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**Cultural imperialism = actively dismantling or undermining the original cultural, religious, social, and ethical norms of the targeted country. it may occur through censorship, banning traditional practices, rewriting history, discrediting traditional beliefs, or portraying them (the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of the targeted country) as outdated, oppressive, or inferior.** *Cultural imperialism is a form of colonialism. Western powers have used Feminism to dismantle or undermine the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of Muslim countries. Thus, Feminism is also a form of colonialism that Western powers are keen to use.* # Examples of Feminism's cultural imperialism, *Feminists run campaigns to "liberate" women from wearing hijabs or niqabs, & make efforts to reform or destroy traditional Muslim family structures, while portraying Muslim women as universally oppressed by Islam and in need of saving by Feminism & Western powers.* 1. Islam forbids Muslims from imitating the disbelievers, particularly the Jews and Christians, but this prohibition does not extend to all aspects of their lives. It specifically applies to matters of their religion & those things that are unique to them, by which they are known. 2. Muslims have no need to imitate other nations in religious rituals or acts of worship. 3. The prohibition on imitating the disbelievers does not apply to the things that they do & invent from which Muslims may benefit. There is no sin on the Muslims if they share in that, rather the Muslims should be in the forefront of such things. Feminism is created by the disbelievers & is unique to them, as Feminists say that, "Feminism is simply gender equality (equal rights for both women & men), nothing more." In Islam, while men & women may be equal in the eyes of Allah, their rights are not fully the same, and they have different rights. Salahuddin Ayyubi said, "if you want to destroy a nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation." adultery & nudity is a part of Feminism. Therefore, no Muslim man or woman should call themselves a, "Feminist" and no Muslim should support Feminism.
does polygamy necessitate any certain condition ? for example a person who can't control his desires is recommend to get married. does polygamy has any conditions like this
@@orbofnyt Pose your question to an aalim brother and consult with an islamic councillor. Lack of impulse control could be signs of addiction or an addictive personality type whereby desires might not be satiated or suppressed easily without interventions from the sunnah or otherwise. seek professional advice!
I am a revert sister been working for 20 years it's a struggle getting up for work , being around this superficial society and I have to constantly think about my kid.I can't understand why would a women want to wake up, worry about what you wear, travel to work some of us up to 3 hours back and forth come home exhausted and still have to have mental capacity to deal with home duties.I know some of us don't have a choice ,but if I had a choice I would grab it and take care of my family at home.
I agree if you are blessed to have that advantage that would be great but unfortunately it is not the case in most ppls situations these days. May Allah swt make it easy on you and guide his ummah 🇵🇸
I’m a revert sister too, who just reverted this year. And I agree. The problem is, most workplaces are extremely cutthroat and pragmatic about profits… because, well, that’s just part of being in a capitalist society, but this doesn’t bode well with feminine personalities where we’re just more sensitive with our emotions. We’re also more nurturing than men, which is why we tend to find nurturing type professions extremely rewarding. On top of this, we have to contend with a week or two worth of pain every month. Therefore, it’s only natural that even when we try our best to work as hard as we can, the men can easily outwork us because, well, they don’t have to deal with the added pain and exhaustion each month. And they are less sensitive to office politics because they will more likely ruthlessly push back, rather than dwell on their own feelings. And as much as companies try to find ways to help out women, ultimately they have to look after their bottom line. So I think women should be allowed the choice to work, and it should likely be at a more part time basis or be extremely flexible to allow time for child rearing; however, most women would probably find it more rewarding to stay at home. With that being said, unfortunately, due to the current economics (in Canada at least), I don’t think it’s possible for most families to survive on one income.
@ I agree sister and welcome to Islam hope you're doing great.I agree sister, and I have no interest in any shape of form having a career progress even though I been offered.Office politics are common mostly with the women although I am not generalising but if you worked under women leadership you will understand where I am coming from The important part is we forgetting our roles and the priorities are really the children at the end of the day.For me personally I find it hard juggling between two roles as a mum and working women.Living in the west is not helping either with one income.May Allah open a way for us and keep us on the straight path Ameen
My daughter gave up work when her first child was born, saying her kids are for her to look after, she will make do with what her husband earns. So proud of her.Alhumdulillah
@@kinndah2519 Are you talking about experience or just generalizing things. Some husbands are not fulfilling their responsibilities but lots are doing good job but not even being accounted for. if A man does not fulfil his responsibility , that is also an issue and no one is denying that
Would agree that it goes both ways, but a lot of the blame is on the men. Men should lead , be a good example and support their family. Woman should be obedient, let the man lead and be a good woman. They both should have religion. Now we got men that want their wife’s to lead and women who don’t obey their husbands. May الله guide Us and bring us back to that which pleases him. We need a good example and the best example is the prophet (ﷺ). We should study his life and make it a guide for our behaviour and choices. Along with the Quran ofc.
May Allah bless you both, Shaykh Uthman and Brother Faiyad. Despite the sister's sharp and defensive tone, the response she received was respectful, calm, and straight to the point. Allahuma barik. I'm proud to be at home and raising my child at home, especially living in the West. Alhumdulillah
Me too, Alhamdulilah. Wallahi, we as women are so lucky that Allah has given us so many rights to protect us in every way possible. Alhamdulilah, being home with your children and taking care of your husband is the best way, and it is a beautiful way to connect with Allah. Alhamdulilah for Islam.
@@FaiyadFit your “adab” makes a difference?!…. Maybe Sh Uthaman’s but YOURS?! Hmm… so coincidentally the ig reel you posted for this video came up for me, and on there YOU liked a comment from a brother calling her a “MUSLIMAH KAREN” 17 hours ago, whereas didn’t like any of the PREVIOUS COMMENTS WHERE PEOPLE WHERE MAKING DUA FOR HER GUIDANCE. Hmm…. HMMMM… I WONDER WHY that is?! Like is that what you refer to as your “adab”?!…I called you out under these VERY comments; and am BACK to do so AGAIN. TWO FACED PEOPLE LIKE YOU DESERVE TO BE EXPOSED IN THE DIRTIEST OF WAYS. But watch you being the DELUDED COWARD that you are, won’t even address this LET ALONE OWN UP TO YOUR WRONG ACTIONS ON THIS MATTER. The “rahma” that you were talking about in this VERY VIDEO, aka the same one that you said men & women should have towards one another was clearly NOTHING BUT LIP SERVICE. YOUR ACTIONS ARE CLEARLY PROVING THAT YOU INCITE GENDER WARS AND HATE TOWARDS WOMEN WHO DISAGREE WITH YOU (let’s not even talk about your CONDESCENDING COMMENTS). Wallahi I don’t say this lightly but may ﷲ swt EXPOSE you for the HYPOCRITE THAT YOU ARE AND HUMILIATE YOU SEVERELY IN MORE WAYS THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE IF a) YOU DONT SEE THE ERRORS OF YOUR WAYS AND b) YOU DONT OWN UP TO THE ERRORS OF YOUR WAYS AND FIX THEM BY POSTING A VIDEO APOLOGIZING TO THE WOMEN YOUVE INCITED UNNECESSARY HATE UPON. And may ﷲ swt also let me be there to watch أمين.
Feminism developed in the west in secular/christian societies where women didn't have rights in the first place. They couldn't divorce, they couldn't own property, education was lackluster, etc. All things that Islam already introduced to society western women were only now discovering. This has lead to an extreme on both sides and Muslim men and women who fall for either red pill or feminism need to learn their deen. These people look to influencers and feminists and other characters for philosophy and development rather than the best examples - like the Prophet PBUH, his wives, his companions, etc.
I am in USA not Muslim, but i want to share many American do share this also let me add Feminism do got a great goal however as we all notice the end outcome is not in favor of families becasue most feminist dont understand one of the reason for feminism is and was to destroy family circle, destroy household income and implement a equal taxation for each person in the marriage who provide. in USA before all this so-called Females right or equality for women's they can have part-ime or any job and been exempt from taxation only the men of the house use to report hes income and pay taxes ,let me explain now the government force women to report any income or profit they make when before women's was exempt from it. this was a tactic to charge more taxes,economical control and a form to create more workers.
women could own property. there were also many Queens in christian lands. your inferiority complex towards christians is causing you to lie and slander. pathetic
@@iamgos2778 We could also through in the college experience as well. Women outnumber men in college because men are becoming wiser knowing that its not the only way to achieve success. I have read numerous comments of men choosing the blue collar jobs and making more than their college graduate counterparts. This causes a decline in enrollment and yes many colleges have closed their doors. But they have a cultural dynamic: make women feel "empowered by going to universities" get that high degree longer you stay, higher degree you get more business for them. Market universities to them equating being a "modern independent" woman gets masters and phds! They are not all guaranteed high paying jobs, many are working 2 jobs and trying to keep their lights on. There is reason student loan debt, mostly from women enrollment, is trillions of dollars, more than double what we pay for the entire countr'ys national defense!
As a child of employed parents, i know what kind of environment a child has to grow up in. I will not wish the same upon my kids even if it means we dont can't afford a second car, or an expensive lifestyle. Both parents working most of the time only creates rifts between them and a household where children are left unwanted. Not because the parents are bad but that the kind of stress working and managing household puts people, most wont be able to manage it.
The West knows this will happen because they created this situation for religion to play no role in our lives! Well planned by Z….. for people to loose faith and planning this for the long term!
A lot of anti-Islamic, secular fallacies in here which are blatant KUFR by fake adulterous shaykh uthmaan, where was Qur'aan and Sunnah in taking another Muslim man's wife uthmaan?!!🤡🤡🤡
Why you were too busy laughing, your so called ‘sheikh’ read the ayah he was quoting at 24:47 wrong🤭. This is not the first time he has done this by the way. The arrogance not to learn the Quran is disgraceful. His memorises bible verses correctly but cannot do the same for the Quran. I know 7yrs old memorised the Quran with perfection. How is this grown man sitting wearing costume scamming people into convincing them his sheikh and has the audacity to give lecture with his gay looking friend beside him.Do not take Islam from these losers, none of them have any legit Islamic credentials.
Poor grandparents. After they raised their kids but they have to raised their grandkids😢. When they will get rest? Don't u love ur parents till u ask them to do that?may Allah grant my parents to Jannah 😭😭😭
It take a community to raise a child So many teachers at my local Masjid complain the students are bad behaved, but the parents expect the teachers to teach Islamic ethics manner Not just Arabic reading If the parents are expected to work the relatives need to step in and help you don’t want your youth raised by the streets
But the first teacher is the mother since a child spends most of his time with her unless she is autonomous hyper individual with secular liberal mindset and initiated to be enslaved as a worker bee, a cog in a hyper capitalist economic machine, who sees being a mother to her child and a housewife as the true embodiment of slavery. The transformation of the new feminist has taken a bold step into the void.
@piqueny8872your grandparents should not have to be taking care of kids until they die. If you have a husband you can make it work where you take most the responsibility or all when it comes to your kids. Nobody needs to be 75 watching your kids every week
@piqueny8872 Well, that doesn't mean putting most of the work on your old parents who already had to raise you.😂 You're supposed to take care of them when they get old😅
We just have to let go of all ideologies and accept Islam fully as both men and women. We can not hold on to feminism and other things. We got to submit fully. Easier said than done I know but that is the test.
The fact that these women confuse their personal experience with Islam is the biggest problem. I am from a south asian family and yeah I don't have a father I can say I like. But Alhamdulillah I am grateful that Allah(swt) is providing me through him. People literelly have fathers who leave them. To make clear how my father was to me, wel....... He has completely traumatized me about marriage. But there's is no going back that the best men in this world are muslim. I am talking about the prophets and the sahabas. Islamic rulings, values, mannerisms and boundaries are there to make every human the best of the humans possible. If we keep taking the people around us as examples and say that the rules of Islam is wrong, it will be completely stupid. Islam has proved us that it has the complete guide of how to be the best of humans by showing us the sahabas and Prophet (Sa), his wives, his daughters, other prophets, Maryam (As), Asiya (Ra), Rahima(Ra) and many more. Again, i didn't grow up watching a father or uncles or cousin brothers I'd respect but if there’s anything that can provide me the man I'll respect, is Islam. A man who always abides by the ruling of Islam and is well cautious regarding rights of the people around him, he is bound to be one of the best men in this world. The best men and women in this world are muslims. I don have to do a survey to prove that. I wanted to be a career woman for what I have seen in my family. The truth is if a man is to disrespect his wife he will disrespect her regardless of what she does. Telling your wife to make money or allowing her to is nothing but a disrespect on woman. Our prophet (Sa) had multiple wives and they lived under extreme proverty did he ever tell his wives to get a job? Did Ali(Ra) told Fatima(Ra) to get a job? A husband allowing his wife to go out and work in a free mixing environment is nothing but an insult to the wife. Again, I am a south asian woman from a cultural family. Even I thought I will become a career woman to be heard or be valued in my husband's eyes. Then Alhamdulillah Allah(Swt) put some sense in me. I know very well now if you have to work outside in order to be respected, then you've simply married a man with no balls. The wives of our prophets and shahabas was well respected by them regardless if they had a job or not. And If you want a husband if not like them but close to them, then you have to try to be like the best of the women Islam has or at least be as close as to them as possible. You can never be like our mothers the ummul mu'minins unless you show obedience towards Allah(Swt) and Prophet (Sa)'s commandments that includes those regarding the gender roles too. Also mothers have 50% more respect, value and importance than father. If you think that is for nothing then you are wrong. We are supposed to be valued more by our kids because we have more duties towards them than their fathers. If I can not fulfil my duties towards my kids cause I have a job, I will have no right to ask for the respect or importance from them. Ok may be it is possible to be a career woman and mother at the same time. Then, Quran tells the women to breast feed their kids untill 2 years idk if any place in this world gives 2 years of maternity leave. You basically have to go back to work after 3 months so what about the rest of the months you are supposed to breast feed your child? Then you have to leave him in someone else's care in order to keep the job. Clearly even if you are not the 'Stay at home mother' you still need that role in your house. So why not be the 'Stay at home mother' yourself instead of making others raise your kids? As a career woman Will you be fulfilling the rights that your children have upon you as a mother like this? Do you think you deserve to enjoy the rights that Islam gave you as a mother? Can you complain if your kids don't love you, obey you or respect you? What will you answer to Allah in the last judgement day? What will you answer when your kids will complain to Allah about their rights being violated by you? I ain't saying there is nothing such as toxic husband. But in the end we have to answer for our own actions. You cannot afford to neglect your duties or follow lifestyles that's not Islamic because of someone else. The sins are all gonna be on you not on that person.
Yours is the most beautiful & concise take on the issue. May Allah improve your relationship with your family.May Allah increase your patience. I completely understand why you feel the way you do regarding your family.I have firsthand experience on this too.I am really sorry for what you are going through.And I know for a fact that you deserve better. And the only way we can detox the 'desi' culture is to get rid of the 'culture' and go back to the Quran and Sunnah. - From a fellow 'South asian' brother from a 'cultural' family. Jazak'allah. BTW, You got yourself a new subscriber.😇😇😇
Interesting response, insightful also, I do like that you have chosen to look at things from a positive perspective instead of negative one. We all are prepared in life for what’s the come so you went through everything in order to be prepared for what’s to come…
May الله make it easy for us sisters. Ameen. Sometimes, it's the lack of knowledge, courage, or gyrah from the men's side that let us women down. The men are like the shepherd for their flock...so it hurts when they let us down, because then, the women have to pick up the pieces alone....
I'm American and a convert My wifey is Egyptian We live in Egypt She works (she doesn't have to) but only works because she works at the same school that our daughter attends. She says, once our daughter is in grade 5, wifey is staying home and daughter will go to a different Islamic school where transportation is better provided. Wifey also says, she would rsther stay home and be a housewife than to work. Alhamdulillah
@SuhaylaThequeen - me too. It was her decision. If she wants to work, it is her choice. We would have a schedule that at least 1 of us will be with the daughter and not have a babysitter unless there is an absolute emergency. We are both teachers.
Work environments force you to defend yourself verbally and masculine traits breed success in work environments, if a woman wants to become successful in a workplace she has to adapt masculine traits like assertiveness, being disagreeable, embracing confrontation... when woman take up these behaviours to work they go home with those behaviours, and practice them at home.
**Cultural imperialism = actively dismantling or undermining the original cultural, religious, social, and ethical norms of the targeted country. it may occur through censorship, banning traditional practices, rewriting history, discrediting traditional beliefs, or portraying them (the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of the targeted country) as outdated, oppressive, or inferior.** *Cultural imperialism is a form of colonialism. Western powers have used Feminism to dismantle or undermine the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of Muslim countries. Thus, Feminism is also a form of colonialism that Western powers are keen to use.* # Examples of Feminism's cultural imperialism, *Feminists run campaigns to "liberate" women from wearing hijabs or niqabs, & make efforts to reform or destroy traditional Muslim family structures, while portraying Muslim women as universally oppressed by Islam and in need of saving by Feminism & Western powers.* 1. Islam forbids Muslims from imitating the disbelievers, particularly the Jews and Christians, but this prohibition does not extend to all aspects of their lives. It specifically applies to matters of their religion & those things that are unique to them, by which they are known. 2. Muslims have no need to imitate other nations in religious rituals or acts of worship. 3. The prohibition on imitating the disbelievers does not apply to the things that they do & invent from which Muslims may benefit. There is no sin on the Muslims if they share in that, rather the Muslims should be in the forefront of such things. Feminism is created by the disbelievers & is unique to them, as Feminists say that, "Feminism is simply gender equality (equal rights for both women & men), nothing more." In Islam, while men & women may be equal in the eyes of Allah, their rights are not fully the same, and they have different rights. Salahuddin Ayyubi said, "if you want to destroy a nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation." adultery & nudity is a part of Feminism. Therefore, no Muslim man or woman should call themselves a, "Feminist" and no Muslim should support Feminism.
It's gratifying seeing brother Uthman and brother faiyad doing their best in clearing all the misunderstanding and misguiding that was put as a mean for the devil to divide us, may Allah grant them paradise, Ameen.
Also, when woman say that men are equal to men, to me it is understood that we are of equal worth in reward and punishment, in respect and understanding, in patience and love!
Throughout the entire time the first woman was talking I had 2 things on my mind 1. It's your family's fault, not Islam's. If you had Islam you wouldn't need feminism. 2. Brother Faiyad already mentioned... Why take elements from something corrupted when you already have what is perfect.
yes. but that is exactly the thing women say the problem doesn't lay in islam it is in men. who only use the religion for their benefit never for their women not realizing if they lose the females islam will go under.
@@Adil-uk7vhShe did throw abuses by insinuating how she would kick her husband in the behind if she didn’t let her wear the pants in her marriage. Go back and listen how sheikh Uthman politely asked her to clarify because it really did sound like she was verbally abusing her husband and then she started speaking in circles and changing the goal posts. The sheikh cooked her so bad that she stormed off huffing and puffing. Go back and rewatch the video her behavior was quite outrageous and lacked any adab.
@@Adil-uk7vhShe was throwing abuses bro. She was insinuating that if her husband raised his hand on her (which i seriously doubt) she would kick him in the rear and kick him and their children out of their house. If that doesn’t sound outrageous to you then you need to do some serious soul searching. I guarantee you that the non Muslim men will not tolerate that aunty’s mouthy attitude and will get physical with her. Then what? You going to shame that non Muslim man for not tolerating her disrespect? Plus she continues to overtalk the sheikh, constantly interrupted the sheikh, put words in the sheikh mouth that he didn’t say, and talked in circles. Most men nor non Muslim aren’t going to tolerate that level of disrespect from anyone man or woman. The aunty wasn’t even mature enough to admit that she was wrong and she 48 years old? Nahh that’s pretty outrageous. She going to find out the hard way equal rights equal lefts. 😂😂😂
bro, i love how calm you talk and address these so called controversial topics but youre also engaging the audience and putting the foot down at the same time which is impressive. May Allah bless you and Sheikh Uthman tremendously and may Allah increase you both in beneficial knowledge
Perhaps all the known imams on TY need to address issue. Its interfering with Muslims developing families. These forum especially be present in Muslim matrimonial events so they know of the bat what toxic notions they are coming with and need to adjust.
@@deenforce1142 i would suggest the duaat be very very careful of giving generalized advice into peoples life circumstances because councillors will tell you, that there's often so many detrimental circumstances surrounding a question that is not mentioned in a 1-2min QnA that it could actually lead to harm if someone acts upon it. Unless questions are about clear cut haraam and halal in a general sense, we really need to revert back to the Sahabas ways of being too afraid to give someone advice. If we look at the way Allah communicates in the Quran it shows us that some verses evoke fear of jahannam for comitting sins while others encouage us with jannah to avoid sins. We can immediately see that sometimes a stern word is beneficial an sometimes gentle. Some people will also tell you that during a certain time in their life which verses are exactly what they needed to hear in that moment. Allahu Akbar! May He guide us to be of benefit to the Most people, in a manner that pleases Him, Ameen
The thing is i had a similar conversation with a feminist/westernized muslim sister and tried to explain things to her but they just talk to respond and insult, they dont want to change their ways. It was such a complete waste of time.
To transform a person, you need to connect with them. Emotional intelligence is needed, don’t just prove them wrong, but try to understand where they are coming from. Sheikh Mikaeel Smith’s book ‘With the Heart In Mind’ is a great start. I think we need to be more understanding to our brothers and sisters, if we give up so easily, then where do you expect them to turn towards? We have to be more empathetic as a ummah.
that's because you are trying to solve an emotional trauma with logic. once you understand that their opinions are rooted in pain, either resulting from a lived trauma or secondary witnessed trauma then you will actually be able to understand them better and why they hold onto certain views. You might even feel some compassion for them. You'll see that at the core they are trying to prevent a harm that they fear. Below are just 2 basic examples, but there are so many different types of scenarios that you need to realize that each individual has their own reasons for believing whatever it is they believe. To make an example, the most obvious one is the husband is abusive or just neglectful and indifferent to the wife, who is a stay-at-home mom who is worn out and under appreciated and one day he leaves her financially destitute - or vice versa - where the wife is abusive to the husband, takes his money & disrespects him etc and leaves him for another man. So the kids either grow up to repeat the cycle of their parents because subconsciously its normal to them - if they've been exposed to healthy family dynamics, they'll try to break the cycle to better their own future, often by over compensating to avoid the harm that their parent/sibling/friend/etc. experienced. So when you try to be logical, you are invalidating their fears and its like you are calling them irrational and that's what triggers the emotional response. In the end, you don't need to convince anyone of anything but only show them how islam can practically offer a number of solutions to the issue. Where many duaat get it wrong is when you give advice without understanding the persons circumstances properly and when you give impractical solutions. e.g. dont talk about solutions that's illegal in the country that the individual is in, or tell them to make hijrah when it's not within their current ability, but solutions that they can immediately implement withiin their individual context or refer them to an islamic councillor who is far more qualified to know the methodology for giving someone possible life changing advice.
A lot of anti-Islamic, secular fallacies in here which are blatant KUFR by fake adulterous shaykh uthmaan, where was Qur'aan and Sunnah in taking another Muslim man's wife uthmaan?!!🤡🤡🤡
I studied as a nurse and the moment I got married and my husband said he doesn’t want me to work, I didn’t even bother to finish and I was in my final year. Everybody says I’m a fool but I’m obedient to my husband. I’m a full time mom and I like it. I don’t ask for things he can’t afford and I’m happy being at home. I mean what’s more beautiful than that. My husband is a revert.
As long as you are happy with. alhamdulilah, it's good. I would ask to finish my studies if I only have one year and explain to him it be beneficial for us in the future.
As long as husband happy.Why always women happiness not men happiness.We live in a such a toxic misandrist world.May Allah guide betas and simps @@Nopropaganda888
I really like the lecture by Nouman Ali khan called : Role of Muslim women in modern society . It dosent touch the topics of feminism but brings up good points about women working as doctors lawyers etc while still upholding their islamic values . Worth a listen .
As a women who is having to work due to family needs and forced to do so from parents, the sister irks me so much. She has absolutely no idea the amount of ha*a**m*nt women face on a daily basis at work and during commute. By Allah, from the unwanted stares outside and even at offices, no matter how much you cover, to the "accidental" physical contacts to office cultures that puts a greater burden on women to be energetic, bubbly, proactive and "pump up" the team, to embody this livey cheery personality, to the unspoken pressure on women to work twice as hard to prove their worth, to be subjected to stringent policies that applying only to women and the list goes on. Please sister open your eyes. Working is NOT dignifying for women. Rather women have been deceived, even by families, to ruin their time and life in pursuit of career.
people are not all in the same boat. we often see things only through our own perspective and fail to realize that there are many different circumstances. the halal and the haram are clear and that is not even debatable. as for the generality of whether its permissible for a woman to work outside the home, that is not simply a yes or no thing but has to be evaluated upon each persons circumstances. it can even be haram for a man to work outside the home if it can be prevented depending on the type of fitnah that exists outside the home. let us not insult each other or condemn each other and seek to understand each others struggles and advise in the best way. the subcontinent women have many struggles that women who were raised in liberal western societies do not have and cannot begin to comprehend & this woman's job might be the one thing that's freeing her from the cultural role she would have been confined to (& i'm referring to the common cultural practices that goes against the sunnah & unreasonable expections placed on wives & daughter-in-laws in the sub continent). So in her mind staying at home may have a different meaning compared to someone in the west, where staying at home is relaxing & offers more leisure time etc. That doesn't mean I stand for ideologies that go against Islam. I'm just a very open minded person that understands that the fiqh of many matters changes upon certain conditions and so we need to withhold judgment sometimes so we can understand the how & the why before we condemn the what. we do the best we can with the circumstances we have and where we go astray we need to help one another with empathy to get back on the sunnah path.
Preach it sister!!!! Your experience needs to be shared far and wide especially to the younger generation of sisters. That aunty sounds like auntys have gone wild as soon as I heard the Indian accent. I was like yep here we go.
I work in a daycare, part-time. All female colleagues and I get to hold babies and play with them. I love my job. If you work in an office perhaps take some accountability and realise that there are jobs you could have done that don't involve being in a mixed gendered office environment.
no men have done that. the moment men lost their religion and started cherry picking what they wanted to use is the moment they lost their wives and no matter how people say we are men without women society fails. so don't blame women for wanting an out. they were raised by a fathers, saw how they mistreated their mothers, listened to what "obeying" actually ment to muslim men and they do not want that why should they? the moment men actually go back to what god preaches the women will go back home and raise their kids
The West knows this will happen because they created this situation for religion to play no role in our lives! Well planned by Z….. for people to loose faith and planning this for the long term!
Omg I just realized that these feminist muslim women take one event in our hadith collection and conclude that they now have to go to work and be equal to men.
No, some work because their husbands can't provide for them and their kids. I know many divorced sisters as well where ex husbands don't pay for their children, so they end up being both the mother and the father. That's not feminism, that's men failing to fulfil their obligations. Sometimes these sisters get labelled as 'feminist', but that's just deflecting from the problem of men not being men.
@ You’re arguing against a point I did not even brought up. Your point is valid but my argument was something else entirely. These so called feminist women have been taught by some feminist preachers, could be male or female, that women should go to work and there is equality between men and women in Islam by being told about these hadiths where Aisha RA taught some companions, or where a woman had to step up because there was no men around, or the men that was there were old or blind. And let’s be honest these women heard these hadiths from feminist preachers who want to preach feminism, not by reading them in hadith books. These events or incidents were an exception to the rule. They(feminists) want it to be the rule.
@@wingchun6036 exception to the rule doesn’t define the rule. feminists love to bring up how khadija was a working woman but never ever bring up the circumstances that caused her to do so they somehow also conveniently seem to forget that khadija (RA) never once worked with men directly, she always sent a messenger and was never alone with a non mahram man even if she was fully covered how many muslim women today who work fulfill these conditions allowing their income to be halal? pretty close to 0
Feminism is spreading but I believe in time if we as brothers do what we’re supposed to do in being the husband, taking caring of a family & following our Islam, feminism will be a thing of the past
Feminist sisters who come to gatherings like this knowing that their views will be challenged should be congratulated. May Allah guide them on the right path.
No way this was in Toronto and I heard nothing about it, I 100% would've attended. I keep up with your content so I'm surprised I didn't see, you should advertise this stuff more brother
Agree with brother Faiyad that it's the men who have failed. They failed to recognize honest women and only paid attention to glamour and showoff. They thought taking care of children is a trivial act and only women who earn money deserve respect
I disagree no group of people are any match for the 4th branch of the govt aka mainstream media. It’s not the brothers that failed it’s the sisters whom threw themselves into these universities whom are inherently Islamophobic and brainwashed these sisters with feminism so they became self hating Muslims. Plus all of the criticism you’re speaking of is what feminists criticize traditional woman with. Weak arguments. I think many of the brothers tried to bring the sisters back to Islam like Sheikh Uthman is doing but we were blacklisted out of our own masjids and communities for speaking haqq and using the Quran, Hadith, and statistical facts. Many of us brothers checked out because we were shouted down, cussed at, and had our reputations slandered and ruined by these feminist “muslimahs”. The main goal of that whole “metoo” movement was purely to slander men’s reputations which correct me if I’m wrong is a huge sin in Islam. Millions of innocent men’s reputations were ruined during this “metoo” movement including Muslim men. So I find it so hypocritically hilarious when I see younger brothers putting the blame solely on the shoulders of brothers. Nahhh yall weren’t there on the front lines back in the late 90’s and early 2000’s and beared witnesses to the Tom foolery we witnessed. It’s easy to just place the blame on men. No that’s wrong! Fear Allah!
Salaam Man is the provider & protector. My question is does the food need to be cooked and ready to be served when it comes to providing meal. Unfortunately there’s always this argument at home 😂 Kindly reply people!!😅
It's increasing difficult to have one income in many places even in the Muslim lands. The ideal is that the mother stays home but if the is no compromise in regards to fulfilling the rights of the husband and children and the job is halal, surely there can't be any harm in it and rather encouraged especially if its a from home business. Blanket judgement is what needs to be avoided but at the same time people need to be educated regarding their responsibilities.
The accent says it all. Aunties gone wild, honestly some are poor representatives of Muslim women, my revert wife is constantly shocked by their mannerisms. She's American and she thought Canadians were nice, but maybe not these aunties lol
I would say the same goes to market and they would shove their way into our ways… we deal with child with special needs, I do believe in equal rights, but my husband still has final says. We do things together and we raise our kids together… there is no reliant on our parents I feel sorry for that lady’s kids
Only brother Daniel Haqiqatjou actually talks about it unapologetically. Feminism has creeped so much into Muslim societies that even Shiekhs and Iman's will talk about the protecting, providing and responsibilities of men without reinforcing the authority. It's shameful and yet another sign of judgement day. SubhanAllah.
statistics are a feather in the wind. been such a tragedy seeing duaat fall for statistics which can be cooked any way you like. the 2020 lockdown is a good example of the inaccuracies of statistics. it's based on a small sample that is often not truly reflective of the whole and there will ALWAYS be variables that exist that are unaccounted for knowingly and unknowingly.
a common mistake imams and even some councillors make, is that they regard 100% of their clients (maybe 10-15 people a month) coming to them with the same problem, as if 100% of the ummah has that problem. 100% of their clients having the same problem tells you that 100% of those people seeking out their help has the same problem and in reality that makes up only a hypothetical 0.0000000003% of the entire ummah. Then they go giving general advice to the masses based upon that statistic. ((facepalm))
12 years of marriage with 2 kids but parents of her pushed her to get out of marriage and they wanted the father of 2 kids with her to be in jail just because they didn’t want the father to be with his kids anymore. Building up lies as high as against the father they could have spread to kick him out and they have succeeded. What exactly is feminism?
@ she stayed with her husband and children in the US and her parents live in Bangladesh. All manipulation and conspiracies from her parents caused her create a false impression against her husband. Everything happened to him so fast and and other Bangladeshi people helped her in the USA to put her husband in jail with a false case. Her initial plan was to accuse him of a rape in which she did not succeed. But with other false accusations got him……… I saw those innocent husbands are victims of their wives but US domestic violence law is totally against the basic rules.
@@mohammadmatin8030Witnessing these horror stories are NEVER spoken about by the sisters. No wonder so many brothers are very cautious about who they get married to because it’s so hard to tell who is and who isn’t a good sister. A lot of sister pretend to be good and after marriage their Shaytaan comes out.
It’s still even MORE important that these muslimah are respectful to the brothers in these comment sections. The sisters are talking with the exact same disrespect like in the video to the brothers in the comment section. No!! That’s wrong! Go tone police the sisters! Sisters can’t be rude as humanly possible to the brothers and still expect the brothers to be respectful. Are we not human beings as well? Brothers are becoming sick and tired of it and we will start pushing back. I’m not as nice as the sheikh or brother fayad. I will be harsh because that’s how reality treats men in society. Sisters have become way too comfortable with being disrespectful to the brothers. Non Muslim men and women don’t even talk to us brothers with such disdain and disrespect. So who do sisters think they are? I could’ve already gotten married to a non Muslim woman who would’ve treated me like a king, but I fear Allah and have to marry a sister but sisters obviously aren’t fearing Allah. I’ve turned down hundreds of non Muslim women. But the sisters are behaving more jahil that the non Muslim women? Make it make sense!!!!! No more!!!!
Non muslim guys are also much better than muslim men.......as a Muslim girl inshallah i will marry a Christian or jews guy in future.......@@thechosenone2786
We need more of this. The issue is as muslims we have brushed this udner carpet for far too long and this is the mess we now we are facing. Ideally, we should give these sisters the chance to ask these questions, and having someone like sheikh uthman is perfect. Feminism is a big disease it has seeped into our women folks without them even realising.
It's always good talking about these topics. I think checking your phone while in a conversation is not polite. I think the first woman went over the top. Laughing and pointing that out doesn't help the overall goal of this get together. Allah knows best.
Felt the same, no matter how ‘goofy’ someone’s point may seem, this sort of behaviour just drives people away :/ you can see the slight smiles of them wanting to laugh, the phone and it probably aggravated her. We need to do better in connecting with our sisters and brothers because we don’t create that safe space then guess what? They will turn towards someone who does provide that safe space and that may be away from Islam.
@sunshineseaandvitamind8620No you sisters were arrogant, selfish, ignorant, outrageously disrespectful, immature, and straight up rude to the brothers. Of course they are going to laugh at yall. Is this how yall talk to your fathers and brothers? Y’all behave like kufr women but want to be treated like Islamic princesses. Nah that’s not the way real life works.
No brother it is Sunnah to mock ignorance when politely speaking to these adabless sisters doesn’t work. They should’ve brought Daniel Haqqiagtou on that stage. Then you brothers will see the difference of what is and isn’t harsh. These sisters have become way too comfortable in disrespecting brothers. So enough is enough!!!! We will bring back shame into our communities and we will mock ignorance when politely speaking to these jahil sisters doesn’t work. That’s how it will work going forward.
While I, personally as a female, disagree with the sister's statements at 31:30, I didn't like how noisy the crowd was. It was clear that they lacked respect, as many were whispering loudly, talking, and even laughing while someone else was speaking. This is a serious matter, not something to laugh about. May Allah guide her on the right path. As a female, it is indeed very sad to see some sisters being brainwashed and westernized, with modern feminist ideologies infiltrating their minds. May Allah grant her sakinah in her own home. However, some of the brothers were also disappointing, subhanAllah. Laughing and whispering during such matters is very immature. May Allah guide us all. SubhanAllah.
You get what you put out there. When sheikh Uthman was speaking the feminist “muslimahs” were constantly interrupting him just like the kuffar do. So as a female if you didn’t like how the crowd were giggling at the sheer ignorance coming out of the “sisters” mouths then maybe you should look at how the “sisters” were conducting themselves. In a civilized conversation you talk and get to your point and then you allow the next person you’re speaking to talk and get his point across. You don’t constantly interrupt, change the goal posts, speak in circles, and monologue the person you’re speaking to death. No that’s not right. You receive what you give so if you females want to be “equal” to men in every aspect of life then here you go this is what “equality” looks like. This is how men treat each other as well when we speak out of ignorance. So I find it quite ironic you mentioned immaturity of the brothers but turned a blind eye to the sisters immaturity so much so they took all the time during the Q&A portion of the conversation, that the brothers didn’t even have a chance to ask the questions they wanted to ask. Subhanallah it is Sunnah to mock ignorance. That’s what all the “sisters” displayed and didn’t back any of their arguments with Quran much less authentic Hadith. Please STOP both siding and looking for things to be “offended” by when having these adult conversations. It’s a common feminist tactic to shame the opponent and is not Islamic in nature. Smh indeed 🙄🤦🏾
So you personally “disagree” with what the sisters were saying but had no problem with the sheer ignorance and immaturity of all of the sisters at that conference? The sisters were being so selfish that they took up all the time during the Q&A portion of the conference, that the brothers didn’t even have a chance to ask any of the questions they wanted to ask. You call that fair? I find it quite ironic that you felt the need to highlight to brothers whom were giggling at the sheer ignorance coming out of the sisters mouths, but conveniently went blind and deaf with the selfishness and ignorance of the sisters whom constantly interrupted the sheikh as if they have more knowledge than him. When you sisters bring up these criticisms all we ask is that you be fair and just as Allah has commanded y’all to be. I didn’t see any fairness in your comment. Also it is Sunnah to mock ignorance. You yourself just agreed that the sisters were being ignorant and arrogant. Therefore the brothers were justified in giggling at their ignorance. You also suffer from the isms that the sisters at that conference suffer from. You were looking for something the brothers did to both sides the accountability part which is a common tactic of the enemies of Islam.
Sorry but I couldn't hold my laughter aswell, the brainwashed, feministic, western ideas that some women (and men) have is just so incredibly stupid that its hard to control your laughter, the women of the Sahaba (Ra) weren't arguing about working or not looking after there kids etc.. So u can't really blame the ppl for laughing at the gathering when ppl bring up these foolish ideas
@@thechosenone2786 Assalamu Alaikum, I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my comment, but I feel there’s been a misunderstanding regarding what I said. Firstly, you mentioned that I “had no problem with the sheer ignorance and immaturity of all of the sisters at that conference.” That’s simply not true. If you read my comment closely, I clearly stated how sad it is to see some sisters being brainwashed and influenced by modern feminist ideologies, and I even prayed for Allah to guide them. I used the plural form for sisters, so your claim that I ignored their behavior or was “blind and deaf” to it is inaccurate. Secondly, regarding the Q&A portion: from what I understood, this was a segment where the Sheikh specifically invited the sisters to ask their questions. If it’s true that they took up all the time, I believe it would have been the Sheikh’s responsibility to manage the session fairly and ensure everyone had a chance. You also suggested that it’s Sunnah to mock ignorance. While I understand frustration at witnessing ignorance, mocking others is not a characteristic of good manners. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was the best example of addressing ignorance with wisdom, kindness, and patience, not giggling or ridiculing others. Lastly, You stated that I "went blind and deaf" to the selfishness and ignorance of the sisters. Yet, in the same comment, you acknowledged that I "agreed that the sisters were being ignorant and arrogant." This contradiction makes it clear that I did, in fact, address their behavior. My original comment explicitly expressed sadness over the influence of modern feminist ideologies on some sisters and prayed for Allah's guidance for them. I find your tone and accusations disappointing. Accusing me of using tactics of “the enemies of Islam” is not only untrue but deeply offensive. I approached this matter with fairness by addressing inappropriate behavior from both brothers and sisters. If there were things I missed or didn’t fully address, a respectful reminder would have been enough instead of misrepresenting my words or questioning my intentions. May Allah guide us all to conduct ourselves with fairness, wisdom, and humility.
BarakAllahu feek sister, have good assumptions about your siblings in islam. it was a very embarrassing moment and a heated discussion. For many people, including me, this feels very embarrassing and I would also try to do sth else or act as if I do sth else because I would feel embarrassed. This is actually what two brothers wrote in the comments too. BarakAllahu feek, may Allah guide us all
It is not productive to "name call" the sister a feminist if she did not self-identify as one. Win the hearts of those who are influenced rather than mocking them. Mocking them will just push them further away from the Deen and reinforce negative perceptions of Muslim men and Muslim women alike. People are shaped by their experiences or traumas. All the issues we see are symptoms of the ummah in general being far away from the Sunnah of Rasulullah. Stop picking and choosing what sunnah matters and fear Allah, men and women with regards to each other. Rights are not just between parents and children or husbands and wives or grandparents but it's also Uncles/Aunts, Nephews/Nieces and Brothers/Sisters. - Even Neighbours. Collectively we are all falling short and there's a need for us to step it up in taking care of all our relationships.
When ppl argue that they need 2 incomes, you should ask them when was the last time they were eligible for zakat and if they know who to go to in order to receive zakat. Cousins, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, nephews, and nieces can all give their zakat to you. If you fear that you'll be homeless or starve to death as a married couple it is not immediately necessary for the wife to get a job working in a mixed environment. Not unless you've sold off all your unnecessary possessions and you are so poor that you are eligible for zakat and there is no zakat available. What are the odds that both spouses have no relatives who are required to pay zakat who will pay it to them as needed? How hard is it to go to the mosque of local Muslim community center and apply for zakat? I've never heard of any Muslim in the West ending up living under a bridge unless they were drug addicted or they had warrants out for their arrest from living a life of crime. If the husband makes enough and the two of you own enough property for your household to be ineligible for zakat, then the wife working is not a necessity. If your household is eligible for zakat, then the wife working is still not a necessity because you can apply for zakat and seek it from family.
Assalamu alaikum brother & Sheik, Nice collaboration! It would of been nice to listen to you both more than the questions from the audience.. inshaAllah another one will come! Jazak Allahu Khairan from NZ 🌻
"I believe as for islamic, fully covered, after she said that she was like 'blah blah blah'...! Like no way! that throw me off, I noticed something wrong with her the moment she said blah blah blah fr, this is a bizarre thing to say when talking bout islamic customs.
The brother who asked one simple question is like when youre buying one thing at the store and have to wait for three full grocery carts full of shopping to checkout 😂
53:45 my beautiful brother sheikh uthman clarifies that there may be circumstance where a brother is disabled or becomes injured and a sister may even protect him. I understand him to be giving an example of an exception to the rule of the man being the provider and protector. However, he then follows up by asking rhetorically to the sisters whom among them would want to be married to a husband that is disabled. He states “this is not a man.”. So what is the position? That if a man with a wife and children becomes disabled his wife should divorce him because he’s no longer a man? Did the wives of the companions divorce their husbands that came back from battle disabled?
Subhanallah men and women need to fear Allah towards each other. We are all going to get sick or old and will want to be taken care of. Not all career women are feminists and not all housewives are submissive. Taqwa of Allah is what makes a great spouse who's devoted and a blessing to be with. Compassion is lacking these days. [in todays time , even men working outside is a fitnah]
I totally agree with what you are saying about feminism. How i wish my situation was different. For over 16 yrs I have raised my children, paid the household bills and continue to do everything for myself. Married for 26yrs with little or no support. I took control of my life and forcefully became a breadwinner. I am very overwhelmed with poor health now. I urge women to not let men sit back and not take full responsibility of thier families because you have money. Love yourselves and Allah knows why he gave us a different role as women.
Don’t judge other Muslims in such a way. No one is perfect and they are doing their best. Have some shame because you will have to answer for this on the day of judgement.
Asc. The title has a negative connotation. Let’s remember that’s our Muslim sister. People know her and might remember her. Let’s not use clickbait and uplift each other in times where we may disagree.
Advice brother. Don’t think all these affects were necessary at all. Our sister came to the masjid, clearly confused, but she was discussing trying to figure it out. She went on a rant where she might not have seen Ustadh’s point and was quick with her answers. Some people give impulsive answers when put on the spot and regret later on. May الله reward the sister for trying to discuss and figure things out. She done correct by asking a brother of knowledge. - Lot of people don’t even want to hear something that goes against their view or thoughts. I respect her highly for this. Have good thought of the sister. Advise you to delete the video with affects and rather upload the video without affects. Jazzak Allahu khayr ❤️.
@32:40 both parents working full time is tough but my parents managed to work and have dinner together every single night. Thinking back we had house help tho for my mom alhamdulillah bc she can’t do it all
That’s not reality for many women sis. Unfortunately, many women are full time providers, full time housewives and mothers. Have some mercy on the sisters.
Yea, this is also my objection here. It's hard but Alhamdulillah not impossible. Imagine a female doctor, she have to give time to the kids also help the Muslim sisters by working. In that case they can bring their kids with them. I mean if someone wants to do something good with good intentions Allah makes it easy for them.
My brothers and sisters, we Muslims have been honoured by Islam. Who could have imagined even 100 years ago that there would come a time that the crisis was not too many people but too few! SubhanAllah look at the 'developed' nations and their collapsing populations, one might argue are a result of their modern thinking, so modern that they have forgotten that societies cannot thrive yet without children.
My mother friend who has been married for year, gave her husband 3 children and a stay home mom, now he has married a 21 from Morocco ( he’s 45 ) this issue is getting worse with men in western world .
for every muslim woman who thinks that being a good employee is better being a good mother . after your death . your work will hire another woman in your place in a heartbeat . your children will mourn you for life . damn the media that ruind the image of the mother .
If we are so concerned about kerping Muslim women out of the workplace, lets also talk about how too many women end up there because men don't provide. Its not a marginal issue. I know many sisters who struggle looking after children and financially providing because the ex or spouse dont take their responsibilities seriously. I find the silence around this - when apparently we care so much for the sisters' well being (if that's really what these conversations are about) quite strange. A woman in the workplace isn't ideal, but a man not providing as he should is straight up haram.
Indeed there is a pandemic of Dayooth and they are the ones predominantly espousing red pill rhetoric rather then owning up to their traumas and that which they inflict. The brothers at least acknowledged it as a problem and that there is much work needed to be done. All these gender based ideologies r symptoms of being far away from the laws and lifestyle issued by Allah through his Messenger pbuh. The sister spoke with a lot of emotion and it was easy to pick-up on her traumas. The only way to fix these issues is for the ummah to turn back to the sunnah. Each individual start fixing up themselves and then their current relationships. Brother like Fayad have a lot more maturing to do before they get placed before the ummah as they still need to develop wisdom and empathy.
Islam gave the woman the right of a divorce if the man did not provide . a woman staying with a man who refuses to provide for her (xbox playing instead) is against Islam . she should leave him for her sake and leaving him may fix him too .
They were doing it on purpose as to not allow the men a chance to ask any questions they wanted to ask. Only 1 brother got to ask a question, but I think I heard over 6 sisters ask their questions. Especially that wild rude aunty in the beginning doing all kinds of mental gymnastics, shifting the goal posts, and talking in circles. It was very uncomfortable to hear how disrespectful she was speaking to the sheikh by constantly interrupting him and one can only imagine how rude she is to her husband at home just because she making some money. She even went as far as to say she would kick her husband out if said he had authority over her. I mean just wow! Subhanallah may Allah protect us from such low quality women pretending to be Muslim.
I wouldn't knock women who include a non-polygony component to their contract. They have the right to do it, just like the man the right to not marry such a sister.
I find it very interesting that whenever this marriage contract conversation is had, it’s almost never mentioned that only 1 out of the 4 Madhabs even agree with this view in the first place. So the hanafis,Malikis and Shaf’i schools of thought don’t even agree that you can put such stipulation in a Marriage contract only the hanbalis do. Yet many have taken the view and ran with it as though there’s ijmā’ on the issue.
@1:08 the contract doesn’t say that he can’t remarry, it says the wife can divorce with valid reason if she chooses to. Also, hijab is fard WHAT KIND of comparison is that subhanallah
@@JessicaroAre you Muslim? Jessica doesn’t sound like a Muslim name to me. No woman is superior to what Allah has made halal for men. If a man wants to take on more wives then he don’t need his wife’s permission. No secular contract approved by the govt is superior to Allah’s laws. You don’t like it? Tough! Take that up with Allah. You don’t like it? Then don’t get married. Simple!
Just my point. I wish the same way he had empathetic words towards the Muslim men who "are cornered" into red pill movement idealogy, and saying the men having identity crisis is a reactive response to how society is treating them, I wish he also could have had some more empathetic words to amaatullah, his Muslim sisters who could also have felt over the many many many years and at the hands of many abusive men in their lives, from fathers to brothers to uncles to husbands etc, that they were cornered into feminism idealogy. Many women at the hands of many men have been unsafe and mistreated. Many women nowadays are experiencing generational trauma. I agree both these idealogies are wrong but I would like to see more men give the same grace of understanding and empathy towards their sisters as they do towards their brothers. In Arabic there is a saying al baadi-u athlam, Ya3ni the one who started is the more oppressive. Women have been mistreated for centuries, nothing to do with Islam, but it has happened nevertheless and we are dealing with the aftermath of this now. Help you sisters with sabr with kindness and with justice.
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**Cultural imperialism = actively dismantling or undermining the original cultural, religious, social, and ethical norms of the targeted country. it may occur through censorship, banning traditional practices, rewriting history, discrediting traditional beliefs, or portraying them (the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of the targeted country) as outdated, oppressive, or inferior.**
*Cultural imperialism is a form of colonialism. Western powers have used Feminism to dismantle or undermine the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of Muslim countries. Thus, Feminism is also a form of colonialism that Western powers are keen to use.*
# Examples of Feminism's cultural imperialism,
*Feminists run campaigns to "liberate" women from wearing hijabs or niqabs, & make efforts to reform or destroy traditional Muslim family structures, while portraying Muslim women as universally oppressed by Islam and in need of saving by Feminism & Western powers.*
1. Islam forbids Muslims from imitating the disbelievers, particularly the Jews and Christians, but this prohibition does not extend to all aspects of their lives. It specifically applies to matters of their religion & those things that are unique to them, by which they are known.
2. Muslims have no need to imitate other nations in religious rituals or acts of worship.
3. The prohibition on imitating the disbelievers does not apply to the things that they do & invent from which Muslims may benefit. There is no sin on the Muslims if they share in that, rather the Muslims should be in the forefront of such things.
Feminism is created by the disbelievers & is unique to them, as Feminists say that, "Feminism is simply gender equality (equal rights for both women & men), nothing more."
In Islam, while men & women may be equal in the eyes of Allah, their rights are not fully the same, and they have different rights.
Salahuddin Ayyubi said, "if you want to destroy a nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation." adultery & nudity is a part of Feminism.
Therefore, no Muslim man or woman should call themselves a, "Feminist" and no Muslim should support Feminism.
Audio was a little bit bad, but Alhamdulillah. May Allah bless you, brother and sheikh
wonderful video allahummabarik!
does polygamy necessitate any certain condition ? for example a person who can't control his desires is recommend to get married. does polygamy has any conditions like this
@@orbofnyt Pose your question to an aalim brother and consult with an islamic councillor.
Lack of impulse control could be signs of addiction or an addictive personality type whereby desires might not be satiated or suppressed easily without interventions from the sunnah or otherwise. seek professional advice!
I am a revert sister been working for 20 years it's a struggle getting up for work , being around this superficial society and I have to constantly think about my kid.I can't understand why would a women want to wake up, worry about what you wear, travel to work some of us up to 3 hours back and forth come home exhausted and still have to have mental capacity to deal with home duties.I know some of us don't have a choice ,but if I had a choice I would grab it and take care of my family at home.
I understand. Its like secular women are converting to Islam while many of these "born Muslim" sisters are trying to follow the secular system.
I agree if you are blessed to have that advantage that would be great but unfortunately it is not the case in most ppls situations these days. May Allah swt make it easy on you and guide his ummah 🇵🇸
That's why u should have a husband that provides for u
I’m a revert sister too, who just reverted this year. And I agree. The problem is, most workplaces are extremely cutthroat and pragmatic about profits… because, well, that’s just part of being in a capitalist society, but this doesn’t bode well with feminine personalities where we’re just more sensitive with our emotions. We’re also more nurturing than men, which is why we tend to find nurturing type professions extremely rewarding.
On top of this, we have to contend with a week or two worth of pain every month. Therefore, it’s only natural that even when we try our best to work as hard as we can, the men can easily outwork us because, well, they don’t have to deal with the added pain and exhaustion each month. And they are less sensitive to office politics because they will more likely ruthlessly push back, rather than dwell on their own feelings. And as much as companies try to find ways to help out women, ultimately they have to look after their bottom line.
So I think women should be allowed the choice to work, and it should likely be at a more part time basis or be extremely flexible to allow time for child rearing; however, most women would probably find it more rewarding to stay at home.
With that being said, unfortunately, due to the current economics (in Canada at least), I don’t think it’s possible for most families to survive on one income.
@ I agree sister and welcome to Islam hope you're doing great.I agree sister, and I have no interest in any shape of form having a career progress even though I been offered.Office politics are common mostly with the women although I am not generalising but if you worked under women leadership you will understand where I am coming from
The important part is we forgetting our roles and the priorities are really the children at the end of the day.For me personally I find it hard juggling between two roles as a mum and working women.Living in the west is not helping either with one income.May Allah open a way for us and keep us on the straight path Ameen
Feel sorry for that lady's husband and kids.
May Allah make it easy on them, Allahumma ameen.
@@FaiyadFitameen
The majority of Muslim women are like her. That's why the majority are single and/or divorced.
The husband is clearly effeminate.
What's her point? Subxaanalah may Allah swt guide us to the right path aaaaaamiin
My daughter gave up work when her first child was born, saying her kids are for her to look after, she will make do with what her husband earns. So proud of her.Alhumdulillah
Ya but many husbands become lazy and don't try to make more to meet the demands of the family he makes.
@@kinndah2519 Are you talking about experience or just generalizing things. Some husbands are not fulfilling their responsibilities but lots are doing good job but not even being accounted for. if A man does not fulfil his responsibility , that is also an issue and no one is denying that
You probably collecting money from the kufur…and yet you insult them.Pathetic in breed Islamic mentality.
Would agree that it goes both ways, but a lot of the blame is on the men.
Men should lead , be a good example and support their family.
Woman should be obedient, let the man lead and be a good woman.
They both should have religion.
Now we got men that want their wife’s to lead and women who don’t obey their husbands.
May الله guide Us and bring us back to that which pleases him.
We need a good example and the best example is the prophet (ﷺ).
We should study his life and make it a guide for our behaviour and choices. Along with the Quran ofc.
May Allah bless you both, Shaykh Uthman and Brother Faiyad. Despite the sister's sharp and defensive tone, the response she received was respectful, calm, and straight to the point. Allahuma barik. I'm proud to be at home and raising my child at home, especially living in the West. Alhumdulillah
Me too, Alhamduli'Allaah! 😊
Me too, Alhamdulilah. Wallahi, we as women are so lucky that Allah has given us so many rights to protect us in every way possible. Alhamdulilah, being home with your children and taking care of your husband is the best way, and it is a beautiful way to connect with Allah. Alhamdulilah for Islam.
Alhudmulillah tbh for our adab, it makes a big difference.
@@FaiyadFit your “adab” makes a difference?!…. Maybe Sh Uthaman’s but YOURS?! Hmm… so coincidentally the ig reel you posted for this video came up for me, and on there YOU liked a comment from a brother calling her a “MUSLIMAH KAREN” 17 hours ago, whereas didn’t like any of the PREVIOUS COMMENTS WHERE PEOPLE WHERE MAKING DUA FOR HER GUIDANCE. Hmm…. HMMMM… I WONDER WHY that is?! Like is that what you refer to as your “adab”?!…I called you out under these VERY comments; and am BACK to do so AGAIN. TWO FACED PEOPLE LIKE YOU DESERVE TO BE EXPOSED IN THE DIRTIEST OF WAYS. But watch you being the DELUDED COWARD that you are, won’t even address this LET ALONE OWN UP TO YOUR WRONG ACTIONS ON THIS MATTER. The “rahma” that you were talking about in this VERY VIDEO, aka the same one that you said men & women should have towards one another was clearly NOTHING BUT LIP SERVICE. YOUR ACTIONS ARE CLEARLY PROVING THAT YOU INCITE GENDER WARS AND HATE TOWARDS WOMEN WHO DISAGREE WITH YOU (let’s not even talk about your CONDESCENDING COMMENTS). Wallahi I don’t say this lightly but may ﷲ swt EXPOSE you for the HYPOCRITE THAT YOU ARE AND HUMILIATE YOU SEVERELY IN MORE WAYS THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE IF a) YOU DONT SEE THE ERRORS OF YOUR WAYS AND b) YOU DONT OWN UP TO THE ERRORS OF YOUR WAYS AND FIX THEM BY POSTING A VIDEO APOLOGIZING TO THE WOMEN YOUVE INCITED UNNECESSARY HATE UPON. And may ﷲ swt also let me be there to watch أمين.
Feminism developed in the west in secular/christian societies where women didn't have rights in the first place. They couldn't divorce, they couldn't own property, education was lackluster, etc. All things that Islam already introduced to society western women were only now discovering. This has lead to an extreme on both sides and Muslim men and women who fall for either red pill or feminism need to learn their deen. These people look to influencers and feminists and other characters for philosophy and development rather than the best examples - like the Prophet PBUH, his wives, his companions, etc.
I am in USA not Muslim, but i want to share many American do share this also let me add Feminism do got a great goal however as we all notice the end outcome is not in favor of families becasue most feminist dont understand one of the reason for feminism is and was to destroy family circle, destroy household income and implement a equal taxation for each person in the marriage who provide. in USA before all this so-called Females right or equality for women's they can have part-ime or any job and been exempt from taxation only the men of the house use to report hes income and pay taxes ,let me explain now the government force women to report any income or profit they make when before women's was exempt from it. this was a tactic to charge more taxes,economical control and a form to create more workers.
This isn't talked about enough bro
women could own property. there were also many Queens in christian lands. your inferiority complex towards christians is causing you to lie and slander. pathetic
@@iamgos2778 We could also through in the college experience as well. Women outnumber men in college because men are becoming wiser knowing that its not the only way to achieve success. I have read numerous comments of men choosing the blue collar jobs and making more than their college graduate counterparts. This causes a decline in enrollment and yes many colleges have closed their doors. But they have a cultural dynamic: make women feel "empowered by going to universities" get that high degree longer you stay, higher degree you get more business for them. Market universities to them equating being a "modern independent" woman gets masters and phds! They are not all guaranteed high paying jobs, many are working 2 jobs and trying to keep their lights on. There is reason student loan debt, mostly from women enrollment, is trillions of dollars, more than double what we pay for the entire countr'ys national defense!
Well said
Sis went on a major rant! The brother did all he could not to laugh!
Allah protected us
That probably pissed her off more, you could see them controlling their laugh 😭
As a child of employed parents, i know what kind of environment a child has to grow up in. I will not wish the same upon my kids even if it means we dont can't afford a second car, or an expensive lifestyle. Both parents working most of the time only creates rifts between them and a household where children are left unwanted. Not because the parents are bad but that the kind of stress working and managing household puts people, most wont be able to manage it.
Exactly kids need family.
I was legit here lol, so awkward had to pretend i was looking for something on my phone.
SubhanAllah
Same here, it was embarrassing tbh.
The West knows this will happen because they created this situation for religion to play no role in our lives!
Well planned by Z….. for people to loose faith and planning this for the long term!
A lot of anti-Islamic, secular fallacies in here which are blatant KUFR by fake adulterous shaykh uthmaan, where was Qur'aan and Sunnah in taking another Muslim man's wife uthmaan?!!🤡🤡🤡
Lol
Perfect example of hyper liberalism that leads to extreme individuality where one persons experience leads them to think this is reality.
Why did she just kept going off 😭😭 they were holding back so much laughter
Bruhhh
Why you were too busy laughing, your so called ‘sheikh’ read the ayah he was quoting at 24:47 wrong🤭. This is not the first time he has done this by the way. The arrogance not to learn the Quran is disgraceful. His memorises bible verses correctly but cannot do the same for the Quran. I know 7yrs old memorised the Quran with perfection. How is this grown man sitting wearing costume scamming people into convincing them his sheikh and has the audacity to give lecture with his gay looking friend beside him.Do not take Islam from these losers, none of them have any legit Islamic credentials.
Poor grandparents. After they raised their kids but they have to raised their grandkids😢. When they will get rest? Don't u love ur parents till u ask them to do that?may Allah grant my parents to Jannah 😭😭😭
It take a community to raise a child
So many teachers at my local Masjid complain the students are bad behaved, but the parents expect the teachers to teach Islamic ethics manner Not just Arabic reading
If the parents are expected to work the relatives need to step in and help you don’t want your youth raised by the streets
But the first teacher is the mother since a child spends most of his time with her unless she is autonomous hyper individual with secular liberal mindset and initiated to be enslaved as a worker bee, a cog in a hyper capitalist economic machine, who sees being a mother to her child and a housewife as the true embodiment of slavery. The transformation of the new feminist has taken a bold step into the void.
literally
@piqueny8872your grandparents should not have to be taking care of kids until they die. If you have a husband you can make it work where you take most the responsibility or all when it comes to your kids. Nobody needs to be 75 watching your kids every week
@piqueny8872 Well, that doesn't mean putting most of the work on your old parents who already had to raise you.😂
You're supposed to take care of them when they get old😅
We just have to let go of all ideologies and accept Islam fully as both men and women. We can not hold on to feminism and other things. We got to submit fully. Easier said than done I know but that is the test.
May Allah help us
The fact that these women confuse their personal experience with Islam is the biggest problem. I am from a south asian family and yeah I don't have a father I can say I like. But Alhamdulillah I am grateful that Allah(swt) is providing me through him. People literelly have fathers who leave them. To make clear how my father was to me, wel....... He has completely traumatized me about marriage.
But there's is no going back that the best men in this world are muslim. I am talking about the prophets and the sahabas. Islamic rulings, values, mannerisms and boundaries are there to make every human the best of the humans possible. If we keep taking the people around us as examples and say that the rules of Islam is wrong, it will be completely stupid. Islam has proved us that it has the complete guide of how to be the best of humans by showing us the sahabas and Prophet (Sa), his wives, his daughters, other prophets, Maryam (As), Asiya (Ra), Rahima(Ra) and many more.
Again, i didn't grow up watching a father or uncles or cousin brothers I'd respect but if there’s anything that can provide me the man I'll respect, is Islam. A man who always abides by the ruling of Islam and is well cautious regarding rights of the people around him, he is bound to be one of the best men in this world. The best men and women in this world are muslims. I don have to do a survey to prove that.
I wanted to be a career woman for what I have seen in my family. The truth is if a man is to disrespect his wife he will disrespect her regardless of what she does. Telling your wife to make money or allowing her to is nothing but a disrespect on woman. Our prophet (Sa) had multiple wives and they lived under extreme proverty did he ever tell his wives to get a job? Did Ali(Ra) told Fatima(Ra) to get a job? A husband allowing his wife to go out and work in a free mixing environment is nothing but an insult to the wife.
Again, I am a south asian woman from a cultural family. Even I thought I will become a career woman to be heard or be valued in my husband's eyes. Then Alhamdulillah Allah(Swt) put some sense in me. I know very well now if you have to work outside in order to be respected, then you've simply married a man with no balls. The wives of our prophets and shahabas was well respected by them regardless if they had a job or not. And If you want a husband if not like them but close to them, then you have to try to be like the best of the women Islam has or at least be as close as to them as possible. You can never be like our mothers the ummul mu'minins unless you show obedience towards Allah(Swt) and Prophet (Sa)'s commandments that includes those regarding the gender roles too.
Also mothers have 50% more respect, value and importance than father. If you think that is for nothing then you are wrong. We are supposed to be valued more by our kids because we have more duties towards them than their fathers. If I can not fulfil my duties towards my kids cause I have a job, I will have no right to ask for the respect or importance from them.
Ok may be it is possible to be a career woman and mother at the same time. Then, Quran tells the women to breast feed their kids untill 2 years idk if any place in this world gives 2 years of maternity leave. You basically have to go back to work after 3 months so what about the rest of the months you are supposed to breast feed your child? Then you have to leave him in someone else's care in order to keep the job. Clearly even if you are not the 'Stay at home mother' you still need that role in your house. So why not be the 'Stay at home mother' yourself instead of making others raise your kids? As a career woman Will you be fulfilling the rights that your children have upon you as a mother like this? Do you think you deserve to enjoy the rights that Islam gave you as a mother? Can you complain if your kids don't love you, obey you or respect you? What will you answer to Allah in the last judgement day? What will you answer when your kids will complain to Allah about their rights being violated by you?
I ain't saying there is nothing such as toxic husband. But in the end we have to answer for our own actions. You cannot afford to neglect your duties or follow lifestyles that's not Islamic because of someone else. The sins are all gonna be on you not on that person.
Yours is the most beautiful & concise take on the issue.
May Allah improve your relationship with your family.May Allah increase your patience. I completely understand why you feel the way you do regarding your family.I have firsthand experience on this too.I am really sorry for what you are going through.And I know for a fact that you deserve better.
And the only way we can detox the 'desi' culture is to get rid of the 'culture' and go back to the Quran and Sunnah.
- From a fellow 'South asian' brother from a 'cultural' family. Jazak'allah.
BTW, You got yourself a new subscriber.😇😇😇
Interesting response, insightful also, I do like that you have chosen to look at things from a positive perspective instead of negative one. We all are prepared in life for what’s the come so you went through everything in order to be prepared for what’s to come…
May Allah bless you sis, this was very relatable for many south asians
May الله make it easy for us sisters. Ameen. Sometimes, it's the lack of knowledge, courage, or gyrah from the men's side that let us women down. The men are like the shepherd for their flock...so it hurts when they let us down, because then, the women have to pick up the pieces alone....
I'm American and a convert
My wifey is Egyptian
We live in Egypt
She works (she doesn't have to) but only works because she works at the same school that our daughter attends.
She says, once our daughter is in grade 5, wifey is staying home and daughter will go to a different Islamic school where transportation is better provided.
Wifey also says, she would rsther stay home and be a housewife than to work.
Alhamdulillah
I think that it is really cool she gets to work and see her daughter and keep an eye on her.
@SuhaylaThequeen - me too.
It was her decision.
If she wants to work, it is her choice. We would have a schedule that at least 1 of us will be with the daughter and not have a babysitter unless there is an absolute emergency.
We are both teachers.
Are you a revert@@danoneall4013
how come these muslim feminist sound very aggressive masculine in their speech lol
Work environments force you to defend yourself verbally and masculine traits breed success in work environments, if a woman wants to become successful in a workplace she has to adapt masculine traits like assertiveness, being disagreeable, embracing confrontation... when woman take up these behaviours to work they go home with those behaviours, and practice them at home.
@@StudentOfLife.-ot6um quran or hadees never support women behave like men be careful sister
**Cultural imperialism = actively dismantling or undermining the original cultural, religious, social, and ethical norms of the targeted country. it may occur through censorship, banning traditional practices, rewriting history, discrediting traditional beliefs, or portraying them (the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of the targeted country) as outdated, oppressive, or inferior.**
*Cultural imperialism is a form of colonialism. Western powers have used Feminism to dismantle or undermine the original cultural, religious, social, & ethical norms of Muslim countries. Thus, Feminism is also a form of colonialism that Western powers are keen to use.*
# Examples of Feminism's cultural imperialism,
*Feminists run campaigns to "liberate" women from wearing hijabs or niqabs, & make efforts to reform or destroy traditional Muslim family structures, while portraying Muslim women as universally oppressed by Islam and in need of saving by Feminism & Western powers.*
1. Islam forbids Muslims from imitating the disbelievers, particularly the Jews and Christians, but this prohibition does not extend to all aspects of their lives. It specifically applies to matters of their religion & those things that are unique to them, by which they are known.
2. Muslims have no need to imitate other nations in religious rituals or acts of worship.
3. The prohibition on imitating the disbelievers does not apply to the things that they do & invent from which Muslims may benefit. There is no sin on the Muslims if they share in that, rather the Muslims should be in the forefront of such things.
Feminism is created by the disbelievers & is unique to them, as Feminists say that, "Feminism is simply gender equality (equal rights for both women & men), nothing more."
In Islam, while men & women may be equal in the eyes of Allah, their rights are not fully the same, and they have different rights.
Salahuddin Ayyubi said, "if you want to destroy a nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation." adultery & nudity is a part of Feminism.
Therefore, no Muslim man or woman should call themselves a, "Feminist" and no Muslim should support Feminism.
Probably the stress and disagreeability that is fostered since it's necessary to thrive in corporate
@@StudentOfLife.-ot6um there are many muslim women who are not feminist are successful in the workplace. This only happens to feminist
It's gratifying seeing brother Uthman and brother faiyad doing their best in clearing all the misunderstanding and misguiding that was put as a mean for the devil to divide us, may Allah grant them paradise, Ameen.
May Allah help us
Agreed 💯. Ameen
Sheikh Muhammad Hoblos, may Allah preserve him, his Dawahs served me a lot.
May Allah reward him
Also, when woman say that men are equal to men, to me it is understood that we are of equal worth in reward and punishment, in respect and understanding, in patience and love!
SubhanAllah
Throughout the entire time the first woman was talking I had 2 things on my mind
1. It's your family's fault, not Islam's. If you had Islam you wouldn't need feminism.
2. Brother Faiyad already mentioned... Why take elements from something corrupted when you already have what is perfect.
May Allah help us
yes. but that is exactly the thing women say the problem doesn't lay in islam it is in men. who only use the religion for their benefit never for their women not realizing if they lose the females islam will go under.
The way she raises her voice is outrageous ho hayah
It's not outrageous, it's not nice though. Outrageous would have been had she started throwing abuses.
@@Adil-uk7vhit’s outrageous Because a woman shouldn’t speak like that
@@Adil-uk7vhShe did throw abuses by insinuating how she would kick her husband in the behind if she didn’t let her wear the pants in her marriage. Go back and listen how sheikh Uthman politely asked her to clarify because it really did sound like she was verbally abusing her husband and then she started speaking in circles and changing the goal posts. The sheikh cooked her so bad that she stormed off huffing and puffing. Go back and rewatch the video her behavior was quite outrageous and lacked any adab.
Effects of Feminism
@@Adil-uk7vhShe was throwing abuses bro. She was insinuating that if her husband raised his hand on her (which i seriously doubt) she would kick him in the rear and kick him and their children out of their house. If that doesn’t sound outrageous to you then you need to do some serious soul searching. I guarantee you that the non Muslim men will not tolerate that aunty’s mouthy attitude and will get physical with her. Then what? You going to shame that non Muslim man for not tolerating her disrespect? Plus she continues to overtalk the sheikh, constantly interrupted the sheikh, put words in the sheikh mouth that he didn’t say, and talked in circles. Most men nor non Muslim aren’t going to tolerate that level of disrespect from anyone man or woman. The aunty wasn’t even mature enough to admit that she was wrong and she 48 years old? Nahh that’s pretty outrageous. She going to find out the hard way equal rights equal lefts. 😂😂😂
Most of the women are like that for last few decades, life has hardship but leaving the fold of Islam is not the way to address it
bro, i love how calm you talk and address these so called controversial topics but youre also engaging the audience and putting the foot down at the same time which is impressive. May Allah bless you and Sheikh Uthman tremendously and may Allah increase you both in beneficial knowledge
Perhaps all the known imams on TY need to address issue. Its interfering with Muslims developing families. These forum especially be present in Muslim matrimonial events so they know of the bat what toxic notions they are coming with and need to adjust.
May Allah guide me
@@deenforce1142 i would suggest the duaat be very very careful of giving generalized advice into peoples life circumstances because councillors will tell you, that there's often so many detrimental circumstances surrounding a question that is not mentioned in a 1-2min QnA that it could actually lead to harm if someone acts upon it. Unless questions are about clear cut haraam and halal in a general sense, we really need to revert back to the Sahabas ways of being too afraid to give someone advice. If we look at the way Allah communicates in the Quran it shows us that some verses evoke fear of jahannam for comitting sins while others encouage us with jannah to avoid sins. We can immediately see that sometimes a stern word is beneficial an sometimes gentle. Some people will also tell you that during a certain time in their life which verses are exactly what they needed to hear in that moment. Allahu Akbar! May He guide us to be of benefit to the Most people, in a manner that pleases Him, Ameen
The thing is i had a similar conversation with a feminist/westernized muslim sister and tried to explain things to her but they just talk to respond and insult, they dont want to change their ways. It was such a complete waste of time.
Absolutely
To transform a person, you need to connect with them. Emotional intelligence is needed, don’t just prove them wrong, but try to understand where they are coming from. Sheikh Mikaeel Smith’s book ‘With the Heart In Mind’ is a great start. I think we need to be more understanding to our brothers and sisters, if we give up so easily, then where do you expect them to turn towards? We have to be more empathetic as a ummah.
that's because you are trying to solve an emotional trauma with logic. once you understand that their opinions are rooted in pain, either resulting from a lived trauma or secondary witnessed trauma then you will actually be able to understand them better and why they hold onto certain views. You might even feel some compassion for them. You'll see that at the core they are trying to prevent a harm that they fear. Below are just 2 basic examples, but there are so many different types of scenarios that you need to realize that each individual has their own reasons for believing whatever it is they believe.
To make an example, the most obvious one is the husband is abusive or just neglectful and indifferent to the wife, who is a stay-at-home mom who is worn out and under appreciated and one day he leaves her financially destitute - or vice versa - where the wife is abusive to the husband, takes his money & disrespects him etc and leaves him for another man. So the kids either grow up to repeat the cycle of their parents because subconsciously its normal to them - if they've been exposed to healthy family dynamics, they'll try to break the cycle to better their own future, often by over compensating to avoid the harm that their parent/sibling/friend/etc. experienced. So when you try to be logical, you are invalidating their fears and its like you are calling them irrational and that's what triggers the emotional response.
In the end, you don't need to convince anyone of anything but only show them how islam can practically offer a number of solutions to the issue. Where many duaat get it wrong is when you give advice without understanding the persons circumstances properly and when you give impractical solutions. e.g. dont talk about solutions that's illegal in the country that the individual is in, or tell them to make hijrah when it's not within their current ability, but solutions that they can immediately implement withiin their individual context or refer them to an islamic councillor who is far more qualified to know the methodology for giving someone possible life changing advice.
@@Vjsnd Sheikh Smith's book should be mandatory reading for all duaat.
@@oupaenouma4131 I love your comment, Alhamduillah, I can see you understand what is the root of the symptoms we see.
She came to start her own lecture.
29:40 the reactions of these guys😂
No apologetics. No mercy.
Lmao
A lot of anti-Islamic, secular fallacies in here which are blatant KUFR by fake adulterous shaykh uthmaan, where was Qur'aan and Sunnah in taking another Muslim man's wife uthmaan?!!🤡🤡🤡
@@FaiyadFitdon't say that, it's cussing
@Fango767 Which word in it is a cuss?
@@hamzahdomeih7750 the third one
scary part is, the sis possibly is from India/Pak and now imagine how feminism has infected sisters from that part of the world! Audubillah
I studied as a nurse and the moment I got married and my husband said he doesn’t want me to work, I didn’t even bother to finish and I was in my final year. Everybody says I’m a fool but I’m obedient to my husband. I’m a full time mom and I like it. I don’t ask for things he can’t afford and I’m happy being at home. I mean what’s more beautiful than that. My husband is a revert.
As long as you are happy with. alhamdulilah, it's good. I would ask to finish my studies if I only have one year and explain to him it be beneficial for us in the future.
As long as husband happy.Why always women happiness not men happiness.We live in a such a toxic misandrist world.May Allah guide betas and simps
@@Nopropaganda888
I really like the lecture by Nouman Ali khan called : Role of Muslim women in modern society .
It dosent touch the topics of feminism but brings up good points about women working as doctors lawyers etc while still upholding their islamic values . Worth a listen .
This is dystopia
As a women who is having to work due to family needs and forced to do so from parents, the sister irks me so much. She has absolutely no idea the amount of ha*a**m*nt women face on a daily basis at work and during commute. By Allah, from the unwanted stares outside and even at offices, no matter how much you cover, to the "accidental" physical contacts to office cultures that puts a greater burden on women to be energetic, bubbly, proactive and "pump up" the team, to embody this livey cheery personality, to the unspoken pressure on women to work twice as hard to prove their worth, to be subjected to stringent policies that applying only to women and the list goes on. Please sister open your eyes. Working is NOT dignifying for women. Rather women have been deceived, even by families, to ruin their time and life in pursuit of career.
people are not all in the same boat. we often see things only through our own perspective and fail to realize that there are many different circumstances. the halal and the haram are clear and that is not even debatable. as for the generality of whether its permissible for a woman to work outside the home, that is not simply a yes or no thing but has to be evaluated upon each persons circumstances. it can even be haram for a man to work outside the home if it can be prevented depending on the type of fitnah that exists outside the home. let us not insult each other or condemn each other and seek to understand each others struggles and advise in the best way. the subcontinent women have many struggles that women who were raised in liberal western societies do not have and cannot begin to comprehend & this woman's job might be the one thing that's freeing her from the cultural role she would have been confined to (& i'm referring to the common cultural practices that goes against the sunnah & unreasonable expections placed on wives & daughter-in-laws in the sub continent). So in her mind staying at home may have a different meaning compared to someone in the west, where staying at home is relaxing & offers more leisure time etc. That doesn't mean I stand for ideologies that go against Islam. I'm just a very open minded person that understands that the fiqh of many matters changes upon certain conditions and so we need to withhold judgment sometimes so we can understand the how & the why before we condemn the what. we do the best we can with the circumstances we have and where we go astray we need to help one another with empathy to get back on the sunnah path.
Preach it sister!!!! Your experience needs to be shared far and wide especially to the younger generation of sisters. That aunty sounds like auntys have gone wild as soon as I heard the Indian accent. I was like yep here we go.
I work in a daycare, part-time. All female colleagues and I get to hold babies and play with them. I love my job. If you work in an office perhaps take some accountability and realise that there are jobs you could have done that don't involve being in a mixed gendered office environment.
no men have done that. the moment men lost their religion and started cherry picking what they wanted to use is the moment they lost their wives and no matter how people say we are men without women society fails. so don't blame women for wanting an out. they were raised by a fathers, saw how they mistreated their mothers, listened to what "obeying" actually ment to muslim men and they do not want that why should they? the moment men actually go back to what god preaches the women will go back home and raise their kids
What was her question???? She just ranted. Why is she so angry?
Either this sister is being dishonest or just been very very lucky , either way having a rational argument with some is a lost cause
42:28 There’s no success if you disobey Allah👏
haqq
Lolll I thought Faiyad was of African descent this whole time🤣 shout-out my Bengali brothers and sisters
wassup bhai
I thought he was Arab specifically khaliji. Based on his name and looks.
@sunshineseaandvitamind8620 I can see that, especially Afro-Arab
Seeing Faiyad's reactions to the things being said was hilarious
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The West knows this will happen because they created this situation for religion to play no role in our lives!
Well planned by Z….. for people to loose faith and planning this for the long term!
Omg I just realized that these feminist muslim women take one event in our hadith collection and conclude that they now have to go to work and be equal to men.
😂😂😂
No, some work because their husbands can't provide for them and their kids. I know many divorced sisters as well where ex husbands don't pay for their children, so they end up being both the mother and the father. That's not feminism, that's men failing to fulfil their obligations. Sometimes these sisters get labelled as 'feminist', but that's just deflecting from the problem of men not being men.
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You’re arguing against a point I did not even brought up. Your point is valid but my argument was something else entirely.
These so called feminist women have been taught by some feminist preachers, could be male or female, that women should go to work and there is equality between men and women in Islam by being told about these hadiths where Aisha RA taught some companions, or where a woman had to step up because there was no men around, or the men that was there were old or blind. And let’s be honest these women heard these hadiths from feminist preachers who want to preach feminism, not by reading them in hadith books.
These events or incidents were an exception to the rule. They(feminists) want it to be the rule.
@@wingchun6036 exception to the rule doesn’t define the rule. feminists love to bring up how khadija was a working woman but never ever bring up the circumstances that caused her to do so
they somehow also conveniently seem to forget that khadija (RA) never once worked with men directly, she always sent a messenger and was never alone with a non mahram man even if she was fully covered
how many muslim women today who work fulfill these conditions allowing their income to be halal? pretty close to 0
And they misinterpret them too
The camness in shayk is so good . If had been in place i would be harsh. May allah grant us that sabr.
Feminism is spreading but I believe in time if we as brothers do what we’re supposed to do in being the husband, taking caring of a family & following our Islam, feminism will be a thing of the past
Feminist sisters who come to gatherings like this knowing that their views will be challenged should be congratulated. May Allah guide them on the right path.
No way this was in Toronto and I heard nothing about it, I 100% would've attended. I keep up with your content so I'm surprised I didn't see, you should advertise this stuff more brother
Same, where can I know when these sort of events happen
Agree with brother Faiyad that it's the men who have failed. They failed to recognize honest women and only paid attention to glamour and showoff. They thought taking care of children is a trivial act and only women who earn money deserve respect
I disagree no group of people are any match for the 4th branch of the govt aka mainstream media. It’s not the brothers that failed it’s the sisters whom threw themselves into these universities whom are inherently Islamophobic and brainwashed these sisters with feminism so they became self hating Muslims. Plus all of the criticism you’re speaking of is what feminists criticize traditional woman with. Weak arguments. I think many of the brothers tried to bring the sisters back to Islam like Sheikh Uthman is doing but we were blacklisted out of our own masjids and communities for speaking haqq and using the Quran, Hadith, and statistical facts. Many of us brothers checked out because we were shouted down, cussed at, and had our reputations slandered and ruined by these feminist “muslimahs”. The main goal of that whole “metoo” movement was purely to slander men’s reputations which correct me if I’m wrong is a huge sin in Islam. Millions of innocent men’s reputations were ruined during this “metoo” movement including Muslim men. So I find it so hypocritically hilarious when I see younger brothers putting the blame solely on the shoulders of brothers. Nahhh yall weren’t there on the front lines back in the late 90’s and early 2000’s and beared witnesses to the Tom foolery we witnessed. It’s easy to just place the blame on men. No that’s wrong! Fear Allah!
Ig imma new breed of men then because I don't agree
May Allah help us
My advice to women is that if you want to earn you can do entrepreneurship…but dont do 9 to 5 corporate slavery..that is not liberating.
Salaam
Man is the provider & protector.
My question is does the food need to be cooked and ready to be served when it comes to providing meal.
Unfortunately there’s always this argument at home 😂
Kindly reply people!!😅
It's increasing difficult to have one income in many places even in the Muslim lands. The ideal is that the mother stays home but if the is no compromise in regards to fulfilling the rights of the husband and children and the job is halal, surely there can't be any harm in it and rather encouraged especially if its a from home business. Blanket judgement is what needs to be avoided but at the same time people need to be educated regarding their responsibilities.
The accent says it all. Aunties gone wild, honestly some are poor representatives of Muslim women, my revert wife is constantly shocked by their mannerisms. She's American and she thought Canadians were nice, but maybe not these aunties lol
How much does your tutti smell after you eat organic chicken ?
Do you like tallow mixed with galam jaman ?
the boomer, generation x muslims are the most institutionalized muslims there are
May Allah protect us
I would say the same goes to market and they would shove their way into our ways… we deal with child with special needs, I do believe in equal rights, but my husband still has final says. We do things together and we raise our kids together… there is no reliant on our parents I feel sorry for that lady’s kids
Thank you for this brothers, It helped me greatly.
saw a clip on other channel, agreed with you, was called a madkhali 😂
What how? Don‘t the khawarij everytime say madkhali and claim we are murjia?
@@Bilal_Abu_Abdillah i have no idea anymore
This is ridiculous
@@Bilal_Abu_Abdillah define khawarij
@@Bilal_Abu_Abdillah define khawarij
Why public speakers are hesitant to speak about husband authority over their wives?
Statistically It’s mostly women not wanting to listen
Only brother Daniel Haqiqatjou actually talks about it unapologetically. Feminism has creeped so much into Muslim societies that even Shiekhs and Iman's will talk about the protecting, providing and responsibilities of men without reinforcing the authority. It's shameful and yet another sign of judgement day. SubhanAllah.
@@UnapologeticIslamthey should invite Daniel next time. I would have loved his responses to these questions 😂
statistics are a feather in the wind. been such a tragedy seeing duaat fall for statistics which can be cooked any way you like. the 2020 lockdown is a good example of the inaccuracies of statistics. it's based on a small sample that is often not truly reflective of the whole and there will ALWAYS be variables that exist that are unaccounted for knowingly and unknowingly.
a common mistake imams and even some councillors make, is that they regard 100% of their clients (maybe 10-15 people a month) coming to them with the same problem, as if 100% of the ummah has that problem. 100% of their clients having the same problem tells you that 100% of those people seeking out their help has the same problem and in reality that makes up only a hypothetical 0.0000000003% of the entire ummah. Then they go giving general advice to the masses based upon that statistic. ((facepalm))
@@oupaenouma4131Statistics are based on facts and facts aren’t something you can deny. Only fools argue against facts.
12 years of marriage with 2 kids but parents of her pushed her to get out of marriage and they wanted the father of 2 kids with her to be in jail just because they didn’t want the father to be with his kids anymore. Building up lies as high as against the father they could have spread to kick him out and they have succeeded. What exactly is feminism?
why he can't take her and move on from parents to another household didn't she love him is she ready to leave him
@ she stayed with her husband and children in the US and her parents live in Bangladesh. All manipulation and conspiracies from her parents caused her create a false impression against her husband. Everything happened to him so fast and and other Bangladeshi people helped her in the USA to put her husband in jail with a false case. Her initial plan was to accuse him of a rape in which she did not succeed. But with other false accusations got him……… I saw those innocent husbands are victims of their wives but US domestic violence law is totally against the basic rules.
@@mohammadmatin8030Witnessing these horror stories are NEVER spoken about by the sisters. No wonder so many brothers are very cautious about who they get married to because it’s so hard to tell who is and who isn’t a good sister. A lot of sister pretend to be good and after marriage their Shaytaan comes out.
Did both of them start playing Call Of Duty at 30:09 🤣🤣🤣
it is still important we are respectful to our muslimas in the comment section.
It’s still even MORE important that these muslimah are respectful to the brothers in these comment sections. The sisters are talking with the exact same disrespect like in the video to the brothers in the comment section. No!! That’s wrong! Go tone police the sisters! Sisters can’t be rude as humanly possible to the brothers and still expect the brothers to be respectful. Are we not human beings as well? Brothers are becoming sick and tired of it and we will start pushing back. I’m not as nice as the sheikh or brother fayad. I will be harsh because that’s how reality treats men in society. Sisters have become way too comfortable with being disrespectful to the brothers. Non Muslim men and women don’t even talk to us brothers with such disdain and disrespect. So who do sisters think they are? I could’ve already gotten married to a non Muslim woman who would’ve treated me like a king, but I fear Allah and have to marry a sister but sisters obviously aren’t fearing Allah. I’ve turned down hundreds of non Muslim women. But the sisters are behaving more jahil that the non Muslim women? Make it make sense!!!!! No more!!!!
Non muslim guys are also much better than muslim men.......as a Muslim girl inshallah i will marry a Christian or jews guy in future.......@@thechosenone2786
Alhamdulillah for Islam
This was the balance between having a therapy and mental trauma at the same time. Sheikh Uthman’s arguments were therapeutic.
We need more of this. The issue is as muslims we have brushed this udner carpet for far too long and this is the mess we now we are facing. Ideally, we should give these sisters the chance to ask these questions, and having someone like sheikh uthman is perfect.
Feminism is a big disease it has seeped into our women folks without them even realising.
It's always good talking about these topics. I think checking your phone while in a conversation is not polite. I think the first woman went over the top. Laughing and pointing that out doesn't help the overall goal of this get together. Allah knows best.
Felt the same, no matter how ‘goofy’ someone’s point may seem, this sort of behaviour just drives people away :/ you can see the slight smiles of them wanting to laugh, the phone and it probably aggravated her. We need to do better in connecting with our sisters and brothers because we don’t create that safe space then guess what? They will turn towards someone who does provide that safe space and that may be away from Islam.
He's arrogant and immature mocking and laughing at her. 😢
@sunshineseaandvitamind8620No you sisters were arrogant, selfish, ignorant, outrageously disrespectful, immature, and straight up rude to the brothers. Of course they are going to laugh at yall. Is this how yall talk to your fathers and brothers? Y’all behave like kufr women but want to be treated like Islamic princesses. Nah that’s not the way real life works.
No brother it is Sunnah to mock ignorance when politely speaking to these adabless sisters doesn’t work. They should’ve brought Daniel Haqqiagtou on that stage. Then you brothers will see the difference of what is and isn’t harsh. These sisters have become way too comfortable in disrespecting brothers. So enough is enough!!!! We will bring back shame into our communities and we will mock ignorance when politely speaking to these jahil sisters doesn’t work. That’s how it will work going forward.
While I, personally as a female, disagree with the sister's statements at 31:30, I didn't like how noisy the crowd was. It was clear that they lacked respect, as many were whispering loudly, talking, and even laughing while someone else was speaking. This is a serious matter, not something to laugh about. May Allah guide her on the right path.
As a female, it is indeed very sad to see some sisters being brainwashed and westernized, with modern feminist ideologies infiltrating their minds. May Allah grant her sakinah in her own home.
However, some of the brothers were also disappointing, subhanAllah. Laughing and whispering during such matters is very immature. May Allah guide us all. SubhanAllah.
You get what you put out there. When sheikh Uthman was speaking the feminist “muslimahs” were constantly interrupting him just like the kuffar do. So as a female if you didn’t like how the crowd were giggling at the sheer ignorance coming out of the “sisters” mouths then maybe you should look at how the “sisters” were conducting themselves.
In a civilized conversation you talk and get to your point and then you allow the next person you’re speaking to talk and get his point across. You don’t constantly interrupt, change the goal posts, speak in circles, and monologue the person you’re speaking to death. No that’s not right. You receive what you give so if you females want to be “equal” to men in every aspect of life then here you go this is what “equality” looks like.
This is how men treat each other as well when we speak out of ignorance. So I find it quite ironic you mentioned immaturity of the brothers but turned a blind eye to the sisters immaturity so much so they took all the time during the Q&A portion of the conversation, that the brothers didn’t even have a chance to ask the questions they wanted to ask.
Subhanallah it is Sunnah to mock ignorance. That’s what all the “sisters” displayed and didn’t back any of their arguments with Quran much less authentic Hadith. Please STOP both siding and looking for things to be “offended” by when having these adult conversations. It’s a common feminist tactic to shame the opponent and is not Islamic in nature. Smh indeed 🙄🤦🏾
So you personally “disagree” with what the sisters were saying but had no problem with the sheer ignorance and immaturity of all of the sisters at that conference?
The sisters were being so selfish that they took up all the time during the Q&A portion of the conference, that the brothers didn’t even have a chance to ask any of the questions they wanted to ask. You call that fair? I find it quite ironic that you felt the need to highlight to brothers whom were giggling at the sheer ignorance coming out of the sisters mouths, but conveniently went blind and deaf with the selfishness and ignorance of the sisters whom constantly interrupted the sheikh as if they have more knowledge than him.
When you sisters bring up these criticisms all we ask is that you be fair and just as Allah has commanded y’all to be. I didn’t see any fairness in your comment. Also it is Sunnah to mock ignorance. You yourself just agreed that the sisters were being ignorant and arrogant.
Therefore the brothers were justified in giggling at their ignorance. You also suffer from the isms that the sisters at that conference suffer from. You were looking for something the brothers did to both sides the accountability part which is a common tactic of the enemies of Islam.
Sorry but I couldn't hold my laughter aswell, the brainwashed, feministic, western ideas that some women (and men) have is just so incredibly stupid that its hard to control your laughter, the women of the Sahaba (Ra) weren't arguing about working or not looking after there kids etc.. So u can't really blame the ppl for laughing at the gathering when ppl bring up these foolish ideas
@@thechosenone2786 Assalamu Alaikum,
I appreciate you taking the time to respond to my comment, but I feel there’s been a misunderstanding regarding what I said.
Firstly, you mentioned that I “had no problem with the sheer ignorance and immaturity of all of the sisters at that conference.” That’s simply not true. If you read my comment closely, I clearly stated how sad it is to see some sisters being brainwashed and influenced by modern feminist ideologies, and I even prayed for Allah to guide them. I used the plural form for sisters, so your claim that I ignored their behavior or was “blind and deaf” to it is inaccurate.
Secondly, regarding the Q&A portion: from what I understood, this was a segment where the Sheikh specifically invited the sisters to ask their questions. If it’s true that they took up all the time, I believe it would have been the Sheikh’s responsibility to manage the session fairly and ensure everyone had a chance.
You also suggested that it’s Sunnah to mock ignorance. While I understand frustration at witnessing ignorance, mocking others is not a characteristic of good manners. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was the best example of addressing ignorance with wisdom, kindness, and patience, not giggling or ridiculing others.
Lastly, You stated that I "went blind and deaf" to the selfishness and ignorance of the sisters. Yet, in the same comment, you acknowledged that I "agreed that the sisters were being ignorant and arrogant." This contradiction makes it clear that I did, in fact, address their behavior. My original comment explicitly expressed sadness over the influence of modern feminist ideologies on some sisters and prayed for Allah's guidance for them.
I find your tone and accusations disappointing. Accusing me of using tactics of “the enemies of Islam” is not only untrue but deeply offensive. I approached this matter with fairness by addressing inappropriate behavior from both brothers and sisters. If there were things I missed or didn’t fully address, a respectful reminder would have been enough instead of misrepresenting my words or questioning my intentions.
May Allah guide us all to conduct ourselves with fairness, wisdom, and humility.
BarakAllahu feek sister, have good assumptions about your siblings in islam. it was a very embarrassing moment and a heated discussion. For many people, including me, this feels very embarrassing and I would also try to do sth else or act as if I do sth else because I would feel embarrassed. This is actually what two brothers wrote in the comments too. BarakAllahu feek, may Allah guide us all
she lost me at "I worked at a bank"
It is not productive to "name call" the sister a feminist if she did not self-identify as one. Win the hearts of those who are influenced rather than mocking them. Mocking them will just push them further away from the Deen and reinforce negative perceptions of Muslim men and Muslim women alike. People are shaped by their experiences or traumas. All the issues we see are symptoms of the ummah in general being far away from the Sunnah of Rasulullah. Stop picking and choosing what sunnah matters and fear Allah, men and women with regards to each other. Rights are not just between parents and children or husbands and wives or grandparents but it's also Uncles/Aunts, Nephews/Nieces and Brothers/Sisters. - Even Neighbours. Collectively we are all falling short and there's a need for us to step it up in taking care of all our relationships.
You were born in Bangladesh? I honestly thought you were middle eastern! Anyway, Jazak Allah Khair to everyone involved in this Q&A.
ki obosta bhai
@@FaiyadFit obosta nai bhai, dhonnobad speecher lagi.
When ppl argue that they need 2 incomes, you should ask them when was the last time they were eligible for zakat and if they know who to go to in order to receive zakat.
Cousins, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, nephews, and nieces can all give their zakat to you. If you fear that you'll be homeless or starve to death as a married couple it is not immediately necessary for the wife to get a job working in a mixed environment. Not unless you've sold off all your unnecessary possessions and you are so poor that you are eligible for zakat and there is no zakat available.
What are the odds that both spouses have no relatives who are required to pay zakat who will pay it to them as needed? How hard is it to go to the mosque of local Muslim community center and apply for zakat?
I've never heard of any Muslim in the West ending up living under a bridge unless they were drug addicted or they had warrants out for their arrest from living a life of crime.
If the husband makes enough and the two of you own enough property for your household to be ineligible for zakat, then the wife working is not a necessity. If your household is eligible for zakat, then the wife working is still not a necessity because you can apply for zakat and seek it from family.
Subscribed. Thank you for this.
Assalamu alaikum brother & Sheik, Nice collaboration! It would of been nice to listen to you both more than the questions from the audience.. inshaAllah another one will come! Jazak Allahu Khairan from NZ 🌻
I thought i saw "Dr" Faiyad Fit 😅
Allahuma Barik brother
Well done to both you and sheikh for talking about this topic
May Allah increase you both
Shaykh uthman I love you! So amazing may Allah grant you greatness in this life and the akhira.
W Video, You guys really dealt with the situation well.
May Allah help us
@@FaiyadFit Ameen
"I believe as for islamic, fully covered, after she said that she was like 'blah blah blah'...!
Like no way! that throw me off, I noticed something wrong with her the moment she said blah blah blah fr, this is a bizarre thing to say when talking bout islamic customs.
The brother who asked one simple question is like when youre buying one thing at the store and have to wait for three full grocery carts full of shopping to checkout 😂
53:45 my beautiful brother sheikh uthman clarifies that there may be circumstance where a brother is disabled or becomes injured and a sister may even protect him. I understand him to be giving an example of an exception to the rule of the man being the provider and protector. However, he then follows up by asking rhetorically to the sisters whom among them would want to be married to a husband that is disabled. He states “this is not a man.”.
So what is the position? That if a man with a wife and children becomes disabled his wife should divorce him because he’s no longer a man? Did the wives of the companions divorce their husbands that came back from battle disabled?
Subhanallah men and women need to fear Allah towards each other. We are all going to get sick or old and will want to be taken care of. Not all career women are feminists and not all housewives are submissive. Taqwa of Allah is what makes a great spouse who's devoted and a blessing to be with. Compassion is lacking these days. [in todays time , even men working outside is a fitnah]
جزاكم اللهُ خيرًا
MashaAllah... Very beneficial video. May Allah reward you.
Allahumma ameen
feminism says go work with someone who doesn't care about you. but your husband doesn't listen and doesn't care about him and the children
I totally agree with what you are saying about feminism. How i wish my situation was different. For over 16 yrs I have raised my children, paid the household bills and continue to do everything for myself. Married for 26yrs with little or no support. I took control of my life and forcefully became a breadwinner. I am very overwhelmed with poor health now. I urge women to not let men sit back and not take full responsibility of thier families because you have money. Love yourselves and Allah knows why he gave us a different role as women.
Don’t judge other Muslims in such a way. No one is perfect and they are doing their best. Have some shame because you will have to answer for this on the day of judgement.
May Allah have mercy on sister's husband
Why she's so defensive it looks like she's here to attack and rant not to learn
May Allah Guide her. Ameen. She has no idea what she's talking about.
Man great talk but the bonus sister bit killed me 😂😂😂😂 forget roasting shaykh Burt harder than burnt toast
Asc. The title has a negative connotation. Let’s remember that’s our Muslim sister. People know her and might remember her. Let’s not use clickbait and uplift each other in times where we may disagree.
Another beta simp
Advice brother.
Don’t think all these affects were necessary at all.
Our sister came to the masjid, clearly confused, but she was discussing trying to figure it out.
She went on a rant where she might not have seen Ustadh’s point and was quick with her answers. Some people give impulsive answers when put on the spot and regret later on.
May الله reward the sister for trying to discuss and figure things out. She done correct by asking a brother of knowledge.
- Lot of people don’t even want to hear something that goes against their view or thoughts. I respect her highly for this.
Have good thought of the sister. Advise you to delete the video with affects and rather upload the video without affects.
Jazzak Allahu khayr ❤️.
Faiyad, may ALlāh bless your 'aql, increase your knowledge and put barakah in both for you, very good presentation and clear explanations.
She ranted for 5 minutes straight without asking a question
@32:40 both parents working full time is tough but my parents managed to work and have dinner together every single night. Thinking back we had house help tho for my mom alhamdulillah bc she can’t do it all
That’s not reality for many women sis. Unfortunately, many women are full time providers, full time housewives and mothers. Have some mercy on the sisters.
Yea, this is also my objection here. It's hard but Alhamdulillah not impossible. Imagine a female doctor, she have to give time to the kids also help the Muslim sisters by working. In that case they can bring their kids with them. I mean if someone wants to do something good with good intentions Allah makes it easy for them.
Lol ur both totally texting each other here @30:02 😂
First hand embarrassment 🤣🤣
My brothers and sisters, we Muslims have been honoured by Islam. Who could have imagined even 100 years ago that there would come a time that the crisis was not too many people but too few! SubhanAllah look at the 'developed' nations and their collapsing populations, one might argue are a result of their modern thinking, so modern that they have forgotten that societies cannot thrive yet without children.
In our times women need to work, just where we are now…
This generation and its obsession with gender war and lack of akhlaq in the comment section (talking of her) is wild.
جزاكم الله خيرا
My mother friend who has been married for year, gave her husband 3 children and a stay home mom, now he has married a 21 from Morocco ( he’s 45 ) this issue is getting worse with men in western world .
If he can fulfill the obligations to have 2,3, or 4 wives then he has the right to have it.
for every muslim woman who thinks that being a good employee is better being a good mother .
after your death .
your work will hire another woman in your place in a heartbeat .
your children will mourn you for life .
damn the media that ruind the image of the mother .
If we are so concerned about kerping Muslim women out of the workplace, lets also talk about how too many women end up there because men don't provide. Its not a marginal issue. I know many sisters who struggle looking after children and financially providing because the ex or spouse dont take their responsibilities seriously. I find the silence around this - when apparently we care so much for the sisters' well being (if that's really what these conversations are about) quite strange. A woman in the workplace isn't ideal, but a man not providing as he should is straight up haram.
Indeed there is a pandemic of Dayooth and they are the ones predominantly espousing red pill rhetoric rather then owning up to their traumas and that which they inflict. The brothers at least acknowledged it as a problem and that there is much work needed to be done. All these gender based ideologies r symptoms of being far away from the laws and lifestyle issued by Allah through his Messenger pbuh. The sister spoke with a lot of emotion and it was easy to pick-up on her traumas. The only way to fix these issues is for the ummah to turn back to the sunnah. Each individual start fixing up themselves and then their current relationships. Brother like Fayad have a lot more maturing to do before they get placed before the ummah as they still need to develop wisdom and empathy.
Islam gave the woman the right of a divorce if the man did not provide .
a woman staying with a man who refuses to provide for her (xbox playing instead) is against Islam .
she should leave him for her sake and leaving him may fix him too .
You get emotional if you know you are wrong and still want to keep doing it by justifying what is wrong (being emotional can be angry or crying)
30:27 Shaaykh! I love you! haha I think I know what you told Him in the message :D I agree 100%
Her suffering husband sent her 😂😂. Clever guy. 😂😂
that woman asking a question for 4 minutes... should have told her to get to the point
They were doing it on purpose as to not allow the men a chance to ask any questions they wanted to ask. Only 1 brother got to ask a question, but I think I heard over 6 sisters ask their questions. Especially that wild rude aunty in the beginning doing all kinds of mental gymnastics, shifting the goal posts, and talking in circles. It was very uncomfortable to hear how disrespectful she was speaking to the sheikh by constantly interrupting him and one can only imagine how rude she is to her husband at home just because she making some money. She even went as far as to say she would kick her husband out if said he had authority over her. I mean just wow! Subhanallah may Allah protect us from such low quality women pretending to be Muslim.
The best are all phases of brother Faiyad faces he make each time Sheik Uythman roasted 😂
I wouldn't knock women who include a non-polygony component to their contract. They have the right to do it, just like the man the right to not marry such a sister.
I find it very interesting that whenever this marriage contract conversation is had, it’s almost never mentioned that only 1 out of the 4 Madhabs even agree with this view in the first place. So the hanafis,Malikis and Shaf’i schools of thought don’t even agree that you can put such stipulation in a Marriage contract only the hanbalis do. Yet many have taken the view and ran with it as though there’s ijmā’ on the issue.
@1:08 the contract doesn’t say that he can’t remarry, it says the wife can divorce with valid reason if she chooses to. Also, hijab is fard WHAT KIND of comparison is that subhanallah
some contract actually is saying they can not remarry and if he signs it he can not remarry
@@JessicaroAre you Muslim? Jessica doesn’t sound like a Muslim name to me. No woman is superior to what Allah has made halal for men. If a man wants to take on more wives then he don’t need his wife’s permission. No secular contract approved by the govt is superior to Allah’s laws. You don’t like it? Tough! Take that up with Allah. You don’t like it? Then don’t get married. Simple!
Just my point. I wish the same way he had empathetic words towards the Muslim men who "are cornered" into red pill movement idealogy, and saying the men having identity crisis is a reactive response to how society is treating them, I wish he also could have had some more empathetic words to amaatullah, his Muslim sisters who could also have felt over the many many many years and at the hands of many abusive men in their lives, from fathers to brothers to uncles to husbands etc, that they were cornered into feminism idealogy. Many women at the hands of many men have been unsafe and mistreated. Many women nowadays are experiencing generational trauma. I agree both these idealogies are wrong but I would like to see more men give the same grace of understanding and empathy towards their sisters as they do towards their brothers. In Arabic there is a saying al baadi-u athlam, Ya3ni the one who started is the more oppressive. Women have been mistreated for centuries, nothing to do with Islam, but it has happened nevertheless and we are dealing with the aftermath of this now. Help you sisters with sabr with kindness and with justice.