I'm not gonna say that La Dispute kept me from killing myself, or anything like that, but it certainly helped me cope with a ton of issues that I was suppressing. It certainly saved my quality of life.
Absolutley man. This song made me sob when I first heard it. I never thought anyone else would understand, but I never wanted anyone to suffer the same way. So this song is a big mix of emotions for me.
so true...La Dispute and specially this song saved me from going insane....i guess theres no song i cried more to than this one, but in a good way...saved my life too. Thx La Dispute, but i told you anyways after your gig in vienna some years ago
tell me how do you do that, and about cope with your issue... because i think i just comback at the points where i almost dying because lot of issue in my life...
It definitely is a thing. If someones voice doesn't rub you the right way your not going to want to listen. However, for me i felt a little uncomfortable with his voice initially. You need to give this band a few songs. That feeling went from uncomfortable to overwhelmingly amazing in the time of a few songs. The amount of patience people have these days is certainly to account for a lot of that. The gem that this band is, is more than worth the patience. Please Advise!!!
La Dispute seems to speak to the people who have struggled with letting go. "it's never been that easy for me" and hearing that speaks volumes. Means we're not alone.
Same here. I sent this song to a freind yesterday, telling them I only wanted them to hear it because I wouldn't be able to explain my perspective on life without losing my composer. I used to laugh when people said they had a song that defined them (thinking, "how simple are you that, 'I Stand Alone,' by Godsmack defines you)... that is until I heard this song. It was nice knowing someone else feels as I do, but it makes me miserable to know that someone suffers as I do.
never have i ever found a song that describes me inner struggle so well. like holy crap reading these lyrics for the first time ever i felt like crying so bad because all i could do was reflect on myself. pain man.
Jord Yes, but outside influences can help us make that decision. I think at least, as humans we're very impressionable and Amber may believe that this song helped her find what she needed to make her decision to stay alive. My opinion anyways, but the way you view it kinda gives a sense of self strength, like it was her decision to move past what was troubling her. Pretty cool :)
Some people just need to learn not to speak js if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all it is common courtesy but that is a bit much to expect from today's generation of whores and narcissistic sadistic antagonists.
I hate to say anything, but the human race has been this way since the beginning. It's just easier nowadays. Also, I don't understand why you have to label people as "whores" in this commentary. But yeah, it's understandable. People need to stop being people sometimes and keep to themselves. Anyway, I am glad you connect with the song. La Dispute does a good job making music.
Always loved this song but I really sat down with the lyrics recently and it speaks volumes about how I feel. Never have I heard a band that has such emotionally expressive and relatable lyrics. La dispute will always be a favorite.
It took me six years to be able to feel a sense of relief inside that I am past this point of self realization that I was committing the same mistakes just to not let go of the past. Going over with it in my head like a cinema trying to find a every detail from were I went wrong. And couldn't. Let go and finally making the decision to forgive and let go. It's a life changing experience because you see this was effecting friendship, relationships, future plan's & life wasn't what I hope. I can keep going on about it but nothing changes my decision. To just let go & part from it.
"Sorry. I know I seem angry. I'm not. I-I promise. I just know I did this to me and I will deal with it accordingly. And I don't need opinions from those never a part of it."
fuck i cant think of anything to comment all i can really say is that this song sounds exactly like the inside of my head whoever wrote the lyrics out it into words perfectly it’s weirdly comforting in a way
Today I learned, I'm addicted to self defeat. In many forms they haunt me, from lost parents to friendships destroyed, lack of ambition and love of my life turning into the loss of my life. Looking back maybe I never tried at all?
I remember defending la dispute with my life in middle/ high school. I haven’t listened to them in 10 years and I forgot why I liked them so much lmfao
hey my fatal flaws... it is indeed a letter, "i know better than anyone" makes me smile, then frown, then try to send this as a message to those close to me.
His voice is filled with emotion okay. The 'cool'and 'popular' wouldn't understand that quite frankly. All the new singers sing about is sex, smoking, and how rich they are. BAnds such as La Dispute sing about trying to fit in and dealing with struggle and pain, and there are happy songs too, it isn't just about the bad. And if you still don't like his vocals then...I'm sorry suck for you, you are missing out, but you don't need to leave stupid snarky comments for us about how stupid we are.
In this case, the lead singer makes the band; I love his vocals. He isn't trying to hide the emotion through stupid note changes and screaming. And without him, there would be no originality and definitely none of these amazing lyrics.
i really dislike people who have never shut them self out from the social world (friends, family and others.) who thinks being shut out from the world from 1 week knows how it feels to be some one who is struggeling with soscial abillities or have given up on the social life because its to hard for them to face their friends cuz they have shut themselves in for so long that they think they have no longer friends because its been so long. it just makes it harder and harder over time because only you can help yourself out of the situation, if you already lost the will power / stopped wanting to go outside like me. because you feel like people are judging the way you live u get frustrated mad at yourself and depressed. "this describes me right now." chanses are that u never felt this way you are just seeking attention. being shut in isnt something you do for a week, its a bad habbit that makes you feel bad about urself that makes you feel less of yourself then what you really are. and having all people pointing out your problems isnt helping it makes you feel worse then you originally did before meeting those people, we know our problems thats why we came to get help we dont need you to shove it in our faces. So to all you bimbos out there who never actually feelt this kind of thing and still saying "this is me right now." please fuck off, its not something you can have at a time and then 1 week later go to your friends and everyone else you know like it was nothing. its something that you get and keeps growing til u have problems getting back out there.
Kristian Sensei You've made me so fucking angry. You think someone saying they relate instantly makes them a "bimbo" like you know their fucking life? Like you know what they go through? Like you're that fucking selfish you think you're the only one who fucking matters. You're fucked in the head is what you are.
I'm not gonna say that La Dispute kept me from killing myself, or anything like that, but it certainly helped me cope with a ton of issues that I was suppressing. It certainly saved my quality of life.
100%. Me too.
Absolutley man. This song made me sob when I first heard it. I never thought anyone else would understand, but I never wanted anyone to suffer the same way. So this song is a big mix of emotions for me.
so true...La Dispute and specially this song saved me from going insane....i guess theres no song i cried more to than this one, but in a good way...saved my life too. Thx La Dispute, but i told you anyways after your gig in vienna some years ago
tell me how do you do that, and about cope with your issue... because i think i just comback at the points where i almost dying because lot of issue in my life...
I hate when people say that they don't like the band just because they don't like his voice. I love his voice, it's filled with so much emotion.
It definitely is a thing. If someones voice doesn't rub you the right way your not going to want to listen. However, for me i felt a little uncomfortable with his voice initially. You need to give this band a few songs. That feeling went from uncomfortable to overwhelmingly amazing in the time of a few songs. The amount of patience people have these days is certainly to account for a lot of that. The gem that this band is, is more than worth the patience. Please Advise!!!
his voice is the reason why i first started listening to them, i fucking love how raw and full of emotion it is
This guy doesn't just scream and sing.
He speaks poetry. I'm impressed I love all the songs so far
La Dispute seems to speak to the people who have struggled with letting go. "it's never been that easy for me" and hearing that speaks volumes. Means we're not alone.
These are the words that will remain unsaid by me.
Oh
Same here. I sent this song to a freind yesterday, telling them I only wanted them to hear it because I wouldn't be able to explain my perspective on life without losing my composer. I used to laugh when people said they had a song that defined them (thinking, "how simple are you that, 'I Stand Alone,' by Godsmack defines you)... that is until I heard this song. It was nice knowing someone else feels as I do, but it makes me miserable to know that someone suffers as I do.
2021 almost ending & this song still has spoken my heart for a million years
Never has song described me as much as this song does
never have i ever found a song that describes me inner struggle so well. like holy crap reading these lyrics for the first time ever i felt like crying so bad because all i could do was reflect on myself. pain man.
This song just saved my life, literally.
no it didn't
We as humans, decide if we live or die. (unless it's an accident) You can't put your hope into things "Saving your life" :)
Jord Yes, but outside influences can help us make that decision. I think at least, as humans we're very impressionable and Amber may believe that this song helped her find what she needed to make her decision to stay alive. My opinion anyways, but the way you view it kinda gives a sense of self strength, like it was her decision to move past what was troubling her. Pretty cool :)
Some people just need to learn not to speak js if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all it is common courtesy but that is a bit much to expect from today's generation of whores and narcissistic sadistic antagonists.
I hate to say anything, but the human race has been this way since the beginning. It's just easier nowadays. Also, I don't understand why you have to label people as "whores" in this commentary. But yeah, it's understandable. People need to stop being people sometimes and keep to themselves.
Anyway, I am glad you connect with the song. La Dispute does a good job making music.
I never get tired of this..accurate
I've had this song in my playlist for months but I only just paid attention to the lyrics and they made me cry like a baby
This song seems to slow everything down and make me have a temporary sense of something that I can't express with words..
Always loved this song but I really sat down with the lyrics recently and it speaks volumes about how I feel. Never have I heard a band that has such emotionally expressive and relatable lyrics. La dispute will always be a favorite.
It took me six years to be able to feel a sense of relief inside that I am past this point of self realization that I was committing the same mistakes just to not let go of the past. Going over with it in my head like a cinema trying to find a every detail from were I went wrong. And couldn't. Let go and finally making the decision to forgive and let go. It's a life changing experience because you see this was effecting friendship, relationships, future plan's & life wasn't what I hope.
I can keep going on about it but nothing changes my decision. To just let go & part from it.
I can't stop listning to it, poetry.
Emotion is to be released. The worst thing you could do is hold it in, because it will come back stronger, or take you over through bitterness.
This song reminds me of how broken I really am. No matter how aware. Nothing changes. Nothing will.
and it is my fault... those lyrics are like perfectly describing my mood lately. :)
thanks, great to see the lyrics, love this band's honesty and passion
This is just my favorite song from them I just love rainy nights blasting this song screaming the lyrics on my short drive home from work
He explained myself better than i ever could
Your video looks so good, great work !
Sesh. Great song by La Dispute
It's La Dispute, or you love them or you hate them.
(I'm totally in love with them)
this is one of the coolest songs ive ever heard
This one always hits the hardest
this is the best song ive ever heard
Powerful lyrics 😭
This band is good. So much emotions.
This song makes me feel like I’m not so alone after all
Game over, thanks for pushing it... :(
“but just forgetting never really made sense to me”
Holy fucking shit this is hitting hard right now
I'm bipolar,realizing this song hits...right stuff to scream it out to that one!
Fucking bipolar sucks ;(
"Sorry. I know I seem angry. I'm not. I-I promise. I just know I did this to me and I will deal with it accordingly. And I don't need opinions from those never a part of it."
fuck i cant think of anything to comment all i can really say is that this song sounds exactly like the inside of my head whoever wrote the lyrics out it into words perfectly it’s weirdly comforting in a way
Today I learned, I'm addicted to self defeat. In many forms they haunt me, from lost parents to friendships destroyed, lack of ambition and love of my life turning into the loss of my life.
Looking back maybe I never tried at all?
I'm here w you
I wish TH-cam had a care react. I can't even imagine your journey.
This song is me right here.
I remember defending la dispute with my life in middle/ high school. I haven’t listened to them in 10 years and I forgot why I liked them so much lmfao
My comfort song for 10 years now
... & I am not the only one. Thank you!
La Dispute eine meiner Lieblingsbands
they are amazing
Just found this song by them. It's perfect
these last few lines ...
hey my fatal flaws... it is indeed a letter, "i know better than anyone" makes me smile, then frown, then try to send this as a message to those close to me.
Don't know where I'm going, don't know where I'm heading all I know is one thing and that's I need you
I hate when people only like or dislike bands based entirely on the lead singer.
Thank you for understanding the way no one else does.
bones anyone?
.sesh.
Ok
The TV show???
@@theecarking lmfao hahaha
//sesh//
Not here fam
seshtillirest
BONES
jj clm thorns
This song is my story right here.
This is my life
Don't need them pointing out my problems, they're mine
Don't need reminders, I know better than anyone
amazing voice :)
exactly how all i feel.
I really like this song a lot. Can someone explain to me what this song means? It would really be appreciated.
DefinitelynotaSnake the way i take it its kinda like the mind of someone with depression
wil wheaton in the pic
hahahahahahaha
Wow...
every single word.
His voice is filled with emotion okay.
The 'cool'and 'popular' wouldn't understand that quite frankly. All the new singers sing about is sex, smoking, and how rich they are. BAnds such as La Dispute sing about trying to fit in and dealing with struggle and pain, and there are happy songs too, it isn't just about the bad. And if you still don't like his vocals then...I'm sorry suck for you, you are missing out, but you don't need to leave stupid snarky comments for us about how stupid we are.
sesh
Dont need them pointing out my problems, they're MINE
In this case, the lead singer makes the band; I love his vocals. He isn't trying to hide the emotion through stupid note changes and screaming. And without him, there would be no originality and definitely none of these amazing lyrics.
Ile say it again I've said it before la dispute killz me Everytime
i really dislike people who have never shut them self out from the social world (friends, family and others.) who thinks being shut out from the world from 1 week knows how it feels to be some one who is struggeling with soscial abillities or have given up on the social life because its to hard for them to face their friends cuz they have shut themselves in for so long that they think they have no longer friends because its been so long. it just makes it harder and harder over time because only you can help yourself out of the situation, if you already lost the will power / stopped wanting to go outside like me. because you feel like people are judging the way you live u get frustrated mad at yourself and depressed. "this describes me right now."
chanses are that u never felt this way you are just seeking attention. being shut in isnt something you do for a week, its a bad habbit that makes you feel bad about urself that makes you feel less of yourself then what you really are. and having all people pointing out your problems isnt helping it makes you feel worse then you originally did before meeting those people, we know our problems thats why we came to get help we dont need you to shove it in our faces.
So to all you bimbos out there who never actually feelt this kind of thing and still saying "this is me right now." please fuck off, its not something you can have at a time and then 1 week later go to your friends and everyone else you know like it was nothing. its something that you get and keeps growing til u have problems getting back out there.
I love this. Thank you for writing it.
Kristian Sensei beautiful;)
Kristian Sensei You've made me so fucking angry. You think someone saying they relate instantly makes them a "bimbo" like you know their fucking life? Like you know what they go through? Like you're that fucking selfish you think you're the only one who fucking matters. You're fucked in the head is what you are.
Kristian Sensei r/gatekeeping
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Murk Status!
Im like a beach ball .... Fat and can easily be deflated......and people love to hit me around.
Anybody feel like an object instead of a person?
Angela Bunny lover and raccoon enthusiast Scofield Do you Eva feel, like a plastic bag, driftin thru da wind, wanting ta start again
Dont even need the lyrics here in 2020
SESH
What does sesh mean?
Jordan Ransome it’s a music collective created by Bones, he sampled this song in his track “thorns”.
he is a poet. Not a singer. Like mewithoutyou, he doesn't really sing. His passion makes up for any lack of talent.
Still, King Park remains my favorite of all
That almost goes without saying. It’s their best song.
@Zackery Daley Well he is talentless, I'll give you that.
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Lol ur mad
who
Exactly how I feel now
SESH
SESH