Me and my husband take care of our daughter solely. Hiring nannies did not work and no family members were ready to help. I took a career break having a temporary set back at my software engineer career for two years and later joined back. But that's ok. I did what I felt ok for my family at that time. I prefer cooking food, and helping daughter in her studies on my own and yes husband shares the load. I prefered a small house to keep things manageable and foremost, I understood keeping go on mode is more important than being perfect. Thanks for the video. It helps to stay motivated Chavi ji
@@starbusttweety in my location, they mostly are aided by their in-laws or parents. And day care facility here is not that great. One can explore though. In other locations, where good cre he can be found, women employees do return back with a tug of war situation in mind always
@@Deboleena936 Yes but my question is do majority of women return to work after maternity break or they give up their careers completely(I am not offending anyone but still). How many women give up their careers completely?
@@starbusttweety 90pcnt of my female colleagues and friends did rejoin... Hence it served as a motivating factor to overcome difficulty and rejoin... definitely, it's your situation, will power...it's totally upto sn individual how to pull it up or let it go...even I am decided to take a break again... If this profession does not suit my condition, will find something less in value... As I stated it's more important to sail than to become perfect sister 😊
I loved ur tym management video. I saw ur video where u told about ur log book for arham. Even i maintained the same after watching that video when my son was just 4 months old and actually it really worked for me bcoz of that today when my son is 14 months old, he has build up a very gud routine. N actually now i get alot of tym for myself. In short just wanted to thank u, ur video helped me at that tym ven i was actually very upset n was very confused. Thanks alot
When we work for an Organization like IT sectors, its quite difficult to maintain same routine for everyday because, as an SE, we can be pulled in many unplanned meetings and we can't say NO most of the time.. after this pandemic although we are working from home but instead of 8-9 hours, we have to be active more than that.
Do majority of women restart their careers after maternity break(6 months, 1 year, 2 years or more) or do they become full time stay at home moms? You must have seen your colleagues and friends...that's why I asked.
Thank you so much, u don't know how much u r helping me I always look at U , Im a new mom and taking all ur suggestions very seriously. Though this my first comment I really respect u , u r my role model. Keep it up God bless you and your family
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉
i know Im asking the wrong place but does someone know a method to log back into an Instagram account?? I was stupid forgot the login password. I love any tips you can offer me.
@@lukasahmed1271 only option will be to click forgot password option and it will send the link to your email to reset it. I don’t use it much so can’t provide any further tips as I am unsure
Do majority of women restart their careers after maternity break(let's say 6 months, 1 year, 2 years or more) or do they become full time stay at home moms? You must have seen your friends and colleagues as well.
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉🎉
छवी खूपच मस्त व्हिडीओ आहे.... I wanna write a lot in this comment box.. But time constraints..I am chaitrali.. I do travel vlogs... I am also passionate for business...I have 8 year daughter.. Ur video is so helpful that I noted all the points & now I will start implementing it. My daughter Shreya Matkar is also supporting me right now.. She is handling her day-to-day activities by her own. I am doing my business studies sitting in a separate room.. Waw what a sorted life.. Ummmha❤🎉
Hi Chavi I am the first one to like this video within 25 secs after you posted it. I am your biggest fan. You inspire most of us. Keep rocking as always. Love and peace from us to you
It really feels great to watch this video, because I am in this condition feeling so much seniti about my kids and professional life. feeling guilt but with your suggestions and communications, I feel a little better about taking decisions.
Hey chavvi, I m mom of 5.5 months old angel.. And first of all thanks to you.. Ur videos were so much helping for me during pregnancy and post partum.. I want you to make video on uses of diapers... How much time we can put diaper in a day.. Which are best Disposable or Cloth ? Plz guide us about it..
Hi Chhavi...its a great thing that you juggle everything and still manage to set that as a routine...my daughter is just 1 and a half and like you said I cannot go for work because I feel that this age will not come back and she requires a motherly care, once she starts going to school maybe I would then opt for going to work...
Really nice videos u make chavi.. So inspiring.. Today i m gonna upset.. So i randomly started to watch ur channel.. Nd now i m feel so relaxed.. So thanx a lot mam..
Thanks Chavvi, the way you shared your thoughts on being a working mom has inspired me too. Now onwards I will also try not to be guilty of being a working mother.
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉
Yes you are right. It is just about every woman identifying what suits her and following the plan. And more importantly understanding that we are moving away from the concept of women being sole take carer of kids and family. So as we are still progressing and not fully progressed we are tend to feel guilty looking at other moms who spend all time with kids etc or else some person around will make us feel that. Very nice video
I am pregnant and will be a mother soon. I am very unsure if I would be the same passionate career oriented women once I resume my work. It's tough to form routines with rotational shifts and offs.
Hi nice tips and easy to adopt. I wanted to include a NUT rule i.e non negotiable and alterable terms for our self where you know what you are not ready to alter in your life. Like if I need to spend my Sunday with my family then I will not take any assignment for that at any condition. Hope this is a helpful tip.
Why is it not possible for IT employees to maintain a fixed timetable? Being a mother you can say that I cant take calls and attend meetings after my shift. Please answer both the questions.
Hi Chavi I totally understood whatever you said, but what about people at house who do not understand or rather wan to understand our routine. Due to which, we as a woman get a backseat when it comes to work life balance. In some families people understand and in some they don't even care. What to do for those situations?
Hi chavvi, I like ur videos very much...but I ve a question ...wot if ur family members r not supportive enough for u to leave ur child n go for work...after making them understand N number of times..how to manage that stress???
I really liked this video specially the stress part....i also faced this situation many a times. Sometimes you have people at home who can look after the kids. But if they are not ready to help, it gets really annoying for the mother.
Hello mam I am also a working mom since pregnancy i gained a lot of weight my baby is going to be 1 year old now and I have decided to do workout a lot of times but everytime I fail to do so because I Don't know I fell asleep in the morning I try to wake up but I can't I can't even put an alarm since my baby is sleeping. Please help me what can I do to change myself how can I wake up early without an alarm and workout
I completely understand the alarm problem. Because that would wake up the baby too. That's when I got the smart watch. It vibrates on my wrist without any noice. then I get up without waking up the baby.
I don’t know whether you reply or not but still would like to share if any one else have solution please tell me really struggling nowadays I am working mother and my daughter is 2.5 years old everything thing is fixed on her routine part , but she only wants to play with me and I can’t match up her energy level that too with many other responsibilities, due to current scenarios I can’t hired nanny also for her and I can’t send her down also to play I get only 14hrs break from her out of 24 hrs that is her sleep hrs, office work after that also having too much of back log due to which my weekends are also stressful coz I can’t do what I like , have to finish house work, then baby’s full work, then office work. It’s 2 years now and am not getting break for myself.
really useful video. But maintaining a schedule with a baby is hard and I am sure you will agree with can you please cover points like how do you cope when the baby is sick or does not want to sleep as too distracted and especially a weekend routine. Even if we manage to maintain the routine during the week we can't during the weekend. Any tips around that? Just a suggestion. No one talks about kids with special needs if you have any knowledge or information it will be nice to know your point of view on how to build a routine for kids with special needs :) Rest keep up the good work :)
Dont fix a child's sleeping routine they grow while sleeping...pls spend time with kids they ll love you for that later in life..everything else can wait
@@rupinderkohli2015 that is fyn but have to manage work as well. I understand worth f this period so keep my baby engaged with me playing n taking, taking care without any help f third person. But since there is no fix routine of his sleep I also HV to go as per his time. No routine f anything so far. He sleeps late n get up late..
Hey ...dear....I will be glad...if get your company in any case...ur such a positive...n simple person.....rather than showing glamorous..,rich ...u show real..u 👍👍I want to work with you...any scope
Due to WFH, hiring nanny is perfectly ok.. bt when office resumes then we will have dis problem...may be we can loook out for companies with an in house creche facility
Hi Chhavi....Very nice and absolutely right. I request you to make a video on meditation also. It would help us a lot. I like your SIT videos also. U people r awesome. God bless you. I ve a teenage son even I do take help of my son when needed. I think we must educate our kids also in early age to handle their little things. I did it with my son he is in 10th now n that helped me a lot. Try it 😘 God bless you
Telling is easy. Implementation is difficult. We have to find maid/helper for everything like cooking, doing homework for kids, teaching them and depend on helpers. If we dont find good maid or trustworthy it is again a problem. Whatever we earn we will spend almost by paying salaries to all helpers. Instead we can peacefully stay home and look after our kids. In metro cities with heavy traffic we will be 13 hours outside home. Daily routine abd risky work @ office and pay all income to maids and doctor's. Is this life? It is called hell in my perspective.
Instead of dying so much in competitive 🌎 world and getting all sorts of diseases and spending all income for doctors it is better if women works for 5 to 10 years and quit job and take care of own kids. When we die we won't take money, passion anything. It's all about how tension free we live life. Saving money=earning money. This is what i believe. Simple living, low profile and high thinking
Madam tune kabhi kahana bnaya hai kitvhen mein for complete 1 day...never i guess Jab noker lagey ho to time apneaap set honjata hai Bachey ke liye bhi nanny hogi damn sure Fir.kis cheez ki motherhood😂😂
Me and my husband take care of our daughter solely. Hiring nannies did not work and no family members were ready to help. I took a career break having a temporary set back at my software engineer career for two years and later joined back. But that's ok. I did what I felt ok for my family at that time. I prefer cooking food, and helping daughter in her studies on my own and yes husband shares the load. I prefered a small house to keep things manageable and foremost, I understood keeping go on mode is more important than being perfect. Thanks for the video. It helps to stay motivated Chavi ji
Do majority of female software engineers return to their jobs after maternity break or do they become stay at home moms?
@@starbusttweety in my location, they mostly are aided by their in-laws or parents. And day care facility here is not that great. One can explore though. In other locations, where good cre he can be found, women employees do return back with a tug of war situation in mind always
@@Deboleena936 Yes but my question is do majority of women return to work after maternity break or they give up their careers completely(I am not offending anyone but still). How many women give up their careers completely?
@@starbusttweety 90pcnt of my female colleagues and friends did rejoin... Hence it served as a motivating factor to overcome difficulty and rejoin... definitely, it's your situation, will power...it's totally upto sn individual how to pull it up or let it go...even I am decided to take a break again... If this profession does not suit my condition, will find something less in value... As I stated it's more important to sail than to become perfect sister 😊
Okay...do husband and in laws help with household chores and kids or let the woman employ a cook if she is working?
I loved ur tym management video. I saw ur video where u told about ur log book for arham. Even i maintained the same after watching that video when my son was just 4 months old and actually it really worked for me bcoz of that today when my son is 14 months old, he has build up a very gud routine. N actually now i get alot of tym for myself.
In short just wanted to thank u, ur video helped me at that tym ven i was actually very upset n was very confused. Thanks alot
When we work for an Organization like IT sectors, its quite difficult to maintain same routine for everyday because, as an SE, we can be pulled in many unplanned meetings and we can't say NO most of the time.. after this pandemic although we are working from home but instead of 8-9 hours, we have to be active more than that.
Agree
True..
💯 true dear
Soo true. It gets difficult to make discipline with unplanned meetings or starched working hours.
Do majority of women restart their careers after maternity break(6 months, 1 year, 2 years or more) or do they become full time stay at home moms? You must have seen your colleagues and friends...that's why I asked.
Thank you so much, u don't know how much u r helping me I always look at U , Im a new mom and taking all ur suggestions very seriously.
Though this my first comment
I really respect u , u r my role model.
Keep it up
God bless you and your family
Everyday discipline ,handling daily stuff without stress and meditation are tips that I need to include in my life.. thanks for this video
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉
When moms work in shifts and no house help it’s very hard to follow any discipline
i know Im asking the wrong place but does someone know a method to log back into an Instagram account??
I was stupid forgot the login password. I love any tips you can offer me.
@@lukasahmed1271 only option will be to click forgot password option and it will send the link to your email to reset it. I don’t use it much so can’t provide any further tips as I am unsure
@Lukas Ahmed instablaster ;)
Do majority of women restart their careers after maternity break(let's say 6 months, 1 year, 2 years or more) or do they become full time stay at home moms? You must have seen your friends and colleagues as well.
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉🎉
I am following lots of influencer... But what u taught me today is like life saver... Blessings and love to u and ur family
छवी खूपच मस्त व्हिडीओ आहे.... I wanna write a lot in this comment box.. But time constraints..I am chaitrali.. I do travel vlogs... I am also passionate for business...I have 8 year daughter.. Ur video is so helpful that I noted all the points & now I will start implementing it. My daughter Shreya Matkar is also supporting me right now.. She is handling her day-to-day activities by her own. I am doing my business studies sitting in a separate room.. Waw what a sorted life.. Ummmha❤🎉
Hi Chavi I am the first one to like this video within 25 secs after you posted it. I am your biggest fan. You inspire most of us. Keep rocking as always. Love and peace from us to you
Thank you
It really feels great to watch this video, because I am in this condition feeling so much seniti about my kids and professional life. feeling guilt but with your suggestions and communications, I feel a little better about taking decisions.
Hey chavvi, I m mom of 5.5 months old angel.. And first of all thanks to you.. Ur videos were so much helping for me during pregnancy and post partum.. I want you to make video on uses of diapers... How much time we can put diaper in a day.. Which are best Disposable or Cloth ? Plz guide us about it..
You are a real inspiration.
I am hard code fan of SIT and now about you as person too
Hi Chhavi...its a great thing that you juggle everything and still manage to set that as a routine...my daughter is just 1 and a half and like you said I cannot go for work because I feel that this age will not come back and she requires a motherly care, once she starts going to school maybe I would then opt for going to work...
Take a break for 2 to 3 years then return to work.
Very good decision...
Really nice videos u make chavi.. So inspiring.. Today i m gonna upset.. So i randomly started to watch ur channel.. Nd now i m feel so relaxed.. So thanx a lot mam..
Thanks Chavvi, the way you shared your thoughts on being a working mom has inspired me too. Now onwards I will also try not to be guilty of being a working mother.
8-9 hrs job + 2 hrs travel office to home + 7 hrs proper sleep + 3 hrs of bath and eat all day overall..2 hrs left.. and u cannot do every household jobs, spending time with children and husband, yoga and meditation.. it's practically impossible..so stop faking the work and household balance..ans Stop fooling man.. that's why marraige rate is declined and divorce rate increasing due to women unable to balance work and home for long run..🎉
Thanks chavi, you are great ! I take lots of inspiration from you.
Chavi nice video, In next video can you elaborate your actual routine of the day?
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You are the best dear ❤️ aapne video mai bola k we are not a super human but aap kisi super human se km nahi. You are doing fantastic job
Really u r a great human. U r mine mentor. U r doing ur job very happily n calmly
Yes you are right. It is just about every woman identifying what suits her and following the plan. And more importantly understanding that we are moving away from the concept of women being sole take carer of kids and family. So as we are still progressing and not fully progressed we are tend to feel guilty looking at other moms who spend all time with kids etc or else some person around will make us feel that. Very nice video
Thank you for tips❤I really needed this
Thanks a lot Chavvi for your amazing tips...I will surely try it
Chhavi pls let us know that do u have grey hair or not?? And if yes then what u do to hide it??
I am pregnant and will be a mother soon. I am very unsure if I would be the same passionate career oriented women once I resume my work. It's tough to form routines with rotational shifts and offs.
Yes
Are you a software developer?
Hi nice tips and easy to adopt. I wanted to include a NUT rule i.e non negotiable and alterable terms for our self where you know what you are not ready to alter in your life. Like if I need to spend my Sunday with my family then I will not take any assignment for that at any condition. Hope this is a helpful tip.
Hello Ma'am. This video was so helpful especially regarding guilt of hiring nanny.
Totally agree..
Thank u Chavi for your tips.... Could you please your routine and how you stay active through out the day.... Your fooding and workout videos as well
You are lucky that you can schedule your meetings...becomes very challenging for people working in software industry or any other job
Why is it not possible for IT employees to maintain a fixed timetable? Being a mother you can say that I cant take calls and attend meetings after my shift. Please answer both the questions.
Hi Chavi I totally understood whatever you said, but what about people at house who do not understand or rather wan to understand our routine. Due to which, we as a woman get a backseat when it comes to work life balance.
In some families people understand and in some they don't even care. What to do for those situations?
Liking n commenting before watching....
As this was my most requested video from u
Thank u for making this video
Great dear I love your deciplan life leading
Hi chavvi, I like ur videos very much...but I ve a question ...wot if ur family members r not supportive enough for u to leave ur child n go for work...after making them understand N number of times..how to manage that stress???
I loved your video. I hope I start managing my life well that's upside down now.
I really liked this video specially the stress part....i also faced this situation many a times. Sometimes you have people at home who can look after the kids. But if they are not ready to help, it gets really annoying for the mother.
True, inlaws etc play but don't always responsibity, and maybe they need not. Hire help n stay cool
Thank you
Hello mam I am also a working mom since pregnancy i gained a lot of weight my baby is going to be 1 year old now and I have decided to do workout a lot of times but everytime I fail to do so because I Don't know I fell asleep in the morning I try to wake up but I can't I can't even put an alarm since my baby is sleeping. Please help me what can I do to change myself how can I wake up early without an alarm and workout
Wait till your baby turns 5
I completely understand the alarm problem. Because that would wake up the baby too. That's when I got the smart watch. It vibrates on my wrist without any noice. then I get up without waking up the baby.
Thank you chhavi...for motivation
Hi u r an inspiration for all of us
U r awesome chavi.... this video help me alot...
The Information is fantastic...Love you..!!!
Very convincing video ..really u smart..
Thank you for sharing these tips
😘
Thank you so much Chhavi for these tips
I don’t know whether you reply or not but still would like to share if any one else have solution please tell me really struggling nowadays
I am working mother and my daughter is 2.5 years old everything thing is fixed on her routine part , but she only wants to play with me and I can’t match up her energy level that too with many other responsibilities, due to current scenarios I can’t hired nanny also for her and I can’t send her down also to play I get only 14hrs break from her out of 24 hrs that is her sleep hrs, office work after that also having too much of back log due to which my weekends are also stressful coz I can’t do what I like , have to finish house work, then baby’s full work, then office work.
It’s 2 years now and am not getting break for myself.
Do your husband and in laws share household chores and responsibilities of kids EQUALLY with you? Do they let you employ maids for cooking and all?
Amaizing
Very helpful and informative 👍👍
Nice video 👍 plz share your daily routine with us🙏
Thanks didi
Aap ke daily routine ka timing list share kariye
You are doing an amazing job 🙂
Loved it
really useful video. But maintaining a schedule with a baby is hard and I am sure you will agree with can you please cover points like how do you cope when the baby is sick or does not want to sleep as too distracted and especially a weekend routine. Even if we manage to maintain the routine during the week we can't during the weekend. Any tips around that?
Just a suggestion. No one talks about kids with special needs if you have any knowledge or information it will be nice to know your point of view on how to build a routine for kids with special needs :) Rest keep up the good work :)
What to do if nanny is not trustworthy? What about possibility of child abuse ?
The vid so inspired, but as a foreigner like me, Could you write the subtitle below ? I cant fully understand
👌 Madam thank you so much
Please also make a video on hospital bag pack for d- day 🤗
How to fix routine of one year old.... especially sleeping hours. N due to this I have been suffering on work front. What to do... please help.
Dont fix a child's sleeping routine they grow while sleeping...pls spend time with kids they ll love you for that later in life..everything else can wait
@@rupinderkohli2015 that is fyn but have to manage work as well. I understand worth f this period so keep my baby engaged with me playing n taking, taking care without any help f third person. But since there is no fix routine of his sleep I also HV to go as per his time. No routine f anything so far. He sleeps late n get up late..
I love u Chhavi n Mohit❤️❤️❤️
baby ko kin activities main involve karen k wo apna busy rahen aur hum kaam karen job ya study
How to manage sleep? Newborn has no set time
very nice video.👍👍👍
It helps mam
Hey ...dear....I will be glad...if get your company in any case...ur such a positive...n simple person.....rather than showing glamorous..,rich ...u show real..u 👍👍I want to work with you...any scope
How much hours of sleep we working mothers take during night?
If a working mother has 9 to 5 everyday office how to handle those mothers routine with babies.
Please share your routine
Plz give tips to implement discipline in life
Looking nice in kurti , meditation is most important
How do I trust a nanny if I don't have anyone to supervise her.
Due to WFH, hiring nanny is perfectly ok.. bt when office resumes then we will have dis problem...may be we can loook out for companies with an in house creche facility
Put cc tv camera and take control on your mobile u can monitor from anywhere
Hi Chhavi....Very nice and absolutely right. I request you to make a video on meditation also. It would help us a lot. I like your SIT videos also. U people r awesome. God bless you.
I ve a teenage son even I do take help of my son when needed. I think we must educate our kids also in early age to handle their little things. I did it with my son he is in 10th now n that helped me a lot. Try it 😘 God bless you
Love you mam♥️
Love to watch your vedios
First one to like
You’re beautiful Chhavi, inside out ♥️
Aap MBA Human resource nai ho ki time management ghar me hota hai teh sab company ne use hota hai
Telling is easy. Implementation is difficult. We have to find maid/helper for everything like cooking, doing homework for kids, teaching them and depend on helpers. If we dont find good maid or trustworthy it is again a problem. Whatever we earn we will spend almost by paying salaries to all helpers. Instead we can peacefully stay home and look after our kids. In metro cities with heavy traffic we will be 13 hours outside home. Daily routine abd risky work @ office and pay all income to maids and doctor's. Is this life? It is called hell in my perspective.
Instead of dying so much in competitive 🌎 world and getting all sorts of diseases and spending all income for doctors it is better if women works for 5 to 10 years and quit job and take care of own kids. When we die we won't take money, passion anything. It's all about how tension free we live life. Saving money=earning money. This is what i believe. Simple living, low profile and high thinking
Traffic and travel eats lot of time.
What should be an ideal routine (with time) to be followed according to you?
Pls give your house tour.
Apna house tour dy sou smjh he nie atta kesa ha
Madam tune kabhi kahana bnaya hai kitvhen mein for complete 1 day...never i guess
Jab noker lagey ho to time apneaap set honjata hai
Bachey ke liye bhi nanny hogi damn sure
Fir.kis cheez ki motherhood😂😂
Mam I have twins baby how I can train my baby for potty
Pls speak on English so that non hindi speakers can subscribe too. Tyvm
Bakwas
Nonsense a woman shouldn't be working outside house .Stop your nonsense chhavi
You should motivate chhavi
wtf ur insane