The Asad Sisters Episode 7 | Dating as a Muslim, Spilling ALL the tea!
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When I was getting interested in boys, my mom always said, "Can you see him and his family sitting around the table with your family? Will he respect and care for your parents, aunts & uncles, grandparents? It worked. I've been married to a wonderful man for 47 years!
Great advice
Appreciate the advice ☑️ I will consider when I choose my partner.,
Great
Beautiful advise. Your mum sounds like a great woman. 🥰
This comment is so pure. Wish you the best ☺️
DO MORE PODCAST STYLE VIDEOS. I love it!! It’s so easy to listen to cause I could do something will listening to you guys.
We will!
yes! I was driving while listening to them 🧡
@@asadsisters7018 love from Afghanistan
can even be added to podcast apps :)
@@shabsb1282 inshallah they have a large following to have it
“Everybody wants you anyways, might as well wait until you can pick the good ones” 😂 Love this energy from Loren 🙌🏼
The most important advice I can give to Muslim parents is to rais your child with very strong self-confidence and they should always have friends like them with the same roles and cultural and with their American friends allows the to come home to your house and try to know their families too.
And when your son or daughter tells you a secret don’t judge them and you always say if I was you I will do this and that makes them trust you and be there for them they will always count on you. I raised three kids, I never told any of their secrets to their father they know right from wrong and they have to have conscious that God is there watching not me not dad.
Thank You so much this is so helpful as me myself is a Mother of three
Love hearing from other moms 💕👍
Mashallah love that
This is soo helpful! I have 2 daughters 1 and almost 3 and am already thinking about this. Thank you!! 💗
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This just brought back so many memories that I used to have with my friends back in the day about finding guys we were going to get married to. I'm glad you guys are showing that Muslim women go through the same things that other women go through.
I honestly wouldn't even mind if u guys kept doing these type of videos, theyre so comforting its like having a girls talk with 3 older sisters
I loveee this style of video. You girls need your own podcast, I love listening to people (ones I like) talk. I can listen/watch whilst cooking/cleaning/working out. Great video as always! 💡
im looking forward to this because its something that has been on my mind a lot and is a hard topic and not something that we talk about enough
I'm turning 20 in a couple of months and this is something that I've been thinking about more as i get older... there's no one in my family that around my age that i can talk to about these things and my close friends aren't muslim so its kind of hard for them to relate to the whole "dating for marraige" perspective. I have not the slightest clue about relationships or what to look for when getting into one and so listening to you guys has given me a better perspective about this. You girls are the older sisters that i don't have ... thanks so much for just being you... lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦💖... (also loved the editing of the vlog 😂😘)
@Imadah Fataar Hi 😊💖
Hi sis, i highly recommended listening to the podcast ‘mindful muslimah’. She gives great guidance on this topic
With all the nuanncess about dating in US and western cultures @Asad Sisters , it is Best as practicing muslimah to say we do “courtship” because courtship is getting to know someone is chaperoned meetings with the intention of possible marriage . Courtship
I seriously enjoyed this video. Your true personalities came out which was so great to see! Keep up the great work. Oh, loved Amanda’s sass. Thanks for letting us see this side of her. 😂❤️
I love this little sit-down it feels so refreshing yall answered all my questions so much, love
My husband and I have 4 girls ages 11,9,7,5 so in my opinion it starts at home life. Even if you aren’t talking about dating and boys you have to teach them about our faith. Now in days kids have bf/gf at like 5 in kindergarten. These kids out here are hyper sexual and the media isn’t helping that’s why it’s so important to make sure your household is the way you want your kids to grow up it doesn’t happen overnight it has to start from a very young age.
The sad thing is society ends up having more influence on children than parents, because they’re at school for 8 hours, on social media for like 3 hours and with their friends for the rest of the time theyre awake. So if they dont turn out how you planned, its probably not your fault
Agree 💯
I am looking forward to watching this video honestly!!! You made me super happy! ❤️❤️
This was the best!!! Loved this video. Love how u all were open about relationships and giving advice on what to look out for in a relationship and something that is long-term.
I loved this so much! Can't wait to see another one of these
Love this video ladies! Would love to hear more about how it was to grow up Muslim in Texas and how you envision raising your future children in Islam IsA.
This was actually my favorite video!! 🦃🤍 love y’all’s personality
I love Loren she is so brutally honest and her and Amanda are so funny and Leena is so sweet x
I'm 46 and I love ❤ this conversation.
This is so helpful for ladies who didn't get chance to go out nor speak to anyone openly about this things. Especially for those who don't have a sister. 🧡❤💜
🦃 loving the energy from you guys, I follow you all separately, but am so happy to watch you three interact, great video, can't wait for the next one!
Love love LOVE this format. Petition to start an Asad sister podcast!!
I grew up catholic with pretty much the same rules and expectations. My parents decided to rule with an iron fist and all it did was ruin our relationship for years and make me leave our church. I think if they had sat down and actually had a conversation with me things would have turned out very differently and I probably would have followed all the rules and expectations. When our religions were established everyone got married during those early years of puberty. Now we wait to finish our educations but it makes those teenage years hard. I wish my parents had been willing to listen to my struggles without getting angry or punishing me. I hope that you can do that for Alaina.
May you find your way of hapiness sis :)
Love your channel ! The Muslim women point for view is so important for this generation of young women and helps break the taboos in the Muslim community so we can educate each other !
Also, I'm a graphic design student and I would suggest not to use an outline on the font in your thumbnails ! It sometimes makes it harder to read ! You can simply keep the font black because it's the strongest color for contrast !
Hope I could help you !
Felt like a different side to Amanda’s personality came out more in this video...the sass...loved it ❤️
Right 😂
I have enjoyed this episode so much...all of you are just being natural and spontaneously about this interesting topic.
Loved this video so much, pls do these more often. There were definitely very useful tips! ❤️❤️ love you guys
Leena literally said what I always thought after I got married, like I can't imagine being so close to someone and then his not the right person, that is very intense.
I like how Loren and Amanda kept borrowing from lena's makeup the entire time 😂 but seriously had a lot of fun watching you guys just talk ❤ 🦃
I do think you can grow attracted to someone, like if i meet a men to whom i am not physically attracted at first but then get to discover his personality and self and if they match mine i will definitely start seeing him in a more attractive way physically and in general
It's like that with friends too. Once someone starts talking I start to like or dislike them.
Who else just love watching The Asad Sisters video? 💖💗💖
All three Sisters are like a big sister to me Mashallah!! 💖🥰💖
Love you guys, Amanda looks gorgeous ! I love Lauren's charisma and lina she is so calm😍
leena looks so pretty with no makeup on مَا شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ ! so do amanda and loren but i’m just not used to seeing leena without any on and she looks so pretty!
🦃 I have 3 girls, 18, 16, and 12. Best advice I can give you is keep them busy, whether it’s sports, musical instruments, academics, and most importantly, connected to the masjid. Highly recommend to get them started in a Quran programs and youth programs in the masjid. And last thing, don’t forget to always make duaa for them, ultimately that’s the most important thing.
amanda is actually so funny though😂
More of these podcast-like videos pls!! And you guys looked stunning MashaAllah!! Yall skins are amazinggggg😩😍
I genuinely loved and enjoyed this girl chat with y'all beauties😍 I wish you continue this concept from now and on, It's so cool n amazing👏👏❤
I think a podcast series on the sister channel should totally be a thing!! I would love it
I literally loved this video! You guys are awesome and inspire me a whole lot! Keep up the fantastic work! Ilysm💖
I like the topic. I feel though I would like a “this is what I’m putting on my face right now” make up tutorial. I didn’t realize so many products existed, how to use them, and whatnot. Great video and I’m excited to see the next one!
Love this podcast style, but also love the rest. Maybe switching it up here and there will be so fun to watch
Amanda is literally funny 😂 love this video
🦃 I loved it!!! Please do more! Amanda’s personality is really coming out! I love it!
I love these sit-down videos and it was sooo fun to listen to you three ❤️❤️❤️
Im not a parent but I think regarding Alaina and kids in general, if you explain the faith and answer their questions properly, for them dating won’t be a big deal, yeah they will have crushes but as Leena said, they won’t act on it and won’t feel left out that everyone else around them are in relationships. For bangladeshi households, they make you fear God and your family and then the kids are doing things behind their parents’ back and get into situations they shouldn’t be in.
For younger Muslims, It’s ok to date with the intention of marriage but while you find a potential partner, involve an adult you trust to know and give you halal advice. Some people will take advantage of you, be it boy or girl, and use and abuse you so becareful how you proceed
Thank you for speaking about this. I am a revert (of 9 years) and was raised to have morals and values of respecting myself, but not a religious home. This meant I was freely dating without a worry, and my family were always welcoming and accepting. As a muslim now, I want to raise my children similarly to me, because my parents were open with me and we had a mutual respect for one another, I never disrespected them or myself and only ever had one Partner (who i am now married to) however so many girls i know who grew up in muslim households rebelled due to overly strict rules with no explanation to their kids. My best friend is muslim and East African- she got pregnant out of wedlock and so many people i know have been through this too. Its hard- and its so nice having women who have clearly been raised to have morals which support our religion, but not strict where they need to rebel. Thank you for showing the world we can be Muslim, fun and free!! 🥰
Pregnant out of Wedlock is Haram. You need to ask a good Islamic scholar about what to do. People don't have knowledge, they need to educate themselves
Dating is haram in Islam
Thank y’all so much for another great video. 🖤 I really enjoyed hearing y’all’s perspectives on this topic (especially the various points of views of y’all have based on your individual experiences). I love this format y’all have started. 🦃🖤
Loved this video style and also props to the editing it was very on point and funny 😆
I love this style of video! Makes me wish I had sisters but I live vicariously through yall
Leena is so mature MashaAllah ❤ you guys are so lucky to have each other ❤
All these 3 sisters are so perfectly different! Amanda favors her mom so much!
You guys should do more podcast, it would be a hit cuz no one else has your vibes and aesthetic
Raising Alaina with a strong faith from a very young age will allow her to grow knowing that she doesn’t need a boyfriend/date to be satisfied, the love of Allah and the religion will surpass any boyfriend/dating thoughts. Women in Islam are honoured and respected, we don’t need a boyfriend to validate our existence. Proposal dating to know the guy should be around family members to make it halal. Anything oustide this boundary is against the teachings of Islam and it shouldn’t be taken lightheartedly.
You are so right they shouldn’t encourage young girls to date a year before marriage without family members. Islam made everything perfect for us even when you don’t understand it in the moment
Lo! men who surrender unto Allah, and women who surrender, and men who believe and women who believe, and men who obey and women who obey, and men who speak the truth and women who speak the truth, and men who persevere (in righteousness) and women who persevere, and men who are humble and women who are humble, and men who give alms and women who give alms, and men who fast and women who fast, and men who guard their modesty and women who guard (their modesty), and men who remember Allah much and women who remember - Allah hath prepared for them forgiveness and a vast reward.(Quran chapter 33:35)
@@sarahhadj3548 hasn't Amanda been seeing mohamed for more than 3 years tho?
This is the right comment 👍🏻
It truly felt like having a warm dicussion with 3 new sisters ✨ loved the energy in the video!! ❤❤
Dating is haram in Islam
Love this podcast/talkshow format!! "Lightswitch" has me dead 💡💡🤣🤣🤣🤣
Its weird that I watch all your individual videos but someone I got to see more of your personalites in this group video 🦃🦃🐔🍗🍗
I love your sister channel! :) I honestly prefer the vlog style though and what a day/few days look like in your guys’ life.
Love love love this format! This topic is also so important to hear about 🤍✨
Thank you so much for making these videos. It really can be helpful for a confused mom like me.
I agree with this, as a practicing Catholic Christian we also have boundaries of no intimacy before marriage, and dating is ok in the sense that you can eat out in a restaurant and talk, but not more than that, there is wisdom in it as many women are heartbroken after giving themselves to their boyfriends who end up leaving
As a Muslim, I'm surprised Catholic Christians are the similar..its usually the Eastern Orthodox but even then...chastity is super rare for them these days
But it's really cute and wholesome..I find it really sweet ❤
@@princessraj5921 that's a really cute story. Also it is modest according to your beleif and standards in yhe western society here. The Islamic rulings are for Muslims only and the whole idea is that you're trying, God centred and God willing good will come from it...and it has many times before :)
@@princessraj5921 over here in the UK its a concept which is practically non-existent. I thought the US would be worse due to even more secularism..kinda like the big cities in UK. But I guess I was wrong.
@@princessraj5921 what was your experiance with the Muslims in the US like?
@@ertugrulbae46 y r u surprise Judaism n Christianity leads up to Islam!!!!! The pure things still stay the same!!!! Most Christians r just not as discipline as Jews n Muslims to be honest( not saying there r not Muslims n Jews who r not as discipline as well)
Loved this, please do more vids like this 💚
This was such a relaxing video to watch ❤️
Such a good topic !! What a pity u haven't started this channel only three years ago, I was in so need of an advice ^_^ anyway, m eager to see what u have to say about it
Honestly dating and finding love in general is so hard as a Muslim girl, especially in the west. Like idk how I’m going to ever find someone that not only do I love/ feel attracted to but that also fits into my life and gets along with my family. I’m probably going to be alone my entire life because there’s no way that that person exits
You are not alone on that
I feel the same. I’m
Not Muslim, but having the same issue.
Same, for a load of girls its the truth unfortunately
GO TO ISLAMIC EVENTS AND MEET PEOPLE
Hi, I feel you girl, I'm exactly in the same case. Were do you live ? I think we can create a group of the “singles ladies living in the west“ 😆
This video was so fun!! I felt like I was right there with you girls!
i watched for advise as i have two girls 5 and 6 yrs old currently and i think of this all the time as im a revert. Im so glad that they have eachother to grow up with and go through this. I agree 100% percent about being open and honest with them.
i'm so excited to watch this 🥰 brb while I go grab a snack
OOMMMGG MY TOO FAVE TH-camRSS!!!
@@stargirlnous awww 🥺
i loved this video :)) i feel like i got to see all of yalls personalities! sisters def bring out the fun side of us
Can’t wait for another amazing video!!
Yay! Thank you!
@@asadsisters7018 are you guys Muslim? If yes then remember, Dating is haram in Islam
Saw this today and love the podcast sit style. Also sweet with your sisters doing makeup. Lightens the topic of discussion, love amandas humor and seeing her personality a bit more through here💗💗💗 my parents were strict on my dating although for me there were other factors that were contrasting to dating.
Some guys in this generation ive spoken to are not serious , although they want to talk to females , they dont seem to comit. This is the few ive known or seen ; sadly even other couples or marraiges, islamic & none islamic. There are good potentials dont get me wrong. Its lovely to know there is still hope lol. Agreeable to factors like dont be too over baring , and waiting to get to know each other ! Thanks for a cool video xx
Dating is haram in Islam. Dating is un-Islamic
I love you all but Amanda is killing it I love her ahah such a cute video!
I loved this topic!! Can you ladies do more videos covering relationships??
Love that you addressed the taboo topic- dating. I wish it was discussed more but parents dont know how to approach the subject comfortably with daughters
Dating is haram in Islam
This was so great!💜
I would like each of you guys to have little mic, the sound quality would be better, keep on podcast style coming 🌸
00:50 it was 😅- but this style was really fun to listen. Love you girls and hoping for more podcast style episodes 💗😍
LOVEEE THIS!!! 😍
🦃🦃❤️ Loved the tips on dating/looking for a spouse, your approach is really down to earth :) please more content on this, stories or tips
omg love these!! ur makeup looks so good, all of you!!
Oh my word, I love Amanda’s energy 🤣🙈 Beautiful video 💖
Ahh these are my favorite types of videos. 😍
I would say this to my daughter.... "you a smart girl and you know what you need at this moment to reach your goals and to achieve more for yourself ,so ask yourself if having that extra person as more than a friend is going to benefit you in any way and if you think it's worth it to start dating now already ,while you have so much going on?"
Dating is haram in Islam
I always used to think Amanda is so serious all the time idk y but just seeing all the sisters together on this channel is so refreshing and everyones personality shining!! Hahah amanda is actually jokesss, love alll of them so muchhh
I love this kind of video!!! Really useful
I loved this video sooo much and had me laughing multiple times so thanks for all the humor hahahahaha. Amanda is hilarious hahahaha. I didnt know this side of her yet, really refreshing to see! :) Keep up the videos, really enjoyable and fun!
💕💕💕Ohh I love this series to pieces 💕😍😍
This is so amazing video. I really sooo much love it. Thank you so much for giving us such a beautiful and amazing videos. You guys are so hardworking and inspiring. May Allah always bless you. 💗💗😊😊
This was soooo much fun!! I think dating is very important too. As a muslim girl it's hard to keep your boundaries if you love someone so much. That is why you should not have to date someone for like 5 years. As you guys said, one year is enough (if you have the chance to get engaged and get married until then) to get to know each other and see if that is the person you see yourself with the rest of your life.
I really liked the podcast style. The other style you were doing was also really fun to watch, but you guys already do vlogs on your own channels and show us your 'real' daily life. This way we could listen easier and also now your thoughts on different perspectives. Maybe you can choose a specific theme every video to talk about :)
love these sit downs 😍
🦃🦃🦃 Happy Thanksgiving! That was a wonderful video and makeup on fleek sisters! 🤎🤎🤎
Yes I love this style of videos sooo much more!
ugh i look forward to yall's videos!
I love your videos they are so relaxing I look up to you guys
Yayy so excited!!
I like this format! :) I enjoy the casual GRWM style lol. And I enjoy this topic! Although I definitely have a different opinion when it comes to dating as I have a different belief system (most of my family is Catholic, but was raised in a Baptist church/cult, then went to a Lutheran school for awhile, then just decided for myself that I don't care for most organized religion seeing how it affected my life, but I do appreciate the spiritual side of faith, & now I mainly prefer Shinto if I were to pick any religion to follow) I do agree that women as a whole definitely need to get to know their partner before they decide to be intimate bc intimacy does make your feelings grow for a person. So the dating phase is so important whether you're looking for marriage or a relationship, because you don't want to end up having feelings for someone who isn't good for you at the end of the day. IMO tho I do think intimacy is an important part in a relationship, as it would be a horrible situation for someone to get so emotionally invested in a person just to find out after marriage (if they choose to wait to be intimate till after marriage) that they are physically not compatible & hate being with their partner in that way. I know this will probably be an unpopular opinion among religious people, but I do think it's important for everyone to know what they like & don't like regardless, & able to find someone who suits all their needs. Like what you said too, know what you *don't* like is just as as important as knowing what you do like for a relationship! Sorry for the long post! X) Anyways, keep up the awesome content, love all you girls!!
Great video , loved hearing about the dating stories much needed convo in our community
Loved this video, you are all beautiful and elegant sisters mashallah!! 👍🏼
I usually don’t comment what I think if it seems bad, but I would have liked Leena to speak more about her relationship with Omar. Loren and Amanda discuss how a person changes so much after high school; I would have liked to hear the input from Leenas perspective of finding your person at such a young age. I enjoyed the whole video, but just wanted to put that out there. I feel like others would have appreciated that perspective as well as Loren and Amanda’s. All the love 🤍🤍
This was such an important video and I loved all 3 perspectives! Also just had to say you all have helped me so much with my confidence as a revert. 🤍 y’all.
Sister if you are a revert then know that dating is haram. Marry not date. Marriage gives you honour.
@@SamirSiraj8542 sister, I am not dating. This term was used loosely in the video. I also don't believe in marrying without seeing them/after a few questions (as I know its a common practice with some cultures lol) thank you for trying to advise/help. Have a great day.
@@esmeraldamontes1113 well, meeting opposite is also haram. But you can meet the said person you are to marry with presence of your wali. That's permissible but you can't meet a non mahram man alone. Mahram man are you dad, uncle, brother, husband, grandpa (probably cousin too idk) and non mahram are everyone else. But with you wali, you can have as many and as long talk as you want with the man you are to marry or you have a proposal from. May Allah SWT keep you steadfast in deen and give you a good and pious spouse.
loveeee the grwm style
This was a great video!
Happy thanks giving 🦃
I rewatch it and OMG Amanda is so funny ! 🤍🤍🤍🤍