Thank you thank you thank you! I am 53 years old and i worked out every week up until three years ago. I fell into a depression. I need my right hip totally replaced. I am waiting on getting good insurance and i have been so afraid of the surgery. Thank you for helping me come to terms that this does not mean i am old. It means i was active and still will be. Thanks. :D
@@jennynroger1 yes there is i was scared myself but after it was done wasent near as bad as I thought they went in on the side to replace so takes a little longer to heal but I'm seeing results if they do the anterior from the front you heal quicker but just grateful I was able to have it done I had to wait for 3 yrs because of insurance so I understand
@@shawnoverbey9558 Congrats on getting it done. I am so glad your feeling better. I have waited four years so far. Still waiting. :( But I know there is light at that end of that tunnel. Thank you.
Wow! Thank you Lara! I have been avoiding this diagnosis and the procedure. Accepting the reality and moving forward. Making plans to have my left hip done.
I just found this video. I am going in for a hip replacement next month. I have been in a state of denial since the diagnosis and have been terrified! Thank you for sharing this Lara. Because of your honesty and putting this out there, I feel more confident going into this.
me too, I'm 39. I had my hip coming out of the joint since I was 16... that sure ended my martial arts career, the whole leg popping out and in... It wasn't that severe and I forgot about it till now, it's now both femurs popping out, around 60 percent of the joint. Its not 100% but its rough... I am pretty anxious how both hips will be in recovery, let me know your opinion on how rough I'll have it, thanks.
Thank you for sharing Lara. I'm one of the under 50 who needs a replacement. I canceled my surgery date of July 2021 out of intense fear because a knee replacement is what injured my hip. I don't want to relive that pain and 6 years of not recovering. I am now at the point where it cannot be ignored. The pain is intense all of the time and I can't even stand up long enough to dress myself without having drilling, deep tissue and nerve pain. I'm rescheduling my surgery asap.
I just read your post about you cancelling your surgery. My advice to you: Talk to your friends and family about it to see if they support your decision and be in your corner if you do have the surgery. This will build your confidence level for you to go through with it. It works.
Had minimally invasive right hip done (2010). Walked out of hospital the next day. Love this hip. Dr. Cass Nakasone, Queens Hospital, Honolulu. Go for it!
41 and getting a hip replacement. Wow! I am realizing that age is just a number and younger people have hip replacements too. So glad you had it done. Prayers for healing.
I've had both hips replace, right at 58, left at 63. Both should of been done earlier. My pain was off the charts, special education teacher, walked daily, very active with 3 kids. Thank god, I had this done. Able to move without pain.
I know that she said 'what ever you do don't Google it'. But in all honesty this will help people understand, prepare and take action. Hats off to to her.
I haven't seen any misinformation. Just lots of TH-cam videos by lots of knowledgeable surgeons explaining the procedure. Being informed about what your potential surgery involves is very helpful.
Lara you will be fine. I just had a full right anterior approach hip replacement 11 days ago. I'm 50 years old and had bone on bone my entire socket. I'm already walking up and down my street with no assistance. You'll be ok. Good luck 😀😎
I need a right hip replacement and just came across this video. I completely understand how she was feeling in this video. I have pain 24/7 disrupts my sleep. It’s scary, but I know I’ll be better after. Glad I came across this. ❤️
@@patsavinda1703 I am 18 days PO from total right hip replacement anterior from hip dysplasia. I was bone on bone and agonizing pain.. since the surgery I am pain free!
Had my THR June 28th. Im 5 weeks from the surgery. Im 58 years old. I know the excruciating pain she’s talking about. I had bone to bone. Having the surgery was the best decision I made. I was petrified with fear but, the pain outweigh it. Im feeling great. Im glad I had it done.
I’m 58 and 10 days post op. Ouch! I had to spend a couple nights in hospital bc my pain was unmanageable. Spiked a 102 fever on night two. I had mine done laterally. Makes recovery longer. I almost backed out of the procedure. Telling myself that my hip wasn’t that bad. Oh but it was. It’s like a bald tire. When ya going to replace it? When the steel walls start showing? Naw. Do it now! Right?
@@hoosierbaddy3052 stay active. Move around as much as you can tolerate it. Do the PT at home and then outpatient religiously. It will get better. Im already 2 months since the surgery. Walking 30 mins 5 days a week. No pain at all. A little stiffness after walking or PT. Im able to drive now. The pain will subside as the days go by. Have faith!
Totally relate to this. Had my hip replaced 5 weeks ago and I was so scared about the whole thing. Now on the other side of the surgery and with several weeks of PT, I am so glad I did it. The pain I had before is gone !!!!
I had my hip replaced at 73 just over a year ago ( feb2022) I too was not ready to hear the surgeon say I need a new hip. I had never had an operation and I’m a retired RN. My left hip surgery was a life saver, I was home the second day. Climbing stairs. No pain at all now. I had a friend stay with me for 2 weeks to get me over the hump. Recommend the surgery
I have the same diagnosis and i am heading into surgery this Thursday. At 37 years old, this absolutely terrifies me but I cannot imagine what it will be like to be pain free for the first time in so long. It truly does engulf your entire life when you experience chronic pain.
@@pylprincess I did have a choice to have one hip done but the surgeon suggested I do them at the same time because one hip wont heal properly because the other hip is so damaged it wont support the other. He did say its more work for me but id rather get it over with. I wish you luck with yours as Im on here with you on the eve before my surgery. Im nervous as hick and know I wont sleep tonight..
Kevin Johnson Thanks!!!! Looking forward to being pain free & regaining mobility!!! Coincidentally, my boss’s mother is having left knee replacement today in the same hospital & by the same surgeon as me & I hear he’s very good
I need a replacement and have been putting it off and I’m not doing well. I’m honestly afraid to do it and the long recovery time makes me not want to do it even more. Tips? What can I expect?
@@sarcasticallyrearranged I just had my THR done. Ask for spinal and general anesthesia. You have to specifically ask the anesthesiologist prior to surgery. You wake up feeling paralyzed but it’s loads better than waking up to a 9+ pain level. Get your home arranged as a rehab center. Stock up on your favorites. And put everything at waist level if you can. You’ll remember quite quickly if you think that you can pick something off the floor. Pain is an excellent teacher. It’s scary. I almost backed out of it. Cuz it’s painful AF. Don’t let anyone tell you that it ain’t. But I jumped thru too many hoops to cancel the procedure. Wanted to get in before some other viral infections engulfs the world. Good luck to you, truly. ✌🙏
Thank you Lara for sharing your story.I need both hips replaced and starting to have pain in my lower back.I have been dealing with this for 2 years and the pain is extreme. I love what you said about how it affects you mentally, physically and my case spiritually. I feel like I'm in quick sand and I can't get out of my own way.Sometimes I feel like I'm my own worse enemy.I wish you well and God bless!
I agree with Lara. I had a total hip replacement two months ago and I'm 40 years old. This video made my decide on getting hip replacement after the cortisone show didn't work. It is life changing experience in every way possible.
So thankful I came across this video! I'm 49 and was a competitive swimmer at Ohio State but had since switched over to running and bootcamps for fitness. I've thought my pain was my hip flexor or something muscular as well. I've been in denial since the diagnosis a month ago (bone on bone, arthritis, too far gone to fix) but am going in tomorrow to schedule the surgery. Thank you Lara!
@@michaelmontes2691 I am feeling so much better! I don’t even feel like I’ve had a thr. Aside from the scar, you’d never know. Recovery can be a bit daunting but be patient! It took me a good 5-6 weeks before I was walking normal with out a limp again. Goodluck with your surgery!
@@4kellybelle oh ok thank you soooo much. I’m so glad to hear that you are up and about. This gives me hope. I work in law enforcement and I think all the bells and whistles I carried for 20 years has compromised my cartilage. So I’m going to get the anterior THR, so thank you for your well wishes and sharing your outcome/experience.
Yep, I needed a hip replacement on both hips. It's the best move I've ever made and just thank God, I didn't have any denial issues, nor was I terrified. I just figured it was something I had to do and I got it done. I'm healing from the right hip (it's been three weeks) and I feel great! I had the left done going on 4 months now and no more excruciating pain or not being able to sleep at night. I'm SO thankful to my doctor who is the greatest orthopedic surgeon also!
Hey! I just found this video... It was emotional for me because of how relatable it is. I'm 24yo and will have my left hip totally replaced in 2 weeks time. I was only 14 when I diagnosed and even after a few surgeries through the years I'm still in pain. I was a rhythmic gymnast, I was active, I was young. Why it happened? I'm yet to know. Yes, I'm a bit scared of doing this; yes, I understand it will wear out way sooner than if I had it done on my 40's... But no, I don't want to live in pain; no, I don't want to have to do nothing for a whole for a week to be able to go for a 1h walk with friends; no, I don't want to take extra pain killers during winter because even being too cold affects my hip; no, I don't want to keep having a leg shorter than the other; no, I don't want to reject invites because 'I won't be able do it'. I know it sounds a bit dramatic but these little things make other situations in life so much more bearable. If there's a solution, I want to go for it. I want a better lifestyle. Am I gonna be able to walk like a regular person? Am I gonna be ale to keep my balance on my foot? Am I going to be able to run with my 14yo sister? Then bloody yes! Yes I want to have the hip replacement! If only I had a £1 for every person that asked "aren't you too young for that?"... Well, is anyone to young to live comfortably in their body? I really appreciate videos like this. Also thank you for reading so far :)) I hope you don't have to go through something like this but in case you did go through it, are going or will go... I feel you're pain. Keep your head up and keep fighting. Keep focusing on how easier it will be to do your daily task, playing with kids, having fun, enjoying the company of loved ones! Focus on the positives. You can do it.
Had both hips replaced at 32! I’m an active male! Don’t be scared it will be will worth it! I have AVN and it’s soo painful the surgery is soooo worth it!
Thank you so much for talking about this. I found out that I was bone on bone and needed replacement. I feel like I am part of a group that needs the surgery. And I am so grateful for your honesty and transparency about your emotions about the surgery. It’s refreshing and you have helped me a great deal with my own emotions. Thank you.
Thank you for doing this video. I an 38 years old (THIRTY EIGHT!) and having anterior total hip replacemt 12/18. Also acetabular dysplasia. I'm a dancer and certified exercise physiologist. Can't wait to get back to my life. ...but I'm scared, first hospital experience (since my own birth!). Also assumed I had a nasty strain. Thanks again for sharing! 💙💙💙
@@jackiebless7031 i've been diagnosed so i will be joining the club too. i was given a pain shot a week and a half ago but it's doing very little. how are you doing now?
Darryl Clark I can’t thank God and Dr. Lamont from NYU LANGONE enough. I have little to no pain now and I feel like a brand new me. Chronic pain sure does affects you physically, emotionally and mentally. I was in constant pain all day everyday but that pain vanished in thin air after surgery. I’m just so thankful because of the things I’m able to do now. I’m wishing you the best on your surgery 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m 7 weeks past my THR. The discomfort after surgery was nothing compared to the pain I was in before surgery. I was lucky to get 1 hour in of just doing stuff around the house before I had to lay down for a bit to reduce the pain. I was bone on bone. It is so nice to not be in pain anymore. I’m rooting for you! Can’t wait till you are a few weeks past the surgery. You are going to be so relieved.
I had my right hip replaced at 47. I am 63 now. I had bone on bone, dysplasia of the hip as a child with a chronic dislocating hip growing up as a teen. It was the best thing I have ever done. I honestly had minimal pain in my recovery. The pain before was so much worse than after the surgery. I did what my doctors told me to do, did my PT religiously and I healed well. My hip replacement is still perfect, right in place. I had to walk with a cane for 4 months before I could get the surgery. I was so ready.
I find this ironic. A few weeks ago she was male-bashing men as cry-babies when they are ill. She needs to attend one of my prostate cancer support group meetings to witness first-hand the strength and courage these men exhibit in facing down and coping with a life threatening disease.
Oh my goodness I am so relieved to know I am not alone!! I’ve been pushing through with therapy hoping to just rehab a muscle strain or tendinitis. Long story short, I’m scheduled for left total hip replacement in one week. The pain has gotten so bad, I’m finally at peace with getting the surgery but I have had major denial, depression, doubts, “I’m too young for this”, etc. I am so ready to have my life back. Thank you!!
I feel the same...I was told i needed a hip replacement eventually, but I'm thinking no, the pain will go away...now the pain is getting worse and worse.
Thank you Lara for bringing this topic up. You are an inspiration to me because I have to have hip replacement in a couple of weeks. It was so good to hear you talk about what turned out to be my fears also. It is so hard to explain to others. I've had five surgeries already but this one takes the cake because I just feel so insecure going into it. It's just reasureing to hear you talk about it in a frank simple manner.
In the same boat. I have been ignoring the pain in my hip, after thinking I just did a tweak, and trying to move on for months.....it affected my walk (limping), affected my sleeping, everything I did from gardening, to work, to tending to my disabled son, was affected.......tried the cortisone shots....PT you name it...nothing helped....when they did the xrays it showed I have NO cartilage left at all and it's severe bone on bone...I even have portions of the bone that are dying because of lack of circulation. I am now waiting for clearance from Primary doc, dentist etc...to finally get scheduled for hip replacement. All I can say is I'm terrified...but looking forward to being able to walk without pain. And all this time I thought it would be my fingers that would be the first to get 'fixed/surgery' on...since the arthritis is so bad in them. LOL...but nope it's the hip...
I’m 51, marathon runner and have hip dysplasia. I am having total right hip replacement anterior surgery next week.... I can’t wait to get this done and feel back to myself!
I went for my complete right hip surgury April 5 just a few days ago, I had it done by an excellent dr, my hip was a mess and they put a protessee planted in cement Of course the first day was horrid! My operation was at 9:45 am and it took about 2.5 hrs By the time I came up to my room , I remember nothing but pain ! But with good meds by supper time I was sitting up and eating a sandwich, they didn’t get me out of bed till Saturday walking with walker, I’m a big baby and this was amazing , put full weight on it and you have to use walker carefully! Always think this , bad foot moves first, good leg second and take small steps , don’t try to rush, everyone has different experiences with the meds and operation, I was one of the lucky ones, I got home Sunday, taking my meds, I find it a bit nerve wracking but hubby is here with me, and I follow all instructions, it’s a process to heal but be patient, I had been in so much pain and this was the best thing I could of done, follow the excerises given, don’t do what you can’t and when you home they want you to walk, never sit or sleep all day! Bc I’m the hospital they have you up and they want you to do normal , fir me I’m still nervous but I was one of the lucky ones where the meds gave me no issues and I need them for at least 6-8 weeks, hope everyone has s ok! Patience is the key!
I had both hip replaced 4 weeks ago doing the pre training exercises really help. Problem is after surgery you feel great pain free and within a week your back but a big warning don’t rush. Listen to your Physiotherapist.
7 weeks out still barley using a cane overdid it yesterday didn't seem like it today I am paying the price swollen up cant walk bottom line be patient which I have a hard time
It helps me alot. Am 17yrs old and I can't bare the pain. Like she said the pain affects u not only physically but also mentally. I hope to get surgery as soon as I turn 18yrs old.💚
I watched the operation as my Mum had , had a hip replacement and was curious , " HUGE " mistake and here I am 2 hip replacements later wishing I had not watched it I never thought I would be needing one as I was always active and moving , well moved or so I thought .....but after sweating while waiting for both ( 2 yrs apart ) I promised myself I would watch the whole operation to see what I had gone through " twice " as I could'nt do jack about it now. It's been 3 weeks since my last bionic bits added , pretty much doing everything around the house ( limping and with one elbow crutch ) but doing it anyway . To my way of thinking get it working so the muscles and tendons grab that foreign object and make it part of me....I'm 62 yrs old and yes I feel sorry for myself as I do limp but it's improving daily.....so life goes on...
Had my first hip done at 42 and should have done it at 30; that was my first reaction right after my first hip replacement...Getting my second one done next week at age 52. I didn’t wait as long this time, so I’m comfortable going in...mine is genetic as well. My grandfather had his done in his 80s, my dad in his 70s, and me in my 40s. Definitely a correlation with each of our level of activity. I played ice hockey since age 7, dad played soccer, baseball and basketball starting in middle school, and grandfather wasn’t nearly as active.
I am 50 years old started having pain in my right leg and hip at 48 , I also have hip dysplasia , I am now bone on bone I am scheduled for hip replacement Jan 20 th next Monday I am so nervous , but so tired of the chronic pain . It has definitely affected the quality of my life . I am on a cane can barely walk I sure hope this replacement gives me my life back
I just found out that I need a hip replacement also... my upper thigh feels like a pulled muscle and muscle fatigue and weakness did you kind of feel the same? I just had all my pre-op blood work done waiting for a surgical date now
TOTALLY MY FEELINGS at 53 active I was shocked and cried for days! I'm now double Hippie within 4 months.. left hip was first then during recovery I was told I over compensated and will need the right done at anytime.. while off and recovering from my left I went ahead and did the right. The right started bothering me like fast. I completely stopped working out. Gained weight it totally affected my life...I couldn't walk without excruciating pain
Dear Lara, Hi! Just saw your video snd can empathize so much! I had my first joint replacement surgery, total right knee, on 11/10/2019 and just literally 2 days ago had my 2nd joint replacement surgery- left hip I am also an athlete and yoga junkie. Let me tell you that being active helps our rehab 110%! I already climbed 4up and 4 down stairs. Pain is there, but honestly my knee was a lot harder than my knee. Glad I had it done!!!
This video is very inspiring and I’m in my early forties and will have an anterior THR soon, but as far as it being a genetic predisposition, or “you were born that way” like what some orthopedists like to say is BS, some doctors like to label and categorize. Some people do have hip dysplasia and some it’s just wear and tear, it’s not always genetic. Sometimes the cartilage gives way, and you will only know after you feel the pain. But by then it’s already bone to bone. Luckily from what I hear today the orthopedist surgeon can restore the active lifestyle of many people thru THR. And yes thank god we can google and you tube to gain knowledge unlike in the eighties one had to resort to the library/encyclopedia etc to gather info lol. God bless everyone that do decide to have surgery along with a successful outcome. Good luck and god bless you in your surgery Lara and thank you for being an inspiration to others! :-)
I was very active in sports karate,hockey(goalie), heavy weights, and worked hard. I could barely walk and started using cane and have found out both my hips are bone on bone. The pain is of the charts and getting both done at the same time. Thanks for the video I wish you well
I had my right hip done 3 weeks ago the surgery it self is short but the rehab is what I find the most difficult you have to remember your precaution and everything should be ok
I had mine resurfaced about three weeks ago, and I am so glad I chose that over the replacement. I realize not everyone is a candidate for it, but as athletic as you are, I am surprised it was not used in this case.
@@svonkie, To answer your question, NO it did not work the first time around. I had to have a second surgery six months later, and although that one worked as far as the hip (or seems to have), a tool they used during the surgery snapped in half and traveled in my leg. It took them 7 hours and three surgeons to find and remove it. 😳 I am still recovering from that. If I had it to do over again, I would have done a total hip.
@@peacheslyntreasure8682 it has been two weeks today since surgery,. It is slow going but starting to feel better, walk better. Getting lots of rest alternated with exercise and walking with a walker. Getting to a better place than before the surgery. Be good to yourself and keep me posted how you are doing. I will be thinking of you!!
My hip replacement surgery is scheduled for April 24th. I was also genetically disposed to this. My femur was not round but oval shaped and has worn away at the cartilage of the socket. I can't wait for my surgery. I've actually been limping for almost two years. It was a relief to find out what the problem was. I can't wait to have my mobility back.
How are your now? My mom-n-law had her hip replaced on the 24th in the am, she was home that evening walking with a walker and manageable pain. Im going in June 11th to get both of my done, been on crutches for the past 3 months I cant wait to get rid of this pain in both hips.
Well I am well over 50. Didnt have a choice either as I fractured my left hip. WITHOUT falling. Trauma caused it. Snowblower and I tried to dance in the storm. Nurse on my feet for over 40 years. So glad its done. Recovering well. You are right dont wait.
OMG, Lara and I are the same person! (Only I am 18 years older than she.) I have been active my whole life, and in my head I have always said I am 27, so I was just as surprised as she when I began having all of my replacements. And I feel embarrassed about it! I have had both knees, shoulders and hips done but I continue to play tennis, ski, cycle etc. Most recently I had to have another replacement surgery (called a revision) on my right hip - UGH! Here I go again with rehab! But over the years surgical procedures have greatly improved, and I was able to come home the day of my most recent surgery which was (of all times) December 24, 2019.
Still find it rather unfair that ir's often the athletes and fitness fans among us who need this surgery early. We did everything right - we followed medical advice to keep active and working out - and now this! Very ironic.
@@drstevebrule8306 I hear this and I go June 11th I cant wait and the pain (this horrible pain) is gone that quick wow I cant wait. You had to use a wheel chair? I was wondering how bad this will get? I pray I wont need a wheel chair. My hips are getting tighter every day along with the pain, just 6 more weeks. Thanks again Dr brule
@@KevinJohnson-jc9ju it started as what I thought was a pulled groin, and took 3 years for me before I had to use a wheelchair. I don't think my situation can necessarily be used as a reference though as it was a werid situation. Good luck and do your physio!
I'm 41 and had 3 hip replacements in a span of 6 months. I have dysplasia of both my hips. I was were you were. I pushed it way too long and way too far. I was bone on bone and my femur was actually breaking my hip socket off. I hope you are doing good now!! I have residual pain but it's more then likely because of 3 surgeries in 6 months.
I really needed to see this.... I am at the point where I can barely walk. My leg gives out. I went to a surgeon a couple of years ago who said I was too young at 48 and wouldn't do it. He wanted me to get to a point where it interrupted my life. I am there now... I was an avid ballroom dancer and now, I cannot walk without assistance. I would say, it's time.... As far as mental, I have been depressed. I don't work out like I used to because I am not weight bearing on the joint. I was into yoga and now, cannot do any of the hip opening poses. So, the things that made it bearable are no longer available to me... I go to see the surgeon on Tuesday and I am eager for some resolution on this. I was scared of the surgery but now the pain and immobility outweighs the fear, at this point.. Thanks for speaking out. It makes me feel more encouraged!
@@shicks9577 Shelley!! Nice to meet you!! I would be soooo nice to have support, someone who understands what I am going through. I am scheduled to have the surgery on Jan 29th. I am now on crutches and, at this point, I am eager to get this over with. How are you?? Where are you in the process?? Please feel free to email me. My email is shervellebergholz@gmail.com Thanks for reaching out!!
@@shervellebergholz Im so glad you got my message. I was diagnosed about a year ago ....and I quess I been in denial..now that its worse... I really have to consider surgery. I wanna go shopping again..the grocery store. I will email you....and your right, no one understands. I will be praying that you have a quick recovery.
I'm 33. I've had rheumatoid arthritis my whole life, and I'll be getting a new hip in a couple months. I'm really excited. I used to train horses. I got into a massive flare and the joint destruction has been growing. My hip is now bone on bone. The idea of not being in pain anymore is exhilarating. I have to use a walker or a cane. I can't even swim anymore. I wish her all the best.
Oh man, Lara. PALEEEEEZE give an update on your hip health?? Did you resume your prior activities? Are there limitations now that time has passed? I'm headed in this Friday. Am currently a fit class instructor, former D1 volleyball playerand fitness manager. Still teaching/coaching and active. Been limping for 18 months and yes, born with hip dysplacia. Mind blowing how this takes one over and MOST GRATEFUL that in 2024, they have a medical miracle cure.
I'm going in for my left hip in a week, and soon after that will need the right done. I know all too well about the pain. I tried to fight through it, but I couldn't sleep and doing just everyday things has become unbearable. It's taken away doing a lot of things that I love that involve walking. I finally had enough.
I had mine a month ago and you will be fine , no pain , believe me no pain , my physical therapy is a little hard on me because I wasn't working out for 5 years dealing with that pain ,this is why you may feel a little discomfort in your knee and back but will get better good luck with your procedure and welcome to your new life
I had my left hip done on July 8. Anterior approach. This is week 5 post op. I’ve been walking unassisted for the last week & a half. I go up and down my stairs at home and experience no more pain - just some slight discomfort & tightness remaining near the incision site. Physical therapy has been great. My range of motion & strength improves greatly everyday. I was suffering for far too long. I’m so thankful I made the decision to move forward with the hip replacement. I’m looking forward to being pain free for many, many years. 2021 is going to be AMAZING. All the best to you both...
just started to look into im shocked to learn lara had this situation going on. im upset just like her. i hv osteoporosis in hips and its unbearable the pain. but cant come to terms. i saw arthroplasty said no way....
I just had bilateral hip replacement surgery, Do what the PT says and you will be up and going in no time. 5 weeks and no pain like I had been living with for 10 years. I’m 58
I just found out that I need a hip replacement also... my upper thigh feels like a pulled muscle and muscle fatigue and weakness did you kind of feel the same? I just had all my pre-op blood work done waiting for a surgical date now
I can truly relate to this l found out at the age of 48 or 49 going to work every day l was given pain pills l was okay. But then down the line l too took those shots it worked okay for a little while but this is the difference l have Osteoarthritis in both Hips need hip replacement for BOTH and l have it in both knees and my lower spine too no known surgery for these parts my doctor has only said my hips will need surgery but it’s in my knees but l don’t need surgery on my knees as of now a lot of the pain l feel is traveled down from the hips but there’s NO need to have any surgery on them thank God. And l will not have any surgery on my spine to Afraid of that so l will just take my medication and l’m at bone on bone NOW l’m doing test to hopefully have my surgery real soon this year. I went from walking but in pain still taking the medication going to work then down the line the pain just grow sooo intense it seems daily then starting with one cane then two canes and now a walker. For outside l use it for stability l don’t want to fall and hurt myself more then l’m already hurting and mess up my pretty faces. Lol ! But l just pray to God when the time comes for me to have the surgery’s it will all go well me my son is the best in the WORLD to me he’s there for me if l need him so god has to make this successful he’s my only child he 25 just turned that in September he has half brother and sister my husband had 2 when we married but we aren’t together but still married and he’s even come over to see me a few times and done things for me and l appreciate it cause he didn’t have too but where good. But l’m Scared to death but l have no choice it’s a must,..so l just pray for a successful surgery an another chance at happiness.and having Full Mobility again just on my own. Thank You 🙏🏽
@@mont6477 It was great actually. The first week is probably the most challenging but after that each week gets easier. I'm at about 2 and a half months since my surgery and I have no pain and don't need a cane. One thing I can say is getting sleep in kind of difficult the first couple weeks. Especially because you can't really get comfortable except by sleeping on your back. I could only sleep a couple hours at a time before having to get up and walk around a bit.
Chelsea,I thank you so much for that info,I was getting real nervous about my surgery. Feel a lil better now and I'll let you know how things go after my surgery. Once again thank you very much🤗
No problem! I was also really nervous but once it'd done you won't regret it! It's really life changing! Good luck and please do let me know how everything goes! Wishing you a speedy recovery
At 73 I lost weight, worked out and had a total knee replacement on left leg. It has changed my entire life and not for the better. 14 months after going through hell, nine months of PT. I was in the reception area of the indoor community pool, for exercising my knee, when I tripped on a mat and broke the femoral neck of the same leg !! Knee has gone from a very hard fought for 95 degrees bend to 75 degrees. I refused to have a hip replacement and instead have 3 huge screws in there. I’ve been told I may yet need hip replacement. No way, no way, no way. I’m 75 in two days and did everything I could to improve the knee. PT said I’m in great shape for my age, but now my mobility is forever changed. Also, a femoral neck break can be LETHAL for up to a year post op. I went from super active to nearly crippled. Think long and hard - exercise, get shots. Do all possible to avoid orthopedic surgery for arthritis. The constant pain has worn me down. I have PTSD from that. Golden Years…..a joke.
Thank you for sharing your story. I have bone on bone hip arthritis which has impacted my walk but- not having surgery doesn’t open me up to a lifetime of infections , surgical pain , foot drop , heteroptic ossification and other issues . Great advice hope you are doing better
@@intensivemanagement it’s been another year. My hip screws/surgery was SO much easier. I was walking with full weight in 6 weeks. The knee still is painful if I toss & turn at night, however I’m doing stairs better. I can walk as much as five miles in a day. It took forever and I’m still not glad I did it, but it’s getting easier to deal with. Great news is the other knee will be ok with just injections. Last year was just an all around bad year. I lost my 23 yr old grandson and I was very depressed. Things have become much more manageable. Good luck and thanks.
@@MarylandMermaid glad to hear all is getting better ❤️🩹 sorry about the loss of your grandson. This life has some really tough times mixed in with the good stuff
Lara I hope your hip surgery goes well and everything you said I can relate to because I need a hip too and I don't want to do it but I should have did it a long time ago because it is painful and it is paying all the time so I will be praying for you and I know you'll be running back and in 2 weeks
I wasn't an athlete. But, always on my feet. The pain before this was really bad. I literally had a shopping cart to walk if I sat down to take a break. I've started week 3 after my hip replacement surgery. The pain after surgery is bad. Really bad. But now it's not nearly as bad. I do have some swelling but that's still to be expected. I pray this does not happen to my right hip. Because I don't want to go through this again. It's not something you want to endure twice. I just pray my knee on the same leg doesn't want to join in the fun. The pain is too much. I'm waiting on the pay off. To feel like I did and able to move and walk without any problems or pain.
I'm in the hospital right now. Had my right hip replaced yesterday. I have avascular necrosis. I'll have to have my other hip replaced in a few months. I'm 46.
Chronic pain from this condition does take over your life. It is constant and has she said you will know when it’s time to have surgery. There is a reason why people need pain medication. When the injections stop helping there is nothing else you can do. At 49 it is my turn for a new left hip. The right will be coming soon behind the left side.
Research and consider hip-resurfacing since you're young. A THR total hip replacement should be avoided if you're a young, active, and healthy candidate for hip-resurfacing. Also, the approach is as important as the prosthesis. Consider researching a direct superior approach. You want to get back into action as soon as possible with little to no difficulties. All the best to you with your surgery.
She’s so young to be going through hip replacement, I’m having mine done in May of this 2022.;I too am terrified, I’m preparing myself physically and mentally. I have Ostio Arthritis of the hip. My family history is to blame for this, my dad had the surgery at 82, I’m in my early 60’s the pain has taken over my life and taking too many pain killers, I walk like a disabled person. It’s been a few years would luv an update Lara, how was it?
I remember seeing this interview a few years ago and I said to myself boy she knows exactly what I am going through I have held this from my friends and my family for so many years over 15-20 years I have dealt with pain walk different and everybody in my family just kept saying when are you going to get it done and I kept saying I'm not well I got it done I have had a few accidents I have fallen on the same right hip twice on the ice just when I decided to have it done a whole bunch of other personal things came up with my apartment being renovated I have to stay in the hotel I am getting therapy in a hotel when I go back to my apartment it's going to be so different I'm not going to be able to move around this is very hard for me but I know looking at this interview again so many years after I know I can make it and it is hard but I'm making it and I'm glad that I made the decision I'm 65 and I have always been working out physical I am 59 a hundred and thirty-nine pounds and I'm planning on wearing my heels after this it's going to be awhile but I'm going to do it and I know that with God's help on my side I'm going to do it I love watching Laura and she was an inspiration but I kept it to myself for a long time like she said it was very embarrassing now people might say it was because of my age because I waited so long I needed this 20 years ago and I never did anything about it it's done thank you God
Omg, I'm forty three I thought I was the only one. I've been in denial so long I can not walk at all now. I must have surgery and I'm absolutely terrified of that.
That is amazing -was she really running after 2 weeks? I am going to need this done and recovery is going to take longer than that to be able to run- may be I need another doctor!
im 44 just had mine done. Still healing. very bruised on day 7 and its pretty sore but i can walk around on crutches. Hopefully next week no crutches and ni swelling.
I had my R hip replaced also and my L hip is now mimicking the same pain. I did go see a DR and was told that I needed a L THR. But right now I am taking intense Osteo Fx which has reduced the pain. But we shall see this year to see what happens.
I just had my right hip totally replacement, my knee was killing me and I did not understand, Lara, I understand now my knee has not bothered me, i just had it done on the 16th, I am home, but could not continue the pain. Best of luck
Having had both hips done in my early to mid 50's, I have to say there is nothing minimal about this. The anterior approach (so called minimally invasive) is a massive insult to the hip area, muscle tendons etc. etc.. One was easier than the other in terms of recovery and I hear say it is just luck. Both times I had the same surgeon same implant same every thing and the experience (recovery) was very different. If you ever come to the point of needing this procedure, organize your stuff in life and do it. With a good outcome you get almost all of your "normal" life back, and think about it would you rather have to deal with cancer? Working (lab tech) in hospitals all my adult life I have seen young (children) with cancer and all I can say is thank God my issue is mechanical (ball joint) and not on the cellular level. One more thing for those facing difficult times what ever these may be. Having studied a little philosophy I fall back on the "Myth of Sisyphus" by Albert Camus as a source of strength. At the end what you have is what you have and throwing it all away is not an option, so you embrace life (what you have) and love it, thank God, (yes I know Camus was atheist) and be happy. Does happiness come from within? or from with out? or both and to what extent? For me I choose "will to power" and choose happiness. Best of luck.
Agreed totally. It is a state of mind and if this is our largest problem we are very lucky- any surgery is serious but with two parents who had cancer I will face this head on.
Thank you thank you thank you! I am 53 years old and i worked out every week up until three years ago. I fell into a depression. I need my right hip totally replaced. I am waiting on getting good insurance and i have been so afraid of the surgery. Thank you for helping me come to terms that this does not mean i am old. It means i was active and still will be. Thanks. :D
I'm 52 had hip replaced 6 weeks ago old pain is gone now trying to heal
@@shawnoverbey9558 So there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yay Congrats on your hip replacement. prayers for healing!!!!
@@jennynroger1 yes there is i was scared myself but after it was done wasent near as bad as I thought they went in on the side to replace so takes a little longer to heal but I'm seeing results if they do the anterior from the front you heal quicker but just grateful I was able to have it done I had to wait for 3 yrs because of insurance so I understand
@@shawnoverbey9558 Congrats on getting it done. I am so glad your feeling better. I have waited four years so far. Still waiting. :( But I know there is light at that end of that tunnel. Thank you.
@@jennynroger1 god bless Jenny keep your spirits up you will overcome
Wow! Thank you Lara! I have been avoiding this diagnosis and the procedure. Accepting the reality and moving forward. Making plans to have my left hip done.
I just found this video. I am going in for a hip replacement next month. I have been in a state of denial since the diagnosis and have been terrified! Thank you for sharing this Lara. Because of your honesty and putting this out there, I feel more confident going into this.
I'm doing it the 25th of August. I'm not to worried at the moment. Not sure what to think.
me too, I'm 39. I had my hip coming out of the joint since I was 16... that sure ended my martial arts career, the whole leg popping out and in...
It wasn't that severe and I forgot about it till now, it's now both femurs popping out, around 60 percent of the joint. Its not 100% but its rough... I am pretty anxious how both hips will be in recovery, let me know your opinion on how rough I'll have it, thanks.
How are u doing now?
@@Slazzyslaz I've had both done but mine were 2 yrs apart but a man I know had 2 done together and he is fine....
How Are you doing now? I am thinking to go for it. Can you please let me know your experience after the operation?
Thank you for sharing Lara. I'm one of the under 50 who needs a replacement. I canceled my surgery date of July 2021 out of intense fear because a knee replacement is what injured my hip. I don't want to relive that pain and 6 years of not recovering. I am now at the point where it cannot be ignored. The pain is intense all of the time and I can't even stand up long enough to dress myself without having drilling, deep tissue and nerve pain. I'm rescheduling my surgery asap.
I just read your post about you cancelling your surgery. My advice to you: Talk to your friends and family about it to see if they support your decision and be in your corner if you do have the surgery. This will build your confidence level for you to go through with it. It works.
Nancy, how did a knee replacement damage your hip?
Have you had the surgery yet?
Had minimally invasive right hip done (2010). Walked out of hospital the next day. Love this hip. Dr. Cass Nakasone, Queens Hospital, Honolulu. Go for it!
thank you Lara for the encouragement, I am 41 and felt the same way. I am so motivated. I just had my right hip replaced 10 days ago. thank you.
how is your hip?
kudzayi monica Singano I’m going to have mines soon how do you feel?
41 and getting a hip replacement. Wow! I am realizing that age is just a number and younger people have hip replacements too. So glad you had it done. Prayers for healing.
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I've had both hips replace, right at 58, left at 63. Both should of been done earlier. My pain was off the charts, special education teacher, walked daily, very active with 3 kids. Thank god, I had this done. Able to move without pain.
I know that she said 'what ever you do don't Google it'. But in all honesty this will help people understand, prepare and take action. Hats off to to her.
She said that because there is a lot of misinformation out there. It's better to consult with your orthopedic doctor or the PA.
I haven't seen any misinformation. Just lots of TH-cam videos by lots of knowledgeable surgeons explaining the procedure. Being informed about what your potential surgery involves is very helpful.
Lara you will be fine. I just had a full right anterior approach hip replacement 11 days ago. I'm 50 years old and had bone on bone my entire socket. I'm already walking up and down my street with no assistance. You'll be ok. Good luck 😀😎
I need a right hip replacement and just came across this video. I completely understand how she was feeling in this video. I have pain 24/7 disrupts my sleep. It’s scary, but I know I’ll be better after. Glad I came across this. ❤️
@@patsavinda1703 I am 18 days PO from total right hip replacement anterior from hip dysplasia. I was bone on bone and agonizing pain.. since the surgery I am pain free!
I wish that the recovery time wasn’t so long!
It’s a major surgery and it’s scary to me!
@@christinegurski7661 we
Had my THR June 28th. Im 5 weeks from the surgery. Im 58 years old. I know the excruciating pain she’s talking about. I had bone to bone. Having the surgery was the best decision I made. I was petrified with fear but, the pain outweigh it. Im feeling great. Im glad I had it done.
I’m 58 and 10 days post op. Ouch! I had to spend a couple nights in hospital bc my pain was unmanageable. Spiked a 102 fever on night two. I had mine done laterally. Makes recovery longer. I almost backed out of the procedure. Telling myself that my hip wasn’t that bad. Oh but it was. It’s like a bald tire. When ya going to replace it? When the steel walls start showing? Naw. Do it now! Right?
@@hoosierbaddy3052 stay active. Move around as much as you can tolerate it. Do the PT at home and then outpatient religiously. It will get better. Im already 2 months since the surgery. Walking 30 mins 5 days a week. No pain at all. A little stiffness after walking or PT. Im able to drive now. The pain will subside as the days go by. Have faith!
Totally relate to this. Had my hip replaced 5 weeks ago and I was so scared about the whole thing. Now on the other side of the surgery and with several weeks of PT, I am so glad I did it. The pain I had before is gone !!!!
I just had my second hip done and am in recovery. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story.
I had my hip replaced at 73 just over a year ago ( feb2022) I too was not ready to hear the surgeon say I need a new hip.
I had never had an operation and I’m a retired RN.
My left hip surgery was a life saver, I was home the second day.
Climbing stairs.
No pain at all now.
I had a friend stay with me for 2 weeks to get me over the hump.
Recommend the surgery
I have the same diagnosis and i am heading into surgery this Thursday. At 37 years old, this absolutely terrifies me but I cannot imagine what it will be like to be pain free for the first time in so long. It truly does engulf your entire life when you experience chronic pain.
RJ a year later and how are you???
I’m having hip replacement surgery myself!!!! I’m only 36. Getting right hip done June 14 then left sometime in September
@@pylprincess I did have a choice to have one hip done but the surgeon suggested I do them at the same time because one hip wont heal properly because the other hip is so damaged it wont support the other. He did say its more work for me but id rather get it over with. I wish you luck with yours as Im on here with you on the eve before my surgery. Im nervous as hick and know I wont sleep tonight..
Kevin Johnson Thanks!!!! Looking forward to being pain free & regaining mobility!!! Coincidentally, my boss’s mother is having left knee replacement today in the same hospital & by the same surgeon as me & I hear he’s very good
I'm 44 on day 12 of my second hip replacement. I totally feel what you felt. They don't talk about our small number of people that go through this.
Yes it happens to us that are not really old you think to yourself im not that old but it happens it can mess with you mentally &much as physically
At 40 and having my first hip replacement, next month. Its the you don't want to do this but don't have a choice anymore and the pain is draining
I need a replacement and have been putting it off and I’m not doing well. I’m honestly afraid to do it and the long recovery time makes me not want to do it even more. Tips? What can I expect?
@@sarcasticallyrearranged I just had my THR done. Ask for spinal and general anesthesia. You have to specifically ask the anesthesiologist prior to surgery. You wake up feeling paralyzed but it’s loads better than waking up to a 9+ pain level. Get your home arranged as a rehab center. Stock up on your favorites. And put everything at waist level if you can. You’ll remember quite quickly if you think that you can pick something off the floor. Pain is an excellent teacher. It’s scary. I almost backed out of it. Cuz it’s painful AF. Don’t let anyone tell you that it ain’t. But I jumped thru too many hoops to cancel the procedure. Wanted to get in before some other viral infections engulfs the world. Good luck to you, truly. ✌🙏
good luck! 44 yrs diagnosed with AVN, still slowly accepting it
Thank you Lara for sharing your story.I need both hips replaced and starting to have pain in my lower back.I have been dealing with this for 2 years and the pain is extreme. I love what you said about how it affects you mentally, physically and my case spiritually. I feel like I'm in quick sand and I can't get out of my own way.Sometimes I feel like I'm my own worse enemy.I wish you well and God bless!
Hello 👋
I agree with Lara. I had a total hip replacement two months ago and I'm 40 years old. This video made my decide on getting hip replacement after the cortisone show didn't work. It is life changing experience in every way possible.
So thankful I came across this video! I'm 49 and was a competitive swimmer at Ohio State but had since switched over to running and bootcamps for fitness. I've thought my pain was my hip flexor or something muscular as well. I've been in denial since the diagnosis a month ago (bone on bone, arthritis, too far gone to fix) but am going in tomorrow to schedule the surgery. Thank you Lara!
Hi kJ how are you feeling now? I suppose to have an anterior THR next month.
@@michaelmontes2691 I am feeling so much better! I don’t even feel like I’ve had a thr. Aside from the scar, you’d never know. Recovery can be a bit daunting but be patient! It took me a good 5-6 weeks before I was walking normal with out a limp again. Goodluck with your surgery!
@@4kellybelle oh ok thank you soooo much. I’m so glad to hear that you are up and about. This gives me hope. I work in law enforcement and I think all the bells and whistles I carried for 20 years has compromised my cartilage. So I’m going to get the anterior THR, so thank you for your well wishes and sharing your outcome/experience.
How soon were you able to walk ?
Yep, I needed a hip replacement on both hips. It's the best move I've ever made and just thank God, I didn't have any denial issues, nor was I terrified. I just figured it was something I had to do and I got it done. I'm healing from the right hip (it's been three weeks) and I feel great! I had the left done going on 4 months now and no more excruciating pain or not being able to sleep at night. I'm SO thankful to my doctor who is the greatest orthopedic surgeon also!
Who was your surgeon? Hope you don't mind that question . They aren't all equal
Hey! I just found this video... It was emotional for me because of how relatable it is. I'm 24yo and will have my left hip totally replaced in 2 weeks time. I was only 14 when I diagnosed and even after a few surgeries through the years I'm still in pain. I was a rhythmic gymnast, I was active, I was young. Why it happened? I'm yet to know. Yes, I'm a bit scared of doing this; yes, I understand it will wear out way sooner than if I had it done on my 40's... But no, I don't want to live in pain; no, I don't want to have to do nothing for a whole for a week to be able to go for a 1h walk with friends; no, I don't want to take extra pain killers during winter because even being too cold affects my hip; no, I don't want to keep having a leg shorter than the other; no, I don't want to reject invites because 'I won't be able do it'. I know it sounds a bit dramatic but these little things make other situations in life so much more bearable. If there's a solution, I want to go for it.
I want a better lifestyle. Am I gonna be able to walk like a regular person? Am I gonna be ale to keep my balance on my foot? Am I going to be able to run with my 14yo sister? Then bloody yes! Yes I want to have the hip replacement! If only I had a £1 for every person that asked "aren't you too young for that?"... Well, is anyone to young to live comfortably in their body?
I really appreciate videos like this. Also thank you for reading so far :))
I hope you don't have to go through something like this but in case you did go through it, are going or will go... I feel you're pain. Keep your head up and keep fighting. Keep focusing on how easier it will be to do your daily task, playing with kids, having fun, enjoying the company of loved ones! Focus on the positives. You can do it.
Had both hips replaced at 32! I’m an active male! Don’t be scared it will be will worth it! I have AVN and it’s soo painful the surgery is soooo worth it!
Did u deal with leg length Discrepancy
Thank you so much for talking about this. I found out that I was bone on bone and needed replacement. I feel like I am part of a group that needs the surgery. And I am so grateful for your honesty and transparency about your emotions about the surgery. It’s refreshing and you have helped me a great deal with my own emotions. Thank you.
Hello careen bowden how are you doing today and everyone around you
I am Alex lee from kuala lumpur Malaysia but I live in London united Kingdom nice meeting you
Thank you Lara! I’m currently recovering from hip replacement. Never knew you went through this.
My wife just had this done at the Surgery Center of Oklahoma, I can't say enough good about what a wonderful experience they provided.
Thank you for doing this video. I an 38 years old (THIRTY EIGHT!) and having anterior total hip replacemt 12/18. Also acetabular dysplasia. I'm a dancer and certified exercise physiologist. Can't wait to get back to my life. ...but I'm scared, first hospital experience (since my own birth!). Also assumed I had a nasty strain. Thanks again for sharing! 💙💙💙
Sarah Trignano I’m planning on doing mines in January let me know how it goes and I’m 39
@@jackiebless7031 i've been diagnosed so i will be joining the club too. i was given a pain shot a week and a half ago but it's doing very little. how are you doing now?
Darryl Clark I can’t thank God and Dr. Lamont from NYU LANGONE enough. I have little to no pain now and I feel like a brand new me. Chronic pain sure does affects you physically, emotionally and mentally. I was in constant pain all day everyday but that pain vanished in thin air after surgery. I’m just so thankful because of the things I’m able to do now. I’m wishing you the best on your surgery 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m 7 weeks past my THR. The discomfort after surgery was nothing compared to the pain I was in before surgery. I was lucky to get 1 hour in of just doing stuff around the house before I had to lay down for a bit to reduce the pain. I was bone on bone. It is so nice to not be in pain anymore.
I’m rooting for you! Can’t wait till you are a few weeks past the surgery. You are going to be so relieved.
I had my right hip replaced at 47. I am 63 now. I had bone on bone, dysplasia of the hip as a child with a chronic dislocating hip growing up as a teen. It was the best thing I have ever done. I honestly had minimal pain in my recovery. The pain before was so much worse than after the surgery. I did what my doctors told me to do, did my PT religiously and I healed well. My hip replacement is still perfect, right in place. I had to walk with a cane for 4 months before I could get the surgery. I was so ready.
I find this ironic. A few weeks ago she was male-bashing men as cry-babies when they are ill. She needs to attend one of my prostate cancer support group meetings to witness first-hand the strength and courage these men exhibit in facing down and coping with a life threatening disease.
Oh my goodness I am so relieved to know I am not alone!! I’ve been pushing through with therapy hoping to just rehab a muscle strain or tendinitis. Long story short, I’m scheduled for left total hip replacement in one week. The pain has gotten so bad, I’m finally at peace with getting the surgery but I have had major denial, depression, doubts, “I’m too young for this”, etc. I am so ready to have my life back. Thank you!!
I feel the same...I was told i needed a hip replacement eventually, but I'm thinking no, the pain will go away...now the pain is getting worse and worse.
Get it done!
Thank you for telling your story. I am diagnosed with exactly the same genetic predosposition. Scared as hell from the surgery. 46 and active
Thank you Lara for bringing this topic up. You are an inspiration to me because I have to have hip replacement in a couple of weeks. It was so good to hear you talk about what turned out to be my fears also. It is so hard to explain to others. I've had five surgeries already but this one takes the cake because I just feel so insecure going into it. It's just reasureing to hear you talk about it in a frank simple manner.
In the same boat. I have been ignoring the pain in my hip, after thinking I just did a tweak, and trying to move on for months.....it affected my walk (limping), affected my sleeping, everything I did from gardening, to work, to tending to my disabled son, was affected.......tried the cortisone shots....PT you name it...nothing helped....when they did the xrays it showed I have NO cartilage left at all and it's severe bone on bone...I even have portions of the bone that are dying because of lack of circulation. I am now waiting for clearance from Primary doc, dentist etc...to finally get scheduled for hip replacement. All I can say is I'm terrified...but looking forward to being able to walk without pain. And all this time I thought it would be my fingers that would be the first to get 'fixed/surgery' on...since the arthritis is so bad in them. LOL...but nope it's the hip...
I’m 51, marathon runner and have hip dysplasia. I am having total right hip replacement anterior surgery next week.... I can’t wait to get this done and feel back to myself!
You will be great!
Thanks for sharing your story IAM 38 years old and I need a hip replacement
I went for my complete right hip surgury April 5 just a few days ago, I had it done by an excellent dr, my hip was a mess and they put a protessee planted in cement
Of course the first day was horrid! My operation was at 9:45 am and it took about 2.5 hrs
By the time I came up to my room , I remember nothing but pain ! But with good meds by supper time I was sitting up and eating a sandwich, they didn’t get me out of bed till Saturday walking with walker, I’m a big baby and this was amazing , put full weight on it and you have to use walker carefully! Always think this , bad foot moves first, good leg second and take small steps , don’t try to rush, everyone has different experiences with the meds and operation, I was one of the lucky ones, I got home Sunday, taking my meds, I find it a bit nerve wracking but hubby is here with me, and I follow all instructions, it’s a process to heal but be patient, I had been in so much pain and this was the best thing I could of done, follow the excerises given, don’t do what you can’t and when you home they want you to walk, never sit or sleep all day! Bc I’m the hospital they have you up and they want you to do normal , fir me I’m still nervous but I was one of the lucky ones where the meds gave me no issues and I need them for at least 6-8 weeks, hope everyone has s ok! Patience is the key!
Oh my god I'm so glad I have read your post .I have to have full hip replacement on tues 24th and I am too a big baby and dreading it x
I had both hip replaced 4 weeks ago doing the pre training exercises really help. Problem is after surgery you feel great pain free and within a week your back but a big warning don’t rush. Listen to your Physiotherapist.
7 weeks out still barley using a cane overdid it yesterday didn't seem like it today I am paying the price swollen up cant walk bottom line be patient which I have a hard time
It helps me alot. Am 17yrs old and I can't bare the pain. Like she said the pain affects u not only physically but also mentally. I hope to get surgery as soon as I turn 18yrs old.💚
wow you are very young, im 58 and need both done good luck
Wow! That’s young! I was 23 when diagnosed and 28 when I had my surgery.
Salsadivva how are you feeling now? Is everything back to normal for you?
I watched the operation as my Mum had , had a hip replacement and was curious , " HUGE " mistake and here I am 2 hip replacements later wishing I had not watched it I never thought I would be needing one as I was always active and moving , well moved or so I thought .....but after sweating while waiting for both ( 2 yrs apart ) I promised myself I would watch the whole operation to see what I had gone through " twice " as I could'nt do jack about it now. It's been 3 weeks since my last bionic bits added , pretty much doing everything around the house ( limping and with one elbow crutch ) but doing it anyway . To my way of thinking get it working so the muscles and tendons grab that foreign object and make it part of me....I'm 62 yrs old and yes I feel sorry for myself as I do limp but it's improving daily.....so life goes on...
Had my first hip done at 42 and should have done it at 30; that was my first reaction right after my first hip replacement...Getting my second one done next week at age 52. I didn’t wait as long this time, so I’m comfortable going in...mine is genetic as well. My grandfather had his done in his 80s, my dad in his 70s, and me in my 40s. Definitely a correlation with each of our level of activity. I played ice hockey since age 7, dad played soccer, baseball and basketball starting in middle school, and grandfather wasn’t nearly as active.
I am 50 years old started having pain in my right leg and hip at 48 , I also have hip dysplasia , I am now bone on bone I am scheduled for hip replacement Jan 20 th next Monday I am so nervous , but so tired of the chronic pain . It has definitely affected the quality of my life . I am on a cane can barely walk I sure hope this replacement gives me my life back
I just found out that I need a hip replacement also... my upper thigh feels like a pulled muscle and muscle fatigue and weakness did you kind of feel the same? I just had all my pre-op blood work done waiting for a surgical date now
TOTALLY MY FEELINGS at 53 active I was shocked and cried for days! I'm now double Hippie within 4 months.. left hip was first then during recovery I was told I over compensated and will need the right done at anytime.. while off and recovering from my left I went ahead and did the right. The right started bothering me like fast. I completely stopped working out. Gained weight it totally affected my life...I couldn't walk without excruciating pain
Dear Lara,
Hi! Just saw your video snd can empathize so much! I had my first joint replacement surgery, total right knee, on 11/10/2019 and just literally 2 days ago had my 2nd joint replacement surgery- left hip
I am also an athlete and yoga junkie. Let me tell you that being active helps our rehab 110%! I already climbed 4up and 4 down stairs. Pain is there, but honestly my knee was a lot harder than my knee. Glad I had it done!!!
This video is very inspiring and I’m in my early forties and will have an anterior THR soon, but as far as it being a genetic predisposition, or “you were born that way” like what some orthopedists like to say is BS, some doctors like to label and categorize. Some people do have hip dysplasia and some it’s just wear and tear, it’s not always genetic. Sometimes the cartilage gives way, and you will only know after you feel the pain. But by then it’s already bone to bone. Luckily from what I hear today the orthopedist surgeon can restore the active lifestyle of many people thru THR. And yes thank god we can google and you tube to gain knowledge unlike in the eighties one had to resort to the library/encyclopedia etc to gather info lol. God bless everyone that do decide to have surgery along with a successful outcome. Good luck and god bless you in your surgery Lara and thank you for being an inspiration to others! :-)
I was very active in sports karate,hockey(goalie), heavy weights, and worked hard. I could barely walk and started using cane and have found out both my hips are bone on bone. The pain is of the charts and getting both done at the same time. Thanks for the video I wish you well
I had my right hip done 3 weeks ago the surgery it self is short but the rehab is what I find the most difficult you have to remember your precaution and everything should be ok
Good luck Laura! I will be having my superpath left hip replacement in September. Take care of yourself. Melanie
I had mine resurfaced about three weeks ago, and I am so glad I chose that over the replacement. I realize not everyone is a candidate for it, but as athletic as you are, I am surprised it was not used in this case.
what is resurfaced?
Did it hold up? I don’t think resurfacing is commonly used anymore.
@@svonkie, To answer your question, NO it did not work the first time around. I had to have a second surgery six months later, and although that one worked as far as the hip (or seems to have), a tool they used during the surgery snapped in half and traveled in my leg. It took them 7 hours and three surgeons to find and remove it. 😳 I am still recovering from that. If I had it to do over again, I would have done a total hip.
Having my hip done a week from today...thanks for saying you were terrified...I am too but glad to know I am not alone.
Am having mines in a week am terrified also let me know how u doing
@@peacheslyntreasure8682 it has been two weeks today since surgery,. It is slow going but starting to feel better, walk better. Getting lots of rest alternated with exercise and walking with a walker. Getting to a better place than before the surgery. Be good to yourself and keep me posted how you are doing. I will be thinking of you!!
Thanks I will keep you posted
@@diorme7510 am glad u are doing better each day thank you for responding to me because am scared I will keep u posted
@@peacheslyntreasure8682 best of luck..thinking of you Peacheslyn!
My hip replacement surgery is scheduled for April 24th. I was also genetically disposed to this. My femur was not round but oval shaped and has worn away at the cartilage of the socket. I can't wait for my surgery. I've actually been limping for almost two years. It was a relief to find out what the problem was. I can't wait to have my mobility back.
How are your now? My mom-n-law had her hip replaced on the 24th in the am, she was home that evening walking with a walker and manageable pain. Im going in June 11th to get both of my done, been on crutches for the past 3 months I cant wait to get rid of this pain in both hips.
Well I am well over 50.
Didnt have a choice either as I fractured my left hip. WITHOUT falling. Trauma caused it. Snowblower and I tried to dance in the storm.
Nurse on my feet for over 40 years.
So glad its done. Recovering well. You are right dont wait.
I'm having surgery on my right hip next month, I'm so scared. Hopefully all goes well. This video really helps.😥
Lydia Lombardo let me know how it goes 🙏🙏🙏🙏
OMG, Lara and I are the same person! (Only I am 18 years older than she.) I have been active my whole life, and in my head I have always said I am 27, so I was just as surprised as she when I began having all of my replacements. And I feel embarrassed about it! I have had both knees, shoulders and hips done but I continue to play tennis, ski, cycle etc. Most recently I had to have another replacement surgery (called a revision) on my right hip - UGH! Here I go again with rehab! But over the years surgical procedures have greatly improved, and I was able to come home the day of my most recent surgery which was (of all times) December 24, 2019.
Hi
Still find it rather unfair that ir's often the athletes and fitness fans among us who need this surgery early. We did everything right - we followed medical advice to keep active and working out - and now this! Very ironic.
I'm 35 and needed a double hip. The pain she reported is pretty accurate
I hear ya mine are cracking crunching and feel like now I cant even sleep without waking up in pain.
@@KevinJohnson-jc9ju if you have the opportunity to get yours fixed, it really changed my life in a matter of hours . Went from wheelchair to walking
@@drstevebrule8306 I hear this and I go June 11th I cant wait and the pain (this horrible pain) is gone that quick wow I cant wait. You had to use a wheel chair? I was wondering how bad this will get? I pray I wont need a wheel chair. My hips are getting tighter every day along with the pain, just 6 more weeks. Thanks again Dr brule
@@KevinJohnson-jc9ju it started as what I thought was a pulled groin, and took 3 years for me before I had to use a wheelchair. I don't think my situation can necessarily be used as a reference though as it was a werid situation. Good luck and do your physio!
@@drstevebrule8306 thank you sir and I will
Thank you for sharing your experience. It definitely helped as I prepare for my total right hip replacement next month.
Belinda Thompson how are you doing after your replacement I am having it done next week Jan 20 th
@@sharon48mc40 how was your surgery?.
Hello Belinda how are you doing today and everyone around you
I'm 41 and had 3 hip replacements in a span of 6 months. I have dysplasia of both my hips. I was were you were. I pushed it way too long and way too far. I was bone on bone and my femur was actually breaking my hip socket off. I hope you are doing good now!! I have residual pain but it's more then likely because of 3 surgeries in 6 months.
I really needed to see this.... I am at the point where I can barely walk. My leg gives out. I went to a surgeon a couple of years ago who said I was too young at 48 and wouldn't do it. He wanted me to get to a point where it interrupted my life. I am there now... I was an avid ballroom dancer and now, I cannot walk without assistance. I would say, it's time....
As far as mental, I have been depressed. I don't work out like I used to because I am not weight bearing on the joint. I was into yoga and now, cannot do any of the hip opening poses. So, the things that made it bearable are no longer available to me...
I go to see the surgeon on Tuesday and I am eager for some resolution on this. I was scared of the surgery but now the pain and immobility outweighs the fear, at this point..
Thanks for speaking out. It makes me feel more encouraged!
Hello Shervelle...I am experiencing the same...the pain is ridic....maybe we can support each other !
@@shicks9577 Shelley!! Nice to meet you!! I would be soooo nice to have support, someone who understands what I am going through. I am scheduled to have the surgery on Jan 29th. I am now on crutches and, at this point, I am eager to get this over with.
How are you?? Where are you in the process?? Please feel free to email me. My email is shervellebergholz@gmail.com
Thanks for reaching out!!
@@shervellebergholz Im so glad you got my message. I was diagnosed about a year ago ....and I quess I been in denial..now that its worse... I really have to consider surgery. I wanna go shopping again..the grocery store. I will email you....and your right, no one understands.
I will be praying that you have a quick recovery.
I get it I have both worn out I cant ride my motorcycle skate play hockey all the things that made me feel alive
@@KevinJohnson-jc9ju How are you doing now? Are you considering surgery??
I'm 33. I've had rheumatoid arthritis my whole life, and I'll be getting a new hip in a couple months. I'm really excited. I used to train horses. I got into a massive flare and the joint destruction has been growing. My hip is now bone on bone. The idea of not being in pain anymore is exhilarating. I have to use a walker or a cane. I can't even swim anymore. I wish her all the best.
Lara Spencer is a very beautiful person, I really like her upbeat personality.
Please try to relax, it’s hard, I’m 59 and I was terrified! But the healing begins right away in most cases! Take care
Oh man, Lara. PALEEEEEZE give an update on your hip health??
Did you resume your prior activities?
Are there limitations now that time has passed?
I'm headed in this Friday. Am currently a fit class instructor, former D1 volleyball playerand fitness manager. Still teaching/coaching and active. Been limping for 18 months and yes, born with hip dysplacia. Mind blowing how this takes one over and MOST GRATEFUL that in 2024, they have a medical miracle cure.
I'm going in for my left hip in a week, and soon after that will need the right done. I know all too well about the pain. I tried to fight through it, but I couldn't sleep and doing just everyday things has become unbearable. It's taken away doing a lot of things that I love that involve walking. I finally had enough.
I had mine a month ago and you will be fine , no pain , believe me no pain , my physical therapy is a little hard on me because I wasn't working out for 5 years dealing with that pain ,this is why you may feel a little discomfort in your knee and back but will get better good luck with your procedure and welcome to your new life
@@lucylazares4514 Thanks, it's been 6 weeks or so and I'm already up and walking a bit on my own. Love it!
I had my left hip done on July 8. Anterior approach. This is week 5 post op. I’ve been walking unassisted for the last week & a half. I go up and down my stairs at home and experience no more pain - just some slight discomfort & tightness remaining near the incision site. Physical therapy has been great. My range of motion & strength improves greatly everyday. I was suffering for far too long. I’m so thankful I made the decision to move forward with the hip replacement. I’m looking forward to being pain free for many, many years. 2021 is going to be AMAZING. All the best to you both...
@@rickt.223 As to you! I agree, I suffered for a long time. I still need to get the right hip done and I hope to get it done as soon as possible!
really good to speak out! sometimes is not easy there are a lot misconceptions
Just turned 40, and had bilateral hip replacement 2021, 4 days post surgery im up, slowly walking unassisted, ready to go home...
just started to look into im shocked to learn lara had this situation going on. im upset just like her. i hv osteoporosis in hips and its unbearable the pain. but cant come to terms. i saw arthroplasty said no way....
Your story is so similar to mine, only I hid my problem for far too long. thank you so much for sharing your story!!
JP it hurts huh? every step I take is painful
I just had bilateral hip replacement surgery, Do what the PT says and you will be up and going in no time. 5 weeks and no pain like I had been living with for 10 years. I’m 58
I just found out that I need a hip replacement also... my upper thigh feels like a pulled muscle and muscle fatigue and weakness did you kind of feel the same? I just had all my pre-op blood work done waiting for a surgical date now
Wow having it in 10 days. Masan I needed to see this
I had both done in 1994 at the same time( not done anymore) long recovery but total return to skiing, tennis, running etc. I was bone on bone!
I had my done and she is right about chronic pain physically and mentally it’s worth having done
I can truly relate to this l found out at the age of 48 or 49 going to work every day l was given pain pills l was okay.
But then down the line l too took those shots it worked okay for a little while but this is the difference l have Osteoarthritis in both Hips need hip replacement for BOTH and l have it in both knees and my lower spine too no known surgery for these parts my doctor has only said my hips will need surgery but it’s in my knees but l don’t need surgery on my knees as of now a lot of the pain l feel is traveled down from the hips but there’s NO need to have any surgery on them thank God.
And l will not have any surgery on my spine to Afraid of that so l will just take my medication and l’m at bone on bone NOW l’m doing test to hopefully have my surgery real soon this year.
I went from walking but in pain still taking the medication going to work then down the line the pain just grow sooo intense it seems daily then starting with one cane then two canes and now a walker.
For outside l use it for stability l don’t want to fall and hurt myself more then l’m already hurting and mess up my pretty faces. Lol !
But l just pray to God when the time comes for me to have the surgery’s it will all go well me my son is the best in the WORLD to me he’s there for me if l need him so god has to make this successful he’s my only child he 25 just turned that in September he has half brother and sister my husband had 2 when we married but we aren’t together but still married and he’s even come over to see me a few times and done things for me and l appreciate it cause he didn’t have too but where good.
But l’m Scared to death but l have no choice it’s a must,..so l just pray for a successful surgery an another chance at happiness.and having Full Mobility again just on my own.
Thank You 🙏🏽
Did you have surgery yet?
Thank you Lara I have to have it done in 5 days I'm terrified
Thanks Lara, Because of you I knew to not wait even longer. Surgery is scheduled.
Hi
I feel you. I'm 22 and I had a total hip replacement 1 week ago. Tho my hip had to be replaced due to damage from Rheumatoid Arthritis.
Hello,I'm about to have hip replacement on the 17th,how long was your recovery?
@@mont6477 It was great actually. The first week is probably the most challenging but after that each week gets easier. I'm at about 2 and a half months since my surgery and I have no pain and don't need a cane. One thing I can say is getting sleep in kind of difficult the first couple weeks. Especially because you can't really get comfortable except by sleeping on your back. I could only sleep a couple hours at a time before having to get up and walk around a bit.
Chelsea,I thank you so much for that info,I was getting real nervous about my surgery. Feel a lil better now and I'll let you know how things go after my surgery. Once again thank you very much🤗
No problem! I was also really nervous but once it'd done you won't regret it! It's really life changing! Good luck and please do let me know how everything goes! Wishing you a speedy recovery
Thank you very much,I will be sure to keep you informed 🤗
At 73 I lost weight, worked out and had a total knee replacement on left leg. It has changed my entire life and not for the better. 14 months after going through hell, nine months of PT. I was in the reception area of the indoor community pool, for exercising my knee, when I tripped on a mat and broke the femoral neck of the same leg !! Knee has gone from a very hard fought for 95 degrees bend to 75 degrees. I refused to have a hip replacement and instead have 3 huge screws in there. I’ve been told I may yet need hip replacement. No way, no way, no way. I’m 75 in two days and did everything I could to improve the knee. PT said I’m in great shape for my age, but now my mobility is forever changed. Also, a femoral neck break can be LETHAL for up to a year post op. I went from super active to nearly crippled. Think long and hard - exercise, get shots. Do all possible to avoid orthopedic surgery for arthritis. The constant pain has worn me down. I have PTSD from that. Golden Years…..a joke.
Thank you for sharing your story. I have bone on bone hip arthritis which has impacted my walk but- not having surgery doesn’t open me up to a lifetime of infections , surgical pain , foot drop , heteroptic ossification and other issues . Great advice hope you are doing better
@@intensivemanagement it’s been another year. My hip screws/surgery was SO much easier. I was walking with full weight in 6 weeks. The knee still is painful if I toss & turn at night, however I’m doing stairs better. I can walk as much as five miles in a day. It took forever and I’m still not glad I did it, but it’s getting easier to deal with. Great news is the other knee will be ok with just injections. Last year was just an all around bad year. I lost my 23 yr old grandson and I was very depressed. Things have become much more manageable. Good luck and thanks.
@@MarylandMermaid glad to hear all is getting better ❤️🩹 sorry about the loss of your grandson. This life has some really tough times mixed in with the good stuff
Lara I hope your hip surgery goes well and everything you said I can relate to because I need a hip too and I don't want to do it but I should have did it a long time ago because it is painful and it is paying all the time so I will be praying for you and I know you'll be running back and in 2 weeks
This was 6 plus years ago
I wasn't an athlete. But, always on my feet. The pain before this was really bad. I literally had a shopping cart to walk if I sat down to take a break. I've started week 3 after my hip replacement surgery. The pain after surgery is bad. Really bad. But now it's not nearly as bad. I do have some swelling but that's still to be expected. I pray this does not happen to my right hip. Because I don't want to go through this again. It's not something you want to endure twice. I just pray my knee on the same leg doesn't want to join in the fun.
The pain is too much. I'm waiting on the pay off. To feel like I did and able to move and walk without any problems or pain.
I'm in the hospital right now. Had my right hip replaced yesterday. I have avascular necrosis. I'll have to have my other hip replaced in a few months. I'm 46.
I hope all is well,how are things going Scott?I have to go thru this next month..
Scott McMahon how are you feeling? I’m planning on having mines in mid January and I’m having my right replaced as well. 🙏🙏
Andrew Gallegos let me know how it goes. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
very good journalist.my prayers are with you
Thank you
I don't feel so bad !! I am Next 💪♥️♥️♥️
Chronic pain from this condition does take over your life. It is constant and has she said you will know when it’s time to have surgery. There is a reason why people need pain medication. When the injections stop helping there is nothing else you can do. At 49 it is my turn for a new left hip. The right will be coming soon behind the left side.
Research and consider hip-resurfacing since you're young. A THR total hip replacement should be avoided if you're a young, active, and healthy candidate for hip-resurfacing. Also, the approach is as important as the prosthesis. Consider researching a direct superior approach. You want to get back into action as soon as possible with little to no difficulties.
All the best to you with your surgery.
I'm 49 too and working on planning my first THR. I'm terrified too!
I'm 25 and currently on day 10 post surgery for my hip replacement.
How are you doing now 9 months later?
I had hip replacement at 47 and my pain is gone. I know exactly what she feels.
Hello beautiful yogi how are you doing today and everyone around you
@@johndomin905 brown chicken brown cow….
Good luck Laura! We got your back !
Getting total right hip replacemented February 7, 2020 at HSS.
I googled and watched many videos. Oh boy. Getting this surgery done in two weeks.
Hi
I'm recuperating from mineca week ago. So far, so good.
Ur a strong and powerful girl don't ever forget.
She’s so young to be going through hip replacement, I’m having mine done in May of this 2022.;I too am terrified, I’m preparing myself physically and mentally. I have Ostio Arthritis of the hip. My family history is to blame for this, my dad had the surgery at 82, I’m in my early 60’s the pain has taken over my life and taking too many pain killers, I walk like a disabled person. It’s been a few years would luv an update Lara, how was it?
I remember seeing this interview a few years ago and I said to myself boy she knows exactly what I am going through I have held this from my friends and my family for so many years over 15-20 years I have dealt with pain walk different and everybody in my family just kept saying when are you going to get it done and I kept saying I'm not well I got it done I have had a few accidents I have fallen on the same right hip twice on the ice just when I decided to have it done a whole bunch of other personal things came up with my apartment being renovated I have to stay in the hotel I am getting therapy in a hotel when I go back to my apartment it's going to be so different I'm not going to be able to move around this is very hard for me but I know looking at this interview again so many years after I know I can make it and it is hard but I'm making it and I'm glad that I made the decision I'm 65 and I have always been working out physical I am 59 a hundred and thirty-nine pounds and I'm planning on wearing my heels after this it's going to be awhile but I'm going to do it and I know that with God's help on my side I'm going to do it I love watching Laura and she was an inspiration but I kept it to myself for a long time like she said it was very embarrassing now people might say it was because of my age because I waited so long I needed this 20 years ago and I never did anything about it it's done thank you God
At least you had time to prepare. I broke my hip and had to have emergency complete hip replacement.
Same here looking forward to my surgery
Omg, I'm forty three I thought I was the only one. I've been in denial so long I can not walk at all now. I must have surgery and I'm absolutely terrified of that.
I am 48 and I'm getting my right hip replaced in two weeks provided Covid doesn't mess that up.
That is amazing -was she really running after 2 weeks? I am going to need this done and recovery is going to take longer than that to be able to run- may be I need another doctor!
Thank you!!
im 44 just had mine done. Still healing. very bruised on day 7 and its pretty sore but i can walk around on crutches. Hopefully next week no crutches and ni swelling.
I had my R hip replaced also and my L hip is now mimicking the same pain. I did go see a DR and was told that I needed a L THR. But right now I am taking intense Osteo Fx which has reduced the pain. But we shall see this year to see what happens.
Hello Zully how are you doing today
@@johndomin905 very well thank you.
I am Alex Lee from kuala lumpur Malaysia but I live in London united Kingdom nice meeting you
@@zullyrodriguezsiney4003 zully can we be friends
I just had my right hip totally replacement, my knee was killing me and I did not understand, Lara, I understand now my knee has not bothered me, i just had it done on the 16th, I am home, but could not continue the pain.
Best of luck
That music in the beginning had me like 🎸 🤘hip replacement rock and roll
Having had both hips done in my early to mid 50's, I have to say there is nothing minimal about this. The anterior approach (so called minimally invasive) is a massive insult to the hip area, muscle tendons etc. etc.. One was easier than the other in terms of recovery and I hear say it is just luck. Both times I had the same surgeon same implant same every thing and the experience (recovery) was very different. If you ever come to the point of needing this procedure, organize your stuff in life and do it.
With a good outcome you get almost all of your "normal" life back, and think about it would you rather have to deal with cancer? Working (lab tech) in hospitals all my adult life I have seen young (children) with cancer and all I can say is thank God my issue is mechanical (ball joint) and not on the cellular level.
One more thing for those facing difficult times what ever these may be. Having studied a little philosophy I fall back on the "Myth of Sisyphus" by Albert Camus as a source of strength. At the end what you have is what you have and throwing it all away is not an option, so you embrace life (what you have) and love it, thank God, (yes I know Camus was atheist) and be happy.
Does happiness come from within? or from with out? or both and to what extent? For me I choose "will to power" and choose happiness. Best of luck.
Agreed totally. It is a state of mind and if this is our largest problem we are very lucky- any surgery is serious but with two parents who had cancer I will face this head on.
What? What a bunch of convoluted crap.