I think as ladies with color and as some one who lives in Korea,the first thing one can do is know their worth.If you are coming to Korea to find a partner it’s a good thing coz there are many good Korean men but you need to know that just like any other country there will always be good and bad guys out there. You can always know when the guy is just interested in sex and nothing else .Also I think it’s ok for Koreans to have their preferences of the kind of ladies they want to date or marry as the same goes for ladies of color. Korea is a great place filled with great people but just like life itself you just have to make the right decisions while living here so you won’t regret ❤
And please note that the young men from better backgrounds said they prefer to meet naturally. If you want a RELATIONSHIP, you want to meet someone from school or a hobby club NOT a nightclub or on a dating app. Language exchange is often used as a pretext for dating but that can get a little dicey too. Go with someone that people you know know. That's how Koreans do it. You've been warned! LOL
What a heartbreaking sight to behold..... To have to write long essays and soliloquys in an attempt to launder and hide the insidious nature of this question and video. I tears me apart to see my sisters engage in these mental gymnastics to defend themselves.
@@kerenk.5919 well mainly because most foregin girls are there temporarily. They don't want to marry sometime who is only in korea for 4 months on a student visa. And likewise, people go there temporarily, trying to find a husband, which is stupid. If you aren't staying in the country permanently, don't expect someone to propose to you and try to build a life with you.
I believe that what you're saying is valid but from personal experience (quite a long history dating korean men) I strongly believe that for black women and girls trying to seek out that "good man" while sorting through the bad guys is a lost cause that will only lead to heartbreak, unbelievable amounts of sexual objectifation and dehumanization and trauma. In the end its not worth it. The "good guys" may be out there, but is it really worth the risk just to find one? 🤔
As a black woman I will never understand these questions black women are people too, we aren’t another species. We are just a beautiful and wonderful as any other woman. It doesn’t feel nice to be debased and devalued in videos and in comments sections. What did I do wrong because I was born black and a woman. I’m kind I’m pretty (I’ve been told) I’ve been told I’m smart and funny and I’ve always been reserved and quite shy. I hate these types of videos and I always will they make my heart drop.
lol thy treat you like some piece of conquest lmaooooooooooooooooo, would you date a black woman , honey black or no black, people are more than their skin but nope black woman are ass and tits, the whole conversation is so cringy focused on skin tone, lol the guys answering were making most sense atleast they said it would depen on the person not on their skin colour lmfaooooo
It breaks my heart that we have to constantly defend ourselves and "ain't I a woman" ourselves, trying to convince the masses to take a second look, reconsider..... Like honestly it's gut wrenching. We don't have to do this. Like yall don't like us? Shoot! OKAY! BE GONE THEN!.
You can be all things positive and if someone else doesn't see it, they just won't see it. It's ok. Someone else will see it & they won't need to be persuaded by you, in order to see it! They'll be letting YOU know how AMAZING YOU ARE.
im an indian girl but its like so weird objectifying women down to their ethnic features instead of appreciating them respectfully..."big boobs" wtf kinda weird
Im a fellow Pakistani south asian and I completely agree,it's disgusting how they fetishize black women but thankfully in this interview they was only one dumb guy who did that!
Honestly, everyone does it, including women. If you ask most people what they like in a partner a lot will go into the physical characteristics. Yes, you can appreciate them for more than there physical characteristics but the bottom line is you will never want to be with someone you find physically unattractive. In your part of the world being dark skin is something that is viewed negatively, not different in my opinion when you talk of objectifying people, so I'm not sure how this surprises you or does that only happen when it affects you?
@@awithaj437 " I would date Korean man, because I like jimin from BTS and they are intelligent...", It sounded like that. And just in case that u are not getting: both affirmations sound really bad. Dating people based on a celebrity and on a stereotyped "quality" of a certain group - it's extremely problematic and almost times lead to bad ending economically, mentally and physically.
@@awithaj437 It just means he thinks Beyoncé is representative of black women. She's not, so "because I like Beyoncé " is a stupid answer to "would you date a black woman, if yes, why?". A stupid answer rooted in ignorance, objectification of the other and so many other problematic beliefs. If I was saying I don't want to date Asian men because they are smaller than black men where it matters, people would be outraged and rightfully so as there is no justification for believing and saying such a thing about an entire group of men. It's a cliché that needs to go. Some may be small, others may be big and really, at this point of the conversation it shouldn't even be on anyone's mind because we're not trying to date body parts or an entire racial group. We're trying to date an individual.
@@DieezahArts I dno man, I like to take things at face value. If you try read between the lines you end up over analysing what people think. To me it didn’t sound like he was tryna be disrespectful so I’ll just take it as that.
I'm so glad to see that black women in the comments aren't pressed for these men's validation. It's worthless lol as Mr. "bIG bOObs" clearly showed us 😂
@@CoolNumber1 This comment doesn’t even make sense lmao. Black women are dating out to and regardless so you are only dating out to stick it to black women? Maybe you should get some therapy for your self hate issues .. being so desperate to be with other races that hate you is kind of pathetic. It doesn’t make you a winner but the opposite Lmao.
You can definitely tell the difference between the Korean men that could actually take dating a foreigner/black woman as someone as their future wife. Than the ones that see foreigner/black women as object/fling/hookups. Mr.Jerry I appreciate these interviews that you post asking the bold questions. Thank you for doing them. May TMH bless you abundantly and protect your endeavors. 🌻
@@sisanababy5884 I believe everyone is in entailed to their preferences and if black women takes what any nationality says from them not being attracted to us harshly. Reveals that we should start loving ourselves first.As well remember we are loved by TMH ultimately who created us. If someone doesn’t find us beautiful so what 🤷🏾♀️ we shouldn’t care. The person that is ment to be with us will see our beauty inside and out should ultimately be the opinion we even care to seek and keep that person’s attention.
It bothers me because they always ask questions like this about black women..... And on the flip side, there are a lot of black girls throwing themselves at Korean men and embarrassing themselves.
@@TelzAll honestly that pisses me off. And it's usually the way they speak of black people like we are some kind of unknown species. The girlies really be embarrassing the rest of us but what can we do lol
@@Lamagwabane I disown them lol am half black and I disown the half immediately lol like babe stand up you’re cute and I’m sure you don’t need Korean men that bad lol
What people don't realize is that most women tend to attract men that prefer them. The advantage that women have over us men is that they attract men who are interested in them. As men we pursue women so we have to guess whether or not that woman we are into will like us back. This means to get an accurate answer from women you ask the source (black women) not the general population. These studies rarely factor that in. As a Korean I dated my wife (who is black) because I prefer her. Asking random people makes the answers to the question flawed because the general population prefers Korean women or white because of widespread dominance of western culture. The men that are open to dating black women will seek one out.
men attract women that like them too lol. its just been proven by studies that women are better at picking up micro-expressions, so maybe that is why they can tell when someone is flirting? but also i don't know if this is true because no one has ever confessed any feelings for me.
I don't understand the hype about any race like korean men or women's preferences in love. The world is getting smaller and everywhere you meet different kind of people based on different races, beauty standards etc.. so don't seek validation from another specific race, just find a person that genuinely love you as a person not because of their nationality, skin tone.
It’s weird when people say a race is their type or exclude a race as non attractive. If people truly want to fall in love, their type would be what kind of character they are and what they stand for along with finding them attractive in general-without focusing on race. I can understand someone focusing on a specific culture because that influences their beliefs or values. Same with religion. But race? That shouldn’t be a factor because that doesn’t affect someone’s mindset like a culture or religion does. Also it’s just as creepy when people fetishize a race. It’s not a compliment because that means their affection for you relies on your features in respect to race-not necessarily just simply finding someone generally attractive. Like saying they find a black woman or Latina attractive because they’re more curvy, that’s not a compliment. When someone says they like East Asians because of their pale skin, that’s not a compliment. Those are all a types of fetishization. There are beautiful people from every race in this world and it’s not because of their race. Beautiful people are simply beautiful and even more so when they are uniquely beautiful to the person falling in love.
@Raven115 Fetishism is definitely an issue going both ways. People fetishizing black women is nothing new. People fetishizing Asian men and more specifically Korean men, seems to be pretty recent in western cultures. As black women, we need to be equipped to tell the difference between being loved as a human being and being fetishized based on phenotype or other physical features. The younger ones may be more vulnerable to this than an ajuma like me. The consequences can be devastating for the fetishized individual and any children which might come from the relationship...
uh this is the same shit every American "influencer" does when asking people if they would ever date an Asian man.. with Asian men always being on the end of never ending demeaning and emasculating stereotypes.
@@ache4634 that’s not what the video is about. It’s about finding out what people think in other countries and how their culture shapes their perception of people and culture outside of their world.
@@Max25670 it's not just about him it's just in general. There are so many videos about "what do "...." think about black women" it's highly embarrassing and weird 💀
Are black women really asking for such videos? I'm a black woman and I dont. Who cares if they would or wouldn't like to date us because we're black ? Let's just all enjoy life ( as corny as it sounds)
@@BearingMySeoul I mean I get that but even then, it is impossible to change your race so what's the point of asking. But also let's not forget that it is different for this kind of videos knowing what the beauty standards are over there and how black women dont fallunder those standerds and white women might
First of all, a big thank you to the ones who said they wouldn't mind if they like the woman's personality. The truly open-minded ones. Second, to the ones who said they couldn't date a black woman, thank you for the honesty, although I have to say the reasons you give to support your answer show you're young and completely lost in assumptions. Not every black woman speaks English. Black women like any other women can be the argumentative type (who you'd butt heads with) or be very peaceful beings who hate confrontations. The same goes for physical traits. Not all of us look like Beyoncé or Rihanna. We come in all shades, sizes and shapes. There are black women who are flat-chested, it doesn't make them less beautiful. And as for cultural differences, something someone mentioned as the big obstacle, you'd be surprised to know that some of us come from cultures which have a few things in common with Korean culture, even if the age hierarchy thing isn't as big of a thing as in Korea, respect for the elders, spicy food and other little things you may not expect foreigners to be okay with are present in some spaces black people call home. I get that we all have preferences even if that can shift over time. Your preference in terms of ethno-cultural group doesn't have to stop you from meeting someone who'd otherwise qualify to be your soul mate...
Again, he wasnt saying black women are argumentative. What he said was that because of CULTURAL differences and the language barrier, it could lead to misunderstanding/argument
@@lilmamagc I know what he was saying and what he wasn't. It seems you didn't get what I, on the other hand, was saying. Never mind... (please don't bother replying, I wouldn't respond as I hate arguments, especially with people who don't really try to understand what they're hearing or reading).
I actually like answer and whole heartedly agree 👍🏾💪🏾. I’m Black British of Caribbean descent, so naturally speak English 😂, but there’s black people from Brazil, Peru, Costa Rica.. Spain etc. and true, not all of us are like Beyoncé 🤦🏾♀️. The truth is that, as you said the open minded ones show their maturity, some of the others, show their immaturity. However, at least they give their honest views. 👍🏾 I know an old ex of mine who has a very discriminatory way of thinking. He’s English (white), and wants to go to South Korea for a Korean woman (his words). Because why? They like white men😒. Like, it’s some men from any race who may look at women in such a disgusting way.
I'm not saying that you're doing this, but I hope people can stop shaming Korean men for preferring to date Koreans. Foreigners immediately frame these men for being "uneducated" without knowing anything about how it's like to be raised in a racially homogeneous country. There are nuances that POC from multiracial countries will never understand. And there are MANY women from these multiracial countries who say that they'll never date an Asian men too without knowing a thing or two about them. It's usually the people who are exposed to Kpop or Kdramas that think differently about Asian men.
*I don’t understand the obsession unless it’s to draw attention to their channel. I’m always surprised that these videos are recent and not 3-5 yrs ago. It’s broadly known that Korea is a predominantly RACIST country and this has been said by KOREANS! I’m not making it up. Racist NOT prejudice [learn the difference] but that happens whether the culture is homogenous or not. They feel a sense of superiority due to their cultural identity and that’s okay. Are they prejudice as well? Yes. Try to be overweight or “ugly” and in need of plastic surgery and see if you make it out unscathed.*
I don’t understand why you guys are feeling like these videos are attacking your or your race. They also do the same things for other westerners and asians and latinos.
I always find these videos interesting - I'm mixed race (Scottish-Nigerian), live in Korea, am in a relationship with a Korean man and have met his mum who welcomed me with open arms and never seemed to bat an eyelid about my skin colour 💛 We live in a mid-sized city here (I'm the only foreigner I've seen in my neighbourhood) and I must admit, a lot of people stare when we're out in public but it never feels like it's coming from a bad place but more just shock or curiousity. Living in a country that is still 99% homogenous is not for the faint hearted 😭 It hurts but attitudes are changing quickly IMO... I'm not in any way defending close-minded views or racism, I'm just saying it's important to understand that the presence of Black people is not yet something many Koreans have experienced directly in their lives. There's education required in recognising prejudice and even knowing how to correctly speak when referring to BIPOC.
Foreigners don’t like that type! But they’re the one lasting and more chance to build a serious one compare to those calm and perfectionist and disappear after a few months 😂
As a black girl, the comments are, yet again, black women putting themselves down, and assuming these guys are lying 🙄. Gosh you guys are the one with the inferiority complex. Stop projecting it onto these guys. They all (except fpr one dude) seem pretty decent. They aren't being racist and none of them even put BW down or said bad things. I'm so tired of us acting like this. JUST FREAKIN TAKE THE COMPLIMENT. Stop reading between the lines and thinking these guys are "lying". I take offense to that because I've met a couple men that happen to be korean and they were SUPER kind and respectful to me. Stop putting everyone in a box and go out there and meet people. You ASSUMING they hate you , just because they are korean, actually makes you look very prejudiced and closed minded. Jerry you are doing a great job, keep up the good work
Thank you! Black women need to start having more confidence in themselves. I think a lot of them do it because the black community has taught us that we're not allowed to date outside,and if someone outside do like us,they're using us. Black women,there's bad men in EVERY RACE. Stop putting yourselves down when a man of another race says they like you.
@@ksubyslowed they keep looking for validation and yet when they get one they second doubt themselves and accused the Korean of lying in front of camera or call them racist for not finding Black attractive. Inferioty complex is off the roof. I have seen similar videos of black man, they hype themselves saying "all woman like black man" then when they interviewed girls and some say they are not interested in dating black man they accuse them as racist and cry their eyes out like pls it's embarassing to watch.
Black women have endured unspoken atrocities yet, 'we rise' again & again. Our worth is not determined by others' opinions of us.. if that were so, we'd have been wiped out a long time ago. I understand the Korean sensibilities are just opening up to different ethnicities but tell you what... you can meet us on the other side once you've evolved & can appreciate the magic of who we are..but we sure not hanging on or around for your appreciation. as a Jamaican, a soh mi feel and yu dun know every yardie born think dem is a star... so nobody can dim we light. One Love.
In all countries, people have preferences and tastes, many times we are not the choice, it is frustrating. However, when the concern for the opinion that others have about our decisions and choices is stronger, when we miss the opportunity to meet someone wonderful because of prejudice, fear and ignorance, then it is disappointing and pathetic. . Skin color does not make a person more or less attractive, our behavior does. Thanks for your channel, I love it. I look forward to your next interview.
Disappointing for who? Do you want a prejudiced person to suddenly dismiss their beliefs for you? Because I'm sure they're not disappointed to NOT have someone they don't want, as a partner 🤣 you feel disappointment, as if they're pathetic, on their behalf? But they'll be too busy not caring what you feel, as they search for the partner they do want 😳
As my Spanish language teacher used to say, the thought in front and the language behind. It's disappointing because nobody likes to be rejected, that doesn't mean you're going to die of unrequited love 😏, that's extremely ridiculous, but it's true that humans get disappointed if we don't get what we want... Then you think, Oh, come on! He misses it, or she misses it, there are more fish in the sea, but we feel the sting of rejection, and that's human. It is evident that we dont need someone who doesn't value us for who we really are, we don't need someone who tramples on us but even though we know it, feelings are free, our job is to control them later.
@@lilmamagc thats true but our parents aren’t. Im muslim and he’s christian i worry all the time about our future his parents nor my parents will accept us
@@shansson5130 easy fix for black women: Date a man and let him know you want to wait until marriage or at least till you are engaged before sex. If he agrees then you know he wants more then just sex.
Mainly because most foreigners are not in korea long term. they aren't tryna to marry someone that's in the country for 2 months. And that's not long enough to get to know someone. Unless you are committed to being in korea long term or making frequent visits back, they ain't marrying you.
A suggestion: perhaps asking people in Korea about marrying a non-Korean. As someone who lives in Korea there is a difference between dating and marriage. I believe most Koreans date for marriage not just to “date”. Of course with time and more non-Koreans living in Korea this mindset will change. So instead of “would you date a non-Korean?” ask instead “would you marry a non-Korean?”.
These videos are embarrassing whether you’re asking about black men or women. No one’s asking black women/men if they’d date an Asian so it’d be nice if you got the message
There is an Asian guy from Bhutan that did street interviews in NY asking people (black, white, Latino) if they would date Asians. His videos are pre-pandemic & his channel is Sonam Chops. So there are other people doing these kind of videos you just might not be aware of them.
I don’t think its a big deal. Everyone has their own type. I am Indian and I feel like korean men are really cute and black guys are handsome too but when it comes to marrying or settling together i will marry an Indian because its easier to communicate and under each others feelings
As a black woman I loved this. The big boobs guy was super funny. I never take things like this to heart at all. I see a lot of pressed ppl in the comments (You’re entitled to your feelings) but if this is triggering you and breaking you… it’s gonna be rough for you. I did a lot of work on myself mentally and I came to the understanding as a dark complexion black girl is I’m gonna be dope af regardless😅. No one’s words or beliefs about me can ever hurt me bc ik myself and treat myself with the worth I intend to garner. I don’t care if someone“prefer” me or my ethnicity it’s over 7 billon ppl in the world! But big boobs guy had me lmao😂. Hope you do more interviews like this! 😊
I wonder how Korean men who aren't born or raised in Korea think about these interviews or the huge focus on how Koreans view being in a relationship with a black woman. This is just a curiosity that came to mind, as a black woman from America who did like kpop, had to figure out their cultural beliefs, and not really understand when you take a lot of cultural influence, especially in the music industry, from black Americans. It's strange that we're expected to keep an open mind and not take their comments to heart, when if it was in the same context, we would be seen as being prejudice or racist. So it's like that to me. But since there are Korean people outside of Korea who aren't brainwashed by a lot of their outdated ideologies or the obsession on white people(who I don't know why they don't realize it's a fetishization unless white people don't care. But y'all can speak for yourselves). It's just I wonder if they feel some type of way that it's not Korean men. It's Korean men born and raised in Korea. And that isn't all of them. And it's weird when people will use open mindedness, like that will negate that if this question is still a "trending" topic, Korea, just like most of the world, aren't progressive and don't try too hard to change the deep rooted issues instead of acting like the people you are being prejudice or racist towards have to change. It's you, not them.
@@user-fb2me3th6z Speak for yourself. I am Korean, my wife is black. Yes we are different but we are also similar in many ways too. You can't know a person unless you interact with them. It's your ignorance that keeps you thinking that your so different. Reminds me of how my parents use to think but they are from a different time and they have grown to love my wife.
@@lilmamagc I think that's something everyone knows unless you're oblivious. I only asked if white people care that it's a worship complex or fetish and how Korean men who aren't the ones they ask this question to think about it. The ones that don't live or were raised on Korean societal beliefs. Plus you have to go to places not caring when you aren't the race they care for. It's the only way you can enjoy yourself. Let them hate you. It has always been weird to spend your life hating someone bc of a race we don't choose.
I greatly appreciate your videos and interviews, and while this is a bit old, I have an interesting take on this. I wonder what their answers would be if you were Korean because I know sometimes Koreans don't feel comfortable giving their real answers to other foreigners especially when you are black yourself. Also I've learned in living here the past 4 years that Koreans view dating and marrying as 2 separate things. I've found that Koreans may be open to the idea of dating a black girl for the experience and to be able to say they did it but as far as marrying one and bringing them around their parents, that's a completely different topic and subject itself. Like so many others in the comments said, I roll my eyes when I see these videos because at the end of the day I'm a woman just like any others. I shouldn't be seen as any different just because of my skin color or because of how my "body is shaped". I know you have no ill-intent with these videos. It just can come across as cringey and sometimes the answers remind us that we're not desirable and that we're an experiment/experience. Again love your videos and content. I just wanted to share my thoughts.
These videos make me feel as if we are being singled out..like we are a separate species who are unfeeling and argumentive ..amongst other things..it feels like no one would ever date us because of us being black women and the stereotype that comes with it. I know that's not what the interviewer is doing But when I read the interpretations of one guy who says yeah he would date a black woman and then say Beyonce then say they have nice body big boobs..he' just overly sexualized us in his mind and the other guy who just kept saying I don't want to basically butt heads aka argue with his mate..i was waiting on dude to say what makes you think this way... ? I said all of that to say this..Yes we are strong intelligent WOMEN who are a catch..but we are not argumentive..we are passionate we are lovers friends good listeners doctors lawyers etc...we love hard and some time light we have been through hell. But so has everyone on this earth but we are stigmatized for it. We don't play victim..because we are not.. If I were to meet a person for the first time I'd make my own assessment of this person not what's been told. That same man that says he doesn't like to argue with his mate..argues with his mate..what if we say all Korean men have little penises and that's why we wouldn't want to date you..but we all know that's not true .. Because we have not dated nor met all korean men and we understand penises come in different shapes and sizes get to know the person make our own judgements..and not simply because we were taught to dislike a person based on how they were born..I'm quite sure if they were to do a family tree alot of Africans would fall-out of.it. people don't understand that we are apart of each other 1 blood 1 God created all.of us..1 blood. Get to know the person and stop judging us because IF you're able to GET brown.and aAmerican African or African.woman (because we aren't black our skin tone is brown) to come into your life baby it'll be the best decision of your life. Hell some of us don't want any of you either and that's truth.. everybody is different..we don't taste talk or walk the same nor do we think the same. So think for yourself and use common dam sense and get to know the person and stop believing the bs stereotypes..one person doesn't represent an entire race of people nor do a few ..each race has its bad apples..but for some. reason it's only our race that's seen as less then or u deserving ..stop doing interviews like this because we don't care if you like us or not..it will never shape us nor make us... we are the vibe that every body wants and then try to hide. We are people no different from your own.blessed with a little more soul🤣sorry for any typos didn't know I typed.this much ish..but anyways..tootles
I, a black woman, thank you for this video. Please continue what you’re doing. Those that don’t like these videos don’t have to watch. What’s embarrassing is the low self esteem and inferiority complexes in the comments.
Thank you! I guess some insecure black womens feel that asking this question is begging for love. I think people do this types of videos because they are curious about other cultures mindset. He’s done videos about dating black men & foreigners in general but somehow only the bw video is seen as begging for love.
@@kimleemoon please stop copying and pasting your comment, thank you. Besides your logic of insecure black women is..., asides from this particular video, there's been waaay too many videos about this In the past five years. Huge scandals with a Korean TH-camr guy that based his entire channel of this particular topic, so if people feel uncomfortable cause of its there's an actual reason that has nothing to with insecurity, you can literally type the title of this video and find all the cringeworthy videos off this topic.
@@kimleemoon I wonder where I mentioned that I was uncomfortable with the video, your all over the comment section guessing that its the insecurity of some black women that make them uncomfortable with the vidoe, so I was trying to clarify thats there's a reason and its not insecurity as you were guessing. If I knew disapproving their insecurity will bother you so much I won't have commented, my bad.
Can we ban these video topics? They make me so uncomfortable. It’s like we’re some phenomenon, or something to be gawked at and dissected. The majority of men who are attracted to women are attracted regardless of race. Black women do not need to sit and wonder who likes them because a lot of them do. The right ones will let you know and you can personally decide their motive ❤
Nah. I think you’re overreacting or just taking it way too personal. Some people love this stuff. I would LOVE if he did a “what do Koreans feel about Mexicans when it comes to dating” video so I would know if I’m gonna be lonely as hell when I move there or if I could maybe find someone to be with finally. Maybe it’s not so much an attack as you make it out to be and maybe that’s something you should work through with your therapist. As a person of color I too have my opinion on these sorts of matters, don’t I? Fucking gawk at me and dissect me, and if Jose over there doesn’t like it then he doesn’t have to watch the damn video.
This is the advantages that women have over us men. You will always know who is into you because men who are into you will pursue you. A lot of these studies and videos don't factor that in. For instance from this video people probably would think Korean men don't date black women but myself as well as a few of my friends have dated black women, some married them, including myself. To get an accurate answer they need to ask all the black woman in Korea then find the mean from that data to figure out the average number of black women who are with Asian men. I read an updated study and there are a lot of Korean men with black women considering the low percentage of black women in Korea.
So... basically, they are saying they will date the beauty standard black women for their bodies (but I bet you a lot of them don't marry black women).
I noticed that some of the Korean men are very mature. Some think that the heart, values, personality, and character are the most important. It is normal for young men to be first attracted to the face. Some look for attractiveness and personality. I heard only one mention that the body is the most important. He was the one who said that his family and friends would be shocked if he dated a black woman. A few were honest that they have never considered dating black women. Their preference is Korean women. It is better if they are honest. If the Korean men do not want serious relationships with black women, they should let them know from the start.
Yeah, it's better to be honest about what you like or don't like than to be politically correct and say something you don't mean it (insincere). The truth may be brutal but it's better than being told a lie. Flip it on the other side and you can ask western/black people why they don't date asian (whatever, chinese, korean, indian etc) and I'd only want to know the true reasons.
@@ymhktravel Some Western/black/African American people are receptive to dating Asian people. Some people are open to different races and different cultures. However, there are some people who will only date within their race or culture. I know black people who will only date black people. Also, I know black people who date different races/cultures.
I wish they would understand, or at least take into consideration, the fact that we would even pick up our life and move to their country. Of all the countries that we could’ve chosen, we chose theirs. So obviously, we have interest in the lifestyle, the people, the food, the culture and everything that comes with it. Some of the most naturally respectful people in the world are black women. We are chameleons, we can blend in to any scenario when necessary. I wish they would be more open to getting to know us, and potentially dating us. I understand how much it means to them how society views them, and we’re not that much different. We are constantly having to prove stereotypes to be wrong. We’re not all loud and obnoxious. Yes there are black women who are like that, but it’s not all of us. And if they were worried about their parents, they should give their parents a little credit. They may be more open minded than they think. And I personally have yet to meet a parent that doesn’t love me lol.
Why would you assume that if you date a Black woman that she's gonna be combative? That's wild to me. Where would you get something like that from? Not only is it racist as hell, but men who are worried about women being combative with them are often abusers who want women who won't argue with them, so I'm raising an eyebrow at that guy. The one in the bubble jacket is HILARIOUS. Objectification at its finest and its own red flag but at least he's funny.
He didn't say it was because they were black. He said that because of language barrier and CULTURAL differences, which applies to everyone that is not culturally Korean, it can lead to misunderstandings and arguments. And he is right. He literally never implied black women being combative. That is YOU internalizing a stereotype and projecting it on him.
I think as an American, Black American Women are over going to Korea looking for relationships for the most part. It was a fad to begin with. Kpop became popular and interest grew. BTS was one of the biggest attractions for American Black and White, Some kdrama's also played a part. Now BTS has started solo careers the interest has slowed down. I think the most effective force and influences for the reality was the internet experiences that Black Women have had visiting the country. No matter how you slice it the negative always out weighs the positive. The people are nice, The culture is nice, The food is great but it's too limited and discriminatory for the average American especially Black. You will find very few Americans that would stay there even if there are things they like.. I think it;s time to ask a more important Question. What is your knowledge or imagine of black people in general ? could or would you like to see Korea more integrated and diverse and would you support and embrace it. What are your visions for Korea in your life time?. Does it bother you when people of a different race takes residency in your country. There are so many great Questions that people need to ask. Right now the Black culture and Korean culture have a long way to go to unite not only in Korea but also here in the US. Although I understand the interest I also understand the reality. I think years from now there will be a change just like with black and white relations in America. I also think it will start in America where the tolerance and acceptance is like no other. I am a Black woman who has traveled Asia and dated Asian men and other. For me the culture differences with Asian men were to big. My sense of freedom and independence felt like a fault. If you are American and find it difficult to sustain a relationship with Asian men here than all I can say is good luck in trying to sustain one there. At the end of the day it's not a Kdrama it's real life.
As a black woman, I will not date a Korean or Asian man overall. Of course we are all creation of God. But I will not suffer due to how God create me in my own skin to please other people. I’m not going to try extra hard to get liked by the ajummas or anyone. I will date where I’m belong. Most Asian men wants to explore black women not in a serious way. So black women I’m warning you, be excellent and go to where you are needed and belong!
You don't want them to put all of us in a category, but it's okay to stereotype all asian men. Okay. stay close minded and prejudiced, and I hope you find love
Guy in the bubble jacket gives a frank response. Even nowadays in 2023, there are not that many foreigners in Korea, compared to the nation as a whole. I believe Korea is what .... 95% 96% homogenous. Most have never seen a black man or woman and what they think they know, both positive and negative is from what they've learned through media (internet, tv). Frankly, same goes for other ethnicities. Koreans are open to interracial dating as there are numerous videos on TH-cam showing successful (married or dating) black / korean relationships, but it's not common. Glad to see Korea is opening up compared to in the 90s, 2000s, etc. But there's still a long road ahead. What does give me hope is watching successful black / korean couples on TH-cam. There are often grandchildren whom their grandparent's adore and the Korean mothers and fathers have grown and learned, as well as the couple who were married, to become a family.
it's not an issue. Black women don't need validation from Korean or any other man for that matter. Really whether Korean men are are open to relationships or sex with black women is not an issue.
as a Black woman who’s lived in asia and is attracted to different types of men, i don’t see the issue in asking these questions, especially since BW and AM are by-and-large viewed as less attractive by societal standards. but if i’m a single cishet BW thinking of going to a foreign country, i’d wanna know what their thoughts were on me too 😵💫🫣 no shade lol
im not a black man . im white ( alr this was an off topic thing . i just wrote that just in case ) but i believe most of them want to date black women for the experience and not for serious relationship . ofc there will be exceptions as well . yes it will be heartbreaking for the other person to notice that the partner are dating them for the experience while the other want a serious relationship . but it is what it is . p.s chill people . i didnt mean to start a war
@@CoolNumber1 all your comments on this page is of you hating black women , did a black girl steal your man ? 💀 get a life honey your opinion don’t matter use it to wipe your 🍑
@@lilmamagc or we can watch and comment, or just comment without watching since it's obvious what the subject is, and you can just understand that's how TH-cam works.
People are entitled to like what they like but stop talking about us gah damn lol😂 This topic is so tired. At the end of the day bw are some of the most beautiful,kindest and educated in the world whether guys from across the pond thinks so or not,.Also on a weird note Why is it always would they date bw,not the other way around,does our opinion not matter.
the way you tried to hold in your laugh at the "i like beyonce." so appreciative of these interviews and the questions you pose. this is such a great series.
Why does it matter if they like us or not, it's not important.. They seem close minded, and I don't blame them, I guess they're some that aren't that way. But the "will you date a black woman" question, sounds like "will you eat a rotten apple if you're really hungry and there's no food. That's how I see it
Thank you for asking this question and engaging in this topic with respect and class. I’ve seen others use this topic to exploit for cringey click bait content, but your approach was so respectful and thoughtful. I really appreciate the work you put in to make this video.
Black women are not into asian men. Everyone knows. This is why it's very rare to see such couples. While black men are more open to date Asian women, so you see plenty of them with filipinas,Korean, Thai and Chinese women.
Let people be happy. Don't ask Koreans if they would date a black woman because they will only tell you what you want to hear..there are many black men who won't date outside their race either. I rolled my eyes at this one.
Spilling fact is that all over the world people tend to prefer bright skin people. Not only in US.. In euroupe, India, Brazil, Countries in asia. Generally.
Been ages since i commented on something one thing i noticed there is a major part of the Korean society who are basic af and superficial af not spreading hate and no offense just talking about immature boys who are just talking about the foreigner appearance 🤦🏻 but ur videos never disappointed
Facts. The red flags were def red flagging in some of these dudes. I cannot imagine thinking that a person’s appearance is more important than their personality, values and interests. It’s very much giving weirdo energy. Since the topic focused on black women (and foreign women in general), I wonder if they would’ve had the same response if they had been asked about what’s most important to them when dating Korean women 🤔😑
If you havent already done this, Next time find a few black women and ask if they would be willing to date Korean men and pose these same questions to them. Black women have choices too and most would not be interested.
He lives in Korea.. I'm pretty sure if you are in Korea you are okay dating the men/woman inside the country.. now outside of Korea black women probably feel the way you describe for the most part.
I get it. Their culture is constructed a certain way and all that.... But really, I'm just fine with being an after or nonexistent thought to *them* and anyone else that even has to be asked such a question 😊
THIS "BLACK TH-camR" creating bad image to South Korean people with "SMALL INDIVIDUAL INTERVIEW".... Just making money using smart interviews indirectly.
I got a recommendation from TH-cam after this video of Japanese men's thoughts on dating foreign women. I am amazed by the contrast between these two countries. Their first preference was kind and respectful and then came appearance which only included big eyes or short hair. Which I feel is only basic. So much better than 'BIG B**BS'. It's really fascinating how each culture treats women differently.
I know you won't believe this but, anyways here i go. That guy was speaking comically, asian humor is just like that, vile and stupid af but never with the intent of harming. Anyways, just dropping some knowledge, adios.
everyone has a unique sense of humor, and asians who havent completely been exposed to western culture will probably not understand what westerners find disgusting or unfunny.
He is not a representative of an entire culture. You would only say that because He is Asian. White people say problematic stuff all day and nobody sees it as representative for a culture
I am a korean guy and I met more than 5 black girls in my life and the reason why I don't prefer black girl is.. Sadly most of black girls victimized themselves and it was so hard to listen and agree with that. I never listen those things from other ethnic girls like South asian girls, before soviet union area girls, Caucasian girls, Latin girls.. Only from Black girls.. its quite sad and I hope them to stop victimized themselves and be confidence!
Interesting. I think that black women who live in countries with a black majority (Brazil is not a good example), I'm talking about African countries, have more confidence in themselves. Because when I lived outside my country, Angola, I was a 9-year-old child, constantly compared to the beauty standard of another country, the standard of white Brazilian women. I started comparing myself too and that didn't do me any good but luckily, my mother's postgraduate studies ended, I returned to my country, I'm at ease. I'm no longer afraid of being compared or being called ugly for any reason. Comparing and being compared to your whole life or during part of your life is very sad, but it happens and there is no stopping it. What matters is how we feel and react to it.
Comparing every black woman to Beyoncè is like comparing every Korean man to Hyunbin. It's weird. It will never not be weird. Stop. Edit: For a more modern example, it's like comparing every Korean man to a BTS member or every Latina to Sofia Vergara.
STOP CREATING CONVERSATION TO RUIN KOREAN IMAGE. Reason, some foreigners can not get in Korean Bar because, most of foreigners can not pay HIGH PRICE. Some Korean Night Clubs are very expensive and must buy table. It is not discrimination and discrimination exist every Country. Also, learn language. DO NOT JUDGE South Korea with "one issue"......
There are so many Korean people married with White, Black, Asian , African in South Korea. If you stay long time in Korea, meet some partner or good friends. Also, learn Korean CULTURE & LANGUAGE FIRST. Nobody will discriminate you .
no? He literally is talking about cultural clashes and the language barrier. Those things can cause issues when one person's culture does things one way and the other culture the other way. He doesn't want a conflict like that. So please stop projecting and assuming
Why do you think he had plastic surgery? I rewatched him again and he never said black people are aggressive. In fact, none of them said that in this interview. That's just your assumption.
I am a black woman and I really lovethat Korean men mostly will date their own women and not outside. Black men do that too, but a large part also date outside of their race in the Black community and alot of the times it is because black people don’t love their own race as much (and I am not talking about the black men that date outside without that in mind)
That guy seriously thinks all black women look like Beyoncé as if all Korean guys look like JCW 🙄 so ridiculous! Also it is very weird to based your opinion on dating to a specific ethnicity. When I hear “I like Asian girls” that’s my queue to never see you again cause that’s too much. You should base dating on whether you guys are compatible and have similar views and preferences imo.
I’ve heard from multiple foreigners, KOREAN MEN WILL DATE YOU, BUT NOT MARRY YOU IF YOURE NON KOREAN. The few exceptions might be another fair Asian, or a white woman. Latin women, black women, brown women, are fetishized. Which is so so disgusting. Cause it’s one thing to have preferences and stick to it, it’s understandable. BUT TO COMPLETELY DEHUMANIZE WOMEN OF OTHER ETHNICITIES?
Umm i would like to just share 2 reason why international couple can't reach to marriage. First of all, Korea is not multicultural country. And our culture tend to force to people has to be similar. For example, same style hair, fashion, and lifestyle as well. It has been changed a lot recently, and people are getting more open-minded compared to the past but still, people scared to be look different. It is not about where you are from but just culture. And second it is actually hard to make serious relation between people who from different conturies unless you are fully available to speak or understand the language. Because sometime the language gives deep connection and make understand each other's difference more and more. While in the other hands they feel frustrated and sometime give up to express. So it hard to deeply fall in love if you have the other culture and also can't fully understand the language. I am living in Au which is well known multicultural area, but I have been facing the same problem with men. I thought the guys here only wanted casual and made me so disappointed many times but later on, I just realized back that moment, my barrier of language made them less connected which lead them don't think of serious relationships. After I understand most of the cultural things and also get better languages skill then able to make healthy deep relationships with normal people 😅😆😆 I think Korea would be harder to get serious relationships than in other multicultural centuries unless you can speak Korean at least 60% of the level
The Korean guy at the end😂! He blew me away when he come with the Aussie accent! That was classic! However, you can see the ones who are are open to possible dating a black woman in this instance, and have a more open minded approach and maturity. Vs a few with the childlike/teenage mindset of big boobs🤦🏾♀️😂😂
I thought about this very topic but had no one to ask. I always knew I liked people outside my ethnicity but I've been too afraid to think of the prospect that they would be attracted to me and, not because of my personality or so forth, but because of my ethnicity. It gets uncomfortable for me because I know that I don't really think about ethnicity as a factor for loving someone but I realize that other people do (which is valid). So it's nice to know that I don't have to demonize feeling attracted to people who look different from me. Because no lie, I had an attachment to race that I wasn't aware of and it has low key kept me in a bubble I don't like to live in. But now I feel guilty for wanting to leave that mental space because I was afraid I was being wrong. This video removed a boundary I had that was built on a lack of knowledge and being to shy to ask. I may not date someone Korean but it's good to know that the world has the potential to be open for those who need it (in order to be themselves and feel free to express their thoughts and feelings).
This video is giving "doing black women a favour", as if we are some other species that needs handouts. Its almost like certain black men are eager to show how undesirable the world finds us by pointing out a few men that would date us when the majority apparently wouldn't.
1:59 Bro, all black women I‘ve seen in all these Korea interviews look even better than Beyonce! 😂 (no kidding, seriously! All these black women in Korea have that style I prefer. In my opinion much better than they‘ve been portrayed in western media!)
I don't know why people discriminate people based on their skin colour,, every single skin colour is unique and beautiful,, And black colour is due to more amount of Melanie (pigment which gives a range of black colour) which act as natural sunscreen,, Yes white people have to put on sunscreen before going out otherwise their skin will burn by scorching heat,and at the same time black people get more benifit in this case,sun burn are very rare for them,, It's your choice guys who you like or not but atleast don't make them feel like they are another species or from another planet,be respectful guys.....
Honestly these questions are not necessarily because majority of them are lying so they won’t be called racist , but it’s okay because majority of black Women won’t date them either 🤷🏻♀️
@Joy Chukwudemeni thats not racist when its a preference and they arent attractive overall to most races not just asians. Most races like white, asian or latina.
@Joy Chukwudemeni there were many polls done before. And most dont pick black woman. Its a fact. Unless you wanna be politically correct about it just so they can say you are good person
I think as ladies with color and as some one who lives in Korea,the first thing one can do is know their worth.If you are coming to Korea to find a partner it’s a good thing coz there are many good Korean men but you need to know that just like any other country there will always be good and bad guys out there. You can always know when the guy is just interested in sex and nothing else .Also I think it’s ok for Koreans to have their preferences of the kind of ladies they want to date or marry as the same goes for ladies of color. Korea is a great place filled with great people but just like life itself you just have to make the right decisions while living here so you won’t regret ❤
And please note that the young men from better backgrounds said they prefer to meet naturally. If you want a RELATIONSHIP, you want to meet someone from school or a hobby club NOT a nightclub or on a dating app. Language exchange is often used as a pretext for dating but that can get a little dicey too. Go with someone that people you know know. That's how Koreans do it. You've been warned! LOL
What a heartbreaking sight to behold..... To have to write long essays and soliloquys in an attempt to launder and hide the insidious nature of this question and video.
I tears me apart to see my sisters engage in these mental gymnastics to defend themselves.
@@kerenk.5919 well mainly because most foregin girls are there temporarily. They don't want to marry sometime who is only in korea for 4 months on a student visa. And likewise, people go there temporarily, trying to find a husband, which is stupid. If you aren't staying in the country permanently, don't expect someone to propose to you and try to build a life with you.
@nekesah yvonne you said it wonderfully!
I believe that what you're saying is valid but from personal experience (quite a long history dating korean men) I strongly believe that for black women and girls trying to seek out that "good man" while sorting through the bad guys is a lost cause that will only lead to heartbreak, unbelievable amounts of sexual objectifation and dehumanization and trauma. In the end its not worth it. The "good guys" may be out there, but is it really worth the risk just to find one? 🤔
As a black woman I will never understand these questions black women are people too, we aren’t another species. We are just a beautiful and wonderful as any other woman. It doesn’t feel nice to be debased and devalued in videos and in comments sections. What did I do wrong because I was born black and a woman. I’m kind I’m pretty (I’ve been told) I’ve been told I’m smart and funny and I’ve always been reserved and quite shy. I hate these types of videos and I always will they make my heart drop.
lol thy treat you like some piece of conquest lmaooooooooooooooooo, would you date a black woman , honey black or no black, people are more than their skin but nope black woman are ass and tits,
the whole conversation is so cringy focused on skin tone, lol the guys answering were making most sense atleast they said it would depen on the person not on their skin colour lmfaooooo
It breaks my heart that we have to constantly defend ourselves and "ain't I a woman" ourselves, trying to convince the masses to take a second look, reconsider..... Like honestly it's gut wrenching. We don't have to do this.
Like yall don't like us? Shoot! OKAY! BE GONE THEN!.
That's true these videos are weird.
You can be all things positive and if someone else doesn't see it, they just won't see it. It's ok. Someone else will see it & they won't need to be persuaded by you, in order to see it! They'll be letting YOU know how AMAZING YOU ARE.
I think the goal of these videos though is to see how people truly think. It may not be pleasant or right, but becoming aware of it can be important.
im an indian girl but its like so weird objectifying women down to their ethnic features instead of appreciating them respectfully..."big boobs" wtf kinda weird
Im a fellow Pakistani south asian and I completely agree,it's disgusting how they fetishize black women but thankfully in this interview they was only one dumb guy who did that!
literally,,, i just rolled my eyes
Honestly, everyone does it, including women. If you ask most people what they like in a partner a lot will go into the physical characteristics. Yes, you can appreciate them for more than there physical characteristics but the bottom line is you will never want to be with someone you find physically unattractive.
In your part of the world being dark skin is something that is viewed negatively, not different in my opinion when you talk of objectifying people, so I'm not sure how this surprises you or does that only happen when it affects you?
Frr but um many people fetishize them so
@@imanuellaakp4233 you shouldnt they get fetishized as well many people are obsessed with korean men /boys
" ...because I like Beyonce, and good body.." that's such a red flag for me 😐
Just means he thinks black girls are pretty, take it at face value
@@awithaj437 " I would date Korean man, because I like jimin from BTS and they are intelligent...", It sounded like that.
And just in case that u are not getting: both affirmations sound really bad.
Dating people based on a celebrity and on a stereotyped "quality" of a certain group - it's extremely problematic and almost times lead to bad ending economically, mentally and physically.
@@awithaj437 It just means he thinks Beyoncé is representative of black women. She's not, so "because I like Beyoncé " is a stupid answer to "would you date a black woman, if yes, why?". A stupid answer rooted in ignorance, objectification of the other and so many other problematic beliefs. If I was saying I don't want to date Asian men because they are smaller than black men where it matters, people would be outraged and rightfully so as there is no justification for believing and saying such a thing about an entire group of men. It's a cliché that needs to go. Some may be small, others may be big and really, at this point of the conversation it shouldn't even be on anyone's mind because we're not trying to date body parts or an entire racial group. We're trying to date an individual.
@@DieezahArts I dno man, I like to take things at face value. If you try read between the lines you end up over analysing what people think. To me it didn’t sound like he was tryna be disrespectful so I’ll just take it as that.
@@DieezahArts im asian. beyonce is so popular in asia. we call them beyonce everytime we see a black woman.
I'm so glad to see that black women in the comments aren't pressed for these men's validation. It's worthless lol as Mr. "bIG bOObs" clearly showed us 😂
Lolz 😆
@@CoolNumber1how are you imputing black men in this trying to start stuff sit down 🤦🏾♂️
@@CoolNumber1 who's giving up? black girls arent checking for aint shit men anyway lol
@@CoolNumber1 This comment doesn’t even make sense lmao. Black women are dating out to and regardless so you are only dating out to stick it to black women? Maybe you should get some therapy for your self hate issues .. being so desperate to be with other races that hate you is kind of pathetic. It doesn’t make you a winner but the opposite Lmao.
me too
You can definitely tell the difference between the Korean men that could actually take dating a foreigner/black woman as someone as their future wife. Than the ones that see foreigner/black women as object/fling/hookups.
Mr.Jerry I appreciate these interviews that you post asking the bold questions. Thank you for doing them. May TMH bless you abundantly and protect your endeavors. 🌻
@@sisanababy5884 I believe everyone is in entailed to their preferences and if black women takes what any nationality says from them not being attracted to us harshly. Reveals that we should start loving ourselves first.As well remember we are loved by TMH ultimately who created us. If someone doesn’t find us beautiful so what 🤷🏾♀️ we shouldn’t care.
The person that is ment to be with us will see our beauty inside and out should ultimately be the opinion we even care to seek and keep that person’s attention.
@@katlegosibara3317 ok
@@sisanababy5884 may you have a blessed rest of your day dear 🌻
@@katlegosibara3317 nah. Keep those blessings for yourself.
@@sisanababy5884😂😂
The guy with the blue sweater really said: "I can't even date a Korean woman" haha lol! Great interview (as usual).
hahah yeaahh 😅😅
I couldn't care less what they thought of me as a black person but their honesty is always refreshing.
Everybody likes what they like and its okay
It bothers me because they always ask questions like this about black women..... And on the flip side, there are a lot of black girls throwing themselves at Korean men and embarrassing themselves.
@@TelzAll honestly that pisses me off. And it's usually the way they speak of black people like we are some kind of unknown species.
The girlies really be embarrassing the rest of us but what can we do lol
@@Lamagwabane I disown them lol am half black and I disown the half immediately lol like babe stand up you’re cute and I’m sure you don’t need Korean men that bad lol
@@TelzAll frrrr😂😂
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What people don't realize is that most women tend to attract men that prefer them. The advantage that women have over us men is that they attract men who are interested in them. As men we pursue women so we have to guess whether or not that woman we are into will like us back. This means to get an accurate answer from women you ask the source (black women) not the general population. These studies rarely factor that in. As a Korean I dated my wife (who is black) because I prefer her. Asking random people makes the answers to the question flawed because the general population prefers Korean women or white because of widespread dominance of western culture. The men that are open to dating black women will seek one out.
Very well stated/ explained. Agreed and approved 👍 PsyD.
Agreed.
Thank you
That is absolutely correct. For women, it is always a guarantee that the man will like her. For men, it is a gamble.
men attract women that like them too lol. its just been proven by studies that women are better at picking up micro-expressions, so maybe that is why they can tell when someone is flirting? but also i don't know if this is true because no one has ever confessed any feelings for me.
I don't understand the hype about any race like korean men or women's preferences in love. The world is getting smaller and everywhere you meet different kind of people based on different races, beauty standards etc.. so don't seek validation from another specific race, just find a person that genuinely love you as a person not because of their nationality, skin tone.
it be those kpop black stans obsessed with them
It’s weird when people say a race is their type or exclude a race as non attractive. If people truly want to fall in love, their type would be what kind of character they are and what they stand for along with finding them attractive in general-without focusing on race.
I can understand someone focusing on a specific culture because that influences their beliefs or values. Same with religion. But race? That shouldn’t be a factor because that doesn’t affect someone’s mindset like a culture or religion does. Also it’s just as creepy when people fetishize a race. It’s not a compliment because that means their affection for you relies on your features in respect to race-not necessarily just simply finding someone generally attractive. Like saying they find a black woman or Latina attractive because they’re more curvy, that’s not a compliment. When someone says they like East Asians because of their pale skin, that’s not a compliment. Those are all a types of fetishization. There are beautiful people from every race in this world and it’s not because of their race. Beautiful people are simply beautiful and even more so when they are uniquely beautiful to the person falling in love.
@Raven115 Fetishism is definitely an issue going both ways. People fetishizing black women is nothing new. People fetishizing Asian men and more specifically Korean men, seems to be pretty recent in western cultures. As black women, we need to be equipped to tell the difference between being loved as a human being and being fetishized based on phenotype or other physical features. The younger ones may be more vulnerable to this than an ajuma like me. The consequences can be devastating for the fetishized individual and any children which might come from the relationship...
uh this is the same shit every American "influencer" does when asking people if they would ever date an Asian man.. with Asian men always being on the end of never ending demeaning and emasculating stereotypes.
There are black Latinas....Latin isn't a race.
This is so EMBARRASSING 💀 pls stop asking theses weird questions bruh
Really ! I feel like we are begging for love. Come on, we are gorgeous and do not need no validation from them 💀
fr they should stop
@@ache4634 that’s not what the video is about. It’s about finding out what people think in other countries and how their culture shapes their perception of people and culture outside of their world.
he done other videos asking koreans about dating black men and other ethnicities, it’s not a big deal
@@Max25670 it's not just about him it's just in general. There are so many videos about "what do "...." think about black women" it's highly embarrassing and weird 💀
Are black women really asking for such videos? I'm a black woman and I dont. Who cares if they would or wouldn't like to date us because we're black ? Let's just all enjoy life ( as corny as it sounds)
It comes off desperate
fr you are right
Well, he's done the topic for white women as well. I guess he's into demographics? lol
@@BearingMySeoul I mean I get that but even then, it is impossible to change your race so what's the point of asking. But also let's not forget that it is different for this kind of videos knowing what the beauty standards are over there and how black women dont fallunder those standerds and white women might
no one asked, jerry is just covering all the topics 👍🏻
First of all, a big thank you to the ones who said they wouldn't mind if they like the woman's personality. The truly open-minded ones. Second, to the ones who said they couldn't date a black woman, thank you for the honesty, although I have to say the reasons you give to support your answer show you're young and completely lost in assumptions. Not every black woman speaks English. Black women like any other women can be the argumentative type (who you'd butt heads with) or be very peaceful beings who hate confrontations. The same goes for physical traits. Not all of us look like Beyoncé or Rihanna. We come in all shades, sizes and shapes. There are black women who are flat-chested, it doesn't make them less beautiful. And as for cultural differences, something someone mentioned as the big obstacle, you'd be surprised to know that some of us come from cultures which have a few things in common with Korean culture, even if the age hierarchy thing isn't as big of a thing as in Korea, respect for the elders, spicy food and other little things you may not expect foreigners to be okay with are present in some spaces black people call home. I get that we all have preferences even if that can shift over time. Your preference in terms of ethno-cultural group doesn't have to stop you from meeting someone who'd otherwise qualify to be your soul mate...
Again, he wasnt saying black women are argumentative. What he said was that because of CULTURAL differences and the language barrier, it could lead to misunderstanding/argument
@@lilmamagc I know what he was saying and what he wasn't. It seems you didn't get what I, on the other hand, was saying. Never mind... (please don't bother replying, I wouldn't respond as I hate arguments, especially with people who don't really try to understand what they're hearing or reading).
I actually like answer and whole heartedly agree 👍🏾💪🏾. I’m Black British of Caribbean descent, so naturally speak English 😂, but there’s black people from Brazil, Peru, Costa Rica.. Spain etc. and true, not all of us are like Beyoncé 🤦🏾♀️. The truth is that, as you said the open minded ones show their maturity, some of the others, show their immaturity. However, at least they give their honest views. 👍🏾
I know an old ex of mine who has a very discriminatory way of thinking. He’s English (white), and wants to go to South Korea for a Korean woman (his words). Because why? They like white men😒. Like, it’s some men from any race who may look at women in such a disgusting way.
I'm not saying that you're doing this, but I hope people can stop shaming Korean men for preferring to date Koreans. Foreigners immediately frame these men for being "uneducated" without knowing anything about how it's like to be raised in a racially homogeneous country. There are nuances that POC from multiracial countries will never understand. And there are MANY women from these multiracial countries who say that they'll never date an Asian men too without knowing a thing or two about them. It's usually the people who are exposed to Kpop or Kdramas that think differently about Asian men.
Well said
Please stop asking foreigners if they would marry black people....at this point is embarrassing for us blacks PLEASE!!
*I don’t understand the obsession unless it’s to draw attention to their channel. I’m always surprised that these videos are recent and not 3-5 yrs ago. It’s broadly known that Korea is a predominantly RACIST country and this has been said by KOREANS! I’m not making it up. Racist NOT prejudice [learn the difference] but that happens whether the culture is homogenous or not. They feel a sense of superiority due to their cultural identity and that’s okay. Are they prejudice as well? Yes. Try to be overweight or “ugly” and in need of plastic surgery and see if you make it out unscathed.*
no it’s very interesting if you’re not interested in social science or just don’t like these videos no one’s forcing you to watch
FR it makes us look so desperate for male validation, esp from men who r not black. These types of vids are SO embarrassing
I don’t understand why you guys are feeling like these videos are attacking your or your race. They also do the same things for other westerners and asians and latinos.
Jeez stop being triggered easy.
I always find these videos interesting - I'm mixed race (Scottish-Nigerian), live in Korea, am in a relationship with a Korean man and have met his mum who welcomed me with open arms and never seemed to bat an eyelid about my skin colour 💛 We live in a mid-sized city here (I'm the only foreigner I've seen in my neighbourhood) and I must admit, a lot of people stare when we're out in public but it never feels like it's coming from a bad place but more just shock or curiousity. Living in a country that is still 99% homogenous is not for the faint hearted 😭 It hurts but attitudes are changing quickly IMO... I'm not in any way defending close-minded views or racism, I'm just saying it's important to understand that the presence of Black people is not yet something many Koreans have experienced directly in their lives. There's education required in recognising prejudice and even knowing how to correctly speak when referring to BIPOC.
This perspective is so important! Thank you for sharing.
You are gorgeous !!!
Also I understand you. I'm dating a Polish man and we plan on getting married soon when we went to Poland we got lots of stares
How did you meet- dating app or through friends?
Because you have a British passport lol show them a Nigerian passport and see how they react 😑
I think even asking these kind of questions is dehumanizing to black women
exactly,
Dude in the black bubble jacket is hilarious. I enjoy his straight to the point comments, let’s go drink! Lol 😂
Foreigners don’t like that type! But they’re the one lasting and more chance to build a serious one compare to those calm and perfectionist and disappear after a few months 😂
Bros a weirdo 💀
He's not hilarious!he was pretty dumb and rude!but if that's your type then go right ahead.
@@hannaansari2921 At least she actually has good humour and isn't as soft as you
@@hannaansari2921i guess ppl cant have thier opinions now -
As a black girl, the comments are, yet again, black women putting themselves down, and assuming these guys are lying 🙄. Gosh you guys are the one with the inferiority complex. Stop projecting it onto these guys. They all (except fpr one dude) seem pretty decent. They aren't being racist and none of them even put BW down or said bad things. I'm so tired of us acting like this. JUST FREAKIN TAKE THE COMPLIMENT. Stop reading between the lines and thinking these guys are "lying". I take offense to that because I've met a couple men that happen to be korean and they were SUPER kind and respectful to me. Stop putting everyone in a box and go out there and meet people. You ASSUMING they hate you , just because they are korean, actually makes you look very prejudiced and closed minded. Jerry you are doing a great job, keep up the good work
Finally someone said it! 😂🤣. People in the comments get so offended and swear these interviews speaks for an entire country or ethnic group of people.
Thank you! Black women need to start having more confidence in themselves. I think a lot of them do it because the black community has taught us that we're not allowed to date outside,and if someone outside do like us,they're using us. Black women,there's bad men in EVERY RACE. Stop putting yourselves down when a man of another race says they like you.
@@ksubyslowed they keep looking for validation and yet when they get one they second doubt themselves and accused the Korean of lying in front of camera or call them racist for not finding Black attractive. Inferioty complex is off the roof. I have seen similar videos of black man, they hype themselves saying "all woman like black man" then when they interviewed girls and some say they are not interested in dating black man they accuse them as racist and cry their eyes out like pls it's embarassing to watch.
Timestamp the compliments, please.
@@teer5493 Do you want them to say black women are sweet and kind when they don't have any experience with us? They can only speak about looks
"Because i like Beyoncé ""good body"
Big big red flag. 😱😱😱
🤣
Black women have endured unspoken atrocities yet, 'we rise' again & again. Our worth is not determined by others' opinions of us.. if that were so, we'd have been wiped out a long time ago. I understand the Korean sensibilities are just opening up to different ethnicities but tell you what... you can meet us on the other side once you've evolved & can appreciate the magic of who we are..but we sure not hanging on or around for your appreciation. as a Jamaican, a soh mi feel and yu dun know every yardie born think dem is a star... so nobody can dim we light. One Love.
Love your comment, especially the end ❤️
One love sister ❤❤
Real talk sis!
Please do a fashion video showing us how you style your outfits 😭😭
In all countries, people have preferences and tastes, many times we are not the choice, it is frustrating. However, when the concern for the opinion that others have about our decisions and choices is stronger, when we miss the opportunity to meet someone wonderful because of prejudice, fear and ignorance, then it is disappointing and pathetic. . Skin color does not make a person more or less attractive, our behavior does. Thanks for your channel, I love it. I look forward to your next interview.
How is it frustrating 🤔.
Disappointing for who? Do you want a prejudiced person to suddenly dismiss their beliefs for you? Because I'm sure they're not disappointed to NOT have someone they don't want, as a partner 🤣 you feel disappointment, as if they're pathetic, on their behalf? But they'll be too busy not caring what you feel, as they search for the partner they do want 😳
North America, Latin American and Western Europe aren't like this. Those other countries date based on primitive and outdated views of race.
Yessss vert well said!
As my Spanish language teacher used to say, the thought in front and the language behind. It's disappointing because nobody likes to be rejected, that doesn't mean you're going to die of unrequited love 😏, that's extremely ridiculous, but it's true that humans get disappointed if we don't get what we want... Then you think, Oh, come on! He misses it, or she misses it, there are more fish in the sea, but we feel the sting of rejection, and that's human. It is evident that we dont need someone who doesn't value us for who we really are, we don't need someone who tramples on us but even though we know it, feelings are free, our job is to control them later.
I wish ppl would stop asking these questions.
Why ?
I will reject the most beautiful girl on earth if she has no personality
You're dreaming if you think they would approach you
Right
Im a north african girl dating a korean man idk how i found that man and asians are not really my type but he makes me the happiest🥹🤍
you are open minded and you both have realized that people are the same everywhere. ❤
@@lilmamagc thats true but our parents aren’t. Im muslim and he’s christian i worry all the time about our future his parents nor my parents will accept us
Just here to read the comments and so far, I’m not disappointed 😂 🔥👍🏾
First thing did was head to the comments lol.
So entertaining
Many may say they want to DATE but they many more would not want to MARRY black women though
Finally someone pointed it out.
Date isn't even the right word -it's having sex with......
@@shansson5130 easy fix for black women: Date a man and let him know you want to wait until marriage or at least till you are engaged before sex. If he agrees then you know he wants more then just sex.
Mainly because most foreigners are not in korea long term. they aren't tryna to marry someone that's in the country for 2 months. And that's not long enough to get to know someone. Unless you are committed to being in korea long term or making frequent visits back, they ain't marrying you.
good distinction.. he should have followed up with that in a video to get more of an understanding.
Can y'all stop asking people about how they feel about dating black women? We don't care.
Some*
A suggestion: perhaps asking people in Korea about marrying a non-Korean. As someone who lives in Korea there is a difference between dating and marriage. I believe most Koreans date for marriage not just to “date”. Of course with time and more non-Koreans living in Korea this mindset will change. So instead of “would you date a non-Korean?” ask instead “would you marry a non-Korean?”.
These videos are embarrassing whether you’re asking about black men or women. No one’s asking black women/men if they’d date an Asian so it’d be nice if you got the message
fr
There is an Asian guy from Bhutan that did street interviews in NY asking people (black, white, Latino) if they would date Asians. His videos are pre-pandemic & his channel is Sonam Chops. So there are other people doing these kind of videos you just might not be aware of them.
@@kimleemoon We are LATINOS.
What’s embarrassing about it?
@@marcosdelvalle2926 my bad….Latinos 🙂
What is this type of interview? Why black women??
I don’t think its a big deal. Everyone has their own type. I am Indian and I feel like korean men are really cute and black guys are handsome too but when it comes to marrying or settling together i will marry an Indian because its easier to communicate and under each others feelings
Damn, I swear Beyonce is always mentioned in these type of videos lmao.
As a black woman I loved this. The big boobs guy was super funny. I never take things like this to heart at all. I see a lot of pressed ppl in the comments (You’re entitled to your feelings) but if this is triggering you and breaking you… it’s gonna be rough for you. I did a lot of work on myself mentally and I came to the understanding as a dark complexion black girl is I’m gonna be dope af regardless😅. No one’s words or beliefs about me can ever hurt me bc ik myself and treat myself with the worth I intend to garner. I don’t care if someone“prefer” me or my ethnicity it’s over 7 billon ppl in the world! But big boobs guy had me lmao😂. Hope you do more interviews like this! 😊
There is nothing wrong with loving big boobs or ass because women also prefer physical attributes like height and strength.
I am a pure African black woman and I think everybody got their choices, this video is totally okay with me, love from Ghana West Africa
Hi from another Ghanaian
My friend is also Ghana same
Hi from a Ghanaian
I wonder how Korean men who aren't born or raised in Korea think about these interviews or the huge focus on how Koreans view being in a relationship with a black woman. This is just a curiosity that came to mind, as a black woman from America who did like kpop, had to figure out their cultural beliefs, and not really understand when you take a lot of cultural influence, especially in the music industry, from black Americans. It's strange that we're expected to keep an open mind and not take their comments to heart, when if it was in the same context, we would be seen as being prejudice or racist. So it's like that to me. But since there are Korean people outside of Korea who aren't brainwashed by a lot of their outdated ideologies or the obsession on white people(who I don't know why they don't realize it's a fetishization unless white people don't care. But y'all can speak for yourselves). It's just I wonder if they feel some type of way that it's not Korean men. It's Korean men born and raised in Korea. And that isn't all of them. And it's weird when people will use open mindedness, like that will negate that if this question is still a "trending" topic, Korea, just like most of the world, aren't progressive and don't try too hard to change the deep rooted issues instead of acting like the people you are being prejudice or racist towards have to change. It's you, not them.
@@user-fb2me3th6z Speak for yourself. I am Korean, my wife is black. Yes we are different but we are also similar in many ways too. You can't know a person unless you interact with them. It's your ignorance that keeps you thinking that your so different. Reminds me of how my parents use to think but they are from a different time and they have grown to love my wife.
@@user-fb2me3th6z Why not? China sure did
there is an obsession with white people everywhere. you just have to choose to consciously ignore it. And find other people that don't care.
@@lilmamagc I think that's something everyone knows unless you're oblivious. I only asked if white people care that it's a worship complex or fetish and how Korean men who aren't the ones they ask this question to think about it. The ones that don't live or were raised on Korean societal beliefs. Plus you have to go to places not caring when you aren't the race they care for. It's the only way you can enjoy yourself. Let them hate you. It has always been weird to spend your life hating someone bc of a race we don't choose.
Gurl what
You are a great interviewer!! Thank you again for a great interview. 🙌🏼
I greatly appreciate your videos and interviews, and while this is a bit old, I have an interesting take on this. I wonder what their answers would be if you were Korean because I know sometimes Koreans don't feel comfortable giving their real answers to other foreigners especially when you are black yourself. Also I've learned in living here the past 4 years that Koreans view dating and marrying as 2 separate things. I've found that Koreans may be open to the idea of dating a black girl for the experience and to be able to say they did it but as far as marrying one and bringing them around their parents, that's a completely different topic and subject itself. Like so many others in the comments said, I roll my eyes when I see these videos because at the end of the day I'm a woman just like any others. I shouldn't be seen as any different just because of my skin color or because of how my "body is shaped". I know you have no ill-intent with these videos. It just can come across as cringey and sometimes the answers remind us that we're not desirable and that we're an experiment/experience. Again love your videos and content. I just wanted to share my thoughts.
These videos make me feel as if we are being singled out..like we are a separate species who are unfeeling and argumentive
..amongst other things..it feels like no one would ever date us because of us being black women and the stereotype that comes with it. I know that's not what the interviewer is doing
But when I read the interpretations of one guy who says yeah he would date a black woman and then say Beyonce then say they have nice body big boobs..he' just overly sexualized us in his mind and the other guy who just kept saying I don't want to basically butt heads aka argue with his mate..i was waiting on dude to say what makes you think this way... ? I said all of that to say this..Yes we are strong intelligent WOMEN who are a catch..but we are not argumentive..we are passionate we are lovers friends good listeners doctors lawyers etc...we love hard and some time light
we have been through hell.
But so has everyone on this earth but we are stigmatized for it.
We don't play victim..because we are not..
If I were to meet a person for the first time I'd make my own assessment of this person not what's been told. That same man that says he doesn't like to argue with his mate..argues with his mate..what if we say all Korean men have little penises and that's why we wouldn't want to date you..but we all know that's not true ..
Because we have not dated nor met all korean men and we understand penises come in different shapes and sizes
get to know the person make our own judgements..and not simply because we were taught to dislike a person based on how they were born..I'm quite sure if they were to do a family tree alot of Africans would fall-out of.it. people don't understand that we are apart of each other 1 blood 1 God created all.of us..1 blood. Get to know the person and stop judging us because IF you're able to GET brown.and aAmerican African or African.woman (because we aren't black our skin tone is brown) to come into your life baby it'll be the best decision of your life. Hell some of us don't want any of you either and that's truth..
everybody is different..we don't taste talk or walk the same nor do we think the same. So think for yourself and use common dam sense and get to know the person and stop believing the bs stereotypes..one person doesn't represent an entire race of people nor do a few ..each race has its bad apples..but for some. reason it's only our race that's seen as less then or u deserving ..stop doing interviews like this because we don't care if you like us or not..it will never shape us nor make us... we are the vibe that every body wants and then try to hide. We are people no different from your own.blessed with a little more soul🤣sorry for any typos didn't know I typed.this much ish..but anyways..tootles
I, a black woman, thank you for this video. Please continue what you’re doing. Those that don’t like these videos don’t have to watch. What’s embarrassing is the low self esteem and inferiority complexes in the comments.
Thank you! I guess some insecure black womens feel that asking this question is begging for love. I think people do this types of videos because they are curious about other cultures mindset. He’s done videos about dating black men & foreigners in general but somehow only the bw video is seen as begging for love.
@@kimleemoon please stop copying and pasting your comment, thank you. Besides your logic of insecure black women is..., asides from this particular video, there's been waaay too many videos about this In the past five years. Huge scandals with a Korean TH-camr guy that based his entire channel of this particular topic, so if people feel uncomfortable cause of its there's an actual reason that has nothing to with insecurity, you can literally type the title of this video and find all the cringeworthy videos off this topic.
@@idaraudoh2808 if you feel uncomfortable with the topic, then don’t watch the video…simple as that!
@@kimleemoon I wonder where I mentioned that I was uncomfortable with the video, your all over the comment section guessing that its the insecurity of some black women that make them uncomfortable with the vidoe, so I was trying to clarify thats there's a reason and its not insecurity as you were guessing. If I knew disapproving their insecurity will bother you so much I won't have commented, my bad.
Agreeed. so many people in the comments feel threatened
I'm black and black is beautiful
@@turkorean5852 wow so edgy and new
Yea ok we know
Can we ban these video topics? They make me so uncomfortable. It’s like we’re some phenomenon, or something to be gawked at and dissected. The majority of men who are attracted to women are attracted regardless of race. Black women do not need to sit and wonder who likes them because a lot of them do. The right ones will let you know and you can personally decide their motive ❤
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Nah. I think you’re overreacting or just taking it way too personal. Some people love this stuff. I would LOVE if he did a “what do Koreans feel about Mexicans when it comes to dating” video so I would know if I’m gonna be lonely as hell when I move there or if I could maybe find someone to be with finally. Maybe it’s not so much an attack as you make it out to be and maybe that’s something you should work through with your therapist.
As a person of color I too have my opinion on these sorts of matters, don’t I? Fucking gawk at me and dissect me, and if Jose over there doesn’t like it then he doesn’t have to watch the damn video.
Need to start giving them the same treatment as the repeated topics on Twitter 🤣 like, ok let's wrap this up by NOON!
Black men trying to embarass black women.
This is the advantages that women have over us men. You will always know who is into you because men who are into you will pursue you. A lot of these studies and videos don't factor that in. For instance from this video people probably would think Korean men don't date black women but myself as well as a few of my friends have dated black women, some married them, including myself. To get an accurate answer they need to ask all the black woman in Korea then find the mean from that data to figure out the average number of black women who are with Asian men. I read an updated study and there are a lot of Korean men with black women considering the low percentage of black women in Korea.
So... basically, they are saying they will date the beauty standard black women for their bodies (but I bet you a lot of them don't marry black women).
I noticed that some of the Korean men are very mature. Some think that the heart, values, personality, and character are the most important. It is normal for young men to be first attracted to the face. Some look for attractiveness and personality. I heard only one mention that the body is the most important. He was the one who said that his family and friends would be shocked if he dated a black woman. A few were honest that they have never considered dating black women. Their preference is Korean women.
It is better if they are honest. If the Korean men do not want serious relationships with black women, they should let them know from the start.
Yeah, it's better to be honest about what you like or don't like than to be politically correct and say something you don't mean it (insincere). The truth may be brutal but it's better than being told a lie. Flip it on the other side and you can ask western/black people why they don't date asian (whatever, chinese, korean, indian etc) and I'd only want to know the true reasons.
@@ymhktravel Some Western/black/African American people are receptive to dating Asian people. Some people are open to different races and different cultures. However, there are some people who will only date within their race or culture. I know black people who will only date black people. Also, I know black people who date different races/cultures.
This is such a tiring subject...
I wish they would understand, or at least take into consideration, the fact that we would even pick up our life and move to their country. Of all the countries that we could’ve chosen, we chose theirs. So obviously, we have interest in the lifestyle, the people, the food, the culture and everything that comes with it. Some of the most naturally respectful people in the world are black women. We are chameleons, we can blend in to any scenario when necessary. I wish they would be more open to getting to know us, and potentially dating us. I understand how much it means to them how society views them, and we’re not that much different. We are constantly having to prove stereotypes to be wrong. We’re not all loud and obnoxious. Yes there are black women who are like that, but it’s not all of us. And if they were worried about their parents, they should give their parents a little credit. They may be more open minded than they think. And I personally have yet to meet a parent that doesn’t love me lol.
Why would you assume that if you date a Black woman that she's gonna be combative? That's wild to me. Where would you get something like that from? Not only is it racist as hell, but men who are worried about women being combative with them are often abusers who want women who won't argue with them, so I'm raising an eyebrow at that guy.
The one in the bubble jacket is HILARIOUS. Objectification at its finest and its own red flag but at least he's funny.
He didn't say it was because they were black. He said that because of language barrier and CULTURAL differences, which applies to everyone that is not culturally Korean, it can lead to misunderstandings and arguments. And he is right. He literally never implied black women being combative.
That is YOU internalizing a stereotype and projecting it on him.
I think as an American, Black American Women are over going to Korea looking for relationships for the most part. It was a fad to begin with. Kpop became popular and interest grew. BTS was one of the biggest attractions for American Black and White, Some kdrama's also played a part. Now BTS has started solo careers the interest has slowed down. I think the most effective force and influences for the reality was the internet experiences that Black Women have had visiting the country. No matter how you slice it the negative always out weighs the positive. The people are nice, The culture is nice, The food is great but it's too limited and discriminatory for the average American especially Black. You will find very few Americans that would stay there even if there are things they like.. I think it;s time to ask a more important Question. What is your knowledge or imagine of black people in general ? could or would you like to see Korea more integrated and diverse and would you support and embrace it. What are your visions for Korea in your life time?. Does it bother you when people of a different race takes residency in your country. There are so many great Questions that people need to ask. Right now the Black culture and Korean culture have a long way to go to unite not only in Korea but also here in the US. Although I understand the interest I also understand the reality. I think years from now there will be a change just like with black and white relations in America. I also think it will start in America where the tolerance and acceptance is like no other. I am a Black woman who has traveled Asia and dated Asian men and other. For me the culture differences with Asian men were to big. My sense of freedom and independence felt like a fault. If you are American and find it difficult to sustain a relationship with Asian men here than all I can say is good luck in trying to sustain one there. At the end of the day it's not a Kdrama it's real life.
many people are still stuck in their koreaboo phase. just like those that go to Japan thinking it will be like anime
한국이 아주 오래전부터 단일민족이었다는 역사적 배경은 일절 무시한채 그저 한국인들의 잘못이라고 생각하는 미국인들의 문제라고 생각하는데? 문화가 다르다고 해서 한쪽이 맞고 틀리고 한게 아니다
@@kfx3907 Great reply! lol. English please!
This TH-camr making South Korea bad image. Every Country have good and bad. Creating conversation to ruin Korean Image.
As a black woman, I will not date a Korean or Asian man overall. Of course we are all creation of God. But I will not suffer due to how God create me in my own skin to please other people. I’m not going to try extra hard to get liked by the ajummas or anyone. I will date where I’m belong. Most Asian men wants to explore black women not in a serious way. So black women I’m warning you, be excellent and go to where you are needed and belong!
This 💕
You don't want them to put all of us in a category, but it's okay to stereotype all asian men. Okay. stay close minded and prejudiced, and I hope you find love
@@ryuken2023 I'm a child of God, and God is not partial! So thank you and I will!
@@ryuken2023 Well, if that’s your wish, I hope you found a duplicated version! 🕊
@@ryuken2023 that sounds more like a statement than a question. So I trust your judgement! Thank you for informing me!🕊
Guy in the bubble jacket gives a frank response. Even nowadays in 2023, there are not that many foreigners in Korea, compared to the nation as a whole. I believe Korea is what .... 95% 96% homogenous. Most have never seen a black man or woman and what they think they know, both positive and negative is from what they've learned through media (internet, tv). Frankly, same goes for other ethnicities. Koreans are open to interracial dating as there are numerous videos on TH-cam showing successful (married or dating) black / korean relationships, but it's not common. Glad to see Korea is opening up compared to in the 90s, 2000s, etc. But there's still a long road ahead. What does give me hope is watching successful black / korean couples on TH-cam. There are often grandchildren whom their grandparent's adore and the Korean mothers and fathers have grown and learned, as well as the couple who were married, to become a family.
it's not an issue. Black women don't need validation from Korean or any other man for that matter. Really whether Korean men are are open to relationships or sex with black women is not an issue.
@@shansson5130 exactly.
as a Black woman who’s lived in asia and is attracted to different types of men, i don’t see the issue in asking these questions, especially since BW and AM are by-and-large viewed as less attractive by societal standards. but if i’m a single cishet BW thinking of going to a foreign country, i’d wanna know what their thoughts were on me too 😵💫🫣 no shade lol
im not a black man . im white ( alr this was an off topic thing . i just wrote that just in case ) but i believe most of them want to date black women for the experience and not for serious relationship . ofc there will be exceptions as well . yes it will be heartbreaking for the other person to notice that the partner are dating them for the experience while the other want a serious relationship . but it is what it is .
p.s chill people . i didnt mean to start a war
Is both side
@@CoolNumber1 Yeah but Blasian couples with a black father are still more common tho
@@CoolNumber1 lmao wit yo trolling a*s
@@CoolNumber1 wtf shut it who the hell told black men don’t like their women are you black? If not 🤐
@@CoolNumber1 all your comments on this page is of you hating black women , did a black girl steal your man ? 💀 get a life honey your opinion don’t matter use it to wipe your 🍑
Another great interview. I love your follow up questions.
Who keeps requesting these interviews? It comes off rather desperate…
he has a million other videos on his channel. if u don't like it just don't watch
Ikr
@@lilmamagc or we can watch and comment, or just comment without watching since it's obvious what the subject is, and you can just understand that's how TH-cam works.
@@lilmamagc Lmao I can comment what I want and if you don’t like it scroll past 🤷♀️
@@teer5493 Exactly lol
There we go again sexualising black women. Not everyone is BEYONCÉ, cardi b or Nicki Minaj.🤦🏾♀️
You already know Koreans view every black person as famous why are we surprised 😂
Cardi is not black
Just because Cardi is hood that doesn’t make her black
@@mojjim2177 You Obviously Don’t Know Shit About Her Cause She’s Definitely Black
Oh true I always forget that lol
People are entitled to like what they like but stop talking about us gah damn lol😂
This topic is so tired. At the end of the day bw are some of the most beautiful,kindest and educated in the world whether guys from across the pond thinks so or not,.Also on a weird note Why is it always would they date bw,not the other way around,does our opinion not matter.
not really they are the ones who came to korea
Ikyfl ab the kindest ☠️
the way you tried to hold in your laugh at the "i like beyonce."
so appreciative of these interviews and the questions you pose. this is such a great series.
I'll wait for more comments on this interesting reversal.
Why does it matter if they like us or not, it's not important..
They seem close minded, and I don't blame them, I guess they're some that aren't that way. But the "will you date a black woman" question, sounds like "will you eat a rotten apple if you're really hungry and there's no food. That's how I see it
Thank you for asking this question and engaging in this topic with respect and class. I’ve seen others use this topic to exploit for cringey click bait content, but your approach was so respectful and thoughtful. I really appreciate the work you put in to make this video.
My man say he likes Beyoncé I can't 🤣
Next video should be “do you think a black woman would date you “ .
😅😅😅
흑인 여성들은 이 인터뷰를 너무 진지하게 받아들인다. 한국 사람들이 만만하니까 오히려 더 잣대를 높히는게 아닐지? 미국에서 아시아인 혐오(특히 한국인)에 앞장서는 안종이 아이러니하게도 흑인들이다.
Black women are not into asian men. Everyone knows. This is why it's very rare to see such couples. While black men are more open to date Asian women, so you see plenty of them with filipinas,Korean, Thai and Chinese women.
@@troigcyusa no, many black women going into South Korea for the men
@@troigcyusathat first sentence is a lie.
Let people be happy. Don't ask Koreans if they would date a black woman because they will only tell you what you want to hear..there are many black men who won't date outside their race either. I rolled my eyes at this one.
You are right about that. Some wouldn’t date outside their tribe too.
Black men date more outside their race.
@@TheKrista5 of course they are
Why y’all keep asking these questions? Leave black women alone
is anyone going to talk about how dude just started talking like a completely different person at the end?? i was not expecting that😂
these questions make black people look so desperate ?? like why do you care so much ?
Chill out man, he asks this about any race.
I didn’t get that vibe in his questions. It’s an observation.
I mean he asks this of all races and foreigners… why is it desperate when black?
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he dud the same for white people so calm down
Spilling fact is that all over the world people tend to prefer bright skin people.
Not only in US.. In euroupe, India, Brazil, Countries in asia. Generally.
Why does it even matter?
Been ages since i commented on something one thing i noticed there is a major part of the Korean society who are basic af and superficial af not spreading hate and no offense just talking about immature boys who are just talking about the foreigner appearance 🤦🏻 but ur videos never disappointed
that one dude is.... >.> but the rest of them seem pretty decent
Facts. The red flags were def red flagging in some of these dudes. I cannot imagine thinking that a person’s appearance is more important than their personality, values and interests. It’s very much giving weirdo energy. Since the topic focused on black women (and foreign women in general), I wonder if they would’ve had the same response if they had been asked about what’s most important to them when dating Korean women 🤔😑
@@toxic.velvet yes it would be the same. They can be very superficial
I m open to all ethnicities as long as we click😅
It’s the Beyoncé reference 😂😂🚩
A lot of Korean men preferences are non - black American women.. I've noticed on social media and they outright will say it.
Topic aside, every time I watch this man's videos I'm in awe of how much he looks like a young Michael Jackson. 😊
Who paid you to lie and how much? Quickly!
@@sisanababy5884 💀💀
Understandable. He looks like a fashion model, apparently is?
If you havent already done this, Next time find a few black women and ask if they would be willing to date Korean men and pose these same questions to them. Black women have choices too and most would not be interested.
he already has a video like that so please go watch it
왜 그 모든 비난을 한국인 남성에게 돌리려 하십니까? 그들은 그저 이러한 질문을 받은것뿐인데. 흑인 여성들이 한국 남성에게 관심있던 없던 그것은 그들의 자유이고 우리도 딱히 그들에게 관심없습니다.
He lives in Korea.. I'm pretty sure if you are in Korea you are okay dating the men/woman inside the country.. now outside of Korea black women probably feel the way you describe for the most part.
@@kfx3907Where is she placing the blame? You sound triggered.
0:11 it’s unfortunate 🤦🏽♀️🙄🫤🤣
I get it. Their culture is constructed a certain way and all that....
But really, I'm just fine with being an after or nonexistent thought to *them* and anyone else that even has to be asked such a question 😊
내가 이래서 길거리인터뷰 같은거를 거절함 즉석에서 답변해야는데 말을 조금이라도 잘못 말하면 인종차별주의자가 됨
Because you are 😊
THIS "BLACK TH-camR" creating bad image to South Korean people with "SMALL INDIVIDUAL INTERVIEW".... Just making money using smart interviews indirectly.
1:22 영어자막 번역이 잘못되었네요 "나이가 들수록 성격이 외모가 중요한 정도와 비슷한 정도로 중요해졌다" 는 말을 하고있어요
I got a recommendation from TH-cam after this video of Japanese men's thoughts on dating foreign women. I am amazed by the contrast between these two countries. Their first preference was kind and respectful and then came appearance which only included big eyes or short hair. Which I feel is only basic. So much better than 'BIG B**BS'. It's really fascinating how each culture treats women differently.
I know you won't believe this but, anyways here i go. That guy was speaking comically, asian humor is just like that, vile and stupid af but never with the intent of harming. Anyways, just dropping some knowledge, adios.
@@patriciajin6206 Being an Asian myself I cannot take that as a joke. It's objectifying, inappropriate and totally unnecessary. And it's not funny
@@geet7594 For a not so westernized asian like me its okay. It all good because everyone's humor is different.
everyone has a unique sense of humor, and asians who havent completely been exposed to western culture will probably not understand what westerners find disgusting or unfunny.
He is not a representative of an entire culture. You would only say that because He is Asian. White people say problematic stuff all day and nobody sees it as representative for a culture
Not that guy talking about Beyonce. Stay FAR AWAY from those guys ladies. VERY FAR, cause they only want the cookie and that's it.
Help the cookie is a cute saying
I am a korean guy and I met more than 5 black girls in my life and the reason why I don't prefer black girl is..
Sadly most of black girls victimized themselves and it was so hard to listen and agree with that.
I never listen those things from other ethnic girls like South asian girls, before soviet union area girls, Caucasian girls, Latin girls..
Only from Black girls.. its quite sad and I hope them to stop victimized themselves and be confidence!
Interesting. I think that black women who live in countries with a black majority (Brazil is not a good example), I'm talking about African countries, have more confidence in themselves.
Because when I lived outside my country, Angola, I was a 9-year-old child, constantly compared to the beauty standard of another country, the standard of white Brazilian women.
I started comparing myself too and that didn't do me any good but luckily, my mother's postgraduate studies ended, I returned to my country, I'm at ease. I'm no longer afraid of being compared or being called ugly for any reason. Comparing and being compared to your whole life or during part of your life is very sad, but it happens and there is no stopping it. What matters is how we feel and react to it.
To make matters worse, the school where I was almost all white people. Black people were 15, 9 black boys... and no one is interested in me.
I respect you.
Comparing every black woman to Beyoncè is like comparing every Korean man to Hyunbin. It's weird. It will never not be weird. Stop.
Edit: For a more modern example, it's like comparing every Korean man to a BTS member or every Latina to Sofia Vergara.
STOP CREATING CONVERSATION TO RUIN KOREAN IMAGE. Reason, some foreigners can not get in Korean Bar because, most of foreigners can not pay HIGH PRICE. Some Korean Night Clubs are very expensive and must buy table. It is not discrimination and discrimination exist every Country. Also, learn language. DO NOT JUDGE South Korea with "one issue"......
Wish people would stop asking these question honestly 😗
There are so many Korean people married with White, Black, Asian , African in South Korea. If you stay long time in Korea, meet some partner or good friends. Also, learn Korean CULTURE & LANGUAGE FIRST. Nobody will discriminate you .
You can tell that the guy with the plastic surgery thinks black people are aggressive and most Koreans probably think that way. It's sad to be honest.
Which guy with the plastic surgery?
@@candykitty1 the guy at 3:09 with the girls
no? He literally is talking about cultural clashes and the language barrier. Those things can cause issues when one person's culture does things one way and the other culture the other way. He doesn't want a conflict like that. So please stop projecting and assuming
Why do you think he had plastic surgery? I rewatched him again and he never said black people are aggressive. In fact, none of them said that in this interview. That's just your assumption.
@@candykitty1 yep they are projecting
0:05 I like Beyonce 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THIS GUY IS A RED FLAG 6:10
because it is
😂
Its a red flag everywhere ☠️☠️Just run, If they want to offer you a drink, in many cases they want to take advantages of you 💨💨If you know what I mean
Because we’re all like that
I am a black woman and I really lovethat Korean men mostly will date their own women and not outside. Black men do that too, but a large part also date outside of their race in the Black community and alot of the times it is because black people don’t love their own race as much (and I am not talking about the black men that date outside without that in mind)
That guy seriously thinks all black women look like Beyoncé as if all Korean guys look like JCW 🙄 so ridiculous! Also it is very weird to based your opinion on dating to a specific ethnicity. When I hear “I like Asian girls” that’s my queue to never see you again cause that’s too much. You should base dating on whether you guys are compatible and have similar views and preferences imo.
외국여성들이 한국남자들에게서 bts와같은 모습을 기대하는것과 비슷한것임 전혀이상하지않고 자연스러운것
I’ve heard from multiple foreigners, KOREAN MEN WILL DATE YOU, BUT NOT MARRY YOU IF YOURE NON KOREAN. The few exceptions might be another fair Asian, or a white woman.
Latin women, black women, brown women, are fetishized. Which is so so disgusting. Cause it’s one thing to have preferences and stick to it, it’s understandable. BUT TO COMPLETELY DEHUMANIZE WOMEN OF OTHER ETHNICITIES?
That’s a lie. I’m a black woman and I’m dating and possibly marrying a Korean man. lol
Sure lol
thats not true 😂
Umm i would like to just share 2 reason why international couple can't reach to marriage.
First of all, Korea is not multicultural country. And our culture tend to force to people has to be similar. For example, same style hair, fashion, and lifestyle as well. It has been changed a lot recently, and people are getting more open-minded compared to the past but still, people scared to be look different. It is not about where you are from but just culture.
And second it is actually hard to make serious relation between people who from different conturies unless you are fully available to speak or understand the language. Because sometime the language gives deep connection and make understand each other's difference more and more. While in the other hands they feel frustrated and sometime give up to express. So it hard to deeply fall in love if you have the other culture and also can't fully understand the language.
I am living in Au which is well known multicultural area, but I have been facing the same problem with men. I thought the guys here only wanted casual and made me so disappointed many times but later on, I just realized back that moment, my barrier of language made them less connected which lead them don't think of serious relationships.
After I understand most of the cultural things and also get better languages skill then able to make healthy deep relationships with normal people 😅😆😆
I think Korea would be harder to get serious relationships than in other multicultural centuries unless you can speak Korean at least 60% of the level
The Korean guy at the end😂! He blew me away when he come with the Aussie accent! That was classic!
However, you can see the ones who are are open to possible dating a black woman in this instance, and have a more open minded approach and maturity. Vs a few with the childlike/teenage mindset of big boobs🤦🏾♀️😂😂
THAT'S WHAT IM SAYINGG😳😳when the Aussie accent came out I was like woww😀
@@lissaaa3999 it was jokes!!!!😂😂😂
Swear down! He has us all going for a minute!
이쁘거나 잘생기거나 성격이 좋거나 그럼 피부 색깔이 무슨 문제야? 많은 한국인들은 이쁘거나 잘생기거나 성격이 좋거나 이 셋중에 하나만 충족하면 피부 색깔 구분 없이 다 좋아 할듯. 요즘 같은 시대에 왠 피부 색깔 타령?
I thought about this very topic but had no one to ask. I always knew I liked people outside my ethnicity but I've been too afraid to think of the prospect that they would be attracted to me and, not because of my personality or so forth, but because of my ethnicity. It gets uncomfortable for me because I know that I don't really think about ethnicity as a factor for loving someone but I realize that other people do (which is valid). So it's nice to know that I don't have to demonize feeling attracted to people who look different from me. Because no lie, I had an attachment to race that I wasn't aware of and it has low key kept me in a bubble I don't like to live in. But now I feel guilty for wanting to leave that mental space because I was afraid I was being wrong. This video removed a boundary I had that was built on a lack of knowledge and being to shy to ask. I may not date someone Korean but it's good to know that the world has the potential to be open for those who need it (in order to be themselves and feel free to express their thoughts and feelings).
same, and i don't know why.
This video is giving "doing black women a favour", as if we are some other species that needs handouts. Its almost like certain black men are eager to show how undesirable the world finds us by pointing out a few men that would date us when the majority apparently wouldn't.
I love your comment.
1:59 Bro, all black women I‘ve seen in all these Korea interviews look even better than Beyonce! 😂 (no kidding, seriously! All these black women in Korea have that style I prefer. In my opinion much better than they‘ve been portrayed in western media!)
@ozellisraelite6789 LOL 😂
@ozellisraelite6789 Did you made 4 more accounts to like your own comments? Hahaha 🤣
@ozellisraelite6789 keep on dreaming bro xD
I’m mixed. I think all people are beautiful. Calm down.
@@dutchessdreamer4543 of course, I didn't denied it. My point was Beyonce seems to be the only black women presentation people have in mind.
I don't know why people discriminate people based on their skin colour,, every single skin colour is unique and beautiful,,
And black colour is due to more amount of Melanie (pigment which gives a range of black colour) which act as natural sunscreen,,
Yes white people have to put on sunscreen before going out otherwise their skin will burn by scorching heat,and at the same time black people get more benifit in this case,sun burn are very rare for them,,
It's your choice guys who you like or not but atleast don't make them feel like they are another species or from another planet,be respectful guys.....
Honestly these questions are not necessarily because majority of them are lying so they won’t be called racist , but it’s okay because majority of black Women won’t date them either 🤷🏻♀️
That is very very true😂 most, majority of us would pick other races before
@@KEnjoyer actually some people would call them racist because they don’t find black women attractive
@Joy Chukwudemeni thats not racist when its a preference and they arent attractive overall to most races not just asians. Most races like white, asian or latina.
@@omega-nf5ku wtf according to you not others
@Joy Chukwudemeni there were many polls done before. And most dont pick black woman. Its a fact. Unless you wanna be politically correct about it just so they can say you are good person