They need to take a hard look at the success of the first Love is Blind UK ! The hosts were phenomenal along with the casting and production as a whole.
💯 He was gone from when he found out for ONE WEEK out if the month he would be getting his dick wet because of her cripplingly painful periods and the condoms he is fake woke wraped up in women's blouses and fake knowledge.
I think he was mature enough to be honest and say what he felt and thought even if Marissa didn't understand... At least, he didn't wait the marriage...
It’s not immature. He simply refused to lead her on. Would you prefer that he has sex with someone else? Do you expect him to stay in an unhappy relationship? Give home grace.
Ramses is basically saying he was horny at the beginning, so was more than happy to bang Marissa, but when real relationships issues occurred and adjustments had to be made, his spark totally died out. He never loved her, and I'm actually surprised he was married before, dude has the emotional intelligence of a teenager
Ramses doesn’t like her energy when she’s happy because it’s too much. But he didn’t like it either when she was sick, on her period and not feeling well. So… what does he like?
I kind of get it, she has no mellow. Seems like no matter what emotion she's feeling she dials it up to 11. It might get tiring, especially being around her 24/7 and realizing she doesn't have another speed. That said, his issue with her being sick was that she didn't want to have sex, that's a whole other issue and he's a complete dirtbag.
He’s a narcissist he hates that’s she so happy makes him Feel insecure as fuk and for him It’s not genuine so much harder to fake it, when she’s sick he hates it cuz that would mean he obv has to be there for her and can’t since he has no empathy so much harder to fake for a narcissist
Omg I was crying with her. It was so heart wrenching to see her broken like that 🥺 as a mother watching that I couldn’t imagine my babies calling me like that!
Yeah... the timeline on this show is absolutely a factor in all the breakups, but in this case I was like... so glad she didn't meet him in a bar or something and spend a couple of years with this guy and end up in the same place.
I find Ramses quite disgusting because it feels like he took advantage of the show to sleep with her and now that the wedding bells are nearer, its time for him to dip
@@onemanhiswhiteboard940 I think he is a narcissist and he thought he would look good on tv. It backfired though. I don’t think he ever had any intentions on marrying Marissa. He just wanted to come off as the cool sensitive dude on the show but honestly comes off as an asshole.
the craziest part about the weddings were that taylor and garret's parents BOTH were married on the 13th while thier kids are literally getting married on the 13th too LIKE THATS CRAZYYYYY!!!
@@honeydrop89 that's an extremely low probability for three couples to get married on the 13th of a month. There's on average 30 days in a month. So for all 3 to land on the 13th is extremely ironic.
yeah same, I thought she was being so rude but looking back now I totally agree. She just read his character immediately. I can empathize with Marissa so much. Because I recently went trough a similar heartbreak too, where this person also used my biggest insecurity against me and was just cruel
I agree. Two things can be true. My heart aches for Marissa but it’s much better that he ended it rather than get married and get a divorce or go to the altar and say no.
The ratio of horrible men to good men in this season is exactly the reason why most women have just given up. For every one Garret there's way too many Stephens and Tylers. And the amount of damage they can do is not just a heartache but devastation. I'm not saying every man is like this, just that if a person wants to date today they have to be smart, well adjusted, and have a very strong support system.
Facts. They discarded (Ramses), cheated (Stephen), lied (Tyler), coned (the art dealer), or didn't hold their own (Hanna's guy)...and the women? Crickets. That great Gatsby party with all the women bumped down at their table while talking about their men, and them enjoying themselves in the background said it all.
When Marissa said she was able to be her 100% self with him and stay crying I get that. Being yourself IS letting your guard down and letting someone see ALL of you. She was so vulnerable and I pray she finds the RIGHT one because Ramses wasn’t it!
Marissa is high energy but that shouldn't be a deal breaker unless you're fickle. She's a good communicator, she's head over heels for him and she's willing to do the work. She's also beautiful (cherry on top).
Hearing all of the stuff with Tyler’s kids makes his baby fever so icky…every time he talks about “baby making time” or wanting to have many children with Ashley, I shudder
The beginning of this last episode really disturbed me. Watching Marissa suffer like that just was unbearable. WHYYYYYYYYY did this man waste everyone's time?!!
I got that vibe too same with clay last season. Clay nor this dude will ever do better than the amazingly strong and beautiful women they rejected at the alter.
SAME! Even in Cabo she would give him affection but he would always look like he wasn’t into her. Kind of had an annoyed expression before real life hit. He’s been faking this whole time. He knew he wasn’t going to marry her. He was going to likely bail at the alter but decided that he could just end early like the other couples.
Ramses is worse than Clay from season 6 😫 At least Clay was upfront about his bad habits/ demons. Ramses was so pc and morally righteous about certain issues but when it came to Marissa's body autonomy it was a problem for him. She can do way better than him!
i felt so bad for marissa 😞 when she was uncontrollably sobbing it took me back to my own heartbreak, i genuinely thought i was going to die from the pain. i hope she heals and he rots 😀
It wild that he said he didn’t think his children even knew what he looked like but then the internet sleuths immediately found videos of him playing with his children and everyone has working eyeballs…
Ashley is so beautiful, a beautiful fool. Tyler not telling her about the children in the pods is absolutely terrible! He also apparently owes women money! Yikes!
I hope that he told her the full kids-situation when they had that conversation, just off-camera and in private. They seem like a good couple, so I’m really really hopeful that they had a private conversation about it so she isn’t blind sided again by this new info.
@@ashley48523 i highly doubt he gave her the full story because in later episodes Ashely assumes that the kids have never met him and might look for him in 5 years time. but the kids do know what he looks like and they've been probably wondering for a year where he is
@@ashley48523 I really hope so too. They seem so great together. If they didn't show us that question that Ashley asked him on camera about the kids and he flat out lied, I think I would have a little grace. lol
We could all see what Ramzes was going to do. Merissa dodged a bullet. They had so many red flags and Marissa will be glad this turned out the way that it did. Taylor and Garrett made me cry, both sets of patents showed up and said wonderful things. I have high hopes for these families. Watching Tyler and Ashley was uncomfortable. I wonder what the reunion will bring. Thanks Fsntake for the excellent coverage of this weird series.
Rejection is protection! He was awful! From the condoms to his utter lack of empathy when she was ill, to her doing all the wedding planning and him claiming to work on the “more” important stuff. Such a nice guy!
I NEED to know what happened with the mysteriously missing clip from an early trailer where Rames is in a pool with someone and says "If I wasn't engaged, I'd f**k you"...WHERE is it production?
@@pleasurensabimana3752 she was in love, so she would have gone through with the marriage no matter what, that's how she dodged a bullet. Don't try and come here with facts I already know to prove a point that doesn't really add anything to this contex 😊 who broke up with who doesn't really matter either. Why would you say he dodged a bullet? What did she ever do wrong? This man broke up with her because his ego is too big to fit inside a condom and we can ALL see it.
@@user-sp9sx9zb5l more like mislead, Tyler never mentioned having kids to Ashley in the pods before she fell in love with him. That's the kind of information people need to know in the beginning to decide if they want to proceed before feelings develop. If what is being said now is actually true, it's worse than what he made it out to be. Wouldn't be surprised if they're separated at the reunion.
For a brief second when Tyler was crying before the wedding I thought he might say no and let her know that there's more that they need to talk about before we get married. I shouldn't have given him the benefit of the doubt.
Tyler is so selfish, he wants everyone to ignore the fact that he has a whole family looking at him like😮😳. The sad part is, I don’t know if Ashley will fall for his lies & manipulation & decides to forgive this jerk.
Here’s the thing- Ramses was totally right to break things off. They were not compatible. Did it seem like he was putting all of their incompatibility on her? Absolutely; not cool. But he was not wrong to break up. This marriage would have ended so acrimoniously.
These ppl were allll soooooo immature. You can tell just by how often they like use the word like in like every single like sentence they like speak. SHEESH. Unbearable
Love is NOT enough, that is the one thing I agree with Ramses. Marissa even agreed with him. There are things you can't look past just because you're in love. Compatibility fundamentally, lifestyle wise, financial, personality, is important ALONGSIDE LOVE. Love is not the thing you use to look over everything else because you love them, because eventually those things will come back and cause issues and resentment.
Ramses is unstable but yet he has the nerve to say love is not enough in other words like he’s greater then that putting everything down on her like her high energy is a problem what a tool he is but then criticizing the fact she chose to do condom sex that is the real Issue here before that he was all in😂what a tool he is
If you’re talking about love as in the fleeting feelings of favor and affection sure, but love as in the daily decisions and willingness to prioritize another person over your own wants and needs is really the bare bones of making a relationship work despite all of those differences. That’s the love we’re talking about when we say it’s enough.
I agree with you 100 percent. Love is not enough to make a relationship work. It is the essential part but if it is the only part and you are incompatible in many other ways resentment can develop over the years because the relationship might require you to forgo the other things you want in life that your partner does not want. I know this from personal experience.
the way he looks at her expressionless while she's crying, not hugging her not providing her any comfort or reassurance not even a look of empathy from him, that guy doesn't like her let alone love her. he is so selfish and egocentric. he clearly not ready for marriage.
I swear if the reunion just becomes a Nick bashing fest, I'm gonna lose it. I still remember season 3 and this Tyler stuff, Hannah's verbal abuse, the weirdness about sex, it's all too serious for them to not address it, I need LIB to have learned and actually talk about these very serious things. I'm not expecting them to hold Hannah accountable, I wish they would, but they'll probably just focus on her weight loss and how great she feels now, , instead they'll make pot shots at Nick no doubt, which is awful considering he was the victim of relentless verbal abuse and I'm definitely going to leave with a bad taste in my mouth. But anyway, I expect them to hold Tyler accountable for his lies. No coming at Ashley for marrying him and no doubt staying married to him, go after Tyler for his actions. Also clear up with Ramses if he was actually saying he needed sex even if Marissa wasn't feeling well. That's a scary outdated idea and I'd like to know if he meant it like it came off or not.
best believe as long as vanessa lachey is present, hannah will not be held accountable for anything. Now the tyler tea, she might address i'll give her that
Thank you so much for recapping perfectly with just the right amount of detail and humor. I didn't think I could sit through watching another conversation where I said "just stop talking" to the TV, and you gave that hour of sanity back to me.
I’m glad I’m not the only person that thinks that love is enough. Love brings patience, understanding, care, forgiveness, compassion, and all the other good stuff. You just have to know what love truly means because love is indeed enough.
Can't wait for all the tea at the reunion. But in the meantime, can we talk about what class-acts everyone involved in Taylor and Garrett's wedding were? Both sets of parents showed so much grace and dignity. And dayum, Taylor looked so classy and elegant in her wedding dress! The drama free nature of Taylor and Garrett's relationship drew a stark contrast to how 'messy' all the other couples were. I wish them well.
I don't like Taylor's reaction to the text from the ex though. I think Garrett behaved a little clumsy and couldn't predict it was that much of an issue for her. But besides that they are my favourite lib couple ever 😊
We now know the real reason Tyler kept balling his eyes out --- It was all those lies eating him up on the inside!!! This season taught me about who NOT to date.😷
Marissa's breakdown is def one of the saddest I've ever seen in reality tv. The foolery on these shows sometimes makes me forget these are real people.
i felt marissa's hurt. her energy is part of who she is authentically, and when someone says thats too much for them, its like someone telling u there's something wrong with u. the same way nick will find a playful person who doesnt take life too seriously, marissa will find someone who loves her bubbly optimistic energy amazing.
This is the very first season where we didn't get a "no" at the altar--because the "no" couples ended things early... That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works.
Rejection is God’s protection. Did you see his Victoria Secret thongs! You dodged a bullet. He cannot pick you 😢 He will always pick himself. I’m glad you’re not marrying the pirate .
Bachelor Fantake, your coverage of Ramses' behaviour tells me you have never been a straight woman dating most straight men 😅😅😅❤❤❤. You have way more emotional intelligence than a lotta guys out there!
i don’t know if i’m more irritated with the show or myself for bothering to watch (obnoxiously fast forward through) this last episode. i knew marissa and ramses wouldn’t make it, they’d either break it off in that cliffhanger or they’d say no at the alter, and since ashley’s being lied to she’ll marry tyler, and taylor and garrett are happy (but i hope they don’t turn out to be our stephen and sabrina at the reunion next week…though it wouldn’t 100% shock me with this season)
Taylor and Garrett do remind me of Stephen and Sabrina from LiB UK, maybe just because they live so far from each other. I can't help but feel like they won't last and he won't actually end up moving to CA.
Oh I’m just like you, by the end of LIB, I can’t stand the show or the cast. And I fast forwarded almost all of the episode. I think both couples are still together. Ashley had been defending Tyler in people’s comment sections since last week
@@luxindreamsI think they’ll last. The problem was that Sabrina and Stephen didn’t talk about where they will live, we saw one of them would tell the camera that they’ll live in Ireland and the other would say they will probably live in London. They didn’t have a logical plan. But Taylor and Garett do. They talked about it extensively and Garrett even went to visit her family with her. Also they don’t live in different places during filming, Taylor lived in dc but planned to move to San Diego after marriage.
I had my heart broken by someone i imagined my entire future with. It hurts so intensely and deeply, you feel like you can’t breathe as the world around you just crumbles. Nothing is clear and it doesn’t feel real. Ugh watching her reminded my heart of that pain. i felt so much empathy for her. i just want her to be over him and able to see things clearly by the reunion. I really hope the men (and Hannah) get what they deserve at the reunion.
Crazy how people were saying Marissa was gonna harsh HIS energy out o the pods and he continued to prove DISCERNMENT and INSTINCT are always right and misogyny and the patriarchy have gone covert OPS 🤦🏿♀️
Ramses made the right move, although seeing her cry was so heartbreaking. They were clearly not compatible, from their style to their difference in values. You can love someone and realize you're not compatible with them and a marriage with them won't work. He was right, love alone isn't enough for a relationship to work. He recognized their incompatibility and ended things. Sometimes love can make you blind to the ways you're not compatible with someone, I know from personal experience. And I think Marissa wanted marriage so badly that she couldn't see it. They were never a good match, and now she can find someone that is actually well-suited for her
honestly, love isn't always enough. sometimes people don't work because of the times in their lives, some people aren't mature enough, etc. love has to be the thing that's there when nothing else is, but there's a difference in those statements
I like the idea of Love is Blind but jumping into an engagement before boyfriend girlfriend, they move hyper fast and I feel like they need to slow it down and could have a better chance
Ramses feels suffocated and overwhelmed and checked out a while ago,he really wanted a reason to leave.I think it’s important to read men as women and see the signs when they pull away you can’t keep trying to convince them you’re great together and that everything will be fine.I truly believe if anyone that’s the man’s job.
I would like to see the couples during the honeymoon phase not sleeping with each other. I liked in LIB Habibi that they had separate rooms. That would eliminate those h*rny men to come on the show just to get some. Also I hate that pressure for the women how everyone makes it feel strange if a couple don’t get intimate immediately with each other. I understand intimacy is important in a relationship, but clearly it’s not working on a show like LIB bc so many men come just for the nasty. So idk I would like to see separate rooms during honeymoon but more time together overall before the weddings. Maybe 2 months?
Watching Marissa go through that was kinda triggering. This is why I’m not interested in dating or being involved with anyone. It seems a lot safer to just move to a deserted island and never give someone your heart again. How can anyone recover from that kind of pain? It was painful to watch truly.
Do you seriously evaluate and base your love life off of a heavily produced and orchestrated reality show? The manipulation and social programming is off the charts. Dear God. Send help.
@@thetoughgroup That’s a fair point but I’m also going off of my own personal experiences and they haven’t been great. Which just further validated my point that relationships are a waste of time and it’s best to just stay alone. Update: I've started going to therapy lol. I knew my mindset was extreme but I felt it was absolutely necessary given my past experiences. Your thoughts really do create your reality sometimes.
@@JuwanTV Well, I hear you. But we are not meant to be solitary creatures. We are not meant to be alone that's not God's design for us. BUT if you choose that life then make the most of it, develop yourself, strengthen your mental health, and build your relationship with The Most High. Wish you the absolute best brother.
@@JuwanTVThat is such a negative mindset and it seems pretty sad going through life thinking like this. You are probably young too. Relationships are not a waste of time if you and your partner are healed, are willing to accept that things will not be perfect 24/7 and work to grow together. Unfortunately, many people have unresolved trauma and attachment issues which complicates relationships. It takes some work from both parties, but there are plenty of success stories
It seems, Ashley is as bad as Tyler, Talking condescendingly about the "sperm-babies", supporting him in lying and denying his kids, who will suffer from his bad and irresponsible behaviour their whole life. Asley just wanted her dream wedding and was willing to take whatever comes from Tyler, even this inhuman and contemptuous mess. Congratulations!!
I agree that love is not enough to make a commitment for marriage. You should choose a spouse based on love AND compatibility. Do your values align? Do your goals align? Can you agree on relationship boundaries? Are you capable of disagreeing with each other in a healthy way (rather than toxic)? Do you feel fulfilled? So many more things to think about than just love. I love my husband more than anything, but I married him because on top of that love, I know that we make an amazing team. We are on the same wave length. Communication comes easy because we just get each other. And because of all of that, I know that our marriage will make it.
Yes it's time for this Love is Blind show needs to be put out of our misery. And Ramses did her a favor. Go away, Ramses, your energy makes me feel sick. You hair says it all. It's you, it's you!! Bye boy.
Honestly Marissa and Ramses were not going to work out. I’m sad for Marissa cause the pain she felt was so hard to see. I felt every tear. And also I really didn’t want her to marry Ramses cause of all those red flags.
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Let the higher powers that be guide Nick and Vanessa to proper questioning come the reunion.... we beg of you.
Indeed! The review cohort has been tortured this season.
Have you seen the Jessie Woo interview
Gotta be honest. Love is not enough. We need the same values etc. You need more than jus5 love because you can fall out of love
They need to take a hard look at the success of the first Love is Blind UK ! The hosts were phenomenal along with the casting and production as a whole.
I wanna see Marissa's momma have a go
As soon as Ramses had to wear a condom he checked out. Slimeball. Marissa you dodged a bullet.
💯 He was gone from when he found out for ONE WEEK out if the month he would be getting his dick wet because of her cripplingly painful periods and the condoms he is fake woke wraped up in women's blouses and fake knowledge.
Made worse by her not wanting to have sex when she was sick
I bet that was the reason lmao so he made up everything else she definitely dodged a bullet he’s a total narcissist
Yep and bis string like a girl sticking out jak
@@ketoqueenyo2431 yuck
Rameses telling her she's too much when she told him in the pods that was her number one insecurity is diabolical.
Yup he’s a narcissist
Wild!
But it’s the truth 🤷🏽
@@marshallsvideoYou can't label an opinion "truth."
@@marshallsvideoCorrect it's the truth. She and her mother are ENTIRELY too much.
Ramses going from an empathetic king to an immature man child is putting the ‘reality’ in reality TV 😅
It’s surprisingly realistic for my experience with guys like Ramses lol
classic gaslighter disguised as nice soft boy lol
I think he was mature enough to be honest and say what he felt and thought even if Marissa didn't understand... At least, he didn't wait the marriage...
It’s not immature. He simply refused to lead her on. Would you prefer that he has sex with someone else? Do you expect him to stay in an unhappy relationship? Give home grace.
@@carissayao988 when did he gas light her? He is just saying that he doesn’t see a future with her. It’s not malicious
Ramses is basically saying he was horny at the beginning, so was more than happy to bang Marissa, but when real relationships issues occurred and adjustments had to be made, his spark totally died out. He never loved her, and I'm actually surprised he was married before, dude has the emotional intelligence of a teenager
Yep. Anyone led by their emotions hasn’t grown up yet. He’s VERY immature. Needs Jesus!
It is extremely easy to get married with the emotional intelligence of a teenager.
YUP
Facts
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 you said it perfectly. He’s a man child in the grossest way possible.
Ramses doesn’t like her energy when she’s happy because it’s too much. But he didn’t like it either when she was sick, on her period and not feeling well. So… what does he like?
I kind of get it, she has no mellow. Seems like no matter what emotion she's feeling she dials it up to 11. It might get tiring, especially being around her 24/7 and realizing she doesn't have another speed. That said, his issue with her being sick was that she didn't want to have sex, that's a whole other issue and he's a complete dirtbag.
Raw dogging.
A guy 🤣
bareback and having a stupid trim, apparently
He’s a narcissist he hates that’s she so happy makes him
Feel insecure as fuk and for him
It’s not genuine so much harder to fake it, when she’s sick he hates it cuz that would mean he obv has to be there for her and can’t since he has no empathy so much harder to fake for a narcissist
My heart aches for Marissa 💔 her distress did something to my soul… she is an absolutely beautiful person who can do so much better than Ramses
@@aygun8542, So true when she said “Mommy it hurts” I lost it, my tears were rolling honestly 😭
I felt for her. She was so real and relatable in that moment.
Omg I was crying with her. It was so heart wrenching to see her broken like that 🥺 as a mother watching that I couldn’t imagine my babies calling me like that!
Yeah... the timeline on this show is absolutely a factor in all the breakups, but in this case I was like... so glad she didn't meet him in a bar or something and spend a couple of years with this guy and end up in the same place.
He was so trash. I felt so bad for her… her pain was palpable 💔
I find Ramses quite disgusting because it feels like he took advantage of the show to sleep with her and now that the wedding bells are nearer, its time for him to dip
Bingo💫
Unprotected sex at that
That’s 100 percent right!
But you don't need to go on a show to do that. Why the extra effort
@@onemanhiswhiteboard940 I think he is a narcissist and he thought he would look good on tv. It backfired though. I don’t think he ever had any intentions on marrying Marissa. He just wanted to come off as the cool sensitive dude on the show but honestly comes off as an asshole.
the craziest part about the weddings were that taylor and garret's parents BOTH were married on the 13th while thier kids are literally getting married on the 13th too LIKE THATS CRAZYYYYY!!!
So many happy coincidences - I’m so happy for them! Out of all the couples, I have a feeling these two will make it for the long haul.
Meant to be fr
There not that many options for days in a month. A lovey coincidence.
@@Blahgirl283Well, 1/30 31 or 28/29 chances to happen.
@@honeydrop89 that's an extremely low probability for three couples to get married on the 13th of a month. There's on average 30 days in a month. So for all 3 to land on the 13th is extremely ironic.
This season was wild. I went from absolutely hating Marissa's mom to admiring her ability to read Ramses' character immediately. She knew what was up!
yeah same, I thought she was being so rude but looking back now I totally agree. She just read his character immediately. I can empathize with Marissa so much. Because I recently went trough a similar heartbreak too, where this person also used my biggest insecurity against me and was just cruel
@@fut308 the great thing about that is that you'll never have that as an insecurity again as you were forced to work through it.
Yep she’s a mama bear who can see through the BS
Yeah but in one other moment she said he seems genuine 😂
Nah, she called her own daughter a bitch. You can still hate her.
Just because he turned out to be an asshole doesn’t make her actions justified.
It was heartbreaking to see Marissa in so much pain but I do think Ramses did her a favor in the long run.
He's introvert and she's extrovert. Nothing wrong with both, but i don't know how a relationship between them would work.
@@CarolineKHP3introverts and extroverts get together all the time tf?
I agree. Two things can be true. My heart aches for Marissa but it’s much better that he ended it rather than get married and get a divorce or go to the altar and say no.
@@nigerianprincess101 Truth.
Her pain was so real, I felt so bad for her 😢
Rejection is protection Marissa. You dodged a bullet and deserve the best❤
She dodged a nuclear bombardment
The ratio of horrible men to good men in this season is exactly the reason why most women have just given up. For every one Garret there's way too many Stephens and Tylers. And the amount of damage they can do is not just a heartache but devastation. I'm not saying every man is like this, just that if a person wants to date today they have to be smart, well adjusted, and have a very strong support system.
I’m still side eying Garret for him being really scared that Taylor wasn’t white in the pods but that’s just me tho
And Ramses
Facts. They discarded (Ramses), cheated (Stephen), lied (Tyler), coned (the art dealer), or didn't hold their own (Hanna's guy)...and the women? Crickets. That great Gatsby party with all the women bumped down at their table while talking about their men, and them enjoying themselves in the background said it all.
It's unfortunately a pretty accurate display of reality.
@@nahova3167the lying too. The bar sure is low this season.
When Marissa said she was able to be her 100% self with him and stay crying I get that. Being yourself IS letting your guard down and letting someone see ALL of you. She was so vulnerable and I pray she finds the RIGHT one because Ramses wasn’t it!
Marissa is high energy but that shouldn't be a deal breaker unless you're fickle. She's a good communicator, she's head over heels for him and she's willing to do the work. She's also beautiful (cherry on top).
Hearing all of the stuff with Tyler’s kids makes his baby fever so icky…every time he talks about “baby making time” or wanting to have many children with Ashley, I shudder
right like air you already have 3 kids!
Its coming off very pregnancy kink
He wants to baby trap her so she can’t leave his mess smh 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@GooKie18279 Your DNA has been spread enough.
The fact that Tyler was already engaged when he conceived the first child is EGREGIOUS!
The beginning of this last episode really disturbed me. Watching Marissa suffer like that just was unbearable. WHYYYYYYYYY did this man waste everyone's time?!!
Ramses is a scam 😭😭😭I’m done with him, actually I’ve been done with him since he brought up the whole being denied sex thing. Scam scam scam
😂😂😂
The whole condom thing completely turned me off of him. So gross.
I’ve said this 1,000 times and I’ll say it again, RAMSES IS SO FAKE! I knew it from the day he was in the pods.
I got that vibe too same with clay last season. Clay nor this dude will ever do better than the amazingly strong and beautiful women they rejected at the alter.
@@becka2005couldn’t agree more. This season was a MESS
He’s a fboy that likes to play the “I’m a nice guy card”
What a clown 🤡
The moment I saw those 2 rat tails on hid head I knew he was a fraud
SAME! Even in Cabo she would give him affection but he would always look like he wasn’t into her. Kind of had an annoyed expression before real life hit. He’s been faking this whole time. He knew he wasn’t going to marry her. He was going to likely bail at the alter but decided that he could just end early like the other couples.
Ramses is worse than Clay from season 6 😫 At least Clay was upfront about his bad habits/ demons. Ramses was so pc and morally righteous about certain issues but when it came to Marissa's body autonomy it was a problem for him. She can do way better than him!
Remind me who Clay was....?
@@jolieluc AD's fiance
@@jolieluc He constantly talked about his dad cheating and kinda acted like it was genetic.
@@ayeshasharif7397Riiiiiight! How did I forget him?! 😂 His name wasnt bringing anything up.
@@sseonghwaa7076Riiiiiight! How did I forget him?! 😂 His name wasnt bringing anything up.
i felt so bad for marissa 😞 when she was uncontrollably sobbing it took me back to my own heartbreak, i genuinely thought i was going to die from the pain. i hope she heals and he rots 😀
You couldn’t tell Ramses was off with that hairstyle??
😂😂😂 I did. He looks like he is larping.
I tried not to stereotype him, but was exactly what we should have expected
😂 I could see it from a mile away! I hate that he broke her heart, but she really dodged a massive bullet.
FOR REAL!!!!!
Haha…the braids WERE a red flag!! Professional Douchebag!!!
The moment he cared more about his own genitals than her well being is the moment this relationship should have ended.
The mess with Tyler and his children's mother is a mess. I'm embarrassed for their children.
It wild that he said he didn’t think his children even knew what he looked like but then the internet sleuths immediately found videos of him playing with his children and everyone has working eyeballs…
Ashley is so beautiful, a beautiful fool. Tyler not telling her about the children in the pods is absolutely terrible! He also apparently owes women money! Yikes!
I hope that he told her the full kids-situation when they had that conversation, just off-camera and in private. They seem like a good couple, so I’m really really hopeful that they had a private conversation about it so she isn’t blind sided again by this new info.
@@ashley48523 i highly doubt he gave her the full story because in later episodes Ashely assumes that the kids have never met him and might look for him in 5 years time. but the kids do know what he looks like and they've been probably wondering for a year where he is
@@ashley48523 I really hope so too. They seem so great together. If they didn't show us that question that Ashley asked him on camera about the kids and he flat out lied, I think I would have a little grace. lol
We could all see what Ramzes was going to do. Merissa dodged a bullet. They had so many red flags and Marissa will be glad this turned out the way that it did. Taylor and Garrett made me cry, both sets of patents showed up and said wonderful things. I have high hopes for these families. Watching Tyler and Ashley was uncomfortable. I wonder what the reunion will bring. Thanks Fsntake for the excellent coverage of this weird series.
Rejection is protection! He was awful! From the condoms to his utter lack of empathy when she was ill, to her doing all the wedding planning and him claiming to work on the “more” important stuff. Such a nice guy!
He is a child and I think he is bisexual!!
Spot on
I NEED to know what happened with the mysteriously missing clip from an early trailer where Rames is in a pool with someone and says "If I wasn't engaged, I'd f**k you"...WHERE is it production?
THANK YOU! I'VE BEEN WONDERING WHY NO ONE ELSE HAS CALLED THIS OUT??
Yes! What was that!!
Good question!! I want my money back!
His best friend?
This will probably be aired in the tell all.... Watch
Ramses is a big red flag if I've ever seen one she literally dodged a freaking bullet there
Real!
She didn’t dodge, he broke up with her.
@@pleasurensabimana3752it doesn’t matter how it ended, she’s the one who is better off without him. Hence dodging the bullet
@@carrewen he’s better off with out her, he dodged a bullet
@@pleasurensabimana3752 she was in love, so she would have gone through with the marriage no matter what, that's how she dodged a bullet. Don't try and come here with facts I already know to prove a point that doesn't really add anything to this contex 😊 who broke up with who doesn't really matter either. Why would you say he dodged a bullet? What did she ever do wrong? This man broke up with her because his ego is too big to fit inside a condom and we can ALL see it.
I just feel so uncomfortable watching Tyler and Ashley. She’s such a beautiful person but I feel like she got tricked into this marriage ugggh
wait tricked how
@@user-sp9sx9zb5l more like mislead, Tyler never mentioned having kids to Ashley in the pods before she fell in love with him. That's the kind of information people need to know in the beginning to decide if they want to proceed before feelings develop. If what is being said now is actually true, it's worse than what he made it out to be. Wouldn't be surprised if they're separated at the reunion.
For a brief second when Tyler was crying before the wedding I thought he might say no and let her know that there's more that they need to talk about before we get married. I shouldn't have given him the benefit of the doubt.
Tyler is so selfish, he wants everyone to ignore the fact that he has a whole family looking at him like😮😳. The sad part is, I don’t know if Ashley will fall for his lies & manipulation & decides to forgive this jerk.
That would have been the DECENT thing to do, but we know Tyler has ZERO CONCEPT of decency. If he TRULY loved Ashley, he would have done that.
Can they do training seminars where they teach television hosts to ask the hard questions...?
Here’s the thing- Ramses was totally right to break things off. They were not compatible. Did it seem like he was putting all of their incompatibility on her? Absolutely; not cool. But he was not wrong to break up. This marriage would have ended so acrimoniously.
wow, what a take!
Marissa is crazy naive lol she just loved how hot Ramses was and just was blind to the fact that they don't have any emotional connection
Ya but he clearly made up his mind before this day. And acting liek her personality is the biggest issue. He acts compassionate but hes not
@@theceechyes, this is the problem. He knew for a long time, he just kept stringing her along.
I just stopped watching after episode 7 and just decided to only watch Bachelor Fantake summaries. Way better memes
lol sameeee
this is how i've watched the last two seasons
I stooped after ep 3 😂
These ppl were allll soooooo immature. You can tell just by how often they like use the word like in like every single like sentence they like speak. SHEESH. Unbearable
Love is NOT enough, that is the one thing I agree with Ramses. Marissa even agreed with him. There are things you can't look past just because you're in love. Compatibility fundamentally, lifestyle wise, financial, personality, is important ALONGSIDE LOVE. Love is not the thing you use to look over everything else because you love them, because eventually those things will come back and cause issues and resentment.
Without love there isn’t a marriage love is # 1 and everything else can work itself out
Ramses is a narcissist that’s what the issue is
Ramses is unstable but yet he has the nerve to say love is not enough in other words like he’s greater then that putting everything down on her like her high energy is a problem what a tool he is but then criticizing the fact she chose to do condom sex that is the real
Issue here before that he was all in😂what a tool he is
If you’re talking about love as in the fleeting feelings of favor and affection sure, but love as in the daily decisions and willingness to prioritize another person over your own wants and needs is really the bare bones of making a relationship work despite all of those differences. That’s the love we’re talking about when we say it’s enough.
I agree with you 100 percent. Love is not enough to make a relationship work. It is the essential part but if it is the only part and you are incompatible in many other ways resentment can develop over the years because the relationship might require you to forgo the other things you want in life that your partner does not want. I know this from personal experience.
oh yeah. New Fantake video. Refreshed youtube at the PERFECT time.
same
Yessss
Watching Marissa’s face as she was basically told she’s “too much” to be with suuuucked.
i felt her 🥲
When she says she’s been told that before broke my heart because I know exactly how she felt 😞
I absolutely love Marissa's energy
I swear after watching these show if anyone ever says anything about 'Energy' to you, it's a big red flag. RUN!.
Or "Your feelings are valid"
I hate this “energy” talk, it’s so dismissive and boring.
Ramses did her a huge favor…. He’s the worst.
Denying your kids on national tv is so gross.
the way he looks at her expressionless while she's crying, not hugging her not providing her any comfort or reassurance not even a look of empathy from him, that guy doesn't like her let alone love her. he is so selfish and egocentric. he clearly not ready for marriage.
I swear if the reunion just becomes a Nick bashing fest, I'm gonna lose it. I still remember season 3 and this Tyler stuff, Hannah's verbal abuse, the weirdness about sex, it's all too serious for them to not address it, I need LIB to have learned and actually talk about these very serious things. I'm not expecting them to hold Hannah accountable, I wish they would, but they'll probably just focus on her weight loss and how great she feels now, , instead they'll make pot shots at Nick no doubt, which is awful considering he was the victim of relentless verbal abuse and I'm definitely going to leave with a bad taste in my mouth. But anyway, I expect them to hold Tyler accountable for his lies. No coming at Ashley for marrying him and no doubt staying married to him, go after Tyler for his actions. Also clear up with Ramses if he was actually saying he needed sex even if Marissa wasn't feeling well. That's a scary outdated idea and I'd like to know if he meant it like it came off or not.
best believe as long as vanessa lachey is present, hannah will not be held accountable for anything. Now the tyler tea, she might address i'll give her that
Two dreads knew he didn’t want to get married well before that breakup.
Damn Tyler got a stud pregnant? He's a wild guy 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
He signed the twins birth certificates and cut their umbilical cords but he presents as "just" a sperm donor. 😂
@@shestayready Is this facts?
I'm so sad for Marissa BUT Idk how she didn't see all the red flags starting with the condom situation...
Thank you so much for recapping perfectly with just the right amount of detail and humor. I didn't think I could sit through watching another conversation where I said "just stop talking" to the TV, and you gave that hour of sanity back to me.
He literally pulled a George Costanza move, telling her "It's not you, it's me".
"I invented it's not you it's me! If it's anyone it's me!"
😂😂😂
Ramses thinking with his pants whole time
I’m glad I’m not the only person that thinks that love is enough. Love brings patience, understanding, care, forgiveness, compassion, and all the other good stuff.
You just have to know what love truly means because love is indeed enough.
Can't wait for all the tea at the reunion. But in the meantime, can we talk about what class-acts everyone involved in Taylor and Garrett's wedding were? Both sets of parents showed so much grace and dignity. And dayum, Taylor looked so classy and elegant in her wedding dress! The drama free nature of Taylor and Garrett's relationship drew a stark contrast to how 'messy' all the other couples were. I wish them well.
I don't like Taylor's reaction to the text from the ex though.
I think Garrett behaved a little clumsy and couldn't predict it was that much of an issue for her.
But besides that they are my favourite lib couple ever 😊
❤ Garrett and Taylor, I wish them all the best and longevity in their future 🎉
Marissa’s mom tried to tell y’all about Ramses.
She is toxic. If you are toxic and negative all the time of course there will be a point where you are right.
Marissa's mom shld cut them damn ---- dreads off. Lol All two of em 😂
5:42 KNEES WEAK, MOM'S SPAGHETTI 😭 I'm so glad I'm not the only one that has that compulsion!
Ramses says so much talk, but makes no sense. He is just waiting for her to be the one to break it off
Elite channel!! Thanks for what you do 👏🏿👏🏿
How can people hate Ramses so much when Tyler is literally right there 😂
Because...Tyler lied through omission but every part of how ramses portrayed himself is a lie
Because Tyler is slick enough to do his dirt off cam
Tyler’s lie has been drug out on socials for weeks. Ramses is fresh and we can now drag him for a moment
Right answer!@@KristinaNorman
Taylor and Ashley are beautiful brides
Hopefully you saw the follow up tea video on Jesse Woo’s channel with the Baby mom ex-wife. It is a MUST SEE!!
Link pleaaaase
It is a crazy vid I had to rewatch a couple times for everything to sink in
We now know the real reason Tyler kept balling his eyes out --- It was all those lies eating him up on the inside!!! This season taught me about who NOT to date.😷
I always knew Ramses was full of bs.
He looks like he's full of bs with them two random braids and that played out high top fade!!!
@mystuff8579 why hairstyle matters, I'm sure there are good people who just like this style...yall just so conservative its silly
Marrissa didn’t know she was crying tears of joy and freedom. God saved her from that man. She better off. He did her a huge favor.
Marissa's breakdown is def one of the saddest I've ever seen in reality tv. The foolery on these shows sometimes makes me forget these are real people.
i felt marissa's hurt. her energy is part of who she is authentically, and when someone says thats too much for them, its like someone telling u there's something wrong with u. the same way nick will find a playful person who doesnt take life too seriously, marissa will find someone who loves her bubbly optimistic energy amazing.
💯
This is the very first season where we didn't get a "no" at the altar--because the "no" couples ended things early... That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe production was sick of paying for weddings they knew were going to pan out that way lol
Bri’s ex (the first child’s other mom) did an interview with Jessie Woo that added WAAAAAYYYYY more backstory.
🤦🏽♀️ that entire situation is insane!!
Who is Bri?
@@realxmadrid8338 Bri is Tyler’s baby mamma.
Nobody is talking about what a crazy name LeDallas is.
Could be LaDallas.
Rejection is God’s protection. Did you see his Victoria Secret thongs! You dodged a bullet. He cannot pick you 😢 He will always pick himself. I’m glad you’re not marrying the pirate .
Bachelor Fantake, your coverage of Ramses' behaviour tells me you have never been a straight woman dating most straight men 😅😅😅❤❤❤. You have way more emotional intelligence than a lotta guys out there!
i don’t know if i’m more irritated with the show or myself for bothering to watch (obnoxiously fast forward through) this last episode. i knew marissa and ramses wouldn’t make it, they’d either break it off in that cliffhanger or they’d say no at the alter, and since ashley’s being lied to she’ll marry tyler, and taylor and garrett are happy (but i hope they don’t turn out to be our stephen and sabrina at the reunion next week…though it wouldn’t 100% shock me with this season)
Taylor and Garrett do remind me of Stephen and Sabrina from LiB UK, maybe just because they live so far from each other. I can't help but feel like they won't last and he won't actually end up moving to CA.
Oh I’m just like you, by the end of LIB, I can’t stand the show or the cast. And I fast forwarded almost all of the episode. I think both couples are still together. Ashley had been defending Tyler in people’s comment sections since last week
@@luxindreamsI think they’ll last. The problem was that Sabrina and Stephen didn’t talk about where they will live, we saw one of them would tell the camera that they’ll live in Ireland and the other would say they will probably live in London. They didn’t have a logical plan. But Taylor and Garett do. They talked about it extensively and Garrett even went to visit her family with her. Also they don’t live in different places during filming, Taylor lived in dc but planned to move to San Diego after marriage.
The kid in me appreciated the That’s So Raven reference lol!😊❤
Thank you for covering the Bri posts, I hope ppl watch them or the game of roses video, it is heartbreaking.
I had my heart broken by someone i imagined my entire future with. It hurts so intensely and deeply, you feel like you can’t breathe as the world around you just crumbles. Nothing is clear and it doesn’t feel real. Ugh watching her reminded my heart of that pain. i felt so much empathy for her. i just want her to be over him and able to see things clearly by the reunion. I really hope the men (and Hannah) get what they deserve at the reunion.
I felt her pain as well, I'm 17 days post breakup and goddamn it fucken hurts.
I’ve gotten here at an ungodly early hour
Marissa tried to get back with him 6 months AFTER the show and luckily he said no.
I thought Tyler was crying because of his conscience not his feelings. Poor children
Crazy how people were saying Marissa was gonna harsh HIS energy out o the pods and he continued to prove DISCERNMENT and INSTINCT are always right and misogyny and the patriarchy have gone covert OPS 🤦🏿♀️
Ramses made the right move, although seeing her cry was so heartbreaking. They were clearly not compatible, from their style to their difference in values. You can love someone and realize you're not compatible with them and a marriage with them won't work. He was right, love alone isn't enough for a relationship to work. He recognized their incompatibility and ended things.
Sometimes love can make you blind to the ways you're not compatible with someone, I know from personal experience. And I think Marissa wanted marriage so badly that she couldn't see it. They were never a good match, and now she can find someone that is actually well-suited for her
honestly, love isn't always enough. sometimes people don't work because of the times in their lives, some people aren't mature enough, etc. love has to be the thing that's there when nothing else is, but there's a difference in those statements
The mother of Tyler's kids (Bri) EX-wife has also spoken out, which adds context to the bits Bri left out.
I like the idea of Love is Blind but jumping into an engagement before boyfriend girlfriend, they move hyper fast and I feel like they need to slow it down and could have a better chance
I do appreciate that they did it differently this time than having one person humiliated at the altar
Shocking coming from a Cancer Leo Leo...😅
Okay, because when she got super giddy about that combo in the pods, I was like, "Girl, don't do it!" Cancer Leo Leo is diabolical!
😂😂😂😂😂
@taylakurner 😂😂😂😂😂
I think It’s cute how Garrets and Taylor’s parents wedding were both on the 13th🥺
Marissa is better off. Good riddance.
Garrett's mom did not want the wedding, but im proud of him for having a mind of hisbown.❤❤
Ramses feels suffocated and overwhelmed and checked out a while ago,he really wanted a reason to leave.I think it’s important to read men as women and see the signs when they pull away you can’t keep trying to convince them you’re great together and that everything will be fine.I truly believe if anyone that’s the man’s job.
Marissa dodged a bullet!
Fully
I love the way you narrate, I am so loving this 😂😂😂😂
Ramses : i spoke with my niece's mother..
Me:😮😮
I would like to see the couples during the honeymoon phase not sleeping with each other. I liked in LIB Habibi that they had separate rooms. That would eliminate those h*rny men to come on the show just to get some. Also I hate that pressure for the women how everyone makes it feel strange if a couple don’t get intimate immediately with each other. I understand intimacy is important in a relationship, but clearly it’s not working on a show like LIB bc so many men come just for the nasty. So idk I would like to see separate rooms during honeymoon but more time together overall before the weddings. Maybe 2 months?
Watching Marissa go through that was kinda triggering. This is why I’m not interested in dating or being involved with anyone. It seems a lot safer to just move to a deserted island and never give someone your heart again. How can anyone recover from that kind of pain? It was painful to watch truly.
Do you seriously evaluate and base your love life off of a heavily produced and orchestrated reality show? The manipulation and social programming is off the charts. Dear God. Send help.
@@thetoughgroup That’s a fair point but I’m also going off of my own personal experiences and they haven’t been great. Which just further validated my point that relationships are a waste of time and it’s best to just stay alone.
Update:
I've started going to therapy lol. I knew my mindset was extreme but I felt it was absolutely necessary given my past experiences. Your thoughts really do create your reality sometimes.
@@JuwanTV Well, I hear you. But we are not meant to be solitary creatures. We are not meant to be alone that's not God's design for us. BUT if you choose that life then make the most of it, develop yourself, strengthen your mental health, and build your relationship with The Most High. Wish you the absolute best brother.
@@JuwanTVThat is such a negative mindset and it seems pretty sad going through life thinking like this. You are probably young too. Relationships are not a waste of time if you and your partner are healed, are willing to accept that things will not be perfect 24/7 and work to grow together. Unfortunately, many people have unresolved trauma and attachment issues which complicates relationships. It takes some work from both parties, but there are plenty of success stories
@@LifeisaBeautifulting I took some time to think about this and I agree!
I am glad Ramses broke it off, because Marissa would have said "Yes" and that would have started a world of hurt for her.
I couldn't even keep watching past water episode homeboy pulled out the "sperm donor" card
Like what in the actual hell?!?!?!
This is beyond FOOLERY
The thing about Tyler and Ashley is Ashley is online defending Tyler who allegedly hasn’t seen the kids since he left to do the show.
It seems, Ashley is as bad as Tyler, Talking condescendingly about the "sperm-babies", supporting him in lying and denying his kids, who will suffer from his bad and irresponsible behaviour their whole life. Asley just wanted her dream wedding and was willing to take whatever comes from Tyler, even this inhuman and contemptuous mess. Congratulations!!
I agree that love is not enough to make a commitment for marriage. You should choose a spouse based on love AND compatibility. Do your values align? Do your goals align? Can you agree on relationship boundaries? Are you capable of disagreeing with each other in a healthy way (rather than toxic)? Do you feel fulfilled? So many more things to think about than just love.
I love my husband more than anything, but I married him because on top of that love, I know that we make an amazing team. We are on the same wave length. Communication comes easy because we just get each other. And because of all of that, I know that our marriage will make it.
If the right people are there and wrong questions are asked I’m going to be super pissed at that reunion😂😂😂
There is nothing wrong with her energy!!
Let’s be real he didn’t want to get married.
He was fine with playing house til it was time to pay the piper.
Yes it's time for this Love is Blind show needs to be put out of our misery.
And Ramses did her a favor. Go away, Ramses, your energy makes me feel sick. You hair says it all. It's you, it's you!! Bye boy.
Marissa Broke my Heart!~!! I was not a big Fan of hers but that seen just broke me down!! LORD HE ASS !!!!! Love your Reviews always the BEST!!!!
Poor Marrisa...
Honestly Marissa and Ramses were not going to work out. I’m sad for Marissa cause the pain she felt was so hard to see. I felt every tear. And also I really didn’t want her to marry Ramses cause of all those red flags.