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Solo activities or any activity that doesn't turn something fun into a competition where not everyone is having fun otherwise I like doing typical solo activities that are with others
I am definitely a lonely INFJ, lol. But it’s crazy because I do wish I had more friends. But real , authentic ones. Not fake and pretentious ones who only are around to be nosey trying to figure out what I do and how I do what I do. 🤦♀️
Girl I wish u lives near me I am tired of being lonely and only meeting people who give me fake sides and be fake to me , let me know if you ever visit Dallas Texas ☺️
It can be one of the INFJs greatest challenges in life, but a true connection through friendship or romantic relationship can make all the difference! 😓
Me Too! Especially as an INFJ man. Sometimes not wanting to feel like I want to get on anyone's nerves or father annoy anyone with my existence, especially looking for a mate, it just alerts the fear that will make me feel awkward , and more jittery to my stomach so , so I just remain embracing the loneliness😐🙁☹😔😑❤😏😏
Personally it feels like friends, family, or romantic partners don't put in as much effort in making connections as we do which tends to also make us feel alone and misunderstood Edit: This was pointed out as soon as I typed it so yea this proves it.
What I find disheartening the most are the well-meant advices like: "If you feel lonely, just go out more and meet people." I wish I could tell each one of them that I actually feel more lonely in crowds. It is the social events that cause my insecurities, my feelings of loneliness and lack of true connections. It has become a vicious cycle in which I go out, get dissapointed, come back home, feel lonely, and go out just for it all to play out again. I wish I could tell the world that INFJ loneliness isn't cured by meeting as many people as possible. It is cured by finding the "right" people, even if they are just a few.
Story of my life! "Just go out there and meet people!" I hear that at least couple of times a week. Problem is that vast majority of people feel superficial, shallow and simple so I always feel like I have nothing in common with anyone. No matter how much I try. And if you are willing to stay true to yourself and are not happy to conform then you are pretty much destined to be alone. OK that came across a bit gloomy but I would much rather be alone than surrounded by people I can't connect with.
Being around people I am not alone but feel lonely, Been around myself it may feel lonely but I am not alone. We learn to sing in solitude and we learn that solitude sings to us.
Yes exactly, I don't know why people come to the conclusion that we are lonely, we are very self sufficient yet selective and exercise wisdom when it comes to choosing our friends.
Of course. That's our introverted intuition on autopilot. The only trouble is we sometimes get a little too confident in that ability, and it can keep us from breaking the planning cycle to get out and DO the things!!
I do know what is going to happen if you open yourself up you can know too. Just starve yourself by fasting and turn to God for everything. He will show you.
I'm an INFJ and this video describes me perfectly! Solo activities also include mountain biking and riding my motorcycle. My friends have learned to schedule a phone call with me by texting me first to see what time works best. I just can only take small bites of the social world.
Sometimes I think I want people around, but then when I'm physically around them (except for my few close people), I remember that I don't. I love interacting and watching others and figuring out how people work. I love figuring out ways to help a lot of people. But getting up and close and personal with people... it's kind of a different story. People are messy, and I have my whole internal world and like to be at peace with it and not have it interrupted. But IF someone can pull me out of that world for awhile, I actually have a lot of fun.
It depends on your definition of loneliness. If you're referring to human interaction, I've personally never had one best friend. If you're referring to nature, animals and the outside world to explore then my company is infinite.
@@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274 1. I tell them that I'm feeling drained from being around people and that I need time by myself to feel centred again. 2. I tell them it's nothing personal and that I'm taking space from almost everyone in my life, it's not about them but just about how I function. And I assure them I'll be back when I feel better. I also explain how I won't be around anymore, like I won't be there for meet ups and our usual library hangouts and so on. This way, you told them what's going on and they're not surprised by it. I'd feel hurt too if someone close to me just fell off the grid without a word. 3. If I don't feel like myself for months, every few weeks I send a text or something saying, "hey, I'm letting you know I'm still thinking of you while I'm gone. You're still important to me and I'll be back when I can. Thank you for being patient." This helps them feel reassured that I do care and that I will be back. 4. When I come back, I tell them. And I thank them for saving space for me in their life while I was gone and that I appreciate them for letting me fade away to repair myself. So basically, communication is so important. No one will know what's going on unless you tell them. Eventually, people get used to this being a part of who you are and you don't need to explain the why's so much. Now, I can fade out without people being upset and hurt. My connections don't suffer ♥️
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For so long I thought that there is something wrong with me. I enjoy being alone rather being in a group, I can't wait to come home from work and enjoy my hobbies, I can socialize with many people but there's something inside me that is always excited to be alone. When I found out that I am an INFJ I'm getting a better grip of my self and realized that there's nothing wrong with me.
@@PSYCH-O Very infantile too. Your feeling of loneliness comes from inability to put your own personal integrity and values first. Switch your F for a T and join the dark side of the force! (we have cookies) 😈
Being an INFJ is a blessing.We are not lonely we are alone when we choose to be.We have many interests and will focus on the subjects we need to know more about.The list is infinite.I can be happy for hours alone absorbing new ideas.I still enjoy interacting with people when I leave my haven of peace but only choose people to deeply get to know if they have more knowledge than I do.I like to use my intuitive side to assist in making decisions about people.
"INFJ LONELINESS" lonely but not sad, lonely but happy and satisfied acceptance is the key,, 😅😂lol by watching kind of videos i can now understand myself, not fully but tittle by tittle,, these help me on how to fully adjust myself for other people once more,, hahaha 🤣🤣
I used to feel bad being INFJ. People mostly misunderstood me a lot. They misunderstood my silence and being polite by being fake. I'm not the cool ones, interesting one, loud one, funny one or fashionable one but often times I'm the first choice if "friends" need help. I felt it was a burden to be like this but now I'm grateful that I can easily see people who are genuine and true in my life. I maybe alone most of the time but I'm not lonely. 😊
I'm very lonely, but I'm not afraid to be vulnerable. I love it. I'm always open, I share everything. I want everyone to know everything about me. I want to be completely understood. I value deep, emotional connections, honesty, trust, and authenticity. I want to be able to cry with someone and pour my heart out to them, and know that they care just as much as I care about them, and that they'll put in just as much effort for me as I do for them. It's very important for me that someone will always be there for me, listen to me, and validate and understand my feelings.
Perfect.. people think they know us but they only know us the way we want them too… exactly… love this quote you made… explains a lot to me 😊🌸 I do feel very alone in this world but I have learnt to enjoy my own company because no one seems to understand me 😊🌸
Totally nobody understands me it's like I'm talking backwards to them. I am an empath. Been one since a child. From major abuse. So I pretty much don't trust many or any if you can't trust your mother and father who you can you trust??
Trust yourself, in order to be able to trust others first you have to learn how to trust yourself and why spending time alone is helps. Gives the space that is needed to go inward and truly understand who you are on the inside. That everyone and everything is a lesson. In order for there to be light there also must be the dark or we wouldn’t be able to tell the difference. So in order to understand the truth we also have to understand what a lie is. One doesn’t exist without the other and it’s all vibrations in the end. Everyone has the ability, INFJ and non INFJ (everyone), to heal within them.
@@Skazoonit That's good in a way because that means you are the opposite of them and that makes you good. You could also be an Extrasensitive person.. EMP ATH. Look it up you might be one of us. It's good that you don't fit in with him or those type of people even your friends I've got a friend that does the same crap to me. She blew me off yesterday told me she was gonna come over to bring me my birthday present. Now there's no way she forgot, So what does that mean I'm not crazy is he either she can't read a clock 3 o'clock or write a text to tell me she aint coming. Rude behavior. Watch people's etiquette. See that you might be more higher class than them and they're jealous of you.
You really do make tremendous videos, I watch your content and it’s like you’ve got a window into my soul. As always… Another job well done. Cheers from Toronto
Our life is Hell! It's brutal the amount of Suffering we go through ultimately from other people taking advantage of us. We only get the luxury of doing nothing if we haven't had kids yet. I'm always doing something. Too much work to do as a single Mom. I stay exhausted
WoW INFJ loneliness! I couldn't stop chuckling at how accurately you describe me😅I've done the personality test a couple of times - 30 yrs ago and recently - I'm still an INFJ and always felt alone, turns out my son is too. Thanks this summed things up nicely and Yep sitting alone with one of my dogs watching TH-cam and ignoring calls🙏💜
Spot on! :) As an INFJ I absolutely love my solitude, yet I do go full chameleon in social situations which gives people what they want to see and hear, however, I'd rather be home alone doing my own solo creative activities instead. To other INFJ's, I hear you on only wanting close authentic connections (we see the fakes very well), and often it feels like no-one else is out there to understand us, even our partners. Keep being you, as rare as we are. We make the best counsellors (I am one) and are genuinely awesome individuals. Love to you guys! :)
They are lonely because the world is full of people that dont think like they do. I can be around family on thanksgiving and find myself feeling lonely wanting to escape the crowd and go be by myself and think. I finally stopped going to thanksgiving get togethers because when i left i realized it had no meaning, it was eating and too many people talking at once and nobody said anything that really mattered. Time after time an infj is surrounded by people but not content unless meaning or purpose is found. Just surrounded by noise and laughter as you feel empty and you keep looking for what it is that you are needing and wanting but cant seem to find it. Not lonely for people but missing purpose and meaning in your life.
I find the modern dating world to be, well, without depth. I'm actually a traditional romantic type at heart, even though I have a "intimating" demeanor. I am both demisexual and sapiosexual by nature. Girls had only seen the football player type surface during highschool, and I went with it for a while. I naturally feel at ease around girls, so it wasn't all bad. However, years passed by, beautiful, yet shallow women came and went, and I finally decided to walk away completely. I swore never to engage intimately until I saw a real potential for the one. It's been several years, yet I've never been happier with who I am. I decided to share this so other INFJ types that might relate will know they are not alone. Be authentic, despite the world. Take care and God bless. ✝️
I can attest to the solo activities. When not at work, I prefer to play story-driven, single player video games. I also play an MMO and similar type games that demand multiplayer activities. 90% of the time, I tend to play solo in these games too. When I do multiplayer content, I'm usually the one greeting and helping those who are not familiar with the content.
If I may say I’m not pretty sure the title of the video would do justice as I’m an INFJ I do love to spend my time alone to recharge myself doing something I love and I never feel lonely. In fact, it’s the time I look forward after the hard day/week I experience and I enjoy/prefer having time alone, not lonely. 😊
Agree💯. I can’t say that I am lonely, but I am super independent. Managing things and shopping by my own is super fast complete and meet my expectations (and others) 😂 Spending time explaining the process to others is exhausted and letting them do those will give frustrating results 😁😅
Once again hit the nail on the head. I have interest in writing comics and making animation if my original characters. My hobbies aside from video games are very much solo, quiet, aquired taste for others.
YES!!!!! This is scary-accurate! What I find most difficult is people understanding I NEED alone time to recharge from being inundated by social interaction all day. Especially family-they have a tough time getting it...that I'm better for THEM if I have some alone time. They tend to take it personally-that I don't like spending time with them, when it really comes down to needing that time alone in order to be ready for more time with them...if that makes any sense...
Jep that's me when i'm around people I getting draint and feel that I don't fit in when I am home alone I feel happy end doing stuff alone like watching a movie or playing a videogame since I was a kid I was like this and now I'm a adult and I still am
I’m curious if anyone else shuddered to hear 75 % of USA are sensors. Yet also felt “ well that explains my nightmare perfectly “ just saying. I had sensors in my family for one... such a nightmare so many times to deal with sensors. ( “Why can’t you be me?” 😱Seriously ?... wtf? )
No one is ever truly alone because we all live on the earth which is inside the universe which makes us all one whole and connected. Like the atoms that make up our bodies so do they make up everything but in different forms (codes) and they are all connected even in the void/space/emptiness.
While I like to draw or read/watch anime/videos on my own, there are times I will just lay on the floor or in bed and do nothing at all as I feel incapable of doing any activity, usually in times I feel isolated mainly or just burnt out. I prefer being around other people as it helps to regulate myself so I don't inwardly retreat. When people cancel plans I've carefully crafted, or people I care about haven't visited I'll feel extra alone... It's really difficult especially when in the company of others because I feel like I'm not capable of feeling what they feel because I think too deep, which also leads me to know they can't relate with me either. There's times I wish I didn't need to always think at such a deeper level because everyone else seems so blissfully happy, in a way I know I just can't commit to feeling. I feel happiest when I can do something for someone else, as I know that kindness is rarely shown back, which.... Just doing something good is enough for me to start feeling better. Though when you do find someone who has an inkling of an idea of how you feel and that you, as an INFJ feel they might understand... It'll hurt and make you feel way more lonely when they can't be there for you or if they vanish for awhile, since they do become a great source of interest, relief, and happiness, inadvertently. I myself try to not rely on people too much as they are too fragile and can't keep their values at the same level so there's always a disconnect... But I have located one person who I wish to communicate everything with, just feels like I could overwhelm them because it feels like I could become too interested in them when they too need their own spacing whereas I could talk for hours with them if granted. And for that, I try to keep a healthy distance still, even though it seems hard to not just go up and share my gratitude to them and express how comfortable they make me feel... I won't tell them though because I'm too worried to overwhelm them and drive them away for even coming across as "strange" Tis the role of the misunderstood INFJ who just craves that deeper level of understanding
@@audreelerma1639 only about 18 months. Now getting close to 50, I so wish I had known about my personality type in my teens/20s. That would have helped me so much understand why I've never fitted in and been the odd one.
Perfect world = myself and a handful of likeminded ppl. = The entire planet. The amount of ppl is negotiable. Main rule no liying no drama. And other footnotes. But,I don't want to turn in to Sheldon. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“They hurry to go home to do nothing “ wait what ? Are you serious ??? We have mindful, world changing conversations with our twin entity about… everything Gosh ha ha Regards Franz
....WE ARE...?..🙄..but what must I do if I just can't be Around People too long?..... 🤔.. I choose to be Alone..I'm not Lonely..ok..yes..we Feel Lonely Because Nobody Understands US....😆😁👍
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Why the need to put rare? Not the highest concentration in a population but rare seems as if it's a competition 🤦
Solo activities or any activity that doesn't turn something fun into a competition where not everyone is having fun otherwise I like doing typical solo activities that are with others
INFJ loneliness.
InFJ Lonely 😔
I am definitely a lonely INFJ, lol. But it’s crazy because I do wish I had more friends. But real , authentic ones. Not fake and pretentious ones who only are around to be nosey trying to figure out what I do and how I do what I do. 🤦♀️
Girl I wish u lives near me I am tired of being lonely and only meeting people who give me fake sides and be fake to me , let me know if you ever visit Dallas Texas ☺️
It can be one of the INFJs greatest challenges in life, but a true connection through friendship or romantic relationship can make all the difference! 😓
Me Too! Especially as an INFJ man. Sometimes not wanting to feel like I want to get on anyone's nerves or father annoy anyone with my existence, especially looking for a mate, it just alerts the fear that will make me feel awkward , and more jittery to my stomach so , so I just remain embracing the loneliness😐🙁☹😔😑❤😏😏
Amen Amen Amen and ones we could trust true blues
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Personally it feels like friends, family, or romantic partners don't put in as much effort in making connections as we do which tends to also make us feel alone and misunderstood
Edit: This was pointed out as soon as I typed it so yea this proves it.
Yup exactly.. it's a tough pill to swallow but once you realize it, it can help tremendously in future connections. 🙌
INFJ Loneliness. It's hard moving through life when no one truly understands you.
Absolutely it is.. Thank you for your comment! 🙌
What I find disheartening the most are the well-meant advices like: "If you feel lonely, just go out more and meet people." I wish I could tell each one of them that I actually feel more lonely in crowds. It is the social events that cause my insecurities, my feelings of loneliness and lack of true connections. It has become a vicious cycle in which I go out, get dissapointed, come back home, feel lonely, and go out just for it all to play out again. I wish I could tell the world that INFJ loneliness isn't cured by meeting as many people as possible. It is cured by finding the "right" people, even if they are just a few.
Story of my life! "Just go out there and meet people!" I hear that at least couple of times a week. Problem is that vast majority of people feel superficial, shallow and simple so I always feel like I have nothing in common with anyone. No matter how much I try. And if you are willing to stay true to yourself and are not happy to conform then you are pretty much destined to be alone. OK that came across a bit gloomy but I would much rather be alone than surrounded by people I can't connect with.
Being around people I am not alone but feel lonely, Been around myself it may feel lonely but I am not alone.
We learn to sing in solitude and we learn that solitude sings to us.
It's a strange contradiction to enjoy alone time yet feel so lonely because you long for a deeper connections with somebody.
I would not say that I am lonely 😔 but I choice to be by myself due to the fact that I dislike fake people around me.
Yes.. alone but not lonely!
Yes exactly, I don't know why people come to the conclusion that we are lonely, we are very self sufficient yet selective and exercise wisdom when it comes to choosing our friends.
Any other INFJs in the chat rarely surprised by the future due to their intuition and judgement? It's like you often know what is going to happen
Yes... it’s cool but depressing at the same time. To know what an outcome is going to be nine times out of ten
@@whoisfatimahaliyahra6794 why depressing?
Of course. That's our introverted intuition on autopilot. The only trouble is we sometimes get a little too confident in that ability, and it can keep us from breaking the planning cycle to get out and DO the things!!
Well said, it can definitely take the excitement out of some aspects of life.
I do know what is going to happen if you open yourself up you can know too. Just starve yourself by fasting and turn to God for everything. He will show you.
I'm an INFJ and this video describes me perfectly! Solo activities also include mountain biking and riding my motorcycle. My friends have learned to schedule a phone call with me by texting me first to see what time works best. I just can only take small bites of the social world.
Yup, solo activities are a must for the introverted INFJ for that exact reason, we can only take small bites of the social world!
Infj that rides a motorcycle ❤
Emm ... I think an INFJ ... is never really lonely ... just alone (and most times voluntarily so) ... 😂🙌💯
Sometimes I think I want people around, but then when I'm physically around them (except for my few close people), I remember that I don't. I love interacting and watching others and figuring out how people work. I love figuring out ways to help a lot of people. But getting up and close and personal with people... it's kind of a different story. People are messy, and I have my whole internal world and like to be at peace with it and not have it interrupted. But IF someone can pull me out of that world for awhile, I actually have a lot of fun.
Very true in some cases! 😅
Infj loneliness. I can relate to that on many levels.
Thank you for watching, and welcome! 💙
It depends on your definition of loneliness. If you're referring to human interaction, I've personally never had one best friend. If you're referring to nature, animals and the outside world to explore then my company is infinite.
Well said! 👌
Well If you're not INFJ hmm better to talk with us so you can feel it
I learnt how to tell people when I'm fading into my shell so they're not hurt nor do I lose them
How do you do that? I'm an INFJ with a lot of extroverts in my family.
@@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274 1. I tell them that I'm feeling drained from being around people and that I need time by myself to feel centred again.
2. I tell them it's nothing personal and that I'm taking space from almost everyone in my life, it's not about them but just about how I function. And I assure them I'll be back when I feel better. I also explain how I won't be around anymore, like I won't be there for meet ups and our usual library hangouts and so on. This way, you told them what's going on and they're not surprised by it. I'd feel hurt too if someone close to me just fell off the grid without a word.
3. If I don't feel like myself for months, every few weeks I send a text or something saying, "hey, I'm letting you know I'm still thinking of you while I'm gone. You're still important to me and I'll be back when I can. Thank you for being patient." This helps them feel reassured that I do care and that I will be back.
4. When I come back, I tell them. And I thank them for saving space for me in their life while I was gone and that I appreciate them for letting me fade away to repair myself.
So basically, communication is so important. No one will know what's going on unless you tell them. Eventually, people get used to this being a part of who you are and you don't need to explain the why's so much. Now, I can fade out without people being upset and hurt. My connections don't suffer ♥️
@@EstherKala66 thank you for sharing. I struggle with this and you helped me so much.
@@sagebay2803 You're welcome, all the best with teaching others to allow you room to fade away when you're burnout♥️
I do that too!
INFJ LONLINESS! I recently realized that I am an INFJ and im having trouble learning how to co-exist... With other personality types.
Well, watching videos like this that help you better understand yourself is a great start! We have loads of tips for this exact trouble within out INFJ videos! Thanks for watching 💙
For so long I thought that there is something wrong with me. I enjoy being alone rather being in a group, I can't wait to come home from work and enjoy my hobbies, I can socialize with many people but there's something inside me that is always excited to be alone. When I found out that I am an INFJ I'm getting a better grip of my self and realized that there's nothing wrong with me.
No one understands only ourselfs
Few humans do
Very true!
@@PSYCH-O Very infantile too. Your feeling of loneliness comes from inability to put your own personal integrity and values first. Switch your F for a T and join the dark side of the force! (we have cookies) 😈
Being an INFJ is a blessing.We are not lonely we are alone when we choose to be.We have many interests and will focus on the subjects we need to know more about.The list is infinite.I can be happy for hours alone absorbing new ideas.I still enjoy interacting with people when I leave my haven of peace but only choose people to deeply get to know if they have more knowledge than I do.I like to use my intuitive side to assist in making decisions about people.
OMG… so spot on!!! All your INFJ videos… never realized my feelings and behaviors were so common amongst the other INFJ
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"INFJ LONELINESS"
lonely but not sad,
lonely but happy and satisfied
acceptance is the key,, 😅😂lol
by watching kind of videos i can now understand myself, not fully but tittle by tittle,,
these help me on how to fully adjust myself for other people once more,, hahaha 🤣🤣
Awesome! We're so glad you can understand yourself a little bit more with each video! 😌
I used to feel bad being INFJ. People mostly misunderstood me a lot. They misunderstood my silence and being polite by being fake. I'm not the cool ones, interesting one, loud one, funny one or fashionable one but often times I'm the first choice if "friends" need help. I felt it was a burden to be like this but now I'm grateful that I can easily see people who are genuine and true in my life. I maybe alone most of the time but I'm not lonely. 😊
There are many layers to being / feeling lonely. Our thinking is one of our best friends .
I'm very lonely, but I'm not afraid to be vulnerable. I love it. I'm always open, I share everything. I want everyone to know everything about me. I want to be completely understood. I value deep, emotional connections, honesty, trust, and authenticity. I want to be able to cry with someone and pour my heart out to them, and know that they care just as much as I care about them, and that they'll put in just as much effort for me as I do for them. It's very important for me that someone will always be there for me, listen to me, and validate and understand my feelings.
Perfect.. people think they know us but they only know us the way we want them too… exactly… love this quote you made… explains a lot to me 😊🌸 I do feel very alone in this world but I have learnt to enjoy my own company because no one seems to understand me 😊🌸
Alone but not always lonely. 🤗
Yes - well said!!
Totally nobody understands me it's like I'm talking backwards to them. I am an empath. Been one since a child. From major abuse. So I pretty much don't trust many or any if you can't trust your mother and father who you can you trust??
I feel you, healing now. 😌🙏
@@iatage thx
Trust yourself, in order to be able to trust others first you have to learn how to trust yourself and why spending time alone is helps. Gives the space that is needed to go inward and truly understand who you are on the inside. That everyone and everything is a lesson. In order for there to be light there also must be the dark or we wouldn’t be able to tell the difference. So in order to understand the truth we also have to understand what a lie is. One doesn’t exist without the other and it’s all vibrations in the end. Everyone has the ability, INFJ and non INFJ (everyone), to heal within them.
Me too 😢
@@Skazoonit That's good in a way because that means you are the opposite of them and that makes you good. You could also be an Extrasensitive person.. EMP ATH. Look it up you might be one of us. It's good that you don't fit in with him or those type of people even your friends I've got a friend that does the same crap to me. She blew me off yesterday told me she was gonna come over to bring me my birthday present. Now there's no way she forgot, So what does that mean I'm not crazy is he either she can't read a clock 3 o'clock or write a text to tell me she aint coming. Rude behavior. Watch people's etiquette. See that you might be more higher class than them and they're jealous of you.
You really do make tremendous videos, I watch your content and it’s like you’ve got a window into my soul.
As always… Another job well done.
Cheers from Toronto
Thank you, Steve! It's always encouraging to see your kind words in the comment section - we appreciate you! 🙏
INFJ Loneliness. Very accurate description.
Our life is Hell! It's brutal the amount of Suffering we go through ultimately from other people taking advantage of us. We only get the luxury of doing nothing if we haven't had kids yet. I'm always doing something. Too much work to do as a single Mom. I stay exhausted
It can definitely seem unbearable at times - hang in there my fellow INFJ. 🤗
WoW INFJ loneliness! I couldn't stop chuckling at how accurately you describe me😅I've done the personality test a couple of times - 30 yrs ago and recently - I'm still an INFJ and always felt alone, turns out my son is too. Thanks this summed things up nicely and Yep sitting alone with one of my dogs watching TH-cam and ignoring calls🙏💜
Hahah thanks for the comment and welcome my fellow INFJ! 💙
Spot on! :) As an INFJ I absolutely love my solitude, yet I do go full chameleon in social situations which gives people what they want to see and hear, however, I'd rather be home alone doing my own solo creative activities instead. To other INFJ's, I hear you on only wanting close authentic connections (we see the fakes very well), and often it feels like no-one else is out there to understand us, even our partners. Keep being you, as rare as we are. We make the best counsellors (I am one) and are genuinely awesome individuals. Love to you guys! :)
Love to you right back! Well said comment, my fellow INFJ 💙
I am an infj and I have an infj twin sister. I consider myself very lucky
Lucky you 🍀
They are lonely because the world is full of people that dont think like they do. I can be around family on thanksgiving and find myself feeling lonely wanting to escape the crowd and go be by myself and think. I finally stopped going to thanksgiving get togethers because when i left i realized it had no meaning, it was eating and too many people talking at once and nobody said anything that really mattered. Time after time an infj is surrounded by people but not content unless meaning or purpose is found. Just surrounded by noise and laughter as you feel empty and you keep looking for what it is that you are needing and wanting but cant seem to find it. Not lonely for people but missing purpose and meaning in your life.
INFJ Loneliness Definitely!!!
I find the modern dating world to be, well, without depth. I'm actually a traditional romantic type at heart, even though I have a "intimating" demeanor. I am both demisexual and sapiosexual by nature. Girls had only seen the football player type surface during highschool, and I went with it for a while. I naturally feel at ease around girls, so it wasn't all bad. However, years passed by, beautiful, yet shallow women came and went, and I finally decided to walk away completely. I swore never to engage intimately until I saw a real potential for the one. It's been several years, yet I've never been happier with who I am. I decided to share this so other INFJ types that might relate will know they are not alone. Be authentic, despite the world. Take care and God bless. ✝️
Infj..... Am I a alien hybrid? I am not other humans.
Yup, it can definitely feel like that 👽🖖
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I can attest to the solo activities. When not at work, I prefer to play story-driven, single player video games. I also play an MMO and similar type games that demand multiplayer activities. 90% of the time, I tend to play solo in these games too. When I do multiplayer content, I'm usually the one greeting and helping those who are not familiar with the content.
Wow! I am a classic example of all that’s been said!
Amazing! Thanks for your feedback 🙏
It's a small thing, but I love that you don't misuse the word "disinterested"
If I may say I’m not pretty sure the title of the video would do justice as I’m an INFJ I do love to spend my time alone to recharge myself doing something I love and I never feel lonely. In fact, it’s the time I look forward after the hard day/week I experience and I enjoy/prefer having time alone, not lonely. 😊
Yes we feel very lonely.
Agree💯. I can’t say that I am lonely, but I am super independent. Managing things and shopping by my own is super fast complete and meet my expectations (and others) 😂 Spending time explaining the process to others is exhausted and letting them do those will give frustrating results 😁😅
Me 100%
"Lonely" should be changed to "solitary".
Once again hit the nail on the head. I have interest in writing comics and making animation if my original characters. My hobbies aside from video games are very much solo, quiet, aquired taste for others.
YES!!!!! This is scary-accurate! What I find most difficult is people understanding I NEED alone time to recharge from being inundated by social interaction all day. Especially family-they have a tough time getting it...that I'm better for THEM if I have some alone time. They tend to take it personally-that I don't like spending time with them, when it really comes down to needing that time alone in order to be ready for more time with them...if that makes any sense...
It makes total sense, and you're definitely not alone in that need lol, typical INFJ!
Jep that's me when i'm around people I getting draint and feel that I don't fit in when I am home alone I feel happy end doing stuff alone like watching a movie or playing a videogame since I was a kid I was like this and now I'm a adult and I still am
Remember that song? "Here comes that INFJ (rainy day) feeling again". Oh , it's you again.
I really thought that I’m a horrid person because I don’t return texts and calls. I still think that, but not as strongly.
Haha.. it's just an INFJ thing 😂
I’m curious if anyone else shuddered to hear 75 % of USA are sensors. Yet also felt “ well that explains my nightmare perfectly “ just saying. I had sensors in my family for one... such a nightmare so many times to deal with sensors. ( “Why can’t you be me?” 😱Seriously ?... wtf? )
No one is ever truly alone because we all live on the earth which is inside the universe which makes us all one whole and connected. Like the atoms that make up our bodies so do they make up everything but in different forms (codes) and they are all connected even in the void/space/emptiness.
Very ture
Very true- sounds like a deep INFJ insight to me!
@@PSYCH-O yet is so basic a child can understand
"I am a rock
I am an island"
(I am an INFJ)
"I have my books
And my poetry to protect me"
I just want to be with my significant other....
Love to explore/adventures together.
But I need my time out alone to recharge.
Totally - sounds like the ideal INFJ relationship balance.
INFJ loneliness. Lol If sucks when your doing a cool thing and have no one to share your excitement or 'eureka moment' with.
"INFJ Loneliness"
Welcome, my friend! Thank you for watching 💙
@@PSYCH-O ☺️😇💙
This is so relatable to me since i’m a Infj 😊.
Awesome - thanks for watching 🙏
The Woo-Wootang clan ain't nothin to f**k with.
I'm an infj lonely person! I wish I could have a few close friends but rejection is always there for me!
Woah mister, who allowed you to understand all this about us🤣🤣🤣
Haha, thank you for watching!🙏
While I like to draw or read/watch anime/videos on my own, there are times I will just lay on the floor or in bed and do nothing at all as I feel incapable of doing any activity, usually in times I feel isolated mainly or just burnt out. I prefer being around other people as it helps to regulate myself so I don't inwardly retreat. When people cancel plans I've carefully crafted, or people I care about haven't visited I'll feel extra alone... It's really difficult especially when in the company of others because I feel like I'm not capable of feeling what they feel because I think too deep, which also leads me to know they can't relate with me either. There's times I wish I didn't need to always think at such a deeper level because everyone else seems so blissfully happy, in a way I know I just can't commit to feeling. I feel happiest when I can do something for someone else, as I know that kindness is rarely shown back, which.... Just doing something good is enough for me to start feeling better.
Though when you do find someone who has an inkling of an idea of how you feel and that you, as an INFJ feel they might understand... It'll hurt and make you feel way more lonely when they can't be there for you or if they vanish for awhile, since they do become a great source of interest, relief, and happiness, inadvertently. I myself try to not rely on people too much as they are too fragile and can't keep their values at the same level so there's always a disconnect... But I have located one person who I wish to communicate everything with, just feels like I could overwhelm them because it feels like I could become too interested in them when they too need their own spacing whereas I could talk for hours with them if granted. And for that, I try to keep a healthy distance still, even though it seems hard to not just go up and share my gratitude to them and express how comfortable they make me feel... I won't tell them though because I'm too worried to overwhelm them and drive them away for even coming across as "strange"
Tis the role of the misunderstood INFJ who just craves that deeper level of understanding
InFJ Lonely 😞
The lonely ones scattered across the planet, looking for the right connections, but never finding the perfect match. That seems to be us INFJs
@@alanlmsca I totally agree w/ you ! ! How long have you known that you are an InFJ? ?
@@audreelerma1639 only about 18 months. Now getting close to 50, I so wish I had known about my personality type in my teens/20s. That would have helped me so much understand why I've never fitted in and been the odd one.
@@alanlmsca Same here.
@@alanlmsca I am 50 myself and I have also been odd/eccentric ! ! Alan, my first name is Audree & I am in Texas. What state or country are you from?
Perfect world = myself and a handful of likeminded ppl. =
The entire planet.
The amount of ppl is negotiable.
Main rule no liying no drama.
And other footnotes.
But,I don't want to turn in to Sheldon.
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Hahah totally a Sheldon 😂
Bazinga
Me watching this alone in my room after ghosting my friends: 🥲
We are the friends of the friendless:) 🌻have fun with it🌼
“INFJ Loneliness”.
Banksters must be stopped ASAP!!!
I prefer to be by myself. not lonely at all.
“They hurry to go home to do nothing “ wait what ?
Are you serious ???
We have mindful, world changing conversations with our twin entity about… everything
Gosh ha ha
Regards
Franz
I'm lonely for someone who tries to deeply understand and accepts me. I've found him, but he's so far away 😢 😭😫
An alone one...not always lonely..👈
INFJ-A loneliness
Thank you for your comment and welcome! 🙌
I am an Alone Solitude loving INFJ but not Lonely at all
"INFJ LONELINESS"
😂 solo activity 😂 why do you know so much? 😅
Haha classic INFJ hobby 😂
Same here!
INFJ elegant loneliness. But I have a white cat, like Pangur Ban.
Nicely put! 🙏
Yet... I am not a people pleaser or lonely.
At 9:15: "Their hobbies" instead of "They're hobbies".
I feel l've been lonely ..... all of my life! And I'm 66 years old.
INFJ LONELY 🙁
Welcome, my fellow INFJ! 💙
Infj loneliness
💯again
Thank you! 🙏
....WE ARE...?..🙄..but what must I do if I just can't be Around People too long?..... 🤔..
I choose to be Alone..I'm not Lonely..ok..yes..we Feel Lonely Because Nobody Understands US....😆😁👍
Haha, we had another comment like this - great point!
INFJ loneliness..
Idk but everything about me screams lonely zodiac sign to mbti to birth date to everything
Wtf. It's like an instruction manual for how to deal with me. Literally word for word. I'm an INFJ an also a Leo. Lol.😅
INFJ Lonely
INFJ loneliness
Only if every1 thought like us.
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This, Is, a Hundred percent me . . .
infj alone
Any infj near Central Oregon?
Am i the only one talk to myself or thinking out loud ??
No, please, don't remind me of that again
Me to a tee…
So so lonely
Infj loneliness