What We Got Him For His Birthday

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  • We decided to help him out with something he really cared about for his birthday this year. He is working towards finishing his masters, working, and starting life solo. That's really his only focus right now and he's been working hard to save up for that. We're proud of him.
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  • @70schick36
    @70schick36 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    I love that you support Isaiah the way you do. Yes, people “do it on their own” at 18. I did, too. Out of necessity. But I did not have parents that could help me like you can help your kids. I think it’s a beautiful thing that you do. Isaiah seems like a loving, respectful, hard-working person. And you two are hard-working parents. If he were my son, I’d help him, too. We all do what we can. Nothing wrong with that.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      We appreciate that. We do what we can for our kids

    • @shellydaybutch2230
      @shellydaybutch2230 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Happy birthday Isaiah and Asa. 🎉🎂😊 Priscillia…..you are looking fantastic. 👍🏼😊

    • @tiatowery6409
      @tiatowery6409 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree. I didn’t have that my parents were poor. But even if they had money they were the type that wouldn’t of helped ! But I have four sons that I try to help out all the time they don’t ask I just do it

    • @Imogencoleman1
      @Imogencoleman1 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi

    • @deecates7715
      @deecates7715 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I think it is great that you both are able to be there for both of your kids. Isaiah is a great young man and I am not trying to come across rude or disrespectful and I hope no one takes it that way. I am the youngest of my mom and dads 4 girls. Our mom and dad got divorced when I was around 9yrs old. My oldest sister had just gotten married to her first husband and she moved out of the very small country town we are originally from. She moved about a couple hours away. My mom, my other 2 sisters and I moved about 8-10 hours drive from the small town to a fairly big city Tulsa, Oklahoma. It was a complete difference between the 2 places. And I am not saying what I am about to say is the same thing as with your family. But as I said I was the "baby girl" as my mom would always tell everyone lol. But most people we have met just assumed I was the oldest of us 3. That is mainly because they are both behind other people their ages. And the one that is the 3rd born she was born what the Drs called a Blue Birth baby. She had the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck and it was very tight around it and it had cut off the oxygen and when she came out she was blue and gray from her head to her toes. She was diagnosed as what we say as being mentally a little slow. She will never be able to live alone and the next to the oldest ended up being a little slow also. But she is not as bad with a lot of things. She has 3 grown daughters and was married and she has lived close to family and sometimes with family. But I have always been very protective of those 2 sisters. And my mom worked 2 and sometimes 3 jobs to pay bills and make sure we always had what we needed. And she helped all of us girls and all of our kids when she could. But even though I was the youngest I was the one taking care of my 2 older sisters especially around the time I was 11-12 yrs old since my mom worked all the time working more than 1 job for many years. But she also always tried to support and encourage me in anything I wanted to do. And we lost our parents quite a few years ago. Our dad passed first and our mom passed away in April of 2013 just a couple days before her 70th birthday. And she is missed so much every single day ❤.
      And watching your videos reminds me of some of the things my mom did to support and encourage all of us girls and our kids. The one right above me in age does not have any kids but she has always been a huge part of her nieces and nephews lives. And I meant to say earlier that the older 3 are a little over a year apart. Then I was a surprise baby 6yrs later. Lol. Anyway you are both great parents to your kids.

  • @MadddyDawn
    @MadddyDawn 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Times are different. He’s a great kid. I’m glad you can help him. He’s a genuine caring charming young man. Happy Birthday to both of you.

  • @erinhawkins-terriquez7173
    @erinhawkins-terriquez7173 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    You're literally helping your kid be even more successful with your help. Youre not babying him or anything. You are setting him up to be as successful as possible. It's great. You guys are great!

  • @raid3649
    @raid3649 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You raised a wonderful son, whomever steals his heart and marries him will be so blessed to be part of the Mass family ❤

  • @theresahvassman9965
    @theresahvassman9965 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Isaiah is talented, responsible and intelligent. We as parents should support and help our kids and I salute you as a lot of parents don’t or aren’t able to Bravo Asa and Cilla you’re raising two awesome kids

  • @janetlabradorsosa1558
    @janetlabradorsosa1558 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday Isaiah!!! My parents did the same for me and my twin brothers and sisters, and I did the same for my twin girls... Love y'all 💋🤓

  • @queeniemyles4028
    @queeniemyles4028 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    If you have it, then there is no better thing than to help your child out, when they show that they are loving responsible and appreciate. Life is too short, nurture and assist 😊

  • @kristenhellmann5038
    @kristenhellmann5038 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I never understand people saying I did it all.. great! Why not help him have success from the get go. That’s your child. Teach them, let them learn and help set them up for success , not failure ! 💕

  • @tonyagenerally8468
    @tonyagenerally8468 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is great you are able to help him. I have been told t don't say no to blessings someone is trying to bless you with.❤❤

  • @MollyPlunkett
    @MollyPlunkett 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You two are amazing parents and doing great with both your babies. Yes babies! no matter how old they get, they will always be your babies. Thats awesome Isaiah has that opportunity and you both supporting and helping him. I love watching your family and honestly I have been taking notes from some of your videos and have been learning some things. Thank you for sharing your family with us all and for taking the time to explain the things you do because it does help others.
    Hope you had an amazing birthday Isaiah and many many more!

  • @festussmom6364
    @festussmom6364 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I’m so proud of the young man Isaiah has become. I love that he is sensitive and smart and lets don’t forget handsome as well. Happy birthday Isaiah! 💋🧚🏻‍♀️❤️🇺🇸

  • @tamidelaney45
    @tamidelaney45 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Stay home as long as possible. You guys are amazing parents.❤❤❤

  • @cindysemblante4411
    @cindysemblante4411 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I helped my girls in every way I could. My husband took on a 2nd job to get our oldest through Vassar. We’ve helped them all here and there through the years. If my kids need it and I have it then I am joyous to share. I got emancipated at 15. I don’t want my kids to struggle the way I did. I did what I had to do but I also got scurvy from a ramen noodle diet. No need for them to worry where a meal is coming from if my fridge is full so to speak

  • @heidi4132
    @heidi4132 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    When I graduated High School way back in 1975, my dad surprised me with a Mustang…a 57’ … wish I still had it!! If you can help your kids, why not? ❤❤ Happy Birthday to both of you fine gentlemen! 🎉🎉

  • @natbrust
    @natbrust 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Asa that's well said about life experiences! My wife and I lived at home until we got married. We were saving money and building credit!

  • @judibrommer7569
    @judibrommer7569 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    🎉🎉🎉🎉 Happy belated Birthday Isaiah!! You rock as parents!! Be proud ..never apologize!!!

  • @cathywinters5037
    @cathywinters5037 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You do great if you can help your children I think it's great. Happy birthday Isaiah🎉

  • @annmcgraw8966
    @annmcgraw8966 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    To each their own, He has come a long ways and Happy Birthday :)

  • @Sparker17
    @Sparker17 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy belated birthday, Isaiah !🥳

  • @ritacooke3175
    @ritacooke3175 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You guys “did a few things right!” Isaiah and AG!!!! ❤❤

  • @cheriecarpenter5969
    @cheriecarpenter5969 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Abbie is so precious!!

  • @rhondapaquette2814
    @rhondapaquette2814 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy 23rd birthday Isaiah I hope u enjoy your day and enjoy your day and enjoy when u are young becuse when u hit your 40's u will wish to younger and not worry about arthritis having health issue's and just enjoy your wonderful family dinner. 🎂

  • @susanseifert925
    @susanseifert925 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday Isa!
    🎊🎈🎉🎂🥳🎁

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Happy birthday, dear, and may the Lord continue to bless you with many more. 🎂🍰🎊🎉🎈🎊🎉🎈♥️🙏

  • @marywanless-gd6ph
    @marywanless-gd6ph 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You should be very proud . Wonderful parents.

  • @lindseyduran1901
    @lindseyduran1901 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m 40 and my mom lives over 4,000 miles away. She randomly sends me money and gifts just cuz she’s my mama and she wants to remind me that she loves me and is there for me.
    Parenting never stops. Support shouldn’t have to, either.
    Happy birthday, Isaiah!

  • @lindacaskey7936
    @lindacaskey7936 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Birthday, Isaiah. Enjoy your time with your family.

  • @ddinottia39
    @ddinottia39 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday 🎂 Isaiah 🎉

  • @kellystanley5892
    @kellystanley5892 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We did the same thing with our son .He stayed until he was prepared to handle it all himself.Its the best thing we ever did.❤

  • @jennyb8106
    @jennyb8106 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are fantastic parents and have 2 amazing children ❤

  • @arvejanellekjoelen9457
    @arvejanellekjoelen9457 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We decided to help our kids with a down payment on a house. We did not have help with this, but our first house was 77,000 and only 8 years old. Today the same size house is 350,000 in our market. Just crazy to buy a starter home. We have been blessed and my kids are hard workers who have never asked for anything. This was a shock to them when we told them. Their reaction was, you don’t have to do this. We know, but we want to.

  • @amberh143
    @amberh143 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That's awesome! I hope he finds a vehicle like he likes.

  • @sadboi9774
    @sadboi9774 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday Asa and Isaiah!

  • @michelleseveney9113
    @michelleseveney9113 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I KNEW IT!!! Before it was in the video!!!!!! Happy birthday Isaiah!!!!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @MemawSue
    @MemawSue 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Birthday Isaiah and Asa 🎉🎉❤❤ That was a great gift for Isaiah and he has worked very hard to be where he is So proud of him 🥰

  • @shirleyrieff7289
    @shirleyrieff7289 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You all are awesome parents

  • @CalleDurazo
    @CalleDurazo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday, Isaiah 🎉

  • @deanawells4395
    @deanawells4395 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As my son is too an alumni of Appalachian State College in Boone North Carolina it is devastating the damage they endured from the hurricane 😢. My son is traveling there and Asheville NC to try to help since he still has many friends and relatives of friends that were impacted greatly 😢

  • @kandicebrown4436
    @kandicebrown4436 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    His blessed.

  • @kath9939
    @kath9939 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great, thoughtful gift for Isiah!

  • @chrissyramirez
    @chrissyramirez 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Birthday Isaiah 🎂 I hope you had a great day

  • @amyrobles4780
    @amyrobles4780 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday to both of you! Also i couldnt agree more abojt teaching your kids about credit. Ive done that sin e tbey got into abojt high school and figure they were old enough to comprehend alot of it. Im very proud of them.

  • @eldavis1311
    @eldavis1311 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re great parents to two wonderful adult children.

  • @emilysmith9821
    @emilysmith9821 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HBD Massmen 🥳🥂

  • @shanagambill2992
    @shanagambill2992 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday Isah he's a great kid

  • @jtl-en4yx
    @jtl-en4yx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love how Abbie holds her purse at 7:17!

  • @dianegilchrist677
    @dianegilchrist677 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You should be proud.Happy birthday Isaiah.🎂🎈🎁🎉🎊🫶

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday to Isaiah

  • @natbrust
    @natbrust 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday Isaiah! 🎉

  • @dikoehler4255
    @dikoehler4255 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday Isaiah!! 🎉🎂👍💕

  • @TheHeartSmart1
    @TheHeartSmart1 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎉 Happy Birthday, Isaiah!

  • @celticphoenix2579
    @celticphoenix2579 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The light effect in the roof window is delightful. It looks like spinning plasma orbs. Distracting, but pretty. Happy birthday to the birthday beans 🎉

  • @CCZZ.B
    @CCZZ.B 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys are very fortunate to have a place for Isaiah and Isaiah is very blessed to have a place in the home not everybody has that and it is very nice to have that as an alternatives to moving out specially with housing being so expensive now. Even renting creek expensive.
    Parents can do cheaper rents for their adult kids in their home. It does help the kids have a better support whenever they do move out they have more money there more adapt, and you can teach some things as adult to do and they can be under your tutoring and they can learn easier instead of having to fall and get hurt mentally or physically due to issues that happened.

  • @sandranynj7118
    @sandranynj7118 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday Isiah! 🎈🎈

  • @bowiegirl5662
    @bowiegirl5662 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great gift for a great kid!!

  • @AdeneDuncan
    @AdeneDuncan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday dear Isaiah happy birthday to you and many more. Happy birthday to you Asa

    • @AdeneDuncan
      @AdeneDuncan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Where did you get your dog kennel cuz we're looking for one for our dog

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for the birthday wishes!

  • @catherinecran9329
    @catherinecran9329 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy belated birthday Isaiah and happy early birthday Asa! It’s exciting getting a new car especially when you can get a reliable one. Curious to see what he picks because I can almost see him driving a Subaru forester or something like that

  • @BVBxFOREVERx1919
    @BVBxFOREVERx1919 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Happy birthday Isaiah! WOOHOO!! also, did I hear Summer or Kylie say "happy birthday gibby?" cuz that is such a nostalgic line from icarly

  • @sandrarios4636
    @sandrarios4636 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂

  • @alyssachestnutt4833
    @alyssachestnutt4833 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday Isaiah

  • @nicoletteteame509
    @nicoletteteame509 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday beautiful family

  • @lifeonlowbatteries8153
    @lifeonlowbatteries8153 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday Isaiah!
    Loving Abbie’s ponytail in this one.

  • @dandeliondreamer3365
    @dandeliondreamer3365 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday birthday boys 😊 🎉❤!

  • @jackfiler2165
    @jackfiler2165 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aww this was so special 🎉🎉❤❤😊😊

  • @salemdorie841
    @salemdorie841 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday!!!!!!

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi abbie and family,im so proud of Isaiah being amazing brother to abbie and y'all are amazing parents too,hope y'all are having a wonderful thursday and stay safe out there❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗

  • @XMX-e6n
    @XMX-e6n 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Birthday!😁🎉

  • @aliciabellante6643
    @aliciabellante6643 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My sisters and I lived with my parents until marriage mostly (I’m still not married and one sister isn’t either). That sister did move out but it wasn’t until after my mom unexpectedly passed away and my dad decided he wanted to downsize. There were other things too but I lived with him until he passed away in 2022. I became his caregiver in 2019. It helped my sisters and myself with money and I’m thankful for it and I know my sisters were too. We helped them out with things in the house so it’s not like we didn’t do anything

  • @reneewest1831
    @reneewest1831 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You have a nice family

  • @mariebarrett8774
    @mariebarrett8774 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Birthday Isaiah & ASA...🎉🎂🎉🥳🎁🎂🎉🥳🎁

  • @kathyanderson1509
    @kathyanderson1509 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your awesome parent's, 😊

  • @BakerCenter-vv8bd
    @BakerCenter-vv8bd 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yes MN shout out. love ya'll

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy birthday to you

  • @Leilani_Sweet
    @Leilani_Sweet 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations Cilla this is the day 23 years ago you had to leave your dignity at the hospital door while you birthed your beautiful boy.. PS happy birthday Isaiah. 😊

  • @GreekGirl28
    @GreekGirl28 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday and I love expresso Martini great choice

  • @debbiebousquet5677
    @debbiebousquet5677 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello an Happy Birthday Isiah....❤🎉

  • @sarahmarcum3546
    @sarahmarcum3546 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Every kid is different and that’s ok! My oldest lived with us until she just got married and she almost 22. My middle 15:40 child she left at 18 and joined the Navy. My youngest is joining the marines after he graduates from high school this year. Husband was Air Force. All three paths are different but each child has/had different needs. My oldest needed those extra years with us. Keep doing amazing things with your kids and being wonderful parents. Wish there were more parents in the world who also have these same views.

  • @Txoutlawtrey
    @Txoutlawtrey 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday siah

  • @rosie9714
    @rosie9714 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I learned how to help my children with their credit by adding them as a user on my credit cards. It worked great.

  • @TykeshaPerkins-b7y
    @TykeshaPerkins-b7y 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like your show happy birthday

  • @irishheart4768
    @irishheart4768 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    65 that is not cold, now 35 degrees is cold. you all are crazy. Lol 😊

  • @sabrina19ization
    @sabrina19ization 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy birthday 🎉

  • @kelleylong4178
    @kelleylong4178 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy Birthday

  • @kaylapainter2630
    @kaylapainter2630 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My dad’s birthday was the same as Aisaiah’s He passed away in 2019. I miss him dearly.

  • @angelah-x2o
    @angelah-x2o 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    happy birthday isaiah

  • @laura-mariaburnside9068
    @laura-mariaburnside9068 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Must be lovely to hold them birds

  • @angelamcgee8703
    @angelamcgee8703 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We hit fall temps already here in Maryland but there is time we get warmer temps here in Maryland we get all 4 season at once around this time

  • @DestaneySheireMoyer98
    @DestaneySheireMoyer98 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dont stress it my inlaws have been my family since 19 and help us both so much i needed with adhd they finish growing me 18-21 still a child dont mean perfect adult 22 it comes with time im 26th and geting thare

  • @DebraMason-d2e
    @DebraMason-d2e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your right

  • @juliemineau9880
    @juliemineau9880 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We help our kiddos too. ❤

  • @ladykray4eva
    @ladykray4eva 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY GUYS!! 🎉🎉🥳🥳Enjoy!!
    SN: Btw Big Pun is ABSOLUTELY on that list🥴 And its been known for 20 plus years unfortunately.

  • @staceyhelmore
    @staceyhelmore 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm gonna be 32 next week and I've only just moved into my own house. my mum let me stay so i could use my money to have life experiences and adventures whilst I'm still young ( I did pay her rent) and I could not be more grateful for that because I've got to do some amazing things. I know some aren't as lucky as I am and I have a lot of respect for people that do go out and do it on their own young, I'm just super lucky I didn't have too!

  • @KJABurch
    @KJABurch 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    15:14 People have to remember that things do not cost the same as what they did 10, 15, 20 years ago. So Isaiah going to college for his Masters, while living at home to save money is an incredible opportunity that not a lot of parents allow to happen. (I would let my kids live with me forever if they wanted to 🤷🏼‍♀️ That’s just me) So Thank you Asa and Cilla for allowing Isaiah to live at home WHILE Working and getting his Masters Degree! He’s an incredible Kid!
    🚨🥳Happy Birthday Isaiah! (You are in your Jordan Era) 🥳🚨🤭🫶🏼
    🚨🥳Happy Birthday Asa!🥳🚨

  • @erinfj135
    @erinfj135 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Isaiah should get a Hummer EV JK but would be cool

  • @jessieely5363
    @jessieely5363 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hello from Minnesota! It’s only a high of 70 here. I left the house in a t-shirt when it was only 63 degrees out. You Florida people would never survive a Minnesotan fall or winter.

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Hello, Miss Abigail and family." 💜🤚

  • @Jitmommy33
    @Jitmommy33 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY ISAIAH!! 🥰🥳🎁
    (My comment looks like I wrote it in “👹 screamey” 😂😂)

  • @carmelscott1706
    @carmelscott1706 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't pay any attention to the condescending comments. If every son were like Isaiah, worries among parents would be few. Cheers from Canada!

  • @Jaime2830
    @Jaime2830 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I think people might just be a little jealous because maybe they didn't have anyone to help them towards something expensive as a car. I didn't get my first car until I was thirty and that was just because I was able to get a loan then. I'm on my third car now and my mom helped my by paying off my last two grand because the interest was crazy and she would be saving me a thousand dollars in the end. I am grateful she was able to do that for me.

  • @cinhaytas
    @cinhaytas 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Its absolutely amazing that you can help Isaiah out with his new vehicle!!! We live in a tough world right now!!! So proud of Isiah and his most amazing loving parents!!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️