Dear Future Wifey S2, E217: A Woman's Worth (Jessica Reedy)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 มี.ค. 2021
- “A Woman’s Worth” isn’t determined by the external appraisal of others. It’s a self-evaluation accumulated from years of overcoming hurts and transforming beauty from ashes. Today’s guest, Jessica Reedy, shares her journey of rebuilding her heart and mind, after a shameful heartbreak while navigating a gospel music career.
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Who loves her beside me? Wow!
Yes i love her & i am so much like her Our God is truly awesomely amazing
Meeeee!
Me too
Men... I loved her from the beginning
I had heard of her But I never heard her sing.
Beautiful Person. You never know what someone been through are going through.
I going to go and listen to her songs.
This woman has a comedic calling! But this was one of the purest most transparent interviews to date so far. I felt everything she said.
Yep she did the funny soooo well
Girl friend is keeping it real.
I know right. Shes so funny
She's laughing to keep from crying. Thanks for sharing. This took a lot of courage, wisdom, and growth.
I'm cracking up😂😂 but love the transparency
Not only do I love her singing but she is hilarious and transparent!!!!
Ive cried n laughed n still learned the lessons.
Thissssss woman knows how to express her emotions sooooooo clearly. Her vocabulary to express her pain is beyond explicable. I simply find her exceptionally beautiful.
Totally agree I was like she has wordsssss,I love love her even more
“Ain’t no period I’m a THUG. I’ve always been triple OG.” That took me out 😂😂
😂😂😂
😂
I literally hollered and said this is my type pf friend
This is why women have to heal by learning to love themselves first. Otherwise we'll settle for scraps instead of the banquet we deserve.
Tell the truth!
Beautifully said!❤️
🔥🔥🔥
♥️
Omg yes!!!
She needs to permanently be on the podcast!!!! We NEED more of her! ❤
She has her own podcast called Hello Hubby.
This woman is hilarious!!!!!! She honestly has a future in voiceover acting in my opinion. What a joy and beautiful spirit she is.
“Don’t give disappointment the opportunity to speak.”
Jessica is hilarious, but her message is powerful! I'm so glad she showed up as her authentic self. I truly can relate to her story. Thank you for the message.
She definitely kept it LIT.
Yes me too!
@@DearFutureWifey This was mos def needed. I love Jessica transparency💜💜💜💜 Real Talk💜
I absolutely love her character, her personality and her comical self…this is so me‼️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Same
I absolutely love what she said about staying full so when someone take something from you, you won't feel it/miss it🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 that was powerful for me❤️
"People have to get really intentional about affirming themselves, and if you begin to affirm yourself you're not looking externally for something that God already placed internally"....have to sit with that, so powerful
"Let Your character outlive their Lie!!" Laterras.....Whew that's Powerful!!!!!
God gave me that quote in January 2019 to literally change the trajectory of my life.
@@DearFutureWifey Amen! The LORD is FAITHFUL!
@@DearFutureWifey Utterly beautiful. I totally can resonate with those words.
I love her personality. Women need more women to be like this.
This episode was pure gold. Jessica is now my friend in my head. Who knew she was as silly and at times awkward as me. Even when she mentioned how she acts at out her sons to keep them from being soft, I relate to that as well. I wish her all the best.
When I tell you I was cackling!! When she said “He ran game on me and I said..”pass me the ball”😂😂😂 I think a lot of women including myself can relate to being intentionally dumb😂😂 but it’s usually not discussed, especially in faith communities. Jessica is literally a breath of fresh air!!
I love her voice and her ability to laugh/joke through the process of telling her story! Laterras could not stop laughing! I'm raising boys as well and could totally relate to her when she said she walks around like a little boy yelling, "Yo what's up??!!". 😂😂
I can definitely relate also😊
😅😅😅😅 Me too!
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I am my sister!!! I know I was created to be a wife. I breathe my marriage vows! I meant those words! And when that is taken away from you due to divorce, it is devastating. Add to that lies being told, character assassinated, hurt doesn’t even begin to describe it. Still healing 7 years later. Only God!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Honey you don't miss a beat. You are like a conversational ninja. Nothing gets pass you, you pick up on every inconsistency. You're style is impeccable.
Lol. Give me something specific.
This goes back to a previous interview. A lady mentioned the feeling she felt upon seeing her husband for the first time. " Her soul stood up" Later in the conversation she mentioned something that happened that did not line up with the initial revelation. You pi ked up on it immediately and sought out an accountability towards it.
OMG!! 😂 This is one of the funniest and most real interview of the Dear Wifey series!!!
Emotionally unintelligent. So good.
Wisdom and beauty!
This woman right here!? She is incredibly funny and so relatable. So grateful for her transparency.
OMG. An hour ago I was sinking into a dark whole and God directed me to this video. I started sobbing because I relate so much to her and her humor cracked me up 😁 Thanks for this, I feel so much better! Thank God for bringing me here. I want to listen to this podcast again. Thank you for making me smile Jessica ❤️
When she said “This goes out for all the babies mamas mama” ..I had to pause the video and get myself together before I could keep watching ... 🤣😂🤣🤣 I’m still undone .. the girl got me over here laughing so hard that I’m sweatin and sniffin....
God’s Grace is so beautiful and uplifting.... thank you for showing yourself Jessica and letting us see it at work .. wheew!
She was killing me!!!! Lol.
@@DearFutureWifey This was so powerful and fun .. I don’t even like FB that much but I shared this interview with my mom so that she can post it on her page ... SO many valuable nuggets in here.. Now this here is something that should go viral .!!! I’m still trying to get myself together over here after watching this .. 😅 and that beautiful song!! .. God is just so good.
I was trying to lay down and watch Jessica nem. Chile, I had to sit up and when I say, whew she said all lat! She is the TRUTH!
Proverbs 17:22 tells us, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones." Oh my God I needed that! I haven't seen anyone so authentic in a looooong time, I laughed out loud in my office while watching this, my goodness Jessica was hilarious!!! I absolutely loved her truth. Laterras, God is certainly picking your guests, Jessica was awesome, she is absolutely beautiful and her voice is incredibly anointed. I see why satan attacked her as he did, God has a plan for this woman and it is HUGH! Thank you for blessing me.
Facts!
Amazing comment
This has been one of my favorite episodes yet! I love her humor, her realness, her self care.
The dopest person, man or woman, I’ve seen in a LONG TIME!!! You can’t help but to love her personality!!!
I would watch a television series featuring just Jessica. Her expressions, the way she switches characters, it's riveting. I really love her. And can you please tell her I said thank you for that affirming part? I was weeping listening to that. I have struggled with loving my son since I had him four years ago and its been worse being in the middle of a divorce. Thank you so much!
Love your son, the child is and will be a blessing to you. Look beyond today.
Yes absolutely!
“Being myself is the winning position!” Jessica Reedy🔥
I like this word.
She had me cracking up. It pays to be yourself the one God has for you will love ALL of you! I speak affirmations over myself at times.
LOVES THIS::
"Once you get delivered from other people opinions!"
She’s my new internet bestie ... but she don’t know yet.
RIGHT....same here!😂
Girl, me too!! 🤣
I LOVE her openness and her ability to speak on it. Such a beautiful spirit❤❤❤
Girl, me too. she's a kindred spirit
She mines too!
Oooh Wee I went to bed in tears and telling God I don’t want to feel like this. I know the joy he’s put inside of me but circumstances in this season of my life are trying to rob me. This morning I wake up and THIS is the episode waiting on me...wow!!! God loves me, he cares about me, he’s intentional with me. I felt like I was looking at myself or this was a Mary and Elizabeth moment and Jessica was my Elizabeth a little further along on the journey. She was telling me yes it was painful lonely embarrassing but I WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!!! I will still laugh love and walk in joy! Ooh she really spoke when she talked about exposing the enemy inside the people who are hurting you and truly themselves cause he’s working on the inside of them 🤯🤯🤯 Listen I can talk about this episode for pages. But Jessica thank you for enduring the hard times and committing to leaning on God and allowing him to restore you! I have been encouraged this morning. If that song ain’t A WHOLE WORD wow go OFF let the enemy have it! Now let me go get this Shea butter, shower, drop this towel and speak over myself IN THE NAME OF JESUS! #encouraged #helped #full #IAMAGALLON I NEED A LITTLE MORE and that’s ok
Walk in your healing!
Ohhhh please talk about it more. Thank you
I want a sisterhood with Sistah Reedy!!! Aye-ya!!! It is wonderful to hear a confirmation and a vision of healing. Hello Hubby will be another subscription for me.
She makes interviews look so easy and comfortable. I love her.
I love how she showed up as her true authentic self! She is hilarious. She would be an awesome friend.
She said she could’ve spinned it in her favor by using tactics of manipulation she refused to put the wife beneath her but instead she decided to be still and let God and not be evil because she also was emotionally unintelligent. Always loved her ministry Jessica is the Truth❤️❤️❤️💯
Spent my entire life shapeshifting to fit the image whoever was around me at the time, was pleased with… Jessica just affirmed that God created me this way for a purpose, I’m definitely taking allll her advice on that self affirmation! It’s probably not going to be easy but I know it will be worth it. Thank you so much Jessica for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you.
Also I’ve been binge watching all these episodes and I’m just sooo filled, thank you 🙏
She is genius ... give her a show NOW... the laughter - the authenticity - all of her😍
"He ran game on me... & I said pass me the ball." Ahhhhahahaha 😆😄😆
On a serious note, thank you to the both of you for this wonderful interview with edifying words! I'm currently 15 mins 59 seconds in lol.
Our pleasure!
I hollered!!! My fave funny part!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
She is my kindred spirit! I love her accountability, responsibility, and acknowledgement of her decisions. No condemnation here!!! I love her goofiness and testimony. THANKS FOR BRINGING HER ON LT.😊
Love it
Who would have ever known that this Star from Sunday Best went through all of this. We think that we are the only ones that is going through things no matter how old we are. I felt her pain and I lived some of her pain. I am her in a sense. All I can say is thank you Jessica for telling your story and for that amazing song. It did something in me. The Lord is still working on me. Thank you my Sista....
She is amazing. Smart, honest and hysterical. I imagine she’s a great mom and I hope she meets someone who matches her energy!
OMG her sense of humor is gold.
That point where she shared how she spoke positivity over her body was powerful!! Ladies please understand that our uniqueness is what God intentionally used... to add beauty to his universe 🌎 💘
She is so relatable. The way she expresses herself and what she has overcome is so inspiring. Her affirmations is touching because no matter what we have to love ourself
This woman right here‼️ WOW. She is hilarious and anointed. Beautiful to see how the two amplify each other. Praying her the BEST🙌🏾
Self acceptance, self love, and self awareness can keep us out of the bear traps of life.
Ms. Reedy has such a beautiful energy, funny. Great content again brother!
Y'all notice she sings as she speaks? Her words have an obvious melody and tone to me.
I hear it also
Yes. I noticed.
That's honestly why I clicked the video in the first place. I was like "oh if she talks like how she sings, this is gonna be so pleasant."
I’d never heard of Jessica before this interview. She is now my BFF in my head😂. I absolutely love her sense of humor and wittiness! She is so authentic and I’m so happy she has healed. She got me when she said she is a loyal lover. Me too. When I love you, I love you no matter what. My thing is I need to be that loyal to loving myself the way I love others. Giving to me the way I give to others. I could go on and on but I will spare you all😂 thank you Jessica for allowing us to sip from your overflowing cup. God continue to pour into her vessel that she may always live in the overflow. Bless you Queen!
I keep rewatching this. This woman is just beautiful in all ways 😍 Her humour makes her more beautiful
Laterras in EVERY episode: “Maaaan...Let me tell you something...it’s taking everything in me not to cry.”😭
Cry and let it out. I'm with you.
@@DearFutureWifey hahaha... "Wait Mhh mhhh you can know I can't let that go. Say that again"😂😂😍
I don't usually comment on anything...ever. But this woman right here...her song "Better" has taken me through many many dark days on repeat, and to get this glimpse into the sheer joy she exudes being fully Jessica...beautiful and inspirational and motivating me even more to stand in my own winning position. Thank you Sir Whitfield.
Jessica is my kinda people, she got me laughing the whole time lol...no wonder why her song "better" is one of my favorite songs ever, she's so authentic in everything she does.
This WHOLE human is just breathtaking!!! Sis listen......WOW.....I’m speechless “you don’t get to hold on to the side of the boat and tred water” laid me flat out!! This is my story....God sent me with my son too the other side of the country thinking I was going to another safety net of my newly found biological dad and then sent him away and said Walk daughter on this water. The way Jessica literally gives words to these things is breathtaking
You need to write a play and have a major role for her. She would be great on stage acting and singing!
“Being myself is the winning position!” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I appreciate EVERYTHING about this interview! The laughter, the authenticity, and the Acapella song!!!! EVERYTHING! Thank you!
I love this interview!! Jessica is authentic, powerful, and hilarious.
I just love her personality & transparency. This is one of my favourite episodes so far.
“Let your character outlive their lie” my goodness that’s good!!!
Laterras this was soooo good!! I love this episode, Jessica is so silly and down to earth! I love that she was sooo LIT & unafraid to be herself!!!!! I would’ve never guessed she was so goofy.
So much fun.
I love how he is dying with her making him laugh so much. 😂
I believe she is an authentic smiler/laugher (if that makes sense). She loves to do both. She’s laughed through her pain to her breakthroughs. Thank you for coming on and telling us your story. By the way I love to smile and laugh myself. It’s important that my future partner embrace that. He will be able to humor me😉🙂😁🤣
That’d be me as well.
I have not laughed THIS hard in an episode before. It's amazingly therapeutic and rejuvenating. Jessica, Jessica ... thank-you for turning up as your goofy, awkward and beautiful self. It is refreshing to see others who may be considered weird by the world's standards telling their truths and sharing their story. The messages in between the laughs weren't lost either,... solid advice
Let your character outlive their lie. My God. I wishhhhh someone told me this two years ago. Thank you for this !
Self affirmation is so important when you are going through those dark moments. yes when you have conquered that level you can extend a helping hand, sometimes by just keeping quiet when they come against us. Beautiful song
Her SMILE says it all. Adorable and gifted!!! This woman is speaking my life. I love a transparent soul. They can be trusted and their value is rare.
I love her personality and beauty. Had a smile on my face the whole time watching this. She is so real and powerful 😍😍
This whole interview gave me so much encouragement!!!! She my friend and she don’t even know!
Hey, how can I meet Jessica, she have got to be my friend.
“He was a fan of his words”🤣😂😂😂😂 this was hilarious !!!! I’m totally taking up that phrase
I’m so very glad I found this podcast!!! I get blessed with every episode! I resonate so much with Jessica - even down to the 3 sons! God literally moved me to Dallas to separate me from what’s familiar to me to get me to only see HIM!!! But I’m hardheaded… I thought he moved me here to find my husband 😂😂😂 It’s taken me 5 years to figure out why He really moved me here. But now that I know I’m completely only seeking him! Thank you Jessica for your transparency!
"Because I was fertile"!!! I HOLLERED😂😂 because I am her #teamFERTILE
😂😂😂
Now that found me! Thank you Jessica for being L.I.T. it's amazing how we as humans can be so loyal, dedicated and sensitive for others but yet they have no problem draining the life from us. So often resulting in us feeling the lowest of the low. Abba Father is faithful to build us up in places and in ways in spite of ourselves. I feel you sister of Zion and my prayers are continually with you. Stay vigilant for the true enemy, the adversary is seeking whom he may destroy. Trust God for He cares for you.
When I tell you she is speaking my story, I just can’t even lie. That sweet talk, affirmation, and complimenting takes the weakened heart into a trance. Before you realize what is happening you’re so far into it you can’t turn around. I completely understand you sis. I’m so happy you’re healed. I’m taking a timeout from dating because I’m in a weakened state due to health but I’m waiting for an appointment to begin therapy. I can’t wait to transition.
The way she uncovered her painful journey in such a way with grace, fun , worth and faith, is a life lesson.
“Thought your lies would stop my RISE....but you can’t hold me back.” Yessss Jessica! You’re a whole blessing package: funny, smart, transparent, talented and blessed. Love ya lots! Thanks so much for sharing and Laterras, keep doing the Lord’s work!
When she started to do your closing, I was on the floor ...
Omg! I love this woman! She needs her own show. Real, funny, and beautiful! Go girl!!!!!! What a true gift from God! We need more like you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
We created a show for her. www.TH-cam.com/HelloHubby
I have never seen Latteres laugh so much🤣🤣🤣This was such an amazing episode. Her date with the guy that talks too much was HILARIOUS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣This was soooo good💥💥💥🙌🙌🙌🙌👌👌👌
Jessica reminded me how we must constantly fight the enemy for the things God has decreed as ours. I needed that.
I need to fight for my JOY.
Always
Everyday
Every. Single. day.
This episode was so relatable! I forgot that she sings. She affirmed everyone who feels like they have to conform to the worlds standards it’s ok to just show up as your authentic self. Thanks for inviting us into your L’s as well as the W’s. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She is so beautiful❣ So genuine...the holy Spirit is all over her. So loved this episode. Please have her again 💚💚
I think, by far, this is one of the best episodes. I’ve watched it probably 3 or so times. Thank you!
Self awareness
Self affirmations
Be your own cheerleader
Love yourself is not selfish
Embraces your past mistakes
#womanpower
Wow! Someone please pass me some tissue🤧. Jessica's journey is one I'm on in so many ways. If I was the one being interviewed though, we'd need a team to fetch the tears & pour them out so we don't drown in the studio 😂😂. I admire the strength, joy, peace & power in her. A true manifestation of the presence of the Holy Spirit. It's almost like I could hear her say, "Hang in there Whitney. Everything will be okay. I trusted my walk on water & I'm fine." As ever, thanks Laterras ❤❤
Glad you enjoyed it. I pray the Lord continues to restore your soul and allow laughter to replace the sorrow.
@@DearFutureWifey I receive that. Thank you!!!
Her words somehow made it through the walls of the fortress I've created to "protect" me after heartbreak. "Speak the words God says about me"..... "being me is the winning position"....hit deep...
Amen! You should watch her podcast @HelloHubby
The was a deliverance, a laugh, a cry and an understanding all at once and I truly received ALL OF THIS!!! 🙌🏽♥️
Oh my goodness I didn’t know Jessica Reedy was soo hilarious and down to earth! She’s taking such a serious and hurtful situation and make you laugh. This is my favorite episode!! So real
This is one of the most powerful interviews I have ever heard in my life. So enlightening in so many ways. From admitting emotional undevelopment to affirming love for every body part to recognizing the enemy working through others and wanting to embrace them regardless, that was dope. This woman is LIT for real. God bless!
Omg I'm just finding this, and I'm crying laughing. Jessica, honey, you are a rare jewel and hilarious 😂 ❤
I seen a clip of this episode and search to watch it in its entirety. This woman is DOPE. I enjoyed everything about this interview. Her honesty and pureness of it all is so amazing!
I like her energy, Jessica's spirit draws you. As children of God we need to stand on our truth. Maintain your peace. 🇿🇦
I do too! She is definitely LIT.
Mkhaya wami 🇿🇦
I can never get tired of listening to you. You are such an intelligent woman. So many Gems to take away. Love you! Wish I can meet you. Loving you all the way from Canada 🇨🇦. God forever bless you!
“When my heart broke it formed many other hearts. You only broke one of them”✨✨✨✨✨‼️🔥
I am speechless. This was simply phenomenal. I am looking forward to seeing “what eyes have not seen nor ears have heard what the Lord has in store” for Jessica Reedy. I laughed so hard that my stomach was in spasms.
Men I love her....!!! The humorous manner in which she tells her story and her mistakes is so relatable. You can tell she is truly healed and has come to terms with who she is. Had never heard of her - now I’m looking for her music....thank you for bringing her on!
You should watch clips of Sunday’s Best as well. She was phenomenal.
I am loving this segment with Jessica speaking truthfully about how her truthing in the Lord and holding onto him allowed her to walk on water toward him...I am full in knowing that I am on the right track.✝
Ohh my goodness. She is so beautiful.... Thank you Jessica and I'm so sorry for what you had to go through but I'm so glad for the woman you have become. You are a beautiful woman of God Jessica...
I needed this laugh today. She has a beautiful spirit, and I'm so glad she decided to be herself. Not being your authentic self is work and keeps you from living.
Sidebar: Alligator mouth took me out 🤣