Why Men Love Dating Older Women

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  • @MatthewCoast
    @MatthewCoast  5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

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    • @annarazzu7122
      @annarazzu7122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

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    • @josiemolenaar5645
      @josiemolenaar5645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Matt,i like man older than me,,from Amsterdam Netherland

    • @simplymae84
      @simplymae84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well, it is because older is responsible enough in terms of relationship and not into games.

    • @frogazonbuttonup950
      @frogazonbuttonup950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How old are u? Im 52 and engaged to my 25yo man. He's soooooo perfect for me. Im happy I had an open mind and decided to not care what others say. 💗

    • @rositapalmer9790
      @rositapalmer9790 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice hi Matt ! Hook me up for some nice looking guy and nice personality!

  • @miapdx503
    @miapdx503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    I'm sixty, seeing a guy 31. He became a friend, asked me out for over a year. I didn't take him seriously, til I got to know him. He really, really likes me, and we're having so much fun. 😏 Glad I took a chance, he's amazing.

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Marin Cuculic we're not, but we're still great friends. No regrets!

    • @neetagarg2624
      @neetagarg2624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Go girl go

    • @janetboer5333
      @janetboer5333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@neetagarg2624 o

    • @bettydowns307
      @bettydowns307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Woman you look absolutely gorgeously stunningly beautiful, you do not look sixty!!!!!!

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bettydowns307 thank you!😘

  • @lynng4700
    @lynng4700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I'm 52 my husband is 42. I was 35 and he was 24 when we met. My husband has a old soul. We are still very much in love with one another.

  • @sandramoore4754
    @sandramoore4754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Love has no age. If you have a younger guy and he loves you then go for it. The younger guy maybe your soulmate

    • @primsandwhims7533
      @primsandwhims7533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their is no such thing as a soul mate 😆

    • @yvetteanderson7897
      @yvetteanderson7897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well mines is my Soulmate he says I can’t bring him back so all I can do is just try to keep u happy Baby that’s what he said

    • @lorettatripodi7531
      @lorettatripodi7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is very sweet. I felt very bad because of the age difference. He is much younger than I, but he just makes me feel so comfortable

  • @Lilgto04
    @Lilgto04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hi Matthew, I'm 67 and actually dating a guy who is 44.The relationship is fantastic. No games here. Just 2 people having a great time, and really enjoying each other.

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful, Lorraine

    • @Radical_Recovery
      @Radical_Recovery 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm 68 with a man 45. He's more mature than men my age

  • @lindamacleod6868
    @lindamacleod6868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I’m dating a man 11 years younger, younger men have always been attracted to me…personally I’m very young at heart ❤️ and enjoy the attraction and energy. Age is just a number.

    • @georginawood4624
      @georginawood4624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree… if you’re young at heart … usually meet younger to match your energy.

    • @farhiafarah6954
      @farhiafarah6954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nunses exuseme copycat younger wife women on earth 5 👋.😬

    • @bonitasmith6064
      @bonitasmith6064 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 63 and there's a 29 year old that wants to spend time with me. I like him, but I can do it. I'm a true Christian and to have fun and sex, is not an option. I want marriage and believe me, my mom is in her 80's and the body changes a whole lot. After awhile a younger man will want a younger older women.

  • @carolprice3062
    @carolprice3062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    My husband is younger than me by at least 20 years! He found me on the internet and he said that age was not a factor, is only a number! We relate very well together intellectually and emotionally.

    • @carolprice3062
      @carolprice3062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He says all the time it was my heart that attracted him to me and he pursued me hard...I love his persistence, he is kind generous loving passionate and a European, I am Such a lucky woman!!

    • @carolineunderhill8571
      @carolineunderhill8571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Im with a man 20 yrs younger , he makes me laugh we love each other + can't see my life without him now ! Never thought I would but we fancied each other but none of us knew till we got together?! ,❤

    • @PeaceDayCortez
      @PeaceDayCortez ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My bf of 3ys is also 20ys younger than me. ❤

    • @sarahgarbarino9512
      @sarahgarbarino9512 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My boyfriend is 60 and I’m 71. We’re in sex. In love too. At first no way did he want me but now he is. Will we marry? No. Age is a number.

  • @IloveyouJesus03
    @IloveyouJesus03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    I love this!!! I’m 41 and my husband is 33. We have just had a beautiful baby boy ❤️

    • @lindsey361
      @lindsey361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Congratulations xx

    • @maryrice5873
      @maryrice5873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ONLY when both parties are on the same exact level.. if it's a situation when the person is a lot older and manipulating the younger that's another senerio

    • @sandrasalinas9787
      @sandrasalinas9787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So happy for you 🥰

    • @kalirich7633
      @kalirich7633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awesome

    • @terribrelin2247
      @terribrelin2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lindsey361 .

  • @christineqvigstad8038
    @christineqvigstad8038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    My boyfriend is 16 years younger than me. He was hitting on me and percued this relationship. I was holding back in the beginning, but know I have accepted it... our friends and family have met, and they all love our relationship.

    • @summer6787
      @summer6787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Percued??

  • @islahanley4571
    @islahanley4571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am engaged to a man much younger then myself. He is 30 years younger to me, it has been a hard road for us, due to others attitude toward us. But when they see us together, they can see the love we have. Don't judge us , just let us make our decisions for our lives.

  • @thewhisperingdragonfly
    @thewhisperingdragonfly ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thanks Matt for the video. I am 42 and my crush is 26. We haven't started a romantic relationship yet, but enjoy our friendship so much. We are both attracted to each other and build one another up. I'm really glad to see this video, and that this age difference is something that can turn into long term. Feeling good! We have an amazing emotional bond and mature communication.

    • @ibiminaabiye257
      @ibiminaabiye257 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is exactly m scenario, I could have written this. I'm 42, he's 26, we met on IG, we connect well emotionally and otherwise. We.now recently are building a business relationship as my brand manager. It feels so different and beautiful

  • @Luv2rocku2
    @Luv2rocku2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I am 58 dating an amazing younger man. He is 47. I love him and his ness. His kind(ness) his open(ness) his mindful(ness) I have never been happier! ♥️

    • @lorettatripodi7531
      @lorettatripodi7531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this.. his ness.. I feel the same about mine

  • @misskim92008
    @misskim92008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Im in a committed relationship with an amazing man who is 20 years younger than I am. Hetreats me better than men I've dated previously. We are talking about moving together. We are VERY happy .

  • @hijabimuslimah8100
    @hijabimuslimah8100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Age is just a matter of numbers. As long as the couple is happy together that’s all it matters 👍🏻😉

    • @alien_invation371
      @alien_invation371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lynne Estrada as long as there both of age I don’t see a problem with age gap couples it self

    • @lindachristie8453
      @lindachristie8453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was married to a younger man. It was a disaster, he was so busy finding himself, he forgot about me!

    • @helen5242
      @helen5242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree xx

    • @bscnyc9948
      @bscnyc9948 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindachristie8453 😜😳🤔🤔🤔🤔⤵️↘️↖️

    • @davidalfonso3042
      @davidalfonso3042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am young man single 33 year. I love older women. looking for true love♥♥♥

  • @kendrawebb1689
    @kendrawebb1689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today … and the comments in the community…. Perfectly timed. ❤️🙏🏼

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing, Kendra!

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I really never understood why this shouldnbe a taboo. I ALWAYS have been drawn to men who were younger than me. When I was a teen and going much younger wouldn't be appropriate as during that time a year is already a lotnitnwas men the same age as mine. But in my 20s my second bf was 4 years younger and when I got closer to 30 I think the biggest difference was me at 29 dating a 20yo. I do think thou it's harder to build an emotional connection due to being at different parts of your life. I do think thou the older you get, it again matters less as people mature at a different pace.
      The guy I'm currently seeing already sees me as "the older one". But it's only 1 year difference 😂 I think it's adorable but I guess men who only dated younger women notice the difference lol

    • @barbarapalmer8224
      @barbarapalmer8224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think ten years younger is absolutely nothing.

    • @antihaters6504
      @antihaters6504 ปีที่แล้ว

      heheheee same...

  • @m.martini
    @m.martini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    My husband and I are 15 years apart. I'm 49 he's 34. We've been married for 6 years now. Although there are some adjustments, and learning each other in different ways with patience, but that goes for any relationship in my opinion.

    • @janicerockwell8417
      @janicerockwell8417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah ! 🥰

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, my wonderful mate was dating a 51 yr old woman and two others when I met him, unknown to me. He was 38 and I was 33.She was my main competition....he did choose me BUT ue still remembers her with great fondness.

  • @lunachilde2000
    @lunachilde2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Im 47 and my hubby is 36. We met when he was 22, have been married for 11 years and have a gorgeous daughter together. He is my perfect match.

    • @eljeancouvillier5222
      @eljeancouvillier5222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m 75 (although I do not look it, and I am young at heart) I do not date older men , I cannot see my self dating a man 75. I can’t see myself daring a 68 year old man.
      I wouldn’t know what to do
      With him. I much prefer dating
      Younger men, what would I do with an older man? They just cannot keep up with me. Younger and older men are always trying to put the hit on me. My guy is 65, I’m 75, we have been together for 17 years

    • @patricagayle5041
      @patricagayle5041 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eljeancouvillier5222m

    • @patricagayle5041
      @patricagayle5041 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eljeancouvillier5222
      0

    • @maryrice5873
      @maryrice5873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      47 and 36 really isn't a big maturity level difference if the man was raised right

  • @sharicopas1239
    @sharicopas1239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I married a 20 year old Marine, I was 33.and hot. 26 years later still married. 🎀. Nutty I had no idea until this year. How much grief he got from his peers and family. My people were completely accepting.

  • @angienjohnclifford5920
    @angienjohnclifford5920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I got married last year. I am 62 and he is 48. He is a handsome man and He is always affectionate in public. He found me and will not let me go until I say Yes to his proposal. He said I am his hot, sexy wife!.? OMG! my ego went thru the roof! woof!

  • @samanthajane11.11
    @samanthajane11.11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My man is 24 and Im 54. We are so compatible and a perfect match. Age isn't an issue for us

  • @safarcreations382
    @safarcreations382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Hi Matthew...thank you for covering my story. My husband is 15 years younger than me and man we share the most awesome relationship. We wouldn’t change a thing. 💖we’ve been together 9 years and I am certain it’s for all lifetime even death would never part us

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @safarcreations382
      @safarcreations382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Matthew Coast and thank you so much for keeping it real and inspiring...

  • @ndm529
    @ndm529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    I have never looked my age so I attract a lot of guys in their 20s and 30s even though I am 49.

    • @rlk2226
      @rlk2226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      me too I feel it's a compliment ☺️

    • @ndm529
      @ndm529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rlk2226 so do I.

    • @bernesemuir8022
      @bernesemuir8022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      So cool to hear this... because i am the same but people here in New Zealand are so quick to judge its horrible, they are truly horrible about (me) an older woman with a younger man buts it's completely fine for the older man with a very young women even in there teens!

    • @dragonzodiac78
      @dragonzodiac78 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nicole Malarcher 💯 me too!
      😮

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bernesemuir8022 With as enlightened as people are becoming, this is the one combo that people seem to have the hardest time accepting without judgment and think it's okay to have a bias against. I do believe it's changing though. Hang tight and do what you want, what's good for you, because we have also reached a time where it's easier to pioneer this.

  • @lynettedanielle3661
    @lynettedanielle3661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I’m 53 and find myself loving a guy who’s 38 yrs! And the feelings I get is more exciting than I ever experienced!

    • @kezthefam8263
      @kezthefam8263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi Lynette I really appreciate your story I’m not with this person but he pops into my life every so often to remind me he’s interested. And he’s much younger too. He lives in my street he knows where I live but he hasn’t come to my door. I’m not chasing him definitely not !!! Good luck with your relationship we all deserve to be happy. Thanks

    • @madelinegarvin9792
      @madelinegarvin9792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WOW! Don't fight the feeling!

    • @lynettedanielle3661
      @lynettedanielle3661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@madelinegarvin9792 unfortunately the guy Who I was shaking over with feeling , died at 39 last year!
      I was there with to the doctor then to the hospital. He spent three weeks there of which I spend each day by his bedside and held his hand as he slipped away from me.
      All the memories are kept alive with me. The best feeling that I ever had has been laid to rest! My best friend my confidant my lover my playmate 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️! Never thought it would’ve climaxed so swiftly…

    • @saraparker4082
      @saraparker4082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your story sounds beautiful. I’m sorry it ended so quickly.

  • @jacquelinedarst6151
    @jacquelinedarst6151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    This is greatest thing I've heard in a long time there is hope for us older women. Wonderful love this!

    • @SuperShandy777
      @SuperShandy777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww did u meet anybody?

    • @barbarapalmer8224
      @barbarapalmer8224 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look at the women ,who get scammed.
      They really think they" would have a chance "with gorgeous. Service men etc. These women think they are genuine ,and have a chance with them.

    • @antihaters6504
      @antihaters6504 ปีที่แล้ว

      100%✓✓✓😂

    • @gabrieljamieson2726
      @gabrieljamieson2726 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey jac

  • @ladyjei
    @ladyjei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I’m dating a wonderful man that’s 12 years younger than I am. I’m 45 and kids are grown and boy do I wish we would have met sooner. He’s an old soul and I’m an active person so this has been incredible. I truly agree about not wanting to play games in a relationship!

    • @lisajohnson24lj
      @lisajohnson24lj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your comment, it’s testimony to myself as the age gap is the same for me, I wish u all the best for the future, uk love much 💛

    • @audreysandbach637
      @audreysandbach637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Age is only a number as long as u really luv each other that's all that matters 💗

    • @audreysandbach637
      @audreysandbach637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🌹🌹🌹

    • @audreysandbach637
      @audreysandbach637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm 70 my man 53

    • @ladyjei
      @ladyjei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I do have to update this sadly. After a handful of months dating, it became apparent that he had A LOT of healing to do before we could align properly. I ended things gently and we are friends now. I do not have the time, energy, or heart to be a grown man's safety blanket. However, I am dating a MUCH more healed (also 12 years younger ironically) man now and the conversation/commitment level is so much greater! So hopefully this is still inspirational. :)

  • @bethbrandt72
    @bethbrandt72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    This brought me to tears because this is something I’ve been struggling with for a few months. I’ve been seeing man/kid that is 27 years younger than me. I’m 50 and he’s 23. We both are very attracted to each other and care about each other, but he said his family would never approve of our age difference. It’s almost like a sad, wasted love story.

    • @lesliepanzer9048
      @lesliepanzer9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'm 46 .
      My bf is 25 .
      He is younger than my own son.
      Go for it.

    • @dewey1327
      @dewey1327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Totally agree ! 61 and date guys from 24-31yr old! Your as old as you feel

    • @Patienthost
      @Patienthost 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lesliepanzer9048 That I couldn't do, not younger than my own sons, but good for you. Be happy.
      😊

    • @le2506
      @le2506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My boyfriend is 26 I’m 52 :)

    • @angeladiaz5693
      @angeladiaz5693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love it!!!! We only live once.❤️

  • @berylgeczi4345
    @berylgeczi4345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I am 64 and my man is 45. He is madly in love with me. I love that he is playful and passionate about me and life its self. I believe this could last a lifetime... It is now going on 6 years.

    • @lillililli9433
      @lillililli9433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too am 55 I have a man of 38 ...it's amazing experience for me specially sexually I love a lot ..

    • @simplymarilyn5295
      @simplymarilyn5295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm 64 & my boo is 47. It's been 7 yrs of us dating. When we're together, age is not a factor.... We simply enjoy our time together♡

    • @lesliepanzer9048
      @lesliepanzer9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My man is 25 and I'm 46.
      He's younger than my son

    • @simplymarilyn5295
      @simplymarilyn5295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lesliepanzer9048 "Age fabulously with no rules or judgement."

    • @simplymarilyn5295
      @simplymarilyn5295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lesliepanzer9048 You only live once!

  • @aliceterrill7373
    @aliceterrill7373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I'm 69 and have dated men as young as 29. At first I thought it to be very outrageous because that's not what I was looking for. But men my age only seem to want younger women so I started approaching younger men and found out that they are very interested!

    • @paulrider4164
      @paulrider4164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Say hi

    • @cristearoxanadaniela7845
      @cristearoxanadaniela7845 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You like adventures but in the end.....

    • @farhiafarah6954
      @farhiafarah6954 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exuseme nunses, younger wife women on earth man loves young women on earth yeahyeah ever.

    • @vashtigosine7997
      @vashtigosine7997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulrider4164 6666⁶ķ

    • @lizzm7589
      @lizzm7589 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s great! The minute I feel insecure I’m reminded that Love it’s a beautiful thing.

  • @sandrathorpe9334
    @sandrathorpe9334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My husband is 25 yrs younger than me, im 75 hes 50, but he told me i was the only 1 who had what he was looking for ,other women wanted money n sex, but I didn't want those things & im happy with the simple things ..

  • @normajanedehoag3660
    @normajanedehoag3660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He is such a good looking doctor and he tells me that he loves my character and tells me he has not met someone like me .

  • @tonnifaber2963
    @tonnifaber2963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    In August l started dating a younger man. I just turned 53 & he just turned 39. We have great chemistry & have many shared likes & similar upbringing. I was nervous about it at first & still sorta am because of the whole aging & societal pressure but that is also pressure l put on myself l suppose out of fear. He makes me so happy & l feel so fulfilled. He says the same about me. I truly value our time together ❤

  • @sameboat2893
    @sameboat2893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I'm 45 and I'm dating a man who is 31.

  • @jonibohan1019
    @jonibohan1019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Hi. I'm 52 and my boyfriend is 39. We are a great fit been together over 3 years may probably get married

    • @lilanarcisse6470
      @lilanarcisse6470 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      39 years is ok...

    • @thankgod7312
      @thankgod7312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy for you god bless you and give you married with him

  • @hopppy54
    @hopppy54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am dating a man 9 years younger...it is the best most loving relationship ever...❤❤❤

  • @alisonnonumber
    @alisonnonumber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have dated up to 20 years younger.
    I'm almost 59. I held myself back from it, because I felt it was inappropriate. Since being single, invariably they've been younger. I havent had an ongoing serious relationship with one, but I would be brave enough now, to go there with the right person.

  • @auroratracy
    @auroratracy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm 60 dating a 49 yr old. He is extremely loving and attentive. Shows affection in public with no issues. He said we was tired of the wishy washy young women that have not grown up, he didn't like clingy women and he loves my independence.

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful, Aurora 🥰

  • @response7296
    @response7296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Am 51 and dating a 40 years old man. And we are extremely happy together
    ❤️❤️.

  • @frogazonbuttonup950
    @frogazonbuttonup950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Im 52 and my FIANCE is 25. We are soooooo in love! He is more mature than any age man I've ever experienced. It CAN be real. 💗

    • @rakeomartinMe
      @rakeomartinMe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lani Button@ this is awesome!
      He is always gonna treat u like the queen u r!

    • @emmalynpenaloga2113
      @emmalynpenaloga2113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Goodluck to ur relationship 😍😍😍

    • @sarahjane8949
      @sarahjane8949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow 👏👏👏👏🌸🌸🌸🌸

    • @antihaters6504
      @antihaters6504 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rakeomartinMe really..

  • @mmauriebonnet401
    @mmauriebonnet401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you for this video!! I’m 44 and have a 33 year old very interested.. I’ve been a bit reluctant due to the age difference but am very attracted to him mentally and physically. He himself sent me an article on why younger men want older women! From there I stumbled across your video. Thank you again.. I feel more at ease allowing it to possibly move forward.

  • @melaniesmith2261
    @melaniesmith2261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey thank you for this video... today I so needed this
    I’m 48 and my yummy man is 35- it’s 13.5yrs, he has no issue with the age. I’m freaked by it. He is the most incredible man and it has helped me face past traumas, I feel we were connected in a past life. He’s smart, strong, a provider and deeply masculine which makes my femininity more expansive. His children adore me. My children who are grown up are judging us like mad

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are welcome, Melanie! Thanks for sharing

  • @lorraineduenes9834
    @lorraineduenes9834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My 25 yr younger guy proposed to me on the 8th day! I met his mom and 2 young children. We’re getting to know each other it’s been a year now. This is an amazing relationship!

  • @marykiio304
    @marykiio304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Love can be found any where, either odd or young. What matters is being honest, understanding and love.

  • @leslietiwari8625
    @leslietiwari8625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My bf is over 40 years younger than me. It is totalling unaccepted by society we know, but we are so crazy about each other we don't want to live without each other. As far as our rapport with each other we are on the same wavelength and don't find our age difference to be a problem. We even like the same type of music. I know it sounds crazy, but it works.

  • @ronnileigh136
    @ronnileigh136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm 74, everyone who has contacted me on dating sites is anywhere from 18 to 63. I am so glad you are explain this because it has just blowing me away

  • @terristarnes7742
    @terristarnes7742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm a young 58 I definitely don't look my age and I don't feel my age. And I definitely know what I want he might be younger than me but he's the one I want. This is so spot on, Thank You.

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you also for sharing, Terri!

  • @nellymellot8401
    @nellymellot8401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’m 68 and dating a friend 48 we are planning to get married soon and we both exited starting our new life together. Knowing each other for 6 years already.

  • @smurfsrule88
    @smurfsrule88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I’m 49 dating a man who is 40- I wasn’t planning on dating younger- but we really like each other. Just worry if the age difference will be an issue with us as I get older (over 50). I’m very fit and active and the men I’ve dated older than me didn’t want to do the hiking, river and outdoor activities. This is the most fun I’ve ever had.

  • @LA14185844
    @LA14185844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Age isn't necessarily relevant. Its the individual personality and compatibility that matters.

  • @carolprice3062
    @carolprice3062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    These older younger relationships are often "Twin Flames " spiritually soul connections, two persons sharing the same halves of one soul!! Its a spiritual thing!!

    • @Hinenuitepo77
      @Hinenuitepo77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's beautiful i believe that too 💫🥰🙏🏽💚

    • @adrianasilitonga7335
      @adrianasilitonga7335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That kind of crossed my mind, too.. Tx..

    • @inspire734
      @inspire734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me and Ryan are. I am 33 years older. I am 63 and he is 30. I loved him at 19, I was 53. His father basically ran me off. Now I just found his home. I will visit his 30th on Feb. 11th I wrote him a sexy book I know he will enjoy. He is my TF. I burn for him. He only has GF no marrages or kids.
      She is 62. He likes older women.

    • @shyneintuition555
      @shyneintuition555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought about that too🤔💗💯

    • @angelping9627
      @angelping9627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree.

  • @carolynmilton2272
    @carolynmilton2272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m young 83 & he’s 63 we’ve been the best man now for 6 years. He’s so much fun we laugh all the time , & talk every day at least 5 times when we can’t see each other

  • @sieusies3037
    @sieusies3037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm 62 dating man 34 he made first moves 4 months ago and it just so happens he prefers older and I get on better with younger. This is the biggest gap I've ever experienced but it's great we have so much in common and tick the same and is very calm and sensible!

  • @felmadorol3488
    @felmadorol3488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi, just watched this, I am 52 and my partner is 32yrs, we have been together 14yrs now, my youngest son is 19yrs. We enjoy each other's company, and have the same interests and hobbies. We have been judged before but its no one's business, it's our choice

  • @samhill7471
    @samhill7471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This is me. I’m much older than my ex bf. We were so in love but he left me for a girl half my age because he said he was scared. He said if he didn’t leave me when he did, he never would. It’s not working out with the rebound and he’s been contacting me a lot. But now I’m scared. Because my feelings haven’t changed and I don’t want to get continuously hurt.

    • @elvinahodge5318
      @elvinahodge5318 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi trinidad

    • @theresaevans2072
      @theresaevans2072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I had a boyfriend for 2 years that was 9 years younger than me and he left me for a younger woman and also regretted it. I don't want him back though, don't trust him anymore now.

    • @christagem2
      @christagem2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I might have to agree with Theresa. If he left you it may not be worth it. If you left him it would be different :/

  • @maryng-qui-sang3305
    @maryng-qui-sang3305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Age doesn't matter as long.both
    Of you. Love each other.

    • @maryng-qui-sang3305
      @maryng-qui-sang3305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey!!!!!!!My 1 I feel as if im in MY 30's. also I Dont LOOK my
      Age....Sooo I'm younger
      Than UUU. 😃 😃 😃😃 😃 😃 😃..it doesn't matter..Its a matter
      Of the ❤ heart ❤ heart ❤.
      Love is WHAT matters my
      WONDERFUL 1.*******€
      S

  • @anne-mariemcinnis9143
    @anne-mariemcinnis9143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Some men are simply more attracted to a woman that has more life experience. Some men also appreciate the beauty in and out of women older than them!

  • @kamiegates
    @kamiegates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am 48 and the guy I am in a relationship for about a year and a half with is 37! We have an amazing life together!! The passion, desire for ea other is unbelievable and yes, the sex is Absolutely Amazing!! We are the best of friends bc of the love & trust that is also just as strong. Power couple in every way!

  • @sunnycookie1584
    @sunnycookie1584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm 58 and I'm seeing a guy just 38 and we get along just fine to respect one another and truly enjoy each other's company and we love the same music

    • @judyjames729
      @judyjames729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +(234)815,689,6436

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello a man can help you just as he did mine he helpee me get my ex back

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348156896436💎💎💎

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhtzApp him

  • @tracyobrien2066
    @tracyobrien2066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Been with my hubby for 15 years and going strong. He is 16 years younger than me. YAHOO!!!!
    From a Canadian :)

    • @josieposie9969
      @josieposie9969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you have a hard time accepting him or the fact that he was so much younger?

  • @aragincajun
    @aragincajun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I am 60 and dating someone who is 40, the relationship is casual and I am good with that. The sex is off the hook! I was really hurt in my last relationship and am happy keeping it casual. I am not looking to get into a serious relationship right now. These types of relationships usually have a somewhat time limit, I’m hoping that it will last for a little while longer than some of my past similar relationships I’ve had. I am really enjoying it 😁

  • @joanieofarc2955
    @joanieofarc2955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for this talk,, I'm in a relationship with a younger man we are together for 3 years and 10 months,, we are extremely happy,, I was in an extremely Abusive Marriage,, I'm divorced and has never been so happy in my entire life,, Age is just but a number, Love is what is important, and his honesty,, his never cheated on me,, versa visa,

  • @Dbb27
    @Dbb27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When we met we thought we were the same age but I’m ten years older. Doesn’t matter. We love each other to pieces and we’re heading to 18 years together. And thank you for talking about ‘the war’ going on. I don’t know if it’s because of social media but I read generalizations from both sides and it’s rather frightening some of the anger on line. One cannot throw everyone into one basket just because one personally had a bad experience.

  • @kershamartin7353
    @kershamartin7353 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My man is 12 years younger. He is simply amazing.

  • @EmUK73
    @EmUK73 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Im 46 he's just turned 33.. we've been together a year 🙈

  • @lindajennings5953
    @lindajennings5953 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is helpful, thanks! 56 and passed on a younger man 7 years ago, maybe now I can give myself permission to go there.

  • @sandie4870
    @sandie4870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So grateful for this video. Thanks Matt!🥰

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much welcome, Sandie

  • @eileenvandernoot3867
    @eileenvandernoot3867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m 78 and my guy is 31. It’s wonderful. He’s great and serious minded. We are a great match!!

  • @belindaroulston152
    @belindaroulston152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am nearly 47, i have just met a guy who is 39. I am loving dating. I have so much more confidence, and am so sure of who i am and what i want. I have goals, and very strong values.
    He has asked so many questions about me, and shown a love of interest in me, and i really like how open we are with each other.

  • @monikadedejczyk9713
    @monikadedejczyk9713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    For the past 10 years I’m lucky to date only younger men and I happen to get pregnant at 40 to a younger man... healthy perfect child! My youngest boyfriend was 15 years younger most fun in relationship I’ve ever had!

  • @lindabunnik2952
    @lindabunnik2952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Also a known fact....men age quicker & die sooner than women. My sisters husband is 5 yrs older than her & slowing down too much for her. I will always be looking for a younger man who can keep up to me. Don’t give a rats ass what society says

  • @cl5080
    @cl5080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    58 year old female. Boyfriend is 36. I don’t think he picked me out specifically because I’m older, but just because he seriously couldn’t care less about a woman’s age. He thought I was really pretty, and was intrigued. I am emotionally reserved, know how to keep my own counsel, and don’t accept anybody’s BS. We older gals are QUEENS 👸

  • @suzette1104
    @suzette1104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi! I’m a 67 year old woman and have not only been dating but living with a man who is 15 years younger than me. We met on a dating site and chatted for a month or so, every day. When we finally met in person we went into a lockdown due to Covid. Since we were both alone we decided to isolate together since we were enjoying each other so much. He moved in with me and has never left. We will be together two years come the first of March. It does have certain challenges though.

  • @pattyh3718
    @pattyh3718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’m 62 and he’s 42. Amazing connection. Afraid of getting hurt ultimately

    • @spreadthegospel6667
      @spreadthegospel6667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! I’m 62, he’s 44

    • @pattyh3718
      @pattyh3718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@spreadthegospel6667 he Eventually went no contact because I believe his parents had issues with it

    • @spreadthegospel6667
      @spreadthegospel6667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pattyh3718 sorry to hear that… my older sisters have a prob with it also… I told them we don’t know how many days we have and women usually out live men so it could be perfect…I hope you guarded your heart and I will also… I know the Lord brought our lives together, who knows why? Will see…

  • @irmaladouce9474
    @irmaladouce9474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I (49) am dating a much younger man (21), we love talking together, listen to the same crazy music and go out with our commun friends. The worst comments came frome those (man) that had tryed dating me.
    He is very masculine and I think it's very important to let him be "the man"

  • @lelacaruthers239
    @lelacaruthers239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I am 71 and my darling is 56 . He loves everything we do together.

  • @leannefavreau8113
    @leannefavreau8113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am from Kenora, Ontario Canada. The middle of my country! 🤣
    At 56, I have been growing with a man three years younger. I am VERY aware that he is processing his last relationship. We are understanding and open. We like eachother. I accept and enjoy him as he is.
    Thank you Matthew.🎉

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're very much welcome, Leanne. Thanks for sharing!!

  • @karolmolitor4675
    @karolmolitor4675 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am interested in a man that is much younger than me. He's is 45 and I am 74. He is marvelous and I don't want to miss out on a great friendship and love because some people are narrow minded and negative. ❤

  • @cconnelly1085
    @cconnelly1085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I know of a couple who got married at 92. There is always opportunity to love. ❤️

  • @ahmunique
    @ahmunique 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’m 38 he’s 24 we’ve been together for a year, hopefully we’ll continue to last ❤️

  • @amorlpo1
    @amorlpo1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm 47 I'm dating 28 n we are pretty happy together . We have been seeing each other over 5 yrs.

  • @shyneintuition555
    @shyneintuition555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 50 and recently met a guy 32. He's definitely an old soul...raised by his grandparents. It feels very natural with us...we laugh, talk and have good chemistry. At this point we are working on becoming friends.

  • @sheenatehrani7413
    @sheenatehrani7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I recently signed up in a couple of dating apps. %85 of the guys are much younger than me. Life is good. It’s an unknown territory and I love to learn new experiences.

  • @philasupv
    @philasupv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Hi, I'm 69 and he's 42, we've been dating since he was 27....

    • @bluesea5742
      @bluesea5742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ❤️wow! And wow!

    • @tessharte1307
      @tessharte1307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Angela Ford-Jones dang!!!

    • @tracy-dg3qq
      @tracy-dg3qq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤜

    • @tracy-dg3qq
      @tracy-dg3qq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U are the qween x

    • @philasupv
      @philasupv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      If a man wants to cheat, age has nothing to do with it. Doesn't bother me one way or the other, just as long as his cheating doesn't get in the way of our relationship. Don't worry about something you have NO control over. I can cheat also, if I want, don't forget that...if you saw me you would NEVER think I was my age...TRUST AND BELIEVE..😊😊

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ive always dated much younger men. I feel I have high energy and no game playing.
    Thank you for sharing!

  • @joleenwilson622
    @joleenwilson622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I think younger men are adorable.

  • @lisamatthews3764
    @lisamatthews3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you Matt! Such an encouraging video!!! I am in my 50th and people guess me a lot younger. I love younger men because they match my energy. Thank you soooo much!!!? 💙

  • @connieflores7362
    @connieflores7362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 59 and he's 44 he's the neighbor across the street been together for 2 years. His parents are happy we are dating. We both don't want marriage. I've been married once he's never been married. We both enjoy spending time with each other. We have a lot in common. For now everything's great.

  • @baitedianajatbaite4479
    @baitedianajatbaite4479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Age is just the number i am 43 yrs dating 30yrs old guy we hav been dating for 2yrs now its amazing we love each other so deeply, love from india

    • @drama2u
      @drama2u 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baitedianajat Baite i'm in the same situation, but only for 6 months... do u mind sharing your tips to make the relationship work?

  • @vivienneescorcio1417
    @vivienneescorcio1417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I don’t notice the age difference we are amazing together so much fun , love and real soul mates

  • @mymusicandme
    @mymusicandme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m 44 and he’s 34. We’re 4 years in a relationship though long distance but we try to meet each other every 6 months. He’s in military that’s why.

  • @trishacrazyone
    @trishacrazyone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been single and it seems like the younger and other men it doesn’t matter if they are older and seem to want to control to much and younger men like to go walking and in joy life and nature . You hit it right on . I do not know what life has for me .

  • @escarlepacheco6255
    @escarlepacheco6255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am from Australia 🇦🇺 I think older people must explore the real reasons why younger people wants to date younger people. What’s the real motive… which in most cases prove to be by the wrong life perception and people needs. Everything has a time in life, as time passes our needs changed because we becoming more mature, and most time young people is just not ready or capable to meet those needs.
    Regardless, there are skinny cases that works, but not always. Live according to your age and time, otherwise it becomes unbalance.

  • @mumstattoo1
    @mumstattoo1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My boyfriend is 14 years younger and things are amazing.

    • @alien_invation371
      @alien_invation371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mumstattoo1 sugar momma

    • @drama2u
      @drama2u 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mumstattoo1 me too...we've been dating for 6 months now

    • @vonhernandez5352
      @vonhernandez5352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello! Texarkana, Texas

  • @loumarritt8223
    @loumarritt8223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Awesome, awesome, awesome! Thank you so very much for this, Matthew! Amazing truths - now it’s time to get confident here in England. 🎊🎊 Blessings 🤩🤗😘

  • @sandycauiola6623
    @sandycauiola6623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 67 years old and have been dating men in their 30's, 40's and a few 50's. They are the only ones that can keep up with me.

  • @Phuongandpets
    @Phuongandpets ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video really made my day. I am 29 years old and turning 30 next month. I got told by people close to me that I am ugly and that men won't want me. But thank you so much for this.

  • @victoriakimber243
    @victoriakimber243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I always attract younger men for some reason and this has been happening my whole life.
    Currently dating 19 years younger than myself

  • @jennajohnson3571
    @jennajohnson3571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    YEP ALL TRUE ❤️ HE'S 30 YEARS YOUNGER GOING PASSIONATELY LOVE STRONG 11 YEARS !!

    • @sharonsinger1
      @sharonsinger1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      how lucky- stay blessed

    • @aroharose
      @aroharose 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      wow amazing grace and love

    • @rakeomartinMe
      @rakeomartinMe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Claire you make a lot of rude comments. Are you that unhappy to see other women happy????
      If you have nothing good and positive to say, just do not say anything at all. Zip your lip.
      How would you feel if anyone would say to you what you say to people????

    • @brieze1233
      @brieze1233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Enjoy🧡

    • @tam1348
      @tam1348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful! I'm dating 27 years younger!

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    definitely open minded, if it's real and feels real with the right intentions, why not

  • @salliemae9284
    @salliemae9284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I only love him nobody else.But the age difference is overwhelming.Can we survive this my beloved.I could be his friend,his sister,his Mom and so much more.

  • @maritsivenius2496
    @maritsivenius2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am 68 years old and in a relationship with a man who is 54. Never been this happy before. 💖