Shehwar as a fellow human being in dire need of love and care. I am surprised that a *gem* like Saood was born in Mansoor's weird family. Saood's kind words kept Shehwar alive in the toughest phase of her life. *SAOOD AND SHEHWAR'S FATHER .. YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST! A BLESSING!!*
May every girl blessed with these kind of people in their Lives ❤️
@@manishakumari-it2me true :)
@@puneetkaur13 🤗
This Mansoor is such a moron!! Why did he marry if he can't treat his wife well
I love how you said robots😄😄😄 I agree. First of she is from rich family and every time mom in law does not leave a chance to taunt her or insult her...😡😡😠😠😠
Its the husband who makes all the difference... Sasural jaisa v ho... Pati apna ho toh sab kuch saha jaa sakta hain
Truee
Sahi bat h mere sasural vale b haddd kanjoos h m b bahut well to do family s thi but husband meri har zarurat puri karte h😊
Its not about "poor" familyy but the "poor mindset" of the family!!!
Exactly..
Most of the time poor families have poor mind set
As much as I love the show, I want to say something about it. I understand that Mansoor's family was not affluent as Dur e Shahwar's. They could have compensated her loneliness, isolation with compassion and treating her nicely. However, Dur e shahwar was used to nice and rich foods which Mansoor's family found it hard to afford. Kaha se lake deta? But that does not justify the ill treatment of her saas and nanad. Only her dewar was nice to her. Morever, Mansoor realised this later which was a good thing...
@@SuperRajat1984 thats what my one line meant! Things cannot compensate for the precious time newly weds have for building trust,understanding md compatibility which they snatched away...the responsibility to build the relation totally fell on Dur e shahwar's shoulder which was wrong! Nd for Mansoor, he was a grown up not a kid, he was a man he realised things by watching Dur e shahwar's younger sister's in laws nd when he felt lonely...thats not how u get a urself a wife, He was ready to divorce her nd leave even his child!!! Who does that?? Which man is so much blind? Didnt he saw how other men lived with their wives before his marriage!
@@suhemakhan8004 I guess it has much to do with the upbringing of Mansoor. Additionally, he was far removed from what was going on in his house; always took the side of his parents, neglected the tears of Dur e shahwar. You're right, only when his sister was making nakras at her in-laws then he came to terms. I guess, Dur's occasional straightforward and honet replies to mansoor when he came to visit also, eventually, made him realse his mistake. Bottom line, no one should go through such ordeal. These are common issues in both India and pakistan...
Unfortunately boys parents always want to have daughter in law from rich family and after merriage they want her to chenge her straight away with out realizing that her whole world has just been upside-down because of leaving her own parents house. They should give her sometime to adapt the husband's family environment
Ooooo
No theyve done very wrong with her wo sb to theak hai ab wo ghareeb family gai hai bt love of husband nd family cn change everything easily in logo se to ye bhi nhe huwa salaami tk le li ufff
No, not "always", in fact, it is the girls side which looks for richer families as men marry down and women marry up, usually.
Yes before the girls come in-house , expectations starts ... from everyone !! I have the same mom in law like hers . She took all the money like she did and no love . Everyone starts expecting in the contrary at their home they are loved
So true.
Aik aik scene ney rolaya mujhey or apney burey din b yaad aatey rehy or me rooty rehy ab sab Kuch hai lake Dil mar gaya hai
Same
it is life
dil ko dobara zinda kren jeeny ka name zindagi hy ups and downs to aty rehty hen life main
Ye jindagi dubara nai milegi bhan apny baccho ko jajada se piyar kRo or kush raho Allah sab tik karega
Bohat feel ke saath story likhi hai Umaira ne bohat bohat achi hai aur reality hai
A man who has to ask for his parents' permission to have his wife stay in the same house with him shouldn't even get married.
Should be independent a person
Guys like mansoor should get married to their own family instead of ruining someone’s life
Ur right i can relate this situation after marriage
True
Still 90% of the men in Pakistan have this mindset.
Mansoor should not get married. Always sit beside his mother
Right
First they will want the guy to get married and then they will do all efforts to make the wife and husband away ...
can u please say me the 6th episode it's not avail
Lack of education
Bilkul sahi bola
Yes
True
Kitni bar bhi ye drama dekhlo Mann hi nhi bharta mere Dil ke bhut kareeb hai ye drama great acting by Sanam Baloch and sameena peerzada even Saba Faisal ne bhi saas ka role bakhubi nibhaya h
Same here....
Mera bhi ye bahut favorite hai story bahut hi achhi hai sabki acting bhi brilliant.
Mai bhi Samjh sakti ho Mai akeli reh chuki ho susral Mai husband Dubai Mai is liy Pasand hai mjhe ye drama
Lkn esi saas to Allah kesi ko na da esi saas bardasht sa bahir hoti h lkn asul bt jb husb hi esa ho to kya krskta h insan....or shadi sa phely to larki k pechy shadi hota hiii tobha rang dkhna shru krdeti h saas
Ek hasti hwi larki sy uski smile cheen li💔🥀
Sbke sath ese hi hota h r baz k sath to na hsne ki ijazat hoti h r na hi rehne ki ..
Safiya begum 😠😠😠😠
R isai ye aurat ki Jeet kehty hai Jahan wo Apni muskan Apni khuwahishat r apna qatal kr ly baki sb ko khudh Krny Mai r achi baho r achi b v ka certificate lene k lye wow great 😃 aj kl ki 90% girls ko ye certificate nahi chye 🤣 m.c krdy Aisa husband r susraliyo ki r krna b chye ..is trhan k log izzat k qabil ni hoty
😔😔
Exactly.... Sab khtm ho gya
Insaan ko shadi karte waqt bus ldka nahi dekhna chye puri family status sab kuch dekhna chaye ye bht badi sabak hai aaj k parents ko . Beti ki jindgi aise ghar mein daal k jhand na kare . I am literally crying at every scene yaar 😢😢
Every single person rather it's Boy or girl must watch this drama....it gives lots of lessons for married life..
Aap shi kah rhe ho
Mard dekhen gaen to or 4 bataen ulti e seekhain gaen k aurat k kesy qaboo main rkhna
I wish Indian television also airs these kind of serials…it will be a lesson for so many..
Indian shows also focus on these issues, but they stretch the story and over dramatize everything.
Is episode me newly married ladki ko jinn pareshaaniyou se guzarna padta hai. Aur jo kuch bhi isme dikhaaya hai. 100percent scuh hai. Aur ye bhi zarrori nahi ke har ak ke saht aisa hi Hua ho.lekin yeh ak haqeeqat zarrror hai. 👍❤❤❤
Haye iska Devar kitna acha ha.kitta khyal rkhta.Bilkul bhai k jaise dhyan rkhta ha❤❤❤atleat smile to.laya uske face pr❤❤
One of the finest serials. I have ever seen in my life.
Hats off to d Pak dramas..... its so deep, really it touches d soul. How they write, how they deliver d dialogues is simply d best. Nice story, direction, n acting. Overall its phenomenal. I have never seen any other dramas like Pak dramas.
I agree. I am from India
One of the best drama I have ever seen, itni kmaal story or direction just amazing, hmara culture bhi nzr a rha is mn, ab q nhi bnty asy dramy, khan chly gai wo sb directors and story writers
Ab story ko bywaja itna kanchty hai interest katam ho jata hai....trp ka chakr hai sara
Faut hogy
Zamana bhi tuo woh nai raha
Really 2 bahut achha hai. Sab actors bhi achhe hain.
Aapne bilkul theek kaha aaj ke drame to na koi story na hi acting.
Apne maa baap se zyada pyar koi nhi kar sakta 😭
100%right
Hey,,,,,shdi ky Bad pata chlta hai maa baap sa bhr ky koi b pyr nhi kar skta
Baap ky ghr e batiya sahzdiyaa hoti han😭😭😭😭😭
I feel anger for her father. First he marries her off with that guy and after he justifies all the wrongdoings. wow
Exactly 😔😓
It’s all about wisdom. Difference, Mindset are 2 difference between 2 Family. One is Middle Family and other is Upper Class Family.
No need to get angry this is only a drama
Last Line "salad k Bina to tumhara Khana hazam Nahi hota " , and she replied "ab ho jata hai" hit so hard🥺🥺🇮🇳👏👏👏👏
Yha uski puri life barbad h..or apko salad 🥗 ki PDI h😆
@@RuhiAafu-xh7lc khane ka sochna padta hai pehle.. khana hoga to zindgi hogi naaa😅😅
@@daughter_of_pushpanandright
I loved this soap opera so resonating with our real life ❤
Indian families are no different from Pakistan tradition.
😮😮😮😮😊😊
Not even Bangladesh😢
100% true
Omg, that gifts' scene reminded me of my initial days at my in laws place. I was treated exactly the same way as this girl Shehwar.
I can never forget those days. Hate them
Me to by my sister in law
Same
Same 😖
Susral waly smjhty hn in baton ce wo bahu pe رعب dal skty hn .lakin aiae kr k wo apni izzat e khtm kety hn dil ce .q k jb larki ki shadi hoti h wo new ati h ap k ghr . She needs space . Lakin phr b larki kohsis krti h sb k sth nice rhy . Lakin jb apny behind batin sunti h to dil toot jata h aur dor jati h .
Feels like same story of early days
An Indian woman watching from Australia. Commendable acting and we share the same values. I also went thru the same just a different country. Will ever in laws change?!
I love sanam simplicity.. I adore suprbb coordination between mikaal nd sanam. Different concept based on reality ..
After my marriage i also suffer with the food .. . 😥 mujhe bhi rona ata tha..
Mujhe bhi 😢😢
Ohhh sorry for u guys 👦 Mai 2h kha kha kar loose motion kar rahi hu
I honestly think Haider is worse than Mansoor, if we keep in mind the times and upbringing. Haider is a narcissist and he chooses to be the kind of person he is. At least Mansoor cared about his family and felt responsible for them. Haider only cares about himself.
But durr e shahwar had to suffer 4 tears.. some women suffering doesnt end.. it goes on for a life time
Dear Momina Duraid,, what a story ,the star cast and a fantabulous direction with an excellent performances,. The feel you give in your productions,no one can even think to challenge you in your work and dedication...I could say it’s not a story of Durr-e-shewar and her normal in-laws family; In these days itself and in highly educated families it’s happening till in this so called modern society tooo 😰😥 No offenses to anyone I am also the part of it.... No solutions at all.. Thanks for bringing up these Drama series may be it would be a best help to the society if few people feel the Depth and connectivity of the relationships;;, Finally thanks 🙏🏻 for your best work with the best team once again,,May God Bless🙏🏻🙏🏻🎈🎊👌👌😎😎🎈🎈🥳🥳🤩🤩💐🎉🎉👍👍👍👍
Sach jitni bhi tareef karen kam hi lagti hai. Sameena peerzada and sanam baloch did fantastic job.
Todays generation can't tolerate this torture.... Who agree...
true bitter reality hai hum logo mai itna sabar ni hai
@@muslimah_peace1907 yes true but kuch girls abhi bhe comperise ker rehe hai
I'm still tolerating
Yes hum to aisi saas ko maar hi dalenge nhi bardasht kar sakte aisi family ko aur na hi aise husbend ko....its 21 century..itna pad likh kr yahi sab karna hai to taleem hi kya kaam ki sirf chulhe main hi daal dinge kya....koi bardaasht nhi karta aaj k zamane main...
me
There are very good messages or lessons for newly wed bride by her father.i liked it very much
Mera dil krta hai k phoot phoot kr ron... I can feel her pain ... Jisk sth hota hai whi Jan skta hai ...I have gone through this too
Unfortunately me too💔💔
same mere story Har bar ye darma dekh thi hon or phoot phoot ki roti ho😭😭kiu ki belkul ese tarh mere sath hua or abi be ho raha hy..main apne papa ki naz nakhari karni wali bete thi💔💔💔😭😭
May Allah always keep you happy sister
Ye sb achchi ladkiyo ke sath hi hota hai ۔Jo jitna bardasht kare use utna hi sataya jata hai ۔kam se kam janbojh kr to kisi ke sath itni zyadti nhi honi chahiye ۔
Shi kaha acchi ladkiyo ke sat hi hota h
Mansoor is so dominating...Also robotic type person.
😂
Why mom in laws are like that ? Only rude and no love ❤️.....it’s so sad . If they don’t have money can’t they give love atleast !!
They are suffering from inferiority complex thats why making her uncomfortable gives them some kinda satisfaction
Money is money but love… it’s priceless.
Not always mom in laws,,,,,, sometimes father in law rude,,,,, no care no care
@saad khan saad khan yup
@@rabbiyahamid3676 exactly
Best drama ever... kya reality dikhai hai iss serial me... sach me yhi hota h ek third class soch wali family se rishta jodne me... ek aurat ko purri zindagi zhelna padta hai... uuuufffff!!!!1😞😞😞😞😞😞😞😞
Mera bhi best favorite hai.
True
Same situation
The mother in law's acting is so good!
She has portrayed a witch of a mum in law!
👍😜
😅😅😅
She is a great actress
I'm going to married,
Mujhe is drama se acha lesson mila hy,
My Apni biwi ko samajh ne ki koshish karunga aur
Adjust honeke k liye poora time doonga.
Meri maa to beti nahi hai
Meri biwi ko beti jaisa pyar karegi inshallah...
Hi brother
How's everything??
Aap aur aapki wife kaisi hai abb
Whats going on
I’m happily married but uff this gave me so much stress and made me cry.
My husband is like MAMA COW ...I mean very soft and kind like Mom...
Same here
@@cbhattacharyyakaha se khareeda aisa husband?😅
Jokes apart
Good luck
Heart touching story Do agree today’s generation won’t tolerate all these things but it’s reality in many houses
Yeh real life hai... Mere sath bhi aise hi ho raha tha aur abhi bhi... Mere sausural me mujhe samjh ne wala koi nahi hai... Yeh dekh kar mujhe sab kuch yaad aa gaya...
Har ladki ki zindagi aise hi hoti hai... Meri mother in law bhi aise hi hai... 😔😔😔
Ufffffff when she said "ab ho jata he"
Allah😭😭😭
exctly nd thn father reaction😢
Allah betyon ky nasib achy kry Aameen shadi ky bad life kitniiii change ho jati h na 😢😢larkia tou jeasa hansna, bolna he bhool jati hain😭😭best & true story ❤❤
Ameen sum Ameen
Sach me. Khamakha shadi karke bichariyan. Meri b saas aisi hi hai
Shadi humesha apny mahol k hisab se karni chahye
Exactly
Naseeb and tuqdeer also play big role
Chahe kitni bhi koshish karo lekin naseeb ka joda jahan ho wahin le kar jata hai
Naseeb kuch nahi dekhta
Pr dua sy sb acha ho jata hai believe in Allah
Almost 80% boys are mummy’s baby in the first few years of marriage in our society.
So he is still a good choice by her parents. The beauty of this story is that it is very real. Girls should watch this pre marriage and a few times later and learn to be patient. I can’t believe how relatable the whole story is and how much one can learn from this.
Susraal tu sab hi aise hotey hain. Yehi imtehaan hota hai larkion ka shadi ke baad.
What this mean sirf kya ladkiyun ko sabar karna chaiye ladkun ko aqal aaye na aaye
@@fidaidrees6842 In the first few years of marriage, my views were like yours. But since it’s been 15 years Alhamdulillah now, I am more mature and now I think larki has to show all the patience. Sab se ziada faida bhi larki ka hota hai baad mei. Ye drama buht sacha hai.
ajkal k dour mein aisi shadyan nahi chal saktin. or acha hi hai larki pehle hi aisi shadi se bahar nikal aae , jismein uska sara khooon nichor lein or aise shohar se mohabbat hi kese ho sake gi.. to wahan rehne ka koi faida nahi hai
😂😂😂😂imtihan , society ki problem tumari jaise aurate hi hain
Is se Acha banda shadi na kry
One of the best drama based on reality. Superb acting by Samina and Sanam👍
This is about toxic marriage system of our society
Who is samina and who z Sanam
@@rahilabhat4532 Sanam is shahwar and samina peerzada is shandana,s mother
Thank u so much for the reply...I don't know as I'm watching from kashmir (j&k)
I think today Pakistani 's serials are not deep and great like these dramas which were first aired on zindagi .... And infact this drama ,the acting and story and culture shown is so natural and awesome 😍😍...more eg. Mere qatil mere dildar , ishq main tere , aun zara and most great zindagi gulzar hai and humsafar ..... I hated jalan serial which was not having Pakistani serials impact which usually had in old times ... These days only bilal's serials are impactful ..
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@@priyankamishra437 FALSE
These conflicts are the result of the difference in standard of living between the two families
Sach kehte he, aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti he😢
They don't have money for anything, not even for daughter in-law's medicine. But they have money to take the entire family to their son's honeymoon.
I was crying when sanam cried because she doesn't like qorma but she eat it 😭😭
Class difference is a big thing while you get married 😢
Exactly 😢
I hate that type of Mama's boy 🙂 Jo khud sy koi decision nh ly skty 😪
Aj ki generation ye sb bardasht nai keregi or krna bhi nai chaye 👍
This is my story. Same on the second day of marriage my MIL told me I cannot get milk everyday to drink because nobody in the family has it. There are so much a woman suffers and goes through silently.
Yes 🥰
N my story I was told I was so thin my parents didn't had food to feed me that night I cried alot.
So much for her honeymoon with all the in-laws tagging along!
Same meri story hy
Yes sometimes its happens..
Same thing happened with me
Hahaah I saw one of my cousin went in 2002 on honeymoon with her inlaws. Or mazey ki baat he us k inlaws Europe settled they is kay bavjood b ......lolz
@@AB-bc7fr 🙄🙄
Riwayato ka dhyan rakha jata h ... ek ladki ke jazbato ka nhi jo apna ghr or apno ko chorr kar aati hai... purani dakiyanusi soch k sasural wale.. or sohar bhi gulam apne maa baap ka...😠
Aap urdu bolti hain??
Same situation dear
Ak insan jb kisi dosry gr jata hy dosry logo ma jata hy to usy phly sy b zyada care ki zrort hoti hy ta k vo preshan na ho apni phly life ko zyada miss na kry pr toba log to beti smj k laty hi ni nokr smj k laty hain or privacy to bhool hi jao
Sahi kaha aapne
every man should watch this serial... atleast wife ki qadr karna seekh jaein gey
Tabhi kahte hai apni haisiyat walon ke sath rishte Tai hona chahiye
Shame on such parents who throw their daughters below their class. and force them to adjust to the lower living environment.
It's really not about how bad the sasural walas are. Not being super rich does not make people bad. The main thing in the story is about hoe much any girl has to adjust and lower her expectations when settling into married life.
simply beautiful pakistani dramas ,beautifully narrated pakistani dramas has a feel of real life...i am from india..and all indians love watching pakistani's dramas...simply heart touching and beautiful.i really look forward for the old buildings and
This drama increase your level of patience and encoure your strength .
Door e shewar mujhe apne din yaad agye after 15 yrs
I didn't realize that my tears roll down my cheek when I heard ' AB HO JATA HAI'
Yeah such touching phrase.
Mansoor k maan jese low cast loog pehle minnat kartay hain, promises kartay hain.
Shadi k bad in ko apni rasam, riwaaj, fazol chezen yaad aty hay. Mansoor k maan jese loogon ko betay k shadi apnay jese logon main karni chahye. Main is bat k sakht khilaaf hon.
Right .
U r right
Bhooke nango ke ghar apni beti mat do
me b
Happend to us too
This is mother story ... Now i feel how my mother handle this situation ...😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 bcz my mother family background better than my grandmother family background...😢😢😢😢
Sach mai ye drama bahot hai pyara hai... Allah har beti k nasib ache rkhe.beti ko hamesha apne se uper wale gharu me dena Chahiye..aur bahu apne se kam Ghar walo ki krni Chahiye..beti bhi Khush rhengi..aur bahu bhi
I had suffered the same things shehwar is facing. Same susral same mentality and same mummy-boy husband.
Same here..but things doesn't worked out and we gt seperated
@@rabbiyahamid3676 everything happens for a reason ❤️
@@sarahkhan.1987 yea bt one wrongg decision made by our parents can ruin our life and give irreparable pain..
@@rabbiyahamid3676 true. I hope your heart has been healed. 🤲🏻
Your saas must be like Rashida begum. ..nobody can replace safiya begum ...she is unique in cruelty
Sahi pata chalta h jab larki k shadi hoti h Allah pak her larki ko sabar de aur mughi b ameen
Is this me yr a go again watching the show
It's not drama only, it's reality, same things happening to me so I can feel the pain....
Hats off to director writer all actors .. Itna real lagta h ye serial... Ek ek ki acting awsm h❤❤.. Love from India..
Just leave the husband and wife alone for a year or two after marriage.
Umera Ahmad ne Kamal kr diya.. This is a master piece... 👏
Sach ma ia drame ko dekh kar buhat runa ata hai kaise betiyan apna dil mar kar susral ma rehti hain ye sirf wohi janti hain na jane kyun log aisa karte hain jab khud sasun pa aisa waqt guzar jata hai tu wo kyun apne bahu k sath waisa hi karti hain
Matlab har larki ko shadi k baad apne qeemti din rotty or bardasht krty guzarna hoty hain tab ja kr iska ghr banta hai wrna shadi k bd iski koi value nai hai agar uff b krygi to talak dene mai b koi der nai lagega ,yeh drama aj se 50,60 sal phele banta to samjh ata pr is dor mai hum sub ko yahi to khtm krna hai k bahu ko b izzat or muhabbat do to woh apne ghr ko apna samjhe
ggg ....jese mai guzry ...mere or shewar k sb khwb ak jese
itna tough time ke mai depression mai chli gy
@@mianirfan9379 haayeeeew. 😭 Allah behtar karay ga.
Ye drama aj s 8 sal pele bna tha or Meri shadi ab Hui h ek sal pele or m b aisi e fmly m paida Hui thi jaha ankh khulty e nokar chakar sb kuj tha ikloti hone ki wja s maa baap k sath sath pure khandan ki ladli teachers ki fav student or dosto ki Jan thi or jb shadi hui Pele aise e dikhave kie or shadi k bd Kam wali b hta d gai or mere husband hr Kam m Mansoor jese or peli br jb ghr Jane lgi to saas ne kaha chadar ly k jao or m kuj dair k lie smj na Pai k ye sb Kia h ....brtan dhone lgo to ghnto beet jate Roz aata goodho to sari rat bazu m drd mgr zndgi to guzarni h na lar lar k b dekh Lia shohar kehta jese Meri maa ne kehna wese e hona sb brdasht hota to kro Ni to mrzi h ab m ne e har man li h chup pkr li h sasur beemar hn mgr mere e shohar rat b rukty un k pas Baki koi Bhai Ni dekhta unko or murre Jane ki Bari ai to nand ne aisi lrai Dali Jana cancel krwa dia phr b sochti hun Allah kbi to sb behtar kre ga mgr tb TK Mera Dil Meri khuwahishat sb khtm ho chuki hon gi
Sb k sath aesa nhi hota
Heart melting story of Durr e Shehwar.
Ufff this epi.......its too emotional😢😢 and its reality too😑
Yes, it's realistic... and I was d victim of such situations after my marriage, same behaviour of my mother in law
This type of content is rare now a days...
Bilkul aajkal to band hi ho gaye aise drame banne.
I cried in alot of moments.... Mine was not exactly same but we much relatable...marrying a soldier n then facing hardships like these are v common specially when the inlaws are not from military background they make u to bend knees n what not coz u married their gem...
100% true
I can relate , m too wife of military man , their egostic personality, introvert nature 😢😢 , its tufff
Meri new shadi hoi ufff heaet touching
Bohat kamal ka portray kiya dur-e- shehwar ko
I don't know why her father choose mansoor for her.they both are very different, making it very difficult for girl to adjust in her in laws house
Aside from mansoor, father should consider other aspects too while giving her hand. She was grown up in a very good household with lot of care and facilities.
I feel for her so much,she was facing so difficulties after marriage :((
Apparently they thought he was in army so she will go everywhere when he will be posted and doesn't have to live in joint family system.
Mansour as a person is very responsible and well educated, sane etc (in this story)
Almost 80% boys are mummy’s baby in the first few years of marriage in our society.
So he is still a good choice by her parents. The beauty of this story is that it is very real. Girls should watch this pre marriage and a few times later and learn to be patient. I can’t believe how relatable the whole story is and how much one can learn from this.
Susraal tu sab hi aise hotey hain. Yehi imtehaan hota hai larkion ka shadi ke baad.
Dur shawar bohat piyari personality banai hai.... decision lyny wali.....barrboli nai banai......that the best thing of this character.....
One of the best shows.. Sanam is just superb.. I am missing her as she is away these days
I cannot find episode 6
I always like pak dramas,but this drama is a gem,
Vakai, story, acting, direction, dialouges ek se badkar ek hai isme.
Bohat he hasaas insaan iss baat ko samjh sakta hai
Story line of the drama is very unigue,great salute to the director and actors
And the writer how exceptionally she potrayed the feelings of a newly married girl and a woman havvto go thru alot untill she wll b accepted and appreciated by her inlaws
Story unique h serials line m...but ye true story h har ghar ki yhi kahani h
thank you for like our drama
Intehai umdaa drama..... Sanam ko award milna chahiye tha.... Superbly act kiya sanm ne
Serial dekh rh h dil mera yha dhak dhak kr rh h
Mansoor ko shadi karneki zaroorat hi kya thi. Doosronki zindagi tabah karke gunah ke alawa kuch aur kya milega?
Such men should not marry. They are already married to their family
Haramzada hai aik number ka
Mansoor's mother played smart ,she brought total package and then utilized her and everytime when she wants something she makes shehwar evil person.
What a parent shehwar has❤
Such cold hearted in laws. Joint family is only good for the mother in law.
ہائے افسوس کون سمجھے لڑکیوں کو درد ۔اپنا گھر بسانے کے لئے ایک عورت کو اپنا وجود فراموش کرنا پڑتا ہے مگر کسی کو کچھ نظر نہیں آتا ۔
Right
Ttl@@shafqatmunir5856 y
Agreee
Bilkul sai kaha
Right,,,
Mansoor's brother is so good and caring ❤