As a 41 year old truck driver who spends months at a time alone, I learned a long time ago that you can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. Don’t let the things around you pull you down. Keep that joy inside of you and learn to exist in your own bubble. Remember when you are alone no one can hurt you. If you are an introvert, embrace it. Don’t let society or social media dictate to you how you should live your life or what happiness and fulfillment is. Live by your own standards and no one else’s. Then and only then will you start to experience the happiness that comes with true freedom. Stay positive and take it day to day my friend and I remember even when you feel alone, your not alone because their are A TON of people just like you.
Great comment. I think a lot of left out kids and young boys go through this growing up. You have to stop letting the world, social media and any one other thing people say than yourself that you are a worthy human being, your style is dope and cool and everything else about what others may think or you think they think of you.
This is something I learned from a long time ago. I was a “nice guy” my whole life because they say to treat others how you want to be treated. But then over time, I learned that most people are only in it for themselves and will take advantage of you for their benefit. I didn’t become less “nice”, but I stopped taking shit from people and letting people take advantage of me. When you learn to do that, people will naturally respect you more and know better than to step all over you. This is the advice I would give to young men like you who are struggling with this. Assert yourself or you will be used.
Bro, it's not about asserting yourself. It's just about being a good human being. The reason nobody likes nice guys is because they always do something for other people just to get something back from them down the line. If you're ACTUALLY a nice guy nobody would have a problem with you. And trust me I have seen both. There are nice people who manipulate other people for their own gain and then when things don't turn out as they expected they get angry and frustrated. And I have also seen benevolent people. The people who would give you a dollar even if they only had two dollars. They stand up for the ones being picked on even if they can't even protect themselves. Those type of nice people are never alone because people want to support his cause. You'll get angry with me. You might even rage. But I am speaking the truth
Being nice doesn't get others to care about you sadly, it just gets them to take advantage of you. For people to care about you you need to first meet the right people, people who want genuine connections and have empathy, and second you need to build a close bond with those people. Having mutual interests or a shared outlook on life can help bring people together, but like I said it's not that easy. Some people just don't have it in them to truly care about others even if they act like they do, and it can be really challenging to find people who are more than just talk.
Same lesson learned here. And it's not about being less nice, like you said. It's almost enabling to reward people who take advantage of us. So it's actually not nice to them to continue to give when they don't appreciate it or give in return. Not that we should always expect something in return. They will just continue to use us, because it gets comfortable for them. I think also just being solid with yourself, where you know that it doesn't matter what other people do, if you're happy with what you're doing, that's all that matters. Not to be so dependent on how others treat us or look at us. It's a tough one. Takes time to truly live it, even if we know it's the better way to live.
Reading this tonight, very relatable. Earlier today I've had an argument with my drunk ass partner, who always try to take his shit on me. I've tried to calm he down the whole time, and he just kept on screaming a lot of crap. So today was my turn to scream at him and I'm so fucking glad I did.
Jesus gave His Life for His enemies, and God glorified Him. He saved us because He Loved us, and gave us the strength to love our enemies. God is Good, and is Able ❤ call upon the Name of Jesus and you will be saved.
With this wave of sadness, depression and suicide... the new definition of "success" is simply staying alive, with people taking themselves out left and right.
God loves you and he wants a relationship with you he wants to give you peace even in hard times and his love that surpasses all understanding he cares about you and wants to free you from sin and he wants to save you if you would let him and accept his Son the Lord Jesus Christ who died on the cross for us Eternal life is getting to know the one true God and whom he sent the Lord Jesus Christ who died on the cross and shed his blood for us so that we can have Eternal life , he can free you from those thoughts
@@daguy7575 you know its usually an issue of chemical imbalances in the brain right? Though a trigger is usually present, something bad doesn't even have to happen, you might just wake up one day and find that you really want to take your own life. Many people have had their lives changed completely by someone who later took their own life, to say that they never deserved life, that they never deserved to touch other lives, is completely disgusting. Continue making house music, I think that you're really going to do great things there :)
@@YegoKroeten look I didn’t mean to be so hard on the guy, I just don’t like it when people seem like they’ve lost their fight… I have had my own battles with poor mental health, and I would like to see people come out on top on the other end of things! Thank you for your kind words, I will continue making music as it is my passion. Take care 🤟
Consider it a blessing that you're coming to terms with this at a young age. I was you at age 23, crying in my car over this crushing realization. Accepting it and moving forward will make you a stronger man. Life will get better. Remember to pay yourself first, and extend your generosity only to those who deserve it (this will be exceptionally few people). Have no shame in putting yourself first in all aspects of life, because this cold world only cares about what it can take from you.
Damn, that's cynical. While I don't think you are wrong It may be prudent to be a bit more optimistic. "He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss also gazes into you." -Nietzsche
Live keeps getting worse for me I'm tired of trying to please people that are two faced and narcissistic assholes I'm autistic and suffered with borderline personality disorder and have horrible mood swings and rage outburststhat got me in legal trouble do yeah no I hate life and I hate humanity my ex physically and mentally abused me for being different then a average person should be....not my fault I was born with genetic defects....I hate myself and hate society I'm done trying
@@monk4ever enlighten him with your wisdom then, or you just gonna leave negative comments? what's the difference between your complaints and the people your on about? not very monklike bro
There's so many things which need improving in your life there's always something to be stressed about your basically chasing a point were you can just be happy and appreciate how far you've come so you have time to think and perform better but the gap to reach that point never wants to close and then you feel like you've run out of time and your a failure.
I hear you kid; I am almost 60 with a life dedicated to being a good and generous person; always giving and trying to help. Now here I am with cancer and nobody to bring me a cup of tea. But I have strength and I am still working. So, keep your head up and try to put yourself first.
First off, DO NOT GET CHEMO, it destroys your immune system at that will seal your fate. Find alternative medicine that will do Vitamin C intravenous infusions, then you'll want to get Ivermectin 9mg dosages, take that on off 2 or 3 days on, and 2-3 days off or every other day, have that doctor develop a plan for you. Eliminate processed sugar, start juicing every single day using a masticating juicer at, least 24 ounces using only organic beets 3 of them, 1 cucumber, 1 apple, 1 lemon, 1 lb of carrots, 1 cup of spinach and 2 sticks of celery. Stay away from additives in food, such as maltodextrin, high fructose corn syrup, monosodium glutamate, fake sugars especially and preservatives and processed foods. If you drink city water then stop, get a Berkey water filter system for all of your water. Try and grow your own vegetables as well, to help with costs and stay away from synthetic fertilizers and soils with those fertilizers, only OMRI certified. Cruciferious vegetables garlic - boosts the immune system berries blackberries highest in antioxidant Indian Goodberry highest antioxidant food in existant mushrooms - Lions mane, mitake, reishi, turkey tail, shiitake. - loaded with vitamin D and boost the immune system turmeric and black pepper- This is important Eggs are your best friend, make sure there's no antibiotics and organic as well free range. 1 crushed garlic clove ginger 1/4 teaspoon 1 lemon juiced honey 1 teaspoon 1/2 teaspoon of cayenne pepper - This will be rough and require a chaser of water There's also Rick Simpson Oil which has had amazing results for people with glioblastoma and other extremely aggressive cancers. You can look more into that if that options seems like something you'd be interested in. I personally would use everything in my arsenal to survive. You follow all of this and you'll survive. But you cannot cheat, you have to be serious about this and it will be insanely difficult, but you will get used to it.
this realization comes in for many first generation kids/children of immigrants. we’re taught to prioritize others but in america /canada it’s best to build yourself first
As somebody who moved to Japan, I can tell you that the other side is absolutely brutal as well. I love Japan, but you would be hard pressed to go more than 2 minutes without having somebody point out something that's wrong with you, or some social standard you're not living up to. It can be March 31st and 70 degrees outside, but if you're not wearing winter clothes and a jacket you'll have every single person you meet ask you "Aren't you cold!?. What's wrong with you?" THIS GUY ISN'T SOCIALLY NORMAL! And then it could be literally 40 degrees the next day, but now it's April and 98% of the country decides that it's time for spring clothes. "Aren't you hot!?!" Seems like a petty complaint, but anyone who's lived here knows what I mean haha. The drone mentality and toxic collectivism can turn every interaction into some kind of mini job interview, where the prize is that you aren't publicly ridiculed, shamed, or more often ignored. And again, I love Japan for a lot of different reasons, but the way people treat strangers here, at least in the big cities, is literally like they're looking through you. You often see people crying or hurt at train stations, and literally thousands of people just walking by them. "Just don't make eye contact. Don't make eye contact. They have no relation to me. If I don't make eye contact the problem goes away." There is a sense of community in Japan, but it tends to be rooted in this desire for everybody to live up to a social standard, and definitely not in sharing snacks or juice boxes like this guy said haha. Sometimes this can be a good thing. But I miss the genuinely kind people who take action in the US at times. It's rare, but almost unheard of here. Once you break through the shell, Japanese people are uncharacteristically kind. But I can't imagine a more lonely place to float through life without genuine connections than downtown Tokyo.
Hang in there man. I'm going through something similar. It's tough. Call a friend. Listen to music that makes you feel good. Go for a walk. Reconnect with people. Or just cry. I find sometimes even crying helps. Just let it out. Nothing wrong with crying.
I’ve been pretty depressed for the last few years, Within these years I’ve grown in a hierarchy in most things I’ve done… I’m school captain in my high school, people gossip wondering why the f I’m school captain, my friends, my teachers and others I’ve heard talking about it, im not responsible shit im the opposite, I’m either a complete shithead or the nicest person you know. People ticked me off in the past and I got aggressive especially at my friends. I was a dickhead and now im paying for it now(although I still am), idk why I act so different between different people and I find myself talking shit about myself, I bring myself down and kinda hate myself, I can’t really be too emotional, And I’ve been getting bad habits like eating too much and watching porn, I want to stop having these bad habits and stop acting happy cause I’m not, i am thinking of taking serotonin or something cause I can’t seem to get happier. No one likes me and I feel like a disappointment. Habits made from my parents in early childhood. I put myself down and end up affecting people around me. (This was a message I wanted to sent 5 years ago, I forgot it’s still in my drive. I’m 23 now, in a uni and found a therapist. We all go through something)
@SuperJumpReviews probably the last person I was expecting to see here. I still rewatch your old psvita reviews cuz they remind me of when I was somewhat OK.❤ you might not know it but you have been a big part of this stranger's life.
@@Gizmo90210Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Look at Job, he lost everything but gained God's loving arms in the end. Look at John the Baptist, amongst being beheaded he earned the Lord. We are in the last days.
@@jokerpilled2535 Denying the Lord doesn't hide the existence of the tomb of Jesus Christ, nor does not hide the cases of exorcism and evil spirits easily destroying non believers lives. Especially the power of the name of Jesus Christ. Lack of faith is what makes it easier for Satan to destroy a person's life with the addiction of sin. Without faith, evil spirits can also manipulate people to scorn and mock the Lord. He is alive at the right hand of Yahweh, God the father. Evil won't save you when you only murder in return. Bible: Mathew 26:52. Even the Jewish Pharisees denied their Messiah, up until this day the modern Jews still deny Jesus Christ as the promised son of God.
You are young. Work on what you can. School, work, hobbies, you. Make plans for your future. Build a tiny home. When you have time adopt a pet but understand they have accidents and are like kids. Learn a trade skill, plumbing, electrician, carpentry. You will be in demand with a trade skill. You are NOT ugly!!!!! Hold your chin up. You’re a winner!!!!!!! YOU ARE TOO MEANT TO BE HERE!!!!! You encourage me.
Dam...I resonated with this soo much especially the part where you spoke about having people's back and having the expectation that they'd do the same for you... but they wouldn't and that shit hurts to the core. Thank you for sharing this video and being vulnerable.
That girl that told you that you were ugly was really very ugly and horrific inside. You are more than enough, you're courageous, strong, smart and handsome. As a mom of 3 adult girls and 4 grandkids, I'm sending you a motherly hug. 🤗
@@Unique-nz3lwexactly! 💯💯💯 why can’t anyone be held accountable for being mean? Unfortunately women don’t hold the bad ones accountable or call them out enough i’ve noticed
girl who say those things have no idea of an impact on someones self esteem and confidence, this can make ppl suicidal and bitter, and invokes psycho tendencies in some people, its legit not a joke.
This breaks my heart to see someone else crying about this. I’ve had these kinds of problems to. And it’s so unfortunate and so sad because you can cry, plead, share your feelings to the same people who made you feel that way and they don’t care. It’s so sad. I feel for you I wish you best of luck you will see the light and the better future. You’re strong so strong for sharing your story.
I love you all. Everybody is going through something. I don’t see the thrill in life. I don’t see happiness in anything. I’m rooting for every single one of you and I seriously pray to God that you guys find the light at the end of the tunnel ❤
There's a quote I will always remember: "Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour. True friends are like stars, you don't always see them but they are always there.”
Yup that what happen to me, offered them another place called home and 12 years of friendship, and when I needed them the most,in my darkest loneliness, hurt and damaged moment, they weren't around.
I am so sorry to hear that. It took you that long to notice they weren't your real friends. But at least you now know and I hope that you don't ever go through that again. Life never fails to humble me and made me realize that I should be grateful because there are others who have went through far worse than me. I appreciate you sharing your story. Wish you the best in life.@@EsotericHashira
i heard an old guy say"the irony of life is that the ones that care can't help and the ones that can help don't care." you are on the right track, keep going bro..
that's very sad to hear, and I completely disagree. If you look you can find people with the power to help others that do just that. find those people, and become those people
Bro you went in on this, you spoke the truth from start to finish. God bless you brother! This western world is exhausting, i struggle everyday with it.
😢 i know what it feels like to feel left out and being a giver and not get the them in return. But believe me you are not ugly. I see a handsome men. People always complain. You can't let this get to you. Many people should look at themselves in the mirror. There are not happy themselves. I am from Germany and i wish i could hug you. I know it sounds hard, but let go of everything that doesn't make you happy and find yourself. And let everything to God ❤❤
I'm a black man, and with the exception of a college degree (didn't finish college), everything you said I *definitely* can relate to. The inconsiderate and selfish friends, being tired of having to solve problems after problems with no breaks or reprieves, the job market not hiring you, parents that put you down with demeaning words. *EVERYTHING!!* All we can do is keep our heads up, press forward, and hope for a brighter tomorrow. It gets better later! Never forget that! Edit: Also, I forgot to add in. Having a hard time getting women, and when you finally get one, she's a trifling cheater. I can relate on that, too!
I like to call them fair weather friends. They might be around when things are good, but any bumps in the road and they're gone. The type of friends that take advantage of generosity and only take but never give anything in return.
Yes atleast he shows his emotions I was hiding it and it made my anxiety worse and made me shaky we must pray to God almighty and ask for peace and love with each other
1st of all, YOU ARE NOT UGLY. Not only from the outside are you BEAUTIFUL but your heart is so pure. I have been in the same boat as you, where I give and give but didn't get anything in return. One thing my mom taught me was to guard my heart so no one takes advantage of the love I have to give. Friends is like money in your pocket, it comes and goes but is not about having a lot of friends but that one person who is there for you in every situation of your life. I will be rooting for you and even though this was 6 months ago, I truly wish that you find happiness. Just know that life is full of struggles, is how you come out in the end of the storm. Is okay to be tired nothing wrong with that. You got this!
Sir, loneliness is at an all time high. People don't know how to value each other for who we are. We value superficial things and alienate each other in the process.
Yep 100% anything that's different is outcast now. It's crazy ti think that if Einstein or somebody important I history was born now they would be bullied into reclusivness or something. This world takes brilliant people and pushes them down so much.
No, people have seen each other better for what they really are and instead of seeing themselves for what is their true self (for better or for worse) there's a dissonance from all sides for all kinds of reasons. Instead of realizing "hey I'm better than them", people who should do that think "I'm not good enough for anything". Instead of "hey I'm actually not that smart and I'm not worth that much" people who should think that blame others for their downfalls instead.
“I don’t feel built for this world.” I feel like that on a daily basis. My life has been no cake walk. It seems to only get harder as the years go on. You said exactly the things I’ve been feeling in this video. I’m 33 years old, and I don’t know how much longer I can do this for. Everyday is a constant struggle, and I feel like I can’t get the help I so desperately need.
@@TelaSmith-xf7qqwhat do you say to him? I have been slowly dying from Heroin for many years. Am going to die if I don't stop. I have tried praying. I dont know what to do.
The world is a savage place and it’s literally an uphill battle for many of us. I have had moments in my life where I lost everything and had to carry that burden of starting fresh from nothing. It really is quite a journey life is, and most of the time these days it’s just extremely difficult.
You speak so much truth brother. I am here to listen and enjoy your videos. I have prayed for you. No matter how terrible you feel about life or yourself, God sees you and loves you. All the best, Lewis
You can be very intelligent but feel like your plans will fail on arrival. It seems to be an self esteem issue that unfortunately bogs down these capable and good looking people
Think what other people think and you will always be their prisoners. Just enjoy life and do hardwork to better yourself. Nobody have time to judge you every time
Feeling like your not built for this world is how I feel. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people feel that way. Edit: already 4 days with 1k likes. Makes me smile and sad at how many people can relate with this type of feeling. At least we're not alone!
The Lord makes us a specific way for a reason. We're all put here for a reason by God. And it's our responsibility to seek out the Lord Jesus and get closer to him by praying and reading the Bible. Seek the Lord Jesus Christ while he can still be found! He's coming back soon!!! God bless you.✝️❤️🔥🙏
I feel it to main. I feel like a stranger in a strange land like a martian trapped among the humans of earth. There are many of us that feel this so don't worry.
@@genzay I will read the Bible. I haven't yet. I don't hate the Bible or religions but I do feel like I can be a good human without religion. That includes all religions and books/scriptures. I hope to read them all.
You're just a kind soul in a cruel world man, I was very similar to you! There's a positive side though! Find good friends and find good people! There are people out there that are like you man!
You are not ugly, you’re actually very handsome. I see the same view you do. Every day life beats me down further. Hope it gets better for you man.. unfortunately our world is screwed. It’s hard to look within for happiness when the environment you’re in is terrible for your mental health. 😢
Don't give up on life young man. There are LOTS of good, caring and giving people out here. Painful lessons. Do not waste time, money or effort on the ungrateful.
Amen Hammerhand. You’re a voice of reason that young men like this young man need. Definitely helped me when I was at my lowest, as well as other like minded men. Thank you for all you do. Keep the shield wall up 🛡️
I don’t think you realise how much of a blessing it is to have this mindset dude, majority of people are asleep, you’re experiencing pain cause you see through the façade of life. Breath take some time to yourself and channel your energy into something you love; a passion that allows you to escape the bullshit of the world for the time, a lot of people are in the same boat, but they’re scarcely scattered across the world
I am this way as well. Been like this since the disaster of 9/11 and learning the truth behind it. I am completely disillusioned with both of the North American governments. My passion is gaming and working out. Usually, I just get lost in it cause reality is turning into something I don't like, plus have tendonitis in my knees to my foot so I can't really run anymore or walk without being in pain. Can't get a job because of my condition. Getting surgery to repair it next month, gonna make due until then.
Well it's a scientific fact that people who are more intelligent experience more depression throughout their lives. It's a blessing and a curse at the same time.
islam sucks, and so do all other religions. all they do is tell you how to live your life the way it's described in those books. religion isn't made to free people, it's made to chain people. and if you can't see that you are just as much of a sheep as the rest. sure, there are good people and bad people. religious or otherwise. and i do believe in a higher power, but religion is made to enslave people. nothing else. @@RedaReda-vl9ff
Holy cow I wanted to give you a hug watching this. Felt this in my heart. Your story hits home for many, you'll be alright as long as you trust yourself ❤
As knowledge increase ,the more deceptions of this world comes clear and visible. We all have heard the story of “ADMA AND EVE”, but we know not that: ADAM = MANKIND, for it is a NAME, both males and females carry. Adam = not only male or males. Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Therefore, there is no Adam and Eve, there is only ADAM Truth is to seek`d out, to asked for, .... bible verse: Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: truth is not given in this world. but kept secret. And To who ever wants to become a youtuber or influencer: Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Luke 9:25 For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? Matthew 16:26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? Ecclesiastes 1:3 What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun? Be a influencer of truth, not of evil. Expose the masonry club /what they do and who`s in it), influence not to support it. Let you moto be not: do what thy wilt - a mason`s qoute. Have a moto of: GO AND SIN NO MORE
not to annoy but please know that we have all did evil (sin) and we are punished to death and since we do evil and reject God we will go to hell but God lovingly provides a way out through Christ where we can be saved if we trust in Gods work on the cross. Turn from your sins and tell your sins to God as Christ makes it possible for us to be forgiven (read John 3:16 please)
I'm 71. Dear, you are not ugly. You're a very handsome young man. You tell the truth as you experience it. People suck. That's true. My advice is to do what you enjoy. I promise you things will get better. Don't worry about what people say. You're a survivor, a champion 🏆. I wish you peace and aloha from Hawaii 🤙
I'm 18, I'm a girl, I've been called ugly by boys my entire life...my life has been rough for other reasons too, I have some friends who care, and my family...but I'm really confused in my life right now...
@@Daffodil-xw7nf I'm 19 years old guy, almost everyone ignores me and always underestimates me and I believe it is due to my look. People fking sucks.
You seem like a genuine, smart introspective and good guy. You are NOT ugly , you have value , and you impacted a lot of people with this video. you have a purpose, everyone does, and it WILL get easier. Rooting for you brother
I learnt that if a girl openly picks on you it usually means she's interested in you or curious. Seen it happen to others and myself. They don't complain when your on top of em and pass the 💩 tests.
He’s mad at sreggin they ate Al his snacks built up hate against the “people” that said no. This world just wants suck you try he’s saying. He need buys hooker. If he was getting his balls locked regularly by a girl he’d be acting like a boss not like This. He should slapped that girl That said that to him. He gotta he a savage and his life will Change.
Kids often are the most honest they’ll ever be in their entire lives. This is what Adults want to say to each other but are too scared to say due to the consequences in society. But yeah, most people are selfish, unfortunately.
I understand completely what you’re going through, I’ve been going through this depression daily for years now and at this point personally I don’t see life getting better at times but you shouldn’t lose that hope that maybe some day everything will get better and you’ll be happier, this society today Is so messed up and brainwashed it’s insane, it’s hard to find decent kind people these days, you’re not alone I’m with you 100% you had the courage to say what most of us are feeling inside and I have mad respect for you man, I hope you’ll be alright and life will be amazing for you, all the best for you 💙💪🏻🙏🏻
so sorry that you had to go through experiences like these i feel your heartbreak and understand the disappointment hope you’ll meet some great kind generous people who would appreciate your kindness and be good friends to you wish you luck and finding the girl that deserves you and will treat you right!
Dude, you’re not even ugly at all. Just because you’re different or one person says you’re ugly doesn’t mean you’re ugly. People are assholes in relationships, friendships, and coworkers. It takes error and trial to find genuine people. I have no friends and I’ve accepted that long time ago, I’m just 30. 😢 but I hear you homie. You’re speaking facts. Sh!t I’ll be you’re reference if you need one.
Exactly also add bigotry. If you’re not racist you’ll see he’s cute as hell or at least not ugly. Even though Asian men are more sought after these days you have racist b*tches who will never find Asian men attractive due to stereotypes. I don’t get it.@@arbitrarylib
Your tears sent me back forty years to my own. I was also often told (usually by pretty girls) that I was ugly. One girl at school sneered at me, "Why are you *weird* ?" and all I could say in reply was, "I don't know." In my case the answer, in my thirties, turned out to be Asperger's syndrome. But I married a lady a few years older than me, and we've been married 30 years now. I came out of school with low grades and didn't pursue higher education. At age 52, I finally achieved my life goal of publishing a BBC audiobook based on their TV series "Doctor Who". Hang on in there, friend. The good people are there---it's just a matter of sifting them out.
I love you all here ❤ I'm homeless, but I have my peace, in nature. Life is just phases and lessons. Don't think your past or present is set in Stone. Love is all that matters here. Anything that opposes your growth, mindset, leave behind! Don't be afraid to make decisions for yourself. Even if they're scary, You just haven't made it yet. Making these decisions you are more independent, and you will be thankful for you. Don't live your life around what others want from you, around bad environments, that dont want to be in alignment with truth to receive it. Become the best you and what you want here, you can achieve that with correct forward motion actions so you become aware of things before you wasn't. Always learn from eveything, you'll have limitless potential.
What a lovely soul! I am admiring at you being so good at liberating yourself by expressing your feelings out to the world. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. ❤
I understand the feeling. My father used to tell me "You can't control anything until it is your fault." It took awhile for me to realize how true that is.
@@user-kb4gk2qj2n basically a lot of shit will happen in life and that is just the way it is. The only thing you can do is to try not make it worse. I think?
@@user-kb4gk2qj2n To me, There will be many things that happens around you, where you have little or 0 controls over it like inflation, war, etc. But when these things go bad and it has negative consequences to you, you have to accept, self-motivate, bear the struggle and find a way to solve these problems even when you have 0 ideas how to do it. That makes a strong man.
Life throws random things your way but it is up to YOU to control your reaction to them. Eventually you become like Neo, able to dodge proverbial bullets with relative ease.
@@centipedekid9824 What?? No. It means the opposite. It means one deserves just as much love that they give to others if not more. It doesn't mean a person should make their attitude or the way they love themselves exactly like how they treat others.
@@moonnexus3523 The issue is you think you should be rewarded by other people for how you behave. Thats clearly the issue he has now he was brought up thinking like this when in reality you might not get anything back and you need to be ok with that. If you arent you'll wind up depending on other people's validation for your happiness and as we can see through him thats not working out well.
@@centipedekid9824 Nope. My message was that people deserve the same love they give to others. I never said anything about expecting it back nor that they are entitled to it. It simply means to love yourself just as much as you try to for others.
@@centipedekid9824 their message literally means you should value and love yourself just as much as others, idk how you got message that people should depend on others to make them feel better. It means literally the opposite of depending on others.
I'm in you're same situation. I've tried all the things that are suppose to help. None of them really did. The only thing that has helped is focusing on deep bonding with others. The book "no more mr nice guy" with mens support groups is the only thing that helped me.
Hey man, I’m sorry to hear you’re going thru a lot right now. Life is pretty hard to navigate after high school and university. Finding friends, even 1 good friend is difficult, I agree. Finding steady income is not easy either. If you can get connected to a community I think that really helps. Men’s group, small groups, meet ups. That’s what really helped me. Personally, finding a purpose in my faith as a Christian really got me moving along in a better direction. God bless you man, I will pray things get much better for you. You seem like a very genuine thoughtful young man.
Bro, you're good looking. I'm a dude, and I can say that. Trust it. And there are good people in this world that will care about you no matter what. Those people that told you those things are not your friends. Find better people. Seriously. Don't let other people change the goodness in you or have you doubting yourself. You are a light to this world, my friend. Keep shining bright.
He’s mad at sreggin they ate Al his snacks built up hate against the “people” that said no. This world just wants suck you try he’s saying. He need buys hooker. If he was getting his balls locked regularly by a girl he’d be acting like a boss not like This. He should slapped that girl That said that to him. He gotta he a savage and his life will Change.
As a 24 year old, I understand your struggle. And I’m sorry this is happening to people so young, going through depression and anxiety is not easy. Hoping everyone can find a way around this global problem. Take care y’all.
Western society has become so privileged that they became narcissists, that is why they are mindless zombies living their pointless lives @@archravenineteenseventeen
you are not alone brother . We share the same feeling even though we are from different countries except for parrent things . Thank u bro for your braveness to reveal this ,so that other people know about it.
It’s true I felt this … I been that person sucked dry … and leave me down broken used .. just having a genuine heart, life teaches you fast that there are people out here that know how to get what they want and leave
Real crime in life is that " just because you treat people the way you want to be treated doesn't mean they have to do the same" You're not alone in how you feel. You seem like a real genuine dude, a lot of people would be fortunate to have you as a friend!
@@austinsy8056 there is this saying if you are not kind to yourself then you won't be kind to others. And many believe kindness is a weakness. Many people forget you can have a balance be kind with boundaries- in other words = being assertive. Everyone seems to forget assertive and remember only aggressive or passive.
This got recommended to me and I felt compelled to watch it and I wanna say that you seem like a deep thinker, a good person and sensitive to the world around you, which is such a good thing! And you are NOT ugly. There are so many out there who feel and think the way you do. Stay true to yourself and never let negative people turn you bitter. That's what they want. Don't let them win. Life is so much more than just school, work, die. Forget all that bs and just live how you want. Life is way too short to be concerned with what society expects from you. Us introverts think too much. Take a break sometimes, take it easy, look after yourself, don't stress so much. And fuck living for everyone else. Live for yourself. You weren't born to live for them. It's not a bad thing to put YOUR happiness and sanity FIRST.
One guy said in a podcast, having a discussion with promiscuous women about roles in relationships, and he stood up and told to the women (live on radio), We are the romantic genders...!! You girls are just a bunch of SKANKS!!!! You girls are from the Devil!!!!
This has to be one of the most real videos I've watched in a long time. Something that's always helped me put into perspective why people come off across callous and selfish is "People are not against you, they're for themselves." I have realistic expectations of what to expect from other people.
Man... I sorry you are going through this. I am 43 now and I felt the same way you did back when in my late teens early 20's. It takes a long time to get were you want to be in life but we all experience this. You are not alone. I hope you are doing better and keep your head up.
Listening to your story, it's like we lived the same exact life. For the first 18 years of my life, by best friend was my cat. Everyone hated me in school. And my dad beat me every week. And when he wasn't beating me, he'd tell me how I ruined his life, that I'm useless, constantly that he'll kill me, and every time he looked at me, there was so much hatred on his face towards me. My mom told me "when you turn 18, you leave and never come back". Every night, I look up at the stars and wonder "when will this suffer end?". "This is my life?" "Why is this happening to me?". I had no esteem because I got beat at home and was alone in school. Teachers didn't like me. It was just so lonely. It's a pain so deep and endless, I thought no one could possibly ever feel this pain. I'm also chinese, the only one in my grade. There were chinese that were grades above me or grades below but not in my grade. In school, I was the quiet kid that sat there hoping so desperately that someone would come talk to me and be my friend. That never happened. And without being in any friend group, everyone else used me as the punching bag or at worst, I see on their face the expression of disgust whenever they saw me. One guy even blatantly says my face is "flat and ugly", "that I smell bad". There was field trips where the teacher passed out sheets to write down who students would like to be with and who not to be with. And out of my peripheral vision, I could see my name on their paper for "who not to be with". Imagine the loneliness. I'm feeling the "sinking tingles" of loneliness as I'm writing this out. And like you, I cared about everyone and I cared so much. This was 12 - 20 years ago now. I'm 30yrs old now. But college happened, and it changed my life. I got my first best friend in 1st year of college: Kevin, and 12 years later, we're still best friends. And then as I lived more, more and more best friends came into my life. And then 12 years years later, I realized I have multiple best friends. That I no longer need to define what a best friend means. I would die for any of them. In middle school, I got beat up by these guys. And the others say I would never be good enough for a girlfriend. And unfortunately, the constant bombarding trauma of that era still affects me as a 30 year old today. I've never had a GF. And it's my fault. It's not like a girl hasn't liked me, but the moment I start liking them too, a switch flips within my "soul" and such an ancient overwhelming self loathing activates and I end up backing out immediately before the relationship even begins. I'm still trying to overcome this. My subconscious still thinks I'm unworthy. I went to medical school partially to propitiate the piece of my soul which bears that weakness. And years and years off feeling useless, I built an interior that resists all the weariness of this world. I can turn emotions on and off. I've mastered self control. Right now, I'm a 30 year old in medical school. I had a dream as a lonely beaten child in middle school. Looking up at the night sky, and the infinite potential of the universe, I realized....if I just lived long enough, I could outlive all my bullies. I could outlast all my problems. I could eventually one day find peace. And so I decided I wanted to cure aging and extend my lifespan to out live all problems and that some solution would appear someday if I just lived long enough. Those long nights of wondering about the future.....time flows slowly for a middle and high schooler. And the suffering and loneliness felt infinite. It took the thought of infinite lifespan to allow me to overcome that. Now as a 30 year, I have already spent over 20 years of my life trying to research and extend lifespan. 7 years in biotech. And I'm almost done with medical school. I will be a doctor. And I will research aging and take care of patients. And along the way on this journey I've invented for myself, I've made the bestest of friends who I see as family and I would die for. I'm finally no longer lonely even though many of us are now countries apart, it almost feels like the world is my friend now. So my advice from a fellow lonely and hopeless child, is to create a singular purpose for yourself based on the motivating aspects of loneliness. As einstein said to paraphrase, "be a loner, that gives you time to wonder and search for the truth". An then live that purpose. Follow strength of your conviction of your purpose which sprouted from loneliness and you'll make irreplaceable friends along the way.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps. Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps. Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps. Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
Find out What the "Immortal jellyfish" does. Something is keeping the cells mitochondria cleared of waste so it can continue to produce electron energy for the ATP to transfer the electrons to the nucleus to maintain the DNA chains Electromagnetic bonds that hold the base pairs together without loosing the telomerase caps off the end. When a cell divides, it looses a cap every time. that's because the over all voltage or amperage drops and the chain can not hold on to that many caps anymore. Eventually, when enough caps are lost, the cell stops dividing and dies.
I feel you man, growing up in narcissistic family and then trying to find love and not be reciprocated is devastating especially when the same people you are selfless with are selfish in your time of need. Trying to find some truth in a fake world.
Though we are total strangers, It was heartbreaking to hear this from you. You deserve so much more, and you deserve happiness. I hope you will get there someday and soon. Good things eventually happen to good people.
Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. Because everyone who asks receives; and he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened
Hey young blood, hope you're doing well. Your bravery speaks volume w/ your truth. You're reaching the world w/ your relatability. You got it in you to be something big. I can tell. Much props. Stay up. God bless.
This hits so hard.. The feeling when you stop being "Beneficial" and you end up as like the "Backup friend".. this is me, been more or less friendless for 1year as when I started struggle and having a hard time mentally, everyone suddently got "Busy" and never had time and so on. Hope your doing better now, and thanks for sharing :)
This advice is not always true. If you are a nice decent person and you live in the US or Canada, you are going to have to move overseas. As an Asian dude I would try out Singapore or Thailand.
No, it doesn't get better.. I'm 41, and I'm just simply accepting that life is stupid and pointless. Lowering expectations doesn't and shouldn't equal happiness!!
A lot of the stuff you said resonated with me. I'm 23 & have had my family completely cut off for a few years now. When you grow up poor & don't have the luxury of decent supportive parents, it puts you at such a disadvantage in life. I moved 1-2 times a year EVERY year once my parents divorced (around age 7 or 8) when I was a little kid, so I never even had the option of making friends. Whatever friends I made, I'd have to leave them behind when I moved. I was bullied so much growing up for a variety of reasons. My anxiety and depression came at such an early age and took over my life due to not being able to have a stable home or friends. I was blamed for my grades plummeting, even though the curriculum in each school I went to was completely different. My mother never helped me with homework, and I was blamed for all of what I went through. My father was an abusive alcoholic that I didn't see often. The only people that showed me any level of warmth or kindness were hundreds of miles away online. For years, the internet became my sanctuary and life. I escaped in videogames and online people. I was groomed by sickos online as a kid, because I was so easy to take advantage of due to the lack of support & love in my life. My intentions were always to just find friendship & love. My family & the school bullies also attacked my appearance. I have been called ugly, and 2 of my older sisters have attacked very specific features of my face. I hate myself and I hate how I look. I do my best to blend in with makeup, but I know deep down I will never match up to the beauty standards society has set. I always felt alienated growing up. I failed academically. I was shit at sports due to my size & scoliosis. I was blamed for not being able to physically do things everyone else could do, before AND after my scoliosis diagnosis. When you come into the world with a big heart & have to go through so much hate and trauma early on, it fucks with your head so much and sticks with you. You ask what you did to deserve any of this. You lose faith that the world is worth living in. I always felt misplaced, like I was some malfunctioning person put on the wrong planet. I've grown to learn that there are others who feel the exact same way... there are so many good hearts beaten and bloodied by the world's cruelty, and it makes me cry just thinking about it. I just hope that you can find the very few people out there that genuinely care. The ones that don't want you for anything you might be able to give them. I found my people at the worst points in my life when they had no reason to stay with me other than unconditional love. Even when I tried to push everyone away, they never gave up on me. Finding those true gems in the world will reignite your big heart. There are people out there that deserve your love, and I truly hope you find them and never let them go. As sad as it is that my only source of love and comfort has been through a screen all these years, I am lucky to have found that comfort at all. For men, I feel even more sadness for, because men simply need more people to care about them as a whole. I watch videos of Dr. K and Dr. Aditi Nerurkar about the epidemic of what men have to go through in today's society, and it breaks my heart listening. While I hope society eventually makes steps to change this, I know it starts with each individual, which is why I'll never let a man in my life feel he has to bottle things up or constantly be strong. I'll never let ANYONE in my life feel that way. I hope others will do the same. I love my men, women, and everyone else. Sorry if this was all over the place. I know walls of texts can be cringey, I just wanted to comment letting you know that you have a right to be upset by all this, and never to let anyone tell you otherwise. Sometimes privileged people don't realize that not all of us have a bright side to look at. But I sincerely hope you find better people to surround yourself with. You deserve it. Sending much love. 💝
My guy is spitting facts for this generation, absolutely spot on, mental health, declining economy, loneliness, everything is bang spot on the bullseye. Now we all just drift through life and just don't even know where they stand in society. Now we just play *great asset* to relief the pain.
@@TheFracturedfuture no the actual solution isnt that 'sex' or 'women' are the problem. That makesw up 10% of life. Loving friends can make you feel appreciated as a person too. Stop blaming women for all your issues. Its always the sexless ones saying stuff like this
25yr old guy here, yeah the 'no-one gives a shit' lesson is one of the hardest to learn and accept. What I've learned is, only give to those who are interested in giving back. If you give or share a part of yourself or things with people through principle it's a one-way ticket to get exploited. Best of luck to you bro, you'll get there eventually
You seem like a great person man, keep your head up, yes the older you get the more you realize that generosity unselfishness and overall indifference is prevailent. Be strong man, and not everyone is like that.
A man once told me "life's a bitch, then you die". I learned this and lived better after that acceptance. Life didn't get better, but I lived better. Life can get better but it doesn't happen for everybody.
@@bradhienzacharyyes, many men say that females are nothing but trouble. For a long time I didn’t wanna believe that because it sounded too harsh… but I’ve learned that it’s the TRUTH
Absolutely, you just have to keep pushing forward, keep going and try your best. You are doing a lot better than some others. Keep your chin up. And YOU are NOT ugly. You have a gentle sweet face. Some people like to hurt others to feel superior because they themselves need something to feel better about themselves. Don’t you believe what they say. You are educated, articulate, have a generous heart and a handsome face. And that’s just scratching the surface. I’m sure you have a lot more depth I’m not aware of because well.. this is the first video I’ve seen of yours. Think on the bright side. And don’t let anyone tarnish that sweet heart of yours. You are a kind, generous person. Someone will be fortunate enough to appreciate it one day. Lots of love to you.
This 38 year old man is thankful for your video. I have been feeling this way brother. It’s a cruel system we live in. And it’s really hard not to compare ourselves to others. I’m going to stay away from advice and just tell you that I listened intensely to the whole video and felt EVERY SINGLE THING you said. I felt that connection and it made me feel better and less alone. It’s brave to pour your heart out like that to the world and I’m glad I came across your video, even if it is such a hard and sad thing to hear. I have battled depression for a very long time, and for the past 10-15 years it has mostly been held back, but lately it is starting to worm its way back in. It can get better. It does t mean that the feelings go away or that anything gets easier, but you can learn to make peace with the shit in the world and do your own thing to be a ray of light, even if your influence isn’t very big. You touched my heart and my best wishes for you. I wanted to reach through the screen and give you a big hug, I could use one right now myself.
Hey bro, we’re in this together. With a little effort, good things and good people will come eventually. As corny as it may sound, Just remember that God does love us, and through Jesus Christ we have something to look forward to! Maybe I’ll meet some if you guys in eternity 😃
I’m 25 and I came to the realization that life is a struggle. What really matters is friends and family. 80% of your life will be mundane and boring that’s ok. Even for billionaires it’s the same. But that 20% where you laugh dance and enjoy conversations is worth while. Find joy in suffering, put yourself through challenges and you’ll see yourself grow and the world around you become easier to navigate
Brother, you have immense power and you just have to tap into it and you can do, have and be what you want. God doesn't live In the sky; it lives In you right now.
Somehow YT recommended me your video and I decided to click on it cause my life been a bit on a road block recently. I could relate to some of what you've been through and I'm 34. I just want to say I appreciate your video and the last bit about life is hard but we gotta keep pushing. I've had thought about leaving this world early a few times because I was suffering through a skin condition that I knew no one else could ever feel and was just so defeated by the pain. I'm glad I'm still here and I glad you are too. Just keep pushing my friend, everything will be alright.
Great message ❤ keep your head high king! Life is tough, but there is also a lot of beauty! Cherish every moment and I promise that good things are coming your way 💪👑
Hang in there mate. I'm 60. Yes life sucks, but trust me the good things in life will come...you just have to work at it. Please don't give up. Take care because I do for you.
@@High2GetBythat's not the point. The okay boomer meme points out that boomers are fucking clueless and entitled, and had everything handed to to them on a silver platter. Their advice, experience and worldviews don't match up with current reality, yet they keep sticking their nose in and waffling nonsense like 'just be happy, get a job and pay for a house and get married. Don'tbe lazy! Kids these days!' when they can only draw from fairytale memories of how delusionally easy life was for them.
People that go through this clearly have a higher calling, listen to your self, this things had to happen for you to be this deep and eloquent. You have a gift
You learnt a very hard lesson but realize, you LEARNT it! I am proud of you for seeing this and I hope you do not become jaded. I was bullied because of the color of my skin. I use to be called dirty because my skin was tanned in grade school. By the end of Grade school, they wanted to be like me and Tan in the sun for my color. It really messed me up because i already hated them for the way they treated me. So i did not trust them to be friends. I learnt to block people out of my mind. Not to listen to their words and opinions. You are learning here. You are learning to cope, empathize with others in your situation. You are evolving. This is to create who you will be. I learnt to bite my tongue when i wanted to say something. But also say something when you think its right. Its all for the good. You will see. You will be older and be able to tell people why you are the way you are, and what you have learnt.
Brother, you are not ugly by any means. You appear to be in decent physical shape and seem to have a down to earth personality which is far more important. I felt like you were describing my life growing up with everything you mentioned. From wanting to seem "normal" to being nice to everyone only to have those phonies ignore me when I reached out to them. You are definitely not alone in feeling out of place in this sick world we live in. I was in your shoes for awhile where I was going to college for a degree I wasn't even interested in, just doing it because teachers pressured me to go to college after high school. I ended up getting my CDL as soon as I got my degree and I can say it's one of the best decisions I made. Easy money, and work doesn't even feel like work a lot of the time. I don't know what my life would look like if I entered the corporate rat race, but I am thankful to have found my passion at such a young age. I don't know if you're a religious guy or not but I found God for the first time in my life when I was 20 and that turned things around in my social life for the better. The people I met at my school's Christian group were just what you were wanting in relationships- down to earth, non judgemental, and care about who you are as a person, not what physical looks or possessions you have. Even if you don't have any friends in real life, your posting of these videos is making a positive change in other peoples' lives, and you have the support from people on the internet.
he's not ugly but what is meant by ugly here is probably because he's asian in a western country. Probably in an area where there's not many or any asians but idk.
He’s definitely not ugly. He looks like he could be in a Kpop band but idk if that’s a compliment any self respecting Asian guy would really want. Disregard that. He’s attractive and idk why he struggles with girls. Ive been told I am attractive but I still struggle.
You made some incredible points that ive been saying for the last 20 years . Sry to say things havent changed much . I wish i could say ive found a way to overcome to same issues. Yet even tho this is the struggle we men deal with . Its also up to us to change it . I definitely feel ya pain brother, dont give up man . The world needs good people like yourself
Lots of love to you brother. I feel a lot of what you feel. Sometimes it helps to get out of the world sometimes and see life outside of society. It hurts when you are so protective of yourself and think you finally meet someone you can trust and they betray you. It sends you back in your shell. Away from danger. Sometimes I find love in nature. Sometimes just talking to someone on the bus I've seen for years but never spoke to. It's the moments that matter. The past and future will be what it will be. The moment is what you have control over now. And sometimes that's enough to get through the day. Thank you for video. I hope where ever you are you have a good day.
I borderline want to show this to my therapist because of how well you’ve articulated how I’ve felt, and what I’ve experienced, for a long time. In a sense, it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who feels this way. Thank you.
I’m 26 years old and this video is so relatable, this generation shouldn’t have to go through such extreme quarter life crisis.. we’re loneliest then ever! societal expectations and brutal rejection when you try your hardest to change your financial situation and life has really taken a toll on me.. this world will chew you up and spit you out with no mercy it’s insane
@@matthewwhite1728We didn't build anything, this is all the selfish AF boomers' fault. Most selfish, entitled, lazy generation EVER. Since cavemen to now, the boomers are by far the worst generation ever. They f'ed us all. They worked easy careers and took vacations while they knowingly watched the financial institutions destroy society and they didn't just do nothing they enabled it with their own greed and laziness. Blame it on the 60 and 70 year olds selfishly riding around in their boats and Mercedes convertibles while their grandchildren face a nightmare they created.
Me too, even things that logically should have worked out… just been snatched away by algorithms and society and lack of much needed support. No hope, completely bleak
Dude you're just too nice. I had to learn that lesson the hard way too. I studied med for over a decade, I thought everyone would be proud of me, no matter how much I sacrificed, I felt like it would eventually be worthwhile. But ultimately, I learned what I needed to learn, and realized nobody gave a shit if I made it or not. It wasn't even about me, I did it for everyone else, but when I finally accepted the fact nobody cared, I just said to hell with it. There are givers and takers. Unfortunately, the system we have elected punishes philanthropy and rewards selfishness. That's why good people like you get screwed over. It won't always be this way, one day good people will get what they deserve, but unfortunately that's not the world we live in yet. And finally, I'll leave you with this ,I think you're a very beautiful, sweet and intelligent person. Even though I don't know you I count you as a friend, and think the world would be a better place with more people like you in it.
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As a 41 year old truck driver who spends months at a time alone, I learned a long time ago that you can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. Don’t let the things around you pull you down. Keep that joy inside of you and learn to exist in your own bubble. Remember when you are alone no one can hurt you. If you are an introvert, embrace it. Don’t let society or social media dictate to you how you should live your life or what happiness and fulfillment is. Live by your own standards and no one else’s. Then and only then will you start to experience the happiness that comes with true freedom. Stay positive and take it day to day my friend and I remember even when you feel alone, your not alone because their are A TON of people just like you.
Almost every truck driver Ive met are so nice, wise, and badass.
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Great comment. I think a lot of left out kids and young boys go through this growing up. You have to stop letting the world, social media and any one other thing people say than yourself that you are a worthy human being, your style is dope and cool and everything else about what others may think or you think they think of you.
This is something I learned from a long time ago. I was a “nice guy” my whole life because they say to treat others how you want to be treated. But then over time, I learned that most people are only in it for themselves and will take advantage of you for their benefit. I didn’t become less “nice”, but I stopped taking shit from people and letting people take advantage of me. When you learn to do that, people will naturally respect you more and know better than to step all over you. This is the advice I would give to young men like you who are struggling with this. Assert yourself or you will be used.
Bro, it's not about asserting yourself. It's just about being a good human being. The reason nobody likes nice guys is because they always do something for other people just to get something back from them down the line. If you're ACTUALLY a nice guy nobody would have a problem with you. And trust me I have seen both. There are nice people who manipulate other people for their own gain and then when things don't turn out as they expected they get angry and frustrated. And I have also seen benevolent people. The people who would give you a dollar even if they only had two dollars. They stand up for the ones being picked on even if they can't even protect themselves. Those type of nice people are never alone because people want to support his cause. You'll get angry with me. You might even rage. But I am speaking the truth
Being nice doesn't get others to care about you sadly, it just gets them to take advantage of you. For people to care about you you need to first meet the right people, people who want genuine connections and have empathy, and second you need to build a close bond with those people. Having mutual interests or a shared outlook on life can help bring people together, but like I said it's not that easy. Some people just don't have it in them to truly care about others even if they act like they do, and it can be really challenging to find people who are more than just talk.
Same lesson learned here. And it's not about being less nice, like you said. It's almost enabling to reward people who take advantage of us. So it's actually not nice to them to continue to give when they don't appreciate it or give in return. Not that we should always expect something in return. They will just continue to use us, because it gets comfortable for them. I think also just being solid with yourself, where you know that it doesn't matter what other people do, if you're happy with what you're doing, that's all that matters. Not to be so dependent on how others treat us or look at us. It's a tough one. Takes time to truly live it, even if we know it's the better way to live.
Reading this tonight, very relatable. Earlier today I've had an argument with my drunk ass partner, who always try to take his shit on me. I've tried to calm he down the whole time, and he just kept on screaming a lot of crap. So today was my turn to scream at him and I'm so fucking glad I did.
Jesus gave His Life for His enemies, and God glorified Him. He saved us because He Loved us, and gave us the strength to love our enemies. God is Good, and is Able ❤ call upon the Name of Jesus and you will be saved.
With this wave of sadness, depression and suicide... the new definition of "success" is simply staying alive, with people taking themselves out left and right.
God loves you and he wants a relationship with you he wants to give you peace even in hard times and his love that surpasses all understanding he cares about you and wants to free you from sin and he wants to save you if you would let him and accept his Son the Lord Jesus Christ who died on the cross for us
Eternal life is getting to know the one true God and whom he sent the Lord Jesus Christ who died on the cross and shed his blood for us so that we can have Eternal life , he can free you from those thoughts
@@haisay8674 i'm christian too but dude, not everyone wants to join a religion
If you off yourself, you didn’t deserve life. Your soft. You need to battle!!
@@daguy7575 you know its usually an issue of chemical imbalances in the brain right? Though a trigger is usually present, something bad doesn't even have to happen, you might just wake up one day and find that you really want to take your own life. Many people have had their lives changed completely by someone who later took their own life, to say that they never deserved life, that they never deserved to touch other lives, is completely disgusting.
Continue making house music, I think that you're really going to do great things there :)
@@YegoKroeten look I didn’t mean to be so hard on the guy, I just don’t like it when people seem like they’ve lost their fight… I have had my own battles with poor mental health, and I would like to see people come out on top on the other end of things! Thank you for your kind words, I will continue making music as it is my passion. Take care 🤟
Consider it a blessing that you're coming to terms with this at a young age. I was you at age 23, crying in my car over this crushing realization. Accepting it and moving forward will make you a stronger man. Life will get better.
Remember to pay yourself first, and extend your generosity only to those who deserve it (this will be exceptionally few people). Have no shame in putting yourself first in all aspects of life, because this cold world only cares about what it can take from you.
Life never got better for me
Damn, that's cynical. While I don't think you are wrong It may be prudent to be a bit more optimistic. "He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss also gazes into you." -Nietzsche
Live keeps getting worse for me I'm tired of trying to please people that are two faced and narcissistic assholes I'm autistic and suffered with borderline personality disorder and have horrible mood swings and rage outburststhat got me in legal trouble do yeah no I hate life and I hate humanity my ex physically and mentally abused me for being different then a average person should be....not my fault I was born with genetic defects....I hate myself and hate society I'm done trying
How are you now?
Womp womp
"I'm tired of figuring shit out" felt that man. How many problems can people tell me to overcome before it just kills me?
People look for problems. They never look for solutions.
@@monk4ever enlighten him with your wisdom then, or you just gonna leave negative comments? what's the difference between your complaints and the people your on about? not very monklike bro
I was super beautiful girl with a degree by 23 and couldn't find a job in my field and never really did cause I didn't have the years of experience.
@@ladybird491then gain those years! You’re still young, how about waiting a little longer and try again ❤️
There's so many things which need improving in your life there's always something to be stressed about your basically chasing a point were you can just be happy and appreciate how far you've come so you have time to think and perform better but the gap to reach that point never wants to close and then you feel like you've run out of time and your a failure.
I hear you kid; I am almost 60 with a life dedicated to being a good and generous person; always giving and trying to help. Now here I am with cancer and nobody to bring me a cup of tea. But I have strength and I am still working. So, keep your head up and try to put yourself first.
I really hope you get better goodluck be strong brother
Hang in there man. I'm rooting for you! Wish I could not only bring you a cup of tea.. but share one with you.
Keep being strong and nice. You will definitely be rewarded
First off, DO NOT GET CHEMO, it destroys your immune system at that will seal your fate. Find alternative medicine that will do Vitamin C intravenous infusions, then you'll want to get Ivermectin 9mg dosages, take that on off 2 or 3 days on, and 2-3 days off or every other day, have that doctor develop a plan for you. Eliminate processed sugar, start juicing every single day using a masticating juicer at, least 24 ounces using only organic beets 3 of them, 1 cucumber, 1 apple, 1 lemon, 1 lb of carrots, 1 cup of spinach and 2 sticks of celery. Stay away from additives in food, such as maltodextrin, high fructose corn syrup, monosodium glutamate, fake sugars especially and preservatives and processed foods. If you drink city water then stop, get a Berkey water filter system for all of your water. Try and grow your own vegetables as well, to help with costs and stay away from synthetic fertilizers and soils with those fertilizers, only OMRI certified.
Cruciferious vegetables
garlic - boosts the immune system
berries blackberries highest in antioxidant Indian Goodberry highest antioxidant food in existant
mushrooms - Lions mane, mitake, reishi, turkey tail, shiitake. - loaded with vitamin D and boost the immune system
turmeric and black pepper- This is important
Eggs are your best friend, make sure there's no antibiotics and organic as well free range.
1 crushed garlic clove
ginger 1/4 teaspoon
1 lemon juiced
honey 1 teaspoon
1/2 teaspoon of cayenne pepper - This will be rough and require a chaser of water
There's also Rick Simpson Oil which has had amazing results for people with glioblastoma and other extremely aggressive cancers. You can look more into that if that options seems like something you'd be interested in. I personally would use everything in my arsenal to survive. You follow all of this and you'll survive. But you cannot cheat, you have to be serious about this and it will be insanely difficult, but you will get used to it.
Stay strong 🙏🏽
this realization comes in for many first generation kids/children of immigrants. we’re taught to prioritize others but in america /canada it’s best to build yourself first
As somebody who moved to Japan, I can tell you that the other side is absolutely brutal as well. I love Japan, but you would be hard pressed to go more than 2 minutes without having somebody point out something that's wrong with you, or some social standard you're not living up to. It can be March 31st and 70 degrees outside, but if you're not wearing winter clothes and a jacket you'll have every single person you meet ask you "Aren't you cold!?. What's wrong with you?" THIS GUY ISN'T SOCIALLY NORMAL! And then it could be literally 40 degrees the next day, but now it's April and 98% of the country decides that it's time for spring clothes. "Aren't you hot!?!"
Seems like a petty complaint, but anyone who's lived here knows what I mean haha. The drone mentality and toxic collectivism can turn every interaction into some kind of mini job interview, where the prize is that you aren't publicly ridiculed, shamed, or more often ignored.
And again, I love Japan for a lot of different reasons, but the way people treat strangers here, at least in the big cities, is literally like they're looking through you. You often see people crying or hurt at train stations, and literally thousands of people just walking by them. "Just don't make eye contact. Don't make eye contact. They have no relation to me. If I don't make eye contact the problem goes away." There is a sense of community in Japan, but it tends to be rooted in this desire for everybody to live up to a social standard, and definitely not in sharing snacks or juice boxes like this guy said haha. Sometimes this can be a good thing. But I miss the genuinely kind people who take action in the US at times. It's rare, but almost unheard of here. Once you break through the shell, Japanese people are uncharacteristically kind. But I can't imagine a more lonely place to float through life without genuine connections than downtown Tokyo.
@@Evan_Stark What do you like most about Japan? I like the way they have boundaries. For example, the Japanese only eateries. I admire that.
Lol
We build ourselves by building up others, at least that's how it should be
Hang in there man. I'm going through something similar. It's tough. Call a friend. Listen to music that makes you feel good. Go for a walk. Reconnect with people. Or just cry. I find sometimes even crying helps. Just let it out. Nothing wrong with crying.
You are OK.
I’ve been pretty depressed for the last few years, Within these years I’ve grown in a hierarchy in most things I’ve done… I’m school captain in my high school, people gossip wondering why the f I’m school captain, my friends, my teachers and others I’ve heard talking about it, im not responsible shit im the opposite, I’m either a complete shithead or the nicest person you know. People ticked me off in the past and I got aggressive especially at my friends. I was a dickhead and now im paying for it now(although I still am), idk why I act so different between different people and I find myself talking shit about myself, I bring myself down and kinda hate myself, I can’t really be too emotional, And I’ve been getting bad habits like eating too much and watching porn, I want to stop having these bad habits and stop acting happy cause I’m not, i am thinking of taking serotonin or something cause I can’t seem to get happier. No one likes me and I feel like a disappointment. Habits made from my parents in early childhood. I put myself down and end up affecting people around me.
(This was a message I wanted to sent 5 years ago, I forgot it’s still in my drive. I’m 23 now, in a uni and found a therapist. We all go through something)
What happened if you did all of those and it’s still not enough? Then what?
@@YoungNah32 If did all that and it's still not enough then give it time. Time heals everything.
@SuperJumpReviews probably the last person I was expecting to see here. I still rewatch your old psvita reviews cuz they remind me of when I was somewhat OK.❤ you might not know it but you have been a big part of this stranger's life.
It’s always the most gentle, kind souls who get taken advantage of and taken for granted.
Heaven awaits them
@@Gizmo90210Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Look at Job, he lost everything but gained God's loving arms in the end. Look at John the Baptist, amongst being beheaded he earned the Lord. We are in the last days.
@@Gizmo90210doesn’t exist
That’s why you gotta be evil to survive
@@jokerpilled2535 Denying the Lord doesn't hide the existence of the tomb of Jesus Christ, nor does not hide the cases of exorcism and evil spirits easily destroying non believers lives. Especially the power of the name of Jesus Christ. Lack of faith is what makes it easier for Satan to destroy a person's life with the addiction of sin. Without faith, evil spirits can also manipulate people to scorn and mock the Lord. He is alive at the right hand of Yahweh, God the father. Evil won't save you when you only murder in return. Bible: Mathew 26:52. Even the Jewish Pharisees denied their Messiah, up until this day the modern Jews still deny Jesus Christ as the promised son of God.
When a handsome young Asian with a degree is struggling in life, you KNOW our society is *FUCKED*
fr
this comment 😢
So true
its over for ricecels BR00TAL
Because being financially stable and successful in a career means jack shit about social life and relationships
You are young.
Work on what you can.
School, work, hobbies, you.
Make plans for your future.
Build a tiny home.
When you have time adopt a pet but understand they have accidents and are like kids.
Learn a trade skill, plumbing, electrician, carpentry.
You will be in demand with a trade skill.
You are NOT ugly!!!!!
Hold your chin up.
You’re a winner!!!!!!!
YOU ARE TOO MEANT TO BE HERE!!!!!
You encourage me.
Dam...I resonated with this soo much especially the part where you spoke about having people's back and having the expectation that they'd do the same for you... but they wouldn't and that shit hurts to the core. Thank you for sharing this video and being vulnerable.
Bro you are literally not ugly. I can promise you that.
Dude is handsome, I hope he does solo travel at least once every 6 months. 2 weeks at a different country.
he is very handsome!! @@makotonarukami7468
fr dude i am not trying to hype up
but bro is definately not ugly really i mean it
Hes not ugly honestly
@@eliaslopez-tb2hi he's way too short - wemon
That girl that told you that you were ugly was really very ugly and horrific inside. You are more than enough, you're courageous, strong, smart and handsome. As a mom of 3 adult girls and 4 grandkids, I'm sending you a motherly hug. 🤗
Lots of girls made fun of me and call me ugly in my face. But yet girls are not cancel for saying horrible things to guys.
Most women these days are mid but they all want Chad and insult everyone not Chad. It's ridiculous!!
@@Unique-nz3lwexactly! 💯💯💯 why can’t anyone be held accountable for being mean? Unfortunately women don’t hold the bad ones accountable or call them out enough i’ve noticed
Right ❤
girl who say those things have no idea of an impact on someones self esteem and confidence, this can make ppl suicidal and bitter, and invokes psycho tendencies in some people, its legit not a joke.
This breaks my heart to see someone else crying about this. I’ve had these kinds of problems to. And it’s so unfortunate and so sad because you can cry, plead, share your feelings to the same people who made you feel that way and they don’t care. It’s so sad. I feel for you I wish you best of luck you will see the light and the better future. You’re strong so strong for sharing your story.
I love you all. Everybody is going through something. I don’t see the thrill in life. I don’t see happiness in anything. I’m rooting for every single one of you and I seriously pray to God that you guys find the light at the end of the tunnel ❤
I believe that everyone is traumatized to a certain degree, some people just hide it really well.
There's a quote I will always remember:
"Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour. True friends are like stars, you don't always see them but they are always there.”
It could also be "True friends are like stars because they shine during your darkest hour" or something like that but yea that's a good quote
Fuq that’s true
Yup that what happen to me, offered them another place called home and 12 years of friendship, and when I needed them the most,in my darkest loneliness, hurt and damaged moment, they weren't around.
I am so sorry to hear that. It took you that long to notice they weren't your real friends. But at least you now know and I hope that you don't ever go through that again.
Life never fails to humble me and made me realize that I should be grateful because there are others who have went through far worse than me. I appreciate you sharing your story. Wish you the best in life.@@EsotericHashira
I’m stilling this
i heard an old guy say"the irony of life is that the ones that care can't help and the ones that can help don't care." you are on the right track, keep going bro..
Old guys are $imps, ignore them.
@@monk4ever look, old people can be stupid, but they have wisdom
Definitely true in my life.
@@monk4ever don't generalize, that's dumb as hell. with age comes wisdom.
that's very sad to hear, and I completely disagree. If you look you can find people with the power to help others that do just that. find those people, and become those people
Bro you went in on this, you spoke the truth from start to finish. God bless you brother! This western world is exhausting, i struggle everyday with it.
😢 i know what it feels like to feel left out and being a giver and not get the them in return. But believe me you are not ugly. I see a handsome men. People always complain. You can't let this get to you. Many people should look at themselves in the mirror. There are not happy themselves.
I am from Germany and i wish i could hug you.
I know it sounds hard, but let go of everything that doesn't make you happy and find yourself. And let everything to God ❤❤
I'm a black man, and with the exception of a college degree (didn't finish college), everything you said I *definitely* can relate to. The inconsiderate and selfish friends, being tired of having to solve problems after problems with no breaks or reprieves, the job market not hiring you, parents that put you down with demeaning words. *EVERYTHING!!*
All we can do is keep our heads up, press forward, and hope for a brighter tomorrow. It gets better later! Never forget that!
Edit: Also, I forgot to add in. Having a hard time getting women, and when you finally get one, she's a trifling cheater. I can relate on that, too!
"It gets better later" I doubt it, my friend. As Savvy Guy said very truly, "If you were wrong before... Things only get worse with age."
Same gang im black 2 shi aint easy at all
Yeah bro its men in general dont nobody give af about us at the end of the day
No matter what race... if you "don't fit" somehow, you are the one they pick on.
I like to call them fair weather friends. They might be around when things are good, but any bumps in the road and they're gone. The type of friends that take advantage of generosity and only take but never give anything in return.
A lot of young men are feeling like this. We’ll get through this man, I love you.
you know what's crazy? all these pain that these young men are going through, are all done by men their age. so what is going on here?
@@Dave_of_Mordorwhat?
@@pjc7729 he was screwed by people in his age range. these young men are the ones causing loneliness and depressing. i'm saying they are the problem
Yes it’s sad but I wish guys would talk like him. And say anything and everything on their minds
Yes atleast he shows his emotions I was hiding it and it made my anxiety worse and made me shaky we must pray to God almighty and ask for peace and love with each other
I feel the same as you. you're not alone, I cherish you for being so vulnerable. Thank you for your strength.
1st of all, YOU ARE NOT UGLY. Not only from the outside are you BEAUTIFUL but your heart is so pure. I have been in the same boat as you, where I give and give but didn't get anything in return. One thing my mom taught me was to guard my heart so no one takes advantage of the love I have to give. Friends is like money in your pocket, it comes and goes but is not about having a lot of friends but that one person who is there for you in every situation of your life. I will be rooting for you and even though this was 6 months ago, I truly wish that you find happiness. Just know that life is full of struggles, is how you come out in the end of the storm. Is okay to be tired nothing wrong with that. You got this!
Sir, loneliness is at an all time high. People don't know how to value each other for who we are. We value superficial things and alienate each other in the process.
being alone is the best f this stupid Nasty world
Jesus loves you trust 🙏😔
Yep 100% anything that's different is outcast now. It's crazy ti think that if Einstein or somebody important I history was born now they would be bullied into reclusivness or something. This world takes brilliant people and pushes them down so much.
@@fulol ikr
No, people have seen each other better for what they really are and instead of seeing themselves for what is their true self (for better or for worse) there's a dissonance from all sides for all kinds of reasons. Instead of realizing "hey I'm better than them", people who should do that think "I'm not good enough for anything". Instead of "hey I'm actually not that smart and I'm not worth that much" people who should think that blame others for their downfalls instead.
“I don’t feel built for this world.” I feel like that on a daily basis. My life has been no cake walk. It seems to only get harder as the years go on. You said exactly the things I’ve been feeling in this video. I’m 33 years old, and I don’t know how much longer I can do this for. Everyday is a constant struggle, and I feel like I can’t get the help I so desperately need.
Please reach out to God !! He will fill your heart like only He can. We were created for Him and will always feel empty without Him🙏
Same
It's getting harder and harder
And I'm just a walking corpse
Same here. I've felt like an alien on this planet since childhood.
@@TelaSmith-xf7qqwhat do you say to him? I have been slowly dying from Heroin for many years. Am going to die if I don't stop. I have tried praying. I dont know what to do.
@@TelaSmith-xf7qqAMEN. Praise The Lord ! Jesus is the way.
The world is a savage place and it’s literally an uphill battle for many of us. I have had moments in my life where I lost everything and had to carry that burden of starting fresh from nothing. It really is quite a journey life is, and most of the time these days it’s just extremely difficult.
You speak so much truth brother. I am here to listen and enjoy your videos. I have prayed for you.
No matter how terrible you feel about life or yourself, God sees you and loves you.
All the best,
Lewis
It’s always the most beautiful people who perceive themselves as ugly. 😓
Exactly. Kev is not ugly at all. The girl that called him ugly is the ugly one.
You can be very intelligent but feel like your plans will fail on arrival. It seems to be an self esteem issue that unfortunately bogs down these capable and good looking people
Nah everybody can feel ugly, you just notice it more when pretty people say it because you don't expect it
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Think what other people think and you will always be their prisoners. Just enjoy life and do hardwork to better yourself. Nobody have time to judge you every time
Feeling like your not built for this world is how I feel. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people feel that way.
Edit: already 4 days with 1k likes. Makes me smile and sad at how many people can relate with this type of feeling. At least we're not alone!
The Lord makes us a specific way for a reason. We're all put here for a reason by God. And it's our responsibility to seek out the Lord Jesus and get closer to him by praying and reading the Bible. Seek the Lord Jesus Christ while he can still be found! He's coming back soon!!! God bless you.✝️❤️🔥🙏
I feel it to main. I feel like a stranger in a strange land like a martian trapped among the humans of earth. There are many of us that feel this so don't worry.
Yep... probably cause we're all so different but also we're all human so we have that in common
Wdym? I'm curious on how and y u r feeling this way?
@@genzay I will read the Bible. I haven't yet. I don't hate the Bible or religions but I do feel like I can be a good human without religion. That includes all religions and books/scriptures. I hope to read them all.
You're just a kind soul in a cruel world man, I was very similar to you! There's a positive side though! Find good friends and find good people! There are people out there that are like you man!
You are not ugly, you’re actually very handsome. I see the same view you do. Every day life beats me down further. Hope it gets better for you man.. unfortunately our world is screwed. It’s hard to look within for happiness when the environment you’re in is terrible for your mental health. 😢
Don't give up on life young man. There are LOTS of good, caring and giving people out here. Painful lessons. Do not waste time, money or effort on the ungrateful.
Amen Hammerhand. You’re a voice of reason that young men like this young man need. Definitely helped me when I was at my lowest, as well as other like minded men. Thank you for all you do. Keep the shield wall up 🛡️
great to see you here.
General o7
Amen Brother Hammerhand 🎅🏻🛠️! 💯🗡️🛡️✝️😎
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I don’t think you realise how much of a blessing it is to have this mindset dude, majority of people are asleep, you’re experiencing pain cause you see through the façade of life. Breath take some time to yourself and channel your energy into something you love; a passion that allows you to escape the bullshit of the world for the time, a lot of people are in the same boat, but they’re scarcely scattered across the world
I am this way as well. Been like this since the disaster of 9/11 and learning the truth behind it. I am completely disillusioned with both of the North American governments.
My passion is gaming and working out. Usually, I just get lost in it cause reality is turning into something I don't like, plus have tendonitis in my knees to my foot so I can't really run anymore or walk without being in pain. Can't get a job because of my condition. Getting surgery to repair it next month, gonna make due until then.
Well it's a scientific fact that people who are more intelligent experience more depression throughout their lives. It's a blessing and a curse at the same time.
@@MeatSim64i invite you to islam my friend,islam is wonderfull,i wish you a wonderfull journey,have a nice day my friend
@@trophyscene5015in islam,we believe this life is temporary,we believe the hereafter is the real life,i wish you a really nice day
islam sucks, and so do all other religions. all they do is tell you how to live your life the way it's described in those books.
religion isn't made to free people, it's made to chain people.
and if you can't see that you are just as much of a sheep as the rest.
sure, there are good people and bad people. religious or otherwise.
and i do believe in a higher power, but religion is made to enslave people. nothing else.
@@RedaReda-vl9ff
Holy cow I wanted to give you a hug watching this. Felt this in my heart. Your story hits home for many, you'll be alright as long as you trust yourself ❤
You are a wonderful, beautiful person. And you're not alone in feeling this way. You speak for so many people. ❤️ Hope you find your happiness
"Once I solve a problem here comes another problem" Felt that 💯
As knowledge increase ,the more deceptions of this world comes clear and visible.
We all have heard the story of “ADMA AND EVE”, but we know not that:
ADAM = MANKIND, for it is a NAME, both males and females carry. Adam = not only male or males. Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Therefore, there is no Adam and Eve, there is only ADAM
Truth is to seek`d out, to asked for, ....
bible verse:
Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
truth is not given in this world. but kept secret.
And To who ever wants to become a youtuber or influencer:
Mark 8:36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
Luke 9:25 For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? Matthew 16:26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
Ecclesiastes 1:3 What profit hath a man of all his labour which he taketh under the sun?
Be a influencer of truth, not of evil. Expose the masonry club /what they do and who`s in it), influence not to support it.
Let you moto be not: do what thy wilt - a mason`s qoute.
Have a moto of: GO AND SIN NO MORE
not to annoy but please know that we have all did evil (sin) and we are punished to death and since we do evil and reject God we will go to hell but God lovingly provides a way out through Christ where we can be saved if we trust in Gods work on the cross. Turn from your sins and tell your sins to God as Christ makes it possible for us to be forgiven (read John 3:16 please)
@@thesterrave Jesus was never there
@@RandomBitterManhe's always here
@@RandomBitterMan and yes he did get crucified
I'm 71. Dear, you are not ugly. You're a very handsome young man. You tell the truth as you experience it. People suck. That's true. My advice is to do what you enjoy. I promise you things will get better. Don't worry about what people say. You're a survivor, a champion 🏆. I wish you peace and aloha from Hawaii 🤙
I'm 18, I'm a girl, I've been called ugly by boys my entire life...my life has been rough for other reasons too, I have some friends who care, and my family...but I'm really confused in my life right now...
@@Daffodil-xw7nf
I'm 19 years old guy, almost everyone ignores me and always underestimates me and I believe it is due to my look. People fking sucks.
you can wish him food by sending him money on his instagram
instead of empty promish
@@frog6054 i have quite a few people who love me, but I understand what you are going through, when I was a kid, things were worse.
I hope you’re doing good man. Want nothing but the best for you, and for everyone who can relate to this.
I have to listen to this every time I felt down. Thank you for this.
You seem like a genuine, smart introspective and good guy. You are NOT ugly , you have value , and you impacted a lot of people with this video. you have a purpose, everyone does, and it WILL get easier. Rooting for you brother
true, I don't see how he is ugly. He is a normal young man. Many would want that look. As a bald man, I would deffinitely want his hair :))))
I learnt that if a girl openly picks on you it usually means she's interested in you or curious.
Seen it happen to others and myself.
They don't complain when your on top of em and pass the 💩 tests.
He’s mad at sreggin they ate Al his snacks built up hate against the “people” that said no. This world just wants suck you try he’s saying. He need buys hooker. If he was getting his balls locked regularly by a girl he’d be acting like a boss not like
This. He should slapped that girl
That said that to him. He gotta he a savage and his life will
Change.
@@publiclanddeerhunter stop fucking coping dude girls will openly make fun of a guy because he's ugly not because she's interested in you
Handsome
Kids often are the most honest they’ll ever be in their entire lives. This is what Adults want to say to each other but are too scared to say due to the consequences in society. But yeah, most people are selfish, unfortunately.
* most honest
** adults
Work on your grammar buddy, you made 3 errors.
@@jacksonlewis6694 nobody really cares but you bro
@@Deadpool.... didn't ask for your opinion buddy
Everyone is selfish
Including yourself
I understand completely what you’re going through, I’ve been going through this depression daily for years now and at this point personally I don’t see life getting better at times but you shouldn’t lose that hope that maybe some day everything will get better and you’ll be happier, this society today Is so messed up and brainwashed it’s insane, it’s hard to find decent kind people these days, you’re not alone I’m with you 100% you had the courage to say what most of us are feeling inside and I have mad respect for you man, I hope you’ll be alright and life will be amazing for you, all the best for you 💙💪🏻🙏🏻
so sorry that you had to go through experiences like these
i feel your heartbreak and understand the disappointment
hope you’ll meet some great kind generous people who would appreciate your kindness and be good friends to you
wish you luck and finding the girl that deserves you and will treat you right!
Dude, you’re not even ugly at all. Just because you’re different or one person says you’re ugly doesn’t mean you’re ugly. People are assholes in relationships, friendships, and coworkers. It takes error and trial to find genuine people. I have no friends and I’ve accepted that long time ago, I’m just 30. 😢 but I hear you homie. You’re speaking facts. Sh!t I’ll be you’re reference if you need one.
Woman being physically unable to confront anyone with the truth part 1258.
He's not ugly. You're not a woman so you can't see.
peoples are just so bad nowadays
hate for asian man is too real
Exactly also add bigotry. If you’re not racist you’ll see he’s cute as hell or at least not ugly. Even though Asian men are more sought after these days you have racist b*tches who will never find Asian men attractive due to stereotypes. I don’t get it.@@arbitrarylib
Your tears sent me back forty years to my own. I was also often told (usually by pretty girls) that I was ugly. One girl at school sneered at me, "Why are you *weird* ?" and all I could say in reply was, "I don't know." In my case the answer, in my thirties, turned out to be Asperger's syndrome. But I married a lady a few years older than me, and we've been married 30 years now. I came out of school with low grades and didn't pursue higher education. At age 52, I finally achieved my life goal of publishing a BBC audiobook based on their TV series "Doctor Who". Hang on in there, friend. The good people are there---it's just a matter of sifting them out.
Whats the Name of the audiobook might Listen to it
And some woman wonder why Incels exist. Don't worry bro we all have struggles. Glad to here your in a better spot now.
@@starsofaheartattack6286You aren't entitled to women. No man is. Be great so women find you great. Looks aren't everything.
@@DiamondsRexpensive I was responding to what he was saying about his younger years with girls.
I love you all here ❤
I'm homeless, but I have my peace, in nature. Life is just phases and lessons. Don't think your past or present is set in Stone.
Love is all that matters here. Anything that opposes your growth, mindset, leave behind! Don't be afraid to make decisions for yourself. Even if they're scary, You just haven't made it yet. Making these decisions you are more independent, and you will be thankful for you.
Don't live your life around what others want from you, around bad environments, that dont want to be in alignment with truth to receive it. Become the best you and what you want here, you can achieve that with correct forward motion actions so you become aware of things before you wasn't. Always learn from eveything, you'll have limitless potential.
You have spoken from the heart. That's a powerful truth to live. Dont lose it!
What a lovely soul! I am admiring at you being so good at liberating yourself by expressing your feelings out to the world. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. ❤
I understand the feeling. My father used to tell me "You can't control anything until it is your fault." It took awhile for me to realize how true that is.
I'm not a native English speaker. Can someone explain this a little further?
@@user-kb4gk2qj2nPower comes from responsibility.
@@user-kb4gk2qj2n basically a lot of shit will happen in life and that is just the way it is. The only thing you can do is to try not make it worse. I think?
@@user-kb4gk2qj2n To me, There will be many things that happens around you, where you have little or 0 controls over it like inflation, war, etc. But when these things go bad and it has negative consequences to you, you have to accept, self-motivate, bear the struggle and find a way to solve these problems even when you have 0 ideas how to do it. That makes a strong man.
Life throws random things your way but it is up to YOU to control your reaction to them. Eventually you become like Neo, able to dodge proverbial bullets with relative ease.
The best life lesson I can give you, my friend is that you deserve the same love you give to others.
Not really much of a lesson. That's completely dependent on another person to make him feel better.
@@centipedekid9824 What?? No. It means the opposite. It means one deserves just as much love that they give to others if not more. It doesn't mean a person should make their attitude or the way they love themselves exactly like how they treat others.
@@moonnexus3523 The issue is you think you should be rewarded by other people for how you behave. Thats clearly the issue he has now he was brought up thinking like this when in reality you might not get anything back and you need to be ok with that. If you arent you'll wind up depending on other people's validation for your happiness and as we can see through him thats not working out well.
@@centipedekid9824 Nope. My message was that people deserve the same love they give to others. I never said anything about expecting it back nor that they are entitled to it. It simply means to love yourself just as much as you try to for others.
@@centipedekid9824 their message literally means you should value and love yourself just as much as others, idk how you got message that people should depend on others to make them feel better. It means literally the opposite of depending on others.
I'm in you're same situation. I've tried all the things that are suppose to help. None of them really did. The only thing that has helped is focusing on deep bonding with others. The book "no more mr nice guy" with mens support groups is the only thing that helped me.
Hey man, I’m sorry to hear you’re going thru a lot right now. Life is pretty hard to navigate after high school and university. Finding friends, even 1 good friend is difficult, I agree. Finding steady income is not easy either.
If you can get connected to a community I think that really helps. Men’s group, small groups, meet ups. That’s what really helped me. Personally, finding a purpose in my faith as a Christian really got me moving along in a better direction. God bless you man, I will pray things get much better for you. You seem like a very genuine thoughtful young man.
Bro, you're good looking. I'm a dude, and I can say that. Trust it. And there are good people in this world that will care about you no matter what. Those people that told you those things are not your friends. Find better people. Seriously. Don't let other people change the goodness in you or have you doubting yourself. You are a light to this world, my friend. Keep shining bright.
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He’s mad at sreggin they ate Al his snacks built up hate against the “people” that said no. This world just wants suck you try he’s saying. He need buys hooker. If he was getting his balls locked regularly by a girl he’d be acting like a boss not like
This. He should slapped that girl
That said that to him. He gotta he a savage and his life will
Change.
@@AliasMaxx....
As a 24 year old, I understand your struggle. And I’m sorry this is happening to people so young, going through depression and anxiety is not easy. Hoping everyone can find a way around this global problem. Take care y’all.
Hell yeah....
instead of seeking love, wy not just minding our own business. problem solve
Western society has become so privileged that they became narcissists, that is why they are mindless zombies living their pointless lives @@archravenineteenseventeen
@@archravenineteenseventeen savage lmao
@@archravenineteenseventeenThat's my solution at this point
you are not alone brother . We share the same feeling even though we are from different countries except for parrent things . Thank u bro for your braveness to reveal this ,so that other people know about it.
It’s true I felt this … I been that person sucked dry … and leave me down broken used .. just having a genuine heart, life teaches you fast that there are people out here that know how to get what they want and leave
Real crime in life is that " just because you treat people the way you want to be treated doesn't mean they have to do the same"
You're not alone in how you feel. You seem like a real genuine dude, a lot of people would be fortunate to have you as a friend!
Why don’t people try to be polite back when you try to be nice? I never understood why people are that way. Why can’t they reciprocate?
@@austinsy8056 there is this saying if you are not kind to yourself then you won't be kind to others. And many believe kindness is a weakness. Many people forget you can have a balance be kind with boundaries- in other words = being assertive. Everyone seems to forget assertive and remember only aggressive or passive.
This got recommended to me and I felt compelled to watch it and I wanna say that you seem like a deep thinker, a good person and sensitive to the world around you, which is such a good thing! And you are NOT ugly. There are so many out there who feel and think the way you do. Stay true to yourself and never let negative people turn you bitter. That's what they want. Don't let them win. Life is so much more than just school, work, die. Forget all that bs and just live how you want. Life is way too short to be concerned with what society expects from you. Us introverts think too much. Take a break sometimes, take it easy, look after yourself, don't stress so much. And fuck living for everyone else. Live for yourself. You weren't born to live for them. It's not a bad thing to put YOUR happiness and sanity FIRST.
One guy said in a podcast, having a discussion with promiscuous women about roles in relationships, and he stood up and told to the women (live on radio),
We are the romantic genders...!!
You girls are just a bunch of SKANKS!!!! You girls are from the Devil!!!!
Same. So relatable...
nah yeah bro deadass has really good facial features. He needs a new cut and his confidence would turn around
Jesus loves you
He's none of those things. He's a spoiled child with an expensive jacket and a more expensive car. Stop indulging this narcissism.
You deserve the world brother....I am also feeling self doubt these days and completely relate to you...Hang in there...We will make it❤
This has to be one of the most real videos I've watched in a long time. Something that's always helped me put into perspective why people come off across callous and selfish is "People are not against you, they're for themselves." I have realistic expectations of what to expect from other people.
Brother you’re not ugly. You have a great heart. Keep going bro
You kept it 💯 bro i needed to hear this. Im glad im not the only one who feels like this life is pointless.
Man... I sorry you are going through this. I am 43 now and I felt the same way you did back when in my late teens early 20's. It takes a long time to get were you want to be in life but we all experience this. You are not alone. I hope you are doing better and keep your head up.
Listening to your story, it's like we lived the same exact life. For the first 18 years of my life, by best friend was my cat. Everyone hated me in school. And my dad beat me every week. And when he wasn't beating me, he'd tell me how I ruined his life, that I'm useless, constantly that he'll kill me, and every time he looked at me, there was so much hatred on his face towards me. My mom told me "when you turn 18, you leave and never come back". Every night, I look up at the stars and wonder "when will this suffer end?". "This is my life?" "Why is this happening to me?". I had no esteem because I got beat at home and was alone in school. Teachers didn't like me. It was just so lonely. It's a pain so deep and endless, I thought no one could possibly ever feel this pain. I'm also chinese, the only one in my grade. There were chinese that were grades above me or grades below but not in my grade. In school, I was the quiet kid that sat there hoping so desperately that someone would come talk to me and be my friend. That never happened. And without being in any friend group, everyone else used me as the punching bag or at worst, I see on their face the expression of disgust whenever they saw me. One guy even blatantly says my face is "flat and ugly", "that I smell bad". There was field trips where the teacher passed out sheets to write down who students would like to be with and who not to be with. And out of my peripheral vision, I could see my name on their paper for "who not to be with". Imagine the loneliness. I'm feeling the "sinking tingles" of loneliness as I'm writing this out. And like you, I cared about everyone and I cared so much. This was 12 - 20 years ago now. I'm 30yrs old now.
But college happened, and it changed my life. I got my first best friend in 1st year of college: Kevin, and 12 years later, we're still best friends. And then as I lived more, more and more best friends came into my life. And then 12 years years later, I realized I have multiple best friends. That I no longer need to define what a best friend means. I would die for any of them.
In middle school, I got beat up by these guys. And the others say I would never be good enough for a girlfriend. And unfortunately, the constant bombarding trauma of that era still affects me as a 30 year old today. I've never had a GF. And it's my fault. It's not like a girl hasn't liked me, but the moment I start liking them too, a switch flips within my "soul" and such an ancient overwhelming self loathing activates and I end up backing out immediately before the relationship even begins. I'm still trying to overcome this. My subconscious still thinks I'm unworthy. I went to medical school partially to propitiate the piece of my soul which bears that weakness.
And years and years off feeling useless, I built an interior that resists all the weariness of this world. I can turn emotions on and off. I've mastered self control.
Right now, I'm a 30 year old in medical school. I had a dream as a lonely beaten child in middle school. Looking up at the night sky, and the infinite potential of the universe, I realized....if I just lived long enough, I could outlive all my bullies. I could outlast all my problems. I could eventually one day find peace. And so I decided I wanted to cure aging and extend my lifespan to out live all problems and that some solution would appear someday if I just lived long enough. Those long nights of wondering about the future.....time flows slowly for a middle and high schooler. And the suffering and loneliness felt infinite. It took the thought of infinite lifespan to allow me to overcome that.
Now as a 30 year, I have already spent over 20 years of my life trying to research and extend lifespan. 7 years in biotech. And I'm almost done with medical school. I will be a doctor. And I will research aging and take care of patients. And along the way on this journey I've invented for myself, I've made the bestest of friends who I see as family and I would die for. I'm finally no longer lonely even though many of us are now countries apart, it almost feels like the world is my friend now.
So my advice from a fellow lonely and hopeless child, is to create a singular purpose for yourself based on the motivating aspects of loneliness. As einstein said to paraphrase, "be a loner, that gives you time to wonder and search for the truth". An then live that purpose. Follow strength of your conviction of your purpose which sprouted from loneliness and you'll make irreplaceable friends along the way.
hey community, i really want kev to see my story. can anyone send this to him. i think it'll help.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps.
Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps.
Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
Wow, amazing! I also believe it’s possible to cure aging. I believe it takes a pure spirituality. But also physical health which can follow good spiritual health. And like you said, medical research also helps.
Thanks for sharing! Really amazing story. You’re very resilient. Kevin in this video is also.
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I feel you man, growing up in narcissistic family and then trying to find love and not be reciprocated is devastating especially when the same people you are selfless with are selfish in your time of need. Trying to find some truth in a fake world.
Our society (mostly western countries and Europe) are narcs 101
true but you’ll eventually find people who love you for who you are
I agree - I feel you ....
Very well said, I connect heavily
Yeah, I still struggle with receiving
Though we are total strangers, It was heartbreaking to hear this from you. You deserve so much more, and you deserve happiness. I hope you will get there someday and soon.
Good things eventually happen to good people.
This was the first thing that popped up for me this morning and it’s exactly how I’ve been feeling. You’re not alone. Society today sucks
Cold world we live in.
thats true, maybe the only way to survive in this cold world is just being cold too
real, kind of crazy to think that this selfish/entitled behavior is more normalized in this generation
@@pinkylemonn I don't think so..
this is mostly in USA.
Matthew 7:7-8 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.
Because everyone who asks receives; and he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, it will be opened
Hey young blood, hope you're doing well. Your bravery speaks volume w/ your truth. You're reaching the world w/ your relatability. You got it in you to be something big. I can tell. Much props. Stay up. God bless.
This hits so hard.. The feeling when you stop being "Beneficial" and you end up as like the "Backup friend".. this is me, been more or less friendless for 1year as when I started struggle and having a hard time mentally, everyone suddently got "Busy" and never had time and so on. Hope your doing better now, and thanks for sharing :)
As a 21 year old man, I relate to this mindset bro. Don't give up we in this together 💪🏽
As a 30 year old, it's only gets worse, trust me!
@@hedwigugla8836i invite you to islam,in islam,we believe this life is just a test,a temporary station
I can tell! Im up for the challenge though!@@hedwigugla8836
@hedwigugla8836 yooooo I'm 30 and I can confirm
I guess I'm the youngest here haha@@sussybaka5322
I'm nearly half a century old, and I remember that life sucked until I was... probably 40. Life gets WAY better. Give it time.
This advice is not always true. If you are a nice decent person and you live in the US or Canada, you are going to have to move overseas. As an Asian dude I would try out Singapore or Thailand.
No, it doesn't get better.. I'm 41, and I'm just simply accepting that life is stupid and pointless. Lowering expectations doesn't and shouldn't equal happiness!!
@@Tom-cp6yj I didn't say anything about lowering expectations.
You are wrong 😡 life never gets better it just keep getting fu cked up more and more
@@Jia-dp9cu my life is better. I don't know what to suggest for others.
A lot of the stuff you said resonated with me. I'm 23 & have had my family completely cut off for a few years now.
When you grow up poor & don't have the luxury of decent supportive parents, it puts you at such a disadvantage in life. I moved 1-2 times a year EVERY year once my parents divorced (around age 7 or 8) when I was a little kid, so I never even had the option of making friends. Whatever friends I made, I'd have to leave them behind when I moved. I was bullied so much growing up for a variety of reasons. My anxiety and depression came at such an early age and took over my life due to not being able to have a stable home or friends. I was blamed for my grades plummeting, even though the curriculum in each school I went to was completely different. My mother never helped me with homework, and I was blamed for all of what I went through. My father was an abusive alcoholic that I didn't see often.
The only people that showed me any level of warmth or kindness were hundreds of miles away online. For years, the internet became my sanctuary and life. I escaped in videogames and online people. I was groomed by sickos online as a kid, because I was so easy to take advantage of due to the lack of support & love in my life. My intentions were always to just find friendship & love.
My family & the school bullies also attacked my appearance. I have been called ugly, and 2 of my older sisters have attacked very specific features of my face. I hate myself and I hate how I look. I do my best to blend in with makeup, but I know deep down I will never match up to the beauty standards society has set.
I always felt alienated growing up. I failed academically. I was shit at sports due to my size & scoliosis. I was blamed for not being able to physically do things everyone else could do, before AND after my scoliosis diagnosis. When you come into the world with a big heart & have to go through so much hate and trauma early on, it fucks with your head so much and sticks with you. You ask what you did to deserve any of this. You lose faith that the world is worth living in. I always felt misplaced, like I was some malfunctioning person put on the wrong planet. I've grown to learn that there are others who feel the exact same way... there are so many good hearts beaten and bloodied by the world's cruelty, and it makes me cry just thinking about it.
I just hope that you can find the very few people out there that genuinely care. The ones that don't want you for anything you might be able to give them. I found my people at the worst points in my life when they had no reason to stay with me other than unconditional love. Even when I tried to push everyone away, they never gave up on me. Finding those true gems in the world will reignite your big heart. There are people out there that deserve your love, and I truly hope you find them and never let them go. As sad as it is that my only source of love and comfort has been through a screen all these years, I am lucky to have found that comfort at all.
For men, I feel even more sadness for, because men simply need more people to care about them as a whole. I watch videos of Dr. K and Dr. Aditi Nerurkar about the epidemic of what men have to go through in today's society, and it breaks my heart listening. While I hope society eventually makes steps to change this, I know it starts with each individual, which is why I'll never let a man in my life feel he has to bottle things up or constantly be strong. I'll never let ANYONE in my life feel that way. I hope others will do the same. I love my men, women, and everyone else.
Sorry if this was all over the place. I know walls of texts can be cringey, I just wanted to comment letting you know that you have a right to be upset by all this, and never to let anyone tell you otherwise. Sometimes privileged people don't realize that not all of us have a bright side to look at. But I sincerely hope you find better people to surround yourself with. You deserve it.
Sending much love. 💝
You're right! That's life. We have to be strong and tough to survive.
My guy is spitting facts for this generation, absolutely spot on, mental health, declining economy, loneliness, everything is bang spot on the bullseye.
Now we all just drift through life and just don't even know where they stand in society.
Now we just play *great asset* to relief the pain.
Avoid the poon. Problem solved.
@@monk4everhow does that solve any of those problems
@@monk4everNah just use it to your advantage.
@@TheFracturedfuture no the actual solution isnt that 'sex' or 'women' are the problem. That makesw up 10% of life. Loving friends can make you feel appreciated as a person too. Stop blaming women for all your issues. Its always the sexless ones saying stuff like this
@@theceechnobody here is blaming women 💀
25yr old guy here, yeah the 'no-one gives a shit' lesson is one of the hardest to learn and accept. What I've learned is, only give to those who are interested in giving back. If you give or share a part of yourself or things with people through principle it's a one-way ticket to get exploited. Best of luck to you bro, you'll get there eventually
You seem like a great person man, keep your head up, yes the older you get the more you realize that generosity unselfishness and overall indifference is prevailent. Be strong man, and not everyone is like that.
I admire your true honesty and transparency on your feelings! Not everybody is like you! Ill be praying for you!
You aren't average, bro. You're a good-looking guy and well spoken. Keep your head up and pray to our lord for guidance.
All these are irrelevant without the money 💵!!! That’s how this system is . Unfortunately..
@pickywolf2728 say what you want, but our pockets were full with the last administration.
@@stevecoronado8608 I repeat : Money dictates how people perceive u. U might be good looking but it’s irrelevant without money 💰. Anything else, sir?
@@pickywolf2728 are you currently employed? If so, do you like your job?
He needs to fix his hair that’s all.
A man once told me "life's a bitch, then you die". I learned this and lived better after that acceptance. Life didn't get better, but I lived better. Life can get better but it doesn't happen for everybody.
I was told “life’s a bitch and then you marry one”
@@bradhienzacharyyes, many men say that females are nothing but trouble. For a long time I didn’t wanna believe that because it sounded too harsh… but I’ve learned that it’s the TRUTH
I remember hearing that as a marine in the military. LMAO
@@jollygood666 ok, Verve 😉 lol
sometimes life’s a bitch and you keep living.
Absolutely, you just have to keep pushing forward, keep going and try your best. You are doing a lot better than some others. Keep your chin up. And YOU are NOT ugly. You have a gentle sweet face. Some people like to hurt others to feel superior because they themselves need something to feel better about themselves. Don’t you believe what they say. You are educated, articulate, have a generous heart and a handsome face. And that’s just scratching the surface. I’m sure you have a lot more depth I’m not aware of because well.. this is the first video I’ve seen of yours. Think on the bright side. And don’t let anyone tarnish that sweet heart of yours. You are a kind, generous person. Someone will be fortunate enough to appreciate it one day. Lots of love to you.
There are caring people in this world, they are just rare.
This 38 year old man is thankful for your video. I have been feeling this way brother. It’s a cruel system we live in. And it’s really hard not to compare ourselves to others. I’m going to stay away from advice and just tell you that I listened intensely to the whole video and felt EVERY SINGLE THING you said. I felt that connection and it made me feel better and less alone. It’s brave to pour your heart out like that to the world and I’m glad I came across your video, even if it is such a hard and sad thing to hear. I have battled depression for a very long time, and for the past 10-15 years it has mostly been held back, but lately it is starting to worm its way back in. It can get better. It does t mean that the feelings go away or that anything gets easier, but you can learn to make peace with the shit in the world and do your own thing to be a ray of light, even if your influence isn’t very big. You touched my heart and my best wishes for you. I wanted to reach through the screen and give you a big hug, I could use one right now myself.
Hey bro, we’re in this together.
With a little effort, good things and good people will come eventually.
As corny as it may sound, Just remember that God does love us, and through Jesus Christ we have something to look forward to!
Maybe I’ll meet some if you guys in eternity 😃
Best of wishes big dawg, you’ll know what’s it like to be happy again, I promise.
Maybe Jesus could Help brother
lol
I’m 25 and I came to the realization that life is a struggle. What really matters is friends and family. 80% of your life will be mundane and boring that’s ok. Even for billionaires it’s the same. But that 20% where you laugh dance and enjoy conversations is worth while. Find joy in suffering, put yourself through challenges and you’ll see yourself grow and the world around you become easier to navigate
I am 60 and I agree with your wise comment. Blessings to you. 25 is such a special age. You seem to be on the right path. God bless you.
Great advice thanks !
Family is a big part of my stress 😩I love them but they’re draining
Brother, you have immense power and you just have to tap into it and you can do, have and be what you want. God doesn't live In the sky; it lives In you right now.
Did you vote for potato head? Well did you??!!!
Somehow YT recommended me your video and I decided to click on it cause my life been a bit on a road block recently. I could relate to some of what you've been through and I'm 34. I just want to say I appreciate your video and the last bit about life is hard but we gotta keep pushing. I've had thought about leaving this world early a few times because I was suffering through a skin condition that I knew no one else could ever feel and was just so defeated by the pain. I'm glad I'm still here and I glad you are too. Just keep pushing my friend, everything will be alright.
Great message ❤ keep your head high king! Life is tough, but there is also a lot of beauty! Cherish every moment and I promise that good things are coming your way 💪👑
Hang in there mate. I'm 60. Yes life sucks, but trust me the good things in life will come...you just have to work at it.
Please don't give up. Take care because I do for you.
ok boomer
@@Crimson34533you thought that was funny? You do know you will be old someday.
@@High2GetBythat's not the point. The okay boomer meme points out that boomers are fucking clueless and entitled, and had everything handed to to them on a silver platter. Their advice, experience and worldviews don't match up with current reality, yet they keep sticking their nose in and waffling nonsense like 'just be happy, get a job and pay for a house and get married. Don'tbe lazy! Kids these days!' when they can only draw from fairytale memories of how delusionally easy life was for them.
@@Crimson34533 Don't let those Tide pods get you before you turn 60 kiddo.
@@High2GetBy Hopefully I never become a boomer
Otherwise, the time truely came to kill myself
I can relate to this video on another level, from friendships, to relationships, loneliness, the feeling of worthlessness, everything.
😢💯💯
People that go through this clearly have a higher calling, listen to your self, this things had to happen for you to be this deep and eloquent. You have a gift
You learnt a very hard lesson but realize, you LEARNT it! I am proud of you for seeing this and I hope you do not become jaded.
I was bullied because of the color of my skin. I use to be called dirty because my skin was tanned in grade school. By the end of Grade school, they wanted to be like me and Tan in the sun for my color. It really messed me up because i already hated them for the way they treated me. So i did not trust them to be friends. I learnt to block people out of my mind. Not to listen to their words and opinions. You are learning here. You are learning to cope, empathize with others in your situation. You are evolving. This is to create who you will be. I learnt to bite my tongue when i wanted to say something. But also say something when you think its right. Its all for the good. You will see. You will be older and be able to tell people why you are the way you are, and what you have learnt.
Brother, you are not ugly by any means. You appear to be in decent physical shape and seem to have a down to earth personality which is far more important. I felt like you were describing my life growing up with everything you mentioned. From wanting to seem "normal" to being nice to everyone only to have those phonies ignore me when I reached out to them. You are definitely not alone in feeling out of place in this sick world we live in.
I was in your shoes for awhile where I was going to college for a degree I wasn't even interested in, just doing it because teachers pressured me to go to college after high school. I ended up getting my CDL as soon as I got my degree and I can say it's one of the best decisions I made. Easy money, and work doesn't even feel like work a lot of the time. I don't know what my life would look like if I entered the corporate rat race, but I am thankful to have found my passion at such a young age.
I don't know if you're a religious guy or not but I found God for the first time in my life when I was 20 and that turned things around in my social life for the better. The people I met at my school's Christian group were just what you were wanting in relationships- down to earth, non judgemental, and care about who you are as a person, not what physical looks or possessions you have. Even if you don't have any friends in real life, your posting of these videos is making a positive change in other peoples' lives, and you have the support from people on the internet.
if you're not part of the top 5% of men, women consider you ugly. Why does a christcuck have 666 on their name?
he's not ugly but what is meant by ugly here is probably because he's asian in a western country. Probably in an area where there's not many or any asians but idk.
He’s definitely not ugly. He looks like he could be in a Kpop band but idk if that’s a compliment any self respecting Asian guy would really want. Disregard that. He’s attractive and idk why he struggles with girls. Ive been told I am attractive but I still struggle.
You work in software field?
we need more dudes making this content. This shit saves lives. It makes people feel heard.
The scriptures admonishes to prey always! God cares - always!
AMEN.
You made some incredible points that ive been saying for the last 20 years . Sry to say things havent changed much . I wish i could say ive found a way to overcome to same issues. Yet even tho this is the struggle we men deal with . Its also up to us to change it . I definitely feel ya pain brother, dont give up man . The world needs good people like yourself
Lots of love to you brother. I feel a lot of what you feel. Sometimes it helps to get out of the world sometimes and see life outside of society. It hurts when you are so protective of yourself and think you finally meet someone you can trust and they betray you. It sends you back in your shell. Away from danger. Sometimes I find love in nature. Sometimes just talking to someone on the bus I've seen for years but never spoke to. It's the moments that matter. The past and future will be what it will be. The moment is what you have control over now. And sometimes that's enough to get through the day. Thank you for video. I hope where ever you are you have a good day.
I borderline want to show this to my therapist because of how well you’ve articulated how I’ve felt, and what I’ve experienced, for a long time. In a sense, it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who feels this way. Thank you.
I’m 26 years old and this video is so relatable, this generation shouldn’t have to go through such extreme quarter life crisis.. we’re loneliest then ever! societal expectations and brutal rejection when you try your hardest to change your financial situation and life has really taken a toll on me.. this world will chew you up and spit you out with no mercy it’s insane
We built ourselves the most agonizing system not worth living in.
im 26 too and i feel you man, shit feels pointless
@@matthewwhite1728We didn't build anything, this is all the selfish AF boomers' fault. Most selfish, entitled, lazy generation EVER. Since cavemen to now, the boomers are by far the worst generation ever. They f'ed us all. They worked easy careers and took vacations while they knowingly watched the financial institutions destroy society and they didn't just do nothing they enabled it with their own greed and laziness. Blame it on the 60 and 70 year olds selfishly riding around in their boats and Mercedes convertibles while their grandchildren face a nightmare they created.
My parents really looked at this fucking shit and went "Yeah I think this is good". What the fuck. @@matthewwhite1728
Me too, even things that logically should have worked out… just been snatched away by algorithms and society and lack of much needed support. No hope, completely bleak
Keep doing videos bro. This is what you’re here for. You talking facts to a bunch of people in the same situation as you. ❤
I love social media for this reason this video is sooo relatable THANK YOU!
Aww I wanna hug him so bad. He deserves so much love.🥺
This is like everyone irl. Treat people with kindness
How do you know what he deserves?
I see all these comments giving advise but your comment meant the most to me and I hope to this young gentleman, comfort,
Yeah but would you fuck him? Thats more important. A hug won't do anything
Dude you're just too nice. I had to learn that lesson the hard way too. I studied med for over a decade, I thought everyone would be proud of me, no matter how much I sacrificed, I felt like it would eventually be worthwhile. But ultimately, I learned what I needed to learn, and realized nobody gave a shit if I made it or not. It wasn't even about me, I did it for everyone else, but when I finally accepted the fact nobody cared, I just said to hell with it.
There are givers and takers. Unfortunately, the system we have elected punishes philanthropy and rewards selfishness.
That's why good people like you get screwed over. It won't always be this way, one day good people will get what they deserve, but unfortunately that's not the world we live in yet.
And finally, I'll leave you with this ,I think you're a very beautiful, sweet and intelligent person. Even though I don't know you I count you as a friend, and think the world would be a better place with more people like you in it.