Please don't ever depend on a husband who can change his mind about you in the future. have your own money and education as a backup plan in case the marriage doesn't work out. Many women end up homeless with children because husband decides to leave for another woman.
This is exactly what I believe as well ! I talked about this conundrum in another comment somewhere else, they bashed me 😂 but facts dont change no matter how you slice the cake. Many mxn actually, marry wxmen they HATE but because the way wxmen have been brainwashed to think " Oh, well, if he didnt love me , he wouldnt have married me " , they dont think this is a problem. WRONG. He married you, yes, his motives ? We may not know. Especially if you / your family pressured him in some type of way. Some mxn are great at hiding their agendas. I used to be extremely marriage hungry and I used to say and do almost anything for the ring but once I turned 30 , 6 months back, I started learning of these different factors that may influence a man's decision to wed you and decided that maybe, being single for the rest of my life is the least of my problems 😂😂 Ive never been in love anyway. Used to think I was but looking back, I wasnt. It was merely a phase. More like codependency which I am healing and doing the work on myself.
This is why I don't recommend women marry older men and its because the men have been running through women in their youth and when they are older or have a health problem that's when they seek a wife to take care of them and not to love. Love is when you find someone in your youth and you built a relationship together and grow old together. You risk finding a person who is settling for you and not lot loving you when you are older.
Excellent analysis and observation. They look for a Nurse with a Purse that's all because they wasted so many years playing around & trying to have sexy times with other women.
Love is a word it has no meaning or value you get with the woman that gives you best chemistry women don't care about the men they with men too everyone just uses eachother
Men dont necessarily marry for love, which is not a bad thing. Men naturally are taught to be the head and providers for the family, which I would argue, if there even isn't love can work great. He might as well like you and the marriage would work best. These same ladies are the ones who trash the men who love them so much, run all over them and even call them simps, and end up being with the man who has not even an ounce of love for them at all. Men marry who is available, but women choose who they marry. Women are born with value and should at least do some due diligence and choose the right one, who might not be perfect. Women on the other hand should always marry for love, cos one thing women tell us is they are loyal to ONLY THEIR FEELINGS. What do we see in this day and age, a lot of women marrying for the wrong reasons.
I think you are wrong! Men, generally speaking get married because they do love their woman who they marry. I think it is women who marry men that they don't love. The reason why I believe this is because 70 percent of all divorces are initiated by women. If you truly love your spouse, why divorce them?
Love and marriage are two very different concepts. Love is disappointed and hurt easily and reason not so much. Some men marry for love but many marry the most convenient woman at the time when they consider themselves ready to commit and because arousal is easier to achieve as a man they don’t need the love to get an erection. Furthermore men do not file for divorce because it’s not practical, it’s costly to them and they fear losing their sensual stability not because they are more noble or loving.
Women came to this world to be love and respect not to reason with them or argue period Women are equal as men Women can be and they are pretty good bosses Men got the same as they and when a man and a woman loves themselves even their hearts pulse at the same tick That's my opinion I did my assignment and got married to a black sexy and well educated woman and we still love each other since the first time we been together Maybe im not normal
Men marry for love and many other characteristics in a woman. They look for certain qualities for sure. Same as women it's not that deep. People just have to commit to there relationships and heal before they enter them. Most men love there wives it's maintaining that love. It's not that deep.
Yeah, I always say this, I always see it. If I’m not married with fully love I prefer to be alone.
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Same. I'm done with one sided relationships like this. I'm too old. I may as well just be alone now.
I ALWAYS catch it . Always . That’s why I didn’t push
Please don't ever depend on a husband who can change his mind about you in the future.
have your own money and education as a backup plan in case the marriage doesn't work out.
Many women end up homeless with children because husband decides to leave for another woman.
@@winning3329 so true. I’ll never do that. Nobody is safe around them in this terms! Thanks sis 🙏🏻
This is exactly what I believe as well !
I talked about this conundrum in another comment somewhere else, they bashed me 😂 but facts dont change no matter how you slice the cake. Many mxn actually, marry wxmen they HATE but because the way wxmen have been brainwashed to think " Oh, well, if he didnt love me , he wouldnt have married me " , they dont think this is a problem. WRONG. He married you, yes, his motives ? We may not know. Especially if you / your family pressured him in some type of way. Some mxn are great at hiding their agendas. I used to be extremely marriage hungry and I used to say and do almost anything for the ring but once I turned 30 , 6 months back, I started learning of these different factors that may influence a man's decision to wed you and decided that maybe, being single for the rest of my life is the least of my problems 😂😂 Ive never been in love anyway. Used to think I was but looking back, I wasnt. It was merely a phase. More like codependency which I am healing and doing the work on myself.
So you don't wanna marry or. You still have plans? 😅😂
This is the 👆🏾right here. Been there done that! The desperation used to be so real. Learn and grow ladies 🫶🏾
I needed this video to be a little longer...whew. Thought-provoking!
Yess!!!
This is why I don't recommend women marry older men and its because the men have been running through women in their youth and when they are older or have a health problem that's when they seek a wife to take care of them and not to love.
Love is when you find someone in your youth and you built a relationship together and grow old together.
You risk finding a person who is settling for you and not lot loving you when you are older.
Exactly 💯
Interesting perspective 🤔
Excellent analysis and observation. They look for a Nurse with a Purse that's all because they wasted so many years playing around & trying to have sexy times with other women.
I had a relationship with an older man and agree
Yes I heard all these reasons. 💯
Thanks Lord for your salvation
Thanks Lord for your peace
Psalm 91 Psalm 95 Psalm 124.
Thanks Lord single no kids 😊
You are very welcome
Very true!
Exactly!
Love is a word it has no meaning or value you get with the woman that gives you best chemistry women don't care about the men they with men too everyone just uses eachother
That is not the case for everyone. Love carries weight for most people and real love takes work. Chemistry fades and does not last
Men dont necessarily marry for love, which is not a bad thing. Men naturally are taught to be the head and providers for the family, which I would argue, if there even isn't love can work great. He might as well like you and the marriage would work best. These same ladies are the ones who trash the men who love them so much, run all over them and even call them simps, and end up being with the man who has not even an ounce of love for them at all. Men marry who is available, but women choose who they marry. Women are born with value and should at least do some due diligence and choose the right one, who might not be perfect. Women on the other hand should always marry for love, cos one thing women tell us is they are loyal to ONLY THEIR FEELINGS. What do we see in this day and age, a lot of women marrying for the wrong reasons.
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Love is a four letter word.😂
L.O.V.E! But when Love catches them, it is a game changer
I think you are wrong! Men, generally speaking get married because they do love their woman who they marry. I think it is women who marry men that they don't love. The reason why I believe this is because 70 percent of all divorces are initiated by women. If you truly love your spouse, why divorce them?
Love and marriage are two very different concepts. Love is disappointed and hurt easily and reason not so much. Some men marry for love but many marry the most convenient woman at the time when they consider themselves ready to commit and because arousal is easier to achieve as a man they don’t need the love to get an erection. Furthermore men do not file for divorce because it’s not practical, it’s costly to them and they fear losing their sensual stability not because they are more noble or loving.
Women came to this world to be love and respect not to reason with them or argue period Women are equal as men Women can be and they are pretty good bosses Men got the same as they and when a man and a woman loves themselves even their hearts pulse at the same tick That's my opinion I did my assignment and got married to a black sexy and well educated woman and we still love each other since the first time we been together Maybe im not normal
So if women don't care so you don't care
Not at all..Men are givers so women multiply what they are given
Men don't love
Some men actually love many don't plan too
Men marry for love and many other characteristics in a woman. They look for certain qualities for sure. Same as women it's not that deep. People just have to commit to there relationships and heal before they enter them. Most men love there wives it's maintaining that love. It's not that deep.
Awww you’re honestly adorable and naive
Pfff !
Please explain
Wow that last bit 🙏🔥