+Brian Hennig you're not old fashioned. I think it's only common sense that you wouldn't act like that... especially before proposing. But I'm just guessing that these are best friends/they'd been drinking.
Terry Ivers IDK...when I'm in a relationship...even when I'm drunk...I don't act like that. Now, I might do that to my BF if I were drunk...but my friends are like brothers and sisters...so it'd be gross! LOL.
This is sick. How can I guy propose to another guy when he behaves like a slut. This ain't romantic at all. I respect and love gay people but come on... Respect is extremely important. If this is what this guy does when his boyfriend is in the room, it's not hard to imagine what he does when they are not together.
Never seen a more heartless proposal. And here I was being silly expecting a gay marriage proposal to be more of a tear-jerker. What a disappointment; this is among the most shallow emotionless shit I've ever seen, and I've had a metric ton-fuck of my share of shit.
My guess is they're not longer together. The guy who proposed looked alright, romantic and in love. The guy got proposed though, just filthy disgusting trash.
Congrats! I hope it was a wonderful wedding. Thanks for putting this on youtube! It not only inspires me to look for love, it gives me hope for a brighter tomorrow. Thanks again!
Such love and happiness warms my heart :) (Not a massive fan of the drama queen in the white shirt at 2:13 - no, my little shitty fairy, this moment isn't about you and your many, many exes)
I was expecting to be in tears from the romanticness to to only watch & be disgusted by the classless boyfriend dipping it low on another man . . I mean what the deuce did I just watch, a bad soft core porno? He picked a bad time to propose or something . . . >_>
this seems to be a nice gay get together and what this guy has done is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen in my whole life, I've already seen straight proposal making but nothing like this one. Right after watching this video, I can still assure that there's love among gays! And perhaps one day I'll be doing the same or else being proposed! Wish you guys all the best ever!! You deserve it!
rowan WTF No sucking or touching another man's crotch before you're proposed to, friend or not, that's the rules! I would have broke up, not proposed...dude you can do so much better!
awwwwwwwwwwww (: thats so cute. well hope they have a good marriage! and i do agree about how the friends a re assholes. they were taking it as a joke when it was serious..
After proposing and I accepted, he took me to a bar where there was nipple piercing. He put me on top of the pool table and had my nipple pierced as my engagement ring. 20 years together.
When you love and trust someone fully, it doesn't really make a difference when they're having fun and joking around. They're all obviously really good friends and it has nothing to do with respect or lack of respect.
I think the friends should be more appropriate with the beautiful honor of being asked for hand in marriage, I felt like the friends ruined his moment... it wasnt as beautiful as it should be... but lets hope the couple r still together
"Bitter! Party of one! Bitter?" People who think they are better than others....hmmmm...how 7th grade. My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We met as Doctor and Patient. He proposed to me on Duvall Street in Key West during Fantasy Fest. Not your typical "str8" experience. But why should it be...WE'RE GAY! Best wishes to the boys in this TH-cam. Keep it posted. The gays with sticks of their butt, the H8'ers in here need to get out more often and stop judging their brothers.
"No - don't put this on the internet - no you tube - nothing." This can't be for real. First he's pretending to service another guy - then a second later after the proposal he is on the computer making reservations - 'bath house' is mentioned in the conversation. Then he takes out a credit card and the friend says we'll take care of it. All I can say is REALLY?? LOL!!
Study has proved that average gay relationships last only 5 years. If it is longer than it is usually open relationship or relationship from benefits. To me it looks like they are in open relationship, that is why he was not upset about his boyfriend messing around with other guy. Most of Irish gays are in open relationship.
So you think it's ok to discriminate people just because they behave "stereotypically"? Discrimination is never ok...and being gay yourself, you should know that by now.
Ok, I'm all about romance and proposals, but dude, seriously--the guy getting proposed to didn't even look like he was taking it seriously!! "I haven't said yes yet," he jokes. Grow up! The guy doing the proposing is gorgeous and sweet; many guys would die to have a boyfriend like that. Mismatch!
I AM A GAY GUY... but you need to know not all gay guys behavior like that! I am a very monogamy guy.... been a year with my partner but we never behave like that! but some of my friends, they does it... not just gay couple also str8 couple! for them an open relationship is the best choices for them... for me, it's a significant sign that their relationship is already not healthy, but what do i know, right?
As a gay man...I think this is the most unromantic proposal that I've seen in my 41 years. If a guy I was about to propose to was on the floor acting like that with someone else...that would've been the end of it. Its things like this that hinder the gay community's acceptance. I hear talks about bathhouses, etc. Wonderful.
After watching this a second time I've come to the conclusion that this isn't real. It's staged. It's fake. None of it looks/sounds/seems real or genuine at all. It's like a badly scripted/acted reality show. I don't believe any of it for a second.
i agree with everyone.. if that was my boyfriend doing that at the beginning, i would have returned the ring. Also, at the end, I wouldn't have left them alone together either..
As a gay man, I am ashamed of the actual behavior of these friends, and I would really like to know if they are still together. My guess is No. But, who knows. I would have punched my partner of 17 years in the head if I was about to propose and he was in that position. This is not the type of videos our community should be showing around the web. Seriously. Congratulations on getting engaged and hopefully married. Remove the damn video.
Too funny guys....I think the concern that gays are being assimilated into str8 culture is NOT a concern...according to this video! We have our own way of proposing that is MORE FUN than their way of proposing.
exactly! omg someone else understands! I love gay people,...I really do. And I'm against gay discrimination...but as part of the community I have to say that sometimes gays do things that are just asking for nonacceptance.
When he went into the kitchen & said he was nervous and was going to propose. I was hoping it wasn't one or the 2 guys in the grey & white tee shirts. It was & I'm kind of thinking he deserves better!!
Did that dude just holler that is my boyfriend before, the other dude was proposed to, and then too think he was going to be at his wedding after having his newly fiance rubbing his face in his crotch twice and not to mention in the same room making plans with his money. Well if it works congrats, but this takes a lot of trust in the proposers part to do that while the friends are talking during his proposal, and the amount of sexual energy going on.
Aww, he soo cute and it was so sincere, and it was almost like he was blown off. :( Marry me instead! :P Anyway, if you are happy, then congratulations! :)
This is what makes gay marriage such a problem, as a homosexual looking at this vid, all I can think is "how the hell can we get gay marriage passed with videos like this!?" This video is the reason why people who don't support gay marriage will continue not to support because of this shit. common man take this shit down.
To each his own. My idea of a romantic proposal wouldn't be a party with semi-drunk friends and one of them trying to push the propos-ee into an oral sex position (and him going along with it)
It's unfortunate that despite what gays say they don't want to 'redefine' marriage, MANY (not all, but many) gays have open relationships. While it's true that some heterosexuals also do, the number is much lower. Respect for their partner is clearly not important to gay couples. My parents would have never behaved like this, or even thought of being so disrespectful.
Seriously. He was doing it all of about 10 seconds before he was being proposed to. And he did it TWICE. That guy has no idea what he really has in a boyfriend/fiance. Then right after he leaves the room and goes on the computer to book the trip right then & there w/ his b.f.'s credit card. Unbelievable. Nothing like taking in the moment for what it is. Wow. Some people just don't deserve what they have. This was in 2008 I wonder if they went through with it or if they're even still together.
I honestly believe they are not going to make it... it isn't normal to jump at the computer to start scheduling everything; looks like they will rush into everything. I believe you should be engaged for minimum 10 months before you get married to make sure you make it through the idea of marriage.
This is why you dont make marriage proposals among a crowd of other people, especially a crowd of liquered up, sexed up, attention whores. Or waste a marriage proposal on someone who says `twist my arm and I``ll say yes` then immediately jumps on the internet to look up bathhouses.
What a disgrace...he's proposing, and all the other guy can do is put his face in another guy's crotch and say "I haven't say 'yes' yet." I'm gay and have as much of a sense of humor as the next person, but honestly. Acting this way during a sincere, genuine moment...it doesn't paint a good image for gay people.
Honestly, this warms my heart like a broken heater.
It's marriage. It's a big deal, so at least show some respect.
I hope it will a good life for you. The proposal gave me bad taste. I feel that the guy who proposed deserves better.
Same. This didn't sit well with me.
aw what a sweet guy. too bad his bf doesn't treat him the same way
This is sad. I feel bad for the tall dude. This is was so unromantic
Happy 12 years of marriage Ty! Love you.
still together? wow congrats!
One of the most UN-romantic marriage proposals I've ever seen
The one who proposed is 1000 times more beautiful inside and outside from the other one.
And why was the guy's BF simulating oral sex on another guy before getting proposed to? Guess I'm too old fashioned.
+Brian Hennig you're not old fashioned. I think it's only common sense that you wouldn't act like that... especially before proposing. But I'm just guessing that these are best friends/they'd been drinking.
Terry Ivers IDK...when I'm in a relationship...even when I'm drunk...I don't act like that. Now, I might do that to my BF if I were drunk...but my friends are like brothers and sisters...so it'd be gross! LOL.
+Brian Hennig Do you have a Facebook?
Wade Carruthers
Yes
Brian Hennig What's your name on there?
I would be so pissed if my boyfriend who I am going to ask to married me was doing that to another guy
I’m sorry for the Tall guy who purposed :’(
Different strokes for different folks,fuck yeah! To each his own.
This is the most unromantic proposal ever... sad
I'm gay and I found it very disrespectful and seemed they were playing with a serious subject. Sorry :(
Powerblades he is a Fucking Ass hole. 15015632829 let's be frindes on ur phone.
This is sick. How can I guy propose to another guy when he behaves like a slut.
This ain't romantic at all.
I respect and love gay people but come on... Respect is extremely important.
If this is what this guy does when his boyfriend is in the room, it's not hard to imagine what he does when they are not together.
We are still happily married! Thanks for all the support!
How many years now?
How come on your Facebook, your husband's name is Carl, but on here you proposed to Matt?
Never seen a more heartless proposal. And here I was being silly expecting a gay marriage proposal to be more of a tear-jerker. What a disappointment; this is among the most shallow emotionless shit I've ever seen, and I've had a metric ton-fuck of my share of shit.
Taylor Austin i love you
That’s the most *straightiest* thing I’ve ever seen
My guess is they're not longer together. The guy who proposed looked alright, romantic and in love. The guy got proposed though, just filthy disgusting trash.
"Girl, I dated him for six months, that's how you met, I'm going!" Not gonna lie...that guy is amazing XD
Oh hell no, she is not getting my ring... LMAO!
I dated him for six months and thats how you two met! Girl, I'm going!
Love that. Congrats to you guys
The couple in the right looking sooooo adorable as hellll
Congrats! I hope it was a wonderful wedding. Thanks for putting this on youtube! It not only inspires me to look for love, it gives me hope for a brighter tomorrow. Thanks again!
OH MY GOD! That dude who got proposed to was fooling around with that other guy in the beginning of the vid! Thats messed up.
I want to know if they're still together.
Wade Carruthers obviously not, that guy was such a dick to him.
Oh my, that was so adorable. Ignore the haters, they clearly can't handle the gorgeous in that room.
Such love and happiness warms my heart :)
(Not a massive fan of the drama queen in the white shirt at 2:13 - no, my little shitty fairy, this moment isn't about you and your many, many exes)
However that dude that proposed is so more sexier.
Lol the guy in the white shirt said " get a pre-nup honey" lol I love it!
HAHA! I love this and totally support! I also have the white shirt with the lion on it...hmm, is it a good sign? :)
The whole environment is kinda weird.
+Paul Du i get what you mean but each to their own lol
yo iam straight male and i just wanted to say good for two guys. marriage is marriage.
I was expecting to be in tears from the romanticness to to only watch & be disgusted by the classless boyfriend dipping it low on another man . . I mean what the deuce did I just watch, a bad soft core porno? He picked a bad time to propose or something . . . >_>
i would never have given him my credit card and left him alone with it, especially not after he was just blowing him in the other room!!
this seems to be a nice gay get together and what this guy has done is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen in my whole life, I've already seen straight proposal making but nothing like this one. Right after watching this video, I can still assure that there's love among gays! And perhaps one day I'll be doing the same or else being proposed! Wish you guys all the best ever!! You deserve it!
I wish you the best. So.... sweet, he was trying to suck someone else!!! So sentimental... ❤❤❤ HOW HEART WARMING. ❤️ OYE.
I could watch these all day long
Awwww with the ring and everything. This is so cute.
Omg this is soooo sweet I love it, hes nervous ahhh!!!!!!!!!!!!
the ex was so jealous
rowan WTF No sucking or touching another man's crotch before you're proposed to, friend or not, that's the rules! I would have broke up, not proposed...dude you can do so much better!
@tynelson Of course we have fun!!! Were all pretty much happy with our lives and the only thing left to do is have funnnn and PARTYYY!!!! =)))
I totally want Matt. I've been a fan of his for years...
Matty V i want you i marry you onely
Gurl I dated home for six months and that’s how you met . I’m going! Adorable
Not sure of your name (Tall guy) but you seem like a GREAT guy! I truly hope that this works out for you!! Best wishes...
JOHN
aw how cute! I hope those two have a wonderful life together.
awwwwwwwwwwww (: thats so cute. well hope they have a good marriage! and i do agree about how the friends a re assholes. they were taking it as a joke when it was serious..
brooke cox i love you
After proposing and I accepted, he took me to a bar where there was nipple piercing. He put me on top of the pool table and had my nipple pierced as my engagement ring. 20 years together.
Bradley Scott HISSETH i like YOU i love you i want you
Bradley Scott HISSETH YOU me marry you
"Oh, he just proposed to me. Let me update that on my facebook!"
I'm gay and I've been watching marriage proposals all day and thought lets look up a gay couple... I shouldn't have..
When you love and trust someone fully, it doesn't really make a difference when they're having fun and joking around. They're all obviously really good friends and it has nothing to do with respect or lack of respect.
Whats wrong with loving someone? Congrats!
case study of ghetto proposal
that´s the wonderful gay subworld,,, I bet that two guys broke up two days later
not for nothing if my boyfriend whom i was going to ask to marry did this , i would reconsider our relationship
I think the friends should be more appropriate with the beautiful honor of being asked for hand in marriage, I felt like the friends ruined his moment... it wasnt as beautiful as it should be... but lets hope the couple r still together
and is seconds later, booking the honeymoon
"Bitter! Party of one! Bitter?" People who think they are better than others....hmmmm...how 7th grade. My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We met as Doctor and Patient. He proposed to me on Duvall Street in Key West during Fantasy Fest. Not your typical "str8" experience. But why should it be...WE'RE GAY! Best wishes to the boys in this TH-cam. Keep it posted. The gays with sticks of their butt, the H8'ers in here need to get out more often and stop judging their brothers.
Bradley Scott HISSETH i marry you onely come fast
"No - don't put this on the internet - no you tube - nothing." This can't be for real. First he's pretending to service another guy - then a second later after the proposal he is on the computer making reservations - 'bath house' is mentioned in the conversation. Then he takes out a credit card and the friend says we'll take care of it. All I can say is REALLY?? LOL!!
Study has proved that average gay relationships last only 5 years. If it is longer than it is usually open relationship or relationship from benefits. To me it looks like they are in open relationship, that is why he was not upset about his boyfriend messing around with other guy. Most of Irish gays are in open relationship.
Men are different from women. Ergo, gay (I hate that word since the hets ruined it) men will be different from gay women in relationships.
I agree that this is very sad. that guy seems so very nice and so sincere. I hope he finds the love he's looking for.
If my boyfriend was to EVERRRRRRR do shit like this, my fist is gonna be proposing to his face! POINT! BLANK! PERIOD!
So you think it's ok to discriminate people just because they behave "stereotypically"? Discrimination is never ok...and being gay yourself, you should know that by now.
Ok, I'm all about romance and proposals, but dude, seriously--the guy getting proposed to didn't even look like he was taking it seriously!! "I haven't said yes yet," he jokes. Grow up! The guy doing the proposing is gorgeous and sweet; many guys would die to have a boyfriend like that.
Mismatch!
usagibry _ i am ready YOU are ready
I AM A GAY GUY... but you need to know not all gay guys behavior like that! I am a very monogamy guy.... been a year with my partner but we never behave like that! but some of my friends, they does it... not just gay couple also str8 couple! for them an open relationship is the best choices for them... for me, it's a significant sign that their relationship is already not healthy, but what do i know, right?
As a gay man...I think this is the most unromantic proposal that I've seen in my 41 years. If a guy I was about to propose to was on the floor acting like that with someone else...that would've been the end of it. Its things like this that hinder the gay community's acceptance. I hear talks about bathhouses, etc. Wonderful.
Awwww, their so beautiful, and cute!:)
I havcne't said yes yet! Heh. As if he'd say no after that ^_^
Best of luck, hope you have a long and happy life together.
Yeah, I have to say if my bf was acting like that I'd put the ring away.
such a hot guy that proposed WOW lucky man!
After watching this a second time I've come to the conclusion that this isn't real. It's staged. It's fake. None of it looks/sounds/seems real or genuine at all. It's like a badly scripted/acted reality show. I don't believe any of it for a second.
i agree with everyone.. if that was my boyfriend doing that at the beginning, i would have returned the ring. Also, at the end, I wouldn't have left them alone together either..
the boyfriend may have been in another guys crotch..... but take this into consideration: Matt ran right to the computer to plan everything
I kind of find it irritating to propose in front of friends with all those distractions, but it's still sweet.
So sweet. Big wishes to all of u in the video. =)
As a gay man, I am ashamed of the actual behavior of these friends, and I would really like to know if they are still together. My guess is No. But, who knows. I would have punched my partner of 17 years in the head if I was about to propose and he was in that position. This is not the type of videos our community should be showing around the web. Seriously.
Congratulations on getting engaged and hopefully married.
Remove the damn video.
Too funny guys....I think the concern that gays are being assimilated into str8 culture is NOT a concern...according to this video! We have our own way of proposing that is MORE FUN than their way of proposing.
Bradley Scott HISSETH
if this was me not only would he not have a fiancée, he also would not have a boyfriend
exactly! omg someone else understands! I love gay people,...I really do. And I'm against gay discrimination...but as part of the community I have to say that sometimes gays do things that are just asking for nonacceptance.
When he went into the kitchen & said he was nervous and was going to propose. I was hoping it wasn't one or the 2 guys in the grey & white tee shirts. It was & I'm kind of thinking he deserves better!!
Did that dude just holler that is my boyfriend before, the other dude was proposed to, and then too think he was going to be at his wedding after having his newly fiance rubbing his face in his crotch twice and not to mention in the same room making plans with his money. Well if it works congrats, but this takes a lot of trust in the proposers part to do that while the friends are talking during his proposal, and the amount of sexual energy going on.
Aww, he soo cute and it was so sincere, and it was almost like he was blown off. :(
Marry me instead! :P
Anyway, if you are happy, then congratulations! :)
I would never have proposed to him after that!!
This is what makes gay marriage such a problem, as a homosexual looking at this vid, all I can think is "how the hell can we get gay marriage passed with videos like this!?" This video is the reason why people who don't support gay marriage will continue not to support because of this shit. common man take this shit down.
i give it a month at the most, sounds like they play musical boyfriends, have some class guys!!!
To each his own. My idea of a romantic proposal wouldn't be a party with semi-drunk friends and one of them trying to push the propos-ee into an oral sex position (and him going along with it)
Any updates on how these two are doing
Do they have a wedding video wait.. like did they ever get married?
Ey
I wanted be there in that moment
What a wonderfull for both men
Congratulation!!!
Thank you for sharing. It's heart warming and encouraging.
Aweee that's so cute! I watched this with my friend and we were "Aweeeeeeee"ing the whole time.
It's unfortunate that despite what gays say they don't want to 'redefine' marriage, MANY (not all, but many) gays have open relationships. While it's true that some heterosexuals also do, the number is much lower. Respect for their partner is clearly not important to gay couples. My parents would have never behaved like this, or even thought of being so disrespectful.
You have no idea what you're talking about, breeder. Stay in your lane.
Seriously. He was doing it all of about 10 seconds before he was being proposed to. And he did it TWICE. That guy has no idea what he really has in a boyfriend/fiance. Then right after he leaves the room and goes on the computer to book the trip right then & there w/ his b.f.'s credit card. Unbelievable. Nothing like taking in the moment for what it is. Wow. Some people just don't deserve what they have. This was in 2008 I wonder if they went through with it or if they're even still together.
When did you choose to be straight? Just wondering.
my gaydar exploded
I honestly believe they are not going to make it... it isn't normal to jump at the computer to start scheduling everything; looks like they will rush into everything. I believe you should be engaged for minimum 10 months before you get married to make sure you make it through the idea of marriage.
How long will it last?
Totally Agree with you! this is NOT love! if i saw my boyfriend doing that i will slap the face!
This is why you dont make marriage proposals among a crowd of other people, especially a crowd of liquered up, sexed up, attention whores. Or waste a marriage proposal on someone who says `twist my arm and I``ll say yes` then immediately jumps on the internet to look up bathhouses.
What a disgrace...he's proposing, and all the other guy can do is put his face in another guy's crotch and say "I haven't say 'yes' yet." I'm gay and have as much of a sense of humor as the next person, but honestly. Acting this way during a sincere, genuine moment...it doesn't paint a good image for gay people.