Answering YOUR Dilemmas! Asad Sisters Episode 9

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  • @asadsisters7018
    @asadsisters7018  2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Thank you guys for sending us your dilemmas!! Make sure to send us more so that we could answer them for the next dilemma video! (email or instagram)

    • @hiba.soomro
      @hiba.soomro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Send the email please

    • @naas2997
      @naas2997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what about those toxic girls are actually ypur cousins?😭 how to drop them

    • @nalikeh4828
      @nalikeh4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hiba.soomro its in their bio in the video

    • @nalikeh4828
      @nalikeh4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hii, maybe you can make an episode about how it was to grow up as a Muslim in the West. Which troubles you faced, but also what was easy. But also how you guys see yourselves growing into being the Muslim women you want to be. I feel that many Muslim girls/women in the West have these issues and it would be so interesting to see how you guys want to grow and become the best versions of yourselves. Loved the episode!!!

    • @hiba.soomro
      @hiba.soomro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      h nice option ❤

  • @marjoriebaut7981
    @marjoriebaut7981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Before you get married: you should agree on:
    religion, money, kids, inlaws.
    The person you’ll married is your Partner! So make sure you both are in the same page.

  • @nailaaqbal1420
    @nailaaqbal1420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    To the first sister who is in an abusive relationship with her husband, take the courage you have and LEAVE. You deserve so much more and so do your children. Your parents have no right to dictate whether you stay with him or not. I am not sure what faith you follow or if you are close to your faith, (nor am I here to judge) but sister to sister, Islamically speaking, they have no right to put that on you. So if they are using the excuse of “they have rights over you because they are your parents” is NOT applicable.

    • @MSAMEMIM
      @MSAMEMIM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Also you’re able to go to a sheikh or imam and ask for a divorce! He can be your guardian “wali”. Just go speak with him!

    • @g.s.632
      @g.s.632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯💯 💯agree.

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MSAMEMIM that’s what I did

    • @lujainot5495
      @lujainot5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      maybe because she doesn't have anywhere to go except her parents so if she divorces she has to go back to them and they don't want that

  • @sairak3759
    @sairak3759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Could we get a Ramadan Q&A? Or tricky moments you've had in your sibling relationships and how you resolved them?

    • @chickenbaddie318
      @chickenbaddie318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oooo that’s so good I would love to hear cause I have sisters too

    • @mercyapolot7757
      @mercyapolot7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is such a great idea because I have sisters too.

  • @ladychi7618
    @ladychi7618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    For the lady in the abusive and controlling relationship, start collecting evidence of your husbands behaviour for the sake of yourself and for your child. You will never know when it will come handy, separations sometimes get ugly so its good to get the evidence and be prepared to present your case. Inshallah, you shall overcome this challenge I am praying for you

  • @slaveofgod7921
    @slaveofgod7921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Gaslighting people tend to use specific techniques. These can include:
    Countering: Telling you that you remember something incorrectly.
    Trivializing: Making you feel like your thoughts and feelings don't matter.
    Withholding: Keeping money or affection from you.
    Stonewalling: Refusing to listen or engage with you in conversation.
    Blocking: Changing the subject.
    Diverting: Questioning the validity of your thoughts.
    Forgetting: Pretending to forget things that happened.
    Denying: Telling you something never happened.
    Faking compassion: Telling you they're doing something harmful for your good.

  • @hengwin
    @hengwin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The girl whose mom wants her to marry the cousin...seeing his total lack of enthusiasm, he probably feels the same.

  • @hg149
    @hg149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    For the first question. My heart goes out to her and any woman in the same situation. My mother was married to my father for 24 years and went through the same thing. I was 17 when my mother finally decided that it was enough and she sought help and took us(6 kids) to a women's shelter where finally we were given a house. I always remember as a child my parents would never stay married. We got shunned from our community for my mother's decision but at the end of the day we were and are so much happier. Your childrens father will always be a part of their lives but you shouldn't have to go through that at the expense of someone who is too immature and proud to realize how abusive they are. My mother would actually force us to speak to our father and tell us that he has every right to speak to his children. Please seek the help you need sister. Your health needs it and your children need it and they need their mother. I know it's a lot, but you're strong in shaa Allah. I make duaa for every single woman in your situation that Allah swt will bring you ease and happiness. Thank you Asad sisters for the video. Much love from Canada.

  • @nalikeh4828
    @nalikeh4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hii, maybe you can make an episode about how it was to grow up as a Muslim in the West. Which troubles you faced, but also what was easy. But also how you guys see yourselves growing into being the Muslim women you want to be. I feel that many Muslim girls/women in the West have these issues and it would be so interesting to see how you guys want to grow and become the best versions of yourselves. Loved the episode!!!

  • @yoyoyazzy
    @yoyoyazzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Will you speak on your previous engagement / marriage Loren? I think so many of us could get good advice from you on how you recovered and moved on

    • @jamiefooddreamer6381
      @jamiefooddreamer6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She wants to move on, and not look back. I think they have allready discussed it in a previous video about red flags.

    • @josey1296
      @josey1296 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      was she married or just engaged?

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josey1296 engaged

  • @rayene1683
    @rayene1683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I feel like I'm chilling with my besties, I'm genuinely enjoying your conversation girls😍😍❤

  • @mihirk7255
    @mihirk7255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Ummm idk if this is the case in Arab Muslim communities, but in Desi Muslim communities when moms want you to fly abroad to see your cousin because they are pressuring you to get married to them, it’s so they can pressure to you to get engaged or make it official once you are there. It’s much easier to do that there when you have no one else protecting you from back home. I would advise against flying abroad, you can get your passport taken by your mom/dad/brothers and be unable to come back home. Don’t trust your mom. Also, there are so many men in this world, you don’t need to be marrying your cousin. Little disappointed with how lightly the girls were answering this question. I look up to them for advice often, but in my opinion, you shouldn’t even consider marrying your cousin and your mom can fu*ck off. Don’t be a people pleaser for your mom, dad, family, his family, your community, the masjid community etc. by jeopardizing your precious life. Hugs to you, you got this. Also, if you ever go abroad with your mom or family, please secretly carry extra documentation with you. Let your friends from home know your exact whereabouts and when you should be back. If you are an American, have the embassy phone number in your purse just in case you do get forced to get engaged or married. They can help you get out of that situation.

    • @MSAMEMIM
      @MSAMEMIM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thank you for sharing this I had no idea. I’m half Arab half white. Also I wanted to say that it can be normal to marry your cousin since not only is it halal but because the parents know each other and trust each other. But that doesn’t mean it should happen! I also don’t agree with cousins getting married due to health reasons and because I just am not personally comfortable with that idea. 😷

    • @chukwuyemedion8314
      @chukwuyemedion8314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I know it's halal and all but marrying a cousin is a no no !! Like of all the men in the world , in all 7 continents , you have to marry your cousin . Nah sis , don't do it . You already don't want to , don't let people convince you otherwise it's hella creepy . Stay home , focus on school or whatever you got going on . And when the time comes Allah swt will introduce to a nice young complatibl3 partner iA

    • @fizzybizzy3790
      @fizzybizzy3790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "there are so many men in this world, you don’t need to be marrying your cousin" - literally!!!!

    • @mihirk7255
      @mihirk7255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@chukwuyemedion8314 No you are so right. The right person will come to her with time. She deserves so much better!

    • @ashleywolford948
      @ashleywolford948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes I agree as well unfortunately the sisters strong suit is not really giving advice on such topics In New Jersey there has been cases of child brides forced to marry guys from abroad and it turned very quickly into a dangerous situation. Look up Nyla’s law; which now prevents under age girls from being child brides. There’s an immigration policy that allows kids to basically get married and bring a groom from abroad. Nyla’s law will prevent these cases from happening.

  • @chickenbaddie318
    @chickenbaddie318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love the video!!! A recommendation for another video would be your journey with religion and some of your struggles. I feel so many people could relate! ❤️💕

  • @zahraakhan2793
    @zahraakhan2793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Omg I love these series I will need a podcast It feels like I have big sisters chatting with me

  • @aaliyahpatel2819
    @aaliyahpatel2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    please can you girlies talk more about mental health? Like anxiety, depression? youre like big sisters for a lot of us! x

  • @shenelleramjewan2416
    @shenelleramjewan2416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I feel like some of the answers were unhelpful and seem superficial. Some were also great. I think you guys should select the ones you think you are best qualified to answer or that are lighter questions. I still love this style of video.

    • @damalistennette4452
      @damalistennette4452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I also think the heavier questions are great too because some others in the comments have great feedback. Their large platform gets the question out in the first place.

    • @sherryl7602
      @sherryl7602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kawtharbakhach5848 agreed 👌🏽

  • @lailaqadr2305
    @lailaqadr2305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Topics to discuss: Hijabi struggles, how to find the one, how to deal with comparison and low self esteem, how to maintain a healthy self-image, how to get aproached by potential partners in order to get married, how to stay focused on your purpose and religion, how to get your life together, how to live a balanced life, how to make money thru multiples sources and be financially stable and independent, how to get thru tough times and stay close to Allah and maintain an attitude of gratitude, how to stay mentally healthy, skincare tips and routine etc. Quite a lot of topics i know hahaha but very important for most people i suppose, a common struggle among women mostly i think;) would love to see a video on these topics:)

  • @Waaltaee
    @Waaltaee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The first commenter. Her husband is definitely emotionally abusive and controlling. I’m not sure what her religion is, but in Islam, it’s actually a sin from forbidding a Muslim from wanting a divorce. Divorce is in place for your protection and no one should take that choice from anyone. Also, if she is planning an exit plan, she needs to make sure she does so safely. Some men can be triggered and become violent when they find out you’re leaving. She needs to be able to get all her ducks in a row and secure her safety before leaving.

    • @samzam3764
      @samzam3764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My thoughts exactly. I hate how in some Muslim Arab and desi communities culture is more important to them than religion. I have read news stories where a wife would leave an unhealthy marriage and their own family and or the family of the husband and the husband would hunt them down and kill them. So that is something she needs to take into consideration. If she believes her family or her husband’s family would do something like that then she needs to do everything in the down low make sure that nothing can be found about about until she is safely out. Or she just needs to call police or someone who can protect her when she is ready to leave. Then she better make sure they can never locate her. So she would need to change her name, maybe move states or city, stop using known social media accounts and get a new phone so they don’t track her down. Considering her family is not supporting her, I would assume it can get nasty because if your own family doesn’t have your back then that gives her husband so much power over her. Inshallah she gets through this safely.

  • @ladychi7618
    @ladychi7618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Loren has a greatttttt point. All the times I went to my husband about my inlaws (any of them), he just wouldnt get it. I would always have to be the bigger person, I would always have to take it with a pinch of salt....up until I opened up to the actual person. Now there is mutual respect between us.

  • @ruqayyapervaiz7148
    @ruqayyapervaiz7148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think most of the questions are about trusting your intuition. Women really have a deep intuition and they need to listen to it and trust it more often. Asking loved ones around you for opinions is good also.

  • @pinar8735
    @pinar8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If the people close to you doesn't approve of the person who you want to marry, I would advise not to marry them. Your family, most of the time, has your best interests at heart and want the best for you.

    • @ramisakhan4399
      @ramisakhan4399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It also depends on what someone's family is like

  • @jamiefooddreamer6381
    @jamiefooddreamer6381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The girls who is having an arranged marrige with her cousin, GIRLS DONT MARRY YOUR COUSIN !!! You have so much more options than that.

  • @yaldasafari1496
    @yaldasafari1496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Who else cannot wait to watch the Asad sister's video? 💖😍💖

  • @fa_lovely
    @fa_lovely 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Almost as if we are all having a girls chat. I honestly love these videos, they are so neutral and real. Its nice to hear honest genuine answers. Love you guys. ♥️♥️

  • @sidraghafoor1805
    @sidraghafoor1805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love the podcasts don't stop!! plzzz do a Ramadan Edition one :))

  • @sduck8586
    @sduck8586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Just some constructive criticism i think it would be much more usefully if you dive more deeply into a few questions instead of answering many questions very superficially
    Also I think it is important to touch onto every aspect of the questions for example with the abusive husband, the women mentioned her parents being against a divorce and that is very important to talk about and how she can deal with that esp with divorce and not being financially independent and potentially not having the support (emotional and financial) from anyone

    • @nurainafarishaanuarali2373
      @nurainafarishaanuarali2373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I was thinking the same thing too. She might be contemplating getting help in the first place because her parents might not support her (financially and mentally). And maybe there's a chance she might loose the kid bcs she's not financially stable (not sure about the law).

  • @shabsb1282
    @shabsb1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a muslim woman myself it is so refreshing to hear muslim women telling the dv victim to seek help and get out of the marriage rather than telling her to be patient, change herself and tolerate more for the sake of the children.

  • @youngsinger1000
    @youngsinger1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I honestly felt like a bit of a loser for having no one to introduce my husband to when we first met, after he had introduced me to all of his 50 close friends😂 but my sisters and I are all the same, we’re just each others best friends and it honestly has been hard to let people in that circle. Glad to know that those feelings aren’t uncommon - keep the circle close and calm 🧘‍♀️

  • @samanthaorozco3860
    @samanthaorozco3860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am I the only one that thought it was weird that they said “hopefully they (mom) respects your decision to NOT MARRY YOUR COUSIN” but they all said “NO” to being with someone that was unattractive?! I think they should make sure they the girl in the US that she has the right to not marry someone.

  • @khadigaamar9769
    @khadigaamar9769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Look at Loren and Amanda at 22:41 min 😂😂

  • @slaveofgod7921
    @slaveofgod7921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Covert/hidden Emotional Abusers traits Red flags:7 Signs of Covert Narcissism
    1 - There’s something empty about them that you can’t quite put your finger on
    Covert narcissists may look good on paper, but there’s an emotional abyss inside them that often peeks out during their interactions with you and other people.
    For example, on rare occasions, I have a random narcissistic individual sign up for a coaching session. I can always tell right away that there is something off about them. They’re able to skillfully talk about how they’ve been in therapy, are being abused by a partner or family member, and how their friends worry about them.
    Only, there’s no emotion behind their words. It’s literally as if they’re reading from a script…or, trying to speak a foreign language to be able to communicate a message, but in a particularly emotionless manner.
    Their speeches and diatribes are often rather monotone because they don’t feel anything when they are communicating. They seem almost robotic.
    2 - Impersonal and aloof relationships
    A relationship with a covert narcissist often feels like the person in front of you is simply going through the motions.
    When it comes to moments that touch your heart or would cause most people to feel emotional, the covert narcissist can only pretend…or exhibit an aloofness that you find rather odd.
    The covert narcissist is not comfortable with displays of emotion or even simple cuddling. You may find that you always sit on opposite sides in the living room or sleep in separate bedrooms. This may manifest as the covert narcissist’s insistence on keeping a separate sleep schedule as you or their narrow focus on self-absorbing work.
    For instance, I once knew a covert narcissist who would spend hours a day during the summer tending their garden, only to let it rot at the end of every season. This same individual also spent an inordinate amount of time supposedly writing a book (that never got published)…all to minimize wider human interactions.
    3 - You feel less than and belittled, but you can’t really explain why
    A covert narcissist can emotionally assault you even though they may not be doing anything outwardly obvious.
    If you were to try to explain the situation to an outsider, you might feel a little silly because when you say it out loud, you realize it doesn’t sound like the narcissist is doing anything wrong.
    But your body knows they are. Your body tells you when you aren’t emotionally safe with someone. It might be their cold indifference on a special occasion even though, according to appearances, they are being “just a normal person”.
    Perhaps you feel like a total dunce simply riding beside them on the way to dinner. That’s because they are emitting this kind of energy based on the fact that they truly believe you are their subordinate and less intelligent than they are.
    How does your body respond when you’re around them? Do you feel free to be your authentic self? Do you feel cared for? It’s not about how they’re communicating with you. They might be saying kind things to you, but you feel like they’re a total fraud. You know, based on your history with them, that they are just paying you lip service and don’t really care about you aside from how you make their own life more convenient.
    4 - You feel emotionally starved
    No matter how long you’ve been with them, you realize you have felt alone since the beginning. Sure, there may have been a period of love-bombing, but that ended abruptly and you were left to figure out why their feelings changed with no warning.
    While things may appear normal on the outside, you realize you’re being kept at arm’s length on an emotional and energetic level. You understand that there are unspoken barriers that you are not to cross. The idea of a spontaneous hug or truly romantic walk in the park is something you only experience in your imagination.
    5 - Passive-Aggressiveness
    The covert narcissist is often long on words, but short on action.
    Since covert narcissists prefer to keep their inflated egos to themselves, they generally won’t outwardly argue with you. If you offer an idea, they’ll simply agree or say, “Great suggestion!” They will wax poetic, going into great detail about the idea, and then completely disregard it.
    When you ask why they didn’t follow through, they’ll brush it off and give you no real explanation. To further their self-serving agendas, they will call you a nag for bringing it up.
    6 - They’re repelled by your desire for intimate encounters
    Covert narcissists are often very good lovers in the beginning.
    However, just like the short-lived love bombing phase, it quickly becomes apparent that they are not at all interested in your needs or desires to be intimate.
    If you try to talk to them about this sensitive subject, they will accuse you of being selfish, only caring about your own needs. There may be long periods of abstinence in your relationship. Ironically, you discover that they are only concerned with their needs and the only time you are intimate is when it’s something they want…and not a moment sooner.
    7 - They never smile with their eyes…unless they are putting you down
    Covert narcissists don’t really get excited or feel warm fuzzies the way the rest of us do.
    Not all narcissists, however, have the dead-eyed smile of the covert narcissist.
    I’ve seen even malignant narcissists express varying levels of short-lived happiness in their eyes…but the covert narcissist has a dead stare that leaves you feeling uncomfortable, even when they are smiling.
    The only time you see their eyes light up is when they have successfully belittled you. Extra points if they can achieve this while pretending to behave normally.

  • @deewebb2506
    @deewebb2506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for admitting you are not qualified to answer that question. Bravo!!

  • @lipstick-jj4vz
    @lipstick-jj4vz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Give loren tips, She had a broken engagement and now divorced. And barely 25. Lets admit, some of its her

  • @abbieg3945
    @abbieg3945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To the girl in an abusive relationship get out . ESPECIALLY if it is physical abuse . This is how so many women die in these situations . If he is abusive to you he will end up hurting your children too! This man is standing in your way of a better life and a better future partner who will treat you all the RIGHT ways .

    • @fizzybizzy3790
      @fizzybizzy3790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Any woman in any sort of abusive relationship should get out of it, whether it's physical, emotional, financial, or sexual abuse. Emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical.

    • @abbieg3945
      @abbieg3945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fizzybizzy3790 true !

  • @sarah.7707
    @sarah.7707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It would be so awesome if you guys did a video about like being an influencer, maybe advice for people who want to take that road. I feel like there are a lot of things that the average person wouldn’t think about and since you guys are all successful influencers it’s definitely something you know a lot about. Just a thought ❤️

  • @princesskimotto5087
    @princesskimotto5087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really love watching your podcasts.. I always wait for your videos.. I don't have sister so I really need to hear this kind of things even though sometimes I don't relate to the topics😅 I think I found my virtual sisters in three of you❤

  • @haddisr5042
    @haddisr5042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What are your thoughts on a female pursuing a guy they are interested in? Should I ask a guy 'out' I am interested in getting to know better? If yes, what is a good way of doing so? We are both muslim and we talk every now and then when I see him at work but he's very dense and I really would like to ask him 'out' on a casual outing in a public setting/

  • @linaa4076
    @linaa4076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I enjoyed listening to all the advice you girls give for the dilemmas! I totally agree with cutting out toxic jealous friends. And hanging out with such negative energy isnt that fun either. That's why I just like to be close with my sisters. I can't believe families force cousins to marry each other. How traumatizing can that be. It's like your half sibling. Parent's dont realize it's not a roommate they have to be intimate. Its really gross in my opinion.

  • @Riveramazons
    @Riveramazons 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol Amanda blinks so much!! Can’t stop noticing it :p

    • @AmandaAsad
      @AmandaAsad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Well a girl gotta live 😂

  • @sheylasaldivar
    @sheylasaldivar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so relatable and that’s why you girls are my fav!! 💕

  • @naziabegum2666
    @naziabegum2666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No one should marry their cousin, we all have the right to find our own partner in this lifetime.
    Some constructive criticism, some of these questions need answers that require deeper engagement or a debate.

    • @Thesiddiqua
      @Thesiddiqua ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one should marry their cousin? Why? Islam says it’s allowed so why shouldn’t one? Obviously one mustn’t be forced, but why generalize about halal things?

  • @sherryidibo2304
    @sherryidibo2304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Our society complicate everything..this is why many married couples ar not happy..most women are trapped and stuck in a relationship..Arab men are so controlling and abusive. And when the woman wants to leave that relationship she has to come back to live the parents and they control her life.

    • @sophiabellakbira7263
      @sophiabellakbira7263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Legit so.true..idk whats worse the.unhappy relationship or.the controlling.parents

  • @Edit-vn5vn
    @Edit-vn5vn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    COME BACK AND POST THESE … u know once y’all settle into life (congrats to you ALL habibtis 😢)

  • @ashleywolford948
    @ashleywolford948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y'all should make a video on how to make money through Instagram and the process it took to become influencers.

  • @malenamamedova8845
    @malenamamedova8845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I enjoy watching all three sisters 🥰 much love ❤️

  • @matintaghirad9628
    @matintaghirad9628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi. I love you all. Just a quick note, move the camera a little farther. In podcasts with more than one person, it is more pleasing to the eye if people are separated to realize who is really talking and feeling like your setting down with the group as well

  • @e.y5702
    @e.y5702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In The Netherlands ( where i live) we have something called Veilig Thuis (Safe House). You can call them and speak to them or have advice from them about your situation with abuse. I dont know if there is something similair in the States, but she can call them and talk to them anonymously

  • @areebakhan9296
    @areebakhan9296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are literally the best! Love y'all sooooo much! May Allah make your lives easier and guide you..ameen💖💖💖

  • @NRam-ke6cs
    @NRam-ke6cs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm more into vlog style videos rather than sit down to chat ones. But, anyway enjoyed it.

  • @wasagoo
    @wasagoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    its such a small world. I still have links to my highschool classmates everywhere, workplaces, friends of new friends, etc. But I do unfollow the ones I dont like. but im still following people I dont speak to anymore

  • @emansaad8153
    @emansaad8153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    for the next dilemma video: am 22 years old and i have no self confidence about how i look , or my study am a 5th year medical student and it really makes me sad when i see others having self confidence even if they are wrong and am right and cant show it . maybe its in my personality but am really tired of it . any advice?

  • @RafiyaZavery
    @RafiyaZavery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you guys sooo much.... Just waiting for the reply on insta from you guys. I just love everything about you all, and every video, stories just inspire me more. I really admire you guys. I feel like you guys relate a lot to me and my sisters.

  • @mobinaalkasir86
    @mobinaalkasir86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just lovee your podcasts😍😍 wish you all the success inshallah♥️

  • @123stargirl456
    @123stargirl456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This happened to me. We are happily married now. Focus on you!

  • @lavinkamal5276
    @lavinkamal5276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    About having jealous friends , I have some but I just can’t get ride of them bcs I feel so shame and awful bcs they were part of my life at some points but still I don’t wana be with them but I can’t cut them , u know what I mean 😂💔 I feel bad I just feel BAD

    • @chickenbaddie318
      @chickenbaddie318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I understand how that feels but also I’ve seen it happen to my mom. She’s had friends constantly comparing and trying to one up her. When ever they hear good news from her u could see the jealousy instead of excitement. I would tell her to cut them out but she felt bad because there would be times where they would open up to her about private things so she thought maybe they aren’t too bad. My mom finally decided to cut all ties when she saw her kids getting affected. Everything her friend was complaining about ended up happening to us. My mom got freaked out and our dreams was weird. We literally got evil eye and went through the toughest times and are still going through it. I say slowly stop talking to them 24/7, go from 24/7 to one time a week to one time a month to one time a year. Trust me cause jealousy only leads to evil eye and evil eye could kill. May Allah protect us

  • @aysusengil9366
    @aysusengil9366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please make these videos longer love from Germany ❤️

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These podcast style type of videos are such a great idea.

  • @bellaspage8908
    @bellaspage8908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma’sha’Allah love this vlog hope there’s more to come In’sha’Allah

  • @no_one24
    @no_one24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah you are all so inspiring !💫

  • @hopefulabdallah
    @hopefulabdallah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice conversation!
    Yes, if there is no attraction then don’t waste your time as anything prolonged past attraction is just keeping yourself miserable and waste of your life when you have other options!
    And when you are attracted to, but the other person is not attracted to you then trying to woo them is just emotional manipulation that may keep the other person miserable rest of their lives for having fallen to your emotional overtures or more and it’s getting harder to survive a relationship so it’s more important than ever in this age as splitsville is among the nearest exits🧐!
    And know that your attractions change overtime depending on your available options so a wise person is foresighted and knows what their future options would look like and make intelligent choices and decisions or listens to everyone’s suggestions or wisdom and make a decision of their own or sets the stage/expectations upfront for the relationship to have the right expectations from the start and evaluates and includes the damages in the contract or prenuptial, for violating the contract!🙂
    Check out Jessica Simpson’s ‘I belong to me’ song that will add to one’s wisdom in relationships! - 💡! you may add her/a song clip in your next conversation topic!

  • @alsnhwkabskowwlmandnwnjq1809
    @alsnhwkabskowwlmandnwnjq1809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love all of these sisters a true inspiration 💝💝

  • @ghadatachoua1933
    @ghadatachoua1933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh realy !!!!! It was perfect, i really enjoy it so so so much♥️

  • @hanublackthorn6744
    @hanublackthorn6744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these ♥️ please never stop them!!

  • @aidanaidan9255
    @aidanaidan9255 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So wise girls ! Thanks for being you 💞

  • @RAEBAE-km9zs
    @RAEBAE-km9zs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks ladies 💕

  • @leastidyworld4365
    @leastidyworld4365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you balance having another channel to make content for?
    I’m so glad you made it, though, so I have more content to watch from you guys.

  • @helloamarachi
    @helloamarachi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Facts, thats why I am so close to my sisters ♥️

  • @mervesaidova5640
    @mervesaidova5640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m curious to hear Lorens and/or Amanda’s past relationships and why it didn’t work out. Do you guys consider wearing the hijab one day? All out of curiosity. I enjoy your videos very much💕☺️

  • @hellouitsme226
    @hellouitsme226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have got a question: a friend of mine has a muslim boyfriend. She was raised christian but left the religion a few years ago and is an atheist since then. She had always been an independent, strong girl who would never let anybody tell her what to do. She and her boyfriend are together for a half a year now and both families are kind of okay with it, but she recently told me that her boyfriend would like to marry her islamically so their relationship would be halal and she would do this favour for him. Is this even possible if she won't convert? Of course i am super happy for her but it worries me a bit that her boyfriend doesn't want her to go clubbing without him (just girls nights out) and they have very different opinions on how to raise children (especially daugthers). Also to mention: shes only 20 and was in some relationships before she met him- i've heard that this makes it haram for a muslim man anyway so i feel like he lives double standards and just wants to marry her to controll her....sorry for my bad english but i would appreciate your help since i am not that well educatet on islam

    • @hellouitsme226
      @hellouitsme226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      just want to add that i really like her boyfriend and somehow he really grounded her but it feels like he wants another version of her and it makes me sad to see how he restricts her

    • @chickenbaddie318
      @chickenbaddie318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello reading all this makes me surprised that a Muslim man is dating in general if he’s so “religious”. In Islam a man can marry outside his religion but I believe they have to be Christian, Jew, or Muslim. So it’s not permitted for him to marry an atheist cause it would go against his religion and at that point it would be pointless to make it “halal” if he’s going into a haram marriage. She’s so young she shouldn’t be with a man where she doesn’t entirely agree with his opinions because eventually they will leave each other. Does she want a divorce at 25? Or a long lasting marriage? She needs to wake up a little. And it’s not religion that makes a man “strict” it could be just his personality and a cultural thing. It’s important to separate Islam and culture cause no where in the Quran does it say a man should control his wife in fact it gives women rights. I hope my advice helped :)

    • @hellouitsme226
      @hellouitsme226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chickenbaddie318 thanks for your help! This makes a lot of sence and I will try to speak with her in a gentle way...I hope she wants to hear my opinion since she seem to be in a bubble, have a nice day!!

  • @rahmaberriahii832
    @rahmaberriahii832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love so much this kind of videos because I get a lot of advice as well from the dilemas of other girls😂❤️

  • @iba3588
    @iba3588 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was astonished that amanda knew about john cena and nikki bella😆because I grew up watching wrestling.
    BTW loved the whole discussion!♥️

  • @aestheticumamah6800
    @aestheticumamah6800 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fist When you guys said you guys will do like podcast style I was like 😮 Cuz i wanted to see you guys like vlog together on your life(I already watch your personal channels).But now like I really love this podcast style and its nice to see you guys having like a chat/Q&A Love Your Channel💖❤❤💕

  • @i_comment_on_everything
    @i_comment_on_everything 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister in law can also be your husband's brothers wife. A lot of women have problems with them

  • @melnn6541
    @melnn6541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sever issues in marriage you need to seek an Islamic sheik counselor. Doesn’t matter what your parents or spouse says. Speak to them. Yaser Birjas is a greattt sheikh/counselor. He does online appointments

  • @user-ub9eo4wp6c
    @user-ub9eo4wp6c 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loved the video we want more of these

  • @ladyzakari2342
    @ladyzakari2342 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspirational as always

  • @angelicahassan1427
    @angelicahassan1427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! You guys are so smart! 😊

  • @raisa2840
    @raisa2840 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful,modest and humble you all

  • @alyaaaalrabeiah739
    @alyaaaalrabeiah739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    is this live or prerecorded ?

  • @rb1948
    @rb1948 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely, honest advice thanks

  • @maelle7109
    @maelle7109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very possible that the guy (cousin) doesn't himself come to see her bc he doesn't have the right visa/passport for that...

  • @madebyyuzz
    @madebyyuzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In my opinion besides trying to make a difference in their own lives all of these people should make a lot of dua it’s the best way to go♥️

  • @ibrahimn22
    @ibrahimn22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is crazy the woman on the right just said she would use a tracking app.
    The other one saying he don't tell me where he is going and that's the red flag.
    Crazy.

  • @chicpoetique
    @chicpoetique 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    is loren wearing the lululemon define jacket? It looks amazing on you!!

  • @mahaabdeen5808
    @mahaabdeen5808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you .. this was really helpfull 🥰

  • @rodetaib8336
    @rodetaib8336 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like ur podcast
    It so much fun

  • @Island_girl5427
    @Island_girl5427 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    22:38 i thought this was about the youngest sister's situation 😮it wasn't

  • @heckitsbieberr
    @heckitsbieberr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the video 💕

  • @RanaYurtsever
    @RanaYurtsever 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMGOD, Leena, please link your top!😍😍😍

  • @mariumnouman3038
    @mariumnouman3038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who is your parents fav daughter...you never talk about your brother...

  • @mariahwardek168
    @mariahwardek168 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos so much

  • @mounaa9605
    @mounaa9605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this channel and especially this format. But could you next time write the questions so that we can read along.Sometimes you read the questions too quickly. love from germany :3

  • @perksofbeinghijabisisters
    @perksofbeinghijabisisters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who else is enjoying these type of videos 😍

  • @uzmasarwar7912
    @uzmasarwar7912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you guys replace the microphones?

  • @amalyako
    @amalyako 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u, girls!! ❤️

  • @Rana-d1l
    @Rana-d1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please talk about eating disorders

  • @marjoriebaut7981
    @marjoriebaut7981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get a apple air tag I think it is called. It’s like 25$ put it in his car lol I rather people call us creepy but like they can’t be fooling us you know. My husband and I shared our location but there is anything wrong with it. I rely don’t think is being creepy. But I hope you get my point

  • @sharouka1473
    @sharouka1473 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first girl if she is Muslim she should talk to an imam or sheik to get support
    Get other family members who side with her support her in fighting this divorce.

  • @Lifeanddreams2024
    @Lifeanddreams2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please give more advice because now almost everyone in blind in love

  • @saverasavera3652
    @saverasavera3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why am I watching this I’m gonna get an arrange marriage 🤣hope not but most probably