Me and my mother in law very friendly for almost 15 years, but when there is an issue, she took her daughter's side and ditched her own son, my hubby very badly.. after 15 years living with her like my own mom in a joint family, i realised that mother in law can't be our mother at any point.. it's a myth.. till situation dint arise, they will behave good, but when there is a situation they will definitely become mamiyar.. infact they see their own son as daughter in law's husband.. and treat them differently compared to their daughter..
U are absolutely rt... Even I was in joint fly for several yrs... And further i was nursing my mil mom... When i refused my sil tld it's ur karma... Though being educates unable to raise voice against these sister in law's... Finally mil mom expired in 2019 and for her rituals my mil just like that spilled words as to serve for my mother only we got married to my son.... Fm there i to my charge to back fire her.. now after 3 yrs I am living peacefully..
Same here. She said nasama poiduvernga nu. After that, I lost many things. My second baby girl got expired at 2021 . she was prematured baby. Then my husband's open heart surgery, and lot of health issues happened to me. Still its paining a lot. Worst lady ever I have seen. I don't want to be with her at any cost
Why do you expect a daughter in law to be your official cook and an unpaid servant? Why would you then want to marry your son instead hire a maid/ cook!
Mrs.Poongodi 9th degree was simply awesome.(Mrs.Poongodi, You have all the qualitites to become a orator. Looking forward for poongodi's show) There should be a show for daughter-in-laws to prove the reality of the arrogant mother in laws on the other side...
@@nandhithanuts9485aama athaan pidichurukku... Antha amma laam pesurathukku pesaamaye irukkalaam... Yebba.. ithu nadanthu oru 8 yrs irukkum.. antha marumagal ku inneram intha covid time la suthanthiram kedachurukkanum nu naan vendikkiren😂😂😂
"why would the mothers get their sons married?" This question was raised at one point. And i am still wondering what answers the authoritative mother in laws would have given. And i also wonder what Dr.Shalini would have said if she had been in this show ?. Good show. Thanks to all the participants for speaking.
This is the reason why dil's, don't like to live with their MIL's. When you think of controlling other people. It simply won't work. When are you all going to understand.
Andha 9th degree mam& black saree mam avangaluku vara pora marumagal really Princess,queen ipadi enna ena words iruko yalladhaiyum sollalam (the point of view is very clear & this generation fact ku yatha mari irukuradhu dhn best) ❤ andha green sarry mam oda marumagala nenicha dhn pavama iruku 😢😢😢 andha marumagal evlo kasta patutu inneram anupavachitu irukum nu 😢😢😿😭
Hats off to Poonkodi aunty.... And i really feel so pity for the daughter in laws of those two, that green and multi color saree... my kind advice for those two daughter in laws, "kick them out of the house."
Excellent topic Gopi. Ore category rendu pakkamum ukkara vechadu sooper. Ide maari samoogathukku usefula nerayya topics la vanga. Wishing you all the best
Left side Brown saree super mamiyar.. 😍😍😍 & nan patta kastam en marumagal padakudathu super statement for better life.. Right side blue saree romba over namba than ellam nu Stone hearted person.
பச்சை சேரி மம்மிஸ் வெரி பேட் மம்மி🙄🙄🙄 எம் புள்ளை என் புள்ளைன்னு சொல்ற மம்மி அவங்க புள்ளையை அவங்க புள்ளையாவே வச்சிருந்திருக்கணும்... வேற பொண்ணை கல்யாணம் செய்து அந்த பொண்ணு வாழ்க்கையை பாழாக்க கூடாது
Neatness, discipline, good habits Amma veetla ponnu thaana appudinu solli kudukkaama vitrupaanga. Adha unga amma solli kudutha thappa. Husband first marranum enga Amma enna adichu irukaanga thitti irukaanga adhey Pola en wife oda ammavum. Endha pillayum appa Amma kitta thittu vaangama adi vaangaama valarndhadhu illa. Unga wife oo Amma vo sonna problem ennanu kelunga adhu rightna sollunga do the right it on time. Nenga pudichuttu valikkudhu thanninu nee sollum podhu marandhutten, illatti meduva vandhittu irundha accept pannuveengala. Ammavum ponnu thaan wifeum ponnu thaan. Amma kashtapadum podhu theriyala, wife free ya irukkanum jolly AA irukkanum. Idhenna niyayam. Tharaasil sammamaga alakka vittaal vitiruveengala kadaikaranai. Nerngalum unga veetil uravugalai tharaasil sama mmaaga niruthi paarungal. Veetil nimmadhi santhosam, amaithi, iraivan arul irukkum.
the lady in green colour saree wid glasses is she a military officer or a mother-in-law!!!! vry arrogant !!! disciple ah , rules ah blah blah... n the 9th degree mother-in-law sema !!
this so is very fantastic and content is simply exposed to viewer . chennai poongodi madam has a good appreciation from us. thanks gopinath sir for giving good thought to people every week.
Green sarree !! complete stupidity.... Yaaruppa antha amma voda marumaga.. kai eduthu kumbidalam .... i salute everybody sitting in the opposite side. Specially poongodi and lady in black sarree.
The left side of mother in law ( free mother in laws) are perfect for the current generation. Then only life will be happy, easy, affectionate and understanding
@@nandhithanuts9485 excuse me...what has happened to the responsibility and duties of men in a family...they also have to help in household duties...just because they are going to work doesn't mean they don't have to help in household duties...men also have to share housework...daughters in law also go to work...won't they be tired doing all the housework all by themselves?....besides going to work?...stop picking and picking on daughters in law...its just not fair....
@@nandhithanuts9485 I’m sorry, but where is the man in this situation? Why does the burden fall on the daughter-in-law to be a perfect caretaker/cook/maid/whatever? What role does the husband play? Are women the only ones burdened with responsibilities?
பெண் திருமணம் ஆகி கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு வந்தாசுன்னா கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு சுவையில் தான் சமைக்க வேண்டும் எல்லாருக்கும் அப்படியே பழகிட்டாங்க ok அந்த பொண்ணு அவ வீட்டு சுவையில் சாப்பிட்டு பழகிருப்பாலே அப்படின்னு யாராவது யோசிச்சிங்கலாம்மா அவ ஸ்டேஸ்ட்ல சமைக்கட்டும் அந்த ஸ்டேஸ்ட் புடிச்சா அப்படியே சாப்பிடுவோமே ஒரு வாய்ப்பு கொடுப்போம் என்று சிந்தனை யாருக்கும் வரல முழுக்க முழுக்க சுயநலம் படைத்தவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள் அந்த பெண்னுக்கு வாய்ப்பு கொடுதோமாணால் அவல் சமைத்து உங்களுக்கு பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் அவளே சரி அவர்களுக்கு நமது ஸ்டேஸ்ட் பிடிக்கல so நாம அவங்க ஸ்டேஸ்ட்க்கு சமைக்க பழகுவோம்ன்னு அருமையான முறையில் பழகுவாங்கமா பயப்படாதீங்க நீங்களும் மருமகளாகி இப்போது மாமியாராகிருக்கீங்க so பொறுமை
என்னுடைய கணவர் அவருடைய அம்மாவுக்கு தான் முக்கியத்துவம் குடுப்பாங்க நா எதாவது சொன்னாலும் அவுங்களுக்கு எல்லாமே தெரியும் நீ எதுவுமே சொல்லாத உனக்கு அந்த பக்குவம் இல்ல அப்படினு சொல்லுவாங்க அவுங்க வெளிப்படையாவும் சொல்லுவாங்க எனக்கு அம்மா அப்பா தான் முக்கியம் அடுத்து தான் நீ என்று சொல்லுவார்
மருமகள் மாமியார் வீட்டிற்கு வந்திருக்கிறார் கிட்டத்தட்ட அவள் விருந்தினர் போல தான் சோ குறைந்தபட்சம் ஆரம்பத்திலாவது அவள் விருப்பத்திற்கு அவள் ருசிக்கேற்ப உணவுகளை நாம் தரவேண்டும் அதை விட்டுவிட்டு எங்க சௌகரியத்துக்கு எங்கள் டேஸ்ட் கேட்டபடி சமையல் என்று ஆர்டர் செய்வது சமையற்காரயை நீங்கள் கொண்டு வரவில்லையே.....
ஆயிரம் இருந்தாலும் தாய் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது மாமியார் பெருமைக்கு ஊர் மெக்சிக்கோ கூறலாம் அதுபோல் மகள் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது பெருமைக்கு கூறலாம் சூரியன் கூட மேற்கே உதிக்கும் இந்த உறவுகள் மாறவே மாறாது 😁😁😁😁😁🙏
Strict mother in laws all are thinking that daughter in law is just a unpaid maid..... It is really showing in their speech and attitude at few mins of show itself...... They all are just expecting to share work that's ok..... But how they can think that a girl is coming to listen to all my words??? Are daughter in laws slaves for you? To listen to all of your words and mood their head and keep quite?
They will all suffer when they become old , their dil will do it back to them at that time. Instead if they are friends naturally the dil will take good care of them. What we give is what we get.
Glad to see a sensible mother in law. Proves formal education has nothing to do with how sensible a person is. Like my loving mil. Love her to bits. This emotional blackmail for son's attention is the very reason why people want to move into individual homes, however small that space might be. These women are the very reason their child's life will get frustrating and spoilt. Thankful for my mil who praises even a simple tea i make for her❤❤
9th std mamiyar knew how to handle the whole fly... Even my mil was a teacher... She expects the same fm me too like her scl.. students... She has an attitude as educated PPL know more than the uneducated.. Padipu வேற பண்பு வேற
Yeppa! The price young women pay for marrying sons of such ladies . Dowry, MIL competing , trashing, being bossed around by in-laws, in-laws bringing frictions into married life, damaged self-worth, lack of appreciation for all the menial labour done, mainly such cheap Politics that suckle peace away, someone else dictating the ways of our lives ….all these for love from husband. No wonder divorce rates are up & live-in relationships are chiming in. Both men & women are losing faith in the institution of marriage. Why can’t married couple be a separate branch of the same tree & function independently understanding each other’s needs & derths? Also noticed how they address their sons as “en pillai”, “kolandhai” they never expressed a dot of love for DILs?
The difference between the two groups is a little humility. Yaarum first naale perfect dil ah iruka maatanga. And every mil was once a dil. I want to be one such good mil in the future like Poongodi aunty.
the two ladies with glasses were horrible...but the worst thing was the other lady saying that she tries to bring in friction between the son and D-I-L by blowing up small incidents... pathetic attitude... just to retain the confidence of your son, you screw his married life? why the hell do you get him married then? keep him with you till you die...
I don't justify what the elderly woman did. But boys usually get carried away with their wives & 99% of the wives takes advantage of this & fill their ears about their in laws & create a kind of hatred for their folks & extreme affection for their own people. Can you deny this ? It is to balance this that mils fill their son's ears things about their dils. So one wrong gives birth to another wrong. We are living in Kali yugam & not sathya yugam. We are living in a world where people are always tempted to do evil against their fellow beings. No use blaming one side alone. You have to see both the sides. It is a 'kill or you'll be killed' kind of world that we are living in.
Latha Baradwaj Yes, I can deny this. What you are referring to is a small proportion of girls... Even if that happens, I expect the mother-in-law to be mature and handle the situation in a way that can resolve the problem or friction between them. That is why she has the M-I-L stature, I expect her to be mature. Being open, honest, and problem solving vs building pressure on the son by adding negative thoughts - which would a mature lady pick? In any case, I am totally with Gopi when he says "Unga pulla unga marumagalukku thaan first"... If elderly women can't understand this, they better not get their sons married.
There is no first & second. This is a family & not a running race. The son should give equal importance to the feelings of both the ladies & behave in a 'matured' fashion instead of going to the side of whoever pulls him. This is what causes insecurity in the family.
And who is responsible for her insecurity soon after the son's marriage ? Who is supposed to assure her that nothing has changed in their relationship just because he is married & that he will continue to love, respect & care for her come what may ? A mother tries hard to fix a good wife for the son so that there will be somebody to take care of him even after her death. Is this what she gets in return ?
@@swathiniraju4731 yes Romba miss panren ☹️. Nalla mother in-law vum irupanga. Enga Amma kuda Ethavthu work panna solluvanga but en mamiyar Romba kind nalla pathupanga. Ethume kurai solla matanga😍
World best liars, 1:17:40 , society ku act as a good person but inner heart worst worst behavior, same scenario and same year 2014 I face in my life , break my marriage life , enga ponnugaluku important illa , gold , money than important........eppo ethalam change agum ?
karthik kumar But the world doesn't work that way my dear. You are not as old as I am & have not seen enough of life as I have. So it is natural for you to come to such conclusions. Again what is discipline & what is tyranny, what is duty & what is control are all relative terms. It all varies from person to person. It is not the same for all. It depends upon where you draw the line & how you've been brought up.
Superb show. Gopi conducted it so well and participants did amazing contribution. I don't have mother in law but I got many take aways how love wins over control to use in my life.
I have a genuine request that there should be a channel/ ability to provide valid feedback especially for socially relevant shows such as Neeya Naana. This would bring about an intelligent discussion on how viewers view the show and provide feedback. Given that the show has risen to a significant viewing audience, it's responsibility in providing both sides is equally important. To those that came on this show, apart from all the cliche'd marumagal- maamiyar discussion, I would like to genuinely ask them how differently do they expect their grand-daughter to be raised? In the kitchen, learning cooking while she's 10, since she needs to cook anyway. When do men take equal responsibility in the household? Do they ever expect women to ever achieve equality in society? Clearly, that doesn't seem to be the case at home. In the first twenty minutes itself, I saw several instances of both sides mother-in-laws refer to their son, their husband, but rarely ever consider the daughter-in-law as family. Are they truly your family at all? I think the tradition of Indian "marriages" seems to bring a huge sense of entitlement (on several people in different families) to think that a new relationship can be based on demands. Yes demands, those that were given were not "advise". Because you provide no option to the receiving end to accept/reject the advise.
At no point the men were expected to do some chores,fight is which woman should work,at least teach your son to clean the plates after eating, DIL or MIL mattum thaan sapta thattu kaluvanuma?
Wht r al Poongodi mam told s simply true n a practical thought.want to praise her n 1 sentence na Factu Factu Factu:-) Sure she ll d most noticable person n her street.
Even in friendly side they are not truly friendly. Adhigaram and feeling happiness and thimiru from adhigaram is fundamentally the old system and not friendly. Why you want to lrder around another woman ? Dont you remember how you felt ?
Worst mamiyaars ... Please don't get ur son married ... Keep it with u life long. Tell your daughter in law your family practices and cultures but please don't expect them to be a dippi copy of you .
@@sd-ud6iq thanks for the reply, absolutely agree. They are craving for attention and love. But sometimes the best thing is to love yourself so you attract love from the right people. That’s an ongoing work on self. 🌈♥️✨
21:03 அந்த அம்மா மருமகள் தேடல அதிகாரம் பண்ண ஆள் தேடுறாங்க மாமியார்( including my mamiyar )கூட வாழ்ந்து கஷ்டப்பட்ட யாரும் இந்த அம்மா மாதிரி பேச மாட்டாங்க 😢
Stop calling whatever you want to convey just tell directly may be she will notice n ask or will realise same happened to me. Na ethume koopidrathilla 10 yrs ayiduchu analum nalla pesarom pazhagarom
Amma Amma Dhan.maamiyar maamiyar dhan. No one replace our mother.. I love my mom
அப்போ கல்யாணம் செய்யாமல் அம்மா கூடவே இருக்க வேண்டியதுதானே
S s that 9th degree lady wonderful. Frankly, I would like 2 meet her.such a great attitude.god bless her family
So true bro!! She makes her family like temple ..I would like to even meet her
கண்டிப்பாக ஒரு நாள் சந்திக்கலாம்
@@ramchandran8051
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Me and my mother in law very friendly for almost 15 years, but when there is an issue, she took her daughter's side and ditched her own son, my hubby very badly.. after 15 years living with her like my own mom in a joint family, i realised that mother in law can't be our mother at any point.. it's a myth.. till situation dint arise, they will behave good, but when there is a situation they will definitely become mamiyar.. infact they see their own son as daughter in law's husband.. and treat them differently compared to their daughter..
Exactly.their love for son decrease after marriage if he contradict their opinion.eppavum aamam Sami podanum prusugaluku
True words... Bring a daughter in law of a single mother (Hubby's mom) I feel humiliated each and every day at my own home...
U are absolutely rt... Even I was in joint fly for several yrs... And further i was nursing my mil mom... When i refused my sil tld it's ur karma... Though being educates unable to raise voice against these sister in law's...
Finally mil mom expired in 2019 and for her rituals my mil just like that spilled words as to serve for my mother only we got married to my son.... Fm there i to my charge to back fire her.. now after 3 yrs I am living peacefully..
Yes but there are some exceptional Mamiars who treat well .
Same here. She said nasama poiduvernga nu. After that, I lost many things. My second baby girl got expired at 2021 . she was prematured baby. Then my husband's open heart surgery, and lot of health issues happened to me. Still its paining a lot. Worst lady ever I have seen. I don't want to be with her at any cost
Mrs.Poongadi should start a "mother-in-law training academy"!
mumble weed super pa! crctu!
9 th standard mom in law amazing... My kudos to you👏🏼👏🏼
Why do you expect a daughter in law to be your official cook and an unpaid servant? Why would you then want to marry your son instead hire a maid/ cook!
Haha. Good Q
💯 correct
She has to pay them la. That's why..
Green sarry anuty..ayyayyyo..looks like devil lady! I pity her daughter in law
Exactly! Why do women even get married under these circumstances 😮
9 th ல்
degree படித்த சகோதரி அருமையான பேச்சு எதார்த்தமானது சூப்பர்
Timing solunga
33:31
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Mrs.Poongodi 9th degree was simply awesome.(Mrs.Poongodi, You have all the qualitites to become a orator. Looking forward for poongodi's show) There should be a show for daughter-in-laws to prove the reality of the arrogant mother in laws on the other side...
Hat's off to Poonkodi Madam. God bless you and your family! Love and kindness will one or the other day will win a person.....
I love the 9th standard mother in law - such love, humility and so smart and importantly so funny! ❤😅 40:08 and 40:33
Oru amma thun karuthai soll mudiyamal kashta paduthuradhu thaan ungalukku pidichirukka
@@nandhithanuts9485aama athaan pidichurukku... Antha amma laam pesurathukku pesaamaye irukkalaam... Yebba.. ithu nadanthu oru 8 yrs irukkum.. antha marumagal ku inneram intha covid time la suthanthiram kedachurukkanum nu naan vendikkiren😂😂😂
Yes I too agree
Mee too 😁😁😁
Exactly my mother in law
They r treating their daughter in laws as "maatu ponnu" ly..poongodi mam has given a slap on those faces..congo👌👍
"why would the mothers get their sons married?" This question was raised at one point. And i am still wondering what answers the authoritative mother in laws would have given. And i also wonder what Dr.Shalini would have said if she had been in this show ?.
Good show. Thanks to all the participants for speaking.
நிங்க சமைக்கிற மாதிரியே தான் மருமகள் சமைக்கனும் என்றால் கல்யாணமே பண்ணி வைக்காமல் நிங்களே சமைச்சு போடுங்கள்.
S correct 💯
True 😂
@@shakthimaanr2251 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
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Ha ha ha sabash sariyana potti 😂
This is the reason why dil's, don't like to live with their MIL's. When you think of controlling other people. It simply won't work. When are you all going to understand.
They never understand
All these people never teach their sons cookinv
They see their Dil as sakkalathi😡
இந்த ஜென்மத்தில் புரியப்போவதியல்லை. அடுத்த ஜென்மத்தில் கர்மா விழிக்கும் போது தானாகப் புரியும்
Andha 9th degree mam& black saree mam avangaluku vara pora marumagal really Princess,queen ipadi enna ena words iruko yalladhaiyum sollalam (the point of view is very clear & this generation fact ku yatha mari irukuradhu dhn best) ❤ andha green sarry mam oda marumagala nenicha dhn pavama iruku 😢😢😢 andha marumagal evlo kasta patutu inneram anupavachitu irukum nu 😢😢😿😭
hats off to 9th degree lady ..... u r the real mother in our nation god bless u....
9th std Degree mamiyar literally superb. Hatts off ❤️😍
Hats off to Poonkodi aunty.... And i really feel so pity for the daughter in laws of those two, that green and multi color saree... my kind advice for those two daughter in laws, "kick them out of the house."
Excellent topic Gopi. Ore category rendu pakkamum ukkara vechadu sooper. Ide maari samoogathukku usefula nerayya topics la vanga. Wishing you all the best
Poongodi, 9th le degree lady was my favourite. ❤️
Left side Brown saree super mamiyar.. 😍😍😍 & nan patta kastam en marumagal padakudathu super statement for better life..
Right side blue saree romba over namba than ellam nu Stone hearted person.
பச்சை சேரி மம்மிஸ் வெரி பேட் மம்மி🙄🙄🙄 எம் புள்ளை என் புள்ளைன்னு சொல்ற மம்மி அவங்க புள்ளையை அவங்க புள்ளையாவே வச்சிருந்திருக்கணும்... வேற பொண்ணை கல்யாணம் செய்து அந்த பொண்ணு வாழ்க்கையை பாழாக்க கூடாது
no she is correct
She is toxic mother. That's called toxic mother issue. Like santhos subramaniyam father.. this is female version. They will destroy their son's life
Antha kelavi ellaam covid la kelambirukanum nu naan vendikkiren 😂😂
@@manimegalaira2824 edhu correct ah
Super super enga veetlayum same speech en pillai😂😂😂
Better keep all your sons as bachelors ever
Their's are not son at all. Better to keep their monkey tails at their xyz
Super
R u bachelor still now uncle
Neatness, discipline, good habits Amma veetla ponnu thaana appudinu solli kudukkaama vitrupaanga. Adha unga amma solli kudutha thappa. Husband first marranum enga Amma enna adichu irukaanga thitti irukaanga adhey Pola en wife oda ammavum. Endha pillayum appa Amma kitta thittu vaangama adi vaangaama valarndhadhu illa. Unga wife oo Amma vo sonna problem ennanu kelunga adhu rightna sollunga do the right it on time. Nenga pudichuttu valikkudhu thanninu nee sollum podhu marandhutten, illatti meduva vandhittu irundha accept pannuveengala. Ammavum ponnu thaan wifeum ponnu thaan. Amma kashtapadum podhu theriyala, wife free ya irukkanum jolly AA irukkanum. Idhenna niyayam. Tharaasil sammamaga alakka vittaal vitiruveengala kadaikaranai. Nerngalum unga veetil uravugalai tharaasil sama mmaaga niruthi paarungal. Veetil nimmadhi santhosam, amaithi, iraivan arul irukkum.
Correct😂🙌🏻
மாமியார்களே கற்றுக்கொடுங்கள்..
கற்றுக்கொள்வார்கள்..
மருமகள்கள் அதிகாரம்
தேவையில்லை..
அன்பு மட்டுமே..
இங்கே உங்கள் அன்பான ஆயுதம் ❤
PONGUDIS Speech is very acceptable.
the lady in green colour saree wid glasses is she a military officer or a mother-in-law!!!! vry arrogant !!! disciple ah , rules ah blah blah... n the 9th degree mother-in-law sema !!
That green saree lady is gonna live her last days by herself without any help. If you don't treat your dil, you will suffer 😭.
Why is green saree aunty son not doing any chores? Can’t he iron or take his own tablets
this so is very fantastic and content is simply exposed to viewer . chennai poongodi madam has a good appreciation from us. thanks gopinath sir for giving good thought to people every week.
i like that poonkodi aunty. her daughter in law is very lucky.
Green sarree !! complete stupidity.... Yaaruppa antha amma voda marumaga.. kai eduthu kumbidalam .... i salute everybody sitting in the opposite side. Specially poongodi and lady in black sarree.
Enjoyed this episode...!!
Yennoda mamiyar kannula padura varaikkum share pannunga....
Simply waste , husband dhan purinjikanum wife a apo dhan happy life long life vazhalam
Same
Mil never change...she is too arrogant
Intha episode tv potu parunga ellarum okanthu
No use 🙃
8 yr ago nadantha program.....
Comment full recent
Naanum athathan nenachan pa😲
They recently uploaded the video I guess
நானும் இப்பதான் பார்த்தேன்
Sme. Me
Nanum now only watching
The left side of mother in law ( free mother in laws) are perfect for the current generation. Then only life will be happy, easy, affectionate and understanding
@@nandhithanuts9485 are all men responsible and good without any affair ??
@@Neon-dq8sd exactly ...well said sis....how come she's generalising all daughters in law this way...nonsense
@@nandhithanuts9485 excuse me...what has happened to the responsibility and duties of men in a family...they also have to help in household duties...just because they are going to work doesn't mean they don't have to help in household duties...men also have to share housework...daughters in law also go to work...won't they be tired doing all the housework all by themselves?....besides going to work?...stop picking and picking on daughters in law...its just not fair....
@@nandhithanuts9485 I’m sorry, but where is the man in this situation? Why does the burden fall on the daughter-in-law to be a perfect caretaker/cook/maid/whatever? What role does the husband play?
Are women the only ones burdened with responsibilities?
@@aparna2701 exactly sis...her replies in the comments section are really weird
1:00:32 this lady is veryyyyyyyyyyy irritating. Then why did you get him married to a girl 😡😡😡😡
She is irritating and she is also pathetic 😞
Cruel mils are ignorant believing that their sons are loving and obedient..the sons are just acting to be so..
100% true
Why there is no role for husband. Are women born only to serve.
Yes
@@GokulHardy7 who said so
@@GokulHardy7 thimiru. Ponungaloda sabatha vanity nalla iruka mudiyadhu
@@GokulHardy7 en saapadu potu sapida theriyatha? Kaluva theriyuma? Illa adhayum un wife than pani vidanuma?
பெண் திருமணம் ஆகி கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு வந்தாசுன்னா கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு சுவையில் தான் சமைக்க வேண்டும் எல்லாருக்கும் அப்படியே பழகிட்டாங்க ok அந்த பொண்ணு அவ வீட்டு சுவையில் சாப்பிட்டு பழகிருப்பாலே அப்படின்னு யாராவது யோசிச்சிங்கலாம்மா அவ ஸ்டேஸ்ட்ல சமைக்கட்டும் அந்த ஸ்டேஸ்ட் புடிச்சா அப்படியே சாப்பிடுவோமே ஒரு வாய்ப்பு கொடுப்போம் என்று சிந்தனை யாருக்கும் வரல முழுக்க முழுக்க சுயநலம் படைத்தவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள் அந்த பெண்னுக்கு வாய்ப்பு கொடுதோமாணால் அவல் சமைத்து உங்களுக்கு பிடிக்கவில்லை என்றால் அவளே சரி அவர்களுக்கு நமது ஸ்டேஸ்ட் பிடிக்கல so நாம அவங்க ஸ்டேஸ்ட்க்கு சமைக்க பழகுவோம்ன்னு அருமையான முறையில் பழகுவாங்கமா பயப்படாதீங்க நீங்களும் மருமகளாகி இப்போது மாமியாராகிருக்கீங்க so பொறுமை
Romba correct aa sonnenga 👍
😊
it was one of the wondreful episode ilove this
என்னுடைய கணவர் அவருடைய அம்மாவுக்கு தான் முக்கியத்துவம் குடுப்பாங்க நா எதாவது சொன்னாலும் அவுங்களுக்கு எல்லாமே தெரியும் நீ எதுவுமே சொல்லாத உனக்கு அந்த பக்குவம் இல்ல அப்படினு சொல்லுவாங்க அவுங்க வெளிப்படையாவும் சொல்லுவாங்க எனக்கு அம்மா அப்பா தான் முக்கியம் அடுத்து தான் நீ என்று சொல்லுவார்
மருமகள் மாமியார் வீட்டிற்கு வந்திருக்கிறார் கிட்டத்தட்ட அவள் விருந்தினர் போல தான் சோ குறைந்தபட்சம் ஆரம்பத்திலாவது அவள் விருப்பத்திற்கு அவள் ருசிக்கேற்ப உணவுகளை நாம் தரவேண்டும் அதை விட்டுவிட்டு எங்க சௌகரியத்துக்கு எங்கள் டேஸ்ட் கேட்டபடி சமையல் என்று ஆர்டர் செய்வது சமையற்காரயை நீங்கள் கொண்டு வரவில்லையே.....
The good maamiyar face all bright n happy. The bad maamiyar face all like serial villi maamiyar
ஆயிரம் இருந்தாலும் தாய் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது மாமியார் பெருமைக்கு ஊர் மெக்சிக்கோ கூறலாம் அதுபோல் மகள் இடத்தில் யாரும் கிடையாது கிடையாது பெருமைக்கு கூறலாம் சூரியன் கூட மேற்கே உதிக்கும் இந்த உறவுகள் மாறவே மாறாது 😁😁😁😁😁🙏
But in my case my MIL is way better than my own mom 😢- I have nice MIL like people are sitting in the left side ❤
@@rojiramgallery2354lp
Fact
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@@suganyamuthu7057 sathiyam TV Mukhtar Ahmed speech
1000 likes to Poongodi madam..
Strict mother in laws all are thinking that daughter in law is just a unpaid maid..... It is really showing in their speech and attitude at few mins of show itself...... They all are just expecting to share work that's ok..... But how they can think that a girl is coming to listen to all my words??? Are daughter in laws slaves for you? To listen to all of your words and mood their head and keep quite?
They will all suffer when they become old , their dil will do it back to them at that time. Instead if they are friends naturally the dil will take good care of them. What we give is what we get.
Glad to see a sensible mother in law. Proves formal education has nothing to do with how sensible a person is. Like my loving mil. Love her to bits. This emotional blackmail for son's attention is the very reason why people want to move into individual homes, however small that space might be. These women are the very reason their child's life will get frustrating and spoilt. Thankful for my mil who praises even a simple tea i make for her❤❤
35.15 to 36.06 I like this mamiyar mentality... genuine ly think Dil side...9th standard mamiyar superooo super🙂🙂🙂
9th std mamiyar knew how to handle the whole fly... Even my mil was a teacher... She expects the same fm me too like her scl.. students...
She has an attitude as educated PPL know more than the uneducated..
Padipu வேற பண்பு வேற
@@sudhayogesh7275soopera soninga ponga ...unmaya
Salute to the 9th grade degree holder :) Theri Mass aunty.. !! Awesome slang and on fire :D
வேலைக்கு போன மாமியாரே அவர்களை விட அதிகம் படித்த பெண்ணை வேலைக்கு போக அனுமதிக்கவில்லை என்பது தவறு.
@@balasubramanianparamasivam3851 moodu ni
Exactly. You are right ms. Shanti
No.. it's happening
Yeppa! The price young women pay for marrying sons of such ladies . Dowry, MIL competing , trashing, being bossed around by in-laws, in-laws bringing frictions into married life, damaged self-worth, lack of appreciation for all the menial labour done, mainly such cheap Politics that suckle peace away, someone else dictating the ways of our lives ….all these for love from husband.
No wonder divorce rates are up & live-in relationships are chiming in. Both men & women are losing faith in the institution of marriage.
Why can’t married couple be a separate branch of the same tree & function independently understanding each other’s needs & derths?
Also noticed how they address their sons as “en pillai”, “kolandhai” they never expressed a dot of love for DILs?
Green sorry over
1:08:28 must watch this
Intha kandipana maamiyar munja parthale vanthi varuthu 😂😂😂😂
😂
Exactly which mamiyar😂😂😂😂😂
The difference between the two groups is a little humility. Yaarum first naale perfect dil ah iruka maatanga. And every mil was once a dil. I want to be one such good mil in the future like Poongodi aunty.
A lady's divine form is mother
A lady's devil form is mamiyar
the most sadistic form of a lady is daughter in law.
Sadist means feeling happy for others sadness. I think u used wrongly
😂😂
@@unicorn111 daughter in law feels happy when mother in law is really sad . I am well aware of the meaning of the word sadistic.
Actually there are many genuine mil out there ❤❤❤
the two ladies with glasses were horrible...but the worst thing was the other lady saying that she tries to bring in friction between the son and D-I-L by blowing up small incidents... pathetic attitude... just to retain the confidence of your son, you screw his married life? why the hell do you get him married then? keep him with you till you die...
I don't justify what the elderly woman did. But boys usually get carried away with their wives & 99% of the wives takes advantage of this & fill their ears about their in laws & create a kind of hatred for their folks & extreme affection for their own people. Can you deny this ? It is to balance this that mils fill their son's ears things about their dils. So one wrong gives birth to another wrong. We are living in Kali yugam & not sathya yugam. We are living in a world where people are always tempted to do evil against their fellow beings. No use blaming one side alone. You have to see both the sides. It is a 'kill or you'll be killed' kind of world that we are living in.
Latha Baradwaj Yes, I can deny this. What you are referring to is a small proportion of girls... Even if that happens, I expect the mother-in-law to be mature and handle the situation in a way that can resolve the problem or friction between them. That is why she has the M-I-L stature, I expect her to be mature. Being open, honest, and problem solving vs building pressure on the son by adding negative thoughts - which would a mature lady pick? In any case, I am totally with Gopi when he says "Unga pulla unga marumagalukku thaan first"... If elderly women can't understand this, they better not get their sons married.
There is no first & second. This is a family & not a running race. The son should give equal importance to the feelings of both the ladies & behave in a 'matured' fashion instead of going to the side of whoever pulls him. This is what causes insecurity in the family.
Latha Baradwaj Exactly my point... And who is the one who feels insecure here.. the lady who says 'avan en pullai'... Nee next thaan...
And who is responsible for her insecurity soon after the son's marriage ? Who is supposed to assure her that nothing has changed in their relationship just because he is married & that he will continue to love, respect & care for her come what may ? A mother tries hard to fix a good wife for the son so that there will be somebody to take care of him even after her death. Is this what she gets in return ?
Watching After 8 years from USA😍.. மாமியாரை ரொம்ப மிஸ் பண்றேன்
Unmaiyave miss pamriya😂
Thaniya irukarathula miss pandringa. Kudave iruntha kandipa miss panna matinga 🙂
@@swathiniraju4731 yes Romba miss panren ☹️. Nalla mother in-law vum irupanga. Enga Amma kuda Ethavthu work panna solluvanga but en mamiyar Romba kind nalla pathupanga. Ethume kurai solla matanga😍
@@keesworld1 apadina miss pandrathu thappu illa..🤝🤝🤝
@@rajeswarisedhu2990 😍😍
Watching after 9 years.. 21/7/23... 😂😂😂
😅😅 yes
31/10/2023 😂😂😂
Nanum eppothan paakkaran😂
31/11/23
Im also 😁😁30.11.23
watch 41.09 can't control laughing gopinath face 😂😂
9th padithirundhalum, nasukka nadandhukara Pakuvam irruku, super
Love side mother in law is really super. Love you aunty.
மாமியார் ஜம்பம் லாம் பேசிட்டு இருந்தால் சுலபமாக பெண்கள் வாங்க தனி குடும்பம்பாக செல்லலாம்னு போய்டே இருப்பாங்க.
எட்டு வருடங்கள் போகட்டும்.இப்பொழுது எப்படி உள்ளார்கள் 😂😂😂😂😂🙏
Ninth Degree Mam super. lovely 🌹
The black saree and the pink saree(9th degree) is super they are the best mil
I also like both characters
Best psychology
Do all these mother-in-laws' own children follow their rules? If not, then how can they expect other people's children to listen to them?
Super Poongodi mam wht r all u told s simply true n practical talk want to praise u n 1sentence na
Factu Factu Factu:-)
World best liars, 1:17:40 , society ku act as a good person but inner heart worst worst behavior, same scenario and same year 2014 I face in my life , break my marriage life , enga ponnugaluku important illa , gold , money than important........eppo ethalam change agum ?
What happened mam
@@user-zw1im3qe2e past is past, respect the good girls, don't over judge the people live happy life
Ivalavu pesum mamiyargal, thangal pilagalai idhai soli koduthu valarthargala😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Etharthama irukara pasangalakooda kedukkurathe intha valantha idiots than nee aambala aambalanu solli dominating mentality ya build panrathe intha veenappona valantha arivillatha jenmangalthan😡🤬
Multi Color saree aunty's home would be like a military base... 7am breakfast, 12 noon lunch, 7pm dinner and lights out by 10pm. Lolz..
haha
But she'll have the last laugh. What about other aunty's ? Probably old age homes. Is it okay ?
karthik kumar
But the world doesn't work that way my dear. You are not as old as I am & have not seen enough of life as I have. So it is natural for you to come to such conclusions. Again what is discipline & what is tyranny, what is duty & what is control are all relative terms. It all varies from person to person. It is not the same for all. It depends upon where you draw the line & how you've been brought up.
karthik kumar
Hahaha. Yeah. Once the sons get married, the mils should respect the dils & behave properly. Got it. Good luck to your parents.
அன்பிலே கண்டிப்பாக கூறலாம்.அதிகாரத்தோட கூறினால் கண்டிப்பாக இந்த காலத்துப் பெண்கள் கேட்பார்கள்.இது ஒரு மறுமகளாகவும் , மாமியாராகவும்...
Episode and season Solunga please
Superb show. Gopi conducted it so well and participants did amazing contribution. I don't have mother in law but I got many take aways how love wins over control to use in my life.
I have a genuine request that there should be a channel/ ability to provide valid feedback especially for socially relevant shows such as Neeya Naana. This would bring about an intelligent discussion on how viewers view the show and provide feedback. Given that the show has risen to a significant viewing audience, it's responsibility in providing both sides is equally important.
To those that came on this show, apart from all the cliche'd marumagal- maamiyar discussion, I would like to genuinely ask them how differently do they expect their grand-daughter to be raised? In the kitchen, learning cooking while she's 10, since she needs to cook anyway. When do men take equal responsibility in the household? Do they ever expect women to ever achieve equality in society? Clearly, that doesn't seem to be the case at home.
In the first twenty minutes itself, I saw several instances of both sides mother-in-laws refer to their son, their husband, but rarely ever consider the daughter-in-law as family. Are they truly your family at all?
I think the tradition of Indian "marriages" seems to bring a huge sense of entitlement (on several people in different families) to think that a new relationship can be based on demands. Yes demands, those that were given were not "advise". Because you provide no option to the receiving end to accept/reject the advise.
vazhga poongodi madam
Sama urimai koduthu sudhandhirama respectfulla marumagal unarvukum asaikum value kodutheenganale podhum mana niraivoda ellathaum namma kudumbamnu neenga ethirpaakarathavida athigamave seivaanga 🎉❤
அருமை . economically is thousand time correct
9th Degree woman...I want a mother in law like you hahha!
8 years later, did your wish came true?
Yes Nisha... reply me
Same bruh such a chill lady😅
mdm poonkoodi and the lady with black saree.( same side as mdm poonkoodi), u guys have my respect :D
Poonkodi akka semma
Wt an episode ❤❤❤ in love with ponkondi mamiyar❤❤❤
Ego illama chinnavangalo periyavangalo yar nallatha sonnalum atha eduthu implement panna lyf happya pogum 💐
At no point the men were expected to do some chores,fight is which woman should work,at least teach your son to clean the plates after eating, DIL or MIL mattum thaan sapta thattu kaluvanuma?
அன்பே. ஜெயிக்கும்🎉🎉🎉
எனக்கு தோழமை மாமியார் பிடிச்சிருக்கு missing anuty to mee cute
Wht r al Poongodi mam told s simply true n a practical thought.want to praise her n 1 sentence na
Factu Factu Factu:-)
Sure she ll d most noticable person n her street.
EXECELLENT SHOW I EVER SEEN BEFORE
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Even in friendly side they are not truly friendly. Adhigaram and feeling happiness and thimiru from adhigaram is fundamentally the old system and not friendly. Why you want to lrder around another woman ? Dont you remember how you felt ?
Worst mamiyaars ... Please don't get ur son married ... Keep it with u life long. Tell your daughter in law your family practices and cultures but please don't expect them to be a dippi copy of you .
Exactly 💯
Blue saree on left side funny😂😂
Sad to see the strict MIL especially when they say how to be first in their sons place. 😞.
Because they don’t have their own life. 😢
Women who have understanding partner (mamanar)will not compete with dil for son love
@@sd-ud6iq thanks for the reply, absolutely agree. They are craving for attention and love. But sometimes the best thing is to love yourself so you attract love from the right people. That’s an ongoing work on self. 🌈♥️✨
Its not carving for love but their insecurity that daughter in law might throw them in old age homes.
True. Pathetic they are.. that green saree lady needs therapy.
very useful program.
Entha kalathula inthe mari epudi work pannanumnu pasangalukum solli kudunga plz romba kastama iruku kolanthaingala pathuto veeto Vela seiya help panrathuku solli kudunga enaku oru paiya iruka avana apuditha valaka pora
Epothume amma amma than. Mamiyar Thani... No one replacement for MOTHER ❤
21:03 அந்த அம்மா மருமகள் தேடல அதிகாரம் பண்ண ஆள் தேடுறாங்க மாமியார்( including my mamiyar )கூட வாழ்ந்து கஷ்டப்பட்ட யாரும் இந்த அம்மா மாதிரி பேச மாட்டாங்க 😢
This green sari lady is doing nattamai..then don't get married to your son keep it in your mundhanai
Marumagal also antha maari mamiyarku yetha maari than amayum i have seen in real life ...😂😂 marumagalum satharana alaa irkathu..
9th std aunty z the real friendly mamiyar hats off to u❤
Timing enna solunga plz
Antha green saree pombala periya lambadii pombalaya irupa pola 😢
😂😊
Awsome view for future Mamiars.
Very interesting show.enjoy it😅😊
Maamiyar kodumaila kashta pattu 10 years irundhu mana ulaichalukku aalaagi kozandhai baagiyam innum edhirpaathuttu iruken.Marumagala kashta paduthadhinga please
Why they should call. young couple going out means not to interfere
Na love marriage. Theriyama amma nu kuptuten. Yepdi maathikardhunu therla. Break pana dhairiyam vara matudhu!!
Stop calling whatever you want to convey just tell directly may be she will notice n ask or will realise same happened to me. Na ethume koopidrathilla 10 yrs ayiduchu analum nalla pesarom pazhagarom
@@Tharasuman969 Thanks for the tip. Will try.