I think we can reduce the substantial burden on women. Men have to be convinced to take care of some stuff at home. That way, women will be less stressed and will be mindful if men are somewhat or equally involved in the housework.
Why soo much pressure to women's only,,why can't we suggest to men's to share works equally? In the name of womens have ability for multi tasking, we are giving heavy stress to her. Please treat mens and women's are equal in home also
All things for a woman to do! Thumbs down to this thought ! Being a working woman I have gone through everything, and with this thought that everything is her responsibility is simply ignoring yourself and your career growth
Hi ma'am, 5. Deligation of work -> if ur partner is not giving helping hand simply as we can live without it (eg: he didn't bother about cleaning, dusting, washing clothes , says we also stay without cleaning in hostel , he is not good cook and I love cooking I can't give him cooking then how I manage work and home , it's giving me stress, and whenever we talk we fight only. He will do only few things as satisfing his words as he used to help. . Please help me ma'am
Mam husband has to help in kitchen why only female should cook that is gender gap we need to fil......Take initiative We India stand in 108 position in Gender Gap out of 142 Countries Its SHAM
Yes, it's a part of both the partners to handle kitchen. Few men are truly helping their partner. It enhances the strong relationships between the couple.
Ma'am I worked as a teacher n on conceiving I left job now my baby is 4 year and I don't know how I feel so pressurized to join back I feel like how is it possible to leave the baby n go I feel v nervous please ma'am give some motivation n guidance
Thanks mam, you suggested well and its make sense & will help in my life. My in-law family is very much biggest in living in same city I'm very tired of these surprised guests, even on Sundays also either someone will come to my home or will obliged invite me and my husband and hold us whole day. I'm very tired 😫 of these relatives. Please help to handle these relatives and surprise guests
Mam nenu housewife ...2kids.. in .tsicet i got 1388 rank so got seat in regular college joined in MBA....but not able to manage..kids studies....household works....n my studies 😔....plz suggest me some plan ...i m continuing my studies...after 11yrs of my marriage. I m worrying about my MBA...scoring is important for me
Ma'am, how to plan when all the decisions are made by your mother in law and you only have to follow and no plans can be allowed from your side. You said clean the platform in night, what to do when mother in law says to do it in morning.
9:40 ---- "The moment you are down, nobody is going to help you". What kind of family is this?????? They want a full time servant or what? I understand that it is a primary work to take care of home and handle office loads, but if she needs help, nobody will help? Then why she is living with them if they are not supporting in her bad times.
⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘Respected Mam U r very inspirational for me.plz tell me I did master in english+M.Ed & we live in UAE with my husbnd.I want to do teaching Job.bcz to becom an independant one, is my passion.so plzz guide me.
Don't worry... You have good knowledge and qualifications. Try to enter into teaching field. First take an entry in any school or college irrespective of salary. You will have growth. Stay happy always
Thanks ma'am for such information giving video. I have watched your earlier videos also I am also a working woman handling my children,home, in laws and office work (9 to 5). Everything was going smoothly but due to work pressure at home and office politics one day in office my blood pressure raised very high at 180. From that day my boss asked me to take some rest and break. Now I am not getting direction to work in same office or not? Please suggest me something.
Hi madam, Your tips are really good. I want to follow them. I keep motivation but my mother in law always comments on me and my ways. Constantly correcting this and commenting. I can't take and I can't be pleasant. I am very much distrubed that I stopped cooking. Even my sister in law is like that. My mother in law supports her and tell she is always correct and she is more important than your husband. Me and my cosisters are suffering and I know there are many other working ladies apart from office tension, specially mother in law and sister in law's are very insulting. My husband asks me to be calm and mind my work. But this is hurting me a lot. Could you please do a video on how not to react when you are in laws are always commenting and discouraging.
Hi. suffering from the same conditions for last 17 years and now came to know that some people are narcissistic,they never want us to be happy.please search more on narcissistic personality and follow gray rock method.I know it is too hard to give no response when someone knowingly do wrong with us.But no one can help you,no one will come to correct your in laws.you have to make your own way.Just trust yourself, love yourself and don't loose confidence.👍
Hiii mam i am kavya i have 7months old baby boy nd I have do the job plz suggest me which is the perfect one nd I had complt my degree in computer science nd my husband wants to do me in CA is it possible to me r not
If we are not taking our house work to school (chopping, cooking, cleaning etc) then why school work should bring to home? There should be boundaries, balance and happy environment both in school and home..
Hai mam I am also working lady having two male children it is very useful for me. Tq mam. Mam pl give information about daily break fast recipe from sanday to Saturday. If have any vedio about this pl. Send me. Tq mam
Ma'am I had started to watch it with great optimism. But it lacks how the lady of the house will include others especially her husband for the household? I'm only seeing the woman spinning all around.
Trust me you don't have to. The idea should be that both the partners should be equally responsible for all the chores of the house and husband is not a secondary entity who needs to be "told" what needs to be done. dividing work will give you more space for your interests and personal care.
You should have made video on how to get a days off every week from home. So that women can vitality their energy for next week. How to make other people in the family and contribute at home. You are giving gyaan to women only. Disappointing and ridiculous!
@@devikabhatnagar I am fine mam..Thank u so much...Wow..U Remember me...Great mam...remembering and following u every single day mam...Wanted to achieve something mam in academic...plz share physical health for working woman mam..Love u so much mam..Love from Cbe..TN...
I love you mam love you so much .I am sirivennela I am from ku University now I am msc (geology) in 2016 closed bt now presant ph.d CSIR earth science I am preparing actually mam basic Telugu medium bt I went to institute daily at 11:30 spoken English class .mam pH.d next month on December 15th xam .I have 2kids 5years son. 4years baby .I feel very bad time vundatle....
Mam I wants help from you my husband asked me to resign from job and after some time gap again join it but I recently join before 8 months ago and this job is good what I can do please help me mam🙏🙏
Block sometime of the day for kids, it might be just 5-10 minutes for each kid. Do not play or watch tv during that time. Start talking with the kid. Do not ask them too many questions, many times they dont know how to respond. Instead tell them how was your day in the language they understand, tell them your childhood stories etc. Slowly they will also open up. Limit their screen time. Instead engage them in book reading, books can be of their choice. You can have separate book reading time when each of you reading book of your choice. Getting and keeping connected with kids world is very important. They should be feel we value their opinions and we trust them.
I'm just 18 and i don't why I'm watching this now.but i learnt so many things from you ma'am Thanks alot🙏
I think we can reduce the substantial burden on women. Men have to be convinced to take care of some stuff at home. That way, women will be less stressed and will be mindful if men are somewhat or equally involved in the housework.
Thank u mam for sharing such amazing tips to balance work & life 🙏😊👌
Why soo much pressure to women's only,,why can't we suggest to men's to share works equally? In the name of womens have ability for multi tasking, we are giving heavy stress to her. Please treat mens and women's are equal in home also
All things for a woman to do! Thumbs down to this thought ! Being a working woman I have gone through everything, and with this thought that everything is her responsibility is simply ignoring yourself and your career growth
Yes very true.
She needs to understand women are humans as much as men, we don't extra energy.
How much ever we try men don't understand. They think they are born to laze around
Awesome I appreciate you Maam that you have helped me a lot
Thank you
May God bless you
Love you
Stay blessed always.
Thank u so much mam. Very nice information. I am also working women. U r my inspiration mam.
Wonderful..explanations..
Very much disciplined..look into eyes
Very accurate and perfect way to explain
Hi ma'am, 5. Deligation of work -> if ur partner is not giving helping hand simply as we can live without it (eg: he didn't bother about cleaning, dusting, washing clothes , says we also stay without cleaning in hostel , he is not good cook and I love cooking I can't give him cooking then how I manage work and home , it's giving me stress, and whenever we talk we fight only. He will do only few things as satisfing his words as he used to help. . Please help me ma'am
Mam husband has to help in kitchen why only female should cook that is gender gap we need to fil......Take initiative We India stand in 108 position in Gender Gap out of 142 Countries Its SHAM
Yes, it's a part of both the partners to handle kitchen. Few men are truly helping their partner. It enhances the strong relationships between the couple.
@@devikabhatnagar Thanx Lov U Mam......God Bless
True....
Husbands r taught by their housewife mothers to not to help wife, otherwise she will become lazy..
@@harpreet5868 I agree. I have seen this. It's the mothers who spoil their sons.
Such a wonderful message to women madam, Especially you told family and personal life is first and important 👌 🙏.
Very useful for all mam i watch ur videos for my english improvement but u impove my life style also.☺
Glad to hear from you dear Deepa..
Keep it up and stay blessed always.
Last two points are really very right
Truly said mam,very helpful tips thank you so much mam....
Am mother and teacher and also b. ed student.TQ mam 🙏
Stay happy always 👍
Very nice talk mam thank you for your valuable speech.❤
Ma'am I worked as a teacher n on conceiving I left job now my baby is 4 year and I don't know how I feel so pressurized to join back I feel like how is it possible to leave the baby n go I feel v nervous please ma'am give some motivation n guidance
Yes v.common situasn with many ladies. plis through some light on it.
Very nice video mam god bless u always keep it up mam
Nice....very nice
Wonderfully described
Thank you madam ..God bless you
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🙏I love your way of speaking......🌹🌹🌹superb mam...thank you mam.....
Thank you..🙏
Very excellent speeching Madem... Thank u so much for your Tips...🙏 Thanks l lots.. 🙏🙏💐💐💐💞💞
Super madam u r great inspiration to all
Thanks mam, you suggested well and its make sense & will help in my life. My in-law family is very much biggest in living in same city I'm very tired of these surprised guests, even on Sundays also either someone will come to my home or will obliged invite me and my husband and hold us whole day. I'm very tired 😫 of these relatives. Please help to handle these relatives and surprise guests
Mam nenu housewife ...2kids.. in .tsicet i got 1388 rank so got seat in regular college joined in MBA....but not able to manage..kids studies....household works....n my studies 😔....plz suggest me some plan ...i m continuing my studies...after 11yrs of my marriage. I m worrying about my MBA...scoring is important for me
Hi good morning thank you for your valuable information. 🙏🏻🤝👏👍
Ma'am, how to plan when all the decisions are made by your mother in law and you only have to follow and no plans can be allowed from your side.
You said clean the platform in night, what to do when mother in law says to do it in morning.
Mam how to select which government job is better & requirements for selecting particular govt job wt they required points....
Government job depends on your basic degree..
9:40 ---- "The moment you are down, nobody is going to help you". What kind of family is this?????? They want a full time servant or what? I understand that it is a primary work to take care of home and handle office loads, but if she needs help, nobody will help? Then why she is living with them if they are not supporting in her bad times.
I m also working n my life starts from 6.30 to 10.30 without any rest . Agle janm mohe bitiya n kijio...
Naukar rakh loge mujhe....agar chahiye toh rakh lo mujhe
Vry nicely explained..thanks
Nice tips, thanks ma'am
Thank you madam ❤️
⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘Respected Mam U r very inspirational for me.plz tell me I did master in english+M.Ed & we live in UAE with my husbnd.I want to do teaching Job.bcz to becom an independant one, is my passion.so plzz guide me.
Don't worry...
You have good knowledge and qualifications. Try to enter into teaching field. First take an entry in any school or college irrespective of salary.
You will have growth.
Stay happy always
Thank you ma'am
Thanks ma'am for such information giving video. I have watched your earlier videos also
I am also a working woman handling my children,home, in laws and office work (9 to 5). Everything was going smoothly but due to work pressure at home and office politics one day in office my blood pressure raised very high at 180. From that day my boss asked me to take some rest and break. Now I am not getting direction to work in same office or not? Please suggest me something.
@Best Peace Nahi aise bekar husband ko lol
Very useful tips to all women madam👍
So useful mam ..thank you so much
Very inspirational. Its a very important topic for all. Thankyou so much for boosting me with your speeches.
Hi madam,
Your tips are really good. I want to follow them. I keep motivation but my mother in law always comments on me and my ways. Constantly correcting this and commenting. I can't take and I can't be pleasant. I am very much distrubed that I stopped cooking.
Even my sister in law is like that. My mother in law supports her and tell she is always correct and she is more important than your husband.
Me and my cosisters are suffering and I know there are many other working ladies apart from office tension, specially mother in law and sister in law's are very insulting. My husband asks me to be calm and mind my work. But this is hurting me a lot.
Could you please do a video on how not to react when you are in laws are always commenting and discouraging.
Hi. suffering from the same conditions for last 17 years and now came to know that some people are narcissistic,they never want us to be happy.please search more on narcissistic personality and follow gray rock method.I know it is too hard to give no response when someone knowingly do wrong with us.But no one can help you,no one will come to correct your in laws.you have to make your own way.Just trust yourself, love yourself and don't loose confidence.👍
Wonderful motivational video
Thank you Madam
You’re welcome 🙌
Thank you ma'am.. very useful speech
Thank you
Hiii mam i am kavya i have 7months old baby boy nd I have do the job plz suggest me which is the perfect one nd I had complt my degree in computer science nd my husband wants to do me in CA is it possible to me r not
Thank you didi
Usually teacher's have to carry their work to home too. How to manage it. Please could you guide about it Mam
Yes🙁
Every has to carry their work at home orvelse like. Doing over time
Ys
If we are not taking our house work to school (chopping, cooking, cleaning etc) then why school work should bring to home? There should be boundaries, balance and happy environment both in school and home..
All the points mentioned are going to be very helpful to me from from now onwards .
Very much aptly presented by you maam 👏👏👏👏👏👏
🙏
Please make the video on GST mam like what is GST How it will be share between state and central government
Very nice mam. it's really nice 👌
Hai mam I am also working lady having two male children it is very useful for me. Tq mam. Mam pl give information about daily break fast recipe from sanday to Saturday. If have any vedio about this pl. Send me. Tq mam
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thank you ma'am, Very useful
Ma'am I had started to watch it with great optimism. But it lacks how the lady of the house will include others especially her husband for the household? I'm only seeing the woman spinning all around.
Trust me you don't have to. The idea should be that both the partners should be equally responsible for all the chores of the house and husband is not a secondary entity who needs to be "told" what needs to be done. dividing work will give you more space for your interests and personal care.
@@SandhyaCs2101 exactly "division of labour". But that needs communication.
@@sohiniisanyal7326 Exactly! Communicate.. We are humans too.. We too need to vent!
Frankly before marriage, and definitely before kid better communicate.
Thank you Amma.
Complete guide on reality bases❣️❣️💝🙏🙏thank you
thank u very much mam
Thanks man for your tips
Super Mam it's very useful
Very useful mam Tnq for giving information
Excellent
Housewives study hours topic meeda video cheyandi madam.
Sure👍
You should have made video on how to get a days off every week from home. So that women can vitality their energy for next week. How to make other people in the family and contribute at home. You are giving gyaan to women only.
Disappointing and ridiculous!
Thanks a lot 🙏
Thank u mam...
Ty soooo much
A Very nice video..
Thanks Mam ❤️❤️
Very nice mam...
Wow mam...Most wanted...Thank u soo much dearesttttttttt mam....Thank u soooo much mam
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My pleasure dear Madam...
Glad to hear from you after long time.
How are you?
Stay blessed and happy always with students.
@@devikabhatnagar I am fine mam..Thank u so much...Wow..U Remember me...Great mam...remembering and following u every single day mam...Wanted to achieve something mam in academic...plz share physical health for working woman mam..Love u so much mam..Love from Cbe..TN...
Thanks
Amazing
I love you mam love you so much .I am sirivennela I am from ku University now I am msc (geology) in 2016 closed bt now presant ph.d CSIR earth science I am preparing actually mam basic Telugu medium bt I went to institute daily at 11:30 spoken English class .mam pH.d next month on December 15th xam .I have 2kids 5years son. 4years baby .I feel very bad time vundatle....
Mam, l have a doubt. Whether Or not ghosts exist pls rply mam
Some human beings are more dangerous than Ghosts. Ghosts are innocent and it will not harm anyone.
Super mam
I follow all this...😁
How to ensure safety in baby n handle work also without getting stressed how can I handle
Working couples should share the chores and childcare. Otherwise hire a maid 🤷♀️
Great 🙏mam
I'll plan everything gud... But I'm not able to follow it... Plz guide me to follow my plans regularly...
Mam plz give tips for work from home women..
V nice
Mam I wants help from you my husband asked me to resign from job and after some time gap again join it but I recently join before 8 months ago and this job is good what I can do please help me mam🙏🙏
Thank you mam,👌
I am student tell me about online part time jobs
My working roster...one day night...off...then evening.... morning...again night...how i manage
True. We need guidance on this!
Mam please please please make a video of after marriage and kids how to study please
Sure..
Please more videos on working women....regarding male domination.
Good mam
Correct
Mother house and husband house will be balanced tips.
Hopefully the following video will be helpful.
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Main issue is handing kids for working woman. Baki sab hota rhta
Block sometime of the day for kids, it might be just 5-10 minutes for each kid. Do not play or watch tv during that time. Start talking with the kid. Do not ask them too many questions, many times they dont know how to respond. Instead tell them how was your day in the language they understand, tell them your childhood stories etc. Slowly they will also open up. Limit their screen time. Instead engage them in book reading, books can be of their choice. You can have separate book reading time when each of you reading book of your choice. Getting and keeping connected with kids world is very important. They should be feel we value their opinions and we trust them.
Very useful mam.. but y should girls always suffer
Mam ye btao aise pendamic mein kids ko manage kaise kre..when husband not allows for maid tuition..
Let husband take care of tuition activities and maid related activities. Why should you suffer because of his decisions?
Mam u r not responding my comment.y and how stop expecting anything from anyone
Make a habit of satisfaction with what you have. Try anything by yourself. Expectations always disappoint and makes us down.
thank you mam
Hello mam,
Can i contact you
I want to discuss something about marriage
Good morning mam
How to manage a office having less manpower ??
How to handle men in work place
Mam, I 'm always angery with my son??
Anger is harmful for health and family members. Please control it. Follow the given link.
Stay cool always.
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