Best Friend Leaves You - How to Manage it? | Q&A with Deek Parassini
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After bestfriend left me I am here 🙂
Edit: now I'm chilling I started reading Hindu scriptures like gita ..... No need to tension god will do well for u❤️
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same
Same here 😢
Same
@@jaysharma115 Bro, they were short of something and they exploited you. Now they left. So, Move on!
There are seven hundred billion people on this earth, you will come across many in Life. But remember they are also not permanent! Don't worry, focus on your career! Take care
I had a best friend since last ten years he is also my cousin we spent most of our time together but in recent as we are in teenage he was totally ignoring me now he doesn't call me so i also don't called him i hadn't thought that he will leave like this now i will just focus on my goal because whenever i am alone no one remains with me sometimes i feel so depressed that nobody cares about me my all friends are selfish they only remembers me whenever they need now I don't need any friend because this world is full of fake people i am alone but happy 🙏🙏
same, i can feel you
Wasim sir me also sir.what ever you think about people its 100% correct sir.this world full of fake people its fact sir.i have an experience it sir.
I know how it feels....😭😭
you're too much of a giver. Stop giving your attention and start building your self to higher levels. friends come and go. they stab us in the back whenever we need them to stand with us. And most importantly they dont even feel anything about it. I can understand your pain and hurt inside, let it all go. Forgive your friend. Show him you can still live without him in your life. God bless you brother
Same this happened to me I’m alone now I don’t trust people now days
Today my 2 best friends leaved me. It was the most bad thing of my life I was feeling so bad 😢 but now I think
Jo hua ache ke liye hua☺️
Sometime we need to be free from a relation which is toxic. 😉
But mine is even worse my 2 best friends don't talk to me ....i tried talking to them and to sought out the thing but they clearly said no and now no one in my whole class talks to me ...i am always alone and depressed
@@anaverse0_0 *_today my bff left me im sad but listen they r dogs ur the guy who is real just think ur the only one who is eligible to do everything and frnds huh they r useless just focus on ur goals and if u really want a companion instead of ur siblings adopt a dog or cat theyre loyal atleast they are not like this fake people dogs are good friends. They dont talk but they express their feelings see everyone has only one life enjoy it. And being alone is sad i know but the important thing is why why im alone. Know first why ur alone why people are ignoring u after u got point why theyr doing that so then u can start making new friends but in my opinion friends are waste of time
Live happy life_*
@@daggerborn444 thanks for this broken people are always loyal lmao
@@anaverse0_0 yep
My best friends are also gone far from me 😞
The biggest regret - never had any circle of besties who really can hear without judgement & selfishness... in my entire 21 years of life, whom i thought close, always stabbed as hell. & broken trust is a curse.
@@demonpreacher9753 brother when i see lots of people fun with his friends, but i have no one, its hurt
Sorry I know some people are going through worse but a really nice, and kind coach I liked a lot just left me. She would tell me how good I was doing after every practice, and would encourage me when I was low. She will come back in 3 years, but until then I will be waiting for her to come back
Me too brother and it’s okay
@@Cr-jr7fe
It's have been two years
yes brother it's okay 🙂
Oooh... feeling relaxed and happy after watching this video.
This channel is so underrated so far.
Thanks sir ! May you reached the heights of success!
Sir the robber example was splendid!
I sat for a minute and gave your example a thought.. my best friend changed and avoided me and left, I used to hope that she would realise someday. But I would never expect a robber to sit and empathize with me, the robber just took what he wanted and left.. same way i need not expect my ex best friend to realise anything.. just move on and continue my life like it never happened!!!
Giving the robber another chance, giving my bestie another chance to hurt me, I've made the mistake! They took advantage of my foolishness.. but can't do anything about it.. so move on! Damn this makes so much sense now!!!
Hats off to you sir!! My perspective has become so clear now!!!
Sir before watching this video I am already figure out I don't need her anymore as I do In school time but I am not be able to clarified her in word but now I am. Thank you sir
Sir you dont know you helped me soooooo much today!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO SO MUCH !!!!!
Sorry I know some people are going through worse but a really nice, and kind coach I liked a lot just left me. She would tell me how good I was doing after every practice, and would encourage me when I was low. She will come back in 3 years, but until then I will be waiting for her to come back
The best thing i found on youtube❤
Wow... just amazing sir.. Eye opener..❤❤💯💯
True words of wisdom and reality of life.
Exactly Sir.. Perfect it's.. 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sir. your words really help me ❤️
I have a best friend .....we have been together since 3 years from now...and now she is ignoring me and not answering properly and it hurted me I was kinda of broke
When I realised u are born alone no one will be with u
People will love u just for themselves only ...... 🌻🌻🌻
I got your words...literally no one other than your parents .
Yes that is 100% true!
Ah, perfect video to recemend me youtube! My best freind just left me half hour ago!
Thanks youtube!
mine too.. its very hurtful amd its very hard to accept.. she was my world.. she and me were loke complete world.. but its hurting so much. why god why u do all such disgusting things.. i will never forgive u for this
@@playingwithdata3904
May be God is Saving You From That Person.
Mine too i am crying so much right now🤐😥
@@alwishbhatti8491 don't cry my friend.. its very painful to loss such gems..just try to focus on other things.. soon u too will get move on.. mai nhi ho paya.. par try kar rha hu 😟
@@playingwithdata3904 me too man, i just wish things could come back to normal 😔 i just want another friend that was like him, nobody i ever seen was like him.
Sir My best friend is no more
Now his memories hurt me
He is my buddy since childhood we do everything together now tears in my eyes its how to possible forget him
Sometimes we talk about when we are going to old we sit together and miss our past but only age of 23 He live me alone😭
It's not easy to move on after your best friend who is most important for you and she lives you ...
Thank you sir😊
I'm also dealing with best friend breakup, that person never cared about me... now he is getting friendly with all those whom I dislike
Thank you sir ❤
Woww! Hidden gem of TH-cam, glad I found this video today. Thankyou sir
@@DeekParassini Sir not only presentation skills, your content is what is amazing and to the point 🙏 thankyou for meaningful content in times of just alluring the youth, have shared it with my friends and even those students I have taught.
I had a best friend and he's the only one whom I shared my minor things with but today I losted that guy and from this day I will be never trust anyone in life because in the end everyone is going to be hurt me .
I was having a female bestie from last 6 months but our bond was like we are friends from last 10 years our family was knowing each other and we did many things together seriously our friendship going through a good time but now she breakup with me out friendship had ended I am giving my hundred and ten percent to make our friendship again but she is saying no to me in her eyes my self respect is not their now
This is soo true. I am exactly going through this. I had 2 extremely close friends for the past 7 months, but it seemed like we were friends from a really long time. They left me and quickly replaced me. It feels so hurting. Like it's been 3 months that they have left me and I still think about them and the good times we shared. It's even more difficult since we all live in hostel and I see them constantly with their new friend laughing just like how we used to. Things have never been the same for me. But still I can't move on completely. I wonder what if they never replaced me, what if everything was as it used be. Did you overcome it yet. If yes, how? Please share some tips.
Exactly sir u r right......
Before best friend leave me I am here because I know she will leave me someday ✨
Very helpfull. Sir 🙂
Excellent 👌 sir, Thank you for the advice
Wow..!
100% correct
I never thought I would have to watch this video 🙂
@@DeekParassini Now I feel so much better🙃
All Thanks to God😇🙏🏻
For me she was the one who i considered my bff. We had a friendship of 6 years, I did everything whether legal or not with her. Gave her all my attention, importance, presence sab. One inconvenience and she left me without even asking. I miss her. But she doesn't even seem to care.
I am in same situation buddy..😌👀what happend now..could you pls tell me what is going on with your relation. .?😢
@@rajeshwaripatidar6736 thanks for asking. It's been two months with no conversation and coincidentally we both collided with each other yesterday but like strangers. Even after facing each other around our mutual friends none of us initiated to talk. I was heartbroken as she seemed to be unbothered by me not being in her life. I felt a bit emotional but had no other option. All my friends turned out to be good friends with her n all I have is nothing now. I was just trying to handle myself through all this but as I saw her yesterday right in front of me, all the flashbacks just hit my head which is indeed painful.
Ty sir
❤️ u sir...
Very true 👍 Thanku sir.😊
Now I have no friends but I'm happy. 😊
@@DeekParassini Thanku sir.🙏😊
It's just a day my best friend left me ya your absolutely right someone come and they start giving importance someone else
At the end it all happens for the good
God will provide
It sounds like this guy is publically advocating for an unhealthy, enmeshed family system. A more healthy response is this: your parents can and often do leave you (e.g., by dying, by abandonment, by favoring another child over you), your spouse often leaves you (e.g., cheating, divorce, favoring children over you, favoring their family over you, dying), and your siblings often leave you (e.g., they get married, they have kids, they decide they don't like you or the family, they die).
The healthier and real response is that you need to grow in health so that you can know who to give your trust to so that they will be less likely to betray you. At the end of the day, you will be the only one who will never leave you. That doesn't mean that you can't count on others, but what it does mean is that you should spend the most time fixing yourself so that you can be there for yourself and you can find good people - whether they're in your family or not.
Wow 👌 Great sir ji jeetay raho
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I really miss my best friend... But... He is happy with his family... Usake life mai friendship ki value nahi thi... Friendship like timepass for he
Also believe in yourself and God
He was my mother father brother everything
Thank you sir
All Thanks to God😇🙏🏻
Write like this" best friend " cuz they are fake.😊
😇🙏🏻
Same One of my cousin become my so Close bestie and Now I have to go hostel I told him and He is Not talking to me As we used to and I asked Today so he told Because You are going hostel that's why and I felt so so so sad What means If I am going After a month uh started to hurt me from today only 😭😭😭I sure I don't Know what he feels But It's hurt me and I plaze I will not talk to him anymore 💔
I am just 13 and Starting losing poeple so soon before It I also Losed 2-3 persons 😭
Men u r awesome tbh
5 besties left me because of that 5th person and me 👌
He was a nice guy..but he got some new friends..
Tdy 3 of my best friends left me because I was accused of being bad but this helped me. Thx
Good to know it has helped you ..
My best friend also gone 😭
Miss u adii
How can I work on myself.... You said their something you are not getting from your family or else.... How can I work on myself if their is something I'm not getting
I have been left by my 3 best friends 😢
Excellent speech sir👏💯
All Thanks to God😇🙏🏻
Thank you sir .... From Pakistan..... I'm really hurt by my best friend..... I wanted to save her from danger .... And once I got in the same thing to save her .... She left me there alone..... How can someone be so selfish..... I can't ..... I really can't....
when best friend leaves u for another one and they both start ditching u is painful
That is truth of life..
@@DeekParassini I feeling much better without those traitors in my life
@@zunairatahir8855 don’t see them as traitors.. they just made you realize that there are people like this in the world who are not worthy of your friendship. Be thankful for that
@@DeekParassini you are right thanks
My class 12 is about to end in a week...I really really need to move on from my friend circle to progress in life...
My best friend also leave me 😭 i cried whole day really why I loved him I don't know 🤷♀
Guys mai na basically kbhi cmmnt ni krti mgr is vedio pr krugii kyuki mene khud apna ek bahaut acha bestt frns khoya h and ik ki khna asaan h mgr move on krna bahaut mushkil...meri aaj 12 tha ka last day tha and mai in 12 salo mai ek dost ni dhund payi jisse hakk ke sth kh sku ki haan bhyi ye h apni/apna bff...still im missing all my frnd including bff which i lost...but meri advice toh ye hi h guyss ki dostii krne se phlw ye dekhlo ki insaan dogla toh nii.. atleast meri trh mistake na hi krna koi bhi
Mera ek dost hota tha pachpan ka bas humne jo bhi kiya saath kiya job kiya saath kiya hum ek din bhi bina mile reh nai patey the magr ek larki ai fir usne usko importance deni shuru ki fir mujhe ignore marne lga fir ek din maine ussey bola 8 saal ki dosti thi humari ek larki kliye bhai ko importance dega or mujhe ignore marega wo pura havas ka pujari hogya tha or mujhe chhor diya wo bhi sirf ek larki ki wja se. But please keep this in mind dont run after holes
Cutting of all contacts is so hurting. She did that with me. She was my bestie and now i just wanted a contact. But she said , why you want to save the friendship 😭😭😭😭😭
I have a bestfriend from 9th onwards. We were so close. But at the end of 11th he became more company with a new kid who is also his neighbour. Eventually he started avoiding me, he dont text me, call me but always calls and texts the other guy. I just totally became a stranger. I really donno if there is any problem with me i am really asking what did i do to diserve this 🙂
I want to hug someone and cry a lot
Virtual hug my friend ❤
Mai bs Akela Nhi reh sakta.....muje Har waqt koi na koi Chahiye....jo mere sath rahe, mujse bat kare apne Sukh dukh mujse bate........I am not intresting like Married person.... because that is for permanent relationship.......😢😢
I just can't forget him 😭 what should can I do I want him 😭💔
@@DeekParassini this is very hard for me to accept
I need to let go... but I don't want to
its been over 12 year's since due to events outside of my control I lost my childhood best friend with no way of communication, and when I finally did got a hold of him last year, he had moved on and just "regrets abandoning" me
I would legit die for him...
he dont want me
and my heart has trouble to accept it and move on
Sir mere kux online best frnds h unko me khud chor rhii hu aur bhooth hi aklee hi rhe rhii hu😣
My 10 year friendship ended, just beacuse My best friend keeps choosing her new friends and when i tell her to her face that i feel uncomfortable because she keeps only talking about them. So i once asked her why she does that she says she feels embarrassed and it hurt me a lot because it's not the first time she has done such a thing. It's her 5th time doing such a thing this year and she doesn't understand her mistake and it makes me feel bad because whenever i try to put my point of view to be known she keeps saying "idk what i did wrong" and keeps blaming me :(
When we gave to much importance to someone then it's always heart, 💔
Yeah
I had a very good friend since last year but now she's ignoring me and being with other one. I am alone. It's very difficult for me to accept it. I wanted our friendship to last forever.
Don't waste your energy...
Move on...
I have experienced that ....
Accept the fact
Today my best friend left me I was feeling bad😔 even she have new best friend she left to me because of 2 days friend but I am a one year friend for her 😔😔 when I talk her she said you are not my best friend you are only your friend for me I can't forget in my life😔😔😔😔
Sir what if the trust on best friend is more than that of brother or sisters?
@@DeekParassini i agree with you sir.i have an experience( lesson learn) from my best friend sir.
Sir..my best friend left me because that I haven't gave him chocolate when he asked.because there is shortage of chocolate stock that he asked.i see nothing wrong from my side.but I don't know what's wrong with him..he avoided me completely. Do u have any suggestions for this.?
@@learnwithAkshara then the real fact is that He was showing of as a best friend. But he was not really a friend.
@@DeekParassini and it's broken 💔 😢
My best friend leave me because of house shift and now am I here
Sir my bestest of all frnd has left me bcz she got married how to accpet it plz as u told they will change but how to accept that change
Recent days my best friend ignore me, hurt me more than her imagination l emotional touched too much to she l expressed my feelings, l told she everything but she told my feelings to others and laughed but l still think of her for this l enable to focus on my studies what l do now so l decide to leave her it is much more hurt me but l tolerate this and l will overcome from this problem 😞😭🥺😠🥺😞😭😭
The one who had crush on me is now my enemy and my friends have made him their best frnd... They're all together.. Excludede me.... It hurts ..
2:41 agree
Thank you for agreeing
Mine also
So i am a kind of person who don't have much friends but I had a best friend like the real best friend with whom I can share any thing I love her to the moon and back but on a very very silly thing she shared. Being rude to Me and left me we were best friend from last 10 years .I have no one else left in my life now I don't know whome to share my feelings I am devastated she was my support system as I was handling my breakup from a 4 year of toxic relationship now this happened I am all alone now and devastated I don't know where to go what to do this is hell painfull and next to death experience 😔 .....got a lesson no body is permanent in your life no matter what u do for them
@@DeekParassini I don't have good relations with my father and yaaa I have a really supportive mother that's it . Overall no body is there except my mother . I am not close to any Maternal and paternal family neither cousins no one . And that guy that's really a long and complicated thing and i am not over it 😑
Sir,I had best friend since 6 years I treated him as more than brother because I don't have brothers.Many of the arguments and fights happened in these years but not breaked relation.since 4 months he is started saying that you are one of my close friend but not high and I can live with out you and you wants to be happy even in my absence. So from these words I get feeled anger and started fighting with him since 4 months.Finally he leaved me right now and he say not to talk and don't do call for him.I think my possessiveness is only reason for this.And I agree for mistake is mainly due to myself but he cant listening right now.But now I just need atleast he wants to talk with me irrespective of bestie relationship.I am feeling so nervous with out talking to him.So please give me the suggestions to overcome from this problem.
Look I'm also same situation it's very difficult to leave someone whom you emotionally attached but I'm always thinking if he lives without me than why I can't, if I'm really important person to him he never leave me. But the truth is he ignore me for his other frds. Just accept the truth your not special to anyone, your not important to anyone , your not bestie for anyone.
@@ramesh-dz7kj I have believed him very too much. But he leaved me after connected close with another person . Everyday I am thinking about him including night time. And I cant control that pain when i see his excitement over his friends.Still I am trying to talk but he is avoiding me. Really it is unforgettable pain for me until my life ends.
@@unattractive-person I felt this pain so many times, I also had bestie, I only I consider him as bestie but he didn't consider me as bestie, he want frd ship of others. I saw him how he ignored me for other person. He just used me, take advantage, and for timepass. Wt you think im not living now. Listen if you love, care, give important to that person more than anyone then think how he is unlucky, he lost you. I know it's very difficult to lose emotional attachment from someone. But believe me after somedays u just become like that type of person, u never believe others words so easily, never trust anyone, never give advantage someone can use you, focus on your career because this is only u can change your life it's not happening by someone frd ship. I know this days difficult but u should be strong. Good luck 👍👍
@@ramesh-dz7kj Thank you bro for your great advice 👏
@@unattractive-person your always welcome 😍
why they leave us after knowing that we can't live without them
I'am in pain plz help me
My friend said to me leave me alone don't involve my personal matter ... Ok but sir I can't leave her I am not involving her personal ,I am just upset while she is talking to her friend I can't control my feeling, I got fear that I am gona miss my friend
ahh thats the moment when u r bestie cant feels u thats bad but soon u r bestie will be ok
fine dont be sad .......
Yes...your right sir
Im so hurted...its my own experience
But how to forget the memories sir?!??
With time u will forget every thing just keep on engaging with ur own daily works, i know that its much harder but its possible, focus on ur goal not on that deciever!
Same
@@roshansharma1720 thanks 🙏
Today my female bestfriend😢 left me because of her boyfriend.
Had a girl bff...was very close to her...in a span of 2 weeks everything changed...she has blocked me on snap...she doesn't want to see my face..
Trust me guys I have not done something wrong...Gave her a lot of importance and she backstabbed
Amazing lecture 😌 subscribed instantly 👍
All Thanks to God😇🙏🏻 .. Thank you for your comments and subscribing
My 4 friend leave me yesterday and i was so sad and i literally I was start crying and my one frnd came and also be with me but know when I am writing this comment I start cry cuz I am missing those stupid peoples that was biggest part of my life I am 16 but I know how to control our feelings but I can't control it my one frnd just remove me from there phn I was just like what the hel is this i only want that God give me my friends back if you don't want to give me to plz change my mind thinking and stop showing me that I am alony frnds always showing that they were happy after me .... But know God plz give me justice plzz
I never do bad for my friends😭..
Pls brother don't be sad hope u will find a true friend❤
0:31 good ques
:)
I wise i had a person to talk to , share my feelings, I try to stay strong every time, but in some nights, i just can't, My mother left me when my father died, I had a best friend he died in a car accident, after that I made a friend who just recently stab behind my back, really hurts really, ngl
Your mother left you to whom ? I understand without a mother is difficult due to which you looked for that mother in a friend and that person also left you... If you like to talk let me know or WhatsApp on 00971562996446
her boyfriend make her to not talk to me🙂
and she is my best friend
sorry
she was.....
my best friend of 11 years stabbed me in the back and left me today, i loved him to death, and i cant believe me left me, its extremely hard
I understand. How long the relationship went, doesn't really matter. At the end the truth is understood is what that really matters.
my bestie leave me and now I am here
You are here now and then ?
My best friend left me and disrespected me
My 11 year old best friend leaves me 😢 so i am here today
I'm just here after mine best friend leave me and it sucks me every day that how i could be so dumb to be expected🙂
It a great realisation and hope that has helped you to move on
It's 100 true sir ..it had hpnd...soo don't express anything over.. don't gv importantance....tooo sir..
Thank you for agreeing and supporting
Sir i have losted my best friend near about 3 months ago but till I am not able toh overcome the pain and move on how can i do it
hi
My best friend left me and changed after my Cancer detection she changed and found new attachment...i begged infront of her for her love imp care but she didn't she was like my real own sister.,. already going through cancer treatment depression more depressed after she left 😓
Dear you don't need her neither her support and care I know it's sounds too much hard but this is reality if didn't come on her own she will never gonna come even you begged in front of her when people changes they change in seconds and days and for you it's better to accept the reality
She is not your best friend
Don't take tension God bless you
My friend gone to dubai
Sir how to stop thinking about people who left and move on , focus on your competitive exam?
@@DeekParassini Not now Sir but there is a huge possibility that we will meet or be each other's classmates. All the anger and future thoughts that what if the possibility comes true or other related thoughts comes to my mind while I am not able to solve question or topic seems tough means I get distracted and goes to the zone of thinking about them.
Mainly I think maybe I have done something wrong to them or as we are going to switch to college , they don't need me anymore. Many fights and arguments happened in 3 years but all of them were resolved mainly by her but sometimes by me and I was CR and one of the known students of my class.
I have a best friend,he is soo good,caring, loving,he only listen to me nd etc... But I know he is gonna leave me one day, and one day we won't talk anymore, and whenever I tried to avoid him or leave him just to make myself protect from attachment he always start crying, what to do..........
Then pls brother don't leave at any cost pls don't do that be with him &make him happy
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Sir i am riya i am 13 year old ine question i had a best freind (girl)we were together for 11 years and suddenly she left me i am still in troma i am deppresed and today she deid and she dint even talk to me once what should i do now
what do you mean by she died
@@Anonmyous7 - obviously exactly what "she died" means, as in heart stopping, life ended.