Living a debt free Life| Finances in relationships| Lihle & Shalom
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- Dave Ramsey Book- The Total Money Makeover
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I’m definitely coming back to this conversation. We can easily overlook such conversations but these principles matter the most ! Thank you guys for this !
Just saw it now guess will also have to get back to it
Mina I'm watching it again😅
Absolutely
Definitely coming back too, I love!!!!
That, "10% is insurance for 90%" line just made malachi 3:8-12 make even more sense.......
Great episode.
Brilliant conversation. Mogale literally started without me - that’s how excited he was. And guess what, we had to start again to watch it. Thanks for touching on such an important topic. So appreciative for this. We are learning ♥️
I always have this bitter-sweet feeling after these podcasts. All because of the burden of realising that there's still alot I need to develop in me. It's nerve-wracking yet exciting. There's a lot of work I need to put into being disciplined but I also look forward to the person I will be afterwards. This conversation has been subtle yet greatly empowering. May God bless the effort your putting into teaching His gospel through practical, application based lifestyles.
Beautifully said ❤️ I am more excited to have power over myself and be the best version of myself on a daily basis
Relates. This channel is doing the Lord's work!
Eh! Yazi spot on this is exactly how I feel. A lot of development to be done within myself.
I'm watching this podcast and I'm like ah I'm living a fake, horrible life while people are living out there.
Right....after this I am getting into my sacrificial giving.As for tithing and offering I am already on it.
The way Brenden looks at Mpoomy whenever he is explaining something. It is. Priceless. The love and partnership lana OMG🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️ God bless your union🙏
Mpoomy I love to see how you have grown as a women, wife, brand, business women. It has been beautiful to watch, onwards and upwards, blessings in abundance :)
As someone that was consistent with tithes... when my salary got halved last year and had so much financial pressure, I stopped giving my tithes and things just got worst. I'm glad after watching this episode that I gave my first tithes in months. My financial situation hasn't changed but I'm trusting God with my money again.
Oh my word... I can so relate. Please do keep giving and trusting God. He is Faithful! In 2015 I also decided to go back to tithing and being consistent with it. I was doing my honors and paying for my own fees.Within a couple of months I unexpectedly got enough cash to get me out of all my debt and pay my varsity fees in full for the year and that was in March.
The testimonies are endless... even to date.
Don't ever stop tithing
❤❤hope you're still tithing and finances getting better and better
Ooh Mpooomy,I'm a single mom of 2 and I have embark on this journey of being debts free.This was so informative
I love that Shilom was honest about his debt. So many people don’t disclose their debt until they are married. My hubby showed me his payslip on our first date🥴. He has always been transparent about finances & we also don’t believe in debt (typical debt is cars & bond).
Absolutely a stress-free lifestyle. My husband & I lived 12 months with no couch thd 1st year of marriage & drove a old auction car he bought cash a year or so before we got married
We now living a debt free lifestyle, we bought all 3 cars cash & our 2nd house cash...we have no credit card (no overdraft no clothes debt),
We live by if we don't afford it now let's save for it to own it later, we make use or take advantage of discounts e.g our kids school fees we pay upfront for the whole year to get 20% off & able to give, being able to serve others (church/community/family) with our money, time, wealth & ability
Sho, Lihle and Shalom's story sounds so much like mine. It feels refreshing to see that it is possible to be debt free. We even signed ourselves up for debt review to get a breather (this helped a lot lot with decreasing our interest rates and we never decreased our payments, we kept on paying more). The joy that comes after paying off a debt... Priceless! Been married for 6 years and this past December was the first time we went on vacation since we got married and we did that whole trip fully relying on liquid cash instead of debt. Thanks to Covid we managed to squash even the balloon on our car.
Tithing has always been a problem for me🙈💔.. But I am prioritising on it now. Either way this episode was sooo good🥺.. It taught me so much when it comes to money.. Thank u guys for sharing this with us❤️
"...you must honor the season you're in..." Very wise words those yazi Mpumi. And honor it I shall... 🙏🏾. It is well.
Thank you so much for this. For the past two weeks, I've been budgeting in my head because I was scared to write down my expenses for the month. I literally paused the video, took a pen and paper and wrote my budget for the month and I also added it to my prayer list. I asked God to help me to stay faithful when it comes to tithe. This was God confirming it. I'm going to stay faithful in tithing. Even though it's going to be tight but I'm giving my Father His money. I'm not playing around.🙏🏾
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐- when I saw another couple I thought- oh no, some unrelatable content for a single girl like myself and I NEED TO ADMIT THAT THIS HAS BEEN SO FREEING ESPECIALLY BECAUSE I AM SINGLE AND THE PROSPECTS OF GROWTH THROUGH INTENT HAVE NEVER BEEN MADE SO CLEAR. The principles you all shared? Good Lord the principles are IMPECABLE😭😭😭! Building, Process, Intentionality, Honesty, Transparency, Stewardship, HEALTH & WEALTH! You touched so seamlessly on these and thank you for anchoring the conversation in the reality of God wanting us to do well and being honest about the worthwhile and HARD sacrifice it'll take.
Yes, I am young, yes, I am still growing but this was SO NEEDED. It also just helps contextualize prayers in order to be specific in what I desire. Imagine when I then start building with a husband and for our children? I MEAN! Will the ground of my heart not be fertile thanks to such teaching? MAN I am grateful!
LOVELY meeting Lihle & Shalom- breathtaking energies and auras. God bless them. Ofcourse to the Ledwabas- Makwande umsebenzi omuhle ukhule! GRACE ALLOWS!
Mpoomy and Brenden were born to do this. Every topic, every conversation, is EFFORTLESS!!! Always so good, so enlightening. It always leaves me wanting to do better.
Waitsi mpoomy is God sent, I been following her since journey when she was pregnant with Nuri were she was planning her own baby shower. I was like joojooo this lady oo strong...long story short I practically learn so much from this podcast. I'm also close to be debt free soon
One of the best ones yet! Firstly, I was so distracted by Lihle- she’s so beautiful!
It was so interesting to watch how 2 different couples made this book fit into their lifestyle.
I really just realised again that a God centred marriage is really all I’d want to have for myself.
Also realised that this is actually such a great goal to have in life- to live debt free. Even to start when you are single!
I really loved this episode. It was fun, informative and inspiring all at the same time. Love!
Our Love Journey came back with a bang this year. Thank you guys for such freeing conversation.
@@peacelovehope1879 God is really using them. 🙏🏾 Thank you for following the instructions of the Holy Spirit, may God continue to use you.
Two pivotal things that stood out for me
1)Honour the Season you in it passes
2)Tithing is DEVINE INSURANCE spiritual principle that we need to honour reminds me of (Proverbs 11:18)
This podcast was refreshing guys two Young God-fearing Couples open up about their own lives and Journeys im inspired & im so sharing this stream with my spouse keep on posting more please it's going to liberate so many folks
I love Dave Ramsey! His teachings and encouragement have been such a blessing to my family and to millions of people!
I also love Dave. He is a straight talker does not sugarcoat anything. A friend of mine says do not listen to Dave if you are feeling down about your finances. But he is a voice of conviction, not condemnation, when it comes to being financially free!!! It is possible for a lot of people...a lot!!!
Hello, what is the title of Dave Ramsey's book? 😊
“God is about to trust us with wealth”🔥🔥
I love how you always bring in people who are soo honest about everything that happens in reality we are learning a lot ❤️
What a fruitful conversation 👌We learn every day on this channel.
"Honor where you are, you are not gonna be there forever" Mrs Mom😇thank you😇
Oh man I just love this couple and how transparent they were. It made me do some reflection on my finances with Hubby
I wish them all the best with their business ❤️
Oh and please tell them to open a TH-cam channel and we’re ready to subscribe ❤️
Mrs Mom is a prophetic speaker though. I am for “God is about to trust us with GENERATIONAL Wealth” !! YEESSsss🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
My spirit gets super excited when I hear conversations about “FAITHFUL TITHING”
It’s not a surprise that God keeps blessing your family. You are so influential and to boldly express your commitment to such principles of the kingdom of God without sugarcoating the matter is admirable. You literally preaching the gospel without needing a pulpit and you and your husband do it in such a relatable manner.
Great conversation, so many nuggets of wisdom where served here 📌
Honor your season, you are not going to be there forever. Love that! ❤️
Yoh, I got a big beating from this conversation because I stopped tithing properly after I had to carry most of the financial responsibility in our household. Listening to this actually reminded me of who I used to be, I had a lot of faith and belief that God had my back... now I feel like Im actually backsliding. Thank you for this, I need to review not only my finances but my faith as well. Tithe goes hand in hand with faith for me. This was an eye opener
"Where my wealth is needs to be solid ground !!" Love that
I love this couple . Especially how they said they waited even when they lived together ❤. It can be done
This feels like I'm in the room, nodding at literally everything said. This is really rare and insightful - I needed it at this point of my life (just after graduating). Thank you, thank you and thank you. Keep up the good work. You have a Stan here. 😊🙏🔥
You are welcome, whatever you do, don't take accounts and get into debt
Me too 🤣🤣, keep nodding with hmmmm’s & aaaaah’s
Me too. I needed this. ❤️ Literally woke up feeling like : "you know what, i need a new pair of jeans. I had worked so hard on paying off the account I wanted to use to purchase these jeans until I watched this. I'm like :" hey God! I hear you. 😂😂😂😂 Maybe the jeans can wait. "😅
I love money conversations, I love listening to people talk about their relationships with money because I respect mine with money. And you can never have enough money knowledge because it’s an evolving aspect of life. So Mrs Mom, A 25year old girl from Botswana appreciates this episode. It was necessary even for a single girl ❤️ . By the way looking forward to seeing you in Botswana 🇧🇼 at the retreat 💃🏾
Guys thanks for being so vulnerable with us. This conversation was much needed❤
It is so important to go into such commitments with a person with the same principles and beliefs because these can be hard conversations between couples. This is a great conversation to come back to when I am considering marriage because nkosi yami finances are important! Thank you for sharing your story Lihle and Shalom. Danki Ledwaba Family ❣
Also you guys are empowering the marriage blessing and making it look exactly like what God made it to be. Thank you.
I love the light in this room. The light on these heavy topics🌻
The topics, debts and tithing are not the nice ones to talk about but they are essential. Thank you guys for this.
I’m going to listen to this conversation over and over and over again. The same way I watch your video about tithes and giving.
“What if God tells you to move but you can’t because you are in debt.” Which is kind of what Shalom said.
Thank you guys for the candid conversations, speaking so openly about the ‘Ls’ we take in life. It’s comforting to know that there are many others who are walking the same journey as me, but also so encouraging to see that it’s possible to come out of and live debt free. Thank you ❤️🥰
this was so wholesome 10/10 , Its going to be one podcast I revisit regularly
This is so much wisdom and seeing black people doing great things is such an inspiration. Thank you.
Your podcasts are forever the best like I am a 23 year old and building myself though all these interviews, I come to watch really with expectations to learn and be challenge. And this for sure has been very helpful, i am not in much debts just have one account but I guess one can multiply more but having to learn this at such age will really help to redirect my focus and do things differently. Thank you so much Mrs Mom, Brenden and your amazing guests for the amazing content.
Thank you for reviving my hope, l feel so motivated, l got a lot of profound nuggets (team work in marriage, focus, goals, prioritising, standards that are governed by the word of God, striving for a life of freedom etc), THANK YOU and may God keep enlarging your territories
I love how Mpoomy looks at Brenden when he speaks 🥺
They look at each other with so much love and affection 😍❤️ They are just so present and in the moment 💯
I just can't get enough of this podcast ♥️. It is so refreshing to say the least♥️. Thank you guys for changing our lives through sharing your journey with us.🙏♥️🙏
“The entry level of giving is tithing” - Lihle
This spoke to me! Thank you for such a raw conversation.
"Honor your season, you are not going to be there forever" - Mpoomy Ledwaba 🙌🙌🔥🔥
This was good. My husband and I also started with the Dave Ramesy baby step, its going well. I love how you spoke about Tithing, we are also on that “this is because we tithe” when random things happen and God provides for us in ways we never imagined . Loved loved this
What an amazing conversation to listen at this time in my life. Soon I will be finishing school and get in the corporate world (hopefully soon after varsity) and such conversations are crucial because they help us youngsters to make good financial decision. I never thought there was a thing called "tithing goal" but after watching this video I have set mine too. I cannot wait for another video. Love you guys!
I absolutely love your content. There is no topic that you don't approach with care and diligence. Love it here always.
This is one of my best episodes, definitely getting a copy of this book. Have had the name Dave Ramsey in 2 other sermons this week, must be the Holy Spirit. Thank you guys, you rock. Lihle & Shalom thank you for sharing your journey so openly. Amen to thriving , it's your time, you deserve it
Wow this was by far the amazing and educational video, I loved how real the couple was with their finances and especially debt, everything was relatable and exactly how it happens to most of us, our family members or 1 us in our rltnshps , it's really the reason many don't flourish and get to where they wish no matter how hard they work you still in 1 place bcoz you haven't faced the problem, we live in difficult times and alot of ppl don't see a bigger picture because of the noise and everything around them and they have no Idea how freeing it is to focus on what you have and do whatever possible with it and remain in prayer with God to provide more but mostly stay true to yourselves and what you have currently, everything else will fall into place at the right time.
I just love how wholesome your content is. You touch every area and man are you empowering and equipping us 💛
I stopped tithing 6years ago after my dad lost his Job and I needed to help at home but I am challenged to start again after hearing this conversation. Thanks for sharing guys.
Hey guys, this episode was packed with so many nuggets, I ate from this plate and I feel fully nourished!!!! Could you guys cover a very important topic in christianity right now: To ATTEND CHURCH ONLINE OR GO TO A PHYSICAL CHURCH? Discussing how technology has changed how we do church. We even have to give offerings via eft while watching online, we read the bible n our devices etc. What are the pro's and cons
This could be in accordance to what works for you, when do you receive most from a service, when you attend church online or physical? It is easier to get distracted during online church especially when you are having it on your phone and notifications are popping up anytime, also you are probably attending online church from home where you can easily be convinced to make yourself a cup of tea, eat food, or do something else when you are supposed to be paying your full attention to God in that moment. But if you can master the discipline of honouring the time for God and concentrating on only Him during service, be it online or physical, I believe that God is not limited to distance, space or specific walls. The word of God emphasizes the spirit of fellowship, and if you can feel that in an online service, then why not.
However, I will be very glad If The Ledwabas talk about this sometime, these guys are a well of wisdom and we are always blessed to draw wisdom from them and the guests that they host.
Hey, don't have much to say but attend a church. Find a local church, our purposes are built around those we fellowship with, God speaks through people in our spiritual homes. Online can be convenient, but we don't get to serve and use our talents, abilities and resources to build God's house. And there is too much traffic online, too many people preaching, and when we are in a local church, we get to hear God's word for our very contexts and lives, and not general messages. We are called to not forsake the gathering of the saints 🙏🏽. Contact ministry, don't let the whole online culture and how everything has turned upside down influence your physical attendance of church. Hope it makes sense.
@ Pea Maps, my assumption while replying was that your local church live streams their services, fellowships, overnights etcetera.
@@ashabacomfort4692 listen!!!! You said a word or two right there. Thank you so much for taking time to repsond to my Comment. This right here is Christian fellowship and ministry in it of itself because I needed guidence and who better than the body of Christ to weigh in. Appreciate it. Also hope the Ledwaba's unpack this
@@peacelovehope1879 Thank you so much you guys * inserts crying emoji*
Watching this alone. Cant wait to re-watch with hubby. We are such givers, and the part where you mentioned that you cant take care of others if you haven't taken care of the self. Also looking at tithing as insurance and number 1 priority. Ah man, you guys made so much sense, so much so I felt this was my debt breakthrough moment. Bless all your souls 💫💫
You guys are too amazing, you are specially anointing for this TH-cam business. It’s actually manifesting into a ministry. I pray God continue to bless you both. I pray He equip you to not tire to share, literally the Good News. How refreshing it is and enlightening to see young and godly couples in this day and age! There are days where the devils whispers and lie to us that there isn’t this kind anymore… it’s like every week you guys deliver the youth from the distortion of the beauty of marriage, myself included. I love you many times!! Continue being blessed to be a blessing to others
I love how you are both, as couples jelling so perfectly. Loved this
Si la!!!! Si Ready!! We Like even before we watch...
Thank you Thembi
I had to stop the video and go tithe. Bless you people. This is both spiritual and practical. Love the content as always.
This was really helpful. i live pretty much a debt free life. but i dont have a car house or thriving business. and the bit about having the work ethic to get yourself out was inspiring. the whole episode. And how its not about praying. . this was good
Beautiful tips about money habits , love that !
Out of all your videos, I want reluctant to watch because of how this topic is so sensitive to me. I've been pushing it away because I was avoiding the pain that would come with the truth in it. Because I know you guys would scrutinize me and bad financial decisions, and because I know how honest you always are.
But now I'm grateful and believe that this is where God have put my massage of my breakthrough. I hope and pray that one day I'll come back with a testimony.
I watch all your videos but never comment a lot because I usually watch while working at my 9-5. Today it just to that part where I had to put my fingers into this conversation and say Thank You guys for your willingness to do God's work with love all the time.
Love always 💚💚💚
Tithing is truly an insurance,i remember when I took a decision to start it was when there was a COVID case at work and i promised God that I'll tithe nomatter what just need protection from this deadly thing and He has.
Today I also learnt ukuthi it's also an insurance for my 90% that he has blessed me with
Thank you so much to you and the guests
God always send us His help through people that we live with la emhlabeni
Thank you for allowing God to use you
We are learning a lot about the word and life itself.
Wow my Faves in the house ❣️🙏🏼🎊❣️ Lihle and Shalom ❣️❣️
Amazing couple
This is an amazing conversation. Pray that God gives you the revelation of tithing. Joseph Prince's teaching on tithing really helped me to understand tithing.
Wow…you guys!I could listen to you the whole day…Would be listening to this over and over! Since listening to Dave ,i am for debt free life and building wealth,giving like never before!I can’t wait to payoff my car and going forward we buying our cars cash!
The level of honesty in this channel🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥺😍
I love watching how genuine this conversation is. Thank you
I needed this, coz I was deciding that this month is hectic, but God just spoke to me, I have to give that tithe no matter what
I can't put into words how much of a blessing this conversation was to me. Thank you ❤️
I needed this conversation!! Thanks so much to all of you ❤️❤️😭😭
This is timely ♡My goal for 2022 is actually to live a debt free life. I have been struggling with tithing but I got answers to all my questions from this podcast. Thank you guys, God has spoken through y'all♡♡♡
Mpoomy is hilarious my goodness, "so lentaba ye..." that's when I paused and wrote this comment.
I'm really enjoying this conversation, so so important. The more people speak on this, the more we are also liberated to discuss it in our circles and grow in the right direction.
This was a great conversation. I've literally just opened my first account this year at the age of 28, just because I need to buy a house and last year I was rejected due to no debt. I've promised my self and my husband that we not taking more than just 1 account each and we plan to pay the accounts off immediately after the bond approval.
Building credit score is a trap 🤞🏾. It require discipline
"God wants us to have life, but life in abundance"🥰
Mpoomy and Brenden, you guys are God sent. I needed this hear this conversation so much, I am thankful to God for this channel. I appreciate you guys so much. And may God bless you and may you keep giving us more wholesome and insightful content ❤❤❤
Love how honest this couple is 🙏🏽
My conviction this week! Thank you, indeed it's God's heart for HIS children to thrive!💯💥
Wow this is such an insightful realistic and necessary conversation. I appreciate how y’all are brave enough to be SO transparent, in order to help others. A serve 🙏🏾❤️
These talks are becoming more real 💕
The one couple I’d love to see back here. This was such a fun conversation 🎉❤.
Took so much on the Tithe, Offering and Sacrificial offering part ❤️❤️❤️
Wow. I've been taking notes throughout this conversation. I've learnt so much and will surely personalise and implement these principles in finances in my marriage.
Just started watching and absolutely loving the energy 🤩🤩
Mpoomy is so beautiful 🥰🥰🥰
This couple is so authentic. 8min. Yoh i am happy
Definitely will re-watch this a 100 times until I get it right. Thank you so much for this conversation. You've really evoked something in me.
Thank you Lord for using these people to speak to me. I've been trine figure out why I need to continue offering my tithes. But I've been delivered.
The way I'm taking notes..yeiy! So on point, so relevant, so precise 5 stars
Yoh God knows how much I needed this conversation 🙆
Oh man, I used to attend Liberty Church in Randburg before I moved, I can attest to this. They would play videos of Dave Ramsey and also Rick Warren's The Blessed Life. That's where I got introduced to Dave Ramsey❣
I have really enjoyed this and for sure things will never be the same again. I gotta work out my debt free life. Sooo educative. More blessings girl.
Aawww, amen
I'm so inspired by you guys, thank you for this ..our (mine and hubby) goal this year is to lead a debt free life, for our generations to come.
Your story made it just easy for us to embrace the season...The principles are spot on...ignorance makes us weak in our financial lives.
Lol 3minutes in and chile i relate🙈 we’re on the Wait but we stay together. Its doable but challenging. We’re engaged now but still on the wait.
To add, the financial conversation is very important. We had the talk literally the first day of dating after courtship.
respect for overcoming debt together.
What a beautiful episode to watch. I don't know why I took so long to watch this. My FI journey is also influenced by Dave Ramsey but obviously with my own tweaks. I'm happy that I paid off my autoloan last November and now almost finishing baby step number 2. Thank you guys for showing it's doable.
Such an informative episode! I don’t understand why they never teach these kind of stuff in high school?! Beautiful episode!!
Yet another amazing episode! Great guests, great conversation and super relatable. I will repeat this episode as I always do! Looooove love love the conversation on Tithing. You guys are definitely doing the Lords work!
Please share Dave Ramsy’s book.
Hayi No we definitely need to give Mrs Mom and Brendon their flowers while they can still smell them 🥺😭🙌what a video... Thank you!!!! 🌻 ❤️
Oh wow, this is so empowering!!! I remember when I stop tithing for a few months and all of a sudden it was like my financial Life was under attack. I found myself digging deep into my savings until I had to take a loan because izinto zingasahlangani. It really hit me hard. These conversations are so liberating. And proof that once you set your mind to something, it is possible. Thank you Mpumi & Brandon, ngingayeki Guys & your guests are always so interesting, I’m still trying to recover from the goosebumps the last episode gave me! Love you both lots.