Let’s talk: Church hurt Part1 - when you see & hear it all, but still have to serve & stay in church

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ต.ค. 2024

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  • @Nondumiso_
    @Nondumiso_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This!! At the end of the day we don't go to church for abantu but we go to worship our God and mina sengayitshela ukuthi we in different journeys and some are not even on any journey no Nkulunkulu but are just there at church, okwakho is to fix your eyes on God and as you said leaving the Church is not an option ,you can take a break and go to other branches and come back later.Loved this topic so much❤🙏💯

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      “Others are not even on any journey”🤣🤣🤣yoh I didn’t mean to laugh but this line🤣🤣🤣!! I agree with everything you have said!!
      You’re absolutely right queen, absolutely right part 2 coming soon

  • @liramotsohi7282
    @liramotsohi7282 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was sooo hurt girl when I was going through excrutiating pain in my body, It was a time of testing for me, a time where it was just me and God, I struggled to walk, the pain in my legs, my fwn broke down, I had no contact...it was a tough time for me, all I had was just God, spend time in prayer. So people in my church took it for granted, Pastor said it was rebellion because I was supposed to serve in the church. Not 1 person stood by me, the response was so nonshalont. I couldn' believe it. But I just told myself that God allows situations to happen so we can learn and know what people are like, and we need to grow by healing from this hurt.

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I absolutely love that last line of how God allows situations to happen so we can learn and know what people are like . And I think thats just the purest truth Queen. It’s just so unbelievable when you actually see that no man here we really aren’t even close to being one in the body of christ but such is life at the end of the day our help and hope is in the Lord. I am so so deeply sorry for what you went through. You did not derserve all that added to the pain that you were in. But our God is faithful! He always heals and restores ingakho nje sizohlala simdumise and hopefully do better than those who hurt us to others.

  • @minenhlegumede6789
    @minenhlegumede6789 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The truth in this Zizile yoohh sisi, thank you for this topic👌🏼👌🏼 Truth is silimele as women in the church, we rather suffer in silence with the hurt because opening up or speaking about it to another person whom you trust that they will offer a helping hand ends up being being a breakfast or lunch topic throughout the whole church, ugcine usuyinhlekisa which is so sad, yet we call ourselves brothers and sisters in Christ.

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And it just seems to be a never ending cycle.. Ah Queen at the end some situations really remind you or make you realise that what truly matters is our personal relationships noThixo and that he will always fight our battles.
      Disappointing but God is still in control Queen ❤️🤞🏽

  • @liramotsohi7282
    @liramotsohi7282 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also God sends us to a certain Church community for a reason, there are certain anointings that we need to receive through fellowship and serving, there is a certain annoiting spiritually that God wants to strengthen us in, so if you can have that in mind let not what ur flesh is feeling remove you from God's plans. When people become fleshly, we need to stay in spirit so that we too dont become fleshly, we need to pray for them too bring these situations before God.

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏 amen🙌🏼 it’s okay to realise you have reached the end of your journey in one place and go to where God wants to bless you and grow you.

  • @nasutunjekwa707
    @nasutunjekwa707 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know of a very well respectable mother who was very invested and dedicated to our church. She nolonger comes to church bcoz of “church “ hurt. Lapho hubby is stil there serving …Church hurt is real .
    Please do a part 2
    Will be waiting ❤

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very very sad unfortunately.. as much as we say azingenwa ezabantu ababili but damn sure theres a thin line we got to at some point stand up for the truth.

  • @roundym
    @roundym 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And some people actually leave the church because of other people😭.

    • @zizilemdakane
      @zizilemdakane  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine being the cause of such komunye umuntu… yuuuh