Dude, Where's My Drink?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
  • Should a man be required to buy drinks at the bar for his girlfriend's friends? Find out the hosts' opinions, and share yours below.

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  • @Simplykiebby
    @Simplykiebby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2321

    Why would my girlfriends expect my man to pay for their stuff? Where y'all heffas wallet at?

    • @Fast_and_Cool
      @Fast_and_Cool 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      SimplyKie Thats what I'm saying...

    • @sandyboo2
      @sandyboo2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      SimplyKie right and if he is buying what are they giving him in return?? Men don't do things for free or to be nice at the bar/club smh

    • @gracewilliams1841
      @gracewilliams1841 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      SimplyKie so if u go out with your friends and their men u would pay for your drinks.?

    • @Simplykiebby
      @Simplykiebby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Grace Williams Of course. What the hell? He's not my man nor male family member so he doesn't have to pay for my drink.

    • @piaiese7016
      @piaiese7016 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      whats wrong in the world pay for your self! and if he offers hes trying to b polite for brownies points

  • @Fatima-cw1jg
    @Fatima-cw1jg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1427

    Loni is lowkey a sweetheart

    • @jaejae5782
      @jaejae5782 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Fatima 100%

    • @melissaetherl
      @melissaetherl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I take them out , l can tho l'm single l got the money. Loni Loni Loni a good heart underneath all that talk

    • @paigeperez4101
      @paigeperez4101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed

    • @danaflamenco
      @danaflamenco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This comment is a year late apparently and it has 666 likes, and when I clicked to read the comments it just kept telling me error and then finally decided to work.... So I'm giving this another like so it'll be 667

    • @igoofy92201
      @igoofy92201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fatima Highkey!

  • @yooo5921
    @yooo5921 7 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    Omg I know im not the only one who died at " When Adam & I go out ......... and Tamera comes along " lol

  • @baybeehmushie
    @baybeehmushie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    Love how Jeannie snuck in "yea, Freddie does too" when Tamera was talking about Adrienne's man always paying for the drinks

    • @JarataJaffaDC
      @JarataJaffaDC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      baybeehmushie bruh y'all always catching the slick stuff

    • @miahrose
      @miahrose 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      baybeehmushie as I was cracking up about that I seen this comment and laughed harder lmfao

    • @mmangaliso9641
      @mmangaliso9641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I heard that and laughed and hoped somebody caught it too 😂😂😂

    • @teonnaduncombe7144
      @teonnaduncombe7144 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      baybeehmushie lmfao exactly, jeannie was not about to let them leave freddie out!

    • @ccassielynnn
      @ccassielynnn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I don't think it was intentional on tam's part

  • @zuiilaa
    @zuiilaa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    Go ahead Loni! "Because I'm single and I got the money!"

    • @dammee
      @dammee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Doesn't a two income household got the money more the a single woman?

    • @feyiplus4500
      @feyiplus4500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      dammee not all the time though. She probably earns more than some couples. If you are single and have a good job these days you can be just as wealthy as a two income household. I was very much stable as a single girl, I even bought my own apartment with my own money. I achieved a lot before getting married.

    • @justwrite8977
      @justwrite8977 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My married friends make way more than I do, but I have more disposable income because I don't have the financial responsibilities that they have, with the kids and the bills.

    • @jsallysally
      @jsallysally 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      re2dance i think loni buy her friendship.. try hard

    • @dammee
      @dammee 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      My point is that a couple will likely have the have very similar rent and utilities but two ppl work instead of one. The only difference if the couple has a few children, then their expenses rise as their children get older.

  • @gigib8881
    @gigib8881 7 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    no no no no no.....if you wanna come out for drinks..your purse better not have bats flying out of it or else you can stay home....!

    • @aberhassan2545
      @aberhassan2545 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Crazy_ G!G! right!

    • @Dani-ms7xk
      @Dani-ms7xk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crazy_ G!G! Hahaha love this comment! I agree!

    • @fnkybunchmstr
      @fnkybunchmstr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      NOT BATS!!!!! LMBAO!!!

    • @hellotinashe
      @hellotinashe 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @jonellejoli7099
      @jonellejoli7099 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crazy_ G!G! LMFAOOOOOOOO 😂😂

  • @jholarkin7736
    @jholarkin7736 7 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    "When Adam and I and Tamera go out" Loni is hilarious 😂

  • @gigglyfitzgirl
    @gigglyfitzgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I hope the girls do the same for Loni and pay for her drinks/meals sometimes. No one at that table is broke lol

  • @sweetytweety0011
    @sweetytweety0011 7 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    Just because he's a man? No. A man isn't made of money. If he would like to, that's a different story but it shouldn't be considered an obligation or 'gentlemanly' but rather just a kind gesture. It's his money. I would feel a type of way if I was obligated to buy a drink for my man and his friends and it was classed as 'unladylike' if I didn't.

  • @swaggpro17
    @swaggpro17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    Um I work 2 jobs, go to school and barely have enough for a cheeseburger. Talkin bout the whole crew. Goodbye 😂😂✌🏽

    • @learning.growing.1017
      @learning.growing.1017 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      swaggpro17 nah, no man should feel obligated to pay for everything... All the feminists have too many double standards, shoot sometimes I'd pay for my man's drink. We a team, it's hard in these streets!! Haha

    • @kiamyal8698
      @kiamyal8698 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Elizabeth Cartagena yup it’s call a partnership

  • @Xk8rsx
    @Xk8rsx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    I agree with Loni, get your own man to buy your drinks. Or get your wallet out and buy it yourself.

    • @ohheyitssoumy5959
      @ohheyitssoumy5959 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      why is it even up to your man to pay? aren't you a working independent woman?? pay for yourself... and if you have a BF then you can both alternate on date or split the bill.... I hate people paying for me ESPECIALLY men... i was raised to depend on myself not others especially since i demand equality for women!!

    • @ReneeBella97
      @ReneeBella97 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Xk8rsx I agree with paying for your own drink that's YOUR money you pay for your own drink

    • @Xk8rsx
      @Xk8rsx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OhheyitsSoumy that is true I work and I earn my own money so I would just be looking too pay for my own as well. It's different if he asks

    • @ReneeBella97
      @ReneeBella97 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Xk8rsx YAS Girl you have earned that money and worked hard for it. You can pay for your own stuff. Well done for working and earning your own money 🙌🏾

  • @wickedelphaba5076
    @wickedelphaba5076 7 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Why don't we all just pay for our own drinks?? Like who in THE WORLD expects their husband to pay for everyone's drink?

  • @TheStarLaura
    @TheStarLaura 7 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    So Loni babysits the kids for free AND foots the bill when she goes out to dinner with Adam and Tam? Yeah she could come over my house whenever she wants too!

    • @lifewithangelmarie
      @lifewithangelmarie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      TheStarLaura lmaooo same! I need auntie loni in my life

    • @jsallysally
      @jsallysally 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheStarLaura loni buy her friends...

    • @unlistedg2922
      @unlistedg2922 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      TheStarLaura I just feel like they should still show Loni some appreciation!Still give to her anyway

    • @shaanh2509
      @shaanh2509 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

    • @jahnoyawalker4227
      @jahnoyawalker4227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Leavemealone11604 and so are you

  • @Maryamx3
    @Maryamx3 7 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I love how generous Lony is. She doesnt have to do it. And she says she has the money but that doesnt mean anything.. we all have the money but not everyone would do that. Love your heart xxxxx Kisses from the German side of the world x

    • @nadiakhalil3907
      @nadiakhalil3907 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wie schön jemanden aus Deutschland in den Kommentaren zu sehen 😊

  • @itsjustasimplestory5007
    @itsjustasimplestory5007 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    "...and so has Freddie"

    • @chipotleobsessed
      @chipotleobsessed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lol she had to get it in

    • @haylee859
      @haylee859 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      itsjustasimplestory lmaoooooo

  • @theemelancholicgyal
    @theemelancholicgyal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "That'll be four waters" 😂😂😂 Love Jeanie

  • @careztv3720
    @careztv3720 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    lol Tamera is such a mom. lol the way she says your full name like you're in trouble. "😮 Adrienne Bailon!". 😆

  • @Naomi19926
    @Naomi19926 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    cannot stand women that EXPECT men to pay for all of their outtings...don't they feel rude or cheeky lol? it's a lovely gesture but should never be expected.

  • @heatsd
    @heatsd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    'Is' doesn't even have the money to pay his child support let alone drinks...🐸☕️

    • @heatsd
      @heatsd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You Tried It! Happy?

    • @kbchiwuta2280
      @kbchiwuta2280 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @matreysongzy
      @matreysongzy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      😂😂😂😃😃😃😂😂😂 oops that is savage I'm gone sip on ☕☕☕☕☕

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      YA'LLL LMFAOOOOOOOO let me live lawddddddd i am done

    • @neverever8264
      @neverever8264 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, some tea, piping hot😂

  • @tha1thaonlythatsme
    @tha1thaonlythatsme 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    LOL @ the part where Tamera was saying how Israel and Adam have paid for a whole meal before and Jeanie had to throw in Freddy too like "Bitch dont make my man look cheap" idk it was awkwardly funny.

    • @neverever8264
      @neverever8264 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      HODAN X
      Exactly😂😂😂 tamera was shady though

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My husband did this while we dated and I was like ummm stop buying their drinks lol he damn sure ain't doing it now that we're married

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL. I'm with you.

    • @Myaccount923
      @Myaccount923 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      tab0108 why didn't you want him to lol

    • @jasminevaliente96
      @jasminevaliente96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DisneyStarsTube why would she want him to I don't get it are you on a date with me or them once in awhile just to show consideration cool but all the time thing starts to make your friends only want to go out with y'all because they're expecting him to pay for your stuff it also makes them think of him in a different way like her man got it like that and then once we're married that's our money that could be going to our kids and household that you're spending on these heifers nope nope and nope

  • @IAMYASMIN
    @IAMYASMIN 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Interesting topic, didn't know that this was a point of contention :( Ladies, don't burden a man to buy your friends expensive drinks. He is their boyfriend/ husband, it's not a polyamorous relationship.
    Also, I am just like Loni, I am single and most of my friends are married so if we are out, I also pay before the guys see the bill :) Single and don't have child expenses

    • @4bfam
      @4bfam 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I AM YASMIN You're thoughtful like Loni. Nice. I think the majority of the ladies agree, it shouldn't always be his burden, but the have generous men. That club stuff is whack. lol

  • @naiiiim
    @naiiiim 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Honestly, I'm like Loni. If you're my friend and I know you don't expect anything from me, I'm definitely picking up the tab. HOWEVER. Don't expect me to do it everytime, I'm your friend not your parent.

    • @tea4471
      @tea4471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Naim Hastings I'm your friend not an ATM machine.

    • @Prince_the_One
      @Prince_the_One 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know this is old but ive bought drinks for friends a few times and never asked for anything in return but if Im short a dollar or two dollars and ask them to help me they always have stank faces and will remind me to pay them back....thats why I dont buy drinks for just anybody anymore lol

  • @ChristianaAdekoya
    @ChristianaAdekoya 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Lol if someone did what Adrienne does to those men I would just walk away and leave her to pay for it

    • @misseydj123
      @misseydj123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ?? The guys offer to pay.. they have no problem with it.

    • @ChristianaAdekoya
      @ChristianaAdekoya 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      misseydj123 No but at the start she said that when a guy offered ro pay for just her she ordered for her girlfriends anyway

    • @jasminevaliente96
      @jasminevaliente96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Christiana Adekoya then he should be a man and say I was just offering you a drink. Y'all be forgetting she's from New York if a guy is coming up offering you a drink in front of your girlfriend's he's usually implying he got it like that so it's pretty typical for women to assume that he can buy drinks for all the girls. He'll it's like that in Florida and the virgin islands too. If he don't have it say so.

    • @antoniacharles9264
      @antoniacharles9264 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then leave the girl alone.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I think as a man if I'm with you and your girlfriends are with you , then I will pay for the drinks automatically ! And also a woman should never expect a man to pay every date , because some men are also in financial problems so you could probably go Dutch if you guys are like 6 dates in and are developing a relationship...

    • @sandyboo2
      @sandyboo2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Myronn Coleman so what if she takes 10 of her besties and orders all the good stuff??? Still going to pay??

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Candy Flores if they have their own money but decide to ask me because they expect me to pay then HELL NO ! Like Loni said do rounds so it'll be fair and not all be weighted on one person!

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Myronn Coleman I wouldn't feel comfortable taking a drink from a guy that's not my man.

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      gigglyfitzgirl i was speaking from a man's POV if he already has a girl , and her girls happen to be with her

    • @gigglyfitzgirl
      @gigglyfitzgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Myronn Coleman I know lol, I liked your comment. I was speaking as one of the girlfriend's friends.

  • @gabby6917
    @gabby6917 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Heck no. He can pay for my drink & if he wants he can pay for their drink but definitely not a must & they better not ask my man either!

  • @faithfullee9689
    @faithfullee9689 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I agree with Lonni.... however my husband will do it anyway. But he's not obligated nor expected to do it.

  • @mej.2008
    @mej.2008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Loni is one in a million! So generous.

  • @HewanYitagesu
    @HewanYitagesu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    If my man paying for my lady friends becomes a habit, both sides gonna hear from me. Ive been single too long. I can't start questioning the first decent man why he's being nice to these females! Im assuming he's flirting.

  • @VONiiE8
    @VONiiE8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Is would never!" Ok but not everyone is him. Not everyone got his money. And they don't EXPECT is to do it. That's the difference. Even if he wasn't generous, it's not his job to do so.

  • @lifewithangelmarie
    @lifewithangelmarie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I need an auntie loni in my life lmao! she babysits for free & picks up the tab? yep loni can definitely come over anytime she wants

  • @caelonnie9264
    @caelonnie9264 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    That's because they rich lol

  • @zayn181
    @zayn181 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm so happy The Real is back 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @usadrones
    @usadrones 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I can't believe Adam would allow Loni to constantly pay for dinner. What type of man is he? smh

    • @vincebrown6168
      @vincebrown6168 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’re a perfect example of a man hater.

    • @kathycookie15
      @kathycookie15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl, shut up and stop reaching

    • @firethoughts5193
      @firethoughts5193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      usadrones Then you pay for the bill your damn self. If Loni said I got it I want to pay for it why should he have to argue with her? She wants to do something nice she wants to take them out I don’t see nothing wrong with that.

  • @AshleyLaGata
    @AshleyLaGata 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Adrienne is 100% a New Yorker bc that's deadass what we do. And guys generally offer. Sometimes not, but it's common

  • @giulia2098
    @giulia2098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Adrienne's view is the typical view of some girls, who happen to be quite famous/popular, cute, and think can get the most out of a situation just because they are WHAT they are.
    #moneydigger
    #shame

  • @lailahenderson9385
    @lailahenderson9385 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Why do people have such high expectations.

    • @kanunukanunu2438
      @kanunukanunu2438 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why should people have low expectations or none at all? The world will give you what you ask for!

  • @allyshaw
    @allyshaw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Because I'm single; I got the money" and I'm over here like, "because I'm single; I only got one income. Bye."

  • @MatthewChapmanSTL
    @MatthewChapmanSTL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After listening to this, I'm not buying drinks for any woman anywhere ever again. Not gonna be manipulated.

  • @kd-254
    @kd-254 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Tamera knows Adam ain't that generous....

  • @genavievec
    @genavievec 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ummm hell no. Maybe if we are like childhood friends and he knows u too then maybe he'll be nice . But hell no buy your own drinks !! No matter if we are friends are not . Get your own man to get ur drinks or use your own money wtf
    - I never would think though if I was single that he was cheap!! Cause if the tables were reversed and I was a guy I would be like ummm no

  • @ellllyjm
    @ellllyjm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:45 Jeanie: So as Freddie 😂😂

  • @ashketchum1377
    @ashketchum1377 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I fackin feel bad for guys watching this. DONT FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR US. it is not weird at all if you only pay for yourself or you and your girl. I as a girl would be completely understanding. If you have the money to throw around, go ahead. But if a guy went and spent all that money on alcohol i would judge him for spending money poorly lol

  • @alexisrose1675
    @alexisrose1675 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Buy your own drink, and if you can't afford it, maybe see if a friend will pay it for you and you can pay them back later.

  • @jer1230
    @jer1230 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    tamera it's adrienne HOUGHTON now lol

  • @elizabethhuizar8594
    @elizabethhuizar8594 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ugh Adriennes one piece of hair sticking out is pissing me off 😂😂😂

  • @bookbag6432
    @bookbag6432 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I agree with paying for rounds!

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I agreed with Loni because they will go overboard with the drinks!!!!

  • @yonissafa5191
    @yonissafa5191 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    like loni said he's buying a drink for you so he can get your attention but for the whole group of girls Nay that's too much.

  • @jaybird9305
    @jaybird9305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loni is actually a very sweet and loving person .. when she’s not being shady

  • @lalaakins6306
    @lalaakins6306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This show really needs to work on equality! Coming from a woman's perspective, women can pay for their
    own drinks! Its really annoying when it's just expected for the guy to pay for his girlfriend. You can split the bill or the girl can pay too sometimes

  • @allyshaw
    @allyshaw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Adrienne and her sexy voice friend are killing me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BoxerBriefs4
    @BoxerBriefs4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loni may annoy me with her bad jokes, but I can tell that she has a really good heart. I hope the universe puts someone special in her life to love and not take her for granted in 2017.

  • @rhondadodson7085
    @rhondadodson7085 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Heck no, pay your own drinks

  • @anjali120
    @anjali120 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It shows that Lonnie is an amazing person! I pray she get all she wish for!

  • @shaynadorsey7779
    @shaynadorsey7779 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yeah I don't expect my guy to pay for my friends' drinks where they do that at?

  • @aprilinparisxoxo
    @aprilinparisxoxo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I'm single and I got the money" I can't with Loni lol

  • @carolmoralesroca973
    @carolmoralesroca973 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    About to become friends with Loni lol

  • @LMLification
    @LMLification 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I say let people do what they want to do with their money. Too many women think they can just control their man's money. If he wants to buy everyone's drinks, who are you to tell him no? They aren't entitled to his money and neither are you. Even if married, all that should matter is if he is taking care of his finances for the couple.

  • @princessbc9791
    @princessbc9791 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loooovvveeee Jeannie's and Adrienne's look! Jeannie's glasses are everything!

  • @ReplayAzpect
    @ReplayAzpect 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    omg their men are RICH tho, a normal guy would end up straining his economy if he spend like 50 dollars per rounds an entire night. F that.

  • @britney-leejohnson9572
    @britney-leejohnson9572 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    A guy offered and I got drinks for my whole crew then still didn't give him my number 😂😂😂 LOOOL

  • @ValerieAbena
    @ValerieAbena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A guy I met in the club got drinks for my friends too. They're the ones trying to impress you so

  • @Mommasun_
    @Mommasun_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I need an auntie loni in my life I love being in the presence of older women, they have so much experience, sas and can teach you so much 💜

  • @2KAYE9UNRULEY
    @2KAYE9UNRULEY 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    jeannie and tamera are so lost in the sauce a ton of girls do this! And a ton of guys offer because they want to impress. And the girls accept because it's free drinks. Satisfying on both ends, lol.

    • @Aan_allein
      @Aan_allein 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No. They are chumps who think they can buy pussy lol..but I dont blame women for taking advantage, I would too.

  • @jacobTheeCreole
    @jacobTheeCreole 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sounds pretty entitled to me 🙄

  • @queensspace82
    @queensspace82 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy New Year The Real... The hosts all looking fresh.. Jeannie those glasses 👓 are gorrrrrrrrgeous!

  • @itsmeAmandak
    @itsmeAmandak 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yo Loni wanna take me out for drinks? I'm free for a girls night.

  • @deem132
    @deem132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Adrianne is absolutely keeping it 💯 Most guys offer & almost always buy you AND your friends drinks like it's not that big of a deal. I can buy my own drink but whether you buy me one or not doesn't mean anything tbh

  • @yvonnewatkins1027
    @yvonnewatkins1027 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is absolutely unthinkable to assume that someone who offers YOU a drink, is then put on the spot to buy your crew drinks too. That is nothing but rude, inconsiderate and crass. If I offered someone a drink and they then told the bartender what everyone and their mama wanted, I calmly say, "Nevermind", and walk away with my head held high. I can't believe how rude Adrienne is/was. She still doesn't get it.

  • @MissShaeshae12345
    @MissShaeshae12345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got a friend like Loni and she is a beautiful blessing. Love her ❤️

  • @08kels
    @08kels 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    rich people conversation

  • @jojoc4530
    @jojoc4530 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is not obligated to, but i definitely do not want a guy that wouldn't cover the bill for all my friends. I am so Adrienne on this.

  • @itsalovelybae
    @itsalovelybae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wouldn't expect my man to pay for my girls' drinks, but if he did it wouldn't be mad.... & I've definitely got my girls free drinks at the club before. Especially if a guy is hitting on me & invites me to his VIP section 😂

  • @justmemadison
    @justmemadison 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's really nice of Loni...she is not selfish and appreciates spending time with her friends. If anyone is worried about money (like they cannot participate because they don't have the funds) then it's hard for everyone to have a good time. It's not a requirement, but it's nice to see someone that has the means and enjoys treating her friends to some fun.

  • @Dymsx86
    @Dymsx86 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have no issue with a boyfriend or prospective boyfriend buying me a drink. I also wouldn't have an issue if he offered to buy my friends drink. But I absolutely wouldn't tell him that he had to do so.

  • @taylordean3250
    @taylordean3250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'M NOT SELFISH!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a woman this is ridiculous, it’s not the 50’s and I never even expect my man to pay for any of my things much less my friends

  • @kayladottcom
    @kayladottcom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It should never be expected but MY man would pay atl least for the first round. My FRIENDS, not co-workers and homies etc.

  • @fatimenemes6844
    @fatimenemes6844 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't like it how it's expected of men to pay for girls. Like, obviously it's a good feeling once or twice, but why should he cover like all of my eating, drinking and everything else just because he's a man and we're together? That's like paying for me to be with him. Like when Loni said "they need to get themselves boyfriends to pay for them" that's just sounds so wrong. No, what they need to get is a job, where they can buy their own drinks and not have to worry if somebody else pays for them or not, because they got this. I mean, what the hell.

    • @Katzing123654789
      @Katzing123654789 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Fatime Nemes You're right

    • @vincebrown6168
      @vincebrown6168 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      True, women should get with the new age.

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've met "friends" who are leechers. They continue to expect people to buy things for them, almost like they are entitled to it.
    Ive learned it the hard way, but diss these people. True friends only wishes for your companionship and your company, nothing more. They would truly care for your wellbeing. Fake friends just want to use you.

  • @kimpatterson1318
    @kimpatterson1318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's why as a female I carry enough money to pay for myself so this is NEVER a problem for me. And when I don't got the money, I stay home and watch The Real.

  • @romeoreyes1770
    @romeoreyes1770 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's manly when a man knows how not to be taken advantage of. And is intelligent enough to say no and stand his ground.

  • @grintsgirl051
    @grintsgirl051 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with Adrienne. It shouldn't be expected but it's polite if he does!

  • @maric8423
    @maric8423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Adam seems so cheap lmao how he gonna make loni pay ? That's not gentleman like in my opinion

    • @k.i.r1372
      @k.i.r1372 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm sure Loni put up a fight and eventually wore him down

    • @londa4793
      @londa4793 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mari C who said he’s MAKING loni pay? She’s obviously just a generous person

  • @carefulapathy18
    @carefulapathy18 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i think it should NEVER be expected. that's Hella Rude. If the guy does it to be nice then fine but only if he offers.

  • @tyishaallen5061
    @tyishaallen5061 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If I go out with my REALLY close best friend and her boyfriend. Sometimes he'll pay for my food and obviously I would pay for the movie or the next thing as a thanks. Maybe pay for the drinks while he pays for the food.

  • @mairahmanzini2928
    @mairahmanzini2928 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with Adrienne. You have to buy us ALL a drink. I have had no problems with this. The guys ALWAYS pay I rarely have to ask. They do it voluntarily. It is their choice.

    • @Aan_allein
      @Aan_allein 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah. That´s not happening lol...Though I am sure there are chumps out there who do lol

  • @xuxushushu
    @xuxushushu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can tell about a man through the way he greets men and treats women my man always covers the bill with friends and family

  • @shadeenah8791
    @shadeenah8791 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loni balling out of control! Buy me a drink Loni! Lol.

  • @riteshbdoerga6090
    @riteshbdoerga6090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You'd turn it into an order? LOLLL

  • @RMelvinFan
    @RMelvinFan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've never even thought about asking a guy to buy my friends drinks too. I don't have balls like that. I don't think it should be a requirement for anyone else trying to pick up a girl either, but it DOES make them look more attractive and like more of a gentleman. Not required, but appreciated. My best friend's husband always pays for me when the 3 of us go out as a group.

  • @aniaengram2733
    @aniaengram2733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    if he decides that he wants to pay for all then that's his choice. it's ok if he offers but it should not be expected.

  • @alyv9864
    @alyv9864 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank god i dont drink.

  • @lexiearnold529
    @lexiearnold529 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think everyone needs a friend like Loni! Not just generous, but also fun, smart, and kind. Everyone needs at least one person like her in their life!

  • @GodsGirl4K
    @GodsGirl4K 7 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Why would you even expect your man to pay for your friends? Tf

    • @lexilu4146
      @lexilu4146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ParadoxBox like would you buy your man and his friends drinks?

  • @ttstephanie0629
    @ttstephanie0629 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww Loni you're so sweet. I love you so much. Make sure you remember to smile from your heart today. Sending you love hugs and prayers!!! Keep pushing beautiful queen!!!

  • @jessicamb42
    @jessicamb42 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preach Loni 🤗 I think ALOT depends on the situation..sometimes we put back enough for the 2 of us...

  • @ArielWasTaken
    @ArielWasTaken 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "im not seLFISH!!!" LOL

  • @lela1528
    @lela1528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok but all of their mans got hella coins. I feel like it’s not durable for ppl like us who say go to school and work like it might be too much ?