FTM Transgender Getting Bottom Surgery
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- So I got first stage bottom surgery (metoidioplasty) on the 13th January 2018
Learn more about metoidioplasty here: • How Metoidioplasty Wor...
You can get any combination of the stages that you want - I went for release, and scrotoplasty, with testicular implants at stage 2.
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Ok, retired nurse here, aside from the horrific non-use of pain meds during the hematoma expression, it's unacceptable that his dirty gown was left unchanged. 🤯
Yep nurse here to that really gets to me !
I’m a nurse and I totally agree
Another nurse here & the lack of pain meds infuriated me. And lack of pain meds to take home 😡
@@diannafitzhenry3259 Ex nurse too. That's the new reality, thanks to drug addicts and abusers, normal people have to suffer through all manner of postoperative pain with nothing more than an over the counter pain reliever. It is well documented that pain inhibits healing, but nevermind about that. Just doctors having to cover their butts from lawyers blaming them for someone's eventual drug abuse because they received a dozen Vicodins for postip pain relief. Those people would be drug abusers with or without those dozen Vicodin.
@@FRAME5RS what country are you in? I’m in the us, so the nexus of the opioid epidemic, and the lack of restraint prescribing opioids here is crazy. My dentist prescribed me 20 Vicodin when I got teeth out, and my top surgeon gave me 30 oxy. I feel like if he was in the US he would have been on a morphine drip the whole time. Then again I guess it just depends on the hospital.
Me, watching this is 2021, marvelling over how much he's grown and how LITTLE he is in this video! Omg, he's so grown now, I love it.
same like omg
I’m just starting the video and am apprehensively anxious. 🤭
i’m watching this and i’m marveling at his FEET i’m so jealous i have little us size 7 feet 🥺
Me too. July 2021
sams
When I went to hospital and got really sick, my boyfriend was just stressing out all the time and went home when I really needed him. I'm so happy that your girlfriend is so supportive and caring, it must be so calming
get a new bf he doesnt deserve you love
Damn I think you need a new bf lol
Throw the whole boy away
XD this reply box
I hope you got rid of him. Don't keep someone I your life that won't support you when you need them like that
cannot express how much i love and respect shaaba for being SO supportive, calm, responsible... she was everything someone going through a difficult surgery could've needed. absolute queen
Thank you so much for all the support guys!! I'm passing on all the love to Shaaba as well
Jammidodger so happy for you man. Best wishes.
I would love a video explaining Your surgery was done. I am a trans man who is considering this op but I would like to hear some information about the way it was done on your part. You are so brave and I know that you had gone through a lot. Good luck with your healing and your girlfriend is the best.
Jammidodger I'm super-duper, amazingly happy for you! Very brave decision to get surgery and so, so courageous to share your story. Shaaba is a Saint, and it's acutely obvious that she loves you very much! You're both incredibly blessed to have each other. Hope the healing continues to improve 💜💜💜
Oh my gosh Jamie! I’m so happy for you! I didn’t think you decided to do it, but I’m so happy you did what you felt was best for you! I’m so excited & happy for you! Yay! Feel better soon!
Sending my love to you & to Shaaba!
Well done Jaimie! This was a really unexpected video, I honestly didn't think you went for it, and so quickly as well! Very brave decision, and thank you so much for documenting your experience, it's seriously a valuable resource for so many. Congratulations on your surgery, wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery, and sending much love to both you and Shaaba! You are both inspirational!
Aww, overwhelmed with all the love and support!! Thank you so much for your kind words
Shaaba. I think Jamie can attest to the fact the not every one, let alone someone going through major surgery, has someone by their side through thick and thin and do literally everything for them! You rock... look at yourself in the mirror tomorrow and be like “you know what, I do rock... Jamie, get me chocolate”.
I just found your channel, but I am amazed by the love that you can just feel between the both of you!!! I am so happy I found this channel, and I am really very excited to, I feel, go on his journey with you guys!!! Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Finding someone as supportive as you isn't that common. Also I'm sure to Jamie everything you did is more than special! You guys are honestly such a great couple and just seem like the loveliest people
Standing by someone’s side might not be “special” but it’s incredibly important. Trust me, it might not be even a big deal to you, but to someone who has to be in the hospital, in pain, it’s the world. Especially for sleeping in a hospital chair!
I love that you feel as though you've done nothing out of the ordinary, because you just did what one should do for someone that's close to them. But, there's a lot of people, where when those they care about are supposed to act the way that you have.. don't. They often get betrayed and lose those people all together. So, it's not surprising that they see what you're doing as amazing. I feel the same as you, though. It's just *shrugs* what you do, ya know?
I'm dating this transguy from South Bend, Indiana and he's planning to get the top surgery soon and considering bottom surgery. He's pretty excited about it and it warms my heart to see his eyes light up whenever we're talking about it through a videocall. his enthusiasm about it is adorable. I can't wait to be by his side and support him going through all of it x
all my love from the Philippines~ xx
U dating him? Seriously?
@@clarezellechristy2174 referring to the guy I mentioned in my comment? yea.
@@tracyjoangunot4870 i dunno i just asking 😅😅
Aww hope y’all doing well rn. Definitely stay safe, and I wish y’all the best of lucks ❤️❤️❤️
Off topic but I live 15 min from south bend indiana ! so its crazy to see someone mentioning it lol hope all is well 😊
"If I let the scary take over, I'm never gonna get this done". I feel that about top surgery atm.
Maybe that's a big reason I haven't been as persistent. I am scared of surgery in general.
I've put it off through learning about my autism and other things.
But I also am reaching a point of being very tired of being labeled female by family and friends. Despite mostly not letting it bother me, I want to move forward and be seen as myself.
Also roommate situations are uncertain on safety while I go through the healing process. So that worries me. I don't want to be helpless if something happens.
Anyway, that part and all process up to today has spoken to me and helped. So thank you. I hope to reach where I feel comfortable someday soon.
How did it go?
@@ler8957 I haven't had it done yet, unfortunately. Life's been busy, plus the whole covid thing. Hopefully soon tho. :) Just waiting to make sure the roommates we get are trustworthy first.
Yeah you want to be comfortable with who you live with regardless of surgery. That’s a load of stress off in itself for life in general! 👌
I feel this I am going to come out to my parents today and I am very scared. But I know it will be worth it in the end. I just hope my dad reacts well otherwise I am going to be screwed. Sending love a positive vibes! Hopefully you can get the treatment you need to be a happier person!!!
@@ler8957finally had it done 6 days ago now. Went really good. Ended up being a lot less painful & scary than I thought.
I gotta say... Shaaba is actually amazing.
ChukchiCatori agreed
ChukchiCatori I wanna like this, but it's at 222 likes now and that looks so cool. 😍
Yes! She's awesome!!
i agree. she's the most amazing girlfriend
ChukchiCatori truly! ❤ so much love for these two. Couple goals gets thrown around a lot, but I truly feel like these two make such a power couple, through thick and thin. ❤
Not quite halfway through, but as a retired nurse I have to comment how angry I am that they did not give you analgesia or gas and air to squeeze the haematoma. It is completely unessasary for a patient to be in pain at any stage of treatment, even emergency. As I said, gas and air should have been given. (End rant) x
Second rant, how dare they leave you in a dirty gown. Fgs they should check you regularly
@@Rose_from_UK your patients would've been so lucky to have you, you sound amazing 💕
absolutly nothun not lucky at all that’s proper procedure
@@maddi66515 I don't get what you're saying?
Imogen Tredwell they meant, that’s how that’s supposed to go-
Man Jamie is so young back then, even though it was 3 years ago-
* sigh * 2019 feels like a millennia ago
You are so brave !
I was born a girl and always felt I was a boy -
I grew up making my self forget all this because I was scare - now is to late - I am 51 now !
Bless you
It’s never too late! There are plenty of older people who transition, you should do what makes you happy.
Im much younger than you so maybe this doesn’t mean much, but I hope you have a great day
Not too late to transition if you want. Also, at your age, it is likely that anything you could have possibly lost (like fertility) is no longer an issue. Hence, fewer cons to it now. :)
Do whatever makes you feel good.
Do what feels right, whenever it does! But if top surgery, bottom surgery, just social transitioning, HRT, binding feels right? Do it if you want it!!
never too late :) hope you’re doing well
Please don't ever forget how dangerous all of this surgery and testosterone is for Jamie. I'm a dyke just in my 60s and until 2 years ago I hadn't started finally seeing what insanity doctors have wrath on our societies.
I'm glad you feel better now, Jaime! And I'm happy Shaaba is by your side :)
Kovu is a unicorn hi kovster
One fav trans youtuber watches the other one. I love you two so much
i love you and your content!
Hi Kovu!
Hey I drew a picture of you for an art project! (I hope that doesn’t sound weird or creepy lol)
Shaaba is such a wonderful person and so supportive! I'm so glad she was there to help take care of you. You're both an amazing couple.
Exactly this! Couldn't describe it better. Love you both
As the mother of a Transexual woman, I found your video diary very informative, optimistic, and inspiring. I know that male to female is vastly different from female to male, but I think that what you are feeling inside and what you are thinking might be similar and seeing how you have handled it gives me an insight into what is ahead for my ‘ daughter ‘ and your beautiful fiancee has inspired me greatly by the wonderful example she is. My wish for you both, is a future filled with love, kindness, happiness and contentment. It is a privilege to see the handsome man you have always been come out of the shadows and into the light. Be happy. xx
I'm so glad that you're researching and trying to understand your daughter!
What a brave and amazing young man you are. Sending hugs to you from the USA.
The UK too!! :) (england to be specific)
I'm a male to non binary pre any surgery and I agree idk if I'm gonna get bottom surgery but it's one of my main sources of dysphoria so yeah
lol dude your profile picture has me craving a mocha from a cafe
Um... No disrespect intended, but SHE is still a woman. I can't in my logical mind accept something that isn't a fact.
@@SilverStarFour Yeah no it's He. I understand you may think that but it's he. So please don't call Jamie she because it's very dehumanising and not very nice. So please just respect their decision and call him by the pronouns they'd like to be called by
Everyone deserves a Shaaba. She is so supportive and helpful.
Jam n' Toast She's incredible!!
Murderers don’t deserve her wonderful soul
And trump
Hah -- everyone deserves a Jaime too! Ironically I have a friend Jaime who now I expect more from... :-P!
@@keyshanarichard9601 I'd bet you were trying to be insulting.. but your reply can and should be seen as "Murderers don't deserve trump, who's comparable to Shaaba's wonderful soul"..
Yep, the perfect co-dependent to a narcissistic soul.
Boiii your hair looks so good this long. I love it
Riley Day Yes! im so into it 👌😅
Riley Day OH MY GOD I SAW YOUR PROFILE PIC AND I THOUGHT YOU WERE ME BEFORE I CUT MY HAIR
"It's worth it because it's what I want."
No more needs to be said.
@@radubradu Theres actually a psychological disorder which makes someone belive one of their limbs is not their own causing them to try to cut said limb off, does the hospital out them trought surgery to remove the limb? No, they put them in a psych ward and try to help them not want to cut their limb off, but trans people are allowed too and supported in it.
Actually more needs to be said, should i be allowed to and supported in taking drugs, drinking gasoline or killing myself just because its what i want?
@@eiavops4576 facts
@@eiavops4576 agree
holy shit is this reply section awful
When he said where she splet I literally wanted to cry, she is such an a amazing person. And I'm so proud of them both for getting through that.
Yes, such amazing little attention seekers
@@-DarthLesbian420- Please elaborate what you mean by "Attention Seekers" ^^.
@DarthLesbian420 Yes, because he got two- no, three or more surgeries, injected himself with hormones, and went through a whole fuck ton of pain for attention. Ah, I see, that makes sense.
No disrespect intended, but SHE is still a woman. Feelings =/= biological facts. These things stay the same. If I woke up one morning and decided to become Oprah, and I changed my appearance with surgeries and everything to the extent where nobody could tell the difference between me and Oprah. I still cannot BE Oprah.
@@SilverStarFour hi! If you actually cared for the science and “biology” you would know that after a long time of being on hormones, having surgeries, etc. trans people turn into a more intersect version of the gender they transitioned to. Chromosomes are not the only determining factor of biological sex.
*Congrats, Jamie!* 💙
I think everyone who's seen Shaaba's vlogs are glad to know that everything is good with you. :)
Hi, I'm the grandma of a transgender grandson. He is thinking metoidioplasty. Is this the type of surgery you had or did you have the other? I only know of two. But, I'm trying to find out more about these surgeries and transgender issues of any kind. Thank you for posting your journey.
Hey, I had metoidioplasty :) There are a few other videos on TH-cam about this procedure - I would recommend checking out the channel of someone called Leo Mateus. He had a slightly different version of this surgery to me, and has also documented it.
Your grandson might also find a sight called Transbucket useful. It has images of all kinds of different trans related surgery results from different surgeons, including metoidioplasty.
Jammidodger Thank you so much. This is completely new to me. We didn't really talk about these issues when I was young. But I'm very glad that my grandson can be open and honest and live his life happy and healthy.
Jammidodger I'm praying that you can be happy, healthy, and as loved as my grandson. Thank you!!
Jammidodger We do have a while to think about the best idea for him. He just started on testosterone a couple of months ago. Just trying to get opinions about all different SRS types. Thank you so much.
Nona Nona I just want to say that you seem like an awesome grandma! You grandson is so lucky to have you.
“ the love of my life is in the doorway” I LOVE IT
I can’t even imagine what it has been to go through what you’ve gone through in your young life ! What courage it takes for trans folk to correct natures mistake . All the best to you
@Tony Lewis Imagine being so low on self esteem and care for people that you go out of your way to complain about a trans person living their best life.
@Tony Lewis
You are living proof that nature does make mistakes
@@charadreemurr874 I don‘t think nature formed his opinion/view on this matter. But it‘s the nature of humans to have an own view on sth. Is that a mistake? It doesn‘t make someone a bad person to have a different view than the majority of people. He can still treat people well and respect them. Disagreement is not hate or disrespect. An opinion can be articulated in a disrespectful way though. And there are views which are considered inhumane or disrespectful from many people. Some see it as hate when someone thinks being trans is a mentally caused, based thing. I don‘t think of it as hate when the suffering is still perceived as such. It‘s a valid opinion to question invasive risky surgeries, to question the physical treatment of a mentally caused condition. You wouldn‘t tell any selfharming person to go on doing it just bc it helps reducing inner pain or dissociation, right? And that‘s how some people see the „trans surgeries“. Assisted self harm. Are they haters bc of that? Maybe some are, but not bc of the opinion. Some real haters may use this view to act hateful but not everyone with this opinion is a hater.
I think there are many young people who think they are trans just bc that is what they find most talked about in relation to dysphoria and dysmorphia and it can lead many of them to a dangerous path. That‘s a bit off topic but I still think it‘s an important point to think about, even for med. profs, therapists lately. Without invalidating anyone‘s feelings or identity it would be important to have more differentiated discussions on the broad matter. Too much is thrown into a single pot imo. There will be a group of very regretting people in the coming years if we don‘t have a discussion about that.
@877swissmiss
I agree that operation at a young age shouldn’t be possible. An operation like that should only be accessible for adults, because as you have said, you can’t be that sure about something so big at a young age.
Shaaba: “You’re amazingly brave so go you”
Jamie: “I couldn’t have done it without you”
Shaaba: “Shut up, do your vlog”
😂😂
So happy for you!! ❤️❤️❤️
‘My genitals hurt and we’re in a car’ sounds like some kind of adult video
LOL
So what you’re saying is.... it’s the title of his sex tape
Weird Potato Demon B99?
It's coz he went stage 2 testicals 😂 Haha I'm hilarious... I had to.
lol
“The love of my life is in the doorway”
Why is it so adorable why are they so adorable also I’m now crying because as someone in a long distance relationship that sentence is probably the most emotional sentence you could hear because it means they are THERE with you which is rare and beautiful.
Also I’m so happy for you getting bottom surgery
I've had 2 unmediated vaginal deliveries, a c section, and back surgery, but I still think you went through more. I was holding my breath as a reaction to your pain, and worrying about you, even though I found your channel over a yr After your surgery. Very brave young man. 👍🏾
What a load of shit
@@-DarthLesbian420- wow calm down
@@-DarthLesbian420- no
@@nikkibella1607 let people say their opinion.
@@alicedeligny9240 if they're opinion has been proven by science to be false, I can say that what they said is incorrect.
I felt the same way after I had my surgery, during the recovery time I only felt regret because of the amount of pain I was in. Then my body rejected the catheter and created stones which caused more pain. It was the same for me, out of all the surgeries they've done I was the third person who's body rejected it but it was an easy fix when I had stage 2. Now that it's been a few of months, I'm honestly extremely happy I had the surgery. It feels amazing knowing that my transition is done 👍🏼 congrats on finishing yours! Here's to bigger and better things in the future!
Foolish
Wambo Wambo yes, you're extremely foolish, no need to announce yourself. ;)
bamstfu sorry
100 000 Subscribers Without Vedios Maybe don't ask invasive questions about the genitals of strangers
congratulations!!! i was wondering, i wanted to ask someone who's done it, how much does it cost?
Shaaba’s little “I’m so happy you’re safe” made my heart hurt 💛 you guys are so cute, I’m not an avid fan, but I’m so happy you’re okay 💛💛💛
You're both so precious, oh my world. Relationship goals to say the least.
"stop it! It's just for you!" best girlfriend ever. I teared up a bit, what a sweetheart.
I have so much respect for trans people who get bottom surgery.
respect for all trans people, you mean. it's painful regardless of hormones or ANY surgery, it's painful even for transfolk who can't do either for medical or financial reasons. Probably more painful, because drugs are less effective for emotional pain than physical pain. I had top surgery and it didn't hurt that much because I was so happy not to have boobs anymore and because I have a high pain tolerance. I can't always afford my testosterone injections, but I both love and hate them. It's really hard to stick even an inch long needle in myself, and it used to be a much bigger needle. I almost passed out the first few times I did it myself lol. I'll never get any bottom surgery because I can't afford it. I don't know if I would if I could afford it, but you should respect the decision of every transperson whether they decide to have bottom surgery or not.
Jay Lovesu ouch
Jay Lovesu what are people supposed to do live with hurt about how they look feeling disgusting in the mirror every day stfu go “preach” somewhere else because that’s not it an judging her who are you got or something no stfu stay in your own lane they aren’t doing anything to you stop being so evil
*him
@@jaylovesu4718 all of us are meant to improve. Not stay as we are If you are born a salty bitch, you are meant to change and become a better wholesome human. Looks like you didn't realise that.
OMG I'm so happy for yooooou!!!! Saw Shabba's vlogs so knew you had surgery but it's awesome to find this out. Hope your recovery goes well! Sending tons of love to you, shabba and kitty❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Drain removal.... 😖..... I have flashbacks to having mine out when I got my gallbladder removed and omfg.... that was horrendous. I’m so glad everything went well in the end and you are still here with us all. And shoutout to Shaaba for being amaze balls!
the waddle bro 😭 i feel that. im so happy for you even though im two years late, i hope i can grow up to be as brave as you. im still very young, but im already very sure of my identity, im out to my parents and friends, and im working on coming out to the world soon. i might be getting a gender therapist soon and im hoping to get diagnosed with gender dysphoria, so i can start hormones earlier than usual. thank you for posting what you do, it helps people a lot. you're so inspiring, and shaaba's the best.
I'm exactly in your situation right now. I hope your'e doing ok nathan
Ima boutta sub to both of u-
IS THAT A DAILTOWN PFP I SEE??? I didn’t even have to read the whole message to know you were some sort of queer lmao
Congrats Jamie! I'm so happy for you! Sorry it didn't quite go as planned and that there were bumps in the road. I'm just glad that you're okay.
I've always been on the fence about bottom surgery just because I'm worried about complications and multiple surgeries, not to mention the cost here in America. I also want to see if it'll improve even more to be more realistic in terms of erection.
Glad I'm not the only one on the fence about bottom surgery. I'm two months on testosterone and bottom growth for me is fine atm, but I'm still considering it later on down the road
Mordecai Russell i just feel like there'd be a bit of me sad that it wont be 100% "real". I'm almost 3 years on T. I might feel different after getting a hysto though
watching him make his way down the stairs around 21:00 and where he switched feet around the second to last stair was so cute for some reason and it made me so happy to watch this progress
Four blood tests, three canulars, two drains and a partridge in a pear tree.
My son is gay and he said he doesn’t need a partner. As a nurse in a genital urinary surgeons and I saw something I will never forget it. A young couple brought their infant child into the clinic and the surgeon asked them what gender did they want for their child. 😳
Jammi, you are a truly beautiful person. You went through hell man. It's such a deeply personal experience. You've been so kind to graciously take us along with you.
I appreciate the opportunity to see a glympse into your life, so I can learn from it. I want to treat people as people. There are so many challenges you talked about that I never even thought of.
Thank you so much. If you ever end up in Seattle, it would be awesome to give you a hug.
I was worried why you weren't uploading videos, but I'm so happy for you getting bottom surgery! Congrats and hopefully the rest of your surgery goes well with less complications than the first (hopefully none, but just in case), much love to you and Shaaba!
Congratulations on your surgery Jamie,speedy recovery your way
Your such lovely people . ..ive never heard of bottom surgury before. I never realises it could be done. ....absolutely amazing. .I wish you both happiness xxxx
You're amazing, for somebody who didnt know it could be done you're awfully supportive, you should see the hate around here on this video.
I don't know why this was on my feed but, just wanted to say. I hope you are happy and doing well. I can't imagine being in the wrong body and I'm glad that you are finding a way to be you and happy. God bless.
Ikr also not trans but it seems so hard
It’s kind of weird but I don’t know if it’s the wrong body per say. Like for me personally at least, I’m trans. I would be different if I wasn’t. I’m a man, so my body is a mans body, even if it has different parts then what we associate with “men.” My doctors the only one who has to know what those parts are. Sorry if that doesn’t make sense. :0
@@lawrencescales9864 I think I do understand. I want you to know I respect you and wish you only the best. I hope you have a wonderful life and the support of family and friends.
@@lawrencescales9864 this is confusing :/
I thought the title was a joke at first, but man I'm so happy for you! I'm sorry you had some complications but I'm so excited you're okay and that you're finally closing a big chapter in your life. Much love to you guys💖
Even with the complications, I gotta say... I’m so incredibly jealous and proud of you. 😅 You’re so far along in your transition! Someday I hope to be where you are
How's it going, king?
How’s your transition going 3 year later?
i hope your transition is going well!
How’s your transition going
Omg your username is a vocal warmup we do in theatre, thats super cool!! I hope you’re doing well!
(Here it is to the best of my memory for anyone who is wondering)
“To sit in solemn silence
On a dull dark dock
In a pestilential prison
with a life-long lock
Awaiting the sensation
Of a short, sharp, shock
From a cheap and chippy chopper
On a big black dock.”
I seriously love how your hair looks in this video like- ITs SO DANG CUTEEEEE
1:57 I thought he said I’ve been “hung” for about three days now. I almost burst out laughing.
Damn you kept that quiet 😂 Congrats tho man 👍😊
You, sir, are an absolute rockstar for going through this! Shaaba is amazing too. I don’t think there’s anybody else like her! How supportive.
I just found your channel recently via TH-cam's bizarre 'next recommended' rabbit hole, and I am thrilled I did. I've been binge watching for days now. You are a fantastic role model and educator. I can't imagine but the joy and the pain that this brought :)
Also, has anyone told you that you look like a young Adam Driver in some of your videos? LOL this one especially :)
Thank you for documenting this! I want to be there for my friends and try and understand what they will go through and how to help when they start transitioning. Even though they probably won’t soon because their parents aren’t supportive(we’re in high school). I want to support them the best I can whenever they start! I’m so proud of you for going through this surgery as well!
Congraaaaaaats! Happy you’re doing better, and sorry about the complications
Bless your heart Jamie! Daring to live and not being ashamed to be you. Is the scariest thing in the world, more scary than any surgery. And well... look at you conquering both! You’ve got an amazing fiancé and I hope that we can all find our halves, just as you two have done! Big hugs to you and Shabba, here’s to your continued healing 🤗
“You’re completely underplaying it. Let me join in”
“Shaaba is joining in”
🤣🤣🤣
i'm a really young transguy(still in middle school), and my parents are very unsupportive - but watching things like this really makes me happy. even though this was painful and hard for you, it makes me happy to think that maybe someday, my dysphoria will be mostly gone. it really helps to think about the future and what i hope i'll look like. i really love your videos, my dude(i know this is an old video, aha).
I know, I feel the same way. I'm in high school, but I'm not out to my parents, so I just have to remember that one day I can have top surgery and be able to walk around shirtless and sleep shirtless, and other things like that.
And fiance of the century goes to... * drumroll * ... SHAABA
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@@jeanevoy4691 p
AAAANNNNDDDD NEW UNDISPUTED TH-cam FIANCE OF THE WORLD SHAABA
I have an exam tomorrow, I can't watch it now because I haven't revised anything yet (I just started) but as I received the Notification I came here x) I hope you're doing fine and you'll recover soon and well ! Proud of you
ME TOO OMG
Seam haha ! Good luck to us then :D
Sabrina Ouenzar AYY yea! might pull an all nighter to get this done haha, physics man...
Seam Oh yeah I feel you x) I have Immunology tomorrow :'( but I have to get my sleep T^T
Sabrina Ouenzar i just have to finish these last two paragraphs, make a test to prepare myself and learn my notes. it's 10:30 pm and my mom is SO PISSED hahah
I cant even see you as a woman. Wow what a great job. I know you feel so much like how you felt inside on the outside. Blessings to you. I hope you are doing amazingly well. ❤️
You're both such angels omg. 💖 How lucky to have such loving supportive people in your life during this difficult recovery period. So glad you're happy with the results!! 😊
Fair play all round, its important that people see both sides of surgery, the good and the bad it shows that not everything and everyone has it go right everytime, it also shows that the human body can cope with alot of issues, so happy for you and hats off to shabs always good to have that support, look forward to further updates
“Something bigs happened” 😏
The Everyday Eveline The text alone is not too bad. The text *and* the face suddenly become comical.
So I love the fact that you watched the whole series of Friends while in recovery! It’s my favorite show, I know most episodes by heart, and it made me smile that you watched that series!!!!
Even though you were in a lot of pain during all this, you kept your sense of humor 😂! Good luck to you in your complete healing. ❤️
Aaaaaaaaa! I’m so happy! I screeched when I saw the upload and I’m still screeching! I just so happened to stay home today from school soooo I didn’t have to miss the upload I’m very happy for you! You are a huge inspiration to me being I myself am a trans guy. Ironically today I have to go into the hospital for personal reasons so I’m gonna be watching this and your videos the whole time! You’re amazing keep being amazing! :)
Hi! I'm also a transboy and watching you has helped my journey a lot. This video, while making me terrified, made me really excited to transition in the future! Shaaba was amazing and I'm so happy you have someone like her to be by your side in this crazy journey. I hope you continue to feel better, love you both!!
Hey, it's been two years! How are you? :)
@@mynamedoesntmatter2650 im good im starting t soon actually 👁
@@shaynemercury2651 That's freakin amazing bro!! I'm so proud and happy for you 🥺
Also wow i didn't expect you to answer so quickly 😳
@@shaynemercury2651 Sorry you were so deeply brainwashed, your parents failed you entirely
@@shaynemercury2651 this gives me hope. In two years, hopefully I'll be on T too. congrats man.
You two make me so emotional. So happy for all the good things that have happened for you both, you deserve it after all the trials. X
Man, I love watching binge watching your vids Jammi. I wish I found you're Q&A with your parents before my parents passed away that might have helped them understand a bit more. Wasn't until a week before my dad died he started calling me son. I still tear up when I talk about it and it's been a year. -Joe
Congrats! I'm pre everything but get my first binder on sunday (my birthday) and i love to see your Journey and think that i can be a man in my body one day. So Congratulations and thanks 🌈
Signe Swordstar happy early birthday, and good luck!
Signe Swordstar you are a man xx the transition just makes your body match :)
Molten Kitty yeah, i know. I just didnt know how to Write it but i think i fixed it 🌈
Woah, three years ago. I love my binders, I have a few, I have been to my first pride parade, I changed name again, I love everything
Shaaba is literally amazing. I'm so glad you're healing well now Jamie, I'm so happy for you!
Whew doggy! I'm watching this 12/2021, and I'm amazed at your bravery. I've had 7 surgeries in my life, and none compare to what you've been through.
When Shaaba held out her hands to show the amount of the drain that was inside your body, it reminded me of how I felt after I'd had my panniculectomy done. I had 2 JP drains afterwards since I was cut hip to hip. The first drain came out without issues. The 2nd one was in for 4 weeks, and I was dumbfounded how long it was when it finally came out.
Anyway, many congrats for taking the steps necessary to feel comfortable in your own skin. I think momentary buyer's remorse after surgery is normal, but I'm glad that you realized it was a passing worry and not permanent regret. Much love from Bristol, Connecticut, USA!
OH MY GOD! CONGRATULATIONS, JAMMI! im really sorry you have go through so much pain though :/
But im also kinda jealous, i wont ever have enough money for top surgery, much less bottom :T
Obsidian Scythe same im jealous aha
come to germany, we have a wannabe obama care
Yeah. Me too 😔
Obsidian Scythe last year Irish health service funded 28 trans guys top and bottom surgeries to U.K. free of charge.
Here in The Netherlands all medication and surgery's to transition are covered by healt insurence, i only have to pay a risk fee, which is standard for every citicen that uses health care, ONce you exceed that aount the rest of the care is for free, I am happy for Jamie he finaly got to get his bottom surgery :)
You are so blessed to have such a wonderful support system! Shaaba is one amazing person! Glad you are feeling better. Blessings to y’all!
"it's gonna be a ten minute thing"
*is almost half an hour long*
You have the most supportive fiancé ever! Like she’s amazing. But the whole transition seems so intense like woah.
Jamie is so adorable. He reminds me of Phil Lester and maybe its because of the accent but omg he's such a lil ray of sunshine
I'm mtf and had a kinda similar issues. I had a huge hematoma and ended up being out of work for a month then ended up getting an infection and had to have a second surgery. I'm a year post-op and still occasionally have pain in the area. I'm still glad I had surgery but I don't think I'd go to the same surgeon. Surgery is serious stuff, do your research and make sure you know what you're doing! Glad you're finally getting better!
Christian woman from Simferopol Polina Lantukh I think you're looking at her life through your story, and in that case, of course it doesn't make sense for you. But it does for her, and quite frankly, it does for me too. Of course she should be her genuine self!
AnnaLovestheLord istheBest holy fuck you are rude 😒 I would assume and I try not to do that often but feel pretty confident she chose to feel on the outside as she does on the inside! Jillian I see sense, beauty, integrity, bravery, strength and so much more in you! You are beautiful and so needed exactly how you are and through whatever changes you need to make to yourself to feel whole ❤️❤️
AnnaLovestheLord istheBest how about instead of beating people down you build them up the internet should rp be used to boost people no matter what they believe or you believe you look small minded and stupid for what you said
@AnnaLovestheLord istheBest If this is how you feel why are you deep into TH-cam watching transition stories, troll much, life that pathetic , mommy didn't hug you enough !? Dont worry il wait...🙄
AnnaLovestheLord istheBest no one made her into a mtf, she was born this way. I’m sick of people like you saying that they decided or were made to be this way by some sort of reasoning, no. She was born this way her whole life. Their gender dysphoria is cured by this, that’s what the benefits are. If you don’t understand what it feels to not feel comfortable in your physical body, then you have no place to say what their motives are. Stop judging her and mind your own business
Congratulations, Jamie! It's all done but the healing. Kisses, young man. It takes guts to have any surgery, but especially the surgery you had. That is a very sensitive area of the body regardless of gender so I expect you're going to have pain for a while. I hope you heal well and you live and love happily ever after, kiddo!
Shaaba is amazing! As I’m watching my heart sank to hear about the long stay but I am so glad everything is good as of the end of the video. You are amazing and I’m so glad I stumbled across your channel. ❤️ Much love to you both.
16:43 at "We're in the car!" I definitely did a double-take like why is Jamie in the driver's seat?!--and then I remembered--England >_>
Those nine dislikes are people that are annoyed with his complaining, but don't understand the pain he is going through.
Congratulations! I’m just sorry that you had some very painful problems. You two are such an awesome and beautiful couple🥰🥰
The love you two have for each other is so beyond beautiful!!! ❤️😃
I literally just saw the title and thumbnail for this and yelled "Hell yeah!" so loudly my cat looked at me funny. Congratulations dude!!
You two are my ultimate relationship goals. Jamie you are an absolute treasure and Shaba is such a wonderful person she's making me cry.
Congratulations I’m glad you can be the man that you are today! You are truly a rockstar
Jamie, you look like you were born male, would never guess you were ever female - hope your recovery is safe. No more blood clot!
This sounds so cheesy but I’m so glad you are so happy because of this surgery. I would never be able to go through this and you’re so freaking strong and inspirational.
"My genitals hurt but we're in the car!"
I'm crying 😅
Seeing you so happy about going home, after all you have been through, and after that with every improvement through your recovery was one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen.
So happy for you! As a fellow FTM guy, I love listening you talk about your journey ❤️. So sorry that things didn’t go as planned, but I’m glad that now you feel more like a man (I would assume)
I love how peaceful this hospital room looks like almost like a hotel room. There's no scary machines and you're not connected to anything.
FMLlevel100 yeah not like here in America. Honestly I hate going to the hospital. I sprained my ankle pretty bad a month and a half ago, and had to go. And every room has machines and stuff. It always creeps me out.
Yeah I got an ovarian cyst removed when I was twelve and it was freezing cold and very creepy in there.
Hey, Jammi! Glad you had the opportunity to have the operation done [despite the complications, and I hope the rest of your healing has been going well! The love from Shaaba is just inspiring.
Also thanks for this video - and all your other ones, but especially this one. It was a subject I needed encouragement/an outside viewpoint on, and this gave me a starting point. Congrats on finally closing the chapter on your physical transition.
I don t know why TH-cam recommended this but I also don t know why I have watering eyes when he talks about his love of his life and what she did for him ♥️ or when he walks ♥️🥺 and why I am so emotional happy for them!! ♥️♥️♥️
I know its so adorable
OMG! I lost you two when my phone got broken when I was mugged Christmas 2019. I found you again at just the right time for your surgery. I think you are the sweetest couple. Congratulations! Wish it had gone smoother but now it is over. You'll be your authentic self from noe on. Yeah!
“You’re amazingly brave”
“I couldn’t do it without you”
“Shut up & do your blog”
♥️♥️♥️ you guys are the absolute sweetest.
I love how you and shaaba went about this! Super happy for you Jamie 💖
Mate I can't even imagine the pain of that surgery... But from the little I know, it's one of the best options currently for trans sexual men. I know this is an old video but I have the feeling everything will turn out as you expected in that department. Congrats! To you both!
23:13 i still cant get over how cute he can look
That smile
How happy he looks
Makes me happy too :)
Ikr, it blesses my s o u l
God, this must've been so freaking tense!!
Jamie's the one getting the surgery done-actually he's already gotten the surgery done but, I'M getting nervous and I'm not even trans!!