Why Younger Men Love Older Women Part 1

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  • @neodsenar178
    @neodsenar178 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +362

    MY wife is 9 years older than me.. i really thank God for sending me that wonderful woman.. now were 9years married and have 2 lovable kids.

    • @studywell2421
      @studywell2421 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Wow sir, you gave me hope, one guy loves me 8 years younger to me, we share respects, care, humour, laughter, and protection, love between us.. God bless us together👫 ❤❤

    • @ChefFabu
      @ChefFabu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@studywell2421omg you two have given me hope 🤯😎

    • @kathybritt8239
      @kathybritt8239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I married someone 8 years younger than I am and in the past I wouldn’t even date a man my age thinking that was too young . Funny thing is my husband wouldn’t tell me his age took him 2 months it was his birthday and when he told me it was too late I was falling for him 😂❤ he told me if I had told you my age I knew you wouldn’t have given me a shot .I knew he was younger just didn’t know how much younger

    • @neodsenar178
      @neodsenar178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      i want to mention too, that im only 19 when i met her..🥰 now im 31

    • @AZheatherrr
      @AZheatherrr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What do you mean she was 9 years older? You made it sound like she died 😳 if she’s still alive I’m pretty sure she IS 9 yrs older, not WAS 9 yrs older… 😅

  • @deedeesheppard2202
    @deedeesheppard2202 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +207

    Definitely my husband is 13 years younger than me and we've been married 30 years. We have a good relationship with each other.

    • @childofgodtv3903
      @childofgodtv3903 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😮😮😮😮😮

    • @aeptacon
      @aeptacon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      advice please 😫. How old was he when you both met or got together? Up until last year I would have refused to date anyone younger than me than 2 years. Now I feel like that might be my only option- going younger because the clock is ticking and everyone older than me is already married.

    • @deedeesheppard2202
      @deedeesheppard2202 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @aeptacon he was 26 and I was 38 still going strong. We just celebrated our 31 year anniversary ❤️. He's a very good person.

    • @akatv3864
      @akatv3864 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow 😮❤❤❤ that's pure love and care

  • @mykia2018
    @mykia2018 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I am 69, and he is 57. I am 12 yrs his senior. We have been together for 5 yrs. We are crazy in love with each other. He was tired of the games younger women were playing, not being loyal, and drama. We literally compliment each other. I ran from him in the beginning, but he chased me and he got his prize!!

    • @xtrm2009
      @xtrm2009 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      there's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.

  • @litamorena8524
    @litamorena8524 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I’m 37 my husband is 28 we have been together for 5 years still great we have a beautiful daughter she’s 1 his a good stepdad to my other 2 kids and my 3 dogs he is the provider I help if I want to but he really does take care of everything I love him

    • @homeishygge
      @homeishygge 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here!!! I'm 40 now and hes 31. Met him when he was 22 and he got me pregnant by accident. Almost 10 years later- here we are- marital bliss :)
      He raised my 2 older kids and our daughter is 8 now. My husband is the same as how you described yours!! Go mama cougers- go! Go! ;)

    • @user-ks5oh3mb6c
      @user-ks5oh3mb6c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so beautiful like a flower are you single

    • @margaritakleinman5701
      @margaritakleinman5701 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@homeishyggeThank you!

  • @pralinechocolates1
    @pralinechocolates1 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Neither of us have children. I am 50 and he is 27, we are marrying the end of 2023. After 6mths he proposed and i am so happy!!

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy for you!

    • @trinityp8575
      @trinityp8575 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, are you not insecure even a little bit?

    • @mariletaastra1806
      @mariletaastra1806 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you, you are giving me a lot of courage. You see my man is 23 and I am 52 we are so much in love but I was scared to move on with him, now i am relieved ❤

    • @margaritakleinman5701
      @margaritakleinman5701 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@mariletaastra1806Age means nothing if there's a real connection and love!

  • @elizabethmcclung1962
    @elizabethmcclung1962 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Finally, an advantage for us not-so-young-anymore ladies. Older men go after the young things, why can't we?

    • @nathand.384
      @nathand.384 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Preach

    • @zek280
      @zek280 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Factual

    • @juliehernandez80
      @juliehernandez80 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Age is an energy, not who we are.

    • @margaritakleinman5701
      @margaritakleinman5701 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@juliehernandez80Exactly!

  • @s.d.7902
    @s.d.7902 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Older women are more experienced
    in life, matured, know the nuances
    of ups and downs of life and can give
    an authentic relationship💏

  • @jewelsjewels3655
    @jewelsjewels3655 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    I have definitely been approached a lot more by guys 5 to 10 years younger than me. I actually now prefer them, they are a lot of fun.

    • @MT-uf8xh
      @MT-uf8xh ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They stand at attention at least... lol

    • @caringslowly8016
      @caringslowly8016 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha dislike frome God's judges mental you bad attedude your bring allways many forever person many.person not like attedude over many hestory your life? Not perfect your life not perfect your family not control life?

    • @kalyugon
      @kalyugon ปีที่แล้ว

      U no where look

    • @terrencewalker1982
      @terrencewalker1982 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      My friend is 41 same age as me is married to her husband that is 24.

    • @Rob_uno
      @Rob_uno 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cause we want to hit duh lol

  • @sabbirahmedsumon3678
    @sabbirahmedsumon3678 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Modern women lost their generosity but older women of 90s still have it.

    • @ProudIndies
      @ProudIndies 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well said

  • @chottabeamm
    @chottabeamm ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I always dated younger girls in the past, never worked, always ended up getting cheated on somehow. but my current gf is older than me. she's a keeper, drastically brings more maturity, comfort, and trust me significantly more than my past exs

    • @anmazool725
      @anmazool725 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Some bro I also like older woman Iam 24 but attracted to 30-40 woman they are good listeners and more mature and hot men

    • @shreyana_
      @shreyana_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then who's gonna date us 😭

    • @dsstudio76
      @dsstudio76 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shreyana_❤

    • @katk8386
      @katk8386 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@shreyana_younger guys 😅😅

    • @aeptacon
      @aeptacon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @katk8386💀

  • @Scarcheeze
    @Scarcheeze ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I like older woman, because they are matured and real to their selves.

  • @jordanhill5238
    @jordanhill5238 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My wife is 21 years older than me
    We been together for 9 years
    It's nice to have a woman who doesn't play games
    Mature conversations
    And less bullshit

  • @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995
    @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Younger men are where it’s at man. 😊

  • @maryjanewesterlund9958
    @maryjanewesterlund9958 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    100% … yep. No drama - no games - be real - it’s comfortable and feels great.

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mary you look very charming :)

    • @Rob_uno
      @Rob_uno 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cause we can hit and leave no drama we love it

  • @Sigmalennycareers
    @Sigmalennycareers ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Thank god!! Someone is talking about this. I only date older because of this reason with better communication and enjoyment!

  • @milenajovanov3996
    @milenajovanov3996 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Thank you most older women are more confident and they will not pressure them for anything also 💎

  • @Gomba13
    @Gomba13 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    It’s really simple. Dating is broken since the internet went mainstream, and guys are realizing that women who grew up in the pre-internet or early internet eras just treat men better.
    For example, mature women don’t go for the bad boy, so good guys don’t get brushed off. Mature women actually care about building a relationship rather than about following stupid dating trends. We don’t care much for superficial values like money and looks, we want our men to be caring, kind and willing to work on relationships.
    Both young women and young men experience either a lot of rejection or a lot of relationship trauma nowadays because the internet feeds them impossible and toxic dating and relationship standards. So both are attracted to older partners because they just want to be treated well. It’s not so much about age as it is about generational gaps.

  • @msaylonna
    @msaylonna ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Just married a man 20 years younger than me. And it's working.

    • @michellemutty-fe9nk
      @michellemutty-fe9nk ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Congratulations! My husband is 27 years younger than me and he is amazing!

    • @chrisperez5914
      @chrisperez5914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      i’ve been with my hopefully future wifey she is 12 years older than me and omg she is sooo amazing small town girl never even been to a bar/nightclub not judging her past i just don’t like lib wrecks she is sooo amazing sexy and beautiful woman I love her Monica Acuña XO going on one year and it’s GReAT!!! let’s get married gonna propose to her after we hit one year next month

    • @nv_chino
      @nv_chino 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hope y’all stay together

    • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
      @BillyTimes-dw7vs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Give it time not jixing you but I seen it Crack many times enjoy it now nothing last forever especially love.

    • @Supxrcharged
      @Supxrcharged 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@BillyTimes-dw7vsnot true

  • @ZoraidaRodriguez-zn8sg
    @ZoraidaRodriguez-zn8sg ปีที่แล้ว +112

    This is not happening "right now", it has always happened! My uncle married his wife twenty years younger, they had three kidd, he never had eyes for another woman.....finally he took care of her until she passed! They were one of a kind couple...

  • @AshleySpeaks4U
    @AshleySpeaks4U 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    EXACTLY! No games, no drama. I am 48, post-menopause, own my own home and car, and financially secure. We have had our heads messed with, and SO over it. We don't have "baggage"-we have relationship WISDOM, okay? 😉

    • @mateen1004
      @mateen1004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      wow. Thats awsome. I have done masters and have my job already. are you currently single. asking for research purposes only ;)

    • @MarinaHohmann-v9d
      @MarinaHohmann-v9d หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@mateen1004😅😅😅😅🎉👍❤

    • @mateen1004
      @mateen1004 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MarinaHohmann-v9d ☺️

    • @mateen1004
      @mateen1004 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MarinaHohmann-v9d i am still single lol.😅 are you looking for someone? i am currently in germany

    • @mateen1004
      @mateen1004 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MarinaHohmann-v9d hey how are you doin

  • @lixie3672
    @lixie3672 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    If young girls can be attracted to older guys then young guys can also be attracted to older girls.
    Also because at some point you eventually get tired of immaturity of a young person. This goes both ways

    • @Melanie____
      @Melanie____ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Or you just realise your looking for love companionship and a connection not a number

  • @tracybland2649
    @tracybland2649 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    This is new to me. My guy is 35 I'm 59. We're having fun. We're making this work we both want this.

    • @YellowFlowerofTexas
      @YellowFlowerofTexas 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Now I do t feel bad I'm 54 he is 30, thanks for sharing

    • @TheNakedeyes78
      @TheNakedeyes78 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m 45 he is 30 ❤😊

  • @missmimi6817
    @missmimi6817 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    It's not a new trend ppl. It's just more in the open nowadays. I am 53 and younger men have been my thing since I was younger. The relationship won't necesarily last or workout in a long term but it gives us vitality, energy and makes us feel confident. Old men have been doing it forever so now it's our turn 🤗

    • @patriciacroom5355
      @patriciacroom5355 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It could last 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      My moms friends husband of 20 years is 20 years younger and they look same age

    • @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
      @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So it’s about ego for you?

    • @pluviophile1988
      @pluviophile1988 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot no its about life experiences and the fact that that chapter doesn't have to be closed yet and you can still have it

    • @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
      @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@pluviophile1988 I hv no problem with the fact that older women can be with younger men. My problem was that her reason for doing so was born out of a dumb egotistical mindset. It’s obvious when she says it “makes her feel confident” that it means she is all giddy when younger men find her “attractive” despite her age. It’s pathetic narcissism.
      And the fact that she does not realize the reason why the relationships don’t last is because the men she gets involved with are only using her for sex also establishes the fact that she is either not that smart or not that moral. Anyway, maybe she attracts what she is.

  • @PamPooh1111
    @PamPooh1111 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I’m 42 and I attract men 20 years younger simply because I look young and have a baby face so they assume I’m in my mid 20s 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @rosezful5241
      @rosezful5241 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Look at the types that go for you. You think it’s your looks but honey, it’s not that you look young and pretty. You look easy and you are not wife material. That’s why your ex is with a classier lady now.

    • @Stasunger
      @Stasunger 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I am the same. I look like 20 something and men that age are attracted.

    • @Its_zoey25
      @Its_zoey25 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Just say you’re a cougar and leave it at that 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @purity4all
      @purity4all 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was the same way, but younger men were never my thing. So immature. I always just thought of them as kids. Now I’m in my 50s and have boys in their mid 29s and still occasionally get hit on by guys that age. It gives me the ick every time. Just gross!

    • @drleo6409
      @drleo6409 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I have the same problem. Over 60 and women think I am in my 40s . Thankfully my wife is 16 years younger.
      I started driving when I was 16 . Police would pull me over to check my license. That was a pain but now, well you know how it is.

  • @Maria-0017
    @Maria-0017 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    So true, I also think they know a lot of older women (like myself) have more traditional values, and not out in clubs so much getting drunk etc!

    • @SKOLAH
      @SKOLAH ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What?
      Speak for yourself.
      ✌😁

    • @Defaze
      @Defaze ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's true

    • @SilkyBrown
      @SilkyBrown ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never been to bar or nightclub so..and I'm 36

    • @Defaze
      @Defaze ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Silky Brown same here, lol. Well, I'm 37, but still, I don't club nor never been to a bar.

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maria, you look stunning :) Are you single maybe?

  • @HoneyBadger938
    @HoneyBadger938 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Or 30 yrs. Lol we've been totally connected and never argue, always have fun, laughing and smiling for almost 6 months now. I'm 52, he's 22. 😊 Ya just never know.

  • @vwright4792
    @vwright4792 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    After a history of dating older, it was really refreshing and fun to date someone younger.

    • @ginazamora8813
      @ginazamora8813 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why did you get tired of older woman?

    • @carlel121
      @carlel121 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ginazamora8813I think she is a women

  • @mariopantoja8259
    @mariopantoja8259 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    older women look good right now

    • @Go.Bex.
      @Go.Bex. ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Right! Today's women in their 50s dont look like The Golden Girls from the 80s

    • @ancientmage2669
      @ancientmage2669 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      We take care of ourselves

    • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
      @BillyTimes-dw7vs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​ @Go.Bex. some still do but still old under the hood. And every older women will have her moment to pause ( menopause is MF )

    • @Go.Bex.
      @Go.Bex. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@BillyTimes-dw7vs sorry, you lost me at "their"

    • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
      @BillyTimes-dw7vs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Go.Bex. stay lost then

  • @ma.diniainducil2131
    @ma.diniainducil2131 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Older women tend to be lot less games.❤

  • @TheLuxeTraveler702
    @TheLuxeTraveler702 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I guess my future husband hasn't been born yet cause all I attract are older men 😂😂😂

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You look stunning and you do attract younger men :) Hope we can maybe chat?

    • @mosthated.e.2422
      @mosthated.e.2422 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I know this a joke and all but imagine if a dude said this

    • @user-ks5oh3mb6c
      @user-ks5oh3mb6c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so beautiful like a flower are you single

    • @Alexandrite7
      @Alexandrite7 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂 You look beautiful, so I'm surprised young men aren't chasing you down.

  • @magykmariposa9706
    @magykmariposa9706 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I'm a woman in my 40s and many men in their 30s are attracted to me. Yes it's true, we know what we want and what we don't want and we are done with playing games. The problem with these young men is that they are breadcrumbing us and guess what?...I don't eat breadcrumbs.

    • @sunnycookie1584
      @sunnycookie1584 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you hit the hammer on the nail you are so right don't think you going to throw me a bone whenever you want to while you think you getting all the good good all you want and then probably sneaking around when you leave

    • @snjezanaspahija249
      @snjezanaspahija249 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are cute,no crumbs,you are not bird,so cheeky,that's true about man

    • @Alex861697
      @Alex861697 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are one funny joker lady

    • @PShah-s3e
      @PShah-s3e ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True youngen men have forever time to take interest and think of getting settle so they just keep older women in dilemma of are they serious or not for them

    • @carlel121
      @carlel121 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all of them, my sister always dated younger, for at least 10 to 13 years younger, because she also looks young, they never breadcrumbs to her, all the opposite! they wanted to be with her 24/7, she is the one who needed space. 😅

  • @trinityp8575
    @trinityp8575 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    It’s not a trend. It just happens. When love hits you don’t ask yourself why. It’s not domain of logic.

    • @Gomba13
      @Gomba13 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love and dating are not the same. There is no point loving someone you are not compatible with. Maybe love just happens but relationships don’t just happen.

  • @Nastjonaslastjona
    @Nastjonaslastjona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Right now , Im completely shattered and devastated , that my 20 years younger husband of 3 years broke up with me, revealing so much negative stuff about me , when in fact there were no real red flags, that Im shocked so deeply, he basically said that all the words were just words and that he just got bored… and he in the beginning was saying the same stuff as the guy in the video

    • @aeptacon
      @aeptacon 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      how are you now?

  • @mspenny6162
    @mspenny6162 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    So true. I’m 56 and my new guy is a 26 yr old personal trainer who will be, very soon turning, 27 in a few days. He’s very focused and discipline and purpose goal driven. I’m just in awe of his old soul and commitment to succeed as a future entrepreneur in the world of owning a gym and his path to showing the world his version of living a healthy lifestyle for your heart, body and inner soul. ❤

    • @lindahawdon945
      @lindahawdon945 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mines a hard working mechanic I'm not working so the theory of younger men wanting older women for money is way out the window is it too hard for people to believe someone can love an older woman a d not want anything

    • @lindahawdon945
      @lindahawdon945 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so happy for you

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ms Nylee, are you still together?

    • @Zabraihmuimeto
      @Zabraihmuimeto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wish you best for you and your partner!

    • @Eva-cj8pq
      @Eva-cj8pq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @mspenny6162.. girl handle your man!👏🏾👏🏾 go ahead with that stud! Age has always been just a number for me, bc I have met some mature , bout their business 20 year olds( & that was in the 90’s) I have always dated them & even married my husband , who was 28 ; me: 41). We were compatible for 16 yrs. Now I’m 62 and want to try one more time ….its all in Gods hands. 🙏🏾

  • @HS-bu6wo
    @HS-bu6wo หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I dated a lot of older men when I was younger, but once I got into my mid 30s, I've gravitated toward younger men. I really enjoy seeing how they step up and lead despite the age gap. I look young and feel very young at heart.

  • @EtherealStar1
    @EtherealStar1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Older women are more mature, emotionally intelligent, no game playing, they’re a lot more financially stable, they know what they want and they’ll bring you peace ❤

  • @veraaburn5470
    @veraaburn5470 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    My boyfriend is 25 years younger than me.

  • @kristinej.4182
    @kristinej.4182 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Excellent point! I see this going around a lot lately and I have experienced it too actually. My BF is younger than me by chance and we get along really well. Also I think some men want to date women who are more financially stable too so they don’t end up having to support their girlfriends.

  • @alannalc
    @alannalc ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I don't really think this is new, but I appreciate you speaking on it nonetheless.

  • @gabepetro358
    @gabepetro358 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This has been a thing. Young men have always been attracted to me. And I knew this is why. However,. I am not attracted to younger men. I dated a younger man one time and he was jealous and insecure. I don't like drama. Men take a long time to mature. I am not jealous or insecure by nature and that bothers a lot of people. Never settle people. Be good with yourself and I promise everything else will fall into place. Trust that.

    • @flamingpieherman9822
      @flamingpieherman9822 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have the same issue I'm 55. And I always tend to attract men from 26 to 35. Ironically I would like someone my age. But I don't attract them I only attract the younger guys.

    • @vivaeuropa
      @vivaeuropa ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is such a generalizing comment. Men and women have mindsets and some stay in a 15 year old's mindset all their lives while others don't. Would you say some 20 year old guy/women focusing on their career is less mature than the 30 year olds partying every weekend at the bar. Immature people take a long time to mature but others have a disciplined mindset young and shouldn't be put in a false box.

    • @ashu__pradhaan_
      @ashu__pradhaan_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats how that meme was made .. women☕
      😂😂😂

    • @edwardfrazier180
      @edwardfrazier180 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​ love does not care about age, I never see you before but I'm sure you may be beautiful and sexy I'm sure, it may be the reason why you got atrackted by young men.

    • @cristopher7019
      @cristopher7019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am 19 years old i love girls who are older than me they are matured and i can have a good conversation with them... but my scociety see that as a shameful thing i live in india and my state is kerala

  • @PiaSet
    @PiaSet ปีที่แล้ว +104

    So true! I have been pursued quite seriously by men 10 years younger. And I wasn’t even looking.

    • @lindahawdon945
      @lindahawdon945 ปีที่แล้ว

      You been persuede but are you with a foreign man or woman

    • @PiaSet
      @PiaSet ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lindahawdon945 Mostly European men in their thirties

    • @Alex861697
      @Alex861697 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

  • @patricksharp5448
    @patricksharp5448 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Exactly right! Older woman don’t want to fuck around with games!! As long as you are straight up!!

  • @thilannguyen9217
    @thilannguyen9217 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love has had no age limit!
    There has never been any teaching that young to love young, and can not loving older
    Love comes from heart

  • @karenhelm3978
    @karenhelm3978 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    You totally have my full attention on this …. My guy is several years younger …

  • @satsukiyatouji4720
    @satsukiyatouji4720 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I never played with feeling and hearts... cause I don't want to mess up other people.
    I'm 37 and looking like 22-24 years old. No joke. No smoking, no party, no alcohol, no break ups and you will look great.
    I'm now in my second relationship with a 7 years younger man and I'm his first girlfriend. We are simply a perfect match.
    Classic we run into each other on the street standing in line in front of a bakery.
    No apps involved.

    • @janetpridsoc1555
      @janetpridsoc1555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      how are you in your second relationship if you've had no break ups?

  • @stacy6416
    @stacy6416 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Very true! My boyfriend is 6 years younger then I am and it’s for that reason of being more sure of what I want.

  • @LoganStyles21
    @LoganStyles21 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That's the problem right there with all them relationship coaches teaching each gender how to play the damn games. Never used to be that way. If I have to play hard to get or pull back or ignore etc it's not worth it to me. Just be honest and straight forward why hide if you have feelings or hide ur feelings or interest. It's stupid and it won't work in the long run

  • @sandraaaa6486
    @sandraaaa6486 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And 30+ years older as is the case with me and my bf!! Yes we are both adults - met a year ago, started dating on Feb. 14th 2024 💘💝😍 p.s. he won’t let me pay for anything either! He’s one of a kind - we feel like true soulmates and feel like we’ve had past lives together. I learned my lessons in this life waited for him to be born and grow up and now together finally ❤❤❤❤ Age is only a number!!!

  • @user-pk5pl7ox1e
    @user-pk5pl7ox1e ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I also noticed this trend and wondered why. Older guys want younger women. Younger guys want older women = Puuuurfect as long as the polarity of masculine and feminine still stays and not the woman over powering the guy just because older. Let him be the man

    • @savevsdeath
      @savevsdeath ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am 40 and my woman is 50. I am most definitely the man in our relationship and she makes damn sure to act accordingly. Never felt so respected, needed and wanted in a relationship in my life.

    • @radioog6945
      @radioog6945 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@savevsdeath omg I love this

  • @ndjubilant8391
    @ndjubilant8391 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Young women foolishly don't appreciate men, they think they don't need a marriage. Sorry to be so blunt. Happily married almost ten years, he's almost 13 years younger. I certainly played no games with him.

  • @klararotik5356
    @klararotik5356 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Celebrate us older women !!!!! YES

  • @acuraledgend9648
    @acuraledgend9648 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sheeeit theres nothing like a older woman...the maturity is so dope dont have to bullshit and fight for attention ....dated a 50+ when i was n my latter 20's best experience ever ...and bedroom time was amazing 😅😅😅😅😅 words cant explain ...had me by 23 yrs and the connection was genwine ...

  • @brendaayers3239
    @brendaayers3239 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yep! My bf is 20 years younger than me! And the best relationship I've ever been in!!!!

    • @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
      @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why is it that when men do this they are seen as “manipulators” and “controllers” but for women it’s romantic?

  • @sandicmxr
    @sandicmxr ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My brother in law knew since he already had some kids that helping to raise hers was fine with him and he knew what he got. She doesn't play games and he does what he wants all the while respecting what she's okay with and not okay with. 10 year difference 35 years together.
    I've always liked older men for the same reason. Guys my age liked to play games. I knew what I got and was happy with it. 13 year difference 32 years together.

  • @cosettastramaccioni752
    @cosettastramaccioni752 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Older women ❤❤❤

  • @gssflitdept7839
    @gssflitdept7839 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been avoiding relationships,minding my own damn business..I entered the club as a cougar! YOUNG MEN make it fun and enjoyable,now I purred over mine.❤

  • @denisebranchcomb7811
    @denisebranchcomb7811 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My man is 18 years younger l know he will grow out of the relationship so l enjoy the relationship until then we get along great other people got a problem
    With it that they business we on different levels but we level it out been 24 years

    • @designhub360customapparel
      @designhub360customapparel ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You been together 24 years?

    • @denisebranchcomb7811
      @denisebranchcomb7811 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes 24 years we still have issues we always took care of each he has two
      I had two jobs now l have one job taking care of my mother we still support each other ❤️ he very special
      To me if it ever ends l will be grateful
      For the love and bond we share l will always love him if lam with him or not
      I wish the best for me and him

    • @piak78
      @piak78 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It doesnt have to end. Dont give your love a death sentence.

  • @veekshams
    @veekshams 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My boyfriend is like 3 years younger than me. We were friends since we were in school. He was in elementary school and I was in middle school when we met. He was actually my friend's brother. We met at my friend's birthday party. And have been in touch since then.

  • @AndulairahOfEarth
    @AndulairahOfEarth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im a woman in my 40's and still attract men 20 years younger. I think they're attracted to perhaps the 'life experience', less games & drama, and 40+ year old women seem to be a lot more confident & carefree.

  • @jasonbullock2816
    @jasonbullock2816 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I like older woman because there not as woke or pc as younger one. And thay are sensible and nicer 😊😂

  • @arnoldguisa4155
    @arnoldguisa4155 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Based on my experience is that more older women like younger men because of the sex of course and men around their age can’t keep up, also because of what capable they are since they’re young, it’s ok we’re all adults and not 9 year olds 👌

    • @Butterflyyyy9
      @Butterflyyyy9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And don't forget dating a younger men makes us feel much younger and free 😊🦋💕

  • @avonbelle
    @avonbelle 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm 35, I have a guy who is 33 and interested in me, and a guy who is 25 and interested in me. Who am I in an amazing relationship with? The 25 year old. Zero games, intelligent conversation and he is SO thoughtful and supportive. Probably the best relationship I've ever had, honestly.

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for sharing!

  • @XBCoolz
    @XBCoolz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think there's something special about the dynamics.

  • @DJDRollin
    @DJDRollin ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm telling you right now women in their 20's and 30's are going to miss out if they don't get it together, I'm 38 dating someone 48 best thing I could've ever done, women in their 40's just know what they want, it use to be mostly women in their 20's who didn't know what they want and are easily influenced by social media, but now women in their early and mid 30's even act like the women in their 20's,

    • @Butterflyyyy9
      @Butterflyyyy9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. Thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @kawaiipie5475
      @kawaiipie5475 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would a almost 40 something year old man be dating 20 year olds. When they're barely starting their life, fucking stupid logic!

    • @ExoBau
      @ExoBau ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's do true! I'm 32 and my boyfriend is 25. He told me he got attracted to me because I knew exactly what I wanted in life and I was confident in myself. Also we both were interested in a serious relationship and we had chemistry right away after our first talk.

    • @Maggiebenjee
      @Maggiebenjee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why can't men ever talk about women without pitting them against each other???

    • @kimberly6243
      @kimberly6243 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I disagree, Im 41, been with my partner for a couple years happily. But, direct that narrative at males sir. Women in their 20s are not "missing out"... they are doing what they are supposed to be doing at that stage.. LIVING THEIR LIFE...Pursuing bettering themselves through work ethic and education. Building adulthood; The same thing young men their age are supposed to be doing.... building themselves, so one day they Can afford to sustain a family - "IF" both parties even choose to have that. Yall really need to get it out of your minds that young women are here on planet Earth solely for some weird male approval. Wish these young people well in their life journey, whether it's individual or coupled. Times are different for them too, with entering adulthood in the rise of inflation, unaffordable homes, and other factors.

  • @amazingmimi6682
    @amazingmimi6682 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thought something was wrong with me ,I'm over 50 but I get approached by 10-6,7yrs younger than me. Now I get it .Trending

  • @26kcarias9
    @26kcarias9 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My husband is 11 yrs younger. We have a 1 yr old and our relationship is so solid ❤

  • @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife
    @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I love younger foreign guys, particularly Indian and not attracted to guys anywhere near my birth certificate age, so I'm so happy to hear this and I agree.

    • @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife
      @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hawaiigirl8089 I'm sorry you've had that experience and I know not all Indian guys are good guys. I've been to 3 Bollywood parties, and they were great. It can be hard to find good Indian guys, but I believe they do exist. I'm blonde too - dark blonde hair and blue eyes - not thin, and yes, they really love blonde hair and blue eyes.

    • @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife
      @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hawaiigirl8089 I agree they should be respectful to what they are attracted to. I think some guys still have a male sense of entitlement and superiority complex. But I don't think that's just applicable to Indian guys.
      I've had some nice experiences at the Bollywood events. I try to educate them too.

    • @9anandhus386
      @9anandhus386 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife hi i from India thanks u looking cute

    • @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife
      @AsexualiseMyAsexualLife ปีที่แล้ว

      @@9anandhus386 Awwww, thank you xx

    • @user-ks5oh3mb6c
      @user-ks5oh3mb6c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so beautiful like a flower are you single

  • @cocohitchman3209
    @cocohitchman3209 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would avoid younger guys in their 20’s but 30+ you’re an adult and a bit more experienced, secure job generally their at a different stage in life . It seems for most men the trade up is young female genes who are immature and short term worthy as young women cheat a lot more and play games versus older, career, financial stable, long term capabilities , are worth the risk. Mating strategies are changing. Some still stay traditional biologically but men like peace and a stable mature partner at the end of the day

    • @irinaivanovic9792
      @irinaivanovic9792 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As long as the men can also bring peace and stability to the older woman, I'm all for it. Usually this is not the case. Young men are still learning. And btw, once they hit their mid-life crisis at 40-45 they're going to be going after the younger than you women, and you'll be dumped. This is just one reason I won't date a man more than 1 year younger than myself.

    • @cocohitchman3209
      @cocohitchman3209 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@irinaivanovic9792 yes ! I’m focusing on 45+ as I’m in my 40’’s so no guys under that age . as long as he’s a provider and responsible it’s good start. What ever age I date I make sure I look good physically and dress well and have good standards. Men will give different stress at different stages 20’s ,40’s . I just prefer one that had his life together and can provide I can handle the rest 😁

  • @growwhatyoueatandeatwhatyo3099
    @growwhatyoueatandeatwhatyo3099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 38 years old and my partner is 20 years old we have 12 years age gap... the relationship is so simple and genuin... he is caring, extremely supportive, no drama, alot of fun, no pressure to do nothing, everything flow natural and extrely loving and protective...❤

  • @glowshine8102
    @glowshine8102 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 33 and I dont care the âge difference of a man as long as he is a real one

    • @user-ks5oh3mb6c
      @user-ks5oh3mb6c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so beautiful like a flower are you single

  • @IAM_EarthAngel
    @IAM_EarthAngel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I’m 44 & he’s 30 😊

    • @user-ks5oh3mb6c
      @user-ks5oh3mb6c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're so beautiful like a flower are you single

  • @Hournushadip7691
    @Hournushadip7691 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think its men that don't know what they want. Specially older men

  • @ladolcevita5582
    @ladolcevita5582 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I date guy 33 years younger lately, so much fun❤

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Emotional maturity.

  • @annemuller4499
    @annemuller4499 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I look 15 years younger and so very young man try to date me. I had a relationship with a man 12 years younger than me and his family and friends made too much problems, so it didn't last. 2 months ago a boy 20 years younger than me seemed to fall in love with me. I thought, thats waaayyy too young, but reading the comments here....why shouldn't it work out?

  • @Lifestartat40s
    @Lifestartat40s 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Because they have learn their lesson. When they are young, they play a lot of games. Now, they will not risk their future.

  • @Prisy087
    @Prisy087 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Here because its been happening to me way too much on those dating apps… im only 35 and im SO uncomfortable when the 22-24 yro come to try and have a date like … HOW bad can this end up lol why do men are like this. They’re young they want older, then they get older they want younger…. Like there’s no winning here

    • @saturngirl3748
      @saturngirl3748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree usually they don't know what they want in a woman really they just require the woman to be attractive and young because they prefer someone with less experience.
      Just because she has less experience in the bedroom doesn't mean that woman couldn't play you either I love how they base it all on the sex and that's how they wind up getting robbed or cheated on.
      It's kind of hard to keep a bunch of guys from pursuing you anyways because a lot of them don't take no for an answer.
      That woman would be the Queen of all the women if she could meet those standards because no woman wants to wait around with 0 experience just looking for one guy to show up and save the day. That's not how women work we need the experience to know which ones not to date.

    • @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
      @JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saturngirl3748 it’s crazy how in your culture women believe they can’t survive without sleeping around. Western morals have really gone to the bin. Are you an atheist?

  • @Anne_Myriam_
    @Anne_Myriam_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know that some of them are serious but most of them are just using us too .

  • @beccamelton3529
    @beccamelton3529 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is true.Older women don't play games,and know what tbey want and don't want.They ate more sensual, understanding,and know how to please their man.❤❤❤😘😘🔥🔥

    • @mateen1004
      @mateen1004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      becca yes absolutely 🥰❤️

  • @MegaRose1958
    @MegaRose1958 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I like a younger man that is mature. We have alot of fun when we get together. I love how he has surprised me over the years with things I like. 😊😊😊

  • @saptaparneechaudhuri3601
    @saptaparneechaudhuri3601 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am 38 and husband is 32. We hid this age difference to husband's parents else the marriage would not have happened. My parents were somewhat okay with it but they confirmed and reconfirmed with my husband several times before the ceremony and he said it was okay. Post marriage he feels he has cheated his parents by hiding my age, he could have married a different girl, and he feels ashamed of my age. We live like apartment mates until I find a job and have a chance to move out.

  • @masterofdisguise1112
    @masterofdisguise1112 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 24 about to turn 25 on the 28th of May and the girl I'm dating right now is 35😂

  • @jelizabethpetrie6656
    @jelizabethpetrie6656 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Older women aren’t into games and are more authentic. They know from previous experience, young women zero in on men and try to cajole or manipulate.
    Men most likely detect inauthenticity almost immediately. Unless he’s a gameplayer too, then it’s game on.

  • @stacishort
    @stacishort ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hear this all the time by men I’ve dated who are 5-15 years younger than I . It’s not a trend it’s fact…

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว

      Staci you look so charming :) Are you single maybe?

  • @catwhisperer1253
    @catwhisperer1253 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yep. I am being pursued by someone about 7 years younger and another guy 16 years younger. I don't like the one that is 7 years younger for more than a friend. But, if the other one was more my age and we were from the same country, I would be interested. Lol!

  • @LN-gk8gz
    @LN-gk8gz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yeah I'm guilty of it because I'm 23 years old and I'm almost dating someone that's older than me 5 to 10 years older than me But even sometimes the old women don't even know what they want

  • @ginettequintus-bosz3666
    @ginettequintus-bosz3666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm dating a 49yr old and I'm 67yr sure works for us nearly 6mths in ❤

  • @JessicaMarieOnline
    @JessicaMarieOnline 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am 41 & my partner is 32, he is mature, caring & a great man. I find younger men refreshing. They have a different mentality. Mainly Caribbean so I love the different cultural mindset they have.
    And yes mature women don’t play games & we know what we want.

    • @youngking33
      @youngking33 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      that nice you got any friends for me though? I'm young and Caribbean also

  • @coreoflife
    @coreoflife ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Becauae the younger men are tired of all the younger women portaying HOs.

    • @anmazool725
      @anmazool725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Faxx 30s woman are the best

  • @ThuyNguyen-ec1rb
    @ThuyNguyen-ec1rb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are so right ,p
    Older women don't have drama

  • @SweetDebbie58
    @SweetDebbie58 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So where is part 2.
    I’m 58 and he’s 29

    • @michellemutty-fe9nk
      @michellemutty-fe9nk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nothing wrong with that. My husband and I are 27 years apart and we have a wonderful and genuine marriage. It depends on the 2 individuals in a relationship!

    • @marincuculic1020
      @marincuculic1020 ปีที่แล้ว

      Debra are you still together?

    • @SweetDebbie58
      @SweetDebbie58 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marincuculic1020 no

  • @auroraguillen2080
    @auroraguillen2080 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Because we know what we want ..

    • @Butterflyyyy9
      @Butterflyyyy9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bingo!! and that's how it should be when dating an older women 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Littlemouse884
    @Littlemouse884 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Older women are less needy and more confident with who they are

  • @lakshmicosmo9551
    @lakshmicosmo9551 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hi Matt thank u so much I have younger men constantly hittin on me. And recently I had a 30 year old who thought i was his age im actually 51. What upset him is that men are so attracted to me he literally couldn't handle it. He's very low key and gets jealous so he went back to his girl. Oh well😢 The girl he never told me he had but i heard they've been fighting

  • @nutech1810
    @nutech1810 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love 30s men. I am very fit, educated, traditional, no kids, & still able to have them :)

  • @anexacan9618
    @anexacan9618 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm 48 single women i cant find single man more than my age so i m with younger

  • @tiktokfaves7832
    @tiktokfaves7832 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're definitely right about knowing that they like you. I remember this older woman I knew a few years back and she was really hot and all. But I could sense that she had a crush on me because she made it very honest.

  • @LADYtWarrior
    @LADYtWarrior ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m that woman. 😆😇
    I never seem to attract older men.

  • @angelika.01
    @angelika.01 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 24 and my bf is 19 ✨

  • @raquibulzeesun7356
    @raquibulzeesun7356 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you are relatively thin, guys will dig you no matter the age