Dosti Ka Break-Up - Helly Shah | Kahaaniya - A Storytelling Show By Tape A Tale

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  • @JohnRoadster-n1t
    @JohnRoadster-n1t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3731

    Losing an old friend is worse than breakup🙁

  • @ppurva8268
    @ppurva8268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3724

    It Really Hurts When... Ur Best friend make another best friend in front of uhhh🙂

  • @Happy_13119
    @Happy_13119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2429

    And now I afraid to call someone"best friend"

    • @abhay6095
      @abhay6095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @swetarani2418
      @swetarani2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ys same here 😔

    • @Aditya-rr1uc
      @Aditya-rr1uc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My bestfriend lefted me without reason i am crying from last 3 days😭😭

    • @swetarani2418
      @swetarani2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Aditya-rr1uc same here my bestie got married without inviting me but last 4 days

    • @swetarani2418
      @swetarani2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Aditya-rr1uc go ahead just say aao to welcome jaooo to bhir kam

  • @anubhutibramhane6481
    @anubhutibramhane6481 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    "Jab insaan ka vakt badlta hai ..insaan khud bhi badal jate hain "... really felt it 🥀🥀

  • @adityaharsh688
    @adityaharsh688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1637

    Losing a best friend, is the most painfull experience

    • @blinkmandu3156
      @blinkmandu3156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right...

    • @shivanimanyal2984
      @shivanimanyal2984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hve exp this pain

    • @vidhilaxkar1785
      @vidhilaxkar1785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Especially when u lose a best friend who is also ur very close relative...😢

    • @rishabh7440m
      @rishabh7440m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It happened wid me today 🙂

    • @vijaykavhad4277
      @vijaykavhad4277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really

  • @Manisha_Viswakarma
    @Manisha_Viswakarma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4354

    It really pains when your best friend ignores you....

    • @eimankhan8804
      @eimankhan8804 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Manisha Viswakarma right

    • @Manisha_Viswakarma
      @Manisha_Viswakarma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@eimankhan8804 ..but they don't understand.. Especially girl bestie

    • @lastminute_8520
      @lastminute_8520 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea❤

    • @railloverabhi3884
      @railloverabhi3884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree

    • @aleeshakhan9751
      @aleeshakhan9751 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Happened to me 😭😭😭😭😭😭 my bestie ignored me but she say sorry to me and now we are beasties

  • @ojasvenipanwar7426
    @ojasvenipanwar7426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +625

    When I watch this vedio first time (3 years ago) I thought sbse sath aisa nhi hota.
    But now I found it completely relatable😔

    • @preeti4497
      @preeti4497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      but ye to sach hai na sabke sath aisa nahi hota

    • @neha4aish
      @neha4aish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ditto 💔

    • @subhanginipadhi5955
      @subhanginipadhi5955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah u r right🙂

    • @Sam-mo1ug
      @Sam-mo1ug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truee

    • @prachitaroy7349
      @prachitaroy7349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@preeti4497 Pata nahi dude maine bhi pehle yeh hi socha tha sabke sath nahi hota eisa but eisa hota hai mere sath recently ho chuka hai or you can say ho raha hai isliye apne man ko disala dene ke liye iha aayi hu🙂 but the thing is that I have one more sweety, cutie, lovely pie with me she is also my best friend so, I atleast have that much support for coming out from this disgusting feeling.

  • @aayushibhardwaj2507
    @aayushibhardwaj2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    Losing a best friend is more painful then breakup. I lost my 8 yr old friendship. Finally we are just 2 strangers who knows all the secrets of each other.

    • @theuditg
      @theuditg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙂🙂😭🤧

    • @aayushibhardwaj2507
      @aayushibhardwaj2507 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theuditg 🥺

    • @theuditg
      @theuditg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bhai meri bhi 8 saal ki dosti thi iss saal 9th year hone wali thi😩but kisi 3rd person ke liye hamari dosti tut gai🙂 wo ladki meri zindagi se ase chale gai jese ham ek dusre ko kabhi jante hi nhi the🙂

    • @theuditg
      @theuditg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nd wo ladka aur koi nhi mera bhai he🙂 me hi milwaya tha unn dono ko 😖par kisko pata tha ase hoga.... Ab wo bestfrnd ka tag uss ladke ke pas he🙂

    • @aayushibhardwaj2507
      @aayushibhardwaj2507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@theuditg mere sath bi exactly same hua... I can understand. But uske baad bhut change ho gyi m. But I am happy alone now. The one thing after her that hit me is " what if everything you are going through is preparing you for what you asked for ?". We had plans . but now I have better plans. Ia m going abroad, next month, uske jaane k baad at the age of 19 I started earning. My parents are proud of me. Nd I am like shyed achha hua vo gyi..kuki vo meri per ki janjeer thi and now I am all free flying high. Time heals everything don't worry ☺️

  • @syednida2761
    @syednida2761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5388

    Who is watching this after breakup with best friend like me....

  • @gurleenkalottee7318
    @gurleenkalottee7318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    U know what is more painful.... When u know that your friendship is getting fragile day by day but u r just not accepting it

  • @tejashriwabale2224
    @tejashriwabale2224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    When best friend ingnors you for someone else hurts the most🙂🙂

  • @AkankshaSingh-q7b
    @AkankshaSingh-q7b 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    3 years ago - me and my best friend watched this video together. And said in our heart... Hmari dosti bahut pakki hai. Hmare saath aisa kabhi nahi hoga.. Bcoz we truly love each other alot. And kitni bhi mushkil aa jae we'll talk and sort things out...
    Coz of course it's "US"
    3 years later : I'm watching this video alone. And everytime I watch this, there's a drop of tear that rolls down my cheek. I miss her.

  • @aditiaher7
    @aditiaher7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    I never thought that the friend who used to sit besides me in school would mean nothing one day! It's painful!

  • @alitariq5133
    @alitariq5133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    "Sometimes you miss the MEMORIES not the person.....! "
    (Anonymous)

  • @kalpanathapa9490
    @kalpanathapa9490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Breakup in friendships hurt more

    • @ruchitiwari2755
      @ruchitiwari2755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said..

    • @bhatfozia5739
      @bhatfozia5739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ruchitiwari2755 really

    • @ashnajha235
      @ashnajha235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah

    • @ApekshaArtCraft
      @ApekshaArtCraft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah 😭 I have a new best friend now after the break up with old one but...... I still remember her she was the one who understood me who stood for me and who.... left me alone

    • @sanskarchaudhary7542
      @sanskarchaudhary7542 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes 😭😭😭

  • @pianoguy5110
    @pianoguy5110 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Realizing that a friend you trusted has betrayed you and taken advantage of you for their own benefit can be much more upsetting than simply ending the friendship. ☹

  • @gonegirl3954
    @gonegirl3954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Reminds me of this girl who was my best friend. We were in high school and we used to sit in the last bench, sharing lunches and laughing at everything during class. I'd defend her always and would do anything for her. Later that year, she started talking to a guy and tried to distance herself from me slowly. It was so hard to let go cuz I couldn't see anything beyond our friendship. One day they stopped talking or something and she came back to me. As much as I'd have liked a fresh start with her, something made me take a step back. I backed off and didn't go all in for having back the same kind of friendship. I realized that was literally one of the best things to happen to me because in terms of personal growth. I think of that whenever I've to face a change. When some people leave you, they leave with an impact on you. It doesn't necessarily make you miss them or anything but it'll definitely teach you ways to move on to better things. :)

    • @tashiagrawal1494
      @tashiagrawal1494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ur story is so amazing and inspiring........now I have decided I will move on from my fake Best friend......it will be really better for me.....😇😇

    • @gonegirl3954
      @gonegirl3954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tashiagrawal1494 aw, I'm glad! Yup, do it. That was actually one of my school friends from a couple of years ago. Right now I've a good friends group. It's about time and eventually, you'll find your people :D

    • @tashiagrawal1494
      @tashiagrawal1494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gonegirl3954 yeah....I will do that and hopefully it will work....😊😊

    • @gonegirl3954
      @gonegirl3954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tashiagrawal1494 yess gurl, it will ✨ that'll be one of best things you'll do for yourself. ☺️

    • @tashiagrawal1494
      @tashiagrawal1494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gonegirl3954 yupppp 😊

  • @iqramasood6791
    @iqramasood6791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    When i first watched this, me and my bestfriend were on so good terms that I thought, "wtf, is this? bestfriends don't leave and if they do, theyr not your bestfriend". Today, I came back to this because she has started ignoring me, disliking me. even judging me. she said that she hates to see my messages in her notification bar.

    • @relaxinglives2443
      @relaxinglives2443 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Iqra Masood May I

    • @priyanshijain2076
      @priyanshijain2076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely true yrr if your best friend leave you it mean he or she is not your best friend

    • @riyagarg753
      @riyagarg753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      My best frnd saif who are you to interfere in my personal life.. And i did a favour to her that i never disturbed her again.. 🙂it hurts but i think that was the best decision of my life

    • @नवनीतमुकाती
      @नवनीतमुकाती 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@riyagarg753 if you think that ,that was the best decision then may be you were also wanting that,or may you were also feeling same

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      @dr.bilalahmadkhan2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @harshitmarandi3317
    @harshitmarandi3317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    I was here 2 years back when I had a breakup with my best friend and guess what I am again here with the same pain.....hope everything heals ♥

    • @Princhi22
      @Princhi22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same🙂🙂🙂

    • @NikhilKumar-jm5dj
      @NikhilKumar-jm5dj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Its 2 month for mine.....hope time will heal everything

    • @Avisemwal
      @Avisemwal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's my current situation. Kbhi feel ni kiya tha
      Or situation itni worst h. Ki jo hr kuch ka sharing partner tha aaj whi chle gya yrr .... , Want to Forget him... but how 😔

    • @natexa2303
      @natexa2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      7years of friendship i called her and ask a simple question we meet 500 people and 100 people we know with 50 we talk but with those 5 we share all our pain who are those 5 she said but u was not even in here list not even no.1 she replaced 7 years of friendship from 1 year of friendship how funny is that

    • @komalchauhan1992
      @komalchauhan1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its been 3 years

  • @susmitadas7775
    @susmitadas7775 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    It even hurts more when your best friend forgot completely about your existence 😄

  • @shefaliy
    @shefaliy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1374

    Goal for 2024: Don't make any 'best friends'. Just have friends and focus on building your empire kids :)
    Edit 0: changed 2020 to 2021 🙂
    Edit 1:changed 2021 to 2022
    Edit 2: changed 2022 to 2023
    Edit 3: changed 2023 to 2024

    • @abuzeryermal9841
      @abuzeryermal9841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol ..by the way great thought

    • @Priyanka-bq4ze
      @Priyanka-bq4ze 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yehh

    • @divyalohtia9104
      @divyalohtia9104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      right 😊😊

    • @dew7383
      @dew7383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It is not always right.... My friend Vio always take care of me and help me.... But in some cases it may be right

    • @bansilal8877
      @bansilal8877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right

  • @kumarsaurabhsingh2389
    @kumarsaurabhsingh2389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Dear speaker helly shah...
    U r awesome... Wish I could I have speaking skills like u...
    This is just an incredible piece of emotions...
    I can relate myself to this....

  • @ritikvarshney2590
    @ritikvarshney2590 5 ปีที่แล้ว +663

    Sabke sath yehi hota hai....
    Kyuki jise hum apna best friends samjhte hai uske best friends koi or hi hota hai

    • @sushmaksheesagar459
      @sushmaksheesagar459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's right

    • @jeetbhatt5986
      @jeetbhatt5986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true very true

    • @Tt-chemzs
      @Tt-chemzs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Han bilkul sahi

    • @zohawamique7833
      @zohawamique7833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      100 % true' hai mery sath bhi same jis Ko mein apni best friend samjhti Hun uski koi aur best friend hai 😥

    • @jeetbhatt5986
      @jeetbhatt5986 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zohawamique7833 same happened to me too

  • @mycollection2935
    @mycollection2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Once I also had a best friend. I was a fresh student in my school that time I met her. We started to sit together once one of my teacher made us sit apart that time she cried a lot even didn't talk to the person she sat with then we again started to sit together share our lunch. The most funniest thing was she fought with boys a lot but everytime I managed to cool her down. Then after 8th class we all change our school we ever did a farewell in which she was the one who make my father allow me to go to that farewell. But after changing our school I use to message her but never got a reply back. She even told me that she doesn't have time for me now and she have a new best friend too. .
    I just wish that I will never meet her again 😔

    • @knowingartcraft3433
      @knowingartcraft3433 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaar meri bhi ek dost h wo bhi yhi kehti h ki mere pas time nhi h mujhe ignore bhi krti h jbse hm dusre section me hue h .
      Baat time ki to nhi par priority ki hoti h .

    • @Anvisha5454
      @Anvisha5454 ปีที่แล้ว

      This same is done with me

  • @shubhimishra1500
    @shubhimishra1500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    2:31 Tum bdl gyi ho 😒😏😟...hit like if u hv also heard d same line from ur frndz

    • @elizabethrobert8913
      @elizabethrobert8913 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meevtoo

    • @anoushamudasser4135
      @anoushamudasser4135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      8 saal!...yar 8 saal ki dosti...woh jealously mai aa ker aik second mai khatum ker k chali gai...but...i still love her because she was my BFF...

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    • @Routeatingchallenge
      @Routeatingchallenge 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya ya

  • @iambithika
    @iambithika 5 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    "Dil toh mera saaf tha, par shayad mere shabd mayle the....
    Man toh mera naadan tha, par shayd waqt ke man mein khot thi....
    Socha achcha, kiya bura....
    Areh chot lagi thi mujhe,
    Khoon nikal raha tha!!"
    I completely relate to this situation as I'm going through it!!! Well said, Helly!!!!

    • @sonaljethwa7174
      @sonaljethwa7174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is waqt se me bhi gujri hu kitana kathin hota hai woh har ek waqt jab unke liye kabhi nahi badal ne ki chah rakhate the aur pal bhar me badal Kar Hume jindagi bhar ka dukh de jate hai..😭😭😭

    • @tarunimaghatak7820
      @tarunimaghatak7820 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How r u now ??

    • @kareenakadiri7652
      @kareenakadiri7652 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same my life situation 😢😭😭😭

    • @beingultimatelikeapro7402
      @beingultimatelikeapro7402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @mr.jeonswife4172
      @mr.jeonswife4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaa..... me too

  • @kamalaraskoti1580
    @kamalaraskoti1580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    IT REALLY hearts when ur bff don't talk,ignotes messages😭😭

  • @puranjat9527
    @puranjat9527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I used to hear this on tik tok. That time I used to think "dost thod bdlte hai, kuch bhi mtlb". Today I'm hearing this with tears in my eyes. I can bate nothing can be more heartbreaking than slowly slowly losing your best friend but you can't do anything 💔.

  • @karishmasharma6404
    @karishmasharma6404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Making a bestfrnd is never a decided action but leaving her is our own thought... I have almost no contact with my bestf rn and would surely continue the same... He left me at the point when i needed him the most bcoz of her gf, and now when i look back at the memories, i am reminded of all the care and love he used to show me at some point of time. He was the first and the last person i ever trusted ... I thought that boys could be different and caring but he made me realise for the best that NEVER trust anyone, literally none. They gonna hurt u badly and leave u completely shattered where no one can possibly bring u back except u... And for surely, it takes a hell lot of time and guts to overcome this while u have act completely normal in front of others around u. Goal of 2020 to forever is to make no bestfrnds or any bond on which u trust almost blindly.

    • @saahil111
      @saahil111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You read my heart....this is exactly what I went through😭

    • @THEHIMALYANTraveller
      @THEHIMALYANTraveller 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U said right... How they turn with time they never care that what the other have feelings for him / her

  • @mugdhabele8058
    @mugdhabele8058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Just wow!! I just saw this girl accidentally on tiktok and then searched for her on youtube... and now I'm her such a big fan😊

  • @varshaagrawal659
    @varshaagrawal659 5 ปีที่แล้ว +854

    Anyone who needs a pure soul to talk to and befriend with 😭

  • @Jsjenn
    @Jsjenn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The fact that this one experience makes you believe that all the other friendships will also one day fade away just hits hard .

  • @basskarr8979
    @basskarr8979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The best line : insaan ka jb wakt badalta hai , toh insaan khud bhi badal jata h❤️

  • @angel716
    @angel716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Iraade Badal Jate Hain
    Lafz Badal Jate Hain
    Rishte Badal Jate Hain
    Khuda Bhi Badal Jata Hai
    Jab Insan Ka Waqt Badalta Hai Na
    Toh Insan Khud Bhi Badal Jata Hai..🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    This is Reality of Life

    • @vishnudhandar8808
      @vishnudhandar8808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea this is reality 😢😢

    • @shreyapoudel4332
      @shreyapoudel4332 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @All_Tech_ Strange_Music ❤❤❤

    • @priyankalilar89
      @priyankalilar89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wao .......
      Nice lines.. .
      Awesome..

    • @sidkhansid553
      @sidkhansid553 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice lines yrrrrrrrrrrrr

    • @sidkhansid553
      @sidkhansid553 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @All_Tech_ Strange_Music yrrrrr khas aapki dost WPS aa Ajay aur uski aur aapki dosti phle jesi ho Jaye air aur fir aap use kbhi waps na Jane de

  • @zacksparrow2046
    @zacksparrow2046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    When your bestfriend ignore you😏, it's really most painful for others😥

    • @g.m.zaffir5897
      @g.m.zaffir5897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Keep it in mind... Best friend never ignores.. Ignores the time, situation aur Sache dost kabhi nhi badalte

    • @jitendrapradhan3901
      @jitendrapradhan3901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Painful for others?????😕😕😕😕

    • @priyankagochhayat8759
      @priyankagochhayat8759 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks yaar..... koi ta samajh rahahe

    • @anjaliprasad6558
      @anjaliprasad6558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zack Sparrow
      Ya u r right bhaut pain hota hai

    • @wanilovingdssier8298
      @wanilovingdssier8298 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@g.m.zaffir5897 but sometimes it is

  • @ananyaairani2320
    @ananyaairani2320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    It hurts when your best friend breaks up with you.
    But what hurts more is when she befriends your enemy 🙃

  • @varungoel9519
    @varungoel9519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Literally brought tears in my eyes, as could relate😭

  • @anjaligupta7054
    @anjaligupta7054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    So true...Today we meet, we share our greets..But the reason for the smile she holds, now no more within me unfolds...She has moved on so did I.. But trust me, this moving on today seems better than those rude GOODBYES...but she still owns a special place in my life..#HerOldBestFriend..✊✊✊❤

  • @tanishaagrawal9861
    @tanishaagrawal9861 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Bilkul sahi kaha aapne......
    Dosti eshi hi hoti hai...
    Kab best friend se anjan bana deti hai pata hi nhi chalta......

  • @praniksharunwal793
    @praniksharunwal793 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel like crying 😭 after hearing this , when someone leaves you like you never mattered.

  • @sharmidhar6534
    @sharmidhar6534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    I'm going through the same situation. I can feel each of your words

    • @paramjeetbind7338
      @paramjeetbind7338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mee too

    • @bijarniyarekha6903
      @bijarniyarekha6903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too.......
      Same esa hi mene feel kiya h.... recently..apni best frnd ko khona.... sbse gndi feeling in this world....lgta h jese duniya ruk si gyi h 😭😭😭😭 colourless lgta h sbkuch....or fr kisi ko dost banane ka mn niii krta 😢😢😭😭😭

    • @swarnimatiwari148
      @swarnimatiwari148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with me 😭😭

    • @mayadutta9371
      @mayadutta9371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me also.

    • @parveenfatima7046
      @parveenfatima7046 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same same

  • @nalinivarma2134
    @nalinivarma2134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    दोस्त "हमउम्र" ना भी हो तो...
    *कोई बात नहीं*
    *मगर "हमखयाल"...*
    जरूर होना चाहिए !!

  • @sanikasinnarkar7020
    @sanikasinnarkar7020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I felt the same when I was in 9th....so relatable, people changes and that hurts most....seeing the best friend with new friends and their ignorance kills..😭😭😭

    • @arhamgamingchannel9129
      @arhamgamingchannel9129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am also in 9 class my best friend blocks me and we cannot meet also in school due to lockdown it's so painfull for me I can't talk her I can't msg her😭

    • @SanjayJadhav-sz7pi
      @SanjayJadhav-sz7pi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My situation is also same my friend do breakup with me when I was in 9 th class and now I am 12 th after 7 year of strong Fri endship she did break up with me and make another friends she block also on WhatsApp but I have some hopes everything will be heal but now I should not keep hopes I understood but I really felt glad by watching this video now I understood various people are in this world who gone same situation all things change even friends also.

    • @sanikasinnarkar7020
      @sanikasinnarkar7020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SanjayJadhav-sz7pi This shall too pass. And then you will realise its better to be alone than to be in toxic relationship. Believe there are lot many good friends you deserve than the one you are sad for.

    • @salonikumari8068
      @salonikumari8068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am also in 9th and yesterday I lost my best friend

    • @Anvisha5454
      @Anvisha5454 ปีที่แล้ว

      I make only one friend and best friend in my life in 8 class we both studied 1 to 8 in same school in 9 i go in another school they go in another school i go in their school because it ise my bestfriend I think . But in her school they ignoring me they not talk to me even they can't say hii by me I think that it is the moment where i got stuck but until i didn't make another bestfriend or friends

  • @Indiancricket709
    @Indiancricket709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Today I broke up with my friend (both are girls),
    I asked why she did that with me then she replied me that we are just friends but literally I considered her my best friend. I gave her too much imortance that she didn't deserve. Now I am 24/7 only thinking about her. But after watching this vedio, I got to know that people change too fast. She hurt me too much. Because of her I cried so much.

    • @Clumsyhumann
      @Clumsyhumann ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This same thing happened with me 5years , I did whatever I could, I understood her racist side, but I accepted her as how she was & after gaining every every benefit that she could, exams me paper me copy karne se pass hone se lekar everything (why I mentioned it because career is the most imp, nobody does this for you, nobody can do after tolerating so much of shit) then finally after graduating with just 2 percent less (earlier she use to pass by grace markings) than me she was feeling on, 9th cloud and then she told me by uploading a status that I am not her friend and that day I came to know even after warning signs I never left her and this was my bad karma to understand her insulting behavior (but I considered her my friend like a sibling) and till today this is my biggest regret of life, that I tolerated her :) after all its all my "karma" "I tolerated her "

    • @HappinessisKrishna
      @HappinessisKrishna ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😔

  • @ashnajha235
    @ashnajha235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    OMG!! So powerful are your words didi. I am going through the same situation. But now I am cleared about this worst situation. Life goes on...with that person or without that person!

  • @abinashsahoo4204
    @abinashsahoo4204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your words stopped me from crying..I am watching this video daily..even 4 to 5 times a day.. Thanks for your words..

  • @arcturus0202
    @arcturus0202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    At the end I realized... We should learn enjoy your own company.. No one is permanent at all...😔

    • @rishurohit5181
      @rishurohit5181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Swati Chaurasia ryt .. best frnd is just for name sake these days

    • @chandaniyadav1592
      @chandaniyadav1592 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right hai mam

    • @musicphone9452
      @musicphone9452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haa par phir bhi hum dund te hai kosi ek ko jiske saath hum sab share kar sake jinhe hum bohot important dete hai par insan acche nahi hote muje dhoka mila

    • @GopalKumar-oh4st
      @GopalKumar-oh4st 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really !!.. Right... I enjoyed... To be with myself but suddenly... You found someone... Jo.... Apka best friend bnta hain.. And apse promise krta hain.. Aapko kabhi bhi akela nhi chorga.. But one day.. They just left us !.. They do not care.. About us !.. Becoz.. They have found.. Someone.. And.. We are just left !..... *loneliness is the best feeling when it is created by ourself but it is the worst feeling when it is gifted by others*
      Nd.. Know. I am not able to enjoy my own company ! I am just trying to be normal.. But.. I can't.. I just need time. To. Stand up ! 😢

    • @supriyadas4825
      @supriyadas4825 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly dear..we should learn to enjoy our own self..and if once we learn that .. believe me there is no comparison to that ..there are so much in our own self to discover ourself..

  • @Universeismine23
    @Universeismine23 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:16 seriously this line touch bottom of my heart .... 2022 is my best teacher ever this year has taught me alot ,showing many of my loved one as strangers , those friends who used to be my life for whome i could do anything , making those friends UNKNOWN ...... THE WORST thing is that they all left my life and didn't even tell me the reason what wa my fault .....

  • @ishanibanerjee9221
    @ishanibanerjee9221 6 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    This story is very much related to me. Yes once I also had a best friend who was my soul mate ...but then I got to know that she never ever thought me as her best friend and that day I realized that i was being fooled for all these years....

    • @unbreakablesoul6188
      @unbreakablesoul6188 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sad to hear

    • @Rohit.Gaikwad
      @Rohit.Gaikwad 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You Know what @Ishani That's why you should have male friends because Yeh toh fact rahega ke Female ke pas most male friends rehte hai rather than females,Atleast your female friend has a male friend to talk so you also do the same

    • @ishanibanerjee9221
      @ishanibanerjee9221 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Rohit.Gaikwad thanx for your advice

    • @Rohit.Gaikwad
      @Rohit.Gaikwad 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ishanibanerjee9221 most welcome 😄

    • @VikramKumar-yx8oz
      @VikramKumar-yx8oz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hlo

  • @khushibalo7049
    @khushibalo7049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +884

    I still can't found a frnd to call my bestie 😔😔
    Will uhh wish me luck ☺

    • @RohitKumar-to7no
      @RohitKumar-to7no 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Make me ur bestie
      Rohit from mumbai

    • @sahaj2121
      @sahaj2121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here

    • @latabalotiya3940
      @latabalotiya3940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@RohitKumar-to7no
      Best frnd bolne se nhi bnte . It is a bond by heart .............and nothing

    • @syedaaliyakaifi8326
      @syedaaliyakaifi8326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @shrutimalakar563
      @shrutimalakar563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

  • @RapBoom1
    @RapBoom1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    in 5th class teacher told class write something about your bestfriend i wrote everything then teacher said read it loudly then my bestfriend went first but i was not that bestfriend in his story

    • @i_dont_care1596
      @i_dont_care1596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh that must of hurt...I wish you the best

    • @farihakhan682
      @farihakhan682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ohh so sad 😯

    • @simar6215
      @simar6215 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yuppsss smehere😢😢😢😢

    • @farihakhan682
      @farihakhan682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@simar6215 ohhhh

    • @simar6215
      @simar6215 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@farihakhan682 😔😔😔😔😔😭😭😭

  • @mynameisartist3074
    @mynameisartist3074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nd u were so sweet and innocent that u never get over that 2 pal ki khushi jo fake friendship ke roop me samne aai

  • @khushbu_luhar
    @khushbu_luhar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So proud to say, she was my senior!😊❤

  • @gazalrathi546
    @gazalrathi546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    "Iraade chahe kitne bhi nek kyu na ho, agar unhe jataane ka tareeka sahi nahi toh khuda bhi azaan ko aadat samajh leta hai" 💝

    • @ravisirtutorials6015
      @ravisirtutorials6015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know you have listened everything but this is the gist of the tale... superb lines dear which you have captured through this story...

    • @paritoshkanojia4608
      @paritoshkanojia4608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Khubsurat lines h ye... #applaud

    • @gazalrathi546
      @gazalrathi546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No matter how good your intentions are, if your way of conveying is not appropriate then even God (Allah) consider your worship as a habbit.

    • @shraddhabile.946
      @shraddhabile.946 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      U nailed it

    • @amitgupta7386
      @amitgupta7386 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gazal Rathi ......kya sach me ye baat sach h...

  • @shreya5102
    @shreya5102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Jab insaan ka wakt badal jata h tab wo khud bhi badal jata h. So true!!!!!!💔😭

    • @farheenfatima3080
      @farheenfatima3080 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shreya G haa yaar meri best frnd ne bih kuch aisa kiya😭😭😭😭😭

    • @adityashah6962
      @adityashah6962 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So truee

    • @rahulsinghchauhan21
      @rahulsinghchauhan21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shreya G no that’s not the truth, wo nahi badalte logo ka dekhne ka najaria badal jata h

    • @shreya5102
      @shreya5102 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rahul Chauhan So trueeeeee!!!

    • @ekudvign
      @ekudvign 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Rahul Chauhan log bhi badal jate h .. kabhi dost jo jindagi ho apki bas ladki mil jaye to ...use hi apni jindagi bana leta h aor aap ....... bas ek timepass....

  • @homeshikhakanjilal1954
    @homeshikhakanjilal1954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a bestie and she will be my bestie, no matter if our friendship will break. Because dil tuze diya hain Jaan vi denge. I love you my bestie. Friends pray for our long lasting friendship.

  • @priyaagarwal5061
    @priyaagarwal5061 6 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    Meri bestie Meri duniya thi.... Lakin vo bhi badal gyi

  • @fatimahanifhanif1542
    @fatimahanifhanif1542 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Why am i listening ovrr and ovr againn??
    Oo godd i hvee listnedd 100 timeess

    • @saimakhan8435
      @saimakhan8435 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fatima Hanif Hanif same😅

    • @shraddhabile.946
      @shraddhabile.946 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bcz U r Missing sm1 whom u once cld to be ur best friend 😃

    • @bhoomikotecha9824
      @bhoomikotecha9824 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me

    • @kammudhaka2874
      @kammudhaka2874 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shraddhabile.946 really.. You are right dear... When I listen it... I can't control myself..

    • @MOHAMMADUSMAN-eb9ce
      @MOHAMMADUSMAN-eb9ce 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be positive bcoz waqt badal gaya hai

  • @manishamadaan8055
    @manishamadaan8055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is the best poetry i hv ever listened
    U nailed it at the end👌

  • @kamalsakhuja4333
    @kamalsakhuja4333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    it really hurts when your best friend leaves you for someone else💔💔

  • @ritsnay4717
    @ritsnay4717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +899

    Wow so amazing I can totally relate to this superb...u killed it...😘😘😊😋👌👍✌

  • @hassan.javaid3776
    @hassan.javaid3776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Obviously the best video i saw on TH-cam today 😍

  • @kolkata9049
    @kolkata9049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It was very well articulated and expressed!! I am moved by how you narrated it

  • @dooodle134
    @dooodle134 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I dont think anyone would understand these words better than me.....she actually spoke out what all was there in my heart....it hurts alot.

  • @jasvirsingh53
    @jasvirsingh53 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I also lost my Best Friend, just because of a Misunderstanding, Hope I get her back in my Life,

  • @mumtazmemon6527
    @mumtazmemon6527 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    True....i tooo had my best friend forever for life but i did something right for her but she think it wrng i jst want to make aware of wrong way ...but she doesnt bcoz of this today we r seprate

  • @bindeshmehta2831
    @bindeshmehta2831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Di your poetries are the best treat to my soul....i relate alot to your poetries😘

  • @bhumijaiswal6048
    @bhumijaiswal6048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It really really hurts when ur best friend ignores u
    When she don't value ur presence ur love,care and everything. i feel it now 💔

  • @farhanaqureshi8645
    @farhanaqureshi8645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    U made me cry Helly.
    Its been almost 4 months me n my Best friend dint talk.... although v r wrking in same institute....
    She also said Tum badal gayee ho.
    Just becoz I became her head even aftr her junior....

  • @souravagarwal2199
    @souravagarwal2199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    903 dislikes from the people who either don't have a best friend or haven't gone through this phase maybe 🙂

  • @dr.dikshayadav8639
    @dr.dikshayadav8639 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That’s true
    Sb Badal jaate h
    Koi kisika schha dost nai hota
    Isley unke na hone k piche wqt zaya krna hi sbse bdi glti hoti h
    Iss duniya me bs maa baap hi apne schhe hote h
    Apneap ko itna kmzor na bnana kbhi k koi b ese apki zindagi me aakr apki feelings Aur emotion ko tamaach maar jae
    Dosti yaari se wishwaas uth gaya h abto
    Iss shbq se ajib si vibes aati h
    Koi kisika apna nai bn skta
    Sb mtlabi hi hote h Aur by the end apna roop dikha dete h
    Afsos k sivay Aur kuch nai rehta fr zindagi me k jis insaan se itni bonding thi usne kbhi apna smja hi nai tha

    • @Nostalgicbanda03
      @Nostalgicbanda03 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True...... Mai khuda se hamesha yahi pray karunga ki jo dena chahe wo de magar friends kabhi na de🙏 all friends are 💩

  • @ifrakhanifrakhan3734
    @ifrakhanifrakhan3734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jb apni bestie ko Yaad krte wakt is poetry ko suna to aansoo nhi rok saki bestie i really miss you aisa nhi hai ki meri bestie badal gayi meri bestie ko badal na pada apni or meri family ki wajha se only family meters ki wajha se or hume alg kr diya gaya i really miss you meri jann meri bestie 😭😭

  • @mounikavarma1176
    @mounikavarma1176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I promise u my bestie... I will never ever argue with u in anything... I promise 😭😭😭... U never left me after so many fights and arguments still I am ur BESTFRND... I value u...❤️

  • @aayushidhurvey211
    @aayushidhurvey211 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    you know what you witnessed was perfectly beautiful when you get those Goosebumps 😍😍😍

  • @patelhp9229
    @patelhp9229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Same story for me... I like & love my best friend...😍❤️

  • @AkashSaha-xy6ey
    @AkashSaha-xy6ey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    A best friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you for the way you are today.so lucky those person who have such a great frnd😊

  • @suhasdayal
    @suhasdayal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    tears r in my eyes 😞😭 so heartbreaking..

  • @binsbae2711
    @binsbae2711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Badly related to me each and every lines 😭♥️

  • @nishatislam7545
    @nishatislam7545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It hurts..when u break ur 11 yrs Friendship,just because of a misunderstanding... But by passing time,u'll learn to move on without ur bestfriend☺

    • @FreeSouls
      @FreeSouls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @nishatislam7545
      @nishatislam7545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FreeSouls thank u😀😀

  • @aishwaryanaikwadi2391
    @aishwaryanaikwadi2391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Moments which we spend with our best friend r nice, fantastic n best forever😘.
    However besties get separated but memories always remain in our soul till last moment of our life.

  • @artholic__04
    @artholic__04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    fantastic.........
    mostly real life me aisa hi hota hai

    • @kammudhaka2874
      @kammudhaka2874 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Accha rhta h ki Hm kisi se mtlb ki dosti rkho taki koi tumhe Tod Na paye

    • @sushmitabhartiya9559
      @sushmitabhartiya9559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kammudhaka2874 HR insan aisa ni KR pata h qki kch jajbato or rishto ko jyda important dete h ...

    • @kammudhaka2874
      @kammudhaka2874 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Annu rawat ji Me bat se agree hu.. Lekin jo best friend hota h n vo Kisi or ki vjh se hme chod de Tb kya kre

    • @nehaparween6973
      @nehaparween6973 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's all about life......Galti Kisi ki nhi hoti....😊

  • @NishantKumar-hk6ui
    @NishantKumar-hk6ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's even harder when you were just in the process of having a friend, but in last what you left with was yourself.

  • @prabhaschaubey1024
    @prabhaschaubey1024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really pray that no one ever looses their best friend! It hurts! Communications can make a lot of things better... but make sure there is understanding too...

  • @shubhradeepbagh5991
    @shubhradeepbagh5991 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When I gave so much to keep the friendship alive, it was absolutely all sided. And then, its all hatred and disrespect of him towards me which I got. I still can't live without me. "Lomov Forever 💌", I gave him name but see I have only those old memories and nothing else. He gave me a small doraemon keychain in my 17th birthday. I love you broo..I miss you too much.....Please come back....

  • @asmika_l2038
    @asmika_l2038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Two bestfriends apart by her boyfriend
    Anyone who can relate ??

  • @raghavendras275
    @raghavendras275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I never thought about how painful it would be The moment I realised dat my best friend was actually not my best friend anymore 😢

  • @rupakhatri7824
    @rupakhatri7824 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Helly u are amazing ,what u said just got in here❤,Dil ki sachai hai yeh jisse hum kabhi accept nai karte and u are awesome❤❤really awesome

  • @apatel5969
    @apatel5969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well said Helly it's truly relate to me...
    Sayad wo ek best friend jisse alag hoke bhi use kabhi ham bhula Na paye waqt k sath hum aur wo kab Badal Gaye pata bhi na chala...

  • @kishwar541
    @kishwar541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Damn ! Left me speechless ♥

  • @dpstatus8187
    @dpstatus8187 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Y u make me cry?🙄😫
    I miss u my misha
    Same story😭😭😭

    • @susmitadevi3508
      @susmitadevi3508 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DP status same here..par sayad wo mere liye kabhi nhi royi

  • @tushar3453
    @tushar3453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    how it is beautiful, the same person who makes you feel very important, and then that person acts like you don't even exit.

  • @anubhavv02
    @anubhavv02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Best line at 3:05...it gives me goosebumps 🙁😶😔

    • @sandippaul468
      @sandippaul468 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      plz tell it's meaning. my hindi sucks.

    • @excited0628
      @excited0628 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sandippaul468 no matter how much gud ur intentions are but if ur way of expressing it is Wrng
      Then god too pretends ur prayer as ur habit

  • @lizamonibora6469
    @lizamonibora6469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face than a friend who stabs you in the back.. It's really painful 😞but you should have the strength to overcome it..

  • @Shyamkumar-ey9ke
    @Shyamkumar-ey9ke 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    OMG 😱😘😘😘
    what a beautiful voice and expression 😍😍
    just love it 😍😍 just realateble 💕💕

  • @Be_Positive_720
    @Be_Positive_720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sache me yaar best friend ka break up 💔💔 .. bhot hi painful 😢 hota hai 😢😢

  • @nishazahrazaidi8078
    @nishazahrazaidi8078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Amazing and you are right jab insaan ka waqt badalta hai to insaan khud bhi badal jata hai

  • @suchitradwivedi9824
    @suchitradwivedi9824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The art you have of using words to make your every deeper than other is just fabulous .
    Keep it up
    Loved your Story and the way you represented it.
    💝💝💝

  • @SandeepKumar-iw6hm
    @SandeepKumar-iw6hm ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Friendship breakup hurts more than relationship breakup 💔

  • @premsingh-kx6yf
    @premsingh-kx6yf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    6 years ago, ye video dekhe the, or soche the ki friendship ka bhi breakup ho skta hai ky? is it even possible? qki mera maan na tha friendship is forever... Friends log thode chod k jaayenge kabhi.. but but but.. aaj 6 saal baad ye video search kr k dekh re hai.. last 1.5 years bilkul 15 years ki trh jeye uske saath.. humdono 2 ghante me 20 ghanto ki baate karte the.. or ek aaj ka time hai thoda sa scroll krne se date badal jata hai💔 ek good bye tk bolne k kabil nhi smjha usne mujhe.. yrr ek aakhiri mulakat to mai deserve krta tha na.. 💔

  • @sumankansal4474
    @sumankansal4474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are fantabulous! I guess you have got the best oratory skills among all the speakers i have listened to till date! 💥