I felt this video so much ☹ I'm in high school, it really hit me on the last day of 10th grade, we had a free class and everyone just made these little groups and were like talking, laughing, and having fun, I was just sitting in my place alone just staring at my book (phones aren't aloud which makes it worst). One of my classmates saw me sitting alone and asked me it I wanted to join a game. I ended up just standing to the side awkwardly while everyone was laughing and playing. I really felt like crying. I've tried making friends, but they just remain like people who just know me. I want to act like I like being alone, but it rlly hurts me sometimes when moments like these happen
Actually, yes! I got put in a new class so everyone was new to each other I've tried really really hard to put myself out there, talk to more people and now I would say I made a few good friends :) and I'm really proud of myself for that because I feel like I changed a lot. I do sometimes still feel alone, but I no longer sit alone in a corner and and actually have great conversations with my friend. Thank you for asking, you reminded me of how I felt a few months back and how much it's changed.
exactly what I’m going through, I’m a 9th grader and it’s only the 4th day of school and i have 0 friends, everyone in my periods talk to their friends while I’m just in the back of the class, asleep or watching. But the one time someone talks to me is when we HAVE to talk to each other, people can say they know me but not that we’re friends, it’s hard fr. But, Im used to it, besides, people at my school are quite rude so I wouldn’t wanna be their friends anyways.
Just graduated and had no friends my entire time being there…..I had school buddies but not real friends ( like 3 school buddies ) finally made it through hell
I feel you I’m a senior and it has been so shitty to try and make it through high school feeling like no one is there to lean on or share a laugh with I hope you’re doing better ❤❤❤
@@Bianca-hq4cy I’m doing way better now since I graduated. I still have no friends but overall my mental health is getting better from not having to worry about school. I’m naturally an introvert / antisocial. Wishing u luck for your senior year
I'm a 15-year-old boy who enters year 11 in 9 days and I've come to terms with the fact that some friends aren't meant to stick with you, but rather to be a lesson that you must learn in order to go through friendships properly in life. I realised that a lot of my friends are more bad than they are good, so I'm gonna cut them off and focus on improving myself and being with truly good friends who want the best for me. Thank you for this video.
Omg same ik what you mean im 14 but in yr 9 and i relate to this exact situation, yes i have a group of friends who talk to me and don't leave me out (most of the time) etc etc, but i always feel uncomfortable just being near them, i think it's better if i rather just leave them alone
I'm in my last year in high school and it feels like I have lost my teenage years. I don't know if it was all me or something but it has genuinely been the worst moments ever for myself. I talk to people for sure, but it won't ever be as deep and rich as just hanging out or texting after school. All of my friends were shit and it's gotten to a point where my ex who SA'ed me, but no-one took it as seriously since I'm a guy and I have to just walk away and pretend nothing happened. I had to pretend with all of my 10th grade year that I tolerated her since she was seen as innocent. I lost a close friend that I dated, I did some things that I regret on my part but it's still weird seeing her gone after 7 months. I feel like a ghost talking to someone, only for the benefit of getting something. One more year. Just one more year.
@@user-zw7or2tr4b Well, I'm going through things day by day. Sometimes I don't mind being lonely, and other times it's unbearable. I guess the thing that keeps me hopeful for the future is that things will be okay, even if it doesn't feel like it now. It's easy to fall into regret and despair especially after the things that happened to me and I even though I wished it'd get better asap (I still do) life can suck balls and it will take time for me to get better. Maybe a really long time. but once you go deep down all you can really do is try to climb back up.
I just turned 15 and have no real friends. Just started my freshman year and the loneliness is starting to hit me real hard. When I was in middle school, I had buddies but now realize that it was just that. School buddies. No friend group. No outlet. No nothing. I play on sports teams and have had buddies again but am now realizing its not friendship. Popularity does not mean friendship. I have never been awkward and would go far enough to call myself an extrovert at times. But now I realize all this time I have just been a loser. If anyone out there is in the same boat as me don't hesitate to message me
Yeah i'm 17, and i'm too, a lonely soul, i'm like that since i spawn in middle school, in primary school it was very very differents, had a lot of friends, but we got separated, sadly. And yeah, throught those years of middle school and hightchool, i just learn to be alone, the others wouldn't give a care about me, it was just school buddies, until a year of school finished and they aleardy forget about me. Even now, i'm in a class of "dead brains", that's what i name them, just people being eachothers, not giving a damn about me, they would just sometimes say if i'm fine or stuff, but right after, poof i disappear in their eyes. It's even worse when i'm in a group project, because i'm Always with the worst students, and it's Always Always Always Always Always and Always the same thing, just me not being here when we have to present the project. And of course, when i'm sick or anything, no one would message me to see if i'm alright or at least know why i'm not here, but no, no one (we have an instagram class group), last year, i reach a point where i would just skip school to see someone that was working on a retirement home because we met when i was doing an intership in there. Because at least her, is a great friend, execept all the others one in my hightchool. Well i hope eventually we feel good in the future
@bigpapi5143 Holy crap relatable. I just moved and am turning 15 in two weeks and GOD SAVE ME. I don't have any friends, not even any school buddies, the only time I talk is to one person on my gym team and during group work. Middle Schhol I was so confident but was already hindered by covid, but GOD DAMM moving again literally ruined me. I'm so shy I panic when I see my very nice neighbor in the hallway, he invited me to play manhunt one night and I literally had a nervous breakdown cuz I feared being judged and didn't go. Basically, I am severely cooked.
I'm 14 and I'm a freshmen and I have no friends at my school. I had so many friends in elementary then covid hit near the end of 4th grade and I never saw my friends again. I was doing really bad on online school in 5th grade so my parents made me go to a small middle school that didnt have online school (the middle school was 5th-8th grade.) I spent my 5th grade and 6th grade year alone with no friends but some kids in 7th grade were nice and I became friends with them. But 5 months ago I graduated from middle school. All the people at that middle school all went to different high-schoolswhich left me alone at high-school with no friends.
In grade 7, I temporarily moved back to my home country. My parents put the house on rent, and it happened so suddenly. Everything was different, barely anyone spoke English, and I spent 3 hard years there, alone. Everyone at school was different from me, nothing in common. When I finally moved back, my friends from grade 7 that I'd known since I was literally like 5 years old, and considered my brothers, had all developed differently. They became 'wannabe gangsters' and started smoking, drinking etc. I thought they'd be happy to have me back, but they forgot about me. I spent 3 years wishing to be with them again, but they couldn't have cared less. I just finished grade 10 and what hurts the most is just walking through the hallways, seeing the people I was the closest to, walk with their new friends and completely ignore me. I was an extrovert my entire childhood, but I've been alone for so long, I guess things change.
I am starting grade 12, i have had 1 friend since kindergarten, ive never had any other out-of-school friends, ive always been mad, ive always felt left behind. During lunch i eat alone in a classroom, because my only friend isnt my friend anymore. I have people who say a couple words to me during classes, i dont understand what i did wrong. I dont understand why i havent had a rebellious teenage phase, it was supposed to get better in highschool, and now im just convinced life is always going to be like this, i was as alone in elementary school.
This comment section makes me feel like I’m not alone tbh. There are ppl in the EXACT same situation as me. I used to think I was weird or sum. Now I’m awesome.
I can relate to the shyness thing, I've tried to stick with people but I just never do. I have a hard time with making friends in general. Recently there was this girl I slowly gotten close to in one of my classes and she felt like the only real friend I could talk to, I really looked forward to coming to class just to see and talk to her. Later I got a crush on her because she's become that important to me, but long story short, I couldn't ask her out, and some guy got with her while I'm now pushed aside in the friendship, I see her from time to time but she don't even wave back at me, now I'm friendless again.
I'm a senior and I do online school now, so knowing that high school is pretty much over hurts cause I never experienced it when I went in person. I was always alone, for two years, and now that I'm online its pretty much just over for me. guess I'll just hope for the best for college
Don't worry!! You can use these 2 years away from normal hs enviroment to really focus on things you love, hobbies, skills etc. Become the best version of yourself you can and never be ashamed, people in college will totally want to be your friends then ♡
troxx2393 This is so relatable. I sat with a small group of juniors when I was a sophomore who I really wouldnt call my friends they just let me sit with them. First day of my junior year I switched to online realizing that they wouldnt be there next year, and some of them left before lunch. Im a senior now just like you hoping the same thing
I can tell you as a 48-year-old adults that in the end it doesn't matter. I don't mean that the sound harsh. But once high school is over everybody moves on and it's like it never happened. 99% of those people you will never see or hear from again for the rest of your life anyway.
this shi so real man... im in hs and i got a few friends but i have like no classes with them and they're all my middle school friends fr... its just hard to make friends in my classes man especially when most of the people in my program are female
that's pretty rough, i hope you still find friendship. also what kind of program are you in? even if you stand out as a man in a field that is mostly women, i hope you still succeed in that field, good luck
@@IDK-no7od I'm in a humanities and non-profit management program, which is just business stuff. For some reason there are a lot of girls in the program I actually have more classes with my friends this year so life is getting better for me
Bro this video is so relatable. My parents are so strict i wasn't allowed to go out with my friends(cz they thought it was not safe), call my friend,or even have matching keychains or whatever teenagers did. Now i'm in highschool n because of the boundaries that i got taught to, even tho they allow me now and i want to, i feel like i have an urge to not make any friends (i feel like it's wasting my time even if i want to do those stuff so bad it makes me frustrated) i feel like it decreased my social skills I don't blame them tho cz they just wanted the best for me but i've realized it has a BIG side effect towards me
@@Faint4l i had no friends since everyone thinks im weird even though i tried to make friends, sitting by myself in the cafeteria is peaceful at this point
man this is so true i feel the same way sometimes. like nobody cares about you and theres nobody to defend u, it feels horrible. Glad u got past it man, hope more ppl see this.
the gym part is so real its the class i dread going to everyday, i try my best to be social and friendly making jokes and asking open ended questions; the typical stuff that gets friends but about every single time i end up hearing the same “youre so intimidating” or “scary” and the weird phrase “you’re easy to hate”. Its not like i’m mean im the complete opposite, i wouldnt say im that ugly either, im not stupid, im not the type of person that says things like “everybody leaves” and then you understand why they do and atp i genuinely dont know what to do because no matter how hard i try people avoid making second conversation with me. I see people always get connected on social media, following eo, adding eo, putting an effort into making friends. But i’ve never experienced that, i had 2 friends that were always talking about how “so and so added me on snapchat” or “so and so followed me on instagram” and somehow ive never had that. I used to be a kid that was involved in things and had no issues making friends but at some point that kind of just stopped and i feel like im just losing common interaction skills and making friends seems impossible, im literally just stuck
thank you so much, i feel so lonely, everything you described is to real and i think only people with the same situation could understand how it ACTUALLY feels like, yk? like the gym and drama class, or lunch and just things that everybody else do together and your are just kinda standing there alone, it feels just awkward being alone, having no one to talk to at lunch or having no partner in class, i just feel ashamed of myself. i used to go "hide" in the library on brakes so my classmates wont see me alone, i felt so weak and lonely, now school starts again and im scared of feeling this way again. i try to hype myself up by just thinking that being lonely is hard, but eventually time passes and the right people will come. i wish everyone who feels this way will find these people as soon as its possible!
I had like no friends throughout secondary school. I did have friends but I had to search for them during break and lunch as they were all in the same lessons but I wasn’t. I had no friends in my lessons as I was different racially, in my preferences and I have severe anxiety- so I was always alone. I would come home and be on the verge of crying due to extreme loneliness, I would go days without saying a single word. I would never go out on the weekends I would just rot, it got so bad to the point when someone accepted to be my partner I thanked them. I was such an outcast and to be honest I still am and now I’m just so unbothered. This problem is so minuscule to me, I’m now in sixth form and I made an effort to talk to people but they still disregard me and make me follow them around like a puppet. I still don’t have friends to do things with but I just simply don’t care and I just focus on self-growth and patience.
Went through this honestly all my life but 9th hit the hardest for sure. I’m just blessed to actually have a decent amount of real friends tbh being in that dark place really accelerated my journey and character I definitely relate to the message though man great vid
THIS IS SOOO REAL i used to be rlly shy during my first 3 years of high school but now that i’m a senior i don’t feel anxious talking w/ my classmates anymore but it’s still so hard to actually make friends that last or start conversations
My twins are in this position now. They are doing cyber school now because of bullying. But by being at home they have no friends now. It breaks my heart.
Join clubs/activities you have interest in Work on preparing for your future. Study to be great for yourself Prepare for college 2 or 4 year. Get skills. Everything will fall into place
@@Teaboy0 it sucks for me bcs im a transferee and seniors like me have established friend groups so just gotta make it till friday and vacation. (im tired of this SHI🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️)
Exact same boat. I have "school friends" who fist bump me in the hallways but they aren't really friends. Outside of that, they don't really talk to me outside of school and rarely interact with my in places like lunch and gym.
Thanks bro, you have a great attitude about life. I just found you and subbed. I have been teaching high school since before you were born. You have the courage to make a video about what MANY young people your age would like to talk about. Thanks for that. I agree with everything you said here and encourage you to keep going...............Ray
It is unbelievable how relatable this video was for me. As someone whos entered 10th grade coming back to school for the first time in 5 years after learning online. The last time i was in person school was 5th grade. I was still just a dumb kid back then. During the pandemic i broke things off with the only friends i had in elementary school and going to school seeing all these people that i used to know, but they are different now. Im different now. I try not to think about what others think of me but this one time in PE class we were told to pick partners and i just awkwardly stood there since everyone was already picking their partners and i got picked with this girl who only had really short shorts on, and it was awkward as hell. I personally didnt really care and was tryna be respectful but I could tell she thought the whole situation was mad awkward. 5 weeks in and i still havnt made any friends. Theres tons of people playing a mobile game that i play at my school but they are always playing with their friends so i dont wanna butt in. Theres this one girl in my japanese class whos caught my eye because shes into the same manga as me but shes way out my league and id probably be mad awkward when trying to talk to her.
i'm out of highschool for 2 years now but i understand. i had a nice group of friends before covid and then we just grew apart during then. when i went back to school after quarantine it was really lonely. i had like 1 friend that had the same lunch as me but no shared classes. it was super depressing. now im pretty contempt with how i am.
I hated high school, when I was in gr 9 for a few months I still had friends then Covid happened during march break and I never saw those friends again even now 4 years later. When I went back to in person school oh my goddddd I was so lonely I hated it so much. I remember I would literally walk around the school I don't even know how many times during lunch to pass time so lunch could be over cause I hated it so much.
Nah much worse bro, I’m in uni. Sucks ass. I know these things pass but how do i deal with it man. There are just some points when you cant do shit about it. I miss my old friends. Being friendless in a different city is tough man.
@@ukiy01 I'm glad u found comfort ❤️ I'm going through so much psychological, emotional and mental pain 😢 my sister is abusing me in all those ways... and she started it 3 years ago... I can't even enjoy my days 😭😭😭
i am in the first year of high school and i feel like i dont belong in there, like my class seems okay but i always feel like they dont like me, no one yet talked to me and i have bad social anxiety, i feel like crying ..
@@thvrll sometimes u just gonna have to take the first step ngl everyone is also caught up in their own problems to care about you which sounds a little harsh tho.. like I've had friends who I thought weren't going to get along but after I talked to them they were cool people, just try speaking to a few of your classmates and I wish you good luck with highschool! don't make it miserable like the other comments have gone through already
@@SkinnyYee it’s the second week now and I’ve never felt more comfortable, I panicked for no reason cause they are all really chill, found a few friends!
@@SkinnyYee hey I need some advice so like I feel like I might run out of conversations if I walk up to someone that's what really stopping me fr and I keep having bad thoughts in my head idk what to do fr.
I’m in the 11th and haven’t had friends since I started 6th grade not even one and I’ve never spoken to anyone at all due to my social anxiety so I really had no one at all no one I even wave at in the hallways unless they’re my sibling but other than that I just have no one to talk to And the partner stuff is relatable lol
Freshman year Hs bro idk what happened i mean I’m a social person or ig I used to be idk what changed me I knew everyone in elementary and other schools I was going out everyday and now I was gonna go to the high school in my town with the people I knew but I moved last minute to another town I don’t know anyone in a high school where everyone knew each other either from there school or other in that town and idk no one and it’s like idk what to do if someone talks to me imma talk back imma make a convo but no one talking to me I’m not getting that chance it’s either idk how to start it or smth but the lonely mad sad type feeling really getting me like I ain’t used to it since everyone fw me back then before I moved now no one talk to me from that town they all moved one with other people and my mom on me making me feel worse cuz I get it she see me I don’t hangout with no one it’s bad on holidays and stuff where u got parties and stuff but idk what to do it’s crazy tho I feel so alone cuz not even 1 freind it’s actually bare 0 like I don’t talk to no one and I ain’t no weird kid who act like that or something but idk I feel I could easily make friends but some people ain’t the right people for me they a little weird or diff from me so I talk to them but try to distance myself cuz I don’t want those freinds who ain’t like me and I got nothing to do in a town I don’t even know like I don’t know what to do
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Oml how I absolutely _dreaded_ those “pick a partner” times. I literally wanted to curl up and just disappear when i heard those 3 words
Group ANYTHING was dreadful for me
So true, i used to beg the teacher to let me do it alone
frl smh
now that my friendship broke and im alone 4 the billionth time, those words are echoing in my head.
@@winstonc8510 I think of this comment section everytime my teacher mentions group work. Luv you guys
I felt this video so much ☹ I'm in high school, it really hit me on the last day of 10th grade, we had a free class and everyone just made these little groups and were like talking, laughing, and having fun, I was just sitting in my place alone just staring at my book (phones aren't aloud which makes it worst). One of my classmates saw me sitting alone and asked me it I wanted to join a game. I ended up just standing to the side awkwardly while everyone was laughing and playing. I really felt like crying. I've tried making friends, but they just remain like people who just know me. I want to act like I like being alone, but it rlly hurts me sometimes when moments like these happen
school started, has anything changed?
Actually, yes! I got put in a new class so everyone was new to each other I've tried really really hard to put myself out there, talk to more people and now I would say I made a few good friends :) and I'm really proud of myself for that because I feel like I changed a lot. I do sometimes still feel alone, but I no longer sit alone in a corner and and actually have great conversations with my friend.
Thank you for asking, you reminded me of how I felt a few months back and how much it's changed.
exactly what I’m going through, I’m a 9th grader and it’s only the 4th day of school and i have 0 friends, everyone in my periods talk to their friends while I’m just in the back of the class, asleep or watching. But the one time someone talks to me is when we HAVE to talk to each other, people can say they know me but not that we’re friends, it’s hard fr. But, Im used to it, besides, people at my school are quite rude so I wouldn’t wanna be their friends anyways.
@@favpinkgirly that's good cause those type of friends could be apart of your downfall
@@favpinkgirlywe in da same boat 😔
Gym is literally the worst. Its the most stressful class for me. I'm also the last person to be picked for teams and stuff, and that sucks.
Same to me
same here bro. hate gym
same i just sit alone and watch people play sports i swear to god dude..i skipped the rest of the school just because of the stares..
"turn around and talk to the person next to you" or "find someone to partner up with"
Unfortunately, I’m little autistic and been pushing people away since like forever
Try to practice different ways to talk to people. Like making small conversations about a class, teachers or the school environment.
same.
Just graduated and had no friends my entire time being there…..I had school buddies but not real friends ( like 3 school buddies ) finally made it through hell
I feel you I’m a senior and it has been so shitty to try and make it through high school feeling like no one is there to lean on or share a laugh with I hope you’re doing better ❤❤❤
Same. Senior now, I talk to one person in school and we don't talk over text or outside of school at all, I eat lunch alone in a empty classroom
@@Sickyears i hope your situation gets better
@@Bianca-hq4cy I’m doing way better now since I graduated. I still have no friends but overall my mental health is getting better from not having to worry about school. I’m naturally an introvert / antisocial. Wishing u luck for your senior year
@@Sickyears I use to sit in a little corner listening to music and draw during lunchtime. I feel your pain
I'm a 15-year-old boy who enters year 11 in 9 days and I've come to terms with the fact that some friends aren't meant to stick with you, but rather to be a lesson that you must learn in order to go through friendships properly in life. I realised that a lot of my friends are more bad than they are good, so I'm gonna cut them off and focus on improving myself and being with truly good friends who want the best for me. Thank you for this video.
Omg same ik what you mean im 14 but in yr 9 and i relate to this exact situation, yes i have a group of friends who talk to me and don't leave me out (most of the time) etc etc, but i always feel uncomfortable just being near them, i think it's better if i rather just leave them alone
the lunch and gym is so real
I'm in my last year in high school and it feels like I have lost my teenage years. I don't know if it was all me or something but it has genuinely been the worst moments ever for myself. I talk to people for sure, but it won't ever be as deep and rich as just hanging out or texting after school. All of my friends were shit and it's gotten to a point where my ex who SA'ed me, but no-one took it as seriously since I'm a guy and I have to just walk away and pretend nothing happened. I had to pretend with all of my 10th grade year that I tolerated her since she was seen as innocent. I lost a close friend that I dated, I did some things that I regret on my part but it's still weird seeing her gone after 7 months. I feel like a ghost talking to someone, only for the benefit of getting something. One more year. Just one more year.
I’m so sorry that sounds awful :( I hope this year is a lot better for you and gives you time to heal emotionally ❤❤❤
how are you doing rn? has it gotten any better?
@@user-zw7or2tr4b Well, I'm going through things day by day. Sometimes I don't mind being lonely, and other times it's unbearable. I guess the thing that keeps me hopeful for the future is that things will be okay, even if it doesn't feel like it now. It's easy to fall into regret and despair especially after the things that happened to me and I even though I wished it'd get better asap (I still do) life can suck balls and it will take time for me to get better. Maybe a really long time. but once you go deep down all you can really do is try to climb back up.
I just turned 15 and have no real friends. Just started my freshman year and the loneliness is starting to hit me real hard. When I was in middle school, I had buddies but now realize that it was just that. School buddies. No friend group. No outlet. No nothing. I play on sports teams and have had buddies again but am now realizing its not friendship. Popularity does not mean friendship. I have never been awkward and would go far enough to call myself an extrovert at times. But now I realize all this time I have just been a loser. If anyone out there is in the same boat as me don't hesitate to message me
Yeah i'm 17, and i'm too, a lonely soul, i'm like that since i spawn in middle school, in primary school it was very very differents, had a lot of friends, but we got separated, sadly. And yeah, throught those years of middle school and hightchool, i just learn to be alone, the others wouldn't give a care about me, it was just school buddies, until a year of school finished and they aleardy forget about me. Even now, i'm in a class of "dead brains", that's what i name them, just people being eachothers, not giving a damn about me, they would just sometimes say if i'm fine or stuff, but right after, poof i disappear in their eyes. It's even worse when i'm in a group project, because i'm Always with the worst students, and it's Always Always Always Always Always and Always the same thing, just me not being here when we have to present the project. And of course, when i'm sick or anything, no one would message me to see if i'm alright or at least know why i'm not here, but no, no one (we have an instagram class group), last year, i reach a point where i would just skip school to see someone that was working on a retirement home because we met when i was doing an intership in there. Because at least her, is a great friend, execept all the others one in my hightchool.
Well i hope eventually we feel good in the future
@bigpapi5143
Holy crap relatable. I just moved and am turning 15 in two weeks and GOD SAVE ME. I don't have any friends, not even any school buddies, the only time I talk is to one person on my gym team and during group work. Middle Schhol I was so confident but was already hindered by covid, but GOD DAMM moving again literally ruined me. I'm so shy I panic when I see my very nice neighbor in the hallway, he invited me to play manhunt one night and I literally had a nervous breakdown cuz I feared being judged and didn't go. Basically, I am severely cooked.
to real bro
I'm 14 and I'm a freshmen and I have no friends at my school. I had so many friends in elementary then covid hit near the end of 4th grade and I never saw my friends again. I was doing really bad on online school in 5th grade so my parents made me go to a small middle school that didnt have online school (the middle school was 5th-8th grade.) I spent my 5th grade and 6th grade year alone with no friends but some kids in 7th grade were nice and I became friends with them. But 5 months ago I graduated from middle school. All the people at that middle school all went to different high-schoolswhich left me alone at high-school with no friends.
Yo bro whats yo ig we have the same problem
In grade 7, I temporarily moved back to my home country. My parents put the house on rent, and it happened so suddenly. Everything was different, barely anyone spoke English, and I spent 3 hard years there, alone. Everyone at school was different from me, nothing in common. When I finally moved back, my friends from grade 7 that I'd known since I was literally like 5 years old, and considered my brothers, had all developed differently. They became 'wannabe gangsters' and started smoking, drinking etc. I thought they'd be happy to have me back, but they forgot about me. I spent 3 years wishing to be with them again, but they couldn't have cared less. I just finished grade 10 and what hurts the most is just walking through the hallways, seeing the people I was the closest to, walk with their new friends and completely ignore me. I was an extrovert my entire childhood, but I've been alone for so long, I guess things change.
I’m sorry. I know how it feels to see friends change. I pray that things get better for you
I am starting grade 12, i have had 1 friend since kindergarten, ive never had any other out-of-school friends, ive always been mad, ive always felt left behind. During lunch i eat alone in a classroom, because my only friend isnt my friend anymore. I have people who say a couple words to me during classes, i dont understand what i did wrong. I dont understand why i havent had a rebellious teenage phase, it was supposed to get better in highschool, and now im just convinced life is always going to be like this, i was as alone in elementary school.
This comment section makes me feel like I’m not alone tbh. There are ppl in the EXACT same situation as me. I used to think I was weird or sum. Now I’m awesome.
I can relate to the shyness thing, I've tried to stick with people but I just never do. I have a hard time with making friends in general. Recently there was this girl I slowly gotten close to in one of my classes and she felt like the only real friend I could talk to, I really looked forward to coming to class just to see and talk to her. Later I got a crush on her because she's become that important to me, but long story short, I couldn't ask her out, and some guy got with her while I'm now pushed aside in the friendship, I see her from time to time but she don't even wave back at me, now I'm friendless again.
I'm a senior and I do online school now, so knowing that high school is pretty much over hurts cause I never experienced it when I went in person. I was always alone, for two years, and now that I'm online its pretty much just over for me. guess I'll just hope for the best for college
Don't worry!! You can use these 2 years away from normal hs enviroment to really focus on things you love, hobbies, skills etc. Become the best version of yourself you can and never be ashamed, people in college will totally want to be your friends then ♡
troxx2393 This is so relatable. I sat with a small group of juniors when I was a sophomore who I really wouldnt call my friends they just let me sit with them. First day of my junior year I switched to online realizing that they wouldnt be there next year, and some of them left before lunch. Im a senior now just like you hoping the same thing
I can tell you as a 48-year-old adults that in the end it doesn't matter. I don't mean that the sound harsh. But once high school is over everybody moves on and it's like it never happened. 99% of those people you will never see or hear from again for the rest of your life anyway.
this shi so real man... im in hs and i got a few friends but i have like no classes with them and they're all my middle school friends fr... its just hard to make friends in my classes man especially when most of the people in my program are female
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that's pretty rough, i hope you still find friendship. also what kind of program are you in? even if you stand out as a man in a field that is mostly women, i hope you still succeed in that field, good luck
@@IDK-no7od I'm in a humanities and non-profit management program, which is just business stuff. For some reason there are a lot of girls in the program
I actually have more classes with my friends this year so life is getting better for me
Bro this video is so relatable. My parents are so strict i wasn't allowed to go out with my friends(cz they thought it was not safe), call my friend,or even have matching keychains or whatever teenagers did. Now i'm in highschool n because of the boundaries that i got taught to, even tho they allow me now and i want to, i feel like i have an urge to not make any friends (i feel like it's wasting my time even if i want to do those stuff so bad it makes me frustrated) i feel like it decreased my social skills
I don't blame them tho cz they just wanted the best for me but i've realized it has a BIG side effect towards me
Going into my senior year wit no true friends
thats me rn bro all 17 years of my life no freindgroup no bestfreinds always been just me
@@Faint4l i had no friends since everyone thinks im weird even though i tried to make friends, sitting by myself in the cafeteria is peaceful at this point
man this is so true i feel the same way sometimes. like nobody cares about you and theres nobody to defend u, it feels horrible. Glad u got past it man, hope more ppl see this.
the gym part is so real its the class i dread going to everyday, i try my best to be social and friendly making jokes and asking open ended questions; the typical stuff that gets friends but about every single time i end up hearing the same “youre so intimidating” or “scary” and the weird phrase “you’re easy to hate”. Its not like i’m mean im the complete opposite, i wouldnt say im that ugly either, im not stupid, im not the type of person that says things like “everybody leaves” and then you understand why they do and atp i genuinely dont know what to do because no matter how hard i try people avoid making second conversation with me. I see people always get connected on social media, following eo, adding eo, putting an effort into making friends. But i’ve never experienced that, i had 2 friends that were always talking about how “so and so added me on snapchat” or “so and so followed me on instagram” and somehow ive never had that. I used to be a kid that was involved in things and had no issues making friends but at some point that kind of just stopped and i feel like im just losing common interaction skills and making friends seems impossible, im literally just stuck
“I had people that I talk to” I thought this video was gonna be relatable 😔
thank you so much, i feel so lonely, everything you described is to real and i think only people with the same situation could understand how it ACTUALLY feels like, yk?
like the gym and drama class, or lunch and just things that everybody else do together and your are just kinda standing there alone, it feels just awkward being alone, having no one to talk to at lunch or having no partner in class, i just feel ashamed of myself.
i used to go "hide" in the library on brakes so my classmates wont see me alone, i felt so weak and lonely, now school starts again and im scared of feeling this way again.
i try to hype myself up by just thinking that being lonely is hard, but eventually time passes and the right people will come.
i wish everyone who feels this way will find these people as soon as its possible!
I'm 19 and I felt just how u feel right now when I was at the teen ages :( it's hard but please stay strong and keep loving yourself ❤❤❤
@@buttercup86900 thank you so much!!
@@costlyCrystal np 😊😭😭 I'm going through something bad rn I need help
I had like no friends throughout secondary school. I did have friends but I had to search for them during break and lunch as they were all in the same lessons but I wasn’t. I had no friends in my lessons as I was different racially, in my preferences and I have severe anxiety- so I was always alone. I would come home and be on the verge of crying due to extreme loneliness, I would go days without saying a single word. I would never go out on the weekends I would just rot, it got so bad to the point when someone accepted to be my partner I thanked them. I was such an outcast and to be honest I still am and now I’m just so unbothered. This problem is so minuscule to me, I’m now in sixth form and I made an effort to talk to people but they still disregard me and make me follow them around like a puppet. I still don’t have friends to do things with but I just simply don’t care and I just focus on self-growth and patience.
Went through this honestly all my life but 9th hit the hardest for sure. I’m just blessed to actually have a decent amount of real friends tbh being in that dark place really accelerated my journey and character I definitely relate to the message though man great vid
THIS IS SOOO REAL i used to be rlly shy during my first 3 years of high school but now that i’m a senior i don’t feel anxious talking w/ my classmates anymore but it’s still so hard to actually make friends that last or start conversations
My twins are in this position now. They are doing cyber school now because of bullying. But by being at home they have no friends now. It breaks my heart.
Join clubs/activities you have interest in
Work on preparing for your future. Study to be great for yourself
Prepare for college 2 or 4 year. Get skills.
Everything will fall into place
dont worry guys. eventually we'll all make it out.
Im in my senior year right now im honestly counting down the days till graduation bc i can't do ts no more bro
bro same but just 8 months to go
@@rinrin0543 going to be the longest 8 months of my life
@@Teaboy0 bro 7 months we got this
@@Teaboy0 it sucks for me bcs im a transferee and seniors like me have established friend groups so just gotta make it till friday and vacation. (im tired of this SHI🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️)
Exact same boat. I have "school friends" who fist bump me in the hallways but they aren't really friends. Outside of that, they don't really talk to me outside of school and rarely interact with my in places like lunch and gym.
I just graduated and no friends lol. I had people I talked to but no friends. I wasn’t even invited to a gc. For lunch I just ate in class
22 no friends or family feels like no purpose in my life anymore honestly want to have kids so i can be distracted and my kids can be my friends
This the realest video I’ve ever seen
I definitely freshmen year so much, until 10th grade when I just chosed not to be a introvert, and talk to people, and find a community around me.
I resonate with this so hard bro
fr!!! heavy on gym and lunch. makes me feel the most depressed. im so mad i have gym this semester
Thanks bro, you have a great attitude about life. I just found you and subbed. I have been teaching high school since before you were born. You have the courage to make a video about what MANY young people your age would like to talk about. Thanks for that. I agree with everything you said here and encourage you to keep going...............Ray
It is unbelievable how relatable this video was for me. As someone whos entered 10th grade coming back to school for the first time in 5 years after learning online. The last time i was in person school was 5th grade. I was still just a dumb kid back then. During the pandemic i broke things off with the only friends i had in elementary school and going to school seeing all these people that i used to know, but they are different now. Im different now. I try not to think about what others think of me but this one time in PE class we were told to pick partners and i just awkwardly stood there since everyone was already picking their partners and i got picked with this girl who only had really short shorts on, and it was awkward as hell. I personally didnt really care and was tryna be respectful but I could tell she thought the whole situation was mad awkward. 5 weeks in and i still havnt made any friends. Theres tons of people playing a mobile game that i play at my school but they are always playing with their friends so i dont wanna butt in. Theres this one girl in my japanese class whos caught my eye because shes into the same manga as me but shes way out my league and id probably be mad awkward when trying to talk to her.
As someone who had quite a few friends (a bit toxic tho) and has moved to a new school, it's tough out here but thnx for the vid
i'm out of highschool for 2 years now but i understand. i had a nice group of friends before covid and then we just grew apart during then. when i went back to school after quarantine it was really lonely. i had like 1 friend that had the same lunch as me but no shared classes. it was super depressing. now im pretty contempt with how i am.
I barely had friends and now I’m 19 and don’t have anyone I can hang out with
I don't know what to say with my classmates, I feel like un npc around them
I hated high school, when I was in gr 9 for a few months I still had friends then Covid happened during march break and I never saw those friends again even now 4 years later. When I went back to in person school oh my goddddd I was so lonely I hated it so much. I remember I would literally walk around the school I don't even know how many times during lunch to pass time so lunch could be over cause I hated it so much.
thats my highschool expeirience with people right now
Nah much worse bro, I’m in uni. Sucks ass. I know these things pass but how do i deal with it man. There are just some points when you cant do shit about it. I miss my old friends. Being friendless in a different city is tough man.
Me too :(
@@buttercup86900 i find comfort in the fact that I’m not alone in experiencing this.
@@ukiy01 I'm glad u found comfort ❤️ I'm going through so much psychological, emotional and mental pain 😢 my sister is abusing me in all those ways... and she started it 3 years ago... I can't even enjoy my days 😭😭😭
@@buttercup86900 my fellow brother, i shall pray for you. My best wishes
@ukiy01 thank you... I'm just laying in bed, looking at my phone... the abuse affected my ability to function healthily and properly :(
I swear I would be your friend if we went to the same school you seem so cool.
i am in the first year of high school and i feel like i dont belong in there, like my class seems okay but i always feel like they dont like me, no one yet talked to me and i have bad social anxiety, i feel like crying ..
Me too
@@thvrll sometimes u just gonna have to take the first step ngl everyone is also caught up in their own problems to care about you which sounds a little harsh tho.. like I've had friends who I thought weren't going to get along but after I talked to them they were cool people, just try speaking to a few of your classmates and I wish you good luck with highschool! don't make it miserable like the other comments have gone through already
@@SkinnyYee it’s the second week now and I’ve never felt more comfortable, I panicked for no reason cause they are all really chill, found a few friends!
@@thvrll nice
@@SkinnyYee hey I need some advice so like I feel like I might run out of conversations if I walk up to someone that's what really stopping me fr and I keep having bad thoughts in my head idk what to do fr.
9th grade and no friends
same twin
@@bigred6978 talk to people
@@bigred6978 before u hit senior year and can’t change the past
Last year and still no friends, i feel you man
@@mokje_ I’ve heard it only gets better once you graduate so I hope it gets better for you man
real 😔😔😔
That’s sad 😔
I’m in the 11th and haven’t had friends since I started 6th grade not even one and I’ve never spoken to anyone at all due to my social anxiety so I really had no one at all no one I even wave at in the hallways unless they’re my sibling but other than that I just have no one to talk to
And the partner stuff is relatable lol
honestly sometimes you just needa be like its now or never thats really all i can say
Bro I've never ever had any friends in my entire life (I'm 14 and 9 months) I feel like some sort of prodigy or anomaly for not feeling lonely my dud
so real 😔
Freshman year Hs bro idk what happened i mean I’m a social person or ig I used to be idk what changed me I knew everyone in elementary and other schools I was going out everyday and now I was gonna go to the high school in my town with the people I knew but I moved last minute to another town I don’t know anyone in a high school where everyone knew each other either from there school or other in that town and idk no one and it’s like idk what to do if someone talks to me imma talk back imma make a convo but no one talking to me I’m not getting that chance it’s either idk how to start it or smth but the lonely mad sad type feeling really getting me like I ain’t used to it since everyone fw me back then before I moved now no one talk to me from that town they all moved one with other people and my mom on me making me feel worse cuz I get it she see me I don’t hangout with no one it’s bad on holidays and stuff where u got parties and stuff but idk what to do it’s crazy tho I feel so alone cuz not even 1 freind it’s actually bare 0 like I don’t talk to no one and I ain’t no weird kid who act like that or something but idk I feel I could easily make friends but some people ain’t the right people for me they a little weird or diff from me so I talk to them but try to distance myself cuz I don’t want those freinds who ain’t like me and I got nothing to do in a town I don’t even know like I don’t know what to do
Like I could easily make a freind if someone interacted with me yk
And I’m halfway through freshman year not 1 freind
Lunch time shi is so Real
0:28 is real that’s basically everyone I know
Thankyou.
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i feel u
Its actually good, when youre seperated from the influence of conformity, you have two options. Destroy yourself or hustle on yourself like a mf
God bless and much love to all ❤ Jesus loves you 🙏
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waste bruh
2 years since I graduated and I still have no friends
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What’s the user!!??
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@@tbone-experience my user is nisha3636
Yo whats your user
I have selective mutism so Yeah I'm mostly mute in school.