I'm with you. Spending $5K in a strip club is a bad decision, even if you have the money. And to turn around and consider committing a felony AND then to send text to the wrong person, kind of sets the tone for this guy being an idiot. Hes making bad decision on a daily basis or while drunk. In either case, she should have left. IJS
One part of the story that Stav barely touched is that the guy didn't seem to particularly feel sorry about any of this. He just wants to keep his girlfriend, but seems to be put off that his girl doesn't like him going to strip clubs.
@Manhandle730 I can name at least 3 things he did. 1. He goes to strip clubs without informing his gf and knowing she is okay with it first (deceitful liar). 2. He commits felonies and fraud behind her back without telling her (deceitful lying). 3. The only reason she found out was that he was too drunk or high to pull off his crime properly. He has a private life that he is hiding from her. Definitely not husband and father material.
It’s not unreasonable for a girlfriend to be pissed her boyfriend went to a strip club without telling her. That’s shady behavior, surprised Stav glossed over it so quickly.
@@glennyoungkindid9116 Thats far less important than going to a strip club without telling her. Reporting a purchase as fraud is about as mild as a crime can get in reality.
100% she wanted an out, she was probably stoked when she realized this was her ticket. Edit: To clarify, you're bf going to a strip club without your knowledge is gross and valid grounds to break up. But from the details the caller provided, it didn't seem like she wanted to try and work it out. Just went straight to "okay that means we're breaking up now" which is a big call after 4 years. Which tells you that she'd wanted a clean break for some time now.
Do you think he tells her in advance that he goes to strip clubs and spends thousands there? I doubt it. I bet he also doesn't tell her that he commits felonies. Not the type of person I'd want to marry.
“Do not text anyone fraud instructions” 👏 👏 👏 words to live by (also your bank just needs security cam footage of you which the club will give them so they won’t be penalized and potentially disallowed from accepting Visa/Master etc.)
The fraud thing is super messed up because he’s put her in a horrible position. Now If the cops come knocking she either has to snitch or risk getting in trouble herself.
I met many in rehab, you'd be amazed watching the leaps these kinds of people go to cover their crap. When eventually they get caught and go through some kind of path of redemption just to come out "changed", it's usually a huge facade in order to get back the love and respect they feel entitled to.
Or did he lie about going to the strip club? Who knows how much of a double life this guy was living. It is one thing to be out front, and the girl knows what she is getting into, but if you are a guy who plays Prince charming and then is a snake. Then there are many layers there. My wife fully trusts me because, good or bad, she is in the loop.
@-whackd Exactly. I've known guys like that over the years. They try selling a dream and never able to deliver. Shit, be up front and your girl might want to come with you and wing man. You can usually only unlock those levels with trust.
IDK if there's a way you can sift through and find my other comments but there's one that goes into exactly that. She may be having an existential crisis about she was about to spend her life with this dude... And things like this could derail a life for y'all both so... And yeah females... Hell id hope adults.... That are in long term relationships tend to think in those terms.
She didn't break up with him cause of the strip club, She didn't break up with him because of the fraud, She broke up with him because he slipped up on something so huge. She cant be having no dudes who mistakenly text felonies to the wrong number. For her creepy future plans, she needs an accomplice that's more sly than this man.
She was definitely on her way out. He just gave her the easy way to not feel guilty about leaving. You aren't getting her back bro. Isn't there a Disney move where they say, Let it go... Ya go watch that movie and repeat that line to yourself.
Since when can you report money stolen from a debit card?🤣 I thought that’s why people use credit cards cuz you can’t claim anything if it’s your money
I thought Stav would approve of this scheme. The strippers got paid, the club got paid, the caller gets his money back, and it rips off the big faceless corporate bank. That sounds like something he'd think is win/win lol
I don’t think she broke up with him for the strip club trip. He probably lied or was deceiving in some way to where she couldn’t trust him anymore. Sounds like a prime example of crashing out lol
I literallly cant beleive theyre saying strip club, places that notoriously exploit snd even traffic women, arent that bad but taking $900 or $1000 from some banking fat cat is morally wrong and THATS why she broke up with him? They both misread this whole thing so wrong
Unpopular opinion, the fraud is the least objectionable part? Dude redistributed the wealth to workers at the expense of a financial institutions insurance? I’m not trying to date someone who is like dump me over that.
People looking for a stable long term relationship generally dont want their partners to be risking jail time and financial ruin, even if its a "moral grey area" or whatever.
Absolutely disagree with your values stav. There is nothing wrong with defrauding a bank for a few hundred. Who cares, don't be a bootlicking square. On the contrary, if his exgf had established boundaries like not going to a strip club, which she obviously had since he was being secretive, then despite your heathenly values on sex work, it was violating the boundaries of his relationship.
This is a horrible take tbh. Going to the strip club is cheating. Stealing from the banks that have been stealing from the public and specifically those in poor financial situations. That's almost a good thing.
For me, it's not about the morality of the fraud, but more about the responsibility of the *execution*. He did it in such a sloppy way he was basically asking to be caught by somebody. At that point, involving others in the story is putting them at risk.
I’m just glad they bleeped out Adam’s name
I was between Adam and the N word
Sounds like Ari lol
@@lav7161- he wouldn't be surprised if it was Ari
I think he's saying "out of" like "out of everyone it was ___"
It’s gotta be Adam 😂
This man is probably a habitual bad decision maker. 4 years of that will definitely make someone leave.
Quite a big assumption to make and then to use it as justification of her leaving like it’s a proven fact? Type of shit the media does
I'm with you. Spending $5K in a strip club is a bad decision, even if you have the money. And to turn around and consider committing a felony AND then to send text to the wrong person, kind of sets the tone for this guy being an idiot. Hes making bad decision on a daily basis or while drunk. In either case, she should have left. IJS
@@bobbyrester6478 ok... Adam.
Plot twist - the girlfriend has a side hustle at the club and is sick of the chargebacks
Not really possible if they withdrew cash and then claimed the ATM card was stolen
@@madeconomist458 you are fun at parties.
@@Drewzdevgotta step the hypothetical game up
I love when Cool Adam calls in.
One part of the story that Stav barely touched is that the guy didn't seem to particularly feel sorry about any of this. He just wants to keep his girlfriend, but seems to be put off that his girl doesn't like him going to strip clubs.
I doubt he ever told her about the going to strip clubs. This was probably the first time she heard about it.
Well what did you want the guy to do/say? If he didn’t do anything aside from spend too much money he isn’t going to feel too guilty about it.
@Manhandle730
I can name at least 3 things he did.
1. He goes to strip clubs without informing his gf and knowing she is okay with it first (deceitful liar).
2. He commits felonies and fraud behind her back without telling her (deceitful lying).
3. The only reason she found out was that he was too drunk or high to pull off his crime properly. He has a private life that he is hiding from her.
Definitely not husband and father material.
@@JohnMcAfee-se9msdoing something without informing a person or doing it behind their back is not lying. You have to speak to a person to lie lol
Not really true. You can lie by omission
The comic's name they bleeped out is Joe Pera.
That's one hell of an image 😂
Joe Pera talks Titties and Fraud
I thought the same thing
Please call 1800 crime stoppers immediately otherwise we'll have to hold you accountable
I believe you, but has he actually said it?
"you lived with a guy who did it for years..." So much for bleeping his name 😂
Who is Ryan?
Crime doesnt pay
Eldis: ... or does it?
*Vsauce intro*
It’s not unreasonable for a girlfriend to be pissed her boyfriend went to a strip club without telling her. That’s shady behavior, surprised Stav glossed over it so quickly.
Hard to focus on it when he’s texting financial crime instructions
yeah it’s impossible for it not to become a “what other ways are you sneaking around” situation. in this case, the other way is fraud.
@@glennyoungkindid9116 Thats far less important than going to a strip club without telling her. Reporting a purchase as fraud is about as mild as a crime can get in reality.
Even telling her hes going to a strip club is diabolical, that shouldnt be a thing someone in a relationship goes to
The worst thing about this whole situation is the hypocrisy.
“On god knows what” 😂 you kill me Stavy. You do the best wife impression
“Enroll in therapy… some kind of money something.” Yeah a job 😂
"If your girlfriend doesn't want you giving money away to naked slots, that's her own problem" Strip clubs culture is wild. Lol
100% she wanted an out, she was probably stoked when she realized this was her ticket.
Edit: To clarify, you're bf going to a strip club without your knowledge is gross and valid grounds to break up. But from the details the caller provided, it didn't seem like she wanted to try and work it out. Just went straight to "okay that means we're breaking up now" which is a big call after 4 years. Which tells you that she'd wanted a clean break for some time now.
The kind of guys who casually visit strip clubs are obnoxious losers, honestly. She probably just had enough of his antics. She dodged a bullet
@@jabrokneetoeknee6448grow up the strip club is hysterical and fun as fuck with the homies lol. Its not a big deal
@@jabrokneetoeknee6448 yeah dudes paying to look at slüts is icky
Do you think he tells her in advance that he goes to strip clubs and spends thousands there? I doubt it. I bet he also doesn't tell her that he commits felonies.
Not the type of person I'd want to marry.
something in the story is missing, if i had to guess i bet he used her money and he thought he could get it back
i legit thought that woman had no arm, at first.
Same hahahahahah, when the arm showed up i was blown away
The assumption that none of this is a surprise to her is valid. But I also have to imagine the scenario where all of this is news to her. 😬😬😬
Anyone else thought the guest was missing her arm in the very beginning
lol yes.
“Do not text anyone fraud instructions” 👏 👏 👏 words to live by
(also your bank just needs security cam footage of you which the club will give them so they won’t be penalized and potentially disallowed from accepting Visa/Master etc.)
My guess is that we have a straw and camel’s back situation with our dumb dumb friend
The fraud thing is super messed up because he’s put her in a horrible position. Now If the cops come knocking she either has to snitch or risk getting in trouble herself.
Huge points for the girlfriend leaving immediately. Super scum bag behavior from that dude. What the hell are you doing with your life?
I met many in rehab, you'd be amazed watching the leaps these kinds of people go to cover their crap. When eventually they get caught and go through some kind of path of redemption just to come out "changed", it's usually a huge facade in order to get back the love and respect they feel entitled to.
Or did he lie about going to the strip club? Who knows how much of a double life this guy was living. It is one thing to be out front, and the girl knows what she is getting into, but if you are a guy who plays Prince charming and then is a snake. Then there are many layers there. My wife fully trusts me because, good or bad, she is in the loop.
Yeah that's what I was wondering too. I've been to strip clubs on occasion, but if I didn't tell my wife and she found out she'd probably be pissed.
I doubt he informs her that he goes to strip clubs, since he left that part out. This text was probably the first time she heard about it.
@-whackd Exactly. I've known guys like that over the years. They try selling a dream and never able to deliver. Shit, be up front and your girl might want to come with you and wing man. You can usually only unlock those levels with trust.
IDK if there's a way you can sift through and find my other comments but there's one that goes into exactly that. She may be having an existential crisis about she was about to spend her life with this dude... And things like this could derail a life for y'all both so... And yeah females... Hell id hope adults.... That are in long term relationships tend to think in those terms.
The fact that he’s surprised about the strip club scam means the name he bleeped isn’t Adam, but in fact Nick!
She didn't break up with him cause of the strip club, She didn't break up with him because of the fraud, She broke up with him because he slipped up on something so huge. She cant be having no dudes who mistakenly text felonies to the wrong number. For her creepy future plans, she needs an accomplice that's more sly than this man.
The lady is correct: don't text people fraud instructions. Just - know what? Just don't commit fraud. Yeah. That's it :D
when the government is at war with you? right
as if it's so easy
"now we're cookin'" LMAOOOOO
100% the girlfriend would have much more to the story if we could talk to her. 😂😂
"Hello this is Barrack Hussein the rock Shut and I am gay. I would like to report my debit card was stolen..."
Credit Card Company employee: “hell yeah, dude.”
Also I’m gay
My guys I think she’s mostly upset about him going to a stripclub without telling her
It's also the fact that he tried doing all this behind her back and got caught lmao
She was definitely on her way out. He just gave her the easy way to not feel guilty about leaving. You aren't getting her back bro. Isn't there a Disney move where they say, Let it go... Ya go watch that movie and repeat that line to yourself.
Since when can you report money stolen from a debit card?🤣 I thought that’s why people use credit cards cuz you can’t claim anything if it’s your money
I thought Stav would approve of this scheme. The strippers got paid, the club got paid, the caller gets his money back, and it rips off the big faceless corporate bank. That sounds like something he'd think is win/win lol
Do the strippers get paid though?
I don’t think she broke up with him for the strip club trip. He probably lied or was deceiving in some way to where she couldn’t trust him anymore. Sounds like a prime example of crashing out lol
Eldis at the end lmao
Today i am going to try to Albanian method to impress my girlfriend hope i dont end up in jail thanks eldis
The end of this clip is just uncut gems 2 starting
Alright sleuths, who is the mystery man that big eldie bleeped out?
Virgil Texas
Ian Fidance 😂
💯 I thought ian or Mark normand!
Just to confirm...it's a gay strip club and the strippers are trans
Ari Shaffir
Fouth but straight ☹️ u guys r lucky
I still dont know if she is mad about the attempted crime or the fact that he went to a strip club.
It happens
I literallly cant beleive theyre saying strip club, places that notoriously exploit snd even traffic women, arent that bad but taking $900 or $1000 from some banking fat cat is morally wrong and THATS why she broke up with him? They both misread this whole thing so wrong
Wow this is the closest I’ve seen Stav to being a fed
the guest host gave away the fact that stavy’s friend who did this routinely, used to live with him. she dry snitched forreal
Adam Friedland is the name they cut out!
Enroll into therapy? Lol what
You guys are just gaslighting that guys girlfriend trying to make her think she’s overreacting lol
I kinda like Eldis’s plan 😂😂
I don’t get them saying he was “texting a friend fraud instructions”. I thought he was texting the bank directly his excuses?
For anyone interested who is the ‚friend’, it is Nick
Unnecessary commas= not trustworthy. Nice try pal.
What??? No... no way, I would never *evvvver* believe that about him.
Never talk about my best friend nick like that
Who’s the guest?
Nicole Schreiber?
Emmy Blotnick, its in the video description for future reference ;)
Haha well thank you
I’m sorry but spending a bunch of money at a strip club when you have a girlfriend is a red flag lol
first, and gay
Gay as hell
Wrong podcast...Tues-gays with stories is where you wanna be.
@@FEENTHEMUSIC”..yeah what a beautiful bathroom. I met that Dominique Strauss-Kahn guy in the handicapped stall, or as I call it: the master bedroom”
Stavros will never escape Cum Town. Lmfao.
I’m gay
whats so wrong about fraud? asking genuinely.
Worth a shot right? Lol
take her on a fancy date and report it stollen. shes just mad you treated the strippers better than her
"and soooo, thats probably her problem."
F the bank
The thing is he's done a tonnnnn more than this.
Abit of minor F after the rippers should be allowed. Seems like he's financially sensible. Sounds like a keeper to me.
I’d like to know how old this person is. This is insane.
Eldis really needs that big beard
There's noway this isn't nick or adam
Unpopular opinion, the fraud is the least objectionable part? Dude redistributed the wealth to workers at the expense of a financial institutions insurance? I’m not trying to date someone who is like dump me over that.
Alight calm down Robin Hood. The police won’t care about any of that when they show up at his place with an arrest warrant. 😂
People looking for a stable long term relationship generally dont want their partners to be risking jail time and financial ruin, even if its a "moral grey area" or whatever.
For the first 3 and a half minutes I thought this chick had 1 arm..😮😅
Gotta respect the Albanian insight
nah, she wanted out.
This dude has history of doing crazy shit that's why she broke up with him
Buy a fake ring with the ca$h
Not good but, compared to the normal call in, not that bad...
Absolutely disagree with your values stav.
There is nothing wrong with defrauding a bank for a few hundred. Who cares, don't be a bootlicking square.
On the contrary, if his exgf had established boundaries like not going to a strip club, which she obviously had since he was being secretive, then despite your heathenly values on sex work, it was violating the boundaries of his relationship.
Stav is like so cute like a button and shit
Albanian insight 😂
just gay
I fucking Love Eldis.
Are American creditcard companies/banks that naive? Do American stripclubs not have CCTV and do they not keep card transaction receipts?
Why can't these callers TALK FASTER jesus you literally have all the time in the world to write down and practice your whole shpeal
um gay
Confused how the whole focus of the video is on the fraud, I think most partners would be more upset about the strip club than the fraud lmao
We all know it’s Brendan Schaub
Gay
I like those thin shorts pal.
This is a horrible take tbh. Going to the strip club is cheating. Stealing from the banks that have been stealing from the public and specifically those in poor financial situations. That's almost a good thing.
Whether or not a strip club counts as cheating depends on the relationship. You’d be surprised how many couples you see at the club.
It's a good way to get hit with a felony yeah, no matter how just stealing from banks may be
For me, it's not about the morality of the fraud, but more about the responsibility of the *execution*. He did it in such a sloppy way he was basically asking to be caught by somebody. At that point, involving others in the story is putting them at risk.
strip club isn't cheating for a lot of people. Some couples even go together
Second, and gay
Yeah this guy is not entitled to her time anymore lol read some melody beattie
Somehow I find Emmy Blotnick’s voice & face to be extremely hot!
That is not really a compliment lol
Stav makes Adam seem funny
fourth, and gay
third, and gay
Gay and gay
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So classic