ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ต.ค. 2021
- #FirstKiss #Romance #AryakiJoon
First kisses and 'fairytale romances' have long been glorified in pop culture, through books and romcoms. In the Season 2 premiere of Dirty Talk, @AryakiJoon talks about how the media romanticised her idea of a first kiss vs. what it actually felt like, and why you shouldn't give into the pressure of being sexually experienced.
----
New to our channel?
Check out our favourites:
DIRTY TALK
My Self-Pleasure Journey ft @Avanti Nagral: • My First Time Masturba...
Sex-Ed In Indian Schools ft @Taneeshow: • Indian Sex Education G...
Dirty Talk Playlist: www.terriblytinytales.com/dir... - ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน
Dirty Talk is back with another season of encounters normalising sex and sexuality!
Tell us who you want to see next in the series!
Sharan Nair please
my first kiss wasnt magical too...
the pillow never talked back or said anything
🤡
i am relating to this shit at another level....
Same 😟😒
😂🤣
It didn't even move a little 😔
🤣🤣🤣
Rn the guy is like
Wow, that wasn't embarrassing at all
How can u just assume it was a guy
@@charulsahu because the thumbnail says 'kissed a boy'
@@swayamchandak9402 yeah but the girl in this video is using "them" while describing the person she kissed
@@charulsahu I'm not a homophobe, it doesn't matter if she kissed a boy or a girl. I just commented looking at the thumbnail 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
@@swayamchandak9402 i never accused u of being homophobic i was just pointing out the fact that she used "them"
I love how they referred to their partner with non - gendered pronouns but then people in the comments are like: who was he? Awkward for that guy... and other stuff.
The thumbnail says “I kissed a boy at 19”
Its not that serious
It's not that serious you are making a fuss out of it for no reason
@@user-zb9lb3lw8r they werent making a fuss they were just saying
@@pinkfrogi9061 They said as if all in the comment section are hOmopho accept them, when it's clearly written in the thumbnail it's referred as "him" then let other say whatever they want why ppl literally everywhere have to point this out for no reason -_-
as a 15 year old girl, i agree with the fact that first kisses are glorified so much in media that your actual first kiss might not pass your expectations :// honestly, i never built it up so much, and my first kiss was with my friend (now girlfriend) and it was barely a kiss; it only lasted arounf two seconds 😭 it was extremely awkward and we both just sat there grinning like idiots, but i'm glad i was able to get it out of the way so i could move on to life's other beautiful experiences ❤️ loved the video aryaki akka
Omggg so how long is it supposed to be god y'all r having at 15 I'm 17 ahhhhhhhh 😭
@@sonal4753 omg no don't think like that 😭 the point of the video is that no matter when you have your first kiss, don't worry about it or think about it too much, and focus on other things! a kiss doesn't define your worth and definitely isn't as great as it sounds :D
im 18 and still havent got one . ahhh oohh noooo
@@vardhanarya babe it's okay you ain't the only one 😂 we'll get someone soon hopefully 😤😤
Akka? Are you a telugite?
Am I the only one who's first kiss was actually magical ? Like holy shit the world melted in those 5 seconds
Like admittedly it was a little sloppy but the feeling but being THAT intimate with the person I loved. Her presence was enough to make it magical.
Omg! feels good that someone is truly in love with someone's presence not with their physical parts
Aww🥺
Saksham is that youuu????
@@ishitadwivedi726 *WELP*
yeah ig I am who you think I am
@@andacurryy lmao yeah she's my childhood friend 😂🤦🏼♀️ what are the damn odds
Great and insightful video....movies exaggerate first kisses and makes us feel that it's the ultimate goal of your life
My first kiss was magical. For like 30 seconds I went into a different realm :) and I lost the sense of time and space for a while. Although it was in mid 20s ...xD
So cute xx
Damnn it's like you literally told my story. Never in my life have I related to a video so much!
I had my first kiss a day before my 20th birthday, just because I wanted to have my first kiss as a teenager. And I had high expectations for the kiss because of all the movies and books. But I didn't like the guy much, let alone love, and ended up not feeling anything at all at the time of the kiss. It was a sad revelation. I went home and googled stuff a bit and realised that maybe I am demisexual or asexual. Wish I had this video before. So to everyone out there feeling like me, it's okay to have your first kiss only when you feel like it and not because of any sort of societal pressure.
Don't watch disney movies too much. There is nothing in kiss at all.
thats why they say wait till u marry .......
Why "dirty talks"? Being physical is not dirty,unless its without the person's concern.
And every parent don't want their kid to get physical in such a little age ....u should be 24+ for sure
@@pradyumanpandey2079 thats their own choice buddy
@@pradyumanpandey2079 indian parents say do not sleep with anyone ( boyfriend/girlfriend) and then they want us to marry a stranger and sleep with them
@@sanketkaletwad1501 choice should be their only after 24 age mark.
@@sanketkaletwad1501 agree with this ...but still there is certain age mark to do certain things for sure.
Off Topic:
If Indian parents didn't force their kids for 'fair bride', black color would've been so much appreciated. I literally have fetish for black colored people and I don't know how to say that to my parents lol. I'm sure there are millions of people in India who share the same thoughts as mine.
People aren't "black coloured", you can call them dark skinned but nobody is truly black in colour, even African American people with very dark skin are very close to black but not exactly black. You can refer to their race as black but generally you should just say dark skinned or even brown when you're referring to Indians.
maybe don't use the word "fetish" it's just wrong to fetishize a particular race
I never even had a boy- friend until now .. forget about boyfriend.. 🙄 .. and with that I turned 21 today .
Happy Birthday to me ❤️ 🥳 🥲
Birthday wishes, Shikha! So glad you chose to spend a few moments of this special day with us ❤
24 no boyfriend no kiss 😂 you are not alone
@@harshithabharadwaj5040 same here cheers to us
Don't worry it will be worth the wait when you find the one.
yeahh its cool absolutely .........it will be worth waiting ......maybe u should not get influenced by this genz kids
Well...my first kiss was very amazing to me and was very overwhelming and memorable as well... there are few reasons behind that - 1) it was sudden... it wasn't planned. 2) it was on Valentine's day that's why it's memorable. 3) I didn't expected anything about my first kiss so whatever happened...it was very warm and the pause after that kiss when you both are very close to each other....it was so pure can't explain. 4) my first kiss was with the person whom I was in love with❤️❤️❤️.
i got the same story as uh 😩❤
So you still in love ?
@@omshukla1211 yeah I was gonna the same ques
I literally blame ffs for those unrealistic scenarios that I create in my head.
ff??
@@vardhanarya fan fictions
Lmao 🤣
I had my first kiss today I was literally shaking like omfggg my heart was beating really fast I loved the kiss I shared with my bf
It's nothing dirty, this thing need to be normalize.
are it's an irony I think
"It will happen by 16, 19 or even 25"
But I am 26 :(
I have never even been on a date
Bruh, you 26?
@@user-xt3lu6hp8e yes born in 1995
I feel a lil better coz I thought I was the only one who was 20 and still have never been on a date;)
am i the only one who had a whole french one at 15 💀
My first kiss was just a peck, but the proper one happened the next day. It wasn't the best, neither was it romantic. I just felt so comfortable with him invading my personal space, which doesn't happen to me with a lot of ppl. It was good and its been 3 years since. I'm glad a could share my first kiss with someone I share a connection with. Hopefully he's my last too.
- Also a demisexual who feels like we need to talk more about how it's the emotional connection that drives us rather than the physical attraction.
Ab ye demisexual kya hota h.
Kya kya term log invent kr rhe h ajkal. Lemme google
bhai emotional connection ki to baat hi mat karo in liberal, feminist logone to sex ko itna important bana diya ki kya batao matlab saal hook up aur one night, aur ab sexual liberation ki wajah se hum sex ko emotionless bana rahe hai , so ab in logo ko samaj aa gaya ki emotions are important than sex , aur indian culture me to pehle sehi sex = strong emotional bond hota hai to , aur culture bura hai humara to ab kyu nahi bol rahe , bhai indian culture is the best culture in world, aur me to ek hi insan ke saath log term rehna cahata hu to isiliye me marriage per bharosa rakhata hu , ye gf bf sab temporary hota real life partner to saadi ke baat hi hona chahiye , aur sex bhi saadi ke baad hi hona chahiye jiske saath app life time rahonge 👍👍
@@demon_544 bhai feminist ka mtlb jano phir unke blame kro💀
apart from everything else, can we talk about the animation used in this video
Y'all don't be embarrassed for not being more sexually experienced and it's okay to have sloppy, bad first kiss because we'll learn over the years
My first kiss was magical....we were in a river bank it was a full moon and clear sky with shinning starts and the winter with peaceful atmosphere...we were listening to songs and it happened very slowly...my god I get goosebumps thinking about this....now we are in a relationship for almost 4 months ❤️...hope everything works out !
The only realistic first time story on this channel finallyy
Word.
It’s alarming how much I relate to each word.
I am 16 and I haven't had a boyfriend before, I have never kissed and I have never been on a date whereas on the other hand all my friends or people I know of my age have done it all and I kind of feel embarrassed and left out because my friends share their stories and I have nothing to tell them about. I also feel that I have never experienced it all because I am ugly and no one wants to be with me. I have body image issues and Social anxiety disorder that's why I never go out to even hang out with my friends and I literally hate that I am just the way I am. I have accepted it that I am ugly and that no one wants to be with me so I have no expectations.
GURL I LITRALLY RELATE TO YOU SO MUCH LIKE
@@bhanujakhatana9727 SAME
Hey ,sis no one is ugly . People are beautiful ❤️ by their behaviour and qualities.
I hate that you feel this way but if I've to be very honest, please don't be this harsh on yourself. It's all about confidence and that'll come only when you actually like the person you're becoming. And 16 is super young, there's so much life has for you girl! Sending a big warm hug!!
LMAO INSTEAD OF LOOSING, TRY TO WORK ON YOURSELF GO TO GYM MAKE YOURSELF BETTER
You should bring in Unnati Malharkar for the next episodes..
This is literally my story. I relate to you so much and not just me i think so many people do.
I can relate to each and every part of this video...like I have my first kiss when I'm 19 with my friend and it felt nothing....no butterflies..not having a special feeling... it was actually weird... awkward..and after that I felt like maybe I'm demisexual and googled a lot of stuff and found that it was just hyped too much ..most of the first kisses are awkward
How did you feel about the boy did you got angry at him?? Did you feel guilty about your self kissing him
Bro first kiss can actually be magical and beautiful if you kiss only the person you feel LOVE , without love how can you feel it?
And When you are into kdrama the fantasy is even more--
+ your standards becomes so high that even the actor in real life can't achieve
So true😭
I won't say my first kiss was the best one i have ever had but it was definitely the most magical one. I was just so much into that guy and i felt butterflies in my stomach when we kissed for the first time.
what now? he is gone from ur life?
@@jaimishra5027 we loved each other but couldn't be together. I lost him and i regret it so much.
And here I'm 22 still waiting 🥲
Aryaki teaching us things that our schools should have taught us
My first kiss was actually forced . I feel hurt till date that it wasn't with the person i love .
Thanks for this video
Why this is called dirty talk this is needed talk 🥺❤️
Imagine the guy listening to this who was her first kiss🗡😵
😂😂😂😂😂
"it wasnt that bad" ....
oh, shi-
very much needed
My first kiss wasn't very soft...it was very hard
Mirror couldn't meet my expectations
Did you have your first kiss under pressure? Like, were u like, I'm 19 I should have my first kiss now it's already too late? Or were you genuinely attracted to that person?
26 here and wondering..you guys already had the first kiss!!!!!!😶 ..guess I have become (kiss virgin)senior citizen now. 🤧
love the video! but it’s not trueee for me! first kiss for me was amazing and magical! ❤️
Tbh u hv explained 'Reality',, I'm 26 nd never had tht experience 😭.. Late 😞... U can't even imagine how I feel 😑😑😑.. Nobody can understand tht because everyone is unique in this world,, tht makes them unique in emotions and other things
The guy you kissed is sweating watching this video 😂
I can relate with you grl ..it was more like a forced and disgusting kiss for me.I realised I wasn't in love with him just in a week and I broke up right after .Happy :)
Thankuu..made me feel better🥺
You guys may be getting more views on this series but tbh your movies in 1 min were amazing... If you don't want to make further videos like those.. that's okay.. but you shouldn't have unlisted them.. that's really wrong!!
Girls if you are going to have your first kiss you should have consent. You should have talked about a kiss earlier so after you know what other think about that. Most of the first kisses are disaster mine was too. Even though we like each other but he did not get my consent i also told him noo and that was not a proper place also. It was kind of pressure, forced i didn't like it, feels nothing and after breakup i regret everyday. Why i have to kiss when i should have to push him. Listen if you are not comfortable, not in the mood say straight on their face. You will regret each day after that that why did you let this happen
Thankyou universe ✨
Imagine her guy watching her say she had no butterflies and magic 😂😂😂😂
tf you guys talking about, here i was struggling with ma fking grades at the age of 19.
Samee
The part where she was like "I did not enjoy it. That's when I realised I'm demi sexual" was exactly how I found out about my demi sexuality
I had my first kiss at 25 , this February,god it was such a beautiful thing
bro you are not alone, even i felt the same :)
thank you ❤
Related to this more than I thought I would.
Which school do these guys go to? Wherever they do, anyone watching this, just remember that this is not how it's in majority of schools in India. I can get the expectations after watching movies but being left out, just bcoz of a kiss ?? What ?
Yes it happens. Cause even I as a 18 year old teen hasn't had their first kiss , and most of my friends already have, some are even in serious relationships . It's not about being "jealous" or completely "being left out" , but it's mostly how when they talk about their situations , you are just completed dumbstruck , cause you have no experience. At one point it does makes you self conscious...it doesn't last very long , but sometimes it's overwhelming that you can't join other people's conversation only because you aren't as sexually active as them
Elite schools of South Mumbai n delhi ...lol
@@shweta7925 no , it happens everywhere , i haven't even been to Mumbai my whole life .Don't stereotype people.
This shame on these kids... parents send their kids go school an colleges to study perspective and their children do these nonsense ..so.sad .....in such a young age they sprinkle dirt in theri parent's eyes.......
@@pradyumanpandey2079 bruh what? one can get education even while they've had their first kiss, that's so unrelated
Lmao the first kiss guy hearing the kiss the was sloppy n bad 😂
As a boy even my first kiss went horrible like we both didn't know what the hell we were doing & ended up being totally awkward 😑
My first kiss was magical.
That was very cute.❤❤
Same education everywhere...a single chapter in the book & that too isn't taught properly.
Even I'm 19 still I haven't experienced dating or kiss 😂😂Dukh bhi ho raha he aur maza bhi aa raha he
I am 20 bro and same halat hai
@@amansharma1830 Don't worry dude. We are going to be the legends of future and for this country 😎
I am too 19 abhi toh career banane ka samay h
15-16 saal ki umr mein toh Doraemon dekha krte the 😂 lol aajkal sab badal gya h
@@108aditya yea bro 😂😂
@@darshannn7001 we gonna be chads 👊
Presumption bruhhhh... me 23 still no kisses
Well...first kiss is really not that great ... It just "happens" .... Mine was near a staircase and umm.... Frankly i too didn't feel anything its just that i felt two lips touching each other ..... This was literally embarassing! So yeah first kisses are not that great and unexpected kisses are much better😂
Also thank you for that word "DEMISEXUAL" 😅 i observed and i am too in that category!
Had my first kiss at 23 😂😂 at a hotel room with my online bf … umm well the first kiss wasn’t as I expected it to be …nothing magical of that sort . But I think eventually because of the connection we had I started to enjoy kissing him a lot . Man I crave for his kisses more than ever now(ldr) .
So are you still together ?
@@Ayisha4889 lol broken up because they don’t want to continue LDR.
Great
Though not desperate but I do feel just so bad and I am demisexual too and I get it
that feeling like its just sad it feels like it kind of idk weird
I'm so earlyyyyyyyyy
*doesn't know what to type*
That's okay, we're just glad you're here!
On one evening time, while taking a walk, which yes did swept me off the floor cz it was magical, n for real, we both were 17, n I dint know it was coming so, .yeah pretty much a perfect 1st kiss. A decade ago.
Such a nice video
I'm 17 and haven't kissed or have been in a relationship too bad to be a very single
Please tell me where is your coat from ??
not watching dis because I've not yet kissed and I want to think that it's fairytale type😌
Where you demisexual peeps at?🛐❤️
🙋🏻
MY FIRST KISS is with A girl
Who is 6 years older than me
At that moment i was only 10 years
And The FIRST KISS was really Awkward
Not at all good
She didn't know how to kISS
Omg omg omg 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭 thanks for saving my life otherwise I would have died 💔💔 seriously my first kiss was horrible felt like the guy was not kissing but eating me 💔🙃 it was a very bad experience I was in guilt trip 💔💔💔💔 felt like I'm not into boys for a second then realised I'm not into girls neither 🙃🙃🙃 love is really important for girls that's for sure boys can make out with anyone 💔
I had my 1st kiss and she is right it isnt that special
I had mine at 20 lol, I legit had the same experience.
my bestfriend kissed at 12 so 19 is way too much for me now lmao
I was 13 when i had my first proper one
My first kiss was pretty sloppy too
I mean I should have half emptied my bottle before going full Emran Hashmi on it
You werent in love and still kissed.
Obviously it wasnt magical lmao.
Feeling left out with (69) others.
😶yaarrrrrrr you are saying everything that I had experienced😶
At what age??
Honestly same . I had this preconceived notion that first kiss had to be magical feeling all the warmth rushing through my body like an electric charge… but guess what ? Had my first kiss at 23 and while I was kissing my (first time meet online boyfriend) I was analysing the kiss at the back of my mind and trying to correlate with my expectations 😂😂 and it didn’t feel magical must say .. but eventually I started enjoying kissing him a lot maybe because we just liked each other a lot ! I still crave for his kisses 🥲 LDR.
FACTS
I’m 18 I never hugged a girl not anything more then a hand shake
Yaar maine hi aaj tk nahi kiya ...koi ladki bhaw nahi deti .....kalaa hu na😭😭😭😭😭😭
bro yesterday i was at this party and i was really fcking drunk. i kissed my friends friend and i feel so disgusting rn. it was a french kiss and i didn’t just kiss him. i hate myself omg
20 yr old..1st kiss ..not yet😐
had relation??..yup..5yrs..
(Long distance)...but broke up b4 1st kiss😒
Samee bruhh sameee 😭
Did someone think about the guy Arayaki was dating back when she was 19 y old?😂
First kiss lips pe honi chaiye ya cheeks ya fir forehead pe
Lips pe
If you kiss me your felling was way different.
I'm also 19.
Bruh a person can't think how to become millionaire or billionaire but how to kiss, whole life you think i can buy this and whatever you want but shit you can't even get 😂
Please mine was in fkn kindergarten and he left to his country 5000 kilometres away in 3 days 😩😭🏃💀✨
The guy watching this rn -_-
Ur first kiss was liplock or something on hand?😅 Jus curious?
I am 20 still not kissed anyone🙂
16 😂 it ended in covid already
Has to be dat guy Ishaan
Imao😂😭
Lmaooooo
First kiss i had it today it isnt that special belive me
poocha kisne