The New Frontier of Sex & Intimacy | Dr Sue Johnson | TEDxUOttawa
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- Nouvelle frontière entre la sexualité et l’intimité
Bestselling author of "Hold me Tight" and "Love Sense." She's a clinical psychologist and professor, and the creator of a new type of relationship therapy: emotionally focused couples therapy. She has also trained thousands of therapists around the world.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
I wish the audio and lighting were half as good as the exceptional quality of her TEDx Talk.
Absolutely the most spot on TedX Talk I've heard in forever. I felt like she was putting into words something that is so obvious but that I had never heard expressed before.
Absolutely wrong. This is just her view on it. She can't speak for everyone. What's good for me doesn't mean it's good for you. There are no experts on either subject
You have saved my relationship by both of us reading both of your books & having my partner & I understanding EFT! Thank you so much Dr Johnson!
That's sad it took her to do anything. Now your living as someone your really not
I learned about attachment theories many years ago and it is a great way of feeling emotionally engaged to a partner and to children. I can highly recommend giving it a try.
Thank u very much Dr Sue Johnson for sharing this i am highly obliged
Very important subject with much needed information thank you Dr. Sue Johnson!
Yesenia Llerenas hi there
Serious wet
I'm wey for u alltaem.
I'm captivated by the depth and richness of this material. A book with parallel content reshaped my worldview. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Wow I’m just starting to dive into your work. Resonates completely with me!
You'll be very disappointed. No one can teach either of these subjects. This is only her opinion. There's thousands out there wit the same bogus credentials who will tell you something totally different. There are no experts here
Wow. Awesome. Thank you for this talk.
Sounds like she has a solid understanding of healthy relationships and women.
It's good for us to learn to understand our female mates so I'm glad I gave this a listen.
I think she knows very, very little of men's sexuality, though.
Gorgeously poetic ending!
Brilliant, thank you.
Fire that audio engineer.
That needle's hitting red the whole time!
it was probably live quite okay, but the recording engineer indeed messed up. most likely there was none. It was just the camera guy sticking a line in a mic input. thats usually creating problems..
Its Butch Vig's panel settings on territorial pissings.
Loved this! Makes sense.
There's absolutely no definition for love. It may mean 1 thing to you and something else to me. I don't get how anyone can just take her word as gospel or anyone like her and believe that that's the final answer now everything will be perfect. Nit how life works
Thank you for the talk Dr Johnson, I enjoy your talks and work.
This sense of safety before going into adventure and thrill sexually i believe is not just a woman experience. I feel that that statement was quite gender bias and would happily offer myself up to the same brain scan to test this. As a gender fluid man (feminine/ masculine balanced) a lot of what you reference to a woman's experience I experience in the context of love sex and intimacy forplay with men and woman.
Ania
The audio is awful. Hard to hear it as you have to turn it down because it has so many distortions.
AWESOME!! ❤
I love it
Moroccan rabbis knew about atoms in the 17th century?? That really is amazing!!!!
Greek philosophers before Christ spoke about atoms . . . they considered them the smallest particle whatever that was . . .the building blocks of the universe, that "had to be there" even though unseen.
What I was trying to say was that Plato and Aristotle believed that if you keep cutting up something smaller and smaller, that you would not be able to cut forever . . . that eventually you would reach the smallest possible part of the universe, and this they called an "atom"
Make love endlessly, not perpetual war
Love Sue.
But Tedx needs to fix their sound.
The sound on these videos is disgraceful for the speakers!
Gawd Blimey Ash! I was not in the least being condescending. . . I do not know why you took it that way. I was merely saying what I think is true, my perspective: that something that has already been viewed 176,000 time is rather "Out There" . . .especially compared to so many other very important communications, ideas, etc. from important people which merely get a few 100 readers/listeners. Don't take things the way they were not intended.
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While she does make some good points, in my experience many people are turned on by LACK of safety....danger, risk etc. Especially women! Often times women will pick the guy who is NOT the safe choice, especially if they just want good sex. Many women are stuck in very safe, routine relationships, have almost no desire for their partner, and end up cheating with the dangerous, unpredictable guy. So her theory should take that into account
That can be explained as manifestations of counterphobia and/or rebelliousness.
True
Was she ever in a longterm relationship or it's all academic? How many times she got married ?
She is in a long-term marriage.
If this video has 98 dislikes, then I'm not worthy to be on TH-cam at all.
understandable but who gurantee the world...ppl are about what they are of...
Here's a piece that I wonder about: Some people are never given the idea that erotic play is an acceptable thing.
it isn't
Good advice for women. Bad advice for men.
I'm over,it!
"Did you turn it on? You did?"
feeling safe is not only in a relationship. there is an entire group her research skips;people who feel safer alone then with other people who can die or leave or betray trust. relationships are over rated because the research is biased towards supporting long term relationships by providing false" facts"
Why is it women always speak of sex and relationship from their perspective and expect men to indulge them, but seldom if ever explore or come to terms with the male perspective. It's almost always one sided. Tiresome.
Because of history and rapes maybe
@@alisilva8676 what kind of answer is that?