Why Ghosting is Good

Ghosting can leave us frustrated, erode our self- confidence, not to mention lessening our overall faith in humanity. Worst of all, it can leave us convinced that it happens because there is something wrong with us, and there’s nothing we can do about it.
The truth is: GHOSTS EXIST. We all encounter them at some point. The question is: how about instead of being afraid of them, we learn to put on our big-girl panties, our best garlic necklace, and get our juicy, confident, emotionally naked asses back out into the pumpkin patch?
That’s what I’m going to tell you in my latest video: Why Ghosting is Good. That’s right, call off the exorcist (they’re crazy expensive). It’s a good thing. The one thing you can do that is within your control is to change your perspective, and I will explain how you can flip the experience into an empowering one.
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ABOUT LISA SHIELD
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Lisa Shield is a dating and relationship coach and founder of Emotionally Naked Dating®. For the past 16 years, she has helped thousands of singles use the Naked Dating® process to get emotionally naked and attract the love of their dreams. Naked Dating is a metaphor for getting EMOTIONALLY naked and stripping away everything that’s blocking you from having the relationship of your dreams. For more information about Emotionally Naked Dating® or private coaching, please email [e-mail].
After fulfilling her lifelong dream of finding my soulmate, Lisa became a certified life coach so that she could help others find their soulmate. While she understands that not everyone wants to go searching for love, she is committed to helping those who do. Lisa knows that nothing else we do in life can feel as frustrating, confusing, and disheartening as dating or being in a disappointing relationship. But she also knows that love is worth everything we must go through in order to find it.
Through writing, speaking, leading workshops, and one-on-one coaching, Lisa draws on a lifetime of study and personal experience to show you how to create a loving, romantic relationship that can last a lifetime. She empowers her clients by giving them the tools and skills to gain a sense of control over their dating and relationships without playing games, compromising themselves, or settling for less than they really want.
Lisa’s approach is simple but not simplistic. She has participated in many different personal growth programs. Her studies include a Master's in Spiritual Psychology, certification as a life and relationship coach through The Coaches Training Institute, and intensive work with Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements. My training gives me a loving and lasered insight into the challenges my clients face, and it allows me to successfully coach clients from every culture and religious background.

[@l.r.m.514]

I have to say that this was such a powerful teaching and one that I am gaining so much wisdom from...I have seen other videos by psychotherapists and dating coaches who say just ignore the ghost, but that didn't feel right to me. Taking this approach really turned it around for me; I feel empowered now and not shamed or second guessing myself or feeling I have given away my power or my voice. I feel this approach is great for, as Lisa says, calling people on their poor behaviour in the kindest way possible while also asserting our needs and "being the change we want to see in the world." Thank you so much

[@lisashieldlovecoach]

Hi! Thank you so much for your lovely comment. I am thrilled that I was able to turn your perspective on ghosting around. In my experience, when we can approach dating as a spiritual path and find ways to grow from each experience, we become more open-hearted and loving as we date. That way, when we do meet the person we will share our lives with, we will be able to enter that relationship confidently because will have learned how to express our needs, wants, and desires in a kind, loving, and inviting way that will be very attractive to the right man.

[@unmistakably.maggie.]

Love this video, thank you so much for sharing. 😊

[@lisashieldlovecoach]

Maggie!!! Thanks for the feedback and so glad you enjoyed the video!

[@patty9101]

How long should one wait to send that text after being ghosted or ignored? A week? Two weeks? I really like this idea of the closure msg.

[@lisashieldlovecoach]

Hi Patty! It can depend on the situation. If a man had been communicating daily and then disappears, then maybe after two weeks or so? If you know he has a lot going on and didn't call or text a lot in the first place, you may want to give him a little longer to be sure he's not just busy.

[@patty9101]

@@lisashieldlovecoach sound good. Thank you!

[@truthexposed839]

Thanks for the wisdom you share

[@lisashieldlovecoach]

Thanks, Justice! I apologize for not responding to this sooner. I only just now saw the message.

[@lynn1125]

Love your energy~wish you all the success on your field❤️

[@lisashieldlovecoach]

Thank you so much!!