Spencer with the glasses, beard, and checkered shirt is the Boomer fit like Spielberg and Lucas, Angela with the long hair and leather jacket looks like the more "cool" rebellious 90s era like Fincher and Tarantino
the worst of the worst's "im joined by two of the worst people i know" and today's "with me are two of the biggest cheaters i know" both being used to introduce spencer is top tier
Second story theory: Clearly this adult man is still playing Pokemon Go, and the coffee shop is in a hot zone of prime poke stops. He is hiding his phone from her when they’re together and isn’t explaining his activities because he’s embarrassed.
Honestly you may be 100% right! In college when it came out my friend and I would wall around the city, and there was a pokestop like 2 stores over from her building so that's what she would do
This is the only alternate theory that I can accept. I've been lucky enough to never really care too much what people think about my hobbies, but I understand the concept. There's this weird stigma against playing Pokemon in adulthood, which I think is dumb, so maybe he was self-conscious, but just didn't want to miss all those good raids and pokestops.
Same! I do remember once when he had to kind of take a little break/shake it off after reading like a paragraph of many female anatomy words! Really working on that pokerface!
My husband is romanian and when i was pregnant we were going through romanian names as i wanted our sons middle name to be traditional. I like a specific name that turned out to be a nickname for his brothers name, this name is also super common among the family. I asked if it was ok and he said yes since his brother is a very important part of his life, for much of their childhood it was just them and his brothers always taken care of him. He didnt tell me until a year later that a childs middle name is traditionally THEIR FATHERS NAME, so essentially our sons name implies hes actually my brother in laws baby. I was mortified but my husband just laughs and says he loves the name and his brother is honored by the gesture
Romanian here. This is the first time I've heard of this, and no other Romanians I know or family members have their father's name as their middle name. And maybe if it is an older tradition or local thing in the area he's from, it's probably still not that common. So I wouldn't worry too much if I were you 😆
I’ve been silently watching TH-cam for years and I’ve never left a comment on a video before, but I just wanted to let you guys know that the bit in this video where you all talked about how everyone deals with confrontation & healing differently really just changed something inside me. I’ve been trying to heal from something for 3 years and I always regretted never confronting the person that did it to me, and it wasn’t until now that I realized it’s because I didn’t feel safe enough to. I absolutely love how the entire cast balances their wisdom with goofiness and it gives me hope that I can return to my silly nature one day. Great episode as always :)
You shouldn't feel like you *have* to confront them, either, even now. Lots of people will tell you it's a necessary step to get closure, but for some people it isn't. Coming to terms with your own feelings about it and accepting that the actions of others who have hurt you were out of your control, but you can continue on living your life despite the hurt you've been dealt... that's really what matters, that's what "confronting it" is about. You're not a coward, or doing it wrong, or whatever, for handling your own healing in your own way.
@@islaythejabberwokkyto add, it’s 100% ok to only “confront” someone through writing it on paper or an email or a voice memo that never leaves your possession.
nerd alert: little math fact, while in minecarft the y axis is used for 'vertical', in many other system it's actually the z that responds to that. That's how it works in blender and in quakes/source engines. And if you google some math formulas and models, z is the height.
For the coffee shop guy, in his defense he might not communicate that he wants alone time because he can’t. I’ve been in a relationship with someone who would get upset if I didn’t want to spend all my free time with her. She didn’t understand that I needed some time for just me. And when I tried communicating that to her, it caused a huge fight.
Why should he be required to even communicate that...if he can understand that his wife wants to spend "her" Sunday morning sleeping in, why can't she understand he wants to spend "his" Sunday morning sitting in a coffee shop wasting time on his phone. The only one lacking in the communication depart is the woman who tracks her husband's phone, is bad at basic math when determining timeframes and will pretend to be asleep to find out when her husband leaves the house. She even sent her sister out on surveillance...this is someone who needs to learn how to communicate.
I mean, the thing is, she didn’t mind him going out for a run or going to the coffee shop on his own. The things she found weird was him staying there, and then lying about it. Everyone tracks phones nowadays, that’s why things like Life360 exist. Granted, her sister, spying on him was pretty creepy and too far, but his behavior was kind of weird. This couple needs a lot more communication on both sides.
@@eyeruscat9439-My ex didn’t mind me going for a run or going to a coffee shop to pick up coffee for her either. But if I stayed at the coffee shop on my laptop (it was before smart phones) then it was a problem and I would absolutely have to lie to her or she’d pick a fight with me. Again, I’m not saying this is the case with them, but based on how she framed some of the story and the fact that she sent her sister to spy, I’m willing to bet I’m not far off the mark.
@@eyeruscat9439 But he didn't lie about anything...if he left the house at 9:45, ten minutes there and back each and he said he was there working for about an hour...if he returned at 11:10, that's only 5 minutes of unaccounted time.
@@adamvancil2311 bro how tf is that coliseum still stands almost the same it was like what 2000y ago or whatever I don't know for sure? We need the re ipe, ffs the building I used to live in fell...twice hahahha
"The age gap is big, but he *looks* and *acts* young so it's okay. :)" Okay. 99% of the time, *that's* the problem with those relationships. If anybody acts like they are far, far less mature, and like they're in a younger part of life, they mentally did not grow beyond that part of life. So no. That's not good, actually. xD
First off, you've never drank from a water source that stops your body and mind from maturing and dying so I think you should maybe put yourself in other people's shoes before you just start judging 250 year olds. 😡 😂😂😂😂🫂
I'm single, been for years and have never really had anything to hide. I put my phone down face down because I would keep checking every notification if the screen was up. It's so natural to me and to me it's insane that people think it's cheater behavior
I doubt they think that alone is cheater behaviour! It's probably in combination with other stuff like always bringing the phone everywhere, tilting it away etc.
I’ve been accused of being sus as well when literally it’s my way of trying to lock in with the person I’m with. The action has been tarnished by cheaters.
it’s definitely only suspicious if it’s in combination with other suspicious behaviour!! Both me and my partner just put our phones down without thought tbh, sometimes with the screen facing down and sometimes without. There’s nothing else suspicious about phone usage so it’s not thought about more by either of us
I have to be really really stoned to have enough personal security to leave my phone face up but I was also the kid that stole books from the school library because of the strange, unexplainable embarrassment and horror I had for 99% of my life about people knowing what I was reading or watching. I literally just don’t want people to see my normal ass app alerts. I hide my phone screen so my parents don’t see my TH-cam notifications when we’re out getting lunch and I’m a grown adult😂 I do feel like it was a little more fair that I didn’t want the stern mom librarian to see I was checking out manga and horror books 💀 not being asked why I like something but just “what are you reading/watching/looking at” and then intense judgement from adults and peers was too much for my little audhd brain to handle
i grew up in a household without ANY privacy, so it's second nature for me to place my phone face-down or turn off my notifications or hide my screen. i've never had a room to myself in my life so tilting the screen away while my siblings tried to look over my shoulder is a subconscious thing i do. and usually it's not even anything i have to hide! sometimes it's just a smosh video but i'm so conditioned to hide my screen that i do it anyway. i feel like sometimes it's just the type of person you are. crazy.
"She was way too into me" BRO WHERES THE ACCOUNTABILITY 🤣 you were IN HER. Polyamorous woman here, veeeery crucial to have communication before AND DURING.
I fault them both in this case- he could have said something to her when he saw she was being excluded. She could have said something to them, when she felt like she was getting left behind. It can be awkward, but it's essential, esp in ENM.
All of them were so respectful of this open relationship which is very cool but i couldn’t help but feel like there was a hole in the story when the wife literally watched her husband finish with this specific third even when after the fact he’s like “yeah she was too into me”??? Like sir - this is not yalls first rodeo and suddenly you forgot your wife at the finish line? Huh?!
I don’t like that she said they just do it with women too. Like I get it if maybe only she is bi or something but idk in these situations it feels a little weird when it’s just the guy doing it with 2 women. Also he should’ve put a stop to it if he tried multiple times to include her and then it wasn’t working (I know she could’ve too but I can only imagine the heart shattering experience she just had just watching THEM in THEIR intimate moment). In situations like that respect and communication is crucial and it seems like he just got what he wanted and was like , “oh yeah sorry about that”.
angela and spencer are dressing like it’s a costume party where you’re supposed to dress like a straight guy obsessed with IPAs. edit: honestly shayne too
@@GaaraFan01Oh, it isn't a bad thing! They look comfy as hell... Actually, I'm usually in khakis or shorts, but I dress the same. Not obsessed with IPAs.. red wine.. and I'm queer. Slayyyy. 😂
@@ChrystalVanDusseldorp the devastating truth. It really interesting how often people are also really good at spotting issues in others' relationships but are often completely oblivious to their own lol
I love how the guy from the first story had such a guilty conscience that he took issue with her changing the sheets too slowly and accused her of searching
@@rebbyberard8150 Sometimes you have to judge people for liking the same kind of food because of the time or what’s in/on it (think pizza lovers judging people for eating pizza for breakfast or having pineapple on pizza)
What pisses me off is the TWO different women who were like “I don’t want to confront him without any proof” WITHOUT PROOF?!?! The first lady SAW HER HUSBAND GET A KISS ON THE CHEEK FROM HER 20 YEAR OLD NEIGHBOR WHILE HE WAS LEAVING HER HOUSE! ARE YOUR EYES NOT PROOF ENOUGH?!?! THE SECOND GOT A TEXT FROM HER HUSBAND BASICALLY SAYING “here’s this nude you asked for” WHEN SHE DIDN’T ASK FOR ONE!!! SOMEONE CLEARLY ASKED FOR THAT PHOTO AND IT WASN’T YOU!!! WHAT MORE PROOF DO THESE WOMEN NEED?!
Seeking tangible proof, as others suggest, is definitely a possibility, especially if you're talking divorce. The financial difference between divorce on grounds of infidelity and divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences can be considerable. That said, even without that, i get the desire to want more evidence and then more again. Your partner is doing everything they can think of to wallpaper over it and convince you it's nothing--lying at best, gaslighting at worst. Plus you've got a lot of investment in this person, and maybe it's just emotionally easier to blame yourself and believe that it's nothing if it means you don't have to face the betrayal of the person you trusted most.
Concerning your first reference, and precluding any other red flags: I (41M American) have seen men and women in close relationships kissing cheeks as part of their goodbyes for as long as I have lived. My concern isn't about the kiss on the cheek, it's about who it is with. I'd be thinking, "when did you two become so close?"
Story 5 - I'm non-monogamous and have been in this very situation. If the husband felt she was 'too into him', and this third woman was leading the situation in a way not everyone was comfortable (husband would have known the wife was uncomfortable), then it should have stopped immediately. The husbands behaviour is suspicious. It's good to hear he agreed not to meet her again, but he hasnt been entirely honest, and wife is still hurting. More communication is needed, 100%.
The husband didn't cheat, nor he was not acting suspicious. As soon as it was brought up that it made her uncomfortable he agreed to not meet the new girl again. Saying "husband would have known the wife was uncomfortable" is bullshit, people aren't mind readers and not everyone can read body language well. If she was really that bothered there was literally nothing stopping her from ending it. More communication is definitely needed, the wife needs to communicate when she is uncomfortable with something instead of waiting until after and then going to reddit with the issue.
@@Ravensblood95I totally get what you’re saying, but in situations like this you and your partner need to be able to read each other and check in throughout the hook up nonverbally (or verbally if wanted) to see if everyone is happy and comfortable. It sounds like in this specific situation that the wife was really left out and the husband even says he noticed and tried to get the wife more involved but it was failed attempts. it should have been paused after both parties noticed the wife was not receiving the appropriate amount of attention in this situation. Overall, there just really needs to be more communication before, during and after
@Ravensblood95 he said he knew already, but didn't do anything about it while it was happening. If he knew, why didn't he try to fix it right away? He only waited until the wife brought it up.
Angela teases Spencer for not getting to a joke quick enough and Spencer gives Angela the Look of Judgement when she says a joke that doesn't land lmao.
I'm a single mom to 3, I spend roughly 90 percent of my time with my children. I know them well. And I still draw a total blank whenever someone asks me how old they are, or when I have to verify middle names or birthdays at appointments. It doesn't mean I don't love them or pay attention to them, it just means I forgot for a second, and that's a thing that can happen to anybody. Not everything is that deep.
My brother was born on my 9th birthday, and EVEN THEN I still have to do the math every year for how old he's going to be 😅 He's turning 21 this year😢❤
My mum often forgets the year I was born and I’m her only child. I’ve always found that funny, rather than offensive. My maternal grandparents are grandpa and grandma, as I never called them nor knew them otherwise (they passed away when I was young, though). Hell, I sometimes need a second when someone asks me my own name.
Thats an obvious problem people have, the literal thing they talked about where you blank when asked a question. But that guy called those things "super niche" when they ARENT which proves he doesn't care much to know them. Not only that but if that was the case, he'd just tell her that..? He didn't blank, he just didn't know lmao. If he blanked he would've said that when someone literally asked him if he did in the comments.
I ended up with a insurance problem because when we went to a insta-care place I totally misspelled my daughter's middle name! Insurance then claimed that person didn't exist. oops! 😅 there wew two ways we were gonna spell it and i guess wrong every single time 😅
For the threesome story I think there are two main parts that are making her so uncomfortable with it all. 1) she said he’s never made love to her like he did with the other girl. She’s feeling left out of that connection with him. To me, that would make me spiral into wondering if my partner loves me like how he loved having that moment with the other girl. Maybe they could have someone on one time where she gets to see that he wants to have the type of sex with her too. 2) when she brought up the situation to him, he said “yeah she was definitely way too into me”. He doesn’t acknowledge that he played a role in it and went too far. He puts the blame all on the other girl which makes OP feel bad about questioning his role in it. I think the guy needs to own up and show OP that he wants to have intimate sex with her like that too.
Update!!! SN_1267 • 1 mo. ago • Edited 1 mo. ago (edit is in parenthesis and second paragraph) My ex and I did this. We had made sure to set up rules and boundaries. Why I expected her to follow these seems wild to me now since I found out she had BPD. (It explained soooo much behavior of hers). I got about 5 minutes of attention from either combined. I eventually just left the room, feeling disgusting and sad. I later talked to her about it and how uncomfortable it made me, that I didn't want to do it anymore. The next week she had met up with him on her own, breaking another rule, and also went back on her promise to not see him again. She claimed she was the biggest lesbian too. Wild. It was about 30 minutes while I was in there and she just went wild. I'd never seen that from her. They went for another hour and a half while I just sat in the living room trying not to listen and just watch TV to calm down
That’s what I was locked on to was that she said she was watching them make love and he said asked for this girl specifically as OP mentioned early on in the story and she confronted him and all he said was the girl was to into him last I knew it took two to make love
First story..... Girl let the other chick have him if he doesn't even have a bank account. He was already nowhere and looks like he has no hope of going anywhere else
PLENTY of people refuse to use banks, doesn't mean they don't have money lmao. Plus, he could have had a secret bank account. We don't have that information. Don't be a gold-digger stereotype. Regardless, get rid of him because he's a cheater, not because he doesn't have money smgdh.
@@sarkaztik3228eh it’s less a gold digger thing than a responsibility thing. Sure people can choose not to use a bank and that’s their prerogative, but I think OP stated something like “he doesn’t have money like that”, so it sounds like he really doesn’t have savings of any kind. That’s bad if you’re considering a long term relationship bc if you want to eventually buy a house or have kids, you REALLY should both have savings so the financial burden isn’t on any one person. So, both a cheater and potentially not financially stable, no great loss.
@@sarkaztik3228oh be quiet. If anybody was taking advantage of the other in the relationship it was the person who was in a relationship with somebody whose brain was still developing.
@@beewest5704 I work in retail, there are a lot of people who do not have bank accounts because they do not trust banks. It's a lot more common in poorer communities than it is in more affluent ones.
For the TikTok relationship test one, I’m reminded of the “name a woman” video. Even people who are normally very competent will just forget how to answer simple questions when put on the spot.
I mean, that's the entire point of those videos; it's well-known that a lot of people's brains blank under pressure, especially when they know they're being recorded, and they leverage that fact to cause drama between couples in order to farm views.
Hell, even when someone (especially in a bit of a group setting or when I’m rather nervous) asks me my name my answer is sometimes “Uh…. [Danandhoe]” for some reason. As if I have to think of my own name for a moment. It’s weird.
Like with Tommy, I feel that considering he's already crew, it wouldn't make sense for him to be a cast member, not less that switch over account for a difference in pay, whatever it may be. The two of them already feel like cast members, so I don't really get the big deal about it.
@@janohanovella7385 Been watching since 2021. My understanding is that both he and Tommy are editors, which were originally their only function. But since they gradually appeared in more videos for various reasons (short-staffing, last-minute changes, their obvious on-camera charisma), and have appeared regularly for a while now, they essentially became part of the cast, for all intents and purposes. Essentially, but not officially I suppose. This seeming contradiction, along with their unusual path to semi-cast status, has become an in-joke within the cast, though they don't mention it as much as they used to.
I love Reddit stories because it's the perfect balance of silly and earnest. Seeing Angela and Spencer be genuinely thoughtful and considerate while also being lil goofballs is the perfect mix. I hope this show never goes away.
Who else thought when Shayne started that last story, it was the story about the guy who secretly snuck out of the house every night to steal onions from their HOA communal garden 😅
TO BE CLEAR: Threats of any kind have no place in personal relationships! The fact that she chose a threat based on what she knows from being his partner is, more specifically, emotional abuse. It’s abusive to do anything with the sole intent of causing your partner pain, fear, or discomfort. Without intent it can also be abuse - cruelty is easily learned and runs in families. But regardless of intent it is damaging and destructive - and it matters if your partner cares to figure out how not to hurt you. (That does not include neglecting to do what your partner wants, not meant to give credence to the “you’re abusive because you didn’t clean the house and that upsets me.” Cause abusers also like to claim they/re being neglected in order to pressure/threaten partners into doing something they don’t want to. I’m talking about cruel comments and actions, context is always important.)
Yep. She's _at least_ as toxic as he was. She threatened him multiple times throughout their relationship, and then posted about the follow-through on reddit. She's totally proud of what she did.
36:17 >Angela's top tier Bad Joke >Spenser's answering Look of Disapproval >Angela already shaking her head in self-reflection honestly it was 2 seconds of action that told a full story arc, it was poetic, and I'm crying from laughter
The bit when Angela with the nerfs are loaded was similar (13:36 ), I think it's so cute because he still has a little smile and just stares at her hahah. Ok the nerfs are in the gun is what she said 😂
24:43 I live by the rule that my great grandma taught me and that is "everybody gets respect cuz that is a right bc you don't know what's going through their life but once you disrespect me my people or the place I live you have earned my disrespect" another thing my grandma taught me was you don't need to be nice to be polite
yea i think there's a baseline amount of respect by default and it can either go down or up depending on how the person treats me. i would use this rule when i was a cashier lol, i was polite and if the person was nice i'd become super friendly. if they were mean, i'd be really direct and try to hurry the conversation along lmao
Yup! People who think you have to earn respect ONLY MEAN ONE WAY. They never think they have to earn your respect, they think you have to respect them and earn THEIR respect. It’s a superiority complex, nothing to do with respect
@@Duckduckobtusegooseon the flip side, my dad always told me I had to respect him solely because he’s my father, even though he never respected me and actively disrespected me (along with a bunch of other things a good parent doesn’t do). As an adult, I finally stood up for myself and told him he needs to earn my respect and well let’s just say that didn’t go over too well lol
For the Slovak story, I'm eastern European and it's a tradition to 1 . Name the son after the father and 2. To name a child after a person you like and hope them to be like them ( me and my sister were named after girls my mom really liked)
Maybe the cousin was suspicious of which one it was (father or just a person she thought was cool), and wanted him to see the kid and witness the reaction.
Yeah I was also like "it is kind of thing to give aspirational names to children sometimes in Eastern Europe" something along the lines of names holding power etc
What I found concerning was the line from the woman "I don't speak any Slavik". How do you not even know the name of your husbands language? Or Shayne might've misspoken.
Honestly hearing the takes from so many different people on Smosh has opened my eyes to different solutions in tricky situations. All of them mature thought out opinions too, so healthy.
@@marcgw496physical money☺️I know someone who keeps most of his money in a safe and only what he needs to pay bill in a bank account when the bills need to be paid.
What about those cards like chime, does that count as a bank account? Also how does she know he doesn't have a bank account? Pretty easy thing to lie about it's not like she can really check
I'm from Slovakia and she was joking imho. he probably has some ridiculously common name like Martin or Jozef or Ján and when he asked if the child was named after him she just said yes with the dryest sarcastic tone. and he was there in 2019,the child has to be at most 4years and 4months otherwise the math is not mathing. also the way she describes his demeanor screams honesty
Yes, I also wanted to write that we don't have so many names as option to give our kids. We can give only names from our calendar or very basic foreign names, it is mandated by law.
This was a childhood friend as well - one whose life didn’t afford her opportunities of schooling/life in a Western country (whether real of perceived). I could see her naming her baby after the “boy from the hood who got out and is now a fancy Westerner.” I’m from a Slavic country so this line of thinking makes sense (even though it’s a weird romanticization IMO). Also explains why the cousin (who grew up with largely the same set of opportunities as this woman) specifically wanted to reconnect them. Can some former kid immigrants back up my logic here?
I also think it’s not that weird, in a specific context… if this guy has moved to a different country from a small village, and was successful, he’s probably the guy they all aspire to and talk about the one “who made it”, in that context, imo, I’d see someone naming their kid after him normal. It happens where I’m from (even though I’m not from a village 😅😂)
dude im sorry im saying this as someone with a uterus, "two beautiful submarines" is the funniest thing ive heard all week what the fucking shit i'll think about that forever
37:02 speaking as someone who's not Polyamorous, the husband should have stopped the "threesome" immediately when he felt the other girl was too into him and not into his wife. As soon as he recognized that, it needed to end. The wife is definitely within her rights to feel the way she does. But she also needed to bring it up as it happened, and she absolutely needs to have an in-depth conversation with her husband now.
For real, or the wife should have got up and walked away. The act should have immediately ended after that. If not, theres your problem. Something about the wife sitting there watching this just sounds like she went the traumatic route unfortunately
It's also a good idea to have a safe word, for all 3 of them, in the case that something uncomfortable is happening. But sometimes you don't know you need something like that until it happens.
The husband was foul for continuing for sure, so cruel to do that right in your wife’s face. I would never be able to see him without seeing the look he gave to someone else. Also I don’t believe he was chill about letting her go bc he didn’t care, I think he knew what he did and he was trying not to act suspicious.
Hmm, I don't quite agree here, and this is as A polyamorous person though I don't engage in threesomes (some of my partners do though.) Without her specifically indicating to him that she was upset, it may not have been clear whether or not she was into it on some level. Just as his turn on is seeing the third partner engage with his wife, maybe he thought, okay, she isn't stopping this- so maybe it's okay to move forward? She's also vague about how this woman did and didn't include her- I've had couples want to engage with me where it's very clear that the intent is for one partner or the other to primarily interact, while the other is...there. A gigantic component within ENM it's open and clear communication. Talk about everything. Be clear. Be specific. You can have sex with other people? Okay what does sex mean to both partners. It means penetration? Okay penetration where? Is this only at their home or only at your own? If sex is okay is kissing okay? None of this can be assumed, at least until you have some pretty solid groundwork laid. Maybe the husband should have known how to gauge his wife better, but they both need to openly clearly communicate, and she could have said something. You can always say something.
That was a throwaway joke but I genuinely think that the story about the coffee shop is ENTIRELY plausible that he really is seeing the sister. That's why she had no problem spying on another human. Because remember he was not wanting to talk about the situation at all.
I dated someone that, at 34 years old, "didn't believe in bank accounts". He kept money hiding all over the place. He'd often miscalculate how much he had. He often lost and found money around as well.
I completely agree with shane. You don't need to know everything to know that it's a bad situation. The more you know the more hurt you are just understand that you were f***** over they can't undo it and move on.
its so they can have power over someone whos not matured, or experienced as much as they are so that they ultimately have some sort of power over them.
@@fredskull1618 not really, it feels normal for me, we have much in common and share same type of dreams and hopes. I do understand how it might be seen as a big difference but we never thought about it and nobody in our circle ever questioned our love. It's the crazy, stupid love to be cheesy hehe. Anyways not everyone likes overpowering others, sometimes age( over 20 imo) doesn't matter, just don't take advantage of others I guess... Shayne Spencer and Angela seem a bit too much into blaming older people in relationships of wanting something but it ain't always like that.
My first language is not English , one of the most useful and enjoyable sources of learning English for me is reddit stories episodes on this channel , I also get to laugh a lot while learning English , honestly couldn't be better . Thank you so much Smosh 👍❤
@@katie18976 Thank you so much for saying that ❤️ I remember when I first started to watch Smosh back in 2019 , I couldn't really understand what they were saying , and I couldn't even write any comments in English . Now in 2024 i can't believe I'm able to understand all the things they talk about and write English comments . It's like Smosh has been my teacher 😅 ( I learned English by self-study at home
@@jennatandy6272 From what I remember he had cheated on her many times before (allegedly), but because of the jam she hired investigators to follow him or something like that. It was a very big deal in Latin America lmao.
As a teacher, the lady mad at her spouse over failing a "relationship quiz" makes me worried for her as a teacher because test anxiety is real. I've watched countless students freeze all the way up on information they know on tests
If he just froze up he could've communicated that to his wife and there wouldn't be a problem. I don't think that's what happened when he's calling her allergies super specific niche information he shouldn't be expected to know.
@Bellehrhsgd you put a lot of words into how mouth he never said what he said was "the questions started basic and got more niche, and i couldnt answer some straight away or correctly" so i think its a little strange how youre trying to twist it
@Bellehrhsgd Yeah, no. I freeze up to the point of not being able to answer when asked of my name, so not being able to communicate when put on the spot like that is very understandable for me. Everyone reacts differently to this kinda thing after all!
Shayne makes such a good point that I think I will try and use moving forward. I have always had a hard time telling people how I've felt about things because I always view everything as confrontational, however, if it's between people that respect one another it isn't necessarily confrontation but rather communication. That is a great callout!
As somone who grew up never knowing my dad past age four because he was on drugs the last story is infuriating. He may have started by helping the children, but in the end started aiding in her addiction and making it to where she might have never gotten better. It seems like he never really cared abt the kids.
Yeah the op has every right to feel the way she does. But more importantly, what happened to the kids. If he really wanted to help why didn't he at least help those kids by calling cps. Even they end out of their mother's custody that might be best right now. And if he really wanted to help the mother, why didn't he try to get her in rehab? I say this as someone whose own family has gone through the same thing.
Reddit theme ideas!: -child care providers sharing wild stories about bad parents or crazy children, -nightclub stories or bar stories -festival or rave stories -stories that involve mystery -a theme where one of the stories shane tells is fake, and the guests have to guess which story is fake.
Loooots of people grow up without learning those skills from people around them (or even worse, are taught to suppress it). It's really sad but I'm proud that there are so many people nowadays breaking those cycles and learning it before bringing up a new generation.
See, as someone who was abused as a child, when you say "simply communicate with them", what I FEEL is "just put your hand on the hot stove! it's so simple!". Like, good for you, but I've already learned... repeatedly... that the stove is hot and WILL burn me. So I'd rather avoid it... Is that rational behavior? No. It's a behavior learned through trauma during formative years. We know it's "simply communication", but that doesn't mean it's easy.
I wish I learned sooner that being assertive doesn't mean being confrontational or aggressive. It is perfectly OK to communicate your emotions, ask questions and relay your concern. Asking for clarification from your partner isn't nagging, badgering, annoying or wrong! If they make you feel like it is, then that's a THEM problem!
@@katie18976 im sorry to hear that. I hope you know that you are a great, whole person with valid feelings, thoughts and opinions :-) And I hope you have people around to remind you of this, if not then here is your reminder :-D have a great day!
I love the short pants club of Angela, Spencer and Shayne. Those plan where we can see all of their socks, shoes, and different cuffed jeans or shorter jeans is very satisfying to me. Shayne gets so much shade for his cuffed jeans, while it’s fine, makes me feels like he’s making it a trend of showing socks on camera for all of the cast.
Shayne doing his job discussing a topic while two of his friends are riffing to the side is one of my favorite tropes 😂😂😂 similar energy as the smoshmouth episode with trevor
Not having a bank account is fairly common in low income areas. Managed a few hundred rental homes and I’d say 20% of them were unbanked. They use western unions and check cashing places, payday loan places and paid rent in money orders you can get at USPS or CVS. Unfortunately there are many fees associated with being unbanked, and check cashing places frequently prey on the unbanked, keeping the cycle of poverty going. I wish we taught financial literacy in school.
That pain you feel when Shane says "alright, next story.." when you're fully invested in the current story and expecting an update 🥺
Same :/
It's real ..
the pain is unreal
Real
That baby one man!
spencer and angela are giving two movie directors from the 90s
what does that even mean lmao
It’s the George Lucas fit
@@highdefinition450they dress like Geroge Lucas or Steven Spielberg
Especially when Angela yells 😂
Spencer with the glasses, beard, and checkered shirt is the Boomer fit like Spielberg and Lucas, Angela with the long hair and leather jacket looks like the more "cool" rebellious 90s era like Fincher and Tarantino
Husband that keeps sneaking out in the middle of the night: Definitely destroying the community garden onions.
My first thought too lol
Omg 😂
Yes!!! Good callback 😎
OMG I FORGOT ABOUT THOSE ONIONS LMAO
thought that too 😭
all three of them are dressed up like undercover cops
LMFAOOO THIS IS MY FAVORITE ONE
Shayne specifically in 21 jumpstreet.
They've got that "Marvel Superhero trying to stay hidden" fit
I want this comment to be in a “Acting out our comments” video
Right
the worst of the worst's "im joined by two of the worst people i know" and today's "with me are two of the biggest cheaters i know" both being used to introduce spencer is top tier
I expected one of them "Cheaters" to be "Ian" ☠️
@@marytem95 I'm glad we all still remember that lol
@@LordVader1094 never forget 🫡
@@marytem95OOF, the way that memory SLAMMED back into my brain 😵💫💀
Wait wasn’t the worst of the worst episode Ian and Courtney?
“They’re fucking and her phone is charging”😂 Angela and Spencer is a great pairing, another incredible Saturday Reddit stories!!!
Second story theory: Clearly this adult man is still playing Pokemon Go, and the coffee shop is in a hot zone of prime poke stops. He is hiding his phone from her when they’re together and isn’t explaining his activities because he’s embarrassed.
My husband and I play it together 😂
Honestly you may be 100% right! In college when it came out my friend and I would wall around the city, and there was a pokestop like 2 stores over from her building so that's what she would do
This is the only alternate theory that I can accept. I've been lucky enough to never really care too much what people think about my hobbies, but I understand the concept. There's this weird stigma against playing Pokemon in adulthood, which I think is dumb, so maybe he was self-conscious, but just didn't want to miss all those good raids and pokestops.
Damn his inventory must be full with all the poke stops he's spinning.
reminded me of the white lotus
Shayne narrating the most raunchy and intimate Reddit stories is his calm voice without missing a beat never fails to make me laugh 😂
Same! I do remember once when he had to kind of take a little break/shake it off after reading like a paragraph of many female anatomy words! Really working on that pokerface!
Eyyyy we’re basically the same acct 😂
@@hernameispekka_Rebecca Which episode was that?
@@lavenduhhh also wondering this 👀😜
Lol like “woo gays gay it up”
My husband is romanian and when i was pregnant we were going through romanian names as i wanted our sons middle name to be traditional. I like a specific name that turned out to be a nickname for his brothers name, this name is also super common among the family. I asked if it was ok and he said yes since his brother is a very important part of his life, for much of their childhood it was just them and his brothers always taken care of him. He didnt tell me until a year later that a childs middle name is traditionally THEIR FATHERS NAME, so essentially our sons name implies hes actually my brother in laws baby. I was mortified but my husband just laughs and says he loves the name and his brother is honored by the gesture
That is hilarious 😂
Lmao weird way to become the de facto godfather of your child but good for him lol
Romanian here. This is the first time I've heard of this, and no other Romanians I know or family members have their father's name as their middle name. And maybe if it is an older tradition or local thing in the area he's from, it's probably still not that common. So I wouldn't worry too much if I were you 😆
I honestly think this is really sweet in a funny way 😂
"Fuck, he didn't account for the Y-axis."- Spencer 2024
On that story im surprised no one was like "Hes actually meeting with her sister and got away with it super easily"
As a Blender user, I immediately thought "Um, it's the Z axis"
@@gusi4474 That's true. We're moving in 2 axes normally. Still a great line though
@@gusi4474I think of z being a horizontal axis as well, personally. like Minecraft 😅
Earth is flat Y axis is a myth from NASA
"He didn't account for the y-axis" is literally the funniest thing I've ever heard lmfao
does anyone have the time stamp? i watched the whole video waiting for this and could not find it😭
14:14 @@nyct1b1us
I lost it!! 10/10
thank uuuuu@@Laoghaire-zv4xf
Spencer was robbed with no reaction to this
look at the married man giving us relationship advice! im so happyyyyyyy😭😭😭😭
OMGGGGGGG YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Wait, who’s married?
@@RobbyKauffman7 Shayne lol. Him and Courtney are officially married.
@@angellamb6868I THOUGHT SHE WAS A LESBIAN HELP LMAO 😭😭😭
courtney is bi i believe! ^^
I'm so upset that Spender's "Okay, here's what you do: You hit him with your car" (0:21:26) didn't get any belly laughs. That was so good
no i literally screameddd
That was one of my fave moments of the video too lmfao
I was wheezing😂
LMAO i was looking for this comment, i cackled
RIGHTT IT WAS PERFECT
"it's giving therapy" is the funniest response to someone asking for advice
I’ve been silently watching TH-cam for years and I’ve never left a comment on a video before, but I just wanted to let you guys know that the bit in this video where you all talked about how everyone deals with confrontation & healing differently really just changed something inside me. I’ve been trying to heal from something for 3 years and I always regretted never confronting the person that did it to me, and it wasn’t until now that I realized it’s because I didn’t feel safe enough to. I absolutely love how the entire cast balances their wisdom with goofiness and it gives me hope that I can return to my silly nature one day. Great episode as always :)
You shouldn't feel like you *have* to confront them, either, even now. Lots of people will tell you it's a necessary step to get closure, but for some people it isn't. Coming to terms with your own feelings about it and accepting that the actions of others who have hurt you were out of your control, but you can continue on living your life despite the hurt you've been dealt... that's really what matters, that's what "confronting it" is about. You're not a coward, or doing it wrong, or whatever, for handling your own healing in your own way.
@@islaythejabberwokkyto add, it’s 100% ok to only “confront” someone through writing it on paper or an email or a voice memo that never leaves your possession.
"He didn't account for the y-axis" had me dying as a math person 😂😂😂
Genuinely such a good line
lol it had me dying as a minecrafter
That was clip worthy
nerd alert:
little math fact, while in minecarft the y axis is used for 'vertical', in many other system it's actually the z that responds to that. That's how it works in blender and in quakes/source engines. And if you google some math formulas and models, z is the height.
@@somnvm37 Come through with the math knowledge!!! Love it!
"He didn't account for the y-axis" Spencer has been absolutely knocking it out of the park lately.
For the coffee shop guy, in his defense he might not communicate that he wants alone time because he can’t. I’ve been in a relationship with someone who would get upset if I didn’t want to spend all my free time with her. She didn’t understand that I needed some time for just me. And when I tried communicating that to her, it caused a huge fight.
Why should he be required to even communicate that...if he can understand that his wife wants to spend "her" Sunday morning sleeping in, why can't she understand he wants to spend "his" Sunday morning sitting in a coffee shop wasting time on his phone. The only one lacking in the communication depart is the woman who tracks her husband's phone, is bad at basic math when determining timeframes and will pretend to be asleep to find out when her husband leaves the house. She even sent her sister out on surveillance...this is someone who needs to learn how to communicate.
I mean, the thing is, she didn’t mind him going out for a run or going to the coffee shop on his own. The things she found weird was him staying there, and then lying about it. Everyone tracks phones nowadays, that’s why things like Life360 exist. Granted, her sister, spying on him was pretty creepy and too far, but his behavior was kind of weird. This couple needs a lot more communication on both sides.
@@eyeruscat9439-My ex didn’t mind me going for a run or going to a coffee shop to pick up coffee for her either. But if I stayed at the coffee shop on my laptop (it was before smart phones) then it was a problem and I would absolutely have to lie to her or she’d pick a fight with me. Again, I’m not saying this is the case with them, but based on how she framed some of the story and the fact that she sent her sister to spy, I’m willing to bet I’m not far off the mark.
@@Sleepyjack30 you’re not “required” to do anything in a relationship. him communicating would just be the smart thing to do.
@@eyeruscat9439 But he didn't lie about anything...if he left the house at 9:45, ten minutes there and back each and he said he was there working for about an hour...if he returned at 11:10, that's only 5 minutes of unaccounted time.
Somehow hearing 'Two beautiful submarines' was one of the wildest things I've heard from smosh reddit.
i love that shayne knew that off the top of his head too. it's giving roman empire lol
@@rosievolts4967 It’s just so iconic though. It’s one of those things that you hear it and just can’t forget
@@rosievolts4967they did build paved roads and aqua ducts so I do think about the Roman empire a lot.
@Svol09 not to mention their concrete is better than modern concrete 🤯
@@adamvancil2311 bro how tf is that coliseum still stands almost the same it was like what 2000y ago or whatever I don't know for sure? We need the re ipe, ffs the building I used to live in fell...twice hahahha
Angela & Spencer + Shayne = Shayne's demise by laughter
Shanye excuse to have angela and spencer as guests on this ep is so he could work on his abs as the same time
I think that's AS S 💀
my fav duo just bc of the chaotic energy
also ours demise by laughter
@@uyuyuyuya☠️☠️☠️
These videos are literally a therapy session for me… adults having emotionally mature conversations. It’s so utterly comforting and refreshing
“He didn’t account for the y-axis.” Nearly made me choke on my string cheese
timestamp??
@@janine295714:21
yo I was eating string cheese while watching this as well lol
@_Lesbian_Ghost_ thanks!
It is also seems to be a Young Sheldon reference?
"The age gap is big, but he *looks* and *acts* young so it's okay. :)"
Okay. 99% of the time, *that's* the problem with those relationships. If anybody acts like they are far, far less mature, and like they're in a younger part of life, they mentally did not grow beyond that part of life. So no. That's not good, actually. xD
they were being sarcastic 😂
they don’t actually believe that
@@alechappito8765 No, no, no. I'm quoting the person who wrote that. I realize these three were joking. xD
First off, you've never drank from a water source that stops your body and mind from maturing and dying so I think you should maybe put yourself in other people's shoes before you just start judging 250 year olds. 😡
😂😂😂😂🫂
@@RealBradMiller "actually the 40 year old man is in the body of a kid so him dating her is fine because his current mind and body are her age"
young at hearts should get with each other that are the same irl age
I'm single, been for years and have never really had anything to hide. I put my phone down face down because I would keep checking every notification if the screen was up. It's so natural to me and to me it's insane that people think it's cheater behavior
I doubt they think that alone is cheater behaviour! It's probably in combination with other stuff like always bringing the phone everywhere, tilting it away etc.
I’ve been accused of being sus as well when literally it’s my way of trying to lock in with the person I’m with. The action has been tarnished by cheaters.
it’s definitely only suspicious if it’s in combination with other suspicious behaviour!!
Both me and my partner just put our phones down without thought tbh, sometimes with the screen facing down and sometimes without. There’s nothing else suspicious about phone usage so it’s not thought about more by either of us
I have to be really really stoned to have enough personal security to leave my phone face up but I was also the kid that stole books from the school library because of the strange, unexplainable embarrassment and horror I had for 99% of my life about people knowing what I was reading or watching. I literally just don’t want people to see my normal ass app alerts. I hide my phone screen so my parents don’t see my TH-cam notifications when we’re out getting lunch and I’m a grown adult😂
I do feel like it was a little more fair that I didn’t want the stern mom librarian to see I was checking out manga and horror books 💀 not being asked why I like something but just “what are you reading/watching/looking at” and then intense judgement from adults and peers was too much for my little audhd brain to handle
i grew up in a household without ANY privacy, so it's second nature for me to place my phone face-down or turn off my notifications or hide my screen. i've never had a room to myself in my life so tilting the screen away while my siblings tried to look over my shoulder is a subconscious thing i do. and usually it's not even anything i have to hide! sometimes it's just a smosh video but i'm so conditioned to hide my screen that i do it anyway. i feel like sometimes it's just the type of person you are. crazy.
"The nerfs are in the gun."
Angela I love you
That phrase is a mood
Same 😂
Required by California law actually
I didn't even notice anything wrong or funny about it at first I was like " yes girl youre so right "
This is weird but the way Spencer looked at her after that made me melt idk 😭🫠🩷
13:36 "The NERFs are in the gun" Shayne and Spencer are influencing Angela, she's getting dorkier. Love that for her
I love that for us. Her interactions are getting funnier.
I think she smoke too much nerf bullet in the latest gentlement try not to win mario party.
The log has hit the net 🤣
"She was way too into me" BRO WHERES THE ACCOUNTABILITY 🤣 you were IN HER. Polyamorous woman here, veeeery crucial to have communication before AND DURING.
Great point!!
For real, he's acting like it was all one-sided when he was VERY MUCH participating in that.
I fault them both in this case- he could have said something to her when he saw she was being excluded. She could have said something to them, when she felt like she was getting left behind.
It can be awkward, but it's essential, esp in ENM.
All of them were so respectful of this open relationship which is very cool but i couldn’t help but feel like there was a hole in the story when the wife literally watched her husband finish with this specific third even when after the fact he’s like “yeah she was too into me”??? Like sir - this is not yalls first rodeo and suddenly you forgot your wife at the finish line? Huh?!
I don’t like that she said they just do it with women too. Like I get it if maybe only she is bi or something but idk in these situations it feels a little weird when it’s just the guy doing it with 2 women. Also he should’ve put a stop to it if he tried multiple times to include her and then it wasn’t working (I know she could’ve too but I can only imagine the heart shattering experience she just had just watching THEM in THEIR intimate moment). In situations like that respect and communication is crucial and it seems like he just got what he wanted and was like , “oh yeah sorry about that”.
angela and spencer are dressing like it’s a costume party where you’re supposed to dress like a straight guy obsessed with IPAs.
edit: honestly shayne too
I think Shayne kinda just IS the straight guy obsessed with ipas.
Ps idk Shayne’s sexuality, it’s for the joke
It's a good vibe 🤙
As a straight guy obsessed with IPAs, this is incredibly accurate
I think they look good tho
@@GaaraFan01Oh, it isn't a bad thing! They look comfy as hell... Actually, I'm usually in khakis or shorts, but I dress the same.
Not obsessed with IPAs.. red wine.. and I'm queer. Slayyyy. 😂
baffles me how all these women go "i don't wanna accuse him without any proof!!1!" THE PROOF IS THE ENTIRE SITUATION WHAT DO YOU MEAN NO PROOF
There's 2 extremes, either people accuse over pretty much nothing, or there's 10 layers of proof and they still don't want to see it. 😄
@@ChrystalVanDusseldorp the devastating truth. It really interesting how often people are also really good at spotting issues in others' relationships but are often completely oblivious to their own lol
But is it tangible
@@silver7knight389lol yeah she literally had text message proof.
It’s because we are subject to gaslighting and tend to backdown so we need extra receipts to stand strong
I love how the guy from the first story had such a guilty conscience that he took issue with her changing the sheets too slowly and accused her of searching
1:10:31 "what if he's seeing the sister" SPENCER THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED
The thought crossed my mind as well...
Angela looks like my Uber Eats driver that's about to make fun of me for ordering pasta
I don’t like how accurate this is lmao
Yeah I can picture this playing out
Good thing Angela would never do that bc she also loves pasta
@@rebbyberard8150 Sometimes you have to judge people for liking the same kind of food because of the time or what’s in/on it (think pizza lovers judging people for eating pizza for breakfast or having pineapple on pizza)
“You’re getting pasta from Olive Garden?” 🤨
49:02 “so he was in…” “…her” 💀 Spencer with the immaculate timing once again
“She’s got a house?” - Same Spencer, same. Lol 😆
What a great trio for this episode.
What pisses me off is the TWO different women who were like “I don’t want to confront him without any proof” WITHOUT PROOF?!?! The first lady SAW HER HUSBAND GET A KISS ON THE CHEEK FROM HER 20 YEAR OLD NEIGHBOR WHILE HE WAS LEAVING HER HOUSE! ARE YOUR EYES NOT PROOF ENOUGH?!?! THE SECOND GOT A TEXT FROM HER HUSBAND BASICALLY SAYING “here’s this nude you asked for” WHEN SHE DIDN’T ASK FOR ONE!!! SOMEONE CLEARLY ASKED FOR THAT PHOTO AND IT WASN’T YOU!!! WHAT MORE PROOF DO THESE WOMEN NEED?!
Husbands are masters at gaslighting their wives.
“Kiss? What kiss?”
“Nude? What nude!”
In this instance its possible that when they say proof they may actually mean tangible physical evidence
They probably mean proof so that they have a stronger case in divorce proceedings.
Seeking tangible proof, as others suggest, is definitely a possibility, especially if you're talking divorce. The financial difference between divorce on grounds of infidelity and divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences can be considerable.
That said, even without that, i get the desire to want more evidence and then more again. Your partner is doing everything they can think of to wallpaper over it and convince you it's nothing--lying at best, gaslighting at worst. Plus you've got a lot of investment in this person, and maybe it's just emotionally easier to blame yourself and believe that it's nothing if it means you don't have to face the betrayal of the person you trusted most.
Concerning your first reference, and precluding any other red flags: I (41M American) have seen men and women in close relationships kissing cheeks as part of their goodbyes for as long as I have lived. My concern isn't about the kiss on the cheek, it's about who it is with. I'd be thinking, "when did you two become so close?"
Story 5 - I'm non-monogamous and have been in this very situation. If the husband felt she was 'too into him', and this third woman was leading the situation in a way not everyone was comfortable (husband would have known the wife was uncomfortable), then it should have stopped immediately. The husbands behaviour is suspicious. It's good to hear he agreed not to meet her again, but he hasnt been entirely honest, and wife is still hurting. More communication is needed, 100%.
I have been in a situation similar and my hunch is that he has seen her many times alone, secretly already.
"oh yeah, it was weird right?" 👀 Same vibe as Slavic bro
The husband didn't cheat, nor he was not acting suspicious. As soon as it was brought up that it made her uncomfortable he agreed to not meet the new girl again. Saying "husband would have known the wife was uncomfortable" is bullshit, people aren't mind readers and not everyone can read body language well. If she was really that bothered there was literally nothing stopping her from ending it. More communication is definitely needed, the wife needs to communicate when she is uncomfortable with something instead of waiting until after and then going to reddit with the issue.
@@Ravensblood95I totally get what you’re saying, but in situations like this you and your partner need to be able to read each other and check in throughout the hook up nonverbally (or verbally if wanted) to see if everyone is happy and comfortable. It sounds like in this specific situation that the wife was really left out and the husband even says he noticed and tried to get the wife more involved but it was failed attempts. it should have been paused after both parties noticed the wife was not receiving the appropriate amount of attention in this situation. Overall, there just really needs to be more communication before, during and after
@Ravensblood95 he said he knew already, but didn't do anything about it while it was happening.
If he knew, why didn't he try to fix it right away? He only waited until the wife brought it up.
Angela teases Spencer for not getting to a joke quick enough and Spencer gives Angela the Look of Judgement when she says a joke that doesn't land lmao.
Lmao water friends for if not to help each other grow? 🤣
I think it's cute lol
I'm a single mom to 3, I spend roughly 90 percent of my time with my children. I know them well. And I still draw a total blank whenever someone asks me how old they are, or when I have to verify middle names or birthdays at appointments. It doesn't mean I don't love them or pay attention to them, it just means I forgot for a second, and that's a thing that can happen to anybody. Not everything is that deep.
My brother was born on my 9th birthday, and EVEN THEN I still have to do the math every year for how old he's going to be 😅
He's turning 21 this year😢❤
My mum often forgets the year I was born and I’m her only child. I’ve always found that funny, rather than offensive. My maternal grandparents are grandpa and grandma, as I never called them nor knew them otherwise (they passed away when I was young, though). Hell, I sometimes need a second when someone asks me my own name.
Thats an obvious problem people have, the literal thing they talked about where you blank when asked a question. But that guy called those things "super niche" when they ARENT which proves he doesn't care much to know them. Not only that but if that was the case, he'd just tell her that..? He didn't blank, he just didn't know lmao. If he blanked he would've said that when someone literally asked him if he did in the comments.
I ended up with a insurance problem because when we went to a insta-care place I totally misspelled my daughter's middle name! Insurance then claimed that person didn't exist. oops! 😅 there wew two ways we were gonna spell it and i guess wrong every single time 😅
00:02 the colour of shaynes shirt against the chair made him look like he has MEGA SWOLE shoulders lmao I had to do a double take.
For the threesome story I think there are two main parts that are making her so uncomfortable with it all. 1) she said he’s never made love to her like he did with the other girl. She’s feeling left out of that connection with him. To me, that would make me spiral into wondering if my partner loves me like how he loved having that moment with the other girl. Maybe they could have someone on one time where she gets to see that he wants to have the type of sex with her too. 2) when she brought up the situation to him, he said “yeah she was definitely way too into me”. He doesn’t acknowledge that he played a role in it and went too far. He puts the blame all on the other girl which makes OP feel bad about questioning his role in it. I think the guy needs to own up and show OP that he wants to have intimate sex with her like that too.
Very good points!
Great take!
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(edit is in parenthesis and second paragraph) My ex and I did this. We had made sure to set up rules and boundaries. Why I expected her to follow these seems wild to me now since I found out she had BPD. (It explained soooo much behavior of hers). I got about 5 minutes of attention from either combined. I eventually just left the room, feeling disgusting and sad. I later talked to her about it and how uncomfortable it made me, that I didn't want to do it anymore. The next week she had met up with him on her own, breaking another rule, and also went back on her promise to not see him again. She claimed she was the biggest lesbian too. Wild.
It was about 30 minutes while I was in there and she just went wild. I'd never seen that from her. They went for another hour and a half while I just sat in the living room trying not to listen and just watch TV to calm down
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That’s what I was locked on to was that she said she was watching them make love and he said asked for this girl specifically as OP mentioned early on in the story and she confronted him and all he said was the girl was to into him last I knew it took two to make love
First story..... Girl let the other chick have him if he doesn't even have a bank account. He was already nowhere and looks like he has no hope of going anywhere else
PLENTY of people refuse to use banks, doesn't mean they don't have money lmao. Plus, he could have had a secret bank account. We don't have that information. Don't be a gold-digger stereotype.
Regardless, get rid of him because he's a cheater, not because he doesn't have money smgdh.
My dad has never had a bank account, and he built his own house. He's paranoid about banks and a little nutty, but he's not broke.
@@sarkaztik3228even if he had money, why would it be okay to lie about it…..
@@sarkaztik3228eh it’s less a gold digger thing than a responsibility thing. Sure people can choose not to use a bank and that’s their prerogative, but I think OP stated something like “he doesn’t have money like that”, so it sounds like he really doesn’t have savings of any kind. That’s bad if you’re considering a long term relationship bc if you want to eventually buy a house or have kids, you REALLY should both have savings so the financial burden isn’t on any one person. So, both a cheater and potentially not financially stable, no great loss.
@@sarkaztik3228oh be quiet. If anybody was taking advantage of the other in the relationship it was the person who was in a relationship with somebody whose brain was still developing.
"not have a bank account
CAN YOU DO THAT?!"
as a 32 yo?!
That is WILD
Jobless drug dealer is all that comes to my mind.
@@beewest5704 I work in retail, there are a lot of people who do not have bank accounts because they do not trust banks. It's a lot more common in poorer communities than it is in more affluent ones.
Allegedly (according to his own statements) the current speaker of the house of representatives Mike Johnson doesn't have a bank account either
For the TikTok relationship test one, I’m reminded of the “name a woman” video. Even people who are normally very competent will just forget how to answer simple questions when put on the spot.
Yes that was the video that came to my mind as well. Women were fully blanking out even though they could have just said their own name. 🤷🏻♀️
I mean, that's the entire point of those videos; it's well-known that a lot of people's brains blank under pressure, especially when they know they're being recorded, and they leverage that fact to cause drama between couples in order to farm views.
Hell, even when someone (especially in a bit of a group setting or when I’m rather nervous) asks me my name my answer is sometimes “Uh…. [Danandhoe]” for some reason. As if I have to think of my own name for a moment. It’s weird.
Ah yes. Billy on the Street
Oof I’ve had moments like that. One time I got the question “What month comes before December?” And I totally blanked. My birthday is in November 🙄
Spencer has been on fire lately. Really pushing for that full cast member position.
Newer-ish Smosh Viewer 🙋♀️ - Did Spencer say he is trying to be a cast member, or is it fans just wanting him to be one?
@@janohanovella7385pretty sure it’s just the fandom reacting lol
Like with Tommy, I feel that considering he's already crew, it wouldn't make sense for him to be a cast member, not less that switch over account for a difference in pay, whatever it may be. The two of them already feel like cast members, so I don't really get the big deal about it.
@@janohanovella7385 Been watching since 2021. My understanding is that both he and Tommy are editors, which were originally their only function. But since they gradually appeared in more videos for various reasons (short-staffing, last-minute changes, their obvious on-camera charisma), and have appeared regularly for a while now, they essentially became part of the cast, for all intents and purposes. Essentially, but not officially I suppose. This seeming contradiction, along with their unusual path to semi-cast status, has become an in-joke within the cast, though they don't mention it as much as they used to.
Isn't he in charge of Games? Being a cast member would be a significant downgrade in his position at the company.
this is the holy trinity for real, the vibes are immaculate. Spencer and Angela need to be in more videos together as well man
I love Reddit stories because it's the perfect balance of silly and earnest. Seeing Angela and Spencer be genuinely thoughtful and considerate while also being lil goofballs is the perfect mix. I hope this show never goes away.
Their energy matches so well together, perfect duo for this series 👍
Yup!! I also love when Chance is there too, or Courtney, or Amanda... literally anyone but always Angela!!!
Who else thought when Shayne started that last story, it was the story about the guy who secretly snuck out of the house every night to steal onions from their HOA communal garden 😅
😂 forgot that!!
My brain said "He's going to Panera!" 😂
YES LOL my first comment at the screen
Jajajajajaj that one guy
I thought it was the guy who would go out to “questionable areas” of the city and pick up young girls to take them where they need to go.
Seriously, Spencer's on a roll right now, he's so funny. So glad we can witness him coming out of his shell over the years.
Fr he's actually awesome
Angela and Spencer look like two southern dads chugging beers sat on a couch on the porch waiting for their kids to come home from school
Ayup
I tell ya hwaht.
TO BE CLEAR: Threats of any kind have no place in personal relationships! The fact that she chose a threat based on what she knows from being his partner is, more specifically, emotional abuse. It’s abusive to do anything with the sole intent of causing your partner pain, fear, or discomfort. Without intent it can also be abuse - cruelty is easily learned and runs in families. But regardless of intent it is damaging and destructive - and it matters if your partner cares to figure out how not to hurt you. (That does not include neglecting to do what your partner wants, not meant to give credence to the “you’re abusive because you didn’t clean the house and that upsets me.” Cause abusers also like to claim they/re being neglected in order to pressure/threaten partners into doing something they don’t want to. I’m talking about cruel comments and actions, context is always important.)
Yep. She's _at least_ as toxic as he was. She threatened him multiple times throughout their relationship, and then posted about the follow-through on reddit. She's totally proud of what she did.
Spencer: "Ok here's what you do...... You hit him with your car"
I choked. Could not stop laughing. And got zero reaction from Shayne and Angela.
😂right. I love his comments😂😂..I think they're too use to him.
36:17
>Angela's top tier Bad Joke
>Spenser's answering Look of Disapproval
>Angela already shaking her head in self-reflection
honestly it was 2 seconds of action that told a full story arc, it was poetic, and I'm crying from laughter
The bit when Angela with the nerfs are loaded was similar (13:36 ), I think it's so cute because he still has a little smile and just stares at her hahah. Ok the nerfs are in the gun is what she said 😂
24:43 I live by the rule that my great grandma taught me and that is "everybody gets respect cuz that is a right bc you don't know what's going through their life but once you disrespect me my people or the place I live you have earned my disrespect" another thing my grandma taught me was you don't need to be nice to be polite
yea i think there's a baseline amount of respect by default and it can either go down or up depending on how the person treats me.
i would use this rule when i was a cashier lol, i was polite and if the person was nice i'd become super friendly. if they were mean, i'd be really direct and try to hurry the conversation along lmao
Yup! People who think you have to earn respect ONLY MEAN ONE WAY. They never think they have to earn your respect, they think you have to respect them and earn THEIR respect. It’s a superiority complex, nothing to do with respect
@@Duckduckobtusegooseon the flip side, my dad always told me I had to respect him solely because he’s my father, even though he never respected me and actively disrespected me (along with a bunch of other things a good parent doesn’t do). As an adult, I finally stood up for myself and told him he needs to earn my respect and well let’s just say that didn’t go over too well lol
this!!@@Duckduckobtusegoose
*Basic Human Respect*
Angela is to Spencer as Amanda is to Shayne
Both duos i never would have picked out, but are absolutely comedicly perfect together
truer words have never been said
THIS🎯‼️
For the Slovak story, I'm eastern European and it's a tradition to 1 . Name the son after the father and 2. To name a child after a person you like and hope them to be like them ( me and my sister were named after girls my mom really liked)
So it could be either his kid or not , unless they do a DNA test you can't really know
Maybe the cousin was suspicious of which one it was (father or just a person she thought was cool), and wanted him to see the kid and witness the reaction.
I love how despite this being a lot of extra context, it does absolutely nothing to help figure out which one it is
Yeah I was also like "it is kind of thing to give aspirational names to children sometimes in Eastern Europe" something along the lines of names holding power etc
What I found concerning was the line from the woman "I don't speak any Slavik". How do you not even know the name of your husbands language? Or Shayne might've misspoken.
Angela and Spencer are such a comedic duo, and it fits perfectly with today’s stories. Very nice!
Spencer's slow turn and smirking glare at Angela when she said "They come in three parts" was my favorite lmao.
And Angela shaking her head in disgust at her own joke 😆
36:20
“Red card. Yellow card.” ‘Ocean Avenue’ lmaooo
This was such a trip. Red flag. Red card. Yellow card. Ocean Avenue.
Duuuuuude.
Honestly hearing the takes from so many different people on Smosh has opened my eyes to different solutions in tricky situations. All of them mature thought out opinions too, so healthy.
3:58 no, not having a bank account is wild. Especially since most jobs prefer direct deposit now
There’s also the “How do you store money? “ question lol
fr! when i heard that i immediately assumed hes just a broke deadbeat 30+ year old mooching off his 20 sumn girlfriend..
@@marcgw496physical money☺️I know someone who keeps most of his money in a safe and only what he needs to pay bill in a bank account when the bills need to be paid.
What about those cards like chime, does that count as a bank account? Also how does she know he doesn't have a bank account? Pretty easy thing to lie about it's not like she can really check
Not to mention that the only way to cash paychecks involves fees from whatever store or bank ypu randomly choose.
36:19 “they come in 3 parts”
I can just hear Chanse going “angelaaaa” in my head
The look spencer gave her when she said that 😂😂
And Shayne just completely ignoring it 😂😭
Angela and Spencer’s chemistry is so good.
I'm from Slovakia and she was joking imho. he probably has some ridiculously common name like Martin or Jozef or Ján and when he asked if the child was named after him she just said yes with the dryest sarcastic tone. and he was there in 2019,the child has to be at most 4years and 4months otherwise the math is not mathing. also the way she describes his demeanor screams honesty
Yes, I also wanted to write that we don't have so many names as option to give our kids. We can give only names from our calendar or very basic foreign names, it is mandated by law.
This was a childhood friend as well - one whose life didn’t afford her opportunities of schooling/life in a Western country (whether real of perceived). I could see her naming her baby after the “boy from the hood who got out and is now a fancy Westerner.” I’m from a Slavic country so this line of thinking makes sense (even though it’s a weird romanticization IMO). Also explains why the cousin (who grew up with largely the same set of opportunities as this woman) specifically wanted to reconnect them. Can some former kid immigrants back up my logic here?
I also think it’s not that weird, in a specific context… if this guy has moved to a different country from a small village, and was successful, he’s probably the guy they all aspire to and talk about the one “who made it”, in that context, imo, I’d see someone naming their kid after him normal.
It happens where I’m from (even though I’m not from a village 😅😂)
Aww when Angela whispered “I’m sorry” to Spencer after ragging on his bad joke. That was sweet
Do you have a time stamp I need to witness this :D
@@LanDoesThings 32:30
@@yup.its.erin. thank you :>
Oh my god that’s adorable!!!
Shayne can you please read "AITA for secretly dating my bestfriend for 3 yrs and only spilling the beans once we were married" lmao ❤
dude im sorry im saying this as someone with a uterus, "two beautiful submarines" is the funniest thing ive heard all week what the fucking shit i'll think about that forever
I cackled when I heard that. The first image in my head was the two unborn babies talking to each other over radio, lol.
@@theliegeoflettuce854I NEED someone to draw that lmao
Love that Spencer is wearing the exact same outfit as he did in the last one with Courtney two months ago
It’s his George Lucas fit, iconic
Omg it's the exact same outfit that's crazy 😂
His starter pack was accurate😂
Yep, reminded me of 'the Spencer starter pack' meme.. 😂😂
He's a King who isn't afraid to be caught repeating outfits
"the nerfs are in the gun" (13:35) might be one of my favourite things angela has ever said
Anyone else constantly refresh TH-cam until the episode drops or is that just me? Let's go!!
Me!
SAMMMEEE
I was doing this for an hour while at work! I checked every couple of minutes 😂
That’s so valid😂😂😂
Lmao that’s exactly what I do as soon as it hits 1pm
37:02 speaking as someone who's not Polyamorous, the husband should have stopped the "threesome" immediately when he felt the other girl was too into him and not into his wife. As soon as he recognized that, it needed to end. The wife is definitely within her rights to feel the way she does. But she also needed to bring it up as it happened, and she absolutely needs to have an in-depth conversation with her husband now.
For real, or the wife should have got up and walked away. The act should have immediately ended after that. If not, theres your problem. Something about the wife sitting there watching this just sounds like she went the traumatic route unfortunately
It's also a good idea to have a safe word, for all 3 of them, in the case that something uncomfortable is happening. But sometimes you don't know you need something like that until it happens.
@@ChrystalVanDusseldorpthat's a good point. There should always be a safe word, even when only two people are in the bed together.
The husband was foul for continuing for sure, so cruel to do that right in your wife’s face. I would never be able to see him without seeing the look he gave to someone else. Also I don’t believe he was chill about letting her go bc he didn’t care, I think he knew what he did and he was trying not to act suspicious.
Hmm, I don't quite agree here, and this is as A polyamorous person though I don't engage in threesomes (some of my partners do though.)
Without her specifically indicating to him that she was upset, it may not have been clear whether or not she was into it on some level.
Just as his turn on is seeing the third partner engage with his wife, maybe he thought, okay, she isn't stopping this- so maybe it's okay to move forward?
She's also vague about how this woman did and didn't include her- I've had couples want to engage with me where it's very clear that the intent is for one partner or the other to primarily interact, while the other is...there. A gigantic component within ENM it's open and clear communication. Talk about everything. Be clear. Be specific. You can have sex with other people? Okay what does sex mean to both partners. It means penetration? Okay penetration where? Is this only at their home or only at your own? If sex is okay is kissing okay? None of this can be assumed, at least until you have some pretty solid groundwork laid.
Maybe the husband should have known how to gauge his wife better, but they both need to openly clearly communicate, and she could have said something. You can always say something.
That was a throwaway joke but I genuinely think that the story about the coffee shop is ENTIRELY plausible that he really is seeing the sister. That's why she had no problem spying on another human. Because remember he was not wanting to talk about the situation at all.
“He didn’t account for the y-axis” has to be the funniest thing I’ve ever heard
I dated someone that, at 34 years old, "didn't believe in bank accounts". He kept money hiding all over the place. He'd often miscalculate how much he had. He often lost and found money around as well.
Were you dating nick miller from new girl??😂(hopefully you get the reference)
@@sarahparr565 Pretty much 😂
ngl i do that shit too and have a bank account i have like 4 piles of money hidden 🤣😭
I completely agree with shane. You don't need to know everything to know that it's a bad situation. The more you know the more hurt you are just understand that you were f***** over they can't undo it and move on.
I don’t understand a person in their 30’s who wants to date someone a decade younger than them.
its so they can have power over someone whos not matured, or experienced as much as they are so that they ultimately have some sort of power over them.
@@sonailee3619 I definitely agree
It's called love, you wouldn't know that...my gf is 26 I'm 35 and I love her more than anything in the world. Sometimes people love each other dude.
@@Svol09 That’s adorable
@@fredskull1618 not really, it feels normal for me, we have much in common and share same type of dreams and hopes. I do understand how it might be seen as a big difference but we never thought about it and nobody in our circle ever questioned our love. It's the crazy, stupid love to be cheesy hehe. Anyways not everyone likes overpowering others, sometimes age( over 20 imo) doesn't matter, just don't take advantage of others I guess... Shayne Spencer and Angela seem a bit too much into blaming older people in relationships of wanting something but it ain't always like that.
2:54 “they were fucking and her phone was charging!” 😂
“🖕Charging🖕”
Same energy as “And they were roommates!”
would love to see another marriage/wedding reddit stories episode! with courtney and amanda (obviously)
Angela's optimism on the last story gives me hope. Puppies and a castle? Beautiful.
My first language is not English , one of the most useful and enjoyable sources of learning English for me is reddit stories episodes on this channel , I also get to laugh a lot while learning English , honestly couldn't be better . Thank you so much Smosh 👍❤
love this for you! thanks for sharing!
Your English is great! I wish you best of luck with your language studies ☺
@@katie18976 Thank you so much for saying that ❤️ I remember when I first started to watch Smosh back in 2019 , I couldn't really understand what they were saying , and I couldn't even write any comments in English . Now in 2024 i can't believe I'm able to understand all the things they talk about and write English comments . It's like Smosh has been my teacher 😅 ( I learned English by self-study at home
“The nerfs are in the gun” should be on a tshirt. Also the “he didn’t account for the y-axis”. All shirt worthy quotes.
Shakira finding out that she was being cheated on because someone was eating the strawberry jam that no one in her house liked.
That was wild, she must’ve known before and that was the big confirmation.
SHAKIRA?
Shakira???
@@jl7662 yeah, one her most popular song from last year was a diss track for both of them.
@@jennatandy6272 From what I remember he had cheated on her many times before (allegedly), but because of the jam she hired investigators to follow him or something like that. It was a very big deal in Latin America lmao.
As a teacher, the lady mad at her spouse over failing a "relationship quiz" makes me worried for her as a teacher because test anxiety is real. I've watched countless students freeze all the way up on information they know on tests
wait i didn’t even think abt that oh my GODDDD
If he just froze up he could've communicated that to his wife and there wouldn't be a problem. I don't think that's what happened when he's calling her allergies super specific niche information he shouldn't be expected to know.
@Bellehrhsgd you put a lot of words into how mouth he never said what he said was "the questions started basic and got more niche, and i couldnt answer some straight away or correctly" so i think its a little strange how youre trying to twist it
@Bellehrhsgd Yeah, no. I freeze up to the point of not being able to answer when asked of my name, so not being able to communicate when put on the spot like that is very understandable for me. Everyone reacts differently to this kinda thing after all!
Calling it rn next reddit stories will be about weddings
PLEASE WITH COURTNEY😭💀
They just won't acknowledge it in the whole video
Shayne makes such a good point that I think I will try and use moving forward. I have always had a hard time telling people how I've felt about things because I always view everything as confrontational, however, if it's between people that respect one another it isn't necessarily confrontation but rather communication. That is a great callout!
As somone who grew up never knowing my dad past age four because he was on drugs the last story is infuriating. He may have started by helping the children, but in the end started aiding in her addiction and making it to where she might have never gotten better. It seems like he never really cared abt the kids.
Very true
Yeah the op has every right to feel the way she does. But more importantly, what happened to the kids. If he really wanted to help why didn't he at least help those kids by calling cps. Even they end out of their mother's custody that might be best right now. And if he really wanted to help the mother, why didn't he try to get her in rehab? I say this as someone whose own family has gone through the same thing.
4:42 it’s a red hair-ing
"Here's what you do - you hit him with your car" thank you Spencer
Reddit theme ideas!:
-child care providers sharing wild stories about bad parents or crazy children,
-nightclub stories or bar stories
-festival or rave stories
-stories that involve mystery
-a theme where one of the stories shane tells is fake, and the guests have to guess which story is fake.
Great list! I really enjoyed the paranormal type stories I think they did for Halloween, would love more supernatural/unusual type of stories.
I love how reading Reddit stories brings the therapist out of these guys. Love it
It always astonishes me how many people go through life without realizing that the way you confront people is you simply communicate with them.
Loooots of people grow up without learning those skills from people around them (or even worse, are taught to suppress it). It's really sad but I'm proud that there are so many people nowadays breaking those cycles and learning it before bringing up a new generation.
See, as someone who was abused as a child, when you say "simply communicate with them", what I FEEL is "just put your hand on the hot stove! it's so simple!". Like, good for you, but I've already learned... repeatedly... that the stove is hot and WILL burn me. So I'd rather avoid it...
Is that rational behavior? No. It's a behavior learned through trauma during formative years. We know it's "simply communication", but that doesn't mean it's easy.
@@spencerlively3049hey, you recognise it though. That's a huge step
Who the fck would cheat on Shayne Topp
Augustus St. Cloud would
Ian probably
@@glitchbananaIan 😭
Someone who doesn’t know him through a parasocial relationship I imagine!
Frrr
spencer and angela being my favorite smosh duo for 1 hour 11 minutes and 56 seconds
“The nerfs are in the gun.” I need that sewn on a pillow
There was a below 5’8” height requirement for this episode
*5'6
they’re all three apples tall
EVIL!!
How tall is Shane?
That was rough
I love when Angela and Spencer are in episodes! They make me laugh so hard 😂 they just bounce off each other.
I wish I learned sooner that being assertive doesn't mean being confrontational or aggressive.
It is perfectly OK to communicate your emotions, ask questions and relay your concern.
Asking for clarification from your partner isn't nagging, badgering, annoying or wrong! If they make you feel like it is, then that's a THEM problem!
I agree. Sadly I was never taught that as a child and my mother still acts that way so communication with her is sometimes rather difficult.
@@katie18976 im sorry to hear that. I hope you know that you are a great, whole person with valid feelings, thoughts and opinions :-)
And I hope you have people around to remind you of this, if not then here is your reminder :-D have a great day!
@@DebzDreamz thank you so much, you're an amazing and kind hearted person 🤗 I wish you all the best ❤
I love the short pants club of Angela, Spencer and Shayne. Those plan where we can see all of their socks, shoes, and different cuffed jeans or shorter jeans is very satisfying to me. Shayne gets so much shade for his cuffed jeans, while it’s fine, makes me feels like he’s making it a trend of showing socks on camera for all of the cast.
Also one time he wore really fun socks too
Shayne doing his job discussing a topic while two of his friends are riffing to the side is one of my favorite tropes 😂😂😂 similar energy as the smoshmouth episode with trevor
The way Spencer just stares at Angela after the “nerfs in the gun” comment is hilarious
Not having a bank account is fairly common in low income areas. Managed a few hundred rental homes and I’d say 20% of them were unbanked. They use western unions and check cashing places, payday loan places and paid rent in money orders you can get at USPS or CVS. Unfortunately there are many fees associated with being unbanked, and check cashing places frequently prey on the unbanked, keeping the cycle of poverty going. I wish we taught financial literacy in school.
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