Are there rules to this dating game? Marvin Sapp has answers. | Hello Hubby S2, E202
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- There’s unmentioned rules in dating but no one seems to have the rule book. Learn how Marvin Sapp navigates through these dating streets by his own terms in an episode titled, "Rules of Dating."
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“You can’t be anything to anyone until you are everything to yourself.” - Bishop Marvin Sapp #powerful🔥🔥🔥
Wowwww...this is lyfe...y'all are helping me.
If you are truly in Christ Jesus. God is suppose to be your everything. If not you doomed. Not yourself or no one else. Truly only the Lord can fullfil that.
Amen👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Absolutely. The wisdom of the statement struck me immediately.
He talking about he doesn’t want to bury another wife, that’s why he wants a younger one. Do he know when he will die? Do you think a younger woman will take care of his older butt when he get old! These men make you sick. Always wanting a young woman so they could put on a show and tell them what great lover they are, when they can’t do anything!
Thank you Bishop for letting single women understand it's OK to live your life,until the man that God has for you find you. Not to settle for just any man,know that a king is coming.
Amen, Valarie! Now that's true wisdom!
Take aways:
-Fix it while you're single
- Collect information
-Understand and know non negotiables
-Character is key
-Have to learn the person you're with
Amen
We as women gaslight ourselves (myself included) when we overlook issues in the beginning that are clear red flags but we keep pressing forward. As a wise person once said: Ladies, don’t be a collector of red flags 🚩🚩🚩
Agreed!
For real , I truly believe that she change the story .sorry. bc if you find a good man and he was all of that , and thts what your looking for why you let him go .
Facts!!
@@karensimpson4168 Not necessarily...you can have a "good" or decent guy but he may not be good for you. In the same token, you may consider yourself to be a "good" woman but that doesn't mean you're every man's cup of tea.
@@karensimpson4168 that interviewer, sound like, she is interviewing for a husband. I may be wrong, excuse me, if you are already married.
Same here...the longer I'm single, the more I enjoy it. Finding myself in my singleness. Loving myself in my singleness.
Facts
Really much difficult for me after so much pain over the years in marriage, accepting love and living as a single man is really difficult for me, after giving so much
Marrying a younger spouse does not mean you’ll die first and they’ll bury you. 😢
Very true!
But that is the perception of how it usually is...
I said the same thing, I completely understood what he was saying tho
Erica, I so agree with you. Marvin Sapp, you can marry a woman 5 year's older than you and she can out live you. Honestly, go ahead and get that younger woman and like you said , she going to want what she sees. She's going to want you for what you have. Ask Tiger Woods.
@@stephainecroff2907 What I heard him say is he believes that if his spouse is younger she will die before him and that he does not want to grieve the loss of another spouse. Therefore, his solution is to marry someone younger whom he perceived as healthier than him and less likely to die before him. 😢
I love that Jessica didn’t skip over his initial sentiments…. Today is a special day for him and I’m glad he was able to start the convo acknowledging what this day means and how much weight it holds. 💜
U
Sound like them 2 was involved and she got the short stick of the connection
I love this
@Phyllis Lawson I can see why you say that
Bishop Sapp was dropping wisdom & knowledge to the single, engaged, & some even married couples!! I loved this episode! ❤❤❤
LOL 😂 Marvin was in pure Dad/Pastor mode with Jessica about her past relationship. 😂 😂 Loved it, cause what he was saying was on point. Dude WAS listening the whole time.
Very good nuggets.
Sure was! I loved it! He was talking to me too lol I gotta get it together lol
Amazing man of God
Much respect for this man
Marvin Sapp is so patient...but he was ready to goooo😂
This is my first time hearing and seeing a "Hello Hubby" Podcast video and I was hooked on this conversation within two minutes after Pastor Marvin Sapp started talking because I'm a part of the Baby Boomer generation and in so many area of my life I am and always will have an "Ole School" mentality, ESPECIALLY when it comes to dating and relationships. Pastor Marvin expressed so eloquently and so precisely the EXACT kind of dating relationship I desire. I don't want to go from "D or M to S" ("Dinner or Movie to Sex") on a first, second or third date! I want to be "courted" and allowed the opportunity for us to get to know each other. I MUCH prefer verbal conversations to texting and e-mails. I know there are times when texting is more practical, but being able to hear each other's voice while we communicate is so KEY for me.
Same
I agree with you.
"You can't be anything to anyone unless your everything to yourself." -Bishop Marvin Sapp I love this!! 🙏🙏🙏 I was married for 18 years until my husband passed and I understand Bishop's statement, I'm single by default, not by choice and I'm much better as a wife than a single person.
God bless u & I pray that God blesses u with what u need & desire!
I was in line behind Pastor Marvin, but didn't have the heart to bother him! Other folks did and he was so nice to them. I was just observing with stars in my eyes!!!
Ahhh💞
@Ms. Li I saw Bishop Sapp and maybe his son and daughter at the State Fair. I didn't bother him. It was nice seeing them enjoy
I wish I could meet him! He definitely is a blessing as a Bishop
@@reddyred5097 IKR!!🙏🏽🌺💞🌺🙏🏽
Marvin was great! Women listen because sometimes we hear what we want to hear. A man can tell us what a man thinks. This was a fantastic conversation!
He has a lot of wisdom. Smart guy. Thank you Pastor.
This is a great topic/conversation.
You also need to bring in Pastor RC Blakes on your show
I pray Jessica heals from the “Tears of a Clown” spirit. She is absolutely so powerful and so amazingly resilient; all of her experiences have been designed and assigned to help women from all walks of life on the entire planet. 🙏🏾
Bishop Marvin Sapp You are so down to earth and you tell people just like it's supposed to be told. I am 56 years old and I have been single for nine years now and I am to the point where I am content in my life being single. People tell me all the time that's a long time to be by yourself and I tell them God is a keeper and he will keep you if you want to be kept.
This episode was so much fun!! The way Marvin Sapp is raising his daughters is how I was raised! I never want to take for granted the blessing and the power of having been raised by healthy parents! This doesn’t mean it’s been easy for me or that I haven’t made mistakes, but I’m grateful I have a reference point that grounds me! Thank you Lord!
Marvin and Jessica’s interaction was so candid and open. I love that! It was like watching a therapy session!
Keep it coming!!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Gospel “TRUTH”!!!!!!!!!!!👍🏾💪🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This was an enlighting segment!!!!! Bishop Marvin Sapp dropped so many GEMS!!!!!! It was PURPOSEFUL!!!!!!!!
“Who I was, is NOT who I should of been”🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Wow. Idk Jessica’s father was murdered in the house. She’s extremely strong to overcome that! And what an honor for him to discuss relationships here when he doesn’t other places! If he wants to marry again, I’m praying he finds the best suited person❤
Great conversation! Stay old school Bishop. This new school thinking ain’t working.😂
Jessica you stay your authentic self! God Bless.❤
Right ☺️ 💖
"It doesn't die, it multiplies" this is a true statement. So many married people have said this. This show is very good.
Bishop Marvin was speaking some very good wisdom to Jessica but MAN was she unreceptive. 🤦🏾♀️ It's a fact that she's drawn to toxicity. But all is well. She def has to grow and I believe that when she really calms down and LISTENS to the people, they will actually HELP her heal . . . IF she let's them. 🥰
Well said!!!
Dang I thought it was just me. It was like she was an annoying teenager. Unwilling to take ownership. I see why she's single. Love them both though.
I agree. A bit cringe-worthy to watch at times, but nonetheless very informative. Bishop held his composure quite well even as she was being annoying, extra loud, and interruptive. The way she acts could easily turn a man off, which can be seen as unattractive, and keep her single a lot longer. Prayers for her growth and understanding.
So true she need some deliverance. She is so beautiful and have a wonderful personality. She has so much growing to do.
I to take people out to impress I like that! Bishop has taught me so much through this interview. Thank You!
This was the best of all the Hello Hubby episodes. I watched the new season episode yesterday and the previous season but today, lots of gems dropped. Bishop Marvin Sapp was comical but he talked like a father sharing wisdom to his daughter. Jessica you’re hilarious, praying all the best for you. Keep the show rolling……you’re doing an amazing job. 🤣❤️
Yep❤️
Jessica jumped right in there with the 1st question!!!! She is NOT playing and I love the authenticity and openness on this podcast. Pastor...younger doesn't always mean that she'll outlive you. Bless you on this journey.
Man Bishop Mr. Marvin Sapp😂 I totally appreciated your wisdom, humanism, transparency, HUMOR, conversation, information, colorful testimonies and MOST of all your Love for GOD. Keep on Keeping on brother!!!
She's hilarious and witty. This show just came across my feed. Glad I found it. This was a great show...so much wonderful information. She asked great questions...he gave wonderful responses. #LoveIt
I can listen to this woman all day such an amazing episode.
Ikr!
Marvin is so straight forward like I am. I don’t take long to share a story I go right to point A+B=C . I love the transparency of them both. But we can save ourselves so much time if we stick to our guns when it comes to our desires and wants as to relationship. Giving in to so call Potential and red flags will stunt the goals we have in relationships and or needs we truly desire from our mates .
Listening to Pastor Marvin I realize how much we have fallen from decency over the generations. Because Jessica’s questions were valid. But she’s speaking to a generational gap issue. The things he calls old school should still be the standard. The single guys of 20s to 30s are just a different breed than when he was a single guy.
Jessica Bishop gave great points and wisdom. Be more open to listen when he is pouring in and not resist when he is on point when you share your experiences. We as women need to listen more when we see great leadership and wisdom. I love your show.
I saw that too. So glad you put it in a respectable way. I love Jessica and Mr. Sapp and saw a resistant and tension in this conversation later on where it got uncomfortable to me. Love her show though... Laterras laughing in the background is hilarious lol😆
This is such a Refreshing and Complete,conversation!
So much respect and gentleness.
She’s listening and not interrupting.
He’s funny and serious!
OMG!!! I totally LOVED this episode! I gain so much Godly wisdom, and insight from Pastor Marvin Sapp. I learned one thing is this.... "If you don't do nothing more You must First Know Yourself before getting into a relationship, and be willing to communicate even if it's hard. This gave me wisdom for whenever I start dating again. Thank you both!
Wait to build???? Heck No!!!!! Build now!!! Then we have a head start when we decide to merge/marry. We got something to build on! ENJOY life now. I grew up in a single parent home with my mother but had bought a new car on my own and a condo BEFORE marriage. Ladies! Live life.
Bishop Sapp is a smart, witty, and funny guy. He is a natural teacher/counselor. So much wisdom to help women as well as men. I would love for this to be a series. I loved this show. Teach us Pastor!
Marvin Sapp is truthful when he said he was a great listener. I honestly think Jessica needs to take more time and listen and not be so quick to respond. Because Marvin and her were saying the same thing. I do not understand how she doesn’t understand that. But she definitely kept cutting Marvin off and that affected him getting his point across.
But nevertheless, I think Jessica is still a great host and she has a sweet spirit ❤️
He is such a joy and spoke such honest wisdom. Great episode!!!
I've been waiting for this episode since the last episode.... 🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍😍
I LOVED the realness of this episode!! So good! So refreshing!! I’m 53 so I’m a bit old school myself. I totally understand. Bless you man of God!! And May God give you the desires of your heart!!
I heard Bishop Jakes say what you see when you are dating, multiply it by 10 and that’s what you are going to get when you get married. Now can you live with that m? Whew! It don’t die, it multiplies!!! My God!!!
So many nuggets in this episode!
Sister Jessica welcome back!! You’ve been missed!
wonderful I'm proud of the pastor talking about his wife shows how he was in a committed relationship
Oh my goodness this hit on so many points! Jessica you are so hilarious and your sense of humor is so wow sis. As for the conversation, I so understand enjoying my me time but wanting companionship. I understand we as humans change as our hormones, thoughts and or experiences change. I chose to not remarry after my 17 yr relationship 15 yr marriage ended. I devoted my time and energy to my sons and I getting to a place of healing and stability. When my son's became of age I started focusing on the things I wanted to do for me. I've owned a home as Martin said however as I get older and more purpose driven I feel at this time material doesnt move me outside of the need. I want to touch lives that blesses others. I'm about to graduate with my RN after being an LPN for 17+ yrs because marrying at 19 yrs of age marriage and children were the priority granted my kids came into the picture when I was in my 30s. Am I ready........we will cross that bridge when we get to it however as Marvin said I was a better wife than I could ever be a single woman but until God moves me I'm going to live on purpose. Yes I can be long winded lol. I loved this episode 💗
Wow...I can totally relate to your post. Sounds alot like my life! #GodBless
Jessica girl, you brought real life questions to this interview.
Amazing, am so so thankful to you.
Pastor Marvin Sapp is one of my favourite singers. If not my favourite.
I love, love his 5 questions technique.
Am hoping to use it with my son. I have had challenges in communicating with him. Thanking God for practical strategies.
Great chat, thoroughly gleaned alot from this.
This was a powerful episode! Bishop said things that hit home for me as a widow with 3 sons. I truly appreciate his views as a single parent and widower! I took away some truths and had a very hard conversation with self. Love it I was truly blessed ❤
As a pastor it is very hard to find someone because you have to be careful who you bring around your purpose and plan of God. I agree with the old school way of getting to know someone and being friends first.
Jessica said the intention for the podcast is to learn from her guests but this seemed more like a debate. Marvin was a great guest couldn’t wait for every time she gave him a chance to speak because he was dropping gems. He’s extremely patient too!
Absolutely she need to take it down
I think she was trying to be funny but she’s also needing a lot of advice. But yes, I agree - she could dial it back and listen more.
I was annoyed and had to turn this off. Jessica was laughing entirely too much and acting immature.
@@marlenejackson93 The excessive laughter and arguing! Almost turned off too that’s y I commended Marvin’s patience.
It turned into a debated yes but he didn’t let her finish her points. Had he allowed her to finish, she would have backed off. She didn’t feel he was getting her points because he was so quick to correct without fully hearing her before speaking. He was speaking for her and expected her points.
I was looking forward to this interview and y'all did not disappoint. Pastor Sapp is such a blessing. He was a headliner for many many years in a stage play I was a part of and he was ALWAYS the same as he is right here.
This was a very good interview with Bishop Marvin Sapp. It gave me a lot of insight into what Single men are looking for in a woman. He basically mentioned the same thing that my Pastors have been teaching and preaching to us. God always knows how to come through and confirm His word with another vessel.
Jessica!!! You could interview a wall and it would be amazing and I would watch the whole thing. You are so natural with people, genuinely funny, to the point and soft. This interview was everything! Great nuggets Bishop.
I was literally sitting on the edge of my seat for this conversation. I loved it! So many diamonds 💎 in this conversation.
Jessica: Ladies be persistent
Marvin Sapp: Don’t you persist
😂😂😂
I rewatched that so many times😂😂😂🤣
@@jenniferking4746 me too 😂
Singleness is growing on me. After spending most of my adult life married, God had to really work on me in this season. I can truly say the more I fall in love with God the more I’m loving myself. Thank you Jesus for showing me how to wait. I pray blessings on you all❤️
Lol. The back and forth on this is a lil cringy, yet satisfying. It's like good uncle and niece conversation.
I agree.
“We have a lot of experts who do not listen to their own advice”. Ouch. That was extremely honest. I guess the audience likes to learn from others mistakes and/or we like to relate so we don’t feel alone. I do find that these talks plant the seed/water the seed to start growth but only a true relationship with Jesus Christ will free/heal you and keep you from repeating the same mistakes.
Nice talk, Jessica❤️
You cannot be anything to anyone until you're EVERYTHING to yourself...
Thank you Marvin Sapp for your wisdom and encouraging words. I will be utilizing "tell me 5 things" tool for better communication. I wish you nothing but continued success Jessica and I look forward to the rest of S2
I looooove the way his wife taught him to communicate & have dialogue and give the details 😂😂😂 I am the same! It’s a foundational component to intimacy…. However, pay attention to those who pimp an illusion of intimacy in order to finesse proximity (physical closeness)
I just love pastor Sapp, it not how much money you have its your character.
Yes!! This is the exact reason I give my daughters roses and gifts and take them on trips….I don’t want some man to do those things and them think this “is the man for me” cause no one else has ever done this for me!
Thank you Jessica and Bishop for this funny, and enlightening conversation for us Singles. Thanks for keeping it 💯
I thoroughly enjoyed their conversation! Both comical, intentionally authentic, and thought provoking👏🏽👏🏽
I actually listened to the whole show lol (had to split it up), I am a married woman (almost 30 yrs) but I liked the balance Marvin Sapp brought to the discussion. I appreciated the openness! This will help a lot of single women who have ears to hear. Thanks for sharing!
This conversation is everything. Thank Marvin Sapp for sharing your perspectives and point of view. Thank you Jessica Reedy, keep this same energy. I love it. I felt like this conversation was for me.
At this point we need Bishop to be a co-host with Jess 😂
This was a great interview. I’ve always liked Marvin Sapp. His comment of a woman not having a home or a certain level of finances at a certain age is understandable, however life can happen to anyone due to being a single mom, divorce, illness, caring for a parent, or an unfortunate event. Every situation is different. I do agree that you should live life to the fullest, and your mate will meet you along life’s journey. I’m with him 100% on not wanting to share your spouse with “the church” because without a healthy balance it can be very taxing on a marriage.
Exactly it is hard for caregivers to live up to that standard.
Great episode. I will never wait on a man to experience life. Be alive in your life and embrace the beautiful experiences life has to offer :)
Hmmm
This interview was like having conversations with my Dad that I miss tremendously..
Jessica, you are in my head! I'm over here reacting the same way.🤣 Bishop is dropping gems!!! AND girl - you are such a natural at this and I thank God for your transparency! So proud of you!!!
The change came when the "intimacy" came in to play . . . Which then "clouded" the judgement & the original vision.
I love this show it’s so relatable and down to earth and Jessica is super funny
There was so much meat in this conversation for a single woman. Mr. Sapp needs to come back on the show. They too have great chemistry. Jessica stay laughing.
P. Sapp absolutely one of my favs! Had the privilege of meeting him several years back when I was able to travel to & fro Michigan for my job (prior to him moving). I feel like y’all missed one of the points being that insecurities may come from women who date him because of his incredible relationship with his wife. However, I must say I believe he’s healed in incredibly through the years, as he did not speak as much about his wife, etc. as he has before…. Gods timing Pastor Sapp!! Be encouraged!
JESSICA!
YOU GOT IT YOU GOT IT GOT IT
your story about to bless my life and give me another page to the next chapter . I just watched you on the Terrell show and that’s crazy because I watched that episode two years ago.
alignment to the most high!!
We just keep evolving and I’m really so blessed that you made it in this day.
I can go on and on about how you are yes so let me let the lord know how grateful I am
Good show
EXCELLENT, INTELLECTUAL, WISDOM FILLED, AND HUMOROUS CONVO!!!!
Enjoyed seeing this…. This is my first time seeing “Hello Hubby”. Nice seeing and listening to Marvin Sapp. My sisters and I used to sing in the young adult choir from New Hope Baptist and Bethel before he became famous. I used to stand next to his beautiful wife Malinda in the choir. Great words of wisdom.
Love you Jessica stay focused on your purpose. Glad to see you back.Enjoyed Marvin Sapp interview, however you spent too much time trying to prove your point . The conversation just kept circling back. Overall good job. Love what you are bringing to the table with Hello Hubby.
I agree... Live your best single life. Maximize your singleness!
Bishop you have done a fantastic job on giving us advice. I agree on a lot of what your saying but I have also learned a lot from you today. I’ve been enjoying my singleness and developing my relationship for the last 11 years. God has taught me sooo much and I’m thankful. Weather God wants me to be single or eventually married I am content. Glorryyy to his name.
I really appreciate you guys listening to each others differening opinions and talking it through that is healthy and a good to model ,open and transparent communication is necessary to have any type ofr realtionship that you value.
This was good!! A father to his daughter. I pray she heard a lot.. Just my input Jessica need lbs to let the guest talk more.. So they can answer her questions ❤
I stayed thru the episode. It was difficult.
God didn't block it your mouth destroyed it! I felt that!
Now, when Marvin said character, that spoke volumes! It does not only matter your accomplishments. Do you have Godly character? That's the glue. This was so good!!! Such wisdom! Bishop was on top of this conversation
Love the 5 things tip!!! Oh wow...what a great communication tip. Love that teachable moment.
My take away, is the first time you identify something that annoys you, that is a red flag, and if it stands out to you in an annoying way, it is non-negotiable; no further processing required
Wow! So many gems. I’m enriched. It’s so refreshing to hear a man encourage women to be authentic and value character over the appearance of value only. Balance is key but true value is character
I love everything about this whole conversation. I lost my husband about a year and a half ago. We've been married for 31 years when he passed. I don't want to date or have another husband. I am 54 and I'm going to start traveling. My husband brought so much joy to my life so I'm going to live life until my Lord and Savior calls me home. Jesus brings me joy and I have my kids, family and my job.
Amen, Pamela. We need to get a ladies group together & travel.
This was such a great conversation! So many nuggets of wisdom shared!!
Your show is thought provoking, Safe and Gifts to Woman Everywhere. Now having Bishop Sapp sharing and dropping so many nuggets about relationship and life have been nothing short of amazing and I've gain some tremendous insights. Extremely Grateful! Thank you.
Marvin brought a lot of clarity on communication and dating. Thank you.
I am very happy that he did this interview. I remember when his wife passed. I thought to myself, he has lost his wife and manager. He has lost the mother of his children and his best friend. Although some years have passed, the void is still there. Melinda Sapp was a phenomenal woman and indeed a tough one to follow. I pray for pastors healing and restoration and in time with the help of the LORD he can find the happiness and fulfillment that he is looking for.
Thankyou Marvin… I’m doing it all NOW! I’m not waiting for marriage to do anything. Buy the house, take the trip , and build the business .
Facts!!! If you can’t be your authentic self…they not for you!!!
Wow this was sooo good. And perfectly said, “There’s nothing wrong with him, he just wasn’t right for me” my heart is telling me that but man my head be wanting to do something else. Omg I definitely needed this 😢❤
This conversation was so dope!!! 😅 I love the dynamic between the generations you both where so true to yourself and still honored each others honesty & view points. I learned alot from Bishop and Jessica!!
MR. SAPP GAVE ME MORE LOVE AND RESPECT FOR MY HUSBAND. HE HAS 14 YEARS MORE THAN ME AND IT'S SUCH A MATCH IN HEAVEN.XOX THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING LOVING ENOUGH TO SHARE THIS TIME WITH FRIENDS AND STRANGERS.XOOX
I just found this show! This podcast is sooooooo amazing! I love your personality, your laugh and your realness, your edge. I’ll be back for the next show. This was soooooo good!!
A Quality podcast. The questions that you asked Jessica.....seeing what healthy and mature looks like is helpful.
Put his name in the title so when ppl search his name, this conversation pulls up too☺️
Bishop is a whole vibe! Wow, I hope Jessica is catching it. He's dropping major gems 💎. He also needs to be on Dear Future Wifey podcast with Laterras. I really feel he would be able to draw out more from Bishop Sapp.