Why Are People So Obsessed With The INFJ - Rarest Personality Type

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  • @PSYCH-O
    @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey PSYCH-Os!
    *So have you ever felt slightly obsessed with the INFJ? Or have you been obsessed with as an INFJ?*
    Comment down below 👇
    PS. Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a friend!
    Thank you for all your support 🙏

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Flirty? Well I am a scorpio too heh.. buuuut no, I'm too red pilled to flirt with wemon in 2021 #redpillknowledge

    • @wickedgrinaz
      @wickedgrinaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@infj-tguy6275 you’re way more insignificant than you give yourself credit for.

  • @toneblanco880
    @toneblanco880 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This INFJ life is EXHAUSTING

  • @z7123
    @z7123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm proud to be a full INFJ-A. If people only understood how capable we actually are! Great Video! 😊✌️

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! Thank you!

    • @wickedgrinaz
      @wickedgrinaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Having pride in a personality type is decidedly unempathetic.

    • @z7123
      @z7123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wickedgrinaz Possibly, if your dealing with a person who is "unable" or is not Empathetic.

    • @carphone9385
      @carphone9385 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wickedgrinaz The very fact that he/she boasts about it says it all. Nearly every single commenters on you tube claiming to be this personality type (PT) are bull.shitters. The number one thing the majority of people respond to in life - above anything else - is flattery and the uniqueness of themselves. No wonder the rarest type in the world is the most claimed PT by these needy types. If you get one of the BS. on a one to one ask them anything about their claimed PT - that is outside the realms of printed data and vids etc..all you get from them is an endless stream of the theory - the traits they have memorised and falsely claim as their own. Havnt you noticed the BS in the big trendy claims of reincarnation - especially where the bs claimant identifies that they were an animal and that animal is always - without exception an exotic beast - a tiger, dragon, lion, horse, giraffe, monkey or great ape, a whale or a shark even, but I have never ever heard in 73 years one single reincarnation claimant claiming that they were in their bull shit past life a SLUG - A COCKROACH - A BLOWFLY or even an ant - they always claim to be in the top echelon. Thats the reason why so many on here claim the Jungian INFJ type. This false claim trait is mirrored in a myriad of things like all of their skill-based abilities, intellect, looks and popularity and has a psych analysis -like this one should.

  • @GamingPIPI
    @GamingPIPI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yes it drains me. Some people use me as some sort of therapy session

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup.. one of the down sides of being an INFJ empath.

  • @VickiWells
    @VickiWells 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I find more jealousy these days instead of idolization and obsession .

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great point - sometimes obsession isn't always positive admiration when jealousy is at play. 🙏

  • @Uncleboogie80
    @Uncleboogie80 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just found out my personality type a few weeks ago and 😂🤣 I’m not crazy .. I just see things others don’t

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly! Every personality type has their quarks anyway 😅

  • @cristinamariawilmer
    @cristinamariawilmer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    INFJ (warning label: this person contains highly addictive traits) 😏

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Haha totally! 😂

    • @marathon01
      @marathon01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no, infp > infj

    • @z7123
      @z7123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯 Exactly! 💯

  • @sojourneroftheland
    @sojourneroftheland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was a good one 😏 i relate to the one more free counselling session lol. I can clearly remember when i was around 20 i had this group of friends and we were all close. One had a sister and she would try to talk and everyone would ignore her but i kept making a way for her to get a chance to speak...one time she suddenly stopped the entire group conversation and said wait stop! And she looked right at me and said how come youre listening to me? How come YOU care about what i have to say? I was speechless. She later along with the group threw me a "sojourner" is the bomb" party lol. I can relate to being the type of INFJ that doesnt just become the wall flower, but when i intuitively feel drawn to a person or a few people i can draw out a great meaningful convo. And sometimes yes they get "attached"
    We are unique people. Living in a world where most are self absorbed we catch alot of attention for genuinely being interested in the thoughts and well being of others. I have had to say more than once, dont put me on a pedestal please i am so the opposite of perfect. Lol I can definitely relate to the points here :)
    Like an emotional robot doing an analytical assessment i also notice (on a platonic level) i am attracted in a big way to people with above average talent,beauty, and intelligence. Its like they really REALLY inspire and impress me. Dont get me wrong I love pretty much all people though.Can anyone relate?

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can personally relate to this as an INFJ, you are spot on! I have been through exact situations like you have shared, and when I feel seen and appreciated for the effort I put in it can feel like a true breath of fresh air, because most of the time it goes unnoticed.. 🖖

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing. 💚
      Since theses last 10 years, sometimes when I go outside (I go outside only when I really have to, for importants things), when one person need to find her way, or just need/want to talk, he/she (most of time is a she) ask to me, what ways it is ? What tramway or bus is ?
      Why me ? Me who is ignored practically every times, me who no one come or want talk to me.
      There are many people around, but to find their way, people come ask only to me, as if they were attracted to me ?!
      How do they know I will help them ?
      At the reverse, I don't like to be helped.
      For most (~all) of people I know/knew, they don't know about MBTI, personally types, and cognitives functions.
      I am actually passionate about it.
      All my life, most of the time people ignored me (my family too), mocked at me, misunderstood me, said I am uninteresting.
      2 friends of my ex boyfriend (10 years relationship with an ENTJ) told to him : "Don't understand why you were with her, she is uninteresting"
      In the other side, I met nice and adorable people at a temporary work. I am happy to see them when I got mission again on this company.
      I met one nice colleague, she have a big 💚 She take care to all people she like. I don't know for the moment what type she is, I am still learning about all personality. I am actually lonely, but I like it.
      My family seems doesn't care about my depression and anxiety, or whatever else. That's ok for me now, since I am learning on myself.
      Take care of yourself and of your mental health💚
      Only goods person deserves us. It's ok for the other who don't want know us and ignoring us, we avoid them.
      I can't explain, I just know if I feel a connection with a person or not at all.
      _ There are people who ignore us, misunderstood us, said we have nothing interesting, like "What she is doing here ?" = Most of the people
      _ There are adorable people who really want to know us = There are not many I have the impression.
      I like call myself a paradox.
      One day at the temporary work, when I said to someone "I hate no one" he was surprise. And when I said him, that It's the only place I am feel good with others people, he find it weird. I said him, it's the connection with personality or not.
      People can find me weird, but now I am ok with this, since I finally know myself after 32 years. I like myself (I can hate myself in same time), and I try to live with it, as best I can.

  • @luv04angels
    @luv04angels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is so true. I find it amusing...
    When I hang out with someone a few times they think they know me 🙄
    Inside, I am laughing and shaking my head thinking...why do people constantly assume vs communicating and asking questions or whatever it is they are wanting to know?
    So, I let them think whatever they want to and go on with themselves. 😌

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally, little do they know they're only seeing the very surface of our true selves 😂👽

    • @izzaghaida5750
      @izzaghaida5750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol😂

    • @rcmichellepittman1565
      @rcmichellepittman1565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly ! I know people who keep assuming things about me by taking notes of my actions. But you can't just deduce what my intentions were just by looking at what I've done. It's completely biased. If they don't directly ask questions they should at least investigate to get more info instead of drawing conclusions and judging you like that. That's what INFJs constantly do, even though it's true they're naturally very skilled at that but still, you can still be wrong potentially. To me it's just underdevelopped introverted or extraverted intuition. Problem is it's very different when it's your dominant function, you're generally the most aware of how it works. I can't help but finding people so cringe when they try to do theories with low intuition cause when you have it high you can see they're using irrelevant datas or they're forgetting to take into account half of the datas they gathered and it gives you completely awkward hypotheses...

  • @genesisjimenez5481
    @genesisjimenez5481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From my observation people get obsessed only because they unknowingly find themselves through me & only feel a door slam because I put up with more than anyone else for a longer time.

  • @hariatninovitasari6998
    @hariatninovitasari6998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    First time INFJ being flirty is mentioned, but it’s 100% percent correct 😂

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha it takes one to know one I guess! 😂

  • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
    @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I agree for most of the facts : mysterious nature, curiosity, great listeners (but can be distracted in our mind, constantly thinking, a new idea/though can come up), deep insights, attract people who need help (People always ask to me their way, why me ? whereas there are many people around), provide great advice and ideas (very often), independent, incredible intuition (which is often right)
    But I am skeptical for this traits : easily idolized (most of the time get ignored, misunderstood, being uninteresting most of the people and family too), infectious charisma, flirty (don't know at all for theses ones, remember we are introverts)
    I only met 2 or 3 people who were obsessed by me but, but no I didn't feel connection with them. Too much obsession : afraid me.

  • @kyurei4478
    @kyurei4478 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually at first I wasn't convinced at all. I was thinking "why would people be more interested by us than by any other type of person". But after watching the video, I have to admit it actually makes a lot of sense logically on why we would attract people. I feel anxious now. Thanks ? I'm not too sure.

  • @cj_369
    @cj_369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    People are obsessed with INFJs??? Obsessed with treating them like ____ and ignoring them and leaving them in complete isolation maybe. I'm the loneliest person on the planet, haven't touched another human in like 16 years!!! NOBODY wants anything to do with me whatsoever. Sheesh!!! You're killing me.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the kind words - we encourage you to check out some of our other INFJ videos as well! Thanks for watching 🙏💙

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't understand neither. All my life, most of the time people ignored me (my family too), mocked at me, misunderstood me, said I am uninteresting.
      2 friends of my ex boyfriend (10 years relationship with an ENTJ) told to him : "Don't understand why you were with her, she is uninteresting"
      In the other side, I met nice and adorable people at a temporary work. I am happy to see them when I got mission again on this company.
      I met one nice colleague, she have a big 💚 She take care to all people she like. I don't know for the moment what type she is, I am still learning about all personality. I am actually lonely, but I like it.
      My family seems doesn't care about my depression and anxiety, or whatever else. That's ok for me now, since I am learning on myself.
      Take care of yourself and of your mental health💚
      Only good person deserves us. It's ok for the other who don't want know us and ignoring us, we avoid them.
      I can't explain, I just know if I feel a connection with a person or not at all.
      For most (~all) of people I know/knew, they don't know about MBTI, personally types, and cognitives functions.
      I am actually passionate about it.

  • @btdu2789
    @btdu2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't think people are obsessed with us. This is an ego trip.

    • @kyunhwoarang
      @kyunhwoarang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Haha.. watch the video first

    • @joshuaforbus5853
      @joshuaforbus5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gosh fricking dang it. Dang it! You. Youuuuuuuu......

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hmm.. the signs are not very egoistic!

  • @interludemediasg
    @interludemediasg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are so on point. And often get bad rep on the last point 😬

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha, thanks for watching, my friend! 🙏

  • @Nubalanceacdc
    @Nubalanceacdc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't think Ppl are So Obssessed about Us ..it's just we ..(less than 3% of us worldly) keep Sharing Our Phenomenon 🤣✌🎯💯
    HONESTLY..You Do Not Want To be Like Us..(although we secretly wished you were)..🤔😅that's entirely for another story...✌be safe my Extravertedly Introverted Families!

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahah thanks for watching! 🙏

  • @godlovesyousomuch5894
    @godlovesyousomuch5894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh no I have had alot of people obsessed with me And I have learned to be excited when I see people that are excited about seeing me bc that means I had a conversation with them that I have forgotten about but they have not forgotten and I do not want to be rude

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahah, oh no, I can only imagine! 😂

  • @rcmichellepittman1565
    @rcmichellepittman1565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just learned I am INFJ…. Am I the only one to think we have not traditionally attracted people. In fact…. often called weird due to our mysterious nature….maybe it’s my temperament getting in the way I don’t know…

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    We are Magically Powerful Spiritual human beings wrapped in creative genius and selflessness. 🙌💖💖💖

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it, well said my friend!

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If we help people we need them to meet us half way or even a third of the way, we will do our very best to help them and journey with them💕💕.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha yup! 🙏

  • @blove2023
    @blove2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is 100% Correct. Nuff said.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome - thanks for watching 🙏

  • @irenageorgieva8011
    @irenageorgieva8011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, always and my whole life 😌 I like it and I’m used to it

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha it definitely has it's perks! 💙

  • @steveemmins3728
    @steveemmins3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another excellent job folks, a very insightful take on the situation.
    Keep doing what you’re doing and stay well.
    Cheers from Toronto

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you again for watching! 🙏

    • @danhammond9967
      @danhammond9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheers from Ottawa!

  • @ginabartlett7038
    @ginabartlett7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok… this is freaky… I just thought I was unforgettable… lol… I have my ex’s always wanting to come back… they all say I’m the one, will never find someone like me etc etc etc… I don’t think so… too needy.. obsessed.. scary… Yet I still help them with their problems to this day… silly me… but I thrive when I’m helping others feel good and grow 😊 it is very rewarding 😊

  • @shamayahuyahsarahl1707
    @shamayahuyahsarahl1707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Looking at it, some of the things I've said or how I've acted may have been perceived as flirting by others. Oops. 😬 Ha.

    • @sojourneroftheland
      @sojourneroftheland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same. I never really thought about it till recently lol. I noticed these days i just say what i'm thinking and when i sit back and overthink it later I'm like wow why did i say that now they probably think i was flirting. I find it funny how i understand people so well and can relate tobpeople so well but yet there is this awkward disconnecr in my brain that says things that are maybe too forward for most people. Or they dont understand i can love someone without actually being in love or wanting anything remotely like what they think a person that loves them might expect. Do you ever find that people with exceptional good looks, talent, and intelligence (or all of the above) catch your attention? I mean everyone for me starts out as a 10 regardless and depending on peoples attitudes they either go down in points or up. But when someone has those 3 qualities i could be minding my own business and they just catch my attention lol..maybe that not an infj thing just a crazy me thing🤪😏

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha yup.. maybe there is such thing as being too friendly as an INFJ 😂

    • @shamayahuyahsarahl1707
      @shamayahuyahsarahl1707 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PSYCH-O 😅

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Never help a person the second time when they were ungrateful before... I helped someone find a job and when I went to check the log book, she didn't write my name as her referral.. She thought I will get money from referring her in the company 😂 .. So ungrateful.. So the next time she messaged me, I told her bluntly to look for a job herself! 🔥🔥🔥🔥💥💥💥

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow, the nerve of some people - good on you! 🙌

  • @Betscu.
    @Betscu. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You can't find it elsewhere. Yep. The one and only INFJ.

  • @highplainsdrifter699
    @highplainsdrifter699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    We're the loneliest people on God's earth .

    • @blove2023
      @blove2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You must be a young INFJ. Because when you get up in age , there is no such thing as loneliness. You VALUE alone time!

    • @highplainsdrifter699
      @highplainsdrifter699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blove2023 I'm not young either, 52, just my lifelong experience . Greetings from Ireland 👍

    • @blove2023
      @blove2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@highplainsdrifter699 I'm sorry to hear that.

    • @blove2023
      @blove2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No psychopaths are the loneliest.

  • @blove2023
    @blove2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There's this woman that acts like she's God's gift to man. And bragging all the time. I told her that actually her self esteem is very low. Shockingly she said that I was the only one on the planet that knew that! She wasn't angry at me, but intrigued. Well, that's an INFJ for you. Lol

  • @starshine_Ultra
    @starshine_Ultra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yup i am one! To the T! 😘

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it!!

    • @starshine_Ultra
      @starshine_Ultra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PSYCH-O thank you ❤️

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm flirty😂😂😂😂😂

    • @laniagultom
      @laniagultom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can't help it. 😃

  • @Meenaia
    @Meenaia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha! I'm obsessed with people obsessed with infj! Why is the infj type the most sought out, researched and talked about type on the internet? Why do so many people strongly wish to be this particular type? I can understand feeling like the societal odd man out and thus coming to MBTI to learn why, but I've seen sooooo many people who use the infj label in particular as sort of a bragging right as well as a reason to talk down to others. I don't get it..

    • @FlashBangBANGz
      @FlashBangBANGz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right.

    • @bobbie7974
      @bobbie7974 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is exactly why, as an INFJ, I was curious about this explosion of interest on the internet. I feel weird about other INFJs letting this inflate their ego. Not to say we don't all deserve a little love! But I think most INFJs, in real life, are seeing this explosion, and they're thinking, "What the hell is happening...what is this...WHY?" lol

  • @liayesung5721
    @liayesung5721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First they might be obsessed but when finding one they realize its nothing for them xD

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yea were as deep as the ocean in a good way good hearted , deep thinking late bloomers, inspiring and positive, were the old dog for the rough road, 💗💗💗🤣🤣🤣

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, well said!! 🖖😂

  • @rcmichellepittman1565
    @rcmichellepittman1565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any research on a INFJ being married to a narcissist? Or do I have problems because I’m an INFJ? But we know that being an INFJ isn’t the problem don’t we

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Check this video out: th-cam.com/video/U48bd1dDR4U/w-d-xo.html

    • @amiller5885
      @amiller5885 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm an INFJ and was married to a narcissist for 16 years. I think it's our giving nature and interest in the welfare of people that make us susceptible to narcissists, especially if we're young and naive at the time.

  • @Peezymakebeats
    @Peezymakebeats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Facts💯💯💯✍🏾🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome, thanks for your feedback! 🙏

  • @wickedgrinaz
    @wickedgrinaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Q: How do you know if someone is an INFJ?
    A: They will never tell you that they are

  • @zzzcocopepe
    @zzzcocopepe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry to be difficult and sorry to be argumentative, but I don't think anyone is obsessed with INFJ. and I don't think it's even the rarest type. I don't think there's actually any difference between INFJ and INFP. so, if you combine the percentages of INFJ and INFP we are still rare, but I don't know if we're necessarily the rarest. We're tied with the other rare types.

  • @danhammond9967
    @danhammond9967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kinda sorta- turns out I was just as into them as they were into me, so it's working out slowly with a poly relationship.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha well that's when this concept can definitely work in your favour! 🙏

  • @marathon01
    @marathon01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    infp > infj

  • @AnG-wq2fi
    @AnG-wq2fi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are they?

  • @lifeisbeautiful7047
    @lifeisbeautiful7047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who's obcessed about them ?!

    • @Wau12345
      @Wau12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everybody 🙏💜🙏

  • @yaellevi5448
    @yaellevi5448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why not INFPs?

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      INFPs are obsessed about in a different way,!

  • @kevinlawson830
    @kevinlawson830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's no longer the rarest. You need to catch up with the times.

    • @user-nq8yv5jc6o
      @user-nq8yv5jc6o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yea cause everyone wanted to say they're an infj cause it was rare.

    • @kevinlawson830
      @kevinlawson830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-nq8yv5jc6o yeah, no doubt you are right.