Stop Smiling! What’s Wrong with You?

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  • Smile more! Smile often! Yes, we've heard that a lot of times. But smiling without feeling it is identical to complimenting without meaning it. Or even worse. Smiling can surround you with people that will poison your life source. People that will make you think you hate others. Smiling can even make people hate you. It can be that annoying quality that you have. But if not smiling, then what, then how? There is much more to smiling than you may think there is. Let's dive deeper into this subject right now!
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  • @uhm-ff8xk
    @uhm-ff8xk ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i smile as a coping mechanism and to make myself not cry. it lightens up the mood for me and i’m a person who cries very easily, so i smile a lot. i’ve gotten so used to smiling that it’s just difficult to stop when i smile at a random time. i feel like my smile is ugly, i want to stop but it’s difficult, i feel like it’s making my face ugly with smile lines. i just want to stop.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think crying is bad if that's what your body wants to do. Allow it to inspire you to find out more about yourself.

    • @uhm-ff8xk
      @uhm-ff8xk ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loweffortedward true true, thank you for this. i genuinely need it :) 👍

    • @fim4160
      @fim4160 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same problem I have inside I feel far from happy but do it out of not being questioned on how I'm feeling as in my heart I'm far from happy daily I'm trying to change my mindset to be kinder talking to myself within. I also smile coz I don't want to worry others and burden them with my feelings

    • @copown
      @copown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I smile when with people because I don't want to have anything to do with them so i try to be nice and polite to everyone so as to not offend them.

    • @nofriends1963
      @nofriends1963 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@uhm-ff8xksame as you

  • @thecat0079
    @thecat0079 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I smile naturally a lot and genuinely and i wont change that or do i care. We all got 1 life. Why not smile , life is great. (And also i only slime when i feel like smiling i dont smile when i walk down a roud haha)

  • @olisg5917
    @olisg5917 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I basically love when man smiling while talking naturally it is great to feel person happy 😊

  • @relentlessrhythm2774
    @relentlessrhythm2774 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for uploading this! I'm trying to smile less because I smile when it's not appropriate. It was a habit from our society with toxic expectations.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! You have a great future ahead if you started realizing such things already!

    • @Miltroon
      @Miltroon ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why is it toxic to smile?

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Miltroon I'll make sure to make a video about it.

    • @Miltroon
      @Miltroon ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loweffortedward I'll be glad to watch it, but my first thought is...if people smiled more, things might be a little better in the world, instead of people just looking for things to complain about all the time anymore. Things like "people smile too much".

  • @jaredraga
    @jaredraga ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for the valuable lesson. You have one of the best videos about this topic as I searched specifically for this. I hope you keep making videos, you're doing great!

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Jared, for the kind words. We'll be back soon ;)

  • @khalid.6540
    @khalid.6540 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don’t know what’s my problem but I need help man, I can’t stop smiling in social situations and I hate it, it makes my personality weaker.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      send me a message in Telegram or Instagram

  • @l_64c
    @l_64c ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My problem with the smiling is.. idk.. sicne I was a young kid, I was smiling a lot, even at the supermarket when I was one year or two years old, my mother was bringing some kitchen stuff , she just went for 2 mins and when she comes back she saw 3 or 4 families are watching me how I laughing and the happiness in my face. But now (I'm 18 yrs) , the smiling is killing my personality, I started smiling too much after the depression I've got after my gf left me to another guy, literally everyone noticed my smiling, taxi drivers, my friends (they started disrespect me cuz they think I'm a smiling fool), teachers, even the closet people In my life ( mother and siblings) , they started make jokes of me because I smile but they don't know I can't control my smile, thx for reading. I hope after a while I'll come back to my comment and tells you I got better

    • @l_64c
      @l_64c ปีที่แล้ว

      + your video is unfortunately underrated, it's helpful , it's 3:22 AM in my country I was thinking about that problem till I found ur video and it's really helped me a lil bit, thank you

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing! I'm glad the video helped :) Let me see if I could help some more in the future videos.

    • @ghfootball9
      @ghfootball9 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes we wait for the result comment

    • @Gorh-van1
      @Gorh-van1 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@l_64csame prblm can be contact

    • @Winnerfeel
      @Winnerfeel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you are doing better now ♥️

  • @msdaisy-uo1jk
    @msdaisy-uo1jk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's difficult for me to change that attitude. But I will try my best to change it. I don't like it too. Society always tell me to smile. Because I'm look too serious. It's hard to accept. That's along time ago. Time goes by, we getting older. I need to stop smilling too much.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Remember that fake smiling is the tool of career politicians and career salesmen and their primary interest is themselves and ripping off other people. It's hard to not to smile if you are conditioned, but once you start looking at the world with the serious intentions and telling people to f**k off, life is going to start putting itself in place, you're gonna start feeling better and people around you are going to help you with that.

    • @legacy7381
      @legacy7381 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fuck society bro, grab your balls and start making your own rules.

  • @ayikorudoreen7413
    @ayikorudoreen7413 ปีที่แล้ว

    this video has made so much sense to me..truly wonderful

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว

      Good to hear. Perhaps, I'll have to make another one covering the subject.

  • @richconsparartbro4971
    @richconsparartbro4971 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this helps.

  • @jeshurun4616
    @jeshurun4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is underrated. This has helped me a lot. Where did you learn all this stuff?

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pleased to hear. It's life experience, which involved applying certain principles, concepts, having a lot of experiments and making a lot of mistakes. Reach out to me on Telegram, I'd love to talk more about your situation. Link in the description.

  • @u-toouniversity2865
    @u-toouniversity2865 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awesome video mate

  • @Not_DIO
    @Not_DIO ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video I’m your 100th sub

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Welcome. I have to write your name down somewhere for the future reference😁

  • @aesthetic_9239
    @aesthetic_9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey!
    Iam from India.Your explanation is too good👍🏻
    Iam your 30th subscriber.
    Please make a video on How to avoid toxic relatives?🥺

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy to hear! Well, maybe I'll make that one ;)

  • @sarahaintsavage
    @sarahaintsavage ปีที่แล้ว

    I am ur 105th subscriber :D

  • @dinukajkdy3291
    @dinukajkdy3291 ปีที่แล้ว

    Earned a sub

  • @legacy7381
    @legacy7381 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think we have a similar philosophy and could learn from each other, is there anywhere you're available to talk?

  • @winny-razzy
    @winny-razzy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I smile to hide my akwardness