Genuinely so angry for this poor girl. That was her hard work and planning and her mom, regardless of if she sold it or if the friend actually lost it, is not just disrespecting her daughter, but also destroying any trust between them. These are the kinds of moms who get no-contacted and then say that they were “doing the best they could”
The mom is basically teaching her daughter that working hard and saving money to earn your own treats isn't worth it because your own parents can't be trusted not to just steal your shit.
Yeah. People can expect "maturity and forgiveness" from you when they treat you, your time, and your stuff with respect. No forgiveness without respect.
It's a bag. It's not like it's a car or a house or a game console. If she wasn't going to use it, why have it. That's like buying a car just to have it sit in your driveway and fall apart.
Oh shit that makes it so much worse, I don't know much about high priced stuff like that but I was assuming it was like 6 or 7 hundred which is already a good couple of months if your 15 with a minimum wage job. 2k is insane
I've seen Louis Vuitton bags that are priced at $10k so the price range at which she got hers back vary wildly but ones thing is for sure: it was expensive af
The bag story makes me so fucking mad, especially with OP’s family trying to say she’s acting like a child. No shit! She is a child! But she seems ten times more mature than most grown ass adults I know.
The first story is a Judge Judy, worthy case! 15 year old's MOTHER stole a purse SHE EARNED with HER OWN MONEY gave it to a FREIND to borrow, who proceeded to LOSE IT? Judge Judy would have a field day!
@@summerskull9379I totally believe the friend is probably innocent and is just someone who bought a purse. Probably has no idea the mom didn't own it.
Unfortunately, in most states in us parents essentially own their kids until they are 18. They could dock her entire paycheck and legally be allowed to because they are the parents. She would have to be emancipated from them to have a case :(
Not sure why I read your comment with the voice of the guy who tells about the court cases at the beginning of each trial. I mean, I get why, you mentioned Judge Judy, but WHY did my brain go there?!
If I had a nickel for every time Shane said “the relationship you had is dead, you have to start a whole new relationship” I’d have like 65 cents probably
Proposal story. I’ve always felt like a proposal should never be a complete surprise. I liked the way my husband did it. We talked about it, went ring shopping and then the surprise was when and how I was proposed to. The reason he decided not to surprise me with the ring, was that it’s something I will wear on my hand for everyone to see for hopefully the rest of my life. So he wanted to be absolutely sure that it was something I LOVED!!! And I loved that he was thinking about my feelings.
I absolutely agree. I think there should be no doubt in your mind that the person you're proposing to will say yes, because you have discussed marriage, maybe got a ring together, have discussed if family should be there or if you want a private moment for the two of you etc. It's also just an insane amount of money to spend on something when 1) you don't know if the person wants to marry you and/or 2) you don't know if they'll like the ring
@@violet7773or- if youve talked about it but you dont want them to be expecting it all the way- get a simple ring to be a placeholder than have a date where you decide exactly what your partner wants from the ring :D honestly no matter what you should at least have discussed getting married
My boyfriend and I have a place planned for our proposal. We're going to an all-inclusive, adult only retreat in January during my birthday and that's when it's gonna happen ❤ I don't want it to be a surprise, and he has had 0 issues with it being planned out. With the right person these things can be communicated without there being weird vibes. I've talked about it with family and one seemed shocked-- "it's supposed to be a surpise!!" But why? All that matters is that two people are happy and doing their thing. I'm excited for January!
I'm so glad reddit commenters took the first story seriously. Not being able to have your own things in your own home messes you up. My abuser would always make my things disappear or destroy them. My room wasn't safe either. No matter what the mother did with the bag - this is a situation ripe with abuse. Especially since she punished her kid and didn't even TRY to compensate for the loss.
It reminds me of when I was a kid and I had the nerve to be upset that one of my brothers went into my room and took something. I don’t even remember what it was now. I just remember being upset because he didn’t ask me for permission to use the item, not because he touched my stuff or whatever. I was the AH in my dad’s opinion & received some corporal punishment for that incident. I agree with the opinion that mom probably sold it to her friend or someone else.
When me and my half-siblings lived with their abusive dad and step mom in middle school, they would take any money our mom sent for Christmas or birthdays, and use it for themselves. The first story reminds me of some of their behaviour from back then.
I feel this.. I would come home to my whole room searched through and rearranged no matter how many times I asked my mom not to. She also removed the bedroom door and lied about getting rid of things I would buy with my own earned money as well. No privacy, no safety.. I left as soon as I could.
I've seen so many people try to justify parents destroying kids stuff as a punishment when no!!!!! Kids (and everyone really) need to be able to trust that what they have is theirs and even the closest people in their life aren't entitled to your things!
regarding the 4th story, as a child of divorce: don't stay only for the kids. my parents stayed together for me years after they fell out of love with each other and i would spent nights locked in my room listening to music and crying bc they were fighting again and i thought it was my fault. children deserve a real example of love at home.
after an entire childhood of abuse and neglect, as an adult my mom told me she and my dad only stayed together "for the kids." i could only stare at her. y'all thought you were helping us but you gave us such miserable lives. never ever ever stay in a bad relationship "for the kids."
Fr, I think when parents “stay together for the kids” it ends up with them involving their kids too much in the messiness of the relationship. My parents did end up divorcing, but it was at a point where they couldn’t even be in a room together without yelling at each other, and so it was on me or my sister to relay messages between them or be lectured by either parent about why the other was a bad person. As a parent, if you REALLY want to protect your kids, you need to be making choices that won’t destroy your mental health or cause extremely high amounts of tension in the home, bc those things will effect the children whether or not you think they ‘see’ it.
That’s such a tragic yet common story. See this is why peeps don’t stay for the kids. It doesn’t help the kid’s life. Also for all the kids with a story like this, I wish you always find your favorite ice cream flavor and it’s always just as good as it always is.
"I've decided not to use my hallpass to form a deeper emotional connection with this other woman, but we will remain friends, continue to have coffee dates, and have deep emotional talks about our lives and dreams and stuff in a totally platonic way" HUHHHH??
That dude was asking for a polyamorous relationship not a hall pass. I hope the wife sees that and realises he’s been in an emotional affair for 12 months and decides that clearly her affair was the breaking point of their relationship and both can move on
"Do you know how much mayonnaise you wasted?" Me and my boyfriend had to pause for a good few minutes because that's literally something I would've said 🤣
@@yb6038 which is crazy bc I feel like when people are jealous… a lot of times, we can just work on ourselves to also have the thing we’re jealous of. Mom, work on yourself the way your daughter damn near naturally worked on herself to get something she wanted.
@@WookieWoman I have a friend whose mother had medical power of attorney while he was in the military, and he had to have surgery and his mother literally drained his bank account while he was unconscious. People are garbage.
@@hopeliveshere5102I don't support OP's choices, but I don't feel bad for the wife either. It's just the delayed consequences of her choices and actions.
The conversation you guys had about the last story was so relatable and was honestly so validating to myself personally. When my partner and I first started dating, my family went above and beyond to make her feel as unwelcome as possible. Long story short, that was 7 years ago, my partner and I have been happily married for 4 years and I have a very strained relationship with my family with very little communication from me to them. I've always felt like maybe I was an asshole for walking away from my family so harshly and completely, so it was so validating to hear other people essentially agree with the decision I made 7 years ago.
I hope you know how wonderful you are for being on your wife's side. There are Far Too Many stories on reddit of husbands (almost always husbands) choosing their mother and/or family over their partner and it's always such a relief to come across someone who doesn't put up with their family's bs. Protecting your partner from bullying feels like the bare minimum but somehow it's a rarity
Regarding hall pass dude, does he genuinely think his version of a hall pass is better? Imagine your partner coming up to you and saying "Babe i want to use my hall pass from the time you cheated 5 years ago, the time I'm totally over, but i don't wanna use it normally. Instead of sleeping with this woman, I want to grow closer with her than I've ever been with you, relating to her in ways you will never comprehend. Truly connecting our souls on an incomprehensible level" brother what
And the fact he goes “I feel guilty” multiple times as if it absolves him of any wrongdoing AND THEN continuing to do the exact same thing😭😭where’s the common sense
the one episode i (and a lot of other ppl) stopped watching at the first story is the one where the mom wanted to name their kid ghiyulieyette or smth. they all had mid takes but arashas was just the worst, completely missing the point.
@@karamelogram She usually has the most emotionally mature, well thought out responses but I think she took that one name story too personally and made it into something it wasn’t. Maybe she was confused idk. I have decided to pretend like that episode doesn’t exist lol bc I love her in every other reddit video but that one was a trainwreck
I had a walkman as an 8-year-old. I'm 38. My mom's bf at the time guilted me into "lending" it to him for a bit. The next time I ever brought it up and asked for it back, he completely denied ever taking it. He smoked crack. He so totally stole the only valuable possession I had as a child that was making me happy to fuel his crack habit. Like, that walkman meant so very much to me. I'm still in trauma therapy, but doing better.
I know it's not the same, but you should totally treat yourself to a refurbished/good condition Walkman. I rebought some things I lost or really wanted as a kid and it's surprisingly healing.
I’m proud of you for going to therapy babes!!💗💗💗 the pain you were given doesn’t have to haunt you your whole life🫶💗 I’ve been going to trauma therapy and EMDR for nearly 4 years and it’s the best gift I’ve ever given myself! I didn’t realize how heavy I was in my being and how much my trauma was making my choices for me. You got this angel!! I believe in you!! If I can get better, so can you!!🥰🥰🥹🫶💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Something similar happened to me when I was 9. I had a I pod touch. Me and my sister shared it but anyways my parents were meth addicts. I left it on a little table outside my room one day. When I went to get it it was gone. I asked about it and they swore up and down that I lost it. Years later when I was an adult they admitted to taking it and selling it for drugs.
i’m so sorry you went through this. i think you should get a walkman, even if it’s just to look at it. you’ve grown and escaped and you’re bettering yourself. i hope you’re doing well
Similar thing happened with my dad and a $100 gift card he won in a spelling bee when he was younger. His step dad was an alcoholic and somehow it went “missing” even after they packed up their entire house to move. Took 20 years for him to admit to it. My dad has healed now but still gets a little hurt when he tells the story.
That prank story is wild. An accurate way to say this "My boyfriend pretended to have a GUN and threatened to use it while going through TSA." That's *Insane.*
Yeah; I'm not sure why he thought that border security would find ANYTHING funny. You know what they like? When you shut up, don't give them extra work and go on to be literally ANYONE else's problem.
The daughter needs to go to the moms friend and say "my mom says you lost my bag". Her response would show if she knew who's bag it was, and if the mom actually sold it
First story…they blame her for “acting like a child” I would totally act like one. Break things around the house until it makes up for how much the bag cost. They say well it’s just things
Yeah... Until they give her enough respect to not steal her things, she has every right to be upset to whatever extent she wants. She'll act like an adult when they respect her like one and don't steal her things.
Exactly! At my big age of 34, I would have thrown a whole tantrum if someone stole something really valuable from me and fed me some BS about losing it. OP's reaction was relatively understated for a 15 year old if I'm being honest. I would have LOST IT
that last story was incredible and i'm very happy that she got out of that situation. "so let me put this in a language you can understand," then following the typical r/aita format is fucking WIIIILLLLLDDDDD
"I want to wait for the perfect time." You've been together 7 years, you've raised her daughter since she was a toddler, and she has let you know this whole time she wants to be married. Stop wasting this woman's time and either shit or get off the pot.
He bought the ring because he wants to marry and he is not sure if he wants to marry her. Then he is waiting for a signal to a) leave the relationship and marry someone else, or b) some kind of external sign that he should marry her. Overall the dude is just waiting for a mystical sign because he doesnt want to marry his partner and its pissed at her, for wanting to proceed with her life.
17:10 the audacity for her to say "oh but nothing happened between us," when the entire issue was that she was actively trying to get OP to FUND HER ATTEMPT TO MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN
Pure, unbrittled rage at that. The minute she told me that I would've rid everything I could to refund her return ticket. "You wanna see where this goes with a rando from the bar? Let's see whether he wants to house and feed you after he's done with the only thing he wanted from you." Genuinely I think a person like that SHOULD be left in a foreign country penniless, maybe they'll finally realize "oh wow I'm stupid."
@Oliverf-ej8kl Idk, I think she did learn when she lost her man. My husband brought me to his country and he pays for everything, and he made sure that I knew before I came that he would never dump me out on the street and that I will get home safely, if we were to ever break up. What you're suggesting comes off as malicious overkill, I don't think it's moral to play with the safety of someone who depends on you
@@cozymoggeleShe wasn't left behind though! She had the plane ticket he had bought her, if she wanted more time there as a single person, she should be the one to pay for it. If she can't afford it, staying without any money would be her stranding herself, nothing to do with him.
@@cozymoggele while that’s fair and I admit I got some issues with this typa stuff which might be manifesting here as kindve cruel. I just can’t get over the fact that he was going to literally be paying for her to cheat, and she was trying to make him feel guilty for not funding her date with another man. If I learned I was tricked into something like that, I genuinely can’t imagine the rage I’d feel. And the fact that her conscious seemingly didn’t exist, like there wasn’t a shred of self awareness to think “oh wait, this is deeply messed and I’m treating this guy like he isn’t even a human being,” instead she somehow saw it as just “looking around to see if I have a better connection.” That type of person is what I just consider evil, personally I don’t think they’re redeemable as that’s just some sense of selfishness that solidifies when you’re very, very young. The only possible saving grace is having that selfishness catch up to them in a real “oh I deserve this,” moment, which only happens after a long time of deflecting it and believing everyone else is the problem. So yeah, harsh, but I stick by it
i just listened to the red flags episode again, and you guys should totally do that theme again with dustin poynter! he’s the dude who runs through a park with a red or green flag, and it would be really fun to hear an extended version of his thoughts on these stories in discussion with you guys 💜
RE: Story #5 "My bf pranked TSA" I paused the video in like the first 10 secs of that story bc all I heard was "I (21)", "Bf (29, TWENTY NINE)", and "he switched all my skincare stuff with mayo". THIS DUDE IS A MAN CHILD I feel so sorry for the girl.
No no, she was 20. I immediately thought 'that age gap at that age is not ok'. They have been together for months already (she had been planning the trip for months) so how fucking old was she when they got together?! Cause even if it was 19, he was 28!!!
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING! That age gap had me tweakin out before I even heard the rest of the story! And my god what a child, at 29 pulling a joke against tsa?? Omg😭
6:12 100% think the mom sold the bag. I feel so bad for this girl 🧡 . She’s just 15. no one loses a LV bag and then says they won’t pay it back ?!?!? Wtf.
@@Steve-Fictionif you’re willing to take your child’s bag she saved months to purchase, a two step lie is nothing, she doesn’t respect her daughter and wanted to pass blame.
@Steve-Fiction not really, she's trying to dodge the blame by laying it at the feet of this friend. If she says she herself lost it, then its her fault. If this "friend" did, she can point the finger at them.
Because there probably is no. Purse moms friend, she's "not planning on returning it" Because the mom was the one who sold it. The purse was in her room, why would her mom's friend walk into her kids room in the first place, let alone ask to borrow something that's in there. The mom sees the things he daughter owns as things she owns, and the purse was expensive so Because it's "technically hers" she decided to sell it. It's the most logical explanation
5:48 There are A LOT of parents that do these things to their kids. Unfortunately there are financial situations that necessitate kids getting jobs to help out, but this IS NOT one of those situations. The kid chose to get a job to pay for their own things, and the parent took advantage of them. It's not right and I've seen it happen to several of my friends
Even in those situations which “necessitate” kids getting jobs to help out, it’s entirely the kids choice wether they want to provide that help or not. Minors shouldn’t be expected to pick up the slack to keep the family afloat. Any parent who needs that, wasn’t ready to be a parent
I got a paper route when I was 14 to afford to get clothes and school supplies. My dad was constantly asking to “borrow” money that he never paid back. My older sister would often steal my money and get away with it. I learned fast to keep my money on me at all times and lie about whether I had any or not. At 16 I got a job at a fast food place and was able to open my own bank account. I only had to keep money on me when I got out cash. Though I had to hide my monthly statements so my dad didn’t try to get money from me. My brother was working at the same time for the same reasons I was. We both worked to provide food, clothes, school supplies, and little treats for my younger sister who was in grade school. If we didn’t provide that stuff for her, she wouldn’t have it because that’s how my parents were.
@@LeggoMyGekko"any parent who needs that wasn't ready to be a parent" Not always. Lots of unpredictable things can happen that might put a parent in sudden financial straits. Death of a spouse, medical debt, stuff like that
@@llynxfyremusic true, but at that point it is the responsibility of the primary caregiver to figure out the next steps/find the means to survive. If a kid steps up by their own volition, that’s great, respectable and acceptable. But they should not feel obligated, and the parent shouldn’t pressure them to pick up any slack. That’s not a stress that minors should have to be exposed to, they’ll get enough of that out on their own
Okay but the story directly addressing her husband gave me chills. It felt like such an aggression that I can only imagine the other stuff she didn’t mention, like I’m watching this fight happen in public and I can’t look away. Wow that was a crazy read
@@gentlepeeps3351what about the husband's side? It seem you're under the impression that trying to get a different perspective has something to do with sex/gender. No, the cast only brings that up when context could help the cast understand the situation better. This isn't exclusive to husband/wife relationships. They'll often bring up "the roommates" side of the story etc. They didn't bring it up for the same reason they didn't bring up the mom's side in the story. Because there is no context that could make the husband (or the mom in the first story) seem less of an asshole.
With the louis bag its also...the bag was in the daughter's bedroom. WHY was the mother and her friend in there at all? Like that doesn't add up. To me it really is just a bad lie to cover up mom selling it. 9:53
My first thought was drugs. I can't fathom another situation where a parent would actually take something like that from their kid after they worked so hard for it. Mom sold it for drugs.
@@jamesbowen2088 I took the “only having hand me downs” and “not the richest family” comments as her way of saying they’re either low income or lower middle class and her probably needing money and felt entitled to taking and selling it. I remember when I was younger my parents needing to take some of my birthday/christmas money for bills, groceries, etc. but I could always tell they hated having to do that and they were never shitty about it.
right? like who takes something from someones room?? then again i had a roommate in the past where she took a cookie out of my room. i had put the cookies in my room so my roommate wouldnt think they were possibly free-game (a lot of things in the house were) and I ended up having one cookie left that I was saving and looking forward to, when I finally went to get it after coming back from volunteering it was gone. my roommate insisted she never went into my room and ate it to the point that i honestly felt like i was crazy and must have ate it without remembering doing so. It wasnt until mooonths later when she moved out that she admitted 'so i need to get it off my chest, i did go into your room and steal your cookie while you werent home that one time. i saw it when i walked by your room once and later thought that a cookie sounded good and was hungry so i went and ate it' (or something to that effect, its been several years i forget the exact wording/situation. i know its not the same as the story since that was an actual expensive bag and mine is just a cheap cookie)
That first story hits close, when i was in high school (maybe 2018ish)my father sold my $500 worth of copic markers i had been collecting over 4 years, in 2022 my aunt got me a huge set of ohuhu markers. I cried, it felt like i had finally got back the last thing he took from me 😭
That line, "Let me break it down for you in a language you understand." Hit so hard sliding into the typical reddit story beginning. Some juicy stories today.
Omg that ring story, the one comment is so right about it needing to be burning a hole in your pocket. My little brother bought a ring and was gonna propose a month after on their anniversary, he couldn't wait even a week before asking her cuz he was so excited and ready to ask. Dude just doesn't want to
You have no idea how stupid that sounds. Just because you have a plan doesn't mean you should execute said plan the first chance you get. And why does she have to get married right now? There is literally nothing that's going to change except she gets a ring on her finger and they sign some documents. They already live together, they already have a good life, all that marriage does is make her liable to 50% of all his stuff if they ever get divorced
@@dyllangames3592 another brain dead take from DyllanGames over here. The irony of the first sentence in your comment being "YoU hAvE nO iDeA hOw sTuPid tHaT sOuNdS". She wants to get married because even though its an antiquated institution that still exists in modern times, it means something symbolically. That the dude is committed to her and her CHILD. This isn't only about her, she also has a kid that has known the dude as her stepfather for 6-7 years now. That's why she wants to get married. So that they can move forward as a family, as a cohesive unit. They have also both said that they want to get married (though I don't think the dude has spoken that out loud to anyone but Reddit). So for these two people marriage is important. Like they said in the video the two of them need to TALK about this with each other. That way SHE can stop asking about the ring and HE can actually do something otherwise this is all just a big waste of time.
@@dyllangames3592 "waiting for the right time" WOULD imply that they're taking the soonest chance. If not, there is no right time and you should save the ring for someone who makes you feel that way.
My mom stole so many things from me, including money, listening to this story made me want to cry of frustration, i think only the kids who literally felt like they had no control over nothing can really understand how painful this situation is, you learn that you can't trust you FAMILY and you can never brag about something because otherwise you were the "Selfish and self entitled".
The hall pass is wild and two things stand out to me immediately. The first is that the hall pass has a statute of limitations or about 6 months, max. The second is that you should _never_ be in a place where you want to use the hall pass if you also want to make the relationship work. What he's talking about 5 years later is a new relationship with someone else.
when the comment with the words "they get ready real quick for the one they really want" was read, I felt that. the guy I was with for 5 years told me he never was ready for a serious relationship (even though we steadily were a thing for 5 years) was introduced to this girl by his parents which he obviously told me it was nothing and to not worry about it and he moved to another country and I found out he moved in with that girl and got married to her there... while we were still together. it is true, they DO get ready real quick for the one they really want 🙃
no thats wild. the heck? how does someone even do that? i will never understand someone who does that nor do i want to. they often twist something so intense that it only makes sense to them
i’m RAGING at that first story. the whole time i was a teenager i wanted this specific set of high end artist’s markers and i finally managed to save and get them this year at 22, and sometimes i do just LOOK AT THEM bc i’m so proud to have them. i would start throwing bricks through windows if my mother sold them.
Right!! To have the discipline to work, save, and obtain something that you want and then respect your belongings is such a big step to make for the first time and I know some 25 year olds who haven't accomplished this yet. I can't imagine undermining the work of a 15 year old 😩 unless I wanted them to turn into a villian
I had the same feeling about my car, when I first bought it I’d just go out and sit in it and just smile, because I got to that point in my life with 0 support from my family, actually in spite of them.
I had a ring for about 9 months, we were looking into buying a house at the time. And on the day we got the keys I proposed to her in the back garden of our new home. Low key but felt right. And that was 7 years ago. Sometimes waiting is good
I'm so glad everyone [reddit included] took the first story so seriously. There's this weird thing where people tend to treat kid's [or anyone under 20 tbh] possessions as less important and their emotions as childish and uncalled for. This one instance could easily turn into two which could turn into four which could then snowball, and I really hope that girl takes the advice about bank accounts and I wish her the best. My mother is like this, she's admitted to looking through one of her kid's bank accounts [30s and literally has a kid], looked through my stuff as well as stole and sold them plus a bunch of other stuff. It's wild to think that multiple parents out there believe that this is completely okay and sensible behaviour,,
Agreed. i suspect what happened was that the parent was working hard to pay bills and had some feelings of resentment and jealousy when her daughter purchased a $2K+ handbag. And feelings are feelings, i get that. But the solution is to sit down with your daughter, congratulate her on her success, talk about what's going on with you, ask her to start contributing to the family expenses, and maybe grant her some special privileges to reflect her new responsibility. The solution is to model having honest conversations about finances and feelings and needs. The solution is NOT to walk off with your daughter's possession, get it lost or sold off, and try to sweep the matter under the carpet.
The bag story reminded me of the time my mom donated a beloved toy of mine when I was a kid without asking me. It was a toy I didn’t play with much but still loved. My mom assumed I didn’t want it anymore and donated it to goodwill while I was at school. I remember crying a lot when she told me what happened when I couldn’t find it, and from then on my mom always double checked with me before donating or throwing out anything of mine. I don’t even clearly remember what the toy was, but I’ve never forgotten how betrayed and angry I felt.
Sorry that happened to you, my step dad once threw away 5 years worth of sketchbooks and over 30 notebooks I used to research things for a book I was working on but I'm glad he's now paying for my art supplies for each sketchbook he threw away. Hope op's mom didn't actually sell it though it seems unlikely
My parents threw everything I owned from a second story window. I’ve never really forgiven them for it. I was probably in like 5th grade, did bad on a test and that was the result. I remember that a few months earlier I worked my ass off to get a radio shaped like a dog so I can listen to music while studying, and because it was cute. They tossed that too about a week after I finally earned it and got it. I was devastated. It was broken into pieces and unable to be fixed. I remember having to walk outside with garbage bags to clean up the mess and to find some things that weren’t completely destroyed. Some books and my blankets could be salvaged. Lamps my desk the radio and a bunch of keepsakes were goners. The radio always sticks out to me tho.
my parents don't really relate or understand attachments to toys and stuff. i had a huge barbie/dolls collection as a kid and after a while they just sat in the garage or basement or something. without telling me they threw all of them away one day because they were getting dirty and i guess my parents were worried about mold or something. i accidentally discovered them in the trash bin outside and lost my shit. they looked at me like i was crazy for caring and couldn't understand how upset i was for not being able to say goodbye. i now only have 1 barbie doll from that collection and it's one of the later ones that i didnt develop as much of an attachment to. my parents did apologize and said they'll ask about stuff from then on but they got rid of so many precious stuffed animals and toys that i would've genuinely loved to still have despite being in my 20s. shit still hurts even though this happened even before covid
I’m so sorry that happened to you, it happened to me as a kid too. I have never thrown out a toy that belongs to either of my kids for that same reason, some trauma isn’t passed on 😳
Arasha is absolutely devouring her points in this video, i always love seeing her in reddit stories because shes such a clear voice of reason. Somehow when talking about random drama that they read on the Internet she sounds so professional.
0:53 a few things: 1) COURT IS THE CUTEST LITTLE BEAN TO EVER BE! 2) This moment between friends is so sweet to see! It’s so nice when your support circle can help solidify realities about you that you’re scared to claim, as if you have to have some lofty ideal in order to claim the work you’re already doing! So nice when someone can say “No you ARE!” And force you to speak in your definite!
"We have finding yourself at home" 😂 Courtney got slept on with that one. Love y'all. Ps) is Chili's a Smosh sponsor? Y'all make Chili's jokes at least once an episode, so they better be paying you guys.
@@gonzaloegonzalez8106courtney actually had a sponsor or brand deal with carls jr for a bit. she was promoting it on her instagram, but iirc she was pretty transparent that she was getting paid
the Mom who stole the bag is narcissistic as hell. My mother was the same, soon as her child gains independence, take from them because in her eyes their achievements don’t “count”. Poor kid
Yes!!!! I heard the story and was like "yup, sounds like something my mom would/did do" it's so frustrating that these kids have to go through the same shit we did. It's awful.
Ngl, the bag belongs to the mom anyways, she raised her, good for the mom, use them kids for your own benefit, once they are grown they'll leave, take advantage as much as you can.
On the guy who was waiting for "the right time". When you really love someone it doesn't matter how they propose but that they do it. My husband asked me over the phone (we were in a long distance relationship at the time) by saying, "What are you doing in August next year?". Did I care that it wasn't in a romantic setting or in person? No. We just celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary and though i tease him about the way he proposed, the fact of the matter is I immediately said yes.
Because that girl needed to be mature since her mother never was. She had to parent herself as someone has mentioned. This amazing girl was forced to be independent, probably has a heart filled with love that she never gave to herself. I really hope she will some day get away from a parent like that, give herself all the love she needed while growing up.
@@SahiraJPoetry Literally took the words out of my mouth! Poor girl had to grow up too fast it sounds like. But let least it sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders (no thanks to her mother).
About the first story, everyone else are assholes for saying she's overreacting. I made something last night that I could make again and I already misplaced it. I cried a little honestly lol. I was so proud of it. She absolutely has the right to be so upset about her situation
I have a different theory, What is more likely the Mom showed her "daughter's purse" to a "friend" Naw bro, the mom claimed it was hers, and either gave it to the friend, was told they lost it, or as the comments said she sold it. Either way, Mom was jealous, and did something irrationally harmful. Hope she enjoyed the relationship, cuz it's gone now too.
5:54 as someone whos mom sold/pawned things i bought for myself for drugs when i was a teengaer. This is a very real thing some parents do to their kids for whatever reason and its sad
My fiance waited a week. We did discuss how I would want to be proposed to and I even picked out the ring (he felt a lot of pressure about picking the right one, so I chose one). Then we started planning this trip to this beautiful national park with my best friend in my home state that was just supposed to be a fun trip and when we get up to this gorgeous view, I didn't notice my friend slink away to start filming and my fiance surprised me with a proposal. It was perfect because of all the communication we had about it and it was still a surprise.
@chrism6880 With so many children, the family is probably struggling financially. The mom was probably resentful of the daughter for buying a luxury item instead of helping out, or at the very least thought the money would be better spent on the family. That could've been her justification. Either way, she stole an expensive item from her daughter (likely sold it), and taught her daughter not to trust her
@@amylake9064 If the family is struggling, she could've SAID SO and ASKED if her daughter could START HELPING NOW that she has the fancy bag she really wanted by continuing to work and giving like half her money to her mom or buying her own weekly groceries or something. Can't really resent her for getting a luxury item if you didn't ask her for help before that. Well, you CAN, but you'd be even worse. There's no logic there lol
@@amylake9064 that birth giver needed to communicate she needed financial help, not resent her child for working hard and being patient towards a goal. You want your child to stay in your life and help out, you need to set the example and COMMUNICATE. You cannot place financial responsibility on a child when you haven't take the responsible steps to sustain your family and resent your own child for it!
The TSA story: It’s not just bad in the sense that both are now probably on a list but this guy could have caused a legit mass panic, tons of injuries to others, potentially(?) airport going into lockdown, SWAT response...
The "hall pass" game is a quick road to being either single or in a very unhappy relationship. No two ways about it if you still want to be with a person after they cheated.
I'm sorry but COURT IS LOOKING SO FREAKING AMAZING in this video!!! I have always loved their style, but I genuinely think this is my favorite outfit I've ever seen them in. And the hair do be hairing omg. 🥰
match tattoo story from court was probably the most heartwarming story of this episode! so hopeful for someone like me aspiring to be in the same field. we love and we see you our director court!! 🧡
The TSA Prank guy has no idea. As a Trans person, TAS is so funding scary. Cuz if you get picked out for fake boobs or a packer, you have to explain to complete strangers that your Trans and your wearing something like that. It's so fucjed up.
yeah regardless of what happened to the bag, the fact she's even going into her private things in the first place is gross asf, and then to touch it and act like you have jurisdiction over it? if she isn't a thief, she really desperately needs to learn boundaries.
I totally understand that girl with the bag. In highschool I worked and bought my own car. 1968 mustang (not mint) but mine. My alcoholic dad totaled it one day and never replaced it
Last story wait- 35 and 29. Married for 5 years, together for 10. OP was 19 when they got together and possibly dealing with this mother in laws verbal abuse?? Nevermind the fact that he was a 25 year old guy with a girl fresh out of high school?
my partner and I have an age gap (when I was 19 he was 22) and we're very healthy/happy, so I'm not on the "all age gaps are bad" train, but that story's age gap is sketchy as HELL. Very curious how much her family is involved because it sounds like she has very little if any outside support
@@rebbyberard8150 Yeah for sure, there are definitely some adult age gap relationships that can work. I think my main issue was how his mom was beefing with essentially a college freshman from the jump like??? That's crazy to me
@@ShinyPrimarina truly wild. I mean, my partner's mom has said some shit to me, but it was never out of malice, only unthoughtfulness and privilege. Imagine attacking the college freshman that your fully adult son is dating (and probably manipulating). Boy moms can be so weird
@@rebbyberard8150 well 3 years doesn't sound like a huge age gap to be honest but yea being a decade older and one person is literally a highschooler seems really icky. Did this man seriously not find anyone within 3-5 years of his age attractive???
That bag story pisses me off so much. The mom owes her daughter a new bag IMMEDIATELY. You can’t just steal someone’s possessions.
Genuinely so angry for this poor girl. That was her hard work and planning and her mom, regardless of if she sold it or if the friend actually lost it, is not just disrespecting her daughter, but also destroying any trust between them. These are the kinds of moms who get no-contacted and then say that they were “doing the best they could”
And people wonder why someone would go no contact with their parents... 😂😞
The mom is basically teaching her daughter that working hard and saving money to earn your own treats isn't worth it because your own parents can't be trusted not to just steal your shit.
Yeah. People can expect "maturity and forgiveness" from you when they treat you, your time, and your stuff with respect. No forgiveness without respect.
No fr thooo, these are the same "parents" that would break your piggybank, take your money and tell you its fine because we're "family" 😭🐖🐷
"You're acting like a child over a bag"
Yeah well you're acting like a felon
😂
Amen
That what im saying we need to know the price of the bag and she might be an actual felon. 🤣
It's a bag. It's not like it's a car or a house or a game console. If she wasn't going to use it, why have it. That's like buying a car just to have it sit in your driveway and fall apart.
She's literally 15! She is a child! You are her mother! SHE IS YOUR CHILD!! That story pissed me off so much 😤
Telling a child they're acting like a child when they're being more responsible than most adults is crazyyy
First story - Mom betrayed you and can not be trusted...period
What a horrid mother
Mom betrayed and then gaslit her own daughter. I wonder if there was even a friend or if the mom sold the bag.
12:22 “no, we have finding ourself at home” lmaooo
😂😂
i couldn’t stop laughing at that one; courtney’s iconic commentary strikes again
Yeah it's called Chilli's with your girls 😂😂😂
That comment had me rolling
@@SSSSSukIt
Bruh those Louis Vuitton bags are like $2k. That’s not a little woopsie, that’s grand theft
Isn't it Louis?
Oh shit that makes it so much worse, I don't know much about high priced stuff like that but I was assuming it was like 6 or 7 hundred which is already a good couple of months if your 15 with a minimum wage job. 2k is insane
I've seen Louis Vuitton bags that are priced at $10k so the price range at which she got hers back vary wildly but ones thing is for sure: it was expensive af
@@Paradox-es3bl you right, thanks!
Yea it's enough to press charges, and I absolutely would.
"Bro, hurry up. When are you gonna propose to her?"
"I have a concept of a plan."
This comment is underrated 😂😂😂😂
This made my morning 😂
Oooo😂
This made me CHOKE ON MY DRINK
He was acting like he was gonna flee to Tahiti fr 💀
The bag story makes me so fucking mad, especially with OP’s family trying to say she’s acting like a child. No shit! She is a child! But she seems ten times more mature than most grown ass adults I know.
Yeah and who wouldnt "act like a child" when they found out u gave away their $500 bag.
its crazy the childish person is calling the 15 yr old childish 💀💀
@@lil_spiritssadly it definitely is like more like $2,000-5,000!!!
@@lil_spiritsbro it’s around 2000 dollars it’s even worse. She’s being a saint
@@alliefaye322 oh damn yeah then she definitely has a right to be upset
The first story is a Judge Judy, worthy case! 15 year old's MOTHER stole a purse SHE EARNED with HER OWN MONEY gave it to a FREIND to borrow, who proceeded to LOSE IT? Judge Judy would have a field day!
That friend pisses me off too, when Shayne said she "doesn't plan to replace it" like wtf?
@@summerskull9379I totally believe the friend is probably innocent and is just someone who bought a purse. Probably has no idea the mom didn't own it.
@@trinitybernhardt9944 Yeah I commented before they got to that part of the story. Honestly sounds more plausible, sadly.
Unfortunately, in most states in us parents essentially own their kids until they are 18. They could dock her entire paycheck and legally be allowed to because they are the parents. She would have to be emancipated from them to have a case :(
Not sure why I read your comment with the voice of the guy who tells about the court cases at the beginning of each trial. I mean, I get why, you mentioned Judge Judy, but WHY did my brain go there?!
I love seeing the panelists having a Pavlovian respose to the word "Update"
Well... Shayne HAS done his degree in Psychology😂😂
i need a master comp of all the best "update" moments ahahah
Love this comment
Shayne and Courtney both throwing their hands up at “we only hug and hold hands” is such a mood
37:24 Here's the time stamp for this, for those who want it.
There’s a whole subreddit for handholding and it’s the lewdest one of all 🫣
@@Breadful1well now i’m curious as hell
@@Breadful1I’m so curious but I got burned pretty bad yesterday clicking on a self-circumcision page… too scared to go exploring now 🙈
@@aoneal3723 A WHAT- OMFG WHAT WHY DOES THAT EXIST
If I had a nickel for every time Shane said “the relationship you had is dead, you have to start a whole new relationship” I’d have like 65 cents probably
and he’s absolutely right
And he's god damn right o7
Which isn't a lot, but it's weird it happened 13 times. XD
@@SmileFromGlasgow you counted?? 😦
@@dohpht1970 I think they just divided 65 by 5
Proposal story. I’ve always felt like a proposal should never be a complete surprise. I liked the way my husband did it. We talked about it, went ring shopping and then the surprise was when and how I was proposed to. The reason he decided not to surprise me with the ring, was that it’s something I will wear on my hand for everyone to see for hopefully the rest of my life. So he wanted to be absolutely sure that it was something I LOVED!!! And I loved that he was thinking about my feelings.
I absolutely agree. Your husband sounds like a really caring guy!
Ok that’s super cute
I absolutely agree. I think there should be no doubt in your mind that the person you're proposing to will say yes, because you have discussed marriage, maybe got a ring together, have discussed if family should be there or if you want a private moment for the two of you etc.
It's also just an insane amount of money to spend on something when 1) you don't know if the person wants to marry you and/or 2) you don't know if they'll like the ring
@@violet7773or- if youve talked about it but you dont want them to be expecting it all the way- get a simple ring to be a placeholder than have a date where you decide exactly what your partner wants from the ring :D honestly no matter what you should at least have discussed getting married
My boyfriend and I have a place planned for our proposal. We're going to an all-inclusive, adult only retreat in January during my birthday and that's when it's gonna happen ❤ I don't want it to be a surprise, and he has had 0 issues with it being planned out. With the right person these things can be communicated without there being weird vibes. I've talked about it with family and one seemed shocked-- "it's supposed to be a surpise!!" But why? All that matters is that two people are happy and doing their thing. I'm excited for January!
I'm so glad reddit commenters took the first story seriously. Not being able to have your own things in your own home messes you up. My abuser would always make my things disappear or destroy them. My room wasn't safe either. No matter what the mother did with the bag - this is a situation ripe with abuse. Especially since she punished her kid and didn't even TRY to compensate for the loss.
Exploitation, period.
It reminds me of when I was a kid and I had the nerve to be upset that one of my brothers went into my room and took something. I don’t even remember what it was now. I just remember being upset because he didn’t ask me for permission to use the item, not because he touched my stuff or whatever. I was the AH in my dad’s opinion & received some corporal punishment for that incident. I agree with the opinion that mom probably sold it to her friend or someone else.
When me and my half-siblings lived with their abusive dad and step mom in middle school, they would take any money our mom sent for Christmas or birthdays, and use it for themselves. The first story reminds me of some of their behaviour from back then.
I feel this.. I would come home to my whole room searched through and rearranged no matter how many times I asked my mom not to. She also removed the bedroom door and lied about getting rid of things I would buy with my own earned money as well. No privacy, no safety.. I left as soon as I could.
I've seen so many people try to justify parents destroying kids stuff as a punishment when no!!!!! Kids (and everyone really) need to be able to trust that what they have is theirs and even the closest people in their life aren't entitled to your things!
"We have finding yourself at home" 😭
I died
holy sh*t THE LAST STORY never been more shocked, so good! Good for HER !!
@Sylvester64 she was 19 when they got together, and he was 25...
10 years later it's not that much of a gap, but she was just barely an adult. 😢
regarding the 4th story, as a child of divorce: don't stay only for the kids. my parents stayed together for me years after they fell out of love with each other and i would spent nights locked in my room listening to music and crying bc they were fighting again and i thought it was my fault. children deserve a real example of love at home.
after an entire childhood of abuse and neglect, as an adult my mom told me she and my dad only stayed together "for the kids." i could only stare at her. y'all thought you were helping us but you gave us such miserable lives. never ever ever stay in a bad relationship "for the kids."
100% My mom has never been happier being single after having 3 kids and divorcing the sperm donor (aka bio father)
Rule #1: do not stay for the kids.
Rule #2: do not find a partner that is worse.
Fr, I think when parents “stay together for the kids” it ends up with them involving their kids too much in the messiness of the relationship. My parents did end up divorcing, but it was at a point where they couldn’t even be in a room together without yelling at each other, and so it was on me or my sister to relay messages between them or be lectured by either parent about why the other was a bad person. As a parent, if you REALLY want to protect your kids, you need to be making choices that won’t destroy your mental health or cause extremely high amounts of tension in the home, bc those things will effect the children whether or not you think they ‘see’ it.
That’s such a tragic yet common story. See this is why peeps don’t stay for the kids. It doesn’t help the kid’s life.
Also for all the kids with a story like this, I wish you always find your favorite ice cream flavor and it’s always just as good as it always is.
"I've decided not to use my hallpass to form a deeper emotional connection with this other woman, but we will remain friends, continue to have coffee dates, and have deep emotional talks about our lives and dreams and stuff in a totally platonic way" HUHHHH??
and kiss and hold hands and hug! but like as friends! and it'll for sure stop at kissing at most, no tongue.
@@kennedy.5152if he stops at the tip it's fine
This way, can just keep that hall pass in the back pocket. For purposes. Later.
Just some homie hugs and kisses that's all 🥴
That dude was asking for a polyamorous relationship not a hall pass.
I hope the wife sees that and realises he’s been in an emotional affair for 12 months and decides that clearly her affair was the breaking point of their relationship and both can move on
"Do you know how much mayonnaise you wasted?"
Me and my boyfriend had to pause for a good few minutes because that's literally something I would've said 🤣
.....Yeaah the mom totally sold it. Look at the bright side, OP can now never bother with retirement for her guilt free
I have 2 teenage kids and it makes me feel sick to know that there are "parents" like this. 😑😒
It’s giving mum is jealous of the daughter having a nice bag and wanted to get rid of it
@@yb6038 which is crazy bc I feel like when people are jealous… a lot of times, we can just work on ourselves to also have the thing we’re jealous of. Mom, work on yourself the way your daughter damn near naturally worked on herself to get something she wanted.
@@WookieWoman I have a friend whose mother had medical power of attorney while he was in the military, and he had to have surgery and his mother literally drained his bank account while he was unconscious. People are garbage.
@@yb6038 definitely a wounded ego seeing as how op mentions only ever having hand me downs and how they aren’t the richest family
the update to the hall pass story is literally just: "I've decided to continue the emotional affair"
"And not tell my wife" at that
and that affair will def turn physical soon
@@KingRynoD.LeonhartTMB idk it doesn't bother me much since she cheated first. karma is a b-
@@hopeliveshere5102I don't support OP's choices, but I don't feel bad for the wife either. It's just the delayed consequences of her choices and actions.
@@DragonbornMike-ym2er true!
The conversation you guys had about the last story was so relatable and was honestly so validating to myself personally. When my partner and I first started dating, my family went above and beyond to make her feel as unwelcome as possible. Long story short, that was 7 years ago, my partner and I have been happily married for 4 years and I have a very strained relationship with my family with very little communication from me to them. I've always felt like maybe I was an asshole for walking away from my family so harshly and completely, so it was so validating to hear other people essentially agree with the decision I made 7 years ago.
I hope you know how wonderful you are for being on your wife's side. There are Far Too Many stories on reddit of husbands (almost always husbands) choosing their mother and/or family over their partner and it's always such a relief to come across someone who doesn't put up with their family's bs. Protecting your partner from bullying feels like the bare minimum but somehow it's a rarity
Regarding hall pass dude, does he genuinely think his version of a hall pass is better? Imagine your partner coming up to you and saying "Babe i want to use my hall pass from the time you cheated 5 years ago, the time I'm totally over, but i don't wanna use it normally. Instead of sleeping with this woman, I want to grow closer with her than I've ever been with you, relating to her in ways you will never comprehend. Truly connecting our souls on an incomprehensible level" brother what
The worst part is that he feels completely in the right here. Like he feels superior cause she cheated before he inevitably did.
And the fact he goes “I feel guilty” multiple times as if it absolves him of any wrongdoing AND THEN continuing to do the exact same thing😭😭where’s the common sense
It's a real victim becoming just like the villain. They really swapped places.
He's already been dating Melissa for over a year
Ew brother
Shayne: “I’m joined by two people who are… not the asshole.”
Arasha: “But we have them.”
😂
can someone explain that
@@lamisxothey have assholes
@@vizmaanna644 OH LMAO THANK YOU
I thought she said "we have been" like in the past 😂
Thanks for the mental image arasha! 😂
I love when Arasha is in reddit stories, she always has so much interesting stuff to say
Yes, so true 😊
Despite being one of the youngest cast members, Arasha has the most understanding takes/perspectives and I appreciate her so much for that.
the one episode i (and a lot of other ppl) stopped watching at the first story is the one where the mom wanted to name their kid ghiyulieyette or smth. they all had mid takes but arashas was just the worst, completely missing the point.
@@karamelogram She usually has the most emotionally mature, well thought out responses but I think she took that one name story too personally and made it into something it wasn’t. Maybe she was confused idk. I have decided to pretend like that episode doesn’t exist lol bc I love her in every other reddit video but that one was a trainwreck
@@udontevenwannaknowbruv which video was?
1:01:41 An "All In-Laws" episode of Reddit stories would be CRAZY!!!!!
Omg yes!!!
Yes!!!
HEEEEELL YEAH
Yes please!!!
yessss
I had a walkman as an 8-year-old. I'm 38. My mom's bf at the time guilted me into "lending" it to him for a bit. The next time I ever brought it up and asked for it back, he completely denied ever taking it. He smoked crack. He so totally stole the only valuable possession I had as a child that was making me happy to fuel his crack habit. Like, that walkman meant so very much to me. I'm still in trauma therapy, but doing better.
I know it's not the same, but you should totally treat yourself to a refurbished/good condition Walkman. I rebought some things I lost or really wanted as a kid and it's surprisingly healing.
I’m proud of you for going to therapy babes!!💗💗💗 the pain you were given doesn’t have to haunt you your whole life🫶💗 I’ve been going to trauma therapy and EMDR for nearly 4 years and it’s the best gift I’ve ever given myself! I didn’t realize how heavy I was in my being and how much my trauma was making my choices for me. You got this angel!! I believe in you!! If I can get better, so can you!!🥰🥰🥹🫶💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
Something similar happened to me when I was 9. I had a I pod touch. Me and my sister shared it but anyways my parents were meth addicts. I left it on a little table outside my room one day. When I went to get it it was gone. I asked about it and they swore up and down that I lost it. Years later when I was an adult they admitted to taking it and selling it for drugs.
i’m so sorry you went through this. i think you should get a walkman, even if it’s just to look at it. you’ve grown and escaped and you’re bettering yourself. i hope you’re doing well
Similar thing happened with my dad and a $100 gift card he won in a spelling bee when he was younger. His step dad was an alcoholic and somehow it went “missing” even after they packed up their entire house to move. Took 20 years for him to admit to it. My dad has healed now but still gets a little hurt when he tells the story.
That prank story is wild. An accurate way to say this "My boyfriend pretended to have a GUN and threatened to use it while going through TSA."
That's *Insane.*
Yeah; I'm not sure why he thought that border security would find ANYTHING funny. You know what they like? When you shut up, don't give them extra work and go on to be literally ANYONE else's problem.
The daughter needs to go to the moms friend and say "my mom says you lost my bag". Her response would show if she knew who's bag it was, and if the mom actually sold it
That’s what I thought. I would be knocking on doors
The mum admitted later she sold it. It was in an update
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First story…they blame her for “acting like a child” I would totally act like one. Break things around the house until it makes up for how much the bag cost. They say well it’s just things
I mean.... She is a child. How else will she act?
Yeah... Until they give her enough respect to not steal her things, she has every right to be upset to whatever extent she wants. She'll act like an adult when they respect her like one and don't steal her things.
I think anyone at any age would be furious at their mom for “losing” such an expensive item that they worked for
Exactly! At my big age of 34, I would have thrown a whole tantrum if someone stole something really valuable from me and fed me some BS about losing it. OP's reaction was relatively understated for a 15 year old if I'm being honest. I would have LOST IT
This was so fucking validating for me because I’ve done exactly this and now I’m the bad guy in my family.
that last story was incredible and i'm very happy that she got out of that situation. "so let me put this in a language you can understand," then following the typical r/aita format is fucking WIIIILLLLLDDDDD
i’m glad i found a comment like this because she LITERALLY ATW D O W N N
"I want to wait for the perfect time." You've been together 7 years, you've raised her daughter since she was a toddler, and she has let you know this whole time she wants to be married. Stop wasting this woman's time and either shit or get off the pot.
He's not waiting for "the right time," he's waiting for the right woman
Mm-hmm. Valuing the "perfect surprise" over actually progressing your life together is wild.
This was my ex, I talked all the time, he said he wanted to get married, he only proposed when I was done with the relationship 🙃
@@tayloreddie7448 the same thing happened to me 😭 after 5 1/2 years, and in my head I'm like bro I'm already looking for a way out what do you MEAN
He bought the ring because he wants to marry and he is not sure if he wants to marry her. Then he is waiting for a signal to a) leave the relationship and marry someone else, or b) some kind of external sign that he should marry her. Overall the dude is just waiting for a mystical sign because he doesnt want to marry his partner and its pissed at her, for wanting to proceed with her life.
17:10
the audacity for her to say "oh but nothing happened between us," when the entire issue was that she was actively trying to get OP to FUND HER ATTEMPT TO MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN
Pure, unbrittled rage at that. The minute she told me that I would've rid everything I could to refund her return ticket. "You wanna see where this goes with a rando from the bar? Let's see whether he wants to house and feed you after he's done with the only thing he wanted from you." Genuinely I think a person like that SHOULD be left in a foreign country penniless, maybe they'll finally realize "oh wow I'm stupid."
@Oliverf-ej8kl Idk, I think she did learn when she lost her man. My husband brought me to his country and he pays for everything, and he made sure that I knew before I came that he would never dump me out on the street and that I will get home safely, if we were to ever break up. What you're suggesting comes off as malicious overkill, I don't think it's moral to play with the safety of someone who depends on you
@@cozymoggeleShe wasn't left behind though! She had the plane ticket he had bought her, if she wanted more time there as a single person, she should be the one to pay for it. If she can't afford it, staying without any money would be her stranding herself, nothing to do with him.
@@cozymoggele while that’s fair and I admit I got some issues with this typa stuff which might be manifesting here as kindve cruel. I just can’t get over the fact that he was going to literally be paying for her to cheat, and she was trying to make him feel guilty for not funding her date with another man. If I learned I was tricked into something like that, I genuinely can’t imagine the rage I’d feel. And the fact that her conscious seemingly didn’t exist, like there wasn’t a shred of self awareness to think “oh wait, this is deeply messed and I’m treating this guy like he isn’t even a human being,” instead she somehow saw it as just “looking around to see if I have a better connection.” That type of person is what I just consider evil, personally I don’t think they’re redeemable as that’s just some sense of selfishness that solidifies when you’re very, very young. The only possible saving grace is having that selfishness catch up to them in a real “oh I deserve this,” moment, which only happens after a long time of deflecting it and believing everyone else is the problem.
So yeah, harsh, but I stick by it
i just listened to the red flags episode again, and you guys should totally do that theme again with dustin poynter! he’s the dude who runs through a park with a red or green flag, and it would be really fun to hear an extended version of his thoughts on these stories in discussion with you guys 💜
"Shayne I told you not to put my story in the episode." I CANT BREATHSEJEJEJE
😂😂😂😂
RE: Story #5 "My bf pranked TSA"
I paused the video in like the first 10 secs of that story bc all I heard was "I (21)", "Bf (29, TWENTY NINE)", and "he switched all my skincare stuff with mayo". THIS DUDE IS A MAN CHILD I feel so sorry for the girl.
Same.. also GROSS!
No no, she was 20. I immediately thought 'that age gap at that age is not ok'.
They have been together for months already (she had been planning the trip for months) so how fucking old was she when they got together?! Cause even if it was 19, he was 28!!!
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING! That age gap had me tweakin out before I even heard the rest of the story! And my god what a child, at 29 pulling a joke against tsa?? Omg😭
Yeah, like, "He filled my car with balloons" sounds kinda ok. That won't damage anything, probably. The only one I don't strongly dislike.
@@heyysimone Age gap bullshit. You're a child. They are both adults.
"wild work"
"insane work"
"crazy work"
Loving Shayne's new catchphrase
waiting for him to hit us with a “devious work”
6:12 100% think the mom sold the bag. I feel so bad for this girl 🧡 . She’s just 15. no one loses a LV bag and then says they won’t pay it back ?!?!? Wtf.
Feels like the mom was probably jealous, too
I think the friend sold the bag, or gifted it, or kept it or whatever. Seems weird for the mom to have a two-step lie as a cover up
@@Steve-Fictionif you’re willing to take your child’s bag she saved months to purchase, a two step lie is nothing, she doesn’t respect her daughter and wanted to pass blame.
Guaranteed that's what happened, nothing would convince me otherwise. Awful, awful mother
@Steve-Fiction not really, she's trying to dodge the blame by laying it at the feet of this friend. If she says she herself lost it, then its her fault. If this "friend" did, she can point the finger at them.
Court has been the silliest, giggliest lil guy the past few months and it is the best. Love to see them so happy!
It's one of the top highlights of the whole year for me. Court is a ray of sunshine.
they laughed so hard in this episode! it was the best thing
Right she's so awesome!
shes such a ray of sunshine and her outfit in this video is everything!
They're one of my favorites 🥺 Genuinely a ray of sunshine
COURTNEY ENJOYING ARASHA'S IMPRESSIONS OF SHAYNE IS TOO CUTE...SHE LOVES SEEING IMPRESSIONS OF HER HUSBAND. I LIVE FOR THOSE MOMENTS ❤❤❤
Ngl I rewatched her giggling a few times. She’s too cute!
5:22 im sorry purse moms friend “has no plans to replace it”?! OH HELL NO!
I'd report it to the police
"I need you to tell me which friend you lent it to so I can file a police report." and watch the actual truth come out
Because there probably is no. Purse moms friend, she's "not planning on returning it" Because the mom was the one who sold it.
The purse was in her room, why would her mom's friend walk into her kids room in the first place, let alone ask to borrow something that's in there. The mom sees the things he daughter owns as things she owns, and the purse was expensive so Because it's "technically hers" she decided to sell it. It's the most logical explanation
5:48 There are A LOT of parents that do these things to their kids. Unfortunately there are financial situations that necessitate kids getting jobs to help out, but this IS NOT one of those situations. The kid chose to get a job to pay for their own things, and the parent took advantage of them. It's not right and I've seen it happen to several of my friends
Even in those situations which “necessitate” kids getting jobs to help out, it’s entirely the kids choice wether they want to provide that help or not. Minors shouldn’t be expected to pick up the slack to keep the family afloat. Any parent who needs that, wasn’t ready to be a parent
@@LeggoMyGekko of course. I agree. I meant the kid will step up and help out by choice. I misspoke there
I got a paper route when I was 14 to afford to get clothes and school supplies. My dad was constantly asking to “borrow” money that he never paid back. My older sister would often steal my money and get away with it. I learned fast to keep my money on me at all times and lie about whether I had any or not. At 16 I got a job at a fast food place and was able to open my own bank account. I only had to keep money on me when I got out cash. Though I had to hide my monthly statements so my dad didn’t try to get money from me. My brother was working at the same time for the same reasons I was. We both worked to provide food, clothes, school supplies, and little treats for my younger sister who was in grade school. If we didn’t provide that stuff for her, she wouldn’t have it because that’s how my parents were.
@@LeggoMyGekko"any parent who needs that wasn't ready to be a parent"
Not always. Lots of unpredictable things can happen that might put a parent in sudden financial straits. Death of a spouse, medical debt, stuff like that
@@llynxfyremusic true, but at that point it is the responsibility of the primary caregiver to figure out the next steps/find the means to survive. If a kid steps up by their own volition, that’s great, respectable and acceptable. But they should not feel obligated, and the parent shouldn’t pressure them to pick up any slack. That’s not a stress that minors should have to be exposed to, they’ll get enough of that out on their own
"we have finding yourself at home" KILLLED MEE
Okay but the story directly addressing her husband gave me chills. It felt like such an aggression that I can only imagine the other stuff she didn’t mention, like I’m watching this fight happen in public and I can’t look away. Wow that was a crazy read
But what about the husbands side of the story l it’s what people constantly say when it’s the other way around
@@gentlepeeps3351what about the husband's side? It seem you're under the impression that trying to get a different perspective has something to do with sex/gender. No, the cast only brings that up when context could help the cast understand the situation better. This isn't exclusive to husband/wife relationships. They'll often bring up "the roommates" side of the story etc. They didn't bring it up for the same reason they didn't bring up the mom's side in the story. Because there is no context that could make the husband (or the mom in the first story) seem less of an asshole.
@@gentlepeeps3351 1/10 bait
With the louis bag its also...the bag was in the daughter's bedroom. WHY was the mother and her friend in there at all? Like that doesn't add up. To me it really is just a bad lie to cover up mom selling it. 9:53
I hadn’t even thought about that. There was no reason for her moms friend to be in her room
My first thought was drugs. I can't fathom another situation where a parent would actually take something like that from their kid after they worked so hard for it. Mom sold it for drugs.
@@jamesbowen2088 I took the “only having hand me downs” and “not the richest family” comments as her way of saying they’re either low income or lower middle class and her probably needing money and felt entitled to taking and selling it. I remember when I was younger my parents needing to take some of my birthday/christmas money for bills, groceries, etc. but I could always tell they hated having to do that and they were never shitty about it.
@meggsntoast did they ask you first? Eventually pay you back?
right? like who takes something from someones room??
then again i had a roommate in the past where she took a cookie out of my room. i had put the cookies in my room so my roommate wouldnt think they were possibly free-game (a lot of things in the house were) and I ended up having one cookie left that I was saving and looking forward to, when I finally went to get it after coming back from volunteering it was gone. my roommate insisted she never went into my room and ate it to the point that i honestly felt like i was crazy and must have ate it without remembering doing so. It wasnt until mooonths later when she moved out that she admitted 'so i need to get it off my chest, i did go into your room and steal your cookie while you werent home that one time. i saw it when i walked by your room once and later thought that a cookie sounded good and was hungry so i went and ate it' (or something to that effect, its been several years i forget the exact wording/situation. i know its not the same as the story since that was an actual expensive bag and mine is just a cheap cookie)
That first story hits close, when i was in high school (maybe 2018ish)my father sold my $500 worth of copic markers i had been collecting over 4 years, in 2022 my aunt got me a huge set of ohuhu markers. I cried, it felt like i had finally got back the last thing he took from me 😭
I’m so happy for you 💕 but sorry you had to go through that in the first place that’s not okay
So happy for you! 🥰 your aunt was a saint! Bless her!
hey, atleast ohuhus are better than copics
Omg that is so sweet! I’m so glad you got a happy ending. Your aunt is a gem ❤
That line, "Let me break it down for you in a language you understand." Hit so hard sliding into the typical reddit story beginning.
Some juicy stories today.
Omg that ring story, the one comment is so right about it needing to be burning a hole in your pocket. My little brother bought a ring and was gonna propose a month after on their anniversary, he couldn't wait even a week before asking her cuz he was so excited and ready to ask. Dude just doesn't want to
You have no idea how stupid that sounds. Just because you have a plan doesn't mean you should execute said plan the first chance you get. And why does she have to get married right now? There is literally nothing that's going to change except she gets a ring on her finger and they sign some documents. They already live together, they already have a good life, all that marriage does is make her liable to 50% of all his stuff if they ever get divorced
i feel like the ring was just an attempt to make himself want to
@@dyllangames3592 another brain dead take from DyllanGames over here. The irony of the first sentence in your comment being "YoU hAvE nO iDeA hOw sTuPid tHaT sOuNdS". She wants to get married because even though its an antiquated institution that still exists in modern times, it means something symbolically. That the dude is committed to her and her CHILD. This isn't only about her, she also has a kid that has known the dude as her stepfather for 6-7 years now. That's why she wants to get married. So that they can move forward as a family, as a cohesive unit. They have also both said that they want to get married (though I don't think the dude has spoken that out loud to anyone but Reddit). So for these two people marriage is important. Like they said in the video the two of them need to TALK about this with each other. That way SHE can stop asking about the ring and HE can actually do something otherwise this is all just a big waste of time.
He’s literally keeping his options open and doesn’t want to marry her - and he only bought the ring to have plausible deniability.
@@dyllangames3592 "waiting for the right time" WOULD imply that they're taking the soonest chance. If not, there is no right time and you should save the ring for someone who makes you feel that way.
Shane: Update!
Courtney: *screams*
Love their energy!
My mom stole so many things from me, including money, listening to this story made me want to cry of frustration, i think only the kids who literally felt like they had no control over nothing can really understand how painful this situation is, you learn that you can't trust you FAMILY and you can never brag about something because otherwise you were the "Selfish and self entitled".
yep. your ACTUAL first lesson that life isn't fair. not the million times they passed off abuse as a "life lesson"
Over the years, I’ve learned that “selfish” =‘s “you’re not doing what I want you to do.” It’s used as a weapon not as constructive criticism.
Lies! Her moms friend STOLE her bag and her mother better not be friends with this person anymore!
Yep. If the mom didn’t steal/sell it, the friend did. No way she “lost” it
sounds like the mom picked her friend over her daughter
Her mom defo sold her friend the bag
that or the mom really did just sell it lol
There's no friend, the mom stole it
The hall pass is wild and two things stand out to me immediately. The first is that the hall pass has a statute of limitations or about 6 months, max. The second is that you should _never_ be in a place where you want to use the hall pass if you also want to make the relationship work. What he's talking about 5 years later is a new relationship with someone else.
unrelated but arasha looks ethereal in that dress omg the embroidered flowers on the white it's just so pretty and elegant
She’s so beautiful, she makes me think I have an attraction towards women❤️🔥
First story - If it’s “just a bag” then there should be no issue replacing it.
Please never stop doing these. They help with my ADHD so much. It’s like having somebody around and it motivates me to clean and get shit done.
when the comment with the words "they get ready real quick for the one they really want" was read, I felt that. the guy I was with for 5 years told me he never was ready for a serious relationship (even though we steadily were a thing for 5 years) was introduced to this girl by his parents which he obviously told me it was nothing and to not worry about it and he moved to another country and I found out he moved in with that girl and got married to her there... while we were still together. it is true, they DO get ready real quick for the one they really want 🙃
WHILE you were still together??! Girllllllll
no thats wild. the heck? how does someone even do that? i will never understand someone who does that nor do i want to. they often twist something so intense that it only makes sense to them
@@daisyd3w3491 it was preeeettttyyyy neat 🙃
@@calinac1671 yup. its been a crazy 5 years of wasting my time 🙃
Who’s “they”? If I may ask?
i’m RAGING at that first story. the whole time i was a teenager i wanted this specific set of high end artist’s markers and i finally managed to save and get them this year at 22, and sometimes i do just LOOK AT THEM bc i’m so proud to have them. i would start throwing bricks through windows if my mother sold them.
Right!! To have the discipline to work, save, and obtain something that you want and then respect your belongings is such a big step to make for the first time and I know some 25 year olds who haven't accomplished this yet. I can't imagine undermining the work of a 15 year old 😩 unless I wanted them to turn into a villian
I had the same feeling about my car, when I first bought it I’d just go out and sit in it and just smile, because I got to that point in my life with 0 support from my family, actually in spite of them.
I had a ring for about 9 months, we were looking into buying a house at the time. And on the day we got the keys I proposed to her in the back garden of our new home. Low key but felt right. And that was 7 years ago. Sometimes waiting is good
I'm so glad everyone [reddit included] took the first story so seriously. There's this weird thing where people tend to treat kid's [or anyone under 20 tbh] possessions as less important and their emotions as childish and uncalled for. This one instance could easily turn into two which could turn into four which could then snowball, and I really hope that girl takes the advice about bank accounts and I wish her the best.
My mother is like this, she's admitted to looking through one of her kid's bank accounts [30s and literally has a kid], looked through my stuff as well as stole and sold them plus a bunch of other stuff. It's wild to think that multiple parents out there believe that this is completely okay and sensible behaviour,,
Agreed. i suspect what happened was that the parent was working hard to pay bills and had some feelings of resentment and jealousy when her daughter purchased a $2K+ handbag. And feelings are feelings, i get that. But the solution is to sit down with your daughter, congratulate her on her success, talk about what's going on with you, ask her to start contributing to the family expenses, and maybe grant her some special privileges to reflect her new responsibility. The solution is to model having honest conversations about finances and feelings and needs. The solution is NOT to walk off with your daughter's possession, get it lost or sold off, and try to sweep the matter under the carpet.
The sad part is the friend didn't lose that bag. It was quite brand new 2k bag..she sold it.
@@stitchedwithcolor no sane parent would sell something which belonged to their child for bills. It was 100% dr*gs or debts
The bag story reminded me of the time my mom donated a beloved toy of mine when I was a kid without asking me. It was a toy I didn’t play with much but still loved. My mom assumed I didn’t want it anymore and donated it to goodwill while I was at school. I remember crying a lot when she told me what happened when I couldn’t find it, and from then on my mom always double checked with me before donating or throwing out anything of mine.
I don’t even clearly remember what the toy was, but I’ve never forgotten how betrayed and angry I felt.
I hope she made an effort to get it back once she realised her mistake. Even if she didn't get it back, the effort would have fone a long way.
Sorry that happened to you, my step dad once threw away 5 years worth of sketchbooks and over 30 notebooks I used to research things for a book I was working on but I'm glad he's now paying for my art supplies for each sketchbook he threw away. Hope op's mom didn't actually sell it though it seems unlikely
My parents threw everything I owned from a second story window. I’ve never really forgiven them for it. I was probably in like 5th grade, did bad on a test and that was the result.
I remember that a few months earlier I worked my ass off to get a radio shaped like a dog so I can listen to music while studying, and because it was cute. They tossed that too about a week after I finally earned it and got it. I was devastated. It was broken into pieces and unable to be fixed. I remember having to walk outside with garbage bags to clean up the mess and to find some things that weren’t completely destroyed. Some books and my blankets could be salvaged. Lamps my desk the radio and a bunch of keepsakes were goners. The radio always sticks out to me tho.
my parents don't really relate or understand attachments to toys and stuff. i had a huge barbie/dolls collection as a kid and after a while they just sat in the garage or basement or something. without telling me they threw all of them away one day because they were getting dirty and i guess my parents were worried about mold or something. i accidentally discovered them in the trash bin outside and lost my shit. they looked at me like i was crazy for caring and couldn't understand how upset i was for not being able to say goodbye. i now only have 1 barbie doll from that collection and it's one of the later ones that i didnt develop as much of an attachment to. my parents did apologize and said they'll ask about stuff from then on but they got rid of so many precious stuffed animals and toys that i would've genuinely loved to still have despite being in my 20s. shit still hurts even though this happened even before covid
I’m so sorry that happened to you, it happened to me as a kid too. I have never thrown out a toy that belongs to either of my kids for that same reason, some trauma isn’t passed on 😳
“Crazy work” has entered Shayne’s vocabulary and I couldn’t be happier lol
the meaning behind court’s match tattoo omg courtney we love you❤❤❤
What time do they talk about it?
@@YTFlove4ever right at the beginning. like maybe 10 seconds in
That first story got people ACTIVE
Arasha is absolutely devouring her points in this video, i always love seeing her in reddit stories because shes such a clear voice of reason. Somehow when talking about random drama that they read on the Internet she sounds so professional.
"We have 'find yourself' at home" was the perfect response!
I loved it!
First post is literally an example of parents treating their kids like property, abuse comes in many forms, not just physical
YES. Part of the reason why I've been in low cantact with my mother for 5 years and now No Contact for 6 months. Amazing feeling.
0:53 a few things:
1) COURT IS THE CUTEST LITTLE BEAN TO EVER BE!
2) This moment between friends is so sweet to see! It’s so nice when your support circle can help solidify realities about you that you’re scared to claim, as if you have to have some lofty ideal in order to claim the work you’re already doing! So nice when someone can say “No you ARE!” And force you to speak in your definite!
"We have finding yourself at home" 😂 Courtney got slept on with that one. Love y'all.
Ps) is Chili's a Smosh sponsor? Y'all make Chili's jokes at least once an episode, so they better be paying you guys.
I think people at Smosh just like eating at Chili's in general 😂
If it were a sponsor, they would disclose it in the sponsor section. "This video is sponsored by Chili's" kind of thing
At one point i thought Ian had a deal with Carl Jrs for a Lot of comments he does for them. Also Johnny and Courtney Forever
@@gonzaloegonzalez8106courtney actually had a sponsor or brand deal with carls jr for a bit. she was promoting it on her instagram, but iirc she was pretty transparent that she was getting paid
I think Chili's is just an objectively funny restaurant
the Mom who stole the bag is narcissistic as hell. My mother was the same, soon as her child gains independence, take from them because in her eyes their achievements don’t “count”.
Poor kid
Yes!!!! I heard the story and was like "yup, sounds like something my mom would/did do" it's so frustrating that these kids have to go through the same shit we did. It's awful.
Ngl, the bag belongs to the mom anyways, she raised her, good for the mom, use them kids for your own benefit, once they are grown they'll leave, take advantage as much as you can.
@@FriedSheep69No. LOL
@@FriedSheep69 yes, keep that mindset. The kids for sure like it
your kids income isnt yours dingdong
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.
Oh she DEFINITELY sold that bag
I love how excited Court gets when she hears "update", it's like a kid being surprised with going to the toy store lol
TSA jokester was 29 and OP was 20! Red flag #1
On the guy who was waiting for "the right time". When you really love someone it doesn't matter how they propose but that they do it. My husband asked me over the phone (we were in a long distance relationship at the time) by saying, "What are you doing in August next year?". Did I care that it wasn't in a romantic setting or in person? No. We just celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary and though i tease him about the way he proposed, the fact of the matter is I immediately said yes.
Same. Me and my partner just discussed it out at our kitchen table. Fun :)
For the first story, how did that kid end up being so amazing and mature and hardworking with a mother like that? Poor girl
you gotta fill in where your parents fall behind. gotta be your own parent.
@@bunnyellabell 🫶🏽
Because that girl needed to be mature since her mother never was. She had to parent herself as someone has mentioned. This amazing girl was forced to be independent, probably has a heart filled with love that she never gave to herself. I really hope she will some day get away from a parent like that, give herself all the love she needed while growing up.
@@SahiraJPoetry Literally took the words out of my mouth! Poor girl had to grow up too fast it sounds like. But let least it sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders (no thanks to her mother).
bc thanks god we are not define by our parents or the way we were raised 🙏
arsaha is probably my favourite in the reddit stories shes always so well articulate
About the first story, everyone else are assholes for saying she's overreacting. I made something last night that I could make again and I already misplaced it. I cried a little honestly lol. I was so proud of it. She absolutely has the right to be so upset about her situation
I have a different theory, What is more likely the Mom showed her "daughter's purse" to a "friend" Naw bro, the mom claimed it was hers, and either gave it to the friend, was told they lost it, or as the comments said she sold it. Either way, Mom was jealous, and did something irrationally harmful. Hope she enjoyed the relationship, cuz it's gone now too.
That final story was **chef's kiss** 🤌
5:54 as someone whos mom sold/pawned things i bought for myself for drugs when i was a teengaer. This is a very real thing some parents do to their kids for whatever reason and its sad
The reason is drugs
@@CraftyMagicDollz they literally said that
i fr always appreciate the wisdom and nuance of arasha's takes; they always feel very refreshing and honest
Same!
Arasha's always great on these. Her, Angela and Tommy are the three I'm extra excited to see on the couch.
the chemistry with these 3 is off the charts
My BF introduced me to the series and I was hoping to find an episode to listen to through work. Couldn’t have been timed better, yall are the best!
Ave a good day at work!
Don't worry, they have a whole ton of episodes as of now lol
New episode every Saturday!!!! Congrats on catching one for work lol
Same tho came out right as I was driving to work
Welcome in!
First story: don't take other people's stuff. Whatever she said, she probably wasn't harsh enough.
My fiance waited a week. We did discuss how I would want to be proposed to and I even picked out the ring (he felt a lot of pressure about picking the right one, so I chose one). Then we started planning this trip to this beautiful national park with my best friend in my home state that was just supposed to be a fun trip and when we get up to this gorgeous view, I didn't notice my friend slink away to start filming and my fiance surprised me with a proposal. It was perfect because of all the communication we had about it and it was still a surprise.
I think the mom thought she didn’t “deserve” such an expensive bag because she’s 15.
yep bet that's how she sleeps at night. "well even if I did steal it she didn't even need it anyway because she's 15."
She sold it for, what like $1000 at most? And for that $1000 she gets a daughter who will never trust her again.
@chrism6880 With so many children, the family is probably struggling financially. The mom was probably resentful of the daughter for buying a luxury item instead of helping out, or at the very least thought the money would be better spent on the family. That could've been her justification.
Either way, she stole an expensive item from her daughter (likely sold it), and taught her daughter not to trust her
@@amylake9064 If the family is struggling, she could've SAID SO and ASKED if her daughter could START HELPING NOW that she has the fancy bag she really wanted by continuing to work and giving like half her money to her mom or buying her own weekly groceries or something. Can't really resent her for getting a luxury item if you didn't ask her for help before that. Well, you CAN, but you'd be even worse. There's no logic there lol
@@amylake9064 that birth giver needed to communicate she needed financial help, not resent her child for working hard and being patient towards a goal.
You want your child to stay in your life and help out, you need to set the example and COMMUNICATE. You cannot place financial responsibility on a child when you haven't take the responsible steps to sustain your family and resent your own child for it!
The TSA story: It’s not just bad in the sense that both are now probably on a list but this guy could have caused a legit mass panic, tons of injuries to others, potentially(?) airport going into lockdown, SWAT response...
Depending on his tone and body language, he could have been shot down at that very moment.
Can’t believe Shayne got cucked by a marvel star
LMFAO
i feel like im missing some context…
Edit: nvm just understood the reference
@@pinhead8030arasha booked
Cant believe dumpster wizard got cucked by the try guy’s mortician.
@@jessicasmith573yep heard through the grapevine that
*in Angela’s voice* SHE BOOKED
0:16 sounds suspiciously like something someone without one would say
Omg 😂😂
UPDATE
GIRLS HAVE THEM?!?
@@DearAnem0ia unfortunately some girls don't ✊️😔
@@ssasskiayeah 😔😔😔
The "hall pass" game is a quick road to being either single or in a very unhappy relationship. No two ways about it if you still want to be with a person after they cheated.
I'm sorry but COURT IS LOOKING SO FREAKING AMAZING in this video!!! I have always loved their style, but I genuinely think this is my favorite outfit I've ever seen them in. And the hair do be hairing omg. 🥰
It looks so comfy too. Lots of good looking outfits look uncomfortable to me
match tattoo story from court was probably the most heartwarming story of this episode! so hopeful for someone like me aspiring to be in the same field. we love and we see you our director court!! 🧡
The TSA Prank guy has no idea. As a Trans person, TAS is so funding scary. Cuz if you get picked out for fake boobs or a packer, you have to explain to complete strangers that your Trans and your wearing something like that. It's so fucjed up.
That was so sweet how Arasha highlighted Courtney at the beginning of the video! So supportive
37:28 court and shayne’s matching reactions killed me
44:44 has me CACKLING THE PANIC IN ARASHA’S VOICE AND THE COURTNEY LOSING HER MIND ANTICIPATING IT
Who lends someone else's bag to a friend? This is abusive
Exactly my thoughts!!
yeah regardless of what happened to the bag, the fact she's even going into her private things in the first place is gross asf, and then to touch it and act like you have jurisdiction over it? if she isn't a thief, she really desperately needs to learn boundaries.
She absolutely just sold the bag to her friend and "lost" it was the cover story.
@@Etat7100% the mom is totally giving narcissist that thinks all her kids achievements are actually hers and hers only
The audacity of her to call him selfish when she used him for money then be like "I need to find myself"😂
I totally understand that girl with the bag. In highschool I worked and bought my own car. 1968 mustang (not mint) but mine. My alcoholic dad totaled it one day and never replaced it
Last story wait-
35 and 29. Married for 5 years, together for 10. OP was 19 when they got together and possibly dealing with this mother in laws verbal abuse?? Nevermind the fact that he was a 25 year old guy with a girl fresh out of high school?
Yeah i was doing that math too. I wonder how they met, it seems very conservative family. Wouldn't surprise me if their families introduced each other
my partner and I have an age gap (when I was 19 he was 22) and we're very healthy/happy, so I'm not on the "all age gaps are bad" train, but that story's age gap is sketchy as HELL. Very curious how much her family is involved because it sounds like she has very little if any outside support
@@rebbyberard8150 Yeah for sure, there are definitely some adult age gap relationships that can work. I think my main issue was how his mom was beefing with essentially a college freshman from the jump like??? That's crazy to me
@@ShinyPrimarina truly wild. I mean, my partner's mom has said some shit to me, but it was never out of malice, only unthoughtfulness and privilege. Imagine attacking the college freshman that your fully adult son is dating (and probably manipulating). Boy moms can be so weird
@@rebbyberard8150 well 3 years doesn't sound like a huge age gap to be honest but yea being a decade older and one person is literally a highschooler seems really icky. Did this man seriously not find anyone within 3-5 years of his age attractive???
“Shayne I told you not to put my story in the episode!”
Fuck I love Courtney 😂