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12 tips 1`.Spend quality time with fewer people 2. Find a source of grounding(Meditation, yoga, running) 3. Share your thought to deal with conflict 4. Think on paper 5. Practice gratitude as much as possible 6.Use substances wisely(alcohol, drugs) 7. Spend time people watching 8.Unplug in nature(spend time with nature) 9. Dont fall for peer pressure 10. Choose a rewarding career path 11. Always stay learning. 12. Don't be afraid to use your extroverted side
I work in a drain cleaning company. I know I've helped people everyday I work. Then I go home and I'm a CNA at home. I don't make a lot but the joy I receive from helping is totally worth it.
I was a Heroin Addict for 25 years, found out I'm INFJ stopped doing drugs, drinking, smoking, taking sugar, eating red meat and people pleasing but I'm 49
Mostly true except I never caved in to peer pressure! I don't think this is true for INFJ's since we are so strong on our own. We have morals and standards and nothing can sway us otherwise. If we decide to partake in substances it was our decision. But I also don't feel the need to drink when out. I am not anxious at all. I know how to handle people I'm not afraid.
Actually especially as a younger one, infjs can mirror bad influences on us. I dont know how the functional stack fully works but on c.s. joseph channel he goes into what the cognitive functions are like as shadow functions. Whats actually funny now that i think back i was an overacheiver at being "bad". Friends with the wrong crowd and i got into shoplifting for a season...so i became the best at it lol. I would always steal stuff for other people. Like my mom was poor so i stole wallpaper to redecorate her hallway🙄 I am mortified at all the "bad" things ive done now that i have come into my own for many years now. But believe me we can be bad..alot of INFJ's talk about this. We are just bad within our personality type :)
I was thinking the exact same thing. The few times in my life that I succumbed to peer pressure didn't have good outcomes and made me rely more on my own moral backbone and trust myself. I am swayed by facts, figures, logic but don't you dare pop any BS, I will not follow at any cost. A good way to invoke my judgement. I was 8 years old thinking, "keep your ill-gotten gains" when people bragged about material items obtained by dubious means. It's been of utmost importance to have a clear conscience. But as the previous comment attested, there's a shadow side of everything and I have different shadow aspects. (I sound judgemental even when being tolerant but strive to temper with compassion and acceptance)
Interesting perspective and it started a great conversation! I think every INFJ succumbs to peer pressure in their own way, yet they can be especially vulnerable at a younger age before their functions are fully developed.
Never had problems with peer pressure. Had a small group of friends as a kid... But seemed to get along with most others. Never had much interest in partying or social status games. Meh. Lots of talents,skills, interests, academic and creative (high testing scores...skipped a grade...hated math...loved sciences...art and music Awards...some athleticism). Always needed a LOT of alone time. Never had issues with peer pressure...was always too busy"doing my own thing". Never tried smoking cigarettes or any type of smoking. Just didn't make sense to me....so l didnt do it. I like being healthy and having a good brain....messing that all up never was even a 2nd thought for me. Never made sense to me to set something on fire and drag smoke into my lungs....soooo....l simply just didn't. Can count the alcoholic drinks l have had in my lifetime on one hand. Didnt appeal to me....didnt like a buzz in my brain. Wanted all my five senses fully working. Would rather chew and taste my calories on good food than waste them on something with alcohol. And yet...when l was in college....the kids in the dorm with issues with substances sought me out....for conversations....or to camp out in my room if they were afraid of how their over-consumption might affect them...or if they were not feeling well. I believe it just pays to know yourself...and if peer pressure is in a direction that is not beneficial to you.... Just walk away. Most of all: if it doesn't make sense or isn't beneficial....walk away. Life is full of choices you can feel good about. Can't take all the credit though. I was raised by wonderful grandparents from the Great-Depression and WWII GENERATION. They were simply the BEST people EVER.... l was fortunate to have them....and to this day l feel that they are "with me" in a very real sense. God saw to it that l hit the jackpot with the parenting of my grandparents.....they made all the difference in my life...and l credit every bit of resiliency l have to them. Miss you soooo much; Nana & Papa......THANKYOU FOR LOVING ME AND ALL YOU'VE DONE FOR ME....I WOULD SIMPLY NOT HAVE BECOME WHO I AM WITHOUT YOU.
I am First Nations person of the Ojibwe nation, growing up was very clear I wasn't liked even to my own people because I see us all as human and the universe was always intriguing to me, I became very spiritual when most my people's believe in god and are church goers due to the government brain washing of my people. Being picked on while growing up as a kid and being beat by fully grown men I grew to hate people and never trust anyone, I became a hermit and just practice in martial arts for year then when I turned 16 I thought I was big enough to fight all these men to beat me as a young-in, went out got everyone of them one by one. Never got caught for any of it because I created an alternate ego named "NISHINJA" Anishnabe plus ninja put together and that's me, I would be yelling NISHINJA repeatedly to everyone who beat me, at this time noone knew who NISHINJA was but me. After the mission was completed and every name was checked off on my list I started writing rap under my alter egos name, so that now everyone knew it was me who beat them, was never bullied again by them but in highschool people's were evil towards my people's so we stuck together a pack of us became popular and I was always getting in trouble because I was always standing up and fighting for the ones I know can't fight. Call me bad if you want, I know what I did was right I'm a Hero a badass hero now, people wouldn't peer pressure me to do anything because I have the reputation of no fear and did just about anything, people can ask me and it yes or no, that's it- but I do have a problem when someone says I can't do something I put it upon myself to prove them wrong, it's draining and it hurts sometimes and nearly gotten myself killed just to prove I well do anything not because you but because I make my own damn choices in life, noone can force me to do anything, I do it without thinking most times people don't need ask I just know my service was needed, I love my loved ones with everything. Being so loving I need to be with them all the time to know they're safe from all these evil people in the world.
My 37 years of advice: Everybody will be having more fun than you on the outside, but you’ll be having more fun on the inside. You’re a magnet for cluster b abusers Find your passion and pursue it at all costs
Me too. I started using marijuana about two years ago because of health issues. I can't believe I waited till age 45 to use weed to manage anxiety, depression, chronic pain and my hyperness. It is great for reading and arting. I also love watching documentaries while stoned. 😂
Definately helps get my thoughts in order. In my 60s, been using off and on since early teens. Made Dean's list at University, while smoking frequently.
I've smoked for over 25 years. Started out As a teen experimenting. Found some strains help calm the mind. Other strains amplify the mental acuity. If using to find relief of intuition, tread carefully.
Thank you for these tips 😊 yes writing it all down… I write novels and solve my problems by doing so. Drink is a must if facing society.. I cannot believe how many of these tips are, well, ME 😊 thank you for all these videos.. learning more everyday 🙏🌸
OMG I would LOVE to see everything you have written down. I barely found out I’m an INFJ and I have been beyond intrigued, it’s like a whole new world opened up. Everything makes so much sense now 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Bruh meditation is the shit, I meditate, time feels like it moves faster and my body tells me "stop? But why???" but my brain is like "We have to pee and our butt itches and we're hungry" 😄 I love meditation
once i was on a bus and a random college student, pointed me out and said, I looked like a racist. I Was WTF? I was quiet and I was just watching people talk, So I analysed this guy and Said, well if you want racism, then a phillipino, are the mexicans of the asains, And The whole friggins buss told me to shut it. I said, okay but if you dont shut it as well, Ill shut it for you. This is the sole reason, why I friggin hate busses. That and the fear of it crashing while people scream and blood flies while I lock myself in to survive while I bear witness to others demises. I dont even know if that is a real phobia, but I had to be on that bus for a reason.
Pt 1 find people you wibe with and spend time with them. Oh thanks, never knew that's what I needed..... My life advice: end videos stating obvious advice.
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I've been accused of overthinking situations!
12 tips
1`.Spend quality time with fewer people
2. Find a source of grounding(Meditation, yoga, running)
3. Share your thought to deal with conflict
4. Think on paper
5. Practice gratitude as much as possible
6.Use substances wisely(alcohol, drugs)
7. Spend time people watching
8.Unplug in nature(spend time with nature)
9. Dont fall for peer pressure
10. Choose a rewarding career path
11. Always stay learning.
12. Don't be afraid to use your extroverted side
I love writing, reading, climbing, hiking, dancing, yoga, and meditation. They do truly help me step outside of my head.
I work in a drain cleaning company. I know I've helped people everyday I work. Then I go home and I'm a CNA at home.
I don't make a lot but the joy I receive from helping is totally worth it.
I was a Heroin Addict for 25 years, found out I'm INFJ stopped doing drugs, drinking, smoking, taking sugar, eating red meat and people pleasing but I'm 49
Better late than never 😊 That's powerful. I'm happy for you.
@@baronesselsavonfreytag-lor1134 Thank you I'm pretty happy about it myself, its terrible not knowing who or what you are.
@@tonytrismegistusroberts5124 "To know thyself is the beginning of wisdom" - was Socrates INFJ?
@@baronesselsavonfreytag-lor1134 They say INFJ is a new function but ENFJ were around then
@@tonytrismegistusroberts5124 Didn't know that, thanks. I'm still learning about personality.
It's true about addictive personalities, so I made a conscious decision to quit drinking alcohol, 4 months without it and I don't miss it!
I have intuitively done these things but need to constantly remind myself and relearn to.
Ya I think that's pretty normal.. its all about the learning process!
22 seconds into the vid: "...most INFJs will never feel like they completely fit into this world..."
Me: "...( ; ___ ;).....N..never?"
Hahah, well eventually INFJs can see the value in not fitting into a broken world!
Mostly true except I never caved in to peer pressure! I don't think this is true for INFJ's since we are so strong on our own. We have morals and standards and nothing can sway us otherwise. If we decide to partake in substances it was our decision. But I also don't feel the need to drink when out. I am not anxious at all. I know how to handle people I'm not afraid.
Actually especially as a younger one, infjs can mirror bad influences on us. I dont know how the functional stack fully works but on c.s. joseph channel he goes into what the cognitive functions are like as shadow functions. Whats actually funny now that i think back i was an overacheiver at being "bad". Friends with the wrong crowd and i got into shoplifting for a season...so i became the best at it lol. I would always steal stuff for other people. Like my mom was poor so i stole wallpaper to redecorate her hallway🙄
I am mortified at all the "bad" things ive done now that i have come into my own for many years now. But believe me we can be bad..alot of INFJ's talk about this. We are just bad within our personality type :)
I was thinking the exact same thing. The few times in my life that I succumbed to peer pressure didn't have good outcomes and made me rely more on my own moral backbone and trust myself. I am swayed by facts, figures, logic but don't you dare pop any BS, I will not follow at any cost. A good way to invoke my judgement. I was 8 years old thinking, "keep your ill-gotten gains" when people bragged about material items obtained by dubious means. It's been of utmost importance to have a clear conscience. But as the previous comment attested, there's a shadow side of everything and I have different shadow aspects. (I sound judgemental even when being tolerant but strive to temper with compassion and acceptance)
Interesting perspective and it started a great conversation! I think every INFJ succumbs to peer pressure in their own way, yet they can be especially vulnerable at a younger age before their functions are fully developed.
Never had problems with peer pressure. Had a small group of friends as a kid... But seemed to get along with most others. Never had much interest in partying or social status games. Meh. Lots of talents,skills, interests, academic and creative (high testing scores...skipped a grade...hated math...loved sciences...art and music Awards...some athleticism). Always needed a LOT of alone time.
Never had issues with peer pressure...was always too busy"doing my own thing". Never tried smoking cigarettes or any type of smoking. Just didn't make sense to me....so l didnt do it. I like being healthy and having a good brain....messing that all up never was even a 2nd thought for me. Never made sense to me to set something on fire and drag smoke into my lungs....soooo....l simply just didn't. Can count the alcoholic drinks l have had in my lifetime on one hand. Didnt appeal to me....didnt like a buzz in my brain. Wanted all my five senses fully working. Would rather chew and taste my calories on good food than waste them on something with alcohol. And yet...when l was in college....the kids in the dorm with issues with substances sought me out....for conversations....or to camp out in my room if they were afraid of how their over-consumption might affect them...or if they were not feeling well.
I believe it just pays to know yourself...and if peer pressure is in a direction that is not beneficial to you.... Just walk away. Most of all: if it doesn't make sense or isn't beneficial....walk away. Life is full of choices you can feel good about.
Can't take all the credit though. I was raised by wonderful grandparents from the Great-Depression and WWII GENERATION. They were simply the BEST people EVER.... l was fortunate to have them....and to this day l feel that they are "with me" in a very real sense. God saw to it that l hit the jackpot with the parenting of my grandparents.....they made all the difference in my life...and l credit every bit of resiliency l have to them. Miss you soooo much; Nana & Papa......THANKYOU FOR LOVING ME AND ALL YOU'VE DONE FOR ME....I WOULD SIMPLY NOT HAVE BECOME WHO I AM WITHOUT YOU.
I am First Nations person of the Ojibwe nation, growing up was very clear I wasn't liked even to my own people because I see us all as human and the universe was always intriguing to me, I became very spiritual when most my people's believe in god and are church goers due to the government brain washing of my people. Being picked on while growing up as a kid and being beat by fully grown men I grew to hate people and never trust anyone, I became a hermit and just practice in martial arts for year then when I turned 16 I thought I was big enough to fight all these men to beat me as a young-in, went out got everyone of them one by one. Never got caught for any of it because I created an alternate ego named "NISHINJA" Anishnabe plus ninja put together and that's me, I would be yelling NISHINJA repeatedly to everyone who beat me, at this time noone knew who NISHINJA was but me. After the mission was completed and every name was checked off on my list I started writing rap under my alter egos name, so that now everyone knew it was me who beat them, was never bullied again by them but in highschool people's were evil towards my people's so we stuck together a pack of us became popular and I was always getting in trouble because I was always standing up and fighting for the ones I know can't fight. Call me bad if you want, I know what I did was right I'm a Hero a badass hero now, people wouldn't peer pressure me to do anything because I have the reputation of no fear and did just about anything, people can ask me and it yes or no, that's it- but I do have a problem when someone says I can't do something I put it upon myself to prove them wrong, it's draining and it hurts sometimes and nearly gotten myself killed just to prove I well do anything not because you but because I make my own damn choices in life, noone can force me to do anything, I do it without thinking most times people don't need ask I just know my service was needed, I love my loved ones with everything. Being so loving I need to be with them all the time to know they're safe from all these evil people in the world.
I LOVE people watching lol. Force myself to get outside often, and always glad I did. Great vid :)
Amazing! The true reality, reality TV show 😂
My 37 years of advice:
Everybody will be having more fun than you on the outside, but you’ll be having more fun on the inside.
You’re a magnet for cluster b abusers
Find your passion and pursue it at all costs
Good advice. I walked away from Corporate and went Spiritual 💯❤️
Yeah
Sigma infj here and yes like the previous comment on this list "nail on the head"
Fantastic information!!!! Thanx so much for creating and sharing!!!!
You are so welcome!
Weeeeeed!! Omfg I L.O.V.E. weed!! Its fantastic! Its supercalafragalisticepreealadoshouse, I know I spelled it wrong but meh
Me too. I started using marijuana about two years ago because of health issues. I can't believe I waited till age 45 to use weed to manage anxiety, depression, chronic pain and my hyperness. It is great for reading and arting. I also love watching documentaries while stoned. 😂
Definately helps get my thoughts in order. In my 60s, been using off and on since early teens. Made Dean's list at University, while smoking frequently.
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!(sp.?)
@@nancyayers5067 Exactly
I've smoked for over 25 years. Started out As a teen experimenting. Found some strains help calm the mind. Other strains amplify the mental acuity.
If using to find relief of intuition, tread carefully.
Thank you for these tips 😊 yes writing it all down… I write novels and solve my problems by doing so. Drink is a must if facing society.. I cannot believe how many of these tips are, well, ME 😊 thank you for all these videos.. learning more everyday 🙏🌸
Thank you for all of your feedback!!
OMG I would LOVE to see everything you have written down. I barely found out I’m an INFJ and I have been beyond intrigued, it’s like a whole new world opened up. Everything makes so much sense now 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Great tips! Get those thoughts on paper! WE are definitely overthinkers!
Thank you - yes writing can work wonders!
This is very helpful.
Glad it was helpful - thank you for watching!
Oh gosh😍 thank you very much for these life tips! It's so helpfullll..
You're so welcome!
Bruh meditation is the shit, I meditate, time feels like it moves faster and my body tells me "stop? But why???" but my brain is like "We have to pee and our butt itches and we're hungry" 😄 I love meditation
"We have to pee and our butt itches and we're hungry." ---LOL! 😹
What a fantastic channel ❤️❤️❤️
I had my fun for today analysing a chart and diving into the soul that's heaven for me 😂
Wow! This video is point on.
Instead of writing on paper I make notes on my like cat names if I ever get a cat or an idea I get for certain thing I like
00:44 and I am considering exercising because my mind is too active 😂😂🤓
I was just thinking about how I need to go outside before I destroy my house.
once i was on a bus and a random college student, pointed me out and said, I looked like a racist. I Was WTF? I was quiet and I was just watching people talk, So I analysed this guy and Said, well if you want racism, then a phillipino, are the mexicans of the asains, And The whole friggins buss told me to shut it. I said, okay but if you dont shut it as well, Ill shut it for you. This is the sole reason, why I friggin hate busses. That and the fear of it crashing while people scream and blood flies while I lock myself in to survive while I bear witness to others demises. I dont even know if that is a real phobia, but I had to be on that bus for a reason.
Pt 1 find people you wibe with and spend time with them.
Oh thanks, never knew that's what I needed.....
My life advice: end videos stating obvious advice.
I have both Trait types INFG&ISFJ don't know why
Hmm.. maybe doing a little more research on each would be helpful!
Thanks eh
Yessss.
I am an extrovert with people I love that's it otherwise cold and aloof 🤣😂
Living a life alive would be much better than through these videos....Nevertheless , this is one form of communication in solitude . Isolation. 24/7.
Yup, very true.. It's better than nothing!
@@PSYCH-O ... Sorry to say.... But l REALLY do not like your channel name. Seems counter- intuitive to me.....even offensive.
@@blondwiththewind2598 Sounds like some problems of the first world
@@blondwiththewind2598 I love his channel name!
Humanity! 🤍
At 10 Am
Very good😇🤗😆😅😄😃😂😁
Awesome - thanks for watching 🙏
ENTJ the rarest. INFJ the third rarest.
Nail hit on the head!
Thanks for the feedback, my friend!🖖💙
@@PSYCH-O Ain't no thang but a chicken wang. 😁
Infj pro tip: smoke weed. My life got infinity better. I'm a 24/7 stoner for the last 3 years and I like my life.
Interesting perspective actually.. thanks for watching!
Yes weed is the best
I agree. Smoke weed in nature.
I concur, it helps. Need the correct strain, sativa is my jam
I feel like a super INFJ on edibles
No patience to watch till the end too long
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I never get to the end of any of these vids lol
It is Amazing I fit in nowhere here
Am I the only one who finds so cheesy this "rarest personality type" bs?
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