This week, YOU are in the hot seat as we dive into some of the hottest tea we've ever sipped on...y'all did not hold back!!! We had such a blast filming this week's episode, we cannot wait to hear all of your thoughts on this format (should we make an episode like this one more of a regular thing?). Let us know in the comments down below!
@@tangentswithtylerandtodd If you ever decide to sell your own tea, please feel free to use my idea "T&T tea - won't leave you cold" as an ad jingle. I'd love it! cheers! / CS
Same, I worry about them because it is obvious, living the way they have been living the last few years has been so hard for them. I am also relieved they bought that lovely cabin. They will have a peaceful and beautiful Christmas with dear Charlie.
My partner unexpectedly died on Nov, 20th. (Way to bring the room down. Divine.) The last thing I wanted to see was a healthy and happy gay couple. (Or so I thought.) A few days ago, I came a cross your channel, subscribed and drove right in. Your relationship reminded me so much of what I used to have before the rug got yanked out from under me two weeks ago. You two make me proud to be gay. Hold on for dear life to each other. And THANK YOU for helping me start to pull myself out of this funk. When I look back at this chapter of my life, I'll remember that you were my comfort food that got me through. I wish you both every happiness and kindness.
Growing up and as a younger adult (I'm just about 68, now), I NEVER understood the need for being with others after a partner, or anyone you loved, passed. I couldn't fathom having a "party" or even just people over to the house, until I lost my mother in 2003 and after losing my husband in 2018. Then, it became all so clear. Talking about them or listening to others talk about the relationship they lost, makes you remember the good things about your person that brings such a feeling of warmth and joy. It really was a shock and a learning experience for me. I'm so sorry for the loss of your partner and I hope that your path with grief won't be horribly long. But it takes how long it takes. Keep those good memories and smells alive as much as you can. Talk about them, smell them, enjoy them. ❤
I love the stats. 24 waiting, 24 comments, and 86 thumbs up, 43 minutes before broadcasting starts. This proves we're a community and no clip can throw us out.
Here's some fun tea for Todd. When I was a young girl of only 19, I was being harassed by an obscene phone caller. I tried everything from going to the police to blowing a whistle into the phone to discourage him from calling me. One day I left work early to come home because I had a migraine headache. As soon as I walk through the door, my phone started ringing. When I answered the phone and realized it was him again, at my wit's end I blurted out, "Look I am not in the mood for this! I have a headache!" and then hung up on him. Shortly after I hung up the phone and walked away I started to laugh hysterically I suddenly realized I had told my obscene phone caller I had a headache and wasn't in the mood. He never called back! 😂
I'm currently dealing with it, I've blocked 7 numbers so far from the same person. I even had friends call him and ask what he wanted, he told them he was sorry and had been calling a wrong number ( my number). It was OK untill he started again. It's so freaking annoying. I don't want to go to the police incase through the investigation he gets to know my name and search me up online, he doesn't seem to know who I am. It's absolutely frustrating because why me? What is wrong with him? 🤬🤬
I also had this problem many years ago. How I dealt with that was to call the phone company and start having them track the calls, after that was done, the police got involved and they made an arrest. The guy was convicted, and I never had another problem with him.
@@BaDazaisign his number up so he gets auto calls. I’ve heard many people put a post on Craigslist telling people to call a number for a good time. Every time he calls, sign that number up.
This weeks mixture of serious and bizarre scenarios and your humorous retorts made me listen with interest and smile. After the flood in your basement, think you both needed this reprieve. Thanks for starting my day off with a smile.
You guys are such good communicators. That's why you have such a good relationship. It's so important to maintain an open and honest channel. I've been partnered for 4 years and married for a year and a half and communication, compassion, and compromise and showing gratitude and speaking the other's love language are SO important.
The thought I had about the guy/bully hook up at the concert... Not only did he beat him up on school because he was jealous that he was strong enough to be himself, he hooked up with him at the concert because he has always had a crush on him and has thought about him all these years!
I had a comment for every scenario-just because I’m 72 and been in a 52 year marriage, I have seen just about everything under the sun. I have to parrot Tyler’s response: WOW, wow,wow, oh wow , along with almost every emoji face available‼️ You guys balls-like for real😁❣️
I loved this episode. Your pieces of advice were spot on. You took serious questions and were able to bring laughter by your explanations, your emotions, and most of all by your caring. You are so honest, open and loving. Please don't ever change. Sending hou five many warm hugs
When you commented about the rude feedback you received, I was prepared to be scandalized (ha) but y'all are adorable as always and folks need to calm the hell down. 😘
When you guys were talking about open relationships, I was like, "are they poly?" I don't remember this conversation. And then I fell over laughing and thought, "When in the hell does either of them have any time for it?" Your houses are your partners. :)
You two are so fair. Protecting each other is paramount and just right. “let things slip” is too funny. Your advice is spot on. It can be hard losing friends but it’s also healthy to be honest. Your advice to the 50+ year old lady is well thought out and in the long run, if she takes it, she will be happier and possibly he will get help. My god, I love your banter! For your last one, the guy needs some ethics and morals. His idea is narcissistic and downright mean and stupid. Really interesting and fun. I enjoy learning about your humor, ethics, deep love and down to earth suggestions. You two spice up my life!!! LOL
After you read all these sad stories, you both must be grateful you are normal and don't have these problems that others do. I hate drama and you don't dramatize anything. I like that.
About the throuple situation...it sounds like the "new on the scene" guy is kinda like someone walking past a bright Christmas display in the window. He sees how wonderful and bright and loving the couple's relationship is and wants in on that kind of love. What he needs to do is find that for himself rather than try to barge in on his friends' relationship. He's worried he's not going to find something like they have but he also hasn't looked himself.
Iteresting psychology of Todd, nakedness, and fire. I seem to remember Todd in a Rubbermaid tub feeling trashy, and a nighttime outdoor shower with very large strategically placed candles. 🤣
So very happy to see you both in a better place mentally! You’ve been through a lot and need to have fun. I laughed so hard during this podcast. Your overall advice was actually quite good. When Todd gave the advice to “run”, I was right there with him! Thanks so much for this!
I love your podcasts! You boys give this 70 year old grandma something to giggle about 😊 I love your togetherness. You make the perfect (and cutest) couple 💑 keep up the good work 👍
I just want to say as a wife who unknowingly stayed with someone with a double life please, please always tell the wife. If someone had filled me in it would have saved me decades of trying in a toxic marriage. Don’t assume the partner is in a happy marriage and you’re going to blow it up. It may be the catalyst they need to finally leave.
@selarising...I agree 💯!! I was in same situation. I spent 11 horrible yrs trying to make a marriage work. I finally left for the sake of my children's happiness. When my ex finally came out a year after ,it was a relief to know I made right decision to break up our family. Thankfully we are great friends now .
I adore you guys! And omg you’re advice & thoughts on post-matrimony. You are so right; why not make a plan out of love for your partner while still in that place of love & thinking rationally. It’s the most loving and respectful gift you can give to someone. ❤
Hi guys, your Australian adopted GM here. At the zooming end of my 79th year on planet earth, you lads educated me on a world I have little knowledge of and I laughed my head off today. My God, the complications of life are many and you handle your queries with good humour. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for the joy you bring to my life and look forward to the next episode. By the way, I adore your new cottage and wish you both every happiness and comfort in your new home. 🙋♀❤❤
I can't express enough how much I enjoy your podcasts AND your Sunday videos. I don't care what the topic is I simply enjoy how well you both flow with whatever the subject and wherever the conversation takes you. And your sense of humour is second to none! lol I love the laughter you bring! Keep up the great work! Big love to you and your beautiful furfam! 😊❤
Earlier, I was watching this episode With my morning coffee, and my building caretaker dropped over. ( she is about 40 years old to my 80) She asked if I was busy. I explained that I was watching your podcast, and explained what it was all about. And, how much I was enjoying it. She filled me in on what she had come over for, left, and came back later on. She looked at me and said, “I have to say this, for a woman your age, you never cease to amaze me at how understanding you are of people and how they are.” I smiled and looked at her and said “ You know what sweetie, Your generation Did not invent sex. Sex has been around since the beginning of time, and it will out- last us. She got the message hugged me said her good-byes and left smiling. it never ceases to amaze me how younger people think that just because you’re of a certain age what is natural in a younger life is unnatural when one gets older. I have never figured that one out. Lol. fabulous, podcast, enjoyable, presented a few dilemmas, and honest answers. see you Sunday and again next Wednesday 😘🩵🩷💜❤️💙💛💚
Don't ever, EVER give up your autonomy. Meaning if your partner is your sole source of income, then you either need to have money saved, or you need to agree to split their earnings. It doesn't have to be 50/50, but it does have to be some. If your partner is meant for you, then they'll value the importance of protecting both of your autonomy.
I loved this episode and I've no clue why some people found it inappropriate. It was open, hilarious at times and I've enjoyed it from first to last. ❤️
My two favorite days of the week are Sundays & Wednesdays. You two always make me laugh & smile🌈 Thank you for sharing yourselves with everyone💜 P.S. This was one of your funniest Tangents!
Great video guys. Yes it would be nice to see this kind of video more often. As for how often? Once a month sounds okay. Or you could hold it in reserve to be used as a means to relax and chill after intense episodes. Also I would like to say that I love how you guys can have a conversation about something serious or troubling yet still find something funny or humours about the situation. Thank you both for a good time.
you seem to be the only people online that can do sexual inuendos & have us in stitches over triggering our issues around this with our sexual abuse off our father at 4. This is great news thank you! just love you guys! KEEP ROCKIN' YOUR STYLE!!!!
Loud laughs intermittently, while enjoying the ways you parsed peoples problems. But the tangent about surviving a plane crash had me on the floor with my dog trying to administer mouth-to-mouth. Love you both! Do more tea!
Love you guys! Wasn’t sure about a whole episode of “tea” (this phrase is new to me as we Brits tend to say “dishing the dirt”) but it was fun! You’re both very funny. I’m into the idea of the smoking jackets and once a month programmes like this! Hope all’s going well with the flood and can’t wait for Sunday ❤️❤️ Liz xx
Tea (as in "spill the tea") comes from drag culture... and actually started out as "T." I think T was short for the truth. I could be wrong... I'm not the best when it comes to our queer history... just old haha.
@@EricaGamet thank you for that! Over here in Europe we hear all these phrases and get confused! It took me a very long time to find out what “bangs” meant! I now realise that it means fringe! So funny how we can essentially speak the same language and yet still have different words and phrasing. ❤️
@@youtooaromatherapyyoga2991 For sure! I grew up watching British shows (since the late 70s) so I use a lot of terms interchangeably. Also, I've lived all over the US (from New England to Seattle) and sometimes I forget what we call things. I spent a couple months in the UK and never lost calling it a windscreen and a banana skin (instead of windshield and banana peel). I watch so many British shows, I use British terms all the time unironically. Then wonder why my friends are staring at me when they don't understand! lol
As I sit here sicker than a dog with pink eye in both eyes a ear infection a horrible cold and a uti I so enjoy listening to the podcast it gives me some comfort, thank you
Love you guys so much. You always make me laugh and right now I'm struggling with the holidays (alone and depressed) and need all the laughter I can get. Thank you for always cheering me up!
I'm very pleased that the presence of the community with the proximity of our comments has been as Tyler said, very fulfilling and rewarding since the beginning of the podcast. In an increasingly individualistic society, your special presence means a lot to me too. With love 💗😘
I would love more Totally Tea With Tyler & Todd episodes! This definitely needs to be a regular thing. And Todd’s suggestion of getting comfy chairs and sipping tea while you spill the tea is perfect! You guys are doing such an amazing job with your podcast. I’ve been enjoying every single one! Much love from Ontario! ❤
Such a heavy bunch of teatime issues this time, but in the end it was Tyler “I wouldn’t want to parachute off a plane in Russia anyway” that made me laugh. I am loving these new videos, and I really just love listening to your stories and interactions - it’s priceless!❤
This was THE BEST!! Better than any soap I've ever watched!! Be sure to let us know when the next one is, that way I can plan on getting the popcorn and clearing my schedule so there are no interruptions, because I kept snapping at anyone who interrupted your podcast today, and rushed to get back to it. Next time I'm locking the kids in the back room!! (I'M KIDDING!!)
I've been loving the tea! Don't get me wrong, I love hearing you two talk about just about any topic but it is fun and thought provoking to hear about other people's situations.
Your vlogs are truly inspiring. I see you as a powerhouse - strong, grounded, thoughtful, and incredibly intelligent. Your emotional depth and hardworking nature shine through, making you one of the most honest individuals I know in this space. I noticed the disappointment surrounding the container house, but your pivot to the podcast reveals a resilient spirit. Congratulations on this new endeavour! I've shared laughs and tears with you, feeling a genuine connection. And hey, just between us three, who doesn't love a good gossip session with some tea? Wishing you a fantastic Christmas and New Year ahead. Warm regards, Ana
Love how even with an episode of "just tea time" we get interwoven personal anecdotes from you. You're both such wonderful, multi-faceted men - thanks so much for sharing! 🙏🤗🤗
Tyler and Todd, watching your podcast makes my week! Love that you finally took the time to do this. What a gift you are to the world! Thanks times a million!
This was fantastic! You guys are great therapists. Keep these coming. I’ve learned way too much today 😂. The 57 year old lady needs to NOT marry the 62 year old man. She can’t fix him. Run lady run.
"Turn the seats into boats." lol. this made me truly laugh out loud. Its SO TRUE! I guess they just accept we will die if we land on land. Also the automatically having the top open and parachutes auto deploying is a great idea. Takes the effort out for everyone.
My friend and I look forward to ALL of your shows! You make us laugh especially during tangents! Keep up the great work, we are so committed that when you are away we count the days till you return! We love you guys.
Another angle, the man who survived Colon cancer went through a life changing event. During this time of need, his husband wasn't there. Now, it has become apparent that the man he loved isn't who he thought. He cheated on him while he recovered from surgery. He is now trapped. He doesn't want to have sex because of the betrayal. He's also scared of being alone, so he agreed to open but is torn.
I just love you guys you so cheer me up, I ve been watching you for years now❤you amaze me, I am nearly 60 and have always loved watching / listening to and laughing with you xxx😂
I can’t wait for my Sunday afternoons. I don’t listen or watch Tangents on Wednesday so I can have a fantastic Sunday watching both. Even with that it is not enough!! I am always so sad when both podcasts are done. I appreciate you both so much!! Thank you!!!!🎉
I appreciate the honest & compassionate reply's you gave to serious questions but when you come back with a snappy repartee, no tea for me thank you ~I shall not partake of any liquid. Too many spit-takes in these Tangents & not enough tea towels to clean up. I love y'all. I look forward to each week. You give hope & that's a gift.🤟
As per the discussion at around 33:00, my husband and 2 stepkids are my chosen FAMILY. So, I feel I've chosen to support them emotionally and financially AND vice versa. So yes! I agree with you to protect yourself and protect those you love!! ❤
Love the T show. I think you should take it as a compliment that people want to share their lives with you both. You create a safe space for people to talk. Best of luck with the new house.
I'm so happy y'all are continuing to do the Tangents in the beautiful dome! I'm also very happy for you guys and your new gorgeous cabin house. Now you'll make special memories there. Sending good vibes and prayers for everything with you guys including expanding your family possibly someday. Love y'all's videos and Tangents! The first podcast I've ever listened/watched and I wish they were daily! ❤️
Hilarious! But why am I surprised You have both made me laugh so many times with your humour and irreverent sense of fun. So funny. Just like sitting at a dinner table with my best friends.
OMG love listening to you guys! What a great format! The topic could be about anything and your dynamic with each other would make it enjoyable. Can't wait to see you next week.
I loved this episode so much 😂 I felt like I was thier with you guys and had the same reactions. Made my hour commute home much more enjoyable xx thanks again and yes I would love regular episodes like this one a month x luv you guys and your content both on the vlogs and podcasts
A visit to a nudist resort was literally letting it all hang out! People were on loungers sunning, others reading, some swimming in the lake and in the pool. Tyler is so on--it about being comfortable and accepting of the skin you're in. The most 'freeing' experience for me was sitting on the Cafe patio under an umbrella in 30+ sunshine eating a sandwich, fries and drinking a beer in the nude company of other members.
This was so fun!! - I forsee an Xmas version of Tea time! Though I don't know how you'll not have Todd's 50ft xmas tree in the new house not make a cameo! LOL Eddie did not make a Cameo, shout out to him getting extra cuddles later :D I do recomend when you do and SHOULD take a break over xmas/holiday time, perhaps queue up some tea time for us viewers for 'fill in' epsiodes when life just gets in the way! I can't believe I legit called Tyler a Slytherin and nailed it woohoo #TeamSlytherin! Loved every minute! Thanks guys!
OMG i laughed so much this was so much fun. All your podcasts have been completely awesome so far, i love the things you have to say about life and love and your relationship and journey and i laugh and cry along with you but today was just a burst of hilarity and my cheeks hurt from smiling. great job.
This week, YOU are in the hot seat as we dive into some of the hottest tea we've ever sipped on...y'all did not hold back!!! We had such a blast filming this week's episode, we cannot wait to hear all of your thoughts on this format (should we make an episode like this one more of a regular thing?). Let us know in the comments down below!
"Hotest Tea" huh... Well Dont Burn Yer-self 🤣 "Caught Him"...? Well I Know it Wasn't Tyler Doing Dishes! 🤪 I'll Be Tuning In To Find Out! ❤
LOL you won't believe some of the submissions....so juicy!@@KevinCovington5453
T&T tea - won't leave you cold.
cheers! / CS
@@tangentswithtylerandtodd If you ever decide to sell your own tea, please feel free to use my idea "T&T tea - won't leave you cold" as an ad jingle. I'd love it! cheers! / CS
LOL, can't you just hear Todd singing it??@@thecrazyswede2495
Is it weird the amount of relief I felt when you both said you’re right now the happiest you’ve ever been?? 🥺 Big love to you guys
aw haha, very true tho!
Same, I worry about them because it is obvious, living the way they have been living the last few years has been so hard for them. I am also relieved they bought that lovely cabin. They will have a peaceful and beautiful Christmas with dear Charlie.
My partner unexpectedly died on Nov, 20th. (Way to bring the room down. Divine.) The last thing I wanted to see was a healthy and happy gay couple. (Or so I thought.) A few days ago, I came a cross your channel, subscribed and drove right in. Your relationship reminded me so much of what I used to have before the rug got yanked out from under me two weeks ago.
You two make me proud to be gay. Hold on for dear life to each other. And THANK YOU for helping me start to pull myself out of this funk. When I look back at this chapter of my life, I'll remember that you were my comfort food that got me through. I wish you both every happiness and kindness.
Growing up and as a younger adult (I'm just about 68, now), I NEVER understood the need for being with others after a partner, or anyone you loved, passed. I couldn't fathom having a "party" or even just people over to the house, until I lost my mother in 2003 and after losing my husband in 2018. Then, it became all so clear. Talking about them or listening to others talk about the relationship they lost, makes you remember the good things about your person that brings such a feeling of warmth and joy. It really was a shock and a learning experience for me. I'm so sorry for the loss of your partner and I hope that your path with grief won't be horribly long. But it takes how long it takes. Keep those good memories and smells alive as much as you can. Talk about them, smell them, enjoy them. ❤
Many hugs and much love to Divine and NayNay 🤗🥰🤗
I love that you found this channel! Welcome - Tyler and Todd have built an amazing community here 🧡 sending lots of love your way
@@murialpack5350 Thank you. ❤️
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I love the stats. 24 waiting, 24 comments, and 86 thumbs up, 43 minutes before broadcasting starts. This proves we're a community and no clip can throw us out.
We love to see it 👏
Here's some fun tea for Todd. When I was a young girl of only 19, I was being harassed by an obscene phone caller. I tried everything from going to the police to blowing a whistle into the phone to discourage him from calling me. One day I left work early to come home because I had a migraine headache. As soon as I walk through the door, my phone started ringing. When I answered the phone and realized it was him again, at my wit's end I blurted out, "Look I am not in the mood for this! I have a headache!" and then hung up on him. Shortly after I hung up the phone and walked away I started to laugh hysterically I suddenly realized I had told my obscene phone caller I had a headache and wasn't in the mood. He never called back! 😂
I'm currently dealing with it, I've blocked 7 numbers so far from the same person. I even had friends call him and ask what he wanted, he told them he was sorry and had been calling a wrong number ( my number). It was OK untill he started again. It's so freaking annoying. I don't want to go to the police incase through the investigation he gets to know my name and search me up online, he doesn't seem to know who I am. It's absolutely frustrating because why me? What is wrong with him? 🤬🤬
I also had this problem many years ago. How I dealt with that was to call the phone company and start having them track the calls, after that was done, the police got involved and they made an arrest. The guy was convicted, and I never had another problem with him.
I think that everyone that experiences that situation, should contact the police.
@@BaDazaigo to the police, through 7 different numbers this person is getting off on it
@@BaDazaisign his number up so he gets auto calls. I’ve heard many people put a post on Craigslist telling people to call a number for a good time. Every time he calls, sign that number up.
This weeks mixture of serious and bizarre scenarios and your humorous retorts made me listen with interest and smile. After the flood in your basement, think you both needed this reprieve. Thanks for starting my day off with a smile.
We love to hear that, thank you for starting your day along with us!!
I am a totally straight woman from Texas and I love your channel! Thank you for bringing levity to my life!!!!!
You guys are such good communicators. That's why you have such a good relationship. It's so important to maintain an open and honest channel. I've been partnered for 4 years and married for a year and a half and communication, compassion, and compromise and showing gratitude and speaking the other's love language are SO important.
The thought I had about the guy/bully hook up at the concert... Not only did he beat him up on school because he was jealous that he was strong enough to be himself, he hooked up with him at the concert because he has always had a crush on him and has thought about him all these years!
I had a comment for every scenario-just because I’m 72 and been in a 52 year marriage, I have seen just about everything under the sun.
I have to parrot Tyler’s response: WOW, wow,wow, oh wow , along with almost every emoji face available‼️ You guys balls-like for real😁❣️
The most precious thing is when I listen to you guys on Spotify and you both go quiet I know that you are both laughing ❤ 😂
Hahaha totally!!
I love Tyler’s face on this picture! 🤣🤣 Todd, shocked?! 🤣🤣 Can’t wait for this. You two are the best xx
I don’t care my lack of romantic attachments but both of you are iconic in this episode ❤
I loved this episode. Your pieces of advice were spot on. You took serious questions and were able to bring laughter by your explanations, your emotions, and most of all by your caring. You are so honest, open and loving. Please don't ever change. Sending hou five many warm hugs
We're so happy you enjoyed the episode Annie! 😊❤️
You guys were on fire today. Your reactions are hysterical! Great podcast.
So glad you enjoyed!! 😊
A monogamous relationship topic is a must! Especially in gay culture.
When you commented about the rude feedback you received, I was prepared to be scandalized (ha) but y'all are adorable as always and folks need to calm the hell down. 😘
When you guys were talking about open relationships, I was like, "are they poly?" I don't remember this conversation. And then I fell over laughing and thought, "When in the hell does either of them have any time for it?" Your houses are your partners. :)
This was a truly fascinating episode; hearing other people’s issues and experiences like these makes me feel better about my own fairly mundane life!
I know, right?! I love that our life is so boring!
You two are so fair. Protecting each other is paramount and just right.
“let things slip” is too funny.
Your advice is spot on. It can be hard losing friends but it’s also healthy to be honest.
Your advice to the 50+ year old lady is well thought out and in the long run, if she takes it, she will be happier and possibly he will get help. My god, I love your banter!
For your last one, the guy needs some ethics and morals. His idea is narcissistic and downright mean and stupid. Really interesting and fun. I enjoy learning about your humor, ethics, deep love and down to earth suggestions. You two spice up my life!!! LOL
Exactly - you will NEVER regret being honest and truthful.
After you read all these sad stories, you both must be grateful you are normal and don't have these problems that others do. I hate drama and you don't dramatize anything. I like that.
About the throuple situation...it sounds like the "new on the scene" guy is kinda like someone walking past a bright Christmas display in the window. He sees how wonderful and bright and loving the couple's relationship is and wants in on that kind of love. What he needs to do is find that for himself rather than try to barge in on his friends' relationship. He's worried he's not going to find something like they have but he also hasn't looked himself.
Literally laughing so hard at this episode. More of these please! 😂❤
happy to bring some laughs 😂
Iteresting psychology of Todd, nakedness, and fire. I seem to remember Todd in a Rubbermaid tub feeling trashy, and a nighttime outdoor shower with very large strategically placed candles. 🤣
This podcast is giving me major Savage Love vibes and I am here for it!
OMG! I literally slid off my chair laughing when you said "head clearance"..., love you guys!!! Keep up the great podcast.
So very happy to see you both in a better place mentally! You’ve been through a lot and need to have fun. I laughed so hard during this podcast. Your overall advice was actually quite good. When Todd gave the advice to “run”, I was right there with him! Thanks so much for this!
This format was so natural, effortless and fun, you should 100 % do this at least 1 a month if not more.
Love from Lisbon
I agree!
I haven’t laughed so much listening to a podcast before. 😂😂😂
Thanks for making the day brighter!
I love your podcasts! You boys give this 70 year old grandma something to giggle about 😊 I love your togetherness. You make the perfect (and cutest) couple 💑 keep up the good work 👍
I just want to say as a wife who unknowingly stayed with someone with a double life please, please always tell the wife. If someone had filled me in it would have saved me decades of trying in a toxic marriage. Don’t assume the partner is in a happy marriage and you’re going to blow it up. It may be the catalyst they need to finally leave.
@selarising...I agree 💯!! I was in same situation. I spent 11 horrible yrs trying to make a marriage work. I finally left for the sake of my children's happiness. When my ex finally came out a year after ,it was a relief to know I made right decision to break up our family. Thankfully we are great friends now .
I adore you guys! And omg you’re advice & thoughts on post-matrimony. You are so right; why not make a plan out of love for your partner while still in that place of love & thinking rationally. It’s the most loving and respectful gift you can give to someone. ❤
OMG GUYS!! I am laughing so hard....LOVE your podcasts!! MORE PLEASE!!!
I love seeing you two discuss things so openly and hilariously. Keep it up boys!
Hi guys, your Australian adopted GM here. At the zooming end of my 79th year on planet earth, you lads educated me on a world I have little knowledge of and I laughed my head off today. My God, the complications of life are many and you handle your queries with good humour. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for the joy you bring to my life and look forward to the next episode. By the way, I adore your new cottage and wish you both every happiness and comfort in your new home. 🙋♀❤❤
I can't express enough how much I enjoy your podcasts AND your Sunday videos. I don't care what the topic is I simply enjoy how well you both flow with whatever the subject and wherever the conversation takes you. And your sense of humour is second to none! lol I love the laughter you bring! Keep up the great work! Big love to you and your beautiful furfam! 😊❤
YOU 2 are a hoot , you make me laugh . Love all your comments on the TEA LOLOLOL
Earlier, I was watching this episode With my morning coffee, and my building caretaker dropped over. ( she is about 40 years old to my 80)
She asked if I was busy.
I explained that I was watching your podcast, and explained what it was all about. And, how much I was enjoying it.
She filled me in on what she had come over for, left, and came back later on.
She looked at me and said, “I have to say this, for a woman your age, you never cease to amaze me at how understanding you are of people and how they are.”
I smiled and looked at her and said “ You know what sweetie, Your generation Did not invent sex. Sex has been around since the beginning of time, and it will out- last us.
She got the message hugged me said her good-byes and left smiling.
it never ceases to amaze me how younger people think that just because you’re of a certain age what is natural in a younger life is unnatural when one gets older.
I have never figured that one out. Lol.
fabulous, podcast, enjoyable, presented a few dilemmas, and honest answers.
see you Sunday and again next Wednesday 😘🩵🩷💜❤️💙💛💚
Every conversation I find myself in with y’all. Tears! Of joy and sympathy. 💞🤣
Don't ever, EVER give up your autonomy. Meaning if your partner is your sole source of income, then you either need to have money saved, or you need to agree to split their earnings. It doesn't have to be 50/50, but it does have to be some. If your partner is meant for you, then they'll value the importance of protecting both of your autonomy.
I loved this episode and I've no clue why some people found it inappropriate. It was open, hilarious at times and I've enjoyed it from first to last. ❤️
Also love your sexual innuendoes and dry humour 😂😂 “not much hardwood on that beach, yeah a lot of soft wood” 😂😂
My two favorite days of the week are Sundays & Wednesdays. You two always make me laugh & smile🌈
Thank you for sharing yourselves with everyone💜 P.S. This was one of your funniest Tangents!
Love u guys it just became too much tea.
Great video guys. Yes it would be nice to see this kind of video more often. As for how often? Once a month sounds okay. Or you could hold it in reserve to be used as a means to relax and chill after intense episodes. Also I would like to say that I love how you guys can have a conversation about something serious or troubling yet still find something funny or humours about the situation. Thank you both for a good time.
you seem to be the only people online that can do sexual inuendos & have us in stitches over triggering our issues around this with our sexual abuse off our father at 4. This is great news thank you! just love you guys! KEEP ROCKIN' YOUR STYLE!!!!
I'm sorry you had to deal with it but I can't tell you how happy it makes me that you can still find the joy and laughter xoxo
@@tangentswithtylerandtodd aaaawwww 💚🙏✨️🙏💚
I’m so proud of you two men. And yes, I love tea time. Keep it up!
Loud laughs intermittently, while enjoying the ways you parsed peoples problems. But the tangent about surviving a plane crash had me on the floor with my dog trying to administer mouth-to-mouth. Love you both! Do more tea!
Lol. "You have spousal duties." Favorite quote of the episode.
Love you guys! Wasn’t sure about a whole episode of “tea” (this phrase is new to me as we Brits tend to say “dishing the dirt”) but it was fun! You’re both very funny. I’m into the idea of the smoking jackets and once a month programmes like this! Hope all’s going well with the flood and can’t wait for Sunday ❤️❤️ Liz xx
Glad you enjoyed!! See you Sunday 😊❤️
Tea (as in "spill the tea") comes from drag culture... and actually started out as "T." I think T was short for the truth. I could be wrong... I'm not the best when it comes to our queer history... just old haha.
@@EricaGamet thank you for that! Over here in Europe we hear all these phrases and get confused! It took me a very long time to find out what “bangs” meant! I now realise that it means fringe! So funny how we can essentially speak the same language and yet still have different words and phrasing. ❤️
@@youtooaromatherapyyoga2991 For sure! I grew up watching British shows (since the late 70s) so I use a lot of terms interchangeably. Also, I've lived all over the US (from New England to Seattle) and sometimes I forget what we call things. I spent a couple months in the UK and never lost calling it a windscreen and a banana skin (instead of windshield and banana peel). I watch so many British shows, I use British terms all the time unironically. Then wonder why my friends are staring at me when they don't understand! lol
As I sit here sicker than a dog with pink eye in both eyes a ear infection a horrible cold and a uti I so enjoy listening to the podcast it gives me some comfort, thank you
Love you guys so much. You always make me laugh and right now I'm struggling with the holidays (alone and depressed) and need all the laughter I can get. Thank you for always cheering me up!
I'm very pleased that the presence of the community with the proximity of our comments has been as Tyler said, very fulfilling and rewarding since the beginning of the podcast. In an increasingly individualistic society, your special presence means a lot to me too.
With love 💗😘
I would love more Totally Tea With Tyler & Todd episodes! This definitely needs to be a regular thing. And Todd’s suggestion of getting comfy chairs and sipping tea while you spill the tea is perfect! You guys are doing such an amazing job with your podcast. I’ve been enjoying every single one! Much love from Ontario! ❤
I thought I knew you..but after this forum I have so much more appreciation and admiration for both of you. I wish all you tubers would do this...❤❤❤❤
Thank you!! That means a lot
Absolutely the best one yet. MORE!
At the risk of sounding redundant, you two are so adorable. I've spent this entire episode laughing out loud. I love these tangents!
Such a heavy bunch of teatime issues this time, but in the end it was Tyler “I wouldn’t want to parachute off a plane in Russia anyway” that made me laugh. I am loving these new videos, and I really just love listening to your stories and interactions - it’s priceless!❤
This was THE BEST!! Better than any soap I've ever watched!! Be sure to let us know when the next one is, that way I can plan on getting the popcorn and clearing my schedule so there are no interruptions, because I kept snapping at anyone who interrupted your podcast today, and rushed to get back to it. Next time I'm locking the kids in the back room!! (I'M KIDDING!!)
I've been loving the tea! Don't get me wrong, I love hearing you two talk about just about any topic but it is fun and thought provoking to hear about other people's situations.
Hahah we can't get over what some of ya'll are experiencing!
Thoroughly enjoyed today's Tangent! After listening to it all I realized how blessed and trouble-free my husband and I are!
WHOA You two look so incredibly at peace!!!!
I think the move has proven to be positive. I look forward to the outcome of the property.
Love you both.
Your vlogs are truly inspiring. I see you as a powerhouse - strong, grounded, thoughtful, and incredibly intelligent. Your emotional depth and hardworking nature shine through, making you one of the most honest individuals I know in this space. I noticed the disappointment surrounding the container house, but your pivot to the podcast reveals a resilient spirit.
Congratulations on this new endeavour! I've shared laughs and tears with you, feeling a genuine connection. And hey, just between us three, who doesn't love a good gossip session with some tea? Wishing you a fantastic Christmas and New Year ahead.
Warm regards, Ana
You two are absolutely the best, thank you for being real!
Love & Light
O Blessed Be🖤
So appreciated ❤️
You two had me busting out laughing, love tea time ❤ your sense of humor on all these topics 😂
This was a great very entertaining video. Love spilling the tea with Tyler and Todd! What crazy stories!
Had such a good laugh at them!
Love how even with an episode of "just tea time" we get interwoven personal anecdotes from you. You're both such wonderful, multi-faceted men - thanks so much for sharing! 🙏🤗🤗
Your banter back and forth is so fun. Thank you!
Your tea conversations had me laughing out loud….loved your comments on the issues!! Keep the waters boiling for your tea times!!
Really enjoyed this style spilling the tea. I say go for it once a month. Do a whole episode like this. All the best Todd and Tyler
Tyler and Todd, watching your podcast makes my week! Love that you finally took the time to do this. What a gift you are to the world! Thanks times a million!
This was fantastic! You guys are great therapists. Keep these coming. I’ve learned way too much today 😂. The 57 year old lady needs to NOT marry the 62 year old man. She can’t fix him. Run lady run.
"Turn the seats into boats." lol. this made me truly laugh out loud. Its SO TRUE! I guess they just accept we will die if we land on land. Also the automatically having the top open and parachutes auto deploying is a great idea. Takes the effort out for everyone.
My friend and I look forward to ALL of your shows! You make us laugh especially during tangents! Keep up the great work, we are so committed that when you are away we count the days till you return! We love you guys.
Another angle, the man who survived Colon cancer went through a life changing event.
During this time of need, his husband wasn't there. Now, it has become apparent that the man he loved isn't who he thought. He cheated on him while he recovered from surgery.
He is now trapped. He doesn't want to have sex because of the betrayal. He's also scared of being alone, so he agreed to open but is torn.
Omg! I love you guys. You completely make my evening. Just found your shows and are streaming both from the beginning. Keep going. ❤️🌸
I just love you guys you so cheer me up, I ve been watching you for years now❤you amaze me, I am nearly 60 and have always loved watching / listening to and laughing with you xxx😂
Another great episode guys!!! That was a lot of wild tea today…
Hahaha completely off the rails!!
I can’t wait for my Sunday afternoons. I don’t listen or watch Tangents on Wednesday so I can have a fantastic Sunday watching both. Even with that it is not enough!! I am always so sad when both podcasts are done. I appreciate you both so much!! Thank you!!!!🎉
I think the first Wednesday of every month should be dedicated to tea time cause it so much fun.
Seriously love these. You two crack me up. We all need more laughter in our lives and you guys provide that. Thanks for hosting these.
I would love to see an episode like this one a regular thing. I laugh so much at "spill the tea" time. Thanks guys!!!
Love how you two laugh really hard and don't make a sound. Just so cute!
I absolutely love your podcasts. You have created such a loving community where is safe for everyone to share their thoughts. Great jobs guys!
I appreciate the honest & compassionate reply's you gave to serious questions but when you come back with a snappy repartee, no tea for me thank you ~I shall not partake of any liquid. Too many spit-takes in these Tangents & not enough tea towels to clean up. I love y'all. I look forward to each
week. You give hope & that's a gift.🤟
As per the discussion at around 33:00, my husband and 2 stepkids are my chosen FAMILY. So, I feel I've chosen to support them emotionally and financially AND vice versa. So yes! I agree with you to protect yourself and protect those you love!! ❤
You two are such a hoot! Best podcast ever, and not just this episode. Well, maybe.
Love the T show. I think you should take it as a compliment that people want to share their lives with you both. You create a safe space for people to talk.
Best of luck with the new house.
I'm so happy y'all are continuing to do the Tangents in the beautiful dome! I'm also very happy for you guys and your new gorgeous cabin house. Now you'll make special memories there. Sending good vibes and prayers for everything with you guys including expanding your family possibly someday. Love y'all's videos and Tangents! The first podcast I've ever listened/watched and I wish they were daily! ❤️
I'm definitely here for the tea. Love you guys❤️
This episode was JUIIIIICY As can be!
Tea was served 🫖 Thank you! ❤️
Loved this episode! Had me saying out loud (as each Tea story was read):
“REALLY??” 😂 or 😢.
Hilarious! But why am I surprised You have both made me laugh so many times with your humour and irreverent sense of fun. So funny. Just like sitting at a dinner table with my best friends.
OMG love listening to you guys! What a great format! The topic could be about anything and your dynamic with each other would make it enjoyable. Can't wait to see you next week.
I loved this episode so much 😂 I felt like I was thier with you guys and had the same reactions. Made my hour commute home much more enjoyable xx thanks again and yes I would love regular episodes like this one a month x luv you guys and your content both on the vlogs and podcasts
A visit to a nudist resort was literally letting it all hang out! People were on loungers sunning, others reading, some swimming in the lake and in the pool. Tyler is so on--it about being comfortable and accepting of the skin you're in. The most 'freeing' experience for me was sitting on the Cafe patio under an umbrella in 30+ sunshine eating a sandwich, fries and drinking a beer in the nude company of other members.
This was so fun!! - I forsee an Xmas version of Tea time! Though I don't know how you'll not have Todd's 50ft xmas tree in the new house not make a cameo! LOL
Eddie did not make a Cameo, shout out to him getting extra cuddles later :D
I do recomend when you do and SHOULD take a break over xmas/holiday time, perhaps queue up some tea time for us viewers for 'fill in' epsiodes when life just gets in the way!
I can't believe I legit called Tyler a Slytherin and nailed it woohoo #TeamSlytherin!
Loved every minute! Thanks guys!
Omg LOVE that idea!!!! and don't worry, Eddie was asleep at our feet!
“Support the neck though” had me dying laughing!! 🤣🤣🤣
Me too!!!
OMG i laughed so much this was so much fun. All your podcasts have been completely awesome so far, i love the things you have to say about life and love and your relationship and journey and i laugh and cry along with you but today was just a burst of hilarity and my cheeks hurt from smiling. great job.
You guys are absolutely awesome and so so true to yourselves - always look forward to your podcasts ❤
Thanks sooo much Carla! ❤️