How to stop your nervous laughs

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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learn more about nervous laughter with our Science of People guide: www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/
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  • @kellye6483
    @kellye6483 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    What about smiling during inappropriate times (giving bad news, someone getting hurt)

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I would try the same tactics mentioned in the video with the goal of displacing that nervous energy - this article may provide some more helpful tips too! www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/

  • @MakaC-sx9wi
    @MakaC-sx9wi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yesterday I couldn't stop laughing in class even if something isnt funny so I quickly came to this video

  • @shannonburstein
    @shannonburstein ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have a tendency to sometimes do a little laugh at the end of a phone conversation in between the wrap up and time to say goodbye. I’m going to try the deep breath (shortened) and then “goodbye.” Thank you, Vanessa!

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent! I hope you find that helpful. 💕 Thank you for watching!

  • @SirJohann
    @SirJohann ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I smile even when there are times I'm not suppose to. Idk, it just gives me contort to get through whatever it is.

  • @NatureFreak1127
    @NatureFreak1127 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I hate this about myself. 😆 Together with freeze response when someone disrespects me.

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a tough one to break out of! You got this 💕

    • @NatureFreak1127
      @NatureFreak1127 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ScienceOfPeople Thank you! You're great, by the way. ❤️

  • @theKaia
    @theKaia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    goddess of the communication!

  • @corporaterobotslave400
    @corporaterobotslave400 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I seem to do this when I'm in a fight. An actual physical confrontation. It makes me seem insane. That's a real bonus when you're in a fight. Not gonna change that. I noticed Tyler Durden in Fight Club did the same thing. Scares the crap out of your opponent.

  • @mischmarrs
    @mischmarrs ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I definitely usually take deep breaths. I used to burst out laughing at the news of someone's death 😢 but somewhere along the line my brain recognised along with my body that this really can't work throughout my life, and that's when at some point I guess I started taking deep breaths. It really does help 👍🏾

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Excellent tip. The breath is so powerful. Thank you for sharing! ❤

    • @PaulKaranja-zv4sm
      @PaulKaranja-zv4sm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is laughing or smiling any how a brain sickness

  • @streetguru6240
    @streetguru6240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks. Don't want to come across as too serious but I get it

  • @cath8908
    @cath8908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is one of my biggest problem right now

  • @spacedusty
    @spacedusty 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't laugh when nervous, but I feel nervous, excited, and smiling a lot😂 I enjoy the adrenaline 😂 a friend told me that I have a psychopathy symptom😢

  • @dj.sobxrbe
    @dj.sobxrbe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    is it maybe also a way of avoiding confrontation?

  • @betul-ev2fu
    @betul-ev2fu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hate this so much. I know that it isn’t funny at all but I tend to do it. :(( I’ll definitely try to work on the techniques you’ve given and try my brain even more 😢

  • @Leejungwoo48
    @Leejungwoo48 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I burst out laughing watching your fake nervous laugh at the beginning. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAaAAAA

    • @betul-ev2fu
      @betul-ev2fu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lmaooo this is me

  • @belindahernandez339
    @belindahernandez339 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ty for the advice, my daughter is a Special child n has it real bad but will try it on her, ty

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My pleasure, I hope it's helpful for her 💕

  • @heathercox1968
    @heathercox1968 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Haaaa ,none of that works for me 😭I belly laugh so much when any situation is serious

  • @travisbartholomay
    @travisbartholomay ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't laugh and definitely don't nervous laugh

    • @sadeenslim157
      @sadeenslim157 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky!

    • @travisbartholomay
      @travisbartholomay ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't laugh because it's part of the happy emotions and happiness triggers the nervous system to attack the organs to stop. Yes lucky when the heart stops collecting near death for 30 years of ignorance and still doesn't know why. I have a made cake walk out of trauma healing but this one. Lucky to never have life avoiding everything with people.

  • @Gabrielle727
    @Gabrielle727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello. Do you do speaking engagements for government organizations?

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this question - I have done this in the past! Any speaking inquiries can be sent to speaking@scienceofpeople.com

  • @missfairtrade
    @missfairtrade 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I laugh at everything.Especially in interviews ughhhhhh

  • @giantslayer473
    @giantslayer473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 50+. when I was 8 or 9, dad sat my lil brother and me down to tell us he was divorcing mom, I was devastated. But what did I do? U guessed it.
    I also blush very easily, especially in front of people. Especially if I'm caught off guard, like running into someone u haven't seen in a while. I HATE it. My face gets all red, I start to sweat. I also came home after day 1 of kindergarten and told my older sister, nobody likes me. I don't remember telling her that but I'm sure I did.
    What causes me to be this way?? Please help. 😊

  • @36522ap
    @36522ap ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ma'am I have a problem that whenever I conversate with my school friends , topics do not come into my mind. Can you help me to cope up with this problem?
    On the other hand, this video is gonna help me a lot.
    Thank u ma'am ❤️.

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course! We have a ton of different articles on our website that provide examples of conversation starters. :) I will link them below!
      www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
      www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-open-up/
      www.scienceofpeople.com/introvert-conversation-starters/
      www.scienceofpeople.com/have-hold-conversation/
      www.scienceofpeople.com/this-or-that-questions/

  • @nattaliejohnson2244
    @nattaliejohnson2244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a chuckle when I want to suppress mean of negative thoughts or after saying something that can be perceived as mean spirited, would the same technique work?

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it's worth a try! There are some more tips in this article you may find helpful: www.scienceofpeople.com/nervous-laughter/

  • @cindybesitos8933
    @cindybesitos8933 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What about laughter after akward moment or mumbling right after the comment I made or Sentence after I spoke and or made a sentence .. 😔I mumble or and laugh chuckle when I’m nervous about something

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just last time I tell now i said no other who speak to me here with me that's why having that problem

  • @ElizabethChronis
    @ElizabethChronis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 2.5 year old is a nervous laughter … any tips or resources for helping him?

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine does the same! I think they have to grow out of it lol =)

  • @missjoannaskiba
    @missjoannaskiba ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Kamala Harris should take this advice 😂

    • @floridanativelh568
      @floridanativelh568 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂 Truth 😅

    • @worthfightingfor2299
      @worthfightingfor2299 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yes 😂

    • @NatalieG427
      @NatalieG427 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh yes, the evil doctor Giggles.😂

    • @laly6980
      @laly6980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@NatalieG427 I was going to post the same until I saw your comment 😂😂😂

  • @Sxheyfnnfnf
    @Sxheyfnnfnf ปีที่แล้ว

    Vanessa, can you tell me how u made me love you from first sight? I first saw you on Craig Groeschel channel and I even didn’t hear you talk just saw ur smile! How?

  • @PaulKaranja-zv4sm
    @PaulKaranja-zv4sm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I smile or laugh without knowing

  • @THE-RED-LETTER-PROJECT
    @THE-RED-LETTER-PROJECT 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting

  • @yvonnerenoult1819
    @yvonnerenoult1819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I laugh when I have to speak to give a presentation. Or talk to a group.

  • @NYCMarkus
    @NYCMarkus ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sent this to Kamala Harris

  • @sofianiari6809
    @sofianiari6809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    всегда смеюсь в окружении, если честно самой уже надоело.. может идти простой, порой даже серьезный диалог, так мне обязательно нужно засмеяться?.. саму себя не могу принять в серьез, причем этот защитный смех появляется порой в довольно наитупейших ситуациях!!! как бы это грубо не звучало. допустим на парах ктото чтото рассказывает преподавателю, или просто задает вопрос. даже в таких ситуациях могу тихонько засмеятся неосознано. подруга иногда тоже задавалась вопросом по этому поводу🤦‍♀
    ребят, у кого тоже так? можете поделится причинами🙏

  • @BanzDan876
    @BanzDan876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’re very beautiful

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh thank you! 💖🙏🏻

  • @NatalieG427
    @NatalieG427 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A great video for our VP Kamala Harris.

  • @gstar-dh7co
    @gstar-dh7co ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every. Single. Time. I. Laugh. I release a loud and deep sinister laugh . I am also a Christian narcissist! I subconsciously make fun of people for being weak and cause I know they are sex addicts and drug addicts :)

    • @kossibwaya
      @kossibwaya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      U weird bro

  • @samo2585
    @samo2585 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why you are calling it bad habit. thumb down :(

  • @ocaraevil
    @ocaraevil ปีที่แล้ว

    nervous laugh meens your are nervous and fake been confortable . solution - just stop faking.

  • @Jackferrett6781
    @Jackferrett6781 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First

  • @Femamaph
    @Femamaph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Share this with Kamala

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, are you crazy ?