Jessica, I felt your pain so deep when you talked about your loved one. My mom has rejected me over and over again as recent as a few weeks ago. When I was accepted into a doctoral program, she told me how stupid I was for going into it, despite the fact that she has her doctoral degree. When I was struggling to hold my head up emotionally and mentally in the program to become a Nurse Practitioner, she told me she would never trust me or recommend me to anyone because I would kill people. I was devastated and flunked out of my program because I no longer believed in me. I lost me. But God! He is my Daddy. He has adopted me as His little girl and is restoring me. I have not spoken about it publicly, but it is my reality. Now I am learning to love me and nurture the little girl in me. I am praying for you. You are beautiful. You are strong. You are amazing. I am so proud of you for what you are doing with your voice, your music, and this podcast. Keep being the beautiful you that you are. Live your Light out loud. Love you. 💜
I'm so waiting for your full story. I'm looking for a good nurse practitioner so please post when you have accomplished the dream or Father placed in you.
@@ranaebarker1443 Wow! Thank you for believing in me. I will definitely keep you posted. I believe all things will work together for my good. I truly believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living, so I will wait on the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Sis, I speak Isaiah 54:17 over you and I speak in the name of Christ that every word curse is reverse in the name of Jesus. I pray for your mom, it sounds like although she's lashing out at you, she really hates herself.
Did her mother treat her that way? Is just sound Unreal that a mother would say them words to there beautiful daughter. But. I know it happen everyday. I’m happy you found your relationship with God. The best thing happen to me is Surrendering All to God. It’s true Freedom. I was also Rejected as a child.
My eyes filled with tears reading your comments. My God I can relate...... We are God's Best and He will never forsake Us!!!! We have to take the face away from the Spirit... It's not them, it's a Spirit....
Jessica, thank you for your vulnerability. This podcast is not like any other at this point. You are inviting professionals into your space and allowing them to be great using their gifts. These are live therapy sessions and breakthroughs are happening and barriers are being destroyed. People will see the significance in seeking help with mental health professionals. I love what you are serving us. Keep healing sis because I am on this journey with you. Brittany, you're flourishing in your gift ma'am. Thank you
Wow! Are you ready to fall with me? I just got my heart broken by a ghosting guy and man it took me a minute to get back up, I wish this was recorded sooner this was a great show. Thank you for what your doing here
I have watched this twice now! When I tell you....honey listen....Jessica....THANK YOU!!! Several times, I had to pause it, sit in the feelings and thought I was having, even when they were uncomfortable as tears flow, I know for a FACT I actually FELT healing happening. THIS WAS SO GOOD! ALL OF IT! All you shared, all she shared, and her questions....my Lord! I love you Sis!
“Let’s qualify this first.” “We fall in love without their consent.” 🤯 Ok Brittainy! I am literally telling you that resonated so deep in my heart and soul. I can so relate to Jessica. I have rediscovered myself. I am doing the work to be honest and vulnerable with myself and who I am to me first. Now, that I am ready for love, I am not confident that I can keep me “safe”. After this conversation, I will keep doing the work to trust who is entering my life. He will not be my bandaid, he will be my covering so I will enjoy every step of new discovery together of growing in love instead of falling.
'When you have always been your own saviour, the hardest thing is allowing someone to come in and save you'. Fire right there doc. Jessica, your podcast is changing my life. You are on the right track sis! Thank you both.
Wow I was not expecting all this, I’m so happy I listen to this Jessica.. you Spoke the hearts of many strong women weaknesses and I love you for it,, keep going and I’m here for it.
Yes seek therapy!! I currently go 1 a week to see my therapist it’s been a beautiful journey of healing for me I’ve added this to my self care for about 6 months now!!
I just want to give Jessica a hug. I feel her pain and suffering. I’ve been there in my journey dealing with childhood trauma. I have PTSD from it and it’s most definitely a struggle to overcome. So I see Jessica and can sympathize with her.
BRITTAINY IS GREAT TO TALK WITH. GREAT ANSWERS. PRAYING FOR ALL MY BLACK SISTERS. WE HAVE BEEN HURT SOO MUCH BUT GOD IS IN CONTROL. THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING. GOD BLESS
Miss Brittany, I have followed you since you've been on dear future wifey and everytime I feel like you help me more than 3 month of therapy here in Australia has done for me. I have battled with self-worth all my life and never have I felt a lift in my spirit like today (watching this). I have so much to work on but you are truly a gift to us broken little girls that needs healing. Thank you so much, we need you🙏💞. God bless you
This one and the episode previously has been heavy and very much so needed. I applaud your openness and sharing your life with us. My prayer is that those that don't mean you well don't attempt to use your pain to against you and that God will continue to cover you on your journey
It is hard when he's ready but you are still discovering you. To stop the flow hurts him but he doesn't recognize you have to heal first so you don't try to control the outcomes. When you finally get it and you are healing, and then you try to go back to him he's now rejecting you because he doesn't trust you'll be there all the way. Frustrating but respectfully I have to respect his resistance. Pissed but I let it go because my journey is very important. Timing is everything.
Wow how this hits home for me. I have similar experience but I also choose to let go because ,I couldn’t keep trying to convince or let him understand of the issues I got. I was not in a healthy space mentally to accommodate a relationship. We are at opposite ends now. Am open and he’s scared so I kissed it goodbye. Trying harder will only set me up for pain which am not ready to take in after going through the healing process. I conclude we are not for each other
i’ve never heard anyone ever admit that it will never go away that your body will always remember that is important to acknowledge, and should know that and learn how to overcome the way she said, by excepting the good the bad and the ugly. Sometimes I think we hear just love yourself, but I think we try to love ourselves to be something that we will never be, which is totally healed on this side of heaven, that we will have residue but learning how to put it in his proper perspective is showing healing
All I can say is Thanks to both of you! I cried with you Jessica! I truly identify with your childhood experiences and how they are still affecting you(us). For most of my adult life, I can honestly say that I have been in the people pleasing/performance mode! Now that I have acknowledged that, I think I'm in the Protect Me Mode which has me feeling abrasive and I don't like it. I am doing the work to find the balance between the wounded warrior little girl and the Women who is Loved and Already Enough! Everyday and Everyway I Am Healing! ❤
Sheesh 🤗🤗🤗 That underserved credit that your loved one gave to someone else was pure audacity. Yes! Being "hard" IS HEAVY!! I resonate with that Jess. When I say I'm tired and over it 👏🏽I 👏🏽 MEAN👏🏽 IT!
Jessica, You don't know me, but I am so proud of you. thank you for having a big ❤️💜 to care for others to bring professional people on your show to help us heal. for that I am so grateful and appreciate you.💗🎁
Hello @HelloHubby 👋 Thank you for a new episode. I was first introduced to Ms. Brittainy Noel on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast. I have watched a few of her IG Lives, and I have watched many of her videos and interviews on TH-cam. I have learned a lot from her. Thank you for having her on. I look forward to listening, and to watching this episode.
Jessica, thank you for being so transparent about your personal issues. God will bring you out in due time. It's helping me to open up about my own issues. Be strong. God bless! Loving you from up north. 🇨🇦
Jessica this was such a great conversation and also the most vulnerable position that you have positioned yourself…. Us watching those connected to you … When we have done the healing we are so protective of our space that we create New walls instead of trusting Our boundaries that we set as the evolved Woman and allow God to walk this season of womanhood with Us …. The triggers are sensitive when we suffer from anxiety and have the background of not being seen or enough never really experienced unconditional Love….. Trust yourself Queen and enjoy the process Continue to be patient with yourself It’s working 🖤 We see you … Love and appreciate You ….. Giving ourselves Grace is powerful 🙏🏽
Is this what it means when God speaks to you? Because, let me tell you Brittany was pulling on my heart strings with those gems💎 💎‼️ 👏🏾👏🏾Another great one Jessica 💐💐
thank you JESSICA JESSICA for speaking for me. Thank you for being transparent and saying it out loud to let me know. I am not alone in my mental battles because I keep struggling with what I really want my life to look like in who I really want to be and you hit the nail on the head when you said what if I don’t have time to get there and that’s why I put myself into so much pressure trying to get it because I feel like I’m behind. I feel like I’m a late bloomer and I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up I feel like I gave anger, depression, bitterness, and resentment so much of my time. I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up to Joy
Sister!!!! Jessic!!!! Thank u!!!! Thank u!!!!!! For allowing God to use you!!! There is so much healing going on and deliverance!!! We are praying for you sis!!! Stay encouraged!!!! Because you are sooo willing to share and be humble and volunerable your healing and your taking us on this healing journey with professional that are being used by God that many of us could not afford or it’s hard to find therapist that fits us, God Our Father Has Given Each One Of Us personal private front seat sessions in the privacy of our homes!!! He brought help to us!!! Thank u Jesus!!!!❤❤❤😂❤️😂🔥😘🥰
Excellent Jessica, this is a great session and we are learning from it, I instantly subscribed, watching from Jamaica, love your show, keep it coming, helping a lot of women.
Ms. Jessica🤗 thank you for sharing your heart. We are all getting healed today my friend. Thank You. You are beautiful inside and out.❤️ You ARE special, because God had a plan in mind when he created you. Because that plan is so amazing, the enemy wants you to doubt yourself and your God! He is faithful to complete the good work he has started in you. Your openness in this discussion is everything. I'm learning so much. Thank you Ms. Noel!
I've been through the fire, therapy really works,if you are transparent, I love your podcast, I cried for you today, please know how amazing you are, you are a gift from God to the world. Your amazing sense of humor, your beautiful voice,if a man can't see you are a diamond, he must be blind. People will always be jealous of what they don't understand. You are one of a kind! Blessed and highly favored. Jessica I know this is going to be an exciting and amazing year for us.just believe ❤️ 💖 🙌 💕
This was an amazing episode. Jessica I thank you for being transparent with the audience. I’m in awe literally because this is FREE. A free therapy session with someone whose in process of becoming a better person. I’m so appreciative and grateful you’re allowing yourself to be the sacrificial lamb for women who has dealt with some sort of trauma. Your personality is top tier love! Everyone need a “Jessica” on their team.
I see you, I hear you, I got you. Your so brave! I’m so proud of you. Unfortunately I have that same love one who has devalued me for years and I kept coming back with love trying to be seen and heard. Saying all the time you don’t see me how special God has made me. Continue to love you when you devalue me all the time. Sometimes the light that God place in you is too bright for others and it cause jealousy and envy even in your own love ones.In my case my own mother. I do way more than my siblings but as soon as they give her a nickel she praises them. It’s ok I still love her with all my heart. Keep shining keep doing the work and keep loving on them. God is pleased!!!!! I love you !😊💜
My God GIIRRRLLLLL!!!! First of all I’m at work about to have a straight meltdown & deliverance service in my doggone office. Such vulnerability and transparency, I salute you Jessica…..you are a force to reckon with sis!!!!! So many things you shared I felt like our life journey is so similar, I too was a single mother of three children and just wanted love. The family dynamics with abandonment, physical & emotional abuse so many relatable circumstances but God!!! Thank you sis for loving us enough to share and be open….praying all of God’s choicest blessings for you & your boys. Love your podcast, keep being amazing, we need you sis! ❤❤❤❤
If we're looking for perfection we will never move forward....there is no one that's perfect....what makes sense in the words of Genesis that sums it up well..a suitable mate....loving unconditionally..
This was such a powerful episode. I am in gratitude for your transparency and vulnerability Jessica. I am also extremely grateful for (Dr.) Brittney's wisdom and insight allowing us all to work through some issues via Jessica. There was so much that I can relate to with Jessica's story. I am just grateful. Thank you all.
I had my first visit with a therapist last week. I knew it was time as I am in the midst of moving forward from a 20+ years relationship in which I have endured mental and emotional abuse. The underlying language I have used about myself is I was looking for love in all the wrong places since a little girl who’s dad was absent from her life. Ending this relationship has triggered that and all that I have been through in my lifetime. I felt this conversation very deeply and cried along with you. I am on my healing journey and I trust God and where he is taking me. Thank you for sharing your heart.
I had to watch this in increments. So powerful. Thank you for being vulnerable and open with this. It's what many people are afraid to put out there but yet what we need healing from the most
I just found this page and this is so amazing. I stayed in a relationship for 13 years that broke me down. I never thought I would be in the place I am today. Although im still praying for total healing im just so grateful im not where I used to be mentally and emotionally.
Ms Jessica Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent enough, and reaching out to the Right support to allow us to heal along with you on your journey 🙌🏽. .Super Proud of you 😍.!
I felt like this was me in therapy. Jessica, you truly expressed everything I wasn’t able to put into words. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing your stories. I pray God continues to protect your heart and brings you someone who will truly see you, honor you, and love you the way you deserve to be. You have so much love to give. Thank you for sharing that with us. ❤
Jessica, thanks for allowing God to use and heal you publicly. Like you, my need is to be seen and valued. In the past I overextended myself in relationships to prove my worth. That girl no longer lives within me. Today I know who I am and that I am not for everybody. And you know what? That's okay. During the last ten months God has healed me from cancer and now I am ready to enjoy this second chance at life. I am in the place where I can enjoy my relationships and not be concerned about the ending. I pray that God allows you to be seen by the man that is for you. I pray that man not only sees you for the priceless gem that you are but that he also intentionally listens to you when you speak your needs or show them to him. I pray that God continues to bless you as a mother to your beautiful boys. I pray that your music continues to be used as an instrument of healing. All these things I pray for you in Jesus's name. Amen.
Best best show I ever been in.. it feels like I was going through this process. Ohh I appreciate you sister for your vulnerability and transparency. Doctor, I appreciate you for your healing session. I wish you were my therapist.
Absolutely beautiful show and people. Absolutely love the questions and the questions and the the answers and the truths. Blessings, love ❤️ and many more blessings.
This is phenomenal and so necessary❤❤❤. This conversation for me highlights the importance of healing or at least starting the healing journey so we can really show up in the relationships we desire. The 'treadmill' and 'the cliff' analogy that Brittainy Noel used really resonated with me. We tend to self-sabotage because of unhealed wounds. Thank you Jessica Reedy, we see you sis, we value you sis, and thanks again for blessing us with your music. The song "Better" really helps me to "keep walking n' walking n' walking" no matter how bumpy the road is. So thank you🙏🙏🙏. Sending love, light and healing❤❤❤
This is a therapy session . This resonates with me because I discovered rejection is God protection an I accept am enough day to day process . I also discovered that because those enlaws who dont treat me well due to there woundedness so its best to love them from a distance and fedX them to Jesus . Yes I'm looking for a therapist . I agree transparency is essential .God is turning our scars into stars! God and therapy V.I.P 💎💜😍
Thiiiiiiiiiis! Jessica, I work with teenagers who've experienced some of the same trauma you've expressed on here. Just know this will be used as an empowering tool for them to watch and learn from, I LOVE YOU, AND APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH US...Your latter will be greater💪
I needed this episode greatly. This just reaffirmed the internal work that I still need to do so I can be my best and whole self for the relationships to come as well as the ones I’m currently in. I just desperately need the cycle to be broken . 😭🙏🏽
This episode was a wholeeeee therapy session for me !! Wooooow so much light has been shed on areas I need to protect and affirm in order to continue healing/growing. ‘Sometimes we misinterpret kind behaviours as someone seeing my worth and my value’ ..this is me & brittainy just helped me answer a question that has been bugging me lately on my healing journey. Thank you Jessica for sharing space with us to allow us to evolve too 🙌🏾🤍
Awh Jessica I think when we're open vulnerable its the most beautiful thing. Keep going we are healing right along with you. Love you bunches one thing I've learned sometimes people will never know you especially from those you've been around for years. Its not for me to open your eyes and see me for me. Maybe you're meant to keep those blinders for life. But I will no longer overexert myself to prove you wrong.
The fact that I first seen a snippet on Instagram last week to opening up TH-cam and finding this whole interview makes me sincerely cry cause I can relate to the T to every thing Jessica is healing from We are healing it’s a beautiful thing but the process hurts and I’m learning it’s okay ❤ thank you for this whew
This right here… pfff no words. Jessica I went through some of the same things you mentioned and I am also in the process of healing. I had and have to tell myself everyday, it’s gonna be alright. You got you, but most importantly God got you. He will accept all of us. And the right guy, will love you with a lot of part of that love. You go you, and you go little Jessica. Its gonna be alright. We are gonna be alright❤ thank you both for your eye opening and confronting convo.
"The only way rejection hurts, is if on some level I agree." I almost screamed. This statement is so powerful.
Yessssss
Jessica's reaction at 14:28 is literally me every time I watch anything by Brittainy😭 She is something else man!
Jessica, I felt your pain so deep when you talked about your loved one. My mom has rejected me over and over again as recent as a few weeks ago. When I was accepted into a doctoral program, she told me how stupid I was for going into it, despite the fact that she has her doctoral degree. When I was struggling to hold my head up emotionally and mentally in the program to become a Nurse Practitioner, she told me she would never trust me or recommend me to anyone because I would kill people. I was devastated and flunked out of my program because I no longer believed in me. I lost me. But God! He is my Daddy. He has adopted me as His little girl and is restoring me. I have not spoken about it publicly, but it is my reality. Now I am learning to love me and nurture the little girl in me. I am praying for you. You are beautiful. You are strong. You are amazing. I am so proud of you for what you are doing with your voice, your music, and this podcast. Keep being the beautiful you that you are. Live your Light out loud. Love you. 💜
I'm so waiting for your full story. I'm looking for a good nurse practitioner so please post when you have accomplished the dream or Father placed in you.
@@ranaebarker1443 Wow! Thank you for believing in me. I will definitely keep you posted. I believe all things will work together for my good. I truly believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living, so I will wait on the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Sis, I speak Isaiah 54:17 over you and I speak in the name of Christ that every word curse is reverse in the name of Jesus. I pray for your mom, it sounds like although she's lashing out at you, she really hates herself.
Did her mother treat her that way?
Is just sound Unreal that a mother would say them words to there beautiful daughter. But. I know it happen everyday. I’m happy you found your relationship with God.
The best thing happen to me is Surrendering All to God. It’s true Freedom.
I was also Rejected as a child.
My eyes filled with tears reading your comments. My God I can relate...... We are God's Best and He will never forsake Us!!!! We have to take the face away from the Spirit... It's not them, it's a Spirit....
Jessica, thank you for your vulnerability. This podcast is not like any other at this point. You are inviting professionals into your space and allowing them to be great using their gifts. These are live therapy sessions and breakthroughs are happening and barriers are being destroyed. People will see the significance in seeking help with mental health professionals. I love what you are serving us. Keep healing sis because I am on this journey with you. Brittany, you're flourishing in your gift ma'am. Thank you
Wow! Are you ready to fall with me? I just got my heart broken by a ghosting guy and man it took me a minute to get back up, I wish this was recorded sooner this was a great show. Thank you for what your doing here
@@dembowen. Yes!
You were talking to me. When you said book the therapist.😢😢❤❤❤❤ Thank you for letting God use you.
Am I the only one who thinks Jessica is Dear Future Wifey?🤔😏 I'm excited for them both regardless.
My face when she said God didn’t heal me for me to be by myself.😮You want me to go out there?🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😂😳
I have watched this twice now! When I tell you....honey listen....Jessica....THANK YOU!!! Several times, I had to pause it, sit in the feelings and thought I was having, even when they were uncomfortable as tears flow, I know for a FACT I actually FELT healing happening. THIS WAS SO GOOD! ALL OF IT! All you shared, all she shared, and her questions....my Lord! I love you Sis!
“Let’s qualify this first.” “We fall in love without their consent.” 🤯
Ok Brittainy! I am literally telling you that resonated so deep in my heart and soul. I can so relate to Jessica. I have rediscovered myself. I am doing the work to be honest and vulnerable with myself and who I am to me first. Now, that I am ready for love, I am not confident that I can keep me “safe”. After this conversation, I will keep doing the work to trust who is entering my life. He will not be my bandaid, he will be my covering so I will enjoy every step of new discovery together of growing in love instead of falling.
Amazing❤ wish you the absolute best on your healing journey!
@@BrickCastleConsulting Thank you! 💜
H-TOWN STAND UP!!! Amazing content @Brittany Noel👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
'When you have always been your own saviour, the hardest thing is allowing someone to come in and save you'. Fire right there doc. Jessica, your podcast is changing my life. You are on the right track sis! Thank you both.
Wow I was not expecting all this, I’m so happy I listen to this Jessica.. you
Spoke the hearts of many strong women weaknesses and I love you for it,, keep going and I’m here for it.
"Love is a choice." I've been married 29 years, and when GOD revealed this revolutions to me 15 years ago, it was freedom.
Yes seek therapy!! I currently go 1 a week to see my therapist it’s been a beautiful journey of healing for me I’ve added this to my self care for about 6 months now!!
I just want to give Jessica a hug. I feel her pain and suffering. I’ve been there in my journey dealing with childhood trauma. I have PTSD from it and it’s most definitely a struggle to overcome. So I see Jessica and can sympathize with her.
So need. It's beautiful to know that sisters are helping each other heal. This felt like a therapy session.
BRITTAINY IS GREAT TO TALK WITH. GREAT ANSWERS. PRAYING FOR ALL MY BLACK SISTERS. WE HAVE BEEN HURT SOO MUCH BUT GOD IS IN CONTROL. THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING. GOD BLESS
Wow, this is intense.... ❤️
I have watched this 5-6 times. This is amazing!
This was so encouraging hearing another woman being so vulnerable and willing to be open and honest. Appreciate you both Jessica and Brittany
Brittany, you are truly great at what you do. My lord! You speak to my soul 🤎
Miss Brittany, I have followed you since you've been on dear future wifey and everytime I feel like you help me more than 3 month of therapy here in Australia has done for me. I have battled with self-worth all my life and never have I felt a lift in my spirit like today (watching this). I have so much to work on but you are truly a gift to us broken little girls that needs healing. Thank you so much, we need you🙏💞. God bless you
This one and the episode previously has been heavy and very much so needed. I applaud your openness and sharing your life with us. My prayer is that those that don't mean you well don't attempt to use your pain to against you and that God will continue to cover you on your journey
Dr Brittany Noel you are dropping some nuggets. I am going to be rich after I leave this TH-cam channel. Thank you both
It is hard when he's ready but you are still discovering you. To stop the flow hurts him but he doesn't recognize you have to heal first so you don't try to control the outcomes. When you finally get it and you are healing, and then you try to go back to him he's now rejecting you because he doesn't trust you'll be there all the way. Frustrating but respectfully I have to respect his resistance. Pissed but I let it go because my journey is very important. Timing is everything.
Wow how this hits home for me. I have similar experience but I also choose to let go because ,I couldn’t keep trying to convince or let him understand of the issues I got. I was not in a healthy space mentally to accommodate a relationship. We are at opposite ends now. Am open and he’s scared so I kissed it goodbye. Trying harder will only set me up for pain which am not ready to take in after going through the healing process. I conclude we are not for each other
22:55 may I just say I love the way God is using Miss Brittainy Noel because she is speaking and it is POWERFUL
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Jessica, you are hilarious! Your sense of humor is refreshing. Laughing at the things that once made you cry. Now THAT'S healing!
i’ve never heard anyone ever admit that it will never go away that your body will always remember that is important to acknowledge, and should know that and learn how to overcome the way she said, by excepting the good the bad and the ugly. Sometimes I think we hear just love yourself, but I think we try to love ourselves to be something that we will never be, which is totally healed on this side of heaven, that we will have residue but learning how to put it in his proper perspective is showing healing
I dont know how I found this a few weeks ago - but God is using this to help me heal! Thank you for using your pain for a purpose
Thank you Jessica for being soooo transparent and helping us learn to heal our soul and get rid of the soul clutter. Smooches 😘!
This was deep… thank you Brittany and Jessica for being so open and transparent.
It is your decision to love!!! Selah!
This was a very powerful healing session!!!! Awesome work Jessica!!! Thank you Brittainy...you both ROCK!!!
All I can say is Thanks to both of you! I cried with you Jessica! I truly identify with your childhood experiences and how they are still affecting you(us). For most of my adult life, I can honestly say that I have been in the people pleasing/performance mode! Now that I have acknowledged that, I think I'm in the Protect Me Mode which has me feeling abrasive and I don't like it. I am doing the work to find the balance between the wounded warrior little girl and the Women who is Loved and Already Enough! Everyday and Everyway I Am Healing! ❤
28:25 is golden! I really REALLY enjoyed this episode. Awesome! Golden nuggets everywhere - thanks so much! 🙏🏾
This has been amazing!!!
Sheesh 🤗🤗🤗
That underserved credit that your loved one gave to someone else was pure audacity.
Yes! Being "hard" IS HEAVY!! I resonate with that Jess. When I say I'm tired and over it 👏🏽I 👏🏽 MEAN👏🏽 IT!
Jessica, You don't know me, but I am so proud of you. thank you for having a big ❤️💜 to care for others to bring professional people on your show to help us heal. for that I am so grateful and appreciate you.💗🎁
Hello @HelloHubby 👋 Thank you for a new episode. I was first introduced to Ms. Brittainy Noel on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast. I have watched a few of her IG Lives, and I have watched many of her videos and interviews on TH-cam. I have learned a lot from her. Thank you for having her on. I look forward to listening, and to watching this episode.
Thank you!!!
@@brittainynoel2053 You are very welcome! 🙏
Love that! " my new healing response is to release" I am taking notes!
This was excellent. Ms. Jessica praying for you. Thank you for your transparency
Jessica, thank you for being so transparent about your personal issues. God will bring you out in due time. It's helping me to open up about my own issues. Be strong. God bless! Loving you from up north. 🇨🇦
very true MGM I can so relate to your comment..
Jessica this was such a great conversation and also the most vulnerable position that you have positioned yourself….
Us watching those connected to you … When we have done the healing we are so protective of our space that we create New walls instead of trusting Our boundaries that we set as the evolved Woman and allow God to walk this season of womanhood with Us …. The triggers are sensitive when we suffer from anxiety and have the background of not being seen or enough never really experienced unconditional Love….. Trust yourself Queen and enjoy the process
Continue to be patient with yourself It’s working 🖤
We see you … Love and appreciate You …..
Giving ourselves Grace is powerful 🙏🏽
Damn , this hit home for me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Is this what it means when God speaks to you? Because, let me tell you Brittany was pulling on my heart strings with those gems💎 💎‼️ 👏🏾👏🏾Another great one Jessica 💐💐
God timing is always the best, no matter how painful it is. Hugging you in prayer Jessica sis we love and appreciate you.❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
This was so good. "The only way someone's rejection hurts is if on some level I agree" ...my God!
Thank you Jessica, for being my voice. You are a God send. May the Lord continue to heal your wounds.
Powerful episode!!!
@brittainynoel2053 your book “Made For This” is so powerful. It changed my life. Thank you for being such a great therapist.💛
I cried this whole episode. Admitting that I struggle with the same issues hurt so bad.
thank you JESSICA JESSICA for speaking for me. Thank you for being transparent and saying it out loud to let me know. I am not alone in my mental battles because I keep struggling with what I really want my life to look like in who I really want to be and you hit the nail on the head when you said what if I don’t have time to get there and that’s why I put myself into so much pressure trying to get it because I feel like I’m behind. I feel like I’m a late bloomer and I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up I feel like I gave anger, depression, bitterness, and resentment so much of my time. I don’t know if I’ll ever catch up to Joy
Sister!!!! Jessic!!!! Thank u!!!! Thank u!!!!!! For allowing God to use you!!! There is so much healing going on and deliverance!!! We are praying for you sis!!! Stay encouraged!!!! Because you are sooo willing to share and be humble and volunerable your healing and your taking us on this healing journey with professional that are being used by God that many of us could not afford or it’s hard to find therapist that fits us, God Our Father Has Given Each One Of Us personal private front seat sessions in the privacy of our homes!!! He brought help to us!!! Thank u Jesus!!!!❤❤❤😂❤️😂🔥😘🥰
This conversation was needed and appreciated 🙏🏿💯💫🙏🏿. !!! Well done ladies !!!! Let's keep evolving 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🗣️🗣️🗣️🙏🏿🙏🏿💯
Jessica I just loooooooooooveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excellent Jessica, this is a great session and we are learning from it, I instantly subscribed, watching from Jamaica, love your show, keep it coming, helping a lot of women.
That is what I used to say. I used to be a runner. I told God, I will no longer run and learn and stand tall.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ms. Jessica🤗 thank you for sharing your heart. We are all getting healed today my friend. Thank You. You are beautiful inside and out.❤️ You ARE special, because God had a plan in mind when he created you. Because that plan is so amazing, the enemy wants you to doubt yourself and your God! He is faithful to complete the good work he has started in you. Your openness in this discussion is everything. I'm learning so much. Thank you Ms. Noel!
I've been through the fire, therapy really works,if you are transparent, I love your podcast, I cried for you today, please know how amazing you are, you are a gift from God to the world. Your amazing sense of humor, your beautiful voice,if a man can't see you are a diamond, he must be blind. People will always be jealous of what they don't understand. You are one of a kind! Blessed and highly favored. Jessica I know this is going to be an exciting and amazing year for us.just believe ❤️ 💖 🙌 💕
Love this conversation between 2 amazing and intelligent Sisters.💞💞
This was an amazing episode. Jessica I thank you for being transparent with the audience. I’m in awe literally because this is FREE. A free therapy session with someone whose in process of becoming a better person. I’m so appreciative and grateful you’re allowing yourself to be the sacrificial lamb for women who has dealt with some sort of trauma. Your personality is top tier love! Everyone need a “Jessica” on their team.
This episode provided so much healing❤️ Brittainy and Jessica thank you!
I see you, I hear you, I got you. Your so brave! I’m so proud of you. Unfortunately I have that same love one who has devalued me for years and I kept coming back with love trying to be seen and heard. Saying all the time you don’t see me how special God has made me. Continue to love you when you devalue me all the time. Sometimes the light that God place in you is too bright for others and it cause jealousy and envy even in your own love ones.In my case my own mother. I do way more than my siblings but as soon as they give her a nickel she praises them. It’s ok I still love her with all my heart. Keep shining keep doing the work and keep loving on them. God is pleased!!!!! I love you !😊💜
My God GIIRRRLLLLL!!!! First of all I’m at work about to have a straight meltdown & deliverance service in my doggone office. Such vulnerability and transparency, I salute you Jessica…..you are a force to reckon with sis!!!!! So many things you shared I felt like our life journey is so similar, I too was a single mother of three children and just wanted love. The family dynamics with abandonment, physical & emotional abuse so many relatable circumstances but God!!! Thank you sis for loving us enough to share and be open….praying all of God’s choicest blessings for you & your boys. Love your podcast, keep being amazing, we need you sis! ❤❤❤❤
If we're looking for perfection we will never move forward....there is no one that's perfect....what makes sense in the words of Genesis that sums it up well..a suitable mate....loving unconditionally..
Best episode yet
Absolutely powerful! “I’ve never been this person, she’s somebody I wanted to be.” J. Reedy I celebrate you this day for woman’s day! Much love sis! 💝
Amen! Let's do it together 🙌🏼🙌🏼💪🏼💪🏼 I love you both so much, thank you 🥰💝🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😇🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🥰😘🤗
This was such a powerful episode. I am in gratitude for your transparency and vulnerability Jessica. I am also extremely grateful for (Dr.) Brittney's wisdom and insight allowing us all to work through some issues via Jessica. There was so much that I can relate to with Jessica's story. I am just grateful. Thank you all.
I had my first visit with a therapist last week. I knew it was time as I am in the midst of moving forward from a 20+ years relationship in which I have endured mental and emotional abuse. The underlying language I have used about myself is I was looking for love in all the wrong places since a little girl who’s dad was absent from her life. Ending this relationship has triggered that and all that I have been through in my lifetime. I felt this conversation very deeply and cried along with you. I am on my healing journey and I trust God and where he is taking me. Thank you for sharing your heart.
I just got delivered 😮💨. Thankyou Jesus for this episode.
I had to watch this in increments. So powerful. Thank you for being vulnerable and open with this. It's what many people are afraid to put out there but yet what we need healing from the most
I just found this page and this is so amazing. I stayed in a relationship for 13 years that broke me down. I never thought I would be in the place I am today. Although im still praying for total healing im just so grateful im not where I used to be mentally and emotionally.
Ms Jessica Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent enough, and reaching out to the Right support to allow us to heal along with you on your journey 🙌🏽. .Super Proud of you 😍.!
Mannnn I felt second hand healing from this
I felt like this was me in therapy.
Jessica, you truly expressed everything I wasn’t able to put into words.
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing your stories.
I pray God continues to protect your heart and brings you someone who will truly see you, honor you, and love you the way you deserve to be.
You have so much love to give. Thank you for sharing that with us. ❤
Agreed
Jessica, thanks for allowing God to use and heal you publicly. Like you, my need is to be seen and valued. In the past I overextended myself in relationships to prove my worth. That girl no longer lives within me. Today I know who I am and that I am not for everybody. And you know what? That's okay. During the last ten months God has healed me from cancer and now I am ready to enjoy this second chance at life. I am in the place where I can enjoy my relationships and not be concerned about the ending.
I pray that God allows you to be seen by the man that is for you. I pray that man not only sees you for the priceless gem that you are but that he also intentionally listens to you when you speak your needs or show them to him. I pray that God continues to bless you as a mother to your beautiful boys. I pray that your music continues to be used as an instrument of healing. All these things I pray for you in Jesus's name. Amen.
Best best show I ever been in.. it feels like I was going through this process. Ohh I appreciate you sister for your vulnerability and transparency. Doctor, I appreciate you for your healing session. I wish you were my therapist.
Absolutely beautiful show and people. Absolutely love the questions and the questions and the the answers and the truths. Blessings, love ❤️ and many more blessings.
Triggered! I'm watching it again.
This is phenomenal and so necessary❤❤❤. This conversation for me highlights the importance of healing or at least starting the healing journey so we can really show up in the relationships we desire. The 'treadmill' and 'the cliff' analogy that Brittainy Noel used really resonated with me. We tend to self-sabotage because of unhealed wounds. Thank you Jessica Reedy, we see you sis, we value you sis, and thanks again for blessing us with your music. The song "Better" really helps me to "keep walking n' walking n' walking" no matter how bumpy the road is. So thank you🙏🙏🙏. Sending love, light and healing❤❤❤
This is a therapy session . This resonates with me because I discovered rejection is God protection an I accept am enough day to day process . I also discovered that because those enlaws who dont treat me well due to there woundedness so its best to love them from a distance and fedX them to Jesus . Yes I'm looking for a therapist . I agree transparency is essential .God is turning our scars into stars! God and therapy V.I.P 💎💜😍
Thiiiiiiiiiis! Jessica, I work with teenagers who've experienced some of the same trauma you've expressed on here. Just know this will be used as an empowering tool for them to watch and learn from, I LOVE YOU, AND APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR JOURNEY WITH US...Your latter will be greater💪
I needed this episode greatly. This just reaffirmed the internal work that I still need to do so I can be my best and whole self for the relationships to come as well as the ones I’m currently in. I just desperately need the cycle to be broken . 😭🙏🏽
Man!! This is crazy how direct Jessica is in my own personal situation at the beginning. THAT IS SOOOO ME!!!!
Thank you, JessicAAAA! For cultivating this space. It is ONE OF A KIND. So healing, transparent, and restorative.
Thank you for this.
JESSICA, you came back with a vengeance and I’m loving it. Thank you for sharing your healing with us.
This episode was a wholeeeee therapy session for me !! Wooooow so much light has been shed on areas I need to protect and affirm in order to continue healing/growing.
‘Sometimes we misinterpret kind behaviours as someone seeing my worth and my value’ ..this is me & brittainy just helped me answer a question that has been bugging me lately on my healing journey. Thank you Jessica for sharing space with us to allow us to evolve too 🙌🏾🤍
Awh Jessica I think when we're open vulnerable its the most beautiful thing. Keep going we are healing right along with you. Love you bunches one thing I've learned sometimes people will never know you especially from those you've been around for years. Its not for me to open your eyes and see me for me. Maybe you're meant to keep those blinders for life. But I will no longer overexert myself to prove you wrong.
Thank you ladies. I've been encouraged by this. We all want to be seen...past the kindness and gifts. You'll get there Jessica. Keep growing. 😘❤️
Yes yes experience us a good teacher ; no trauma or loss just lessons
Thank you, Jessica, for keeping real.
Aamen speak Brittany!!! 💕💖💕🙌🙌🙌🙌 Powerful wisdom and divine counseling to heal the soul especially if women 💕💖
The fact that I first seen a snippet on Instagram last week to opening up TH-cam and finding this whole interview makes me sincerely cry cause I can relate to the T to every thing Jessica is healing from
We are healing it’s a beautiful thing but the process hurts and I’m learning it’s okay ❤ thank you for this whew
This right here… pfff no words. Jessica I went through some of the same things you mentioned and I am also in the process of healing.
I had and have to tell myself everyday, it’s gonna be alright. You got you, but most importantly God got you. He will accept all of us. And the right guy, will love you with a lot of part of that love.
You go you, and you go little Jessica. Its gonna be alright. We are gonna be alright❤ thank you both for your eye opening and confronting convo.
This podcast was amazing. Thank you Jessica and Brittany. This helped me in so many ways.
Amen, to it all! 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
This doctor is really schooling me ❤
This was sooooo many levels of 🤯, raw and beautiful!!!!! Jessica, this direction ... You're onto something.
I need this Lady here to be my therapist , I tell you 🙆🏾💯