I’m so impressed with how she handled this difficult conversation. She kept it simple and fact based and really kept emotion dialed down to verbal disappointment. Behind the camera I am sure she is emotionally charged (as a Mom, there is no way she couldn’t be). To be a private person and feel you have no choice but defend actions that the public honestly have no business being involved in, is a shame. I hope the best for all involved. Especially those gorgeous babies. ❤
@@marissaw2914 agreed. The harm to these children and this woman is horrendous. The show is complicit in that harm. They’re profiting off this. Shame on them
@@marissaw2914 I mean that’s kind of the point right? It’s trash TV no more no less. This season was super boring till this came up. I’m sure the producers knew exactly what they were doing.
I don't think we're getting the truth from either side here. If this was an agreement between two adults and this man was such a good father before he left for the show, how is he so much behind in child support? Why is he on child support if they were best friends and worked this out. It don't make sense.
agree. I think something doesn’t smell right with this story. Who willingly has kids with someone with the intent to date others while also living together. Make it make sense
Can 100% relate to all of this you’re going through. It is the most painful feeling to grieve on behalf of your kids and the know the extent of disrespect and disregard. Iam so very sorry for all of you. Stay focused and love those kids!!!!❤
He wasn’t a best friend because he wouldn’t have done this to you despite him going off to find love that was cool because you both understood your position but he isn’t a real man because a REAL man will not disown their child or children no matter how it may affect a situation. And Secondly, Tyler called one day wanting to be apart of the first born life because he said he wouldn’t want him to grow up without a father however he turn around and left 3 kids FATHERLESS… I hope he never find the kind of love he WOULD have had with those babies. Thanks for sharing your truth you’re going to be good regardless!
Haven’t seen them since September 30, 2023 🤯🤯🤯 Did exactly what his dad did!!! Abandoning them like that and lying to everyone for no reason is beyond sad!!!!
So disappointed in Tyler. He has class and responsibility in him by stepping up and asking to be a father to the kids after the other woman stepped out. I hope Tyler wakes up and sees he's wrong.
This is heartbreaking your family deserves better. I have a feeling the producers had something to do with these statements… and I hope he apologizes and comes back to his children. Much love
This doesn’t seem right to me. 1 you’re a lesbian who was married to a woman and wanted a child and then allowed the donor to play a part why? That’s not a donors role. Okay he’s a friend but why sleep with him and have more children only to live together with the intention to date others and date?! When did lesbians date men? He signed the BC snd yall were best friends but he’s on child support. 🤦🏽♀️ this is a hot mess. Ashley girl this isn’t it… you should have left this dude alone. I don’t believe either. I want to hear from the ex wife
@AnalystAyi all these folks praising this woman is a bit much. Like what we're yall thinking? Say what you like but thus is 1 of many reasons I'm not down with surrogacy, it's alot more complex than what people think. She prays they don't see any of this so she put it out for the world, makes sense.
@@cassindermuppet8259 what are you talking about! ? Forget the lady…. This dude not only LIED about 2 of the kids, he literally AVOIDED mentioning anything to do with kids to the lady he got engaged to and met her father… literally mentioned NOTHING…. Can we AT LEAST start with that as some demonic $h!+? 😂 can we AT LEAST get that established first ?
@the77th I don't know what or when he told Ashley. They told another story at the reunion. I'm not gonna say a man lied to someone if she's saying he didn't. But don't get it twisted, I would not be messing with that man, too damn weird for me. I think the mom is messed too is all, putting her kids shit out there.
Good on her for filing for child support/change of last name. He claimed those children when it fit his agenda, now that it no longer fits his agenda, he disowned them on a television show with millions of views. Some men are true self centered CREATURES. They’ll see their father disown them. That will never leave their hearts. Sucks. All because of selfishness. Yuck.
This is all VERYYY messy. Three sides to every story. His, Her's, and the truth. I can't wait to see how all of this plays out at the reunion. Hopefully, they can all come together to clear it up.
Well, it shedslight on the complex reality of different family groupings resulting from open relationships and concensual non monogamy. He is legally the father but neither of them could love each other as a life partner they both have different needs. Tyler didnt abandon his kids he should have been transparent but the reality is no future wife is going to want to take on the financial debt for his previous kids.
He still should have been honest so she could make the choice to not deal with this or make it work SOME how. Either way,, the financial burden would be on him,, though that would impact Ashley too.
It’s not just financial burden, which actually should be mostly on Tyler, but just the fact that his new wife will be a stepparent to THREE kids is certainly something she should have been told before the wedding so she could decide if she wants to be or not! He made it sound like he was not apart of the kids lives and was only a sperm donor which was a complete lie! I thought Tyler was a solid guy, sad to see he did this, to his kids & Ashley (sigh).
Sorry but she is a mess too. You are not a private person if you do this yes Tyler abandoned them but with this statement this is being so much bigger for the kids. Her ex abandoned the first child also, just left and moved . All iof them are so selfish just think what they want nothing about the children how it’s going to effect them
It sounds like if she was with her ex wife , she wouldn't even been wanting him to see children or him have anything to do with them. I don't belive a father should ever abandoned their children, but it makes it more complicated when ur in same sex relationship and wanted a child and didn't want father involved and then that changes and the lines get blurred as to what his role is in it all! It doesn't look like he was in a relationship and abandoned his children like some assumed , definitely more complicated than that
@@hippychicken82 the twins are his full responsibility and have nothing to do with sperm donating. Hes their father legally in every way. He even signed the birth certificate. The ex wasn’t involved. Hes only a “sperm donor” to the first one
@@bertaseyeview9422 at what point is she refusing to take responsibility? She took responsibility when she admitted they slept together and conceived the twins, although she primarily dates women. Tyler is the one being irresponsible.
@@bertaseyeview9422She never not took responsibility for the twins or any of her kids. Shes the one taking care of them while he denounced all his kids to sperm babies. I don't know what you're trying to get at.
She knows the truth and it is a shame that she's coming on her to expose her children. Ashley and Tyler had a conversation off camera and decided to only put part of it on camera because he did not want his kids involved involved. Ashley knew about the kids before it even made the show, she knew the whole story but they decided to do a small edit for the cameras and she knew that Tyler knew what the kids look like but he did not want to get the kids involved so he said he did not know what they look like . This girl is doing harm to her children by exposing them and the truth has come out and her story is not the truth
But that doesn’t make sense. Ok, she knows the truth but the truth is he abandoned his kids after he specifically asked to be considered their father? That’s not good, you know.
Wow…Ashley and Tyler was the couple I thought were genuine He keep saying he’s a “protector” yet is ready to abandon his kids and call them “sperm babies” is disgustingly
I’m missing the point of how this is good for the kids. There is nothing private about you if you are willing to air your business like this. What are you hoping for here? There is more to you two than just giving each other babies. There are deeper feelings here than just being once best friends. Both of you are confused, confusing the kids & trying to confuse the viewers. Something is off about you & Tyler. Both of you are not being honest with yourself first.
@@yolandasaunders6321 She already explained why. She doesn't want her three children to be regarded as just sperm donor babies when clearly they aren't and the father was involved with all three.
So shed rather them know he abandoned them for reality tv, she needs to shut it and keep her kids lives private. This wouldnt have become world news if she wouldnt have come out. Id never put my kids private business online. She wrong@mary_syl
If this is true then that makes Tyler a deadbeat father, & that’s disgusting. I wouldn’t be able to respect a man like that, I hope Ashley didn’t stay w him after knowing this.
ummmm lol WHAT??? And soooo....how did this occur with the twins??? I'm confused, she's confused, Tylers confused. And Ashley should be confused too and headed for the DOOR!! Just foolishness. I knew from the beginning, Tyler always seemed sensitive and "ready" to marry whoever's attention he could get the fastest. Love bombing folk left and right trying to find a QUICK stepmother for the kids. Looks like his plan succeeded. Maybe she does really love him but this story just doesn't make sense and LIB should have done some research!!
You are a very beautiful woman and it’s nice you came out to explain yourself. But I feel like as watchers of love is blind it was very heartbreaking that he lied on the show. He said he donated sperm for 3 kids. He also said he wasn’t in the kids life. He said the kids don’t know what he looks like. He said all this stuff on air while everyone is watching. When in reality he did donate sperm but ONCE and then had accidentally knocked up a woman and had two additional kids from having sex. Then he lived with you for a year and was completely involved with the birth and care of these kids! He completely lied to the girl he was talking to! Even when he admitted it it was still lies. That’s so shocking because he seemed so loyal and honest but this is crazy! He found a beautiful women and didn’t want to mess it up and cut off his kids. Now I really don’t trust him. If he can cut off his kids and switch up over a women he just met for 4 weeks then where are his morals? His kids will grow up and know these fact! I hope he does pay child support after offering to be in their life. At the end of the day they’re his kids, and he’s a liar. I hope his wife his disappointed
Can we just take a moment here to understand that she finds it necessary to come out about him but shes not going after HER EX WIFE WHO LEFT HER HIGH AND DRY after making a joint decision to have a baby with her (with a mans help of course) but up and left. I think the ex wife owes her child support FOR THAT BABY. Lets keep it real honest here. Why isnt she going after her baby mama?
@@politickingwithprecious they had sex because they wanted too and if you listen to her she wasn’t trying to make kids when they had sex. Twins were unplanned. People have sex everyday and we don’t questions them
This whole interview is giving that is way off.Something is off about her, and the whole story sounds crazy. Understand some parts of it, but I'm gonna be so honest at the end of the day. I do blame this all on her because something aint making sense. I find it very ironic that she's doing all this for social media, for what, for what you are, actually the one who brought it too light, he kept it very discreet. On the show where it probably would've definitely got forgotten over the years, but now you come out with the full story all of a sudden, you're a whole stud lesbian at that nah, i'm not gonna say tyler's completely lying about certain things.
How is this video blasting all your information online helping your kids? 😂 You’re pissed and wanted to make a video in response to Tyler’s story. Be real. This is not for the good of your kid. If I was your kid I’d ask you to take this down.
She is wrong to come out of the woods with this. Is this what “friends” do? Is this a money grab? This is what happens when things are done outside of GOD’s way. He couldn’t see them because he started a new life, one she KNEW he was going to get married.
@@debbiemanning3644 STFU how is she wrong when they keep bringing her up! How is she wrong when it takes two to create a child Are you that s!ow and miserable to purposely misunderstand this situation
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I’m so impressed with how she handled this difficult conversation. She kept it simple and fact based and really kept emotion dialed down to verbal disappointment. Behind the camera I am sure she is emotionally charged (as a Mom, there is no way she couldn’t be). To be a private person and feel you have no choice but defend actions that the public honestly have no business being involved in, is a shame.
I hope the best for all involved. Especially those gorgeous babies. ❤
She’s temperate and really intelligent. I hope the fame gets her some help.
Love is blind is disgusting. Proper background checks would have prevented this disaster. What next?! A serial killer?!
@@marissaw2914 it's appalling! They have made too many blunders now, it's not safe and should be stopped.
The producers don’t care … it’s about drama if this didn’t happen it would be boring
@@marissaw2914 agreed. The harm to these children and this woman is horrendous. The show is complicit in that harm. They’re profiting off this. Shame on them
@@marissaw2914 I mean that’s kind of the point right? It’s trash TV no more no less. This season was super boring till this came up. I’m sure the producers knew exactly what they were doing.
@@johnnyutah194what? Actual death streamed live to or sofa’s? No thanks…but yeah, society seems to be heading that way
How he thought the truth wouldn’t come out is crazy 😮
This is why this dynamic is not optimal! The only victims here are these kids, caught up in selfish adult BS!
Excuse you?? How is she selfish??
Plz explain
@@bluebellcrushedvelvet getting pregnant again knowing her sexual preferences and him not being ready to be a dad I think
I don't think we're getting the truth from either side here. If this was an agreement between two adults and this man was such a good father before he left for the show, how is he so much behind in child support? Why is he on child support if they were best friends and worked this out. It don't make sense.
the show is filmed 1 year before it’s aired on netflix. so I guess he’s a year behind on child support?
agree. I think something doesn’t smell right with this story. Who willingly has kids with someone with the intent to date others while also living together. Make it make sense
Can 100% relate to all of this you’re going through. It is the most painful feeling to grieve on behalf of your kids and the know the extent of disrespect and disregard. Iam so very sorry for all of you.
Stay focused and love those kids!!!!❤
He wasn’t a best friend because he wouldn’t have done this to you despite him going off to find love that was cool because you both understood your position but he isn’t a real man because a REAL man will not disown their child or children no matter how it may affect a situation. And Secondly, Tyler called one day wanting to be apart of the first born life because he said he wouldn’t want him to grow up without a father however he turn around and left 3 kids FATHERLESS… I hope he never find the kind of love he WOULD have had with those babies. Thanks for sharing your truth you’re going to be good regardless!
Haven’t seen them since September 30, 2023 🤯🤯🤯
Did exactly what his dad did!!! Abandoning them like that and lying to everyone for no reason is beyond sad!!!!
So disappointed in Tyler. He has class and responsibility in him by stepping up and asking to be a father to the kids after the other woman stepped out. I hope Tyler wakes up and sees he's wrong.
This is heartbreaking your family deserves better. I have a feeling the producers had something to do with these statements… and I hope he apologizes and comes back to his children.
Much love
This doesn’t seem right to me. 1 you’re a lesbian who was married to a woman and wanted a child and then allowed the donor to play a part why? That’s not a donors role. Okay he’s a friend but why sleep with him and have more children only to live together with the intention to date others and date?! When did lesbians date men? He signed the BC snd yall were best friends but he’s on child support. 🤦🏽♀️ this is a hot mess. Ashley girl this isn’t it… you should have left this dude alone. I don’t believe either. I want to hear from the ex wife
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She Probably left because this is weird
@AnalystAyi all these folks praising this woman is a bit much. Like what we're yall thinking? Say what you like but thus is 1 of many reasons I'm not down with surrogacy, it's alot more complex than what people think. She prays they don't see any of this so she put it out for the world, makes sense.
@@cassindermuppet8259 what are you talking about! ? Forget the lady…. This dude not only LIED about 2 of the kids, he literally AVOIDED mentioning anything to do with kids to the lady he got engaged to and met her father… literally mentioned NOTHING…. Can we AT LEAST start with that as some demonic $h!+? 😂 can we AT LEAST get that established first ?
@the77th I don't know what or when he told Ashley. They told another story at the reunion. I'm not gonna say a man lied to someone if she's saying he didn't. But don't get it twisted, I would not be messing with that man, too damn weird for me. I think the mom is messed too is all, putting her kids shit out there.
Good on her for filing for child support/change of last name. He claimed those children when it fit his agenda, now that it no longer fits his agenda, he disowned them on a television show with millions of views. Some men are true self centered CREATURES. They’ll see their father disown them. That will never leave their hearts. Sucks. All because of selfishness. Yuck.
Wow why does this happen? Poor kids.
Todays society is a mess smh
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The truth will set u free
I think something must of happened between her and Tyler that was inappropriate. Wife found out and left.
So sad 😞🙏 for this mama
This is all VERYYY messy. Three sides to every story. His, Her's, and the truth. I can't wait to see how all of this plays out at the reunion. Hopefully, they can all come together to clear it up.
Why didn't she go after the wife of the 1st baby that was the ex's responsibility
Maybe God has his hand in this and maybe he will turn around and be there for her and the children I pray so in Jesus name ❤
Well, it shedslight on the complex reality of different family groupings resulting from open relationships and concensual non monogamy. He is legally the father but neither of them could love each other as a life partner they both have different needs. Tyler didnt abandon his kids he should have been transparent but the reality is no future wife is going to want to take on the financial debt for his previous kids.
He still should have been honest so she could make the choice to not deal with this or make it work SOME how. Either way,, the financial burden would be on him,, though that would impact Ashley too.
It’s not just financial burden, which actually should be mostly on Tyler, but just the fact that his new wife will be a stepparent to THREE kids is certainly something she should have been told before the wedding so she could decide if she wants to be or not! He made it sound like he was not apart of the kids lives and was only a sperm donor which was a complete lie! I thought Tyler was a solid guy, sad to see he did this, to his kids & Ashley (sigh).
The internet is national television? What channel is netlix on?
Wow…Ashley and Tyler was the couple I thought were genuine
He keep saying he’s a “protector” yet is ready to abandon his kids
Sorry but she is a mess too. You are not a private person if you do this yes Tyler abandoned them but with this statement this is being so much bigger for the kids.
Her ex abandoned the first child also, just left and moved . All iof them are so selfish just think what they want nothing about the children how it’s going to effect them
It sounds like if she was with her ex wife , she wouldn't even been wanting him to see children or him have anything to do with them. I don't belive a father should ever abandoned their children, but it makes it more complicated when ur in same sex relationship and wanted a child and didn't want father involved and then that changes and the lines get blurred as to what his role is in it all! It doesn't look like he was in a relationship and abandoned his children like some assumed , definitely more complicated than that
Eh that's valid for the first child. But once the wife left and he got her pregnant with twins, he definitely abandoned them
@@hippychicken82 the twins are his full responsibility and have nothing to do with sperm donating. Hes their father legally in every way. He even signed the birth certificate. The ex wasn’t involved. Hes only a “sperm donor” to the first one
@@Dorothyann436 Why was she sleeping with Tyler though? She also has a responsibilty in all of this.
@@bertaseyeview9422 at what point is she refusing to take responsibility? She took responsibility when she admitted they slept together and conceived the twins, although she primarily dates women. Tyler is the one being irresponsible.
@@bertaseyeview9422She never not took responsibility for the twins or any of her kids. Shes the one taking care of them while he denounced all his kids to sperm babies. I don't know what you're trying to get at.
She knows the truth and it is a shame that she's coming on her to expose her children. Ashley and Tyler had a conversation off camera and decided to only put part of it on camera because he did not want his kids involved involved. Ashley knew about the kids before it even made the show, she knew the whole story but they decided to do a small edit for the cameras and she knew that Tyler knew what the kids look like but he did not want to get the kids involved so he said he did not know what they look like . This girl is doing harm to her children by exposing them and the truth has come out and her story is not the truth
I agree
Yep
But that doesn’t make sense. Ok, she knows the truth but the truth is he abandoned his kids after he specifically asked to be considered their father? That’s not good, you know.
I need to hear from the ex wife. She left for a reason. Something is a miss here.
Soooo he still lied on tv on the reunion for you to say he is the knowing father of the last two kids
Wow…Ashley and Tyler was the couple I thought were genuine
He keep saying he’s a “protector” yet is ready to abandon his kids and call them “sperm babies” is disgustingly
Wow!!!!
I’m missing the point of how this is good for the kids. There is nothing private about you if you are willing to air your business like this. What are you hoping for here? There is more to you two than just giving each other babies. There are deeper feelings here than just being once best friends. Both of you are confused, confusing the kids & trying to confuse the viewers. Something is off about you & Tyler. Both of you are not being honest with yourself first.
@@yolandasaunders6321 She already explained why. She doesn't want her three children to be regarded as just sperm donor babies when clearly they aren't and the father was involved with all three.
So shed rather them know he abandoned them for reality tv, she needs to shut it and keep her kids lives private. This wouldnt have become world news if she wouldnt have come out. Id never put my kids private business online. She wrong@mary_syl
If this is true then that makes Tyler a deadbeat father, & that’s disgusting. I wouldn’t be able to respect a man like that, I hope Ashley didn’t stay w him after knowing this.
Oh no girl, he should be responsible for all 3. What a deadbeat.
ummmm lol WHAT??? And soooo....how did this occur with the twins??? I'm confused, she's confused, Tylers confused. And Ashley should be confused too and headed for the DOOR!! Just foolishness. I knew from the beginning, Tyler always seemed sensitive and "ready" to marry whoever's attention he could get the fastest. Love bombing folk left and right trying to find a QUICK stepmother for the kids. Looks like his plan succeeded. Maybe she does really love him but this story just doesn't make sense and LIB should have done some research!!
I think their both wrong .
You are a very beautiful woman and it’s nice you came out to explain yourself. But I feel like as watchers of love is blind it was very heartbreaking that he lied on the show. He said he donated sperm for 3 kids. He also said he wasn’t in the kids life. He said the kids don’t know what he looks like. He said all this stuff on air while everyone is watching. When in reality he did donate sperm but ONCE and then had accidentally knocked up a woman and had two additional kids from having sex. Then he lived with you for a year and was completely involved with the birth and care of these kids! He completely lied to the girl he was talking to! Even when he admitted it it was still lies. That’s so shocking because he seemed so loyal and honest but this is crazy! He found a beautiful women and didn’t want to mess it up and cut off his kids. Now I really don’t trust him. If he can cut off his kids and switch up over a women he just met for 4 weeks then where are his morals? His kids will grow up and know these fact! I hope he does pay child support after offering to be in their life. At the end of the day they’re his kids, and he’s a liar. I hope his wife his disappointed
Somethin about her dont sit right w me. Idk
Can we just take a moment here to understand that she finds it necessary to come out about him but shes not going after HER EX WIFE WHO LEFT HER HIGH AND DRY after making a joint decision to have a baby with her (with a mans help of course) but up and left. I think the ex wife owes her child support FOR THAT BABY. Lets keep it real honest here. Why isnt she going after her baby mama?
@@MA-wo5yk exactly
She's not famous. She's riding on the fame train
Sending prayers.....Yes, not all but most men are disgusting
What wnba team she play for?
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime lol…
I guess the wedding is off😐 why did yall have sex? Insemination was too costly? This is exactly what Ole girl didn't want, baby momma drama🤷🏾♀️
@@politickingwithprecious they had sex because they wanted too and if you listen to her she wasn’t trying to make kids when they had sex. Twins were unplanned. People have sex everyday and we don’t questions them
Want or need.
Who’s Tyler
@@AutismMaMa123 you’ll need to watch love is blind.
Du rag praying dude
Go away! If you really care about your kids this discussion would be conducted in private. You're confused, it's either a man or woman.
This whole interview is giving that is way off.Something is off about her, and the whole story sounds crazy. Understand some parts of it, but I'm gonna be so honest at the end of the day. I do blame this all on her because something aint making sense. I find it very ironic that she's doing all this for social media, for what, for what you are, actually the one who brought it too light, he kept it very discreet. On the show where it probably would've definitely got forgotten over the years, but now you come out with the full story all of a sudden, you're a whole stud lesbian at that nah, i'm not gonna say tyler's completely lying about certain things.
And there it is you want money
How is this video blasting all your information online helping your kids? 😂 You’re pissed and wanted to make a video in response to Tyler’s story. Be real. This is not for the good of your kid. If I was your kid I’d ask you to take this down.
She is wrong to come out of the woods with this. Is this what “friends” do? Is this a money grab? This is what happens when things are done outside of GOD’s way. He couldn’t see them because he started a new life, one she KNEW he was going to get married.
@@debbiemanning3644 STFU how is she wrong when they keep bringing her up! How is she wrong when it takes two to create a child
Are you that s!ow and miserable to purposely misunderstand this situation