*Emotional* Changes in 2022 | Asad Sisters Episode 8
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I'm not Muslim but Christian and I love all your girls content. Its like having more sisters and I learn so much about your faith as well. I like it when you explain things about your culture/faith as well as I did not grow up knowing these things. I'd love to hear a podcast.
When Amanda cried, I almost cried to! Its hard to leave family, your hometown, and all your childhood memories and close that door. Its the end of a chapter and can be sad, but the next chapter is full of good things.
Just think of how long you have waited to be married to your fiancé. You wont have to say goodbye at the end of the day or the weekend. That this was the time you had been dreaming of.
You will wake up one day, sun shining, with your husband next to you, kids down the hall healthy and happy, your career where you want it, in your own home, family only a weekend trip away and realise you are happy - really happy - and this is what you prayed for.
I loved reading your comment ❤ hope she has a happy ending
Just so you know Amanda, most of us ladies went through the same thing before we married. Knowing how much our families love us, its difficult to leave for the unknown, its scary. Allah swt is always you. Ask for n tell him everything; he's listening, always.
I'm not Muslim and I love watching their videos 🥰
@@maharimitchell3169 Hi Mahari. That is bc they are truly loving, caring people. Mashallah alayhoum.
This was so beautiful to read my heart also broke seeing Amanda cry she deserves a break from the problems and stresses in her life
Seeing Amanda cry broke my heart. Take a breath, sis. This year is a huge life change but you have an amazing support system to help with the transition. You've got this!
I’m Amanda right now ! I don’t feel alone now
Sis? Since when do white people use the word "sis"? Stealing people's word usage and culture again.
@@alnajjar2726 They are Muslim, and Muslims call each other sister brother all the time, even if not related. They are all brothers and sister in religion and humanity.
@@greenhomestead6305 Clearly thet aren't Muslim. They obviously are American.
@@alnajjar2726 that is their religion. Just cos they’re American doesn’t mean they’re not Muslim
I would love for y’all to make a podcast but also have some content like vlogs, fashion videos, basically what y’all have already been making.
I can relate to Amanda. I have been married for 3 years and still find it hard that I’ve left my childhood home and parents. I’m pregnant and have been thinking a lot about the circle of life. It was only yesterday that we were kids, now having kids. Also seeing our parents age isn’t easier. I always worry about my parents I don’t want them to fee lonely at all
the podcast idea is so smart! it will def get u guys very far, because u guys are so open minded to talking about alot of muslim girl topics that are not always talked about.
One of the most interesting topics to me is if you could talk about how your parents were able to raise you in a society that is completely different from your culture,but still they managed to keep you in touch with your culture and religion! I admire that and respect it
I can totally relate to Amanda. We're 3 sisters as well and I'm the youngest. My sisters went to study abroad and then right after, both got married same year. So I was always the one at home responsible for everything at home especially my parents. And I used to cry just thinking about leaving them after the wedding. And it's been 2 years. I still cry every time I let myself think of them. I'm sure none of the other 5 siblings feel the way I do. *Hugs* for Amanda. Just remember you can ask Allah to take care of them the way they took care of you.
Aww sis meybe stay in contact with them by calling and texting them will make you feel better and for sure they will visit over. Hope education and friends gets you busy to avoid you to cry.
Once in a while a podcast is nice but I love you’re fashion and travel content so much!! 😍
Can y'all have guests? Like mama and baba and all the boys? That would be cute.
Amanda don't cry. Thankfully since I have been following you I know you do your best to visit your parents and them you when you were in Dallas and I loved that. You'll be fine. Can't wait for you to start your next chapter girls🥰
That’s an amazing idea!
I love how organized the conversation was this time and everybody had a chance to talk and express their thoughts and feelings. I love you all so much 🥰
yes would love to have a podcast hosted by you girls! Muslim/girls women definitely need one to help navigate faith in the modern world!
Love how Loren and Amanda constantly compliment Leena, its obvious they really look up to her. 💗 Amanda habibty, it is hard to move away but as Leena said you're not loosing anything instead you're gaining more family. It'll be an adjustment but you and Muhammad will have each other to lean on and that can really strengthen a relationship. Remember to communicate well, have patience with each other and give each other grace. Don't let issues build up rather work on them as they come. May Allah bless you with a happy and successful marriage full of mutual respect, strong eman, and loads of admiration, ameen!! So happy for you! Sending you virtual hugs!!
I love 💕 the podcast style video 🎙️ 📷 congrats Amanda hope the September 3rd preparations go well 💍!!!
I totally understand how you feel, Amanda. I love my husband so much but because I came from a close knit family, it freaked me out with ALL the changes. I moved an hr away, I couldn’t just go to my moms for a few nights and this was a biggie, change my emergency contact to my husband. Why isn’t that something people talk about more?! Growing pains are common and it will make you appreciate your family even more. Loved this video, ladies
I’m not Muslim but I still LOVE all your guys’ content!! Y’all are so relatable and inspiring. It’s so REFRESHING to see and hear how you girls live your life with so much love, intention and grace. May God bless you and your family always!! Xoxo 💕💕
Right, I just love their aura. They are so genuine and authentic and I love that
Yeah they have amazing sisterhood and they feel like my sisters in Islam.
I think thats a great thing about Islam...to have the sisterhood and know you are safe and not judged
Who else loves a podcast video?
All three sisters done a good job with the podcast video Mashallah!! 💖🥰💖
Amanda is so sweet and so relatable to us who get lost I love how she normalizes not knowing ❤️ wishing u success
You guys remind me of my sisters and I we are also 3, and having the close bond we have, like you girls has been my saving grace my entire life. Funny how “home” is considered four walls, but I think when you’re with family you’re really home. I really like this podcast style! Sending love!
24:41 Amanda it's totally acceptable to be emotional 😭 as a fellow people pleaser I agree it with you about the whole not living close by to family + being married. It's different when you move out for studying/a job but being married it is hard.
I'd love to hear more about Loren's perspective of her life changes as she transitions into the real world. Also, what her thoughts on marriage (if any at all) in the near future might be as she enters this new chapter💗
Just 1 min in and I hear "there's not really a podcast that exists for Muslim women, in general, to talk about relatable girly things".... Yes, there are. No intended hate whatsoever, and I wish you ladies well, but I think you should acknowledge instead of dismiss those that came before you.
maybe what she could have said instead is "there aren't enough..."
I can totally relate to Amanda’s feelings. I never really thought about it prior to marriage, but it’s so good Amanda is and allowing herself to feel those emotions. I was born and raised in FL, the only life I ever knew (& weather 😂) and I moved to long island, NY which was such a major change for me. I appreciate her even bringing that topic up because I feel like it’s not spoken about a lot. ❤️
I love this podcast setup! Happy New Year and blessings to you, sisters!
Please consider the podcast idea, it would be so fun listening to you girls! amanda you made me tear, i don't come from a close-together family but I can totally relate with you because change freaks me out, it's gonna be hard for sure, but it'll get better especially if you make it a habit to visit your fam every weekened or once in 2 weeks..whatever suits your schedule. God bless y'all can't wait for next video
Thats such a great idea for yall to start a podcast, can’t wait! Definitely much needed in our community. Leena youre such a good influencer , mom, wife and big sister, you can tell on this video how much Loren and Amanda look up to you 😍 Amanda youre such a sweetheart May Allah give you happiness and success in your future , you got me 😢 by the end of the video.
Loren love how ambitious and confident youve become! Yall keep doing what youre doing all three of you are great examples 💕
I love that all sisters are at different stages in their life, almost making them all so relatable in a way. We love you ladies!
I would suggest looking up Dr. Brooke Goldner's diet for inflammatory/gut issues
Amanda that's what I'm afraid of too,I'm engaged an my fiance has been talking about marriage not that I don't want to,I'm just a home person I'm afraid of leaving my things that I'm used to,I just feel like everything will change i get really emotional too wen thinking ❤️
I totally understand Amanda. I'm my parents' only daughter and they are my EVERYTHING. I've been trying to find a partner who lives close enough to my current home, so I can be there for my parents if they need me and it's hard. Mohammed seems like a great person, and you've got an amazing sister who will be near them. You can do this.
Loren is a natural!! Great presence and she shifted gears so well with asking questions
I would love a podcast. Amanda you are such a sweetheart, you will settle into your married life and all these jitters will go away. You are blessed 😇 all the best so excited for this wedding it will be nothing short of elegant 🇨🇦🥰
Amanda!! Don’t worry. I moved out and live 4 hrs away from my family. It was hard at first, but like Leena said this is a part of life. It gets much easier, you can always travel and your parents/ home will always be your home. Your parents will be okay, marriage is the best thing ever, even if you don’t live near your home❤️ your relationships at home will become more quality over quantity
I really appreciate that you guys exist and are a really relatable and current channel that muslim girls can enjoy. I literally sit here with a cuppa and snacks and love watching you all xx
Ive watched you all separately, but this is the video that made me subscribe to this channel. I think that the honesty and vulnerability allowed me to connect with you guys more as women and people! i loved this❤️
I think you should do more podcasts stuff specially for Muslim girls...
Best wishes to all of you for the rest of the year.
Amanda best of luck and congratulations for your wedding... May Allah hold your heart Ameen summ Ameen ♥️♥️♥️
I'm in nursing school as well, just started my hardest semester (and hoping to graduate in december iA) I'm right there with you on anxiety Loren! You got this!! It'll be so worth it
I had to move from the uk to Canada its extremely hard leaving luv ones. At least you will be in the same country. Luv watching you all MashAllah alway interesting and original topics about life and family keep it up bless you all xx
Amanda I want to give you a big hug. I understand exactlyyy how you feel. That’s how I felt when I got married and it took me so long to adjust but eventually I did. I want you to know it will get better and you are doing nothing wrong putting yourself first. Your family is blessed to have you and that will never change. ❤️
Oh Amanda, I cried with you hunny. You are not alone, and your feelings are totally valid. I left my family in Australia and came to US and its been 4 years now and I'm just healing from the move. It's going to take time, and be sure to keep yourself busy and talk to your family/husband about how you are (actually) going and what you're feeling. Its so important to get it off your chest, I cant stress that enough. If I had to change something it would have been to set personal/development goals like reading more, and being more active in our community. Maybe this is your time to focus on your inner self and growth. You got this girl. Chin up!
How often do you visit home? Is it really hard day to day? I ask because I’ve gotten to know a guy and I’ll end up having to make the opposite move from you (US to Aus) and I worry about it :(
Another non-Muslim girl chiming in - I love this podcast style & definitely see myself being able to throw on some headphones and listen. I did a minor in world religions way back in university (I'm 30 now) and loved learning more about Islam and other religions/cultures so I love that take on content. I also love the sister/girl talk style. Only child marrying into a family with 3 girls (I'm getting married a week after you Amanda) and the wedding planning is stressful!
Can't wait for more content from you ladies!
I enjoys this style a lot more! It felt like I was there with you all just chatting away. It also felt less staged and more natural than the vlogs, not that the vlogs were staged in anyway but felt like it took more energy to plan things for you all to do. Love you all!
You 3 were so respectful of one another especially in letting each sister have enough time to share their thoughts without interruption. Looking forward to some more Ramadan content, not just food wise but spiritual betterment. :)
I would love a podcast. As a non- muslin I want to learn more about. I grew up knowing my grandfather was a German-Turk who was Muslim, so I want to know more and learn about my heritage. Thank you ladies I love all three of you. I miss seeing your parents though ❤️
i love this podcast style, I feel like because you all have your own channels we get that vlog content there, so having this style is nice and honestly love listening to you guys talk through things like life, marriage work etc 💓
So relatable Amanda..I lost my mum earlier this year and now I spend all my time worrying and being upset about my dad 😢
So sorry to hear about your loss sending you warm hugs 💕
We want daily Ramadan blogs and Babas cooking
Oh my God! Yes to a podcast. I recognized that gap in the podcasting space, so I started one myself to share my experiences as a Muslimah on a journey to building a healthy self esteem, body image and self love, and there's so much room for more. Will definitely listen to your podcast ☺️
Oh my sweet Amanda. You made me cry. You will do great as a married woman and Mohamed us a good man. Your parents will be always there for you. MY dad told me something: you are like a bird, you need to fly with your own wings but i will always keep looking after you from the family nest , where you can come back to rest. Just enjoy the life and how it flows
I loved this video! And one thing I wanted to note that I observed THROUGHOUT this video is how sensitive, soft, and validating you guys are to each other and to each other’s feelings regardless of how big or small said concern is. It’s actually inspiring and affirming to witness. It makes me/reminds me to slow down while speaking and rest in kindness and softness more, something that seems very present in Leena when consoling Amanda and Loren Allahumma Barik. All of your personalities shine through and waltz together in a beautiful way and it’s so refreshing to witness. May Allah preserve you all Ameen!
Topics: Maybe invite Naeem on the podcast and have talk about that sister dynamic and his take on growing up amongst that feminine energy/having sisterhood
2) Ramadan is coming up so perhaps like Cooking with The Asad Sisters while you talk about a specific topic whether it’s a Q+A etc!
3) This isn’t a podcast style but would love to see a BTS “Content Day” when the three of you guys are together and what that looks like in terms of helping one another and content batching!
Love, Hanaan
girls, I really miss your videos. They are useful and fun to watch too. I really consider you as my sisters. PLEASE keep vlogging.
I feel for you Amanda. Once you adapt to your new life things will definitely get easier in that aspect of leaving your parents house. You will start a family with your husband and focus on your new home with him. It’s hard to think of the “unknown” because we don’t have full control over our future. Take everything one step at a time and focus on what you can control. Stay strong 🥰
Love you Amanda. 💖 I understand completely your emotions, it's really not easy leaving your family, but know that you won't be too far from them. May Allah bless you with much happiness in your married life. You're a real sweetie. Sending you all so much love and duas from the UK.🥰💕😘
I loved this video, mashaAllah! What Amanda said really hit home for me. I lived in a small town my entire life and I am the youngest of 5 in my family. I got married when I was 21 and moved four hours away (from the US to Canada actually!). It was really hard for me at first and although it’s been two years it is still hard for me some days. Living in a new place (and new country in my case), with a new person and not having any family or friends to support me was a really big shock to my mental health. So many of the fears Amanda mentioned were fears I had as well. I can’t say I’m fully used to it but there was also a time when I thought I’d never make it this far. I give myself tons of props now for getting to where I am mentally and emotionally and you will get there too. My advice is to make tons of duaa, talk to your family often, visit as often as you can, and maybe even talk to a licensed professional counselor! All of those things will ease your journey and before you know it you will be enjoying your new life more than you thought you could. Best of luck inshaAllah to all three of you wonderful ladies! ❤️
Love from IRELAND 🍀 aww I've missed all of you I'm so happy your back ☺️you all look so beautiful
I love love loved this podcast vibe!!! I love watching and listening to podcasts when I work out, on my way to work and even when I’m cooking! ☺️
Where do u guys live?! I am actually moving to Richardson in sha Allah by June!!
I love this video.. could you do video about your childhood and how is it like to be raised as muslims children in the USA .
Loved this style, would love to see more :) great perspective on goal setting and how Ramadan is a nice time of year to take stock and start new rather than new year which can feel quite pressurising and rushed. Thanks for sharing! x
I’m not Muslim but I would listen.
Have u guys considered wearing hijab?!
Ahhh omg Loren if you move out for your job your TH-cam videos are going to be awesome! I can already see your healthy morning routines and what I eat in a days!! So excited 🥰
ALWAYS LOVE THE 3 BEAUTIFUL PRECIOUS SISTERS LEENA AMANDA AND LOREN!!❤️❤️ SOOO BEAUTIFUL AND STUNNING MASHA ALLAH!!!💜🥺
Hi girls❤ I'm really happy to have found you !! You are fantastic and wonderful! I have never been bored with you! I only want the best for you ❤
I miss the reality show style!! It was so fun to watch!! Can you mix it in??
Please know all three of you, that you are so appreciated and loved by so many girls and women out there!
You’ve got more supporters than you might realize. Thank you for your work ♥️
This was me. Didn't want to leave my mom and dad. It was sad but I did it alxamdulillaah
Loved this video. My eyes started to water when Amanda spoke about moving out, its okay Amanda you will get used married life and im sure u will be excited to decorate ur new place inshallah! X
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please guys you have to translate your content to Arabic 👌👌👌
Loved this style video 💕 you guys have come a long way
Before you set the wedding date, you expressed frustration with being in limbo. Your parents have known this time would come for all their children.They want you to be happy and look forward to you starting your own family. Try to keep that in mind. Feeling anxious about the future is normal but try to remember your parents will be happy to see you happy and settled IA.
I feel like Amanda feels a sense guilt for "leaving" her family because she's so giving and they probably rely on her so much. This is the feeling I feel often and I think arab Muslim girls do feel this because we take on household burdens etc. There is also the anxiety of becoming a partner and living q totally different life. You go from being someone's kid to someone's wife.
It's difficult to navigate but good to talk about with family to make sure it doesn't bottle up.
Your family would much rather see you married and happy and you will value time with them once you move out.
All the best!!
can this come back?! would love a sisters/muslim podcast!
Awww Amanda! I cried with you. It’s so sad when you have to leave your parents 😭😭😭alhamdulillah I love your sister channel and all of your individual channels ❤️
What I love about these videos is all three of you are in very relatable phases of your lives. From school, to getting married and being a mom and a new homeowner its all very interesting and relatable content so anything you post will be welcome :)
I started crying when I saw Amanda cry 😭 home will always be home!!! May Allah swt bless you all!! This will be the most exciting part of Amandas life, its so common to feel overwhelmed, but just enjoy these next few months with family for all these special moments. Last year was the last Ramadan I had with most of my siblings because most of them have moved out but it is hard, i miss living with my siblings so much so please enjoy and make loads of memories before then!!! May Allah swt make this year good and full of happiness iA 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I wanted to stay away from my family when I got married as hard as I could, i wanted to feel independent and grownup lol. It hit me one morning when i was making coffee for myself and my husband said can you make me one? I started freaking out and I felt like what is happening?! How did my life change ? Why did i move out and start living with my husband who is suddenly asking me to make coffee for him 🥺😄 silly of me but that’s how i felt. Anyway it became easier and easier and I visit my moms house every once in a while when i need a hug or just to sit down with my mom drinking tea or coffee. Embrace your feelings. It takes time Amanda. It’s ok. Love you girls 💕
Amanda it’s so hard to watch you cry girl just be happy and god is watching you and will take care of you. We love you
So wasn’t going to comment but needed to tell Amanda.. trust me when I say it will be ok. I broke down too and felt like I was leaving the family and letting my family down some reason because I was leaving the family home etc. 1)your not selfish for getting married and living your life. 2) your family/ parents couldn’t be more proud and happy for your love and happiness. ( of course they will miss you but can move on lol)
3) stop stressing and just enjoy all of the experiences.
Your so pretty and kind and inshallah Allah has amazing things written for you but you should have fun on the ride. Congratulations girls on everything and lots of love. ❤️🌷
Amanda’s words broke my heart🥺😢 I totally understand how she felt. I just wanted to give her a hug.♥️
Leeeennaa why tiktok!! TH-cam is awesome
Omg amanda you made me cry because I'm also a people pleaser and hearing you cry about your parents and marriage life made me so sad that I literally shed tears and am honestly scared of marriage because of that. But because Leena said that it's like a normal part of life, I really felt that and think it'll all be okay. Thank you ladies so much!❤😘😘
I totally relate to Amanda, bless her. I didn't think getting married would eventually mean moving country and I still have anxiety when I have to leave my family although I have small children. Moving away from family has to be the hardest thing ever!
I like the idea of muslim girls podcast and I want to see more of this content, Hi from Saudi Arabia 💚
Love the podcast idea!! You should also check out The Digital Sisterhood podcast, a podcast by Muslim women which is very relatable as well :))
This marriage situation is so stressful for Amanda. Since day one you have been so stressed regarding this marriage thing. I think u need to try and enjoy this whole process and not worry so much things will work out themselves but so many girls can relate especially being so young as you are.
I am a long time follower of you guys and am not a Muslim but share your values. I wonder the number of non Muslim females are followers
It’s hard to set goals and make plans in such a weird time with the pandemic and how unpredictable everything is.
Amanda when you cried about feeling sad leaving your parents, I felt that. I feel that on a daily basis. It\s sad that as we grow up, our parents grow old :(
I am not Muslim, but I think the podcast for Muslim women is brilliant ladies! Happy birthday, Leena!
I have been feeling the same as amanda. I dont know sometimes amanda doesn’t express but i can feel it from her eyes and feel the same way. Like i have been left out by everyone and i sometimes feel so worthless and unlovable i dont want to feel like that but i still cant control how i feel about myself😭
i totally understand you Amanda, when i got married at 20 i left behind my mom all alone with my grandma, and i am the youngest of 5 girls and we all left one by one so it made me feel so guilty, but thankfully my mother was so supportive and encouraging it gave me the strength to be able to leave. i'm just glad i have siblings that live in the same neighbourhood as my mom (like leena in the future) so that's great and i hope in the future i can also come live in the same city ❤️
just try to think about your future life with Mohammed and all the good things that will come with that, your parents will be well taken care of inshAllah they are not alone 💙
Trust me Amanda i entirelly get u. My Baba doesn’t live with us, it’s us 3 sisters. My boyfriend wanted us to get engaged and live in the city where he’s from. I turned it down cause I didn’t want to be away from my sisters and mom and baba. So I get u. But Allah helps, make dua he helps u overcome all the difficulties. I realise that now.
When I got married I moved in with my husband who lived 500km away. We were both alone in the city without family. He also had his family somewhere else and because of his job we lived there for two years. As life would have it, we moved several times and now live only an hour away from the family-in-law and only 2 1/2 hours away from my family.
It is often hard and you miss your family, friends and home but there is always something new to see. It's also fun to show your family the new city you live in when they visit.
I would love if you can talk how you guys grew up in a interracial family. My family is Christian I’m Muslim and my husband is a Muslim Arab. So I just like if you can share your experiences and what was fun about it. Kisses! 😘
I appreciate this practice of expressing sincere feelings. It is very helpful for mental health and a positive mind.
I think that's a great idea In'shaa'Allah. Now that you mentioned it, I think I have that void 🤔, no sisters and no aunt's. I would lovvvvvve this podcast. Also, what if you guys take calls for questions needing sisterly advice, not necessarily professional advice. Love it MashAllah 💕
Dear and sweet Amanda, you have such a loyal and sweet demeanor about you. I understand the transitioning is really difficult. It's ok.. take your time, you can videocall your parents or sisters whenever you want to. You Will adjust eventually, many women go trough this. I just want to give you a big hug, and tell you to cherish the time you have left, and when you transition.., to enjoyyyyyyy your marriage and enhoyyyy your new home together sweetheart!🥰😘
Can you translate to arabic language pleaasss i am understanding a few and I love you soooo much ❤️because of that i want to understand what do you say i hope you replay to me❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️im a Palestinian too ❤️❤️
Omg! I loved every bit of it. And Amanda u are a brave girl, I have faith you'll do great wherever Allah puts you. I was thinking if you guys could do
1. Questions girls are too shy to ask (as in sisters advice)
2. Discuss single, about to be married and married lifestyles.
3. Haram stuff that is made halal & normalised.
U guys are the best. BarakAllah 💓💓💓
Edit: The setup is great but you guys blend in the background 🤣 it's hard to focus imo
Also ur parents n sisters seem so kind, loving and supportive mashallah! Im sure Naaem and Mihammed are supportive too.