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I'm in a perpetual state of discombobulation. I'm a diamond in the rough. There's no such thing as tough. You're either trained or untrained. Be polite while being unstrained. . .
I am 60+ and dating has become a challenge. I have been single for a couple of years now. Tried dating and found some interesting women. Most seem more like a liability rather than an asset. I feel living alone for now will be my plan.
@@proba78 Maybe, I don't know. I don't mind being by myself. Just would be nice to have someone to chat with and yes sex also. I still got it so might as well use it.
Let's get logical. If age is a liability in the dating world. Then why assume things will be better for finding someone when you are even older? If your iron is at all hot, strike now.
@@peaceonearth8693 Love or logic two halves of the coin. I will always be aware that there is someone out there looking for me. If we meet fantastic. If not well then maybe in the next one. I haven't given up, just find it a challenge.
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane. I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
I'm going on 2 decades now. I just gave up on a woman after 4 years of dating and realized she doesn't even like me, I tried everything to be a gentleman and she is always with this other guy whenever I see her - we never even got to the hand holding stage. I've realized that women are incapable of telling the truth to a man.
The scary part is that women can be so manipulative and put on a great act to lure you into marriage. Men are so dumb many times, too, about women. Don't allow yourself to be fooled, guys.
You are absolutely correct with regards to TRT (testosterone replacement therapy). I noticed feeling lethargic and lacking focus a year ago. I mentioned it to my doctor. He suggested my testosterone may be low. He tested me for it. My free testosterone is now at the level it was 25 years ago when I was thirty. My energy level, focus, overall feeling of well being and yes, my libido are incredible. I highly recommend for any man to be tested.
A great example of how men over 50, 60+ have options that, let's face it, women over 50, 60 simply do not. ... unless some young stud just wants a sugar momma or to get their cougar card stamped! ;)
@@markgardner8542thanks and honestly really no big deal.. been doing both sports since age 12..., but ( lol ) don't call other dudes tiger ..never lie , cheat , steal , or exaggerate..& go down swinging with honor and humility ..life is a daily gift ..peace and be happy and well
@@YourWingmam Yep. 61, out of a toxic marriage and still enjoying ladies in their 30’s. I advise never to date ‘em post menopause - they’ve gone even crazier then. And never, ever, marry or cohabit with them.
Anna you are so spot on. I'm 60 years young and active. Emotionally and financially stable. When I first talk with a man I want to hear him chuckle. I want to know he has a bright outlook on life. I'm disappointed men are not as appreciated for their masculinity. I want a man not a mouse (but I would never say that to a man).
@@mattmccracken1768 My first question would be why you are single at 60 , bad cook , wife etc or got over confident you could do better years earlier and now looking to do a repair job . Either way , real men aint making moves after 50 only simps who havent learned , and they are all skint .
Feminism has made women despise men and be hostile to them, so they have decided to invest in some other fields of interest (they have become MGTOWs) as about 99% of men feel they are undesirable - and the 1% of those who are desirable ("perfect men") usually have as many women as they want, as ladies would rather share a type A man with other women than have a type B of their own.
Don't you just love the pressure cooker? Somehow everyone thinks you have to marry in life. Not that you have to marry to be happy, or anything else, just that you have to marry. I think it's because somehow you're immature if you don't marry. Such immature marrieds that think that, don't have a clue how mature it was that 100% of the effort put into your house is done by YOU. You hold down a job, manage your own finances, maybe even do your own taxes, laundry, cooking, God forbid even your own sewing and ironing, and YOU'RE immature? Well if Immature is not raising kids, then yes, but I'm sure there's a number of singles whom adopt kids, not that the fascist courts will probably ever put a child with a single due to anti-single prejudice. And yes, for the more foolish out there, they got married to prove they weren't gay😂. Tell me Albert, just off the side, but do you find like I do, that when you talk to women, and I mean even ugly women, that your voice automatically becomes deeper? It's a weird phenomena with me. It can be a pain too, because there's plenty you don't want to give the impression you're interested in them, but, what am I saying? The voice lowers BECAUSE I am interested in them. Not for romance necessarily, but just the general concept of the exotics they are - they're not men.
@albertmunoz6952 Most likely, men at that age already try same sex experience, but they are not going to be open about it ,that's why they behave so immature sometimes I see it in many older men's
Hello Anna Marie. As a man in his late 50s who's single after a 28 year long relationship, I feel like I've gone through a time warp when it comes to dating. It's apparent that I'm now dealing with a completely different dating world, so it's great to have a channel like yours to explain the female psyche, as for most of my life I failed to realise the mental differences between men and women. Thanks so much for imparting your considerable no BS knowledge, which I feel is helping me to get to grips with what I need to do to get the girl. Very best wishes to you. Steve.
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
For anyone over 50, it's probably best to seek friendship and companionship first. If that develops into something more, fine. But don't start thinking seriously about any long-term relationship until you have known that other person for a while. One step at a time.
My advice is keep it friendships only. Anything else and she is sizing you up for resource extraction. If you deny this you are a fool. Everything she brings to the table she takes to her next victim and what you bring is transferred to her. This makes the judge smile inside. A prenup is a joke. There must be a marriage contract that a women's court judge can't change. Women don't think the way she is telling us they think. Her debts, she won't bring these up until after the court is on her side. Her number one goal with debt is to make her debt your debt. Good woman or bad woman this is her strategy.
Dating after 20 seemed like lots of work too. ...time for a nap. Being married at 23 seemed like lots of work. ...time for a nap. Being separated at 31 seemed like a lot of work. ...time for a nap. 😊👍 ...single at 55 seems like, hey lady, whatever works! ...do you like naps?
I'm 59 and I tell woman I am 53 because I look it and I find the best Viagra is a young woman about 42 to 46 . Especially if they never had children . It could take time to penetrate her . Particularly if she is a beautiful Asian woman . They are interested in money, its part of their culture and I am doing well I can do anything I want , go anywhere I want . I doubt if I will get married again so I don't have to do anything but take her on a weekend get away . Stay at a nice hotel and dine at nice restaurants and buy her a nice piece of jewelry . My problem has always been I get tired of a woman after 2 to 3 years . Or when they talk about marriage and having a child . Then I start to be less available until she gets upset at me and I tell her its not going to work. Just don't make promises you don't intend to keep . Be honest just have fun. At this age you will get so much ass it is fun , beautiful Asian woman make me go from 2 am to 6 am that's if the club closes at 2 am
I tried dating in my 50's, every woman 40 to 65 that I dated still wanted the six 6's, even the unemployed obese 2's. I canceled my dating site subscriptions. I am now 60. I am 5'8", a fit 5, no debt, own my home, $1 million net worth, highly active workout freak, own a small company. I would like companionship, but I feel dating sites are a loss, and meeting women naturally is almost impossible at this age.
you are doing so much better than most men in your age, at 68 last time I dated was 46, stopped there, don't miss the hassles, frustration and low quality of date prospects, every woman out there thinks she is a prize and wants royal treatment- I'm out
@@michaelsix9684 These women have pumped themselves up with ego yet won't lose the weight. Most women over 40 are gross with their cloths off. Oh but they are a prize in their own mind. Delusional the bulk of them.
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I cut mine because I was looking like a witch due to it going grey and regular dying was turning it to steel wool. I coloured it myself because to go to a salon would set me back $300 only for grey to peep through again two weeks later. I’m a practical kind of person.
Thank you Anna for addressing us Gezzers. 64 year old athlete here. Still run, and pump iron 6 days a week. No prescription drugs either. Libido is linked to fitness in my opinion. Exercise promotes testosterone. No issues with libido, ED here whatsoever with zero chemical supplementation. Stay away from soy and anything cooked in vegetable oils. They are garbage. The though of dating ( especially younger women )makes me want to throw up. LOL
Too many wrong women. Warped lives watching Bachelorette Kardashians and dating apps. Like your vids but I’ve given up finding anything other than happiness in my own life. Good point about compatible long term goals. That’s a tough one. Everyone should watch your red flags video.
Definitely don't go for those ones! Filter filter filter, never waste time with someone who doesn't pass the first round of *your filters!* *RED FLAGS VIDEO:* th-cam.com/video/mMrbcomCdk4/w-d-xo.html *AVOID "THESE" WOMEN:* bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist
In response to your video; you make many legitimate points that detract from useful relationships after 50/60. Yes, many men are tired, low libido, poor health, failed marriages, loss of income, etc. I can add however, the ladies in this equation are over the hill, and lipstick alone cant hide the high mileage on their odometers.
Even in their 60s, a lot of women think they are still a "10" when she's a worn out "3". They will die all alone because they don't think anyone is good enough for them.
*Conversely* there's many wallowing in self pity cos they're not as physically attractive, if they just accepted themselves and positive they'd be personality-attractive
@@timothyw7663 Right! you let it be or if you really like a woman then you must show her that you like her, independently of what happens. It does not care. You do your part. Nothing comes from heaven. You make it. Period
I recently turned 51. I was divorced almost 3 years ago. Trying to meet someone these days at this age is damn near impossible. Women's standards are way higher than what they deserve.
@@teutonicresistancetv6445 try dating a Lady and not a independent woman and yes there's a difference, one is from the City and the other from a small town in Nebraska..lol
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane. I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
In my 50s, after 30+ years at the same employer, never married, no kids, I don't have to work any more. The part about dating women who have their finances on track is spot on.
I'm in the same situation but good luck finding a woman who is financially stable most of them I find have a lot of debt and co-signed on thier kids loans sorry but I run away!!!
I’ve watched a lot of your videos. This is the best one I have seen so far. “Don’t go for potential” is the best advice ever. Either love what is in front of you right now, or walk away. And the “cuddle phase” is a lot more satisfying than whatever the 20s phase is called. Never knew true intimacy until now. After two failed long term relationships I thought my love life was over but a year later I turned out to be wrong. Its better than ever.
I've actually done better since I turned 50. I have different expectations than I did as a young man, more experience, a better understanding of self and less tolerance for silly BS. Collectively, it's actually made dating much simpler. Good video!
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
@@Darknfrog Honestly, they come to me. At the grocery store about a week ago. Lady behind me struck up a conversation over the artichokes in my cart. Ended up with her offering to make me dinner. I'm not some handsome guy, so I can't really explain it.
@@phaedralynn1808 I don't believe in giving up on good things. I don't have movie star looks or tons of money, but I have plenty of patience. All things in time, including love. :-)
I'm 45, two years after my divorce and I still am unable to feel any kind of warmth towards woman. I think that feeling is gone forever. It's not that I regret it. Probably it's juts me. But still it's surprising. As for libido - it's not as good as it used to be but since I live alone, it doesn't bother me as much as it used to
It's not gone forever, just give it time, Took me a few years, but when it changed I found a wonderful woman, because I was not looking for a super model. She is great and now willing to try new stuff.
Learning to live without women is truly liberating VL. Stick at it, in time you will not feel like you missing anything. Indulge your hobbies and interests, buy a classic car, get a dog- sorted! :)
@@proba78 Don't be too tough on yourself. Like you, I felt so free when I left my marriage in '97. That surprised me because I was actually happy married. It also wasn't a nasty divorce we just wanted to go separate ways. We didn't have kids so no issue there. ...what amazed me as the years went by I got very comfortable alone. There were opportunities to try again but I honestly didn't want to. I haven't written it off but I am pretty fussy so it would have to be the right situation. 👍
glad i found you Anna, i ordered the T test, thank you so much for offering the link. I'm over 50 and just wanted to comment, I had zero luck dating women my age, they were all looking for a hot stud / young bull, I'm glad there are younger women out there who appreciate the five positives you mentioned in one of the videos, thanks for being here...
Being 64 I've pretty much given up on finding a partner that I find attractive, I really don't want to go too young, my issue with women close to my age is they look like my mom or grandmother. Major hurdle for me.
I met a woman 61 like myself only thing super fit gym bunny the other end of the spectrum flirty confident chiselled body a real head messer choose wisely there is someone out there for everyone
My condolences for your loss. If you decide to try dating again, I recommend trying to find a widow. So much easier when they understand what you've been through. :)
@@YourWingmam I enjoy life with everyone, no holds barred. However if I decide to stay with one lady again. I'll hook up with someone like myself. God willing and the creek don't rise.
The “he should love me for who I am but why should I reciprocate?” comment at 17:50 is so true. The sense of entitlement, egged on by the women’s lib movement, is a major problem in today’s dating scene. And make sure that pre-nup isn’t time limited. My manipulative ex threatened to walk away if I didn’t sign a new one giving her even more, despite never cooking me a meal or ironing a shirt during our four years marriage. I could see the writing on the wall as it was a five years prenup. Now divorcing at my instance - blackmail isn’t conducive to good bonding.
The challenge at 50+ is values and lifestyle, then throw independence in. Try to match up those. The other side of the bell curve. Not impossible, but patience is required.
I totally understand. Watch the divorced and licking your wounds part again. Giving up is one option. The other option is being very choosy and getting them to sign a prenup (how to sell the prenup in the video!). Take a break but if you don't want to live lonely and die alone, stick around and follow my advice.
@@YourWingmam my story is more complicated than a divorce. How about: meeting the closest thing to "dream girl" and havingvher right before the 1 year anniversary tell you "Were done. We aren't compatible". Yeah, hope gone.
@@TLOofMPLS Break ups are hard brother. I'm going through one right now of 7yrs. Take care of yourself and love yourself. You'll find another beautiful person who will appreciate you. Stay strong.
53 years old and financially fit. Was married from 30 to 45. Rebuilt my life post divorce and see no reason to ever marry again. I have an active dating and sex life. No long term relationships. No cohabitation. I'm retiring in 2 months and have no intent to screw that up.
I’m a male who just turned 60. I’m single, I was married for a few years in the 90’s, but it didn’t work out. I have no kids. I exercise every day, and am very fit. My testosterone level is 1,087 ng/dl (yeah, it’s supplemented). I’ve been retired for 8 years, I have a pension with a significant income, I built my dream home in Florida near some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. I’m ready to meet a wonderful woman - and now there’s a pandemic…
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane. I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
Anna - Thank you for this information. I’m 54, and I have never been married, and it’s very challenging to find a romantic relationship. I really appreciate your advice and I am more positive about my chances. Your videos are extremely helpful.
Libido: Certainly not every man is the same but from my experience if you keep active and fit while keeping the body fat in check (around the belly) then the libido won't decline too much. Sometimes I'm in the mood everyday, sometimes a few times a week then there's a week where I have no interest at all. I'm 58, my reading has showed that some men in their mid 30's have a lower sex drive than I do. I assume that is a result of poor diet, poor fitness and possibly being over weight.
Great comment and as far as I can tell very accurate. I'm 55 and more fit than a lot of younger men. I like to practice yoga. That's great for flexibility, weight control, strength and great for your mind.
With all due respect, save your money and your self worth. Spend your time and money with your family. You’ll never measure up in her circle...I recently got a question on a first meeting: “What’s your net worth, assets minus liabilities, please?” Believe if they are over 50, they haven’t been Barbies for years but still tend to act like one...
Filter filter filter before you invest any time in her. And if she asks these kinds of questions up front, know that she's filtering, too. That's great! You can eliminate her stat. :)
Did you think what I thought? Assets? Too numerous to mention, not to mention the cash and credit rating. Liabilities? Well, hun? Prolly you, if I decide to stay. So long then. Good luck!
@@YourWingmam Sadly this particular example was typical and not exceptionally bad. Exceptionally bad would be like the time where a woman told me she was a pervert - that was unusual. But the vast majority of cases ... she wants money, she wants your Ferrari, she wants a big, swollen... member- bank account membership!
Hey Anna. Yes as you get older you lose some things, but I've found out you gain some things as well. Learning from mistakes is a constant thing with me, and yes we can't change people or wait for them to change, they have to want to do it themselves. Keep up with the great advice! 👍
George, I think that is the exact description of one part of society. Nobody teaches us how it should be. The answer is within us. Honestly I think , we are not "junk" or "parts" and we are not "shopping" and I believe that nobody can know "all parts" thinking like that. Fight George!
I am single And have been for 5 years! My kids are 22 and 27 and I am so free! I am focused on my companies and don’t want to have to take care of anyone anymore! And my Libido is off the charts! I am vegan and and into my health! Men need to really take care of their health more then worry about having a women! There are so many women all around the world! Men just Focus on YOU!!
And that's it. My questions answered at about 0:55, as someone unemployed I'm undateable. A lifetime alone until death which can't come soon enough some days. Thankyou!
Hi I'm 49 and in my 50th year on this planet.. I was diagnosed with minimal cerabral palsy as a 11 year old.. That's also the age I learned to read for the first time after struggling at first in a school that absolutely crushed any confidence I needed.. So had to actually leave the small town I lived in to get the proper help and school.. Tough when you that age I did learn to read confidence did start to get better.. But I've always been a little behind because it's not 100% confidence.. Always needing a kittle advice before I did things. And finding love have been very sad as well because you ladies pick up on a guys confidence quickly.. Anyways, in the last 4 months I've been watching youtube for advice on rejection and man I've learned so much so that I'm nearing my first ever genuine relationship 😊🙏.. Thank you for your help all of you life coaches be it guys or ladies🙏😊
@@YourWingmam appreciate your help just sad it took me so long to realize TH-cam had the help I eeeded.. But as the saying goes better late then never!! Have a blessed day and year ahead 😊🙏
Lots of great Truths here Anna as usual. As a late 50’s man former LTR inhabitant life is what I make of it. Finances-check, Career-check, Positive outlook-check. Just recently connecting with a 60 year old woman with a vibe equal to mine. You are right about the cuddle phase those my loin longings are still there. She is aware of other females interested in me and realizes that I am discriminating and focused on what my purpose, plan and outlook In life is. At this stage it is great having someone feminine to share life and create New memories facing life head on. I must say it is neat that you are living in my hometown, that brings an almost familiar flavour to your insights. VM
Your videos have been SO helpful and not just in my relationships with women. Thank you! I’ll be out of the country for six months and very busy but I really look forward to taking your “Wake up to love” course in October. All the best!
I gave up. I am now 61 been single for almost 5 years tried every dating app there is all are a joke. Haven;t been on one date or even had a meaningful conversation. All I attract are catfish. I don't have a lot of money I own my own business and love what I do. I own my house and car but don't have extra for all the women that want to "travel" etc. I am pretty satisfied being single now but there are times when you wish you had someone with same interests to share with.
I totally get every word you wrote, I am in the same position, also 60, also terrible luck on dating sites. Just about every woman puts "travel" on her dating profile, that is a red flag to me and instant no.
I was ghosted by a woman who became a grandma. She loved being with and taking care of her grandson so much she started making plans to move into something bigger and closer to the grandson so his family could stay with her and she see them more easily. I’m done with women who are perpetual parents either to their grandkids or their 90 year old parents who have no one else to take care of them but their single and eligible daughter. 😡
In my mid 50's & still dating women in there 30's. Just have your act together, keep in shape & have confidence. Remember, if you have a lot to lose in a divorce, then keep it casual, as you SMV can drop significantly after being taken to the cleaners.
@@alexmorgan3435 Sexial Market Value. The higher your SMV, the better quality of partners you can obtain, & the more desirable you are to the opposite sex.
It is very difficult to say something original to you, something to match your originality. You are unique, you know that. It is a pleasure to watch your videos. You are glad to give and "we" are glad to receive. Thank you!
Hi, your content is excellent. The '50s is a terrific age for dating as a man. Any age, really, especially today when so many guys out there are trash. A man with the most fundamental courtesies and some basic awareness of girl-view and a guy of any age will have his choice of women to choose from. Men are stubborn and your aporoach is the best. Thank you! 🥇🌠❤❤
After my wife passed,(13 yr together) I did ask women out, but no one said yes. 8 years later or maybe it was 6 or 7 I finally enjoyed my life again with my humorous playful cat, then to this year a lovely woman I vdid have a crush on 5 years ago said yes because we started having relaxing talks. I'm 55: she's 45. Oh and I like dominant women haha.your videos usually throw out valuable intel which are gold to me.
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
@@phaedralynn1808 i believe there is someone out there for everyone. The key is how to find that person or have them find you. I think you're absolutely right in saying that sometimes it's when you least expect it. In fact that's likely because you aren't expecting it, your just living, doing your thing, enjoying life. That's attractive. Thank you for the kind comments. I appreciate it 🙏 I don't really like the dating sites either. I'm a old fashioned guy with some modern touches lol and I prefer face to face. Have a wonderful weekend 😊
Dear Anna 😊💕💖💛 I am nearing 50 and its taking centuries to arrive and I will never have my finances in order because I am a kind soul and help my community uncontrollably and I am lucky to have a loving family and my labido is going in deep dive since 5 years but its good because I am much stable with my anger issue because I was a tank officer and if I lose my cool the cavalry is rolling over everything so I would say testosterone is overrated and be careful what we wish for.my partner is together with me for 18 years and I can't stay away from her because one night away feels like a hundred years.i listen 👂 to your kindness ❣️ so I always stay on my toes and never take love for granted ❤️💋 and keep my relationship evolving under the guidance of your sweet red lipstick 💄
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
It reminds me that I have listened to some episodes on some podcasts of other dating coaches. They sadly have mentioned that they have known guys, men, who have reached their 50s, even 60s and never had a girlfriend before. It was depressing to hear that but at the same time I figure it's probably more common than we think, and many people like that just won't disclose a situation like that. it's no doubt easy for people like that to feel that it's too late for them or the ship has sailed for them already long ago
I’m 45 years old and a ‘perpetuate bachelor’ but not by choice. Never had a proper girlfriend, never had a proper date in my life. I’m fit and healthy (have my own gym at home), i look after myself, i still have my own hair 😊 and nice teeth. 😊 Anybody that gets to know me for five minutes will conclude that i’m a decent person. I’ve been told all my life that i’m a great guy,, wonderful and lovely, yet no woman would get anywhere near me. I’ve got pretty much everything i need (or everything a woman needs) apart for the pretty eyes (and consequently pretty face). That is how i got here. So, speaking for myself, and from my 45 years of personal experience, full of rejection, being ignored and overlooked, i am forced to conclude that if you haven’t got the pretty eyes and the pretty face, you’ve got nothing. It may sound dramatic but that’s my experience with women. It sucks, i tell you that much.
@@vibora7795 Are you one of those ‘many men’? While i agree that women can destroy men’s lives, and vice-versa btw, and all that for a whole host of reasons for both parties, still a whole life of rejection and being ignored is not something of value to make someone feel lucky about. Again, i don’t know if you are one of those many men you’re referring to that had bad experiences with women, so i don’t want to offend you or anyone else, but my experience is at least as tragical and sad. I think there are few people out there that can fully relate to my story, so not expecting everybody to agree or be sympathetic. I’m sorry for all the men and women that have been hurt or even destroyed by bad relationships, but i can tell you that the complete lack of even bare minimum relation with the opposite sex is not a good thing either, so i don’t consider myself lucky in that respect at all. Of course, you’re entitled to your opinion and that’s perfectly fine. I’d like to see a women’s take on my story though, but not holding my hopes high at all, i’m used to be ignored by now. It sounds dramatic, i know. Sorry about that. 🙂
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane. I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
I'm accepting the fact that the rest of my life is going to be ... "He's the old dude down the street that grows good pot and talks to his cats" I like cats
Yeah, most cats will be loyal as long as you feed them! Doesn't matter if you are their owner or not. A lot cheaper than keeping an average woman loyal.
@@cityman2312 Sad state of affairs when that's so true. Keeping cats clean is rather easy too, except that the last time I gave my cat a bath I still haven't got all the fur off my tounge.
Great advice in an easy to understand format for cavemen. Red flags have always been my downfall. I trust too easy being HSP and too empathic. Watching videos like this helps realize my weakness to always keep the peace and to stand by my beliefs. Now I just need to know all my beliefs to see who matches them. Its a lot of work at, 59 and some days think its easier being single.
Love it! 68 y/o spoken here- single. People (read: women) say I look in my 50's. Think I'm through dating, but...if the 'right' woman strolls across my view?
I am in my 60s and still have high drive and passion . I have ended up being with women who are different versions of my ex wife and those are my lessons in life. It seems like younger women are still attracted to me as I can tell from talking to them at work. A younger lady wanted to come over and have dinner with me. I did not take her up on that offer because I can't see myself having a long term relationship with her and don't want to end to hurting her feelings . I already have children and grandchildren and would not get together with anyone with under 40 as I am do not want to be raising children later in life. ..The may be a reality if you get involved with a younger woman you may end up having more children as most women in there 30s still want to have kids.
....such honest and good advice! My hats off to Mr. Wingmam for having the open mindedness to still be comfortable with you life coaching 50,000,000 single men and a couple of us loser men😅!
So easy for people in there 50s ... You have your place....She has hers... See each other 2-3 times a week.. She deals with her kids... You deal with yours... Don't get suffocated....
Prenups are still not the risk for me. I would enjoy a women company. But at 63, I’m finding the juice is not worth the squeeze. Becoming more content with being alone. I so enjoy seeing you each time I pull up you videos. And hearing your advice. Be well.
Widowed after a great 25 year marriage, I'm finding that while I was Doing Domestic Life the whole time, most of the women I'll meet out here were either branch-jumping or just playing the field. Now I enter the game with the mindset of someone who last dated as a college kid...and man is it way off of reality. Most women my age, it seems to me, have at this late stage so many emotional calluses I'm really skeptical anything like my previously intimate and precious relationship is even possible for them. I know it still is for me, I literally had 4 loves total...but I was in domestic stasis and most of them weren't. I don't have any answers, I just think a lot about this dynamic.
Always Hope. 44 & even I know Hope is a good thing. Probably the best of things! 5 days into No Contact Detox & 25% of my self corrections already complete. I WILL get her back! Bank on it!
I love ❤️ your Advice, it’s so spot on , and it really works , trust me I’ve tried it , and served me well , but , I did it the way you said too !!! Thank you Lady !!!! 👍🏾
I’m in my late 50s just out of a 25 year marriage, living in Italy. Lots of options (through dating apps) with women 10-15 years younger who all want long term relationships. Stay active with health, friends and hobbies.
Great presentation of complicated realities -- you could give science professors advice on how to organize their material. Last week's show was also great (I was too busy to respond). I never miss an episode
@@YourWingmam You make my day, as well. During the week, if the news gets me down, I'm apt to check back on your presentations to snap me out of it ♦️♦️
HELLO ANNA. I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR SAYING. NOW WITH THIS COVID ALL OVER THE WORLD PPL ARE SCARED TO BE WITH ANYONE. YEARS BACK NO PROBLEM. NOW PPL CHAT ON LINE. MY THEORY IT.S GOING TO TAKE A LONG TIME TO FACE ANYONE. LOVE YOUR TOPICS.
Covid fear will subside. In the meantime, work on improving life where you can. Also, people are still dating, they're just being more careful. If you're worried, focus on you. If you're less worried, just be careful! :)
Lots of great info in this video. Thanks Anna. If I thought I was with the right lady, and she wanted marriage, I would want a prenup. Problem is...it is not legally binding in England. I have googled prenups in England. Result was, it is up to the judge to decide if it should stand. Some judges will agree, some won't.
The courts in England now lean towards honouring a prenup where both parties took independent legal advice and it was not rushed just before the marriage, unless one partner or dependent children would be left in serious financial difficulty. And the bill currently going through parliament contains clauses reinforcing their use.
i ,want a PRE~NUP, TO LOCK, OUR "CELL PHONIES" AWAY, ON WEEKENDS, DINNERS, OUTINGS,~ BECAUSE, THERE'S NO "THERE~THERE" ~ ASSETS, TOO~ONE, NEVER KNOWS, WHEN, A OBSCENE, AMOUNT, OF ASSETS, ETC~ WILL DROP, IN YOUR LAP~
Met a gal when in our 50's. She early retired school teacher helping her Mother. Me divorced 2 + decades and a semi driver. Fast forward 11+ years. Each own a residence now I am working part time local she full time teaching far away. We are trying a LDR. Both in late 60's and I feel time is not on our side. It is lonely we have had a "healthy" adult relationship. I miss it ,her ? Do I wait?
I’m sorry but I really do give up. 54 years old, was in a long-term marriage for 17 years. Divorced now for about 10 years and it’s just an absolute circus to try to date. Women really don’t know what they want and are very reluctant to actually meet at this stage of life. It is almost impossible to believe what really goes on in the dating world.
Mr. John don’t give up have Some faith in God anything is possible, who knows about tomorrow only God know. Same here I was married for 17 years but now divorced for 3 years, I’m 37 now I’m not looking for a man, waiting for the right person, because I know always God has a reason and better for me, after my divorce no dating. I have peace and happy and blessed in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🏾 🤜🤛 Mr. John May God bless you and your family, stay safe and blessed take care now!!! 🤝
Physical and mental articulation of concern are a factor, yes, but what I think is paramount..”ATTITUDE”. Having a healthy, positive “attitude” of yourself will conquer everything. Wow, reading so many levels of defeats and throwing the towel. I’m never going to give up. My words of wisdom, “rejection is protection”. If it didn’t work, it’s because it wasn’t meant to, so learn from it and move on”.
I really think that a "positive attitude" is Stress. Death sentence in any relationship. Interesting the words swapping, actually "protection is rejection". I would challenge myself every day instead of waiting for the world to change. Is more fun!
I really appreciate and enjoy your dating advice. Especially how you make it light and fun. I enjoy your humor as well, you make me smile. I understand this is your work and you're passionate about it. I would like to learn more about you, do you have a significant other in your life? Are you using your own advise to find a partner to love and grow with? You have my attention if you read between the lines. Just sayin'
Since several weeks we (I’m 60 and a young woman aged 30-35 working for a subcontractor) are exchanging deep eye contact. She was never alone and carefully hides the smiles from the colleagues. Emotions say, go straight and invite her for a coffee, reason says that she is at the age of my daughter. I am healthy looking like 50, btw. Today I went into the company after a month long business trip and she gave me the most wonderful smile. Should I ....?
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p.s. 1. High five for paying extra attention! You rock, Sir.
2. I know the reason my marriage to an older man (16 years my senior) didn't work out was because of several of the reasons mentioned in this video. We both contributed to the demise of our relationship by not paying attention to these things early on, and if I'd known before meeting him what I know now and if HE knew before meeting me what I'm teaching you, it would have saved us both the heartbreak of an amicable but necessary divorce. That's part of why I created my WakeUP2Luv to love program. Learn from our mistakes, er, I mean, our experience! ;) God bless! xo AJ
Cool,calm ,and collective
Hi I like to get to know you, are you game? I am in my 60's.
@@gino007able Anna is off the market.
@@Mett19 can't she can speak for her self?
I'm in a perpetual state of discombobulation. I'm a diamond in the rough. There's no such thing as tough. You're either trained or untrained. Be polite while being unstrained. . .
I am 60+ and dating has become a challenge. I have been single for a couple of years now. Tried dating and found some interesting women. Most seem more like a liability rather than an asset. I feel living alone for now will be my plan.
I guess it’s because when you’re alone - you’re your own boss. No obligations to have sex when you don’t feel like it and so on.
@@proba78 Maybe, I don't know. I don't mind being by myself. Just would be nice to have someone to chat with and yes sex also. I still got it so might as well use it.
Let's get logical. If age is a liability in the dating world. Then why assume things will be better for finding someone when you are even older? If your iron is at all hot, strike now.
@@peaceonearth8693 Love or logic two halves of the coin. I will always be aware that there is someone out there looking for me. If we meet fantastic. If not well then maybe in the next one. I haven't given up, just find it a challenge.
Are you aware of briffault’s law?
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50 year old man: _"Do you think my salary is sufficient for you?"_
Woman: _"Yes, it's sufficient for me, but how will you survive?"_
Hey Brother, underrated comment!
LOL!!!! p.s. LOL!!!
LMAO! Obviously a man who has some experience here!
This type of comment keeps reminding me how nice it is to be single at 58 ;)
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I have knocked myself out for 3 decades and have given up. Tired of being rejected, ghosted, stood up etc
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane.
I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
I'm going on 2 decades now. I just gave up on a woman after 4 years of dating and realized she doesn't even like me, I tried everything to be a gentleman and she is always with this other guy whenever I see her - we never even got to the hand holding stage. I've realized that women are incapable of telling the truth to a man.
Always be ready to walk. I’ve done this, twice. Some of the smartest things I have done in my life.
The scary part is that women can be so manipulative and put on a great act to lure you into marriage. Men are so dumb many times, too, about women. Don't allow yourself to be fooled, guys.
You are absolutely correct with regards to TRT (testosterone replacement therapy). I noticed feeling lethargic and lacking focus a year ago. I mentioned it to my doctor. He suggested my testosterone may be low. He tested me for it. My free testosterone is now at the level it was 25 years ago when I was thirty. My energy level, focus, overall feeling of well being and yes, my libido are incredible. I highly recommend for any man to be tested.
61 years young. Still surfing , racing motocross, ( 60+ division) and entertaining younger girls ..it's not so bad
A great example of how men over 50, 60+ have options that, let's face it, women over 50, 60 simply do not. ... unless some young stud just wants a sugar momma or to get their cougar card stamped! ;)
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Go get em Tiger!!
@@markgardner8542thanks and honestly really no big deal.. been doing both sports since age 12..., but ( lol ) don't call other dudes tiger ..never lie , cheat , steal , or exaggerate..& go down swinging with honor and humility ..life is a daily gift ..peace and be happy and well
@@YourWingmam Yep. 61, out of a toxic marriage and still enjoying ladies in their 30’s. I advise never to date ‘em post menopause - they’ve gone even crazier then. And never, ever, marry or cohabit with them.
Anna you are so spot on. I'm 60 years young and active. Emotionally and financially stable. When I first talk with a man I want to hear him chuckle. I want to know he has a bright outlook on life. I'm disappointed men are not as appreciated for their masculinity. I want a man not a mouse (but I would never say that to a man).
Squeak.
@@mattmccracken1768 My first question would be why you are single at 60 , bad cook , wife etc or got over confident you could do better years earlier and now looking to do a repair job . Either way , real men aint making moves after 50 only simps who havent learned , and they are all skint .
Feminism has made women despise men and be hostile to them, so they have decided to invest in some other fields of interest (they have become MGTOWs) as about 99% of men feel they are undesirable - and the 1% of those who are desirable ("perfect men") usually have as many women as they want, as ladies would rather share a type A man with other women than have a type B of their own.
@@mattmccracken1768 Funny, Let me guess, a mouse with a lot of money or a man with little. Who would she choose?
Thank you AJ. I'm 45, self employed, no children, and never married. AND NOT GAY!! Thank you ❤🔥
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Don't you just love the pressure cooker? Somehow everyone thinks you have to marry in life. Not that you have to marry to be happy, or anything else, just that you have to marry. I think it's because somehow you're immature if you don't marry. Such immature marrieds that think that, don't have a clue how mature it was that 100% of the effort put into your house is done by YOU. You hold down a job, manage your own finances, maybe even do your own taxes, laundry, cooking, God forbid even your own sewing and ironing, and YOU'RE immature? Well if Immature is not raising kids, then yes, but I'm sure there's a number of singles whom adopt kids, not that the fascist courts will probably ever put a child with a single due to anti-single prejudice. And yes, for the more foolish out there, they got married to prove they weren't gay😂.
Tell me Albert, just off the side, but do you find like I do, that when you talk to women, and I mean even ugly women, that your voice automatically becomes deeper? It's a weird phenomena with me. It can be a pain too, because there's plenty you don't want to give the impression you're interested in them, but, what am I saying? The voice lowers BECAUSE I am interested in them. Not for romance necessarily, but just the general concept of the exotics they are - they're not men.
projection tells us whats on your mind.
@albertmunoz6952 Most likely, men at that age already try same sex experience, but they are not going to be open about it ,that's why they behave so immature sometimes I see it in many older men's
Hello Anna Marie. As a man in his late 50s who's single after a 28 year long relationship, I feel like I've gone through a time warp when it comes to dating. It's apparent that I'm now dealing with a completely different dating world, so it's great to have a channel like yours to explain the female psyche, as for most of my life I failed to realise the mental differences between men and women. Thanks so much for imparting your considerable no BS knowledge, which I feel is helping me to get to grips with what I need to do to get the girl. Very best wishes to you. Steve.
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
For anyone over 50, it's probably best to seek friendship and companionship first. If that develops into something more, fine. But don't start thinking seriously about any long-term relationship until you have known that other person for a while. One step at a time.
Excellent advice!
At least for women over 50. And single moms. They should only seek friendship
My advice is keep it friendships only. Anything else and she is sizing you up for resource extraction. If you deny this you are a fool. Everything she brings to the table she takes to her next victim and what you bring is transferred to her. This makes the judge smile inside.
A prenup is a joke. There must be a marriage contract that a women's court judge can't change.
Women don't think the way she is telling us they think. Her debts, she won't bring these up until after the court is on her side. Her number one goal with debt is to make her debt your debt. Good woman or bad woman this is her strategy.
Absolutely agree!
Dating after 50 seems like lots of work, time for a nap
Some of my best dates have been naps.
Dating after 20 seemed like lots of work too. ...time for a nap.
Being married at 23 seemed like lots of work. ...time for a nap.
Being separated at 31 seemed like a lot of work. ...time for a nap.
😊👍
...single at 55 seems like, hey lady, whatever works! ...do you like naps?
I'm 59 and I tell woman I am 53 because I look it and I find the best Viagra is a young woman about 42 to 46 . Especially if they never had children . It could take time to penetrate her . Particularly if she is a beautiful Asian woman . They are interested in money, its part of their culture and I am doing well I can do anything I want , go anywhere I want . I doubt if I will get married again so I don't have to do anything but take her on a weekend get away . Stay at a nice hotel and dine at nice restaurants and buy her a nice piece of jewelry . My problem has always been I get tired of a woman after 2 to 3 years . Or when they talk about marriage and having a child . Then I start to be less available until she gets upset at me and I tell her its not going to work. Just don't make promises you don't intend to keep . Be honest just have fun. At this age you will get so much ass it is fun , beautiful Asian woman make me go from 2 am to 6 am that's if the club closes at 2 am
I'll take the naps anytime :)
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I tried dating in my 50's, every woman 40 to 65 that I dated still wanted the six 6's, even the unemployed obese 2's. I canceled my dating site subscriptions. I am now 60. I am 5'8", a fit 5, no debt, own my home, $1 million net worth, highly active workout freak, own a small company. I would like companionship, but I feel dating sites are a loss, and meeting women naturally is almost impossible at this age.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
you are doing so much better than most men in your age, at 68 last time I dated was 46, stopped there, don't miss the hassles, frustration and low quality of date prospects, every woman out there thinks she is a prize and wants royal treatment- I'm out
In short, you are short. Go abroad!
Right there w you, at 67!
Hardly ever have I met my match....matter of fact, never!
Broke ass women that never will be happy. Never.
@@michaelsix9684 These women have pumped themselves up with ego yet won't lose the weight. Most women over 40 are gross with their cloths off. Oh but they are a prize in their own mind. Delusional the bulk of them.
The dating scene is a joke. Just finding a woman that is in any way feminine is almost impossible.
You got it brother, mercenaries looking for treasure...
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@@YourWingmam Nice vid that one. Well done. Can tell you're in a zone there.
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You're right. If they aren't feminist, they're a 4 looking for an 8.
My friend, married for over twenty years, loved his wife's beautiful long hair. She cut it short! That was the day he knew his marriage was over.
Hi 🥰
Awesome commentary!
Watch what a person does, not what they say..
good fairytale :)
I cut mine because I was looking like a witch due to it going grey and regular dying was turning it to steel wool. I coloured it myself because to go to a salon would set me back $300 only for grey to peep through again two weeks later. I’m a practical kind of person.
Thank you Anna for addressing us Gezzers. 64 year old athlete here. Still run, and pump iron 6 days a week. No prescription drugs either. Libido is linked to fitness in my opinion. Exercise promotes testosterone. No issues with libido, ED here whatsoever with zero chemical supplementation. Stay away from soy and anything cooked in vegetable oils. They are garbage. The though of dating ( especially younger women )makes me want to throw up. LOL
Independent Contract: You may me a “Gezzer,” but I consider myself a “geezer,” and an Old Geezer at that! 😎
Too many wrong women. Warped lives watching Bachelorette Kardashians and dating apps. Like your vids but I’ve given up finding anything other than happiness in my own life. Good point about compatible long term goals. That’s a tough one. Everyone should watch your red flags video.
Definitely don't go for those ones! Filter filter filter, never waste time with someone who doesn't pass the first round of *your filters!*
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In response to your video; you make many legitimate points that detract from useful relationships after 50/60.
Yes, many men are tired, low libido, poor health, failed marriages, loss of income, etc. I can add however,
the ladies in this equation are over the hill, and lipstick alone cant hide the high mileage on their odometers.
Theyve had more prick than a second hand dartboard
Lol
Even in their 60s, a lot of women think they are still a "10" when she's a worn out "3". They will die all alone because they don't think anyone is good enough for them.
*Conversely* there's many wallowing in self pity cos they're not as physically attractive, if they just accepted themselves and positive they'd be personality-attractive
100%! So they don't hit you back in online dating sites. Who's interested in delusional types anyways?
@@timothyw7663 Right! you let it be or if you really like a woman then you must show her that you like her, independently of what happens. It does not care. You do your part. Nothing comes from heaven. You make it. Period
Their cats will eat them.
The problem with women starts in their early 30s.....
"Women don't need wealth" ~Pinocchio
I am sixty, widowed three years ago and have recently become engaged to a wonderful woman. They are out there (one less now). Don't give up!
Me too, so, inspiring. Thx brah.
I recently turned 51. I was divorced almost 3 years ago. Trying to meet someone these days at this age is damn near impossible. Women's standards are way higher than what they deserve.
@@teutonicresistancetv6445 try dating a Lady and not a independent woman and yes there's a difference, one is from the City and the other from a small town in Nebraska..lol
I waved the White flag years ago,and it's been better for me.Good luck to all who remain in the game.🏳
All the best. I've been single for more than 10 years.
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane.
I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
Been out the game since 2016 and happy not chasing my tail , haven't found anyone with anything they can bring to my table
In my 50s, after 30+ years at the same employer, never married, no kids, I don't have to work any more. The part about dating women who have their finances on track is spot on.
I'm in the same situation but good luck finding a woman who is financially stable most of them I find have a lot of debt and co-signed on thier kids loans sorry but I run away!!!
I’ve watched a lot of your videos. This is the best one I have seen so far. “Don’t go for potential” is the best advice ever. Either love what is in front of you right now, or walk away. And the “cuddle phase” is a lot more satisfying than whatever the 20s phase is called. Never knew true intimacy until now. After two failed long term relationships I thought my love life was over but a year later I turned out to be wrong. Its better than ever.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I've actually done better since I turned 50. I have different expectations than I did as a young man, more experience, a better understanding of self and less tolerance for silly BS. Collectively, it's actually made dating much simpler. Good video!
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
Where do you find women to date?
@@Darknfrog Honestly, they come to me. At the grocery store about a week ago. Lady behind me struck up a conversation over the artichokes in my cart. Ended up with her offering to make me dinner. I'm not some handsome guy, so I can't really explain it.
@@phaedralynn1808 I don't believe in giving up on good things. I don't have movie star looks or tons of money, but I have plenty of patience. All things in time, including love. :-)
@@dankingjr.2088 Hi Dan.. Can we exchange contact? Id like to know more about you.
I'm 45, two years after my divorce and I still am unable to feel any kind of warmth towards woman. I think that feeling is gone forever. It's not that I regret it. Probably it's juts me. But still it's surprising. As for libido - it's not as good as it used to be but since I live alone, it doesn't bother me as much as it used to
It's not gone forever, just give it time, Took me a few years, but when it changed I found a wonderful woman, because I was not looking for a super model. She is great and now willing to try new stuff.
Learning to live without women is truly liberating VL. Stick at it, in time you will not feel like you missing anything. Indulge your hobbies and interests, buy a classic car, get a dog- sorted! :)
You need a mid life crisis- 45 is nothing ... don't wait till your in your 50's.
@@oaksoldier45 I guess I already am in the middle of that crisis :) I’m not waiting but still it feels like I’m stuck in limbo
@@proba78 Don't be too tough on yourself. Like you, I felt so free when I left my marriage in '97. That surprised me because I was actually happy married. It also wasn't a nasty divorce we just wanted to go separate ways. We didn't have kids so no issue there.
...what amazed me as the years went by I got very comfortable alone. There were opportunities to try again but I honestly didn't want to.
I haven't written it off but I am pretty fussy so it would have to be the right situation. 👍
glad i found you Anna, i ordered the T test, thank you so much for offering the link. I'm over 50 and just wanted to comment, I had zero luck dating women my age, they were all looking for a hot stud / young bull, I'm glad there are younger women out there who appreciate the five positives you mentioned in one of the videos, thanks for being here...
At 66 I find it’s become very difficult to date. The past hurt makes it difficult I’m afraid. I still appreciate your great advice. Take care
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
Being 64 I've pretty much given up on finding a partner that I find attractive, I really don't want to go too young, my issue with women close to my age is they look like my mom or grandmother. Major hurdle for me.
At 60 I couldn't imagine going down on a 60+ set of meat flaps...yiles😮
I met a woman 61 like myself only thing super fit gym bunny the other end of the spectrum flirty confident chiselled body a real head messer choose wisely there is someone out there for everyone
yes it's a huge problem, sadly aging is not kind to most women over 50
They ARE moms and grandmothers...
@@erichodge567 men don't want older wives or dates
I'm 61 kids and grandkids are grown. My wife passed on. Now it's no drama, just enjoy life and have fun now.
There are plenty of charities or kids that could use your money, definitely not the drama hunters!
My condolences for your loss. If you decide to try dating again, I recommend trying to find a widow. So much easier when they understand what you've been through. :)
@@YourWingmam I enjoy life with everyone, no holds barred. However if I decide to stay with one lady again. I'll hook up with someone like myself. God willing and the creek don't rise.
Appreciate the fact that you're down to earth. A natural type of character.
Dating in the 50,s is trying to find a good car in a junk yard.
But you can buy a few wrecks & build 1 car
Best analogy I have ever heard!
Does that mean a low price and no monthly payments? 😁
@@dougarnold7955 buy here pay.
I would actually say it is like finding a car after they were in a flood. You don't see the damage until it is too late.
Can't wait for your video on dating advice for men over 80...
Buy a good hand lotion!
I wouldn’t wait that long!
Prepay your funeral!😂😂😂😂😂😂
The “he should love me for who I am but why should I reciprocate?” comment at 17:50 is so true. The sense of entitlement, egged on by the women’s lib movement, is a major problem in today’s dating scene.
And make sure that pre-nup isn’t time limited. My manipulative ex threatened to walk away if I didn’t sign a new one giving her even more, despite never cooking me a meal or ironing a shirt during our four years marriage. I could see the writing on the wall as it was a five years prenup. Now divorcing at my instance - blackmail isn’t conducive to good bonding.
then walk away ------correction if I man, then RUN away as fast as you can.
The challenge at 50+ is values and lifestyle, then throw independence in. Try to match up those. The other side of the bell curve. Not impossible, but patience is required.
That's a valid point.
I'm 42. I found out the hard way, that I should have given up long before now.
Amen brother
I totally understand. Watch the divorced and licking your wounds part again. Giving up is one option. The other option is being very choosy and getting them to sign a prenup (how to sell the prenup in the video!). Take a break but if you don't want to live lonely and die alone, stick around and follow my advice.
@@YourWingmam my story is more complicated than a divorce.
How about: meeting the closest thing to "dream girl" and havingvher right before the 1 year anniversary tell you "Were done. We aren't compatible".
Yeah, hope gone.
@@TLOofMPLS They are always looking for the next best thing - window shopping....the more they have the more they want....
@@TLOofMPLS Break ups are hard brother. I'm going through one right now of 7yrs. Take care of yourself and love yourself. You'll find another beautiful person who will appreciate you. Stay strong.
I’m 71, single, never married, good financial situation… go to Asia or Latin America for younger fit, fun, feminine, friendly women….
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
My advice would be not to do that you can’t forget cultural differences.
53 years old and financially fit. Was married from 30 to 45. Rebuilt my life post divorce and see no reason to ever marry again. I have an active dating and sex life. No long term relationships. No cohabitation. I'm retiring in 2 months and have no intent to screw that up.
Good man!
Beware of your (no) intentions, Mike!
I’m a male who just turned 60. I’m single, I was married for a few years in the 90’s, but it didn’t work out. I have no kids. I exercise every day, and am very fit. My testosterone level is 1,087 ng/dl (yeah, it’s supplemented). I’ve been retired for 8 years, I have a pension with a significant income, I built my dream home in Florida near some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. I’m ready to meet a wonderful woman - and now there’s a pandemic…
😂
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@@colleencorrigan8847 😂😂😂
I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane.
I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
My wife of 47 years passed away two years ago and your videos are very informative. Thank you for what you do.
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
Anna - Thank you for this information. I’m 54, and I have never been married, and it’s very challenging to find a romantic relationship. I really appreciate your advice and I am more positive about my chances. Your videos are extremely helpful.
I'm happy the videos are helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
The idea you are 54 and never had a marriage is going to give most women pause.
@@latinaalma1947 - no doubt, but I am not ready to give up. I rather try and fail, than not try at all.
@@mikes.4136 Me too not ready to give up either but am in a foreign country and it is hard.
@@latinaalma1947 I wish you all the best.
Libido: Certainly not every man is the same but from my experience if you keep active and fit while keeping the body fat in check (around the belly) then the libido won't decline too much. Sometimes I'm in the mood everyday, sometimes a few times a week then there's a week where I have no interest at all. I'm 58, my reading has showed that some men in their mid 30's have a lower sex drive than I do. I assume that is a result of poor diet, poor fitness and possibly being over weight.
This is gold info .. thx a lot ... am 34 wondering where’s the drive . Now I know the culprit .
Great comment and as far as I can tell very accurate. I'm 55 and more fit than a lot of younger men. I like to practice yoga. That's great for flexibility, weight control, strength and great for your mind.
I am late 60s and better health then in my 30s and libido is even better from excerise superfoods etc .
With all due respect, save your money and your self worth. Spend your time and money with your family. You’ll never measure up in her circle...I recently got a question on a first meeting: “What’s your net worth, assets minus liabilities, please?” Believe if they are over 50, they haven’t been Barbies for years but still tend to act like one...
Filter filter filter before you invest any time in her. And if she asks these kinds of questions up front, know that she's filtering, too. That's great! You can eliminate her stat. :)
@@YourWingmam No worries, I left her with the liabilities, the check...equal rights: equal responsibilities...my initials are not A.T.M.
Did you think what I thought? Assets? Too numerous to mention, not to mention the cash and credit rating. Liabilities? Well, hun? Prolly you, if I decide to stay. So long then. Good luck!
It is amazing how some low value women delude themselves about their value.
@@YourWingmam Sadly this particular example was typical and not exceptionally bad. Exceptionally bad would be like the time where a woman told me she was a pervert - that was unusual. But the vast majority of cases ... she wants money, she wants your Ferrari, she wants a big, swollen... member- bank account membership!
*Take the time to communicate openly, be upfront with your intentions, and don't let fears of rejection hold you back from truly connecting.*
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
It's all about companionship and trust and mutual understanding
Sharing the journey
WTFudge... That makes WAY too much sense! 🙄
Hey Anna. Yes as you get older you lose some things, but I've found out you gain some things as well. Learning from mistakes is a constant thing with me, and yes we can't change people or wait for them to change, they have to want to do it themselves. Keep up with the great advice! 👍
❤️ 🙂 Thank you. I will!
Women’s list of must have’s at any age is virtually insurmountable.
60+: Dating now is like shopping at the junk yard, all the good parts are gone. Not saying I'm any better.
George, I think that is the exact description of one part of society. Nobody teaches us how it should be. The answer is within us. Honestly I think , we are not "junk" or "parts" and we are not "shopping" and I believe that nobody can know "all parts" thinking like that. Fight George!
I am single And have been for 5 years! My kids are 22 and 27 and I am so free! I am focused on my companies and don’t want to have to take care of anyone anymore! And my Libido is off the charts! I am vegan and and into my health! Men need to really take care of their health more then worry about having a women! There are so many women all around the world! Men just Focus on YOU!!
Not there yet, but close, ha. Thank you so much for your videos, I've probably watched over 100 videos. You have great advice.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Always love your advice..and have been a fan for years! Although I have given up on relationships, I still enjoy your posts♡
Hello Howard, I'm 30, single
And that's it. My questions answered at about 0:55, as someone unemployed I'm undateable. A lifetime alone until death which can't come soon enough some days. Thankyou!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
This was a good one. Prenup benefits the both of us!
Hi I'm 49 and in my 50th year on this planet.. I was diagnosed with minimal cerabral palsy as a 11 year old.. That's also the age I learned to read for the first time after struggling at first in a school that absolutely crushed any confidence I needed.. So had to actually leave the small town I lived in to get the proper help and school.. Tough when you that age I did learn to read confidence did start to get better.. But I've always been a little behind because it's not 100% confidence.. Always needing a kittle advice before I did things. And finding love have been very sad as well because you ladies pick up on a guys confidence quickly.. Anyways, in the last 4 months I've been watching youtube for advice on rejection and man I've learned so much so that I'm nearing my first ever genuine relationship 😊🙏.. Thank you for your help all of you life coaches be it guys or ladies🙏😊
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@@YourWingmam appreciate your help just sad it took me so long to realize TH-cam had the help I eeeded.. But as the saying goes better late then never!! Have a blessed day and year ahead 😊🙏
I'm 66 with a pension and broke but I still believe one can still have a a up of tea and a good conversation
Why not. bless you
Lots of great Truths here Anna as usual. As a late 50’s man former LTR inhabitant life is what I make of it. Finances-check, Career-check, Positive outlook-check. Just recently connecting with a 60 year old woman with a vibe equal to mine. You are right about the cuddle phase those my loin longings are still there. She is aware of other females interested in me and realizes that I am discriminating and focused on what my purpose, plan and outlook In life is. At this stage it is great having someone feminine to share life and create New memories facing life head on. I must say it is neat that you are living in my hometown, that brings an almost familiar flavour to your insights. VM
Your videos have been SO helpful and not just in my relationships with women.
Thank you!
I’ll be out of the country for six months and very busy but I really look forward to taking your “Wake up to love” course in October.
All the best!
Wonderful!
Thank you! Clam :) nice one. I'm 52, single dad of a 12 yr old girl. Trying to get back int the game.
I gave up. I am now 61 been single for almost 5 years tried every dating app there is all are a joke. Haven;t been on one date or even had a meaningful conversation. All I attract are catfish. I don't have a lot of money I own my own business and love what I do. I own my house and car but don't have extra for all the women that want to "travel" etc. I am pretty satisfied being single now but there are times when you wish you had someone with same interests to share with.
I tell you, when you get that extra money..spend it on yourself.
I could have typed your response. Exactly every word. I have been really craving the last sentence, hence I am here. Sad isn't it?
I totally get every word you wrote, I am in the same position, also 60, also terrible luck on dating sites. Just about every woman puts "travel" on her dating profile, that is a red flag to me and instant no.
Have you considered joining co-Ed clubs of your interests?
I was ghosted by a woman who became a grandma. She loved being with and taking care of her grandson so much she started making plans to move into something bigger and closer to the grandson so his family could stay with her and she see them more easily. I’m done with women who are perpetual parents either to their grandkids or their 90 year old parents who have no one else to take care of them but their single and eligible daughter. 😡
That happened to me as well . When my 55 year old lady became a grandmother I got dump . Unbelievable
Have fun sleeping with your grandchildren. WTF 🤬
In my mid 50's & still dating women in there 30's. Just have your act together, keep in shape & have confidence.
Remember, if you have a lot to lose in a divorce, then keep it casual, as you SMV can drop significantly after being taken to the cleaners.
SMV?
@@alexmorgan3435 Sexial Market Value. The higher your SMV, the better quality of partners you can obtain, & the more desirable you are to the opposite sex.
It is very difficult to say something original to you, something to match your originality. You are unique, you know that. It is a pleasure to watch your videos. You are glad to give and "we" are glad to receive. Thank you!
Hi, your content is excellent. The '50s is a terrific age for dating as a man. Any age, really, especially today when so many guys out there are trash. A man with the most fundamental courtesies and some basic awareness of girl-view and a guy of any age will have his choice of women to choose from. Men are stubborn and your aporoach is the best. Thank you! 🥇🌠❤❤
I am the TRASH MAN! It's a joke. . . and a song of mine. I agree with you buddy.
After my wife passed,(13 yr together) I did ask women out, but no one said yes. 8 years later or maybe it was 6 or 7 I finally enjoyed my life again with my humorous playful cat, then to this year a lovely woman I vdid have a crush on 5 years ago said yes because we started having relaxing talks. I'm 55: she's 45. Oh and I like dominant women haha.your videos usually throw out valuable intel which are gold to me.
It's a whole new world at 55 and single again. Never thought I'd be in this position. Where to meet women, where to begin, Covid19?
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
@@phaedralynn1808 i believe there is someone out there for everyone. The key is how to find that person or have them find you.
I think you're absolutely right in saying that sometimes it's when you least expect it. In fact that's likely because you aren't expecting it, your just living, doing your thing, enjoying life. That's attractive.
Thank you for the kind comments. I appreciate it 🙏
I don't really like the dating sites either. I'm a old fashioned guy with some modern touches lol and I prefer face to face.
Have a wonderful weekend 😊
Dear Anna 😊💕💖💛 I am nearing 50 and its taking centuries to arrive and I will never have my finances in order because I am a kind soul and help my community uncontrollably and I am lucky to have a loving family and my labido is going in deep dive since 5 years but its good because I am much stable with my anger issue because I was a tank officer and if I lose my cool the cavalry is rolling over everything so I would say testosterone is overrated and be careful what we wish for.my partner is together with me for 18 years and I can't stay away from her because one night away feels like a hundred years.i listen 👂 to your kindness ❣️ so I always stay on my toes and never take love for granted ❤️💋 and keep my relationship evolving under the guidance of your sweet red lipstick 💄
Often we forget that the most important things happen by chance, sometimes what makes a treasure so unique could be the unexpectedness of its very location. This has made me open to getting blessings and desires in the least places i expected. I've tried several dating sites too but it just didnt work, what if love is here ? In as much as we have people commenting here then its very possible what we seek could be hidden somewhere in these comments, just thinking out loud. By the way you sound very versed and confident- you also appear like u know what u want in life which inturn can be very beneficially to those around you. You're someone i can learn from. Ive been single for quite sometime too, at some point i was forced to believe love isnt meant for me. I love being very open about my issue too although i only tend to do that when we have gotten to know one another better otherwise i can be very shy.
It reminds me that I have listened to some episodes on some podcasts of other dating coaches.
They sadly have mentioned that they have known guys, men, who have reached their 50s, even 60s and never had a girlfriend before.
It was depressing to hear that but at the same time I figure it's probably more common than we think, and many people like that just won't disclose a situation like that.
it's no doubt easy for people like that to feel that it's too late for them or the ship has sailed for them already long ago
Yep it can happen to people through chronic long term injury or illness that strikes them young it just ruins their lives
@@Stephen-bq4nq it's a depressing and irritating reminder how men are far more likely to end up perpetually single like that than women are
A lot of great points in this video. ❤
I’m 45 years old and a ‘perpetuate bachelor’ but not by choice. Never had a proper girlfriend, never had a proper date in my life. I’m fit and healthy (have my own gym at home), i look after myself, i still have my own hair 😊 and nice teeth. 😊 Anybody that gets to know me for five minutes will conclude that i’m a decent person. I’ve been told all my life that i’m a great guy,, wonderful and lovely, yet no woman would get anywhere near me. I’ve got pretty much everything i need (or everything a woman needs) apart for the pretty eyes (and consequently pretty face). That is how i got here. So, speaking for myself, and from my 45 years of personal experience, full of rejection, being ignored and overlooked, i am forced to conclude that if you haven’t got the pretty eyes and the pretty face, you’ve got nothing. It may sound dramatic but that’s my experience with women. It sucks, i tell you that much.
You know how many men would love to be in your shoes? You are one lucky guy!
@@vibora7795
Are you one of those ‘many men’?
While i agree that women can destroy men’s lives, and vice-versa btw, and all that for a whole host of reasons for both parties, still a whole life of rejection and being ignored is not something of value to make someone feel lucky about.
Again, i don’t know if you are one of those many men you’re referring to that had bad experiences with women, so i don’t want to offend you or anyone else, but my experience is at least as tragical and sad. I think there are few people out there that can fully relate to my story, so not expecting everybody to agree or be sympathetic.
I’m sorry for all the men and women that have been hurt or even destroyed by bad relationships, but i can tell you that the complete lack of even bare minimum relation with the opposite sex is not a good thing either, so i don’t consider myself lucky in that respect at all. Of course, you’re entitled to your opinion and that’s perfectly fine. I’d like to see a women’s take on my story though, but not holding my hopes high at all, i’m used to be ignored by now. It sounds dramatic, i know. Sorry about that. 🙂
You’re actually not missing much. It’s usually the case that a woman will diminish your quality of life.
I enjoy your videos! What is that red item behind you on top of the bookcase?
I'm not 40 or 50, I am just here to see Anna.
Right!
@@ck-mystic ME 2
Really like your youtube personality. Especially your wittines you have a great voice and the vibration of your words is superkool too. Thanks
Dating is a nightmare. Be careful of the gold diggers.
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I've dated hundreds of women, had many LTRs (>6 months). I'd consider myself having been "successful" at dating for 3 decades. I'd also say my "failure" rate with asking out women versus getting a date is probably 99% failure. Women are simply too much work, too confusing, too dangerous, and too insane. So crazy that we need decoder videos to try to figure them out. As it's said there are two things that make women unhappy: 1) Not getting what they want. And 2) Getting what they want! That is insane.
I'm out of the game now and have almost no interest. I was strongly red-pilled about a decade ago before the vernacular was common and we had a name for it. Seen too many ugly divorces, fake allegations, male suicides, etc. For the men, just walk away. There's so few % of women worth the time/effort it is effectively pointless. Aaron Clarey did a study to attempt to put a % on women worthy of relationships/marriage and came to 2% after ruling out for age, diseases, mental illness, feminists, drugs, criminals, and other red flags. TWO PERCENT. I concur that with my own experiences. The "juice" is definitely not worth the "squeeze."
Thanks Anna!
My pleasure ❤️
I'm accepting the fact that the rest of my life is going to be ...
"He's the old dude down the street that grows good pot and talks to his cats"
I like cats
Try being a volunteer at a animal shelter...chicks all over the place...well when I drive by I see them walking the dogs...
lol
Yeah, most cats will be loyal as long as you feed them! Doesn't matter if you are their owner or not. A lot cheaper than keeping an average woman loyal.
@@cityman2312 Sad state of affairs when that's so true. Keeping cats clean is rather easy too, except that the last time I gave my cat a bath I still haven't got all the fur off my tounge.
Well Mike sounds like we would be great friends! I like herb and cats! Like video games?
Well said Doc, win win. I like you taking up for us guys,lol. Great video. You covered a lot of ground. Thank you big time.
Great advice in an easy to understand format for cavemen. Red flags have always been my downfall. I trust too easy being HSP and too empathic. Watching videos like this helps realize my weakness to always keep the peace and to stand by my beliefs. Now I just need to know all my beliefs to see who matches them. Its a lot of work at, 59 and some days think its easier being single.
Love it! 68 y/o spoken here- single. People (read: women) say I look in my 50's. Think I'm through dating, but...if the 'right' woman strolls across my view?
I am in my 60s and still have high drive and passion . I have ended up being with women who are different versions of my ex wife and those are my lessons in life. It seems like younger women are still attracted to me as I can tell from talking to them at work. A younger lady wanted to come over and have dinner with me. I did not take her up on that offer because I can't see myself having a long term relationship with her and don't want to end to hurting her feelings . I already have children and grandchildren and would not get together with anyone with under 40 as I am do not want to be raising children later in life. ..The may be a reality if you get involved with a younger woman you may end up having more children as most women in there 30s still want to have kids.
Dude send her my way I want kids and time is short lol. Nah jk stay true brah. 👍
....such honest and good advice! My hats off to Mr. Wingmam for having the open mindedness to still be comfortable with you life coaching 50,000,000 single men and a couple of us loser men😅!
So easy for people in there 50s ...
You have your place....She has hers...
See each other 2-3 times a week.. She deals with her kids...
You deal with yours...
Don't get suffocated....
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Prenups are still not the risk for me. I would enjoy a women company. But at 63, I’m finding the juice is not worth the squeeze. Becoming more content with being alone. I so enjoy seeing you each time I pull up you videos. And hearing your advice. Be well.
Widowed after a great 25 year marriage, I'm finding that while I was Doing Domestic Life the whole time, most of the women I'll meet out here were either branch-jumping or just playing the field. Now I enter the game with the mindset of someone who last dated as a college kid...and man is it way off of reality. Most women my age, it seems to me, have at this late stage so many emotional calluses I'm really skeptical anything like my previously intimate and precious relationship is even possible for them. I know it still is for me, I literally had 4 loves total...but I was in domestic stasis and most of them weren't. I don't have any answers, I just think a lot about this dynamic.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
I work with women everyday at work, They give me all kinds of opinions. But I'm focused on single dad duties. All good. Thank you Anna.
I forgot, I'm 62 now, had my daughter at 48. I'm a late bloomer with a daughter. Best ever times.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
"Don't give up," easy for you to say.
Its her job to say that. You're watching her by your own choice. Why you here?
Always Hope. 44 & even I know Hope is a good thing. Probably the best of things!
5 days into No Contact Detox & 25% of my self corrections already complete. I WILL get her back! Bank on it!
I love ❤️ your Advice, it’s so spot on , and it really works , trust me I’ve tried it , and served me well , but , I did it the way you said too !!! Thank you Lady !!!! 👍🏾
Wonderful! Thank you so much, too many guys are giving up instead of changing their MO. :((
Exactly!!! You must change if you want to stay in the Game .... No pun intended!!!! 😌
I’m in my late 50s just out of a 25 year marriage, living in Italy.
Lots of options (through dating apps) with women 10-15 years younger who all want long term relationships. Stay active with health, friends and hobbies.
Great presentation of complicated realities -- you could give science professors advice on how to organize their material. Last week's show was also great (I was too busy to respond). I never miss an episode
Wow, thanks! Wonderful comment, made my day! Thank you for watching!!!
@@YourWingmam You make my day, as well. During the week, if the news gets me down, I'm apt to check back on your presentations to snap me out of it ♦️♦️
HELLO ANNA. I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR SAYING. NOW WITH THIS COVID ALL OVER THE WORLD PPL ARE SCARED TO BE WITH ANYONE. YEARS BACK NO PROBLEM. NOW PPL CHAT ON LINE. MY THEORY IT.S GOING TO TAKE A LONG TIME TO FACE ANYONE. LOVE YOUR TOPICS.
Covid fear will subside. In the meantime, work on improving life where you can. Also, people are still dating, they're just being more careful. If you're worried, focus on you. If you're less worried, just be careful! :)
Lots of great info in this video. Thanks Anna. If I thought I was with the right lady, and she wanted marriage, I would want a prenup.
Problem is...it is not legally binding in England. I have googled prenups in England. Result was, it is up to the judge to decide if it should stand. Some judges will agree, some won't.
Good to know! Even more important to filter filter filter and maybe make sure she has something to lose. Weigh the risks! Thanks for watching!
The courts in England now lean towards honouring a prenup where both parties took independent legal advice and it was not rushed just before the marriage, unless one partner or dependent children would be left in serious financial difficulty. And the bill currently going through parliament contains clauses reinforcing their use.
@@russ9921 Thanks for the info. Very interesting. Will look into prenup if I get to situation of marriage.
Good for everyone to consider.
i ,want a PRE~NUP, TO LOCK, OUR "CELL PHONIES" AWAY, ON WEEKENDS, DINNERS, OUTINGS,~ BECAUSE, THERE'S NO "THERE~THERE" ~ ASSETS, TOO~ONE, NEVER KNOWS, WHEN, A OBSCENE, AMOUNT, OF ASSETS, ETC~ WILL DROP, IN YOUR LAP~
58 have been talking to a 36 yr old for over a year.. learning. It was so different when I was young.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
My testosterone is alive and well at age 51. Lol
My testosterone has takin on a new life.😂💪
hello 🥰
Met a gal when in our 50's. She early retired school teacher helping her Mother. Me divorced 2 + decades and a semi driver. Fast forward 11+ years. Each own a residence now I am working part time local she full time teaching far away. We are trying a LDR. Both in late 60's and I feel time is not on our side. It is lonely we have had a "healthy" adult relationship. I miss it ,her ? Do I wait?
I’m sorry but I really do give up. 54 years old, was in a long-term marriage for 17 years. Divorced now for about 10 years and it’s just an absolute circus to try to date. Women really don’t know what they want and are very reluctant to actually meet at this stage of life. It is almost impossible to believe what really goes on in the dating world.
Mr. John don’t give up have Some faith in God anything is possible, who knows about tomorrow only God know. Same here I was married for 17 years but now divorced for 3 years, I’m 37 now I’m not looking for a man, waiting for the right person, because I know always God has a reason and better for me, after my divorce no dating. I have peace and happy and blessed in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🏾 🤜🤛 Mr. John May God bless you and your family, stay safe and blessed take care now!!! 🤝
Physical and mental articulation of concern are a factor, yes, but what I think is paramount..”ATTITUDE”. Having a healthy, positive “attitude” of yourself will conquer everything. Wow, reading so many levels of defeats and throwing the towel. I’m never going to give up. My words of wisdom, “rejection is protection”. If it didn’t work, it’s because it wasn’t meant to, so learn from it and move on”.
I really think that a "positive attitude" is Stress. Death sentence in any relationship. Interesting the words swapping, actually "protection is rejection". I would challenge myself every day instead of waiting for the world to change. Is more fun!
From where I sit, dating and relationships are among the highest risk activities one can take right now. Think I'll pass, thanks.
I'm sorry, I did not understand, are you dead?
@@ck-mystic - what does being dead have to do with the abysmal divorce and family court stats?
I really appreciate and enjoy your dating advice. Especially how you make it light and fun. I enjoy your humor as well, you make me smile. I understand this is your work and you're passionate about it. I would like to learn more about you, do you have a significant other in your life? Are you using your own advise to find a partner to love and grow with? You have my attention if you read between the lines. Just sayin'
Since several weeks we (I’m 60 and a young woman aged 30-35 working for a subcontractor) are exchanging deep eye contact. She was never alone and carefully hides the smiles from the colleagues. Emotions say, go straight and invite her for a coffee, reason says that she is at the age of my daughter. I am healthy looking like 50, btw.
Today I went into the company after a month long business trip and she gave me the most wonderful smile. Should I ....?
Get in there grandad 😉
That age difference will eventually be a problem for her of course if you just want a fling then go ahead.