My biggest fear as a 23 year old virgin man who has stayed away from the haram, is to end up with a woman who committed zina. I understand that one can repent, but I just can't be with a woman who couldn't save herself.
Make sure you take all the measures to know who you marry ,if she comes from respected family you will be ok in shaa Allah ,make dua ,make istikhara before taking any step forward . May Allah grand you righteous spouse
@rutaz6176 jazakallah kahir for the advice. Will definitely keep this in mind. I have full trust in Allah, that he will bless me with a pure woman like myself. Btw nowadays, being from a good family is not enough of a sign to prove that one is a vrigin.
The sooner you get married the better. Take it from a 40 year old single man looking at the options available today.. single mothers, feminists, women who prioritise their career over families, demanding high salaries and tall men. All the while she's short, fat or just generally unattractive because she doesn't look after herself and values her worth by the men who've chased her to sleep with her in the past.
All the problems starts from young age.Parents should never allow their kids to be abused when they are young there is where they start being .....I'm sure from experience as a school teacher.
If you cared about sisters and had our best interest at heart, you wouldn't be encouraging misyar which is so problematic and lead to divorce. Any man who encourages such marriage is an enemy
Get off the black and white world view, you have been ransacked intellectually and programmed. Either prove this is with or against the Quran and Sunnah instead of just throwing an opinion. With the current state of affairs from rampant feminism to complete insane delusional ideas of "I want traditional benefits but without doing the traditional responsibilities", no absolutely not your comment is invalid.
My biggest fear as a 23 year old virgin man who has stayed away from the haram, is to end up with a woman who committed zina. I understand that one can repent, but I just can't be with a woman who couldn't save herself.
Nothing wrong with your comment, Alsalheen Lil Salihaat wa Zani lil Zaniah
Make sure you take all the measures to know who you marry ,if she comes from respected family you will be ok in shaa Allah ,make dua ,make istikhara before taking any step forward . May Allah grand you righteous spouse
@rutaz6176 jazakallah kahir for the advice. Will definitely keep this in mind. I have full trust in Allah, that he will bless me with a pure woman like myself. Btw nowadays, being from a good family is not enough of a sign to prove that one is a vrigin.
A virgin man wanting another virgin is completely acceptable but the issue is when men who committed zina expect a virgin. Good men are for good women
The sooner you get married the better. Take it from a 40 year old single man looking at the options available today.. single mothers, feminists, women who prioritise their career over families, demanding high salaries and tall men. All the while she's short, fat or just generally unattractive because she doesn't look after herself and values her worth by the men who've chased her to sleep with her in the past.
MashAllah this was a very nice stream thank you, I wish this was talked about more by other Duats
Masha Allah . a lot of information I have learned by watching this video. keep on educating the ummah on this taboo issues brother .
You spoke nothing but facts brother Gabriel. Feminism has corrupted the minds of many sisters sadly.
Mashallah very factual and beneficial
Can share the video you mentioned?
Your a smart intellectual person I inspire to be like you
aspire* not inspire
Masha ALLAH DEAR it's nice 👍
All the problems starts from young age.Parents should never allow their kids to be abused when they are young there is where they start being .....I'm sure from experience as a school teacher.
Have you ever tested your testosterone?
If you cared about sisters and had our best interest at heart, you wouldn't be encouraging misyar which is so problematic and lead to divorce. Any man who encourages such marriage is an enemy
What exactly are you on about, be specific.
Brother Gabriel didn't encourage anything against the Quran and Sunnah.
@@Saif0412 He/she is trolling
Get off the black and white world view, you have been ransacked intellectually and programmed. Either prove this is with or against the Quran and Sunnah instead of just throwing an opinion. With the current state of affairs from rampant feminism to complete insane delusional ideas of "I want traditional benefits but without doing the traditional responsibilities", no absolutely not your comment is invalid.
What means misyar?
So what he promoted something halal that the profhet did how evil of him,and tbh some of yall sisters need it