How to Change Finnish People so They Behave Like Everybody Else

In this video we talk about a common probem foreigners face in Finland in which they find it hard to accept the fact of how different Finland and Finnish people are and then try to change finnish people. You'll find out a solution how to make Finnish People behave the way you want them to behave.
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00:36 How to Change Finnish People
02:30 Evil Toxic Finns That Nobody Likes
03:23 Foreigners Need to Evolve
04:03 How We Deal With Bad People in Finland
04:40 Change by Leading not by Force
05:18 Finnish People Don't Like Aggression in Any Shape or Form
07:45 This is How to Help Finns Become More Sociable

[@loweffortedward]

Hi! Let's continue talking about Finland and helping Finnish people and Foreigners understand each other so all of us could peacefully live together in this beautiful country.

[@conanobrian8580]

this guys so enlightened; he even convinced mosquitoes not to bite him!

[@DNA350ppm]

You know, Eduard, when you dig deep enough, Finns are very serious about their responsibility and duty to be a good and reliable friend, if at all. You cannot be a half-hearted friend in Finland, people feel so bad about that. So - I would say - if a person already has 4-5 good friends, they try not to give the impression that an additional person could become a new very good friend, as that might lead to neglecting the existing friendships. An average Finn also has many relatives to keep up contacts with, also many limited casual aquaintancies, and many social duties, contacts within clubs, choirs, gyms, at jobs, in the neighborhood, and so on. They are careful not to give the impression that they could become BFF with a newcomer, so Finns keep their distance, to stay honest and fair. For example, in the countryside, "everbody" know which dog belongs to which family, if it goes astray they probably bring it home to the right house. In a town, if the postman puts a letter in the wrong postbox, they'll bring the letter to the right postbox. If you leave a paid coffeepackage behind when you have gathered your shopping-items, they call out: "Hei, sun kahvi jäi!" If your child walks around without mittens in the winter some lady will tell the kid to put the mittens on. In the commuter-bus people know at which stop you should get off and will wake you up if you slumber.
In real Finnish lives there are often not enough weeks to keep up close relationships with family, friends, relatives, and social duties - it is a constant struggle with calenders and appointments, so much so, that most men leave the scheduling-stress to their girlfriends, spouses, mothers...
There ARE lonely people in Finland, though. If you have a heart for them you can volunteer for the Finnish Red Cross - google SPR Ystävätoiminta | RedNet - your engagement is very much appreciated! You'll get language practice on the bargain!
And have you noticed, that in Finland Valentine's Day is celebrated as Ystävänpäivä - especially underlining that staying in contact with single persons is important, so that they don't feel exclused.
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[@jerrimenard3092]

I was going to say, the only person who can evolve you, is yourself. Transformation is possible, but I believe you can never change who or what you are at the core. That is eternal confusion and chaos which leads to creative urges. I agree with Dali on this.
In my opinion, the Finnish way of deep introspection, that subconscious subturanian mindset is key to opening that portal to whats next. It's almost zen.

[@markbb1]

Yo! Totally agree, that’s the perfect recipe for good living to any expat actually!

[@charleshopper4638]

Interesting, so, in Finland, when you encounter someone who is in pain and having troubles and might be acting out- your way of handling it is to 'Isolate' them, which then causes them to have more pain and troubles. This seems cruel. Maybe I am misunderstanding this process. I'm enjoying the information, very real-life. Well done. I think this channel could really grow big.

[@loweffortedward]

Thank you! Almost. There are 2 types of people. One type of people are traumatized and try to heal this pain and they just want to be alone and in Finland we treat this people in a maximum nice way. The other type of people are traumatized and instead of dealing with that trauma, they used the energy of that trauma to change the world under their will with aggression, but since aggression is very strongly looked down upon in Finnish society, they have to suppress that aggression and become as it is common to say in Finland - passive-aggressive. And normal Finnish people stay away from such people unless they knew them for a long time before they became that way so these people become the first type of people and we can be nice to them instead of ignoring.

[@Gibbetoo]

people stay with themselves, do not intervene if it's not life threatening situation, or injured or danger of getting injured we will intervene and help. just ask if you are lost or missing something someone will help you.

[@loweffortedward]

@@Gibbetookudos!

[@resonance314]

Huh? I thought step number one is alcohol. Damn i've been doing this all kinda wrong.

[@zinakaja4739]

I like them that way

[@loweffortedward]

“Because I like it like that”🎉

[@bakeraus]

Most of the toxic Finns are hiding online here, if you just don't go to those channels you will find mostly the nice ones.

[@loweffortedward]

Exactly! That's my point!