What Do Women Want Over 40 | Dating Tips Over 40
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Great info. My wife has told me that she was first attracted to my style and my confidence. We were out with mutual friends and later in the night, we all went to a 24-hour diner. We were having great fun and really connecting. So I took a big risk, I just opened my flip phone (yes this was some years ago) set it to add new contact, and handed it to her with a big smile. I did it lightheartedly but with the confidence of Patton. She grabbed the phone and put her name and number in and handed it back to me with a big sexy smile. I remember thinking "damn that actually worked!" We now have four kids and are best friends. :D
Well played!
This still works today
Good for you!
I'm Super Happy for you and your wife's good fortune!!! Cherish it Forever !!!
Usually it doesn't.
I think you're spot on, John. I'm looking forward to Part II.
Thank you!
Nicely done and well thought out.
Great as always John!
Great advice! You are spot on especially with last point! Thank you
Sounds good to me.
The loss of ambition (desire) and confidence (belief) hit me a while ago. I'm working on restoring them to long-lasting and meaningful levels, hence my interest in style channels.
Thank you very much for watching!
Great points.
Someone needs to make this video for women over 40!
The style/dress thing is HUGE, and most men don't realise it. Younger women don't care as much, but for older women, especially 35+, it really matters.
Last year I decided to upgrade my wardrobe and bought some nicer coats, jackets, jumpers, shoes etc, and I noticed a difference in how women responded to me, including ones in my immediate social circle.
It really does make a difference, and older men who want to date should take their general overall appearance more seriously when trying to meet women.
Absolutely!
Thanx for the advise wiseman.
Awesome content John! #2 very worthwhile!
Good one. Would love to see episode 2
Thank you John, this is fantastic advice. I even got my note book out to make notes.
Thank you very much!
Awesome video! One of the best I have seen here on TH-cam. Thank you and well done!
This was a good watch John. Looking forward to part 2. Have a great week. 👍
Thank you very much!
True story: Many years ago when I was single, I finally gave up and decided to follow the George Costanza “do the opposite” approach. It worked better than what I had been doing and I now have been happily married for 23 years. I wish I had had some of your advice back then.
Thanks for watching and commenting Robin!
@@40OverFashion You should do a video like this except with 40-65 subjects
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Do the opposite is the same as doing nothing?
@@asmrfoodieuk7965 Not really. It is taking actions that go against what your gut is telling you.
@@RobinsWatchJourney going against your gut? 🥴
Good stuff John. I appreciate the videos. Thanks for doing all our homework too. 🙃
Thank you for watching!
Make a part #2 , good job and keep the info comeing.!!!👌🙂
Thanks mate. Nice and simple.
Excellent John, looking forward to next video.
Thank you!
KEEP IT UP THANK YOU
I love the Videos; not in my 40's but great information to help me plan things out for the future. Thank you
Nice work.
Thanks
That was a very good video on a tough subject. Keep up the great work.
Great Video. Very Inspiring. Keep them coming. Enjoy watching them.
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching!
Perfectly stated. Enjoyed your video
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love to hear part 2 John.
Thank you Peter!
You are 💯 on point, can’t agree more
John I agree with you but I think there is one item missing, dancing. I’m 75 and have dancing all my life and every lady likes to be asked to dance, EVERY LADY. I may not be Fred Astaire but when I’m on the dance floor my job is to make a lady look good and feel like Ginger Rogers.
This is true...It's almost mandatory and borderline cliché for single women on dating apps to put they do salsa and bachata.
I totally agree!I go out and dance with men who want to dance and dance with me! I'm a really good dancer have been dancing all my life. Imalways friendly,but not flirty. I don't represent myself as looking for a date. Just fun and conversation on an adult respectful level.
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My father says the same thing. Started ballroom dancing in his late 40s/50s and he has all kinds of women lining up for a dance. Not just at the events.
Amen brother!! I'm 57 and dancing has helped me. In all ways.
great video John!
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you for sharing.. its helpful and informative ❤😍😍😍
Thanks John again and again.
Pure Gold my Man! Yes part II please.
Very good content and advice, looking forward to part 2
Thank you!
Right on target. Very informative content. Looking forward for part 2.
Awesome, thank you!
Hi John! Terrific video!!!!!!! Greate info!!!! Im looking foward for part 2!!!!!
Thank you!
Interesting insight
Great video, spot on.
Yes, please make a part 2 John, I think this maybe a topic for a whole series
Thanks Russ!
In a year I'll enter my 40's and after watching a Jordan Peterson video where he talks about dressing up, I found your channel. Great topics, I look forward to listening and learning.
Thank you very much!
Sounds "right on point." I must say that being an older adult (70s) and trying to reestablish goals at this age is terribly difficult even though I'm not in the market for a new partner.
1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
Great topic. Great Tips
Thank you!
Good information.
Hei! This is great knowledge and it's clear it's coming from a great source! It's indeed educative and inspiring.
Great video.
Excellent advice
Well done sir
I just got you sight this morning. I have to say you do a great job. Thank you for posting.
Great video and info John, everyone can use a little help. Thanks 👍😊
Great content - turning 49 this year!
excellent information, John
Thank you!
Hi John, Good content waiting for part II. Thank you
Thanks for watching!
Well said.
The bravest thing a man can do is to take care of himself and his family.
Great video. Very good, sensible advice, much appreciated!
Thanks for watching!
Thank you.
Yes, Part 2, please. This is great "real world" advice that we probably already know but it gets covered up by all the other noise on this topic so it's nice to be reminded.
Thanks Steve! Appreciate your comment!
Ok
Really great honest content,
Thank you!
Nice job on this one!
Thank you!
Great Cliff Notes summary John. Some of the first 3 things I try to find out is, credit score, political affiliation/beliefs, and relationship with family. That'll tell you a lot about any person.
Solid advice
@@eyeheartsushi2212 huge deal in a relationship. Learned it early on thank goodness.
@@Shreadingtongood comment, I add religious (cult) beliefs as well as a red flag
I’m 37 years old now almost 38 this October and I’m already gearing up to be 40 years old in 2024 and I want to attend my High School’s 20th Anniversary in April or May 2024. I’ve become a self -starter small business owner and I’ve got a growing list of business operations on my business plan that I’m going to gear up for when I turn 38, 39 and 40. I’ve been making a network of business contacts with the SBDC and SCORE and the trucking logistics industries. I’m going to soon be a fleet owner and a owner operator later this spring once I secure the business credit funding. I’ve been studying for my CDL Permit to get my Class A CDL so I can have a financial security in the trucking business and the export shipping management business. I’m needing ALL THE HELP I can get right now
I totally agree with you on the subject of money!Your right"most complaints are from men who have no money!I'm one of those"and know the feeling is frustration!And just that!
Wht do u do to earn money or u jobless
Great topic and spot-on John, today's world has changed significantly. Have a great week!
Thank you Steven!
PART 2 PART 2, PLEASE!!!
Very good John, we need more of this, alot of what you are saying is Common sense, but Common sense is not Common, keep it coming, like the %%%
Thank you very much!
Yup, communication is most important.
Lots of great advice.
Thanks for watching David!
this is the first time i see your videos. there're very encouraging and is teaching me something that I like. HOW TO LOOK GOOD. HOW TO DREES A LOT BETTER. THANK YOU VERY MUCH. TAKE CARE AND STAY SAFE. THIS VIDEO IS GOING TO CHANGE MY LIFESTYLE. THANKS AGAIN
Thank you very much!
I like those tips
Good video man....thanks
Thanks for watching!
Happy to see all of your dress sense especially for above forties. Ur videos are morale booster who have assumes that sunshine has gone.
Solid and reassuring advice, just need to fight the depression and get into action. Peace
1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
@@BG-sq7zfdon’t cut, paste, and spam. Makes you look like an idiot
The number one thing women want is security. Whether that be physically, emotionally, financially, or even medically. They're most happy when a good balance exists in the relationship.
Very nice wise message plz send me the next part thanks
I'm married but everything you said works with me and I agree with you 💯%... And of course being a gentleman to a lady is a plus plus... Great topic though 👍
A lot of great advice good comments from you hopefully it'll help some of these guys pull their head out
Thanks Mike!
Interesting. Good points
Thank you!
It was an amazing short lecture! Thanks. Raphael, Rio de Janeiro (Brazil)
Thank you!
Thank you for the video John; where I fail is stepping out of my comfort zone.
I have much the same issue when it comes to trying new routines, or just doing that one new thing I've never tried before.
What I found has helped me is to make the new thing my top priority for the month.
I'm an early riser but not a consistent enough exerciser so I made exercising one of the first things I do in the morning.
Try doing that for 30 days straight and see if you don't find yourself setting aside time to do it bc you've habituated yourself to the goal of ?
And you'll notice you'll start to miss the activity if you can't do it bc you have to go to the doctor.
John. I appreciate your information you share with us. I watch a few different sources to understand women by women, but I look forward to your position and opinions also. Keep up the good work.
I appreciate that! Thank you!
This is a fantastic list of attainable goals... a complete package of what seems to be quite obvious, though, and most unfortunate, it is not... Great job!
Thank you!
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well presented gentleman. Give us more.
I love your channel !
Thank you!
Very. Good. Advise. And. Help.
That was pretty damn good, thanks
Thanks for watching!
Great vid John & spot on advice...
I’d consider adding this tidbit for Those who’re NOT experiencing THEIR desired success; ‘If whatever you’re doing isn’t working, do something else/different...’.
Be intellectually honest w/Oneself first & foremost...
You’re channel provides ‘high quality’ content & for that, I’m very grateful...
I’m headed to NOLA for live music & a brunch date...
Have a great weekend...!!!
Mac😎👍
Thank you very much!
Brilliant I love it keep on educat the unwise
Great infor. and lesson for all the 40 plus
Great on the money
Wow you nailed it 👍🏻
New subscriber here! Love your content . On point !
Thank you very much!
Good video as always. I'd recommend a second one, if not already done. As a 51YO single father in the dating scene, I can attest that these are important to know. Men have to have their stuff together and then look for compatibility items.
Again I want to thank you for mentioning how important it is to get help for your mental health . As a mental health professional it is important for the stigma of getting help be challenged. Especially with men in our age bracket. Please reach out to a professional if you need it. You gave a good resource. Thank you
Thanks for commenting Randy!
Famous Henny Youngman joke. " Hey doc you think I'm crazy" .
If a person is broken good luck you can't fix them. It's their choice.
Oh buy the way to finish the gag.
Doc stays yup your crazy.
Patient says I need a second opinion doc replies your ugly too.
works every time.
No degree required 🤔
Yes
Good points. Would love a part 2 including the best methods to communicate with women over 40. Too much texting today.
Great video! It hit home, and it hurt... I'm disabled, just turned 59, don't own a car, and am trying to repurpose my life after many years away from my career. At this point in my life I don't see myself ever dating again...
James many women would understand but the beginning point is up to you-the short term/ long term of a relationship.
It can start out whenever you know which you want.
James I dont know your handicap but one of my first jobs was working at a rehab unit of Tufts NE Medical Center, Boston. We got mostly males for long term rehab. Paraplegics and quads.The unde r 30s were sports injuries, diving off bridges etc, motorcycle accidents. 30s to 50s were often falls all these were spinal injuries. There are today many therapies to help even quads...I see in your photo you are standing....not sure why you mentioned your disability or what it is. If you are in an urban area there are likely available licensed trained surrogates who can help you....check for sex therapists they may be able to help and often use sex surrogates to do rehab...you are a young good looking man I see in your photo....you most certainly CAN date.
Sybil.Francis PhD clinical psychologist and professor
Just keep moving forward James!
Ok
Don't worry James your not missing out on today's liberal feminism. Unless you're a top 10 percent man they will chew you up and spit you out.No joke!
Really excellent video today John! This is a dimension you offer that goes further into what it is to be a man above the age of 40 than most TH-cam channels! Definitely think this deserves a part 2.
Thank you very much Dan!
Women in their 20s carry much less baggage
well done video
Thanks Jim!
Good content.
Thank you very much!