The time is now to address unhealed wounds. Don't go into 2023 with the same mindset and heart space. Mindset coach and therapist Brittainy Noel joins the podcast to excavate "Hidden Wounds."
Jessica, I felt your pain so deep when you talked about your loved one. My mom has rejected me over and over again as recent as a few weeks ago. When I was accepted into a doctoral program, she told me how stupid I was for going into it, despite the fact that she has her doctoral degree. When I was struggling to hold my head up emotionally and mentally in the program to become a Nurse Practitioner, she told me she would never trust me or recommend me to anyone because I would kill people. I was devastated and flunked out of my program because I no longer believed in me. I lost me. But God! He is my Daddy. He has adopted me as His little girl and is restoring me. I have not spoken about it publicly, but it is my reality. Now I am learning to love me and nurture the little girl in me. I am praying for you. You are beautiful. You are strong. You are amazing. I am so proud of you for what you are doing with your voice, your music, and this podcast. Keep being the beautiful you that you are. Live your Light out loud. Love you. 💜
I'm so waiting for your full story. I'm looking for a good nurse practitioner so please post when you have accomplished the dream or Father placed in you.
@@ranaebarker1443 Wow! Thank you for believing in me. I will definitely keep you posted. I believe all things will work together for my good. I truly believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living, so I will wait on the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Sis, I speak Isaiah 54:17 over you and I speak in the name of Christ that every word curse is reverse in the name of Jesus. I pray for your mom, it sounds like although she's lashing out at you, she really hates herself.
Did her mother treat her that way? Is just sound Unreal that a mother would say them words to there beautiful daughter. But. I know it happen everyday. I’m happy you found your relationship with God. The best thing happen to me is Surrendering All to God. It’s true Freedom. I was also Rejected as a child.
My eyes filled with tears reading your comments. My God I can relate...... We are God's Best and He will never forsake Us!!!! We have to take the face away from the Spirit... It's not them, it's a Spirit....
Jessica, thank you for your vulnerability. This podcast is not like any other at this point. You are inviting professionals into your space and allowing them to be great using their gifts. These are live therapy sessions and breakthroughs are happening and barriers are being destroyed. People will see the significance in seeking help with mental health professionals. I love what you are serving us. Keep healing sis because I am on this journey with you. Brittany, you're flourishing in your gift ma'am. Thank you
Wow! Are you ready to fall with me? I just got my heart broken by a ghosting guy and man it took me a minute to get back up, I wish this was recorded sooner this was a great show. Thank you for what your doing here
“Let’s qualify this first.” “We fall in love without their consent.” 🤯 Ok Brittainy! I am literally telling you that resonated so deep in my heart and soul. I can so relate to Jessica. I have rediscovered myself. I am doing the work to be honest and vulnerable with myself and who I am to me first. Now, that I am ready for love, I am not confident that I can keep me “safe”. After this conversation, I will keep doing the work to trust who is entering my life. He will not be my bandaid, he will be my covering so I will enjoy every step of new discovery together of growing in love instead of falling.
'When you have always been your own saviour, the hardest thing is allowing someone to come in and save you'. Fire right there doc. Jessica, your podcast is changing my life. You are on the right track sis! Thank you both.
I have watched this twice now! When I tell you....honey listen....Jessica....THANK YOU!!! Several times, I had to pause it, sit in the feelings and thought I was having, even when they were uncomfortable as tears flow, I know for a FACT I actually FELT healing happening. THIS WAS SO GOOD! ALL OF IT! All you shared, all she shared, and her questions....my Lord! I love you Sis!
This one and the episode previously has been heavy and very much so needed. I applaud your openness and sharing your life with us. My prayer is that those that don't mean you well don't attempt to use your pain to against you and that God will continue to cover you on your journey
I just want to give Jessica a hug. I feel her pain and suffering. I’ve been there in my journey dealing with childhood trauma. I have PTSD from it and it’s most definitely a struggle to overcome. So I see Jessica and can sympathize with her.
Miss Brittany, I have followed you since you've been on dear future wifey and everytime I feel like you help me more than 3 month of therapy here in Australia has done for me. I have battled with self-worth all my life and never have I felt a lift in my spirit like today (watching this). I have so much to work on but you are truly a gift to us broken little girls that needs healing. Thank you so much, we need you🙏💞. God bless you
Jessica, thank you for being so transparent about your personal issues. God will bring you out in due time. It's helping me to open up about my own issues. Be strong. God bless! Loving you from up north. 🇨🇦
Yes seek therapy!! I currently go 1 a week to see my therapist it’s been a beautiful journey of healing for me I’ve added this to my self care for about 6 months now!!
Hello @HelloHubby 👋 Thank you for a new episode. I was first introduced to Ms. Brittainy Noel on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast. I have watched a few of her IG Lives, and I have watched many of her videos and interviews on TH-cam. I have learned a lot from her. Thank you for having her on. I look forward to listening, and to watching this episode.
BRITTAINY IS GREAT TO TALK WITH. GREAT ANSWERS. PRAYING FOR ALL MY BLACK SISTERS. WE HAVE BEEN HURT SOO MUCH BUT GOD IS IN CONTROL. THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING. GOD BLESS
All I can say is Thanks to both of you! I cried with you Jessica! I truly identify with your childhood experiences and how they are still affecting you(us). For most of my adult life, I can honestly say that I have been in the people pleasing/performance mode! Now that I have acknowledged that, I think I'm in the Protect Me Mode which has me feeling abrasive and I don't like it. I am doing the work to find the balance between the wounded warrior little girl and the Women who is Loved and Already Enough! Everyday and Everyway I Am Healing! ❤
thank you JESSICA JESSICA for speaking for me. Thank you for being transparent and saying it out loud to let me know. I am not alone in my mental battles because I keep struggling with what I really want my life to look like in who I really want to be and you hit the nail on the head when you said what if I don’t have time to get there and that’s why I put myself into so much pressure trying to get it because I feel like I’m behind. I feel like I’m a late bloomer and I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up I feel like I gave anger, depression, bitterness, and resentment so much of my time. I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up to Joy
Wow I was not expecting all this, I’m so happy I listen to this Jessica.. you Spoke the hearts of many strong women weaknesses and I love you for it,, keep going and I’m here for it.
Excellent Jessica, this is a great session and we are learning from it, I instantly subscribed, watching from Jamaica, love your show, keep it coming, helping a lot of women.
Jessica, You don't know me, but I am so proud of you. thank you for having a big ❤️💜 to care for others to bring professional people on your show to help us heal. for that I am so grateful and appreciate you.💗🎁
It is hard when he's ready but you are still discovering you. To stop the flow hurts him but he doesn't recognize you have to heal first so you don't try to control the outcomes. When you finally get it and you are healing, and then you try to go back to him he's now rejecting you because he doesn't trust you'll be there all the way. Frustrating but respectfully I have to respect his resistance. Pissed but I let it go because my journey is very important. Timing is everything.
Wow how this hits home for me. I have similar experience but I also choose to let go because ,I couldn’t keep trying to convince or let him understand of the issues I got. I was not in a healthy space mentally to accommodate a relationship. We are at opposite ends now. Am open and he’s scared so I kissed it goodbye. Trying harder will only set me up for pain which am not ready to take in after going through the healing process. I conclude we are not for each other
Absolutely beautiful show and people. Absolutely love the questions and the questions and the the answers and the truths. Blessings, love ❤️ and many more blessings.
My God GIIRRRLLLLL!!!! First of all I’m at work about to have a straight meltdown & deliverance service in my doggone office. Such vulnerability and transparency, I salute you Jessica…..you are a force to reckon with sis!!!!! So many things you shared I felt like our life journey is so similar, I too was a single mother of three children and just wanted love. The family dynamics with abandonment, physical & emotional abuse so many relatable circumstances but God!!! Thank you sis for loving us enough to share and be open….praying all of God’s choicest blessings for you & your boys. Love your podcast, keep being amazing, we need you sis! ❤❤❤❤
Jessica this was such a great conversation and also the most vulnerable position that you have positioned yourself…. Us watching those connected to you … When we have done the healing we are so protective of our space that we create New walls instead of trusting Our boundaries that we set as the evolved Woman and allow God to walk this season of womanhood with Us …. The triggers are sensitive when we suffer from anxiety and have the background of not being seen or enough never really experienced unconditional Love….. Trust yourself Queen and enjoy the process Continue to be patient with yourself It’s working 🖤 We see you … Love and appreciate You ….. Giving ourselves Grace is powerful 🙏🏽
Ms Jessica Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent enough, and reaching out to the Right support to allow us to heal along with you on your journey 🙌🏽. .Super Proud of you 😍.!
Thank you this episode came right on time. The last one too! Thank you for opening up it really made things come together practically 💛 I want to walk into next year differently. I need to rewatch the last two episodes 🎉
Sheesh 🤗🤗🤗 That underserved credit that your loved one gave to someone else was pure audacity. Yes! Being "hard" IS HEAVY!! I resonate with that Jess. When I say I'm tired and over it 👏🏽I 👏🏽 MEAN👏🏽 IT!
I see you, I hear you, I got you. Your so brave! I’m so proud of you. Unfortunately I have that same love one who has devalued me for years and I kept coming back with love trying to be seen and heard. Saying all the time you don’t see me how special God has made me. Continue to love you when you devalue me all the time. Sometimes the light that God place in you is too bright for others and it cause jealousy and envy even in your own love ones.In my case my own mother. I do way more than my siblings but as soon as they give her a nickel she praises them. It’s ok I still love her with all my heart. Keep shining keep doing the work and keep loving on them. God is pleased!!!!! I love you !😊💜
This was such a powerful episode. I am in gratitude for your transparency and vulnerability Jessica. I am also extremely grateful for (Dr.) Brittney's wisdom and insight allowing us all to work through some issues via Jessica. There was so much that I can relate to with Jessica's story. I am just grateful. Thank you all.
Thiiiiiiiiiis! Jessica, I work with teenagers who've experienced some of the same trauma you've expressed on here. Just know this will be used as an empowering tool for them to watch and learn from, I LOVE YOU, AND APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH US...Your latter will be greater💪
At 63 years young I don't have any friends and I try to reach out and create bonds with other women and my problem is struggle is creating sisterhood where I feel safe and I can be vulnerable. How do I work through that because I really want to have that sisterhood relationship where I can be myself and not be judged.
Hello…You can develop sister-friends by joining women organizations & associations. There are also women groups on Facebook. All the aforementioned you can meet women in groups, travel and build upon like-minded interests. You start by engaging in conversations via social media and find meetups in your area. I hope all this was helpful.
Jessica, I love u women... thank you for being so open with us about your processes... this just gave me sooooooo much insight, conformation, and inspiration to keep going, trusting in this process, experiences, and outcomes of all that I will face.... THANK YOU, for being YOU so boldly.. u are so sweet and funny.. I love your humor.. frfr... God bless u and your family, career....U ARE AWSOME....
Jessica you are beautiful woman inside and out. Thanks for being so vulnerable. Took me back to when I was hurt. Through your vulnerability have reached a lot of woman who have been struggling. You are so strong and you have just taught them to be vulnerable. I got so caught up in the therapy session that I forgot the therapist name. She is so fantastic. You really had a great connection with her. All the best and have a Merry Christmas 🎄 with your boys. God Bless you and your family ❤ Looking forward to the next episode.
This is phenomenal and so necessary❤❤❤. This conversation for me highlights the importance of healing or at least starting the healing journey so we can really show up in the relationships we desire. The 'treadmill' and 'the cliff' analogy that Brittainy Noel used really resonated with me. We tend to self-sabotage because of unhealed wounds. Thank you Jessica Reedy, we see you sis, we value you sis, and thanks again for blessing us with your music. The song "Better" really helps me to "keep walking n' walking n' walking" no matter how bumpy the road is. So thank you🙏🙏🙏. Sending love, light and healing❤❤❤
Ms. Jessica🤗 thank you for sharing your heart. We are all getting healed today my friend. Thank You. You are beautiful inside and out.❤️ You ARE special, because God had a plan in mind when he created you. Because that plan is so amazing, the enemy wants you to doubt yourself and your God! He is faithful to complete the good work he has started in you. Your openness in this discussion is everything. I'm learning so much. Thank you Ms. Noel!
If we're looking for perfection we will never move forward....there is no one that's perfect....what makes sense in the words of Genesis that sums it up well..a suitable mate....loving unconditionally..
Is this what it means when God speaks to you? Because, let me tell you Brittany was pulling on my heart strings with those gems💎 💎‼️ 👏🏾👏🏾Another great one Jessica 💐💐
Best best show I ever been in.. it feels like I was going through this process. Ohh I appreciate you sister for your vulnerability and transparency. Doctor, I appreciate you for your healing session. I wish you were my therapist.
I just found this page and this is so amazing. I stayed in a relationship for 13 years that broke me down. I never thought I would be in the place I am today. Although im still praying for total healing im just so grateful im not where I used to be mentally and emotionally.
Awh Jessica I think when we're open vulnerable its the most beautiful thing. Keep going we are healing right along with you. Love you bunches one thing I've learned sometimes people will never know you especially from those you've been around for years. Its not for me to open your eyes and see me for me. Maybe you're meant to keep those blinders for life. But I will no longer overexert myself to prove you wrong.
I had to watch this in increments. So powerful. Thank you for being vulnerable and open with this. It's what many people are afraid to put out there but yet what we need healing from the most
This is a therapy session . This resonates with me because I discovered rejection is God protection an I accept am enough day to day process . I also discovered that because those enlaws who dont treat me well due to there woundedness so its best to love them from a distance and fedX them to Jesus . Yes I'm looking for a therapist . I agree transparency is essential .God is turning our scars into stars! God and therapy V.I.P 💎💜😍
Jessica, thanks for allowing God to use and heal you publicly. Like you, my need is to be seen and valued. In the past I overextended myself in relationships to prove my worth. That girl no longer lives within me. Today I know who I am and that I am not for everybody. And you know what? That's okay. During the last ten months God has healed me from cancer and now I am ready to enjoy this second chance at life. I am in the place where I can enjoy my relationships and not be concerned about the ending. I pray that God allows you to be seen by the man that is for you. I pray that man not only sees you for the priceless gem that you are but that he also intentionally listens to you when you speak your needs or show them to him. I pray that God continues to bless you as a mother to your beautiful boys. I pray that your music continues to be used as an instrument of healing. All these things I pray for you in Jesus's name. Amen.
The fact that I first seen a snippet on Instagram last week to opening up TH-cam and finding this whole interview makes me sincerely cry cause I can relate to the T to every thing Jessica is healing from We are healing it’s a beautiful thing but the process hurts and I’m learning it’s okay ❤ thank you for this whew
I needed this episode greatly. This just reaffirmed the internal work that I still need to do so I can be my best and whole self for the relationships to come as well as the ones I’m currently in. I just desperately need the cycle to be broken . 😭🙏🏽
You know I always say I don't need a man because financially I can take care of myself but recently last relationship even though it didnt workout I realized I need the man God has for me!
Desire Jesus more than your desire. Why you want a husband ssssooo much? What does a husband represent to you? Submit this desire to the Lord and heal. We a not entitled to marriage, it’s a gift from God. Jesus is your husband. Let Jesus in the spirit show you how a husband is and what that looks like.
I’m telling you when she said she had to grieve because her family was not the reality of what she really wanted. That’s another point that lets me know I’m not alone I don’t mean to be taking up a lot of space with multiple comments for certain things just hit.
"The only way rejection hurts, is if on some level I agree." I almost screamed. This statement is so powerful.
Yessssss
Jessica, I felt your pain so deep when you talked about your loved one. My mom has rejected me over and over again as recent as a few weeks ago. When I was accepted into a doctoral program, she told me how stupid I was for going into it, despite the fact that she has her doctoral degree. When I was struggling to hold my head up emotionally and mentally in the program to become a Nurse Practitioner, she told me she would never trust me or recommend me to anyone because I would kill people. I was devastated and flunked out of my program because I no longer believed in me. I lost me. But God! He is my Daddy. He has adopted me as His little girl and is restoring me. I have not spoken about it publicly, but it is my reality. Now I am learning to love me and nurture the little girl in me. I am praying for you. You are beautiful. You are strong. You are amazing. I am so proud of you for what you are doing with your voice, your music, and this podcast. Keep being the beautiful you that you are. Live your Light out loud. Love you. 💜
I'm so waiting for your full story. I'm looking for a good nurse practitioner so please post when you have accomplished the dream or Father placed in you.
@@ranaebarker1443 Wow! Thank you for believing in me. I will definitely keep you posted. I believe all things will work together for my good. I truly believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living, so I will wait on the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Sis, I speak Isaiah 54:17 over you and I speak in the name of Christ that every word curse is reverse in the name of Jesus. I pray for your mom, it sounds like although she's lashing out at you, she really hates herself.
Did her mother treat her that way?
Is just sound Unreal that a mother would say them words to there beautiful daughter. But. I know it happen everyday. I’m happy you found your relationship with God.
The best thing happen to me is Surrendering All to God. It’s true Freedom.
I was also Rejected as a child.
My eyes filled with tears reading your comments. My God I can relate...... We are God's Best and He will never forsake Us!!!! We have to take the face away from the Spirit... It's not them, it's a Spirit....
Jessica, thank you for your vulnerability. This podcast is not like any other at this point. You are inviting professionals into your space and allowing them to be great using their gifts. These are live therapy sessions and breakthroughs are happening and barriers are being destroyed. People will see the significance in seeking help with mental health professionals. I love what you are serving us. Keep healing sis because I am on this journey with you. Brittany, you're flourishing in your gift ma'am. Thank you
Wow! Are you ready to fall with me? I just got my heart broken by a ghosting guy and man it took me a minute to get back up, I wish this was recorded sooner this was a great show. Thank you for what your doing here
@@dembowen. Yes!
You were talking to me. When you said book the therapist.😢😢❤❤❤❤ Thank you for letting God use you.
“Let’s qualify this first.” “We fall in love without their consent.” 🤯
Ok Brittainy! I am literally telling you that resonated so deep in my heart and soul. I can so relate to Jessica. I have rediscovered myself. I am doing the work to be honest and vulnerable with myself and who I am to me first. Now, that I am ready for love, I am not confident that I can keep me “safe”. After this conversation, I will keep doing the work to trust who is entering my life. He will not be my bandaid, he will be my covering so I will enjoy every step of new discovery together of growing in love instead of falling.
Amazing❤ wish you the absolute best on your healing journey!
@@BrickCastleConsulting Thank you! 💜
'When you have always been your own saviour, the hardest thing is allowing someone to come in and save you'. Fire right there doc. Jessica, your podcast is changing my life. You are on the right track sis! Thank you both.
I have watched this twice now! When I tell you....honey listen....Jessica....THANK YOU!!! Several times, I had to pause it, sit in the feelings and thought I was having, even when they were uncomfortable as tears flow, I know for a FACT I actually FELT healing happening. THIS WAS SO GOOD! ALL OF IT! All you shared, all she shared, and her questions....my Lord! I love you Sis!
So need. It's beautiful to know that sisters are helping each other heal. This felt like a therapy session.
This was so encouraging hearing another woman being so vulnerable and willing to be open and honest. Appreciate you both Jessica and Brittany
This was a very powerful healing session!!!! Awesome work Jessica!!! Thank you Brittainy...you both ROCK!!!
This one and the episode previously has been heavy and very much so needed. I applaud your openness and sharing your life with us. My prayer is that those that don't mean you well don't attempt to use your pain to against you and that God will continue to cover you on your journey
Am I the only one who thinks Jessica is Dear Future Wifey?🤔😏 I'm excited for them both regardless.
Thank you Jessica for being soooo transparent and helping us learn to heal our soul and get rid of the soul clutter. Smooches 😘!
I just want to give Jessica a hug. I feel her pain and suffering. I’ve been there in my journey dealing with childhood trauma. I have PTSD from it and it’s most definitely a struggle to overcome. So I see Jessica and can sympathize with her.
This was deep… thank you Brittany and Jessica for being so open and transparent.
Miss Brittany, I have followed you since you've been on dear future wifey and everytime I feel like you help me more than 3 month of therapy here in Australia has done for me. I have battled with self-worth all my life and never have I felt a lift in my spirit like today (watching this). I have so much to work on but you are truly a gift to us broken little girls that needs healing. Thank you so much, we need you🙏💞. God bless you
Jessica's reaction at 14:28 is literally me every time I watch anything by Brittainy😭 She is something else man!
Jessica, thank you for being so transparent about your personal issues. God will bring you out in due time. It's helping me to open up about my own issues. Be strong. God bless! Loving you from up north. 🇨🇦
very true MGM I can so relate to your comment..
This episode provided so much healing❤️ Brittainy and Jessica thank you!
Yes seek therapy!! I currently go 1 a week to see my therapist it’s been a beautiful journey of healing for me I’ve added this to my self care for about 6 months now!!
This was excellent. Ms. Jessica praying for you. Thank you for your transparency
H-TOWN STAND UP!!! Amazing content @Brittany Noel👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hello @HelloHubby 👋 Thank you for a new episode. I was first introduced to Ms. Brittainy Noel on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast. I have watched a few of her IG Lives, and I have watched many of her videos and interviews on TH-cam. I have learned a lot from her. Thank you for having her on. I look forward to listening, and to watching this episode.
Thank you!!!
@@brittainynoel2053 You are very welcome! 🙏
BRITTAINY IS GREAT TO TALK WITH. GREAT ANSWERS. PRAYING FOR ALL MY BLACK SISTERS. WE HAVE BEEN HURT SOO MUCH BUT GOD IS IN CONTROL. THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING. GOD BLESS
All I can say is Thanks to both of you! I cried with you Jessica! I truly identify with your childhood experiences and how they are still affecting you(us). For most of my adult life, I can honestly say that I have been in the people pleasing/performance mode! Now that I have acknowledged that, I think I'm in the Protect Me Mode which has me feeling abrasive and I don't like it. I am doing the work to find the balance between the wounded warrior little girl and the Women who is Loved and Already Enough! Everyday and Everyway I Am Healing! ❤
Brittany, you are truly great at what you do. My lord! You speak to my soul 🤎
My face when she said God didn’t heal me for me to be by myself.😮You want me to go out there?🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😂😳
thank you JESSICA JESSICA for speaking for me. Thank you for being transparent and saying it out loud to let me know. I am not alone in my mental battles because I keep struggling with what I really want my life to look like in who I really want to be and you hit the nail on the head when you said what if I don’t have time to get there and that’s why I put myself into so much pressure trying to get it because I feel like I’m behind. I feel like I’m a late bloomer and I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up I feel like I gave anger, depression, bitterness, and resentment so much of my time. I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up to Joy
Wow I was not expecting all this, I’m so happy I listen to this Jessica.. you
Spoke the hearts of many strong women weaknesses and I love you for it,, keep going and I’m here for it.
Excellent Jessica, this is a great session and we are learning from it, I instantly subscribed, watching from Jamaica, love your show, keep it coming, helping a lot of women.
Damn , this hit home for me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It is your decision to love!!! Selah!
Jessica, You don't know me, but I am so proud of you. thank you for having a big ❤️💜 to care for others to bring professional people on your show to help us heal. for that I am so grateful and appreciate you.💗🎁
Fall in love without their consent. 😮 Chile…..my life story.
It is hard when he's ready but you are still discovering you. To stop the flow hurts him but he doesn't recognize you have to heal first so you don't try to control the outcomes. When you finally get it and you are healing, and then you try to go back to him he's now rejecting you because he doesn't trust you'll be there all the way. Frustrating but respectfully I have to respect his resistance. Pissed but I let it go because my journey is very important. Timing is everything.
Wow how this hits home for me. I have similar experience but I also choose to let go because ,I couldn’t keep trying to convince or let him understand of the issues I got. I was not in a healthy space mentally to accommodate a relationship. We are at opposite ends now. Am open and he’s scared so I kissed it goodbye. Trying harder will only set me up for pain which am not ready to take in after going through the healing process. I conclude we are not for each other
Absolutely beautiful show and people. Absolutely love the questions and the questions and the the answers and the truths. Blessings, love ❤️ and many more blessings.
My God GIIRRRLLLLL!!!! First of all I’m at work about to have a straight meltdown & deliverance service in my doggone office. Such vulnerability and transparency, I salute you Jessica…..you are a force to reckon with sis!!!!! So many things you shared I felt like our life journey is so similar, I too was a single mother of three children and just wanted love. The family dynamics with abandonment, physical & emotional abuse so many relatable circumstances but God!!! Thank you sis for loving us enough to share and be open….praying all of God’s choicest blessings for you & your boys. Love your podcast, keep being amazing, we need you sis! ❤❤❤❤
Jessica I just loooooooooooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God timing is always the best, no matter how painful it is. Hugging you in prayer Jessica sis we love and appreciate you.❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
Love that! " my new healing response is to release" I am taking notes!
Jessica this was such a great conversation and also the most vulnerable position that you have positioned yourself….
Us watching those connected to you … When we have done the healing we are so protective of our space that we create New walls instead of trusting Our boundaries that we set as the evolved Woman and allow God to walk this season of womanhood with Us …. The triggers are sensitive when we suffer from anxiety and have the background of not being seen or enough never really experienced unconditional Love….. Trust yourself Queen and enjoy the process
Continue to be patient with yourself It’s working 🖤
We see you … Love and appreciate You …..
Giving ourselves Grace is powerful 🙏🏽
Ms Jessica Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent enough, and reaching out to the Right support to allow us to heal along with you on your journey 🙌🏽. .Super Proud of you 😍.!
"Love is a choice." I've been married 29 years, and when GOD revealed this revolutions to me 15 years ago, it was freedom.
I have watched this 5-6 times. This is amazing!
Dr Brittany Noel you are dropping some nuggets. I am going to be rich after I leave this TH-cam channel. Thank you both
Thank you this episode came right on time. The last one too! Thank you for opening up it really made things come together practically 💛 I want to walk into next year differently. I need to rewatch the last two episodes 🎉
Sheesh 🤗🤗🤗
That underserved credit that your loved one gave to someone else was pure audacity.
Yes! Being "hard" IS HEAVY!! I resonate with that Jess. When I say I'm tired and over it 👏🏽I 👏🏽 MEAN👏🏽 IT!
I see you, I hear you, I got you. Your so brave! I’m so proud of you. Unfortunately I have that same love one who has devalued me for years and I kept coming back with love trying to be seen and heard. Saying all the time you don’t see me how special God has made me. Continue to love you when you devalue me all the time. Sometimes the light that God place in you is too bright for others and it cause jealousy and envy even in your own love ones.In my case my own mother. I do way more than my siblings but as soon as they give her a nickel she praises them. It’s ok I still love her with all my heart. Keep shining keep doing the work and keep loving on them. God is pleased!!!!! I love you !😊💜
Jessica, you are hilarious! Your sense of humor is refreshing. Laughing at the things that once made you cry. Now THAT'S healing!
That is what I'm working on at this point in my life is falling in love with myself which is a challenge sometimes 🤔
Best episode yet
Love this conversation between 2 amazing and intelligent Sisters.💞💞
This was such a powerful episode. I am in gratitude for your transparency and vulnerability Jessica. I am also extremely grateful for (Dr.) Brittney's wisdom and insight allowing us all to work through some issues via Jessica. There was so much that I can relate to with Jessica's story. I am just grateful. Thank you all.
This conversation was needed and appreciated 🙏🏿💯💫🙏🏿. !!! Well done ladies !!!! Let's keep evolving 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🗣️🗣️🗣️🙏🏿🙏🏿💯
I dont know how I found this a few weeks ago - but God is using this to help me heal! Thank you for using your pain for a purpose
IF I KNEW...I WOULD DO IT.😲💔12:28 are you sure😪
The following advice is AMAZING! 13:17
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Aamen speak Brittany!!! 💕💖💕🙌🙌🙌🙌 Powerful wisdom and divine counseling to heal the soul especially if women 💕💖
Wow, this is intense.... ❤️
Thiiiiiiiiiis! Jessica, I work with teenagers who've experienced some of the same trauma you've expressed on here. Just know this will be used as an empowering tool for them to watch and learn from, I LOVE YOU, AND APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH US...Your latter will be greater💪
Powerful episode!!!
This has been amazing!!!
At 63 years young I don't have any friends and I try to reach out and create bonds with other women and my problem is struggle is creating sisterhood where I feel safe and I can be vulnerable. How do I work through that because I really want to have that sisterhood relationship where I can be myself and not be judged.
Hello…You can develop sister-friends by joining women organizations & associations. There are also women groups on Facebook. All the aforementioned you can meet women in groups, travel and build upon like-minded interests. You start by engaging in conversations via social media and find meetups in your area. I hope all this was helpful.
Please get her a tissue - smh 🤧 😪
Amen! Let's do it together 🙌🏼🙌🏼💪🏼💪🏼 I love you both so much, thank you 🥰💝🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😇🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🥰😘🤗
Jessica, I love u women... thank you for being so open with us about your processes... this just gave me sooooooo much insight, conformation, and inspiration to keep going, trusting in this process, experiences, and outcomes of all that I will face.... THANK YOU, for being YOU so boldly.. u are so sweet and funny.. I love your humor.. frfr... God bless u and your family, career....U ARE AWSOME....
Thank you, JessicAAAA! For cultivating this space. It is ONE OF A KIND. So healing, transparent, and restorative.
21:10 Goooood Advice
Wow, wow, WOW!!!! I so needed this, thank you so much ladies 💗💐🙌🏼🙏🏼😇💪🏼💯💓💜💖🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you ladies. I've been encouraged by this. We all want to be seen...past the kindness and gifts. You'll get there Jessica. Keep growing. 😘❤️
Jessica you are beautiful woman inside and out. Thanks for being so vulnerable. Took me back to when I was hurt. Through your vulnerability have reached a lot of woman who have been struggling. You are so strong and you have just taught them to be vulnerable. I got so caught up in the therapy session that I forgot the therapist name. She is so fantastic. You really had a great connection with her. All the best and have a Merry Christmas 🎄 with your boys. God Bless you and your family ❤ Looking forward to the next episode.
@brittainynoel2053 your book “Made For This” is so powerful. It changed my life. Thank you for being such a great therapist.💛
This is phenomenal and so necessary❤❤❤. This conversation for me highlights the importance of healing or at least starting the healing journey so we can really show up in the relationships we desire. The 'treadmill' and 'the cliff' analogy that Brittainy Noel used really resonated with me. We tend to self-sabotage because of unhealed wounds. Thank you Jessica Reedy, we see you sis, we value you sis, and thanks again for blessing us with your music. The song "Better" really helps me to "keep walking n' walking n' walking" no matter how bumpy the road is. So thank you🙏🙏🙏. Sending love, light and healing❤❤❤
I just got delivered 😮💨. Thankyou Jesus for this episode.
Ms. Jessica🤗 thank you for sharing your heart. We are all getting healed today my friend. Thank You. You are beautiful inside and out.❤️ You ARE special, because God had a plan in mind when he created you. Because that plan is so amazing, the enemy wants you to doubt yourself and your God! He is faithful to complete the good work he has started in you. Your openness in this discussion is everything. I'm learning so much. Thank you Ms. Noel!
If we're looking for perfection we will never move forward....there is no one that's perfect....what makes sense in the words of Genesis that sums it up well..a suitable mate....loving unconditionally..
Uh uh Jessica girl ...where you at?? I need you boo...how can I be praying for you during this time?
I have pages of notes, I so so so needed this and very much value every moment and word spoken 🙌🏼🙏🏼💪🏼💪🏼💯😇💓💖💕🥰🤗😘
Is this what it means when God speaks to you? Because, let me tell you Brittany was pulling on my heart strings with those gems💎 💎‼️ 👏🏾👏🏾Another great one Jessica 💐💐
Best best show I ever been in.. it feels like I was going through this process. Ohh I appreciate you sister for your vulnerability and transparency. Doctor, I appreciate you for your healing session. I wish you were my therapist.
22:55 may I just say I love the way God is using Miss Brittainy Noel because she is speaking and it is POWERFUL
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This was so good. "The only way someone's rejection hurts is if on some level I agree" ...my God!
I just found this page and this is so amazing. I stayed in a relationship for 13 years that broke me down. I never thought I would be in the place I am today. Although im still praying for total healing im just so grateful im not where I used to be mentally and emotionally.
Wow. All of this!!!! The way this spoke to me. 😭😭😢😢😭 #choosingme
This podcast was amazing. Thank you Jessica and Brittany. This helped me in so many ways.
Awh Jessica I think when we're open vulnerable its the most beautiful thing. Keep going we are healing right along with you. Love you bunches one thing I've learned sometimes people will never know you especially from those you've been around for years. Its not for me to open your eyes and see me for me. Maybe you're meant to keep those blinders for life. But I will no longer overexert myself to prove you wrong.
13:33 ooooooo she good good
I had to watch this in increments. So powerful. Thank you for being vulnerable and open with this. It's what many people are afraid to put out there but yet what we need healing from the most
This is so powerful!! Thank you for your transparency 🙌🏾🙏🏾
This is a therapy session . This resonates with me because I discovered rejection is God protection an I accept am enough day to day process . I also discovered that because those enlaws who dont treat me well due to there woundedness so its best to love them from a distance and fedX them to Jesus . Yes I'm looking for a therapist . I agree transparency is essential .God is turning our scars into stars! God and therapy V.I.P 💎💜😍
Jessica, thanks for allowing God to use and heal you publicly. Like you, my need is to be seen and valued. In the past I overextended myself in relationships to prove my worth. That girl no longer lives within me. Today I know who I am and that I am not for everybody. And you know what? That's okay. During the last ten months God has healed me from cancer and now I am ready to enjoy this second chance at life. I am in the place where I can enjoy my relationships and not be concerned about the ending.
I pray that God allows you to be seen by the man that is for you. I pray that man not only sees you for the priceless gem that you are but that he also intentionally listens to you when you speak your needs or show them to him. I pray that God continues to bless you as a mother to your beautiful boys. I pray that your music continues to be used as an instrument of healing. All these things I pray for you in Jesus's name. Amen.
The fact that I first seen a snippet on Instagram last week to opening up TH-cam and finding this whole interview makes me sincerely cry cause I can relate to the T to every thing Jessica is healing from
We are healing it’s a beautiful thing but the process hurts and I’m learning it’s okay ❤ thank you for this whew
COME BACK ALREADYYYYY!!!😭😭😭😭 We need new content
I needed this episode greatly. This just reaffirmed the internal work that I still need to do so I can be my best and whole self for the relationships to come as well as the ones I’m currently in. I just desperately need the cycle to be broken . 😭🙏🏽
You know I always say I don't need a man because financially I can take care of myself but recently last relationship even though it didnt workout I realized I need the man God has for me!
Mannnn I felt second hand healing from this
W🙄W…..I am there and know exactly what you released. WOW.
Desire Jesus more than your desire. Why you want a husband ssssooo much? What does a husband represent to you? Submit this desire to the Lord and heal. We a not entitled to marriage, it’s a gift from God. Jesus is your husband. Let Jesus in the spirit show you how a husband is and what that looks like.
Heyyy @Brittainynoel2053 and Jessica... I know this conversation will be lit
I cried this whole episode. Admitting that I struggle with the same issues hurt so bad.
I’m telling you when she said she had to grieve because her family was not the reality of what she really wanted. That’s another point that lets me know I’m not alone I don’t mean to be taking up a lot of space with multiple comments for certain things just hit.
New subbie here. First time listener. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode ❤