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  • #CreepyDMs #SocialMedia #NagmaNasser
    Getting unsolicited DMs has become a common, disturbing experience for almost every girl online. We take a deep dive into the emotional repercussions faced by women who receive these messages, as Nagma Nasser shares her encounters with creepy DMs, how it escalated into a fearful situation, and how she deals with them now.
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  • @thatmalluchick
    @thatmalluchick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Thank you for inviting me to do this Team ttt, because I don't know if I'd have had the guts to open up about this myself and I'm glad it's happening because it's important for people to know how our words impact others.

    • @ayshaesufji
      @ayshaesufji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so proud of you

    • @dhananjai3470
      @dhananjai3470 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      W

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for sharing your experience with us, more power to you ❤️

    • @sarath1812
      @sarath1812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Malayali aanalle

    • @zubibuubi7359
      @zubibuubi7359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why can any guy.. like me.. if they want to can't d message to Pretty and smart girls ... Who they wish to talk Why is everytime that girls ..

  • @anshumanchoudhary4732
    @anshumanchoudhary4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    As a guy, it's saddening to know that women have to go through such experiences due to some creepy men .

    • @samiramahajabin
      @samiramahajabin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      and being a girl it feels happy to know that there are ppl like u.thank u

    • @anshumanchoudhary4732
      @anshumanchoudhary4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@samiramahajabin

    • @deltaforce7290
      @deltaforce7290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It happens to men as well. A grown ass woman has tortured me for weeks, it was traumatizing

    • @suhanisingh8776
      @suhanisingh8776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It feels good when a guy say these things 🤌

    • @anshumanchoudhary4732
      @anshumanchoudhary4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@suhanisingh8776

  • @dhruvkumar7858
    @dhruvkumar7858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    She has so much of patience . Sad reality because of some men , they have to go through all this shit

  • @greenlit552
    @greenlit552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Am I the only girl, who has never gotten dms like these? Il feel really lucky about it. Sad for those who go through this 🥺

    • @sanskritibarman4928
      @sanskritibarman4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah random guys have been pretty respectful in my dms. Or maybe I block ppl out before they turn abusive

    • @reetheeka
      @reetheeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@sanskritibarman4928 a lot of them are "nice guys" who usually just simp for women lol. tc!

    • @sanskritibarman4928
      @sanskritibarman4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reetheeka OK?

    • @reetheeka
      @reetheeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sanskritibarman4928 went over your head?

    • @sanskritibarman4928
      @sanskritibarman4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@reetheeka nah just thought your comment was unnecessary but to each their own.

  • @Tusharikaa
    @Tusharikaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It's not always that men harass online but I know a lady who chatted with me and harassed, and since I am an advocate, it is also imperative for me to make people more aware that irrespective of gender, one should take such crimes seriously, and take appropriate action against such menace.Don't ignore or block but take concrete action.

    • @alishaikh6352
      @alishaikh6352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ma'am, What are the actions that can be taken against this and cyber bullying? Should I tell a lawyer?

  • @PriAna007
    @PriAna007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The worst thing about these messages is that when you tell people about this, they give you the worst advice which is to stop using social media. Don't post pictures or keep your profile private. It's like ignoring all the toxic shit in the world and just run and hide

  • @LeninDataniya
    @LeninDataniya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Inspiring and informative when this kind of situations comes up what is right for us to do
    Thank you for this one 💕

  • @sagnikdas7472
    @sagnikdas7472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Internet etiquette should be a thing no , must be a thing In this era .

  • @monica_o_my_darling
    @monica_o_my_darling 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you for sharing your personal experience. We know it's not easy to be a woman. This is empowerment. Not giving someone else the chance to snatch your light. It's difficult to put in words or even to be able to Express how we feel in su h situations with these creeps crawling in our dms. Thank you for this message

    • @anormalchannel9142
      @anormalchannel9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      well every big influencer's get's dm's like this not just women negative side of getting fame on social media people think they are friends with them but in the end they are not they are just this for money and fame.

  • @frayees14
    @frayees14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    A sad reality for women today. :(

  • @mrinalsharma6813
    @mrinalsharma6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loneliness + sexually frustrated

  • @Naruto-oj8qs
    @Naruto-oj8qs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Regular days for Indian women...☹️☹️☹️

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remove that Indian

  • @aayushisingh8948
    @aayushisingh8948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I also think to slide into my online friend's DM, but I won't because I know that there are 100s of people in her DM & then I rejected that idea, what I found was that these ppl are alone with no friends, but I didn't support that creep. You must file a complaint against him.

  • @Anny-yx9kf
    @Anny-yx9kf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this was like so relatable....i understand u broo!!!

  • @gayatripillai5679
    @gayatripillai5679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    More power to you gurrrrlllll🥺🧿💕

  • @NadhirAhmed
    @NadhirAhmed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Respect. 🙌🏽

  • @anshikasingh1587
    @anshikasingh1587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is soooo relatable, I can't- 😐

  • @hariprasadh4406
    @hariprasadh4406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nice choice of bgms ..very emotional journey through the narration ..editing team job nicely done🎉

  • @LGCYSHD
    @LGCYSHD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love it when the accent switches mallu for just some words. Eg college. About the issue talked abt....totally messed up mind set...like there are people who actually believe harassing women online actually get them their attention

    • @xoxodelphi
      @xoxodelphi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      not you actually typing those out

    • @LGCYSHD
      @LGCYSHD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xoxodelphi hope not

  • @Aishzine
    @Aishzine 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    More power to you⚡💪

  • @dannydorko7075
    @dannydorko7075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pains me to say but I used to be like that guy when I was younger, although not to that extreme. Thank god I changed.

  • @glamorousdivaa
    @glamorousdivaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have a creepy dude after me.. claiming to be in love and stuff.. it's scary... I have been trying to respond on./ Off.. out of the fear that he might come by my place or something.... He said he'd come to my place if I'm not around... And that has scared the shi..t put of me... I feel sooo drained interacting with him.. idk how to get out of this shit man.. I made the same mistake of replying to my dms aka responded to him.. ANY suggestions?

    • @samdoesntknow
      @samdoesntknow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      block him, have the police near, don't reveal your location, always keep trusted friends around, etc.

    • @beyondhumanrange6196
      @beyondhumanrange6196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well I am a boy tho but I understand how that might feel ...
      But lemme just tell you that I usually get engaged in lots of social media fights and even I get a lot of "DEATH THREATS" but none of them are anymore than key board warriors .
      They just go like "Address de apna bc, mc "
      And I give them my address .... but ....uske baad ...
      they stop replying aur ghar bhi nhi aate .....

    • @ananyaverma9599
      @ananyaverma9599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@beyondhumanrange6196 bro I really think you shouldn't give then your address even if they aren't really serious. Don't share any personal info just to egg them on. It's not safe. Specially with so many hackers on the internet. You never know. So be careful.

    • @ananyaverma9599
      @ananyaverma9599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell you parents. Block him. If he does really try anything, I'm sure your parents will handle it. If you're an adult, report him (report him even if you're not an adult) and keep people around. Don't be alone.

    • @glamorousdivaa
      @glamorousdivaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beyondhumanrange6196 thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @simranbanga8658
    @simranbanga8658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    FIRST AYEEE

  • @na-hg3ch
    @na-hg3ch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the fact that ive had such an experience too,and most people have.
    SMFH🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oye , nuvvu telugu kada

  • @hrunavrajurkar6375
    @hrunavrajurkar6375 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:42 Everyone needs to know that being friends online , talking to these people and thinking that they are your support system is very wrong and you should avoid doing that. I know many people who are lonely in real life and trying to find validation will do this. Please avoid doing this as it is a slippery slope towards more loneliness and anxiety. I would rather suggest going out to meet people and network. Also no hate to the lady speaking about her horrible experience, sorry for hijacking your video.

  • @dishasarkar.haven.inkonhearts
    @dishasarkar.haven.inkonhearts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A guy wished me on my birthday. I just msgd Thanks and nothing else. Then he starts flirting me se*ually replying to each of my story and then I had to block him.

    • @rubide5907
      @rubide5907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haan yaar Birthday wish karenge phir sochta hai Ladki Ko Pata lenge

    • @shounenking313
      @shounenking313 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rubide5907 toh batao tumhi Bhai ladki kaise pataye

  • @wingardiumleviosar6971
    @wingardiumleviosar6971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When Chhappri boys trying to look cool they introduce themselve as a hacker (๑˃̵ ᴗ ˂̵)و.
    Feeling sad for software engineers specially for ethical ones 🙃

    • @shounenking313
      @shounenking313 ปีที่แล้ว

      And girls only go for those chapris

  • @kiran-thetributechannel
    @kiran-thetributechannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not all men, it's the 0.01% simps

    • @xoxodelphi
      @xoxodelphi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sure but the percentage should be higher

    • @gampa_10_31
      @gampa_10_31 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xoxodelphi nope, just 0.1%, that's all

    • @shounenking313
      @shounenking313 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gampa_10_31 nope the percentage of simps are way higher. That's why many boys are single

  • @chinsan4861
    @chinsan4861 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the whole time i was dancing listening listening to u.

  • @shri9093
    @shri9093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why people are after you. You look very normal kind of girl.

  • @ajayj6707
    @ajayj6707 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you open my eyes 100 of dm dont give a second change for a man....now i am going to delete my insta id and going to invest in my life that gives me a better wife👍

  • @5414vivek
    @5414vivek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a guy shouldn't i say to my friend who is a girl about how grateful I'm to her to being her friend? Does this sends a wrong message to her? I genuinely wants to know because I've said this to her two or three times in a span of around 6 months.

    • @adithyaprasad8586
      @adithyaprasad8586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you are friends in real life, sure. Do tell.
      Not to someone whom you barely know

    • @xoxodelphi
      @xoxodelphi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my online friend tells me this and it actually makes me glad but i would probably creep out if i don't know the person

    • @jrobertlysaght
      @jrobertlysaght ปีที่แล้ว +1

      also, bear in mind, she didn't reply, and his reaction was 100 more tries.... that's way different than a single harmless, non pushy compliment.

  • @rvxn
    @rvxn ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanned to let you know that, What you experienced was the tip of the iceberg.

  • @darkkartist
    @darkkartist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn this is so creepy

  • @sidharthajain7001
    @sidharthajain7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does that mean I shouldn't cold dm someone if I like them?
    How should I dm them then?

    • @reetheeka
      @reetheeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      no dming someone with respect is alright but again if you see that they are ignoring you, simply stop. thats it.

    • @sidharthajain7001
      @sidharthajain7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@reetheeka alright, that is what I do
      Thank you 😊

    • @reetheeka
      @reetheeka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sidharthajain7001 great! :)

    • @ananyaverma9599
      @ananyaverma9599 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just be respectful and don't ask for pictures and stuff. If they are still not responding actively then just leave them alone.

    • @sidharthajain7001
      @sidharthajain7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ananyaverma9599 Thank you
      I understood

  • @superman1716
    @superman1716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Supergirl 💜

  • @mrmotto
    @mrmotto 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍👍👍

  • @savageindian8978
    @savageindian8978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aesa kar chaku utha aur sab aadmiyo ko khatam karde taki Hume burayiaa na sunni pade in cheeso ki jo humne kabhi ki hi nahi

  • @mad_aj___547
    @mad_aj___547 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look like Samantha 😁

  • @MrGeorge0285
    @MrGeorge0285 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if the “ethical hacker” is lurking around here.

  • @cjgokuhomes10
    @cjgokuhomes10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a clickbait title.

  • @TheThinkPlace
    @TheThinkPlace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Please don't generalise men as creepy. A lot of guys too face creepy DMs from a lot of girls. I have faced that. So it's unethical to generalize men as creepy texters. Being creepy is not a gender problem it is a problem of society and their mentality.

    • @LeninDataniya
      @LeninDataniya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's not even about perticularly about men they haven't even titled that way they just said kinds of dm girls get and agreed that not all are like that but most of are like that and it's good u also talked about ur experience

    • @juhii456
      @juhii456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She stated "due to some men"
      I agree men face these problems too but it's not the solution to say "uk men also go through these problems" so your justification is totally nonsense

    • @TheThinkPlace
      @TheThinkPlace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@LeninDataniya No that's wrong, if they had given the title 'Types of creepy texts a person gets' then it won't be a problem. Since they have mentioned 'girls' in the title indirectly it becomes a gender biased title. So it is wrong.

    • @LeninDataniya
      @LeninDataniya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheThinkPlace 🤔well ur opinion kinda makes sense now

    • @TheThinkPlace
      @TheThinkPlace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@juhii456 madam I have the problem with the title and not the content. These problems are being faced equally by both men and women so it is completely wrong to mention the word 'girls' in the title. It is totally gender biased. For reference you can check my previous comment. So before saying anyone's point - of - view 'nonsense' or judging someone try to think and understand deeply and then try to speak.

  • @Simzaaz
    @Simzaaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Vehle log 🤣

  • @moreffort
    @moreffort 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guys are lonely

  • @nikhilhalbe
    @nikhilhalbe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the people featured on this channel don't have real life problems whatsoever ...... like bro just block the weirdo or just turn off your internet 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @ummmyumm9335
      @ummmyumm9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      oh you are the creepy person who dms ppl and abuses them if they don't reply

    • @chandler_bing7433
      @chandler_bing7433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You don't understand the kind of trauma it causes in your head ! Ahaa so you're telling if a random creepy dude would randomly send you rape threats or death threats you're just supposed to ignore it and turn off your internet ???? If I were in such a place I'd literally call it out and make sure that person would learn his lesson

    • @septemberstar2761
      @septemberstar2761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They just have 2 problems sex and creepy "guys" 😂😂. Middle class children struggling with career, relationship and hobbies is a big joke. Actually this channel is what I will call "woke".

    • @ummmyumm9335
      @ummmyumm9335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chandler_bing7433 exactly👏

    • @chandler_bing7433
      @chandler_bing7433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@septemberstar2761 I agree those are real problems too, but you can't belittle this problem by saying it's not big a deal

  • @biprajeetpal
    @biprajeetpal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    :sad_pepe