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  • @27391ltd
    @27391ltd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent points. I help young adults and 50+ers get new career positions and your take on social and personal skills is right on. Should be required viewing!

  • @gdretired4385
    @gdretired4385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen to your advice on swearing.

  • @brotherfrankenstein1381
    @brotherfrankenstein1381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the jacket. Great advice. Thanks for all the help you give to all of us savages out here.

  • @williamfulbright5108
    @williamfulbright5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lots of good stuff John. I use a biblical principle when I’m with people, quick to hear, slow to speak. Really listen to people and don’t start forming an answer while you’re still listening. Also, people do form opinions on your style. Thanks to you, I was just complimented by the women in the main office by saying I looked like I walked off the pages of GQ or J Crew.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice! Keep up the great work!

  • @evaldorank7375
    @evaldorank7375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I do agree with you in everything you talked about it!!!! I generally care about what i’m going to wear to go to a party. You feel good and the host too. I always take a bottle of wine, chicolates, or something else. If you smell good you feel confortable. Great tips to take to our lives!!!!

  • @bertram46
    @bertram46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video good basics for people to know. Well I'm on my way from Naples over to Miami so I'm going to catch up on some videos

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds good! Safe travels!

    • @bertram46
      @bertram46 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@40OverFashion on my way back I match date! Hey that would be a good topic dating sites what do you think?

  • @ravjc55
    @ravjc55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you so much, john. i have a human resources background and i also used to teach at a local career college in santa rosa, california. every point you made in this video, i emphasized with my students, and i am proud to say that all of them have gone on to better jobs and even successful businesses of their own.
    personally, i do tend to use the more "colorful metaphors" more than i should and i thank you for reminded me to rein it in.
    thanks again.

  • @pauls.9228
    @pauls.9228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your videos, John! You put a lot of effort into them, and they are always filled with great advice. You bring a lot of positive energy to our lives, especially us older guys....please keep them coming, and thank you very much!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you very much Paul!

    • @phillipmoodie9071
      @phillipmoodie9071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @PaulS. Having started my Engineering training with an GE Joint Venture with a company in the Electromedical field who in the 1950's were the Australian distributor for Leica cameras and lenses, then commenced my I.T. career in the mid-1960s by spending 4 years pioneering the sale of computer equipment into the Newspaper, Publishing and Advertising Agencies, I have that technical training complimented by decades of experience in commissioning the creation of commercial videos, along with the national sale of world class video based computer training, to well understand how amateurish is the production quality of most videos on TH-cam. But that's because YT was initiated as a vehicle for amateurs. But that is rapidly changing and it is noteworthy that John's very simple, but very professionally made presentations are what will be needed in the near future, to grow a channel. I support your comment about how hard John works, just to make it look simple. While I have the technical knowledge, I just don't have the creative talent to produce video presentations that as an experienced National Sales Manager would accept as being of Commercial quality. Phil.

  • @melodyman1662
    @melodyman1662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vid man. You had me lmao about the Brussels sprouts cause I actually love them.

  • @jobro524
    @jobro524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Tips to live by

  • @dexternorman6283
    @dexternorman6283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awsome video great advice

  • @edsamson8916
    @edsamson8916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips!

  • @ronm6585
    @ronm6585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great tips John. Thank you.

  • @BobsCreativeDays
    @BobsCreativeDays 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice as usual!!! One advantage we have here in Canada is that lawyers wear robes in court (like in the UK but minus the wigs), this does two things: denotes who the attorneys are and levels the playing field. There is no undo influence from what they are wearing, or in the case of women, how low their neckline plunges. Say what you will but people judge you based on what you project outwardly. Although this is shallow it is reality. Taking care of yourself and trying to look good is not shallow it is intelligent. Every little thing you do to help you advance is intelligent. That is one of the reasons that I heed a lot of your advice. Every little bit helps!!! LOL Have a great week John.

  • @aaronlang686
    @aaronlang686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As always, excellent video.

  • @sailingnusa4228
    @sailingnusa4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As always great video and thanks for making the effort to produce video’s that make a difference to blokes lives.

  • @Gururaj90
    @Gururaj90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video John... That Jacket is super super good 😊😊

  • @jinghantay1272
    @jinghantay1272 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the link ?

  • @CookieMonster-de4nk
    @CookieMonster-de4nk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always a really informative video with some great advice.
    Oh love the jacket too!....where can I get one?
    Thanks again John....keep up the good work!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The brown zip jacket is from H&M.

  • @q-storm767
    @q-storm767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video, John. Talking about scents, I can still smell my Mom's sweet potato pie in my head. Definitely triggers memories of Thanksgiving and Christmas.

  • @TheGreggmelvin04
    @TheGreggmelvin04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it

  • @20EUR20
    @20EUR20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    #1 : naturally funny in any situations

  • @Sigma100_
    @Sigma100_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. I'm always sharing videos with my son and nephews on how to conduct oneself and self improvement as a man. This is one more video I'll share with them. Thanks as always. Long time supporter here. Pete & Pedro products are awesome. Thanks for turning me onto them. Keep the vids coming.

  • @tanamsubba9453
    @tanamsubba9453 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah...

  • @hakimyz5853
    @hakimyz5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well said bro...

  • @barttanner8162
    @barttanner8162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my estimation being a good listener and maintaining eye contact is the most important of making a lasting impression. Also, I dig that jacket you are wearing.

  • @RamboBigPapi
    @RamboBigPapi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    trying to order the samples and the fashion50 not workin

  • @05Rudey
    @05Rudey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Excellent advice. I must be a Benjamin Button when it comes to clothing, because I couldn't give a fig what I looked like as a teen, got slightly better in my 20's, complete overall with age appropriate clothing in my mid 30's, now in my 40's pretty much everything I buy I take to the dry cleaners for slight size adjustments, mainly a few inches off the leg or arm length to insure the perfect fit.
    I'm also a believer of "You are what you wear" For example, If I wear a suit people will believe I'm a businessman, If I wear a white lab coat, people will believe I'm a Doctor/Scientist, wear a hard hat and a tool belt in construction. If you want people to believe you are successful or at least trying to be you have to make the effort.

  • @RamboBigPapi
    @RamboBigPapi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    new to your channel and of course noted that this was in 2020 my bad but just like you said how can i get the fragrance through the laptop so i guess i'll have to pay full price

  • @Thebreadedfurflinger
    @Thebreadedfurflinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Again another awesome information/video,1 change that throws people off is as a Veteran eye contact is of top importance,but situational awareness is a close second,so as I talk to others,I look around & head on a swivel,just my training & background throws some off but most understand

  • @juergenschmitt245
    @juergenschmitt245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Never get a second Chance to make a first impression 👍

  • @MrMaklink
    @MrMaklink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great advice!!! And as a side note, where did you get the jacket you're wearing in the video?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      H&M. I tried to find a link to post here, but I couldn’t find the exact jacket on their website.

  • @foesfly3047
    @foesfly3047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the stripper picture 😀

  • @robertofont1878
    @robertofont1878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a way to start my day...as always! For me it is so important to be a positive impression on myself. I don’t want to get sloppy particularly when it is so easy during these times. Something that bothers me, in addition to all you mentioned, are long, dirty fingernails. UGH!
    John, it bears repeating, you are the premier fashion & lifestyle therapist/ consultant. I have yet to see you unfashionably dressed or give advice that cannot be applied for self improvement. I have gone Instagram and checked your photos and made notes on the looks I want employ for myself. This has been extremely helpful. I have generally been confident in my wardrobe and helping other men in what to wear but you have brought me to a higher level. I have learned so much from you. I “fashion” you as the Jiminy Cricket to my Pinocchio. You have become my fashion conscious. Thank you!
    Going to order the Pete & Pedro samples now.
    Thinking about you. Be well.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many thanks Roberto! Appreciate your comment!

  • @sunsetsandboats2983
    @sunsetsandboats2983 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video as always. Shame the sponsor doesn’t ship to the UK disappointing.

  • @BNehls08
    @BNehls08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would like to make the suggestion that to find a good colone join a colone of the month club. Last year I did that and bought some that I would never have found on my own.

  • @ron74555
    @ron74555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I picked up some Hero a while back really like it. I prefer it to some much more expensive and popular colognes that I own. Gets compliments regularly and lasts the whole day. Highly recommended if you like a fresh, citrus type scent similar to the original Aqua Di Gio.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, exactly! Thank you for commenting!

  • @rj9617
    @rj9617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very useful tips. Speaking of smell, it's been over 40 years and I still remember the putrid odor of the cream chipped beef served up by my elementary school cafeteria. Ugh!

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha! Thanks RJ!

    • @45auto82
      @45auto82 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In USAF Basic Training the mess hall served chipped beef in cream gravy except it smelled and tasted great! The nickname for it was of course...”SOS”, 😆

  • @ttop64
    @ttop64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi John. Great tips today to incorporate in daily life . BTW I actually thought those fried Brussel sprouts looked pretty tasty. Brussel sprouts fan here. Peace. : )

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha! I guess I'm in the minority! :)

  • @keithosorio8598
    @keithosorio8598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great information. I am surprised how important scents are. I was at the gym today and this woman walked by, she smelled so good I almost commented.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you didn’t? 😃

    • @keithosorio8598
      @keithosorio8598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@40OverFashion Lol! Gyms are interesting places when you are my age. 90% of the people in the gym are younger and most a lot younger. The last thing I want is the reputation as the creepy old man!

  • @MAGNUTUDE7
    @MAGNUTUDE7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometime could you talk about music 🎶 🤔 at a house party? People play inappropriate music and it drives me crazy.

  • @SMH24.7
    @SMH24.7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AHA...! I see you're rocking that Orient Mako XL with the luminous white dial...! In person it looks 10 times as expensive as it really is...! Good choice, got the black one. And it's not like it's a fake or a "wannabe ...!"

  • @Spanede
    @Spanede 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great list brother, it was pleasant to get a reminder to take of ourselves during these difficult times 👍
    Hygiene is number one for me, unless you want to stay single 😸. Regarding clothes, I believe it's more important they are pressed, clean and fit right.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said! Thanks for commenting!

  • @thekeeper5588
    @thekeeper5588 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 33..I just subscribed to the channel as an informational investment for my future,so don’t let me down.
    Lol just kidding,your doing a good job and I appreciate the video’s.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ha! I’ll try not to! Thanks for watching!

  • @45auto82
    @45auto82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi John, Q for you ref men and how we smell: Whats your answer to underarm deodorant? Unless you find one of those matched sets, you can’t really get a matching deodorant fragrance. What about the conflict in smells? I cannot use an antiperspirant because evidently I am allergic to the aluminum in most. Thanks for any answers.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great question! Unfortunately, are use anti-perspirant so I don’t really have to worry too much about matching that Fragrance. Try to find some type of very mild fresh scent.

  • @AGentlemansJourney77
    @AGentlemansJourney77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you stash any kind of fragrance/cologne in your car, you risk spoiling it much sooner as the sunlight and just a hot vehicle will damage the chemicals and oils. Enjoyed the video however, John. Would love to see a video for blue collar workers some time.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that’s true. Thanks for commenting Chad! Thanks for the suggestion!

  • @tedwilliams765
    @tedwilliams765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been away for a while.
    What's do think of me buying a denim jacket with paint splatter design
    Its kind of flashy, I will be 72..New years eve,Great Video as always.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Ted! It’s not really my style, but if you like it, rock it.

    • @tedwilliams765
      @tedwilliams765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@40OverFashion Thanks!!Keep up the great work!!

  • @nico3641
    @nico3641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For the last 8 months, I’ve spent 98% of my time at home. I go out to the doctor, get groceries, or get takeout at a restaurant. Are people doing much else during this pandemic? Are people going to social gatherings and taking a bottle of wine?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. Also, this video will be on TH-cam for many years. I'm confident that a vaccine will soon be available.

    • @andyniblett8986
      @andyniblett8986 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not in the u.k we aren't

  • @kh1024
    @kh1024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the name of the jacket you are wearing? Where did you get it?

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s from H&M. I tried to find a link for it, but I couldn’t see it on their site

  • @johnlane6459
    @johnlane6459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi John, thanks too you and OG I’ve totally changed the way I dress. At 52 I wish I’d made the changes earlier but as you say it’s never to late. I just need this lockdown to end in the U.K. so I can start wearing the new gear. 🤠

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fantastic! Thanks for your comment John!

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video with suggestions that are easy to implement. It’s funny, I used to work with a guy(in his 30’s) that would try and convince me that it is a scientific fact that swearing is a sign of intelligence.😂

  • @naveenbindal1066
    @naveenbindal1066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really want all these three fragrances HERO, REBEL , KING . Will I be able to receive in India, can it be delivered in India??? Request to please let me know asap.
    Regards.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment! Please check their website for shipping.

  • @soldado2027
    @soldado2027 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video and strippers that wear sweats and Sunday dresses get all the tips 😅😅😅

  • @daddytubewatches
    @daddytubewatches 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thumbnail - my wife is Japanese very very addictive breed of women.

  • @masculineguy37
    @masculineguy37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video but bad timing perhaps as most people almost don't meet and/or see eachother for 9 months. Will save your vid for soon i hope ;-)

  • @mebeasensei
    @mebeasensei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1) eye contact and smile
    2) pleasant
    3) manners and showing respect ... bring something if you are a guest.
    4) be patient and don’t interrupt. ....thank the host.....leave the bottle...have a paper
    5) cologne ...use it
    6) spam....ads start....check out here

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for noticing the roughly 90 second ad in a 9 minute long video. For a second there, I thought you might miss it.

    • @mebeasensei
      @mebeasensei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@40OverFashion once I am invested in the idea of cologne, and it’s spam, I start to question the other ideas in the vid too. Are they hooks for future sponsors too? I hope to see other ad models for TH-cam one day.

    • @iamsom9002
      @iamsom9002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Time saver

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just say ‘stuff together ‘. M

  • @phillipmoodie9071
    @phillipmoodie9071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    John. Good advise, but it just lists the mistakes that I have 70 years of my life trying to rectify. Of course I am well aware of my imperfections because equally ill mannered people take great delight in telling me. So I will have to remember to really care about offending people. Lol !!! Phil.

  • @milekrizman
    @milekrizman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:47 lingerie

  • @ninjip3460
    @ninjip3460 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content, except Pete and Pedro, I regret spending my hard earned money in their perfumes

  • @brunopaolucci6594
    @brunopaolucci6594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey John: great video. I would rather smell your dad’s sugo, than a Pete and Pedro’s cologne.