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  • @melodyonrepeat2928
    @melodyonrepeat2928 หลายเดือนก่อน +17887

    That bag story pisses me off so much. The mom owes her daughter a new bag IMMEDIATELY. You can’t just steal someone’s possessions.

    • @Artifying
      @Artifying หลายเดือนก่อน +1400

      Genuinely so angry for this poor girl. That was her hard work and planning and her mom, regardless of if she sold it or if the friend actually lost it, is not just disrespecting her daughter, but also destroying any trust between them. These are the kinds of moms who get no-contacted and then say that they were “doing the best they could”

    • @alphawow520
      @alphawow520 หลายเดือนก่อน +815

      And people wonder why someone would go no contact with their parents... 😂😞

    • @paulchavez3039
      @paulchavez3039 หลายเดือนก่อน +686

      The mom is basically teaching her daughter that working hard and saving money to earn your own treats isn't worth it because your own parents can't be trusted not to just steal your shit.

    • @kanazak2
      @kanazak2 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

      Yeah. People can expect "maturity and forgiveness" from you when they treat you, your time, and your stuff with respect. No forgiveness without respect.

    • @Midknight_Fluff
      @Midknight_Fluff หลายเดือนก่อน +238

      No fr thooo, these are the same "parents" that would break your piggybank, take your money and tell you its fine because we're "family" 😭🐖🐷

  • @Anna-ik6qz
    @Anna-ik6qz หลายเดือนก่อน +1631

    Telling a child they're acting like a child when they're being more responsible than most adults is crazyyy

    • @babettemcauley4174
      @babettemcauley4174 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      First story - Mom betrayed you and can not be trusted...period

    • @CJ-ft9yo
      @CJ-ft9yo หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      What a horrid mother

    • @darbyz1368
      @darbyz1368 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mom betrayed and then gaslit her own daughter. I wonder if there was even a friend or if the mom sold the bag.

  • @Dylamn
    @Dylamn หลายเดือนก่อน +4339

    "Bro, hurry up. When are you gonna propose to her?"
    "I have a concept of a plan."

    • @JenniferOhh
      @JenniferOhh หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      This comment is underrated 😂😂😂😂

    • @obrachiever
      @obrachiever หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      This made my morning 😂

    • @aleee9214
      @aleee9214 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Oooo😂

    • @honeypunches
      @honeypunches หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      This made me CHOKE ON MY DRINK

    • @lilvern9268
      @lilvern9268 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      He was acting like he was gonna flee to Tahiti fr 💀

  • @emilymorgan1994
    @emilymorgan1994 หลายเดือนก่อน +6326

    12:22 “no, we have finding ourself at home” lmaooo

    • @SSSSSukIt
      @SSSSSukIt หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😂😂

    • @SyreLikeAFire
      @SyreLikeAFire หลายเดือนก่อน +104

      i couldn’t stop laughing at that one; courtney’s iconic commentary strikes again

    • @DetWheresmycoffee-smh
      @DetWheresmycoffee-smh หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      Yeah it's called Chilli's with your girls 😂😂😂

    • @IamSeñorStorm
      @IamSeñorStorm หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      That comment had me rolling

    • @jonathansarmiento1739
      @jonathansarmiento1739 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SSSSSukIt

  • @DryBones271
    @DryBones271 หลายเดือนก่อน +9600

    The first story is a Judge Judy, worthy case! 15 year old's MOTHER stole a purse SHE EARNED with HER OWN MONEY gave it to a FREIND to borrow, who proceeded to LOSE IT? Judge Judy would have a field day!

    • @summerskull9379
      @summerskull9379 หลายเดือนก่อน +612

      That friend pisses me off too, when Shayne said she "doesn't plan to replace it" like wtf?

    • @trinitybernhardt9944
      @trinitybernhardt9944 หลายเดือนก่อน +472

      ​@@summerskull9379I totally believe the friend is probably innocent and is just someone who bought a purse. Probably has no idea the mom didn't own it.

    • @summerskull9379
      @summerskull9379 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      @@trinitybernhardt9944 Yeah I commented before they got to that part of the story. Honestly sounds more plausible, sadly.

    • @Tinyflameofhope
      @Tinyflameofhope หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      Unfortunately, in most states in us parents essentially own their kids until they are 18. They could dock her entire paycheck and legally be allowed to because they are the parents. She would have to be emancipated from them to have a case :(

    • @amandabriscoe6578
      @amandabriscoe6578 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Not sure why I read your comment with the voice of the guy who tells about the court cases at the beginning of each trial. I mean, I get why, you mentioned Judge Judy, but WHY did my brain go there?!

  • @jehaney
    @jehaney หลายเดือนก่อน +722

    I love seeing the panelists having a Pavlovian respose to the word "Update"

    • @Sunflower-sp4qr
      @Sunflower-sp4qr หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Well... Shayne HAS done his degree in Psychology😂😂

    • @ellalalalalalalalalalalalala
      @ellalalalalalalalalalalalala หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      i need a master comp of all the best "update" moments ahahah

    • @ZDubbed
      @ZDubbed 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love this comment

  • @fabledhour
    @fabledhour หลายเดือนก่อน +5912

    The bag story makes me so fucking mad, especially with OP’s family trying to say she’s acting like a child. No shit! She is a child! But she seems ten times more mature than most grown ass adults I know.

    • @lil_spirits
      @lil_spirits หลายเดือนก่อน +253

      Yeah and who wouldnt "act like a child" when they found out u gave away their $500 bag.

    • @potatoman7594
      @potatoman7594 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

      its crazy the childish person is calling the 15 yr old childish 💀💀

    • @alliefaye322
      @alliefaye322 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

      @@lil_spiritssadly it definitely is like more like $2,000-5,000!!!

    • @karringtonbarnett1063
      @karringtonbarnett1063 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

      @@lil_spiritsbro it’s around 2000 dollars it’s even worse. She’s being a saint

    • @lil_spirits
      @lil_spirits หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      @@alliefaye322 oh damn yeah then she definitely has a right to be upset

  • @eccentricstate
    @eccentricstate หลายเดือนก่อน +7450

    Bruh those Louis Vuitton bags are like $2k. That’s not a little woopsie, that’s grand theft

    • @Paradox-es3bl
      @Paradox-es3bl หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Isn't it Louis?

    • @jessiwalker8281
      @jessiwalker8281 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

      Oh shit that makes it so much worse, I don't know much about high priced stuff like that but I was assuming it was like 6 or 7 hundred which is already a good couple of months if your 15 with a minimum wage job. 2k is insane

    • @raen5256
      @raen5256 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

      I've seen Louis Vuitton bags that are priced at $10k so the price range at which she got hers back vary wildly but ones thing is for sure: it was expensive af

    • @eccentricstate
      @eccentricstate หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Paradox-es3bl you right, thanks!

    • @awooga_wolf
      @awooga_wolf หลายเดือนก่อน +75

      Yea it's enough to press charges, and I absolutely would.

  • @anastream4505
    @anastream4505 หลายเดือนก่อน +669

    Proposal story. I’ve always felt like a proposal should never be a complete surprise. I liked the way my husband did it. We talked about it, went ring shopping and then the surprise was when and how I was proposed to. The reason he decided not to surprise me with the ring, was that it’s something I will wear on my hand for everyone to see for hopefully the rest of my life. So he wanted to be absolutely sure that it was something I LOVED!!! And I loved that he was thinking about my feelings.

    • @jasamino21
      @jasamino21 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I absolutely agree. Your husband sounds like a really caring guy!

    • @NerdAlert4224
      @NerdAlert4224 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ok that’s super cute

    • @violet7773
      @violet7773 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I absolutely agree. I think there should be no doubt in your mind that the person you're proposing to will say yes, because you have discussed marriage, maybe got a ring together, have discussed if family should be there or if you want a private moment for the two of you etc.
      It's also just an insane amount of money to spend on something when 1) you don't know if the person wants to marry you and/or 2) you don't know if they'll like the ring

    • @olliewithab1926
      @olliewithab1926 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@violet7773or- if youve talked about it but you dont want them to be expecting it all the way- get a simple ring to be a placeholder than have a date where you decide exactly what your partner wants from the ring :D honestly no matter what you should at least have discussed getting married

    • @elohzza9599
      @elohzza9599 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My boyfriend and I have a place planned for our proposal. We're going to an all-inclusive, adult only retreat in January during my birthday and that's when it's gonna happen ❤ I don't want it to be a surprise, and he has had 0 issues with it being planned out. With the right person these things can be communicated without there being weird vibes. I've talked about it with family and one seemed shocked-- "it's supposed to be a surpise!!" But why? All that matters is that two people are happy and doing their thing. I'm excited for January!

  • @jadziajan
    @jadziajan หลายเดือนก่อน +4964

    I'm so glad reddit commenters took the first story seriously. Not being able to have your own things in your own home messes you up. My abuser would always make my things disappear or destroy them. My room wasn't safe either. No matter what the mother did with the bag - this is a situation ripe with abuse. Especially since she punished her kid and didn't even TRY to compensate for the loss.

    • @KayosHybrid
      @KayosHybrid หลายเดือนก่อน +167

      Exploitation, period.

    • @ladymorrigan5950
      @ladymorrigan5950 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

      It reminds me of when I was a kid and I had the nerve to be upset that one of my brothers went into my room and took something. I don’t even remember what it was now. I just remember being upset because he didn’t ask me for permission to use the item, not because he touched my stuff or whatever. I was the AH in my dad’s opinion & received some corporal punishment for that incident. I agree with the opinion that mom probably sold it to her friend or someone else.

    • @atmmachine11
      @atmmachine11 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      When me and my half-siblings lived with their abusive dad and step mom in middle school, they would take any money our mom sent for Christmas or birthdays, and use it for themselves. The first story reminds me of some of their behaviour from back then.

    • @anastasiahall2711
      @anastasiahall2711 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      I feel this.. I would come home to my whole room searched through and rearranged no matter how many times I asked my mom not to. She also removed the bedroom door and lied about getting rid of things I would buy with my own earned money as well. No privacy, no safety.. I left as soon as I could.

    • @llynxfyremusic
      @llynxfyremusic หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      I've seen so many people try to justify parents destroying kids stuff as a punishment when no!!!!! Kids (and everyone really) need to be able to trust that what they have is theirs and even the closest people in their life aren't entitled to your things!

  • @tis-gem
    @tis-gem หลายเดือนก่อน +2862

    Shayne and Courtney both throwing their hands up at “we only hug and hold hands” is such a mood

    • @tr3kfan940
      @tr3kfan940 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

      37:24 Here's the time stamp for this, for those who want it.

    • @Breadful1
      @Breadful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      There’s a whole subreddit for handholding and it’s the lewdest one of all 🫣

    • @alyssasoto1573
      @alyssasoto1573 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@Breadful1well now i’m curious as hell

    • @aoneal3723
      @aoneal3723 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Breadful1I’m so curious but I got burned pretty bad yesterday clicking on a self-circumcision page… too scared to go exploring now 🙈

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@aoneal3723 A WHAT- OMFG WHAT WHY DOES THAT EXIST

  • @cristianasilva6127
    @cristianasilva6127 หลายเดือนก่อน +533

    holy sh*t THE LAST STORY never been more shocked, so good! Good for HER !!

    • @radschele1815
      @radschele1815 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      ​@Sylvester64 she was 19 when they got together, and he was 25...
      10 years later it's not that much of a gap, but she was just barely an adult. 😢

  • @FrancisR420
    @FrancisR420 หลายเดือนก่อน +15542

    "You're acting like a child over a bag"
    Yeah well you're acting like a felon

    • @--Danni--
      @--Danni-- หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      😂

    • @cakeyonline7925
      @cakeyonline7925 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      Amen

    • @torit4534
      @torit4534 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

      That what im saying we need to know the price of the bag and she might be an actual felon. 🤣

    • @dyllangames3592
      @dyllangames3592 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's a bag. It's not like it's a car or a house or a game console. If she wasn't going to use it, why have it. That's like buying a car just to have it sit in your driveway and fall apart.

    • @LuckyBum21
      @LuckyBum21 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

      She's literally 15! She is a child! You are her mother! SHE IS YOUR CHILD!! That story pissed me off so much 😤

  • @mspearl5704
    @mspearl5704 หลายเดือนก่อน +5501

    If I had a nickel for every time Shane said “the relationship you had is dead, you have to start a whole new relationship” I’d have like 65 cents probably

    • @ShadowFlame420
      @ShadowFlame420 หลายเดือนก่อน +324

      and he’s absolutely right

    • @TheHalloween_Jack
      @TheHalloween_Jack หลายเดือนก่อน +129

      And he's god damn right o7

    • @SmileFromGlasgow
      @SmileFromGlasgow หลายเดือนก่อน +163

      Which isn't a lot, but it's weird it happened 13 times. XD

    • @dohpht1970
      @dohpht1970 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@SmileFromGlasgow you counted?? 😦

    • @ColossalM
      @ColossalM หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      @@dohpht1970 I think they just divided 65 by 5

  • @Brulbasaur
    @Brulbasaur หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    "Do you know how much mayonnaise you wasted?"
    Me and my boyfriend had to pause for a good few minutes because that's literally something I would've said 🤣

  • @Left4Deaded
    @Left4Deaded หลายเดือนก่อน +3278

    "We have finding yourself at home" 😭

    • @workout4780
      @workout4780 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I died

  • @renatal.129
    @renatal.129 หลายเดือนก่อน +2199

    regarding the 4th story, as a child of divorce: don't stay only for the kids. my parents stayed together for me years after they fell out of love with each other and i would spent nights locked in my room listening to music and crying bc they were fighting again and i thought it was my fault. children deserve a real example of love at home.

    • @bunnyellabell
      @bunnyellabell หลายเดือนก่อน +245

      after an entire childhood of abuse and neglect, as an adult my mom told me she and my dad only stayed together "for the kids." i could only stare at her. y'all thought you were helping us but you gave us such miserable lives. never ever ever stay in a bad relationship "for the kids."

    • @PupGamer93
      @PupGamer93 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      100% My mom has never been happier being single after having 3 kids and divorcing the sperm donor (aka bio father)

    • @JUNJYR
      @JUNJYR หลายเดือนก่อน +100

      Rule #1: do not stay for the kids.
      Rule #2: do not find a partner that is worse.

    • @finpin2622
      @finpin2622 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Fr, I think when parents “stay together for the kids” it ends up with them involving their kids too much in the messiness of the relationship. My parents did end up divorcing, but it was at a point where they couldn’t even be in a room together without yelling at each other, and so it was on me or my sister to relay messages between them or be lectured by either parent about why the other was a bad person. As a parent, if you REALLY want to protect your kids, you need to be making choices that won’t destroy your mental health or cause extremely high amounts of tension in the home, bc those things will effect the children whether or not you think they ‘see’ it.

    • @Macaronnomnom
      @Macaronnomnom หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      That’s such a tragic yet common story. See this is why peeps don’t stay for the kids. It doesn’t help the kid’s life.
      Also for all the kids with a story like this, I wish you always find your favorite ice cream flavor and it’s always just as good as it always is.

  • @bradpanther2073
    @bradpanther2073 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    The conversation you guys had about the last story was so relatable and was honestly so validating to myself personally. When my partner and I first started dating, my family went above and beyond to make her feel as unwelcome as possible. Long story short, that was 7 years ago, my partner and I have been happily married for 4 years and I have a very strained relationship with my family with very little communication from me to them. I've always felt like maybe I was an asshole for walking away from my family so harshly and completely, so it was so validating to hear other people essentially agree with the decision I made 7 years ago.

    • @violet7773
      @violet7773 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I hope you know how wonderful you are for being on your wife's side. There are Far Too Many stories on reddit of husbands (almost always husbands) choosing their mother and/or family over their partner and it's always such a relief to come across someone who doesn't put up with their family's bs. Protecting your partner from bullying feels like the bare minimum but somehow it's a rarity

  • @tgrebnesor
    @tgrebnesor หลายเดือนก่อน +2042

    "I've decided not to use my hallpass to form a deeper emotional connection with this other woman, but we will remain friends, continue to have coffee dates, and have deep emotional talks about our lives and dreams and stuff in a totally platonic way" HUHHHH??

    • @kennedy.5152
      @kennedy.5152 หลายเดือนก่อน +267

      and kiss and hold hands and hug! but like as friends! and it'll for sure stop at kissing at most, no tongue.

    • @ajc1482
      @ajc1482 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      ​@@kennedy.5152if he stops at the tip it's fine

    • @davidharshman7645
      @davidharshman7645 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      This way, can just keep that hall pass in the back pocket. For purposes. Later.

    • @SaralisaL
      @SaralisaL หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Just some homie hugs and kisses that's all 🥴

    • @JaddiRooGaming
      @JaddiRooGaming หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      That dude was asking for a polyamorous relationship not a hall pass.
      I hope the wife sees that and realises he’s been in an emotional affair for 12 months and decides that clearly her affair was the breaking point of their relationship and both can move on

  • @Bleached0
    @Bleached0 หลายเดือนก่อน +2198

    Regarding hall pass dude, does he genuinely think his version of a hall pass is better? Imagine your partner coming up to you and saying "Babe i want to use my hall pass from the time you cheated 5 years ago, the time I'm totally over, but i don't wanna use it normally. Instead of sleeping with this woman, I want to grow closer with her than I've ever been with you, relating to her in ways you will never comprehend. Truly connecting our souls on an incomprehensible level" brother what

    • @ohhi7168
      @ohhi7168 หลายเดือนก่อน +253

      The worst part is that he feels completely in the right here. Like he feels superior cause she cheated before he inevitably did.

    • @Fran-le5pk
      @Fran-le5pk หลายเดือนก่อน +142

      And the fact he goes “I feel guilty” multiple times as if it absolves him of any wrongdoing AND THEN continuing to do the exact same thing😭😭where’s the common sense

    • @jmanius1
      @jmanius1 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      It's a real victim becoming just like the villain. They really swapped places.

    • @jenniferhennin9135
      @jenniferhennin9135 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      He's already been dating Melissa for over a year

    • @liriodendronlasianthus
      @liriodendronlasianthus หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ew brother

  • @noalequinoa
    @noalequinoa หลายเดือนก่อน +578

    I love when Arasha is in reddit stories, she always has so much interesting stuff to say

    • @cristina08888
      @cristina08888 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, so true 😊

    • @catherineanneblueheart
      @catherineanneblueheart หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Despite being one of the youngest cast members, Arasha has the most understanding takes/perspectives and I appreciate her so much for that.

    • @karamelogram
      @karamelogram หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      the one episode i (and a lot of other ppl) stopped watching at the first story is the one where the mom wanted to name their kid ghiyulieyette or smth. they all had mid takes but arashas was just the worst, completely missing the point.

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@karamelogram She usually has the most emotionally mature, well thought out responses but I think she took that one name story too personally and made it into something it wasn’t. Maybe she was confused idk. I have decided to pretend like that episode doesn’t exist lol bc I love her in every other reddit video but that one was a trainwreck

    • @scara2940
      @scara2940 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv which video was?

  • @MiraTheWarlock
    @MiraTheWarlock หลายเดือนก่อน +3394

    .....Yeaah the mom totally sold it. Look at the bright side, OP can now never bother with retirement for her guilt free

    • @WookieWoman
      @WookieWoman หลายเดือนก่อน +212

      I have 2 teenage kids and it makes me feel sick to know that there are "parents" like this. 😑😒

    • @yb6038
      @yb6038 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

      It’s giving mum is jealous of the daughter having a nice bag and wanted to get rid of it

    • @faeri_
      @faeri_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yb6038 which is crazy bc I feel like when people are jealous… a lot of times, we can just work on ourselves to also have the thing we’re jealous of. Mom, work on yourself the way your daughter damn near naturally worked on herself to get something she wanted.

    • @allisonb8912
      @allisonb8912 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

      @@WookieWoman I have a friend whose mother had medical power of attorney while he was in the military, and he had to have surgery and his mother literally drained his bank account while he was unconscious. People are garbage.

    • @meggsntoast
      @meggsntoast หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      @@yb6038 definitely a wounded ego seeing as how op mentions only ever having hand me downs and how they aren’t the richest family

  • @roos9940
    @roos9940 หลายเดือนก่อน +1024

    the update to the hall pass story is literally just: "I've decided to continue the emotional affair"

    • @KingRynoD.LeonhartTMB
      @KingRynoD.LeonhartTMB หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      "And not tell my wife" at that

    • @KS-ks6wz
      @KS-ks6wz หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      and that affair will def turn physical soon

    • @hopeliveshere5102
      @hopeliveshere5102 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@KingRynoD.LeonhartTMB idk it doesn't bother me much since she cheated first. karma is a b-

    • @DragonbornMike-ym2er
      @DragonbornMike-ym2er หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ​@@hopeliveshere5102I don't support OP's choices, but I don't feel bad for the wife either. It's just the delayed consequences of her choices and actions.

    • @hopeliveshere5102
      @hopeliveshere5102 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DragonbornMike-ym2er true!

  • @oi6119
    @oi6119 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    that last story was incredible and i'm very happy that she got out of that situation. "so let me put this in a language you can understand," then following the typical r/aita format is fucking WIIIILLLLLDDDDD

    • @cylalewis7286
      @cylalewis7286 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i’m glad i found a comment like this because she LITERALLY ATW D O W N N

  • @foxinthegarden6860
    @foxinthegarden6860 หลายเดือนก่อน +992

    I had a walkman as an 8-year-old. I'm 38. My mom's bf at the time guilted me into "lending" it to him for a bit. The next time I ever brought it up and asked for it back, he completely denied ever taking it. He smoked crack. He so totally stole the only valuable possession I had as a child that was making me happy to fuel his crack habit. Like, that walkman meant so very much to me. I'm still in trauma therapy, but doing better.

    • @geordieghoulette7142
      @geordieghoulette7142 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

      I know it's not the same, but you should totally treat yourself to a refurbished/good condition Walkman. I rebought some things I lost or really wanted as a kid and it's surprisingly healing.

    • @Ella1297
      @Ella1297 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I’m proud of you for going to therapy babes!!💗💗💗 the pain you were given doesn’t have to haunt you your whole life🫶💗 I’ve been going to trauma therapy and EMDR for nearly 4 years and it’s the best gift I’ve ever given myself! I didn’t realize how heavy I was in my being and how much my trauma was making my choices for me. You got this angel!! I believe in you!! If I can get better, so can you!!🥰🥰🥹🫶💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @angelinafisher4853
      @angelinafisher4853 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Something similar happened to me when I was 9. I had a I pod touch. Me and my sister shared it but anyways my parents were meth addicts. I left it on a little table outside my room one day. When I went to get it it was gone. I asked about it and they swore up and down that I lost it. Years later when I was an adult they admitted to taking it and selling it for drugs.

    • @alyssasoto1573
      @alyssasoto1573 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i’m so sorry you went through this. i think you should get a walkman, even if it’s just to look at it. you’ve grown and escaped and you’re bettering yourself. i hope you’re doing well

    • @z.miller0747
      @z.miller0747 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Similar thing happened with my dad and a $100 gift card he won in a spelling bee when he was younger. His step dad was an alcoholic and somehow it went “missing” even after they packed up their entire house to move. Took 20 years for him to admit to it. My dad has healed now but still gets a little hurt when he tells the story.

  • @koiilauritsen1731
    @koiilauritsen1731 หลายเดือนก่อน +2018

    1:01:41 An "All In-Laws" episode of Reddit stories would be CRAZY!!!!!

  • @TheThinker2478
    @TheThinker2478 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    i just listened to the red flags episode again, and you guys should totally do that theme again with dustin poynter! he’s the dude who runs through a park with a red or green flag, and it would be really fun to hear an extended version of his thoughts on these stories in discussion with you guys 💜

  • @yoshidude2137
    @yoshidude2137 หลายเดือนก่อน +2740

    Shayne: “I’m joined by two people who are… not the asshole.”
    Arasha: “But we have them.”
    😂

    • @lamisxo
      @lamisxo หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      can someone explain that

    • @vizmaanna644
      @vizmaanna644 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      ​@@lamisxothey have assholes

    • @lamisxo
      @lamisxo หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      @@vizmaanna644 OH LMAO THANK YOU

    • @ManifestBest
      @ManifestBest หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      I thought she said "we have been" like in the past 😂

    • @sEaSoNaLMiLk
      @sEaSoNaLMiLk หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thanks for the mental image arasha! 😂

  • @charlesbronson2926
    @charlesbronson2926 หลายเดือนก่อน +506

    The daughter needs to go to the moms friend and say "my mom says you lost my bag". Her response would show if she knew who's bag it was, and if the mom actually sold it

    • @alexreign1433
      @alexreign1433 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      That’s what I thought. I would be knocking on doors

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      The mum admitted later she sold it. It was in an update

    • @robynvanhorn
      @robynvanhorn 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😮​@@audreydoyle5268

  • @destinyvoltaire
    @destinyvoltaire หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    That prank story is wild. An accurate way to say this "My boyfriend pretended to have a GUN and threatened to use it while going through TSA."
    That's *Insane.*

    • @18Hongo
      @18Hongo 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah; I'm not sure why he thought that border security would find ANYTHING funny. You know what they like? When you shut up, don't give them extra work and go on to be literally ANYONE else's problem.

  • @McBehrer
    @McBehrer หลายเดือนก่อน +1249

    17:10
    the audacity for her to say "oh but nothing happened between us," when the entire issue was that she was actively trying to get OP to FUND HER ATTEMPT TO MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN

    • @Oliverf-ej8kl
      @Oliverf-ej8kl หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Pure, unbrittled rage at that. The minute she told me that I would've rid everything I could to refund her return ticket. "You wanna see where this goes with a rando from the bar? Let's see whether he wants to house and feed you after he's done with the only thing he wanted from you." Genuinely I think a person like that SHOULD be left in a foreign country penniless, maybe they'll finally realize "oh wow I'm stupid."

    • @cozymoggele
      @cozymoggele หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@Oliverf-ej8kl Idk, I think she did learn when she lost her man. My husband brought me to his country and he pays for everything, and he made sure that I knew before I came that he would never dump me out on the street and that I will get home safely, if we were to ever break up. What you're suggesting comes off as malicious overkill, I don't think it's moral to play with the safety of someone who depends on you

    • @GusBried
      @GusBried หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@cozymoggeleShe wasn't left behind though! She had the plane ticket he had bought her, if she wanted more time there as a single person, she should be the one to pay for it. If she can't afford it, staying without any money would be her stranding herself, nothing to do with him.

    • @Oliverf-ej8kl
      @Oliverf-ej8kl หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@cozymoggele while that’s fair and I admit I got some issues with this typa stuff which might be manifesting here as kindve cruel. I just can’t get over the fact that he was going to literally be paying for her to cheat, and she was trying to make him feel guilty for not funding her date with another man. If I learned I was tricked into something like that, I genuinely can’t imagine the rage I’d feel. And the fact that her conscious seemingly didn’t exist, like there wasn’t a shred of self awareness to think “oh wait, this is deeply messed and I’m treating this guy like he isn’t even a human being,” instead she somehow saw it as just “looking around to see if I have a better connection.” That type of person is what I just consider evil, personally I don’t think they’re redeemable as that’s just some sense of selfishness that solidifies when you’re very, very young. The only possible saving grace is having that selfishness catch up to them in a real “oh I deserve this,” moment, which only happens after a long time of deflecting it and believing everyone else is the problem.
      So yeah, harsh, but I stick by it

  • @Maykay524
    @Maykay524 หลายเดือนก่อน +3046

    First story…they blame her for “acting like a child” I would totally act like one. Break things around the house until it makes up for how much the bag cost. They say well it’s just things

    • @adarsho1537
      @adarsho1537 หลายเดือนก่อน +304

      I mean.... She is a child. How else will she act?

    • @kanazak2
      @kanazak2 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

      Yeah... Until they give her enough respect to not steal her things, she has every right to be upset to whatever extent she wants. She'll act like an adult when they respect her like one and don't steal her things.

    • @soupy_soup2
      @soupy_soup2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      I think anyone at any age would be furious at their mom for “losing” such an expensive item that they worked for

    • @TheGhostofAbigailMills
      @TheGhostofAbigailMills หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      Exactly! At my big age of 34, I would have thrown a whole tantrum if someone stole something really valuable from me and fed me some BS about losing it. OP's reaction was relatively understated for a 15 year old if I'm being honest. I would have LOST IT

    • @cspahn3221
      @cspahn3221 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      This was so fucking validating for me because I’ve done exactly this and now I’m the bad guy in my family.

  • @diana_j
    @diana_j หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    COURTNEY ENJOYING ARASHA'S IMPRESSIONS OF SHAYNE IS TOO CUTE...SHE LOVES SEEING IMPRESSIONS OF HER HUSBAND. I LIVE FOR THOSE MOMENTS ❤❤❤

    • @binnana13
      @binnana13 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ngl I rewatched her giggling a few times. She’s too cute!

  • @nine_e.v
    @nine_e.v หลายเดือนก่อน +972

    "Shayne I told you not to put my story in the episode." I CANT BREATHSEJEJEJE

    • @ladycole
      @ladycole หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂😂

  • @mage1439
    @mage1439 หลายเดือนก่อน +2000

    "I want to wait for the perfect time." You've been together 7 years, you've raised her daughter since she was a toddler, and she has let you know this whole time she wants to be married. Stop wasting this woman's time and either shit or get off the pot.

    • @ayceinquisitor190
      @ayceinquisitor190 หลายเดือนก่อน +270

      He's not waiting for "the right time," he's waiting for the right woman

    • @tully6648
      @tully6648 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

      Mm-hmm. Valuing the "perfect surprise" over actually progressing your life together is wild.

    • @tayloreddie7448
      @tayloreddie7448 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      This was my ex, I talked all the time, he said he wanted to get married, he only proposed when I was done with the relationship 🙃

    • @sarahatthecrisco7098
      @sarahatthecrisco7098 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      ​@@tayloreddie7448 the same thing happened to me 😭 after 5 1/2 years, and in my head I'm like bro I'm already looking for a way out what do you MEAN

    • @mariapaz6379
      @mariapaz6379 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      He bought the ring because he wants to marry and he is not sure if he wants to marry her. Then he is waiting for a signal to a) leave the relationship and marry someone else, or b) some kind of external sign that he should marry her. Overall the dude is just waiting for a mystical sign because he doesnt want to marry his partner and its pissed at her, for wanting to proceed with her life.

  • @Savvy._.Oggy08
    @Savvy._.Oggy08 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    "we have finding yourself at home" KILLLED MEE

  • @dilfpickler
    @dilfpickler หลายเดือนก่อน +320

    That line, "Let me break it down for you in a language you understand." Hit so hard sliding into the typical reddit story beginning.
    Some juicy stories today.

  • @noodleMoodle253
    @noodleMoodle253 หลายเดือนก่อน +678

    6:12 100% think the mom sold the bag. I feel so bad for this girl 🧡 . She’s just 15. no one loses a LV bag and then says they won’t pay it back ?!?!? Wtf.

    • @cvelasquez8041
      @cvelasquez8041 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Feels like the mom was probably jealous, too

    • @Steve-Fiction
      @Steve-Fiction หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I think the friend sold the bag, or gifted it, or kept it or whatever. Seems weird for the mom to have a two-step lie as a cover up

    • @nmw654
      @nmw654 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      @@Steve-Fictionif you’re willing to take your child’s bag she saved months to purchase, a two step lie is nothing, she doesn’t respect her daughter and wanted to pass blame.

    • @al145
      @al145 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Guaranteed that's what happened, nothing would convince me otherwise. Awful, awful mother

    • @primrosett
      @primrosett หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@Steve-Fiction not really, she's trying to dodge the blame by laying it at the feet of this friend. If she says she herself lost it, then its her fault. If this "friend" did, she can point the finger at them.

  • @yourdad2111
    @yourdad2111 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    That first story hits close, when i was in high school (maybe 2018ish)my father sold my $500 worth of copic markers i had been collecting over 4 years, in 2022 my aunt got me a huge set of ohuhu markers. I cried, it felt like i had finally got back the last thing he took from me 😭

    • @orangeants
      @orangeants หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I’m so happy for you 💕 but sorry you had to go through that in the first place that’s not okay

    • @Meimoons
      @Meimoons 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So happy for you! 🥰 your aunt was a saint! Bless her!

    • @Juupitrr
      @Juupitrr 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      hey, atleast ohuhus are better than copics

    • @nataliepavlovec1616
      @nataliepavlovec1616 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Omg that is so sweet! I’m so glad you got a happy ending. Your aunt is a gem ❤

  • @tr1reme372
    @tr1reme372 หลายเดือนก่อน +694

    Court has been the silliest, giggliest lil guy the past few months and it is the best. Love to see them so happy!

    • @snozwanger760
      @snozwanger760 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      It's one of the top highlights of the whole year for me. Court is a ray of sunshine.

    • @violet.trying
      @violet.trying หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      they laughed so hard in this episode! it was the best thing

    • @brachialtick6539
      @brachialtick6539 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Right she's so awesome!

    • @frogsinteacups
      @frogsinteacups หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      shes such a ray of sunshine and her outfit in this video is everything!

    • @DizzyandFrizzy
      @DizzyandFrizzy หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They're one of my favorites 🥺 Genuinely a ray of sunshine

  • @phoenixflame189
    @phoenixflame189 หลายเดือนก่อน +885

    RE: Story #5 "My bf pranked TSA"
    I paused the video in like the first 10 secs of that story bc all I heard was "I (21)", "Bf (29, TWENTY NINE)", and "he switched all my skincare stuff with mayo". THIS DUDE IS A MAN CHILD I feel so sorry for the girl.

    • @lifewuzonceezr
      @lifewuzonceezr หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Same.. also GROSS!

    • @heyysimone
      @heyysimone หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      No no, she was 20. I immediately thought 'that age gap at that age is not ok'.
      They have been together for months already (she had been planning the trip for months) so how fucking old was she when they got together?! Cause even if it was 19, he was 28!!!

    • @matrixiekitty2127
      @matrixiekitty2127 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING! That age gap had me tweakin out before I even heard the rest of the story! And my god what a child, at 29 pulling a joke against tsa?? Omg😭

    • @Paradox-es3bl
      @Paradox-es3bl หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Yeah, like, "He filled my car with balloons" sounds kinda ok. That won't damage anything, probably. The only one I don't strongly dislike.

    • @SonOfMuta
      @SonOfMuta หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@heyysimone Age gap bullshit. You're a child. They are both adults.

  • @weebmerchdestroyedwallet-k1283
    @weebmerchdestroyedwallet-k1283 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Shane: Update!
    Courtney: *screams*
    Love their energy!

  • @TempestInWonderland
    @TempestInWonderland หลายเดือนก่อน +710

    5:22 im sorry purse moms friend “has no plans to replace it”?! OH HELL NO!

    • @kirstygunn9149
      @kirstygunn9149 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      I'd report it to the police

    • @Tensen01
      @Tensen01 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

      "I need you to tell me which friend you lent it to so I can file a police report." and watch the actual truth come out

    • @nugget3687
      @nugget3687 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Because there probably is no. Purse moms friend, she's "not planning on returning it" Because the mom was the one who sold it.
      The purse was in her room, why would her mom's friend walk into her kids room in the first place, let alone ask to borrow something that's in there. The mom sees the things he daughter owns as things she owns, and the purse was expensive so Because it's "technically hers" she decided to sell it. It's the most logical explanation

  • @neeboy2366
    @neeboy2366 หลายเดือนก่อน +740

    5:48 There are A LOT of parents that do these things to their kids. Unfortunately there are financial situations that necessitate kids getting jobs to help out, but this IS NOT one of those situations. The kid chose to get a job to pay for their own things, and the parent took advantage of them. It's not right and I've seen it happen to several of my friends

    • @LeggoMyGekko
      @LeggoMyGekko หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Even in those situations which “necessitate” kids getting jobs to help out, it’s entirely the kids choice wether they want to provide that help or not. Minors shouldn’t be expected to pick up the slack to keep the family afloat. Any parent who needs that, wasn’t ready to be a parent

    • @neeboy2366
      @neeboy2366 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@LeggoMyGekko of course. I agree. I meant the kid will step up and help out by choice. I misspoke there

    • @faithdiamond2102
      @faithdiamond2102 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I got a paper route when I was 14 to afford to get clothes and school supplies. My dad was constantly asking to “borrow” money that he never paid back. My older sister would often steal my money and get away with it. I learned fast to keep my money on me at all times and lie about whether I had any or not. At 16 I got a job at a fast food place and was able to open my own bank account. I only had to keep money on me when I got out cash. Though I had to hide my monthly statements so my dad didn’t try to get money from me. My brother was working at the same time for the same reasons I was. We both worked to provide food, clothes, school supplies, and little treats for my younger sister who was in grade school. If we didn’t provide that stuff for her, she wouldn’t have it because that’s how my parents were.

    • @llynxfyremusic
      @llynxfyremusic หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@LeggoMyGekko"any parent who needs that wasn't ready to be a parent"
      Not always. Lots of unpredictable things can happen that might put a parent in sudden financial straits. Death of a spouse, medical debt, stuff like that

    • @LeggoMyGekko
      @LeggoMyGekko หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@llynxfyremusic true, but at that point it is the responsibility of the primary caregiver to figure out the next steps/find the means to survive. If a kid steps up by their own volition, that’s great, respectable and acceptable. But they should not feel obligated, and the parent shouldn’t pressure them to pick up any slack. That’s not a stress that minors should have to be exposed to, they’ll get enough of that out on their own

  • @forgotn42
    @forgotn42 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The hall pass is wild and two things stand out to me immediately. The first is that the hall pass has a statute of limitations or about 6 months, max. The second is that you should _never_ be in a place where you want to use the hall pass if you also want to make the relationship work. What he's talking about 5 years later is a new relationship with someone else.

  • @ShoreFell
    @ShoreFell หลายเดือนก่อน +498

    Okay but the story directly addressing her husband gave me chills. It felt like such an aggression that I can only imagine the other stuff she didn’t mention, like I’m watching this fight happen in public and I can’t look away. Wow that was a crazy read

    • @gentlepeeps3351
      @gentlepeeps3351 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But what about the husbands side of the story l it’s what people constantly say when it’s the other way around

    • @iansorono5376
      @iansorono5376 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@gentlepeeps3351what about the husband's side? It seem you're under the impression that trying to get a different perspective has something to do with sex/gender. No, the cast only brings that up when context could help the cast understand the situation better. This isn't exclusive to husband/wife relationships. They'll often bring up "the roommates" side of the story etc. They didn't bring it up for the same reason they didn't bring up the mom's side in the story. Because there is no context that could make the husband (or the mom in the first story) seem less of an asshole.

    • @ShoreFell
      @ShoreFell หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@gentlepeeps3351 1/10 bait

  • @BrokenAries
    @BrokenAries หลายเดือนก่อน +798

    Omg that ring story, the one comment is so right about it needing to be burning a hole in your pocket. My little brother bought a ring and was gonna propose a month after on their anniversary, he couldn't wait even a week before asking her cuz he was so excited and ready to ask. Dude just doesn't want to

    • @dyllangames3592
      @dyllangames3592 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You have no idea how stupid that sounds. Just because you have a plan doesn't mean you should execute said plan the first chance you get. And why does she have to get married right now? There is literally nothing that's going to change except she gets a ring on her finger and they sign some documents. They already live together, they already have a good life, all that marriage does is make her liable to 50% of all his stuff if they ever get divorced

    • @mycatateit284
      @mycatateit284 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      i feel like the ring was just an attempt to make himself want to

    • @brendanmystery
      @brendanmystery หลายเดือนก่อน +125

      @@dyllangames3592 another brain dead take from DyllanGames over here. The irony of the first sentence in your comment being "YoU hAvE nO iDeA hOw sTuPid tHaT sOuNdS". She wants to get married because even though its an antiquated institution that still exists in modern times, it means something symbolically. That the dude is committed to her and her CHILD. This isn't only about her, she also has a kid that has known the dude as her stepfather for 6-7 years now. That's why she wants to get married. So that they can move forward as a family, as a cohesive unit. They have also both said that they want to get married (though I don't think the dude has spoken that out loud to anyone but Reddit). So for these two people marriage is important. Like they said in the video the two of them need to TALK about this with each other. That way SHE can stop asking about the ring and HE can actually do something otherwise this is all just a big waste of time.

    • @MeredithHagan
      @MeredithHagan หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      He’s literally keeping his options open and doesn’t want to marry her - and he only bought the ring to have plausible deniability.

    • @Reedsum
      @Reedsum หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      ​@@dyllangames3592 "waiting for the right time" WOULD imply that they're taking the soonest chance. If not, there is no right time and you should save the ring for someone who makes you feel that way.

  • @nataliebriggs1317
    @nataliebriggs1317 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Please never stop doing these. They help with my ADHD so much. It’s like having somebody around and it motivates me to clean and get shit done.

  • @montanasmith6776
    @montanasmith6776 หลายเดือนก่อน +880

    With the louis bag its also...the bag was in the daughter's bedroom. WHY was the mother and her friend in there at all? Like that doesn't add up. To me it really is just a bad lie to cover up mom selling it. 9:53

    • @soupy_soup2
      @soupy_soup2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      I hadn’t even thought about that. There was no reason for her moms friend to be in her room

    • @jamesbowen2088
      @jamesbowen2088 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      My first thought was drugs. I can't fathom another situation where a parent would actually take something like that from their kid after they worked so hard for it. Mom sold it for drugs.

    • @meggsntoast
      @meggsntoast หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@jamesbowen2088 I took the “only having hand me downs” and “not the richest family” comments as her way of saying they’re either low income or lower middle class and her probably needing money and felt entitled to taking and selling it. I remember when I was younger my parents needing to take some of my birthday/christmas money for bills, groceries, etc. but I could always tell they hated having to do that and they were never shitty about it.

    • @jennifervaughn2466
      @jennifervaughn2466 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@meggsntoast did they ask you first? Eventually pay you back?

    • @mountain_dreams
      @mountain_dreams หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      right? like who takes something from someones room??
      then again i had a roommate in the past where she took a cookie out of my room. i had put the cookies in my room so my roommate wouldnt think they were possibly free-game (a lot of things in the house were) and I ended up having one cookie left that I was saving and looking forward to, when I finally went to get it after coming back from volunteering it was gone. my roommate insisted she never went into my room and ate it to the point that i honestly felt like i was crazy and must have ate it without remembering doing so. It wasnt until mooonths later when she moved out that she admitted 'so i need to get it off my chest, i did go into your room and steal your cookie while you werent home that one time. i saw it when i walked by your room once and later thought that a cookie sounded good and was hungry so i went and ate it' (or something to that effect, its been several years i forget the exact wording/situation. i know its not the same as the story since that was an actual expensive bag and mine is just a cheap cookie)

  • @iovemriverhouse8396
    @iovemriverhouse8396 หลายเดือนก่อน +530

    unrelated but arasha looks ethereal in that dress omg the embroidered flowers on the white it's just so pretty and elegant

    • @cry-piddawg
      @cry-piddawg หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s so beautiful, she makes me think I have an attraction towards women❤️‍🔥

  • @michaelhall4300
    @michaelhall4300 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I had a ring for about 9 months, we were looking into buying a house at the time. And on the day we got the keys I proposed to her in the back garden of our new home. Low key but felt right. And that was 7 years ago. Sometimes waiting is good

  • @paulameyer7646
    @paulameyer7646 หลายเดือนก่อน +664

    the meaning behind court’s match tattoo omg courtney we love you❤❤❤

    • @YTFlove4ever
      @YTFlove4ever หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What time do they talk about it?

    • @paulameyer7646
      @paulameyer7646 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@YTFlove4ever right at the beginning. like maybe 10 seconds in

  • @thoreamoechi3533
    @thoreamoechi3533 หลายเดือนก่อน +436

    My mom stole so many things from me, including money, listening to this story made me want to cry of frustration, i think only the kids who literally felt like they had no control over nothing can really understand how painful this situation is, you learn that you can't trust you FAMILY and you can never brag about something because otherwise you were the "Selfish and self entitled".

    • @potatoman7594
      @potatoman7594 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      yep. your ACTUAL first lesson that life isn't fair. not the million times they passed off abuse as a "life lesson"

    • @raeperonneau4941
      @raeperonneau4941 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Over the years, I’ve learned that “selfish” =‘s “you’re not doing what I want you to do.” It’s used as a weapon not as constructive criticism.

  • @katana_0f_heartz
    @katana_0f_heartz หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Arasha is absolutely devouring her points in this video, i always love seeing her in reddit stories because shes such a clear voice of reason. Somehow when talking about random drama that they read on the Internet she sounds so professional.

  • @ginainnocenti4595
    @ginainnocenti4595 หลายเดือนก่อน +1439

    Lies! Her moms friend STOLE her bag and her mother better not be friends with this person anymore!

    • @shammyturtle9741
      @shammyturtle9741 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

      Yep. If the mom didn’t steal/sell it, the friend did. No way she “lost” it

    • @angie2932
      @angie2932 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

      sounds like the mom picked her friend over her daughter

    • @workout4780
      @workout4780 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      Her mom defo sold her friend the bag

    • @ClaveBBY
      @ClaveBBY หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      that or the mom really did just sell it lol

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      There's no friend, the mom stole it

  • @SirFratt
    @SirFratt หลายเดือนก่อน +289

    First story - If it’s “just a bag” then there should be no issue replacing it.

  • @jamesalexander5025
    @jamesalexander5025 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “Crazy work” has entered Shayne’s vocabulary and I couldn’t be happier lol

  • @IAmLucipurr
    @IAmLucipurr หลายเดือนก่อน +587

    when the comment with the words "they get ready real quick for the one they really want" was read, I felt that. the guy I was with for 5 years told me he never was ready for a serious relationship (even though we steadily were a thing for 5 years) was introduced to this girl by his parents which he obviously told me it was nothing and to not worry about it and he moved to another country and I found out he moved in with that girl and got married to her there... while we were still together. it is true, they DO get ready real quick for the one they really want 🙃

    • @daisyd3w3491
      @daisyd3w3491 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      WHILE you were still together??! Girllllllll

    • @calinac1671
      @calinac1671 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      no thats wild. the heck? how does someone even do that? i will never understand someone who does that nor do i want to. they often twist something so intense that it only makes sense to them

    • @IAmLucipurr
      @IAmLucipurr หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@daisyd3w3491 it was preeeettttyyyy neat 🙃

    • @IAmLucipurr
      @IAmLucipurr หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@calinac1671 yup. its been a crazy 5 years of wasting my time 🙃

    • @WrottJackson
      @WrottJackson หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who’s “they”? If I may ask?

  • @lightninmoth
    @lightninmoth หลายเดือนก่อน +476

    I'm so glad everyone [reddit included] took the first story so seriously. There's this weird thing where people tend to treat kid's [or anyone under 20 tbh] possessions as less important and their emotions as childish and uncalled for. This one instance could easily turn into two which could turn into four which could then snowball, and I really hope that girl takes the advice about bank accounts and I wish her the best.
    My mother is like this, she's admitted to looking through one of her kid's bank accounts [30s and literally has a kid], looked through my stuff as well as stole and sold them plus a bunch of other stuff. It's wild to think that multiple parents out there believe that this is completely okay and sensible behaviour,,

    • @stitchedwithcolor
      @stitchedwithcolor หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Agreed. i suspect what happened was that the parent was working hard to pay bills and had some feelings of resentment and jealousy when her daughter purchased a $2K+ handbag. And feelings are feelings, i get that. But the solution is to sit down with your daughter, congratulate her on her success, talk about what's going on with you, ask her to start contributing to the family expenses, and maybe grant her some special privileges to reflect her new responsibility. The solution is to model having honest conversations about finances and feelings and needs. The solution is NOT to walk off with your daughter's possession, get it lost or sold off, and try to sweep the matter under the carpet.

    • @anarchyvixyn
      @anarchyvixyn หลายเดือนก่อน

      The sad part is the friend didn't lose that bag. It was quite brand new 2k bag..she sold it.

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@stitchedwithcolor no sane parent would sell something which belonged to their child for bills. It was 100% dr*gs or debts

  • @dcarter455
    @dcarter455 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    0:53 a few things:
    1) COURT IS THE CUTEST LITTLE BEAN TO EVER BE!
    2) This moment between friends is so sweet to see! It’s so nice when your support circle can help solidify realities about you that you’re scared to claim, as if you have to have some lofty ideal in order to claim the work you’re already doing! So nice when someone can say “No you ARE!” And force you to speak in your definite!

  • @lazylittledragon
    @lazylittledragon หลายเดือนก่อน +347

    i’m RAGING at that first story. the whole time i was a teenager i wanted this specific set of high end artist’s markers and i finally managed to save and get them this year at 22, and sometimes i do just LOOK AT THEM bc i’m so proud to have them. i would start throwing bricks through windows if my mother sold them.

    • @cozymoggele
      @cozymoggele หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Right!! To have the discipline to work, save, and obtain something that you want and then respect your belongings is such a big step to make for the first time and I know some 25 year olds who haven't accomplished this yet. I can't imagine undermining the work of a 15 year old 😩 unless I wanted them to turn into a villian

    • @AshleyFromTX
      @AshleyFromTX หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I had the same feeling about my car, when I first bought it I’d just go out and sit in it and just smile, because I got to that point in my life with 0 support from my family, actually in spite of them.

  • @abbyj2783
    @abbyj2783 หลายเดือนก่อน +312

    The bag story reminded me of the time my mom donated a beloved toy of mine when I was a kid without asking me. It was a toy I didn’t play with much but still loved. My mom assumed I didn’t want it anymore and donated it to goodwill while I was at school. I remember crying a lot when she told me what happened when I couldn’t find it, and from then on my mom always double checked with me before donating or throwing out anything of mine.
    I don’t even clearly remember what the toy was, but I’ve never forgotten how betrayed and angry I felt.

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I hope she made an effort to get it back once she realised her mistake. Even if she didn't get it back, the effort would have fone a long way.

    • @trashyferret
      @trashyferret หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sorry that happened to you, my step dad once threw away 5 years worth of sketchbooks and over 30 notebooks I used to research things for a book I was working on but I'm glad he's now paying for my art supplies for each sketchbook he threw away. Hope op's mom didn't actually sell it though it seems unlikely

    • @arianaink100
      @arianaink100 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My parents threw everything I owned from a second story window. I’ve never really forgiven them for it. I was probably in like 5th grade, did bad on a test and that was the result.
      I remember that a few months earlier I worked my ass off to get a radio shaped like a dog so I can listen to music while studying, and because it was cute. They tossed that too about a week after I finally earned it and got it. I was devastated. It was broken into pieces and unable to be fixed. I remember having to walk outside with garbage bags to clean up the mess and to find some things that weren’t completely destroyed. Some books and my blankets could be salvaged. Lamps my desk the radio and a bunch of keepsakes were goners. The radio always sticks out to me tho.

    • @riyabiya4
      @riyabiya4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      my parents don't really relate or understand attachments to toys and stuff. i had a huge barbie/dolls collection as a kid and after a while they just sat in the garage or basement or something. without telling me they threw all of them away one day because they were getting dirty and i guess my parents were worried about mold or something. i accidentally discovered them in the trash bin outside and lost my shit. they looked at me like i was crazy for caring and couldn't understand how upset i was for not being able to say goodbye. i now only have 1 barbie doll from that collection and it's one of the later ones that i didnt develop as much of an attachment to. my parents did apologize and said they'll ask about stuff from then on but they got rid of so many precious stuffed animals and toys that i would've genuinely loved to still have despite being in my 20s. shit still hurts even though this happened even before covid

    • @funwithmabel8592
      @funwithmabel8592 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry that happened to you, it happened to me as a kid too. I have never thrown out a toy that belongs to either of my kids for that same reason, some trauma isn’t passed on 😳

  • @ckilbarger01
    @ckilbarger01 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    TSA jokester was 29 and OP was 20! Red flag #1

  • @denise3679
    @denise3679 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    "We have 'find yourself' at home" was the perfect response!

  • @ricky_robas
    @ricky_robas หลายเดือนก่อน +173

    That first story got people ACTIVE

  • @inkblot4
    @inkblot4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That final story was **chef's kiss** 🤌

  • @rainingsawdust
    @rainingsawdust หลายเดือนก่อน +609

    the Mom who stole the bag is narcissistic as hell. My mother was the same, soon as her child gains independence, take from them because in her eyes their achievements don’t “count”.
    Poor kid

    • @roisinhart
      @roisinhart หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Yes!!!! I heard the story and was like "yup, sounds like something my mom would/did do" it's so frustrating that these kids have to go through the same shit we did. It's awful.

    • @FriedSheep69
      @FriedSheep69 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ngl, the bag belongs to the mom anyways, she raised her, good for the mom, use them kids for your own benefit, once they are grown they'll leave, take advantage as much as you can.

    • @Not2IntoYou
      @Not2IntoYou หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@FriedSheep69No. LOL

    • @_StarXDust_
      @_StarXDust_ หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@FriedSheep69 yes, keep that mindset. The kids for sure like it

    • @llynxfyremusic
      @llynxfyremusic หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​your kids income isnt yours dingdong

  • @angelinehaidari2337
    @angelinehaidari2337 หลายเดือนก่อน +399

    "We have finding yourself at home" 😂 Courtney got slept on with that one. Love y'all.
    Ps) is Chili's a Smosh sponsor? Y'all make Chili's jokes at least once an episode, so they better be paying you guys.

    • @artnieli
      @artnieli หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      I think people at Smosh just like eating at Chili's in general 😂

    • @ogurasyn2354
      @ogurasyn2354 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      If it were a sponsor, they would disclose it in the sponsor section. "This video is sponsored by Chili's" kind of thing

    • @gonzaloegonzalez8106
      @gonzaloegonzalez8106 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      At one point i thought Ian had a deal with Carl Jrs for a Lot of comments he does for them. Also Johnny and Courtney Forever

    • @ShadowFlame420
      @ShadowFlame420 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gonzaloegonzalez8106courtney actually had a sponsor or brand deal with carls jr for a bit. she was promoting it on her instagram, but iirc she was pretty transparent that she was getting paid

    • @Maxolotl124
      @Maxolotl124 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I think Chili's is just an objectively funny restaurant

  • @serenitysfirefly
    @serenitysfirefly หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.

  • @JayC1719
    @JayC1719 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    5:54 as someone whos mom sold/pawned things i bought for myself for drugs when i was a teengaer. This is a very real thing some parents do to their kids for whatever reason and its sad

    • @CraftyMagicDollz
      @CraftyMagicDollz หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The reason is drugs

    • @GaryOPostle
      @GaryOPostle หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@CraftyMagicDollz they literally said that

  • @crystalice3057
    @crystalice3057 หลายเดือนก่อน +256

    Oh she DEFINITELY sold that bag

  • @vitalrae
    @vitalrae หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    arsaha is probably my favourite in the reddit stories shes always so well articulate

  • @frogonwall
    @frogonwall หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    About the first story, everyone else are assholes for saying she's overreacting. I made something last night that I could make again and I already misplaced it. I cried a little honestly lol. I was so proud of it. She absolutely has the right to be so upset about her situation

  • @fangthrob
    @fangthrob หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    First post is literally an example of parents treating their kids like property, abuse comes in many forms, not just physical

    • @lizxu322
      @lizxu322 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      YES. Part of the reason why I've been in low cantact with my mother for 5 years and now No Contact for 6 months. Amazing feeling.

  • @valerieaustin2089
    @valerieaustin2089 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I totally understand that girl with the bag. In highschool I worked and bought my own car. 1968 mustang (not mint) but mine. My alcoholic dad totaled it one day and never replaced it

  • @bensneb360
    @bensneb360 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    I love how excited Court gets when she hears "update", it's like a kid being surprised with going to the toy store lol

  • @frankenmama542
    @frankenmama542 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    On the guy who was waiting for "the right time". When you really love someone it doesn't matter how they propose but that they do it. My husband asked me over the phone (we were in a long distance relationship at the time) by saying, "What are you doing in August next year?". Did I care that it wasn't in a romantic setting or in person? No. We just celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary and though i tease him about the way he proposed, the fact of the matter is I immediately said yes.

    • @suobset
      @suobset หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Same. Me and my partner just discussed it out at our kitchen table. Fun :)

  • @JeevesPeabodyPOGO
    @JeevesPeabodyPOGO 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My fiance waited a week. We did discuss how I would want to be proposed to and I even picked out the ring (he felt a lot of pressure about picking the right one, so I chose one). Then we started planning this trip to this beautiful national park with my best friend in my home state that was just supposed to be a fun trip and when we get up to this gorgeous view, I didn't notice my friend slink away to start filming and my fiance surprised me with a proposal. It was perfect because of all the communication we had about it and it was still a surprise.

  • @DryBones271
    @DryBones271 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    I have a different theory, What is more likely the Mom showed her "daughter's purse" to a "friend" Naw bro, the mom claimed it was hers, and either gave it to the friend, was told they lost it, or as the comments said she sold it. Either way, Mom was jealous, and did something irrationally harmful. Hope she enjoyed the relationship, cuz it's gone now too.

  • @goosegirl23644
    @goosegirl23644 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    i fr always appreciate the wisdom and nuance of arasha's takes; they always feel very refreshing and honest

    • @lifewuzonceezr
      @lifewuzonceezr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!

    • @saintrocketIX
      @saintrocketIX หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Arasha's always great on these. Her, Angela and Tommy are the three I'm extra excited to see on the couch.

  • @Trekyhunter
    @Trekyhunter หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The "hall pass" game is a quick road to being either single or in a very unhappy relationship. No two ways about it if you still want to be with a person after they cheated.

  • @honeybea4093
    @honeybea4093 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    I'm sorry but COURT IS LOOKING SO FREAKING AMAZING in this video!!! I have always loved their style, but I genuinely think this is my favorite outfit I've ever seen them in. And the hair do be hairing omg. 🥰

    • @FaeMasquerade
      @FaeMasquerade หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It looks so comfy too. Lots of good looking outfits look uncomfortable to me

  • @Egalia_1
    @Egalia_1 หลายเดือนก่อน +450

    My BF introduced me to the series and I was hoping to find an episode to listen to through work. Couldn’t have been timed better, yall are the best!

    • @katten39
      @katten39 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ave a good day at work!

    • @MoonMoonTM
      @MoonMoonTM หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Don't worry, they have a whole ton of episodes as of now lol

    • @krishaunafisher
      @krishaunafisher หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      New episode every Saturday!!!! Congrats on catching one for work lol

    • @pinksoda8702
      @pinksoda8702 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same tho came out right as I was driving to work

    • @NaTeesha85
      @NaTeesha85 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Welcome in!

  • @thomasfrederickyeomans2452
    @thomasfrederickyeomans2452 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    the chemistry with these 3 is off the charts

  • @saintrocketIX
    @saintrocketIX หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    First story: don't take other people's stuff. Whatever she said, she probably wasn't harsh enough.

  • @rebekahmokool4759
    @rebekahmokool4759 หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    For the first story, how did that kid end up being so amazing and mature and hardworking with a mother like that? Poor girl

    • @bunnyellabell
      @bunnyellabell หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      you gotta fill in where your parents fall behind. gotta be your own parent.

    • @rebekahmokool4759
      @rebekahmokool4759 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@bunnyellabell 🫶🏽

    • @SahiraJPoetry
      @SahiraJPoetry หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Because that girl needed to be mature since her mother never was. She had to parent herself as someone has mentioned. This amazing girl was forced to be independent, probably has a heart filled with love that she never gave to herself. I really hope she will some day get away from a parent like that, give herself all the love she needed while growing up.

    • @DarkOsprey28
      @DarkOsprey28 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@SahiraJPoetry Literally took the words out of my mouth! Poor girl had to grow up too fast it sounds like. But let least it sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders (no thanks to her mother).

    • @kebehout666
      @kebehout666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      bc thanks god we are not define by our parents or the way we were raised 🙏

  • @Random-Saurus
    @Random-Saurus หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    4:00 the mom stole the bag and whether or not she or the friend lost it, sold it or did what ever. The Mom needs to replace it.
    If the daughter would take her mom's car, laptop or phone without asking and "loose" it, all hell would break loose.

  • @niekun8206
    @niekun8206 หลายเดือนก่อน +210

    The TSA story: It’s not just bad in the sense that both are now probably on a list but this guy could have caused a legit mass panic, tons of injuries to others, potentially(?) airport going into lockdown, SWAT response...

    • @arthurbarros5189
      @arthurbarros5189 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Depending on his tone and body language, he could have been shot down at that very moment.

  • @gracischomaker2706
    @gracischomaker2706 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    That was so sweet how Arasha highlighted Courtney at the beginning of the video! So supportive

  • @JordiePaige1031
    @JordiePaige1031 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Referring to the last story: I have 100% confidence that this woman will never let her daughter be hurt by those people. She's the baddest b I've ever heard of from reddit GOOD FOR HER 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sanniichi_
    @sanniichi_ หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    "wild work"
    "insane work"
    "crazy work"
    Loving Shayne's new catchphrase

    • @lizroszel265
      @lizroszel265 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      waiting for him to hit us with a “devious work”

  • @CazzLacman
    @CazzLacman หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    match tattoo story from court was probably the most heartwarming story of this episode! so hopeful for someone like me aspiring to be in the same field. we love and we see you our director court!! 🧡

  • @gerbywerbs6740
    @gerbywerbs6740 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    44:44 has me CACKLING THE PANIC IN ARASHA’S VOICE AND THE COURTNEY LOSING HER MIND ANTICIPATING IT

  • @MonsterPrincessLala
    @MonsterPrincessLala หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    Who lends someone else's bag to a friend? This is abusive

    • @123hotcheetos123
      @123hotcheetos123 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly my thoughts!!

    • @potatoman7594
      @potatoman7594 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      yeah regardless of what happened to the bag, the fact she's even going into her private things in the first place is gross asf, and then to touch it and act like you have jurisdiction over it? if she isn't a thief, she really desperately needs to learn boundaries.

    • @Etat7
      @Etat7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She absolutely just sold the bag to her friend and "lost" it was the cover story.

    • @popstel2286
      @popstel2286 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Etat7100% the mom is totally giving narcissist that thinks all her kids achievements are actually hers and hers only

  • @alexandraeilise
    @alexandraeilise หลายเดือนก่อน +273

    I think the mom thought she didn’t “deserve” such an expensive bag because she’s 15.

    • @potatoman7594
      @potatoman7594 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      yep bet that's how she sleeps at night. "well even if I did steal it she didn't even need it anyway because she's 15."

    • @chrism6880
      @chrism6880 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      She sold it for, what like $1000 at most? And for that $1000 she gets a daughter who will never trust her again.

    • @amylake9064
      @amylake9064 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@chrism6880 With so many children, the family is probably struggling financially. The mom was probably resentful of the daughter for buying a luxury item instead of helping out, or at the very least thought the money would be better spent on the family. That could've been her justification.
      Either way, she stole an expensive item from her daughter (likely sold it), and taught her daughter not to trust her

    • @Paradox-es3bl
      @Paradox-es3bl หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@amylake9064 If the family is struggling, she could've SAID SO and ASKED if her daughter could START HELPING NOW that she has the fancy bag she really wanted by continuing to work and giving like half her money to her mom or buying her own weekly groceries or something. Can't really resent her for getting a luxury item if you didn't ask her for help before that. Well, you CAN, but you'd be even worse. There's no logic there lol

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@amylake9064 that birth giver needed to communicate she needed financial help, not resent her child for working hard and being patient towards a goal.
      You want your child to stay in your life and help out, you need to set the example and COMMUNICATE. You cannot place financial responsibility on a child when you haven't take the responsible steps to sustain your family and resent your own child for it!

  • @BelB295
    @BelB295 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Courtney is literally a pinterest board for outfit inspo, they always have such cool outfits, and theyre kind of what pushed me to start experimenting with clothes like they look so cool what

  • @kitsa20
    @kitsa20 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    That last story. I remember reading it on reddit when it posted it. God that was beautiful. Chefs kiss way of ending things

  • @BentendoGameBoy
    @BentendoGameBoy หลายเดือนก่อน +246

    0:16 sounds suspiciously like something someone without one would say

    • @soupahbunnybusiness
      @soupahbunnybusiness หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Omg 😂😂

    • @hellofwinnie
      @hellofwinnie หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      UPDATE

    • @DearAnem0ia
      @DearAnem0ia หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      GIRLS HAVE THEM?!?

    • @ssasskia
      @ssasskia หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@DearAnem0ia unfortunately some girls don't ✊️😔

    • @8pookii
      @8pookii หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ssasskiayeah 😔😔😔

  • @georgiaqueenelizabeth
    @georgiaqueenelizabeth หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That bag story…. I grew up with a family who didn’t make a lot of money and my mom made me give her all my graduation money to help pay rent. She did eventually pay me back, but guilted me into giving it to her & I felt trapped and couldn’t say anything. That mom 100% sold her bag… I think she was jealous that she was able to responsibly go after something she wanted.

  • @djtaylor220
    @djtaylor220 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    37:28 court and shayne’s matching reactions killed me