nah fax watching this video after becoming a dark triad and looking back when i was a “lover boy /non argumentative toxic boy” with my ex i noticed she’d randomly start something very small, wed fight about it , and then she’d get all shmexy, but obviously i was too dumb to understand these things and never initiated etc. now it’s different 🙏🏻 he’s the best big brother friend we always needed
Best to be not reactive, stay calm and joke about it, is she crosses the line walk away. But if it is insecure person, drama Queen, you will be drained of your energy from constant drama and toxicity because she steals your energy that way.
this is funny.. my ex pulled arguments out of the air, but after the arguments all I wanted was to be dead and burried. I didn't have any kind of exitement or some extra pull towards her or wish for sex. don't know, was her purpose to get me exited or not, but the result was just awful.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
If a girl while your getting to know her is testing you and you have to confront her or have a convo about something with tension. And she says dont be mad at me say im not mad at you because you havent even earned me being mad at you yet. It fucks their brain up. Lol
God designed the woman to be a helper. If your life isn’t developed enough such that you have a place with good purposes for a woman to fit and flow with all of her natural feminine emotions and skills, then she will find and feed on less good purposes, like drama, tests and chaos. It’s her programming to find and help solve problems; give her good ones or she will find bad ones. Give her bad or stupid ones, and well, welcome to the rest of your life.
God also gave every soul a body to facilitate movement. Take a moment to wiggle your fingers and see the complexity of movements that the hand and wrist can make...I didn't push any buttons and a lot of times I'm not even thinking of how to move them. The brain is WTF as far as it's capabilities. We are designed to be at the forefront of life. Get into the nitty gritty of life. Be the river or the rock. The river is flowing, moving, living.... The rock is stationary, idle, sedentary.... God and the Devil were walking one day when they saw something shiny. God said, "Oh look, the truth." The Devil said, "Give it to me and I'll organize it" When I drive my car with all the complexity of traffic .. I manage without a notebook or how to manual. I just see, drive, and react. Self improvement is good to a point to raise your awareness. Ignorance causes problems... The Devil is human stupidity. At the depth of a beautiful and attractive women....is there ignorance or a good heart? The wisdom here confirms that a lot of women are not innocent, frolicking, little fairies of love and good emotions. Build a mindset to be cautious. Realize it might be "your turn" and things can end. I got my spacesuit on and ready to move that the Force gave me. I move everyday with ease and delight. Everything in life is not serious or personal. Have fun. A bad young man, makes a good young woman. When you get older...You can't have a good woman until you're a good man with movement ....kinda makes sense
KING TREATMENT ONLY.... never get emotionally attached don't live with her so when she starts walk away. She must see you as a KING...HIGH INTEREST ONLY
9:10 this is facts, once she is starting the drama, she is bored with you and her mind is edging out. only way to maybe combat this is to give a double dramatic response. and after that, make sure u are causing tension! sounds messed up but that's just how it is. and it can be simple, just leave and dont say anything. "disappear" for a bit and dont give any explanation or concrete one. delay replying for maybe a day occasionally. dont answer a call, especially if u driving or even on the potty.
Yo I do this occasionally with my girl (not consciously though, I just happen find myself giving space & time easily). I leave for a week just doing work & living my life few times I messed up & didn’t say nothing for 2 weeks. But majority of the time she’d always break the silence by calling, texting or sending a vn then complain about how I can leave for days or weeks without saying anything & she says I don’t love here and I don’t care or give a shit. She says she thinks she’s the reason the relationship hasn’t fallen apart because she says I can go days or weeks not talking and how can I be fine with that & not try to fix things. You’re obviously not a relationship doctor but how would you handle a dynamic like this one? Obviously I love her & think she’s adorable haha thanks!
8:33 yup, a girl had broken up with me many years ago and she said "i always know where you are", because i would literally tell her. I didnt give her any chance to worry about me, then I thought that was the right thing to do. LMFAO!!!
Yes, to succeed at playing someone else’s game, you must become a player such as they are, you must become like them. But is that really a win? A higher level player wins, not by falling to attraction and changing himself to fit their game, but by changing the game and attracting them to fit his game. --This is true Game…but you’ve got to have built up a game, ie, a life structure which has a meaningful place for her to fit in and flow with you.
All phenomenal advice but friends like he said it has to be congruent with your personality. Not everyone has the charisma and gravitas to pull this off lol Be tactful and Godspeed!
I used the technique of saying “you and I would never work together “ on a girl that was showing all kinds of signs of attraction and I believe that comment put way too much insecurity in her. She started shutting down making advances for fear of rejection. There was a lot of things that happened but I think that is the main part that caused the relationship to turn for the worst. Just make sure if you push them away and they are a kind of insecure type, to do it playfully with a smirk or something. Or say something you like about them and how they’d make a good girlfriend, first.
If a girl is already into you, why would you use a tactic that makes them fall for you? What the? It's like it's already a fire and you make an explosion ofc there will be no fire after that, lol.
He teaches men how to be players and “play” on women’s feelings. But women need security for long term relationships. So this stuff works to get you laid for some time but eventually her rationality will kick in and she will leave. You think women marry guys that do this stuff? LMAO
@@troobix_s Some do, but you can’t blame it on those facts alone. Maybe she just ain’t attracted to you physically. Maybe she wants someone with more drive or ambition. Young, immature and insecure girls might fall for those guys but good women will appreciate good men.
An unfortunate reality is that when things are good and there is peace in your relationship..... Women will eventually sometimes lose feelings for you and emotionally detach from you.
I've been on a marathon of these videos and I have two major takeaways. 1. Lots of things "seem" contradictory and 2. women have to much control, especially the wrong women. I want to address the second point and say to all men: avoid these types of women who reject men for small reasons and most importantly delete the phrase "high value" from your vocabulary.
They have control ONLY if you give it to them. Rent and limit your exposure. Budget your time and $ with women. They should be at the absolute bottom on your to-do list. Chasing skirts has an extremely low R.O.I.
@@ErikLiberty More or less, but it is not a mind trick - "high value" just doesn't mean anything. It is used as an objectively measurable thing, but it is not. Valuable is only what you decide to give value to - it is very subjective. Women and society makes us want to think that a man/woman is only valuable if he/she has ticked off certain things. However, there's usually very low value in these criteria. Find out what is truly valuable to you and also what you can really offer. So what I am saying is, is that you should stay away from women who say "I want a high value man", bc those women actually don't know what they want and just go by socially constructed values that actually hold no intrinsic value. Example: I have a rolex and a postcard of my deceased grandmother. If I had to give one away, it'd be the rolex. However, If you could have one, you'd pick the rolex. Value is subjective and "high value" is a term for people who have not figured out what is important to them.
This is good advice if you want to be a player and manipulate women, it's great for sex but in the long run it's a shallow way to approach relationships.
yeah. i have been doin this for years to get them attached...it works like magic..but at the end of the day.. its all tactics and mind games.. and u knw its not genuine which makes it even more depressing..
@@richardmiller3952 One of Casey's best advice was this: The highschool dynamic of girls wanting to date and sleep with the Jock never really ends, we just get older. I still remember the look of dissapointment of a girl that liked me when she realized I had never had a Girlfriend + virgin at age 20, in her mind I was someone else and she really thought I had at least 5 Girlfriends before her, even the shy nerdy girls think this way and it's sad. I'm not into red-pill advice but sometimes It gets too real
@@richardmiller3952This dating thing is mother nature manipulating us into multiplying, it's all games, if you don't view it that way then prepare to be played 🤷🏽♂️
Ur absolutely correct..which is why lot of this can bring stress. Cause u feel lyk maybe I am inconsiderate and don’t treat her good enough. That’s why God and money should be the main focus
If you are a woman why are you here? -very genuine question. (I’m here because my wife recently cheated on me and is divorcing me. I’m a good husband and father and she’s been extremely mature our whole relationship and then all this happened)
I'm sorry man. I can say as a woman I'm here because I'm a psychology grad and the subject interests me. I agree with alot of what Casey says, some things I don't. I hope things improve for you.
5:22 gotta explain why a bit. because we been saying women date up, in this scenario she is not dating, SHE IS IN PURSUIT OF A FEELING. So they will hook up with bouncer etc and keep that extremely low key FOR THE FEELING. What is attractive about them is, by hypergamy alone being with such men is FORBIDDEN.... and what have I said about women and the forbidden fruit?
This stuff is powerful, guys. Real story I'm at the nightclub with my new gf for the first time. I immediately start flirting with the bar tender. I even ask the bar tender to do a shot with me. She sees the hot bar tender do a shot with me. My gf was mad af but had no choice but to not show it. Now my gf gives it up to me every night in bed, no questions ask.
Perfect timing Called out my love interest for doing something nonsensical and she responded by calling me names and then blocking me .its been a week now . She did all that Just because she doesnt want to take any responsibility . . Does that mean she loves me ?😂
Happened to me same exact thing she blocked me on everything when I called her out we didn't talk for 4 months but she kept running into ke and her friends kept coming up to me asking me how I've been and why I stopped contacting her. Funny enough I genuinely lost interest and have no desire to speak to her again and it's driving her crazy.
7:58 the film that made me learn A LOT about the type of personality that women pull towards... is CLUELESS. Yes. That guy who turned out to be gay, just look at how he carried himself, very playful, relaxed, good style, but his personality was out there but he never gave her any indication he liked her (though we found out it's because he gay), but doesnt change the FACT that how he was, sort of like a "bad boy" REALLY got her interested.
Humans have fun playing with the bad boys and bad girls, but they don’t want to marry/keep them. Humans play this way because. 1. It’s cheap access to cheap: pleasure, adventure, purpose, status, attention and dealing with your own issues. It’s cheap bc it’s easy to enter and it seems easy to get out at any time. A society of anonymity and alienation facilitates this. But to play successfully with the bad ones, you will have to become bad yourself. Unfortunately, Zander etc try to help you do this. The true work of a good man used to be good and lead others, especially your woman and children, to follow and flow in that frame.
10:06 here an example... i am a quiet person, but women KNOW when I am being QUIET. it worries them, makes them wonder if something is wrong. So see, it's part of my personality, but they can still pick up the difference in me being "quiet".
I am very much the same way. My old lady knows the difference between me being quiet and me being "quiet" They can sense the energy, how tense we are, or how little we pay attention to them. I am currently giving her the don't give a fuk attitude. She wants to play hot cold games, fine I will just lift twice a day. Think I'm just gonna hop in the car and take off for an afternoon lmao. I know that will make her emotional. Just started watching these videos. 11 year relationship I have been doing this shit all wrong. Being the responsible, bill paying, take care of everything type of man gets you a wife that is here everyday. But the sex and blowjobs of yester year seem to get less and less. Now I fuckn know why, it's like the manual to how women behave 101. Fuckn GOLD! Funny thing I was the wild, crazy irresponsible type 10 years ago. Then I became a Dad, and well... Looking back I totally see everything I was doing back then was the right thing. I thought being a grown man and being monogamous was what they really wanted. Crazy ass world man.
A guy that enjoy arguing with a woman or his woman will make her happy.Women fall in love with what they hear. If you can beat them with your word you win. One line I use when arguing with a girl is. Shout your cute ass up!
I think these advises are great if you are dating girls outside of marriage if you are married with kids these tactics might not be best suited. Not to say its game over but there are more applicable techniques
2:58 now this is FACTS. this is why they are with GOOD MEN, they ADMIT they are good men then you hear.... I am bored, or the something is missing. they actually dont know what it is BECAUSE IT IS A FEELING. they MUST FEEL different types of emotions... MUST. The happy wife happy life is the WORST ADVISE EVER GIVEN TO MAN about relationships. No, I am not saying make her life hell, she should be happy, but that CAN NOT be the only emotion she feels.
6:36 she was telling u she DTF, it was then up to you and how you PLAYFULLY move that along. If she not interested in that, she would just say she dont have a pj, or just ok and show up whatever. But she was TESTING to see how u handle that.
This still seems like a good way to get a toxic girl. But then most of them appear to BE that way these days. So definitely the most useful. But to what end? 1/2 your assets given away, child support, and alimony? I have to agree it's foolish to get married these days to a modern woman, unless she is VERY special. But IF she is special, these things won't work. This is a good way to be the player though.
I always knew these things and didn’t do it purposefully. Happy to lose toxic relationships. If it’s playful great but if it crosses the line too many times and good communication isn’t a priority bye bye. If a woman can’t operate from the heart enough seeeya.
I love the sad state of the west, especially when I see western men crying on the internet about their women.😂😂 A void I've detected in a society I can bring myself in...
Interesting? Only reason I don't think you're wrong is because you say "modern" women. Couples that are married for 30 years and know each others each and every move there will be bickering. If you don't want to get cheated on make sure you are the one doing the criticizing. Like you mean it but you said it with a laugh, like a d!ck.
@CaseyZander is too perfect for this girls naw he is trying to carver up his perfection by keeping his room messy up an creating unnecessary argument with girls😂😂
Great advice to attract and retain the interest of anxiously-attached, emotionally insecure and overall caustic women. If you like chaos and constantly losing your cool around a woman who’s not worth the investment, then put this into action. In the end, this is is childish game playing that calls in childish women. Most of us genuinely strive for secure women to create mature relationships with. You have A LOT of solid advice. But this, along with the keep your room messy just to get a reaction from her advice, is just not it.
all woman have the potential to do everything he is always talking about I’ve went thru enough heard stories had enough experience an see a almost historical pattern in a woman actions and nature especially how y’all talk when men aren’t around …..believing this guys videos are just some fuck boy player shit going on would be to fool the next man into thinking woman are some wholesome sweet beings an they are worse than men most of the time especially with sex betrayal an alternative motives for relationships an marriage …men are catching on to how women really are thinking an behaving an treating them as they should be that’s it
I think all women crave this. Most men have your belief and I think that is why divorce is so rampant and 80% of them are initiated by the woman. The women are emotionally bored.
I have no problem Attracting women. 8 bucks everything you will ever need. Stop watching start doing something about it. The art to Attracting women by james Francis
Is all of this really worth it? I want peace at the end of a work day. Not arguments. And these games work when you’re in a relationship and you don’t see the woman everyday but when you get married there’s no way you’re going to be able to give her all this mystery and drama and tension, etc. because the mystery disappears when you live with someone and the truth is going to come out. Then she’s going to get bored with you, resent you and divorce you and take half of everything you own. Is all of this really worth it?
@@gregh2880 my point though is that you have to play all these mind games just to keep a woman interested. I guess if that's fun to some men, then go for it. But it's too much hassle for me just to get laid or for short term relationships. You won't be able to keep up all these games when/if you ever move in with her or marry her because there will be no "mystery" once that happens
I get a lot of attention from women mostly from ones I don’t want, I find a lot of the stuff he says applies to women too. I tend to only want the ones who do things like this with me
my -ex lived to argue. Little Miss Can't Be Wrong. It turned her on. She would hide my car keys before starting a fight. I deny the PTSD she caused me. But my gawd, the chrome would come off the doorknob...
Young women respond to this. I used to respond to this. I do NOT respond to this anymore. I dont want to play games or argue with men. I like boring men who are open to trying new things 🤷♂️
I have found every single time a woman says “I don’t want to play games” They end up playing them. And then find the men you are with after enough time, you lose interest if he doesn’t.
Thats the most stupidest shit I ever heard im not doing nun of that idgaf bout that I anit with all that bs toxic shit that shit there be draining asf I rather be by myself
there is no such thing as "bad women". or "good women". they are all the same. they are just women. and they act accordingly, who is in front of them. they are a reflection of their companion. this is why you love her - she is the reflection of the best qualities from YOU
This "I'll treat you like my sister" is not for every guy... c'mon. You got to have lot's of confidence beforehand, or else she will think you are not in her league.
Hey Casey, I have a serious question. If being a man means taking accountability for your actions and responsibility for everything in your life, then how are you able to also still be a “fuck boy” and satisfy what women want? Sometimes it almost feels like the two are counter intuitive. Also how do you handle this after being in a relationship? If you take accountability and responsibility for everything, the women will ultimately use that against you.
@@r3v0lv3rz I see what you mean. But if you take accountability and responsibility for everything, that ultimately allows the other person to never take the blame for anything even when they are wrong. They live life on easy mode doing whatever, while you have the burden of dealing with everything just to have a backbone. It’s almost a can not win scenario.
@@rmsfootball63 I didn't mean let them get away with everything either. part of having a backbone is knowing when to speak up. have clear boundaries where it makes sense.
only if you are at the cause of her emotions, not at the effect. If u start an argument out of tin air to fck with her. It shows elements of control that arouses and spikes her emotions.
@HipHopAn0n Conflict doesn't mean you should throw out a temper tantrum. You can simply create conflicting ideas in her head simply if you cut her short on various things, like: "I don't want to wash the dishes, period, and I don't want to have this discussion again, take it or leave it, if you don't do it, somebody else will, period".
I have hot looking female friend that I have her on my friendzone because she's dirty with her housing habits and doesn't know how to cook. She's's kool,but I cannot see her as a lover. So,not everyone is seeing a hot looking women as their lover all the time.
0:25 LMAO, u are so unnecessarily dramatic. over the past 5 months u been here telling us u going out to bars etc, not so long ago how u see a girl twice a week and out running, when u are advising men no more than once a week. LOL!!
Or…. Get married and have kids for her to have a proper place to experience the true fullness of her maternal feelings, instead of becoming the drama child yourself.
She keeps lying even tho I say I saw it with my eyes that she didn't do what she promised me to do because I called her beautiful sister so Im not sure about that word usage if you really like her in my case it was big disrespect and I would start the conflict no matter what
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The most feminine and bubbly I’ve seen women is _after_ a super intense argument has resolved. Not just when everything is flowing stable.
Everytime
After you beat tf outta her she gives you the best coochie ever
nah fax watching this video after becoming a dark triad and looking back when i was a “lover boy /non argumentative toxic boy” with my ex i noticed she’d randomly start something very small, wed fight about it , and then she’d get all shmexy, but obviously i was too dumb to understand these things and never initiated etc. now it’s different 🙏🏻
he’s the best big brother friend we always needed
Best to be not reactive, stay calm and joke about it, is she crosses the line walk away. But if it is insecure person, drama Queen, you will be drained of your energy from constant drama and toxicity because she steals your energy that way.
this is funny.. my ex pulled arguments out of the air, but after the arguments all I wanted was to be dead and burried. I didn't have any kind of exitement or some extra pull towards her or wish for sex. don't know, was her purpose to get me exited or not, but the result was just awful.
Women are an incredible amount of work
You western men are doomed 😂😂😂
Being single is the best
Stay as companions and smash - don’t offer emotions or too much care for her as women don’t really love - they just have ‘feelings’ for you
The "developed" Western civilization
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Marry a woman means she secretly hates ya ..
If a girl while your getting to know her is testing you and you have to confront her or have a convo about something with tension. And she says dont be mad at me say im not mad at you because you havent even earned me being mad at you yet. It fucks their brain up. Lol
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God designed the woman to be a helper. If your life isn’t developed enough such that you have a place with good purposes for a woman to fit and flow with all of her natural feminine emotions and skills, then she will find and feed on less good purposes, like drama, tests and chaos. It’s her programming to find and help solve problems; give her good ones or she will find bad ones.
Give her bad or stupid ones, and well, welcome to the rest of your life.
God also gave every soul a body to facilitate movement. Take a moment to wiggle your fingers and see the complexity of movements that the hand and wrist can make...I didn't push any buttons and a lot of times I'm not even thinking of how to move them. The brain is WTF as far as it's capabilities.
We are designed to be at the forefront of life. Get into the nitty gritty of life. Be the river or the rock.
The river is flowing, moving, living....
The rock is stationary, idle, sedentary....
God and the Devil were walking one day when they saw something shiny. God said, "Oh look, the truth." The Devil said, "Give it to me and I'll organize it"
When I drive my car with all the complexity of traffic .. I manage without a notebook or how to manual. I just see, drive, and react.
Self improvement is good to a point to raise your awareness. Ignorance causes problems... The Devil is human stupidity.
At the depth of a beautiful and attractive women....is there ignorance or a good heart?
The wisdom here confirms that a lot of women are not innocent, frolicking, little fairies of love and good emotions.
Build a mindset to be cautious. Realize it might be "your turn" and things can end.
I got my spacesuit on and ready to move that the Force gave me. I move everyday with ease and delight.
Everything in life is not serious or personal. Have fun.
A bad young man, makes a good young woman.
When you get older...You can't have a good woman until you're a good man with movement ....kinda makes sense
@@philk.9901Your words are poetry in my ears. Thank you
You have to put them to work. Here: chop these onions 🧅
KING TREATMENT ONLY.... never get emotionally attached don't live with her so when she starts walk away. She must see you as a KING...HIGH INTEREST ONLY
9:10 this is facts, once she is starting the drama, she is bored with you and her mind is edging out. only way to maybe combat this is to give a double dramatic response. and after that, make sure u are causing tension! sounds messed up but that's just how it is. and it can be simple, just leave and dont say anything. "disappear" for a bit and dont give any explanation or concrete one. delay replying for maybe a day occasionally. dont answer a call, especially if u driving or even on the potty.
Yo I do this occasionally with my girl (not consciously though, I just happen find myself giving space & time easily). I leave for a week just doing work & living my life few times I messed up & didn’t say nothing for 2 weeks. But majority of the time she’d always break the silence by calling, texting or sending a vn then complain about how I can leave for days or weeks without saying anything & she says I don’t love here and I don’t care or give a shit. She says she thinks she’s the reason the relationship hasn’t fallen apart because she says I can go days or weeks not talking and how can I be fine with that & not try to fix things. You’re obviously not a relationship doctor but how would you handle a dynamic like this one? Obviously I love her & think she’s adorable haha thanks!
@@Baroqueinporche you are just big boy and she is yours loving mother, that is your dynamic.
8:33 yup, a girl had broken up with me many years ago and she said "i always know where you are", because i would literally tell her. I didnt give her any chance to worry about me, then I thought that was the right thing to do. LMFAO!!!
Live and learn
We learn by mistakes, i'm here after 7 years because i "forgot" that all the stuff here is true. I think it the last time 😉
Yes, to succeed at playing someone else’s game, you must become a player such as they are, you must become like them. But is that really a win?
A higher level player wins, not by falling to attraction and changing himself to fit their game, but by changing the game and attracting them to fit his game.
--This is true Game…but you’ve got to have built up a game, ie, a life structure which has a meaningful place for her to fit in and flow with you.
All phenomenal advice
but friends like he said it has to be congruent with your personality.
Not everyone has the charisma and gravitas to pull this off lol
Be tactful and Godspeed!
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I used the technique of saying “you and I would never work together “ on a girl that was showing all kinds of signs of attraction and I believe that comment put way too much insecurity in her. She started shutting down making advances for fear of rejection. There was a lot of things that happened but I think that is the main part that caused the relationship to turn for the worst.
Just make sure if you push them away and they are a kind of insecure type, to do it playfully with a smirk or something.
Or say something you like about them and how they’d make a good girlfriend, first.
This guy is not always right .
If a girl is already into you, why would you use a tactic that makes them fall for you? What the? It's like it's already a fire and you make an explosion ofc there will be no fire after that, lol.
He teaches men how to be players and “play” on women’s feelings. But women need security for long term relationships. So this stuff works to get you laid for some time but eventually her rationality will kick in and she will leave. You think women marry guys that do this stuff? LMAO
@@Gbb93 You are so wrong about this. Women leave exactly the guys who is stable, nice and good. Wake up, lad.
@@troobix_s Some do, but you can’t blame it on those facts alone. Maybe she just ain’t attracted to you physically. Maybe she wants someone with more drive or ambition. Young, immature and insecure girls might fall for those guys but good women will appreciate good men.
An unfortunate reality is that when things are good and there is peace in your relationship..... Women will eventually sometimes lose feelings for you and emotionally detach from you.
And those are toxic women. Unfortunately men think this is the only way, since so many of them are this way
I've been on a marathon of these videos and I have two major takeaways. 1. Lots of things "seem" contradictory and 2. women have to much control, especially the wrong women.
I want to address the second point and say to all men: avoid these types of women who reject men for small reasons and most importantly delete the phrase "high value" from your vocabulary.
What's wrong with high value exactly? Like I shouldn't say that I'm looking for a high-value woman?
@@ErikLibertyno you shouldn’t because your putting her on a pedestal. Looking for a feminine, good looking, submissive woman would be better
*Loking for good woman,which is relationship oriented, not short term*@@ErikLiberty
They have control ONLY if you give it to them. Rent and limit your exposure. Budget your time and $ with women. They should be at the absolute bottom on your to-do list. Chasing skirts has an extremely low R.O.I.
@@ErikLiberty More or less, but it is not a mind trick - "high value" just doesn't mean anything. It is used as an objectively measurable thing, but it is not. Valuable is only what you decide to give value to - it is very subjective. Women and society makes us want to think that a man/woman is only valuable if he/she has ticked off certain things. However, there's usually very low value in these criteria. Find out what is truly valuable to you and also what you can really offer. So what I am saying is, is that you should stay away from women who say "I want a high value man", bc those women actually don't know what they want and just go by socially constructed values that actually hold no intrinsic value.
Example: I have a rolex and a postcard of my deceased grandmother. If I had to give one away, it'd be the rolex. However, If you could have one, you'd pick the rolex. Value is subjective and "high value" is a term for people who have not figured out what is important to them.
This is good advice if you want to be a player and manipulate women, it's great for sex but in the long run it's a shallow way to approach relationships.
yeah. i have been doin this for years to get them attached...it works like magic..but at the end of the day.. its all tactics and mind games.. and u knw its not genuine which makes it even more depressing..
@@richardmiller3952 One of Casey's best advice was this: The highschool dynamic of girls wanting to date and sleep with the Jock never really ends, we just get older. I still remember the look of dissapointment of a girl that liked me when she realized I had never had a Girlfriend + virgin at age 20, in her mind I was someone else and she really thought I had at least 5 Girlfriends before her, even the shy nerdy girls think this way and it's sad.
I'm not into red-pill advice but sometimes It gets too real
@@richardmiller3952This dating thing is mother nature manipulating us into multiplying, it's all games, if you don't view it that way then prepare to be played 🤷🏽♂️
It works in marriage so you can keep getting the 🍑 😊
Ur absolutely correct..which is why lot of this can bring stress. Cause u feel lyk maybe I am inconsiderate and don’t treat her good enough. That’s why God and money should be the main focus
If you are a woman why are you here? -very genuine question. (I’m here because my wife recently cheated on me and is divorcing me. I’m a good husband and father and she’s been extremely mature our whole relationship and then all this happened)
Terrifies me how a women can be a good spouse, and then all of the sudden...
You have heard three strikes and you out. Today, it is prudent to play one strike and you are out. The juice is truly NOT worth the payout.
I'm sorry man. I can say as a woman I'm here because I'm a psychology grad and the subject interests me. I agree with alot of what Casey says, some things I don't. I hope things improve for you.
As time goes by you will recount many signs you missed
@@vanessac1965 so are you here for yourself personally or are you here to glean info that may someday serve your clients?
5:22 gotta explain why a bit. because we been saying women date up, in this scenario she is not dating, SHE IS IN PURSUIT OF A FEELING. So they will hook up with bouncer etc and keep that extremely low key FOR THE FEELING. What is attractive about them is, by hypergamy alone being with such men is FORBIDDEN.... and what have I said about women and the forbidden fruit?
The most valuable commodity I know of is information.
This stuff is powerful, guys. Real story I'm at the nightclub with my new gf for the first time. I immediately start flirting with the bar tender. I even ask the bar tender to do a shot with me. She sees the hot bar tender do a shot with me. My gf was mad af but had no choice but to not show it. Now my gf gives it up to me every night in bed, no questions ask.
Wow, and here I was trying to keep all this for my self. Your right.
Interjecting drama into a relationship is not necessary, women naturally bring this to the to the table LOL
Perfect timing
Called out my love interest for doing something nonsensical and she responded by calling me names and then blocking me .its been a week now . She did all that Just because she doesnt want to take any responsibility . .
Does that mean she loves me ?😂
Whether it's next week next m9nth or next year she will come back, they always do 😂
Happened to me same exact thing she blocked me on everything when I called her out we didn't talk for 4 months but she kept running into ke and her friends kept coming up to me asking me how I've been and why I stopped contacting her. Funny enough I genuinely lost interest and have no desire to speak to her again and it's driving her crazy.
the idea of gathering up sharing the wisdom of dating women by headman nation seems logical
I've started implementing arguments into my game. Especially early on, when a woman has low interest. Something about the conflict gets them arroused.
Thank you so much Casey
Thank you for this video Casey! Have a nice day!
Thanks for bringing me back to the reality Again after the vacation of Eid Ul Adha❤❤❤
I really want to hear this right now. Thank you
7:58 the film that made me learn A LOT about the type of personality that women pull towards... is CLUELESS. Yes. That guy who turned out to be gay, just look at how he carried himself, very playful, relaxed, good style, but his personality was out there but he never gave her any indication he liked her (though we found out it's because he gay), but doesnt change the FACT that how he was, sort of like a "bad boy" REALLY got her interested.
Bro if you have money, strength and power you will naturally act like a bad boy. I am the center you girl follow.
Then, you have the wrong woman, she’s into money
Humans have fun playing with the bad boys and bad girls, but they don’t want to marry/keep them.
Humans play this way because. 1. It’s cheap access to cheap: pleasure, adventure, purpose, status, attention and dealing with your own issues. It’s cheap bc it’s easy to enter and it seems easy to get out at any time. A society of anonymity and alienation facilitates this.
But to play successfully with the bad ones, you will have to become bad yourself. Unfortunately, Zander etc try to help you do this.
The true work of a good man used to be good and lead others, especially your woman and children, to follow and flow in that frame.
10:06 here an example... i am a quiet person, but women KNOW when I am being QUIET. it worries them, makes them wonder if something is wrong. So see, it's part of my personality, but they can still pick up the difference in me being "quiet".
I am very much the same way. My old lady knows the difference between me being quiet and me being "quiet" They can sense the energy, how tense we are, or how little we pay attention to them. I am currently giving her the don't give a fuk attitude. She wants to play hot cold games, fine I will just lift twice a day. Think I'm just gonna hop in the car and take off for an afternoon lmao. I know that will make her emotional. Just started watching these videos. 11 year relationship I have been doing this shit all wrong. Being the responsible, bill paying, take care of everything type of man gets you a wife that is here everyday. But the sex and blowjobs of yester year seem to get less and less. Now I fuckn know why, it's like the manual to how women behave 101. Fuckn GOLD! Funny thing I was the wild, crazy irresponsible type 10 years ago. Then I became a Dad, and well... Looking back I totally see everything I was doing back then was the right thing. I thought being a grown man and being monogamous was what they really wanted. Crazy ass world man.
Guess he's listening as this is classic casey content. Not a word he said here is wrong. 💯. Take this advice! He's back on form but for how long.
A guy that enjoy arguing with a woman or his woman will make her happy.Women fall in love with what they hear.
If you can beat them with your word you win.
One line I use when arguing with a girl is.
Shout your cute ass up!
Casey snapped on this one 💯
7:26 close fitting stuff like spandex/leggings = DTF
I think these advises are great if you are dating girls outside of marriage if you are married with kids these tactics might not be best suited. Not to say its game over but there are more applicable techniques
2:58 now this is FACTS. this is why they are with GOOD MEN, they ADMIT they are good men then you hear.... I am bored, or the something is missing. they actually dont know what it is BECAUSE IT IS A FEELING. they MUST FEEL different types of emotions... MUST. The happy wife happy life is the WORST ADVISE EVER GIVEN TO MAN about relationships. No, I am not saying make her life hell, she should be happy, but that CAN NOT be the only emotion she feels.
6:36 she was telling u she DTF, it was then up to you and how you PLAYFULLY move that along. If she not interested in that, she would just say she dont have a pj, or just ok and show up whatever. But she was TESTING to see how u handle that.
Men don’t want conflict with a women
Right ! lol
Facts.
gotta ignore / block then to gain interest
Thought your hat said dad at first. Was going to congratulate you, damnit.
I think stonewalling works better than complaining
Ffs 😂
If a girl does a stonewalling after the break up what does it mean can u explain man !!!
@@somkaranbhardwaj5484Shes in control
This still seems like a good way to get a toxic girl. But then most of them appear to BE that way these days. So definitely the most useful. But to what end? 1/2 your assets given away, child support, and alimony? I have to agree it's foolish to get married these days to a modern woman, unless she is VERY special. But IF she is special, these things won't work. This is a good way to be the player though.
Most girl are toxic.
Smart man!
I always knew these things and didn’t do it purposefully. Happy to lose toxic relationships. If it’s playful great but if it crosses the line too many times and good communication isn’t a priority bye bye. If a woman can’t operate from the heart enough seeeya.
I love the sad state of the west, especially when I see western men crying on the internet about their women.😂😂 A void I've detected in a society I can bring myself in...
Interesting? Only reason I don't think you're wrong is because you say "modern" women. Couples that are married for 30 years and know each others each and every move there will be bickering. If you don't want to get cheated on make sure you are the one doing the criticizing. Like you mean it but you said it with a laugh, like a d!ck.
@CaseyZander is too perfect for this girls naw he is trying to carver up his perfection by keeping his room messy up an creating unnecessary argument with girls😂😂
Some in comments with Status bragging are gone lost 😂
This stuff is gold
I drive a Honda Civic. And my credit score is 800 with 0 debt. I have a lot of money saved.
you boring SOB 😂
winnin
Doesn’t count. Is ur D at least 10in
Bro you living in f*ck brazil... kkk
There’s going to be a woman that will try to separate you from your resources
Great advice to attract and retain the interest of anxiously-attached, emotionally insecure and overall caustic women. If you like chaos and constantly losing your cool around a woman who’s not worth the investment, then put this into action.
In the end, this is is childish game playing that calls in childish women. Most of us genuinely strive for secure women to create mature relationships with.
You have A LOT of solid advice. But this, along with the keep your room messy just to get a reaction from her advice, is just not it.
all woman have the potential to do everything he is always talking about I’ve went thru enough heard stories had enough experience an see a almost historical pattern in a woman actions and nature especially how y’all talk when men aren’t around …..believing this guys videos are just some fuck boy player shit going on would be to fool the next man into thinking woman are some wholesome sweet beings an they are worse than men most of the time especially with sex betrayal an alternative motives for relationships an marriage …men are catching on to how women really are thinking an behaving an treating them as they should be that’s it
I think all women crave this. Most men have your belief and I think that is why divorce is so rampant and 80% of them are initiated by the woman. The women are emotionally bored.
Let her know your busy this weekend. That will create tension. You can plan something for next weekend as well.
A gf once told me: "We need conflict in our relationship."
then she broke up with you lol
Next time disagree with her and then make up and hold her hands above her head firmly in missionary position. They all seem to love that.
I have no problem Attracting women. 8 bucks everything you will ever need. Stop watching start doing something about it.
The art to Attracting women by james Francis
Is all of this really worth it? I want peace at the end of a work day. Not arguments. And these games work when you’re in a relationship and you don’t see the woman everyday but when you get married there’s no way you’re going to be able to give her all this mystery and drama and tension, etc. because the mystery disappears when you live with someone and the truth is going to come out. Then she’s going to get bored with you, resent you and divorce you and take half of everything you own. Is all of this really worth it?
You can do these things without an "argument". You just have to keep frame and be unavailable sometimes.
@@gregh2880 my point though is that you have to play all these mind games just to keep a woman interested. I guess if that's fun to some men, then go for it. But it's too much hassle for me just to get laid or for short term relationships. You won't be able to keep up all these games when/if you ever move in with her or marry her because there will be no "mystery" once that happens
One needs to have a girlfriend to apply all this sadly
No dating no marrage ever.
Head man nation? Nah I'm down to receive head not give it !!
I honestly gave up on trying to attract women. This purely for education purposes and applying it in the work field full of women.
Cheating on women is a guaranteed way of making sure she has deep feelings for you.
I get a lot of attention from women mostly from ones I don’t want, I find a lot of the stuff he says applies to women too. I tend to only want the ones who do things like this with me
my -ex lived to argue. Little Miss Can't Be Wrong. It turned her on. She would hide my car keys before starting a fight. I deny the PTSD she caused me. But my gawd, the chrome would come off the doorknob...
Young women respond to this. I used to respond to this. I do NOT respond to this anymore. I dont want to play games or argue with men. I like boring men who are open to trying new things 🤷♂️
you dont know what you want as a woman
@@aydexiyou are correct ✅
BS. Coming from a woman you normally say something and don't actually mean it.
Congrats u settled and don’t really like about the men u choose
I have found every single time a woman says “I don’t want to play games”
They end up playing them.
And then find the men you are with after enough time, you lose interest if he doesn’t.
GREAT video
Hello from Cuba
Hey casey please talk about celibacy
I mean... This dude isn't wrong. It's pretty impressive, really.
2:12 lol, I'm the jerk/ass'hole LOL. i dont think any has ever called me an ass'hole, but who say something have all said jerk.
Thats the most stupidest shit I ever heard im not doing nun of that idgaf bout that I anit with all that bs toxic shit that shit there be draining asf I rather be by myself
Smart man. I wish I could say it went away after years with a woman. But it doesn't, they are always playing games even when they don't know it.
She’s way too young for me (52/27)
I think I’ll bring that up 😂
Thanks bud but how you flirt
Talk about soft next
BLUD WHAT IN THE CYBERPUNK 2077 ?
Yes, bad women do this!
there is no such thing as "bad women". or "good women". they are all the same. they are just women. and they act accordingly, who is in front of them. they are a reflection of their companion. this is why you love her - she is the reflection of the best qualities from YOU
Make sure you don't except farting mush have wine cork in case of farting 😂
This "I'll treat you like my sister" is not for every guy... c'mon. You got to have lot's of confidence beforehand, or else she will think you are not in her league.
Hey Casey, I have a serious question.
If being a man means taking accountability for your actions and responsibility for everything in your life, then how are you able to also still be a “fuck boy” and satisfy what women want? Sometimes it almost feels like the two are counter intuitive.
Also how do you handle this after being in a relationship? If you take accountability and responsibility for everything, the women will ultimately use that against you.
bro just stop and listen to your inner voice. women can't use anything against you if you have a backbone. that's the test.
@@r3v0lv3rz I see what you mean. But if you take accountability and responsibility for everything, that ultimately allows the other person to never take the blame for anything even when they are wrong. They live life on easy mode doing whatever, while you have the burden of dealing with everything just to have a backbone. It’s almost a can not win scenario.
@@rmsfootball63 I didn't mean let them get away with everything either. part of having a backbone is knowing when to speak up. have clear boundaries where it makes sense.
I take it personally that shit about bartender... but I agree, not a lot of money there... but here is no USA
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1st man commenting here
Take it easy dude. Wanting so badly to be famous, can be considered low value
A young guy with a BMW and suit. I see a broke dude who is bad with finance and a ton of debt. He probably works in finance.
How to succeed at lowest common denominator relationships. Great.
Can you create conflict without being reactive?
depends on what you mean by reactive
only if you are at the cause of her emotions, not at the effect. If u start an argument out of tin air to fck with her. It shows elements of control that arouses and spikes her emotions.
He said you should create the conflict before she does
@HipHopAn0n Conflict doesn't mean you should throw out a temper tantrum. You can simply create conflicting ideas in her head simply if you cut her short on various things, like: "I don't want to wash the dishes, period, and I don't want to have this discussion again, take it or leave it, if you don't do it, somebody else will, period".
@@Peteristrate yeah I get it, I was just answering the other dudes question. If you create the tension, that's not really reactive was my point
No thanks. Passport time
Now few people are wandering how to interject tension and conflict jst slap your gf whenever she argues simple 👍
what high value man has time for all this nonsense, just pump and dump instead
I have hot looking female friend that I have her on my friendzone because she's dirty with her housing habits and doesn't know how to cook. She's's kool,but I cannot see her as a lover.
So,not everyone is seeing a hot looking women as their lover all the time.
0:25 LMAO, u are so unnecessarily dramatic. over the past 5 months u been here telling us u going out to bars etc, not so long ago how u see a girl twice a week and out running, when u are advising men no more than once a week. LOL!!
You, Casey Zander, can do better.
Or…. Get married and have kids for her to have a proper place to experience the true fullness of her maternal feelings, instead of becoming the drama child yourself.
She keeps lying even tho I say I saw it with my eyes that she didn't do what she promised me to do because I called her beautiful sister so Im not sure about that word usage if you really like her in my case it was big disrespect and I would start the conflict no matter what
Why am I pinned
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You’re a sub
Nice try
Because your mama stuck one up your butt?
This sounds very desperate …..a desperate man gets none ever .
Nah its just how it works buddy
@President_Joe_Biden 🤣🤣🤣🤣
you’re cynical and contradicting
manufacture your "drama" that you can control and keep hey mind occupied so you wont get blindsided by her bullshit "drama"