9 Important Needs Of INTJs
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✅ You need to know these 9 Important Needs Of INTJs!
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0:00 What are the Important Needs of INTJs?
0:38 - 1. The need of some time alone
1:45 - 2. The need for patience
2:26 - 3. The need for challenges
3:23 - 4. The need of independence
4:30 - 5. The need for inclusion
5:13 - 6. The need of encouragement
5:57 - 7. The need of honesty
6:52 - 8. The need for respect
7:35 - 9. The need to be understood
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You forgot their most important need… World Domination 😉
Is it your need? ;)
@@PsychologyRefresh Hell yeah 😈
@@plowe6751 Why do you think so?
@@plowe6751 Interesting characters.
Bro you read my mind, its been in my mind since childhood even today, its asleep but can rise given the perfect moment
I don't think people realise how important honesty is. I don't care if your truth is mean, ugly or embarrassing. I do not care. As long it is the truth, I will have a high tolerance. But if you lie, oh- oh the tolerance ain't there at all.
Great comment!
Peace and quiet. Nothing disturbs me more than a blasting radio, a barking dog, a screaming baby.
I nearly cried at the end. I just want to be understood, nothing more nothing less. I'm so damn alone..
Thank you so much for sharing this!
Same
Same
Same
Same for myself
Almost teared up at the inclusion part.. so true, unfortunately I played my role as a loner too well in high school and college so no one bothered asking me to join them outside of assignments and group projects. Prolly thought I enjoyed being on my own. I have to fake some sorta extrovertism nowadays at work if I wanna be/feel included, which is really exhausting 😅 I don't want my past to repeat itself though, since it was a very dark place a lot of the times, so I guess I'll just have to endure the draining from casual social interactions. I wish I didn't have to, but that's life
Thank you so much for this comment!
i can relate a lot to this. the past was really dark that I always remind myself to not go back there again even if people keep pushing me to be seclusive again. i guess i am growing and becoming a better version of my past self, i really wish i am.
I can relate to that so much. I guess I didn't like the particular events and people in the past, like going to the beach, so I declined many invitations, sometimes with excuses, sometimes without. After some years, I never got invited anymore, and it didn't really bother me most of the time because most of the time I wouldn't have gone anyways, but not being invited to anything feels bad on itself already, and I do like to be social once or twice a month.
Now I'm actually happy I still got invited to a 10 years class reunion and I'm probably actually going there.
This resonated to me deeper than I thought. The need to be understood. I always thought that "wanting to be understood" was such a high standard in finding a partner. One time, someone asked me what did I see in this girl that I liked and I said, "She knew all my ticks and cranks. She knew when to pat or punch me and how."
They thought it wasn't "real love" but for me, it was such an important factor to make me feel comfortable in a person. And INTJs are never comfortable. Even to this day, this is what I was looking for in relationships, someone who will take their time to actually understand me or at least try.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
For some reason, I feel like I'm being understood by this video.
Great to hear that!
"INTJs are unique individuals with very characteristic personality traits"
*It is the softest way to describe "social misfits" I've ever heard*
Thanks for sharing!
This.
this is the most accurate intj video i have ever seen, in my opinion.
Thank you!
I'm that one INTJ who didn't tear up when it got to the need #9. Not cuz I disagree. Cuz it's in human nature to need someone who's on the same wavelength. But it doesn't make sense to expect understanding if you are not willing to return the favor, INTJ or not.
Music to my ears.
Great to hear!
Completely agree with the top comment, we really don't give a flying F about "encouragement", if there is something INTJs are good at is spending time alone and doing things organically without external needs or pressures or motivation, we kinda take it as an insult if someone tries to motivate us
Thanks for sharing this!
We laugh at their sooky assumptions. If you rabbit on about trivia, do it somewhere else. Get out of my way with your motivational bs, or I will walk over you.
True
It makes sense our most need of all is to be understood. Humans in general crave for connection, so rare people like us experience that connection feeling less than most people, making it very valuable to us.
7:36
Many people teared up here.. And maybe if my past sensitive self heard this, she will tear up as well..
well, after a long time if being misunderstood, excluded, discouraged, lied to, forced to be dependant..
you just get used to it that nothing surprises u anymore..
I'm literally emotionally numb at this point .. I have planned mental breakdown once a month or once in 2 months, other than that, I don't show any emotions.
(uk like bottling them up for a long to release them once and then bottle again.. a cycle)
If this happens to you, just think of the exit. Use being emotionally numb as an advantage and work hard to get out that prison. I'm doing that and its the only reason which keeps me going. Fighting all my fellow comrades. Fighting!
I feel so terribly happy & at home to read on INTJs comments, thoughts and feelings! Great to be part of the INTJ community! Since we are one of the smallest groups among the MBTI personalities, would be a great moment to gather and share life's thoughts and experiences together, like in a forum. If all INTJs were to get together, nobody would ever be lonely and left out!😊
00:40 I spend 3 hours alone everyday
01:42 don't have any friends actually
02:30 challenges which can add exp in personal life
03:25 working a lot for being independent it'll take more 3 years
04:40 even if they invite I won't as I got priorities
05:15 1 person can fill this place as I have
05:58 I expect it a lot but won't ever force to be
06:56 ...
07:40 I haven't thought about this yet (I'm so emotionally dead)
I hate people ,I don’t want them around me .they always saying smile ,what is wrong ,they think I am rude ,I don’t meant to be rude.I don’t want speak with them about personal things .they always talking about the daily things that is not important to me .I don’t care how was your day .I don’t care where you were ,all these things are not important to me.I don’t like answer the phone.I have no time to talk nonsense .I need more INTJ around me ,why we are so dammn less. I hate ………..
Me too😢😢😢😭😭😭
🎯 lol
I found that it doesn't hurt to be flexible and to play the social game. Try to learn a bit more about psychology and you might end up kinda valuing the social niceties
@@iambendita5787 I am trying to be more social and empathise with them, I have learned to pay attention to their emotions.I just don’t like being around fake people who pretend.
I fell like i am selfish .So I am trying to be better everyday and learn .
the main need of a INTJ is saying he is like thomas shelby 'cause his edgy
Interesting!
Or when someone beats us at beeing the most thomas shelby at a social gathering, proceed to make fun of them because who do they think they are, thomas shelby?
More like Wednesday Addams
I love all of your intj videos ❤
our social environment isn't for intj , school, work place, family, even hospital and library , all the places are for 'group' and 'need to collaborating with people" ,all the place makes intj uncomfortable expect the place they can truly being alone. So people always call intj weirdo/nerdy just because they're not into the majority or being so quiet so alone. But intj know what they truly need without joining people, they've stronger mindset with being alone and weaker with people by draining their energy. Intj know what place, what things is best for themselves without advices. They won't follow the flow, they follow their heart to seek the best and safe by their brain and lone power.
Thank you for sharing this!
私もintjです。私はそもそも人と接することが好きじゃないのに、学校というもののせいで、中学生時代は人間関係を維持するのにとても疲れを感じました。もうほんとやだった😫人と話す度に時間の無駄だと感じながらも偽物の笑顔を顔に浮かべながら相手のこと考えながら積極的に話さないといけないのが本当辛かったし、それと同時にESTJだとか、人に好かれる才能がある人がただただ羨ましくて、生き地獄でした。
Time spent i groups, while they make decisions based on keeping the group happyhappy, is usually wasted.
@@myrawsff923 yeah, social environment is for E people and cruel to I people. you need to stay with people since you're birthed, when you going to school, working and other places are all environments that need to coexist with others. For I people, only your room is your private space that makes you feel safe and relax.
@@imho2278feelings-oriented decision always makes goal to being delayed and failed. intj tend to goal-arrow-directed orientation, to reach the goal and cut the crap.
Spot on!
This is so good. Thank you.
Thanks for listening
I think it would be great if you could making start videos about MBTI Types mixed with the Enneagram types. INTJ 5w6 for example
Great suggestion, stay tuned!
@@PsychologyRefresh Yes, please!
I'm INFJ 5w6. How weird!
I'm INTJ 5w6 😬😬😬
INTJ 1w9
Yes, I really really need encouragement specifically in my stuck moment of my life. 😭😭😭
Thanks for sharing!
I concur.
I have come to not care for many of those needs, the inclusion, the understanding, the encouragement, are things that work against the other needs, all people do is to mess up the other needs, and people that have those needs are underdeveloped, i used to have those needs and nobody respected me, nobody had patience for me, everybody challenged me for my needeness, nobody encouraged me, and everybody was honest on the fact that i was a low needy person...
I dont think INTJ need encouragement tbh bcos they r drivien by Ni Te Fi. They probably have planned something ahead(Ni) and would likely to start it(Te) if they r truly passionate about it(Fi). They don't really care about what others think since anyways most of their ideas are absurd to the average mind, if they like it then they will do it and probably don't need encouragement. Encouragement is more of a ISTJ thing.
What is Ni te and fe I always hear about but not too sure what that is
@@user-13Bps - it's the shorthand way of writing the different cognitive functions. INTJ has Introverted Intuition (Ni), Extroverted Thinking (Te), Introverted Feeling (Fi), and Extroverted Sensing (Se). The other functions are Extroverted Intuition (Ne), Introverted Thinking (Ti), Extroverted Feeling (Fe), and Introverted Sensing (Si).
You're misinterpreting Te. I have a theory that the cognitive functions are the result of your needs and compatibility.
Te goal lies in benefitting the group and making speculations on what others need. So they're not necessarily interested in tasks that benefit no one, which makes them different from INTP where difference is just P and J.
Besides what function of ISTJ makes you think they require more encouragement than INTJ. I'd say ISTJ requires much less, coz Ni is a super rare dominant function which makes INTJ and INFJ feel alienated. So they're always like, 'This is my way of doing it and I think it can succeed but can also go wrong as they are already seeing both futures.' while the Si doms use guaranteed traditional methods that are known to work. They don't even analyze the method or sometimes even comprehend what's actually going on.
Btw feel free to argue, I won't take any offense as long as you're logical. (Te)
@@user-13Bps ~
Extroversion = e
Introversion = i
Sensing = s
Intuition - n
Thinking = t
Feeling = f
Judging = j
Perceiving = p
Each type has a dominant function
ESFJ - ENFJ (Fe)
INTJ - INFJ (Ni)
ESTP - ESFP (Se)
ISTP - INTP (Ti)
ISTJ - ISFJ (Si)
ESTJ - ENTJ (Te)
INFP - ISFP (Fi)
ENFP - ENTP (Ne)
Bro everybody need encouragement once in a while like U CAN DO U or im here for u or I'll be here no matter what happen bro u say like they are superior being and sadness and depression doesn't exist for them everyone needs love and encouragement
3:55 If it is not out of manipulation or irrational behavior, I have have no problem with someone delivering an emotional appeal. I may approach it differently but we all have feelings and that is valid. We are all just very different how we process the world around us and express those feelings.
INTJ : finally, anyone can really understood me 🥺❤🤣
Great to hear!
INTJ-A: NEVER BEEN SURPRISED I KNEW ALL OF THESE ALREADY AND YEAH THE CONTENT IS ACCURATE
I’m INTJ and this is accurate
1,2,4 true. other dont need.
We appreciate your perspective!
#9 is the most important part for me
I love your channel broh...:)(:
Wow, thanks!
You know, if you study body language, it's a good window into someone's emotions, so you can guess less.
Im so lonely because im INTJ
Amen
:)
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Ayoooo I've been doing 5,6 and 7 point to an INTJ but also the 8th i roast her all the time she says to roast her when i do she doesn't wanna talk to me LIKE BRO MAKE UP UR MIND
Okay!
Coz maybe your roast is not true to them?
@@Cashcash08 HELL NA I SAY TREES BRANCH IS THICKER THAN U EGGSHELL LOOKING ASS WHICH BOTH ARE TRUE
@@deez5367 as if that affects me? Your words don't have power to me. Lol
The need for independence... at work too. Yes, know you're the boss and have to tell me what to do, but dammit, get out of the way, leave me alone and let me do it. I don't need you in my face "helping" me. If i need help or input I will ask. Micromanagement makes us crazy. So does your need to turn even the simplest things into a group project or team effort.
Bro do an vid on ENFP I WANNA SEE MY THINGY AND IF ITS TRU OR NA
Alright!
Well we can call see you're not an INTJ. lol Your "thingy"? Why don't you just enter "ENFP thingy" in the search bar? It'll take you right to it. Lol Because if there's one thing we INTJs hate it's inefficient use of time so attempting to get something done in a way that's totally inefficient, like by trying to get the information on your ENFP type by posting a comment on an INTJ video that reads like a 5 year old wrote it and likely won't get the result you want, would qualify as inefficient. Lol
this comment section is full of intj
Unique individuals....with characteristic needs... Uh huh..
As an INTJ, I think sleeping is a waste of time and I just want to know… Is there any other person here that thinks the same? (Not asking to only INTJ but please mention your MBTI when answering, I’m curious)
I'm an INFJ who's leaning more and more to INTJ and I don't think sleeping is a waste of time.
Sleep is crucial to humans, since everyone needs rest in order to function properly and have energy for the day. Not sleeping will only hurt you in the long run and will have drastic consequences over time. The interesting question is, what do you think you will gain by not sleeping? More time? More productivity? This can be accomplished by figuring out which time of the day you're most productive and some discipline. I am sure you're aware of the negative consequences lack of sleep had for your body, that's why I find your question, especially as an INTJ yourself a bit irritating.
@@sigma.analysis I mean that it is a waste of time that we need sleep because yes I know that we sadly need it but it is literally wasting 1/3 of our lives not even doing something we appreciate. If I was to re-make humans in a very particular way, one thing I would definitely change is that instead of sleep, we could be doing something that we like such as watercolour and that this would give us relaxation because we have nearly no time to do these kind of things already with work/school and doing basically nothing for hours and not even feeling the nothing, our mind is just gone, feels like a huge waste of time on anything we could be doing yes work, but also appreciable things and of course I’m not saying work can’t be appreciable, the appreciable thing could very well be work but yeah I will a bit re-take your last words, you might have known or not that my comment had a touch of humour in it while also honesty and some inner-fantasy, but I find a bit irritating that you, as an INFJ, didn’t get that.
@@barbaradps828 Oh okay, so that's how you mean that question. I actually considered that but wasn't quite sure. In fact, it's an interesting approach. If one could play God and remove sleep from the human schedule, would one do it and why? I feel like this answer really depends on where do you see the purpose of humans. Does a human have to be always productive and "doing something" in order to live a fulfilled life? In my opinion, things get a lot more value because of the limited time. If we'd have time 24/7 many things, skills and activities would lose their value.
@@sigma.analysis Well not really, it’s just that they would take a bit less time to learn and actually people could have even more advanced skills that would impress people and it’s also not much about having a fulfilled life, but being able to do what you like in life since we can literally just not do them sometimes because work/school already takes that time as soon as you think you have free time, well you have to go to sleep so basically no time to watercolour or other activities at the end because yeah work/school are already taking all the time and this time even sometimes overlaps on moments you could spend with your family or friends and yeah sometimes we all have the « I wish I had more time » thought and I think the solution for that would be in the 1/3 of life were we aren’t even doing anything 😭 So yeah skills would still be impressive, just more advanced probably and activities would probably still be fun, we would just be trying more activities than we are right now thanks to that guaranteed 8 hours of awake relaxation and we could also look at as an example how people see sleep: Half love it, half don’t like it much but everyone still appreciates it at a certain point and that is why I still kind of think that they could still like the activities
(I just want to mention that I love this discussion, very interesting, so thank you!)
@@barbaradps828 I can definitely see your point! I just have a bit more bleak opinion on the whole topic and think that the government would "force" people to work more, since they have more time now. But regarding the possibility of having more time in life to do the things you love, it would actually be a great thing. But I feel like realistically it wouldn't end up like that.
I agree with you, that conversation was definitely really interesting! Thank you for sharing your point of view and making me think about that question:)
"They would enjoy it if you keep extending the invitation to include them"
Absolutely NO, stop asking
-INTJ girl
Would y’all say INTJ’s scorn of emotions(their lack of value/respect for emotions) can lead them to emotionally abuse partners?
It means in terms of decision making. So appeals of pathos are weaker and arguments that hinge on the passion aspect are less well received. Any type of person can be abusive emotionally. Abuse isn’t really a personality but a defect in character.
Explain more, please!
@@PsychologyRefresh An issue being reduced to the emotion you felt and not the issue at its core. So now you’re left to seem over dramatic or possibly irrational because of how you’ve reacted. It leaves the other person doubting their perspective and reaction is valid. This person’s also told me about a past relationship where they’d be saying they acknowledge and understand your feelings and would do better but in their head they’re saying what an emotional and sensitive bitch. So there’s an element of distrust laid as well. I’m an ISFP so I’m very capable of understanding and using logic but I just happen to honestly acknowledge emotions experienced but would never hinge an argument on them.
@@jamesrushin5412 100% I agree any person can be abusive emotionally. I think what I meant to suggest is that they would be more prone* to do so.
@@suleb1 Very interesting!
Isn’t it a core need for everyone to be understood? There’s no way that’s just a “INTJ” thing.
EDIT: this comment is not worth being read, trust me this is an emo cringefest, I physically gagged at my own comment.
Speak of post-wtv tf you wanna call this-clarity 😭
Why's everyone crying about inclusion, I'm always left out of get togethers and I'm basically ignored by my friends on a daily basis, it doesn't bother me because it's not like I cared in the first place, I don't get much attention so I have all the alone time I can have 'cause it's not like anyone was gonna talk to me, it's pretty cool imo.
Interesting!
🎻 lol
@@m.freeman4763 I physically cringed at my own comment, why did you remind me of this? 😭
#5 WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG! You are 100% incorrect with number 5. I wish people would stop asking me to do stupid stuff all the time. No matter how many times I explain I am not interested, people keep asking me. This has been one of the reasons I have liked to moved cites every couple of years, so I can shake all the fleas off! This could not be a bigger frustration in my life. I try being polite, I try to explain but explaining things to a NPC seems to be pointless more often than not. I get why people become hermits. Whoever wrote #5, you suck and this misconception is a thorn in my side.
#9 Good Luck to the other INTJ's. IMO we live in the Kali Yuga and there are very few who will understand anything.
Count yourself fortunate. No one ever asks me to do anything. I consider it quite the compliment to be asked.
I’ve felt that way a large part of my life because it’s a social stigma to say no to things and people don’t understand. But then, I think the opposite side is worse… when people just stop asking you. Like being at work with your friends, and they all just leave to get lunch and no one asks you. Or they’re talking about getting drinks after work and you’re not invited. No, I don’t want to get drinks, but not being invited just deepens the wound of how you’re different from them and will never fully belong or be understood.
@@aurelie8220 The solution is to ask someone else to join you instead. That way you control the size and composition of the company. And you let it be known that you're not completely antisocial.
This channel would be quite good if it got rid of that horrible robotic naration. Terrible.