I did to a point but in the back of my mind I knew that there was two sides to a story and yet have never heard there's.. But in time I knew that if person could constantly treat a person like shir my time was sure to come...no one is the exception... U never judge someone through another's eyes or ears...also U never give up the truth of who U R in search of something or someone else.. That's what the narc has done... Now they want to mold U into there submissive slave.
Never worry about the new supply - MOST were sleeping with them already and fighting to be their main person ! They are not better then you ! As I look at myself NOW I wish she enjoy the Ride she or he fight to get ! The person that left your life would have left you if you had become sick, disability or broke or later become older or lost of job ! Please cry and keep going forward in doing well and support your children do well in school ! Please keep going forward don’t look back ! It’s hard but that light 💡 is forward for an amazing life waiting ! Most of the new supply are embarrass they now see what they were fighting for but they can’t say anything because people knew how they got to this place
Great insight and absolutely correct. I can almost guarantee the back burner supply who fought so hard to take my place is being tortured by the narc husband. I think she thinks by having babies with him will make him stay or turn into a better person. She must be working really hard to prove to all that theirs is a happy relationship cause I know I did for 24 years.
Wow. Just wow. You are devastatingly, painfully and heart wrenchingly ACCURATE. It’s been about 10 years since I got rid of my second narcissist. NEVER AGAIN. I’m mentally and physically happy. Whoever needs to hear this … YOU CAN DO THIS. YOU WILL BE HAPPIER WITHOUT THEM EVEN IF IT FEELS PAINFUL AT THIS MOMENT.
Thanks ... I needed this.... Sick they are .. I got rid of one five weeks ago..... Gave him last chance ..three weeks of nonsense and more anger threats to me to change. 😮 As I had boundaries
35 ear marriage, found out a year ago he was having an affair. Basically a whole secret life. And I've been in a lot of pain. It's getting better after finding you all of you and listening to the doctor is a therapist. It helps me when I'm at my worst but you make me feel good. I love where you are and you're so positive and you remind me.
Nope. I don’t feel sorry for the new supply. A greedy cheater, happy to break up a marriage. Well, I’m happy now that I’ve learned what was wrong about my marriage; the Narcissist!! She deserves whatever happens.
At the end I was so skinny and exhausted. So drained physically, mentally, and financially. I feel so sorry for the next man. Hate to think that somebody else is going thru that punishment. No jealousy.
Yeah I lost so much weight it was unreal, endocrine system imbalanced, low heart rate, literal brain damage to the prefrontal cortex folds, psychogenic death 💯. Hope you are doing better now
Even referring to to people as supply sounds so horrible. It’s terrible they see people as tools rather than an actual person. I thank god for removing me from people like this in my past. I feel so free and happy.
I don’t normally comment on videos, but I’ve been watching your videos everyday for about 3 weeks now. And it’s helped me understand everything and heal day by day. Thank you so much much 🙏
Lucky for him he didnt get far enough to physically abuse me. I think he knew I would certainly incur as much damage as I could on him. I feel sorry for whoever hes using now. Good riddance to him. God will certainly visit him and he will pay for what he has done to all his victims!!!!
It's very disgusting they disrespect. A real man would stick up for you but they are immature selfish jerks , not real men. Their friends are not their real friends either but they try to make fun , nothing upstrs , nothing to value , good riddance. The people they try to impress are likely abnoxious users too
This so reminds me of the times when my narc ex said : "I had to go 'off grid' unexpectedly and for no reason until he felt like responding to my text and phone calls. Yet during the love bomb stage I remembered it very well. Constant texts from him, constant face times several times a day and night. During the 'early stages' if I did not respond quick enough he'd be texting wondering why I didn't get back to him. Never mind that I had to go out to work, relax in front of the TV in the evenings or even get a good night's sleep. My phone was constantly 'alight' with him constantly getting in touch. I had absolutely no idea that this was unhealthy and naively thought that this guy was really in love with me. Oh how wrong I was!
I was lovebombed so well. It broke my guard down and I was very very cautious for some time. As soon as my guard dropped down, the next phase started. He was a mix of borderline and narcissist - I still am angry with myself for dealing with the things I did for so long. For not seeing it for what it was.
I don’t care about what my ex’s boyfriend is doing or thinking. I know he is a temporary relationship like all of her”relationships” It’s great to see that she can’t carry on a normal relationship. When I left her I said to her “I’m leaving you behind but you have to take you with you wherever you go” the look on her face was priceless!
100% true, the new supply reached out to me, she suffered and the abuse started 3 weeks into their relationship, I really think that she got my punishment, she said he constantly compared her to me
Celebrating 3 months!! No contact and blocking!! Thank you Andrew for your videos. I have been watching daily sometimes all day. I will never let my guard down.
I am so glad to be out of that nightmare hell! He drove me crazy! I did not know what I was dealing with. I am glad you are living well and happy. I finally found my peace and happiness again! After a 4 year battle!
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you! I am doing great now. I stayed single all this time. Like you said Narcs are everywhere. Love your videos. THANK YOU!
She (new supply) found him online while he was still married to me. She wanted him so bad she sent him gifts, had an affair with him and offered to support him financially if/when he divorced me. Naive or just stupid, I don’t care what she is going through! I know my ex-Narcissist very well after 16 years. By now, his FAKE mask is on the floor. I’ll just say THANK YOU, you got what you deserve.
Wow this is spot on. I was always hoping that the way he treated me in the beginning with such thoughtfulness and love would return but I was duped big time. He said the sweetest things to me and I believed him. I’m doing things that brings me happiness and I’ve separated myself emotionally and see the whole thing with eyes wide open. I still miss what I thought I had with him even though it makes no sense.
I travelled the world with mine gave him everything, then with 2 holidays more 2 go on which he wanted to go on, I found out he was cheating again after 8yrs, we were together 10 he just left for her and took her away and proposed to her
From what I heard about his new supply, she gave up her car and isn't allowed to have anything to do with her kids, 7 of them, he doesn't take her anywhere, but he has a new vehicle and a motorcycle. So glad I never moved in with him.
This video has been a lifeline, today. I found out of the new supply and couldn't believe, after 11 months post discard, finally educated and healing, that so much pain and confusion was still bottled up inside! After watching this 2x, I am strong, beautiful, empowered, once again! Bless you, Andrew and bless this amazing community of bright lights shining the way forward!✨️🌟✨️
Same is true for me. Every holiday or vacation was so difficult. He seemed miserable and I picked up the same energy. Always an argument right before a holiday or vacation. Such horrible people
There is always something for him to complain about. The list was never ending. I kept fixing my every "fault" as they were pointed out, believing that it is my responsibility to correct myself to make our relationship better. i was made to think that its because of me that we are fighting, that we are not happy. but the items keep adding to my list, whether it is cooking better meals, smiling more often, initiating intimacy or talking more with my in-laws, or giving back massages, entertaining his friends more often, cleaning the house more often, etc etc. finally i changed myself for better but he was still at the bottom of the pit, unsatifsied.
I feel sooo sooo SORRY FOR HER and all the ones that went before her, GOD GOD BLESS HER, I mean that sincerely but not getting involved his last women was warned over and over again and she was a lovely girl and she got stung too.
Yes me too.. new supply ( old girlfriend) was posting my ex husband to make me jealous .. he was showing her off as well .. I’m sure she’s another narc as well .. perfect match !
I think the new supply ends up being a narc most of the time. I saw it with my dad (my ex step mom was definitely high on the narc spectrum) my sons dad (his gf is very similar to my ex step mom in character) and my ex has been telling me he’s been running into bad women.
Same here. I wasn’t married to him though Bcs I’d never marry someone like him. However I was devastated when he ran off on me w her and she was laughing and making fun of me. Well now she’s married to him and my daughter tells me she’s been suffering and crying a lot lately..
I have a degree in Psychology and never really knew what this was all about until this relationship. I got out 10 months ago. He broke up with me by text message. Which is so funny as I taught him how to text..lol
He mailed me a package of stuff that wasn't even mine..I threw it in the trash. I'm a widow (my husband passed 2 years ago). I met this man when I was out shopping one day. Needless to say, I buy most stuff online now 🙂
I do not feel sorry for my ex narc daughter's mother's new supply considering he contributed to me getting kicked out of my kid's life, Andrew knows what I went through in August.
I was married to my narcissist for 24 years. I needed this video. It’s been over a year since the divorce and I was lonely and reached out. It was foolish. I now am starting over at hour 1 for no contact and forgiving myself for the lapse in judgement. He’s a master at devaluing.
Omg!! Yes, my personal life I used to have it was all gone just like you said. My Astrology studies and goals took back seat because he consumed me with constant reaching out and making plans. So glad it’s all over. And yes, I paid for the bbqs. Lol. However he still low key embarrassed me in front of guests with side eyes or inappropriate jabs. Getaways were always ruined one way or another. Thank you Andrew!! 🙏🏼
The new supply thinks they found a unicorn🦄🦄🦄🦄, how long will it be until they realize unicorns dont exist....its just a horse with a party hat on..🥳😉 lol...yeah!
All I can remember from that toxic relationship are the bad moments, which really helped me to get over it. Unfortunately, most of my memories from childhood are also bad, even though there were plenty of good ones!
I honestly was considering seeking out a therapist to help me understand what I was dealing with and also get through and recover from this person that turned my world upside-down. I had no idea what a narcissist was until a friend posted something on FB...a motivational quote. The light bulb came on and I started researching. Thanks to your channel and others I now understand. My eyes are open and I've seen what I can't unsee. It's like the same story every video i watch....its almost hard to believe it's so textbook. I'm thankful you share your knowledge. I feel saved. Thank you
My story too. Didn't even know what a narcissist was.but I was tortured by one for ten years. I'm with you bro! Andrew is a God send.God bless you.we are getting better every day
Been there, done that. Not anymore. Don't miss it. Breaking the chains and moving on. Feeling happy with no contact. True, when I was in it with the narc and realized who he was I didn't know how to get out. I started to panic. I told him I never wanted to see him again and he obviously insisted and came over and next day too and got very pushy and I said no to him without realizing NO is a trigger for them and he got very angry and got mean and I experience mental shock because his meanest was very unexpected. I started analyzing myself and him and slowly realized the truth and my role in it. Now I am almost done. I don't care what the Narc is doing as long as he stays away from me. But I know I still have some healing to do. Your videos are very helpful, validating what I am going through.
My ex Narc and I divorced nearly 16 years. He married his "new supply" soon after. I was the best ex wife ever! I never bothered them. The "new supply" is a codependent doormat. He is nearly 60 years old and continues to behave like a three year old. My ex did the most in order to get what he wanted. Now that he has want he wanted, he still has me taking space in his head. My silence is my power! Making him irrelevant was a necessary decision that allowed me to move forward in order live my best life .
Geez! When you talked about the BBQ and that you had to pay...OMG! 100%. I paid for everything. He would conveniently leave his wallet in the car, home, etc. I feel horrible for the new supply. I warned her, she didn't believe me. I'm sure she is seeing the truth of it now.
I have done that to, leave wallet home with money in and trust him in my place while I was at work. I regret it and I changed that. But now looking back, it was to late. Omg I never new that's what I fallen in love with. Now I was discard- never new it. Until my sister told me and watched his videos
OMG so spot on of what my ex was. Narcissists use you so much you literally lose yourself as you knew it!! Also, they don't love the new supply no matter how handsome or beautiful they may be..or not, either way narcissists are not capable of love.
After my ex gf dump me for no reason other than she was pushing marriage. Just got out of bad divorce and she also my ex wife 3:30 was a Narc.. The gf dump me and said I have a new bf a new supply 7 months later the new supply took her to Europe.. Andrew I shake my head like you said unbelievable she manipulate this older guy.. Like you said he wondering how can she still be single at 58.. I know her for 25 years she getting older now she still think she young but the train has left the station.. Karma is coming she has been manipulating all her evil life..
This video is 100% right on point - it describes my life perfectly when I was the new target. The groceries really hit home and the trips - there wasn’t a trip I planned and paid for that he didn’t ruin acting like a spoiled child or a demented madman. I experienced everything you describe. Only after one gets educated do you know what happened. Thank you for your videos, you’ve been there and are here to help.
Andrew, Thank you so much....My Narc came in to my life saying he was not a Narc, causing me to look it up and find your channel and others. I have gotten an education. Because of that education i was prepared for each time he came at me. (Eight months later,and after talking to 2 of his ex's) I have asked him to leave 3 days after returning from a great summer trip. He was so suprised and caught off guard. I have always been a strong independent woman, i was still sucked in. I now tell everyone to learn about this.
I was once the supply paying for the bbq. The attendees weren't grateful. I was told I was nuts to pay for it. They shook their heads at me. People, man. Geez!
I too could jump in my pool and meditate. I have barely been in my pool for years due to what I call anxious paralysis from narcissistic abuse. You have inspired me today to see how many of my blessings I have ignored trying to fix the unfixable. Praise God and I thank you!
This video made me cry. Every single word is true!!! I can't believe that! So glad i ran away from such devilish toxicity. It is just amazing. That's my whole life in this video. 4 months of no contact already. What a relief!! Some days i wonder how i got there. So far your videos are wonderful. But this one is the best! Oh my goodness!!! That's who i was 1year ago. Then red flags multiplied and i had to run away. Thanks a zillion times!!!
Thank you for this reminder of why I am so much better off without this person in my life. So true about how the abuse comes after the party, though one time she drunkenly screamed at me in front of the neighborhood for not bringing pizza over. I saw my ex narcissist with new supply recently driving and of course he was driving her car like she made me drive all the time so she didn't have to, so she could sleep, text all her friends, and drink heavily. The one time she drove, she asked me to hand her her phone and guess what I saw a text from some guy on their talking about how he had been dreaming of her lately. She made up some lie about it, that he texted her every 6 months to profess his love.
You are a modern day hero you have brought so much peace and wisdom into my head at a critical time in my life where it seems no one at all could ever understand
His new supply is trying so hard for us to divorce, they are playing the perfect family with my kid and hers both 6 year old. She knew everything about us and waited for our separation. She seems more like the perfect narcissist wife that he always wanted.
I've been newly discarded by a narcissist and I would just like to thank you for the time and effort that you put into these videos to help people like me that are confused and in pain and looking to make some kind of sense out of all this. Thank you for your kindness and understanding. Thank you for your positive energy.
I appreciate all your videos and help. I was with a narcissist for years, and nothing that I did was enough for him. The last year with him, I bought a birthday cake for him to surprise him and his answer was, "you got the first cake you saw! He was not appreciative at all. After I left him, going to the store was something I won't forget. I was jumping and dancing with smiles, happiness, and freedom. It is totally a blessing to have peace now.
On The rare times the malignant narcissist I divorced stopped off at the store only to get the alcohol or food he wanted I would ask him to get a few items for THE FAMILY and he would make sure to push my buttons by asking a thousand confusing questions about the items,exaggerated complaints , and expecting a medal for buying his family anything. He would intentionally provoke and gaslight me into an argument when he got home by purposely not getting a few of the items.. saying I never told him to buy them yet it’s right there on a text. And on times we had functions with family and friends ALL the work was left up to me.. prepping, planning,shopping, cleaning, cooking, being the hostess, cleaning during and after.. while of course he did nothing to help..but he would take all credit for my work as usual
This also happened to me too many times to count. One particular time that really stands out in my mind was when planning the younger sons graduation party. I literally did everything except 1 thing I needed him to do, which was pick up a large cooler from a party rental store nearby. He must have texted me while I was at work at least a dozen times, turned it into a fiasco until I was so upset. All he did was complain and carry on. He had 1 thing to do, and he couldnt even do that!!!
My heart goes to the chain of new supply my ex narcissist hubby had victimized. You are right Andrew his manipulations and sucking their resources became more severe!
I was once a new supply too... I felt like I'm the luckiest girl in the world... Time goes by my Bank account drained and i became his punching bag.... But now I'm free from Narc.. if not know then when 😍 thank you sir Andrew
This is exactly what I needed. My Narc treated me like I was a stepfather. "Leave me alone, why didn't you send the money I needed." " Other girls get money all the time, I don't get the same." The one line that stands out that I've never confessed to anyone,,,, When I told her I was terminally ill, she said," I need you out there to help me with my procedures.".. I had always ignored the red flags until now.
Wow ! Jamie. Know how you feel. Told 2 family narcs I have last stage cancer. One said, yeah, i went thru that with your father? Huh ? What does THAT mean. Lol the other jerk said that her arthritis is still just as valid as i am. Huh, again. WHAT ??? really. These people are just priceless. I couldn't get chemotherapy because I had noone too take care of me when it made me sick. Narcs smear campaign went on my whole life & until this day. They really don't EVER stop the smearing. They must continue to lie to cover the last one & so on. Soooo, I am sick & alone. God only knows WHAT they told people. I know some don't know I'm sick. Some think I'm faking for sympathy & some thought I had a mole removed. Feel well. Be well. You are among friends here.
Sadly, my ex-narcs new supply/wife is realizing that things are not what they seemed. She’s in the process of being devalued with the silent treatment, and her Narc husband is hoovering me. I feel so sorry for her as I’m sure she’s a wonderful person.
Hey this exposition was really helpful! Even though I hate to admit it, you kind of yearn for the narcissist and envy with jealousy the new supply --- as self-loathing and contemptible as that may be. However this video leaves me with a more tolerable emotion of disgust and a feeling of relief and good riddance. Thanks NARCDAILY!
And consider how difficult it will be for the new supply to escape the abuse. As we age, divorce would be much more difficult. I feel sorry for any person with a narcissist....new supply or any supply.
Oh Andrew you’re awesome it’s been almost 2 years ago since my final discard and my life is so peaceful now thank God. Immediately when my discard happened my ex got involved with a new person they probably had them lined up. They planted pictures of themselves all over social media now these pictures have been removed. There’s only a couple left, but not on my exes page, so two years with a narcissist I would’ve been a damn straight jacket, thank God I have the strength even though it took me six months I finally recognized this was not good. Thank you so much for your videos. You are so helpful and I have learned a lot from you so you keep this good work up and I’ll keep watching take care.
I love watching your videos, everything you are saying I went through it and living it. You're really helping me and making me understand what I was really with, yes a narcissist.
your videos are amazing. Im newly out , after many hoovers that we just couldn't make it work. I am lost. I feel broken. I don't know how to stop the thoughts, thinking he is so happy and his new supply is happy and doing fun things. I feel so lost
Welcome to the community Latinna072.. this path is going to take time.. commitment and understanding.. you will make it .. believe this.. we are here for you always 🙏🙌☀️🙏💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I’m so scared of myself, I can’t handle the hurt and pain and the feeling knowing he is with her right now, while he asked for space bc I told His family he hit me, he’s with her
Exactly as I was doing, uninformed and couldn't believe that this person is not in a relationship. Deal Lord thank you for rescuing me from that nightmare. And thank Andrew for your life coaching. God bless you.
When we were separating, the new supply was the one contacting my lawyer on behalf of my narc ex! It infuriated me. She was also researching legal stuff as ex was forwarding me research to "help" with the process. My ex never did any research so I knew it was her doing that. Dumbasses forget that I went to law school and the "legal research" they were forwarding me didn't even apply to our situation. So I can say that the new supply right now is being his secretary and personal assistant, while he goes off to gamble (a friend told me he's been gambling almost nightly) and chat up other women online (he used to chat up people while we were together - I doubt he's changed that behaviour).
Doony Fam, lol the dumbasses ! You had me laughing. They do forget you went to law school. They ALWAYS know more than we do. Lol none of this is funny, but when you see them from afar,.....they are NOTHING, if not a total joke. God bless & enjoy your "selfness".
@@Nanukie thank you. Life is so much better without the narc. I'm free to pursue all my life's goals and passions without someone sabotaging me at every turn. God bless you too
("What a beautiful genuine video to learn from. Andrew sometimes I can't believe what you're saying and yet its so absolutely true. Thank you for sharing."🌞)
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you for your teachings.. My heart goes out to those barely in that hole.. Getting out is undescribible and painful... But only God and education on this gets us thru... Can't help feel so much anger for not recognizing the red flags and being so naive... Im left feeling so much resentment still God have mercy... THANK YOU
I really need to watch this every day. I hurt and miss my narc ex every day.. I am trying to control it, but it just keeps coming back. She ruined my life and skipped off with another man, got married to him just one day after she put me back in jail, after serving 6 months in jail for a felony assault that never happened. I was the one being manipulated, gas lit and physically abused... Yet, I would lie and protect her and tell police she wasn't physically abusing me. I have never hit her ever.. nothing... Not even when she was hitting me. That's god's honest truth...But somehow, I would protect her when she was abusing me and when cops would question her and try to charge her for domestic abuse towards me. I would lie and get charges dropped because I thought I was being "loyal"... Anyways... She drained me of everything... Financially, emotionally.. everything... Then, kicked me to the curb once I was all used up... I spent all last winter, freezing and starving alone in a tent in the snow (I live in Utah). While she fucked other men and partied.. she knew my situation. She knew my location and could have helped, yet she ghosted me almost the entire time. I was alienated with nothing and nobody.. No friends, no family... Completely alone. Just a tent, sleeping bag and a coat I had hid as an emergency "big out" bag because she took everything else away from me and I was so scared to be kicked out with nothing to survive with. I don't know why... What's wrong with me???? I hurt and struggle every day. I have not been able to heal. I'm trying really hard to move forward... But I feel so stuck... WHY DO I MISS HER? SHE TRIED TO KILL ME!!?? SHE LEFT ME FOR DEAD AND REPLACED ME... And did so, seemingly so easily... I obeyed everything she commanded. I thought I was doing the right thing. 6 years, I'll never get back. Now, I'm completely alone... Stuck in financial debt and a fuck load of trouble and now, a felon for a crime that I didn't even commit. I'm on probation.. having to pay a shit load of fines when I was the one being abused in every way. I feel like a beaten abandoned dog or a crushed up rusty can on the side of a dry deserted road.
New supply will be the next victim.
Completely true..
We know it. Wait till they find out. Good Luck.
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Yes
When I was the new supply I believed all the lies he said about his ex.
The cycle continues this way.. you believe what you were told as you didn’t know the narcissist existed at that time.. 🙌
Me too I thought id won the lottery. Now here i am 3 years on still trying to make sense of the crap.... Im better but seriously WTAF
@@natsdaley9615 Wow! I am very curious about new supply...She calls him ALL DAY ! It's incredible !!!!
@@natsdaley9615 I lasted 3 years too. Now looking for new beginnings with peace.
I did to a point but in the back of my mind I knew that there was two sides to a story and yet have never heard there's.. But in time I knew that if person could constantly treat a person like shir my time was sure to come...no one is the exception... U never judge someone through another's eyes or ears...also U never give up the truth of who U R in search of something or someone else.. That's what the narc has done... Now they want to mold U into there submissive slave.
Never worry about the new supply - MOST were sleeping with them already and fighting to be their main person ! They are not better then you ! As I look at myself NOW I wish she enjoy the Ride she or he fight to get ! The person that left your life would have left you if you had become sick, disability or broke or later become older or lost of job ! Please cry and keep going forward in doing well and support your children do well in school ! Please keep going forward don’t look back ! It’s hard but that light 💡 is forward for an amazing life waiting ! Most of the new supply are embarrass they now see what they were fighting for but they can’t say anything because people knew how they got to this place
I appreciate your insight Sophia.. most of these things you mentioned happened to me..
My ex was involved with one of his new supplies before I left.
Great insight and absolutely correct. I can almost guarantee the back burner supply who fought so hard to take my place is being tortured by the narc husband. I think she thinks by having babies with him will make him stay or turn into a better person. She must be working really hard to prove to all that theirs is a happy relationship cause I know I did for 24 years.
This is so true. My ex was already sleeping with his new supply before discarding me.
@@danikim235 they're always sleeping with somebody!!!!!
I said the same thing!!!!!! I was like why is this Perfect guy single!!!! 🤦🏽♀️ He was definitely a devil in disguise.
Thank you for sharing this Rika 🙏🙌☀️.. the disguise and the mask are the same
Same here...I didn't have a clue...
same. no clue
Same here! Gorgeous and charming man but devil in disguise.
But also they usually aren't single but have many at same time
This is a video that everyone who has been abused and discarded by a narcissist should watch everyday
I appreciate your kindness Jodie..🙌🙏💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you are so welcome, Andrew.🌈
I agree!! I feel rejuvenated after watching this! Thanks so much for this excellent video, Andrew! 👏👏✨💖✨
Wow. Just wow. You are devastatingly, painfully and heart wrenchingly ACCURATE. It’s been about 10 years since I got rid of my second narcissist. NEVER AGAIN. I’m mentally and physically happy. Whoever needs to hear this … YOU CAN DO THIS. YOU WILL BE HAPPIER WITHOUT THEM EVEN IF IT FEELS PAINFUL AT THIS MOMENT.
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Definitely. The happiness is a straight up illusion. Get out!
Thanks ... I needed this.... Sick they are .. I got rid of one five weeks ago..... Gave him last chance ..three weeks of nonsense and more anger threats to me to change. 😮 As I had boundaries
35 ear marriage, found out a year ago he was having an affair. Basically a whole secret life. And I've been in a lot of pain. It's getting better after finding you all of you and listening to the doctor is a therapist. It helps me when I'm at my worst but you make me feel good. I love where you are and you're so positive and you remind me.
I didn’t always feel this way, but now I actually feel sorry for the new supply.
I appreciate your kindness and honesty.. they have such a long path ahead .. God bless you Mene 🙌
Lol same.
I don't feel sorry if they took part which was my case.
I feel the same way. I’m praying for her
Nope. I don’t feel sorry for the new supply. A greedy cheater, happy to break up a marriage. Well, I’m happy now that I’ve learned what was wrong about my marriage; the Narcissist!! She deserves whatever happens.
At the end I was so skinny and exhausted. So drained physically, mentally, and financially. I feel so sorry for the next man. Hate to think that somebody else is going thru that punishment. No jealousy.
Thank you for sharing this Walter..🙏💯🙌
Yeah I lost so much weight it was unreal, endocrine system imbalanced, low heart rate, literal brain damage to the prefrontal cortex folds, psychogenic death 💯. Hope you are doing better now
@@KadyPowellAEROPOLEONEKD still not right physically. Don't have the stamina. Feel older. You had a bad time. May God bless you.
Mostly you have to pray they find new supply! The obsessed narc don't just let you go.
Even referring to to people as supply sounds so horrible. It’s terrible they see people as tools rather than an actual person. I thank god for removing me from people like this in my past. I feel so free and happy.
Thank you for sharing.. being free from the ensnarement of the abusive relationship is incredible 🙌☀️
I don’t normally comment on videos, but I’ve been watching your videos everyday for about 3 weeks now. And it’s helped me understand everything and heal day by day. Thank you so much much 🙏
Welcome 🙏 I appreciate your kindness and honesty.. I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you 🙏🙌☀️💯
Same here! 🥰
same
i feel terrible bcs i am giving you my bergain
True!
Lucky for him he didnt get far enough to physically abuse me. I think he knew I would certainly incur as much damage as I could on him. I feel sorry for whoever hes using now. Good riddance to him. God will certainly visit him and he will pay for what he has done to all his victims!!!!
The narc devalued me in front of others
Hi Valerie.. sorry to hear this.. I hope you are well now.. God bless you 🙏☀️🙌
they are sadists
He was more of a overt narcissist. Or the mask has slipped so often why bother putting it back on...
It's very disgusting they disrespect. A real man would stick up for you but they are immature selfish jerks , not real men. Their friends are not their real friends either but they try to make fun , nothing upstrs , nothing to value , good riddance. The people they try to impress are likely abnoxious users too
Me too i know how it feels like but don't be rude like them let it go and still be kind. Time will pass people will notice their toxic attitude.
This so reminds me of the times when my narc ex said : "I had to go 'off grid' unexpectedly and for no reason until he felt like responding to my text and phone calls. Yet during the love bomb stage I remembered it very well. Constant texts from him, constant face times several times a day and night. During the 'early stages' if I did not respond quick enough he'd be texting wondering why I didn't get back to him. Never mind that I had to go out to work, relax in front of the TV in the evenings or even get a good night's sleep. My phone was constantly 'alight' with him constantly getting in touch. I had absolutely no idea that this was unhealthy and naively thought that this guy was really in love with me. Oh how wrong I was!
I understand completely 😉😉😉
I was lovebombed so well. It broke my guard down and I was very very cautious for some time. As soon as my guard dropped down, the next phase started. He was a mix of borderline and narcissist - I still am angry with myself for dealing with the things I did for so long. For not seeing it for what it was.
Sending prayers and positive energy 💯🙌🙏
I don’t care about what my ex’s boyfriend is doing or thinking. I know he is a temporary relationship like all of her”relationships”
It’s great to see that she can’t carry on a normal relationship. When I left her I said to her “I’m leaving you behind but you have to take you with you wherever you go” the look on her face was priceless!
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100% true, the new supply reached out to me, she suffered and the abuse started 3 weeks into their relationship, I really think that she got my punishment, she said he constantly compared her to me
Wow thank you for sharing this Joanne.. 🙌🙏
Ugh horrible.
I mean that's a good tactic...right away telling them what we didn't do...so they already know they better not be like we were.. bastard.
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I wish I could talk to his exes. I’ve actually tried but was called a “B.”🙄
Celebrating 3 months!! No contact and blocking!! Thank you Andrew for your videos. I have been watching daily sometimes all day. I will never let my guard down.
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I am so glad to be out of that nightmare hell! He drove me crazy! I did not know what I was dealing with. I am glad you are living well and happy. I finally found my peace and happiness again! After a 4 year battle!
Thank you 🙏 Connie.. one day at a time moving forward always 🙏☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you! I am doing great now. I stayed single all this time. Like you said Narcs are everywhere. Love your videos. THANK YOU!
Thanks a million. You are helping a lot of people
Same sister 4 yrs of absolute torture 👎😖! We are FREE now! 🙌 Free to enjoy life. 🥳
Watching all your videos boost my healing time 600% and I cannot thank you enough really .
Anything you’ve been saying is scarily typical to me
Welcome Omer.. thank you for being here 🙏🙌💯☀️
She (new supply) found him online while he was still married to me. She wanted him so bad she sent him gifts, had an affair with him and offered to support him financially if/when he divorced me. Naive or just stupid, I don’t care what she is going through! I know my ex-Narcissist very well after 16 years. By now, his FAKE mask is on the floor. I’ll just say THANK YOU, you got what you deserve.
Enjoy every single minute of this beautiful Sunday. Enjoy your freedom and peace😌✨🦞
Amen 🙏 I am thank you 🙏 ☀️
Wow this is spot on. I was always hoping that the way he treated me in the beginning with such thoughtfulness and love would return but I was duped big time. He said the sweetest things to me and I believed him. I’m doing things that brings me happiness and I’ve separated myself emotionally and see the whole thing with eyes wide open. I still miss what I thought I had with him even though it makes no sense.
Holly I appreciate your sharing.. in time you won’t miss any of it., in time.. keep moving forward and becoming educated 🙌🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you for the encouragement, it’s really appreciated!!!
I never had nothing with him I can't miss what I never had
I travelled the world with mine gave him everything, then with 2 holidays more 2 go on which he wanted to go on, I found out he was cheating again after 8yrs, we were together 10 he just left for her and took her away and proposed to her
Wake the F up! What you had with him was a lie/an illusion- you had nothing with him. Do you get it?
From what I heard about his new supply, she gave up her car and isn't allowed to have anything to do with her kids, 7 of them, he doesn't take her anywhere, but he has a new vehicle and a motorcycle. So glad I never moved in with him.
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This video has been a lifeline, today. I found out of the new supply and couldn't believe, after 11 months post discard, finally educated and healing, that so much pain and confusion was still bottled up inside! After watching this 2x, I am strong, beautiful, empowered, once again! Bless you, Andrew and bless this amazing community of bright lights shining the way forward!✨️🌟✨️
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One word for the new supply and or for shelved supply. CONDITIONED
Spot on .. agree completely.. thank you Kel h 🙏☀️
I’m so thankful that I’ll NEVER have to endure this torture and insanity again! It’s definitely THAT bad.
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Dear God, I hate what has been done to all of us. This truly sickens me.
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Wow, its like your telling my story! All holidays, vacations, etc etc, he was miserable or didn’t show up. Thank you!
Welcome 🙏 Kim
Same is true for me. Every holiday or vacation was so difficult. He seemed miserable and I picked up the same energy. Always an argument right before a holiday or vacation. Such horrible people
There is always something for him to complain about. The list was never ending. I kept fixing my every "fault" as they were pointed out, believing that it is my responsibility to correct myself to make our relationship better. i was made to think that its because of me that we are fighting, that we are not happy. but the items keep adding to my list, whether it is cooking better meals, smiling more often, initiating intimacy or talking more with my in-laws, or giving back massages, entertaining his friends more often, cleaning the house more often, etc etc. finally i changed myself for better but he was still at the bottom of the pit, unsatifsied.
Thank you for sharing this insight Chandni..🙌🙏💯
I went through the same things with the narc husband. Horrible people.
@@hazeleyes2381 I am sorry to hear that. Hope you are healing now.
Blood-sucking
I feel you.
I feel sooo sooo SORRY FOR HER and all the ones that went before her, GOD GOD BLESS HER, I mean that sincerely but not getting involved his last women was warned over and over again and she was a lovely girl and she got stung too.
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I don't feel sorry for his new supply, she knew he was married to me! And wanted to fight me. Long gone! Thank you!
I appreciate this thank you Susan 🙌
Yes me too.. new supply ( old girlfriend) was posting my ex husband to make me jealous .. he was showing her off as well .. I’m sure she’s another narc as well .. perfect match !
I think the new supply ends up being a narc most of the time. I saw it with my dad (my ex step mom was definitely high on the narc spectrum) my sons dad (his gf is very similar to my ex step mom in character) and my ex has been telling me he’s been running into bad women.
Gross well here's hoping they make each other miserable...which you know it sounds like they will. I'm happy you are out.
Same here. I wasn’t married to him though Bcs I’d never marry someone like him. However I was devastated when he ran off on me w her and she was laughing and making fun of me.
Well now she’s married to him and my daughter tells me she’s been suffering and crying a lot lately..
I feel so bad for the new supply. I truly believe some people need a warning label. Thank you for the great video!
Education is imperative.. most people don’t understand this issue until they experience it
I have a degree in Psychology and never really knew what this was all about until this relationship. I got out 10 months ago. He broke up with me by text message. Which is so funny as I taught him how to text..lol
He mailed me a package of stuff that wasn't even mine..I threw it in the trash. I'm a widow (my husband passed 2 years ago). I met this man when I was out shopping one day. Needless to say, I buy most stuff online now 🙂
I do not feel sorry for my ex narc daughter's mother's new supply considering he contributed to me getting kicked out of my kid's life, Andrew knows what I went through in August.
And he's already looking for a replacement and still contacting old supply
Thank you for another great video!
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It’s so true. They only do what they want to do. If it doesn’t interest them - forget it! It’s so confusing when your in it. Thank you.
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Amen sista!
I was married to my narcissist for 24 years. I needed this video. It’s been over a year since the divorce and I was lonely and reached out. It was foolish. I now am starting over at hour 1 for no contact and forgiving myself for the lapse in judgement. He’s a master at devaluing.
Wondering what the hell is going on ?!! 😝😝 May God have mercy on their innocent empathic soul xx
The cycle continues and eventually they will learn..
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I don't think he will ever learn anything he is empty
Omg!! Yes, my personal life I used to have it was all gone just like you said. My Astrology studies and goals took back seat because he consumed me with constant reaching out and making plans. So glad it’s all over. And yes, I paid for the bbqs. Lol. However he still low key embarrassed me in front of guests with side eyes or inappropriate jabs. Getaways were always ruined one way or another.
Thank you Andrew!! 🙏🏼
Welcome 🙏 always April 💯☀️
The new supply thinks they found a unicorn🦄🦄🦄🦄, how long will it be until they realize unicorns dont exist....its just a horse with a party hat on..🥳😉 lol...yeah!
They are not prepared for what is about to happen..
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone they sure arent when it turns into just an illusion🌈 that really looks like this...😈
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To Joann. Thankyou. I needed that huge 😃smile you just put on my face. 😊😆😁
@@Sanddollar754 I'm glad it did! Lol. And we know it's the truth!
All I can remember from that toxic relationship are the bad moments, which really helped me to get over it. Unfortunately, most of my memories from childhood are also bad, even though there were plenty of good ones!
I actually said that, "Why are you single? I would never let you go." Oh but I did. I RAN.
Beautiful to hear Jessica 💯🙌🙏💪
"You're Grade A number one punching bag." Yes!
I honestly was considering seeking out a therapist to help me understand what I was dealing with and also get through and recover from this person that turned my world upside-down. I had no idea what a narcissist was until a friend posted something on FB...a motivational quote. The light bulb came on and I started researching. Thanks to your channel and others I now understand. My eyes are open and I've seen what I can't unsee. It's like the same story every video i watch....its almost hard to believe it's so textbook. I'm thankful you share your knowledge. I feel saved. Thank you
Welcome 🙏
My story too. Didn't even know what a narcissist was.but I was tortured by one for ten years. I'm with you bro! Andrew is a God send.God bless you.we are getting better every day
Been there, done that. Not anymore. Don't miss it. Breaking the chains and moving on. Feeling happy with no contact. True, when I was in it with the narc and realized who he was I didn't know how to get out. I started to panic. I told him I never wanted to see him again and he obviously insisted and came over and next day too and got very pushy and I said no to him without realizing NO is a trigger for them and he got very angry and got mean and I experience mental shock because his meanest was very unexpected. I started analyzing myself and him and slowly realized the truth and my role in it. Now I am almost done. I don't care what the Narc is doing as long as he stays away from me. But I know I still have some healing to do. Your videos are very helpful, validating what I am going through.
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My ex Narc and I divorced nearly 16 years. He married his "new supply" soon after.
I was the best ex wife ever! I never bothered them. The "new supply" is a codependent doormat. He is nearly 60 years old and continues to behave like a three year old. My ex did the most in order to get what he wanted. Now that he has want he wanted, he still has me taking space in his head.
My silence is my power! Making him irrelevant was a necessary decision that allowed me to move forward in order live my best life .
Thank you for sharing this TSB..💯🙌🙏
Geez! When you talked about the BBQ and that you had to pay...OMG! 100%. I paid for everything. He would conveniently leave his wallet in the car, home, etc.
I feel horrible for the new supply. I warned her, she didn't believe me. I'm sure she is seeing the truth of it now.
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I have done that to, leave wallet home with money in and trust him in my place while I was at work. I regret it and I changed that. But now looking back, it was to late. Omg I never new that's what I fallen in love with. Now I was discard- never new it. Until my sister told me and watched his videos
OMG so spot on of what my ex was. Narcissists use you so much you literally lose yourself as you knew it!! Also, they don't love the new supply no matter how handsome or beautiful they may be..or not, either way narcissists are not capable of love.
Completely true 🙌🙏💯💯
Love bomb was 2 months and 3 months full of abuse ... and i left.
I can't imagine how bad it would be if it was years...
After my ex gf dump me for no reason other than she was pushing marriage. Just got out of bad divorce and she also my ex wife 3:30 was a Narc.. The gf dump me and said I have a new bf a new supply 7 months later the new supply took her to Europe.. Andrew I shake my head like you said unbelievable she manipulate this older guy.. Like you said he wondering how can she still be single at 58.. I know her for 25 years she getting older now she still think she young but the train has left the station.. Karma is coming she has been manipulating all her evil life..
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This video is 100% right on point - it describes my life perfectly when I was the new target. The groceries really hit home and the trips - there wasn’t a trip I planned and paid for that he didn’t ruin acting like a spoiled child or a demented madman. I experienced everything you describe. Only after one gets educated do you know what happened. Thank you for your videos, you’ve been there and are here to help.
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Andrew, Thank you so much....My Narc came in to my life saying he was not a Narc, causing me to look it up and find your channel and others. I have gotten an education. Because of that education i was prepared for each time he came at me. (Eight months later,and after talking to 2 of his ex's) I have asked him to leave 3 days after returning from a great summer trip. He was so suprised and caught off guard. I have always been a strong independent woman, i was still sucked in. I now tell everyone to learn about this.
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I was once the supply paying for the bbq.
The attendees weren't grateful. I was told I was nuts to pay for it. They shook their heads at me.
People, man. Geez!
I understand this..💯💯
I dont care about what they are doing. Im moving on. I am healing. Please dont go back, we must go forward..
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I too could jump in my pool and meditate. I have barely been in my pool for years due to what I call anxious paralysis from narcissistic abuse. You have inspired me today to see how many of my blessings I have ignored trying to fix the unfixable. Praise God and I thank you!
Welcome 🙏💪💯☀️
This video made me cry. Every single word is true!!! I can't believe that! So glad i ran away from such devilish toxicity. It is just amazing. That's my whole life in this video. 4 months of no contact already. What a relief!! Some days i wonder how i got there. So far your videos are wonderful. But this one is the best! Oh my goodness!!! That's who i was 1year ago. Then red flags multiplied and i had to run away. Thanks a zillion times!!!
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Thank you for this reminder of why I am so much better off without this person in my life. So true about how the abuse comes after the party, though one time she drunkenly screamed at me in front of the neighborhood for not bringing pizza over. I saw my ex narcissist with new supply recently driving and of course he was driving her car like she made me drive all the time so she didn't have to, so she could sleep, text all her friends, and drink heavily. The one time she drove, she asked me to hand her her phone and guess what I saw a text from some guy on their talking about how he had been dreaming of her lately. She made up some lie about it, that he texted her every 6 months to profess his love.
I appreciate your insight thank you Kenneth 🙌☀️🙏
There were always these guys in the shadows.
You are a modern day hero you have brought so much peace and wisdom into my head at a critical time in my life where it seems no one at all could ever understand
Andrew sorry you had to go through this also.
Thank you 🙏 I appreciate your kindness.. it is extremely difficult as we know.. keep moving forward everyday 🙌☀️
Was abused for 3 years so that I was feeling guilty for the harm done to me.. Now I just want to be able to never think about the narcissist again..
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His new supply is trying so hard for us to divorce, they are playing the perfect family with my kid and hers both 6 year old. She knew everything about us and waited for our separation. She seems more like the perfect narcissist wife that he always wanted.
I've been newly discarded by a narcissist and I would just like to thank you for the time and effort that you put into these videos to help people like me that are confused and in pain and looking to make some kind of sense out of all this. Thank you for your kindness and understanding. Thank you for your positive energy.
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I pray the new supply will wake up faster than I did! Love you Andrew ~ Katy 🍄
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They are litterly being led by the nose ring , blind right off a 1000 foot cliff!
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I appreciate all your videos and help. I was with a narcissist for years, and nothing that I did was enough for him. The last year with him, I bought a birthday cake for him to surprise him and his answer was, "you got the first cake you saw! He was not appreciative at all. After I left him, going to the store was something I won't forget. I was jumping and dancing with smiles, happiness, and freedom. It is totally a blessing to have peace now.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯
This man is spot on . We should all be educated about Narssisists.
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you!
Welcome 🙏
Theres are soooooo many narcissist speakers and channel but Andrew's calm likeable presence works really well love rach
Thank you 🙏
On The rare times the malignant narcissist I divorced stopped off at the store only to get the alcohol or food he wanted I would ask him to get a few items for THE FAMILY and he would make sure to push my buttons by asking a thousand confusing questions about the items,exaggerated complaints , and expecting a medal for buying his family anything.
He would intentionally provoke and gaslight me into an argument when he got home by purposely not getting a few of the items.. saying I never told him to buy them yet it’s right there on a text.
And on times we had functions with family and friends ALL the work was left up to me.. prepping, planning,shopping, cleaning, cooking, being the hostess, cleaning during and after.. while of course he did nothing to help..but he would take all credit for my work as usual
It’s never easy with the narcissist.. they have selective hearing many times and are always manipulative..
This also happened to me too many times to count. One particular time that really stands out in my mind was when planning the younger sons graduation party. I literally did everything except 1 thing I needed him to do, which was pick up a large cooler from a party rental store nearby. He must have texted me while I was at work at least a dozen times, turned it into a fiasco until I was so upset. All he did was complain and carry on. He had 1 thing to do, and he couldnt even do that!!!
My heart goes to the chain of new supply my ex narcissist hubby had victimized. You are right Andrew his manipulations and sucking their resources became more severe!
Such a helpful video. Greetings from Croatia. There are survivors all over this Planet 🙏😇🌍😇🙏
Welcome to the community thank you for sharing this 🇭🇷🇨🇷❤️
Great video and so accurate
It’s hell on earth.
Man, you are 100 percent right!!!!!! I can’t get enough of your videos.
I appreciate your kindness and support ☀️💯🙌.. please continue to become educated and empowered 🙏🙌
I was once a new supply too... I felt like I'm the luckiest girl in the world... Time goes by my Bank account drained and i became his punching bag.... But now I'm free from Narc.. if not know then when 😍 thank you sir Andrew
This is exactly what I needed. My Narc treated me like I was a stepfather. "Leave me alone, why didn't you send the money I needed." " Other girls get money all the time, I don't get the same." The one line that stands out that I've never confessed to anyone,,,, When I told her I was terminally ill, she said," I need you out there to help me with my procedures.".. I had always ignored the red flags until now.
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Wow ! Jamie. Know how you feel. Told 2 family narcs I have last stage cancer. One said, yeah, i went thru that with your father? Huh ? What does THAT mean. Lol the other jerk said that her arthritis is still just as valid as i am. Huh, again. WHAT ??? really. These people are just priceless. I couldn't get chemotherapy because I had noone too take care of me when it made me sick. Narcs smear campaign went on my whole life & until this day. They really don't EVER stop the smearing. They must continue to lie to cover the last one & so on. Soooo, I am sick & alone. God only knows WHAT they told people. I know some don't know I'm sick. Some think I'm faking for sympathy & some thought I had a mole removed. Feel well. Be well. You are among friends here.
Your opener is epic.." the bloodsucking vampire thats walking this planet" ty for that 🥰
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Sadly, my ex-narcs new supply/wife is realizing that things are not what they seemed. She’s in the process of being devalued with the silent treatment, and her Narc husband is hoovering me. I feel so sorry for her as I’m sure she’s a wonderful person.
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Thank you so much... Each videos gives me power, and surly makes me laughs too.. Thank u Andy.. Namaste
Namaste 🙏
Hey this exposition was really helpful! Even though I hate to admit it, you kind of yearn for the narcissist and envy with jealousy the new supply --- as self-loathing and contemptible as that may be. However this video leaves me with a more tolerable emotion of disgust and a feeling of relief and good riddance. Thanks NARCDAILY!
Welcome Kenneth.. continue to become educated and empowered 💯🙌
Yes....damn me for still "loving" her fake persona.
The love bomb. I need electroshock therapy.
Clean up, put up and shut up sucks ! Certainly isn't love ! Thanks for bringing light to the dark Andrew !
And consider how difficult it will be for the new supply to escape the abuse. As we age, divorce would be much more difficult. I feel sorry for any person with a narcissist....new supply or any supply.
Oh Andrew you’re awesome it’s been almost 2 years ago since my final discard and my life is so peaceful now thank God. Immediately when my discard happened my ex got involved with a new person they probably had them lined up. They planted pictures of themselves all over social media now these pictures have been removed. There’s only a couple left, but not on my exes page, so two years with a narcissist I would’ve been a damn straight jacket, thank God I have the strength even though it took me six months I finally recognized this was not good. Thank you so much for your videos. You are so helpful and I have learned a lot from you so you keep this good work up and I’ll keep watching take care.
Thank you, Andrew. I feel bad for the new supplies as like me they’re all being manipulated. May God be with them.
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Oh my God; Andy you're on a different level it comes to narcissism. I just love you so much and pray we meet oneday. God bless you mightily
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I love watching your videos, everything you are saying I went through it and living it. You're really helping me and making me understand what I was really with, yes a narcissist.
Welcome always 🙌🙏☀️💯
A leopard can't change it's spots. It's an act in the beginning and then they become a bully. It always comes to the surface
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your videos are amazing. Im newly out , after many hoovers that we just couldn't make it work. I am lost. I feel broken. I don't know how to stop the thoughts, thinking he is so happy and his new supply is happy and doing fun things. I feel so lost
Welcome to the community Latinna072.. this path is going to take time.. commitment and understanding.. you will make it .. believe this.. we are here for you always 🙏🙌☀️🙏💯
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I’m so scared of myself, I can’t handle the hurt and pain and the feeling knowing he is with her right now, while he asked for space bc I told
His family he hit me, he’s with her
2.47 "they probably went to store a few times forgot the ingredients". So true, how do you know that. Amazing.
Thanks you very much from Laos.
I know the new supply is a Narc as well
Perfect match !
Don't be surprised if they are arguing over who gets to where the t shirt that reads,I'm with Stupid.
That just might be the case in my story too!
Exactly as I was doing, uninformed and couldn't believe that this person is not in a relationship. Deal Lord thank you for rescuing me from that nightmare. And thank Andrew for your life coaching. God bless you.
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I am so happy to go to gym and watch the cooking Chanel . The small things in life ❤️
These are the foundation of a healthy existence ❤️💯🙌🙌😊
Omg exactly! Me too! He hated when I went to the gym and we could only watch action movies
Timeless information. Thank you Andrew 🍑🍰💝
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When we were separating, the new supply was the one contacting my lawyer on behalf of my narc ex! It infuriated me. She was also researching legal stuff as ex was forwarding me research to "help" with the process. My ex never did any research so I knew it was her doing that. Dumbasses forget that I went to law school and the "legal research" they were forwarding me didn't even apply to our situation. So I can say that the new supply right now is being his secretary and personal assistant, while he goes off to gamble (a friend told me he's been gambling almost nightly) and chat up other women online (he used to chat up people while we were together - I doubt he's changed that behaviour).
Hi Doony.. this sounds like what the narcissist likes.. someone to do things for them while they (the narcissist) do whatever they want
Doony Fam, lol the dumbasses ! You had me laughing. They do forget you went to law school. They ALWAYS know more than we do. Lol none of this is funny, but when you see them from afar,.....they are NOTHING, if not a total joke. God bless & enjoy your "selfness".
@@Nanukie thank you. Life is so much better without the narc. I'm free to pursue all my life's goals and passions without someone sabotaging me at every turn. God bless you too
Thankyou for giving me the strength to climb out of the dark hole of deceit and betrayal I am experiencing at the moment.
("What a beautiful genuine video to learn from. Andrew sometimes I can't believe what you're saying and yet its so absolutely true. Thank you for sharing."🌞)
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Michelle, me neither I never comment. These videos - are so helpful. Thank you Andrew!!
Yes, I once was there....
Then God deliver me
Thank you Jesus
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Thank you for your teachings..
My heart goes out to those barely in that hole..
Getting out is undescribible and painful...
But only God and education on this gets us thru...
Can't help feel so much anger for not recognizing the red flags and being so naive...
Im left feeling so much resentment still
God have mercy...
THANK YOU
I really need to watch this every day. I hurt and miss my narc ex every day.. I am trying to control it, but it just keeps coming back. She ruined my life and skipped off with another man, got married to him just one day after she put me back in jail, after serving 6 months in jail for a felony assault that never happened. I was the one being manipulated, gas lit and physically abused... Yet, I would lie and protect her and tell police she wasn't physically abusing me. I have never hit her ever.. nothing... Not even when she was hitting me. That's god's honest truth...But somehow, I would protect her when she was abusing me and when cops would question her and try to charge her for domestic abuse towards me. I would lie and get charges dropped because I thought I was being "loyal"... Anyways... She drained me of everything... Financially, emotionally.. everything... Then, kicked me to the curb once I was all used up... I spent all last winter, freezing and starving alone in a tent in the snow (I live in Utah).
While she fucked other men and partied.. she knew my situation. She knew my location and could have helped, yet she ghosted me almost the entire time. I was alienated with nothing and nobody.. No friends, no family... Completely alone. Just a tent, sleeping bag and a coat I had hid as an emergency "big out" bag because she took everything else away from me and I was so scared to be kicked out with nothing to survive with. I don't know why... What's wrong with me???? I hurt and struggle every day. I have not been able to heal. I'm trying really hard to move forward... But I feel so stuck... WHY DO I MISS HER? SHE TRIED TO KILL ME!!?? SHE LEFT ME FOR DEAD AND REPLACED ME... And did so, seemingly so easily... I obeyed everything she commanded. I thought I was doing the right thing. 6 years, I'll never get back. Now, I'm completely alone... Stuck in financial debt and a fuck load of trouble and now, a felon for a crime that I didn't even commit. I'm on probation.. having to pay a shit load of fines when I was the one being abused in every way. I feel like a beaten abandoned dog or a crushed up rusty can on the side of a dry deserted road.
It is what it is
i don't miss him. i'm lucky he didn't hurt me. i'm wheelchair bound and was totally dependent on him. angels were watching over me
Sending prayers and positive energy to you Meg..🙌🙏😊💯💪
My ex-narcs new supply was absolutely shredded by him. You are so right!
You are so on point. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love lessoning to you. Love you Andrew
I appreciate your kindness Mary 🙌🙏🙌